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    <description>Ever wonder who’s behind the desk at the very top? What got them there? Who are they at home with their families? 
Hosted by Stephanie and Zach Betters—the duo behind multiple companies—this show is for real estate investors and business owners who are tired of the hustle and are ready to scale their companies and themselves as leaders. 

Stephanie and Zach combine their high-stakes medical backgrounds with growth-driven business strategy to break down the systems, leadership, and behind-the-scenes conversations at home that determine whether  —the companies and the marriage behind them — thrives or falls apart.
We talk about what it takes to run a successful company and learn about who the leaders are that are in charge of them. We talk about how to execute from idea to scale and all the lessons learned from building teams,systems, wealth, and partnerships.
Stop chasing deals and start being a leader. It’s time to find out Who’s In Charge.

Presented by Left Main REI
Learn more at www.leftmainrei.co</description>
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    <itunes:summary>Ever wonder who’s behind the desk at the very top? What got them there? Who are they at home with their families? 
Hosted by Stephanie and Zach Betters—the duo behind multiple companies—this show is for real estate investors and business owners who are tired of the hustle and are ready to scale their companies and themselves as leaders. 

Stephanie and Zach combine their high-stakes medical backgrounds with growth-driven business strategy to break down the systems, leadership, and behind-the-scenes conversations at home that determine whether  —the companies and the marriage behind them — thrives or falls apart.
We talk about what it takes to run a successful company and learn about who the leaders are that are in charge of them. We talk about how to execute from idea to scale and all the lessons learned from building teams,systems, wealth, and partnerships.
Stop chasing deals and start being a leader. It’s time to find out Who’s In Charge.

Presented by Left Main REI
Learn more at www.leftmainrei.co</itunes:summary>
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      <title>Debt Isn't Bad, Over-Leverage Is</title>
      <itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>This week Stephanie and Zach trade the leadership talk for something their audience keeps asking about: the money. Being a "cash buyer" rarely means all your cash, it means other people's money, and knowing how to use it is what separates people who want to invest from people who actually do. The honest starting point is that leverage terrified them at first, and getting past that fear is the whole game.</p><p>They get practical and tactical: the leverage debate (Kiyosaki versus Ramsey), a field guide to the different types of funding, the reserve mistakes that sink new investors, and a Sub-2 cautionary tale straight from the headlines. Plus a Left Main update with a couple of bonuses for anyone funding deals.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Own 100% without paying 100%.</strong> Real estate lets you control a large asset for a fraction of its cost, which is its real superpower. The truth on leverage sits between the "leverage everything" and "debt is evil" camps: use it as a tool, but over-leverage (owing more than a property is worth) is how people get stuck.</li><li><strong>Don't use your own money first.</strong> Early on, you discount your own losses and don't yet know the steps, so a good lending partner brings both a process and a stopgap. Keep your own capital for reserves and margin, not for going all-in on one deal.</li><li><strong>Know your funding types.</strong> Private money comes from people in your network, is fast and flexible, and is papered like any mortgage. Hard money is institutional and more of a hassle, but its appraisal can stop a beginner from overpaying by $80,000. Transactional funding covers the day of closing so you can get into the chain of title, which matters more as new regulation lands.</li><li><strong>Reserves are survival.</strong> Rentals cash flow, but they're also cash suckers: a vacancy, a turn, and repairs pile up while the bank keeps billing. Zach's own "house rich, cash poor" story is the warning. Keep real reserves, build in margin, run every deal through your own diligence filter, and always know your exit strategies. As he puts it, if you can ride the wave, real estate works.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>This week Stephanie and Zach trade the leadership talk for something their audience keeps asking about: the money. Being a "cash buyer" rarely means all your cash, it means other people's money, and knowing how to use it is what separates people who want to invest from people who actually do. The honest starting point is that leverage terrified them at first, and getting past that fear is the whole game.</p><p>They get practical and tactical: the leverage debate (Kiyosaki versus Ramsey), a field guide to the different types of funding, the reserve mistakes that sink new investors, and a Sub-2 cautionary tale straight from the headlines. Plus a Left Main update with a couple of bonuses for anyone funding deals.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Own 100% without paying 100%.</strong> Real estate lets you control a large asset for a fraction of its cost, which is its real superpower. The truth on leverage sits between the "leverage everything" and "debt is evil" camps: use it as a tool, but over-leverage (owing more than a property is worth) is how people get stuck.</li><li><strong>Don't use your own money first.</strong> Early on, you discount your own losses and don't yet know the steps, so a good lending partner brings both a process and a stopgap. Keep your own capital for reserves and margin, not for going all-in on one deal.</li><li><strong>Know your funding types.</strong> Private money comes from people in your network, is fast and flexible, and is papered like any mortgage. Hard money is institutional and more of a hassle, but its appraisal can stop a beginner from overpaying by $80,000. Transactional funding covers the day of closing so you can get into the chain of title, which matters more as new regulation lands.</li><li><strong>Reserves are survival.</strong> Rentals cash flow, but they're also cash suckers: a vacancy, a turn, and repairs pile up while the bank keeps billing. Zach's own "house rich, cash poor" story is the warning. Keep real reserves, build in margin, run every deal through your own diligence filter, and always know your exit strategies. As he puts it, if you can ride the wave, real estate works.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>This week Stephanie and Zach trade the leadership talk for something their audience keeps asking about: the money. Being a "cash buyer" rarely means all your cash, it means other people's money, and knowing how to use it is what separates people who want to invest from people who actually do. The honest starting point is that leverage terrified them at first, and getting past that fear is the whole game.</p><p>They get practical and tactical: the leverage debate (Kiyosaki versus Ramsey), a field guide to the different types of funding, the reserve mistakes that sink new investors, and a Sub-2 cautionary tale straight from the headlines. Plus a Left Main update with a couple of bonuses for anyone funding deals.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Own 100% without paying 100%.</strong> Real estate lets you control a large asset for a fraction of its cost, which is its real superpower. The truth on leverage sits between the "leverage everything" and "debt is evil" camps: use it as a tool, but over-leverage (owing more than a property is worth) is how people get stuck.</li><li><strong>Don't use your own money first.</strong> Early on, you discount your own losses and don't yet know the steps, so a good lending partner brings both a process and a stopgap. Keep your own capital for reserves and margin, not for going all-in on one deal.</li><li><strong>Know your funding types.</strong> Private money comes from people in your network, is fast and flexible, and is papered like any mortgage. Hard money is institutional and more of a hassle, but its appraisal can stop a beginner from overpaying by $80,000. Transactional funding covers the day of closing so you can get into the chain of title, which matters more as new regulation lands.</li><li><strong>Reserves are survival.</strong> Rentals cash flow, but they're also cash suckers: a vacancy, a turn, and repairs pile up while the bank keeps billing. Zach's own "house rich, cash poor" story is the warning. Keep real reserves, build in margin, run every deal through your own diligence filter, and always know your exit strategies. As he puts it, if you can ride the wave, real estate works.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <title>The Energy Advantage: How You Show Up Changes Everything</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>The topic this week is energy, and it started with Zach getting called out. In a meeting last week, a teammate asked if he was okay, because his energy just felt different, and she was right. The lesson landed hard: your energy is contagious, so managing it isn't a nice-to-have. It's the job. Stephanie and Zach spend the episode on how to show up well even when you don't feel like it, and how to build the rest that makes it sustainable.</p><p>They get into why an off day does more damage than a day off, how to manufacture energy instead of interrogating your feelings, where authenticity crosses into emotional dumping, and the practical hacks (and rest habits) that keep a leader in the game. Honest, useful, and full of small tricks you can steal.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>A day off beats an off day.</strong> Your energy has a "blast radius," and the higher up you sit, the wider it reaches. Show up wrecked and you tank everyone's productivity, not just your own. Often the fix is smaller than you think, an hour to walk and reset, and planned rest is sacred: schedule it like an athlete and never blow off a commitment mid-day on a whim.</li><li><strong>Manufacture the energy, stop asking how you feel.</strong> For in-the-moment slumps, it doesn't matter whether you feel like it. High performers manufacture the energy a moment needs instead of talking themselves out of it, and pre-deciding, the discipline from Craig Groeschel's book <em>Think Ahead</em>, keeps you from burning out re-deciding what you already knew to do.</li><li><strong>Authenticity isn't emotional dumping.</strong> Being real with your team doesn't mean unloading on them. Heavy is the crown, and part of the cost is containing your own weight. Your team needs you present, not managing your emotions, so put the right needs on the right people: peers, a mentor, a therapist, not your staff or your kids.</li><li><strong>Read the room. </strong>It's not always about more energy. Sometimes the moment needs fire, sometimes it needs calm, steady confidence. Ask what this specific room needs from you for the next 30 minutes, at work and at home.</li><li><strong>Build in the rest and the fun.</strong> Steal the hacks: a standing desk or walking meeting, movement as a pattern interrupt, a clean workspace with meaningful cues, a "happiness folder" for the low moments, and scheduling hard tasks for your green-zone hours. As <em>The Levity Effect</em> argues, fun makes you more effective, not less. Things can be hard and fun at the same time, and you can't pour from an empty cup.</li></ul><p>Resources Mentioned</p><ul><li><em>Think Ahead</em> by Craig Groeschel:<a href="https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/think-ahead"> https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/think-ahead</a></li><li><em>The Levity Effect: Why It Pays to Lighten Up</em> by Adrian Gostick and Scott Christopher</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>The topic this week is energy, and it started with Zach getting called out. In a meeting last week, a teammate asked if he was okay, because his energy just felt different, and she was right. The lesson landed hard: your energy is contagious, so managing it isn't a nice-to-have. It's the job. Stephanie and Zach spend the episode on how to show up well even when you don't feel like it, and how to build the rest that makes it sustainable.</p><p>They get into why an off day does more damage than a day off, how to manufacture energy instead of interrogating your feelings, where authenticity crosses into emotional dumping, and the practical hacks (and rest habits) that keep a leader in the game. Honest, useful, and full of small tricks you can steal.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>A day off beats an off day.</strong> Your energy has a "blast radius," and the higher up you sit, the wider it reaches. Show up wrecked and you tank everyone's productivity, not just your own. Often the fix is smaller than you think, an hour to walk and reset, and planned rest is sacred: schedule it like an athlete and never blow off a commitment mid-day on a whim.</li><li><strong>Manufacture the energy, stop asking how you feel.</strong> For in-the-moment slumps, it doesn't matter whether you feel like it. High performers manufacture the energy a moment needs instead of talking themselves out of it, and pre-deciding, the discipline from Craig Groeschel's book <em>Think Ahead</em>, keeps you from burning out re-deciding what you already knew to do.</li><li><strong>Authenticity isn't emotional dumping.</strong> Being real with your team doesn't mean unloading on them. Heavy is the crown, and part of the cost is containing your own weight. Your team needs you present, not managing your emotions, so put the right needs on the right people: peers, a mentor, a therapist, not your staff or your kids.</li><li><strong>Read the room. </strong>It's not always about more energy. Sometimes the moment needs fire, sometimes it needs calm, steady confidence. Ask what this specific room needs from you for the next 30 minutes, at work and at home.</li><li><strong>Build in the rest and the fun.</strong> Steal the hacks: a standing desk or walking meeting, movement as a pattern interrupt, a clean workspace with meaningful cues, a "happiness folder" for the low moments, and scheduling hard tasks for your green-zone hours. As <em>The Levity Effect</em> argues, fun makes you more effective, not less. Things can be hard and fun at the same time, and you can't pour from an empty cup.</li></ul><p>Resources Mentioned</p><ul><li><em>Think Ahead</em> by Craig Groeschel:<a href="https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/think-ahead"> https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/think-ahead</a></li><li><em>The Levity Effect: Why It Pays to Lighten Up</em> by Adrian Gostick and Scott Christopher</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:02:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>The topic this week is energy, and it started with Zach getting called out. In a meeting last week, a teammate asked if he was okay, because his energy just felt different, and she was right. The lesson landed hard: your energy is contagious, so managing it isn't a nice-to-have. It's the job. Stephanie and Zach spend the episode on how to show up well even when you don't feel like it, and how to build the rest that makes it sustainable.</p><p>They get into why an off day does more damage than a day off, how to manufacture energy instead of interrogating your feelings, where authenticity crosses into emotional dumping, and the practical hacks (and rest habits) that keep a leader in the game. Honest, useful, and full of small tricks you can steal.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>A day off beats an off day.</strong> Your energy has a "blast radius," and the higher up you sit, the wider it reaches. Show up wrecked and you tank everyone's productivity, not just your own. Often the fix is smaller than you think, an hour to walk and reset, and planned rest is sacred: schedule it like an athlete and never blow off a commitment mid-day on a whim.</li><li><strong>Manufacture the energy, stop asking how you feel.</strong> For in-the-moment slumps, it doesn't matter whether you feel like it. High performers manufacture the energy a moment needs instead of talking themselves out of it, and pre-deciding, the discipline from Craig Groeschel's book <em>Think Ahead</em>, keeps you from burning out re-deciding what you already knew to do.</li><li><strong>Authenticity isn't emotional dumping.</strong> Being real with your team doesn't mean unloading on them. Heavy is the crown, and part of the cost is containing your own weight. Your team needs you present, not managing your emotions, so put the right needs on the right people: peers, a mentor, a therapist, not your staff or your kids.</li><li><strong>Read the room. </strong>It's not always about more energy. Sometimes the moment needs fire, sometimes it needs calm, steady confidence. Ask what this specific room needs from you for the next 30 minutes, at work and at home.</li><li><strong>Build in the rest and the fun.</strong> Steal the hacks: a standing desk or walking meeting, movement as a pattern interrupt, a clean workspace with meaningful cues, a "happiness folder" for the low moments, and scheduling hard tasks for your green-zone hours. As <em>The Levity Effect</em> argues, fun makes you more effective, not less. Things can be hard and fun at the same time, and you can't pour from an empty cup.</li></ul><p>Resources Mentioned</p><ul><li><em>Think Ahead</em> by Craig Groeschel:<a href="https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/think-ahead"> https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/think-ahead</a></li><li><em>The Levity Effect: Why It Pays to Lighten Up</em> by Adrian Gostick and Scott Christopher</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <title>Reputation Is Your Best Compounding Asset</title>
      <itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Everybody lists integrity as a core value, so is it even worth naming? Zach opens with that challenge, and his answer sets up the whole episode: plenty of people talk about integrity, but far fewer actually hold it when it costs them something. Honor, Stephanie and Zach argue, isn't the word on your values chart. It's what you do the moment keeping your word becomes painful.</p><p>They get into a framework for the hard calls (legal, ethical, and honorable), why knowing who you are kills decision fatigue, and how reputation quietly compounds into the most durable asset a business has, especially in an industry as small as this one. Honest, tactical, and full of real stories from their own company.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Integrity only counts when it's inconvenient.</strong> Everybody claims it; the test is whether it holds when it costs you. The industry runs on contracts, yet too many operators treat an agreement as binding only when someone else wants out of it. Real honor is keeping your word when it's painful, even buying a house you expect to lose money on because you gave your word.</li><li><strong>Decide who you are before the moment comes.</strong> Zach frames three levels of doing right: what's legal, what's ethical, and above both, what's honorable. When you know that line in advance, the hard decisions stop being decisions at all. As Stephanie puts it, there's nothing left to decide.</li><li><strong>It's a game of deciding who to disappoint.</strong> Sometimes you can't keep every commitment, so honor becomes weighing the trade-offs, usually against the relationship. The rule is to never let anyone feel blindsided: lay the trade-off on the table plainly, the way Stephanie did when an employee was interviewing with a direct competitor.</li><li><strong>Run the honor tests.</strong> Before a hard call, Zach checks five things: the mirror test (can I respect myself after this), the headline test, the explanation test (could I explain it to my team, kids, and spouse), the reciprocity test, and the long-game test.</li><li><strong>Reputation is the asset that compounds.</strong> Character can't be faked over time, and it's a small world, so it always comes back around. Do right consistently and the people who've known you for years will weigh any rumor against who you actually are. The cleanest test of a core value: are you willing to turn away revenue to protect it?</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Everybody lists integrity as a core value, so is it even worth naming? Zach opens with that challenge, and his answer sets up the whole episode: plenty of people talk about integrity, but far fewer actually hold it when it costs them something. Honor, Stephanie and Zach argue, isn't the word on your values chart. It's what you do the moment keeping your word becomes painful.</p><p>They get into a framework for the hard calls (legal, ethical, and honorable), why knowing who you are kills decision fatigue, and how reputation quietly compounds into the most durable asset a business has, especially in an industry as small as this one. Honest, tactical, and full of real stories from their own company.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Integrity only counts when it's inconvenient.</strong> Everybody claims it; the test is whether it holds when it costs you. The industry runs on contracts, yet too many operators treat an agreement as binding only when someone else wants out of it. Real honor is keeping your word when it's painful, even buying a house you expect to lose money on because you gave your word.</li><li><strong>Decide who you are before the moment comes.</strong> Zach frames three levels of doing right: what's legal, what's ethical, and above both, what's honorable. When you know that line in advance, the hard decisions stop being decisions at all. As Stephanie puts it, there's nothing left to decide.</li><li><strong>It's a game of deciding who to disappoint.</strong> Sometimes you can't keep every commitment, so honor becomes weighing the trade-offs, usually against the relationship. The rule is to never let anyone feel blindsided: lay the trade-off on the table plainly, the way Stephanie did when an employee was interviewing with a direct competitor.</li><li><strong>Run the honor tests.</strong> Before a hard call, Zach checks five things: the mirror test (can I respect myself after this), the headline test, the explanation test (could I explain it to my team, kids, and spouse), the reciprocity test, and the long-game test.</li><li><strong>Reputation is the asset that compounds.</strong> Character can't be faked over time, and it's a small world, so it always comes back around. Do right consistently and the people who've known you for years will weigh any rumor against who you actually are. The cleanest test of a core value: are you willing to turn away revenue to protect it?</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 04:03:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Everybody lists integrity as a core value, so is it even worth naming? Zach opens with that challenge, and his answer sets up the whole episode: plenty of people talk about integrity, but far fewer actually hold it when it costs them something. Honor, Stephanie and Zach argue, isn't the word on your values chart. It's what you do the moment keeping your word becomes painful.</p><p>They get into a framework for the hard calls (legal, ethical, and honorable), why knowing who you are kills decision fatigue, and how reputation quietly compounds into the most durable asset a business has, especially in an industry as small as this one. Honest, tactical, and full of real stories from their own company.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Integrity only counts when it's inconvenient.</strong> Everybody claims it; the test is whether it holds when it costs you. The industry runs on contracts, yet too many operators treat an agreement as binding only when someone else wants out of it. Real honor is keeping your word when it's painful, even buying a house you expect to lose money on because you gave your word.</li><li><strong>Decide who you are before the moment comes.</strong> Zach frames three levels of doing right: what's legal, what's ethical, and above both, what's honorable. When you know that line in advance, the hard decisions stop being decisions at all. As Stephanie puts it, there's nothing left to decide.</li><li><strong>It's a game of deciding who to disappoint.</strong> Sometimes you can't keep every commitment, so honor becomes weighing the trade-offs, usually against the relationship. The rule is to never let anyone feel blindsided: lay the trade-off on the table plainly, the way Stephanie did when an employee was interviewing with a direct competitor.</li><li><strong>Run the honor tests.</strong> Before a hard call, Zach checks five things: the mirror test (can I respect myself after this), the headline test, the explanation test (could I explain it to my team, kids, and spouse), the reciprocity test, and the long-game test.</li><li><strong>Reputation is the asset that compounds.</strong> Character can't be faked over time, and it's a small world, so it always comes back around. Do right consistently and the people who've known you for years will weigh any rumor against who you actually are. The cleanest test of a core value: are you willing to turn away revenue to protect it?</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <title>Raising "Rich Kids"</title>
      <itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Raising "Rich Kids"</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>Stephanie and Zach take on a question they openly admit they haven't solved: how do you raise kids who stay grateful and driven when they're growing up with advantages you never had? It's a parenting conversation, but they frame it as a leadership one, using the same muscles they rely on to build a team.</p><p>They get honest (and personal) about talking to kids about money, building self-reliance before handing over the bills, and how to give every advantage you can without mowing down the struggle that builds grit. Two fools in love, as Zach puts it, trying to figure it out in real time.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Teach the value of a dollar. </strong>Both grew up in homes where money was as taboo as sex or politics, and both call that a mistake: if kids won't learn it from the parents they trust, where will they learn it? Make it real and age-appropriate early, from what $20 buys at Target to a teenager covering her own gas, and remember being rich isn't the bad thing. The love of money is.</li><li><strong>Build self-reliance before the bills.</strong> The deeper lesson comes before money enters the picture: the intrinsic hit of "I did it myself." It can start as small as letting a kid bake their own cake from a box, a snowball of little wins that builds the confidence to later handle a hard decision alone.</li><li><strong>Don't be a lawnmower parent.</strong> Cutting down every obstacle robs kids of the muscle memory of pushing through hard things, what one book calls the poverty advantage. The goal isn't manufactured hardship, it's letting kids struggle under your wing while the safety net is still there.</li><li><strong>Drive without removing the net. </strong>Stephanie's parents could have paid for college but didn't, and while the "it's all on me" feeling built her independence, she's not sure the tough love was necessary. She wants her kids to own their lives without ever believing no one will catch them.</li><li><strong>Match their energy, and back real passion.</strong> Whatever a kid puts in, match it, and when an opportunity stops being appreciated, the funding stops. Pour advantages into the passions they actually own, not the ones you manufacture for them, which is harder than ever in a world built to keep them consuming on a screen.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>Stephanie and Zach take on a question they openly admit they haven't solved: how do you raise kids who stay grateful and driven when they're growing up with advantages you never had? It's a parenting conversation, but they frame it as a leadership one, using the same muscles they rely on to build a team.</p><p>They get honest (and personal) about talking to kids about money, building self-reliance before handing over the bills, and how to give every advantage you can without mowing down the struggle that builds grit. Two fools in love, as Zach puts it, trying to figure it out in real time.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Teach the value of a dollar. </strong>Both grew up in homes where money was as taboo as sex or politics, and both call that a mistake: if kids won't learn it from the parents they trust, where will they learn it? Make it real and age-appropriate early, from what $20 buys at Target to a teenager covering her own gas, and remember being rich isn't the bad thing. The love of money is.</li><li><strong>Build self-reliance before the bills.</strong> The deeper lesson comes before money enters the picture: the intrinsic hit of "I did it myself." It can start as small as letting a kid bake their own cake from a box, a snowball of little wins that builds the confidence to later handle a hard decision alone.</li><li><strong>Don't be a lawnmower parent.</strong> Cutting down every obstacle robs kids of the muscle memory of pushing through hard things, what one book calls the poverty advantage. The goal isn't manufactured hardship, it's letting kids struggle under your wing while the safety net is still there.</li><li><strong>Drive without removing the net. </strong>Stephanie's parents could have paid for college but didn't, and while the "it's all on me" feeling built her independence, she's not sure the tough love was necessary. She wants her kids to own their lives without ever believing no one will catch them.</li><li><strong>Match their energy, and back real passion.</strong> Whatever a kid puts in, match it, and when an opportunity stops being appreciated, the funding stops. Pour advantages into the passions they actually own, not the ones you manufacture for them, which is harder than ever in a world built to keep them consuming on a screen.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 04:04:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>Stephanie and Zach take on a question they openly admit they haven't solved: how do you raise kids who stay grateful and driven when they're growing up with advantages you never had? It's a parenting conversation, but they frame it as a leadership one, using the same muscles they rely on to build a team.</p><p>They get honest (and personal) about talking to kids about money, building self-reliance before handing over the bills, and how to give every advantage you can without mowing down the struggle that builds grit. Two fools in love, as Zach puts it, trying to figure it out in real time.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Teach the value of a dollar. </strong>Both grew up in homes where money was as taboo as sex or politics, and both call that a mistake: if kids won't learn it from the parents they trust, where will they learn it? Make it real and age-appropriate early, from what $20 buys at Target to a teenager covering her own gas, and remember being rich isn't the bad thing. The love of money is.</li><li><strong>Build self-reliance before the bills.</strong> The deeper lesson comes before money enters the picture: the intrinsic hit of "I did it myself." It can start as small as letting a kid bake their own cake from a box, a snowball of little wins that builds the confidence to later handle a hard decision alone.</li><li><strong>Don't be a lawnmower parent.</strong> Cutting down every obstacle robs kids of the muscle memory of pushing through hard things, what one book calls the poverty advantage. The goal isn't manufactured hardship, it's letting kids struggle under your wing while the safety net is still there.</li><li><strong>Drive without removing the net. </strong>Stephanie's parents could have paid for college but didn't, and while the "it's all on me" feeling built her independence, she's not sure the tough love was necessary. She wants her kids to own their lives without ever believing no one will catch them.</li><li><strong>Match their energy, and back real passion.</strong> Whatever a kid puts in, match it, and when an opportunity stops being appreciated, the funding stops. Pour advantages into the passions they actually own, not the ones you manufacture for them, which is harder than ever in a world built to keep them consuming on a screen.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>The Bottleneck Isn't AI, It's Your Business</title>
