Write this Down! with Dot Bowen

Episode 272: When Someone Means Well But Tells You Wrong

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Jun 2026 03:00:00 -0400

How do you know if what you're hearing is actually from God? In this episode, Dot and Cara get honest about one of the most real questions a believer carries, and the answer keeps coming back to the same place: knowing His Word. Dot shares a story from her own marriage that makes the stakes of this unforgettable, and Cara opens up about a journaling practice that has been quietly changing the way she hears from God. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro — Dot opens by calling everyone to grab their Bible, a pencil, and a cup of coffee. This episode is as personal as it gets. (00:00)
Write this down: Deuteronomy 6:6-9 — God's word belongs on your heart, your hands, and your doorpost (00:00)
The whole idea behind "Write This Down": write it down so you can take it to God and ask Him directly whether it's true, not just hold onto someone else's good intentions (01:10)
How do you know if what you're hearing is actually from God? The answer always comes back to knowing His Word and His heart, and Dot has a story from her marriage that makes the stakes of this impossible to forget (03:08)
A well-meaning friend once told Dot that God would want her to leave Howard. Dot knew enough Scripture to know the difference between God's peace and her own unhappiness, and that knowledge changed everything (04:28)
Write This Down from the Book of Job: his friends thought they were speaking for God, and at the end of the book God was angry at them for it. The responsibility of speaking for God is real, and it starts with knowing what He actually said (06:41)
Cara opens up about what she's been walking through this year, and how journaling words she senses from God and then comparing them to Scripture has become a lifeline (09:03)
Going back through journal entries from January, Cara finds God saying the same thing He said in April. Confirmation comes through consistency, and it's the kind of thing you can only catch when you write it down (13:01)
Jesus said, "My sheep hear my voice." If you've ever wondered whether God really speaks to His people, He already answered that in John 10, and Dot breaks down why that's a firm place to stand (22:15)
Where to start if you're new to Scripture: Dot always points people to the Book of John, because John's whole purpose is to prove that Jesus is God. Two verses and a willing heart is enough. (25:51)
Dot closes with a look at her father's cross on the wall of her study and a truth that quietly settles everything: you cannot honestly say you've never been loved or never been chosen (30:43)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse
Deuteronomy 6:6-9 (ESV) — "And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates."

Episode 271: Living in the Present: Anxiety, Control, and God’s Daily Grace

Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 May 2026 03:00:00 -0400

What if worrying about the future is actually keeping you from experiencing God today? In this episode, Dot and Cara sit with Lamentations 3:22-23 and get honest about what it really means to trust that His mercies are new every morning. Dot talks about why living in the future, whether through anxiety or wishful thinking, can become a kind of hiding from today’s reality, and Cara opens up about a season of already grieving outcomes that haven’t happened yet. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:27)
Write this down: Lamentations 3:22-23, the steadfast love of the Lord and His mercies that are new every morning (00:00)
Dot reflects on being someone who always thinks ahead, and shares what she sensed God saying in prayer: just live today, and those days will add up to the future you’re hoping for. (01:18)
The manna illustration: when the Israelites stored up more than they needed for the day, it turned to worms. Dot says that’s what happens when we try to live in a day we haven’t lived yet. (03:01)
Cara opens up about writing narratives, already emotionally grieving outcomes that haven’t happened, and why that kind of anticipatory grief is different from surrendering to God. (03:44)
The control problem: we try to escape into the future because we can’t control it, but Dot points out we can’t control the present either. Sometimes the future becomes a way of hiding from today’s reality. (06:48)
Cara shares what staying tethered looks like in a hard season: worship music on repeat, calling truth to mind, and finding small moments throughout the day to go before Jesus, even two minutes at lunch. (10:09)
Hope belongs in God’s character, not in circumstances changing. Dot shares honestly about years she believed God didn’t want her to suffer, and what Scripture actually teaches about following Jesus into a hard life. (13:45)
Dot talks about a hard season two and a half years ago when she walked through her days like a zombie, but kept showing up to pray every morning anyway. That habit, she says now, was her lifeline. (19:54)
Prayer is a relationship, not a to-do. If you don’t want to go to God right now, start by asking Him to help you know He wants to be with you. (23:10)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse

Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV) — “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”

Episode 270: Letting Go of the Life I Planned

Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 May 2026 03:00:00 -0400

You had a plan. Maybe it was for the summer, maybe it was for your whole life -- and then reality showed up and none of it looked the way you thought. In this episode, Dot and Cara have an honest, tender conversation about what it means to surrender your expectations to a God who actually knows what He's doing. Cara shares from a raw and hard season she's walking through right now, and Dot reminds us that the same God who led you there will lead you through. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:00)
Write this down: Proverbs 19:21, "Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand." (00:07)
Cara shares that her whole world got turned upside down two days before recording, this episode is the verse she's living right now (04:57)
The idea of detaching from outcomes, what it really means to surrender your plans without letting your mind race to the what-if (05:36)
Dot walks through Palm Sunday and Good Friday: the crowd went from "Hosanna" to "Crucify him," but Jesus was still King either way (11:17)
When you're following God and everything still falls apart, Cara gets honest about how painful it is to do everything right and still end up in the deepest hurt of your life (16:03)
Dot: "The only person God ever forsook was Jesus, so that we never would be," a word for anyone who feels like they're on the cross right now (15:21)
The same God who led you there will lead you through, just like He led the Israelites out of Egypt (19:25)
Living with "what is" instead of "what if," why the what-if always comes packaged with anxiety, and how staying in today is the way through (22:00)
Dot closes with a challenge: go before God, give Him your tears and your expectations, and let God be God (35:08)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse

Proverbs 19:21 (ESV) – "Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand."

Episode 269: You Don’t Build a House in a Storm

Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 May 2026 03:00:00 -0400

What does it look like to actually build your life on Jesus, not just hear about it? Dot and Cara wrap up the Sermon on the Mount with the parable of the wise and foolish builders, and this one lands close to home. The storm is coming either way. The question is whether you've been laying bricks before it gets here, or scrambling to build a foundation in the middle of the rain. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:00)
Write this down: Matthew 7:24-27, the parable of the wise man and the foolish man (00:06)
Real-life illustration: million-dollar Nantucket homes built knowing they'd fall into the ocean (01:46)
Jesus isn't talking about literal houses, he's talking about your life and what you're building it on (03:04)
"God doesn't give you more than you can handle" isn't quite right. He gives you more than you can handle so you rely on Him (04:08)
The difference between hearing God's words and actually doing them, and why doing is what builds the foundation (06:29)
Cara shares what it felt like during a Nashville ice storm, hearing trees fall all around her, and what that image shows us about focusing on the storm instead of the foundation (09:09)
You don't build your house in a storm. You build it for the storm. And yet most of us wait for a crisis before we start (13:40)
Don't put yourself on the front lines of the battle. Wisdom means knowing your weaknesses and not walking toward them (20:08)
Building your house isn't all at once. God cleans out one thing at a time. Start with what's already on your heart and lay one brick (23:01)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse
Matthew 7:24-27 (ESV) — "Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it."

Resources Mentioned

Episode 268: Who Made Me the Judge?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 May 2026 03:00:00 -0400

It is so much easier to spot what someone else is doing wrong than to take a hard look in the mirror. In this episode, Dot and Cara work through one of the most quoted and most misunderstood passages in all of Scripture, Matthew 7:1-5, and push past the casual “judge not” bumper sticker to find what Jesus was really getting at. They talk about the difference between judging someone’s actions and pronouncing judgment on their heart, why humility is the only lens that makes us useful to the people we love, and what it looks like to go to God first before you go to anyone else. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:00)
Write this down: Matthew 7:1-5, the speck and the log (00:00)
What Jesus is really saying here — it is not that the speck does not exist, but that you cannot help someone if your own vision is clouded (01:24)
“If I can see it, I can do it” — Dot on why the thing you notice most in others is often something worth examining in yourself (01:49)
Cara asks for a real-life example, and they land on parenting judgment vs. actual sin — and why motive matters more than the behavior we see (03:33)
The Pharisees as the original example: what it looks like when religious confidence becomes a log in your eye (12:03)
The woman caught in adultery — one of the best pictures in Scripture of what it looks like when someone drops the stones and approaches with humility instead (13:42)
You are probably capable of more than you think — why “I would never” is one of the most dangerous things a Christian can say (16:03)
The relationship rule: you have to be invited in before you speak into someone’s life, and being invited once does not mean forever (21:42)
Practical wisdom from Dot: take it to God first, ask him to show you your own heart, and trust him to do what only he can do in someone else’s (25:57)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse

Matthew 7:1-5 (ESV) — “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”

Episode 267: Ask, Knock, and Trust the One Who Answers

Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0400

You've asked. You've knocked. You've kept asking. And the door is still closed. Dot and Cara get real about the places where prayer feels hard, where persistent asking starts to feel pointless, and what Matthew 7 is actually saying about a God who doesn't hand you a stone when you ask for bread. This one is honest, a little vulnerable, and full of hope for anyone who has wrestled with why God keeps saying not yet. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:00)
Write this down: Matthew 7:7-11, a call to keep asking the God who gives good gifts to his children (00:13)
Ask and it will be given to you, sure, but what about all the times it hasn't been? Dot and Cara get honest about the frustration of persistent prayer (01:21)
What Luke's gospel adds to this passage, and why the Holy Spirit matters in how we read it (02:36)
Unanswered prayer isn't always a no, and sometimes the no is the answer you'll be most grateful for (04:00)
Cara opens up about where she is right now with asking, when you trust God's nos but you're just tired of bringing your heart to the door (08:00)
Dot's aha moment: what if what I'm asking for is the stone? What we think is bread, God sometimes sees as a serpent (13:00)
Dot shares a story about praying specifically for Cara and hearing her pray the exact same thing later that same day, a quiet wink from God that he's listening (18:49)
The Israelites crossed the Red Sea and then complained about being thirsty. Dot on spiritual amnesia and why we keep forgetting what God has already done (21:38)
Moses in Exodus 33: you can't see what God is doing right now, but when you look back, you'll see him (23:00)
The closing truth: keep asking, because God is good, and he will not withhold what is best for his children (25:36)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse

Matthew 7:7-11 (ESV) — "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!"

Episode 266: Finding Peace When the What-Ifs Take Over

Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0400

What do you do when the "don't worry" in Scripture feels impossible to actually live? In this episode, Dot and Cara sit with Matthew 6:25-34 and get honest about the anxious thoughts that sneak in, the "what if" seeds that take root, and what it really looks like to keep your eyes on God when life feels out of control. This is a real, warm, and deeply practical conversation about faith as something you do, not just something you know. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro: Cara admits she's feeling the most anxious on the very morning they're recording about anxiety (00:00)
Write this down: Matthew 6:25-34, Jesus telling his disciples not to be anxious (00:00)
Why Jesus repeats "don't be anxious" more than once, and what that tells us about how well he knows us (01:40)
Cara and Dot reflect on how anxiety can sneak up on you even when you don't think of yourself as an anxious person (02:00)
How we know too much now, and how our hearts and souls were never meant to carry all of it (04:13)
Keeping your eyes on God: what that actually looks like in practice, including prayer, truth-speaking, and remembering his names (07:19)
The seed called "what if" and how it's really a control problem underneath (11:57)
Living on Friday before Sunday comes: when darkness and people's choices look like they're winning (14:06)
It's not a need problem, it's a faith problem, and how Dot reframes what anxiety is really telling us (17:06)
Dot's insight: believing the truth only becomes real when you start living it. Faith is a verb. (24:40)
The gentleness of Jesus in this passage, how he's not chastising us, he's just saying, remember me (27:33)

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This Episode’s Scripture Verse
Matthew 6:25-34 (ESV) — “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”

Episode 265: You Can't Do This on Your Own (And That's the Point)

Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0400

What if the Sermon on the Mount is the New Testament's answer to the Ten Commandments, a standard not written to burden us, but to show us how to truly live? In this episode, Dot and Cara sit down for an honest conversation about one of Jesus' most sweeping teachings in Matthew 5, 6, and 7, and why it might be the most important thing He ever said. They talk about what it actually means to be set apart, why living like Jesus points people to God rather than away from Him, and the one thing that makes any of this possible at all. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:00)
Write this down: Matthew 5:1-2 (ESV) — Jesus goes up the mountain, sits down, and begins to teach His disciples (00:07)
Why the Sermon on the Mount matters: Cara admits she never fully appreciated this passage before, and that’s kind of the point (00:32)
Jesus taught with authority, not like the scribes or Pharisees, and the crowds were astonished (01:09)
This teaching was for His followers: the Sermon on the Mount is God’s instruction to His people on how to live set apart (02:43)
The New Testament parallel to the Ten Commandments: just as Moses gave Israel a standard, Jesus gives His followers one too (07:09)
We’re not going to reach it on our own, and that is exactly why we need the Holy Spirit (14:45)
Living like Jesus points people toward God, not because it makes us look good, but because it makes Him visible (10:23)
Sanctification: what it means that God is always working in us to look more like Him, not as a checklist, but as a life (14:45)
The spoiler Dot gives: we cannot live the Christian life in our own strength, and that is why Jesus sent the Holy Spirit (23:22)

This Episode’s Scripture Verse
Matthew 5:1-2 (ESV) — “Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down, his disciples came to him. And he opened his mouth and taught them.”

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Episode 264: Jesus Said Pay Attention to the Fruit, So Let's Talk About That

Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0400

How do you know if someone is the real deal, and what do you do with that once you do? In this episode, Dot and Cara open up Matthew 7 and talk through Jesus' principle of knowing people by their fruit. Not judging, not writing people off, but paying attention in the way a loving Father says you need to. They talk about what fruit of the spirit actually looks like, why we tend to excuse what we should just be noticing, and how this principle applies to the people in your life, the voices you follow, and the fruit you yourself are producing. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro (00:00)
Matthew 7:15-20, the warning about false prophets and knowing them by their fruit (00:02)
Cara shares that this principle is one Dot has taught her, and that she already feels conflicted about it after just the last ten minutes (00:56)
The difference between judging and recognizing: Jesus didn't say you can judge, he said you will know them (02:15)
Fruit takes time. It starts from a seed, and whatever is in the heart will eventually produce it, no matter how long someone can pretend otherwise (03:38)
What good fruit actually looks like: love, joy, peace, gentleness, self-control, the fruit of the Spirit (05:43)
A moment is not a full-grown fruit, but it does tell you something is there (05:15)
If you want to know whether a voice, a relationship, or a situation is leading you toward God or away from him, pay attention to the fruit it is producing in you (08:06)
Dot draws the line between understanding why someone behaves the way they do and excusing it. You can have compassion and still notice the fruit (09:35)
Isolation is a fruit worth paying attention to. Dot clarifies: alone time with God is not isolation. Isolation means no trusted voice is speaking into your life (11:25)
Cara gives a real-world example of subtle false prophecy on social media, and why posts that claim to know what God will do for you should give you pause (16:01)
Dot brings it home: God gave us this principle because he is a loving Father who could not take us out of the world, but he could tell us how to live in it. The fruit doesn't lie (25:39)

This Episode’s Scripture Verse

Matthew 7:15–20 (ESV) — “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.”

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Episode 263: Faith, Doubt, and a God Who Shows Up Anyway

Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0400

Faith and doubt have always gone hand in hand, and the story of Doubting Thomas might be the most honest proof of that in all of Scripture. In this Easter episode, Dot and Cara sit with John 20 and find something tender at the heart of it: Jesus didn't scold Thomas for his doubt. He showed up, scars and all, and met him right where he was. Together they unpack what it means that Jesus kept his scars, why eight days of waiting might matter more than we think, and how the resurrection isn't just something that happened 2,000 years ago. It's something God is still doing in us today. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode Recap

Intro — Happy Easter! (00:00)
Write this down: John 20:24-29, the story of Doubting Thomas (00:13)
The resurrection is the miracle of all miracles, but Thomas missed it the first time (01:56)
Was Thomas doubting, in awe, or just someone who needed to experience it for himself? (04:44)
God wrote Thomas into Scripture for us, so that those who haven't seen can still believe (07:38)
Eight days later: why the timing of Jesus showing up for Thomas matters more than we might think (08:48)
Jesus kept his scars, and the only man made thing in heaven is the scars on his hands (14:43)
Our scars don't define us, just like they didn't define Jesus (16:23)
The resurrection proved Jesus is God, and that changes absolutely everything (18:50)
God meets us where we are, whether that's doubt, desperation, or somewhere in between (27:11)

This Episode’s Scripture Verse

John 20:24-29 (ESV) — "Now Thomas, one of the Twelve, called the Twin, was not with them when Jesus came. So the other disciples told him, 'We have seen the Lord.' But he said to them, 'Unless I see in his hands the mark of the nails, and place my finger into the mark of the nails, and place my hand into his side, I will never believe.' Eight days later, his disciples were inside again, and Thomas was with them. Although the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, 'Peace be with you.' Then he said to Thomas, 'Put your finger here, and see my hands; and put out your hand, and place it in my side. Do not disbelieve, but believe.' Thomas answered him, 'My Lord and my God!' Jesus said to him, 'Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.'”

Resources Mentioned In This Episode

"The Only Man-Made Thing in Heaven Are the Scars on Jesus' Hands" by B.J. Thomas

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Episode 262: The Name that Changes Everything - Part 2

Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0400

When life feels uncertain or overwhelming, where do you run? This week, Dot and Cara explore the names of God and what they reveal about His character. He is our Shepherd, our Righteousness, our Protector, and our ever-present Emmanuel. This conversation moves beyond simply knowing God’s names to truly believing in them and the refuge they offer us. If you’ve ever struggled to trust who God says He is, this episode will encourage you to call on His name!

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Write down Proverbs 18:10, then go back and listen to last week’s episode! (0:18)
Calling God “Father” is incredibly intimate (3:38)
Dot uses different names of God when she is feeling different needs in her life (4:56)
Memorizing these names is not important, knowing the character of God is (9:15)
Calling on the name of God reminds us of our neediness (13:40)
If you ever want to feel loved, reflect on the name “Emmanuel” (God with us) (18:58)
Why call on God’s name if you’re not going to believe in it? (24:56)

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Scripture Verse: Proverbs 18:10 (ESV) “The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”

Episode 261: The Name that Changes Everything - Part 1

Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0400

What’s in a name? In Scripture, names carry deep meaning, so when God reveals His name as “I AM,” He is telling us something powerful about his character. In this episode, Dot and Cara begin a new conversation about the names of God by looking at Exodus 3, where God introduces himself to Moses. Together they explore why knowing the names of God helps us draw closer to Him and recognize that He is everything we truly need. Stay tuned for next week, when they’ll dive deeper into specific names of God and share the ones that have meant the most in their own walk with Him. Until then, pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and join the conversation!

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
First, write down Exodus 3:13-15 (0:18)
In biblical times, your name was synonymous with your character (3:54)
“I Am” is the name God calls himself (7:00)
Why is it helpful to know the names of God? (8:44)
Every need we have as humans, God is saying, “I am all of that” (12:05)
Calling God by name makes it personal (17:14)
Get a book on the names of God to use in your prayer time this week (20:30)

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Scripture Verse: Exodus 3:13-15 (ESV)
“Moses said to God, “Suppose I go to the Israelites and say to them, ‘The God of your fathers has sent me to you,’ and they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ Then what shall I tell them?”

God said to Moses, “I am who I am. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: ‘I am has sent me to you.’”

God also said to Moses, “Say to the Israelites, ‘The Lord, the God of your fathers—the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac and the God of Jacob—has sent me to you.’

“This is my name forever,
the name you shall call me
from generation to generation.”

Episode 260: Feelings Make Terrible Leaders

Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0400

Feelings are powerful, but they aren't always trustworthy. In this conversation, Dot and Cara talk about the connection between our thoughts, our emotions, and the choices we make. It's easy to let our emotions define our identity, but instead of ignoring those emotions or being ruled by them, we can hold them up against Truth and let God shape how we see ourselves. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and maybe a cup of coffee, and join us for a conversation.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
First, write down Romans 7:15-20 (0:18)
Feelings make good indicators, but bad dictators (2:51)
Feelings aren’t always true (8:27)
Every feeling begins with a thought, which may or may not be true (8:48)
The Holy Spirit allows you to better understand your emotions (13:01)
We often pour out how we feel on others (16:29)
Facing our emotions is uncomfortable because we don’t expect grace (20:03)
God can heal our hurts and handle our negative emotions (23:07)
Learn to pause and take your feelings to God before you act (29:04)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 7:15-20 (ESV)
“For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me.”

Episode 259: What If You Don’t Need to Know?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0500

We’re talking about a sneaky idol that can feel “spiritual” on the surface: knowledge. Using Genesis 3, Dot and Cara unpack how the desire to know can quietly become the desire to control, and how that pulls us away from faith and dependence on God. If you’ve ever felt that internal panic of “I have to figure this out,” this conversation will help you put knowledge in its right place so you can let God be God. Pull up a chair and join us.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Write this Down: Genesis 3:3-7 (0:18)
Many times knowledge replaces God for us (3:37)
We think knowledge equals control (8:48)
Knowledge is for transformation, not just information (9:42)
The desire for knowledge can get out of balance (13:36)
The older Dot gets, the more she realizes she doesn’t know (16:29)
Nothing is more irritating than a child who thinks they know everything (19:53)
Job’s friends illustrate that we don’t know what God is up to all the time (23:00)
We have to stop and acknowledge we can’t be God (29:04)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:3-7 (ESV)
But God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’” But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.”

Episode 258: I Wanted Direction, He Gave Me Presence

Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0500

Fasting isn’t a diet or a formula, and it definitely isn’t a way to get God to do what you want. In this personal episode, Cara opens up about her recent experience with prayer and fasting and shares how what began as a search for answers led to something deeper- intimacy with God. If you’re hungry for more of Him, pull up a chair and lean in with us. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and maybe even a cup of coffee as we write this down.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down Isaiah 58:3-9 (0:18)
Cara’s church did a 21 day fast together (2:45)
Fasting became a consecrated (set apart) time (6:38)
Cara was expectant she would hear from the Lord (10:26)
Hunger is a frequent spiritual metaphor in Scripture (14:50)
Fasting and prayer creates intimacy through proximity (22:15)
In this season, God showed Cara He will come through for her (24:00)
Fast from the things that you think give you life and let God step into that (29:10)

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Scripture Verse: Isaiah 58:3-9 (ESV)

‘Why have we fasted, and you see it not?
Why have we humbled ourselves, and you take no knowledge of it?’
Behold, in the day of your fast you seek your own pleasure,
and oppress all your workers.

Behold, you fast only to quarrel and to fight
and to hit with a wicked fist.
Fasting like yours this day
will not make your voice to be heard on high.

Is such the fast that I choose,
a day for a person to humble himself?
Is it to bow down his head like a reed,
and to spread sackcloth and ashes under him?
Will you call this a fast,
and a day acceptable to the Lord?

“Is not this the fast that I choose:
to loose the bonds of wickedness,
to undo the straps of the yoke,
to let the oppressed go free,
and to break every yoke?

Is it not to share your bread with the hungry
and bring the homeless poor into your house;
when you see the naked, to cover him,
and not to hide yourself from your own flesh?

Then shall your light break forth like the dawn,
and your healing shall spring up speedily;
your righteousness shall go before you;
the glory of the Lord shall be your rear guard.

Then you shall call, and the Lord will answer;
you shall cry, and he will say, ‘Here I am.’
If you take away the yoke from your midst,
the pointing of the finger, and speaking wickedness,”

Episode 257: God, I Can’t Do This

Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0500

What if real strength starts with admitting we’re weak? This week, Dot and Cara unpack Paul’s “thorn in the flesh” and ask what true surrender looks like. Through their own stories of grief, forgiveness, and everyday situations, they discuss what it actually looks like to rely on God’s strength instead of striving in their own. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible and your coffee, and learn with us what it means to let Him be our strength.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 (0:18)
What does it look like to rely on the Lord’s strength? (3:41)
God gives you more than you can handle, so you rely on Him (11:26)
You don’t have to love what God’s doing to trust him (15:22)
We have to take time to pause and re-center our minds on truth (20:41)
“God, help me.” is always a great prayer to pray (23:31)
It all comes back to remembering who God is and letting Him do it (27:38)

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Scripture Verse: 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 (ESV)
“So to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

Episode 256: Releasing What You Can’t Control

Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0500

Today Dot and Cara dig into the subtle and sneaky ways control fuels fear, overthinking, and exhaustion. Using Jesus’ words from Matthew 6, they talk through what it looks like to take responsibility where we should, release outcomes, and learn to trust God with it all. If you’ve ever struggled to let go, this conversation is for you. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and a cup of coffee and join us.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
One of the things that causes our anxiety is fear of the “what if” (2:16)
Cara used to think she didn’t have a problem with control (4:25)
There are areas of our lives we need to have control of (8:15)
We have to leave outcomes up to God (9:39)
Practically speaking, how do we “let it go”? (12:15)
The bottom line is, am I trusting? (15:41)
Trying to constantly control steals your enjoyment of life and people (19:01)
Do what God tells you to and let Him own the outcome (24:00)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 6:25-30 (ESV)
“Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?”
Listen to episode 158: Is Fear Unbelief?

Episode 255: The Destructive Nature of Gossip

Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0500

Gossip often feels small, subtle, or maybe even spiritual, but Scripture paints a very different picture of it. Today, Dot and Cara take a hard look at gossip through the lens of Romans 1 and unpack why God names it among the most destructive of sins. Together they explore what gossip really is, how it harms us, and how learning to take it seriously can bring great freedom. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and lean in with us.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down Romans 1:28-32 (0:13)
We tend to categorize and rank sins (2:26)
Gossip is speech about someone else that harms people (3:55)
Gossip is specifically listed as a sin that God hates (8:00)
If you need to “get it out,” Jesus is the only person you can tell everything to (12:42)
Is sharing something that’s public knowledge the same as gossip? (17:21)
When you get in tune with the Holy Spirit, it’s easier to recognize gossip (19:01)
We need to be very careful with the lives of people God loves (23:55)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 1:28-32 (ESV)
“And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Though they know God's righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.”

Episode 254: The Comparison Trap

Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0500

Comparison doesn’t stay small; it’s a sin that grows and slowly steals our joy. Today, Dot and Cara are walking through John 21:20–23, where Peter looks at someone else’s calling and Jesus responds, “What is that to you? You follow me.”

Together, they unpack why comparison is a form of bondage and how security in our identity brings freedom. If you’ve ever wrestled with comparing your story, your prayers, your kids, or your life to someone else’s, we hope this conversation helps re-center your heart on Jesus and reminds you where peace is found.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down John 21:20-23 (0:13)
Knowing we are loved by God gives us freedom from comparison (3:45)
Why would God take time to warn us against comparison? (8:10)
Comparison doesn’t stay in its lane, it’s a sin that grows (9:42)
God is at work in different ways in each of our lives (12:01)
In comparing our lives to one another’s, we falsely give credit or blame (16:26)
Comparison steals our gratitude and joy for what God is doing in our lives (19:26)

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Scripture Verse: John 21:20-23 (ESV) “Peter turned and saw the disciple whom Jesus loved following them, the one who also had leaned back against him during the supper and had said, “Lord, who is it that is going to betray you?” When Peter saw him, he said to Jesus, “Lord, what about this man?” Jesus said to him, “If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!” So the saying spread abroad among the brothers[a] that this disciple was not to die; yet Jesus did not say to him that he was not to die, but, “If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you?”

Episode 253: Who Am I, Really? (Part 2)

Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0500

In part two of this conversation, Dot and Cara move from theology to everyday life, asking how being a child of God actually changes our normal, everyday lives. They talk honestly about how remembering who we belong to reshapes the way we pray, trust, forgive, and walk through hard moments. This episode is an invitation to let the truth of spiritual adoption move from your head to your heart. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and a cup of coffee, and join us.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down Romans 8:15-17 (0:13)
How does this truth change our lives, practically speaking? (2:08)
We have to move this truth from our heads to our hearts (5:06)
Remembering this truth gives us confidence and allows us to forgive (9:06)
Claiming this truth in the middle of our day relieves fear and anxiety (11:41)
Being a child of God means security and eternal protection (13:20)
This becomes your reality as you apply it daily (19:56)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 8:15-17 (ESV)
“For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.”

Episode 252: Who Am I, Really? (Part 1)

Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0500

What does it actually mean to be a child of God, and why does that understanding matter so much? In this first part of a two-part conversation, Dot and Cara dig into the theology behind spiritual adoption and identity, unpacking what Scripture teaches about being welcomed into God’s family. They explore the difference between being created by God and being a child of God, and why understanding that distinction brings security, freedom, and peace. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and a cup of coffee, and pull up a chair with us!

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down Romans 8:15-17 (0:13)
This truth changed the way Cara viewed herself (1:58)
There is a distinction between being created by God and being a child of God (4:20)
Sin creates separation from God (8:25)
We are all walking around wondering, ‘who am I?’ (12:15)
Child of God means accepted, adopted, and embraced in the family of God (17:39)
This understanding changes everything (19:20)
The Spirit in you is evidence you are a child of God (25:20)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 8:15-17 (ESV) “For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.”

Episode 251: Living Faithfully

Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0500

As we step into a new year, many of us are thinking through how it should be different or better from the last. Today, Dot and Cara discuss a simple but significant question; what does it mean to be faithful with what God has given us? Using Jesus’ parable of the talents, they explore what it means to live from a place of trust, surrender, and stewardship. This conversation invites you to stop measuring your life by output and ask instead if you are walking faithfully in the circumstances you’ve been given. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and a cup of coffee, and pull up a chair with us.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down Matthew 25:22-23 (0:08)
This story is not about money - it’s about using what you’ve been given (3:30)
Each year the Bowens choose words for the year & share them together (4:25)
This story is about faith and trusting God (5:31)
Parable applies not just to gifts and abilities, but to hardship, singleness, family struggles, even unmet expectations (9:45)
Daily, Dot reflects on how she stewarded the day given to her (13:05)
We get caught up in what we don’t have rather than what we have (16:00)
There’s nothing facing us that God has not already equipped us for (18:30)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 25:22-23 (ESV) “And he also who had the two talents came forward, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me two talents; here, I have made two talents more.’ His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’

Episode 250: Coming Back to the Father’s Heart

Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Today Dot and Cara turn from the younger son to the older brother. Looking at Luke 15 and sharing insights from The Prodigal God by Tim Keller, they explore how we can “do all the right things” and still miss the Father’s heart. This Christmas, what if we let God expose both the prodigal and the older brother in us so we can receive His grace? Grab your Bible, a cozy drink, and maybe your Christmas hat too and settle in for this hope-filled conversation.

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Episode recap:

Intro (00:00)
Start by writing down Luke 15:25-32 (0:14)
It’s easy to forget what we have been saved from (3:14)
Like the Pharisees, we forget we need a Savior (7:00)
Both sons were using the Father for their own sake (11:00)
We think the story is about actions, but it's about their hearts (14:15)
Remember the context of this story is the disciples and the Pharisees (19:00)
Ask God to protect you from a judgmental heart (23:30)
None of us deserve it or could earn it, but we get to receive the Father’s love (25:00)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 15:11-19 (ESV)
““Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ But he was angry and refused to go in.

His father came out and entreated him, but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’

And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”

The Prodigal God by Timothy Keller: https://amzn.to/44Qrj71

Episode 249: The Father Who Runs Toward Us

Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0500

What does the prodigal son have to do with Christmas? In this episode, Dot and Cara look at Jesus’ parable in Luke 15 through the lens of the Christmas story and the “prodigal God” who lavishly gives us everything, even His own Son. They talk honestly about our desire to live life on our terms and the grace that awaits us when we turn back to the Father. This conversation will remind you that Jesus left heaven to bring you home, so grab your Bible, a cozy drink, and settle in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 15:11-19 (0:08)
God was recklessly extravagant by giving us Jesus (3:39)
We all have a bit of the older son and a bit of the younger son in us (6:55))
The word ‘prodigal’ means recklessly extravagant (11:41)
This story is a picture of God’s love for us through Jesus (13:00)
The younger son doesn’t care about the Father’s provision (22:32)
We tend to hide behind shame and guilt and can get comfortable there (24:39)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 15:11-19 (ESV)
“And he said, “There was a man who had two sons.And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to[a] one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.

“But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father's hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’

Episode 248: God’s Timing is Never Late

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Reflecting on Galatians 4:4–5, Dot and Cara unpack the difference between chronos (our day-to-day, chronological time) and kairos (God’s appointed, intersecting moments) and share honestly about their fear of wasting time, singleness, and aging. This conversation invites you to loosen your grip on the clock and trust that God has not forgotten you. Grab your Bible and a journal and settle in with us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Galatians 4:4-5 (0:08)
God brought the idea of time to Dot and Cara simultaneously (4:07)
Time isn’t passing us by, we are moving through time (7:40)
Moses’ life shows us that time is not wasted even when we don’t understand (11:10)
God’s timing is perfect (15:35)
Jesus had to be born at the time He was to fulfill prophecy (20:27)
Our faith is our response to what God is doing (22:59)

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Scripture Verse: Galatians 4:4-5 (ESV)
“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.”