      <itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Bottleneck Isn't AI, It's Your Business</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>With Zach out for the day, Stephanie takes the mic solo and brings on two people she's building something big with: Steve Trang and Jordan Samuel Fleming. The occasion is REI Tech Unlocked, the first-ever real estate investing tech event, landing September 19 to 21. But the conversation is really about a frustration all three share, and the AI lesson most operators are getting wrong.</p><p>They dig into why they built an event with no pay-to-play booths and no Lambo mindset talks, the difference between siloed AI tools and a business actually redesigned around them, and why big technology is finally paying attention to real estate investors. Tactical, honest, and built for operators who want something they can use right now.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Built out of frustration.</strong> The idea started four years ago on a boat in Jamaica: roughly 100,000 serious operators in the country and no honest place to evaluate the tech meant to serve them, just affiliate links and guru referrals. So the three built the event they always wanted to attend, where you sit down with the service providers your peers actually use and see exactly how the tools work inside a real business.</li><li><strong>The bottleneck isn't the AI, it's your business.</strong> As Jordan puts it, sticking a digital employee into an analog business kills the leverage. Run a thousand AI calls into a closing team built for twenty deals and you've created capacity that just gets dropped. The win comes from redesigning for integrated capacity, not bolting a tool onto a broken process.</li><li><strong>AI made productivity go up, so headcount went up too.</strong> Steve started the year an AI doomer bracing for lost jobs, and is now hiring more salespeople, customer success, and fulfillment. The productivity gains surfaced a new bottleneck: quality people. The whole business transforms, not just the one tool you plug in.</li><li><strong>Overwhelmed is fine.</strong> Staying the same is not. Even top AI researchers admit the pace is overwhelming, so it's okay to feel behind. What's not okay is for your business to look exactly the same six months from now.</li><li><strong>Get in the room. Meta, Salesforce and Slack, Twilio, and Collective Genius are all showing up, a sign big tech is finally taking this industry seriously.</strong> Attendees get 45 minutes one-on-one with any company (including the people who actually build the products), plus sessions on the 2026 sales team, the 2027 org chart, and trusted calling.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>With Zach out for the day, Stephanie takes the mic solo and brings on two people she's building something big with: Steve Trang and Jordan Samuel Fleming. The occasion is REI Tech Unlocked, the first-ever real estate investing tech event, landing September 19 to 21. But the conversation is really about a frustration all three share, and the AI lesson most operators are getting wrong.</p><p>They dig into why they built an event with no pay-to-play booths and no Lambo mindset talks, the difference between siloed AI tools and a business actually redesigned around them, and why big technology is finally paying attention to real estate investors. Tactical, honest, and built for operators who want something they can use right now.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Built out of frustration.</strong> The idea started four years ago on a boat in Jamaica: roughly 100,000 serious operators in the country and no honest place to evaluate the tech meant to serve them, just affiliate links and guru referrals. So the three built the event they always wanted to attend, where you sit down with the service providers your peers actually use and see exactly how the tools work inside a real business.</li><li><strong>The bottleneck isn't the AI, it's your business.</strong> As Jordan puts it, sticking a digital employee into an analog business kills the leverage. Run a thousand AI calls into a closing team built for twenty deals and you've created capacity that just gets dropped. The win comes from redesigning for integrated capacity, not bolting a tool onto a broken process.</li><li><strong>AI made productivity go up, so headcount went up too.</strong> Steve started the year an AI doomer bracing for lost jobs, and is now hiring more salespeople, customer success, and fulfillment. The productivity gains surfaced a new bottleneck: quality people. The whole business transforms, not just the one tool you plug in.</li><li><strong>Overwhelmed is fine.</strong> Staying the same is not. Even top AI researchers admit the pace is overwhelming, so it's okay to feel behind. What's not okay is for your business to look exactly the same six months from now.</li><li><strong>Get in the room. Meta, Salesforce and Slack, Twilio, and Collective Genius are all showing up, a sign big tech is finally taking this industry seriously.</strong> Attendees get 45 minutes one-on-one with any company (including the people who actually build the products), plus sessions on the 2026 sales team, the 2027 org chart, and trusted calling.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2026 04:03:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2577</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>With Zach out for the day, Stephanie takes the mic solo and brings on two people she's building something big with: Steve Trang and Jordan Samuel Fleming. The occasion is REI Tech Unlocked, the first-ever real estate investing tech event, landing September 19 to 21. But the conversation is really about a frustration all three share, and the AI lesson most operators are getting wrong.</p><p>They dig into why they built an event with no pay-to-play booths and no Lambo mindset talks, the difference between siloed AI tools and a business actually redesigned around them, and why big technology is finally paying attention to real estate investors. Tactical, honest, and built for operators who want something they can use right now.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Built out of frustration.</strong> The idea started four years ago on a boat in Jamaica: roughly 100,000 serious operators in the country and no honest place to evaluate the tech meant to serve them, just affiliate links and guru referrals. So the three built the event they always wanted to attend, where you sit down with the service providers your peers actually use and see exactly how the tools work inside a real business.</li><li><strong>The bottleneck isn't the AI, it's your business.</strong> As Jordan puts it, sticking a digital employee into an analog business kills the leverage. Run a thousand AI calls into a closing team built for twenty deals and you've created capacity that just gets dropped. The win comes from redesigning for integrated capacity, not bolting a tool onto a broken process.</li><li><strong>AI made productivity go up, so headcount went up too.</strong> Steve started the year an AI doomer bracing for lost jobs, and is now hiring more salespeople, customer success, and fulfillment. The productivity gains surfaced a new bottleneck: quality people. The whole business transforms, not just the one tool you plug in.</li><li><strong>Overwhelmed is fine.</strong> Staying the same is not. Even top AI researchers admit the pace is overwhelming, so it's okay to feel behind. What's not okay is for your business to look exactly the same six months from now.</li><li><strong>Get in the room. Meta, Salesforce and Slack, Twilio, and Collective Genius are all showing up, a sign big tech is finally taking this industry seriously.</strong> Attendees get 45 minutes one-on-one with any company (including the people who actually build the products), plus sessions on the 2026 sales team, the 2027 org chart, and trusted calling.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <title>From One-Man Show to 25-Plus: Bobby Suarez on Becoming a CEO</title>
      <itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>From One-Man Show to 25-Plus: Bobby Suarez on Becoming a CEO</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>Bobby Suarez ran his South Florida home-buying business as a one-man show until 2018. Today Sell to Bobby is a team of more than 25 with an executive bench, a second market in Tampa, and a few side ventures on top. In this episode, Bobby sits down with Stephanie and Zach to trace how he got there, and the throughline is a comfort with risk most operators talk themselves out of.</p><p>Bobby walks through the television bet that rebuilt his company, why he now spends to be omnipresent instead of chasing perfect attribution, and how a mastermind rewired what he thought was possible. Along the way: hiring people better than you, keeping a team aligned on comp, staying a student when the channels change, and the short memory that keeps entrepreneurs moving after a loss.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Do it scared.</strong> Bobby said yes to a five-figure monthly TV spend despite the fear, rebranded to something memorable, and closed his first contract on day two. When he's scared he moves fast and figures it out after, because overthinking is usually the more expensive mistake, and you don't need all the answers to start.</li><li><strong>Brand is a moat built on frequency.</strong> Broadcast TV, radio, billboards, direct mail, PPC, even Super Bowl spots and a billboard doctored to look vandalized: the goal is to be impossible to miss. Instead of toggling hard-to-measure channels on and off, Bobby budgets to be everywhere, because sellers only hand their house to a name they trust.</li><li><strong>Hire people better than you, and align the comp.</strong> Bobby focuses on what he's good at (running the company, recruiting, building leaders) and brings in "culture enhancers" people love to work for. Everyone's pay, from executives to entry level, is tied to closed deals, so the whole team rows in the same direction.</li><li><strong>Buy the cheat codes.</strong> Joining Collective Genius showed Bobby what was actually possible and shortcut years of trial and error. As he puts it, the more people you know, the more money you'll make, so get in the rooms and stay a go-giver.</li><li><strong>Keep a short memory.</strong> When the Tampa launch stumbled, Bobby logged it as what not to do next time and kept moving. Learn the lesson, tag it, forget the rest, and stay a student who's willing to pivot rather than clinging to "this is how I've always done it."<p></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>Bobby Suarez ran his South Florida home-buying business as a one-man show until 2018. Today Sell to Bobby is a team of more than 25 with an executive bench, a second market in Tampa, and a few side ventures on top. In this episode, Bobby sits down with Stephanie and Zach to trace how he got there, and the throughline is a comfort with risk most operators talk themselves out of.</p><p>Bobby walks through the television bet that rebuilt his company, why he now spends to be omnipresent instead of chasing perfect attribution, and how a mastermind rewired what he thought was possible. Along the way: hiring people better than you, keeping a team aligned on comp, staying a student when the channels change, and the short memory that keeps entrepreneurs moving after a loss.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Do it scared.</strong> Bobby said yes to a five-figure monthly TV spend despite the fear, rebranded to something memorable, and closed his first contract on day two. When he's scared he moves fast and figures it out after, because overthinking is usually the more expensive mistake, and you don't need all the answers to start.</li><li><strong>Brand is a moat built on frequency.</strong> Broadcast TV, radio, billboards, direct mail, PPC, even Super Bowl spots and a billboard doctored to look vandalized: the goal is to be impossible to miss. Instead of toggling hard-to-measure channels on and off, Bobby budgets to be everywhere, because sellers only hand their house to a name they trust.</li><li><strong>Hire people better than you, and align the comp.</strong> Bobby focuses on what he's good at (running the company, recruiting, building leaders) and brings in "culture enhancers" people love to work for. Everyone's pay, from executives to entry level, is tied to closed deals, so the whole team rows in the same direction.</li><li><strong>Buy the cheat codes.</strong> Joining Collective Genius showed Bobby what was actually possible and shortcut years of trial and error. As he puts it, the more people you know, the more money you'll make, so get in the rooms and stay a go-giver.</li><li><strong>Keep a short memory.</strong> When the Tampa launch stumbled, Bobby logged it as what not to do next time and kept moving. Learn the lesson, tag it, forget the rest, and stay a student who's willing to pivot rather than clinging to "this is how I've always done it."<p></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2026 04:01:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2522</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>Bobby Suarez ran his South Florida home-buying business as a one-man show until 2018. Today Sell to Bobby is a team of more than 25 with an executive bench, a second market in Tampa, and a few side ventures on top. In this episode, Bobby sits down with Stephanie and Zach to trace how he got there, and the throughline is a comfort with risk most operators talk themselves out of.</p><p>Bobby walks through the television bet that rebuilt his company, why he now spends to be omnipresent instead of chasing perfect attribution, and how a mastermind rewired what he thought was possible. Along the way: hiring people better than you, keeping a team aligned on comp, staying a student when the channels change, and the short memory that keeps entrepreneurs moving after a loss.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Do it scared.</strong> Bobby said yes to a five-figure monthly TV spend despite the fear, rebranded to something memorable, and closed his first contract on day two. When he's scared he moves fast and figures it out after, because overthinking is usually the more expensive mistake, and you don't need all the answers to start.</li><li><strong>Brand is a moat built on frequency.</strong> Broadcast TV, radio, billboards, direct mail, PPC, even Super Bowl spots and a billboard doctored to look vandalized: the goal is to be impossible to miss. Instead of toggling hard-to-measure channels on and off, Bobby budgets to be everywhere, because sellers only hand their house to a name they trust.</li><li><strong>Hire people better than you, and align the comp.</strong> Bobby focuses on what he's good at (running the company, recruiting, building leaders) and brings in "culture enhancers" people love to work for. Everyone's pay, from executives to entry level, is tied to closed deals, so the whole team rows in the same direction.</li><li><strong>Buy the cheat codes.</strong> Joining Collective Genius showed Bobby what was actually possible and shortcut years of trial and error. As he puts it, the more people you know, the more money you'll make, so get in the rooms and stay a go-giver.</li><li><strong>Keep a short memory.</strong> When the Tampa launch stumbled, Bobby logged it as what not to do next time and kept moving. Learn the lesson, tag it, forget the rest, and stay a student who's willing to pivot rather than clinging to "this is how I've always done it."<p></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Well Done Beats Well Said: Building a Culture of Accountability</title>
      <itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Well Done Beats Well Said: Building a Culture of Accountability</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>You can repeat a goal until you're blue in the face, but if nothing happens when the date passes, it never meant anything. In this episode, part two to last week's conversation on meetings, Stephanie and Zach get into accountability: the least glamorous lever in leadership, and one of the most important. It starts, fittingly, with a story about their daughter missing an academic goal by a single point.</p><p>They dig into how to hold a standard without demoralizing your team, why conservative and realistic goals beat grand ones you'll miss, how to shorten the reward loop so effort actually gets reinforced, and the difference between telling people what to do and telling them why. Honest, tactical, and full of lessons that cross straight over from parenting to payroll.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>A standard you don't hold isn't a standard.</strong> Don't devalue a goal by negotiating it after the fact, but do build a path that rewards real effort. In business the line is blunt: you can't make payroll on effort alone, so hold it, while watching that the metric you enforce is actually producing the result you want.</li><li><strong>Set goals people can actually hit, and reward them fast.</strong> A conservative goal you crush beats a grand one you miss, and data should set the number, not a gut guess. Shorten the distance between the work and the reward (monthly bonuses, small wins celebrated along the way) so the effort gets reinforced.</li><li><strong>Make accountability cultural, not personal.</strong> Framed as data instead of emotion, the only question is whether you did what you said by when. Praise publicly, coach privately, and remember that what you tolerate speaks louder than any all-hands speech, because how you do one thing is how you do everything.</li><li><strong>Tell them why, not just what. Stephanie's retelling of a Jocko Willink lesson lands it:</strong> a team ordered only to "get to the roof" gets stuck when the roof is blocked, but a team that knows the mission can improvise and still succeed. That's the difference between the concept and the blueprint, and it's why every task should tie to an outcome, made personal to the individual.</li><li><strong>Keep goals finite so you can see drift early.</strong> Know what week of the quarter you're in and what percentage of the target you've hit. That turns a meeting into a place to solve the gap and IDS what's off, instead of just reading the number aloud.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>You can repeat a goal until you're blue in the face, but if nothing happens when the date passes, it never meant anything. In this episode, part two to last week's conversation on meetings, Stephanie and Zach get into accountability: the least glamorous lever in leadership, and one of the most important. It starts, fittingly, with a story about their daughter missing an academic goal by a single point.</p><p>They dig into how to hold a standard without demoralizing your team, why conservative and realistic goals beat grand ones you'll miss, how to shorten the reward loop so effort actually gets reinforced, and the difference between telling people what to do and telling them why. Honest, tactical, and full of lessons that cross straight over from parenting to payroll.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>A standard you don't hold isn't a standard.</strong> Don't devalue a goal by negotiating it after the fact, but do build a path that rewards real effort. In business the line is blunt: you can't make payroll on effort alone, so hold it, while watching that the metric you enforce is actually producing the result you want.</li><li><strong>Set goals people can actually hit, and reward them fast.</strong> A conservative goal you crush beats a grand one you miss, and data should set the number, not a gut guess. Shorten the distance between the work and the reward (monthly bonuses, small wins celebrated along the way) so the effort gets reinforced.</li><li><strong>Make accountability cultural, not personal.</strong> Framed as data instead of emotion, the only question is whether you did what you said by when. Praise publicly, coach privately, and remember that what you tolerate speaks louder than any all-hands speech, because how you do one thing is how you do everything.</li><li><strong>Tell them why, not just what. Stephanie's retelling of a Jocko Willink lesson lands it:</strong> a team ordered only to "get to the roof" gets stuck when the roof is blocked, but a team that knows the mission can improvise and still succeed. That's the difference between the concept and the blueprint, and it's why every task should tie to an outcome, made personal to the individual.</li><li><strong>Keep goals finite so you can see drift early.</strong> Know what week of the quarter you're in and what percentage of the target you've hit. That turns a meeting into a place to solve the gap and IDS what's off, instead of just reading the number aloud.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2026 04:01:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2389</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>You can repeat a goal until you're blue in the face, but if nothing happens when the date passes, it never meant anything. In this episode, part two to last week's conversation on meetings, Stephanie and Zach get into accountability: the least glamorous lever in leadership, and one of the most important. It starts, fittingly, with a story about their daughter missing an academic goal by a single point.</p><p>They dig into how to hold a standard without demoralizing your team, why conservative and realistic goals beat grand ones you'll miss, how to shorten the reward loop so effort actually gets reinforced, and the difference between telling people what to do and telling them why. Honest, tactical, and full of lessons that cross straight over from parenting to payroll.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>A standard you don't hold isn't a standard.</strong> Don't devalue a goal by negotiating it after the fact, but do build a path that rewards real effort. In business the line is blunt: you can't make payroll on effort alone, so hold it, while watching that the metric you enforce is actually producing the result you want.</li><li><strong>Set goals people can actually hit, and reward them fast.</strong> A conservative goal you crush beats a grand one you miss, and data should set the number, not a gut guess. Shorten the distance between the work and the reward (monthly bonuses, small wins celebrated along the way) so the effort gets reinforced.</li><li><strong>Make accountability cultural, not personal.</strong> Framed as data instead of emotion, the only question is whether you did what you said by when. Praise publicly, coach privately, and remember that what you tolerate speaks louder than any all-hands speech, because how you do one thing is how you do everything.</li><li><strong>Tell them why, not just what. Stephanie's retelling of a Jocko Willink lesson lands it:</strong> a team ordered only to "get to the roof" gets stuck when the roof is blocked, but a team that knows the mission can improvise and still succeed. That's the difference between the concept and the blueprint, and it's why every task should tie to an outcome, made personal to the individual.</li><li><strong>Keep goals finite so you can see drift early.</strong> Know what week of the quarter you're in and what percentage of the target you've hit. That turns a meeting into a place to solve the gap and IDS what's off, instead of just reading the number aloud.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>10X Your Time by Fixing Your Meetings</title>
      <itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>10X Your Time by Fixing Your Meetings</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Meetings get a bad rap, and there are whole books to prove it. But in this episode, Stephanie and Zach make the case that a meeting you dread is almost always a leadership problem in disguise: poorly set up, poorly run, or one that should never have been on the calendar. Stephanie comes in worn down by weeks of back-to-back calls and real decision fatigue, which turns out to be the perfect place to start.<br>They dig into what actually separates a meeting that drives decisions from one that just drains everyone: leading with purpose, preparing (or canceling), holding people accountable without steamrolling them, and protecting the leader's energy and thinking time as the company scales. Practical, tactical, and honest about their own mistakes along the way.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Give every meeting a purpose, or cancel it. </strong>The meetings that burn you out are the ones where you only discuss and never decide. If someone shows up unprepared, the work quietly shifts onto you, and a meeting that is just a status readout could have been an email.</li><li><strong>Judge it by clarity, direction, and purpose.</strong> You should leave more clear than you came, knowing exactly what happens next. Use the IDS habit from Traction (identify, discuss, solve): bring problems to solve, not reports to recite.</li><li><strong>Hold people accountable without diminishing them.</strong> Deciding for people to save time makes them smaller, but staying too reserved to name the problem is just as damaging. Lead with extreme ownership by first asking what they needed from you that they didn't have, and ask more questions before you jump to the answer.</li><li><strong>You can't outgrow your own leadership.</strong> The company will never grow past the level of the CEO's leadership, so hire strategic thinkers instead of task-doers and keep investing in your own development, even when learning doesn't feel immediately productive.</li><li><strong>Protect the capacity to decide. </strong>The bigger the company, the more blank space and thinking time the leader needs, not less. Borrow the fifty-minute hour, remember that a task expands to fill the time you give it, and put your own oxygen mask on first: canceling a meeting you're too fried to run well isn't rude, it's protecting the whole team.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Meetings get a bad rap, and there are whole books to prove it. But in this episode, Stephanie and Zach make the case that a meeting you dread is almost always a leadership problem in disguise: poorly set up, poorly run, or one that should never have been on the calendar. Stephanie comes in worn down by weeks of back-to-back calls and real decision fatigue, which turns out to be the perfect place to start.<br>They dig into what actually separates a meeting that drives decisions from one that just drains everyone: leading with purpose, preparing (or canceling), holding people accountable without steamrolling them, and protecting the leader's energy and thinking time as the company scales. Practical, tactical, and honest about their own mistakes along the way.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Give every meeting a purpose, or cancel it. </strong>The meetings that burn you out are the ones where you only discuss and never decide. If someone shows up unprepared, the work quietly shifts onto you, and a meeting that is just a status readout could have been an email.</li><li><strong>Judge it by clarity, direction, and purpose.</strong> You should leave more clear than you came, knowing exactly what happens next. Use the IDS habit from Traction (identify, discuss, solve): bring problems to solve, not reports to recite.</li><li><strong>Hold people accountable without diminishing them.</strong> Deciding for people to save time makes them smaller, but staying too reserved to name the problem is just as damaging. Lead with extreme ownership by first asking what they needed from you that they didn't have, and ask more questions before you jump to the answer.</li><li><strong>You can't outgrow your own leadership.</strong> The company will never grow past the level of the CEO's leadership, so hire strategic thinkers instead of task-doers and keep investing in your own development, even when learning doesn't feel immediately productive.</li><li><strong>Protect the capacity to decide. </strong>The bigger the company, the more blank space and thinking time the leader needs, not less. Borrow the fifty-minute hour, remember that a task expands to fill the time you give it, and put your own oxygen mask on first: canceling a meeting you're too fried to run well isn't rude, it's protecting the whole team.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2026 04:02:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2568</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Meetings get a bad rap, and there are whole books to prove it. But in this episode, Stephanie and Zach make the case that a meeting you dread is almost always a leadership problem in disguise: poorly set up, poorly run, or one that should never have been on the calendar. Stephanie comes in worn down by weeks of back-to-back calls and real decision fatigue, which turns out to be the perfect place to start.<br>They dig into what actually separates a meeting that drives decisions from one that just drains everyone: leading with purpose, preparing (or canceling), holding people accountable without steamrolling them, and protecting the leader's energy and thinking time as the company scales. Practical, tactical, and honest about their own mistakes along the way.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Give every meeting a purpose, or cancel it. </strong>The meetings that burn you out are the ones where you only discuss and never decide. If someone shows up unprepared, the work quietly shifts onto you, and a meeting that is just a status readout could have been an email.</li><li><strong>Judge it by clarity, direction, and purpose.</strong> You should leave more clear than you came, knowing exactly what happens next. Use the IDS habit from Traction (identify, discuss, solve): bring problems to solve, not reports to recite.</li><li><strong>Hold people accountable without diminishing them.</strong> Deciding for people to save time makes them smaller, but staying too reserved to name the problem is just as damaging. Lead with extreme ownership by first asking what they needed from you that they didn't have, and ask more questions before you jump to the answer.</li><li><strong>You can't outgrow your own leadership.</strong> The company will never grow past the level of the CEO's leadership, so hire strategic thinkers instead of task-doers and keep investing in your own development, even when learning doesn't feel immediately productive.</li><li><strong>Protect the capacity to decide. </strong>The bigger the company, the more blank space and thinking time the leader needs, not less. Borrow the fifty-minute hour, remember that a task expands to fill the time you give it, and put your own oxygen mask on first: canceling a meeting you're too fried to run well isn't rude, it's protecting the whole team.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>The Silent Mistakes Killing Your Business (And How To Avoid Them)</title>
      <itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Silent Mistakes Killing Your Business (And How To Avoid Them)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong><br></p><p>Now that AI has made speed cheap, a website goes up in an afternoon and "We Buy Houses" is on every postcard, moving fast is no longer a differentiator. So what is?<br>In this episode, Stephanie and Zach dig into the two things worth slowing down on to actually pull ahead: building a brand, and understanding the revenue math underneath your pipeline.<br>They get tactical fast. Stephanie and Zach talk through branded versus unbranded marketing and why recognizability and reviews win in a noisy world, then go down the revenue-operations rabbit hole: pipeline coverage, active pipeline, and the simple math that turns a big vision into a goal your team can actually hit. Along the way, why both plays come down to the same discipline of delayed gratification.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>If you can't draw a line to revenue, it's entertainment.</strong> Brand and marketing conversations are fun, but ground every one of them in the funnel. The question that matters is not what's easiest to measure, it's what's actually effective.</li><li><strong>Your logo is not your brand.</strong> In a world where everyone runs the same cash-offer message, attention is only the surface. Real brand is trust built over time, and it answers a harder question: what do you actually stand for?</li><li><strong>Recognizability and validation drive inbound.</strong> People research you before they ever call, so reviews, a real website, and a consistent presence do the convincing. Most buyers will trust 30,000 reviews at a good rating over three perfect ones.</li><li><strong>Size your pipeline with real math.</strong> Pipeline coverage is one divided by your close rate. Close 20% and want a million dollars in a quarter, and you need five million in active pipeline. Per rep, a million-a-year target at a $15k average deal and a 20% close rate works out to about 83 active opportunities every quarter.</li><li><strong>Clean the pipeline before you buy more leads.</strong> "Active" means alive: pending appointments, hot follow-ups, deals in negotiation, not four-year-old cold leads. Most reps have less real pipeline than their dashboard shows, and often the fix is another person working it, not more volume.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong><br></p><p>Now that AI has made speed cheap, a website goes up in an afternoon and "We Buy Houses" is on every postcard, moving fast is no longer a differentiator. So what is?<br>In this episode, Stephanie and Zach dig into the two things worth slowing down on to actually pull ahead: building a brand, and understanding the revenue math underneath your pipeline.<br>They get tactical fast. Stephanie and Zach talk through branded versus unbranded marketing and why recognizability and reviews win in a noisy world, then go down the revenue-operations rabbit hole: pipeline coverage, active pipeline, and the simple math that turns a big vision into a goal your team can actually hit. Along the way, why both plays come down to the same discipline of delayed gratification.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>If you can't draw a line to revenue, it's entertainment.</strong> Brand and marketing conversations are fun, but ground every one of them in the funnel. The question that matters is not what's easiest to measure, it's what's actually effective.</li><li><strong>Your logo is not your brand.</strong> In a world where everyone runs the same cash-offer message, attention is only the surface. Real brand is trust built over time, and it answers a harder question: what do you actually stand for?</li><li><strong>Recognizability and validation drive inbound.</strong> People research you before they ever call, so reviews, a real website, and a consistent presence do the convincing. Most buyers will trust 30,000 reviews at a good rating over three perfect ones.</li><li><strong>Size your pipeline with real math.</strong> Pipeline coverage is one divided by your close rate. Close 20% and want a million dollars in a quarter, and you need five million in active pipeline. Per rep, a million-a-year target at a $15k average deal and a 20% close rate works out to about 83 active opportunities every quarter.</li><li><strong>Clean the pipeline before you buy more leads.</strong> "Active" means alive: pending appointments, hot follow-ups, deals in negotiation, not four-year-old cold leads. Most reps have less real pipeline than their dashboard shows, and often the fix is another person working it, not more volume.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 10:04:27 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2747</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong><br></p><p>Now that AI has made speed cheap, a website goes up in an afternoon and "We Buy Houses" is on every postcard, moving fast is no longer a differentiator. So what is?<br>In this episode, Stephanie and Zach dig into the two things worth slowing down on to actually pull ahead: building a brand, and understanding the revenue math underneath your pipeline.<br>They get tactical fast. Stephanie and Zach talk through branded versus unbranded marketing and why recognizability and reviews win in a noisy world, then go down the revenue-operations rabbit hole: pipeline coverage, active pipeline, and the simple math that turns a big vision into a goal your team can actually hit. Along the way, why both plays come down to the same discipline of delayed gratification.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>If you can't draw a line to revenue, it's entertainment.</strong> Brand and marketing conversations are fun, but ground every one of them in the funnel. The question that matters is not what's easiest to measure, it's what's actually effective.</li><li><strong>Your logo is not your brand.</strong> In a world where everyone runs the same cash-offer message, attention is only the surface. Real brand is trust built over time, and it answers a harder question: what do you actually stand for?</li><li><strong>Recognizability and validation drive inbound.</strong> People research you before they ever call, so reviews, a real website, and a consistent presence do the convincing. Most buyers will trust 30,000 reviews at a good rating over three perfect ones.</li><li><strong>Size your pipeline with real math.</strong> Pipeline coverage is one divided by your close rate. Close 20% and want a million dollars in a quarter, and you need five million in active pipeline. Per rep, a million-a-year target at a $15k average deal and a 20% close rate works out to about 83 active opportunities every quarter.</li><li><strong>Clean the pipeline before you buy more leads.</strong> "Active" means alive: pending appointments, hot follow-ups, deals in negotiation, not four-year-old cold leads. Most reps have less real pipeline than their dashboard shows, and often the fix is another person working it, not more volume.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>The AI Divide: How To Pull Ahead</title>
      <itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The AI Divide: How To Pull Ahead</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>There is a new AI tool almost every day, and for anybody who struggles with focus, that is equal parts exciting and terrifying. In this episode, Stephanie and Zach cut through the buzzword noise and get practical about where AI actually earns its place in a real estate business, and where it just becomes an expensive distraction.<br>They dig into the reframe most owners get wrong (AI is labor, not a person you replace), a simple way to sort your tech stack so you know where to plug in, and why the operators learning this now are quietly pulling away from everyone else. Along the way: what stays valuable when the machines get good, and why the highest performers are still the ones having fun.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Ideas without execution is just entertainment.</strong> The excitement of a new tool means nothing until you do something with it. Shiny object syndrome is fun, but it's a distraction from the thing your company is actually supposed to do.</li><li><strong>AI is labor, not a job role.</strong> Stop asking who you can replace and start asking where the friction is. Hook a tool up to your CRM, ask where your best opportunities are today, and it makes the operator better instead of replacing them. You do more with the same team.</li><li><strong>Sort your stack, then start with the funnel.</strong> Split your tech into system of record (your center of truth), system of action (where the work happens), and database (the raw data underneath). Then pick one friction point in your funnel, lead to close, that ties directly to revenue. That keeps you grounded instead of chasing the next tool.</li><li><strong>Speed is the race, and this is the worst it will ever be.</strong> The people learning AI now are pulling away, and catching up gets harder every week. As Stephanie put it, winners lose more than losers: you fumble, you iterate, you come out faster and more accurate.</li><li><strong>Protect the human layer.</strong> AI can manage tasks, but it won't lead a team, and the trust between two people is something a three-minute website can't fake. When AI does away with average, relationship, perspective, and leadership become your real differentiators.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>There is a new AI tool almost every day, and for anybody who struggles with focus, that is equal parts exciting and terrifying. In this episode, Stephanie and Zach cut through the buzzword noise and get practical about where AI actually earns its place in a real estate business, and where it just becomes an expensive distraction.<br>They dig into the reframe most owners get wrong (AI is labor, not a person you replace), a simple way to sort your tech stack so you know where to plug in, and why the operators learning this now are quietly pulling away from everyone else. Along the way: what stays valuable when the machines get good, and why the highest performers are still the ones having fun.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Ideas without execution is just entertainment.</strong> The excitement of a new tool means nothing until you do something with it. Shiny object syndrome is fun, but it's a distraction from the thing your company is actually supposed to do.</li><li><strong>AI is labor, not a job role.</strong> Stop asking who you can replace and start asking where the friction is. Hook a tool up to your CRM, ask where your best opportunities are today, and it makes the operator better instead of replacing them. You do more with the same team.</li><li><strong>Sort your stack, then start with the funnel.</strong> Split your tech into system of record (your center of truth), system of action (where the work happens), and database (the raw data underneath). Then pick one friction point in your funnel, lead to close, that ties directly to revenue. That keeps you grounded instead of chasing the next tool.</li><li><strong>Speed is the race, and this is the worst it will ever be.</strong> The people learning AI now are pulling away, and catching up gets harder every week. As Stephanie put it, winners lose more than losers: you fumble, you iterate, you come out faster and more accurate.</li><li><strong>Protect the human layer.</strong> AI can manage tasks, but it won't lead a team, and the trust between two people is something a three-minute website can't fake. When AI does away with average, relationship, perspective, and leadership become your real differentiators.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 04:20:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2769</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>There is a new AI tool almost every day, and for anybody who struggles with focus, that is equal parts exciting and terrifying. In this episode, Stephanie and Zach cut through the buzzword noise and get practical about where AI actually earns its place in a real estate business, and where it just becomes an expensive distraction.<br>They dig into the reframe most owners get wrong (AI is labor, not a person you replace), a simple way to sort your tech stack so you know where to plug in, and why the operators learning this now are quietly pulling away from everyone else. Along the way: what stays valuable when the machines get good, and why the highest performers are still the ones having fun.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Ideas without execution is just entertainment.</strong> The excitement of a new tool means nothing until you do something with it. Shiny object syndrome is fun, but it's a distraction from the thing your company is actually supposed to do.</li><li><strong>AI is labor, not a job role.</strong> Stop asking who you can replace and start asking where the friction is. Hook a tool up to your CRM, ask where your best opportunities are today, and it makes the operator better instead of replacing them. You do more with the same team.</li><li><strong>Sort your stack, then start with the funnel.</strong> Split your tech into system of record (your center of truth), system of action (where the work happens), and database (the raw data underneath). Then pick one friction point in your funnel, lead to close, that ties directly to revenue. That keeps you grounded instead of chasing the next tool.</li><li><strong>Speed is the race, and this is the worst it will ever be.</strong> The people learning AI now are pulling away, and catching up gets harder every week. As Stephanie put it, winners lose more than losers: you fumble, you iterate, you come out faster and more accurate.</li><li><strong>Protect the human layer.</strong> AI can manage tasks, but it won't lead a team, and the trust between two people is something a three-minute website can't fake. When AI does away with average, relationship, perspective, and leadership become your real differentiators.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>Building Without Breaking: What Success Really Takes</title>
      <itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Building Without Breaking: What Success Really Takes</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Anybody can grow a company in a good market. Jesse Burrell built Batch from nothing to forty million dollars in top-line revenue in under three years, then watched the market cut it in half. What he did in between is the part most founders skip, and it's why he walked away with a clean exit instead of a fire sale.<br>Jesse and his wife Erin sit down with Stephanie and Zachary Betters to talk about what it actually takes to survive a downturn, keep a marriage steady through the grind, and build a business worth buying. They get honest about the mistakes that nearly sank Batch, the discipline that saved it (including 20 months when the founders didn't draw a paycheck), and why the money was never the point.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Save hardest when it's going best.</strong> Batch went zero to forty million fast, then lost close to ten million in revenue almost overnight when texting regulations changed and rates climbed. As Jesse puts it: when you're doing well, you're not as good as you think you are, and when you're doing bad, you're not as bad as you think either.</li><li><strong>Build the war chest before the storm.</strong> Jesse and his partners saved and invested through the boom instead of inflating their lifestyles, so none of the three had to draw a paycheck for roughly 18 to 20 months while they steadied the company and protected payroll. Runway, not revenue, is what keeps decisions calm.</li><li><strong>Beat lifestyle creep.</strong> The Lambos and the watches on social media tell you nothing about someone's monthly nut. Stack up enough soldiers before you go to war and you make sound decisions instead of decisions out of fear.</li><li><strong>The story is the asset.</strong> When PropStream came to buy, Jesse didn't hide the revenue dip. He walked them through exactly why it happened and mapped the path back. Gut the company for short-term profit and there's nothing left worth buying.</li><li><strong>Chase purpose, not the payout.</strong> Exiting taught Jesse the fulfillment doesn't come from the money, it comes from the impact you make on people. Growth is one thing. Knowing why you're growing is another.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Anybody can grow a company in a good market. Jesse Burrell built Batch from nothing to forty million dollars in top-line revenue in under three years, then watched the market cut it in half. What he did in between is the part most founders skip, and it's why he walked away with a clean exit instead of a fire sale.<br>Jesse and his wife Erin sit down with Stephanie and Zachary Betters to talk about what it actually takes to survive a downturn, keep a marriage steady through the grind, and build a business worth buying. They get honest about the mistakes that nearly sank Batch, the discipline that saved it (including 20 months when the founders didn't draw a paycheck), and why the money was never the point.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Save hardest when it's going best.</strong> Batch went zero to forty million fast, then lost close to ten million in revenue almost overnight when texting regulations changed and rates climbed. As Jesse puts it: when you're doing well, you're not as good as you think you are, and when you're doing bad, you're not as bad as you think either.</li><li><strong>Build the war chest before the storm.</strong> Jesse and his partners saved and invested through the boom instead of inflating their lifestyles, so none of the three had to draw a paycheck for roughly 18 to 20 months while they steadied the company and protected payroll. Runway, not revenue, is what keeps decisions calm.</li><li><strong>Beat lifestyle creep.</strong> The Lambos and the watches on social media tell you nothing about someone's monthly nut. Stack up enough soldiers before you go to war and you make sound decisions instead of decisions out of fear.</li><li><strong>The story is the asset.</strong> When PropStream came to buy, Jesse didn't hide the revenue dip. He walked them through exactly why it happened and mapped the path back. Gut the company for short-term profit and there's nothing left worth buying.</li><li><strong>Chase purpose, not the payout.</strong> Exiting taught Jesse the fulfillment doesn't come from the money, it comes from the impact you make on people. Growth is one thing. Knowing why you're growing is another.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2026 04:08:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3403</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Anybody can grow a company in a good market. Jesse Burrell built Batch from nothing to forty million dollars in top-line revenue in under three years, then watched the market cut it in half. What he did in between is the part most founders skip, and it's why he walked away with a clean exit instead of a fire sale.<br>Jesse and his wife Erin sit down with Stephanie and Zachary Betters to talk about what it actually takes to survive a downturn, keep a marriage steady through the grind, and build a business worth buying. They get honest about the mistakes that nearly sank Batch, the discipline that saved it (including 20 months when the founders didn't draw a paycheck), and why the money was never the point.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Save hardest when it's going best.</strong> Batch went zero to forty million fast, then lost close to ten million in revenue almost overnight when texting regulations changed and rates climbed. As Jesse puts it: when you're doing well, you're not as good as you think you are, and when you're doing bad, you're not as bad as you think either.</li><li><strong>Build the war chest before the storm.</strong> Jesse and his partners saved and invested through the boom instead of inflating their lifestyles, so none of the three had to draw a paycheck for roughly 18 to 20 months while they steadied the company and protected payroll. Runway, not revenue, is what keeps decisions calm.</li><li><strong>Beat lifestyle creep.</strong> The Lambos and the watches on social media tell you nothing about someone's monthly nut. Stack up enough soldiers before you go to war and you make sound decisions instead of decisions out of fear.</li><li><strong>The story is the asset.</strong> When PropStream came to buy, Jesse didn't hide the revenue dip. He walked them through exactly why it happened and mapped the path back. Gut the company for short-term profit and there's nothing left worth buying.</li><li><strong>Chase purpose, not the payout.</strong> Exiting taught Jesse the fulfillment doesn't come from the money, it comes from the impact you make on people. Growth is one thing. Knowing why you're growing is another.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>How to Survive Success Together</title>
      <itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>How to Survive Success Together</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What do a captain’s chair during the 2020 lockdown, a go-kart track with no mercy, a coffee maker with exactly one trained button-pusher, and a self-described “Shrek the Human Onion” have in common? They’re all part of this week’s conversation with Jason Medley and Jennifer Lombardi.</p><p>Jason leads Collective Genius, the mastermind community for real estate investors, and he and Jennifer sit down with Stephanie and Zachary Betters to talk about what it actually takes to lead leaders, build a business that survives a decade and a pandemic, and keep a marriage intact while doing it. They get honest about naming hard seasons out loud, the unglamorous systems behind long-term success, and the daily discipline of leading yourself before you lead anyone else.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Name the season out loud. </strong>Before going heads-down for ninety days during COVID, Jason told Jennifer he needed her to cut him some slack. Communication and grace beat quietly stuffing it until the grenade goes off.<p></p></li><li><strong>Drop the work-life-balance myth. </strong>While you’re building, balance isn’t coming. Instead, agree on each other’s non-negotiables, the two or three weekly things that keep each partner’s bucket full.<p></p></li><li><strong>Values and vision, then the boring systems. </strong>The investors who last run on clear core values, a flag in the ground, operating cadences and scorecards, financial discipline, and the right hires. Making money is one thing; keeping it is another.<p></p></li><li><strong>If you can’t lead you, you can’t lead anybody. </strong>Win the morning first so you stay proactive instead of reactive to the world: get up early, pray, move your body, eat clean, then handle the obligations you didn’t choose.<p></p></li><li><strong>Take honest inventory. </strong>Look at the fruit. Are the people around you growing and wanting to be near you? Sometimes the harder discipline is striving toward not striving, being okay at ninety-five percent for a season.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What do a captain’s chair during the 2020 lockdown, a go-kart track with no mercy, a coffee maker with exactly one trained button-pusher, and a self-described “Shrek the Human Onion” have in common? They’re all part of this week’s conversation with Jason Medley and Jennifer Lombardi.</p><p>Jason leads Collective Genius, the mastermind community for real estate investors, and he and Jennifer sit down with Stephanie and Zachary Betters to talk about what it actually takes to lead leaders, build a business that survives a decade and a pandemic, and keep a marriage intact while doing it. They get honest about naming hard seasons out loud, the unglamorous systems behind long-term success, and the daily discipline of leading yourself before you lead anyone else.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Name the season out loud. </strong>Before going heads-down for ninety days during COVID, Jason told Jennifer he needed her to cut him some slack. Communication and grace beat quietly stuffing it until the grenade goes off.<p></p></li><li><strong>Drop the work-life-balance myth. </strong>While you’re building, balance isn’t coming. Instead, agree on each other’s non-negotiables, the two or three weekly things that keep each partner’s bucket full.<p></p></li><li><strong>Values and vision, then the boring systems. </strong>The investors who last run on clear core values, a flag in the ground, operating cadences and scorecards, financial discipline, and the right hires. Making money is one thing; keeping it is another.<p></p></li><li><strong>If you can’t lead you, you can’t lead anybody. </strong>Win the morning first so you stay proactive instead of reactive to the world: get up early, pray, move your body, eat clean, then handle the obligations you didn’t choose.<p></p></li><li><strong>Take honest inventory. </strong>Look at the fruit. Are the people around you growing and wanting to be near you? Sometimes the harder discipline is striving toward not striving, being okay at ninety-five percent for a season.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 04:04:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3679</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What do a captain’s chair during the 2020 lockdown, a go-kart track with no mercy, a coffee maker with exactly one trained button-pusher, and a self-described “Shrek the Human Onion” have in common? They’re all part of this week’s conversation with Jason Medley and Jennifer Lombardi.</p><p>Jason leads Collective Genius, the mastermind community for real estate investors, and he and Jennifer sit down with Stephanie and Zachary Betters to talk about what it actually takes to lead leaders, build a business that survives a decade and a pandemic, and keep a marriage intact while doing it. They get honest about naming hard seasons out loud, the unglamorous systems behind long-term success, and the daily discipline of leading yourself before you lead anyone else.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Name the season out loud. </strong>Before going heads-down for ninety days during COVID, Jason told Jennifer he needed her to cut him some slack. Communication and grace beat quietly stuffing it until the grenade goes off.<p></p></li><li><strong>Drop the work-life-balance myth. </strong>While you’re building, balance isn’t coming. Instead, agree on each other’s non-negotiables, the two or three weekly things that keep each partner’s bucket full.<p></p></li><li><strong>Values and vision, then the boring systems. </strong>The investors who last run on clear core values, a flag in the ground, operating cadences and scorecards, financial discipline, and the right hires. Making money is one thing; keeping it is another.<p></p></li><li><strong>If you can’t lead you, you can’t lead anybody. </strong>Win the morning first so you stay proactive instead of reactive to the world: get up early, pray, move your body, eat clean, then handle the obligations you didn’t choose.<p></p></li><li><strong>Take honest inventory. </strong>Look at the fruit. Are the people around you growing and wanting to be near you? Sometimes the harder discipline is striving toward not striving, being okay at ninety-five percent for a season.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>The Hidden Secret to Sustainable Success</title>