Jamie Winship's "Time Isn’t Running Out" video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABuYaHGx438

Episode 247: When Giving Thanks Feels Hard

Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Today Dot and Cara are talking about the life-changing practice of gratitude, not just as a holiday tradition, but as a daily spiritual discipline. Starting with Paul’s words in 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, they share how giving thanks protects our hearts from bitterness and helps us remember God’s goodness in difficult seasons. If you’ve struggled to find something to be thankful for this year, this conversation is for you. Grab your Bible and a journal, and join us as we discuss what it means to live with a heart of gratitude.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1Thessalonians 5:16-18 (0:08)
The practice of gratitude has helped Cara more than any other discipline (3:00)
You can acknowledge when things aren’t good and give thanks simultaneously (6:11)
We can give thanks because God always meets us where we are (9:35)
Remembrance is a key to gratefulness (13:08)
You can practice something you don’t fully understand (18:54)
You don’t have to wait until you feel like it (20:54)
Ask God to help you see what to be thankful for (22:50)
Cara is finding thankfulness in quiet Thanksgivings with just her mom and dad (27:11)

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Scripture Verse: 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (ESV) “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

Episode 246: Confession — The Path Back to Closeness

Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Confession isn’t just admitting you did something wrong, it’s about seeing your sin through God’s eyes and agreeing with Him about it. In this conversation, Dot and Cara talk about what true confession looks like, how it differs from repentance, and why it’s one of the most freeing spiritual practices we can embrace. Together they explore how confession restores closeness with God, why it’s meant to bring unity rather than shame, and how it helps us live the abundant life Jesus promised. Grab your Bible, a journal, and your coffee, and lean in for this tender conversation on the beauty of confession.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Psalm 32:1-5 (0:08)
Confession is seeing your sin through the eyes of God (2:23)
Repentance is turning from your sin (4:43)
Confession releases the Holy Spirit within us to empower repentance (9:45)
God’s rules are for our flourishing (13:10)
Is confession just between you and God? (17:29)
Never ask forgiveness from someone who doesn’t know you’ve hurt them (18:24)
Confession to another person should always bring about unity (21:23)
These spiritual disciplines bring about the abundant life Christ has for us (24:50)

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Scripture Verse: Psalm 32:1-5 (ESV)

“Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven,
whose sin is covered.

Blessed is the man against whom the Lord counts no iniquity,
and in whose spirit there is no deceit.

For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away
through my groaning all day long.

For day and night your hand was heavy upon me;
my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer.

I acknowledged my sin to you,
and I did not cover my iniquity;
I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,”
and you forgave the iniquity of my sin.”

Episode 245: When Fasting Satisfies Your Hunger for God

Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0500

What does it mean to fast, and why does Scripture tie it so closely to prayer? In this episode, Dot and Cara open Matthew 4:1–4 and talk about fasting not as a way to manipulate God, but as a way to draw near, remove distractions, and realign our hearts with His will. Together they explore how biblical fasting differs from today’s health trends, how hunger can point us back to prayer, and how this practice can tune our hearts to trust God more deeply. Grab your Bible, a journal, and a cup of coffee, and join this conversation about dependence, desire, and hearing from God!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 4:1-4 (0:08)
Today we are talking about the spiritual practice of fasting (0:50)
Spiritual disciplines help us pull us away from the noise of the world (3:33)
So often, we try to be God (7:45)
Praying and fasting purify your heart and realign it (10:59)
Fasting is about removing things that take your time/desire away from God (14:04)
When we get hungry, what are we going to fill that desire with? (15:15)
Both practices are guardrails we can put in place (19:28)
Fasting and prayer precede big moments in the Bible (20:40)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 4:1-4 (ESV)
“Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. And after fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. And the tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread.” But he answered, “It is written,

“‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”

Episode 244: Resting in What God Has Done

Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Sabbath is more than just a day off, it’s an invitation to trust, delight, and remember who God is. Today Dot and Cara read from Genesis 2:1–3 and trace Sabbath through Scripture to Jesus. They talk about rest as resistance to self-trust, delighting in God’s gifts, and how a 24-hour rhythm can shape the other six days, whether your “delight” looks like quiet study, planting flowers, or cheering for your favorite team. Pull up a chair, grab your Bible and coffee, and lean into rest with us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 2:1-3 (0:08)
Today we are talking about the spiritual discipline of rest (0:43)
What does it look like for Christians to observe the Sabbath? (3:59)
Sabbath is a practical weekly opportunity to trust God (6:34)
Sabbath is meant for us to enjoy and delight in God’s creation (11:45)
Sabbath is spiritual, it’s not just taking the day “off” (16:20)
The Sabbath is for you, so you can enjoy what God is doing in your life (20:01)
Sabbath is all about trusting God and stop striving for control in life (22:30)

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Scripture Verse:

Genesis 2:1-3 (ESV) “Thus the heavens and the earth were finished, and all the host of them. And on the seventh day God finished his work that he had done, and he rested on the seventh day from all his work that he had done. So God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it God rested from all his work that he had done in creation.”

Episode 243: A Faith That Matters

Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0400

What does it really mean to live with bold faith? In this conversation, Dot and Cara look at the story of Peter in Acts 4 and talk about what changed in him after he denied Christ and then witnessed the resurrection. They unpack why bold faith isn’t about personality or volume—it’s about living out what you believe and being willing to share the good news about your rescued life when those around you get curious. Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee, and join in the conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Acts 4:10-13 (0:09)
Peter became incredibly bold after denying Christ and the resurrection (2:16)
People are intimidated to get into conversations about God and Scripture (6:09)
If God’s rescued you and saved you, you’ve got a story to tell (8:37)
Wherever your little “world” is, that’s where and how God wants to use you (13:47)
Those around you will see the fruit of how you are living (17:30)
Bold faith is telling others about the one who rescued you (21:00)
Some people in your life really want to hear about what God has done for you (24:00)

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Scripture Verse: Acts 4:10-13 (ESV)
"Let it be known to all of you and to all the people of Israel that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead—by him this man is standing before you well. This Jesus is the stone that was rejected by you, the builders, which has become the cornerstone. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.”

Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were uneducated, common men, they were astonished. And they recognized that they had been with Jesus.

Episode 242: Dating Without Regrets

Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Dating is complicated at any age, but what does it look like to date in a way that honors Christ? In this conversation, Dot and Cara talk about what it means to pursue relationships with integrity, purity, and trust in God’s timing. From navigating red flags to letting go of the pressure to figure it all out, they remind us that we are defined by our relationship status with God, and no one else! Grab a cup of coffee and your Bible and settle in with us as we talk all about dating today.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Timothy 4:12 (0:08)
Dating in today’s culture is difficult (2:00)
You have to navigate between judging too harshly and giving too much grace (6:02)
Whether you’re 16, 26, 36, or 66 these principles still apply (10:36)
Christlike dating looks like giving God the last word (16:23)
Christlike dating looks like not letting dating define you (17:05)
Dating is not about fulfilling your needs (20:21)
Cara has helped Dot see the lies that single people often believe (23:15)

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Scripture Verse: 1 Timothy 4:12 (NASB1995)
Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity, show yourself an example [a]of those who believe.

Episode 241: Discerning God’s Voice in the Noise

Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0400

How do we know if it’s the Holy Spirit speaking or just our own thoughts? In today’s conversation, Dot and Cara unpack a common question believers wrestle with: discerning God’s voice. Looking at John 14:16–18, they explore the role of the Holy Spirit and the peace that comes from obedience even when we’re unsure. Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee, and join the conversation as Dot and Cara remind us that hearing from God is rooted in an ongoing relationship, not perfection.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 14:16-18 (0:10)
How do I know if it’s the Holy Spirit or just my own thoughts? (1:07)
How do you discern God’s voice? (3:46)
It’s okay to act on what the Spirit is telling you imperfectly (5:45)
Always ask God, “is this true?” (9:30)
God, if you want me to say something to them, have them bring it up. (12:04)
Sometimes it’s not what’s wrong or right, but what is the wise thing to do? (16:54)
Just start the conversation: “God, this is what I think you’re telling me to do...” (20:17)

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Scripture Verse:

John 14:16-18 (NASB1995) “I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may be with you forever;that is the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it does not see Him or know Him, but you know Him because He abides with you and will be in you. I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.”

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Episode 240: You Can Do It All… But Should You?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0400

How do you balance ambition and career with trusting God and finding contentment? In this honest conversation, Dot and Cara unpack Paul’s words in Philippians and the misunderstood concept of “doing all things through Christ.” They explore what it looks like to be driven and ambitious while keeping your heart’s true motivation in check. Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee, and join the conversation.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Philippians 4:11-13 (0:14)
How do I balance ambition and career with trusting God and being content? (2:35)
Jesus was purposeful in his mission, but also made time for people and prayer (4:47)
No one ever ends their race wishing they had worked more (7:32)
Not every open door is a door that God has opened (9:42)
We have to check our hearts, are you serving God or money? (14:28)
Pray and ask God to help you keep pure motives and a pure mindset (16:33)
We need to be very careful of our motives (19:05)

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Scripture Verse: Philippians 4:11-13 (NASB1995)
“Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am.I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need.I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.”

Episode 239: Truth Worth Dying For

Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara pause to reflect on the days following Charlie Kirk’s assassination and what God might be saying to each of us at this moment. Anchored in 2 Timothy 4:6–8, they talk about Charlie’s memorial service, Erika’s bold example of faith, and keeping their “why” nearby as our culture feels increasingly hostile to truth. This conversation is an invitation to examine your heart, hold tight to Scripture, and move forward by trusting the power of the Holy Spirit. Grab your Bible, journal, a warm drink, and settle in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 2 Timothy 4:6-8 (0:14)
At every moment in history when evil looks like it has won, it hasn’t (5:50)
Persecution made the early Church explode with growth (8:06)
Ask God, what are you teaching me through this event? (12:05)
Don’t be apologetic for the Truth (13:00)
Man can’t manufacture that kind of peace (14:40)
Pray that the seeds that have been planted will take root and grow (17:02)
Keep your ‘why’ nearby (21:09)

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Scripture Verse: 2 Timothy 4:6-8 (NASB1995)
“For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith; in the future there is reserved for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing.”

Episode 238: Faith for the Anxious Heart

Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Anxiety and fear can easily overwhelm our hearts, leaving us wondering where our faith went when worry takes over. Today, Dot and Cara talk honestly about handling fear as a believer, why “what ifs” never bring peace, and how God’s Word invites us to trust Him with both today and tomorrow. Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee, and lean in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 6:31-34 (0:14)
What’s the difference between fear and anxiety? (3:02)
Both of these emotions are a response to “what if?” (6:07)
Anxiety is essentially choosing to struggle through a potential situation twice (9:31)
How Corrie Ten Boom handled fear during World War II (11:38)
What does it look like practically to deal with fear/anxiety as a believer? (13:52)
What we think plays a huge role in what we feel (17:21)
How Cara practically uses Scripture to combat fear (19:58)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 6:31-34 (NASB1995)
“Do not worry then, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear for clothing?’ For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

“So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Episode 237: Navigating Relationships with Unbelievers

Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0400

When someone you love doesn’t share your faith, how do you stay faithful to God while staying close to them? Today Dot and Cara unpack 2 Corinthians 6:14 in context, discussing what “bound together” does and doesn’t mean. They get practical about close friendships, marriage to a nonbeliever, and setting wise boundaries. You’ll hear how to be a light without becoming a judge, how to let God be God, and how to participate with God through prayer! Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee and join us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 2 Corinthians 6:14 (0:14)
This verse has been used in judgmental, unloving ways (1:45)
How do we balance going to the lost with this command? (4:59)
How should we define “close” relationships? (6:31)
When we love something, we naturally share it (11:30)
When a believer is married to an unbeliever, they have different goals (15:50)
Walk in such a way that Jesus looks attractive to other people (18:53)
Engage in the power of prayer (21:25)

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Scripture Verse: 2 Corinthians 6:14 (NASB1995)
Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?

Episode 236: God, don’t let me miss You...

Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0400

When your faith feels flat, what does it look like to draw near to God? Today Dot and Cara unpack James 4:8, talking about paying attention to your desire to be near Him, finding simple, life-giving prayers to pray, and choosing discipline and habits over your feelings. Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee, and be encouraged that God is only a prayer away today!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down James 4:8 (0:14)
Sometimes our daily walk gets boring (2:45)
Pay attention to the tension and think about what you enjoy (6:45)
Dot has a habit of praying, “God, don’t let me miss you.” (8:45)
Ask God if there’s anything in your heart or life between you and Him (12:42)
Choose discipline over your feelings (14:27)
We don’t have to stay close to God, He stays close to you (18:35)
God is only a prayer away (20:25)

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Scripture Verse: James 4:8 (NASB1995)
“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”

Episode 235: Why Should I Read the Bible?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0400

What does it mean that the Bible is “living and active”? In this conversation, Dot and Cara wrestle with Hebrews 4:12 and explore why Scripture is far more than a book of rules. They share how God’s Word reveals His heart, brings life, and even exposes what’s hidden in our own hearts. Don’t miss Dot’s personal story at the end, a profound reminder of God’s love that will stick with you. Grab your Bible, coffee, (and maybe a tissue today!) and join the conversation.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Hebrews 4:12 (0:14)
What does it mean that the Bible is “alive?” (1:30)
Look within Scripture to find God - not yourself (5:30)
Reading God’s Word exposes the intentions of our hearts (8:34)
Jesus is the Word (10:34)
We go to everyone else for words of advice, we should go to the Word first (13:18)
We can read the Bible for decades and still have the Word hit us differently (19:06)
We have never audibly heard our heavenly Father say, “I love you,” but we can read it in His Word. (22:38)

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Scripture Verse:
Hebrews 4:12 (NASB1995) “For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.”

Revelation 19:11 (NASB1995) “And I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse, and He who sat on it is called Faithful and True, and in righteousness He judges and wages war. His eyes are a flame of fire, and on His head are many diadems; and He has a name written on Him which no one knows except Himself. He is clothed with a robe dipped in blood, and His name is called The Word of God.”

Episode 234: Have I done enough?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0400

How can you be sure of your salvation? In this episode, Dot and Cara tackle one of the most foundational questions of faith: How do I know I’m saved? Together they walk through Scripture, their personal stories, and the role of the Holy Spirit, reminding us that salvation is not earned but received as a gift of grace. If you’ve ever wrestled with doubt or wondered if you’ve done “enough,” this conversation will point you back to Christ alone. Grab your Bible, and a cup of coffee, and settle in with us for today’s episode.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Ephesians 2:8-10 (0:14)
How do I know I am saved? (1:06)
Being secure in your salvation brings confidence (2:52)
This question is usually based on not feeling like you’ve done “enough”(7:30)
There will be some evidence of life change (11:00)
The pastor’s words that have stuck with Dot on this subject for years (14:50)

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Scripture Verse: Ephesians 2:8-10 (NASB1995)
“For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.”

Episode 233: Trusting God When the Future Feels Uncertain

Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Are you in a season where you’re desperate to know what God has for your next step? Today Dot and Cara open Matthew 10:26–31 and talk about what it looks like to trust God’s will when the future feels unclear. With a brand-new studio setup, there’s a fresh energy in the room as they record face-to-face. From wrestling with fear and control to learning how to walk in the light with confidence, this episode invites you to rest in God’s leading. Grab your Bible, your journal, and a cup of coffee, and settle in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 10:26-31 (0:14)
It’s easy to put ourselves in neutral as Christians and not check in with God (1:54)
God’s will for us is to know Him (5:45)
Focus on the Lord in your darkness, lean in, listen, and learn (9:28)
Don’t take to the grave the things God has taught you (14:13)
If you want to know God’s will, pray and be patient, then move forward (16:31)
Don’t let fear of making the wrong move paralyze you (19:28)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 10:26-31 (NASB1995)
“Therefore do not fear them, for there is nothing concealed that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. What I tell you in the darkness, speak in the light; and what you hear whispered in your ear, proclaim upon the housetops. Do not fear those who kill the body but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell. Are not two sparrows sold for a cent? And yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So do not fear; you are more valuable than many sparrows.”

Episode 232: Perspective Changes Everything [RE-AIR]

Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0400

“We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are.” Today we’re revisiting a conversation on the life-changing impact of perspective. Cara and Dot unpack how seeing life through God’s light can transform us emotionally, spiritually, and even physically. As we step into a new school year and transition from summer to fall, this episode offers fresh encouragement for bringing light into dark places. Grab your coffee and settle in for this uplifting discussion!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 6:22-23 (0:14)
There are two ways to look at things; through the lens of light or of darkness (4:09)
“We see things not as they are, but as we are.” (5:54)
We try to play God instead of going to God and asking Him what is really going on (14:04)
Only the Holy Spirit can tell us what is true (17:13)
Choosing a healthy perspective is sometimes moment by moment (20:12)
If you are being tempted to focus on darkness, it’s ok to put a boundary up (30:35)
Go to God and pray, “Is what I am seeing real/true?” (33:30)
We approach things based on our limited perspective and knowledge (36:06)
There is danger in focusing so much on the dark that our eyes adjust and become comfortable in darkness. (38:30)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 6:22-23 “The eye is the lamp of the body; so then if your eye is clear, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light that is in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!”

Episode 231: Understanding True Repentance [RE-AIR]

Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0400

We’re re-airing this listener-favorite today! Dot and Cara explore how King David’s quickness to recognize and address his sins provides an example for our own walk with God. Though known as shepherd, warrior, and king, David’s life was characterized by humility, confession, and repentance. Don’t we all want to be like David- a people after God’s own heart? Pour yourself a fresh cup of coffee and join us as we revisit what David’s story teaches us about our relationship with our heavenly Father.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Psalm 61:1-4 (0:14)
Let’s take a look at David’s backstory (4:15)
We misunderstand true repentance (9:00)
There is a difference between confession and repentance (13:10)
We aren’t really concerned about how our sin separates us from God (16:45)
David knew his place, he knew he wasn’t The King (26:45)
David’s heart was what was truly attractive about David (27:28)
Sin creates a breech in our intimacy and fellowship with God (31:48)
Ask God, is there anything coming between us? (36:02)

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Scripture Verse: Psalm 61:104

Hear my cry, O God;
listen to my prayer.

From the ends of the earth I call to you,
I call as my heart grows faint;
lead me to the rock that is higher than I.

For you have been my refuge,
a strong tower against the foe.

I long to dwell in your tent forever
and take refuge in the shelter of your wings.

Episode 230: Coming Home: Dot & Cara's Story - Pt 2 [RE-AIR]

Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0400

We’re back with Part 2 of this special conversation, continuing Cara’s powerful journey toward redemption. Hear Cara describe the life-changing moment when she finally got honest with God and His grace became real. This episode beautifully illustrates God’s relentless pursuit of our hearts and the tangible power of prayer. Grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and join us again!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Micah 7: 7-8 (0:13)
Jesus changed everything for Cara at this point in her story (3:30)
Cara was living a double life, stuck in a cycle of rebellion and shame (9:40)
A dear friend called Cara out (11:28)
Dot’s learning when to speak, when to act, and when to pray (12:47)
Cara finally gets honest with the Lord (22:11)
Pouring out her heart allowed light and God’s grace to come in (24:04)
Dot gave Cara over to God and focused on trusting the Lord (27:30)
Cara no longer carries the weight of her sin, she is free because of Jesus (29:59)
What does Micah 7:7-8 mean to Cara? (32:09)
Only God can change a child’s heart (38:33)

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Scripture Verse: Micah 7:7-8 (ESV)
“But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me. Do not gloat over me, my enemy! Though I have fallen, I will rise. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord will be my light.”

Episode 229: Crisis of Faith: Dot & Cara's Story - Pt 1 [RE-AIR]

Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Due to its popularity, we're re-airing this tender conversation pulling back the curtain on Dot and Cara’s mother-daughter relationship. They openly discuss the lies Satan whispered to Cara as she grew up and how they shaped the choices she made in college. Next week, we’ll share the second half of the story. Grab your coffee and settle in as we revisit this conversation and be encouraged that your story, no matter how imperfect, is never beyond God's grace!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:1-6 (0:15)
Dot and Cara’s intimate relationship wasn’t always this way (3:30)
Dot’s unlikely journey to having Cara, 11 years after her last pregnancy (5:15)
Cara shares some of her insecurities growing up (11:14)
Growing up, Cara focused on outward performance as a ‘good’ Christian girl (18:33)
Looking back maybe there were breadcrumbs Dot could have seen, hinting at what the Enemy was up to in Cara’s heart (21:06)
Under pressure in college, Cara’s hurt, anger and bitterness started to spill out (34:45)
Dot knew Cara was hurting, but she didn’t know what was coming (36:18)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:1-6
“Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’” “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.”

Episode 228: What if I’m not good enough for God?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Jul 2025 04:00:00 -0400

Ever felt like you’re not good enough to talk to God? You're not alone. Join Dot and Cara today as they unpack the universal struggle of feeling "not good enough" to approach God. As they consider Romans 3:10-12, they uncover a freeing truth: our imperfections don't disqualify us, in fact, they're exactly why we need Jesus. Tune in and be encouraged to come to God today just as you are.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Romans 3: 10-12 (0:13)
Today’s question: I don't feel good enough to be a Christian or even to pray (2:14)
We are enough to approach God because of Jesus (4:20)
We can use ‘not enough’ as an excuse to avoid God (6:01)
Sin creates separation in all of our relationships (10:26)
Let go of the mindset that you have to ‘feel’ it, just do it (14:54)
Do I believe what I feel or do I believe what God says? (17:55)
Don’t what you’ve done remove you from enjoying what Jesus has done for you (20:18)

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Scripture Verse:

Romans 3: 10-12 (ESV) “As it is written: “None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one.”

Episode 227: How Do I Start Reading the Bible?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0400

We’re kicking off our summer mini-episodes with a big question: How do I start reading the Bible? Dot and Cara talk about overcoming intimidation, why your why matters, and how to approach Scripture as a relational conversation with God. Grab your Bible, a pencil, and maybe a cup of coffee—and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (0:13)
How do I start reading my Bible? (2:14)
The Bible teaches us how to best live our lives (4:40)
Intimidation and shame can keep us from reading the Bible (7:30)
Having a plan helps (13:36)
Start in the Gospels (14:25)
Ask God to show you something about Himself (16:01)
Meditate on one verse for a while (18:51)
It’s the Holy Spirit’s job to teach you (21:58)

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Scripture Verse: 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (ESV)
“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God[a] may be complete, equipped for every good work.”

Episode 226: Making Disciples Starts With Relationship

Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0400

What does it actually mean to make disciples—and how do we live that out in our everyday lives? In this episode, Dot and Cara begin answering listener questions by unpacking Jesus’ command to “go and make disciples.” They talk through why relationships are essential, how discipleship happens in the real world, and why it’s not just about knowing God’s Word. Whether you're a stay-at-home mom, working in an office, or serving in ministry, this conversation will encourage you to see your ordinary moments as opportunities to make disciples. Grab a cup of coffee and your Bible, and settle in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 28:18-20 (0:13)
How do I make disciples as a stay at home mom? (2:20)
What is a disciple? (2:43)
There’s a difference between discipling and evangelizing. (5:55)
Discipleship is walking alongside others,while teaching and challenging them. (10:21)
Dot was wrong about this for most of her life. (12:02)
There has to be a mutualness to discipleship. (17:00)
What does this practically look like with others? (19:00)
Discipleship requires permission for others to speak into your world (23:41)
The difference in teaching vs. discipleship is paying attention to the “how.” (27:38)
How do you know if you are really making disciples? (31:00)

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Scripture Verse:

Matthew 28:18-20 (ESV) “And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in[a] the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

Episode 225: When God Writes the Ending

Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0400

In the final episode of our series on Ruth, Dot and Cara explore the beautiful ending found in Ruth chapter 4. Reflecting on how God's plans are greater than we imagine, they discuss the significance of Ruth and Naomi’s choices, Boaz's faithfulness, and God's work of redemption. Grab a cup of coffee and join us for this encouraging conversation about the bigger story God is writing in our lives.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Ruth 4:13-15 (0:13)
The end of this story is redemptive for Boaz as well (4:58)
Boaz acted as Ruth’s kinsman-redeemer (7:30)
God works through difficult life circumstances for His glory (12:03)
If Ruth and Naomi had not chosen faithfulness, we would not know their story (15:02)
Jesus is the ultimate kinsman-redeemer (19:45)
Circumstances may make us bitter, but in Christ we are blessed (22:26)
God sees us in our pain and He’s doing something with it (26:08)
Through our pain and our suffering, God is transforming and redeeming us (30:24)
Our relationship with Jesus is the blessing, not our circumstances (30:57)

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Scripture Verse:

Ruth 4:13-15 (ESV) “So Boaz took Ruth, and she became his wife. And he went in to her, and the Lord gave her conception, and she bore a son. Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed be the Lord, who has not left you this day without a redeemer, and may his name be renowned in Israel! He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age, for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons, has given birth to him.”

Episode 224: Bold Moves and Quiet Trust

Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Dot and Cara continue their series on Ruth, diving into chapter 3 and exploring Naomi and Ruth’s bold act of faith at the threshing floor. They reflect on how God also calls us to step out in faith, even when we can't see what He is doing and how moving forward in surrender builds our trust in His provision. If you're facing uncertainty or seeking guidance on your next steps, join us today for an encouraging conversation about trusting God's unseen hand.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Ruth 3:1 (0:13)
As Christ followers, our hope is not in our circumstances (5:00)
What is going on when Ruth goes into Boaz’s room at night? (7:15)
Ruth’s action showed her faith in God’s provision for her (12:02)
Many of us find ourselves in a bitter place (15:09)
We can choose to look for God at work (17:51)
We’ll never fully see what’s at stake eternally in our small stories (26:23)
God uses all of our emotions, even negative ones, to get us to move forward (28:20)
We can take steps forward if our eyes are on God, not the outcome (32:00)

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Scripture Verse:

Ruth 3:1 (ESV) “Then Naomi, her mother-in-law, said to her, “My daughter, should I not seek rest for you, that it may be well with you?”

Episode 223: Finding Grace in the Field

Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara dig into Ruth chapter 2, exploring how God is always at work behind the scenes to redeem our stories. Through Naomi’s eyes, we see Ruth's faithfulness and God's timing begin to transform her bitterness into hope. This chapter reminds us that even when we can't see it, God is creating something new and good in our lives. Grab your Bible and be encouraged with us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Ruth 2:8-11 (0:13)
Ruth doesn’t yet see the hand of God at work (3:36)
God is always at work in the details (5:55)
Naomi starts to see that there can be good in this different life (14:!8)
God is a Creator, He always creates new things (22:18)
God was faithful to Naomi (26:29)
To walk with Jesus, we have to move forward, out of our past (29:39)

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Scripture Verse:

Ruth 2:8-11 (ESV) “Then Boaz said to Ruth, “Now, listen, my daughter, do not go to glean in another field or leave this one, but keep close to my young women. Let your eyes be on the field that they are reaping, and go after them. Have I not charged the young men not to touch you? And when you are thirsty, go to the vessels and drink what the young men have drawn.” Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?” But Boaz answered her, “All that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been fully told to me, and how you left your father and mother and your native land and came to a people that you did not know before.”

Episode 222: Walking Through Grief

Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara kick off a new series exploring the book of Ruth through Naomi’s eyes. Reflecting on Ruth 1:19-21, they discuss how grief, if left unchecked, can spiral into bitterness. They remind us that gratitude is a powerful tool that helps us move through grief and guards our hearts against bitterness. Pull up a chair and join this insightful conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Ruth 1:19-21 (0:13)
At some point in our lives, we can all relate to Naomi (3:03)
Grieving is natural when life doesn’t turn out the way we expect (5:20)
If we don’t deal with what’s in our hearts, we’re going to end up bitter (8:50)
Bitter individuals are consumed by themselves (13:27)
When you’re in a dark place, community helps (17:00)
Naomi and Ruth both had a choice to make in their grief (21:04)
Gratitude helps pull us through grief (28:25)
In pain, it is difficult to see a way out of our difficult situations (33:06)
Ruth is being the hands and feet of Jesus to Naomi (38:04)
Ask God, “Am I bitter?” (41:44)

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Scripture Verse:

Ruth 1:19-21 (ESV) “So the two of them went on until they came to Bethlehem. And when they came to Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred because of them. And the women said, “Is this Naomi?” She said to them, “Do not call me Naomi; call me Mara, for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi, when the Lord has testified against me and the Almighty has brought calamity upon me?”

Episode 221: What is the Kingdom of God?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 May 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Inspired by a friend's question, today we’re exploring the complex concept of "the Kingdom of God." Reflecting on Matthew 6:31-34, Dot and Cara unpack the biblical meaning and implications of God's kingdom—both here and now, and in the future. Grab a cup of coffee and learn what it looks like to seek the Kingdom of God with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 6:31-34 (0:13)
What does the phrase “kingdom of God” mean? (3:38)
The Kingdom of God was in the past, it can be in the present, and it will be in the future (9:49)
We need to seek the things that matter to our King (12:36)
We have a King who promises to take care of us (16:15)
We can live victoriously in this present world because we have the King’s power (24:30)
What does it look like practically to live out the Kingdom? (25:48)
Through the Holy Spirit, the Kingdom exists in our lives (28:48)
The Kingdom of God is when we allow our lives to be under the authority of Christ (32:00)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 6:31-34 (ESV)
“Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”

Episode 220: Why is Church Important?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 May 2025 15:33:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara are talking about the impact the Church has on our faith journey. Reflecting on Hebrews 10:23-25, they discuss the importance of the Church (with a big “C.”) and dig into the very real truth that many have walked away from faith because of hurt they experienced within a church. If you've wrestled with church hurt or doubts, grab a cup of coffee and join us as we explore this truth together.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Hebrews 10:23-25 (0:13)
Do most people who walk away from faith lack church involvement? (3:22)
There’s a distinction between Church (big C) and church (little c) (5:39)
Community is vital to maintaining faith (7:10)
We need people around us who are going the same direction we are (11:30)
Being in community encourages our faith (18:43)
If Jesus loves the Church, I want to love the Church too (21:52)
We understand the idea of having a common passion with others (i.e. college football) - Church at its best is like that (23:33)
We need people willing to speak hard truths to us (28:00)
Jesus didn’t give up on the Church and neither should we (35:00)

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Scripture Verse: Hebrews 10:23-25 (ESV)
“Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful.And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

Episode 219: Living in the Present

Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 May 2025 03:00:00 -0400

May can feel like a whirlwind of transitions—graduations, shifting schedules, and unexpected change. Today Dot and Cara talk honestly about the tension between longing for the past, trying to control the future, and learning to stay grounded in the present. Sharing Paul’s words in Philippians 3, they remind us that contentment isn’t found in control but in knowing Christ. Whether you’re overwhelmed by change or wishing for it, grab your Bible, turn to Philippians, and lean in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Philippians 3:10-14 (0:14)
May is a transitional month in a lot of ways (3:06)
Some of us get caught living in and hoping for the past, while others try to live too much in the future (6:10)
Whether you’re in transition, or longing for it, you have to trust the Lord (12:50)
He’s going to give us manna for each day (17:35)
In all of life, there’s a letting go of what we think we might have had (19:45)
All we have is this moment, what are you going to do with it? (25:50)
Transition often brings with it an uncertainty that we cannot control (27:50)
At the end of your life, what is going to be important to you? (30:15)
Even (especially) in our busiest seasons, don’t miss the main thing God has for you (33:00)
Try looking at the season that you’re in with an eternal perspective (36:30)

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Scripture Verse:

Philippians 3:10-14 (ESV) “that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”

Episode 218: More than a Mom

Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 May 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Drawing from Genesis 3:20, today Dot and Cara are talking about the idea of mothering. They share insights about the nurturing aspect embedded in all women, reminding us that motherhood extends beyond having a biological child. Whether you're celebrating, grieving, or longing this Mother's Day, you'll find encouragement in the reminder that you have a purpose beyond parenting and that your true identity is rooted in being a child of God.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:20 (0:13)
Adam changed Eve’s name from ‘woman’ to ‘Eve’ (1:45)
Mother’s Day can be difficult for many reasons (5:13)
Our identity is that we are His children (7:28)
We can multiply our likeness through discipleship (10:09)
No matter our age, there are people around us whose lives we can speak into (14:10)
Ask God to open your eyes and your hands to what He has for you (18:00)
When you get wrapped up in yourself, you make a small package (20:00)
The family of God is all around us, it is a privilege to pour into them (26:30)

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Scripture Verse:

Genesis 3:20 (ESV) ‘The man called his wife's name Eve, because she was the mother of all living.