      <itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Hidden Secret to Sustainable Success</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What do a hospital hand-sanitizer dispenser, a calendar that runs like a game of Tetris, a canceled Florida vacation, and a recurring meeting block called “daddy doing deals” have in common? They’re all part of this week’s conversation on CEO rhythms. There’s no guest this time — just Stephanie and Zach across the table, the planner and the improviser, working through how successful leaders actually build their days. Stephanie is the prepper who maps out the week every Sunday and has decided, on purpose, that Monday is her favorite day. Zach is the self-described all-over-the-map one who, after eight years of building a company together, finally started asking for a routine he could follow. Together they run two demanding businesses, raise three kids who save their best stories for 11:30 at night, and still guard the small rituals — the morning coffee, the silent few minutes before the day detonates — that keep them steady.<br>The throughline of the entire conversation is rhythm — the daily, weekly, and quarterly cadences that let you perform consistently instead of riding the emotional ups and downs of the work. Stephanie draws on her years in medicine to explain how you reset between high-stakes moments and walk into the next room whole, and why telling yourself the right story before the week starts genuinely changes how it goes. Zach climbs onto his favorite soapbox — that peak performance is impossible without peak rest — and the two of them revisit the early flip that made them cancel a family trip to Florida, a decision they still regret a decade later. The takeaway they keep returning to: you can grind for a season, but a season is not a strategy. If you want to still be in the game in twenty years, you have to build a rhythm you can actually sustain.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Peak performance is a state you build, not a mood you catch. </strong>Stephanie’s years in medicine taught her to reset between emotionally brutal moments and walk into the next room whole. That same skill — regulating your state on demand — is what separates consistent leaders from reactive ones. It isn’t a personality trait. It’s a ritual you run on purpose.</li><li><strong>Tell yourself the right story. </strong>Monday is Stephanie’s favorite day for exactly one reason: she has told herself it is, every week, for years. What you say to yourself before you go to bed measurably shapes the day you wake up to. The narrative comes before the routine — get it wrong and no system will save you.</li><li><strong>Put yourself on the calendar first — and then keep it. </strong>Zach treats a well-run calendar like Tetris: deliberate blocks that interlock, not random interruptions falling through the day. The hard part isn’t scheduling the meetings; it’s protecting the non-negotiables — deep work, CEO time, rest — and refusing to surrender them the moment someone needs you. Writing them down and keeping them is what makes you an executive.</li><li><strong>Teach people how you think, not just what to do. </strong>Hand someone a quick answer and you’ve given them a piece of cheese; they’ll come back for cheese every time. Teach them how you arrived at the answer and they can solve the next problem without you. Protecting your rhythm is as much about training your team’s habits as it is about managing your own.</li><li><strong>Peak rest is part of peak performance. </strong>Zach doesn’t want mediocre effort seven days a week — he wants people who show up ready to sprint, which is impossible on the twentieth straight day of work. The grind has its season, but a season is not a strategy. You can do anything for a couple of years; building something that lasts twenty means designing rest into the plan, not apologizing for it.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What do a hospital hand-sanitizer dispenser, a calendar that runs like a game of Tetris, a canceled Florida vacation, and a recurring meeting block called “daddy doing deals” have in common? They’re all part of this week’s conversation on CEO rhythms. There’s no guest this time — just Stephanie and Zach across the table, the planner and the improviser, working through how successful leaders actually build their days. Stephanie is the prepper who maps out the week every Sunday and has decided, on purpose, that Monday is her favorite day. Zach is the self-described all-over-the-map one who, after eight years of building a company together, finally started asking for a routine he could follow. Together they run two demanding businesses, raise three kids who save their best stories for 11:30 at night, and still guard the small rituals — the morning coffee, the silent few minutes before the day detonates — that keep them steady.<br>The throughline of the entire conversation is rhythm — the daily, weekly, and quarterly cadences that let you perform consistently instead of riding the emotional ups and downs of the work. Stephanie draws on her years in medicine to explain how you reset between high-stakes moments and walk into the next room whole, and why telling yourself the right story before the week starts genuinely changes how it goes. Zach climbs onto his favorite soapbox — that peak performance is impossible without peak rest — and the two of them revisit the early flip that made them cancel a family trip to Florida, a decision they still regret a decade later. The takeaway they keep returning to: you can grind for a season, but a season is not a strategy. If you want to still be in the game in twenty years, you have to build a rhythm you can actually sustain.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Peak performance is a state you build, not a mood you catch. </strong>Stephanie’s years in medicine taught her to reset between emotionally brutal moments and walk into the next room whole. That same skill — regulating your state on demand — is what separates consistent leaders from reactive ones. It isn’t a personality trait. It’s a ritual you run on purpose.</li><li><strong>Tell yourself the right story. </strong>Monday is Stephanie’s favorite day for exactly one reason: she has told herself it is, every week, for years. What you say to yourself before you go to bed measurably shapes the day you wake up to. The narrative comes before the routine — get it wrong and no system will save you.</li><li><strong>Put yourself on the calendar first — and then keep it. </strong>Zach treats a well-run calendar like Tetris: deliberate blocks that interlock, not random interruptions falling through the day. The hard part isn’t scheduling the meetings; it’s protecting the non-negotiables — deep work, CEO time, rest — and refusing to surrender them the moment someone needs you. Writing them down and keeping them is what makes you an executive.</li><li><strong>Teach people how you think, not just what to do. </strong>Hand someone a quick answer and you’ve given them a piece of cheese; they’ll come back for cheese every time. Teach them how you arrived at the answer and they can solve the next problem without you. Protecting your rhythm is as much about training your team’s habits as it is about managing your own.</li><li><strong>Peak rest is part of peak performance. </strong>Zach doesn’t want mediocre effort seven days a week — he wants people who show up ready to sprint, which is impossible on the twentieth straight day of work. The grind has its season, but a season is not a strategy. You can do anything for a couple of years; building something that lasts twenty means designing rest into the plan, not apologizing for it.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What do a hospital hand-sanitizer dispenser, a calendar that runs like a game of Tetris, a canceled Florida vacation, and a recurring meeting block called “daddy doing deals” have in common? They’re all part of this week’s conversation on CEO rhythms. There’s no guest this time — just Stephanie and Zach across the table, the planner and the improviser, working through how successful leaders actually build their days. Stephanie is the prepper who maps out the week every Sunday and has decided, on purpose, that Monday is her favorite day. Zach is the self-described all-over-the-map one who, after eight years of building a company together, finally started asking for a routine he could follow. Together they run two demanding businesses, raise three kids who save their best stories for 11:30 at night, and still guard the small rituals — the morning coffee, the silent few minutes before the day detonates — that keep them steady.<br>The throughline of the entire conversation is rhythm — the daily, weekly, and quarterly cadences that let you perform consistently instead of riding the emotional ups and downs of the work. Stephanie draws on her years in medicine to explain how you reset between high-stakes moments and walk into the next room whole, and why telling yourself the right story before the week starts genuinely changes how it goes. Zach climbs onto his favorite soapbox — that peak performance is impossible without peak rest — and the two of them revisit the early flip that made them cancel a family trip to Florida, a decision they still regret a decade later. The takeaway they keep returning to: you can grind for a season, but a season is not a strategy. If you want to still be in the game in twenty years, you have to build a rhythm you can actually sustain.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Peak performance is a state you build, not a mood you catch. </strong>Stephanie’s years in medicine taught her to reset between emotionally brutal moments and walk into the next room whole. That same skill — regulating your state on demand — is what separates consistent leaders from reactive ones. It isn’t a personality trait. It’s a ritual you run on purpose.</li><li><strong>Tell yourself the right story. </strong>Monday is Stephanie’s favorite day for exactly one reason: she has told herself it is, every week, for years. What you say to yourself before you go to bed measurably shapes the day you wake up to. The narrative comes before the routine — get it wrong and no system will save you.</li><li><strong>Put yourself on the calendar first — and then keep it. </strong>Zach treats a well-run calendar like Tetris: deliberate blocks that interlock, not random interruptions falling through the day. The hard part isn’t scheduling the meetings; it’s protecting the non-negotiables — deep work, CEO time, rest — and refusing to surrender them the moment someone needs you. Writing them down and keeping them is what makes you an executive.</li><li><strong>Teach people how you think, not just what to do. </strong>Hand someone a quick answer and you’ve given them a piece of cheese; they’ll come back for cheese every time. Teach them how you arrived at the answer and they can solve the next problem without you. Protecting your rhythm is as much about training your team’s habits as it is about managing your own.</li><li><strong>Peak rest is part of peak performance. </strong>Zach doesn’t want mediocre effort seven days a week — he wants people who show up ready to sprint, which is impossible on the twentieth straight day of work. The grind has its season, but a season is not a strategy. You can do anything for a couple of years; building something that lasts twenty means designing rest into the plan, not apologizing for it.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>600 Deals a Year: What 10 Years of Focus Actually Builds</title>
      <itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>600 Deals a Year: What 10 Years of Focus Actually Builds</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Pat Martin didn't start with a grand vision or a business plan. He started with a house in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, a father-in-law who said "you should fix that up," and a wife who was the breadwinner while he figured things out. By 2010 he was in Knoxville, turning live-in flips every two years, stacking equity, and slowly building what would become Pro Source Home Buyers, a three-market operation now closing 70 to 80 transactions a month with 40 W-2 employees. Zach and Stephanie have watched Pat build from the same rooms, the same masterminds, the same early days of being afraid to hire a single person to answer the phone.<br>What makes this conversation worth your time isn't the deal count, it's the decade of hard lessons underneath it. Pat walks through the 2022 unwind in real detail: stepping away from the CEO seat too early, owning inventory without the systems to support it, watching interest rates expose every underwriting assumption he had made. Then the rebuild, getting the right operator in place, installing leaders in every department who own their constraints, and developing a culture where the team itself enforces the standard. Ten years of focus on one thing, in one industry, in three markets, is what six hundred deals a year looks like. And Pat is just getting started.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Imperfect action is how you get in the game.</strong> Pat's first deal probably didn't make money, and he knows it. But it got him on the board, gave him a reference point, and separated him from the hundred people at every local RIA who were still waiting for the perfect opportunity. The gap between people who receive education and people who build something is almost always action, not information.</li><li><strong>Stepping out of the CEO seat too early exposes every system you don't have.</strong> In 2022, Pat handed off operations, interest rates spiked, and the inventory he had accumulated revealed that the underwriting discipline and operational infrastructure weren't there. The lesson wasn't that stepping back is wrong. It's that you can't delegate your way out of systems that don't exist yet.</li><li><strong>Cash is oxygen, equity doesn't pay the bills.</strong> When rates moved from three to eight percent, buyers dried up for the product Pat had been acquiring at prices that only worked in the old environment. The number one metric became how much cash was available to draw on flips. Getting assets off the balance sheet, cutting expenses, and not taking down new inventory through early 2023 was what stabilized the company.</li><li><strong>One great hire raises the floor for everyone.</strong> When a new inside sales rep came in on referral and immediately became the top appointment setter in the company, it didn't just fill a seat. It challenged every other rep to compete. The underperforming team member they had been holding onto would have kept the ceiling low. The right hire made the whole room better.</li><li><strong>Focus is a competitive advantage, not a limitation.</strong> Pat spent years watching peers spin up second, third, and fourth companies and wondering if he was missing something. The reframe: Open Door buys 20,000 houses a year. New Western does 14,000 to 15,000. The market isn't too small. The ceiling was always in his own thinking, not in the industry. Ten-plus years of staying in one lane, solving one set of problems, and building one team is what 600 deals a year looks like.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Pat Martin didn't start with a grand vision or a business plan. He started with a house in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, a father-in-law who said "you should fix that up," and a wife who was the breadwinner while he figured things out. By 2010 he was in Knoxville, turning live-in flips every two years, stacking equity, and slowly building what would become Pro Source Home Buyers, a three-market operation now closing 70 to 80 transactions a month with 40 W-2 employees. Zach and Stephanie have watched Pat build from the same rooms, the same masterminds, the same early days of being afraid to hire a single person to answer the phone.<br>What makes this conversation worth your time isn't the deal count, it's the decade of hard lessons underneath it. Pat walks through the 2022 unwind in real detail: stepping away from the CEO seat too early, owning inventory without the systems to support it, watching interest rates expose every underwriting assumption he had made. Then the rebuild, getting the right operator in place, installing leaders in every department who own their constraints, and developing a culture where the team itself enforces the standard. Ten years of focus on one thing, in one industry, in three markets, is what six hundred deals a year looks like. And Pat is just getting started.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Imperfect action is how you get in the game.</strong> Pat's first deal probably didn't make money, and he knows it. But it got him on the board, gave him a reference point, and separated him from the hundred people at every local RIA who were still waiting for the perfect opportunity. The gap between people who receive education and people who build something is almost always action, not information.</li><li><strong>Stepping out of the CEO seat too early exposes every system you don't have.</strong> In 2022, Pat handed off operations, interest rates spiked, and the inventory he had accumulated revealed that the underwriting discipline and operational infrastructure weren't there. The lesson wasn't that stepping back is wrong. It's that you can't delegate your way out of systems that don't exist yet.</li><li><strong>Cash is oxygen, equity doesn't pay the bills.</strong> When rates moved from three to eight percent, buyers dried up for the product Pat had been acquiring at prices that only worked in the old environment. The number one metric became how much cash was available to draw on flips. Getting assets off the balance sheet, cutting expenses, and not taking down new inventory through early 2023 was what stabilized the company.</li><li><strong>One great hire raises the floor for everyone.</strong> When a new inside sales rep came in on referral and immediately became the top appointment setter in the company, it didn't just fill a seat. It challenged every other rep to compete. The underperforming team member they had been holding onto would have kept the ceiling low. The right hire made the whole room better.</li><li><strong>Focus is a competitive advantage, not a limitation.</strong> Pat spent years watching peers spin up second, third, and fourth companies and wondering if he was missing something. The reframe: Open Door buys 20,000 houses a year. New Western does 14,000 to 15,000. The market isn't too small. The ceiling was always in his own thinking, not in the industry. Ten-plus years of staying in one lane, solving one set of problems, and building one team is what 600 deals a year looks like.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>Pat Martin didn't start with a grand vision or a business plan. He started with a house in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, a father-in-law who said "you should fix that up," and a wife who was the breadwinner while he figured things out. By 2010 he was in Knoxville, turning live-in flips every two years, stacking equity, and slowly building what would become Pro Source Home Buyers, a three-market operation now closing 70 to 80 transactions a month with 40 W-2 employees. Zach and Stephanie have watched Pat build from the same rooms, the same masterminds, the same early days of being afraid to hire a single person to answer the phone.<br>What makes this conversation worth your time isn't the deal count, it's the decade of hard lessons underneath it. Pat walks through the 2022 unwind in real detail: stepping away from the CEO seat too early, owning inventory without the systems to support it, watching interest rates expose every underwriting assumption he had made. Then the rebuild, getting the right operator in place, installing leaders in every department who own their constraints, and developing a culture where the team itself enforces the standard. Ten years of focus on one thing, in one industry, in three markets, is what six hundred deals a year looks like. And Pat is just getting started.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Imperfect action is how you get in the game.</strong> Pat's first deal probably didn't make money, and he knows it. But it got him on the board, gave him a reference point, and separated him from the hundred people at every local RIA who were still waiting for the perfect opportunity. The gap between people who receive education and people who build something is almost always action, not information.</li><li><strong>Stepping out of the CEO seat too early exposes every system you don't have.</strong> In 2022, Pat handed off operations, interest rates spiked, and the inventory he had accumulated revealed that the underwriting discipline and operational infrastructure weren't there. The lesson wasn't that stepping back is wrong. It's that you can't delegate your way out of systems that don't exist yet.</li><li><strong>Cash is oxygen, equity doesn't pay the bills.</strong> When rates moved from three to eight percent, buyers dried up for the product Pat had been acquiring at prices that only worked in the old environment. The number one metric became how much cash was available to draw on flips. Getting assets off the balance sheet, cutting expenses, and not taking down new inventory through early 2023 was what stabilized the company.</li><li><strong>One great hire raises the floor for everyone.</strong> When a new inside sales rep came in on referral and immediately became the top appointment setter in the company, it didn't just fill a seat. It challenged every other rep to compete. The underperforming team member they had been holding onto would have kept the ceiling low. The right hire made the whole room better.</li><li><strong>Focus is a competitive advantage, not a limitation.</strong> Pat spent years watching peers spin up second, third, and fourth companies and wondering if he was missing something. The reframe: Open Door buys 20,000 houses a year. New Western does 14,000 to 15,000. The market isn't too small. The ceiling was always in his own thinking, not in the industry. Ten-plus years of staying in one lane, solving one set of problems, and building one team is what 600 deals a year looks like.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>25 Years In: What Surviving Every Market Looks Like</title>
      <itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>25 Years In: What Surviving Every Market Looks Like</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What does it really take to build a real estate empire alongside the person you married your freshman year of college? Marck and Sara Beth De Lautour have been doing exactly that for 25 years, starting with a $5,000 credit card charge for a real estate course, a cat-filled duplex they eventually moved into, and a nursing salary holding the whole thing together. Marck, originally from New Zealand, and Sara, a former ICU and flight nurse, join Stephanie and Zach for a genuinely funny, raw, and insightful double date conversation about the mechanics of building a business when one partner is a visionary and the other is a guardian doing her best to keep everyone grounded.</p><p>From surviving the 2008 market crash and a hostile business takeover, to a surprise phone call about a Florida home purchase made while on the way to the airport, Marck and Sara lay out what 25 years of pivoting actually looks like in practice. Sara's evolution from skeptic to trusted co-pilot mirrors a journey many couples in real estate will recognize, and her hard-won insight that "the proof is in the pudding" captures something deeper: trust in a business partner who is also your spouse is built through evidence, not promises. This episode is full of both.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Sell the vision before the fear.</strong> Marck's strategy for getting Sara on board with their very first property was showing her the pristine neighbor's unit before walking her into the cat-filled duplex. It sounds simple, but it's a real lesson in change management: when introducing risk to a reluctant partner, lead with the destination, not the current state.</li><li><strong>The guardian-visionary dynamic is a feature, not a bug.</strong> Sara describes herself as a protector, a devil's advocate, and a stabilizer. Marck credits her "checking mechanism" as the thing that kept him from being too aggressive. Knowing and respecting your partner's predictive index profile, whether at home or in a leadership team, produces better decisions than either profile would alone.</li><li><strong>You only lose if you quit.</strong> Marck's core philosophy after a hostile business takeover in 2008 wiped out millions in equity at age 30 was simply to rebuild. He frames every market disruption, from auction.com democratizing courthouse step data in 2017 to interest rate spikes in 2022, as a pivot problem, not a failure problem. Resilience here is less a mindset and more a practice of constant adaptation.</li><li><strong>Teach financial literacy early and contextually.</strong> The De Lautours used Dave Ramsey envelope systems when their kids were young, took them to deposit coins at the bank, and talked openly about the difference between trading time for money and building a business that pays you while you sleep. Their 8-year-old son noticed on his own that his dad's income worked differently than his mom's nursing shifts. That level of financial intuition doesn't happen by accident.</li><li><strong>The supply chain advantage protects you.</strong> Marck attributes much of their durability through multiple market cycles to the fact that they rehab and build rather than wholesale or assign deals. When you control more of the process, from acquisition to renovation to disposition, you add real value to a community and you have more levers to pull when conditions shift. Specialization on just one end of the transaction leaves you exposed.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What does it really take to build a real estate empire alongside the person you married your freshman year of college? Marck and Sara Beth De Lautour have been doing exactly that for 25 years, starting with a $5,000 credit card charge for a real estate course, a cat-filled duplex they eventually moved into, and a nursing salary holding the whole thing together. Marck, originally from New Zealand, and Sara, a former ICU and flight nurse, join Stephanie and Zach for a genuinely funny, raw, and insightful double date conversation about the mechanics of building a business when one partner is a visionary and the other is a guardian doing her best to keep everyone grounded.</p><p>From surviving the 2008 market crash and a hostile business takeover, to a surprise phone call about a Florida home purchase made while on the way to the airport, Marck and Sara lay out what 25 years of pivoting actually looks like in practice. Sara's evolution from skeptic to trusted co-pilot mirrors a journey many couples in real estate will recognize, and her hard-won insight that "the proof is in the pudding" captures something deeper: trust in a business partner who is also your spouse is built through evidence, not promises. This episode is full of both.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Sell the vision before the fear.</strong> Marck's strategy for getting Sara on board with their very first property was showing her the pristine neighbor's unit before walking her into the cat-filled duplex. It sounds simple, but it's a real lesson in change management: when introducing risk to a reluctant partner, lead with the destination, not the current state.</li><li><strong>The guardian-visionary dynamic is a feature, not a bug.</strong> Sara describes herself as a protector, a devil's advocate, and a stabilizer. Marck credits her "checking mechanism" as the thing that kept him from being too aggressive. Knowing and respecting your partner's predictive index profile, whether at home or in a leadership team, produces better decisions than either profile would alone.</li><li><strong>You only lose if you quit.</strong> Marck's core philosophy after a hostile business takeover in 2008 wiped out millions in equity at age 30 was simply to rebuild. He frames every market disruption, from auction.com democratizing courthouse step data in 2017 to interest rate spikes in 2022, as a pivot problem, not a failure problem. Resilience here is less a mindset and more a practice of constant adaptation.</li><li><strong>Teach financial literacy early and contextually.</strong> The De Lautours used Dave Ramsey envelope systems when their kids were young, took them to deposit coins at the bank, and talked openly about the difference between trading time for money and building a business that pays you while you sleep. Their 8-year-old son noticed on his own that his dad's income worked differently than his mom's nursing shifts. That level of financial intuition doesn't happen by accident.</li><li><strong>The supply chain advantage protects you.</strong> Marck attributes much of their durability through multiple market cycles to the fact that they rehab and build rather than wholesale or assign deals. When you control more of the process, from acquisition to renovation to disposition, you add real value to a community and you have more levers to pull when conditions shift. Specialization on just one end of the transaction leaves you exposed.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>What does it really take to build a real estate empire alongside the person you married your freshman year of college? Marck and Sara Beth De Lautour have been doing exactly that for 25 years, starting with a $5,000 credit card charge for a real estate course, a cat-filled duplex they eventually moved into, and a nursing salary holding the whole thing together. Marck, originally from New Zealand, and Sara, a former ICU and flight nurse, join Stephanie and Zach for a genuinely funny, raw, and insightful double date conversation about the mechanics of building a business when one partner is a visionary and the other is a guardian doing her best to keep everyone grounded.</p><p>From surviving the 2008 market crash and a hostile business takeover, to a surprise phone call about a Florida home purchase made while on the way to the airport, Marck and Sara lay out what 25 years of pivoting actually looks like in practice. Sara's evolution from skeptic to trusted co-pilot mirrors a journey many couples in real estate will recognize, and her hard-won insight that "the proof is in the pudding" captures something deeper: trust in a business partner who is also your spouse is built through evidence, not promises. This episode is full of both.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Sell the vision before the fear.</strong> Marck's strategy for getting Sara on board with their very first property was showing her the pristine neighbor's unit before walking her into the cat-filled duplex. It sounds simple, but it's a real lesson in change management: when introducing risk to a reluctant partner, lead with the destination, not the current state.</li><li><strong>The guardian-visionary dynamic is a feature, not a bug.</strong> Sara describes herself as a protector, a devil's advocate, and a stabilizer. Marck credits her "checking mechanism" as the thing that kept him from being too aggressive. Knowing and respecting your partner's predictive index profile, whether at home or in a leadership team, produces better decisions than either profile would alone.</li><li><strong>You only lose if you quit.</strong> Marck's core philosophy after a hostile business takeover in 2008 wiped out millions in equity at age 30 was simply to rebuild. He frames every market disruption, from auction.com democratizing courthouse step data in 2017 to interest rate spikes in 2022, as a pivot problem, not a failure problem. Resilience here is less a mindset and more a practice of constant adaptation.</li><li><strong>Teach financial literacy early and contextually.</strong> The De Lautours used Dave Ramsey envelope systems when their kids were young, took them to deposit coins at the bank, and talked openly about the difference between trading time for money and building a business that pays you while you sleep. Their 8-year-old son noticed on his own that his dad's income worked differently than his mom's nursing shifts. That level of financial intuition doesn't happen by accident.</li><li><strong>The supply chain advantage protects you.</strong> Marck attributes much of their durability through multiple market cycles to the fact that they rehab and build rather than wholesale or assign deals. When you control more of the process, from acquisition to renovation to disposition, you add real value to a community and you have more levers to pull when conditions shift. Specialization on just one end of the transaction leaves you exposed.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <title>Undefeated Teams Are the Ones Coaches Worry About</title>
      <itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:title>Undefeated Teams Are the Ones Coaches Worry About</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>What do Ironman triathlons, venture capital, pro track and field coaching, and falling asleep on the stairs have in common? They're all part of one of the most energizing double date conversations the Who's In Charge? podcast has ever had. This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with KathrynKathryn O'Day, partner at Atlanta Ventures and former employee number nine at Pardot, and her husband Kyle O'Day, a professional track and field coach who has spent his career getting extraordinary performance out of human beings. Kathryn helped build Pardot through two major acquisitions — first to ExactTarget, then to Salesforce — and now spends her days vetting founders and co-building companies from scratch. Kyle spends his days doing what he's always done: getting more out of people than they thought they had. Together, they've figured out how to build two demanding careers, raise a family, and still make it to bed by eight o'clock.</p><p>The throughline of this entire conversation is endurance — not the triathlon kind, though that's in here too. It's the kind that keeps you in the game for a decade when everyone else burns out and flames out at year two. Kathryn shares what she looks for in founders — including why she actually wants to invest in people whose first company didn't work out — and why core values are the only real scaling mechanism that matters. Kyle drops the most quietly devastating coaching insight of the episode: inspiration is for amateurs, professionals just show up. And Stephanie shares the moment she literally fell asleep on the stairs mid-walk and slid down on her butt — which turned out to be the wake-up call that taught her rest is not the enemy of progress. It is progress.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Inspiration is for amateurs.</strong> Kyle's coaching philosophy applied directly to business: you don't wait to feel motivated. You show up, you work, you rest, you repeat. A decade later you're there. It sounds boring. It's the only thing that actually works.</li><li><strong>The undefeated team is the one coaches worry about.</strong> Kathryn's insight from the venture world reframes failure entirely — the founders she most wants to back are the ones whose first company didn't work out, because they know what to do when they're behind. If you've never lost, you don't know how to respond when it counts.</li><li><strong>10 passionate, paying, unaffiliated customers.</strong> Kathryn's seed stage investment thesis is one of the most practical frameworks in the episode. Passionate means you're solving a real must-have problem. Paying means they value it enough to put real dollars behind it. Unaffiliated means you can transfer belief to a stranger — not just your network.</li><li><strong>Core values are the only real scaling mechanism.</strong> Not technology. Not strategy. Core values are the operating system of your company — the framework that tells every team member how to make decisions in situations nobody has ever encountered before. If they're not authentic and self-reinforcing, they're just a poster on the wall.</li><li><strong>Rest is part of progress.</strong> Stephanie's staircase moment is the most visceral illustration of what happens when you treat rest as an obstacle to progress instead of a component of it. You don't get there faster by not stopping. You burn out and stop completely. Rest is not the opposite of work. It is the work.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>What do Ironman triathlons, venture capital, pro track and field coaching, and falling asleep on the stairs have in common? They're all part of one of the most energizing double date conversations the Who's In Charge? podcast has ever had. This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with KathrynKathryn O'Day, partner at Atlanta Ventures and former employee number nine at Pardot, and her husband Kyle O'Day, a professional track and field coach who has spent his career getting extraordinary performance out of human beings. Kathryn helped build Pardot through two major acquisitions — first to ExactTarget, then to Salesforce — and now spends her days vetting founders and co-building companies from scratch. Kyle spends his days doing what he's always done: getting more out of people than they thought they had. Together, they've figured out how to build two demanding careers, raise a family, and still make it to bed by eight o'clock.</p><p>The throughline of this entire conversation is endurance — not the triathlon kind, though that's in here too. It's the kind that keeps you in the game for a decade when everyone else burns out and flames out at year two. Kathryn shares what she looks for in founders — including why she actually wants to invest in people whose first company didn't work out — and why core values are the only real scaling mechanism that matters. Kyle drops the most quietly devastating coaching insight of the episode: inspiration is for amateurs, professionals just show up. And Stephanie shares the moment she literally fell asleep on the stairs mid-walk and slid down on her butt — which turned out to be the wake-up call that taught her rest is not the enemy of progress. It is progress.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Inspiration is for amateurs.</strong> Kyle's coaching philosophy applied directly to business: you don't wait to feel motivated. You show up, you work, you rest, you repeat. A decade later you're there. It sounds boring. It's the only thing that actually works.</li><li><strong>The undefeated team is the one coaches worry about.</strong> Kathryn's insight from the venture world reframes failure entirely — the founders she most wants to back are the ones whose first company didn't work out, because they know what to do when they're behind. If you've never lost, you don't know how to respond when it counts.</li><li><strong>10 passionate, paying, unaffiliated customers.</strong> Kathryn's seed stage investment thesis is one of the most practical frameworks in the episode. Passionate means you're solving a real must-have problem. Paying means they value it enough to put real dollars behind it. Unaffiliated means you can transfer belief to a stranger — not just your network.</li><li><strong>Core values are the only real scaling mechanism.</strong> Not technology. Not strategy. Core values are the operating system of your company — the framework that tells every team member how to make decisions in situations nobody has ever encountered before. If they're not authentic and self-reinforcing, they're just a poster on the wall.</li><li><strong>Rest is part of progress.</strong> Stephanie's staircase moment is the most visceral illustration of what happens when you treat rest as an obstacle to progress instead of a component of it. You don't get there faster by not stopping. You burn out and stop completely. Rest is not the opposite of work. It is the work.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2026 05:01:08 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3277</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>What do Ironman triathlons, venture capital, pro track and field coaching, and falling asleep on the stairs have in common? They're all part of one of the most energizing double date conversations the Who's In Charge? podcast has ever had. This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with KathrynKathryn O'Day, partner at Atlanta Ventures and former employee number nine at Pardot, and her husband Kyle O'Day, a professional track and field coach who has spent his career getting extraordinary performance out of human beings. Kathryn helped build Pardot through two major acquisitions — first to ExactTarget, then to Salesforce — and now spends her days vetting founders and co-building companies from scratch. Kyle spends his days doing what he's always done: getting more out of people than they thought they had. Together, they've figured out how to build two demanding careers, raise a family, and still make it to bed by eight o'clock.</p><p>The throughline of this entire conversation is endurance — not the triathlon kind, though that's in here too. It's the kind that keeps you in the game for a decade when everyone else burns out and flames out at year two. Kathryn shares what she looks for in founders — including why she actually wants to invest in people whose first company didn't work out — and why core values are the only real scaling mechanism that matters. Kyle drops the most quietly devastating coaching insight of the episode: inspiration is for amateurs, professionals just show up. And Stephanie shares the moment she literally fell asleep on the stairs mid-walk and slid down on her butt — which turned out to be the wake-up call that taught her rest is not the enemy of progress. It is progress.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Inspiration is for amateurs.</strong> Kyle's coaching philosophy applied directly to business: you don't wait to feel motivated. You show up, you work, you rest, you repeat. A decade later you're there. It sounds boring. It's the only thing that actually works.</li><li><strong>The undefeated team is the one coaches worry about.</strong> Kathryn's insight from the venture world reframes failure entirely — the founders she most wants to back are the ones whose first company didn't work out, because they know what to do when they're behind. If you've never lost, you don't know how to respond when it counts.</li><li><strong>10 passionate, paying, unaffiliated customers.</strong> Kathryn's seed stage investment thesis is one of the most practical frameworks in the episode. Passionate means you're solving a real must-have problem. Paying means they value it enough to put real dollars behind it. Unaffiliated means you can transfer belief to a stranger — not just your network.</li><li><strong>Core values are the only real scaling mechanism.</strong> Not technology. Not strategy. Core values are the operating system of your company — the framework that tells every team member how to make decisions in situations nobody has ever encountered before. If they're not authentic and self-reinforcing, they're just a poster on the wall.</li><li><strong>Rest is part of progress.</strong> Stephanie's staircase moment is the most visceral illustration of what happens when you treat rest as an obstacle to progress instead of a component of it. You don't get there faster by not stopping. You burn out and stop completely. Rest is not the opposite of work. It is the work.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>The Rabid Dog Theory of Leadership</title>
      <itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Rabid Dog Theory of Leadership</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>What if the thing you've been avoiding — conflict — is actually the thing standing between you and the business you're trying to build? In this raw and refreshingly personal solo episode, Stephanie and Zach get into it on the topic of conflict: where it comes from, why most leaders handle it wrong, and what it actually looks like to turn tension into a team superpower. Stephanie grew up in a house where conflict was loud, passionate, and always landed in resolution. Zach grew up watching conflict end relationships for years at a time. Neither of those histories is wrong — but understanding where you land on that spectrum might be the most important leadership move you make this year.</p><p><br>This is one of the most practically useful episodes the show has produced. Zach breaks down the "relationship bank" concept and why the busier you get, the more withdrawals you're making without realizing it. Stephanie makes the case that the best leaders lead with strengths, not corrections — and that most people have no idea what they're actually good at until someone tells them. They also get into real examples from this week: a difficult one-on-one after a missed quarterly goal, a team member who couldn't speak up in a leadership meeting, and what Chris Voss taught them about the difference between "you're right" and "that's right." If you've ever swept something under the rug because today felt too fragile for the truth, this one's for you.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Conflict avoidance is a slow business killer.</strong> Avoiding conflict makes today smoother and tomorrow harder. If you can't address tension in your team, you will not build a scaling business — full stop. The rug only hides so much before the lumps become trip hazards.<p></p></li><li><strong>Know your natural tendency first.</strong> Are you conflict avoidant or conflict aggressive? The answer changes everything about how you should approach hard conversations. Zach is avoidant. Stephanie is pro-conflict. Neither is wrong — but both require self-awareness to lead well.<p></p></li><li><strong>Lead with strengths, not corrections.</strong> The biggest leadership misnomer is that your job is to coach up the bad stuff. The highest-leverage move is showing people where they're exceptional — because most people genuinely don't know. Trust gets built in the positive deposits, not the critical withdrawals.<p></p></li><li><strong>"You're right" is not the same as "that's right."</strong> Chris Voss's distinction is one of the sharpest tools in this episode: when someone says "you're right," they're ending the conversation. When they say "that's right," they believe it. If you're hearing "you're right" a lot, you're running consensus theater — not building alignment.<p></p></li><li><strong>Attack the problem, never the person.</strong> The only conflict worth having is the kind aimed at a shared problem. The moment it becomes personal — a deficit, an attack, a humiliation in front of the group — you've lost the thread of resolution and started tearing down trust instead of building it.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>What if the thing you've been avoiding — conflict — is actually the thing standing between you and the business you're trying to build? In this raw and refreshingly personal solo episode, Stephanie and Zach get into it on the topic of conflict: where it comes from, why most leaders handle it wrong, and what it actually looks like to turn tension into a team superpower. Stephanie grew up in a house where conflict was loud, passionate, and always landed in resolution. Zach grew up watching conflict end relationships for years at a time. Neither of those histories is wrong — but understanding where you land on that spectrum might be the most important leadership move you make this year.</p><p><br>This is one of the most practically useful episodes the show has produced. Zach breaks down the "relationship bank" concept and why the busier you get, the more withdrawals you're making without realizing it. Stephanie makes the case that the best leaders lead with strengths, not corrections — and that most people have no idea what they're actually good at until someone tells them. They also get into real examples from this week: a difficult one-on-one after a missed quarterly goal, a team member who couldn't speak up in a leadership meeting, and what Chris Voss taught them about the difference between "you're right" and "that's right." If you've ever swept something under the rug because today felt too fragile for the truth, this one's for you.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Conflict avoidance is a slow business killer.</strong> Avoiding conflict makes today smoother and tomorrow harder. If you can't address tension in your team, you will not build a scaling business — full stop. The rug only hides so much before the lumps become trip hazards.<p></p></li><li><strong>Know your natural tendency first.</strong> Are you conflict avoidant or conflict aggressive? The answer changes everything about how you should approach hard conversations. Zach is avoidant. Stephanie is pro-conflict. Neither is wrong — but both require self-awareness to lead well.<p></p></li><li><strong>Lead with strengths, not corrections.</strong> The biggest leadership misnomer is that your job is to coach up the bad stuff. The highest-leverage move is showing people where they're exceptional — because most people genuinely don't know. Trust gets built in the positive deposits, not the critical withdrawals.<p></p></li><li><strong>"You're right" is not the same as "that's right."</strong> Chris Voss's distinction is one of the sharpest tools in this episode: when someone says "you're right," they're ending the conversation. When they say "that's right," they believe it. If you're hearing "you're right" a lot, you're running consensus theater — not building alignment.<p></p></li><li><strong>Attack the problem, never the person.</strong> The only conflict worth having is the kind aimed at a shared problem. The moment it becomes personal — a deficit, an attack, a humiliation in front of the group — you've lost the thread of resolution and started tearing down trust instead of building it.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3040</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description</strong></p><p>What if the thing you've been avoiding — conflict — is actually the thing standing between you and the business you're trying to build? In this raw and refreshingly personal solo episode, Stephanie and Zach get into it on the topic of conflict: where it comes from, why most leaders handle it wrong, and what it actually looks like to turn tension into a team superpower. Stephanie grew up in a house where conflict was loud, passionate, and always landed in resolution. Zach grew up watching conflict end relationships for years at a time. Neither of those histories is wrong — but understanding where you land on that spectrum might be the most important leadership move you make this year.</p><p><br>This is one of the most practically useful episodes the show has produced. Zach breaks down the "relationship bank" concept and why the busier you get, the more withdrawals you're making without realizing it. Stephanie makes the case that the best leaders lead with strengths, not corrections — and that most people have no idea what they're actually good at until someone tells them. They also get into real examples from this week: a difficult one-on-one after a missed quarterly goal, a team member who couldn't speak up in a leadership meeting, and what Chris Voss taught them about the difference between "you're right" and "that's right." If you've ever swept something under the rug because today felt too fragile for the truth, this one's for you.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Conflict avoidance is a slow business killer.</strong> Avoiding conflict makes today smoother and tomorrow harder. If you can't address tension in your team, you will not build a scaling business — full stop. The rug only hides so much before the lumps become trip hazards.<p></p></li><li><strong>Know your natural tendency first.</strong> Are you conflict avoidant or conflict aggressive? The answer changes everything about how you should approach hard conversations. Zach is avoidant. Stephanie is pro-conflict. Neither is wrong — but both require self-awareness to lead well.<p></p></li><li><strong>Lead with strengths, not corrections.</strong> The biggest leadership misnomer is that your job is to coach up the bad stuff. The highest-leverage move is showing people where they're exceptional — because most people genuinely don't know. Trust gets built in the positive deposits, not the critical withdrawals.<p></p></li><li><strong>"You're right" is not the same as "that's right."</strong> Chris Voss's distinction is one of the sharpest tools in this episode: when someone says "you're right," they're ending the conversation. When they say "that's right," they believe it. If you're hearing "you're right" a lot, you're running consensus theater — not building alignment.<p></p></li><li><strong>Attack the problem, never the person.</strong> The only conflict worth having is the kind aimed at a shared problem. The moment it becomes personal — a deficit, an attack, a humiliation in front of the group — you've lost the thread of resolution and started tearing down trust instead of building it.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Stop Creating Jobs, Start Building Businesses</title>
      <itunes:episode>14</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>14</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Stop Creating Jobs, Start Building Businesses</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What does it look like when someone goes from fixing and flipping houses in post-crash Las Vegas to co-founding a $165 million venture-backed real estate technology company — twice? This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with Josh Stech, co-founder of Sundae, for one of the most framework-rich, intellectually honest conversations the podcast has ever produced. Josh brings the kind of clarity that only comes from building at scale: a 4S decision-making framework that diagnoses why most teams talk past each other, a gut-level philosophy on co-founding versus solo founding, and a warning about AI-driven marketing shifts that every real estate operator needs to hear right now.</p><p>But underneath all the frameworks is something more personal — a guy who knows himself well enough to admit he needs a co-founder the same way he needs a gym buddy, who invests in the entrepreneurs that spin out of his companies rather than trying to stop them, and who believes the most dangerous thing you can tell yourself is that you don't need anyone else. Josh and Stephanie also go deep on what it means to compete from a place of passion versus a place of strategy, why the customer is the only filter that matters for innovation, and how to lead a team through the AI wave without losing their agency in the process. This one is packed.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Most people don't build businesses — they create jobs for themselves.</strong> Josh's distinction is one of the sharpest in the episode: if your decision-making lens is "can I quickly turn this into active income for me," you're not thinking like a business builder. You're thinking like a self-employed person. The infrastructure, human capital, and discipline required to build at scale is a completely different game.</li><li><strong>The 4S Framework: Sense, Seek, Solve, Start.</strong> When a team feels like it's talking past itself, it's usually because people are on different S's. Some want to jump straight to solving before anyone has asked why the problem exists. Some get stuck in sensing and never move. Naming which S you're on is one of the fastest ways to get a room aligned.</li><li><strong>You can't sustainably beat someone who bleeds for the mission.</strong> Josh's take on passion versus strategy is unambiguous: even if you're smarter, better capitalized, and more operationally sophisticated, you cannot maintain a sustainable advantage over someone who actually cares about the problem. Passion is the only moat that compounds.</li><li><strong>Solo founders may just be avoiding the hard work of collaboration.</strong> This is the most provocative idea in the episode — that some people convince themselves they don't need a co-founder not because they're built for it, but because recruiting collaborators and capital is hard, and it's easier to tell yourself you work better alone.</li><li><strong>If you don't feel ahead on AI marketing, you're further behind than you think.</strong> Of the six Fs of real estate investing — find it, figure it, fund it, fix it, fill it, flip it — Josh believes the "find it" piece is about to be completely transformed by the shift from search to discovery. Operators who aren't actively ahead of this curve are already falling behind.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What does it look like when someone goes from fixing and flipping houses in post-crash Las Vegas to co-founding a $165 million venture-backed real estate technology company — twice? This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with Josh Stech, co-founder of Sundae, for one of the most framework-rich, intellectually honest conversations the podcast has ever produced. Josh brings the kind of clarity that only comes from building at scale: a 4S decision-making framework that diagnoses why most teams talk past each other, a gut-level philosophy on co-founding versus solo founding, and a warning about AI-driven marketing shifts that every real estate operator needs to hear right now.</p><p>But underneath all the frameworks is something more personal — a guy who knows himself well enough to admit he needs a co-founder the same way he needs a gym buddy, who invests in the entrepreneurs that spin out of his companies rather than trying to stop them, and who believes the most dangerous thing you can tell yourself is that you don't need anyone else. Josh and Stephanie also go deep on what it means to compete from a place of passion versus a place of strategy, why the customer is the only filter that matters for innovation, and how to lead a team through the AI wave without losing their agency in the process. This one is packed.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Most people don't build businesses — they create jobs for themselves.</strong> Josh's distinction is one of the sharpest in the episode: if your decision-making lens is "can I quickly turn this into active income for me," you're not thinking like a business builder. You're thinking like a self-employed person. The infrastructure, human capital, and discipline required to build at scale is a completely different game.</li><li><strong>The 4S Framework: Sense, Seek, Solve, Start.</strong> When a team feels like it's talking past itself, it's usually because people are on different S's. Some want to jump straight to solving before anyone has asked why the problem exists. Some get stuck in sensing and never move. Naming which S you're on is one of the fastest ways to get a room aligned.</li><li><strong>You can't sustainably beat someone who bleeds for the mission.</strong> Josh's take on passion versus strategy is unambiguous: even if you're smarter, better capitalized, and more operationally sophisticated, you cannot maintain a sustainable advantage over someone who actually cares about the problem. Passion is the only moat that compounds.</li><li><strong>Solo founders may just be avoiding the hard work of collaboration.</strong> This is the most provocative idea in the episode — that some people convince themselves they don't need a co-founder not because they're built for it, but because recruiting collaborators and capital is hard, and it's easier to tell yourself you work better alone.</li><li><strong>If you don't feel ahead on AI marketing, you're further behind than you think.</strong> Of the six Fs of real estate investing — find it, figure it, fund it, fix it, fill it, flip it — Josh believes the "find it" piece is about to be completely transformed by the shift from search to discovery. Operators who aren't actively ahead of this curve are already falling behind.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What does it look like when someone goes from fixing and flipping houses in post-crash Las Vegas to co-founding a $165 million venture-backed real estate technology company — twice? This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with Josh Stech, co-founder of Sundae, for one of the most framework-rich, intellectually honest conversations the podcast has ever produced. Josh brings the kind of clarity that only comes from building at scale: a 4S decision-making framework that diagnoses why most teams talk past each other, a gut-level philosophy on co-founding versus solo founding, and a warning about AI-driven marketing shifts that every real estate operator needs to hear right now.</p><p>But underneath all the frameworks is something more personal — a guy who knows himself well enough to admit he needs a co-founder the same way he needs a gym buddy, who invests in the entrepreneurs that spin out of his companies rather than trying to stop them, and who believes the most dangerous thing you can tell yourself is that you don't need anyone else. Josh and Stephanie also go deep on what it means to compete from a place of passion versus a place of strategy, why the customer is the only filter that matters for innovation, and how to lead a team through the AI wave without losing their agency in the process. This one is packed.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Most people don't build businesses — they create jobs for themselves.</strong> Josh's distinction is one of the sharpest in the episode: if your decision-making lens is "can I quickly turn this into active income for me," you're not thinking like a business builder. You're thinking like a self-employed person. The infrastructure, human capital, and discipline required to build at scale is a completely different game.</li><li><strong>The 4S Framework: Sense, Seek, Solve, Start.</strong> When a team feels like it's talking past itself, it's usually because people are on different S's. Some want to jump straight to solving before anyone has asked why the problem exists. Some get stuck in sensing and never move. Naming which S you're on is one of the fastest ways to get a room aligned.</li><li><strong>You can't sustainably beat someone who bleeds for the mission.</strong> Josh's take on passion versus strategy is unambiguous: even if you're smarter, better capitalized, and more operationally sophisticated, you cannot maintain a sustainable advantage over someone who actually cares about the problem. Passion is the only moat that compounds.</li><li><strong>Solo founders may just be avoiding the hard work of collaboration.</strong> This is the most provocative idea in the episode — that some people convince themselves they don't need a co-founder not because they're built for it, but because recruiting collaborators and capital is hard, and it's easier to tell yourself you work better alone.</li><li><strong>If you don't feel ahead on AI marketing, you're further behind than you think.</strong> Of the six Fs of real estate investing — find it, figure it, fund it, fix it, fill it, flip it — Josh believes the "find it" piece is about to be completely transformed by the shift from search to discovery. Operators who aren't actively ahead of this curve are already falling behind.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>More Problems, More Revenue, More Happy</title>