Episode 217: I Want to Hear Your Voice - Part 2

Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Dot and Cara continue their candid conversation today about moments when our faith feels fragile and God seems distant. Dot shares a deeply personal story of desperately needing to hear God's voice, the profound way He responded, and how her vulnerability led to an intimacy breakthrough. Together, they reflect on the Good Shepherd’s relentless care and genuine love for us. This conversation will reassure you of His faithfulness in every circumstance, so grab your Bible, your cup of coffee, and be encouraged today.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 10:7-14 (0:13)
Dot has been in a difficult season of change for some time (2:33)
She was seeking answers and asking a miracle of the Lord (4:30)
Dot was beginning to doubt God was with her and cared about her (9:30)
She cried out to God, claiming His promise to speak to His children (11:45)
In that moment, it was personal (14:45)
God spoke directly to Dot through a text (17:40)
Through prayer, our hearts are tuned to God’s work, we become part of it (19:19)
Faith and desperation are both precursors to miracles (24:37)
It’s not about the answer to our prayers, it’s about intimacy with Him (29:00)
Come to Him and let Him be God (35:00)
If you are desperate for Him, He’ll show up (39:30)

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Scripture Verse: John 10:7-14 (ESV)
“So Jesus again said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. He who is a hired hand and not a shepherd, who does not own the sheep, sees the wolf coming and leaves the sheep and flees, and the wolf snatches them and scatters them. He flees because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me,”

Episode 216: I Want to Hear Your Voice - Part 1

Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0400

In today’s deeply personal episode, Dot opens up about a morning when she desperately needed to hear from God—but felt nothing. As she wrestled through doubt, silence, and her own expectations, the words of John 10 came alive in a new way. This conversation isn’t about having answers—it’s about being honest, staying in the room, and trusting the voice of the Shepherd. Grab your Bible and a cup of coffee, and settle in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 10:1-6 (0:13)
Dot shares an ‘aha’ moment that led her back to the Shepherd (2:41)
Dot was longing for the spiritual intimacy she felt in her former home (6:45)
Years of studying John 10 collided with a real-life need for God’s nearness (10:25)
Dot began talking to Jesus about the first 6 verses of John 10 (11:25)
Dot questioned if she really could recognize God’s voice (13:45)
When you’re desperate, your ears, eyes and heart are more tuned to His voice (22:20)
God wants to reconcile what we know in our head to what we feel in our heart (25:50)
We all hit a wall at times and need a more intimate experience of His presence (28:49)
This was a moment for God to stretch Dot’s faith (31:00)
Even seasoned Christians move through seasons of differing intimacy (32:30)
No matter what we do, the Good Shepherd stays in the room because we are His. (35:14)

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Scripture Verse:

John 10:1-6 (ESV) “Truly, truly, I say to you, he who does not enter the sheepfold by the door but climbs in by another way, that man is a thief and a robber. But he who enters by the door is the shepherd of the sheep. To him the gatekeeper opens. The sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice. A stranger they will not follow, but they will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers.” This figure of speech Jesus used with them, but they did not understand what he was saying to them.”

Episode 215: Hope Between the Cross and the Empty Tomb

Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara step into Peter’s shoes to explore the weekend that changed everything. From the grief of Good Friday through the waiting on Saturday and then the miracle of Sunday, they reflect on what it means to grieve but also to wait in hope. If you're wrestling with disappointment, disillusionment, or simply not knowing what comes next this Easter, we hope this conversation offers fresh perspective. So grab your journal, a cup of coffee, and your Bible—and lean in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 22: 31-34 and 59-62 (0:13)
Today we are looking at Easter through Peter’s eyes (1:46)
Peter had a difficult journey after he decided to follow Jesus (6:21)
We all find ourselves doing things we never thought we’d do at some point (11:59)
God uses Peter’s strong will for His purposes (17:41)
On Friday, the disciples accepted reality and grieved together (20:35)
Grieving is part of embracing where we are (24:00)
God has a way of humbling us to make us realize our need for a Savior (26:16)
In the waiting, Peter goes back to what he knows - fishing (28:30)
You never know when God’s going to work the miracle in your life (30:19)
When you feel like you’re in the waiting, be faithful with what’s in front of you (34:00)
Godly grief brings you to Sunday (38:30)
Whatever Fridays or Saturdays you may be walking in, there is hope because Jesus is life and makes life worth living (41:15)

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Scripture Verse:

Luke 22: 31-34 (ESV) “Simon, Simon, behold, Satan demanded to have you,[a] that he might sift you like wheat, but I have prayed for you that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned again, strengthen your brothers.” Peter said to him, “Lord, I am ready to go with you both to prison and to death.” Jesus said, “I tell you, Peter, the rooster will not crow this day, until you deny three times that you know me.

Luke 22: 59-62 (ESV) “And after an interval of about an hour still another insisted, saying, “Certainly this man also was with him, for he too is a Galilean.” But Peter said, “Man, I do not know what you are talking about.” And immediately, while he was still speaking, the rooster crowed. And the Lord turned and looked at Peter. And Peter remembered the saying of the Lord, how he had said to him, “Before the rooster crows today, you will deny me three times.” And he went out and wept bitterly.

Episode 214: Standing Firm in the Storm

Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0400

In this final episode of our series on 1 Peter, Dot and Cara dig into chapter 5 and explore what it means to stand firm when life gets hard. They break down how to resist the lies the Enemy throws at us and share how humility is key to resisting Satan. Grab your Bible, a cup of coffee, and join the conversation as we wrap up 1 Peter together.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Peter 5:6-11 (0:13)
Cara dug deep into this chapter (2:06)
Peter is getting to the end of his life when this letter is written (5:43)
We see that Peter has changed (7:22)
Suffering will either strengthen your faith or make you walk away from faith (13:21)
Resisting the devil looks different for each of us (16:55)
The way you ‘cast your anxiety on Him’ is to tell him (21:06)
When you realize a thought is of Satan, you need to stop saying it (27:20)
We need to humble ourselves and let God fight the battle for us (35:30)

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Scripture Verse:

1 Peter 4:11-12 (ESV) “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen.”

Episode 213: Resting in God’s Love

Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Grab your Bible, a pencil, and a cup of coffee – Dot and Cara are diving into 1 Peter 4 this week! In this conversation, they discuss the challenge of truly resting in God’s love, rather than trying to earn it or even trying to understand it. Tune in for an honest discussion about embracing God’s unconditional love, even when it’s hard to feel.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Peter 4:11-12 (0:13)
Pain has a way of blinding us to feeling loved and valued (5:01)
Peter understood God’s love is not something we earn – it’s a gift we receive (12:50)
If you trusted God loved you, would you worry so much about outcomes? (18:04)
We rob ourselves of God’s love when we reduce love to “doing” (24:58)
Feeling unworthy doesn’t change the truth that God loves us unconditionally (25:25)
We reduce God’s love to our capacity to understand it (27:21)
Love covers a multitude of sins doesn’t mean excusing harmful behavior (28:04)
God’s love is rooted in His character, not our actions (34:40)
Ask God, do I really grasp how much you love me? (38:40)

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Scripture Verse:

1 Peter 4:11-12 (ESV) “whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen. Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.”

Episode 212: What Does Biblical Submission Really Mean?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara continue their conversation on 1 Peter, diving into the tricky topics in chapter 3. What does it really mean to have a gentle and quiet spirit? How do we live set apart in a culture that values outward appearance? What does biblical submission look like in marriage? As they unpack these challenging verses, Dot reminds us that our ultimate goal is to glorify God and draw others to Him through the way we live. Grab your Bible and a cup of coffee, and lean into the conversation with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Peter 3:13-17 (0:13)
If you’re going to suffer, suffer for righteousness (4:52)
The way we present ourselves should attract the lost and the unbeliever (10:05)
Peter says submission to God will lead to suffering for righteousness’ sake (14:18)
It’s better when hardships come because you are honoring God (19:13)
The heart of marriage is that you’re better together for His Kingdom (22:58)
Peter instructs us to not be unnecessarily offensive to the culture you live in (25:22)
Remember what your goal is; you are to glorify God in your actions (30:51)
When you read difficult passages, you must put them in context (33:09)
When you know the heart of God, Scripture is easier to understand (34:40)

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Scripture Verse:

1 Peter 3:13-17 (NASB1995) “Who is there to harm you if you prove zealous for what is good? But even if you should suffer for the sake of righteousness, you are blessed. And do not fear their intimidation, and do not be troubled, but sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence; and keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame. For it is better, if God should will it so, that you suffer for doing what is right rather than for doing what is wrong.”

Episode 211: What Does It Mean to Be Set Apart?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Dot and Cara dig into 1 Peter 2, exploring what it means to grow in faith and live a holy life. They discuss the importance of longing for God’s Word, embracing our identity as holy in Christ, and gaining a biblical understanding of submission. Don’t miss Dot’s encouragement at the end—remember, you are a child of God! Settle in with your Bible and join the conversation.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Peter 2:1-3 (0:15)
We grow to love the Word as we mature in our faith (2:58)
Sanctification means learning how to walk out your faith (7:23)
How can we “be holy” since we are human? (8:24)
Jesus comes into our lives and makes us holy (11:29)
Today there’s not a lot of difference between Christians and non-Christians (16:55)
Ask yourself, “do I represent God well?” (21:45)
How do we navigate submitting to authority when it is an ungodly authority? (25:30)
Daniel always prayed for an alternative (29:34)
You are God’s possession, called out of darkness and into the light (35:31)

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Scripture Verse: 1 Peter 1: 3-6 (NASB 1995)
“Therefore, putting aside all malice and all deceit and hypocrisy and envy and all slander, like newborn babies, long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation, if you have tasted the kindness of the Lord.”

Episode 210: How Trials Shape Our Faith

Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0400

Peter’s letters may not be the most popular books in the New Testament, but they hold powerful truths for believers facing trials. Today Dot and Cara are digging into 1 Peter 1, exploring how the resurrection gives us a living hope and how trials refine our faith. If you've ever wrestled with feeling tested or wondered how it’s possible to hold on to hope, this conversation is for you. Grab your Bible, journal, and your coffee as we begin this journey through 1 Peter together.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Peter 1:3-6 (0:12)
Cara is not excited about going through these books (3:25)
Dot is tickled pink about reading through 1 Peter (6:20)
These are the only two letters attributed to Peter (7:40)
Jesus told Peter to prepare for trouble in the garden of Gethsemane (10:45)
The presence of the Holy Spirit changed Peter (13:50)
As Western Christians, how can we relate to the idea of being persecuted? (17:00)
Our hope is alive (21:00)
The testing of our faith is not God being cruel, it is to make us stronger (24:00)
Faith is essential to make it through life without being defeated (28:30)
Angels cannot understand God’s love for His children as we do (33:00)
We have to keep Jesus in the middle of the discussion (35:01)

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Scripture Verse: 1 Peter 1: 3-6 (NASB)
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His great mercy has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,to obtain an inheritance which is imperishable, undefiled, and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you, who are protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials.”

Episode 209: Safe in His Arms — Finding Rest in Psalm 23

Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Psalm 23 is one of the most well-known and well-loved passages in all of Scripture—but have you ever really stopped to dig into what it means? Today Dot and Cara reflect on the richness of this psalm, unpacking the imagery of the Good Shepherd. They discuss the comfort and trust we can find in God's provision, the way He leads, protects, and restores us, and why truly believing He has your back changes everything. So grab your Bible and your journal and explore Psalm 23 together!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Psalm 23 (0:12)
This is one of the most well-known passages of Scripture (3:52)
Throughout the OT, we see God calling leaders to shepherd His people (9:40)
God has given us all we need (12:33)
Sheep only lay down when they feel safe and fully trust their shepherd (18:46)
Why are the rod and the staff objects of comfort? (20:36)
There’s a difference between discipline and punishment (24:20)
A shepherd knows what dangers are around us and what lies ahead (27:30)
God goes before, beside, and behind us (29:20)
The heart of God is for us (33:55)
Most people don’t think they have a Good Shepherd (36:12)
We don’t have be worried or afraid because we have a God who cares (39:01)

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Scripture Verse: Psalm 23 (NKJV):
The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.

He restores my soul;
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For His name’s sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil;
For You are with me;
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
You anoint my head with oil;
My cup runs over.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
All the days of my life;
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord
Forever.

Episode 208: Trusting God to Heal What Hurts

Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0500

What if our deepest wounds could become a testimony of healing? In this episode, Dot and Cara explore the difference between wounds and scars, the reality of hurt and pain on this side of heaven, and the hope we have in Christ. If you’ve ever wondered why Jesus kept His scars, grab your Bible and journal and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Isaiah 53:5-6 (0:13)
Jesus understands what it is like to experience pain, trauma, and human hurt (2:12)
God uses the wounds and the pain to show us that He is the healer (9:20)
We should teach/share from the scars, not the wound (10:45)
How can you tell if you’re talking from a wound or from a scar? (15:30)
We tend to learn more through our pain than our pleasure (22:59)
Why did Jesus keep his scars? (25:00)
Ask God to touch your heart, your mind and your soul and begin to heal it (32:24)

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Scripture Verse: Isaiah 53:5-6 (NASB 1995):

“But He was pierced through for our transgressions,
He was crushed for our iniquities;
The chastening for our well-being fell upon Him,
And by His scourging we are healed.

All of us like sheep have gone astray,
Each of us has turned to his own way;
But the Lord has caused the iniquity of us all
To fall on Him.”

Episode 207: Healing through Forgiveness

Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0500

This week, Dot and Cara dive into the role of forgiveness in our healing journey—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it’s essential. Looking at the story of Stephen in Acts 7, they explore how keeping our eyes on Jesus helps us walk in obedience and remind us that the real goal is intimacy with Him. If you’re struggling to forgive, you’re not alone. We’d love for you to pull up a chair and be part of our conversation.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Acts 7:55-60 (0:15)
A large part of the pathway to healing is forgiveness (1:20)
A person’s sin always hurts others (3:26)
We cannot fully heal until we forgive (5:31)
What does forgiveness look like? (8:30)
When we refuse to forgive, we are being disobedient to God (12:40)
If we are going to be able to forgive over and over, we need to understand why (18:10)
If we keep our eyes on Jesus, we can truly forgive (20:18)
Our forgiveness doesn’t release others from the consequences of their sin (21:30)
Why do you want to be healed? (25:50)
The goal isn’t getting over the hurt or forgiving, it’s getting closer to Jesus (35:00)

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Scripture Verse: Acts 7:55-60 (NASB)
“But he, being full of the Holy Spirit, looked intently into heaven and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing at the right hand of God; and he said, “Behold, I see the heavens opened and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God.” But they shouted with loud voices, and covered their ears and rushed at him with one mind. When they had driven him out of the city, they began stoning him; and the witnesses laid aside their cloaks at the feet of a young man named Saul. They went on stoning Stephen as he called on the Lord and said, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit!” Then he fell on his knees and cried out with a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them!” Having said this, he fell asleep.”

Episode 206: Bringing Our Pain to Jesus

Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0500

When we’ve been hurt, how do we find healing? Today Dot and Cara dive into the first step on the pathway to healing—acknowledging our hurt and bringing it to Jesus. Looking at Matthew 20:29-34, they discuss how Jesus invites us to be honest with Him and why true healing isn’t dependent on others. If you feel like the walking wounded sometimes, grab your Bible and a cup of coffee and lean in with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 20:29-34 (0:11)
God’s been asking us questions since Genesis (2:20)
What do we do when we have been hurt? How can we heal? (5:20)
We need to learn to “pay attention to the fruit” in our lives (9:45)
Healing starts between me and Jesus (18:30)
Our healing has nothing to do with other people (21:15)
Ask God first if you should say anything about your hurt to that person (23:10)
Healing begins with reflection and confession (27:00)
If we’re going to walk toward healing, the first thing we have to do is acknowledge the hurt (30:28)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 20:29-24 (ESV)
“And as they went out of Jericho, a great crowd followed him. And behold, there were two blind men sitting by the roadside, and when they heard that Jesus was passing by, they cried out, “Lord, have mercy on us, Son of David!” The crowd rebuked them, telling them to be silent, but they cried out all the more, “Lord, have mercy on us, Son of David!” And stopping, Jesus called them and said, “What do you want me to do for you?” They said to him, “Lord, let our eyes be opened.” And Jesus in pity touched their eyes, and immediately they recovered their sight and followed him.”

Episode 205: When it Feels Like the Enemy Wins

Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Genesis 3 is often seen as the chapter where everything fell apart—but it’s also where God's rescue plan begins. In this final episode of our Genesis 3 series, Dot and Cara unpack the mercy of God, the significance of the Tree of Life, and the spiritual battle that started in Eden but doesn’t end there. Grab your Bible and join us as we wrestle through Scripture, ask hard questions, and are reminded of the hope we have in Jesus.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:13-15 (0:13)
Today we really see the heart of God (4:35)
The story of the Bible is the story of God bringing us back to Him (7:10)
We are in the middle of spiritual warfare, but the war is between Satan and God (9:00)
God protected Adam and Eve from eating of the Tree of Life (9:44)
God wants to be with us so much that He initiates our rescue (25:00)
Anything the Enemy throws at you is to try and get between you and the Lord (28:30)
Satan hates us because we are made in the image of God. (32:00)
As Genesis 3 comes to a close, humanity has been taken for ransom by Satan. (34:03)
Jesus is coming. There is hope, we see that in Adam’s name for Eve. (38:56)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:13-15 (ESV) Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this that you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” The Lord God said to the serpent,

“Because you have done this,
cursed are you above all livestock
and above all beasts of the field;
on your belly you shall go,
and dust you shall eat
all the days of your life.

I will put enmity between you and the woman,
and between your offspring and her offspring;
he shall bruise your head,
and you shall bruise his heel.”

Episode 204: Overcoming Shame

Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Today Dot and Cara continue their deep dive on Genesis 3 - digging into the “where are you” and “why are you hiding” questions that God asks Adam and Eve. They explore how shame distorts our view of God, ourselves, and others, leading us to hide rather than abide. They discuss how confession and repentance require us to face God in humility and then abide in God’s rest. If you’re struggling with shame or have wondered how you can draw closer to God in moments of failure, grab your Bible and lean into this powerful conversation with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:7-10 (0:13)
Their eyes were opened and they started to see through the lens of shame (4:00)
God’s question is an opportunity for Adam to be honest (6:08)
Shame is a powerful weapon that separates us from God (8:00)
We cannot excuse shame, it is sin (13:10)
Satan’s goal is to separate us from God, that’s exactly what happens when Adam and Eve hid (19:13)
Confession and repentance require us to humble ourselves before God (24:00)
Abiding is allowing the Holy Spirit to work in us, it is rest, not striving (29:00)
Shame can be a good thing if it leads us to repentance. (35:00)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:7-10
“Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.

And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you? And he said, “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.”

Episode 203: Finding God in the Fallout

Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Dot and Cara continue unpacking Genesis 3 in this second episode of our four-part series. This week, they dive into God’s questions to Adam and Eve: “Where are you?” and “Who told you that?” Together, they explore the power of asking ourselves these questions and discuss God’s end goal - restoring His relationship with Adam and Eve. If you’ve ever wrestled with lies that lead you away from God’s presence, grab your coffee and your journal and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:6-11 (0:13)
We, like Adam and Eve, try to hide from God in the most ridiculous places (6:15)
From Genesis 3 onwards, God and Satan are at war for humanity (18:00)
What is the significance of God asking, “Where are you?” (20:00)
“Who told you that?” is a hard question for us to answer (32:00)
If it’s leading you away from God, it’s not truth (36:00)
The problem is not necessarily the lie you heard, it’s that you’re believing it (39:00)
Satan’s intent is to come between you and God (45:00)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:6-11 “So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.

And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you?”And he said, “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.” He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?”

Episode 202: When Life Takes an Unexpected Turn

Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Grab your Bible, journal, and a cup of coffee as we dive into Genesis 3! This week, Dot and Cara explore the origins of sin and reveal how the Enemy weaves doubt and confusion through half-truths and lies. Together, they discuss the subtle ways Satan erodes our trust in God and how we can stand firm in His truth. If you’re wrestling with questions about God’s goodness or seeking to draw closer to Him this year, this episode is for you!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:1-5 (0:13)
This is Dot’s favorite chapter in the Bible (2:00)
When Satan entered the world, everything changed (4:08)
Acknowledging our sin is critical to getting on the path of forgiveness (10:45)
There’s a difference between condemnation and conviction (14:15)
Satan sets us up by getting us to focus on what we do not have (16:00)
Satan twists half-truths together with lies to deceive (24:00)
Satan is not really after us - he is at war with God (27:00)
God desires to restore our fellowship with Him as it was in the garden (30:20)
Satan is the master manipulator and he gets Eve to doubt God’s goodness (40:10)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:1-5 “Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You[a] shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’” But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

Episode 201: Starting Fresh With One Word

Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Happy New Year! In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the concept of choosing a word of the year—a practice they never thought they’d embrace. They share personal stories about how their words for 2024 shaped their faith journeys. This conversation shows how a simple word, rooted in Scripture and prayer, can draw us closer to God and guide us through the year. Grab your Bible, and settle in as Dot and Cara encourage you to pray about your word for 2025.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Psalm 19:14 (0:13)
The words Dot and Cara chose last year and how that played out (4:28)
Dot’s word for 2025 (11:08)
Cara’s process for choosing her word this year (16:05)
Dot almost chose the same word (19:19)
Pray and ask God if there’s something He wants you to hold onto this year? (23:44)
Cara’s word would pop up and remind her of the Lord’s presence with her (25:16)
Let us know if you choose a word, we’d love to know what it is! (27:02)

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Scripture Verse: Psalm 19:14
“May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.”

Episode 200: The Assurance of Things Hoped For

Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0500

This final episode of 2024 is a deeply personal conversation as Dot and Cara reflect on a year marked by challenges, growth, and their fight to hold on to hope. We’re looking at Romans 4:18-25 to be reminded of Abraham’s unwavering faith, even when circumstances seemed impossible and to renew our conviction to place our hope not in outcomes, but in God Himself. If you're feeling weary or uncertain, pull up a chair and join us—because Jesus is Emmanuel, our hope in every season.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Romans 4:18-25 (0:13)
This is our last conversation for 2024 (2:30)
When we struggle with hope, it’s because our eyes our fixed on circumstances (7:38)
Do you believe the promises God has made? (13:27)
If you believe something, but don’t live out that belief, what good is that? (20:01)
It’s okay to pray for very specific things (25:27)
Faith means holding on to the fact that God will, if it’s best for you (30:00)
Hope keeps your heart from becoming bitter and hard (38:00)
Either I believe God loves me or I don’t (40:18)
He loves me and wants a relationship with me and that is what gives me hope (42:00)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 4:18-25
“In hope he believed against hope, that he should become the father of many nations, as he had been told, “So shall your offspring be.” He did not weaken in faith when he considered his own body, which was as good as dead (since he was about a hundred years old), or when he considered the barrenness of Sarah's womb. No unbelief made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God, fully convinced that God was able to do what he had promised. That is why his faith was “counted to him as righteousness.” But the words “it was counted to him” were not written for his sake alone, but for ours also. It will be counted to us who believe in him who raised from the dead Jesus our Lord, who was delivered up for our trespasses and raised for our justification.”

Episode 199: Perspective Changes Everything: Part 3

Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0500

As we wrap up our series on perspective, Dot and Cara share what it means to walk ‘in the light of the living.’ This episode invites us to reflect on how shifting our perspective can reveal the light of Jesus, even when darkness is all around. From practical steps to change your focus, to the importance of surrounding yourself with people who help you see the light, Dot reminds us that living in the light is about Jesus, not our circumstances. Grab your Bible and a pen and settle in with us as we learn to live in the light today!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Psalm 56:13 (0:13)
The Christmas season and end of the year can highlight our lack of peace (2:23)
We get so used to the darkness, we don’t believe we can live in the light (7:00)
We have to choose to see the light (8:22)
Living in the light is about Jesus, not circumstances (10:12)
We have to have people around us who can help us see the light (15:14)
Your perspective can change moment to moment (23:00)
How do we actively change our perspective? (29:00)
Your eye is either full of light, or of darkness? What are you looking at? (32:26)
Dig deep where the Holy Spirit is and ask for the strength to endure and walk in the light (29:40)

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Scripture Verse: Psalm 56:13

“For You have delivered my soul from death,

Indeed my feet from stumbling,

So that I may walk before God

In the light of the living.”

Episode 198: Perspective Changes Everything (Part 2)

Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Welcome to Part 2 of our mini-series on perspective! This week, Cara and Dot dive into Luke 11:34-36 to unpack the real meaning of darkness. They explore how darkness can take the form of lies, doubt, fear, and disbelief, and remind us of the Holy Spirit's role in teaching us what is right. If you haven’t yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 before starting this episode. Grab your Bible and join us as we learn what it means to desire God's light over darkness.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 11:34-36 (0:14)
What’s the difference between this verse and Matthew’s version of it? (2:45)
We’re going to talk about darkness today (5:50)
Our eyes adjust to darkness eventually (8:15)
Darkness can be lies, doubt, fear, disbelief (11:45)
How can we know if we are walking in darkness unaware? (16:11)
It is the Holy Spirit’s job to show us what is right (18:46)
Was Eve’s desire for something God had said ‘no’ to sin? (21:24)
Satan wants our hearts latched onto the darkness (26:36)
We live in a world where right seems wrong, and wrong seems right (29:40)
it’s the Holy Spirit’s job to show you what is right and it’s your job to choose it (39:19)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 11: 34-36
“The eye is the lamp of your body; when your eye is [a]clear, your whole body also is full of light; but when it is bad, your body also is full of darkness. Then watch out that the light in you is not darkness. If therefore your whole body is full of light, with no dark part in it, it will be wholly illumined, as when the lamp illumines you with its rays.”

Episode 197: Perspective Changes Everything

Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Could changing your perspective change everything? In this episode, Cara and Dot explore the power of perspective and how seeing life through God's light can transform every part of our being—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. As we enter a season that can be challenging for many, they offer encouragement on focusing on God’s truth to bring light into dark places. Join them as they dive into the power of shifting from darkness to light, especially in challenging seasons.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 6:22-23 (0:14)
There are two ways to look at things; through the lens of light or of darkness (4:09)
“We see things not as they are, but as we are.” (5:54)
We try to play God instead of going to God and asking Him what is really going on (14:50)
Only the Holy Spirit can tell us what is true (17:20)
Choosing a healthy perspective is sometimes moment by moment (20:21)
If you are being tempted to focus on darkness, it’s ok to put a boundary up (31:30)
Go to God and pray, “Is what I am seeing real/true?” (33:40)
We approach things based on our limited perspective and knowledge (36:19)
There is danger in focusing so much on the dark that our eyes adjust and become comfortable in darkness. (38:19)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 6:22-23
“The eye is the lamp of the body; so then if your eye is clear, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light that is in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!”

Episode 196: Hope in Hardship

Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Grab your Bible and join Dot and Cara as they explore the life of Jeremiah. Known as the weeping prophet, Jeremiah faced imprisonment and hardship because of his obedience to God. His story encourages us to remain faithful, no matter the cost. Don’t miss their discussion at the end about the often misinterpreted Jeremiah 29:11! We hope today’s episode reminds you that there is always hope, even in hardship.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Jeremiah 3:11-15 (0:14)
God called Jeremiah to speak hard truths to the people he loved (3:29)
He is known as the weeping prophet, but he’s not a big downer! (5:05)
Although they are warned about judgment/punishment, there is hope (6:50)
How do you discern between true prophecy and false comforting words? (10:00)
God is using the Babylonians, not making them ‘his people’ (14:39)
Jeremiah’s compassion for others is attractive in a spiritual sense (15:30)
Buying land in enemy territory shows how Jeremiah trusted God’s promises. (19:05)
Dig deep roots and live faithfully wherever we are, whatever season we’re in, even during hardships (21:42)
Jer. 29:11 is a promise about drawing near to God, not about what our future holds. (28:54)
In our darkest moments, we can feel that God is near, and that is enough. (33:16)

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Scripture Verse: Jeremiah 3:11-15
“And the Lord said to me, “Faithless Israel has proved herself more righteous than treacherous Judah. Go and proclaim these words toward the north and say,

‘Return, faithless Israel,’ declares the Lord;
‘I will not look upon you in anger.
For I am gracious,’ declares the Lord;
‘I will not be angry forever.
‘Only acknowledge your iniquity,

That you have transgressed against the Lord your God

And have scattered your favors to the strangers under every green tree,
And you have not obeyed My voice,’ declares the Lord.

‘Return, O faithless sons,’ declares the Lord;

‘For I am a master to you,

And I will take you one from a city and two from a family,

And I will bring you to Zion.’

“Then I will give you shepherds after My own heart, who will feed you with knowledge and understanding.”

Episode 195: What Jesus Values Most

Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In today’s episode, Dot and Cara dive into the character of Martha, sister of Mary and Lazarus. They explore how easy it is to get caught up in doing things for Jesus while missing the opportunity to simply be with Jesus. Martha’s busyness led her to tell Jesus what to do, but Mary chose the better part—sitting at His feet and listening. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or anxious, it might be time to pause and ask, “Am I doing something Jesus hasn’t asked me to do?” Grab your Bible and a cup of coffee, and reflect with us on choosing what truly matters.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 10:38-42 (0:14)
Jesus isn’t picking on Martha in this story, He loves her. (4:30)
When Jesus visited someone, he came with a crowd. (6:30)
When we’re busy trying to do things for Jesus, it can be hard to hear Jesus. (10:00)
Pray, “God, I don’t want to miss you.” (14:54)
Martha was distracted by her service. (16:50)
When we feel anxious and overwhelmed, it is usually because we are doing something He has not asked us to do (20:25)
Martha repeatedly tells Jesus what to do. (25:00)
If you are so busy telling Jesus what you know, you won’t pause to learn what He knows (31:00)
You have to spend time at the feet of Jesus to get through this life. (35:00)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 10:38-42
“Now as they were traveling along, He entered a village; and a woman named Martha welcomed Him into her home. She had a sister called Mary, who was seated at the Lord’s feet, listening to His word. But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone? Then tell her to help me.” But the Lord answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things; but only one thing is necessary, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.”

Episode 194: Trusting God’s Sovereignty in Uncertain Times

Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Pull up a chair, grab your Bible, and join Dot and Cara as they explore the powerful truth of God’s sovereignty. What does it mean for God to be in control, even when we don’t get the outcome we were hoping for? In this conversation, Dot and Cara discuss how we can trust God with the big picture, like elections, leadership, and our personal lives. Wherever you find yourself this week, remember: God is on His throne, and He is in control.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Daniel 4:31-32 (0:14)
The reason Daniel is in Babylon is because Jerusalem has just been conquered (2:50)
As believers, we should make a difference no matter who’s in power (6:40)
The intersection of free will and God’s sovereignty can trip people up (8:30)
We are concerned about candidates, God is concerned about our hearts (10:30)
We put emphasis on outcomes, when a relationship is what God is after (18:00)
No matter who is in power, our God is in control (21:55)
No matter what happens in the election, you can rejoice (25:37)
Jesus is our anchor and he is our only hope (31:15)

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Scripture Verse: Daniel 4:31-32 “While the word was in the king’s mouth, a voice came from heaven, saying, ‘King Nebuchadnezzar, to you it is declared: sovereignty has been removed from you, and you will be driven away from mankind, and your dwelling place will be with the beasts of the field. You will be given grass to eat like cattle, and seven periods of time will pass over you until you recognize that the Most High is ruler over the realm of mankind and bestows it on whomever He wishes.’”

Episode 193: Anchored in Christ, Not a Candidate

Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In a season marked by uncertainty, Dot and Cara refocus today on the truth that Jesus is not up for election—He is King, sovereign over all. Drawing from 2 Chronicles 7:14-15, they discuss the responsibility we have as Christians to both pray and participate in the political process. Dot and Cara remind us that while we seek the best for our country, we ultimately look to God for guidance, peace, and hope beyond any earthly power. Join them in a prayer for our nation and reflect on how, even in times of fear, we can trust in God’s goodness and faithfulness. Grab a cup of coffee and your Bible, and let’s pray for our country together.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 2 Chronicles 7:14-015 (0:14)
Jesus is not up for election this year. He is already King and He is sovereign. (6:05)
Participating in the political process affects the lives our children and grandchildren will lead in this nation. (7:30)
As a Christian, we have the right and the privilege to pray and also vote. (10:30)
Praying for our nation reminds us God is in control and calms our fears. (15:40)
When evil was rampant in the Old Testament, it was when all the people determined they could decide right from wrong in their own hearts. (18:00)
If we are looking to a country or a political party to give us the life we have imagined, we are mistaken. (20:30)
We have rights and responsibilities while we are passing through. (22:00)
Enter into a conversation with Jesus about what’s going on in our world. (24:00)
There’s a lot of fear surrounding the election, that’s why you pray. (25:45)
We don’t know what God is doing, we just know that He’s good. (27:45)
Join Dot and Cara in a prayer for our nation. (30:55)

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Scripture Verse: 2 Chronicles 7:14-15 “and My people who are called by My name humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin and will heal their land. Now My eyes will be open and My ears attentive to the prayer offered in this place.”