      <itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>More Problems, More Revenue, More Happy</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What does it actually look like when a company turns the corner — not from a highlight reel moment, but from the slow, unglamorous work of facing what you've been avoiding? In this solo episode, Stephanie and Zach pull back the curtain on what's working right now in both Better Path Homes and Left Main REI. No guests, no polish — just a raw, honest conversation about burnout disguised as boredom, the three hires that changed everything, and why doing 10x turned out to be dramatically easier than trying to double.</p><p>Zach opens up about something most CEOs won't admit: he knew exactly what it would take to grow his sales team — and he simply didn't want to do it. Stephanie unpacks why that's more common than anyone talks about, and how the right operations support doesn't just fix a business problem, it gives a leader their identity back. Along the way they get into AI as a distraction versus a force multiplier, the gold rush mentality that's pulling entrepreneurs off their core mission, and the Left Main product releases that have been two years in the making. If you've ever felt like you were drifting from your own company — or secretly hoping the pain wouldn't get bad enough to force a change — this episode is going to hit different.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Knowing what to do and wanting to do it are two different problems.</strong> Zach's honest admission — that he knew how to grow the sales team and chose not to — is one of the most underdiagnosed growth killers in entrepreneurship. Pain is the motivator. Don't wait until it's catastrophic.</li><li><strong>Operations support isn't a luxury, it's the unlock.</strong> The shift at Better Path didn't come from a new strategy. It came from three key hires — a COO, a Revenue Operations lead, and a Sales Operations manager — that gave Zach the room to operate in his zone and show up with energy again. One operations hire is never enough.</li><li><strong>AI is the new logo design rabbit hole.</strong> Spending weeks building an AI tool instead of closing deals is the 2026 version of spending weeks on a business card instead of making calls. AI should make you more effective at the one thing you're already doing — not distract you into building a product you don't need.</li><li><strong>Completion is the revenue.</strong> Zach's 80% clean room analogy lands hard: in business, an uncompleted task doesn't pay. Focus isn't just about choosing the right thing — it's about committing to it all the way through, not until the next shiny object appears.</li><li><strong>Measure backwards before you spiral forward.</strong> Stephanie's moment of overwhelm — am I doing enough for the podcast, the companies, the kids, the marriage — is universal. The antidote isn't doing more. It's stopping to look at what actually got done and giving yourself credit for the distance traveled.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What does it actually look like when a company turns the corner — not from a highlight reel moment, but from the slow, unglamorous work of facing what you've been avoiding? In this solo episode, Stephanie and Zach pull back the curtain on what's working right now in both Better Path Homes and Left Main REI. No guests, no polish — just a raw, honest conversation about burnout disguised as boredom, the three hires that changed everything, and why doing 10x turned out to be dramatically easier than trying to double.</p><p>Zach opens up about something most CEOs won't admit: he knew exactly what it would take to grow his sales team — and he simply didn't want to do it. Stephanie unpacks why that's more common than anyone talks about, and how the right operations support doesn't just fix a business problem, it gives a leader their identity back. Along the way they get into AI as a distraction versus a force multiplier, the gold rush mentality that's pulling entrepreneurs off their core mission, and the Left Main product releases that have been two years in the making. If you've ever felt like you were drifting from your own company — or secretly hoping the pain wouldn't get bad enough to force a change — this episode is going to hit different.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Knowing what to do and wanting to do it are two different problems.</strong> Zach's honest admission — that he knew how to grow the sales team and chose not to — is one of the most underdiagnosed growth killers in entrepreneurship. Pain is the motivator. Don't wait until it's catastrophic.</li><li><strong>Operations support isn't a luxury, it's the unlock.</strong> The shift at Better Path didn't come from a new strategy. It came from three key hires — a COO, a Revenue Operations lead, and a Sales Operations manager — that gave Zach the room to operate in his zone and show up with energy again. One operations hire is never enough.</li><li><strong>AI is the new logo design rabbit hole.</strong> Spending weeks building an AI tool instead of closing deals is the 2026 version of spending weeks on a business card instead of making calls. AI should make you more effective at the one thing you're already doing — not distract you into building a product you don't need.</li><li><strong>Completion is the revenue.</strong> Zach's 80% clean room analogy lands hard: in business, an uncompleted task doesn't pay. Focus isn't just about choosing the right thing — it's about committing to it all the way through, not until the next shiny object appears.</li><li><strong>Measure backwards before you spiral forward.</strong> Stephanie's moment of overwhelm — am I doing enough for the podcast, the companies, the kids, the marriage — is universal. The antidote isn't doing more. It's stopping to look at what actually got done and giving yourself credit for the distance traveled.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 06:28:24 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3477</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What does it actually look like when a company turns the corner — not from a highlight reel moment, but from the slow, unglamorous work of facing what you've been avoiding? In this solo episode, Stephanie and Zach pull back the curtain on what's working right now in both Better Path Homes and Left Main REI. No guests, no polish — just a raw, honest conversation about burnout disguised as boredom, the three hires that changed everything, and why doing 10x turned out to be dramatically easier than trying to double.</p><p>Zach opens up about something most CEOs won't admit: he knew exactly what it would take to grow his sales team — and he simply didn't want to do it. Stephanie unpacks why that's more common than anyone talks about, and how the right operations support doesn't just fix a business problem, it gives a leader their identity back. Along the way they get into AI as a distraction versus a force multiplier, the gold rush mentality that's pulling entrepreneurs off their core mission, and the Left Main product releases that have been two years in the making. If you've ever felt like you were drifting from your own company — or secretly hoping the pain wouldn't get bad enough to force a change — this episode is going to hit different.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Knowing what to do and wanting to do it are two different problems.</strong> Zach's honest admission — that he knew how to grow the sales team and chose not to — is one of the most underdiagnosed growth killers in entrepreneurship. Pain is the motivator. Don't wait until it's catastrophic.</li><li><strong>Operations support isn't a luxury, it's the unlock.</strong> The shift at Better Path didn't come from a new strategy. It came from three key hires — a COO, a Revenue Operations lead, and a Sales Operations manager — that gave Zach the room to operate in his zone and show up with energy again. One operations hire is never enough.</li><li><strong>AI is the new logo design rabbit hole.</strong> Spending weeks building an AI tool instead of closing deals is the 2026 version of spending weeks on a business card instead of making calls. AI should make you more effective at the one thing you're already doing — not distract you into building a product you don't need.</li><li><strong>Completion is the revenue.</strong> Zach's 80% clean room analogy lands hard: in business, an uncompleted task doesn't pay. Focus isn't just about choosing the right thing — it's about committing to it all the way through, not until the next shiny object appears.</li><li><strong>Measure backwards before you spiral forward.</strong> Stephanie's moment of overwhelm — am I doing enough for the podcast, the companies, the kids, the marriage — is universal. The antidote isn't doing more. It's stopping to look at what actually got done and giving yourself credit for the distance traveled.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>No One Is Coming to Save You </title>
      <itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>No One Is Coming to Save You </itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What happens when two people who started as business partners — and not even friends — end up building one of the most solid entrepreneurial marriages in real estate? This week, Stephanie and Zach welcome Matt Theriault of Epic Real Estate and his partner Mercedes Torres for a double date conversation that gets refreshingly honest about ego, adaptability, and what it actually means to be a team. Mercedes admits Matt couldn't stand her when they first met. Matt admits he's been married and divorced twice before. And together, they share the one distinction that changed everything: when you love someone, why would you ever want them to lose just so you can win?</p><p>What unfolds is a masterclass in partnership under pressure. Matt and Mercedes open up about the five hardest years of their business lives — COVID wiped out their thriving live events company almost overnight, and they spent two years hoping it would come back before finally accepting it wouldn't. What pulled them through wasn't a strategy. It was the same thing that built their relationship in the first place: complementary strengths, zero tolerance for "I told you so," and the discipline to focus on one thing when everything felt like it was falling apart. From eight throw pillows arranged in exactly the right order to the real reason employees stay on a team for a decade — this episode is packed with the kind of wisdom that only comes from going through the fire together.</p><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Stop trying to win the argument.</strong> Matt's reframe is simple and devastating: if you love someone, why would you want them to lose? The moment he heard that, he called Mercedes and squashed a days-long argument immediately. Needing to be right is a relationship liability — in marriage and on your team.</li><li><strong>Peers make the best partners.</strong> Matt and Mercedes saw each other as equals from day one — not romantically, but professionally. That peer-level respect meant their strengths and weaknesses were treated as assets, not ammunition. Whether you work together or not, how you position your partner in your mind shapes everything.</li><li><strong>Swim in your own lane — by design.</strong> Mercedes made a deliberate choice early: separate offices, separate drives to work, separate domains. Not because they didn't trust each other, but because she refused to get sick of her husband. Intentional boundaries aren't distance — they're protection for the relationship.</li><li><strong>No one is coming to save you.</strong> Matt's most honest moment: they had plenty of friends offering sympathy and pats on the back during the hard years. None of it improved the situation. At some point you stop waiting for the storm to pass and start building in the rain.</li><li><strong>Humility is a strength, not a weakness.</strong> Mercedes calls it out directly — vulnerability and humility get mistaken for weakness constantly. But the leaders whose teams stay for ten years, whose partners still choose them after 17, are the ones who can say "I don't know" and "you take this one" without it costing them their identity.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What happens when two people who started as business partners — and not even friends — end up building one of the most solid entrepreneurial marriages in real estate? This week, Stephanie and Zach welcome Matt Theriault of Epic Real Estate and his partner Mercedes Torres for a double date conversation that gets refreshingly honest about ego, adaptability, and what it actually means to be a team. Mercedes admits Matt couldn't stand her when they first met. Matt admits he's been married and divorced twice before. And together, they share the one distinction that changed everything: when you love someone, why would you ever want them to lose just so you can win?</p><p>What unfolds is a masterclass in partnership under pressure. Matt and Mercedes open up about the five hardest years of their business lives — COVID wiped out their thriving live events company almost overnight, and they spent two years hoping it would come back before finally accepting it wouldn't. What pulled them through wasn't a strategy. It was the same thing that built their relationship in the first place: complementary strengths, zero tolerance for "I told you so," and the discipline to focus on one thing when everything felt like it was falling apart. From eight throw pillows arranged in exactly the right order to the real reason employees stay on a team for a decade — this episode is packed with the kind of wisdom that only comes from going through the fire together.</p><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Stop trying to win the argument.</strong> Matt's reframe is simple and devastating: if you love someone, why would you want them to lose? The moment he heard that, he called Mercedes and squashed a days-long argument immediately. Needing to be right is a relationship liability — in marriage and on your team.</li><li><strong>Peers make the best partners.</strong> Matt and Mercedes saw each other as equals from day one — not romantically, but professionally. That peer-level respect meant their strengths and weaknesses were treated as assets, not ammunition. Whether you work together or not, how you position your partner in your mind shapes everything.</li><li><strong>Swim in your own lane — by design.</strong> Mercedes made a deliberate choice early: separate offices, separate drives to work, separate domains. Not because they didn't trust each other, but because she refused to get sick of her husband. Intentional boundaries aren't distance — they're protection for the relationship.</li><li><strong>No one is coming to save you.</strong> Matt's most honest moment: they had plenty of friends offering sympathy and pats on the back during the hard years. None of it improved the situation. At some point you stop waiting for the storm to pass and start building in the rain.</li><li><strong>Humility is a strength, not a weakness.</strong> Mercedes calls it out directly — vulnerability and humility get mistaken for weakness constantly. But the leaders whose teams stay for ten years, whose partners still choose them after 17, are the ones who can say "I don't know" and "you take this one" without it costing them their identity.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 05:39:08 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:duration>3860</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What happens when two people who started as business partners — and not even friends — end up building one of the most solid entrepreneurial marriages in real estate? This week, Stephanie and Zach welcome Matt Theriault of Epic Real Estate and his partner Mercedes Torres for a double date conversation that gets refreshingly honest about ego, adaptability, and what it actually means to be a team. Mercedes admits Matt couldn't stand her when they first met. Matt admits he's been married and divorced twice before. And together, they share the one distinction that changed everything: when you love someone, why would you ever want them to lose just so you can win?</p><p>What unfolds is a masterclass in partnership under pressure. Matt and Mercedes open up about the five hardest years of their business lives — COVID wiped out their thriving live events company almost overnight, and they spent two years hoping it would come back before finally accepting it wouldn't. What pulled them through wasn't a strategy. It was the same thing that built their relationship in the first place: complementary strengths, zero tolerance for "I told you so," and the discipline to focus on one thing when everything felt like it was falling apart. From eight throw pillows arranged in exactly the right order to the real reason employees stay on a team for a decade — this episode is packed with the kind of wisdom that only comes from going through the fire together.</p><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Stop trying to win the argument.</strong> Matt's reframe is simple and devastating: if you love someone, why would you want them to lose? The moment he heard that, he called Mercedes and squashed a days-long argument immediately. Needing to be right is a relationship liability — in marriage and on your team.</li><li><strong>Peers make the best partners.</strong> Matt and Mercedes saw each other as equals from day one — not romantically, but professionally. That peer-level respect meant their strengths and weaknesses were treated as assets, not ammunition. Whether you work together or not, how you position your partner in your mind shapes everything.</li><li><strong>Swim in your own lane — by design.</strong> Mercedes made a deliberate choice early: separate offices, separate drives to work, separate domains. Not because they didn't trust each other, but because she refused to get sick of her husband. Intentional boundaries aren't distance — they're protection for the relationship.</li><li><strong>No one is coming to save you.</strong> Matt's most honest moment: they had plenty of friends offering sympathy and pats on the back during the hard years. None of it improved the situation. At some point you stop waiting for the storm to pass and start building in the rain.</li><li><strong>Humility is a strength, not a weakness.</strong> Mercedes calls it out directly — vulnerability and humility get mistaken for weakness constantly. But the leaders whose teams stay for ten years, whose partners still choose them after 17, are the ones who can say "I don't know" and "you take this one" without it costing them their identity.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>Are you the same person at home and at work? </title>
      <itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Are you the same person at home and at work? </itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Eric Brewer is a name that real estate investors recognize — but this episode isn't about the deals. It's about what happens behind the billboard. This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with Eric <em>and</em> his wife Sonia for a rare, unfiltered look at the relationship that has quietly anchored one of the most recognized names in REI. It starts with a bar, a rejected tip, and a woman who had zero interest in skipping the line for anyone — and it evolves into one of the most honest conversations we've had on this show about what it actually takes to build a life and a business at the same time.</p><p>What unfolds is a master class in the kind of personal development that doesn't come from a book. Eric opens up about the pivotal moment he realized his toxic habits would cost him everything he'd built at home — and the deliberate, unglamorous steps he took to change course. Sonia shares what it looked like to watch that transformation from the inside, and why she never loved the younger version of Eric as much as she loves who he is today. Together, they reveal the one piece of advice that every entrepreneur building something with a partner desperately needs to hear: <strong>the people at work should say the same things about you that the people at home do.</strong> If there's a gap, something's broken — and it's worth fixing.</p><p><em>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home<br></em><br></p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Character alignment is the real work-life balance.</strong> Eric's core insight — that your colleagues and your family should describe you the same way — reframes balance from a scheduling problem into an identity problem. If you're exhausting your best self at the office, you're not leading at home. You're just occupying space.</li><li><strong>Fail forward, then fail forward again.</strong> Sonia's lived example is the proof: navigating airports alone with five kids felt impossible when she had two. The confidence to handle anything isn't given — it's built through every mess you survive. Don't wait to feel ready. Get the reps.</li><li><strong>The partner who holds the line is the greatest asset you have.</strong> Sonia didn't chase Eric out of his self-destructive phase — she communicated her non-negotiables clearly and let him decide. That boundary, held with love and patience, was the catalyst for his most important growth. Leaders in business know this instinctively: guardrails drive performance.</li><li><strong>Children are a forced personal development program.</strong> Eric and Sonia return to this theme repeatedly — each child, each stage, each chaotic Wednesday is a live training exercise in communication, patience, creativity under pressure, and leading without all the answers. The skills transfer directly to any transaction, negotiation, or team you'll ever manage.</li><li><strong>Over-communicate before you under-deliver.</strong> Both Eric and Sonia agree: the tendency to assume your partner knows what you need is the single most expensive habit in a marriage <em>and</em> a business. Speak it plainly. Ask for help directly. The alternative — hoping someone reads your mind — has a 0% success rate.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Eric Brewer is a name that real estate investors recognize — but this episode isn't about the deals. It's about what happens behind the billboard. This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with Eric <em>and</em> his wife Sonia for a rare, unfiltered look at the relationship that has quietly anchored one of the most recognized names in REI. It starts with a bar, a rejected tip, and a woman who had zero interest in skipping the line for anyone — and it evolves into one of the most honest conversations we've had on this show about what it actually takes to build a life and a business at the same time.</p><p>What unfolds is a master class in the kind of personal development that doesn't come from a book. Eric opens up about the pivotal moment he realized his toxic habits would cost him everything he'd built at home — and the deliberate, unglamorous steps he took to change course. Sonia shares what it looked like to watch that transformation from the inside, and why she never loved the younger version of Eric as much as she loves who he is today. Together, they reveal the one piece of advice that every entrepreneur building something with a partner desperately needs to hear: <strong>the people at work should say the same things about you that the people at home do.</strong> If there's a gap, something's broken — and it's worth fixing.</p><p><em>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home<br></em><br></p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Character alignment is the real work-life balance.</strong> Eric's core insight — that your colleagues and your family should describe you the same way — reframes balance from a scheduling problem into an identity problem. If you're exhausting your best self at the office, you're not leading at home. You're just occupying space.</li><li><strong>Fail forward, then fail forward again.</strong> Sonia's lived example is the proof: navigating airports alone with five kids felt impossible when she had two. The confidence to handle anything isn't given — it's built through every mess you survive. Don't wait to feel ready. Get the reps.</li><li><strong>The partner who holds the line is the greatest asset you have.</strong> Sonia didn't chase Eric out of his self-destructive phase — she communicated her non-negotiables clearly and let him decide. That boundary, held with love and patience, was the catalyst for his most important growth. Leaders in business know this instinctively: guardrails drive performance.</li><li><strong>Children are a forced personal development program.</strong> Eric and Sonia return to this theme repeatedly — each child, each stage, each chaotic Wednesday is a live training exercise in communication, patience, creativity under pressure, and leading without all the answers. The skills transfer directly to any transaction, negotiation, or team you'll ever manage.</li><li><strong>Over-communicate before you under-deliver.</strong> Both Eric and Sonia agree: the tendency to assume your partner knows what you need is the single most expensive habit in a marriage <em>and</em> a business. Speak it plainly. Ask for help directly. The alternative — hoping someone reads your mind — has a 0% success rate.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>4103</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Eric Brewer is a name that real estate investors recognize — but this episode isn't about the deals. It's about what happens behind the billboard. This week, Stephanie and Zach sit down with Eric <em>and</em> his wife Sonia for a rare, unfiltered look at the relationship that has quietly anchored one of the most recognized names in REI. It starts with a bar, a rejected tip, and a woman who had zero interest in skipping the line for anyone — and it evolves into one of the most honest conversations we've had on this show about what it actually takes to build a life and a business at the same time.</p><p>What unfolds is a master class in the kind of personal development that doesn't come from a book. Eric opens up about the pivotal moment he realized his toxic habits would cost him everything he'd built at home — and the deliberate, unglamorous steps he took to change course. Sonia shares what it looked like to watch that transformation from the inside, and why she never loved the younger version of Eric as much as she loves who he is today. Together, they reveal the one piece of advice that every entrepreneur building something with a partner desperately needs to hear: <strong>the people at work should say the same things about you that the people at home do.</strong> If there's a gap, something's broken — and it's worth fixing.</p><p><em>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home<br></em><br></p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Character alignment is the real work-life balance.</strong> Eric's core insight — that your colleagues and your family should describe you the same way — reframes balance from a scheduling problem into an identity problem. If you're exhausting your best self at the office, you're not leading at home. You're just occupying space.</li><li><strong>Fail forward, then fail forward again.</strong> Sonia's lived example is the proof: navigating airports alone with five kids felt impossible when she had two. The confidence to handle anything isn't given — it's built through every mess you survive. Don't wait to feel ready. Get the reps.</li><li><strong>The partner who holds the line is the greatest asset you have.</strong> Sonia didn't chase Eric out of his self-destructive phase — she communicated her non-negotiables clearly and let him decide. That boundary, held with love and patience, was the catalyst for his most important growth. Leaders in business know this instinctively: guardrails drive performance.</li><li><strong>Children are a forced personal development program.</strong> Eric and Sonia return to this theme repeatedly — each child, each stage, each chaotic Wednesday is a live training exercise in communication, patience, creativity under pressure, and leading without all the answers. The skills transfer directly to any transaction, negotiation, or team you'll ever manage.</li><li><strong>Over-communicate before you under-deliver.</strong> Both Eric and Sonia agree: the tendency to assume your partner knows what you need is the single most expensive habit in a marriage <em>and</em> a business. Speak it plainly. Ask for help directly. The alternative — hoping someone reads your mind — has a 0% success rate.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>The Revenue Ceilings Nobody Talks About </title>
      <itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>10</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Revenue Ceilings Nobody Talks About </itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Most entrepreneurs hit a wall and assume something is broken. The revenue stops growing, the team feels chaotic, and no matter how hard they push, nothing moves. What Zach and Stephanie Betters know — after 12 years of building real estate investment and SaaS businesses — is that hitting a ceiling isn't a sign you're failing. It's a sign you've graduated. In Episode 10 of <em>Who's In Charge?</em>, Stephanie maps out the exact revenue ceilings every REI operator will face — $1M, $3M, $5M, $10M, and $15M — and more importantly, the specific milestone that unlocks each one: proof of concept, funnel mastery, people and redundancy, data depth, and strategic business development. This isn't theory. It's the hard-won framework from operators who have lived every stage.</p><p>But the real thread running through this conversation is personal. Zach opens up about a difficult moment of self-reckoning — the realization that he skipped the manager stage entirely, coasting on Stephanie's operational strength until the cracks became impossible to ignore. It's a rare and honest admission that will resonate with any entrepreneur who has ever led with vision but struggled with execution. This episode is ultimately about who you have to <em>become</em> — not just what you have to <em>do</em> — to break through each ceiling. Because your business will only grow as fast as you do.</p><p><em>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home<br></em><br></p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The ceiling defines the cure.</strong> Each revenue threshold — $1M, $3M, $5M, $10M, $15M — requires a completely different skill set to break through. Hustle gets you to the first million. Mastering your funnel gets you to three. People and redundancy get you to five. You can't skip the order.</li><li><strong>Two is one and one is none.</strong> Single points of failure in any department — especially sales — will cap your revenue ceiling and drag leadership back into gap-filling. Build redundancy before you need it, especially in sales, where team energy and competition are critical to consistent performance.</li><li><strong>You can't manage what you can't see.</strong> Funnel visibility isn't a luxury — it's the diagnostic tool that tells you which lever to pull. Without it, you'll optimize a $100 problem while ignoring a $30,000 one. A centralized system with real-time dashboards isn't optional at any stage.</li><li><strong>Most businesses die of indigestion, not starvation.</strong> At the $10M ceiling, the temptation is to expand into new markets and go wide. The actual move is to go deep — master your data, tighten your efficiencies, and say no to everything outside your core genius zone.</li><li><strong>Your business grows to the level of its leadership — and not a dollar more.</strong> At every ceiling, the person in charge must evolve. The producer becomes a manager. The manager becomes a leader. The leader becomes a strategist. Imposter syndrome at each stage isn't a red flag — it's confirmation you're in the right place.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Most entrepreneurs hit a wall and assume something is broken. The revenue stops growing, the team feels chaotic, and no matter how hard they push, nothing moves. What Zach and Stephanie Betters know — after 12 years of building real estate investment and SaaS businesses — is that hitting a ceiling isn't a sign you're failing. It's a sign you've graduated. In Episode 10 of <em>Who's In Charge?</em>, Stephanie maps out the exact revenue ceilings every REI operator will face — $1M, $3M, $5M, $10M, and $15M — and more importantly, the specific milestone that unlocks each one: proof of concept, funnel mastery, people and redundancy, data depth, and strategic business development. This isn't theory. It's the hard-won framework from operators who have lived every stage.</p><p>But the real thread running through this conversation is personal. Zach opens up about a difficult moment of self-reckoning — the realization that he skipped the manager stage entirely, coasting on Stephanie's operational strength until the cracks became impossible to ignore. It's a rare and honest admission that will resonate with any entrepreneur who has ever led with vision but struggled with execution. This episode is ultimately about who you have to <em>become</em> — not just what you have to <em>do</em> — to break through each ceiling. Because your business will only grow as fast as you do.</p><p><em>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home<br></em><br></p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The ceiling defines the cure.</strong> Each revenue threshold — $1M, $3M, $5M, $10M, $15M — requires a completely different skill set to break through. Hustle gets you to the first million. Mastering your funnel gets you to three. People and redundancy get you to five. You can't skip the order.</li><li><strong>Two is one and one is none.</strong> Single points of failure in any department — especially sales — will cap your revenue ceiling and drag leadership back into gap-filling. Build redundancy before you need it, especially in sales, where team energy and competition are critical to consistent performance.</li><li><strong>You can't manage what you can't see.</strong> Funnel visibility isn't a luxury — it's the diagnostic tool that tells you which lever to pull. Without it, you'll optimize a $100 problem while ignoring a $30,000 one. A centralized system with real-time dashboards isn't optional at any stage.</li><li><strong>Most businesses die of indigestion, not starvation.</strong> At the $10M ceiling, the temptation is to expand into new markets and go wide. The actual move is to go deep — master your data, tighten your efficiencies, and say no to everything outside your core genius zone.</li><li><strong>Your business grows to the level of its leadership — and not a dollar more.</strong> At every ceiling, the person in charge must evolve. The producer becomes a manager. The manager becomes a leader. The leader becomes a strategist. Imposter syndrome at each stage isn't a red flag — it's confirmation you're in the right place.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3550</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Most entrepreneurs hit a wall and assume something is broken. The revenue stops growing, the team feels chaotic, and no matter how hard they push, nothing moves. What Zach and Stephanie Betters know — after 12 years of building real estate investment and SaaS businesses — is that hitting a ceiling isn't a sign you're failing. It's a sign you've graduated. In Episode 10 of <em>Who's In Charge?</em>, Stephanie maps out the exact revenue ceilings every REI operator will face — $1M, $3M, $5M, $10M, and $15M — and more importantly, the specific milestone that unlocks each one: proof of concept, funnel mastery, people and redundancy, data depth, and strategic business development. This isn't theory. It's the hard-won framework from operators who have lived every stage.</p><p>But the real thread running through this conversation is personal. Zach opens up about a difficult moment of self-reckoning — the realization that he skipped the manager stage entirely, coasting on Stephanie's operational strength until the cracks became impossible to ignore. It's a rare and honest admission that will resonate with any entrepreneur who has ever led with vision but struggled with execution. This episode is ultimately about who you have to <em>become</em> — not just what you have to <em>do</em> — to break through each ceiling. Because your business will only grow as fast as you do.</p><p><em>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it's an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or whosinchargepodcast.com/home<br></em><br></p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The ceiling defines the cure.</strong> Each revenue threshold — $1M, $3M, $5M, $10M, $15M — requires a completely different skill set to break through. Hustle gets you to the first million. Mastering your funnel gets you to three. People and redundancy get you to five. You can't skip the order.</li><li><strong>Two is one and one is none.</strong> Single points of failure in any department — especially sales — will cap your revenue ceiling and drag leadership back into gap-filling. Build redundancy before you need it, especially in sales, where team energy and competition are critical to consistent performance.</li><li><strong>You can't manage what you can't see.</strong> Funnel visibility isn't a luxury — it's the diagnostic tool that tells you which lever to pull. Without it, you'll optimize a $100 problem while ignoring a $30,000 one. A centralized system with real-time dashboards isn't optional at any stage.</li><li><strong>Most businesses die of indigestion, not starvation.</strong> At the $10M ceiling, the temptation is to expand into new markets and go wide. The actual move is to go deep — master your data, tighten your efficiencies, and say no to everything outside your core genius zone.</li><li><strong>Your business grows to the level of its leadership — and not a dollar more.</strong> At every ceiling, the person in charge must evolve. The producer becomes a manager. The manager becomes a leader. The leader becomes a strategist. Imposter syndrome at each stage isn't a red flag — it's confirmation you're in the right place.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Give Them The Pickle</title>
      <itunes:episode>9</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>9</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Give Them The Pickle</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
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      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/774da2f4</link>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you stuck in an "industry echo chamber"? In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters challenge leaders to break out of their vertical and look to the outside world for innovation. From the high-stakes world of 1950s open-heart surgery to the efficiency of a Chick-fil-A drive-thru, they discuss how asking specific questions can lead to $15 solutions for million-dollar problems.</p><p>The duo explores the "Hospitality of the Drive-Thru," the car dealership's marketing and negotiation tactics, and the <strong>"Tamiflu Strategy"</strong>—a mindset shift focused on winning by just one day. Learn why the thing that angers you as a consumer is your greatest opportunity as a business owner and how a "shameless" pursuit of clarity can give you a massive competitive advantage.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Formulating the Specific Question:</strong> Why "What can I learn?" is too broad, but "How do I get bubbles out of the tubing?" leads to breakthrough innovation.</li><li><strong>The "One Day Better" Focus:</strong> How focusing on cutting just 24 hours out of your sales cycle can revolutionize your cash conversion.</li><li><strong>Hospitality vs. Service:</strong> Taking cues from Chick-fil-A to reduce perceived wait times and increase customer "delight."</li><li><strong>The Shameless Beginner:</strong> Why being the person willing to admit "I don't know what that word means" is a superpower in rooms full of ego.</li><li><strong>The Slider Adjustment:</strong> Realizing that massive success often comes from an "eighth of an inch" tweak in your process, not a total overhaul.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you stuck in an "industry echo chamber"? In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters challenge leaders to break out of their vertical and look to the outside world for innovation. From the high-stakes world of 1950s open-heart surgery to the efficiency of a Chick-fil-A drive-thru, they discuss how asking specific questions can lead to $15 solutions for million-dollar problems.</p><p>The duo explores the "Hospitality of the Drive-Thru," the car dealership's marketing and negotiation tactics, and the <strong>"Tamiflu Strategy"</strong>—a mindset shift focused on winning by just one day. Learn why the thing that angers you as a consumer is your greatest opportunity as a business owner and how a "shameless" pursuit of clarity can give you a massive competitive advantage.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Formulating the Specific Question:</strong> Why "What can I learn?" is too broad, but "How do I get bubbles out of the tubing?" leads to breakthrough innovation.</li><li><strong>The "One Day Better" Focus:</strong> How focusing on cutting just 24 hours out of your sales cycle can revolutionize your cash conversion.</li><li><strong>Hospitality vs. Service:</strong> Taking cues from Chick-fil-A to reduce perceived wait times and increase customer "delight."</li><li><strong>The Shameless Beginner:</strong> Why being the person willing to admit "I don't know what that word means" is a superpower in rooms full of ego.</li><li><strong>The Slider Adjustment:</strong> Realizing that massive success often comes from an "eighth of an inch" tweak in your process, not a total overhaul.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2472</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you stuck in an "industry echo chamber"? In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters challenge leaders to break out of their vertical and look to the outside world for innovation. From the high-stakes world of 1950s open-heart surgery to the efficiency of a Chick-fil-A drive-thru, they discuss how asking specific questions can lead to $15 solutions for million-dollar problems.</p><p>The duo explores the "Hospitality of the Drive-Thru," the car dealership's marketing and negotiation tactics, and the <strong>"Tamiflu Strategy"</strong>—a mindset shift focused on winning by just one day. Learn why the thing that angers you as a consumer is your greatest opportunity as a business owner and how a "shameless" pursuit of clarity can give you a massive competitive advantage.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Formulating the Specific Question:</strong> Why "What can I learn?" is too broad, but "How do I get bubbles out of the tubing?" leads to breakthrough innovation.</li><li><strong>The "One Day Better" Focus:</strong> How focusing on cutting just 24 hours out of your sales cycle can revolutionize your cash conversion.</li><li><strong>Hospitality vs. Service:</strong> Taking cues from Chick-fil-A to reduce perceived wait times and increase customer "delight."</li><li><strong>The Shameless Beginner:</strong> Why being the person willing to admit "I don't know what that word means" is a superpower in rooms full of ego.</li><li><strong>The Slider Adjustment:</strong> Realizing that massive success often comes from an "eighth of an inch" tweak in your process, not a total overhaul.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>The Greatest Competitive Advantage </title>
      <itunes:episode>8</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>8</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Greatest Competitive Advantage </itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters explore the concept of "living a hundred lives" and how a diverse background—from medicine to high-stakes entrepreneurship—is actually a massive competitive advantage. They debunk the myth that you need decades of industry-specific experience to be successful, arguing instead that the lessons learned in "previous lives" are exactly what make you an unstoppable leader.</p><p>From the high-pressure hallways of a hospital to the relentless world of real estate and SaaS, Zach and Stephanie share personal stories about being "pimped" (medical questioning), handling life-altering detours, and finding the "extra gear" that keeps you in the game. They discuss why the very thing you think is holding you back—whether it’s a career shift or a personal setback—is often the reason you will ultimately win.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Empathy as a Business Tool:</strong> Why the ability to see the world through a patient’s eyes translates directly into building a customer-centric company.</li><li><strong>The Humility of the Beginner:</strong> How to be shameless in asking for clarity, admitting what you don't know, and getting to the right answer instead of needing to be "right."</li><li><strong>Detours as Foundations:</strong> Why a life-altering ATV accident and failing high school were the exact catalysts needed to build a medical career and, eventually, a business empire.</li><li><strong>Trained by  "Pimping:</strong> How the high-stakes interrogation of medical training taught the importance of having a culture of accuracy instead of protecting yourself from embarrassment. </li><li><strong>Radical Transparency:</strong> How honest communication at home and in the office builds a foundation of trust that allows a company to move fast and far.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters explore the concept of "living a hundred lives" and how a diverse background—from medicine to high-stakes entrepreneurship—is actually a massive competitive advantage. They debunk the myth that you need decades of industry-specific experience to be successful, arguing instead that the lessons learned in "previous lives" are exactly what make you an unstoppable leader.</p><p>From the high-pressure hallways of a hospital to the relentless world of real estate and SaaS, Zach and Stephanie share personal stories about being "pimped" (medical questioning), handling life-altering detours, and finding the "extra gear" that keeps you in the game. They discuss why the very thing you think is holding you back—whether it’s a career shift or a personal setback—is often the reason you will ultimately win.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Empathy as a Business Tool:</strong> Why the ability to see the world through a patient’s eyes translates directly into building a customer-centric company.</li><li><strong>The Humility of the Beginner:</strong> How to be shameless in asking for clarity, admitting what you don't know, and getting to the right answer instead of needing to be "right."</li><li><strong>Detours as Foundations:</strong> Why a life-altering ATV accident and failing high school were the exact catalysts needed to build a medical career and, eventually, a business empire.</li><li><strong>Trained by  "Pimping:</strong> How the high-stakes interrogation of medical training taught the importance of having a culture of accuracy instead of protecting yourself from embarrassment. </li><li><strong>Radical Transparency:</strong> How honest communication at home and in the office builds a foundation of trust that allows a company to move fast and far.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters explore the concept of "living a hundred lives" and how a diverse background—from medicine to high-stakes entrepreneurship—is actually a massive competitive advantage. They debunk the myth that you need decades of industry-specific experience to be successful, arguing instead that the lessons learned in "previous lives" are exactly what make you an unstoppable leader.</p><p>From the high-pressure hallways of a hospital to the relentless world of real estate and SaaS, Zach and Stephanie share personal stories about being "pimped" (medical questioning), handling life-altering detours, and finding the "extra gear" that keeps you in the game. They discuss why the very thing you think is holding you back—whether it’s a career shift or a personal setback—is often the reason you will ultimately win.</p><p><strong><br>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Empathy as a Business Tool:</strong> Why the ability to see the world through a patient’s eyes translates directly into building a customer-centric company.</li><li><strong>The Humility of the Beginner:</strong> How to be shameless in asking for clarity, admitting what you don't know, and getting to the right answer instead of needing to be "right."</li><li><strong>Detours as Foundations:</strong> Why a life-altering ATV accident and failing high school were the exact catalysts needed to build a medical career and, eventually, a business empire.</li><li><strong>Trained by  "Pimping:</strong> How the high-stakes interrogation of medical training taught the importance of having a culture of accuracy instead of protecting yourself from embarrassment. </li><li><strong>Radical Transparency:</strong> How honest communication at home and in the office builds a foundation of trust that allows a company to move fast and far.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>From Kitchen Table Mailers to 250 Deals a Year</title>
      <itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>7</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>From Kitchen Table Mailers to 250 Deals a Year</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong> In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters sit down with Hunter and Andrea Jarvis of Legacy Homebuyers. Hunter and Andrea share their 10-year journey from Hunter’s early days as a "problem child" in the corporate banking world to building one of the most respected real estate investment firms in Dallas, TX. They dive deep into the "messy middle" of leaving a W2, the importance of maintaining a "delusionally" positive mindset, and why keeping a sense of humor (and a good scare prank) is the secret to a lasting partnership.</p><p><strong><br>Key Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[14:11]</strong> The U of A Love Story: How a football player and a soccer player teamed up.</li><li><strong>[16:33]</strong> The "Creepy" Start: Handwriting mailers with photos of houses at the kitchen table.</li><li><strong>[20:00]</strong> The Bishop &amp; The Stripper Pole: Hunter’s wild first real estate deal.</li><li><strong>[24:55]</strong> The Stoplight Analogy: Why you can't wait for every light to be green to start your business.</li><li><strong>[28:20]</strong> Identifying the Zone of Genius: Why Andrea decided <em>not</em> to be a lead manager.</li><li><strong>[33:33]</strong> The Leap of Faith: Transitioning from a Private Equity W2 to full-time entrepreneurship with two babies at home.</li><li><strong>[40:00]</strong> Handling the "Holiday Blues": Dealing with the seasonality of real estate.</li><li><strong>[45:36]</strong> Boundaries &amp; Hiding Phones: How the Jarvises protect family time.</li><li><strong>[53:01]</strong> The Prank War: Why laughter and "scare pranks" are essential for entrepreneurial couples.</li><li><strong>[01:03:44]</strong> The 10-Year Zoom Out: Scaling from 30 deals to 250+ deals a year.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong> In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters sit down with Hunter and Andrea Jarvis of Legacy Homebuyers. Hunter and Andrea share their 10-year journey from Hunter’s early days as a "problem child" in the corporate banking world to building one of the most respected real estate investment firms in Dallas, TX. They dive deep into the "messy middle" of leaving a W2, the importance of maintaining a "delusionally" positive mindset, and why keeping a sense of humor (and a good scare prank) is the secret to a lasting partnership.</p><p><strong><br>Key Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[14:11]</strong> The U of A Love Story: How a football player and a soccer player teamed up.</li><li><strong>[16:33]</strong> The "Creepy" Start: Handwriting mailers with photos of houses at the kitchen table.</li><li><strong>[20:00]</strong> The Bishop &amp; The Stripper Pole: Hunter’s wild first real estate deal.</li><li><strong>[24:55]</strong> The Stoplight Analogy: Why you can't wait for every light to be green to start your business.</li><li><strong>[28:20]</strong> Identifying the Zone of Genius: Why Andrea decided <em>not</em> to be a lead manager.</li><li><strong>[33:33]</strong> The Leap of Faith: Transitioning from a Private Equity W2 to full-time entrepreneurship with two babies at home.</li><li><strong>[40:00]</strong> Handling the "Holiday Blues": Dealing with the seasonality of real estate.</li><li><strong>[45:36]</strong> Boundaries &amp; Hiding Phones: How the Jarvises protect family time.</li><li><strong>[53:01]</strong> The Prank War: Why laughter and "scare pranks" are essential for entrepreneurial couples.</li><li><strong>[01:03:44]</strong> The 10-Year Zoom Out: Scaling from 30 deals to 250+ deals a year.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Summary:</strong> In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters sit down with Hunter and Andrea Jarvis of Legacy Homebuyers. Hunter and Andrea share their 10-year journey from Hunter’s early days as a "problem child" in the corporate banking world to building one of the most respected real estate investment firms in Dallas, TX. They dive deep into the "messy middle" of leaving a W2, the importance of maintaining a "delusionally" positive mindset, and why keeping a sense of humor (and a good scare prank) is the secret to a lasting partnership.</p><p><strong><br>Key Timestamps:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[14:11]</strong> The U of A Love Story: How a football player and a soccer player teamed up.</li><li><strong>[16:33]</strong> The "Creepy" Start: Handwriting mailers with photos of houses at the kitchen table.</li><li><strong>[20:00]</strong> The Bishop &amp; The Stripper Pole: Hunter’s wild first real estate deal.</li><li><strong>[24:55]</strong> The Stoplight Analogy: Why you can't wait for every light to be green to start your business.</li><li><strong>[28:20]</strong> Identifying the Zone of Genius: Why Andrea decided <em>not</em> to be a lead manager.</li><li><strong>[33:33]</strong> The Leap of Faith: Transitioning from a Private Equity W2 to full-time entrepreneurship with two babies at home.</li><li><strong>[40:00]</strong> Handling the "Holiday Blues": Dealing with the seasonality of real estate.</li><li><strong>[45:36]</strong> Boundaries &amp; Hiding Phones: How the Jarvises protect family time.</li><li><strong>[53:01]</strong> The Prank War: Why laughter and "scare pranks" are essential for entrepreneurial couples.</li><li><strong>[01:03:44]</strong> The 10-Year Zoom Out: Scaling from 30 deals to 250+ deals a year.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>A Game of Inches</title>
      <itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>6</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>A Game of Inches</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters dive into the mental and operational "grind" of scaling a real estate business. They explore the concept of the <strong>"0.02-second loss"</strong>—those frustrating moments when you miss a contract by a hair—and explain why winning isn't about miles, but about tiny, repeatable efficiencies.</p><p>The duo discusses the danger of high achievers constantly moving their own goalposts and why "measuring backward" is the secret to maintaining stamina. Whether you are struggling with a "dry" week or feeling overwhelmed by lost opportunities sitting in your CRM, this episode provides a roadmap for focusing on the "controllables" and finding the win inside every loss.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Losing Less" Strategy:</strong> Why tightening your current processes is often a bigger financial win than increasing your marketing spend.</li><li><strong>Leading vs. Lagging Metrics:</strong> How to stop obsessing over bank balances and start focusing on the specific activities—like response times—that actually create revenue.</li><li><strong>The 3x Pipeline Rule:</strong> Understanding why you need triple the opportunity in your pipeline to hit your actual revenue targets.</li><li><strong>Curing Analysis Paralysis:</strong> Why taking a hiatus from business books and social media is sometimes the only way to actually start implementing.</li><li><strong>Identity vs. Achievement:</strong> A candid look at separating your personal worth from the success or failure of a single deal or company.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters dive into the mental and operational "grind" of scaling a real estate business. They explore the concept of the <strong>"0.02-second loss"</strong>—those frustrating moments when you miss a contract by a hair—and explain why winning isn't about miles, but about tiny, repeatable efficiencies.</p><p>The duo discusses the danger of high achievers constantly moving their own goalposts and why "measuring backward" is the secret to maintaining stamina. Whether you are struggling with a "dry" week or feeling overwhelmed by lost opportunities sitting in your CRM, this episode provides a roadmap for focusing on the "controllables" and finding the win inside every loss.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Losing Less" Strategy:</strong> Why tightening your current processes is often a bigger financial win than increasing your marketing spend.</li><li><strong>Leading vs. Lagging Metrics:</strong> How to stop obsessing over bank balances and start focusing on the specific activities—like response times—that actually create revenue.</li><li><strong>The 3x Pipeline Rule:</strong> Understanding why you need triple the opportunity in your pipeline to hit your actual revenue targets.</li><li><strong>Curing Analysis Paralysis:</strong> Why taking a hiatus from business books and social media is sometimes the only way to actually start implementing.</li><li><strong>Identity vs. Achievement:</strong> A candid look at separating your personal worth from the success or failure of a single deal or company.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2157</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Episode Description<br></strong>In this episode, Stephanie and Zachary Betters dive into the mental and operational "grind" of scaling a real estate business. They explore the concept of the <strong>"0.02-second loss"</strong>—those frustrating moments when you miss a contract by a hair—and explain why winning isn't about miles, but about tiny, repeatable efficiencies.</p><p>The duo discusses the danger of high achievers constantly moving their own goalposts and why "measuring backward" is the secret to maintaining stamina. Whether you are struggling with a "dry" week or feeling overwhelmed by lost opportunities sitting in your CRM, this episode provides a roadmap for focusing on the "controllables" and finding the win inside every loss.</p><p><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Losing Less" Strategy:</strong> Why tightening your current processes is often a bigger financial win than increasing your marketing spend.</li><li><strong>Leading vs. Lagging Metrics:</strong> How to stop obsessing over bank balances and start focusing on the specific activities—like response times—that actually create revenue.</li><li><strong>The 3x Pipeline Rule:</strong> Understanding why you need triple the opportunity in your pipeline to hit your actual revenue targets.</li><li><strong>Curing Analysis Paralysis:</strong> Why taking a hiatus from business books and social media is sometimes the only way to actually start implementing.</li><li><strong>Identity vs. Achievement:</strong> A candid look at separating your personal worth from the success or failure of a single deal or company.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, leftmainrei.co or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Scaling Past 60 Houses: Their Secret Weapon</title>