Episode 192: Honest Conversations with God

Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Prayer is one of the most powerful ways we can connect with God because it aligns our hearts with His. In this episode, Dot shares practical tips to encourage your prayer life, from setting aside intentional time, to praying Scripture and journaling. She reminds us that prayer is about being honest and real with God, no matter where you are on your journey. Grab your Bible, start by writing down Romans 8:14-16, and join us as we dive into the beauty and power of connecting with God through prayer.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Romans 8:14-16 (0:14)
Prayer is powerful, but it’s not a weapon used to manipulate God (3:36)
Prayer is powerful because we are aligning our will with God’s (6:30)
We pray as children of God, in the Spirit and in the Truth (9:17)
Unanswered prayers provide an opportunity for us to say, ‘I’m going to stick with you, God’ (14:08)
There’s no wrong way to pray if you are a child of God (16:15)
Jesus died so that we could enter into the presence of a holy God and talk with him, it’s sad that we don’t (23:30)
Setting aside specific time to pray can be helpful if you are new to prayer (25:10)
You can pray the prayers we find in the Bible and personalize them (30:14)
Journaling our prayers is a way to remind us of what God has done (32:45)
Praise music is another way to pray. Don’t just listen, take the lyrics and pray them. (35:44)
It’s okay if you don’t know what to say. Start by sitting there and saying hello. (38:00)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 8:14-16 “For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God. For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,”

Episode 191: Trusting God Beyond the Ask

Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0400

What does it mean to have faith when we pray? Today Dot and Cara discuss the difference between faith and belief, reminding us that prayer isn’t about treating God like a vending machine, but about aligning our hearts with His will. Rooted in Mark 11:22-24, this conversation unpacks how prayer can change our perspective, deepen our relationship with God, and help us navigate doubt. Whether you feel strong in your prayer life or are still working through uncertainty, this episode will encourage you to keep pressing in. Grab your Bible and join us for a powerful discussion!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Mark 11:22-24 (0:14)
We can’t take this verse out of context and treat God like a vending machine (4:00)
Faith and belief are not the same thing (5:20)
If you don’t have a right view of God, your prayer life probably isn’t consistent (12:35)
Prayer can change our mindset and align our will to His (14:30)
Prayer shifts our focus and reminds us we are not God (24:30)
Jesus intercedes with the Father on our behalf (32:00)
Jesus prepared for 30 years for a 3 year ministry. We don’t always understand what God is preparing us for. (31:45)
We can be real with our doubt in prayer. (41:00)

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Scripture Verse: Mark 11:22-24 “And Jesus answered saying to them, “Have faith in God. Truly I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and cast into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says is going to happen, it will be granted him. Therefore I say to you, all things for which you pray and ask, believe that you have received them, and they will be granted you.”

Episode 190: What’s the Point of Prayer?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Why should we pray? In this episode, Dot and Cara explore the discipline of prayer as a pathway to intimacy with God. They discuss the common barriers to prayer, why Jesus Himself sought prayer time, and how prayer is as simple as turning every thought into conversation with God. Whether you're a seasoned prayer warrior or struggling to make time to pray, this episode will encourage you to keep the conversation with God going. Grab a cup of coffee and settle in with us as we uncover the purpose of prayer.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Philippians 4:6 (0:14)
Prayer is a conversation between you and God (2:50)
What are some of the reasons we don’t pray? (4:00)
Prayer helps grow our intimacy with God (7:30)
Jesus didn’t have to pray, Jesus wanted to pray (10:27)
Turning all your thoughts into a conversation with God is a pathway to prayer (15:15)
Prayer humbles us and reminds us we are not God (21:00)
Prayer is probably the most important thing a Jesus follower can do (26:00)
Waking early allows intimate prayer time with God before the day begins (29:00)
Prayer is a fruit of obedience (31:45)
We can talk to God about things we can’t say to anyone else (33:15)
Prayer will deepen your relationship with God (37:30)

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Scripture Verse: Philippians 4:6
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”

Episode 189: Finding Rest in the Heart of God

Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Oct 2024 08:46:13 -0400

What does it mean to know the heart of God? In today’s episode, Dot and Cara unpack the beauty of Matthew 11:28-29, where Jesus invites the weary to find rest in Him. They discuss how understanding God’s heart through His Word shapes how we walk through life’s challenges. Ultimately, God doesn’t just act out of love—He is love, and nothing can stop Him from loving you. Grab your Bible, a cup of coffee, and lean into this encouraging conversation.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 11:28-29 (0:14)
In this verses, Jesus is contrasting Himself with the Pharisees (1:45)
God has revealed Himself to us through Jesus (6:50)
The only way you can know the heart of God is through the Word of God (9:53)
How you see God affects how you walk through every situation in life (13:20)
It’s hard for us not to bring God down to our human level (19:25)
We have to know the heart of God in order to trust Him (21:00)
Satan wants to sows seeds of doubt in our hearts about God’s goodness (23:21)
We do things out of love, God does things because He is love (30:24)
You can’t keep God from loving you, because that’s who He is (31:20)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 11:28-29 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

Episode 188: Our True Identity in Christ

Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0400

What does it really mean to be a child of God? Dot and Cara explore this profound truth through Galatians 2:20, reflecting on the freedom it brings from shame over our past and fear of the future. Join us as we move from head knowledge to a deeper, heart-level understanding of living in this truth. Bring your Bible and coffee, and settle in for a conversation that could shift how you see yourself in Christ.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Galatians 2:20 (0:14)
This verse brought Dot encouragement and freedom in a dark season (1:33)
Dot she questioned her identity as a young mom (5:07)
Our identity is that we are children of God (6:36)
There’s a difference between head knowledge and emotional understanding (11:25)
From understanding we are children of God, we can move out into our calling (14:30)
We are not defined by our past (15:05)
People with low self-image are actually struggling with pride (25:12)
When we begin to understand who God is, saying ‘I am a child of God’ carries weight (29:30)
There’s a difference between self-knowledge and self-acceptance (36:14)

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Scripture Verse: Galatians 2:20 “I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me.”

Episode 187: Never Letting Go

Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Jacob’s life takes a dramatic turn when he wrestles with God in Genesis 32:24-28. In this episode, Dot and Cara unpack this transformative moment, reflecting on God’s ability to use even the most broken people for His purposes. Together, they reflect on how Jacob’s tenacity in never letting go, even in dark places, is a quality we can all learn from. Grab your Bible, a cup of coffee, and lean into the conversation with us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 32:24-28 (0:14)
Cara struggled to understand God’s choice of Jacob because of his manipulative nature (2:16)
Dot is encouraged that God can use someone as broken as Jacob (7:08)
One of Jacob’s great redeeming qualities is that he never “lets go” (8:53)
We’ve all had to wrestle with God at some point (17:46)
Jacob is in a dark place when he wrestles with God (20:45)
Jacob had a limp as a physical reminder of his wrestling with God (24:03)
What’s the quality or characteristic God has given you that He wants you to use for him? (26:16)
God changes lives. He can make your weaknesses into something new and use you for His glory. (31:10)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 32:24-28

Then Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. When he saw that he had not prevailed against him, he touched the socket of his thigh; so the socket of Jacob’s thigh was dislocated while he wrestled with him. Then he said, “Let me go, for the dawn is breaking.” But he said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” So he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” He said, “Your name shall no longer be Jacob, but Israel; for you have striven with God and with men and have prevailed.”

Episode 186: Jesus Changes Everything

Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Paul was fiercely committed to his beliefs, even when he was wrong. In this episode, Dot and Cara explore how God transformed Paul’s passion on the road to Damascus and used him in unexpected ways. From his boldness in Romans to his tenderness in 2 Timothy, Paul’s life is a powerful example of living on mission. Settle in with a cup of coffee and join us as we look at the life of Paul!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Philippians 3:3-8 (0:14)
Paul was a go-getter who was determined to stamp out Christianity (2:26)
That same passion turned toward making disciples once he became a believer (9:00)
We see through Paul’s writings how he matures and is humbled (12:30)
Peter was called to spread Gospel to the Jews, Paul was called to the Gentiles (17:45)
Why Cara loves Paul’s writing in the book of 2 Timothy (24:47)
Paul exemplifies the life of a godly man (27:20)
Paul never lost sight of his purpose (32:40)

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Scripture Verse: Philippians 3:3-6 (NASB)

“For we are the true circumcision, who worship in the Spirit of God and glory in Christ Jesus and put no confidence in the flesh, although I myself might have confidence even in the flesh. If anyone else has a mind to put confidence in the flesh, I far more: circumcised the eighth day, of the nation of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; as to the Law, a Pharisee; as to zeal, a persecutor of the church; as to the righteousness which is in the Law, found blameless. But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ. More than that, I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ.”

Episode 185: Keeping the Faith After Failure

Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today we’re looking at the life of Peter, one of Jesus' closest disciples. Dot shares why Peter’s impulsive nature is endearing to her, while Cara shares why he exasperates her! As they explore Peter's relationship with Jesus, we’re reminded that, regardless of our past or present sins, Jesus welcomes us with open arms. So grab your Bible, turn to Luke 5, and join us as we spend some time with Peter.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 5:1-6 (0:15)
Who do you want to hear us talk about next? (1:37)
Dot identifies with Peter more than any other disciple (2:01)
Peter often speaks without thinking (5:25)
Yes, Peter denied Christ, but he also died for him (8:20)
Peter had such an intimate relationship with Jesus that he felt completely safe around him (14:57)
Regardless of our sin, Jesus can use us to further His Kingdom (19:57)
No matter our past or present sin, Jesus always wants us to run to Him (23:34)
God doesn’t expect us to be perfect, but He does want us to be honest (29:32)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 5:1-6
Now it came about that while the multitude were pressing around Him and listening to the word of God, He was standing by the lake of Gennesaret; and He saw two boats lying at the edge of the lake; but the fishermen had gotten out of them, and were washing their nets. And He got into one of the boats, which was Simon’s, and asked him to put out a little way from the land. And He sat down and began teaching the multitudes from the boat. And when He had finished speaking, He said to Simon, “Put out into the deep water and let down your nets for a catch.” And Simon answered and said, “Master, we worked hard all night and caught nothing, but at Your bidding I will let down the nets.” And when they had done this, they enclosed a great quantity of fish; and their nets began to break.

Episode 184: Rescued and Redeemed

Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Join us as we dive into the story of Mary Magdalene, one of Jesus' closest disciples. We’ll explore her transformation from a woman healed of seven demons to a devoted follower who stood by Jesus in his darkest moments, including the crucifixion and resurrection. As we reflect on her intimate relationship with Jesus, we'll consider what it means to remember and hold on to the ways Jesus has rescued us. Grab your Bible, a journal, and a cup of coffee, and let's journey together through her remarkable story.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 8:1-2 (0:14)
Mary was from Magdalene, a small town not far from the Sea of Galilee (1:45)
Which Mary are we talking about today? (2:45)
We can learn gratitude from Mary (5:45)
Scholars believe this Mary anointed Jesus’ feet with perfume in Luke 7 (8:33)
Mary never forgot what Jesus rescued her from (10:57)
When Mary meets Jesus after his resurrection, we learn that things are going to be different now (13:15)
Jesus is our friend, but as our Savior, that means life looks different. We have His power. (19:50)
We can all desire to have a posture of gratitude like Mary for the way that Christ rescued us. (22:32)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 8:1-2 (NASB 1977)

And it came about soon afterwards, that He began going about from one city and village to another, proclaiming and preaching the kingdom of God; and the twelve were with Him, and also some women who had been healed of evil spirits and sicknesses: Mary also was called Magdalene, from whom seven demons had gone out.

Episode 183: A Voice in the Wilderness

Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we are talking about one of the New Testament’s most unique characters: John the Baptist. Dot and Cara discuss the unusual circumstances of his birth, the confidence he had to be exactly who God called him to be, and his faithfulness in carrying out that calling, even when it cost him his life. We hope this conversation inspires you to live confidently, secure in your place in God’s kingdom. Grab a cup of coffee and your Bible and learn with us from John the Baptist today.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 3:1-6 (0:14)
Everything about John was unusual from Day One (3:07)
John knew he was not the Messiah, but he also knew God was going to use him (10:19)
Like John, we can be confident in our unique role in God’s story (14:57)
John was faithful to what God called him to do (22:16)
John wasn’t threatened by Jesus’ popularity or His followers (26:25)
While in prison, John sought reassurance from Jesus (28:07)
When Jesus came into his ministry in a big way, John was in prison and didn’t get to see most of it (36:28)
John modeled taking his doubts and fears to Jesus (38:33)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 3:1-6
Now in those days John the Baptist came, preaching in the wilderness of Judea, saying, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” For this is the one referred to by Isaiah the prophet, saying,

“THE VOICE OF ONE CRYING IN THE WILDERNESS,
‘MAKE READY THE WAY OF THE LORD,
MAKE HIS PATHS STRAIGHT!’”

Now John himself had a garment of camel’s hair, and a leather belt about his waist; and his food was locusts and wild honey. Then Jerusalem was going out to him, and all Judea, and all the district around the Jordan; and they were being baptized by him in the Jordan River, as they confessed their sins.

Episode 182: When God Whispers

Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we explore the story of Elijah — a man of great faith who, despite witnessing God's power, found himself overwhelmed by fear and doubt. Dot and Cara discuss how God met Elijah in his lowest moment, offering a gentle reminder of His presence in both the miraculous and in the quiet whispers. Pull up a chair and lean in with us as we learn from Elijah today.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Kings 1:9-10 (0:14)
God wants to do amazing things in our lives too (3:48)
Elijah was born into a dark time in Israel’s history (5:10)
If we don’t continually protect our minds when we are surrounded by darkness, we too can end up “in the cave” like Elijah (9:00)
Elijah got a little prideful (13:00)
We can get caught waiting on the big miracle and ignore all the ways God meets us “in the cave” (21:00)
God leans into us (26:53)
In the cave we can start to believe we are alone (32:03)
How Cara practices being still and being in the presence of God (36:02)

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Scripture Verse: 1 Kings 19:9-10
And he came there to a cave, and lodged there; and behold, the word of the LORD came to him, and He said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” And he said, “I have been very zealous for the LORD, the God of hosts; for the sons of Israel have forsaken Thy covenant, torn down the altars and killed the prophets with the sword. And I alone am left; and they seek my life, to take it away.”

Episode 181: Understanding True Repentance

Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0400

We all want to be people after God’s own heart like David. Today, Dot and Cara explore how David’s quickness to recognize and address his sins set an example for us in our own relationship with God. Although he is known as shepherd, warrior, and king, David’s life was characterized by humility, confession, and repentance. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us as we learn from David about having an intimate fellowship with our heavenly Father.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Psalm 61:1-4 (0:14)
Let’s take a look at David’s backstory (4:45)
David’s willingness to repent is a great example of true repentance (8:00)
We get stuck in sin patterns because we don’t understand true repentance (13:10)
We aren’t really concerned about how our sin separates us from God (18:34)
David knew his place, he knew he wasn’t The King (27:00)
David’s heart was what was truly attractive about David (28:00)
Sin in us creates a breech in intimacy and fellowship with God (32:30)
Ask God, is there anything coming between us? (36:14)

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Scripture Verse: Psalm 61:104

Hear my cry, O God;
listen to my prayer.

From the ends of the earth I call to you,
I call as my heart grows faint;
lead me to the rock that is higher than I.
For you have been my refuge,
a strong tower against the foe.

I long to dwell in your tent forever
and take refuge in the shelter of your wings.

Episode 180: From Missteps to Miracles in the Life of Moses

Dot Bowen — Wed, 31 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today we’re looking at the unique role Moses played in the deliverance of Israel. From birth, God placed a call on his life to rescue the Hebrew people, but Moses faced challenges and missteps in his early efforts. Cara and Dot discuss the transformation that occurred after Moses' encounter with God at the burning bush and the deep intimacy with God that followed. Settle in with your Bible and your coffee as we explore what Moses’ journey teaches us about waiting on God's timing and pursuing intimacy with Him.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Exodus 2:11-15 (0:14)
Cara has a special place in her heart for Moses (2:10)
Our efforts to help or rescue others don’t always go the way we hope they will (8:31)
God placed the desire to protect and help the Hebrews on Moses’ heart (11:16)
How do we know when to step in and when to refrain from helping others? (13:35)
We have to wait until we are invited into other peoples’ lives (20:48)
When Moses met God in the burning bush, he left a changed man (23:54)
Day by day Moses built a relationship with God and waited on His lead (31:40)
Moses experienced a lot of wonders, but it all came from an intimate relationship with the Lord. That’s why he got to experience all that he did. (32:23)

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Scripture Verse: Exodus 2:11-15
Now it came about in those days, when Moses had grown up, that he went out to his brethren and looked on their hard labors; and he saw an Egyptian beating a Hebrew, one of his brethren. So he looked this way and that, and when he saw there was no one around, he struck down the Egyptian and hid him in the sand. And he went out the next day, and behold, two Hebrews were fighting with each other; and he said to the offender, “Why are you striking your companion?” But he said, “Who made you a prince or a judge over us? Are you intending to kill me, as you killed the Egyptian?” Then Moses was afraid, and said, “Surely the matter has become known.”

When Pharaoh heard of this matter, he tried to kill Moses. But Moses fled from the presence of Pharaoh and settled in the land of Midian; and he sat down by a well.

Episode 179: Abraham’s Faith Journey

Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Join us this week as we take a look at the faith journey of Abraham. From God’s initial call to move through decades of ups and downs in Abraham’s obedience, we unpack how Abraham trusted God, even though his faith was far from perfect. Grab your coffee and discover the power of a little faith in a big God as we discuss Abraham’s pursuit of obedience.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 15:1-6 (0:15)
Check out our YouTube channel to watch the show (1:45)
When God calls Abram, we’re already in the middle of his life story (5:23)
Abram’s instantaneous obedience is amazing to think about (9:25)
How did Abram have so much faith in God? (13:58)
We have so much knowledge today and the ability to be so self-sufficient, we find it harder to trust God (16:32)
The story of Ishmael reminds us that even if we mess up and “get it wrong” God will still accomplish His purposes through us (20:56)
Abraham was not perfect, but he kept acting in faith (23:25)
Abraham “stayed in the room” with God through all of his years of doubting and waiting (26:00)
Ask yourself today: “God, what are you asking me to do? I’m just a normal person with a little bit of faith, trusting in a big God.” (32:50)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 15:1-6

After this, the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision:
“Do not be afraid, Abram.
I am your shield,
your very great reward.”
But Abram said, “Sovereign Lord, what can you give me since I remain childless and the one who will inherit[c] my estate is Eliezer of Damascus?” And Abram said, “You have given me no children; so a servant in my household will be my heir.”

Then the word of the Lord came to him: “This man will not be your heir, but a son who is your own flesh and blood will be your heir.” He took him outside and said, “Look up at the sky and count the stars—if indeed you can count them.” Then he said to him, “So shall your offspring be.”

Abram believed the Lord, and he credited it to him as righteousness.

Episode 178: I am free, free indeed. (Pt 2)

Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0400

What does living out our freedom in Christ look like day-to-day? Join Dot and Cara as they continue last week’s thought-provoking discussion on true freedom for Christ followers. This week, we look at John 8:31-36 to explore how we can walk in the freedom given to us through Christ. Dot and Cara challenge us to embrace and experience this freedom daily, guided by the Holy Spirit. Grab your coffee and join us for another enlightening episode!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 8:31-36 (0:14)
We are continuing our conversation from last week about freedom (2:00)
What does living out our freedom in Christ look like day-to-day? (5:10)
If you are discontent, there is probably something out of balance in your life, which means you’re heading toward bondage (7:25)
The Holy Spirit prompts us when we are moving toward enslavement (9:12)
Dot challenges us to memorize Romans 6 (13:14)
We don’t need to “get free” we need to walk in the freedom we have been given through Christ (14:30)
Jesus said He came to set us free! (17:23)
If it’s keeping you from living the life God wants you to live, you need to rethink it. (19:26)

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Scripture Verse: John 8:31-36
“So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” They answered him, “We are offspring of Abraham and have never been enslaved to anyone. How is it that you say, ‘You will become free’?”

Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who practices sin is a slave to sin. The slave does not remain in the house forever; the son remains forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”

Episode 177: I am free, free indeed. (Pt 1)

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0400

What does freedom truly mean for Christ followers? Today Dot and Cara look to Exodus 5:1-3 to discover why the Israelites were set free from enslavement under Egypt. As we celebrate Independence Day this week in America, Dot and Cara dive into a 2-part series challenging our notions of what true freedom looks like. Grab a cup of coffee and join us for a thought-provoking chat- which will be continued next week.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Exodus 5:1-3 (0:15)
Happy Fourth of July! (1:45)
Freedom is often misunderstood (4:36)
In Exodus, the Israelites are set free in order to worship (7:18)
Paul talks about being enslaved to Christ (8:36)
We often think our freedom is based on outward circumstances, but in truth it comes from within (10:36)
We sacrifice personal freedom out of love for others in many relationships (12:50)
You’re going to serve something or someone, so who will it be? (20:09)
Anything that enslaves robs us of who we truly are when we are free in Christ (23:33)

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Scripture Verse: Exodus 5:1-3

“Afterward Moses and Aaron went and said to Pharaoh, “Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel, ‘Let my people go, that they may hold a feast to me in the wilderness.’” But Pharaoh said, “Who is the Lord, that I should obey his voice and let Israel go? I do not know the Lord, and moreover, I will not let Israel go.” Then they said, “The God of the Hebrews has met with us. Please let us go a three days' journey into the wilderness that we may sacrifice to the Lord our God, lest he fall upon us with pestilence or with the sword.”

Episode 176: How to Find True Intimacy with Jesus

Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Dot and Cara explore Hebrews 12:1-2, discussing how the Enemy aims to distract us from keeping our eyes on Jesus. They share how even good things can be distractions and how the pursuit of knowledge can hinder our ability to rest in the Lord. They also address the difficulty of saying ‘no’ and how every ‘yes’ means a ‘no’ to something else. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us as we pursue intimacy with God in today’s discussion!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Hebrews 12:1-2 (0:15)
The enemy wants to keep our eyes focused on anything other than Jesus and His will for my life (3:33)
Satan even tempts us with good things (5:04)
The pursuit of knowledge is a distraction to resting in the Lord (9:20)
We don’t always need to know ‘why,’ instead, we can ask God, ‘what now?’ (11:34)
Not being able to say ‘no’ to things is another common distraction (13:02)
God has called each of us for a purpose (15:33)
Every time you say ‘yes,’ you are also saying ‘no’ to something else (17:31)
Satan desires to keep up from having intimacy with God (25:54)

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Scripture Verse: Hebrews 12:1-2 (NASB)
“Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, ]fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Episode 175: Embracing God as Our Good Father

Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In today’s episode, Dot and Cara discuss the profound and sometimes complex concept of God as our Good Father. Reflecting on Father's Day, they explore how our personal experiences with our earthly fathers can shape our perception of God as our Heavenly Father. They remind us not to project human imperfections onto God, and instead, embrace the truth of His unwavering goodness and love, guided by the Holy Spirit. Grab a cup of coffee and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 6:7-9 (0:14)
Today we’re talking about how we can view God as a good father, regardless of our relationship with our earthly father (1:06)
The Holy Spirit helps us know God as a good father (3:08)
In Matthew 6, Jesus chooses an unusual word, “Abba” to refer to God (5:53)
Jesus wants us to understand the intimate relationship we can have with God (11:11)
The ancient conception of God was that He was untouchable and distant (17:30)
God doesn’t always give us what we ask for because it isn’t always good for us (22:22)
God is the kind of father who is going to “stay in the room” with us (26:40)
We have to be careful not to project our own image of a father onto God (31:32)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 6:7-9 (NIV)

“But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

“This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name…”

Episode 174: Unlocking the Power of Forgiveness - Part 3

Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara dive into the practical aspects of forgiveness, grounded in Ephesians 3:16-20. They discuss how forgiveness is an act of obedience to God and not a one-size-fits-all process. Cara shares a personal prayer, emphasizing the importance of praying for a spirit of forgiveness early and often. They also remind listeners that forgiving doesn’t mean condoning wrongs and that forgiveness, like a muscle, gets easier with practice. Pull up a chair and join them for this heartfelt discussion.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Ephesians 3:16-20 (0:14)
Today we’re talking about the practical, how-to side of forgiveness (2:08)
Forgiveness is done out of obedience to God and for His glory (5:21)
There’s not a one size fits all process for forgiveness (7:04)
Cara’s prayer for forgiveness format from “Be Transformed” by John Robin Murphy (see below) (9:40)
Pray for a spirit of forgiveness early and often (12:03)
Forgiving does not mean what happened was not wrong (18:03)
Ask the Lord for wisdom for your situation (20:21)
We have to deal with spiritual issues with spiritual weapons (27:41)
Like exercising a muscle, forgiveness gets easier with practice and time (31:21)

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Scripture Verse: Ephesians 3:16-20 (NIV)

“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.”

Cara’s Prayer from the book “Be Transformed” by John Robin Murphy:

Heavenly Father, I forgive [Name]. I forgive [him or her] for: [list everything you can think of that caused the offense and how you suffered as a result of the behavior.] I ask that You forgive [name] as well. Father, I ask that I would lose sight of the offense, and if I am ever reminded of it, that I will dismiss that memory as an old, resolved conflict. Father I ask for the strength to simply forget the incident and move on with rebuilding the relationship as You lead me to do so.

Father, please show me how to love [Name} the way You do. Father, show me how to turn my offense into concern for [Name’s] well-being. Father, I am moved to forgive [him or her] because I desire to be obedient to You and desire for You to be glorified. Father, I ask You to forgive me for not forgiving [Name] before now and remove from my heart any consequence or torment from not forgiving them in the past.

Father, I confess that I will need Your help to live out this forgiveness and I ask You to give me strength to live true to this forgiveness. Father, please bless [Name’s] life in every way and heal [Name] of any emotional or physical wounds that cause [Name] suffering. (If you are not sure of the person’s salvation in Christ): Lord, I also pray for [Name’s ] salvation and ask that you would write [Name’s] name in the Book of Life and compel [Name] to seek Your salvation.

I pray this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

Episode 173: Unlocking the Power of Forgiveness - Part 2

Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In Part 2 of our forgiveness series, Cara and Dot explore the power of forgiveness by looking at Matthew 18:22-23. They discuss how anger and entitlement signal a lack of forgiveness and share ways to check your heart. Don’t miss Dot's compelling story at the end of the show highlighting the beauty of forgiveness. Grab your Bible and journal and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 18:22-23 (0:14)
Recap of last week’s episode (2:28)
Anger and a sense of entitlement are symptoms of a lack of forgiveness (9:29)
How can you check your heart to know if you’ve truly forgiven? (13:36)
Anger subtly turns into bitterness if left unchecked (17:00)
Demanding something from someone who does not see it is a symptom of unforgiveness (21:56)
More symptoms of a lack of forgiveness (26:42)
Forgiveness brings freedom (33:20)
Dot shares a family story involving her parents’ deep forgiveness (39:02)
God says forgive because He has a better plan for your life (45:58)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 18:22-23 (NIV)

Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.”

Episode 172: Unlocking the Power of Forgiveness Part 1

Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 May 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today, Cara and Dot are kicking off a 3-part series on forgiveness. In this first conversation, they discuss the cost of forgiveness, the release it brings, and why it's a command for Christ followers. They explain why understanding forgiveness is crucial for followers of Jesus, as our salvation hinges on the fact that we have been forgiven. Grab a cup of coffee and join us as we dig into forgiveness, which has the power to change your life!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Luke 7:41-50 (0:14)
Forgiveness has the power to change your life (3:58)
As a follower of Jesus, you have to understand forgiveness because our salvation rests on the idea that we have been forgiven (5:45)
Forgiveness is costly and it is commanded for Christ followers (7:46)
It is the release of the offender by the offended party (11:48)
We can’t forgive others until we understand how much we’ve been forgiven (16:25)
Being forgiven doesn’t mean you have no consequences (19:20)
Forgiveness requires one person, relationship requires two (25:50)
You have no excuse not to forgive (33:26)
Forgiveness is a spiritual journey that requires the aid of the Spirit of God (39:00)

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Scripture Verse: Luke 7:41-50 (NIV)

“Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”

Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.”

“You have judged correctly,” Jesus said.

Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”

Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”

The other guests began to say among themselves, “Who is this who even forgives sins?”

Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”

Episode 171: Trusting God’s Plan in Difficult Seasons

Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 May 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Dot and Cara explore how God uses our circumstances to conform us to the image of Jesus. They discuss the instinct to run from pain and how trials reveal areas where we are not yet Christlike. They highlight the importance of being honest with God, diligently applying Scripture, and trusting that God never wastes time or our experiences. When we face difficult seasons, we can rest in the truth that God works all things together for His glory and our good. Pull up a chair and join us for this heartfelt conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Romans 8: 28-30 (0:14)
When pain comes, our first reaction is to run (1:58)
God’s purpose is to conform us to the image of Jesus, through all our circumstances (6:12)
Our circumstances reveal the areas of our lives where we are not yet Christlike (8:01)
God uses seasons of our lives to prepare us for what He is going to do (15:25)
Resting and trusting the Lord is “enough” - we don’t have to strive (20:18)
How can God use a season of depression? (22:42)
Be honest with God while you wait (27:14)
Search Scripture for Truth and be diligent to apply it daily (30:11)
God doesn’t waste time and He doesn’t waste circumstances (33:53)

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Scripture Verse: Romans 8: 28-30 (NIV)

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.”

Episode 170: The Role of Fear in a Faithful Life

Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 May 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today Dot and Cara unpack a seeming contradiction: why are we told not to fear over and over in Scripture, but then commanded to “Fear the Lord”? By looking at the heart of what Jesus meant in Matthew 10:28, Dot explains the difference between these instructions and offers the beautiful encouragement that increasing our fear of the Lord will actually decrease our fear of man and of our circumstances. Settle in with a cup of coffee and join us for this quick conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Matthew 10:28 (0:14)
Throughout Scripture, we are told not to fear over and over, but we are told to fear the Lord - how is that different? (2:01)
“Fear of the Lord” means to reverence God (3:04)
Fear is the opposite of peace - at its root is worry in our lives (4:10)
Jesus instructs us not to be afraid of man (5:05)
“Fear of the Lord” means an awareness of the holiness and the power of God (7:00)
As we become more aware (in awe) of our Father in heaven, we will lose our fear of anything else (11:00)

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Scripture Verse: Matthew 10:28

“And do not fear those who kill the body, but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”

Episode 169: Do Angels have wings?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 May 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today we’re exploring the role of angels in Scripture, prompted by the question: do all angels have wings? We walk through the created purpose of angels and share examples of the different forms they take at different times throughout the Bible. Cara and Dot also reflect on the key difference between angels and humans. Grab a cup of coffee and join us for this conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Hebrews 1:14 (0:14)
Do all angels have wings? What do they look like? (1:31)
Angels are spiritual creatures, but they can take on physical form (2:51)
Culture tends to depict angels as peaceful, sweet beings (5:15)
Angels will have whatever form God tells them to have (9:45)
Angels are lower in rank than humans, God sent Jesus to die and redeem humans (12:45)

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Scripture Verse: Hebrews 1:14

“Are not all angels ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation?"

Episode 168: If God gets jealous, why can’t I?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 May 2024 03:00:00 -0400

We’re back with another question from a listener’s child: why does God describe Himself as a jealous God? Isn’t jealousy bad? In this quick Q&A, Dot and Cara walk through the difference between holy intent and selfish motivation together and Dot shares encouragement that we don’t have to know all the answers, just the One who does. Pour yourself a warm drink and join us for this conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Exodus 20:5 (0:13)
Why does God describe himself as a jealous God? Isn’t jealousy bad? (1:01)
Our jealousy is usually because we think we are lacking something (3:04)
God is jealous for our attention, because it’s what is best for us (4:45)
God knows that jealousy will destroy us (7:12)
How do you navigate these kinds of questions with a child? (9:55)
God’s okay with your questions (11:22)

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Scripture Verse: Exodus 6
“You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me.”

Episode 167: The Mystery of Good and Evil

Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0400

We’re tackling a fantastic question from a listener’s kid in today’s mini-episode: why did God create Satan? In this conversation Cara and Dot unpack the question behind the question and dive into good vs. evil, the angelic world, and true freedom. Pull up a chair and your cup of coffee and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Jude verse 6 (0:13)
Why did God create Satan? (2:34)
God created Satan, but God did not create evil (3:19)
Between creation and Gen. 3 there must have been a rebellion in the angelic world (4:30)
The possibility to choose evil is always present (5:48)
God created a world where the ability to experience good and evil existed (7:33)
To truly be able to experience good, you must be aware of what is not good- what is evil (10:18)
Ultimately, we are responsible for our choices (13:29)

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Scripture Verse: Jude 6

“And the angels who did not keep their positions of authority but abandoned their proper dwelling—these he has kept in darkness, bound with everlasting chains for judgment on the great Day.”