      <itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Scaling Past 60 Houses: Their Secret Weapon</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>What does it really take to grow an empire while raising four kids?</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters welcome their first guests, Jimmy and Susie Vreeland, for an unfiltered "double date" conversation. Jimmy share how he applied "Army Ranger grit" to buy 60 houses in one year while still working a full-time W2 job, and Susie reveals the bold moves she made to triage their business when it hit a $5 million debt wall. From "Rich Dad Poor Dad" as dating criteria to boxing up scrubs in Pampers boxes, this episode explores the metamorphosis of two leaders navigating high-stakes growth and a symbiotic marriage.</p><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <strong>leftmainrei.co</strong> or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> <strong>whosinchargepodcast.com/home</strong></a>.</p><p><strong><br>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:00:00] The Ranger Mindset:</strong> Using "perspective" as a mental advantage—if you aren't being shot at and you're being fed, you have an extra gear to keep going.</li><li><strong>[00:15:30] Strategic Spousal Transitions:</strong> How the Vreelands relands used Susie’s photography business to manage tax brackets and household expenses so they could reinvest real estate profits.</li><li><strong>[00:22:45] The CG (Collective Genius) Triage:</strong> Jimmy admits to being $5 million in debt with no systems until a mastermind group forced him to face the "passive vs. active income" reality.</li><li><strong>[00:28:45] Forcing the Process:</strong> Jimmy’s "dog with a bone" approach to documenting Susie’s operations, literally following her around with a laptop for 10 days to build their preliminary processes.</li><li><strong>[00:50:40] Real Estate as a Tax Revolt:</strong> Jimmy explains how learning the business cycle and inflation led him to view real estate as the ultimate weapon against a "hose-down" from the tax man.</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> Balancing "Red Bull and Red Dots"—the challenge of shutting off "work mode" during family time and transitioning from high-commission sales to high-integrity leadership.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co/">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com">whosinchargepodcast.com</a></p><p><br></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>What does it really take to grow an empire while raising four kids?</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters welcome their first guests, Jimmy and Susie Vreeland, for an unfiltered "double date" conversation. Jimmy share how he applied "Army Ranger grit" to buy 60 houses in one year while still working a full-time W2 job, and Susie reveals the bold moves she made to triage their business when it hit a $5 million debt wall. From "Rich Dad Poor Dad" as dating criteria to boxing up scrubs in Pampers boxes, this episode explores the metamorphosis of two leaders navigating high-stakes growth and a symbiotic marriage.</p><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <strong>leftmainrei.co</strong> or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> <strong>whosinchargepodcast.com/home</strong></a>.</p><p><strong><br>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:00:00] The Ranger Mindset:</strong> Using "perspective" as a mental advantage—if you aren't being shot at and you're being fed, you have an extra gear to keep going.</li><li><strong>[00:15:30] Strategic Spousal Transitions:</strong> How the Vreelands relands used Susie’s photography business to manage tax brackets and household expenses so they could reinvest real estate profits.</li><li><strong>[00:22:45] The CG (Collective Genius) Triage:</strong> Jimmy admits to being $5 million in debt with no systems until a mastermind group forced him to face the "passive vs. active income" reality.</li><li><strong>[00:28:45] Forcing the Process:</strong> Jimmy’s "dog with a bone" approach to documenting Susie’s operations, literally following her around with a laptop for 10 days to build their preliminary processes.</li><li><strong>[00:50:40] Real Estate as a Tax Revolt:</strong> Jimmy explains how learning the business cycle and inflation led him to view real estate as the ultimate weapon against a "hose-down" from the tax man.</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> Balancing "Red Bull and Red Dots"—the challenge of shutting off "work mode" during family time and transitioning from high-commission sales to high-integrity leadership.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co/">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com">whosinchargepodcast.com</a></p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3509</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>What does it really take to grow an empire while raising four kids?</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters welcome their first guests, Jimmy and Susie Vreeland, for an unfiltered "double date" conversation. Jimmy share how he applied "Army Ranger grit" to buy 60 houses in one year while still working a full-time W2 job, and Susie reveals the bold moves she made to triage their business when it hit a $5 million debt wall. From "Rich Dad Poor Dad" as dating criteria to boxing up scrubs in Pampers boxes, this episode explores the metamorphosis of two leaders navigating high-stakes growth and a symbiotic marriage.</p><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <strong>leftmainrei.co</strong> or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> <strong>whosinchargepodcast.com/home</strong></a>.</p><p><strong><br>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:00:00] The Ranger Mindset:</strong> Using "perspective" as a mental advantage—if you aren't being shot at and you're being fed, you have an extra gear to keep going.</li><li><strong>[00:15:30] Strategic Spousal Transitions:</strong> How the Vreelands relands used Susie’s photography business to manage tax brackets and household expenses so they could reinvest real estate profits.</li><li><strong>[00:22:45] The CG (Collective Genius) Triage:</strong> Jimmy admits to being $5 million in debt with no systems until a mastermind group forced him to face the "passive vs. active income" reality.</li><li><strong>[00:28:45] Forcing the Process:</strong> Jimmy’s "dog with a bone" approach to documenting Susie’s operations, literally following her around with a laptop for 10 days to build their preliminary processes.</li><li><strong>[00:50:40] Real Estate as a Tax Revolt:</strong> Jimmy explains how learning the business cycle and inflation led him to view real estate as the ultimate weapon against a "hose-down" from the tax man.</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> Balancing "Red Bull and Red Dots"—the challenge of shutting off "work mode" during family time and transitioning from high-commission sales to high-integrity leadership.<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co/">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com">whosinchargepodcast.com</a></p><p><br></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>The Arsonist in the Office </title>
      <itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>The Arsonist in the Office </itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Are you holding on too tight, or have you checked out completely?</strong> In this episode of <em>Who’s In Charge?</em>, Zach and Stephanie Betters tackle the "Ego Trap" of leadership. They dive into the difficult discernment of when to step into the weeds and when to get out of the way. Stephanie gets raw about her "checking anxiety" and how rummaging for mistakes can turn a founder into a "terrorist" in their own company, while Zach shares the painful lessons of stepping back too soon from a second-in-command. Learn the "Wolf Pack" philosophy of leadership and why being a CEO is a daily full-time job—not a ticket to a boat in the middle of nowhere.</p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <strong>leftmainrei.co</strong> or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> <strong>whosinchargepodcast.com/home</strong></a>.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:02:45] The Wolf Pack Philosophy:</strong> Leadership isn't a single position; it’s a rotation between leading from the front, the trenches, and the rear.</li><li><strong>[00:09:40] Regulating "Checking Anxiety":</strong> Moving from "rummaging for mistakes" to "coaching through the dashboard." Stephanie shares her process for asking questions that empower instead of overwhelm.</li><li><strong>[00:23:45] The Freedom to Fail:</strong> Why a leader must lower the "height" of a potential fall so the team can operate with confidence.</li><li><strong>[00:30:45] The "GWC" Assessment:</strong> A tactical framework (Get it, Want it, Capacity) to diagnose why a manager is underperforming without becoming a micromanager.</li><li><strong>[00:36:45] The Hardest Hand-off:</strong> Stephanie discusses the fear of hiring her "replacement" (CTO) and why everything she wanted was on the other side of that fear.</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> Zach reflects on inserting himself back into a new REO process this week to "see one, do one, teach one"—recognizing when being a bottleneck is actually a leadership requirement.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Are you holding on too tight, or have you checked out completely?</strong> In this episode of <em>Who’s In Charge?</em>, Zach and Stephanie Betters tackle the "Ego Trap" of leadership. They dive into the difficult discernment of when to step into the weeds and when to get out of the way. Stephanie gets raw about her "checking anxiety" and how rummaging for mistakes can turn a founder into a "terrorist" in their own company, while Zach shares the painful lessons of stepping back too soon from a second-in-command. Learn the "Wolf Pack" philosophy of leadership and why being a CEO is a daily full-time job—not a ticket to a boat in the middle of nowhere.</p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <strong>leftmainrei.co</strong> or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> <strong>whosinchargepodcast.com/home</strong></a>.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:02:45] The Wolf Pack Philosophy:</strong> Leadership isn't a single position; it’s a rotation between leading from the front, the trenches, and the rear.</li><li><strong>[00:09:40] Regulating "Checking Anxiety":</strong> Moving from "rummaging for mistakes" to "coaching through the dashboard." Stephanie shares her process for asking questions that empower instead of overwhelm.</li><li><strong>[00:23:45] The Freedom to Fail:</strong> Why a leader must lower the "height" of a potential fall so the team can operate with confidence.</li><li><strong>[00:30:45] The "GWC" Assessment:</strong> A tactical framework (Get it, Want it, Capacity) to diagnose why a manager is underperforming without becoming a micromanager.</li><li><strong>[00:36:45] The Hardest Hand-off:</strong> Stephanie discusses the fear of hiring her "replacement" (CTO) and why everything she wanted was on the other side of that fear.</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> Zach reflects on inserting himself back into a new REO process this week to "see one, do one, teach one"—recognizing when being a bottleneck is actually a leadership requirement.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2696</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Are you holding on too tight, or have you checked out completely?</strong> In this episode of <em>Who’s In Charge?</em>, Zach and Stephanie Betters tackle the "Ego Trap" of leadership. They dive into the difficult discernment of when to step into the weeds and when to get out of the way. Stephanie gets raw about her "checking anxiety" and how rummaging for mistakes can turn a founder into a "terrorist" in their own company, while Zach shares the painful lessons of stepping back too soon from a second-in-command. Learn the "Wolf Pack" philosophy of leadership and why being a CEO is a daily full-time job—not a ticket to a boat in the middle of nowhere.</p><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-end Real Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <strong>leftmainrei.co</strong> or<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://whosinchargepodcast.com/home"> <strong>whosinchargepodcast.com/home</strong></a>.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:02:45] The Wolf Pack Philosophy:</strong> Leadership isn't a single position; it’s a rotation between leading from the front, the trenches, and the rear.</li><li><strong>[00:09:40] Regulating "Checking Anxiety":</strong> Moving from "rummaging for mistakes" to "coaching through the dashboard." Stephanie shares her process for asking questions that empower instead of overwhelm.</li><li><strong>[00:23:45] The Freedom to Fail:</strong> Why a leader must lower the "height" of a potential fall so the team can operate with confidence.</li><li><strong>[00:30:45] The "GWC" Assessment:</strong> A tactical framework (Get it, Want it, Capacity) to diagnose why a manager is underperforming without becoming a micromanager.</li><li><strong>[00:36:45] The Hardest Hand-off:</strong> Stephanie discusses the fear of hiring her "replacement" (CTO) and why everything she wanted was on the other side of that fear.</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> Zach reflects on inserting himself back into a new REO process this week to "see one, do one, teach one"—recognizing when being a bottleneck is actually a leadership requirement.</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Outgrowing the Grind</title>
      <itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Outgrowing the Grind</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Stop the Hustle, Start the Leading.</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters break down the "metamorphosis" from a chaos-driven entrepreneur to a calm, decisive leader. They share raw stories from their early days—from falling asleep on the stairs to the "aha moment" of delivering paint in Charlotte traffic—to explain why "brute force" eventually hits a wall. Learn why the very hustle that made you successful can become your biggest bottleneck, and how to use "medical-grade triage" to find the heavy bleeding in your business revenue.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Hustle vs. Systems:</strong> Hustle is required to make opportunity; systems are required to scale it. Someone in the org must always hustle (Sales), but the CEO must be the calm center.</li><li><strong>The "Arsonist" Founder:</strong> Recognizing when you are the one creating chaos because you are addicted to the "hero moment" of solving problems you should have automated.</li><li><strong>Medical Triage for REI:</strong> Why you must fix revenue-adjacent problems (closing/funding) before you fix top-of-funnel problems (leads) to survive burnout.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "If you had to rebuild today <em>without</em> the hustle, what’s the first system or relationship you’d build?"</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "Zach, you went out to a 'dangerous' job site this week to lead by example. How do you balance 'leading from the front' with the need to stay out of the day-to-day weeds?"</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Stop the Hustle, Start the Leading.</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters break down the "metamorphosis" from a chaos-driven entrepreneur to a calm, decisive leader. They share raw stories from their early days—from falling asleep on the stairs to the "aha moment" of delivering paint in Charlotte traffic—to explain why "brute force" eventually hits a wall. Learn why the very hustle that made you successful can become your biggest bottleneck, and how to use "medical-grade triage" to find the heavy bleeding in your business revenue.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Hustle vs. Systems:</strong> Hustle is required to make opportunity; systems are required to scale it. Someone in the org must always hustle (Sales), but the CEO must be the calm center.</li><li><strong>The "Arsonist" Founder:</strong> Recognizing when you are the one creating chaos because you are addicted to the "hero moment" of solving problems you should have automated.</li><li><strong>Medical Triage for REI:</strong> Why you must fix revenue-adjacent problems (closing/funding) before you fix top-of-funnel problems (leads) to survive burnout.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "If you had to rebuild today <em>without</em> the hustle, what’s the first system or relationship you’d build?"</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "Zach, you went out to a 'dangerous' job site this week to lead by example. How do you balance 'leading from the front' with the need to stay out of the day-to-day weeds?"</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2999</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Stop the Hustle, Start the Leading.</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters break down the "metamorphosis" from a chaos-driven entrepreneur to a calm, decisive leader. They share raw stories from their early days—from falling asleep on the stairs to the "aha moment" of delivering paint in Charlotte traffic—to explain why "brute force" eventually hits a wall. Learn why the very hustle that made you successful can become your biggest bottleneck, and how to use "medical-grade triage" to find the heavy bleeding in your business revenue.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Hustle vs. Systems:</strong> Hustle is required to make opportunity; systems are required to scale it. Someone in the org must always hustle (Sales), but the CEO must be the calm center.</li><li><strong>The "Arsonist" Founder:</strong> Recognizing when you are the one creating chaos because you are addicted to the "hero moment" of solving problems you should have automated.</li><li><strong>Medical Triage for REI:</strong> Why you must fix revenue-adjacent problems (closing/funding) before you fix top-of-funnel problems (leads) to survive burnout.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "If you had to rebuild today <em>without</em> the hustle, what’s the first system or relationship you’d build?"</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "Zach, you went out to a 'dangerous' job site this week to lead by example. How do you balance 'leading from the front' with the need to stay out of the day-to-day weeds?"</li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or whosinchargepodcast.com/home</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Love, Medicine, and Moldy Houses</title>
      <itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Love, Medicine, and Moldy Houses</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Where it all began.</strong> In this inaugural episode of <em>Who’s In Charge?</em>, Stephanie and Zach Betters take us back 20 years to a sunny fall day in Binghamton, NY, where they met on an ambulance squad. From $200,000 in student debt and a "no-doors" fixer-upper to leading two powerhouse organizations—Left Main REI and Better Path Homes—this is the raw, funny, and inspiring story of their metamorphosis. Discover how they balanced high-stakes medical careers with early real estate blunders, and why getting on the same page with your spouse is the ultimate "secret weapon" for any leader.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Metamorphosis" Concept:</strong> Leadership isn't a destination; it's a constant state of becoming. Zach and Stephanie reflect on how they evolved from medical professionals into CEOs.</li><li><strong>The Power of Vision Alignment:</strong> Stephanie shares why it is "insurmountable" to build a business if your spouse isn't on board. Success starts at the kitchen table before it ever hits the boardroom.</li><li><strong>Embracing Limitations:</strong> From raising three young kids to working 80-hour weeks in the ER, the duo explains how their lack of time forced them to build the systems that eventually created their freedom.</li><li><strong>The "Million Dollar" Melted Down:</strong> Stephanie recounts the hilarious and frustrating story of being quoted $1 million for a CRM, which led her to "nerd out" and build the foundation of Left Main REI herself.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "How do you know when it’s finally 'safe' to start? (Hint: There is no perfect time.)"</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "How do we stay happily married while running two separate companies? It starts with date nights that double as therapy sessions."</li></ul><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com/home">whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Where it all began.</strong> In this inaugural episode of <em>Who’s In Charge?</em>, Stephanie and Zach Betters take us back 20 years to a sunny fall day in Binghamton, NY, where they met on an ambulance squad. From $200,000 in student debt and a "no-doors" fixer-upper to leading two powerhouse organizations—Left Main REI and Better Path Homes—this is the raw, funny, and inspiring story of their metamorphosis. Discover how they balanced high-stakes medical careers with early real estate blunders, and why getting on the same page with your spouse is the ultimate "secret weapon" for any leader.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Metamorphosis" Concept:</strong> Leadership isn't a destination; it's a constant state of becoming. Zach and Stephanie reflect on how they evolved from medical professionals into CEOs.</li><li><strong>The Power of Vision Alignment:</strong> Stephanie shares why it is "insurmountable" to build a business if your spouse isn't on board. Success starts at the kitchen table before it ever hits the boardroom.</li><li><strong>Embracing Limitations:</strong> From raising three young kids to working 80-hour weeks in the ER, the duo explains how their lack of time forced them to build the systems that eventually created their freedom.</li><li><strong>The "Million Dollar" Melted Down:</strong> Stephanie recounts the hilarious and frustrating story of being quoted $1 million for a CRM, which led her to "nerd out" and build the foundation of Left Main REI herself.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "How do you know when it’s finally 'safe' to start? (Hint: There is no perfect time.)"</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "How do we stay happily married while running two separate companies? It starts with date nights that double as therapy sessions."</li></ul><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com/home">whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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      <itunes:author>Left Main REI</itunes:author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Where it all began.</strong> In this inaugural episode of <em>Who’s In Charge?</em>, Stephanie and Zach Betters take us back 20 years to a sunny fall day in Binghamton, NY, where they met on an ambulance squad. From $200,000 in student debt and a "no-doors" fixer-upper to leading two powerhouse organizations—Left Main REI and Better Path Homes—this is the raw, funny, and inspiring story of their metamorphosis. Discover how they balanced high-stakes medical careers with early real estate blunders, and why getting on the same page with your spouse is the ultimate "secret weapon" for any leader.</p><p><strong>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Metamorphosis" Concept:</strong> Leadership isn't a destination; it's a constant state of becoming. Zach and Stephanie reflect on how they evolved from medical professionals into CEOs.</li><li><strong>The Power of Vision Alignment:</strong> Stephanie shares why it is "insurmountable" to build a business if your spouse isn't on board. Success starts at the kitchen table before it ever hits the boardroom.</li><li><strong>Embracing Limitations:</strong> From raising three young kids to working 80-hour weeks in the ER, the duo explains how their lack of time forced them to build the systems that eventually created their freedom.</li><li><strong>The "Million Dollar" Melted Down:</strong> Stephanie recounts the hilarious and frustrating story of being quoted $1 million for a CRM, which led her to "nerd out" and build the foundation of Left Main REI herself.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "How do you know when it’s finally 'safe' to start? (Hint: There is no perfect time.)"</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "How do we stay happily married while running two separate companies? It starts with date nights that double as therapy sessions."</li></ul><p><br>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com/home">whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>When to Quit Your Job</title>
      <itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>When to Quit Your Job</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Is it time to "burn the boats"?</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters tackle the most debated question in entrepreneurship: when to leave your W2 job. They pull back the curtain on their own transition from high-stakes medicine to full-time real estate, sharing the "sugar mama" dynamics, the six-month reserve rule, and the emotional toll of leaving a respected professional identity behind. Discover why "desperation is expensive" and how the habits you learned in your 9-to-5—from developing rapport to staying calm in a code—are actually your greatest assets in building an empire.</p><p><strong><br>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Thousand Lives" Perspective:</strong> Understanding that breaking through professional ceilings makes you a different person at every stage.</li><li><strong>The 6-Month Reserve Rule:</strong> Zach explains why financial freedom is a math problem: reduce your expenses to lower the "backstop" needed for your leap.</li><li><strong>Desperation vs. Clarity:</strong> Why "burning the boats" can lead to rash, expensive decisions. Stephanie argues for a "calculated transition" to avoid operating like a "cornered rat."</li><li><strong>From Bedside to Boardroom:</strong> Translating medical skills—like "getting a stranger to take their pants off in 30 seconds"—into developing instant rapport with motivated sellers.</li><li><strong>The "Why" Audit:</strong> Why you must check your purpose frequently. If your "why" is family, but your business is destroying your home life, it’s time to realign.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "What if you don't make money for six months? If the answer is 'I’ll lose my house,' it’s not time to quit yet."</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "We still struggle to find time for 'CEO thinking.' Zach added a dedicated block to his calendar this week just to stop reacting and start dreaming."<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co/">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com/home">whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Is it time to "burn the boats"?</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters tackle the most debated question in entrepreneurship: when to leave your W2 job. They pull back the curtain on their own transition from high-stakes medicine to full-time real estate, sharing the "sugar mama" dynamics, the six-month reserve rule, and the emotional toll of leaving a respected professional identity behind. Discover why "desperation is expensive" and how the habits you learned in your 9-to-5—from developing rapport to staying calm in a code—are actually your greatest assets in building an empire.</p><p><strong><br>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Thousand Lives" Perspective:</strong> Understanding that breaking through professional ceilings makes you a different person at every stage.</li><li><strong>The 6-Month Reserve Rule:</strong> Zach explains why financial freedom is a math problem: reduce your expenses to lower the "backstop" needed for your leap.</li><li><strong>Desperation vs. Clarity:</strong> Why "burning the boats" can lead to rash, expensive decisions. Stephanie argues for a "calculated transition" to avoid operating like a "cornered rat."</li><li><strong>From Bedside to Boardroom:</strong> Translating medical skills—like "getting a stranger to take their pants off in 30 seconds"—into developing instant rapport with motivated sellers.</li><li><strong>The "Why" Audit:</strong> Why you must check your purpose frequently. If your "why" is family, but your business is destroying your home life, it’s time to realign.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "What if you don't make money for six months? If the answer is 'I’ll lose my house,' it’s not time to quit yet."</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "We still struggle to find time for 'CEO thinking.' Zach added a dedicated block to his calendar this week just to stop reacting and start dreaming."<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co/">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com/home">whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
      <author>Left Main REI</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Is it time to "burn the boats"?</strong> In this episode, Zach and Stephanie Betters tackle the most debated question in entrepreneurship: when to leave your W2 job. They pull back the curtain on their own transition from high-stakes medicine to full-time real estate, sharing the "sugar mama" dynamics, the six-month reserve rule, and the emotional toll of leaving a respected professional identity behind. Discover why "desperation is expensive" and how the habits you learned in your 9-to-5—from developing rapport to staying calm in a code—are actually your greatest assets in building an empire.</p><p><strong><br>Key Points</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The "Thousand Lives" Perspective:</strong> Understanding that breaking through professional ceilings makes you a different person at every stage.</li><li><strong>The 6-Month Reserve Rule:</strong> Zach explains why financial freedom is a math problem: reduce your expenses to lower the "backstop" needed for your leap.</li><li><strong>Desperation vs. Clarity:</strong> Why "burning the boats" can lead to rash, expensive decisions. Stephanie argues for a "calculated transition" to avoid operating like a "cornered rat."</li><li><strong>From Bedside to Boardroom:</strong> Translating medical skills—like "getting a stranger to take their pants off in 30 seconds"—into developing instant rapport with motivated sellers.</li><li><strong>The "Why" Audit:</strong> Why you must check your purpose frequently. If your "why" is family, but your business is destroying your home life, it’s time to realign.</li><li><strong>Q&amp;A:</strong> "What if you don't make money for six months? If the answer is 'I’ll lose my house,' it’s not time to quit yet."</li><li><strong>The Weekly Reality:</strong> "We still struggle to find time for 'CEO thinking.' Zach added a dedicated block to his calendar this week just to stop reacting and start dreaming."<p></p></li></ul><p>Left Main is more than just a CRM, it’s an end-to-endReal Estate Investment operations solution to run your company as an actual business with sales systems embedded. Want to find out more, book a call today, <a href="http://leftmainrei.co/">leftmainrei.co</a> or <a href="http://whosinchargepodcast.com/home">whosinchargepodcast.com/home</a></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>From $200k in student debt and a house with no bathroom doors to leading two powerhouse organizations, Stephanie and Zach Betters have lived the "high-risk, high-stress" evolution of the modern entrepreneur.</p><p>As the CEOs of <strong>Left Main REI</strong> and <strong>Better Path Homes</strong>, they’ve traded medical-grade stress for the high-stakes world of real estate and systems. But the transition from "hustle chaos" to "calm boss energy" isn’t a straight line—it’s a masterclass in leadership, systems, and sometimes, marriage therapy.</p><p>Join Stephanie and Zach as they discuss the metamorphosis of becoming a leader, share their biggest failures, and interview top industry voices to find out how to stay in charge without losing your mind.</p><p><strong>Because if you don’t run the business, the chaos will.</strong></p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>From $200k in student debt and a house with no bathroom doors to leading two powerhouse organizations, Stephanie and Zach Betters have lived the "high-risk, high-stress" evolution of the modern entrepreneur.</p><p>As the CEOs of <strong>Left Main REI</strong> and <strong>Better Path Homes</strong>, they’ve traded medical-grade stress for the high-stakes world of real estate and systems. But the transition from "hustle chaos" to "calm boss energy" isn’t a straight line—it’s a masterclass in leadership, systems, and sometimes, marriage therapy.</p><p>Join Stephanie and Zach as they discuss the metamorphosis of becoming a leader, share their biggest failures, and interview top industry voices to find out how to stay in charge without losing your mind.</p><p><strong>Because if you don’t run the business, the chaos will.</strong></p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2026 14:19:22 -0800</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>From $200k in student debt and a house with no bathroom doors to leading two powerhouse organizations, Stephanie and Zach Betters have lived the "high-risk, high-stress" evolution of the modern entrepreneur.</p><p>As the CEOs of <strong>Left Main REI</strong> and <strong>Better Path Homes</strong>, they’ve traded medical-grade stress for the high-stakes world of real estate and systems. But the transition from "hustle chaos" to "calm boss energy" isn’t a straight line—it’s a masterclass in leadership, systems, and sometimes, marriage therapy.</p><p>Join Stephanie and Zach as they discuss the metamorphosis of becoming a leader, share their biggest failures, and interview top industry voices to find out how to stay in charge without losing your mind.</p><p><strong>Because if you don’t run the business, the chaos will.</strong></p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Real Estate Investing, REI Systems, Salesforce for Real Estate, Leadership, Business Scaling, Entrepreneurship, CEO Mindset, Left Main REI, CRM, Property Acquisition, Family Business, Operational Excellence</itunes:keywords>
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