Episode 166: Crisis of Faith — Dot & Cara’s Story Part 2

Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Grab the tissues - today we’re back with Cara's journey towards redemption in the second part of our story. Cara shares the moment when she finally got honest with God and discovered the true meaning of grace. This episode is a testament to God’s unwavering pursuit of our hearts and the power of prayer. Settle in with a cup of coffee and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Micah 7: 7-8 (0:13)
After you surrender, performance comes from a place of love (5:50)
Cara’s pattern of rebellion, then shame (9:00)
Cara is called out on her double life and pushed toward confession (11:43)
Dot’s perspective and prayers during this season (12:47)
The power of a mom’s prayers for her children (15:45)
Dot’s experience of learning when to speak, when to step in, and when to pray (17:59)
Cara finally gets honest with the Lord (22:36)
Pouring out her heart allowed light and the Lord to come in (26:09)
Giving Cara over to God and focusing on trusting the Lord instead (27:58)
Cara no longer carries the weight of her sin, she is free because of Jesus (29:59)
What Micah 7:7-8 means to Cara (31:49)
God wants good for Cara even more than Dot does (39:45)

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Scripture Verse: Micah 7:7-8

“But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me. Do not gloat over me, my enemy! Though I have fallen, I will rise. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord will be my light.”

Episode 165: Crisis of Faith — Dot & Cara’s Story Part 1

Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Apr 2024 04:11:29 -0400

This episode is unlike anything we’ve ever talked about before! Today we’re pulling back the curtain on our mother-daughter relationship. In this tender conversation we talk about the lies the enemy whispered to Cara during her high school years and how that set her up for the choices she made in college. Don’t miss next week when we share the second half of our story- it truly was written by God. We are sharing in the hope that you will be encouraged, so pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 3:1-6 (0:15)
Dot and Cara have not always had this intimate relationship (3:10)
Dot’s unlikely journey to her pregnancy with Cara (7:05)
Cara shares some of her insecurities growing up (13:30)
Dot was parenting older children alongside young Cara, as well as children with very different personalities (20:40)
The enemy always wants to draw us away from God (22:55)
During the high school years, Cara was focused on her outward “performance” as a good Christian girl- not her heart (25:30)
Dot was aware of the hurt, but unaware what the hurt would produce a few years down the road (35:16)
God gave Adam and Eve a rule, and then He walked away (38:20)
Cara went off to college with an unhealthy view of who God is (39:10)

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Scripture Verse: Genesis 3:1-6

“Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made.

He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’” “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

Episode 164: Finding Forgiveness

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400

Today we’re looking at a beautiful story John records which takes place between Peter and Jesus after the Resurrection. The tenderness of Jesus during this pivotal moment leads to true restoration in Peter’s life and afterwards we see a different Peter in the New Testament. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 21: 5-10 (0:18)
Peter’s character throughout the Gospels (5:15)
Peter’s denial of Jesus (10:00)
The significance of Jesus calling them ‘Children’ (12:55)
No matter what we’ve done, turning to Jesus is our best option (18:49)
Jesus tells Peter not to compare himself to John (22:35)
Next week we’re talking about Cara and Dot’s relationship (31:30)

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Scripture Verse: John 21:5-10

So Jesus said to them, “Children, you do not have any fish, do you?” They answered Him, “No.” And He said to them, “Cast the net on the right-hand side of the boat and you will find a catch.” So they cast, and then they were not able to haul it in because of the great number of fish. Therefore that disciple whom Jesus loved *said to Peter, “It is the Lord.” So when Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put his outer garment on (for he was stripped for work), and threw himself into the sea. But the other disciples came in the little boat, for they were not far from the land, but about one hundred yards away, dragging the net full of fish.

So when they got out on the land, they saw a charcoal fire already laid and fish placed on it, and bread. Jesus *said to them, “Bring some of the fish which you have now caught.”

Episode 163: The Power of God’s Love

Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Today we are wrapping up our 3 part Easter mini-series by talking about the morning Mary met the resurrected Jesus outside of the tomb. Cara and Dot focus on the intimacy of this encounter and how it shows the depth of Jesus’ love, not only for Mary but for each one of us. God longs to have an intimate relationship with you! So grab your Bible and a cup of coffee and join us today.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 20: 11-16 (0:13)
What did Jesus mean by saying, “it is finished”? (3:57)
Why didn’t Mary recognize Jesus at first? (6:35)
The power and intimacy of being called by name (10:58)
We can have intimacy (like Moses had) with God (15:15)
Tears and pain can keep us from seeing God (18:00)
Everything in the Bible leads up to this moment (26:13)
Satan comes after us because he can’t get to Jesus (28:45)
Jesus did it all for you (33:04)

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Scripture Verse:
“Now Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb and saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus’ body had been, one at the head and the other at the foot. They asked her, “Woman, why are you crying?” “They have taken my Lord away,” she said, “and I don’t know where they have put him.” At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not realize that it was Jesus. He asked her, “Woman, why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?” Thinking he was the gardener, she said, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.” Jesus said to her, “Mary.” She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, “Raboni!” (which means “Teacher”). John 20:11-16

Episode 162: Hope in the In-Between

Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0400

We’re back with the second episode in our 3 part mini-series leading up to Easter. Today we’re looking at a somewhat unusual verse as we talk about what Jesus may have been doing on the Saturday after his death. No matter what Jesus was doing on that day, we can know for sure that He was at work for our good. If you are sitting in the “in-between” in your life right now, this conversation is sure to encourage you, so grab your Bible and a journal and join us.

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down 1 Peter 3:18-20 (0:13)
What happened after Jesus gave up his life? (4:04)
There’s an implication that Jesus visited Hades (6:50)
God always gives people second chances (12:14)
Saturday gives us hope that He is always at work for us (15:30)
Most believers are sitting in the waiting, in the in-between right now (18:48)
Something always has to die before it can be resurrected/born anew (27:24)
Bring it to Him, let Him do the “Saturday” work in your life (32:38)

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Scripture Verse:
“For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits- to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In it only a few people, eight in all, were saved through water,” 1 Peter 3:18-20

Episode 161: Alone and Forsaken

Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0400

Kick off a 3 part mini-series leading up to Easter with us! In today’s episode, Dot and Cara explore Good Friday, specifically the moment Jesus cried out, “Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachthani?” as he hung on the Cross. They discuss the true loneliness Jesus experienced on the Cross, and reflect on the fact that we are never alone as children of God. Grab your Bible and a journal and join the conversation!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down Mark 15:33-34 (0:12)
Like the disciples, we can allow our emotions to override truth (12:30)
There is no such thing as a lonely child of God (16:30)
Jesus was forsaken, but we never will be (20:41)
Obedience to God means we will experience suffering in this life (24:25)
Am I caught believing an emotional lie that contradicts Scripture? (29:26)
On Good Friday, Jesus chose you (36:02)

Resources:

Catch up on Episode 159: Why Does the Old Testament Still Matter? to understand why Jesus’ sacrifice was necessary.

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Scripture Verse:
"When the sixth hour came, darkness fell over the whole land until the ninth hour. At the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, 'Eloi, Eloi, lema sabaktanei?' which is translated, 'My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?’” Mark 15:33-34

Episode 160: What Would Jesus Pray?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Have you ever wondered what was on Jesus's heart before He went to the cross? And what does the name "High Priestly Prayer" mean? Dot and Cara explore these questions and more as we begin counting down the days to Easter. Discover the depth of John 17 and the beautiful connection Jesus shared with the Father through prayer. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

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Episode recap:

Start by writing down John 17: 9-11 (0:11)
When you don't feel like you’re enough, go to John 17 (2:34)
Jesus prayed for his disciples because He loved them (9:41)
Jesus is concerned about how you are doing in this world (14:22)
Sometimes God doesn’t take a situation away, rather He is with us through it (17:43)
You're not forgotten. You are on the mind of Jesus. (25:48)

Resources:
Listen to last week’s episode: Episode 159: Why Does the Old Testament Still Matter? for more on the role of the High Priest.

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Episode 159: Why Does the Old Testament Still Matter?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0500

Now that Jesus has died on the cross for our sins, why should we care about the laws in the Old Testament? In this episode, Cara asks Dot a few of her burning questions about the Old Testament, the meaning of a sacrifice, and more. They explain how Jesus built upon the message of the Old Testament and take time to reflect on just how much He did for us. Grab your Bible and journal and join us!

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Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 5:17-19 (0:12)
Why does the Old Testament still matter today? (1:28)
There’s nothing we can do to make ourselves holy or clean (8:12)
God takes holiness so seriously that He gave up His son (12:45)
The Old Testament reminds us just how much Jesus did for us (17:03)
Why did God need a sacrifice? (21:56)
No one can love us like Jesus does (29:36)

Resources:

“The Cross of Christ” by John Stott

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Episode 158: Is Fear Unbelief?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Is it wrong to feel afraid when we know we should be trusting God? In this episode, Dot and Cara answer a listener's question about fear and unbelief. They remind us that we can trust God to give us everything we need, and they share some words of encouragement for people who find themselves feeling afraid of the future. Pour yourself a cup of tea or coffee and join in on the conversation!

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Start by writing down Luke 12:22-32 (0:12)
Is fear unbelief? (1:42)
So often our fear comes from wanting to be in control (4:39)
God will make sure we have what we need (9:21)
Sometimes fear is rooted in good things, but it still means we’re not trusting God (12:02)
God understands our fear, but he doesn't want us to dwell on it (16:45)
You don’t have the grace, power, or strength to walk through a day God has not asked you to live (19:01)
Fear itself isn’t a sin, it’s about how you respond to it (23:05)

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Episode 157: How Do You Know Which Path to Take?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Life is full of decisions, and it can sometimes feel impossible to know if you’re making the right one. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about how we can know which path God wants us to take. They explain how the Holy Spirit can guide us to truth and encourage us to look to Scripture when we have questions about what God’s will might be. Grab your Bible and journal and join us!

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Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 16:13-15 (0:13)
The Holy Spirit’s job is to guide us into truth and show us God’s will (1:20)
How do we discern which path God wants us to take? (3:44)
The Holy Spirit helps us make sense of Scripture (5:43)
What do you do when you’re confused by something in the Bible? (9:17)
It’s not our job to find the path, just to trust God to show it to us (16:29)
If you want to learn the will of God, start reading! (18:51)
When you’re feeling unsure, take a pause and give God time to speak (21:26)
The Holy Spirit can speak in many ways (24:54)

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Episode 156: How to Hear God’s Voice

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Feb 2024 04:32:14 -0500

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How do we know if God is speaking to us? In today’s episode, Dot and Cara answer this question by sharing some of the ways they respond when they think they might be hearing from God. They remind us to look to Scripture, surrender to whatever outcome God has planned, and trust Him to make Himself known to us. They also talk about what it means to glorify God in our lives. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join in on the conversation!

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Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 10:3,27 (0:13)
What does it actually mean to glorify God? (1:43)
When you know the ways of God, you can follow Him more faithfully (6:56)
Without the Holy Spirit, you can’t glorify God (11:43)
Does the thing you’re hearing line up with Scripture? (16:11)
We can be sad when God says no, but we still need to follow Him (24:04)
Sometimes God speaks through others, but we have to be discerning (34:25)
When you think God is saying something, write it down and bring it to Him (40:57)

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Episode 155: The Promised Land, the Number 3 and Marrying an Unbeliever

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 31 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0500

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If you have questions about faith, the Bible, or walking with the Lord, we want to help you answer them! In this episode, Dot and Cara tackle three listener questions about the Promised Land, numbers in the Bible, and relationships with unbelievers. They invite you to pull up a chair, listen in, and then pray and see what God has to say to you about these topics.

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Episode Recap

Start by writing down Galatians 3:7-9, 29 (0:12)
Today we’re answering a few of your questions! (0:58)
Why is the Promised Land so important? (3:24)
What does the number 3 represent in the Bible? (10:48)
Can you be in a relationship with a husband who doesn’t follow Jesus? (18:52)
If you’re not married yet, is it OK to marry an unbeliever? (29:55)

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Episode 154: Holding onto Faith in Trying Times

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0500

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Why do bad things happen to good people, even when we have faith? In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their series on the book of Joshua by answering this question that was posed at the recent Breathe Retreat. They remind us that it’s not our faith that causes victory and encourage us to look for the places where God is at work, even when the outcomes are different than we’d hoped. They also talk about the faith of Rahab and what it can teach us about putting our trust in the Lord. Grab your Bible and journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 1:7-8 (0:12)
Today we’re answering some questions about Joshua (0:58)
It’s not our faith and obedience, but Jesus that causes the victory (2:42)
Maybe victory looks different than what you’re expecting (8:08)
Even in bad times, God is still working (16:07)
There’s so much we can learn from Rahab’s faith (20:13)
Because of God’s grace, Rahab ended up in Jesus’ family line (29:25)

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Episode 153: Walking in Victory

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Jan 2024 04:54:48 -0500

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No matter how strong your relationship with God may be, you’ll still have battles to face throughout your life. In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss the story of Joshua leading the Israelites and what it teaches us about fighting our battles out of a place of faith. They remind us that God is always with us and always working to use our struggles for good. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 4:2-5 (0:12)
We’ll always have battles to face (1:34)
God will send us reminders that He is with us (7:35)
God can even use our struggles to show others how good He is (16:04)
Don’t underestimate the importance of prayer in a battle (20:27)
When God answers your prayers, make sure you obey (26:40)
Rahab is a powerful example of how God rewards obedience (28:37)

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Episode 152: Recognizing God’s Presence

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Jan 2024 08:08:31 -0500

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If you find yourself wondering where God is working in your life, this episode is for you! Today, Dot and Cara talk about the way that God’s presence has shown up throughout history, from the Arc of the Covenant to Jesus to the Holy Spirit. They remind us that God’s presence is always with us and share some words of encouragement for keeping your eyes fixed on Jesus when you feel like you’re waiting on a miracle. Grab your Bible and journal and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 3:3-5 (0:12)
Sharing our words of the year (1:16)
If you’re going to lead well, you need to know that God is leading you (3:30)
Like the Arc of the Covenant, Jesus was a symbol of who God is (5:52)
Because of the Holy Spirit, we now have God’s presence with us always (11:35)
We don’t know what today holds, so we need to keep our eyes on the Lord (17:42)
God’s not absent just because you aren’t seeing a miracle (23:24)
When you see Him, go after Him (24:52)

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Episode 151: What Would You Do if You Couldn't Fail?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0500

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When God calls us to do something, He’s not asking us to act in our own strength. Instead, He wants us to take the first step knowing that He will give us the strength and courage we need. In this episode, Dot and Cara begin a new series about Joshua. They also share their perspective on New Year’s Resolutions and encourage us to trust God to do something new in and through us this year. Pour yourself a cup of tea or coffee and join us for another year of “Write this Down!”

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 1:2-3 (0:12)
What do New Year’s Resolutions have to do with our faith? (1:16)
As Christians, we should be committed to the things we say we’ll do (6:33)
Obeying God isn’t about checking items off a list, it’s about creating change (9:33)
What would you do if God told you you couldn’t fail? (11:32)
We can walk in victory because of Jesus, not because of our own strength (16:57)
The more God asks of us, the more we should lean in (23:22)
Sometimes all we need to do is take the first step (25:09)

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Episode 150: Finding Hope in the Waiting

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Sometimes we think we’re waiting on God, but we’re actually waiting on Him to deliver one specific outcome. In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on what it means to trust God while we wait. They encourage us to find hope in the Christmas story and remind us that God’s timing is perfect, even when He doesn’t deliver the exact answer we were hoping for. Pull up a chair and join us for our final episode of 2023!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 11:2-6 (0:12)
When we’re in a season of waiting, Advent reminds us there is hope (1:44)
God’s timing is always intentional (5:11)
Just because it’s not the outcome you wanted, doesn’t mean God’s not working (9:15)
Are you waiting on the Lord, or waiting on one specific result? (14:51)
God will always give us what is best (22:01)

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Episode 149: For to Us a Child is Born

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Isaiah prophesied that God would send us a wonderful counselor, and those words were fulfilled in the life and death of Jesus. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their Advent series by talking about what it means to know that God is “wonderful.” They also remind us that we’re all caught in a struggle between our flesh and the Spirit, and that God’s love is big enough to overcome even the worst sins and suffering. Grab your Bible and journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Isaiah 9:6-7 (0:13)
When was the last time you thought about God’s wonder? (2:08)
No matter what, God is true to His word (7:31)
Either it’s all true, or none of it is (12:03)
We struggle between our flesh and our faith (15:14)
Do you want God as He is, or do you want a God you can understand? (19:33)
The sin of mankind killed God’s son, and God still loves us (25:07)
Too often we blame God for things humans are responsible for (29:41)

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Episode 148: Never Hopeless, Always Loved

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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The Christmas story is the story of a God who loved us so much that He became human just to be with us. In this episode, Dot and Cara welcome the Advent season by reflecting on the reason why Jesus came to earth and reminding us of just how powerful the love of Jesus is. They encourage us to look to Him as our source of hope, even in the midst of difficult circumstances. Pour yourself a cup of tea or coffee and join us as we prepare for Christmas!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Philippians 2:5-8 (0:13)
This week we’re kicking off our Advent series (0:52)
Jesus came to earth to be with us (2:28)
It’s difficult to comprehend just how much Jesus loves us (12:56)
There’s nothing we can give to God, and yet He wants us (17:46)
From the very beginning, God was determined to make things right (22:03)
We can’t see how our story will end, but God can (24:52)
Jesus is our hope, even in grief and uncertainty (30:04)
You are loved and held, always (40:07)

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Episode 147: Keep Moving Forward

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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How do we keep ourselves from being paralyzed by fear, especially when it feels like there’s so much to be afraid of? In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what it means to be strong and courageous in the face of fear. They acknowledge that sometimes it feels like God’s presence isn’t enough, but encourage us to stop asking the “what ifs” and start focusing on God’s perfect love, which casts out all fear. Grab your Bible and journal and listen in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 1:9 (0:13)
Fear can be completely paralyzing (1:04)
Keep moving forward, and stay bold (5:04)
We can move forward because we know God is with us (9:59)
Is God’s presence really enough for us? (13:14)
Satan will use “what ifs” to keep us from trusting God (19:32)
God is love, and perfect love casts out fear (22:07)
How do you discern if a fear is healthy? (27:18)
Your fear can tell you a lot about how you view God (39:02)

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Episode 146: In Everything, Give Thanks

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Happy Thanksgiving from us to you! In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss Paul’s teaching about giving thanks in all circumstances. They acknowledge how the holidays can be a challenging time for many people and share some words of encouragement for anyone who’s struggling to find things to be grateful for this year. They also remind us that no matter what’s happening in our lives, we can praise God for the fact that He is in control. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (0:12)
Gratitude impacts our physical and mental health (1:19)
Thanks and praise go hand in hand (4:53)
The holidays can be a challenging time, but gratitude is still important (11:24)
There will always be something you don’t have, but focus on what you do have (18:33)
If you can’t find something to be thankful for, focus on what Jesus has done (23:18)
We can give thanks for God’s presence in all circumstances (27:44)
Even now, God is working and we have so much to be thankful for (34:04)

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Episode 145: Learning to Let Go

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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If we want to follow God’s plan for our lives, we need to let go of our expectations and our resistance to change. In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on one of the biggest lessons they’re learning in this season: the principle of letting go. They open up about the ways God is teaching them and share words of encouragement for anyone else who is struggling with difficult changes. Grab your Bible and a journal and listen in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Philippians 3:12-14 (0:12)
It’s OK to struggle with change (1:25)
Following Jesus is all about letting go (8:44)
If we’re holding onto what was, we can’t embrace what is (13:40)
Letting go allows you to grab onto something new God has given you (20:15)
We can trust that God is in the process, even when it doesn’t match our expectations (27:07)

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Episode 144: Surrounded by the Love of God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Wherever you are, you can trust that the Good Shepherd has gone before you, and He also walks behind you as a source of strength and protection. In this episode, Dot and Cara wrap up their study of Psalm 23 by talking about the peace that comes from knowing we’re surrounded by the love of God. They remind us that God can use any circumstance for His good and encourage us to hold fast to God’s goodness even on difficult days. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 23:5-6 (0:12)
Jesus is our good shepherd (1:12)
It’s easy to be driven by your circumstances and forget about God’s goodness (6:40)
Our thoughts are not facts, but God’s presence in our lives is a fact (12:52)
There’s no delay, closed door, or rejection that God can’t use (21:52)
God is always behind us (26:53)

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Episode 143: Finding Peace in the Shepherd’s Arms

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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No matter how you feel or what circumstances you’re walking through, God is by your side. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue to examine Psalm 23 and talk about what it means to allow God to restore our souls. They remind us that it’s OK to feel cast down and discouraged, but encourage us to trust that God will lift us back up and keep us on the right path. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 23:3-4 (0:12)
God is our comfort in seasons of change (1:26)
We all have moments where we feel cast down (6:45)
When our efforts to feel better aren’t enough, God will use our circumstances (11:39)
Sometimes God’s protection can feel limiting, but we can trust His heart (16:31)
Where the Holy Spirit is, you will find peace (25:45)

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A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23

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Episode 142: The Lord is My Shepherd

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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When we trust that God will take care of us, we can feel free to rest. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the first two verses of Psalm 23. They reflect on what it means to “lie down in green pastures,” and they explain what the relationship between sheep and shepherds can teach us about our own relationship with God. Grab your Bible and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 23:1-2 (0:12)
In challenging times, Psalm 23 is a powerful source of comfort (1:15)
A shepherd’s entire goal is to protect their sheep (3:14)
The more you know your shepherd, the easier it is to follow His voice (8:23)
The safest place we can be is close to God (17:12)
Even in the darkest situations, God is trustworthy (20:49)
To rest is to believe that God will take care of you while you wait (28:22)

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Episode 141: Evil Will Not Win!

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Even when all seems lost, we can trust that God will carry out His perfect plan. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their conversation about the story of Esther and what it can teach us about God’s intervention and redemption. They remind us that God’s timing is always perfect and we can trust Him to make things right. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Esther 6:1-3 (0:12)
Haman put the Jewish people in an impossible situation (2:47)
God will accomplish what He sets out to do (6:39)
God’s timing is perfect to carry out His plan (11:45)
Mordecai remained faithful even when he had been wronged (17:14)
Even when all looks lost, evil will not win! (23:21)

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Episode 140: For Such a Time as This

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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The story of Esther is a powerful reminder that God is always working, even in the seemingly small details of our lives. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about all of the different ways God showed up in Esther and Mordecai’s stories, and the opportunity he gave them to participate in his plans. They remind us that we have a choice in how we respond to difficult circumstances, and they encourage us to look for God’s hand in our own lives. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Esther 4:12-16 (0:12)
Esther reminds us that God is always at work (3:21)
God placed Esther in the palace for a reason (9:17)
God’s hand was in every small detail of Esther’s story (16:48)
We won’t stop God’s plans, but by obeying we can get to be a part of them (19:23)
Our story is just one part of God’s bigger story (23:37)

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Episode 139: Go and Make Disciples

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about one of Jesus’ most overlooked commandments: Go and make disciples. They explain why discipleship is so important and discuss what it looks like to be discipled and to disciple others. They also share some important reminders about not letting our own opinions overshadow God’s word, making sure not to lead others astray, and following God more closely than we follow the people around us. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 28:18-20 (0:12)
Discipleship isn’t just important, it’s a commandment (1:12)
Are we taking Scripture at its word, or are we adding our own understanding? (5:47)
Discipleship is about knowing and teaching God’s word (8:10)
If you don’t know how to swim, how can you teach others? (14:50)
Some seasons are about discipling, and others are about being discipled (19:16)
God will bring the right people into our lives (26:20)
Are you following the sheep or the shepherd? (31:21)

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Episode 138: Faith Part 4 — Holding Onto Faith When Life Gets Difficult

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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From Jehoshaphat to Joshua, even the most faithful people in the Bible still struggle with doubt sometimes. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what it looks like to keep our eyes on God even when we’re afraid, uncertain, or grieving. They remind us to not overlook the power of praise and encourage us to come before God with honesty. Grab your Bible and listen in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 2 Chronicles 20:12,17 (0:12)
When we don’t know what to do, we should put our eyes on God (1:15)
Don’t underestimate the power of praise (7:47)
We can have faith even in the midst of fear or mourning (9:28)
God doesn’t expect us to deny our emotions, but we can praise God in the midst of them (18:25)
Praise isn’t about convincing God to change our circumstances (22:57)
Honesty before God can strengthen our faith (33:40)
Each of us will have our faith tested (38:05)

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Episode 137: Faith Part 3 — How Do We Know God is Trustworthy?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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If we want to know that we can trust God, all we need to do is look to the cross. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their series on faith by looking at a time when Moses struggled to believe God. They explain why we’re not supposed to test God’s word and remind us that even when our faith feels small, our God is big. Grab your Bible and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Numbers 13:17-20 (0:12)
Today we’re continuing our series on faith with a conversation about Moses (2:00)
Even Moses had a breach of faith (5:27)
We’re not supposed to test God’s word (10:47)
If God is good and powerful, then we can trust what He says (17:31)
It’s not about the size of our faith, it’s about the size of our God (26:14)
We don’t always know how God will use our heartache (33:32)
The cross is the ultimate proof that God is trustworthy (39:25)

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Episode 136: Faith Part 2 — Trusting God’s Will for Our Lives

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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What can the story of Abraham teach us about our own relationships with the Lord? In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their series about faith by examining the way Abraham’s life was shaped by His trust in God. They remind us that even though Abrahm did not always have perfect faith, He continued to allow God to work in His life. They also share encouragement for listeners who might be struggling to trust God’s plan. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 4:18-22 (0:12)
Today we’re continuing our series about faith by looking at the life of Abraham (1:03)
If God has a certain plan for your life, then it will come to be (2:12)
Even Abraham did not have perfect faith (7:32)
If you’re trusting God, then you haven’t missed what He wants for you (13:26)
God can still use us when we make mistakes (19:44)
Our children or our spouses can easily become idols (26:23)
Abraham believed God even when he couldn’t see the path ahead of him (31:58)
Trust God’s heart, not His hand (38:09)

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Episode 135: Faith Part 1 — Why Do We Need Faith?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 09:03:23 -0400

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If faith is such an important part of our walks with God, then it makes sense that the enemy would try to make us lose it. In this episode, Dot and Cara begin a new series where they’ll be talking all about faith. They explain why we need faith to accept God’s gift of salvation, and they begin to discuss some of the lies many of us come to believe about faith. They also remind us that even in hard times, we can have faith in God’s heart of love for us. Grab your Bible and join us, and make sure to email us if you have questions about this series!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Ephesians 2:8-10 (0:12)
We’re kicking off a new series about faith, so send us your questions! (0:51)
If faith is so essential, then we can see why the enemy would twist it (3:33)
We all have faith in something (7:13)
We are saved by God’s grace, but we need faith to receive it (10:51)
Faith is believing in what Jesus did for us (16:09)
What are some of the lies we believe about faith? (19:31)
Faith is not a weapon for manipulating God (23:19)
In hard times, we can have faith that God is with us (29:30)
Your faith will grow the more you understand the heart of God (33:14)

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Episode 134: We’re starting a new series on...

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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This week we are taking a little break, but we're going to come back week to start a brand new series on… faith.

We know Scripture says that without faith, it is impossible to please God. We also know that faith can move mountains. But what are we putting our faith in? There's so much to dive into here — we're going to talk about prayer, pleasing God, and what it really means to have faith in our daily lives.

We would love for you guys to join in that conversation and submit your own questions, thoughts or comments on this topic. Send those to hello@dotbowen.com and we forward to being with you again next with for the kickoff of our Faith Series!

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Episode 133: Guarding Our Hearts and Minds

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Scripture tells us that God will soften our hearts, but we first have to be willing to let Him in. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about why it’s so important to guard our hearts and minds, reminding us that our actions matter much less than the position of our hearts. They also discuss what it looks like to move forward once we’ve heard God’s voice. Pull up a chair and listen in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 15:8-9 (0:11)
Our outside actions matter much less than our heart (1:01)
What stays in our minds affects our hearts (6:27)
When we know the truth, we need to apply it (10:56)
God can help soften our minds and hearts (13:34)
Only God can judge and change our hearts (21:17)
Moving forward can take time, but we need to keep moving (26:04)

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Episode 132: How Do We Know God’s Plan?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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We know that God has a plan for our lives, but we won’t always know exactly what that plan looks like. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about some of the dreams they believe God has placed on their hearts, and the way they’re trusting God to fulfill His best possible plan. They also encourage us to celebrate the things God has already done, make the most of all the time we have, and trust that God has more for us to do. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalms 25:4-5 (0:11)
God has more for us to do (1:08)
We can have plans and dreams, but nothing is certain (6:20)
How do we know what God has planned for us? (12:03)
As you look to the future, remember what God has already done (22:09)
What would God do if we had the faith to trust Him? (28:58)
None of us know how long we have (33:40)
Are you moving closer to healing, or further away from it? (35:51)

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Episode 131: Trusting God’s Word When it Doesn’t Make Sense

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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How do we know God is speaking to us, and what do we do in response? In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the story of Jeremiah and the unpopular messages God asked him to deliver to the Israelites. They reflect on what it can look like to hear God’s voice today and discuss some things to look out for to make sure the messages we’re listening to are actually of God. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Jeremiah 32:6-10 (0:12)
God gave Jeremiah an unpopular message to share (1:34)
How do you know what God’s telling you? (7:26)
God made a point to prove that Jeremiah was speaking for Him (11:13)
If you believe God is speaking to you, hold it with humility (17:00)
If it’s from God, it will require us to come closer to Him (26:55)
No matter what we’re walking through, God will give us strength (34:37)

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Episode 130: God is Present in our Struggles

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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What does it mean to allow God to conform us to His image? In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about some of the new takeaways they’ve gained from an old, familiar passage: Romans 8:28-29. They discuss what Paul meant when he said we’d be conformed to the image of Jesus, reflect on the importance of forgiving others, and offer encouragement to anyone who’s currently walking through a difficult season. Grab your Bible and a journal and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 8:28-29 (0:12)
No matter how many times you hear a verse, there are still new things to learn (1:18)
Even in difficult times, God loves us (4:37)
God doesn’t promise all things will be good, but He will use the bad things (11:48)
Circumstances can bring out things we didn’t even know we had in us (14:24)
Instead of focus on what’s going wrong, look for God’s hand (26:36)
We all need to forgive and be forgiven (37:17)

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Episode 129: Letting Down Our Walls

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Jul 2023 10:15:04 -0400

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Our worship is less about what we do and more about why we’re doing it. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue talking about the woman at the well and the way Jesus met her exactly where she needed Him to. They discuss the idea of true worship and reflect on the question of how we can better allow Jesus’ love to come into our lives. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 4:24-30 (0:12)
The woman at the well was looking for love, and Jesus met her there (1:28)
True worship comes from a deep love for the Lord (5:02)
How do we let down our walls so Jesus’ love can get in? (10:27)
How we respond to God impacts how we respond to others (19:19)
Our actions should come from the heart of wanting to know God better (28:17)
We can ask God for the desire to love Him more (33:55)

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Episode 128: Accepting the Love of Jesus

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Even when you think you’re unworthy of love, Jesus will go out of His way to seek you out. In this episode, Dot and Cara catch up on some of the big questions and ideas that have been on Dot’s heart this summer. They then discuss the story of the woman at the well, open up about why it’s so meaningful to them, and explain what it can teach us about Jesus’ love for us. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 4:7-10 (0:12)
What dream has God placed on your heart? (1:21)
Jesus knows everything we’ve done and loves us anyway (9:29)
It’s hard to believe God loves us if we don’t love ourselves (15:40)
Jesus goes out of His way to seek us out (20:42)
We don’t have to be worthy; Jesus just wants us to know who He is (26:16)
Jesus is not like the people who have hurt us (32:57)

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Episode 127: How to Know the Will of God - Part 3

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Becoming a living sacrifice is not a one-time decision, it’s a lifelong commitment to walking with the Lord. In this episode, Dot and Cara wrap up their series about knowing the will of God by talking about what it means to present ourselves as living sacrifices. They explain that we can trust God to help us want what He wants, and they offer encouragement to anyone who’s worrying about making the wrong decision or stepping outside of God’s will. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 12:1-2 (0:12)
Romans 12 tells us that we actually can get to know God’s will (1:01)
To know God’s will in the moment, you need to walk with Him consistently (6:33)
When you’ve surrendered your life to God, you can trust your desires (13:31)
We can bring our desires and our fears to God (19:18)
God will put things in the way when we’re headed outside of His will (24:16)
The outcome is not our responsibility, it’s God’s (30:28)
If we’re going after what God wants, He won’t let us drown (34:21)
If God isn’t our everything, He’s not anything (42:12)

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Episode 126: How to Know the Will of God - Part 2

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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How can we remain focused on God’s will when we’re constantly surrounded by competing messages? In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their series on Romans 12 with a conversation about what it means to renew our minds. They explain why it’s so important to know and apply God’s truth, and they encourage us to ask God to help us want what He wants. Pull up a chair and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 12:1-2 (0:11)
The world will try to contradict God’s truth (1:14)
We need to train our minds to see God’s perspective (5:42)
We can acknowledge reality while still having faith (13:12)
It’s more important to know God than to know His plan (22:01)
God can help us to want what He wants (28:16)

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Episode 125: How to Know the Will of God - Part 1

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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We won’t always understand why certain things happen, but we can surrender to God and start to get to know His will. In this episode, Dot and Cara begin a new series on Romans 12, “How to Know the Will of God.” They talk about what Paul meant when he encouraged the church to offer their bodies as living sacrifices, and they share some lessons and mindsets that have helped them practice surrender.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 12:1-2 (0:12)
How do we know God’s will? (1:14)
Paul wanted the church to surrender to God’s will (5:49)
God can help us to want what He wants (11:03)
Refusing to surrender won’t keep us from trouble (18:03)
If you want to trust God more, start by getting to know Him better (23:02)
We have to commit to surrender every day (28:03)

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Episode 124: God is On His Throne

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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It’s easy to get caught up in celebrating our own accomplishments, but God is the one who is on the throne. In this episode, Dot explains why this idea has been on her heart lately, and she encourages us to stop being so self-absorbed and to make sure we’re worshipping God and God alone. She and Cara also talk about the insights they gain from Revelation 5, and they remind us that God is always in control. Pull up a chair and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Revelation 5:11-14 (0:12)
We can be so self-absorbed and forget that God is on His throne (1:33)
Only God can change people’s hearts (5:47)
He is in control of yesterday, today, and forever (9:31)
Are we worshipping God or worshipping ourselves? (11:14)
God is not passively watching us, He’s involved in the world (19:29)
We may not know how God will act, but we can trust His heart (23:20)

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Episode 123: We Are Not Condemned

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Because of Jesus, we’re free from condemnation for our sins. In this episode, Dot and Cara wrap up their mini series on Romans by celebrating some of the powerful truths found in Romans 8. They each explain why these verses mean so much to them, and they remind us that we can always find hope in Christ, even when we don’t know what to pray or ask for. Grab your Bible and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 8:15-16 (0:12)
Through Jesus, we have the power to defeat sin (1:13)
We don’t have to live in shame or condemnation any longer (5:10)
Guilt vs. condemnation: How can we tell the difference? (10:14)
We will still struggle and feel discouraged, but we have hope in Christ (15:49)
The Spirit intercedes for us, and we are not alone (21:17)
If God is for us, who can be against us? (25:35)

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Episode 122: Free from the Law of Sin

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Part of being human is struggling between two masters: the law of sin and the law of God. In this episode, Dot and Cara dig deep into Romans 7 and talk about this tension between the desires of our flesh and the desires of God. They explain how Jesus has set us free from the power of sin, and they offer some words of encouragement for all of us who are struggling to serve God in this life. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 7:7 (0:12)
All of us can relate to struggling between what we want to do and what we do (1:22)
The law doesn’t save us, Jesus does (10:31)
The desires of the flesh are contrary to the spirit of God (16:54)
Jesus was human but he did not sin (19:25)
God’s law was intended to keep us free (26:29)
The enemy wants to stop us from doing good and hold us captive (30:31)
We’re caught between two masters: God and sin (36:39)

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Episode 121: Sin Has Lost Its Power

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 31 May 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Sin will always be a part of our lives here on earth, but we don’t have to let it control us or have power over us. In this episode, Dot explains why Romans 6 has played such an important role in her faith journey. She shares some of the principles she’s learned about sin, putting God first, and responding to situations that hurt us. Dot and Cara also talk about the way that Jesus’ sacrifice has set us free from so many of the things that try to separate us from God. Pull up a chair and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 6:1-4 (0:12)
Are you holding onto expectations about who God should be? (1:32)
Certain principles will help you stay consistent with your faith (4:50)
When you reach the end of yourself, you have the chance to put God first (6:30)
Part of being human is longing to be loved (9:28)
If you know something is right and don’t do it, you’re sinning (14:02)
Because of Jesus, sin doesn’t have power over us anymore (16:48)
People can hurt us, but we don’t have to let those hurts control us (21:54)

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Episode 120: Letting God be God of our Lives

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 May 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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God has not called us to judge others or change people’s hearts; He simply asks us to speak the truth and trust Him to take care of the rest. In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss the parable of the weeds and what it teaches us about our role in the kingdom of God. They remind us that we can never truly know someone’s heart and that God will use all things for His purpose. Pour yourself a cup of tea or coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 13:24-30 (0:12)
We don’t know what the future holds, but that’s OK (1:50)
It’s not up for us to decide what’s good and what’s evil (4:05)
Only God can see people’s hearts (11:15)
God will stamp out evil one day; all we need to do now is speak the truth (19:53)
God uses all things for His good and His glory (26:50)

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Episode 119: The Parable of the Sower

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 May 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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If you want to understand your response to hurtful situations, start by looking at your heart. In this episode, Dot and Cara examine the parable of the sower and the lessons it can teach us about our own lives. They talk about the importance of good soil and explain how you can understand your heart by looking at the fruit it produces. Grab your Bible and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 13:1-9 (0:12)
Why did Jesus speak in parables? (1:48)
The soil determines whether or not the seed will grow (5:44)
Your response to a situation will depend on your heart (10:54)
When you’re hurt by a situation, try to understand the other person’s intentions (20:43)
We can’t fully know other people’s hearts (28:21)
When you’re feeling hurt, ask God to reveal where your heart is (34:27)

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Episode 118: Bringing Our Worries to God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 May 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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What did Jesus mean when he said His yoke is easy and His burden is light? In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on this message from Matthew 11:28-30 and explain why it’s so important to bring our fears and our worries to God rather than trying to control the outcomes on our own. They also remind us that we can come to God with anything, even the concerns that seem trivial. Pull up a chair and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 11:28-30 (0:12)
Is it easy or hard to follow Jesus? (1:21)
If we’re struggling to carry something, it’s probably not what God has for us (8:14)
Life will be hard, but God wants to help us through it (13:50)
We don’t have to worry about the outcomes (20:00)
If it’s on your mind and heart, it’s worth talking to God about (31:04)

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Episode 117: Finding God in Our Adversity

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 May 2023 14:55:10 -0400

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God can use our pain and adversity to bring us closer to Him. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue examining the principles of Dr. Charles Stanley about obedience, adversity, prayer, the Holy Spirit, and much more. They also encourage us to look to Scripture as a source of truth that will help us draw closer to God. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and listen in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 119:105 (0:12)
God wants intimacy with us, not our perfection (1:16)
More principles from Dr. Charles Stanley (7:13)
As children of a sovereign God, we are never victims of our circumstances (9:20)
Disappointments are inevitable, but discouragement is a choice (11:48)
Why is obedience so important to God? (14:11)
We can’t avoid pain and adversity, but we can grow closer to God through it (22:48)
Prayer is life’s biggest time saver (31:04)
With the Holy Spirit, we never have to go it alone (32:57)

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Episode 116: God’s Highest Priority

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Our intimacy with God is God’s highest priority. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the life and teachings of Dr. Charles Stanley, who had an enormous impact on Dot’s spiritual journey. They discuss some of Dr. Stanley’s principles about our relationship with God, and they remind us to think about the legacy we want to leave on this world. Grab your Bible and journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 2 Timothy 4:1-2 (0:12)
Dr. Charles Stanley is a great example of how God can use our adversity (1:51)
What kind of legacy will you leave? (5:29)
Dr. Charles Stanley’s principals (12:06)
Prayer and Scripture can be our anchors in a storm (16:27)
Trusting God means looking beyond what we can see (27:47)
God will move heaven and earth to get close to us (34:44)
God wants us to consider His will before we make decisions (40:29)

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Episode 115: Saul’s Pride and David’s Humility

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Through the story of Saul, we learn just how dangerous it can be when anger and jealousy consume us. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the way Saul’s pride serves as a cautionary tale, especially when compared to David’s humility. They explain why it’s so important to guard our hearts and remember that God’s calling is more about Him than it is about us. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Samuel 15:10-11 (0:12)
This week we’re talking about Saul (2:08)
Saul went from chasing his father’s donkeys to becoming king (6:09)
Samuel and Saul were living through a pivotal time in Israel’s history (9:25)
Our calling has nothing to do with us and everything to do with God (11:36)
Saul followed God halfway, but his pride got in the way (15:32)
David had a humility and willingness to repent that Saul did not (24:00)
Pay attention to your heart so you don’t become controlled by anger (31:13)

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Episode 114: Find Your Hope in Jesus

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Apr 2023 09:53:39 -0400

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We don’t have to feel despair, because our hope is in Jesus. In this episode, we share a live recording of a session Dot led this winter about the power of hope. She explains how Jesus can be the anchor we’re needing when the world around us feels overwhelming, and she reminds us that God wants what’s best for us.

Episode Recap

None of us have it all together, but that’s why we need God (0:29)
There’s a difference between doing things for God and doing them with Him (4:42)
God can give us the desire to love Him if we ask (9:43)
We are more than conquerors through God (12:07)
Jesus is our hope (20:08)
If you’re looking for hope in anything but Jesus, you’ll be disappointed (29:43)
God never withholds what is best for His children (34:23)
Despair is when you can’t see good coming out of your situation (38:34)
God gets the final word (42:56)

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Episode 113: More Than Conquerors | The Race Marked Out For Us Series

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Even when we fall or face unimaginable circumstances, we are more than conquerors through Christ. In this episode, Dot and Cara wrap up our series on running the race marked out for us by talking about Dot’s experience of finishing the half marathon. They also reflect on the ways we can find hope in the midst of tragedies like the recent Nashville shooting and share some words of encouragement for anyone who’s struggling to trust God’s plan.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 8:35-39 (0:12)
The same spirit that raised Jesus from the dead is alive in us (1:53)
When you go through the unimaginable, God is with you (5:22)
Dot’s experience of finishing the half marathon (10:31)
It’s only through God that we are more than conquerors (16:05)
Sometimes the biggest mistakes lead to the biggest lessons (24:34)
The love of God keeps us moving forward (30:19)
God has a purpose and a plan, even when we don’t see it (34:15)

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Episode 112: Never Thirst Again | The Race Marked Out For Us Series

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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Just like we need water every day to stay alive and healthy, we need the Holy Spirit’s consistent presence in our lives. In this episode, Dot and Cara compare the experience of the woman at the well in John 4 to Dot’s experience of running a half marathon. They talk about why it’s so important to let God satisfy our hearts’ desires, and they share practical advice for building intimacy with the Holy Spirit.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 4:13-15 (0:12)
Sometimes the thing we need most is not what we think it is (1:34)
Only Jesus can satisfy the desires of our hearts (7:23)
If you truly believed who God was, why would you worry? (11:20)
Living water represents the power of the Holy Spirit (14:03)
We need to prepare consistently, not just in hard moments (17:16)
How to connect with the Holy Spirit (23:01)

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Episode 111: Training for Our Race | The Race Marked Out For Us Series

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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In order to run the race marked out for us, we need to train with Scripture and prayer. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue to talk about the lessons Dot learned from running a half marathon. They explain why training is so important for our spiritual journeys and also discuss how these lessons apply to parenting. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Hebrews 12:11 (0:12)
It’s important to train for our races (1:18)
Sometimes all we can do is keep going (4:45)
Just like a race, our faith is a journey (9:23)
We often worry about the destination but forget about the journey (14:37)
Spiritual discipline and maturity come when you’re trained by the Holy Spirit (16:11)
When our own strength isn’t enough, we can learn to cry out to God (23:24)
Love is what makes someone a good parent (27:50)
If you want to follow Jesus, know what He said and what He cares about (36:20)

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Episode 110: The Race Marked Out For Us

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0400

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What does it actually mean to run the race marked out for us? In this episode, Dot and Cara begin a new series about Hebrews 12:1 and Dot’s book, “The Race Marked Out for Us.” Dot shares the story of signing up for a half marathon without knowing what to expect, and she explains how the lessons she learned also apply to the experience of following Jesus. Pull up a chair and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Hebrews 12:1 (0:12)
This week we’re kicking off a new series based on Dot’s book (1:44)
Whatever season you’re in, we’re all running a race (8:16)
We tend to think life will only be good when we start following Jesus (11:37)
Sometimes our race is harder than we expect (28:16)
We don’t get to choose our course (32:15)

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Episode 109: Discerning God’s Truth

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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How do we know whether a teaching is from God or from the world? In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about some of the mysteries expressed in 1 John and remind us that God is not a God of confusion. They also talk about what it means to be born again, and they share some practical tips for knowing God’s will and doing our best to glorify Him. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 John 4:4-6 (0:12)
Jesus was born of the flesh without sin (1:20)
We were born into sinful flesh, but through Jesus we can be born again (7:21)
God is not a God of confusion (13:34)
Is a teaching leading you to God, or pushing you away from Him? (20:14)
Are you motivated by the world’s principles, or by God’s kingdom? (24:51)
God’s will is for us to glorify Him in all we do (28:59)
Anything that is more important to us than God is an idol (34:44)

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Episode 108: Jesus Our Advocate

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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God loves us even when we sin, but sin also affects our intimacy with Him. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk through some of the more confusing messages in the book of 1 John. They explain how sin affects us, and they talk about the idea that Jesus is our advocate before God. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join the conversation!

Episode Recap
● Start by writing down 1 John 2:1-2 (0:13)
● 1 John can be confusing without context (1:27)
● When you know God loves you, you can handle certain harsh truths (5:26)
● What does it mean to have an advocate? (11:26)
● Sin separates us from intimacy with God (16:13)
● God loves non-believers, too (22:59)
● Our lifestyle should reflect our love for God (30:28)

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Episode 107: Walking in the Light

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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What does it mean to experience fellowship with God? In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss this question, along with some of the other key ideas they find in the book of 1 John. They talk about the importance of telling what God has done in our lives, the difference between our experience and God’s truth, and much more. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 John 1:5 (0:13)
John focused on telling people about Jesus’ divinity (2:04)
Eyewitness accounts are powerful (5:27)
We’re called to tell people about what God has done in our lives (8:59)
The New Testament writers focused on telling their stories, not on convincing people to believe (11:54)
If you think you’re without sin, you’re deceiving yourself (14:41)
God knows our hearts and sees when we struggle (23:10)
Our experience and emotions do not shape God’s truth (27:54)
Fellowship is a gift enjoyed by both us and God (35:44)

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Episode 106: Why Should We Pray?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Prayer is one of the most important parts of our faith, and yet many of us struggle with it. Today, Dot and Cara wrestle with the question, “Why should we pray?” They also talk about some of the ways that we can build a more intimate and trusting relationship with God, even when we’re struggling. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 22:37-38 (0:13)
“Why should I pray?” is a question for many believers (1:51)
It’s important to be honest with God when we pray (9:34)
There’s a difference between knowing God’s power and knowing His ways (12:17)
Are you focused on spending time with God, or only on asking for things? (21:01)
Intimacy requires us to be honest (28:30)
God will reveal Himself if we ask for the ability to trust Him (34:48)

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Episode 105: The Great I Am

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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When Moses was doubting his ability to go before the Egyptians, God told him, “I Am Who I Am.” In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what this name of God means for our lives. They also explain how we can see Moses’ intimacy with God grow throughout Scripture, and they encourage us to seek God’s presence more than we seek His promises. Grab your Bible and a journal and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Exodus 3:13-15 (0:13)
Moses didn’t understand how God could use him (2:12)
Moses had a truly intimate relationship with God (7:25)
Throughout the story, we get to see Moses’ faith grow (10:54)
There’s a difference between doubting God and asking Him questions (15:05)
We will never fulfill God’s purpose if we’re focused on our abilities (18:57)
Don’t put your trust in the outcome, put your trust in God (23:02)
The Israelites wanted miracles, but Moses wanted God’s presence (26:15)

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Episode 104: How to Have Intimacy with God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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So often, we try to explain God instead of letting God tell us who He is. In this episode, Dot and Cara answer a frequently asked question: “How do I build a more intimate relationship with God?” Dot explains how studying the names of God has helped her understand Him better, and they talk about some of the different ways God has revealed Himself in Scripture and in their own lives. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Proverbs 18:10 (0:12)
We often focus more on the suffering we’re experiencing than on being righteous through it (0:58)
You can’t love and trust someone unless you know them intimately (6:05)
To better understand God, look at His names (9:47)
God looks beyond our failures and weaknesses to see what we can be (13:08)
Deep struggles can lead to deeper intimacy with God (17:31)
God reveals through He is through His names (21:28)
How can you trust God if you don’t know who He is? (30:37)
To have intimacy with God is to know that He’s in control (32:17)
God doesn’t want us to explain who He is, He wants to tell us who He is (37:18)

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Episode 103: Hope in the Midst of Suffering

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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We can find hope even in the midst of suffering, because our hope is in Jesus. In this episode, we share a live session from the Breathe Retreat, where Dot reflects on the story of Job. She talks about the difficult question of “why do we suffer?” and she offers hope and encouragement to anyone who’s struggling to trust God in their current circumstances. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Job 1:1,9
Job was righteous and blameless, and he still suffered
God is not in the business of punishing his children
Just because we’re forgiven doesn’t mean we won’t experience consequences
We can’t know what God is doing in other people’s lives
We can find hope knowing that God understands even when we don’t
Don’t listen to people who try to tell you why you’re suffering
Our hope is not in our circumstances
We don’t know why we suffer, but we can know God’s heart
Will you serve God for nothing?

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Episode 102: God Desires Good Things for Us

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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Do you view God as someone who wants to punish you and teach you lessons, or do you believe that He wants to bless you? In this episode, Dot opens up about something she’s been struggling with lately and shares the lesson she’s learned in the process. Dot and Cara talk about the idea that God wants good things for us, and they explain how we can ask God to help us trust Him and to want what He wants. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 7:9-11 (0:12)
Do you believe that God will do good things in your life? (1:41)
God is not just a God of discipline, He also wants to bless us (10:02)
We can ask God to help us want what He wants (14:45)
Pay attention to the fruit you’re seeing in your life (27:18)

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Episode 101: Looking to the Heart of God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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We’ll never understand everything about God, but we can trust His heart. In this episode, Dot and Cara answer two more listener questions about what it means to have faith, and how we can look to God as the source of our faith and our salvation. Dot also shares several Scriptures that can help you dig further into this topic, so grab your Bible and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Hebrews 11:6 (0:10)
Today we’re answering questions about what it means to have faith (1:16)
The messages we hear as children can impact our faith today (3:57)
Focus on what Jesus said, and look for the heart of God (8:43)
We’re saved because of Jesus’ death for our sins (10:29)
You don’t have to know everything to trust the heart of God (18:13)
Start by bringing your questions to God (25:43)
God gives us faith at the capacity we need (29:15)

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Episode 100: Is the Bible Real?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0500

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What does it really mean when we say Scripture is inspired by God, and how can we know that the Bible is true? To kick off the new year, Dot and Cara tackle these questions, discussing the common themes we can find throughout all of Scripture, the process of selecting the books of the Bible, and much more. Dot also shares plenty of verses to help you dive deeper into this question, so grab a pen and piece of paper and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down James 1:5-8 (0:14)
Today we’re answering listener questions about how we prove the Bible is real (3:14)
If you ask God for wisdom, He’ll give it to you (5:35)
2 Peter 1:20-21: Scripture is inspired by God through the power of the Holy Spirit (7:52)
As you study the Bible as a whole, you’ll see the common threads (10:41)
2 Timothy 3:16 and John 10:35: Scripture is infallible (18:08)
How the biblical canon came to be (22:40)
1 Thessalonians 5:27, 2 Peter 3:15-16, Colossians 4:16 Jesus quoted Scripture (27:56)

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Episode 99: He Will Wipe Away Every Tear

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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Revelation can feel overwhelming or confusing to read, but it’s ultimately a reminder that we were created to dwell with God, and we can trust Him to right every wrong in this world. In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on their year of reading through the Bible and talk about some of their favorite parts of the book of Revelation. Dot also shares practical tips for reading and understanding this book. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Revelation 21:3-5 (0:12)
We’re almost at the end of our year of reading through the Bible (1:37)
We were created to dwell with the Lord (4:06)
Revelation reminds us that we can trust God (14:44)
What does the story in Revelation actually mean? (18:05)
When Jesus died he conquered sin and death (22:51)
How to approach reading Revelation (29:24)

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We need your questions!

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Fri, 09 Dec 2022 12:37:39 -0500

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Dot and Cara are getting ready to record their 100th Episode and they want to hear from you!! Submit your questions and they will answer as many as they can in Episode 100. If you have any questions about anything from a past episode, or how to apply a truth or even about our relationship, submit them to hello@dotbowen.com by Wednesday December 14!

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Episode 98: Intimacy with God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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In 1, 2, and 3 John, the apostle reminds readers about the importance of intimacy with God. Dot and Cara talk about this idea in today’s episode, and Dot answers some of Cara’s biggest questions about prayer, including “why should we pray?” and “does prayer really change things?” Pour yourself a cup of coffee and listen in.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 John 3:1 (0:12)
John’s writing is especially concerned with our closeness with the Lord (1:27)
We can speak the truth in love (6:17)
Repentance creates intimacy with God (12:35)
Why should we ask God for things? (17:02)
Can our prayers change the will of God? (24:34)
What might you lose by not trusting God? (29:40)

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Episode 97: Cast Your Cares on Him

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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Satan often tries to keep us stuck in the past, but God has a better way for us. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the book of 1 Peter, explaining what they learn from seeing Peter grow and change throughout Scripture. They also talk about what it means to cast your anxieties on the Lord, and they share some encouraging promises for anyone who’s struggling.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Peter 5:6-11 (0:13)
1 Peter is a somewhat overlooked book, but it’s full of wisdom (2:16)
Peter had the biggest impact on the early church (6:06)
Satan wants to keep you looking back instead of moving forward (15:05)
God promises to restore, strengthen, confirm, and establish us through suffering (18:09)
What does it actually mean to cast your anxieties on Him? (29:13)

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Episode 96: A Sacrifice of Praise

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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It can feel difficult to praise God when we’re waiting for Him to do something, or we’re struggling to understand His plans. But Hebrews reminds us that our praise is a sacrifice we can give in celebration of who He is and the way Jesus died for us on the cross. In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on this idea of a sacrifice of praise, and they talk about some of the different ways we can come before God in prayer, even when we’re wrestling with big questions or struggling to believe He has good things in store for us.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Hebrews 13:15 (0:13)
Praise is more powerful than we often realize (1:55)
Many of us forget to be thankful for what Jesus did on the cross (5:08)
Advent reminds us to celebrate God’s presence with us (7:45)
We can be honest with God when we’re wrestling (13:44)
God wants to give good gifts to His children (18:53)
Going to God in prayer is an act of faith (24:25)
Jesus submitted to the Father’s will when he came to earth (27:56)

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Episode 95: He is Worth It

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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The book of Hebrews contains some challenging ideas, but it’s also a powerful reminder of who Jesus is and what His sacrifice means for each of us. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the idea that Jesus is both a prophet and a high priest who makes it possible for us to go before God directly. They also reflect on one of the key themes of Hebrews — the idea that it’s worth it to follow Jesus even in the face of persecution — and explain why it’s so important to mentor and be mentored by others.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Hebrews 6:1 (0:13)
As you age you have a unique opportunity to mentor younger Christians (1:33)
Surround yourself with people at different points in their faith journeys (10:08)
Hebrews speaks directly to the questions of the Jewish people (12:53)
Jesus was the only prophet and high priest (18:00)
We’ll never understand what a gift it is that we can now go before God (21:15)
Hebrews reminds Christians that it’s worth it to follow Jesus (25:32)
Who was Malchizedek? (27:34)
To pray is to enter the presence of God (34:54)

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Episode 94: Fight the Good Fight

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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In 2 Timothy, Paul took one last opportunity to encourage his disciple before he died. Dot and Cara discuss Paul’s final letter in today’s episode, and Cara explains why it’s her favorite letter in the Bible. They also talk about what it means to be a disciple, and the powerful way Paul demonstrated forgiveness at the end of his life. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 2 Timothy 4:6-8 (0:13)
Timothy was like a son to Paul, and Paul wrote his last letter to him (1:34)
What does it mean to be a disciple? (3:52)
Paul encourages us to live our lives in a way that people will see God through us (7:07)
There’s a difference between living from wounds and from scars (8:22)
2 Timothy is even more meaningful in the context of Paul’s journey (15:19)
Just like Stephen, Paul forgave those who had wronged him (20:39)
Paul’s last letter to Timothy was a powerful reminder of God’s love (28:40)

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Episode 93: Whatever You Do, Do it for the Lord

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0400

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As Christians, God calls us to both live with an eternal perspective and also to approach our everyday responsibilities as work God has called us to do. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about that tension in the context of 1 and 2 Thessalonians. Dot explains why Paul’s message to the Thessalonian church is so relevant today, and she and Cara explore what it means to do all of our work as if we’re doing it for the Lord.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18 (0:13)
We can find encouragement in the promise that Jesus will return (1:53)
The church at Thessalonica took Paul’s words as an excuse to do whatever they wanted (5:45)
What if we really lived as if Jesus was coming again? (12:40)
Whatever you do, do it well knowing you’re doing it for God (21:55)
Sometimes what we’re meant to do is just draw near to the Lord (34:10)

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Episode 92: Saved by Grace

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0400

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In Ephesians and Colossians, we get a clear picture of the love Paul had for the church, and an example of what it means to pray for others. In this episode, Dot and Cara share some of their favorite parts of these two letters, especially focusing on the idea that we’re saved by grace through faith. They also talk about the prayers Paul writes that have helped them throughout their faith journeys, and they discuss what it means to put on the armor of God. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Ephesians 2:4-6 (0:12)
Ephesians shows us how we can pray for others (2:02)
Paul had a special love for the church at Ephesus (6:19)
Works are not what saves us, we’re saved by grace through faith (8:47)
God brings what was dead to life (13:45)
We know Jesus never leaves us or forsakes us, but sometimes we miss Him (19:38)
What does it mean to put on the armor of God? (29:10)

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Philippians 1 episode
Philippians 2 episode
Philippians 3 episode
Philippians 4 episode
“Victory in Spiritual Warfare” by Tony Evans

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Episode 91: New Life in Christ

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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No matter how much time we spend praying or reading our Bible, it’s not our actions that make us right before God. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what it means to be crucified with Christ and find new life in Him. They discuss the difference between living in the Spirit and living in the flesh, and Dot explains why Galatians is one of her favorite books of the Bible. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Galatians 2:20-21 (0:12)
Why Galatians is near and dear to Dot’s heart (2:12)
Galatians shows us what it really means to live and follow Jesus (6:45)
As followers of Jesus we should live by the Spirit, not the flesh (10:48)
Galatians addresses the question of who needs to follow Jewish law (22:14)
Going to church or reading the Bible does not make us right with God (28:46)

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“The Race Marked Out for Us” by Dot Bowen

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Episode 90: Do Not Lose Heart

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Oct 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Our salvation is less about being free to do whatever we want and more about having the freedom from sin that once kept us in bondage. In this episode, Dot and Cara explore some of the key themes Paul covers in 1 and 2 Corinthians, including the idea of freedom. They explain how 1 Corinthians was written to call out problems in the church, and 2 Corinthians is a more gentle reminder of God’s heart for the Corinthians. Grab your Bible and a notebook and join us for this episode!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 (0:13)
A mid-year check in on our Bible reading challenge (1:28)
In 2 Corinthians, Paul is responding to problems in the church he founded (6:36)
It’s not that we’re free to do what we want, it’s that we’re free to not do it (11:08)
1 Corinthians is more of a rebuke. In 2 Corinthians, Paul shows us the heart of God (16:48)
Sometimes God gives us moments where it’s especially clear how real He is (18:57)
We all need reminders that we’re living for a purpose (24:33)

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Episode 89: Hope Against Hope

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Oct 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Romans is full of reminders about our identity in Christ and the hope and victory we can find in Him.In this episode, Dot and Cara share a few of their favorite passages from the book of Romans. They talk about how Romans 4 encourages them to hold onto hope, reflect on Paul’s message in Romans 8, and discuss the importance of consistently spending quality time with the Lord. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and listen along.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 8:14-16 (0:14)
Romans 4 reminds us to hold onto hope (1:36)
Even when it seemed like everything was against him, Abraham trusted God (8:00)
Did Abraham know that God would spare Isaac? (12:14)
Sometimes God allows circumstances so that He can show us who He is (17:53)
God has adopted us into his family, and He cares for us (24:31)
When we don’t spend quality time with the Lord, we’ll feel the difference (27:45)
Romans reminds us that we have victory through Jesus (34:06)

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Episode 88: Dying to Self

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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When we choose to follow Jesus, our old self dies and we are reborn. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about this idea and some of the other wisdom they’ve found in the book of Romans. They also explain how trying to find freedom will ultimately leave you even more enslaved than you were before and remind listeners that we don’t need to earn God’s grace or forgiveness. This episode is packed with important insight, so pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Romans 3:10-12 (0:13)
You can see Paul’s approach evolving throughout his letters (2:16)
Romans teaches us that there’s nothing we can do to earn God’s grace (12:38)
Because of Jesus’ death, we are justified before God (16:12)
Sanctification is the ongoing process of becoming more like Jesus (17:14)
Many Christians seek freedom instead of holiness, but we’re never truly free (18:41)
When we choose to follow Christ, our old self is crucified with Him (25:11)
In the kingdom of God, death brings life (30:16)

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Episode 87: The Role of the Holy Spirit

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Many Christians tend to either ignore the Holy Spirit because they don’t understand Him, or magnify Him to a level of importance that’s greater than the rest of the Trinity. In this episode, Dot and Cara share their perspective on the questions of who the Holy Spirit is, why Jesus sent Him, and how His presence impacts our daily lives. They also explain why they find comfort in the story of Stephen, which shows us that Jesus sees us and is moved by our suffering.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Acts 1:7-11 (0:13)
People tend to either avoid the Holy Spirit altogether or magnify it (1:40)
The Holy Spirit is the fulfillment of Jesus’ promise to never leave or forsake us (4:45)
The Holy Spirit opens our eyes to spiritual truths, based on what we can handle (8:13)
Stephen’s story shows us that Jesus is moved when we’re suffering (13:07)
Through the power of the Holy Spirit, Stephen asked God to forgive His persecutors (19:03)
God doesn’t expect us to be faithful out of our own strength (24:17)
When God calls us to something, He also equips us to do it (30:28)

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Episode 86: Believing without Sight

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Each and every person has a deep desire to be loved. And whether we realize it or not, God already loves us more than we can imagine. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what it means when John calls himself “the beloved.” They also discuss the themes we can find in each of the Gospels, depending on the writer’s perspective and the nature of his relationship with Jesus. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 20:29-31 (0:13)
Each Gospel shares a different perspective based on how the writer saw Jesus (1:32)
When we have a mountaintop experience, we tend to want to stay there (6:01)
The themes of John’s gospel are belief and love (14:25)
John felt beloved because he was most able to receive the love Jesus has for all of us (18:32)
All of us want to be loved, and God’s love is there for us to accept (26:47)

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Episode 85: When God is Silent

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Sep 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Just because we think God is silent, it doesn’t mean He’s not working to carry out His plans. In this episode, Cara and Dot talk about the silent years, when God stopped speaking through the prophets for 400 years leading up to the birth of Jesus. They explain how God’s plan is always at work in the background, and they talk about some of the different ways that Christians today can experience God’s voice even when He doesn’t directly answer our prayers. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and listen in to the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 5: 17-18 (0:13)
After the prophets, God went silent for 400 years (1:39)
It’s hard to have faith when we feel like God is silent (6:32)
Reading through the Bible reminds us that God is moving behind the scenes (11:32)
Through Jesus, God did what He said He would do (16:14)
God is leading us even when we don’t understand the story that’s unfolding (20:43)
Trust that God is preparing a way when you’re in your own “silent years” (28:22)

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Episode 84: Trusting God with Our Children’s Stories

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Aug 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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It’s difficult to accept the fact that we can’t protect our children from all suffering, but no matter what, we can trust that God has a plan. In this episode, we share a Mother’s Day talk Dot gave, where she shares the lessons she learned from reading about Moses’ mother. Dot explains how we can do our best to raise our children well, and then trust God to do what only He can. Grab your Bible and a journal and listen along!

Episode Recap

In this episode, we’re sharing a talk Dot gave on Mother’s Day (0:14)
We’re all a product of the people who have invested in our stories (1:17)
You don’t have to relate to someone in Scripture in order to learn from them (9:18)
Moses’ mother made a plan and then trusted God (12:52)
God doesn’t expect us to be perfect, but He wants us to do all we can (16:03)
The only thing we’re defined by is our identity in Christ (18:02)
Only God can do what only God can do (19:59)
God has a plan for each of us (28:14)
Whatever is on your heart today, God understands and He can carry it (33:26)

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Episode 83: No Matter Your Past, There is Always Hope

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Aug 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Jesus knew that Peter would deny him, but He still chose Peter to build His church. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what it means to trust that God can still use us no matter what we’ve done in the past. They share stories from Scripture and from their own lives that demonstrate how God can shape our experiences into the preparation we need to move forward or into a story that can help others. Grab a cup of coffee and listen along.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Luke 22:31-32 (0:13)
Jesus knew Peter would deny Him (2:24)
When Peter denied Jesus, it taught him humility and prepared him for his ministry (8:10)
Sometimes God shapes our experiences into a story that can help others (11:56)
It’s never too late for God to use you (15:47)
Paul knew what he’d done before encountering Jesus, but he still moved forward (23:17)
Instead of focusing too much on the past, keep your eyes on Jesus (27:28)

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Episode 82: Keep Moving Forward

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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When you encounter challenges, do you tend to face them head on, or do you use escapism to cope? In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss what it means to forget the past and keep moving forward, even if the steps you’re taking feel small or insignificant. Dot also reflects on some of the lessons she’s learning from cleaning out her house, and she explains why oftentimes, the best next step we can take is actually to pause and spend time with Jesus.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Philippians 3:12-14 (0:13)
Many of us cope with hard times through escapism (2:25)
The best place to be when you’re struggling is at the feet of Jesus (10:25)
We need to forget the past (14:01)
Moving forward doesn’t always look the same, so be gentle with yourself (17:02)
Instead of judging your progress externally, focus on where your heart is (23:46)

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Episode 81: Why Do Bad Things Happen?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Aug 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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It’s easy to look at the world around us and wonder why good things happen to “bad” people when so many “good” people are suffering. In this episode, Dot and Cara wrestle with a question they received from a listener about this topic. They explain that it’s perfectly normal to ask why God allows bad things to happen to people we love, and they remind listeners that even when we can’t understand God’s ways, we can know His heart.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Job 40:1-8 (0:13)
In this episode we’ll be discussing a listener question: Why do good things happen to bad people and bad things to good people? (1:12)
It’s normal to question why God allows bad things to happen to people we love (6:37)
God’s design was not for us to suffer, but we live in a broken world (10:17)
God’s ways are not our ways, but we can know His heart (12:04)
David struggled with these same questions until he encountered God (18:05)
Only God can judge people’s hearts (21:32)
It’s not about whether we’re good or bad, it’s about whether we’ve accepted Jesus (27:55)

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Episode 80: Teach Me Your Way, Lord

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss a verse that’s very close to Dot’s heart; in fact, she prays it every morning. They talk about what it means to learn the ways of God, and Dot explains how reading Scripture allows her to better understand God’s heart and desires for His children. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 86:11-13 (0:14)
If we ask God to show us His ways, He’ll answer (1:12)
To know God’s heart, look to Scripture and learn the names He calls Himself (3:14)
We won’t always know what God is up to, but we can know His heart (6:05)
God does not withhold what’s best for us (8:28)
How to learn the heart of God (15:50)

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Episode 79: Here’s a Question

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Jul 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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In this episode, Dot and Cara take a break from reading through the Bible to talk about a few of the fun and serious questions they’d ask God if they were given the chance. They also reflect on the idea that just like children can’t always understand why their parents have certain rules, we can’t fully understand what God is doing and why. In the end, we have to rely on trusting the heart of God and knowing that He’s looking out for us, even when death and suffering make it hard to believe He’s working.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 2 Peter 3:15-17 (0:12)
What question would you ask God if you had the chance? (4:56)
God never said we wouldn’t experience death, but we have hope of resurrection (8:43)
What happened to Lazarus when he died for four days? (16:03)
Just because we don’t understand everything doesn’t mean we can’t trust God (19:27)
We may not know God’s mind, but we can know His heart (22:48)

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Episode 78: Just Start Reading

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Jul 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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When you consistently spend time in Scripture, you’ll learn to recognize God speaking through the text. But how do you build the habit of reading the Bible? In this episode, Dot and Cara share their best advice for sticking to your Bible reading plan, or even just spending some time with the Word every day. They also explain why they like to focus on reading straight through the Bible in a year and share some of the biggest lessons they’ve learned in the process.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 119:9-11 (0:13)
If you’re struggling to read through the Bible in a year, you’re not alone (1:40)
Whether you’re busy or feeling emotionally burnt out, it’s normal to fall behind (9:02)
The Bible is living and active, so there’s always more to learn (10:28)
When you start from the beginning of a story, you understand it better (13:38)
Most wrong ideas people have about God come from not knowing the full story (17:17)
Resources that help us read the Bible (20:50)
Reading the Bible can become a habit, but you may have to fight to get there (22:35)
If you’re not reading the Bible through, just focus on spending time in the Word (30:03)

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Episode 77: Trusting God With All Our Emotions

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Jul 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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In the book of Psalms, we see a beautiful representation of what it looks like to go before God with all our emotions, our doubts, and our questions. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk through the reasons they love the Psalms and share some of their favorite passages from throughout the book. They also explain why lament is not only acceptable, but also a powerful tool for connecting with God in the midst of grief and doubt. Grab your Bible and listen in on the conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Psalm 1:1-4 (0:12)
The Psalms contain the full spectrum of human emotion (4:44)
Even David lamented and questioned God (7:02)
Lament isn’t just complaining, it’s about turning to God (9:33)
Honesty with God is the beginning of freedom (13:43)
Don’t get so caught up in “playing church” that you stop being genuine (16:46)
Find a Psalm to meditate on that speaks to where you are right now (24:15)

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Episode 76: In All Honesty

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Jun 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Just because you don’t see how God is working doesn’t mean He isn’t carrying out His plans. In this episode, we share a live session from the 2022 Breathe Retreat, where Dot shares the story of Moses and the lessons it can teach us about God’s faithfulness. Dot explains how even Moses’ time in the wilderness was specifically designed to prepare him for what God had in store, and she talks about the freedom and redemption we can find when we’re bold enough to come before God with honesty and lament.

Episode Recap

Our true identity can only be found in the truth that we are children of God (2:20)
God kept His promise and turned Abraham’s family into a nation (7:57)
God is faithful to His plan, even when we don’t know what it is (13:42)
Write down Exodus 2:23-24 and Exodus 3:1-9 (17:42)
When God calls your name, your life will change (20:54)
Exodus tells us that God sees us and cares when we’re hurting (22:50)
If you think you’re somebody, God will show you that you’re no one without Him (27:34)
The absence of a miracle doesn’t mean God isn’t speaking (29:14)
There’s freedom in being honest with God when we’re struggling to trust Him (37:48)
Tears are human, and lament is redemptive (45:28)
Jesus loved us enough to die so that we could come before God (49:50)

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Episode 75: Would You Serve God for Nothing?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Jun 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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The book of Job brings up difficult questions about who God is and why He allows us to experience pain and suffering. But when you get to the end of the story, you can see that God never left Job, and He always had a plan. In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss the different places where we can see the goodness of God in the midst of Job’s story. They also talk about the challenge of supporting your loved ones through hardship when you can’t understand what God is doing, and they wrestle with the idea that we shouldn’t just serve God for His blessings; we should serve Him for who He is. Grab your Bible and a journal and join us for this conversation.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Job 1:6-9 (0:13)
The book of Job presents more questions than it answers (2:47)
When you get to the end of Job’s story, you can see the goodness of God (5:39)
Job’s friends assumed they knew what God was doing, but none of us truly can (9:34)
God can handle our questions and our doubts (13:57)
Because of his suffering, Job was able to see God in a new way (19:21)
Do you serve God for His blessings, or for who He is? (20:42)
We don’t have to be OK with pain and suffering, but we can trust that this isn’t the end of the story (23:38)

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Episode 74: For Such A Time As This

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Jun 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Even when the cost of following God seems high, you never want to look back and wonder what could have happened if you’d obeyed Him. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk through the amazing examples of obedience we see in Esther and Mordecai. They also discuss the idea that we often can’t see God’s plan when we’re in the middle of a challenging situation, but that doesn’t mean God isn’t moving and changing everything in seemingly small moments. Grab a cup of coffee and listen along!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Esther 4:12-14 (0:12)
God is not mentioned in Esther, but her story plays a central part in Jewish history (1:27)
Esther had faith in the midst of an impossible situation (3:44)
You can’t always see God’s hand when you’re in the middle of the story (9:25)
In the end, Mordecai is rewarded for his commitment (10:34)
The cost of taking action may be less than the cost of doing nothing at all (13:03)
God can change history in the smallest of moments, even when we don’t know it (15:12)
The themes of Esther’s story lead us right into Job (22:30)

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Episode 73: Standing Firm in the Midst of Criticism

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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God wants to use us to carry out His plans in the world, but that requires us to protect our hearts and minds from worldly distractions. In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on the example Nehemiah set through his approach to rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem. They discuss the idea that sometimes it’s healthy to build walls that protect us and show people that we’re focused on following Jesus. They also talk about the importance of standing firm in what God has called you to do in the midst of fear and criticism.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Nehemiah 2:17-18 (0:13)
Some walls keep people out, but others are important for protecting yourself (1:24)
How to know if a wall is healthy (4:14)
The walls of Jerusalem were a symbol of God setting the Jewish people apart (6:38)
We should live in a way that makes it clear that we’re following Jesus (11:50)
Surround yourself with people who help you follow God more closely (13:57)
Nehemiah fought fear and false accusations with prayer (21:25)
God wants us to work with Him to carry out His plan of restoration (26:11)

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Episode 72: Who Am I That God Would Use Me?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Jun 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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When God chooses to work through us, it’s not a reflection of how great we are, but rather how good and powerful He is. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the example David set for us when he prayed to God with humility and gratitude. They discuss the importance of embracing whatever calling God has given you — even if it feels small or insignificant — and Dot shares a story about the lessons she’s learned from watching cruise ships and fishing boats on the ocean.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Chronicles 17:19-22 (0:13)
1 and 2 Chronicles cover the same time in history as 1 and 2 Kings, but from different perspectives (2:06)
David sat before God with humility (5:43)
Not everyone is called to be a cruise ship, it’s often small boats that feed people (10:50)
There’s a difference between doubting yourself and asking “who am I that God would use me?” (16:58)
It’s not what you do, it’s the fact that God has chosen you to do it (22:10)
The things that feel huge for us aren’t hard for God (24:00)
David reminds us that God wants to use us, and also to give God the glory (27:19)

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Episode 71: How to Know the Will of God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 May 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Have you ever wished God would just tell you exactly what His will for your life is? While you may not know all the details of your specific situation, God’s will for all of us is clear in Romans: to love Him and surrender our lives to Him. In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss what it means to become a living sacrifice to God. They talk about the different ways God calls us to love people — even when we don’t agree with their choices — and they explain how our actions can be an overflow of our relationship with God. Grab your Bible, pull up a chair, and join us!

Episode Recap
● Start by writing down Romans 12:1-6 (0:13)
● God’s will for us is simple (1:30)
● We may not have all the details, but we can glorify God wherever we are (9:03)
● When we seek God with all our hearts, He is glorified (14:24)
● You can love someone without agreeing with all the things they do (21:57)
● Doing godly things is not what makes us Christian; faith in Jesus does (26:17)
● Whatever is in you will always overflow (28:52)
● God asks us to give up our right to be right, so we can be close to Him (32:00)

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Episode 70: Let's Pray

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 May 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalms 139:13-14

In this episode, Dot and Cara take a break from discussing their Bible reading and discuss a topic weighing heavy on Dot’s heart, abortion. This episode is a bit different than most given the subject matter and heaviness on their hearts. Yet after watching the news one night, Dot couldn’t sleep and began to pray to ask God to heal our land. (2 Chronicles 7:14). We may not understand God’s ways, but even when we do not understand, we can pray to a God who does.

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Episode 69: Finding Comfort in God’s Presence

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 May 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Elijah got to see God perform amazing miracles, but he still felt afraid and wondered if God’s provision was enough for him. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the parallels they notice between Elijah’s escape from Jezebel and the fears many of us experience in our own lives. They discuss the way that God cared for Elijah in the midst of his exhaustion and explain how just like Elijah, we can almost miss God’s presence if we’re only looking out for a major miracle. Grab a cup of coffee and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Kings 19:1-3 (0:13)
All throughout Kings we see stories of people serving God and then falling away (2:12)
Elijah is an extremely important prophet and Old Testament figure (6:25)
Even after seeing God do incredible miracles, Elijah ran away in fear (9:54)
Words have more power than we often realize (12:08)
God meets Elijah at his lowest point and takes care of him (16:32)
When Elijah felt alone, God’s voice led him out (21:36)
Sometimes when we’re looking for God to show His power, He shows up in the quiet instead (25:56)
We should serve God because we love Him, not serve Him in order to love Him (29:20)

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Episode 68: God’s Plan Cannot be Thwarted

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 May 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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When Solomon became king, he knew he’d need God’s wisdom to help him rule. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about what it looks like to ask God for wisdom in our own lives, and then to have the faith to act while knowing God has given us what we need and He will accomplish His plans. They also explain how idolatry held many of Israel and Judah’s kings back from fully serving God, and they reflect on the ways idolatry can show up in all of our lives.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Kings 3:7-10 (0:12)
There were very few good kings in Israel and Judah (4:36)
It’s easy to let other things become idols, even when we’re trying to follow God (7:51)
Solomon knew he’d need God’s help to fill David’s shoes (18:05)
When we ask for wisdom, we then need to trust that God has given it (20:43)
Just because we’re not seeing the outcome we want doesn’t mean that we made the wrong decision (24:55)
God’s plan cannot be thwarted (28:16)

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Episode 67: Seeking God’s Heart

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Apr 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Even though David made many mistakes, he also excelled at keeping his heart focused on God. In this episode, Dot and Cara explore what some of the key moments in David’s life can teach us about obedience, forgiveness, and respect for authority. They also compare David’s attitude to Saul’s, which was driven by anger, jealousy, and pride, and they discuss how holding onto bitterness prevents us from fully allowing God to take control of our circumstances.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Samuel 24:3-4 (0:11)
David’s heart and mind were focused on doing what God would want (1:38)
It’s OK to feel afraid, but don’t let that stop you from following God’s instructions (6:54)
David respected Saul’s authority even though he knew he’d be king one day (10:26)
Forgiveness allows us to step back and let God can take care of things (15:11)
The position of someone’s heart is more important than external behavior (19:01)
We can’t force other people to change their perspectives (27:07)
We win by focusing on God (29:11)

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Episode 66: The Danger of Pride

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Apr 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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When Hannah asked for a son, God gave her Samuel. When the Israelites asked for a king, God anointed Saul even though He knew there would be consequences. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the ways that our prayers intersect with God’s plans. They also discuss the lessons we can learn from David and Saul, including the importance of staying humble and keeping your heart focused on God.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down 1 Samuel 2:1-2 (0:13)
Israel wanted a king in spite of Samuel’s warnings (1:36)
Hannah was desperate for a son and God honored her desire and faithfulness (6:34)
God was setting the stage for the coming Messiah (10:39)
God warned the Israelites but ultimately gave them what they asked for (11:38)
There’s a difference between consequences and God forsaking us (13:36)
The Israelites’ idea of freedom led to captivity (16:40)
David made mistakes but his heart was focused on God (18:09)
In his pride, Saul forgot that God made Him king (24:00)

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Episode 65: How Ruth’s Story Points to Jesus

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Apr 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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The story of Ruth is ultimately a story about the commitment God makes to accomplishing His plans. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the book of Ruth and the way it points to Jesus as the kinsman redeemer who allows us to claim our inheritance from God. They also reflect on the meaning of Good Friday, which reminds us to have faith even when we’re grieving and don’t understand why life has turned out a certain way.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Ruth 4:13-14 (0:13)
It’s easy to become bitter when life doesn’t turn out how you expected (1:58)
Ruth is really a story about Jesus becoming our kinsman redeemer (5:33)
God accomplished His plan even in the midst of terrible circumstances (11:10)
Good Friday reminds us that the darkest times can lead to a miracle (22:19)
We can take the next step in faith that God is working (24:55)

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Episode 64: Discipline as Direction

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Apr 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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Just like the Israelites, our relationships with God can often seem cyclical, with seasons where we feel extra committed and others where we struggle to trust and obey Him. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about some of the most valuable insights they find in the book of Judges, from the importance of being honest before God like Gideon to the difference between discipline and punishment. Grab your journal and a pen and listen along!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Judges 2:8-12 (0:14)
Judges shows the cycles the Israelites go through with trusting God (2:40)
God wanted the Israelites to represent who He is (7:02)
We can trust that God is good even when we don’t understand what He’s doing (8:00)
God understood that Gideon needed a sign (14:18)
Discipline is often direction from God (19:54)

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Episode 63: Trusting God in Times of Grief

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Mar 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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It can feel frightening when God calls us into something new, but we can trust that He will go before us. In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss the importance of mourning a loss while still seeking God’s presence and practicing obedience. They open up about their personal experiences with choosing faith in the midst of doubt and grief, and they talk about the idea that God can work wonders in unexpected places.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 3:1-4 (0:14)
When we’re going somewhere new, God will go before us (2:45)
Sometimes it’s hard to believe God is about to work wonders (7:27)
We need to take time to mourn while also trusting God to lead us out (12:17)
You don’t want to wonder what could have been if you had obeyed God (19:44)
Come before God even when you have nothing to give (25:35)
Consecrating yourself is the first step forward (32:47)

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Episode 62: Taking a Step of Faith

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 11:01:25 -0400

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It can feel challenging to move forward when we’ve been spending time in the wilderness, but God calls us to take a step of faith so we can experience the fullness of His promises. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about God’s instructions to Joshua as he prepared to enter the Promised Land. They also reflect on what it means to experience peace and rest even in the midst of a battle.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Joshua 1:1-7 (0:14)
Moses didn’t enter the Promised Land, but he got to experience intimacy with God (4:10)
We may not experience every promise of God, but we’ve still received them (8:14)
God promises peace and rest, even in the midst of battles (12:43)
It is time for us to move forward (17:07)
To rest is to enjoy the presence of God (18:35)
Acknowledge your past and choose to take a step of faith anyway (27:04)
Take the step you know to take (30:30)
Jesus Himself is ready to lead you to a rewarding future (33:43)

Resources:

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Episode 61: Bring Your Fears to Jesus

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Mar 2022 04:00:00 -0400

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What difference can prayer really make in the midst of difficult circumstances? In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the importance of kneeling before God in the midst of frightening world events. They discuss the ways that prayer can unify Christians, center our focus on God, and change our perspective in the midst of fear and division. They also explain how we can find hope in the reassurance that no matter what’s happening, God is on the throne.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Deuteronomy 4:39 (0:13)
When things feel heavy, it’s important to remember who God is (2:02)
In times of division, isolation and fear, we need to get down on our knees (7:22)
When we’re struggling to unite, we can unite around trusting the Lord (14:52)
Prayer centers our focus on God (16:53)
Sometimes prayer seems insufficient, but it changes us and our perspective (21:59)
Ask God to help you see people as He sees them (25:09)
Remember that God is on His throne and He loves us (27:23)

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Episode 60: God’s Promise in the Midst of Doubt

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Mar 2022 04:00:00 -0500

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How does God want us to respond when life doesn’t turn out the way we expected? Even when we don’t know the end of the story, we can trust that God is good and has given us the power to overcome. In this episode, Dot and Cara reflect on the promises of God that we can still lean on today. They also talk about the Israelites’ journey to the Promised Land and discuss the mistakes the Israelites made while questioning God’s instructions. Grab a cup of coffee and listen along!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Numbers 13:1-2 (0:14)
Like the Israelites, it’s easy to get caught up in complaining (3:56)
When you don’t know how to keep walking, it’s OK to sit and wait on God (9:12)
God told the Israelites exactly what He was about to do, but they doubted it (11:20)
God calls us to trust Him even when we don’t know the end of the story (17:37)
No matter what, we can trust that God is good and loves us (21:43)
There is nothing we will face that God has not given us power to overcome (27:33)

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Episode 59: God’s Holiness and Jesus’ Sacrifice

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Mar 2022 04:00:00 -0500

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Because of Jesus, we can enter into the presence of a Holy God, even though we are sinners. In this episode, Dot and Cara continue their conversation about the lessons they find in the book of Leviticus. They also talk about how the Old Testament messages about God’s Holiness and our sinfulness point to the miracle of Jesus’ sacrifice, which covers us and allows us to be adopted into the family of God. Grab your journal and a pen and listen in!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Leviticus 19:1-2 (0:13)
Leviticus can teach us important lessons about the Holiness of God (2:48)
It’s important to be honest with God, but don’t forget who He is (9:09)
We can’t fully comprehend what true Holiness is (15:32)
The miracle of Jesus is that we can now enter into the presence of God (20:30)
God set up guidelines and restrictions so that people could draw near to Him (27:33)
There’s a difference between discipline and condemnation (30:30)

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Episode 58: There is Power in the Blood of Jesus

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Feb 2022 04:00:00 -0500

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It’s easy to miss the significance of a book like Leviticus, but it actually contains some deep and important truths. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the idea of a blood sacrifice and explain how Leviticus can help us understand the reason why Jesus died on the cross. They also discuss the holiness of God and wrestle with what it means to follow Jesus’ commands while also knowing that we are free because of His sacrifice.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Leviticus 17:11 (0:13)
Leviticus is one of the most neglected but powerful books in the Bible (1:25)
Life is in the blood, and that’s why Jesus’s sacrifice could cover our sins (4:56)
Leviticus shows us the holiness of God (11:37)
Jesus shed His blood so we could have life (15:33)
Instead of following the law to be accepted by God, we are accepted by God because of Jesus (22:35)
Sin is bondage, but Jesus sets us free (26:53)
We can’t be holy on our own, we need a sacrifice (30:02)

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Episode 57: God Fights for His Children

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Feb 2022 04:00:00 -0500

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No matter what battle we’re facing, we can trust that God is fighting for us. In this episode, Dot and Cara revisit the book of Exodus to talk through the story of Moses holding up his staff during a battle with the Amalekites. They talk about the importance of finding someone to share your pain with who can point you back to Jesus, and they celebrate the truth that God is always victorious.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Exodus 17:12-13 (0:12)
God is victorious always (2:28)
When we’re in a battle, we need people to hold us up (3:12)
God won the battle, but He used Moses and the people around him (6:08)
God is always fighting for us, even when we can’t see it (11:39)
It’s important to share your pain, whether it’s with God or with a person you trust (13:37)
Good friends don’t just give advice, they encourage you to keep trusting God (22:11)
Some days, faith is all you’ve got (26:23)

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Episode 56: The Promise of God’s Presence

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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Even when we can’t understand why we have to suffer, we can trust that God is good and His presence is with us. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about the hope they find while reading about Moses’ relationship with God. They wrestle with the idea that God will use even our most difficult circumstances to fulfill His plans, and they reflect on the ways that God’s plan for Moses was even better than anything Moses could’ve imagined.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Exodus 33:13-15 (0:12)
God is a detailed God (1:40)
The Israelites worshipped the blessings God gave them instead of worshipping God (3:56)
Moses was incredibly honest with God (9:17)
Wherever we are, we can trust that God will use it (11:02)
It’s often easier to feel close to God in times of desperation (17:50)
Moses didn’t answer the Promised Land in the way he expected, but God did something even better (23:38)
Sometimes we only see God’s presence and goodness after the fact (28:49)

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Episode 55: Life in the Wilderness

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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Sometimes when we’re waiting on God to change our circumstances, the thing He really wants to change is us. In this episode, we share a session Dot led at the Breathe Retreat. She shares about the importance of trusting God in the midst of the wilderness, even when following Him turns out to be more difficult than we expected. She also discusses the important truth that God doesn’t waste our time or our experiences.

Episode Recap

God is not through with you yet (1:20)
God wishes we could see ourselves how He sees us (4:51)
God never wastes time, and He never wastes experiences (9:23)
Write down Exodus 13:17-18 (16:16)
Following Jesus doesn’t mean we won’t have battles to fight (20:05)
The wilderness is life between freedom and the promised land (24:20)
Write down Exodus 14:10-15 (27:33)
The very thing the Israelites thought would destroy them was their escape to freedom (28:45)
It’s easy to praise God when things are going our way, but many of us quickly turn to complaining when He tests us (29:06)
It was easier to get the Israelites out of Egypt than to get Egypt out of the Israelites (34:10)
Wherever you are today, it’s because God has led you there (42:28)

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Episode 54: A God Who Sees

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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The story of Exodus shows us that God can work through anyone, no matter what our past looks like. In fact, sometimes our deepest insecurities and hardest struggles are the very places where He chooses to use us. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about Moses’ life and the ways God makes Himself known to His people. They also discuss the idea that God always hears our prayers, even when we feel overwhelmed and abandoned.

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Exodus 3:2-7 (0:13)
Moses’ story points to Jesus and the way that God redeems all of us (2:07)
Polytheism was the norm, but God showed He was the one true God (8:36)
God doesn’t only want us to know His power, He wants us to know His ways also (12:42)
Exodus shows that we don’t have to be perfect for God to use us (15:02)
From the start, Moses was incredibly honest with God (20:52)
Even when things are difficult, God hears our prayers (25:00)
God wants to show us who we are and who He is (28:12)

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Episode 53: When Dreams Die

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0500

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The Bible tells us that God keeps His promises, but sometimes it’s hard to know what exactly God is promising. In this episode, Dot and Cara share what the story of Joseph can teach us about God’s faithfulness, even when our dreams die or things don’t turn out the way we hoped they would. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Genesis 50:19-22 (0:12)
When we don’t know the specifics of what God has promised us, we can trust the heart of God (1:30)
Joseph saw his dreams die over and over, but God was with him (9:36)
We often equate how well something turns out with whether or not it was God’s will, but God views things differently (12:08)
Evil exists, but God has a plan (21:16)
We can trust God because God is trustworthy (24:04)

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Episode 52: Trusting in God’s Plan

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 Jan 2022 04:00:00 -0500

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From Genesis to Revelation, we can see over and over again how God keeps the promises He makes to His people. In this episode, Dot and Cara talk about God’s covenant with Abraham and disucuss how God continued to work through him even when Abraham failed to trust that God would do what he said. Grab a cup of coffee and listen in!

Episode Recap:

Start by writing down Genesis 17:17-19 (0:11)
We invite you to join us in reading through the Bible in 2022 (1:41)
The Bible is full of stories of God keeping His covenants (4:27)
God made a promise to Abraham and Sarah, but they couldn’t always see how He was working (6:17)
Even after Abraham made a mistake, God reaffirmed His desire to work through Him (15:23)
God stuck to His plan, but He still agreed to bless Ishmael, also (18:56)
The more we get to know God, the more we’re able to trust that His plan is good (25:10)

Resources:

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Join me in reading Canonical:

https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/4

Join me in reading M'Cheyne One Year Reading Plan:

https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/24

Books References:

For the Love of God Volume One by D.A. Carson

For the Love of God Volume Two by D.A. Carson

The God who is There: Finding your Place in God’s Story by D.A. Carson

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Episode 51: A God of New Beginnings

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 Jan 2022 04:00:00 -0500

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In the story of Genesis, we see both the consequences of sin and the reality of a God who can work through any one of us. To kick off the new year, Dot and Cara talk about the creation story and explore some of the biggest themes they’ve noticed while reading Genesis. Pull up a chair and join us for this conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Genesis 1:1-2 (0:15)
The Genesis story shows us how sin progresses and multiplies (1:25)
God grieved when He saw how sin affects us (4:37)
God promised to never destroy the world by flood again (7:44)
Sin entered the world and Adam and Eve chose to engage (14:18)
Genesis reminds us of how easy it is to walk away from God’s will (16:26)
Jesus’ ancestry reminds us that God can work through anyone (18:01)
Only God truly knows what’s right and wrong (22:50)
God is constantly creating something new for us to step into (25:16)

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Episode 50: The Power of Scripture

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Dec 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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As this year comes to a close, it’s a great time to look ahead with hope, but it’s also important to reflect on the lessons we’ve learned and the ways we’ve seen God work in 2021. In today’s episode, Dot and Cara look back at some of their favorite conversations from the past year of podcasting together. They also explain why it’s so important to understand Scripture and apply it to our lives. Grab your journal and a cup of coffee and listen along!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Isaiah 9:6-7 (0:12)
Today we’ll take a look back at the conversations we’ve had in the past year (1:09)
Jesus is the prince of peace to a world that is anything but peaceful (3:16)
We are children of God (5:13)
We can find hope in the darkness because Jesus came to give us life (8:21)
It’s good to know God’s truth from Scripture, but we also need to apply it (14:21)
Jesus took away the power of sin (16:23)
Next year we’re challenging our listeners to read through the Bible with us (20:21)

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Episode 49: Encountering Emmanuel

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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The angels first announced Jesus’ birth to the shepherds, declaring that God had come to earth to be with us and inviting them to go and meet their savior. In this episode, we talk about the parallels between this Christmas story and the truth that Jesus is the Good Shepherd. Dot and Cara also share what Emmanuel, God with us, means to them. Pull up a chair and join us!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Luke 2:8-14 (0:12)
Today we’ll dive deeper into the Christmas story and the idea of “God with us” (1:26)
It’s significant that the angels showed up to shepherds first (2:32)
Jesus tends to us like a shepherd tends to his sheep (7:18)
Mary understood who Jesus was better than anyone (9:12)
Sometimes God works in a way that we can’t explain to others, but we know it was Him (13:30)
Jesus came to die, but it was all because of love (21:24)
God spoke, and the shepherds chose to go where He told them to (23:40)
The message of Christmas is Emmanuel, God is with us (26:04)

Resources:

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Episode 48: A God Who Understands

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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When Jesus came to earth as a man, He made it so we never have to wonder if God understands how we feel. In today’s episode, we talk about the idea that Jesus is both fully man and fully God, and we explore some of the ways that truth can transform our lives. Grab your Bible and a cup of coffee and listen along!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down John 1:1-5 (0:13)
Today we’ll continue our conversation about the birth of Jesus (1:02)
Each gospel has a different emphasis, and John focuses on the fact that Jesus is God (1:54)
God created man in his image, and Jesus was born in the image of man (4:32)
As a human, Jesus can relate to us (6:20)
Jesus left heaven and was born as a baby to have relationship with us (14:26)
Jesus’ scars remind us of who He is and how much He loves us (19:13)
When you feel abandoned or misunderstood, Jesus knows how you feel (23:10)
God loved us enough to send His son out of heaven and down to earth (26:14)

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Episode 47: Finding Hope in the Christmas Story

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Dec 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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We hear the Christmas story so often that it can be easy to overlook its significance. In today’s episode, we begin to talk about Jesus’ birth, the reason He came to earth, and the hope we can find in knowing that death is not the end. Dot also shares a personal story about finding peace in the midst of grief because of the Christmas story, and she and Cara talk about the heaviness that often comes with this time of year. Grab your journal and a pen and get ready to hear some words of encouragement!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Matthew 1:18-21 (0:15)
Today we’ll talk about Jesus’ birth and the reason He came to earth (1:26)
Because Jesus died, we have hope to see people again in heaven (2:13)
When Jesus came, it was to die for us (7:19)
The miracle wasn’t at Jesus’ birth, it was at His conception (9:07)
This season is a heavy time for many people, but the Christmas story reminds us we can have hope in the midst of pain (11:02)
Do not be afraid (13:48)
Mary had faith in the midst of the unknown (20:40)
We can move forward with greater courage when we’ve encountered God’s love (22:38)
Jesus taught us to focus on life over death, because death is not the end (25:06)
“Our greatest need is forgiveness, so God sent us a savior” (27:33)

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Episode 46: What is Sin?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Nov 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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Sin plays a central role in the Christian faith, but what is it, really? In today’s episode, we discuss the definition of sin, and Dot explains how it’s sinful to desire something when we know it’s wrong. We also describe how acknowledging and seeking forgiveness for our sins can help us build deeper connections with God and with each other. Grab a cup of coffee and join us for this conversation!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down James 4:17(0:14)
Today we’ll continue a discussion Kara and Dot had recently about sin (0:42)
What is sin? (3:54)
Is desire itself a sin? (5:20)
When God places something on your heart and you don’t obey, that is sin. (12:09)
If you’re feeling disconnected from God, check your heart and see if there’s sin you need to deal with (14:40)
It’s important to call sin what it is so that God can come in and work on our hearts (21:29)
When we’re aware of our sin, we can have more grace toward other people (25:36)
Sin doesn’t change God, but it destroys us (27:14)

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Episode 45: Avoiding Bitterness with Healthy Boundaries

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Nov 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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Boundaries can help us protect our hearts and our relationships, but what’s the difference between setting a healthy boundary and building a wall? In today’s episode, we answer some of your questions about boundaries and discuss the importance of asking God to change people’s hearts and help us avoid bitterness. Grab a pen and journal and listen along!

Episode Recap

Start by writing down Proverbs 25:16-17 (0:15)
We’ll continue our conversation about boundaries and answer your questions (0:41)
Boundaries are biblical, but for many people they don’t come easily (2:03)
Anything in excess is unhealthy (4:28)
Keep in mind that advice is only based on one side of the story, but biblical principles can guide you as you ask God for wisdom (6:36)
How do I ask my husband to listen to me instead of dominating the conversation? (9:32)
You can’t change or convict people, but you can look to God and ask Him to change their hearts (19:32)
Sometimes, we need boundaries to let people reap what they sow rather than protecting them from consequences of their actions (21:05)
When you’ve been deeply hurt in a relationship, setting a boundary can give you space to heal and forgive (23:46)
Check the motivation behind your boundaries; it shouldn’t be about hurting someone or proving a point (28:48)
There’s a difference between setting a boundary and building a wall (30:38)
Setting emotional boundaries can protect your heart from bitterness (32:40)

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Episode 44: Purpose in the Details

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Nov 2021 04:00:00 -0500

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Today we’re turning the tables a little bit. Cara is coming to Dot with a scripture to get her thoughts! Join us as we talk about what it looks like when we want to walk away from Jesus or we don’t feel His presence. Pull up a chair and listen in!

EPISODE RECAP

Start by writing down Mark 14:51-52 (0:12)
Cara has picked these verses for us to discuss (1:34)
When I (Cara) was reading this verse, I had heard the man was Mark. Is that right? (4:50)
The only time in Mark’s gospel where he refers to a linen cloth is in this instance and when Jesus is wrapped for burial. (8:49)
The little details in scripture do connect to the bigger picture (12:51)
The key in these verses is that scripture will be fulfilled (16:49)
In these small details, there is meaning. When things got tough, everyone fled from Jesus (18:43)
What is sad about this is that when Jesus was healing the sick, the crowds were after him. But when things got tough, they fled (23:06)
It may appear that other people are in control in your circumstances, but they’re not (26:35)
Many Christians think if they follow Jesus they won’t have any pain or hardship. But that’s not the case, and God has a plan (27:24)
Did you like that I turned the tables around? (29:03)
Even when we want to run away from God embarrassed or in shame, Jesus is there (30:29)

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Episode 43: Boundaries

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Nov 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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What are boundaries? Why do we have boundaries? How do we put them in place? These are just a few of the questions we’re diving into today. Grab your journal and a cup of coffee and join us.

EPISODE RECAP

Start by writing down Galatians 6:2-5 (0:12)
We’re going to talk about boundaries today and how to be careful about our boundaries to protect our heart and relationships (2:03)
It is not our place to put a principle in this podcast that would apply to every circumstance in everyone’s life (3:59)
A boundary does not mean we’re kicking someone out of our life. But it helps guard our heart so we can heal (5:11)
We’re not to carry the responsibility of someone else’s actions (8:02)
A boundary is set to restore and heal a relationship, not to destroy it (13:56)
The best word you can say within a boundary is “no” (18:29)
Healthy, godly boundaries are always motivated by love, kindness and a desire to restore and have a relationship (22:41)
God has placed the principle of boundaries all through scripture. When we are in a relationship and don’t know what to do, God wants us to talk with Him about it (26:30)

Want to submit your question about boundaries? Send it to Cara by Monday, Nov. 8 to for a chance to have answered in Episode 45! Simply email your question to cara@cupofjoy.org.

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Episode 42: Who Am I?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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Fear and shame can lead us to finding our identity in what we do, rather than who we really are—children of God. In this episode, we talk about the journey of finding confidence in who we are in Christ and what it looks like to live from that place of identity.

Write This Down: Genesis 3:8–10
It’s hard to separate what we do from who we are (1:32)
For believers, our identity has to be children of God (5:21)
What does it mean to be a child of God? (6:52)
Our significance has to come from Jesus (11:17)
Stay open to what God may be leading you to do (13:47)
Are you using busyness to hide from God or yourself? (15:29)
How to live out of your identity in God (19:04)
How do you know you’re not living in who you really are? (24:57)
God will graciously remind you of who you are (26:17)

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Episode 41: Where Am I?

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 20 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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Today is one of our favorite episodes - we’re deep diving into Genesis 3. Join us as we talk about sin entering the world and how crucial it is to be honest with ourselves and God. We are so glad you’re here!

EPISODE RECAP

Write down Genesis 3:6-9 (0:06)
There is nothing you’ll face in the world that you won’t find in Genesis 3. (2:14)
A lot of people question why God would put the tree in the middle of the garden. What do you think? (3:35)
We assume that sin entered with Eve took of the fruit, but it doesn’t necessarily say that. It could have been when she had the desire to be like God (10:28)
God called out to Adam and said, “Where are you?”. It’s so important to know where we are and be honest (14:35)
It’s like God is saying that before they can move on they need to know where they are (21:22)
We will never experience God forsaking us (26:44)
The key is to talk to God and process with Him (29:56)

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Episode 40: Grabbing Hold of the Mystery of God

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 13 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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Today we’re continuing our conversation about how to let go and grab hold of the mystery of who God is. We’re so glad you’re here, we hope you pull up a chair and listen in!

EPISODE RECAP

Start by writing down Philippians 3:12-14 (0:11)
We’re talking about a principle we all must know and apply - letting go of one thing and grabbing hold of another (1:31)
Paul is saying that we have to forget the things of the past. One of the things he had to forget was the things he’d learned about God over the years (2:38)
We try to manage our own lives and it is a form of control (10:13)
Every time the thorn raises its head and you can’t manage it, be reminded that you need God. Let go of what you think and trust (14:05)
God doesn’t seem to ever do anything the same. He’s keeping us on the edge of the mystery of who He is (23:37)
This principle of letting go is all throughout the Bible. It’s a powerful principle (25:54)

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Episode 39: Letting Go of What You Know

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 06 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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Surrender can be hard, especially when that involves a major change in your life. But sometimes we have to let go of something to grab hold of what God has for us. In this episode, we discuss Genesis 12 and what we can learn from Abram’s step of faith when God called him to a new life in a new land.

Write this down: Genesis 12:1–2
Sometimes we have to let go to make room for God’s best (1:45)
Abram was called to let go of what he knew (6:50)
How do you practice trusting God? (8:07)
Let go of what you thought your life was going to be like (11:34)
Our faith grows stronger when we exercise it (14:14)
Let go of the power pain and hurt has over you (17:22)
Trust God and He will help move you forward in your faith (20:01)
Let go of control—embrace the mystery of God (22:35)
Grab hold of God (25:38)

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Episode 38: Patience and the Power of Prayer

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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James 5 tackles a lot of big topics! We’ll be talking through patience and suffering today. We also look at prayer - what it does and does not look like. Grab your Bible, journal and a cup of coffee and join us for this conversation.

EPISODE RECAP

Start by writing down James 5:7-8 (0:10)
James reminds us to be doing something about our faith (1:47)
Scholars believe that James starts out chapter 5 by talking to non-believers (3:42)
For the non-believer, misery is coming. The believer may be suffering now but everlasting life is coming (6:43)
In verse 7, James addresses the believers about patience (8:20)
James is saying, “Stop paying so much attention to what’s going on around you and keep your eyes on God” (10:34)
James talks about prayer at the very end after talking about suffering (13:33)
People often misunderstand the verse talking about elders praying over sick people (15:39)
Your prayer is effective - just as effective as Elijah would be. But sometimes God has a different plan (20:45)
We have to either go with what God’s perfect plan is or go with our plan. That is a difficult tension (23:35)
Sometimes we see God when we’re looking back on things and not in the moment (26:26)
Our hope is that this is not our final destination. We’re just passing through (28:21)

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Episode 37: Dealing with Difficult People

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 05:00:00 -0400

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Does your life ever feel like pure chaos? Today James 4 reminds us that sometimes the drama and issues we experience are really a product of our own sin—namely, our pride. We’re glad to have you join this discussion as we talk about pride, humbling ourselves, and finding our significance in God.

Let’s start by writing down James 4:1–3 (0:28)
In our last episode we talked about the power of words (1:24)
Our outward struggles can be a reflection of the struggle within ourselves (2:54)
This chapter is about being prideful (6:24)
Humility is a choice we can make (9:08)
Pride can make us forget that we’re nothing apart from God (14:24)
The remedy to the war within is to draw near to God (18:53)
There’s hope when we submit ourselves to God (22:57)

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Episode 36: The Power of Our Words

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 15 Sep 2021 04:30:00 -0400

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We’re working through the book of James and today we look at James 3. The topic is taming the tongue - not only how we talk to others, but also how we talk to ourselves. We’re glad you’re joining us for this conversation!

EPISODE RECAP

Get started by writing down James 3:2-5 (0:43)
When someone is teaching God’s word, they are held to a higher standard (2:05)
James talks about the tongue and the importance of the little things (3:56)
What are the things that you say that you need to be careful about? (6:49)
The tongue is very powerful, even the things we stay in our own mind (11:07)
James is telling teachers that their role comes with a high responsibility (15:04)
James is not a book of doctrine, it’s practical living (17:30)
If you want to be a teacher, be very careful what you say (20:25)
What are some of the thoughts that come through my head that are probably lies? (22:20)

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Episode 35: Faith in Action

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 08 Sep 2021 05:00:00 -0400

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Today we’re working through James 2 and we’re reminded that James doesn’t sugar coat anything! We’re discussing how works aren’t the evidence of our salvation, but they are the fruit of our faith. We are so glad you’re here!

EPISODE RECAP

Let’s start by writing down James 2:18-19 (0:41)
So many of the things James talks about are right in your face (2:23)
James encourages us to stop judging people (4:34)
What James is addressing is faith (9:03)
Helping other people has to be out of trust for God (11:29)
James is trying to shock these people into knowing what they believe (14:46)
What would you do if you really trusted God to do it in and through you? (16:40)
I want to do whatever I can do to help people physically, but I have to also give them the things God has given me - Truth, love, forgiveness and grace (21:56)
It’s not about what you can or cannot do, but who are you trusting in? (24:42)
Let James get in your face! (25:36)

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Episode 34: Standing in the Storm

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Wed, 01 Sep 2021 04:00:00 -0400

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This week we are starting a new series going through the book of James. We’ll be talking about what it looks like when our faith is tested and how to have joy in suffering. Join in on our conversation - we are so glad you’re here!

EPISODE RECAP

Start by writing down James 1:2 (0:54)
James is a very common name and Bible scholars have debated the author of the book of James (3:05)
James became a dear follower of Jesus after the resurrection (4:53)
What do you think about when you read “consider it joy when you fall into trials and temptation”? (5:29)
James is not suggesting you find joy in the middle of the trial, but when you get through it (7:32)
When you look at chapter one, see that there’s a difference between a trial and a temptation (8:57)
I believe that God steps in the most during dark moments (12:55)
We cannot doubt during these situations (14:05)
How do we carry our doubts faithfully? (15:22)
What you’re looking at is the direction you’re going to go (17:54)
We often wonder how to just make it through the day versus asking how it can best glorify God (20:54)
Our faith is stronger when God allows us to stand during times we should be falling (23:04)

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We're back in September!

Write this Down! with Dot Bowen — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 10:17:43 -0400

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We’re back! And we’re excited to announce that we’ll be going through the book of James in September. What better book could we be studying with all that is going on in our world today?

ALSO in September! We are having our Write This Down Framework Workshop on September 16 & 17. Join us for this hands on experience as Dot teaches us how to remove baggage, establish a foundation and remain unshakable in our faith. Be sure to grab your spot and register today!

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Episode 33: A Gentle Whisper

Dot Bowen — Wed, 26 May 2021 05:00:20 -0400

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Dot and Cara discuss the lessons we can all learn from Elijah. We often travel a path similar to Elijah that leads us to a cave. However, God doesn't leave us there. He can do the impossible, even with a whisper.

Write This Down:
1 Kings 19:8-13
God will do anything to get us out of a cave, as long as we are willing to listen.

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Episode 32: An Unlikely Encounter with God

Dot Bowen — Wed, 19 May 2021 05:00:26 -0400

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Jacob was a deceiver who wrestled God and became an overcomer with a new name, Israel. In this episode, Dot teaches us through the life of Jacob that God can turn any life and any situation around.

Write This Down:
Genesis 32:24-32
Genesis 33

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Episode 31: What Hangs in the Balance

Dot Bowen — Wed, 12 May 2021 05:00:26 -0400

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Looking at the life of Esau, Dot and Cara ask the age old question, what are you willing to give up for a bowl of soup? Are we willing to trade what we want most for what we want in the moment? We don’t always know what hangs in the balance of our decisions.

Write This Down:
Genesis 25:21-25

Do you want to look back and wonder what God would have done had you only obeyed him?

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Episode 30: His Peace Surpasses All

Dot Bowen — Wed, 05 May 2021 05:00:21 -0400

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Dot and Cara conclude their four-part series on Philippians by talking through some of the most well known verses in the New Testament which are found in Philippians 4. By fixing our eyes on the Lord and asking for His protection over our heart and mind, His peace will truly overwhelm us like nothing else this world can offer.

Write This Down:
Philippians 4

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Episode 29: What is the Goal of Life?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 05:00:21 -0400

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In part 3 of Dot's series through the book of Philippians, she teaches us how to move forward, regardless of our past or what we have accomplished, in order to attain the true goal of life.

Write This Down:
Philippians 3

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Episode 28: The Reward in Giving Up

Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 05:00:21 -0400

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In part 2 of Dot's series through the book of Philippians, she teaches us exactly how we can be a light in a dark world and it may not be in the way you think.

Write This Down:
Philippians 2:3-5

Give up your right to be right in order to be close.

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Episode 27- Perspective Changes Everything

Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Apr 2021 05:00:26 -0400

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Even in the worst of conditions, Paul rejoiced and seemed to figure out the key of life. Dot begins a new series, walking us through the book of Philippians, by digging into the first chapter and teaching us how God can use ALL things for His Glory.

Write This Down:
Philippians 1
Ask God: "God, what am I living for?"

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Episode 26: When You Know The Truth...

Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Apr 2021 05:00:22 -0400

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In this episode, Dot shares about a pivotal moment she had with the Lord when He asked, "How will they know?" Of all the episodes so far, this one is particularly close to Dot's heart as she expresses the importance of knowing Scripture. So be sure to grab your Bible, a pen and even a cup of coffee and listen in!

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Judges 2:8-10
Exodus 13

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Episode 25: Easter Part 2- Jesus kept His scars

Dot Bowen — Wed, 31 Mar 2021 05:00:20 -0400

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Have you ever wondered why Jesus kept His scars from His crucifixion? Dot concludes her Easter series by discussing with Cara how our own wounds and scars, both physical and emotional, can play a part in remembering what the Lord has done in our lives.

Write This Down:
John 20:25-29

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Episode 24: Easter Part 1- Jesus Chose Us

Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Mar 2021 05:00:19 -0400

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Dot begins a 2-week Easter series by walking us through the days leading up to the crucifixion. Jesus was willing to do whatever it cost to win our hearts. If He loves us that much, would He withhold His best from us? Yet, we sometimes still choose Barabbas (our will) over Jesus (God's will).

Write This Down:
Luke 22:67-70

God, show me where in my life I am crying out and asking You for Barabbas?
Are my tears blinding me from seeing what You want for me; am I looking in the wrong direction?

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Episode 23- Facing Uncertainty

Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 05:00:23 -0400

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Since 2020, it can sometimes feel like we are in a constant state of uncertainty. In this episode, Dot and Cara discuss how we can face uncertainty with confidence and why we can trust God with each of our tomorrows.

Write This Down:
Proverbs 27:1
James 4:13-17

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Episode 22: Hearing God's Voice in Prayer

Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 05:00:28 -0500

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Dot concludes her 3-part series on prayer by discussing how do we hear God's voice? Are we wanting to hear what we want to hear or are we open to hear what God is truly saying to our hearts?

Write This Down:
John 17:20-21

No one speaks for God, but God.

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Episode 21: God's answer to prayer: yes, no or maybe so?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Mar 2021 05:00:32 -0500

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Have you ever wondered how long you should pray about something? In part 2 of Dot's series on prayer, She and Cara take a vulnerable and honest look into discussing the question: how do we know if God is saying yes to our prayers, no or simply, wait?

Write This Down:
John 17:13-17
Luke 1

Pray and ask God, is this from You? Is this what You want?

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Episode 20: Does Prayer Really Work?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 24 Feb 2021 05:00:38 -0500

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What's the point of prayer and does it even "work"? In this episode, Dot and her daughter, Cara, start a 3 week series on prayer by answering this question and discussing how our intimacy with the Lord is grown through our conversations with Him in prayer.

Write This Down:
John 17:1

As you pray ask Jesus, what do You want to happen in this situation, in this relationship, etc?

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Episode 19: He is Fighting For You

Dot Bowen — Wed, 17 Feb 2021 05:00:32 -0500

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Do you ever feel defeated in trying to live the Christian life? In the final episode of Dot's 3-part series on Spiritual warfare, she reminds us that it is the Holy Spirit who empowers us to fight any battles that may come our way.

Write This Down:
John 16:7-13

There is nothing you will face that you do not have the power to overcome because of the Holy Spirit fighting in and through you.

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Episode 18: Between the Ears

Dot Bowen — Wed, 10 Feb 2021 05:00:12 -0500

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In the second part of Dot's 3-part series on spiritual warfare, Dot and Cara discuss the power of our thoughts and how to win the battle in our mind.

Write This Down:
2 Corinthians 10:3-5

Where is this thought leading me? Does this thought lead me toward God, peace and joy or is this thought leading me to be discouraged and hopeless?

Who told you that?

References: "Victory in Spiritual Warfare" by Tony Evans

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Episode 17: There is a War

Dot Bowen — Wed, 03 Feb 2021 05:00:28 -0500

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Dot is back for a new season and has made some changes along the way. Each week, she will be sitting down with her daughter, Cara, to talk through Scripture and Truth in an authentic and practical conversation. You will feel right at home listening in to these two!

In this episode, Dot begins a 3-week series on spiritual warfare. If we don't know there is a war happening around us, we cannot truly walk in the victory Jesus has already given us.

Write This Down:
1 Peter 5:8
Ephesians 6:10-18
Genesis 3

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Episode 16: Ponder These Things

Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Dec 2020 05:00:30 -0500

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Dot sits down with her family for a special Christmas episode discussing how Mary pondered “these things” in her heart. Sometimes situations will come and we will need to remember that the same God who has led us to them is the same God who will also lead us through those situations.

Write this Down:
Luke 2:15-19
Luke 2:41-51

Take a moment and pause. Think about all the miraculous and good things God has done in your life; ponder and treasure those things in your heart like Mary.

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Episode 15: A Deeper Message

Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Dec 2020 05:00:25 -0500

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There is more to the meaning and message of Christmas than meets the eye. In this episode, Dot reminds us that God is a God of the much more; if we will be still and listen long enough, we will see God’s message is much more than we can image.

Write this Down:
Luke 2:8-16

Bethlehem means: “house of bread” and Jesus is the bread of life.

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Episode 14: "And Mary Said..."

Dot Bowen — Wed, 02 Dec 2020 05:00:25 -0500

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After hearing the news of her pregnancy from the angel Gabriel, Mary’s plans were unexpectedly replaced by God’s plans. If we feel discouraged by disappointments and unmet expectations this Christmas, Dot encourages us to remember the true meaning of Christmas and to respond in the same way as Mary.

Write This Down:
Luke 1:26-38
Luke 1:1-4, 12-13, 18-19, 34, 39-44

And Mary said, “I am the Lord’s servant, may it be to me as You have said.”

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Episode 13: How can we be thankful in 2020?

Dot Bowen — Wed, 25 Nov 2020 05:00:32 -0500

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We all know that Thanksgiving will be different this year for everyone. In this episode, even in the midst of this incredibly difficult season, Dot takes a moment to remember the many blessings the Lord has given us. Not to take lightly the pain we are all facing, but to focus on what is good and true.

Write this Down:
Hebrews 10:23
Philippians 1:3, 20
Romans 12

Our hope is not found in our circumstances, but in Jesus alone.

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Episode 12: Freedom from Within

Dot Bowen — Wed, 18 Nov 2020 05:00:21 -0500

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In this episode, Dot teaches us the importance of gratitude and how it can bring us more freedom than we thought possible.

Write this Down:
Luke 17:11-19

Only God can give us freedom and healing from within

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Episode 11: The Power of Praise

Dot Bowen — Wed, 11 Nov 2020 05:00:28 -0500

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Can praising God actually change our lives? It certainly did for Paul and Silas in Acts 16 as they saw first-hand how praise can open the prison doors to freedom. In this episode, Dot teaches on the idea that when we praise God, He will set us free.

Write this Down:
Acts 16:25-26

There is nothing that can defeat or destroy a child of God who chooses to praise God in each and every circumstance.

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Episode 10: He Alone is Worthy

Dot Bowen — Wed, 04 Nov 2020 05:00:34 -0500

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No matter what the world and darkness throws our way, we have a God who is sitting on His throne. Dot sits with us and challenges us to look beyond our circumstances and praise God because He alone is worthy.

Write this Down:
Revelation 4:1-3

Take 30 days, or however long you feel led, and focus on praising God, regardless what is going on around you, and praise God for WHO He is.

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Episode 9: Waiting on God - Part 3

Dot Bowen — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 05:00:22 -0400

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Dot concludes her 3 part series on what it looks like to faithfully wait on God by looking through the lens of Abraham and Sarah’s story.

Write this Down:
Genesis 17:15-18

Faith is our response to God. Our journey of faith is dependent on the way in which we live out our faith or response to God.

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Episode 8: Waiting on God - Part 2

Dot Bowen — Wed, 21 Oct 2020 05:00:26 -0400

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The longer Abraham and Sarah waited, the weaker their faith became in the waiting. Oh how true that is for most of us! In this episode, Dot teaches us how different life can look when we wait on God to fulfill His promises rather than take matters into our own hands.

Write this Down:
Genesis 16:1-4

What is your Ishmael? The things you are tempted to do in your own strength or the dreams you are tempted to fulfill on your own because you feel like God is not fulfilling them.

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Episode 7: Waiting on God - Part 1

Dot Bowen — Wed, 14 Oct 2020 05:00:24 -0400

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Waiting on God and keeping the faith in the process is one of the most difficult things God may ask us to do. Dot begins a 3-part series on what it looks like to faithfully wait on God by looking at the life of Abraham.

Write This Down:
Genesis 12:1-8
Genesis 13:4
Hebrews 11

How do we keep the faith while we wait on God for directions for our life, for God to come through or for His will fulfilled in a certain situation:

We do what we know to do and take the first step of faith
We pray consistently throughout the entire waiting process

“Waiting on God does not mean doing nothing. It means not going outside of His will while you do something.” Tony Evans

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Episode 6: The Father's Business

Dot Bowen — Wed, 07 Oct 2020 05:00:27 -0400

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As we face difficult days and circumstances around us, as a follower of Jesus, what do we do? We pray. Through honest and vulnerable thoughts, Dot shares with us her own personal struggle of how do we separate the world’s view of life and God’s view of life? How do we be in the world, but not of it. She teaches us out of Jesus’ prayer in John 17 and reminds us to be about the Father’s business.

Write This Down:
John 17:14-16

Go before God and ask Him to protect your heart, protect your mind and to protect the choices you make throughout the day.
Ask Him to show you: Am I being led by the things of the world or am I being led by the purpose and the agenda of my Father’s business?

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Episode 5: The Heart of a Shepherd - Part 5

Dot Bowen — Wed, 30 Sep 2020 05:00:24 -0400

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Have you ever struggled to hear the voice of God? Or struggled to believe God speaks to YOU?
On today's episode, Dot will be wrapping up "The Heart of a Shepherd" series by teaching us how we can know and hear the voice of God because He is a personal God who speaks to His children.

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John 10:27

God speaks through creation
God speaks through His Word
God speaks through His people
God speaks through our circumstances, the good and the difficult
God speaks through prayer

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Episode 4: The Heart of a Shepherd- Part 4

Dot Bowen — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 05:00:24 -0400

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What is keeping you from living a full and abundant life? In part 4 of our series, The Heart of the Shepherd, Dot will be teaching us that the lies we believe are aimed to steal, kill and destroy us from living out the abundant life God has offered us through his son, Jesus.

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John 10:7-10
Ezekiel 34

When we are willing to set our eyes on Jesus and allow Him to be our Good Shepherd, we will be able to enjoy the life that He has given us, that abundant life only Jesus can offer.

Take these questions before your Heavenly Father and ask Him to open your eyes to the truth
-What are the things that have kept me from the life you offer?
-What has come between me and my Good Shepherd?
-What are the lies that I have believed?
-What are the circumstances that I have viewed as God’s punishment?
-Were there certain people, teachings or circumstances that have led me astray, away from God?
-Who do I need to forgive?

Remember that God is your Good Shepherd and He will take care of the people who have led His children astray. We forgive because He has forgiven us.

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Episode 3: The Heart of a Shepherd- Part 3

Dot Bowen — Wed, 16 Sep 2020 05:00:18 -0400

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We all want to be known, but did you ever think that God may have that same desire, to be known? God wants us to know Him and to know Him by His names. In Part 3 of The Heart of a Shepherd, Dot walks us through Psalm 23:6, teaching us the different names of God that show us just how intimate and personal of a God He truly is. When we call upon the name of the Lord, we can rest in His comfort and face any challenge life may throw our way.

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The more you get to know God, the more you will love Him. The more you love Him, the more you will enjoy following Him and be willing to do whatever He has asked you to do.

Jehovah Rohi: God is our Shepherd.
Jehovah Jireh: God is our provider.
Jehovah Shalom: God is our peace.
Jehovah Tsidkenu: God is our righteousness.
Jehovah Shammah: God is always there.
Jehovah Nissi: God is our banner of victory
Jehovah M’Kaddesh: God is the God who sanctifies.

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Episode 2: The Heart of a Shepherd - Part 2

Dot Bowen — Wed, 09 Sep 2020 05:00:19 -0400

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Are you in a season of trial? Is life not turning out the way that you thought? In part 2 of The Heart of a Shepherd, Dot teaches us out of Psalm 23:4-5. As she walks us through the valley of shadow of death, she reminds us that we are not alone, God is with us. In this heartfelt episode, Dot shares her personal experience of her own valleys and leads us to the truth of how to face our dark moments: “We cannot enjoy the mountaintop experiences with God until we are willing to walk with God through the valley of shadow of death, but we can look back on the journey and realize there was never a day that you were not guided and lead by a Great, Mighty Shepherd.”

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What thoughts are shaking your faith, keeping you from trusting God or knowing the truth of God?
Go back over Psalm 23:4-5 and ask God, do I think and believe you are with me during this time, during this valley?
Do I trust you, God?
Do I fear that evil is going to win? Or do I know that you, God, have overcome evil?
Be honest before God, tell Him what you want. Pray and seek God and tell Him all that is in your heart.

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Episode 1: The Heart of a Shepherd - Part 1

Dot Bowen — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 18:25:02 -0400

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Psalm 23 is known as the Psalm of comfort during times of trial and suffering for many. I think we can all agree, in the year of 2020, we need some comfort during these days of suffering and unknown. Join Dot for a 5 week series looking at the heart of God through the eyes of a shepherd in Psalm 23 and John 10.
In week one, Dot teaches us out of Psalm 23:1-3, how to fight the fear of the unknown and how to find comfort in the Great I Am who provides for our needs. David reflects on God as his Good Shepherd to show us that God is a God who cares for us, who makes all things new and brings life out of death.

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I think. I feel. I want. I value.
God, what do I think about you? Do I know and understand you are my Good Shepherd?
Do I feel that You have my best interest at heart?
Do I want what You want?
Do I value our relationship so much that I run to you and ask you to be the Shepherd of my life?
Ask God, what do I really think, feel, want and value?
Go before God and ask Him these questions, when we begin to be real before God and share our hearts to our Good Shepherd, we are able to see His heart.

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Episode 272: When Someone Means Well But Tells You Wrong

Episode 271: Living in the Present: Anxiety, Control, and God’s Daily Grace

Episode 270: Letting Go of the Life I Planned

Episode 269: You Don’t Build a House in a Storm

Episode 268: Who Made Me the Judge?

Episode 267: Ask, Knock, and Trust the One Who Answers

Episode 266: Finding Peace When the What-Ifs Take Over

Episode 265: You Can't Do This on Your Own (And That's the Point)

Episode 264: Jesus Said Pay Attention to the Fruit, So Let's Talk About That

Episode 263: Faith, Doubt, and a God Who Shows Up Anyway

Episode 262: The Name that Changes Everything - Part 2

Episode 261: The Name that Changes Everything - Part 1

Episode 260: Feelings Make Terrible Leaders

Episode 259: What If You Don’t Need to Know?

Episode 258: ﻿I Wanted Direction, He Gave Me Presence

Episode 257: God, I Can’t Do This

Episode 256: Releasing What You Can’t Control

Episode 255: The Destructive Nature of Gossip

Episode 254: The Comparison Trap

Episode 253: Who Am I, Really? (Part 2)

Episode 252: Who Am I, Really? (Part 1)

Episode 251: Living Faithfully

Episode 250: Coming Back to the Father’s Heart

Episode 249: The Father Who Runs Toward Us

Episode 248: God’s Timing is Never Late

Episode 247: When Giving Thanks Feels Hard

Episode 246: Confession — The Path Back to Closeness

Episode 245: When Fasting Satisfies Your Hunger for God

Episode 244: Resting in What God Has Done

Episode 243: A Faith That Matters

Episode 242: Dating Without Regrets

Episode 241: Discerning God’s Voice in the Noise

Episode 240: You Can Do It All… But Should You?

Episode 239: Truth Worth Dying For

Episode 238: Faith for the Anxious Heart

Episode 237: Navigating Relationships with Unbelievers

Episode 236: God, don’t let me miss You...

Episode 235: Why Should I Read the Bible?

Episode 234: Have I done enough?

Episode 233: Trusting God When the Future Feels Uncertain

Episode 232: Perspective Changes Everything [RE-AIR]

Episode 231: Understanding True Repentance [RE-AIR]

Episode 230: Coming Home: Dot & Cara's Story - Pt 2 [RE-AIR]

Episode 229: Crisis of Faith: Dot & Cara's Story - Pt 1 [RE-AIR]

Episode 228: What if I’m not good enough for God?

Episode 227: How Do I Start Reading the Bible?

Episode 226: Making Disciples Starts With Relationship

Episode 225: When God Writes the Ending

Episode 224: Bold Moves and Quiet Trust

Episode 223: Finding Grace in the Field

Episode 222: Walking Through Grief

Episode 221: What is the Kingdom of God?

Episode 220: Why is Church Important?

Episode 219: Living in the Present

Episode 218: More than a Mom

Episode 217: I Want to Hear Your Voice - Part 2

Episode 216: I Want to Hear Your Voice - Part 1

Episode 215: Hope Between the Cross and the Empty Tomb

Episode 214: Standing Firm in the Storm

Episode 213: Resting in God’s Love

Episode 212: What Does Biblical Submission Really Mean?

Episode 211: What Does It Mean to Be Set Apart?

Episode 210: How Trials Shape Our Faith

Episode 209: Safe in His Arms — Finding Rest in Psalm 23

Episode 208: Trusting God to Heal What Hurts

Episode 207: Healing through Forgiveness

Episode 206: Bringing Our Pain to Jesus

Episode 205: When it Feels Like the Enemy Wins

Episode 204: Overcoming Shame

Episode 203: Finding God in the Fallout

Episode 202: When Life Takes an Unexpected Turn

Episode 201: Starting Fresh With One Word

Episode 200: The Assurance of Things Hoped For

Episode 199: Perspective Changes Everything: Part 3

Episode 198: Perspective Changes Everything (Part 2)

Episode 197: Perspective Changes Everything

Episode 196: Hope in Hardship

Episode 195: What Jesus Values Most

Episode 194: Trusting God’s Sovereignty in Uncertain Times

Episode 258: I Wanted Direction, He Gave Me Presence