Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/wherefore-art-thou-romeo Description here © 2026 Emily Schutte efbb3f0c-3d0f-51d0-a5d9-0de6b3c23c01 yes en Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:04:46 -0400 Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:05:11 -0400 https://img.transistorcdn.com/OalSpbIWgk32E9a2bD0j5lvBQPYQlGca__sCMUa8bOI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9jNWJi/YzlhNDM3ZTM4OWZi/Mjk1OTI1MDdjMTFj/YzJkMy5wbmc.jpg episodic Emily Schutte Description here Description here. Emily Schutte No No 34 34 Why am I Lonely? full 4073e253-4c88-45ca-9023-6f4c5ef93b90 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/why-am-i-lonely Greg and Emily discuss a passage from Henry Nouwen's book, Reaching Out, in which he discusses a common approach to relationships. Nouwen rejects the tendency to fill loneliness through relationships with other people, and he challenges people to find that support in God. If you have ever struggled with feeling unfulfilled and lonely, this episode is for you. 

]]> Greg and Emily discuss a passage from Henry Nouwen's book, Reaching Out, in which he discusses a common approach to relationships. Nouwen rejects the tendency to fill loneliness through relationships with other people, and he challenges people to find that support in God. If you have ever struggled with feeling unfulfilled and lonely, this episode is for you. 

]]> Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:04:12 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1351 Greg and Emily discuss a passage from Henry Nouwen's book, Reaching Out, in which he discusses a common approach to relationships. Nouwen rejects the tendency to fill loneliness through relationships with other people, and he challenges people to find that support in God. If you have ever struggled with feeling unfulfilled and lonely, this episode is for you. 

]]> No 33 33 When Do You Know? full 96bc7d08-945d-434f-8edb-f771317dcea5 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/when-do-you-know Greg and Emily dive into the topic, "When do you know it's time to get married?" Is there ever a right time? How long should we wait? Sometimes people have an extremely painful relationship process while others make it look so easy. Whether you get married within 6 months or 6 years of meeting, Greg and Emily look at what might be indicators of readiness. 

]]> Greg and Emily dive into the topic, "When do you know it's time to get married?" Is there ever a right time? How long should we wait? Sometimes people have an extremely painful relationship process while others make it look so easy. Whether you get married within 6 months or 6 years of meeting, Greg and Emily look at what might be indicators of readiness. 

]]> Wed, 25 Mar 2026 13:07:41 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 Greg and Emily dive into the topic, "When do you know it's time to get married?" Is there ever a right time? How long should we wait? Sometimes people have an extremely painful relationship process while others make it look so easy. Whether you get married within 6 months or 6 years of meeting, Greg and Emily look at what might be indicators of readiness. 

]]> No 32 32 Mindset Going into a Relationships full 491c32d2-30e2-4b77-844d-0cb1d191ee7f https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/mindset-going-into-a-relationships What should my mindset be going into a relationship? Should I want it? Not want it? Need it to validate me? Be totally disinterested? Greg and Emily discuss what may be some helpful places to be personally when looking to be in a romantic relationship. 

]]> What should my mindset be going into a relationship? Should I want it? Not want it? Need it to validate me? Be totally disinterested? Greg and Emily discuss what may be some helpful places to be personally when looking to be in a romantic relationship. 

]]> Mon, 23 Mar 2026 16:22:57 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1363 What should my mindset be going into a relationship? Should I want it? Not want it? Need it to validate me? Be totally disinterested? Greg and Emily discuss what may be some helpful places to be personally when looking to be in a romantic relationship. 

]]> No 31 31 Praying Together full 2a5fe808-9aeb-4555-b0ae-da81a461dda7 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/praying-together The question of "when do we start praying together" while perhaps not one with a definitive answer is one which Greg and Emily attempt to unfold together. Greg and Emily discuss what it looks like to pray together as a couple, when to begin doing so, and how it impacts a relationship. 

]]> The question of "when do we start praying together" while perhaps not one with a definitive answer is one which Greg and Emily attempt to unfold together. Greg and Emily discuss what it looks like to pray together as a couple, when to begin doing so, and how it impacts a relationship. 

]]> Mon, 23 Mar 2026 16:18:59 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 The question of "when do we start praying together" while perhaps not one with a definitive answer is one which Greg and Emily attempt to unfold together. Greg and Emily discuss what it looks like to pray together as a couple, when to begin doing so, and how it impacts a relationship. 

]]> No 30 30 FACES: Guys with Skills full 82abf236-1ee7-4e08-ac88-2631af9e0caf https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-guys-with-skills Greg and Emily are back to talk about John Van Epp's 'get-to-know-you' acronym "FACES" and the last letter, S, for skills of communication. They explore experiences of feeling unseen and the need to tell people what you need as well as the importance of apologizing for hurting people even if we didn't mean to do so. 

]]> Greg and Emily are back to talk about John Van Epp's 'get-to-know-you' acronym "FACES" and the last letter, S, for skills of communication. They explore experiences of feeling unseen and the need to tell people what you need as well as the importance of apologizing for hurting people even if we didn't mean to do so. 

]]> Tue, 03 Mar 2026 22:48:54 -0500 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 Greg and Emily are back to talk about John Van Epp's 'get-to-know-you' acronym "FACES" and the last letter, S, for skills of communication. They explore experiences of feeling unseen and the need to tell people what you need as well as the importance of apologizing for hurting people even if we didn't mean to do so. 

]]> No 29 29 FACES: Skills of Communication full e494a7f7-91d7-4771-a313-1ec73567cda7 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-skills-of-communication Join Emily and Greg for their discussion of the last letter of John VanEpp's "get-to-know-you" acronym, "FACES." "S" stands for Skills of Communication. Their discussion involves body language, listening, and types of conflict management. While not everyone has perfect skills, Greg says he would rather someone have poor skills than a poor conscience since skills can be learned while a badly formed conscience is harder to change. 

]]> Join Emily and Greg for their discussion of the last letter of John VanEpp's "get-to-know-you" acronym, "FACES." "S" stands for Skills of Communication. Their discussion involves body language, listening, and types of conflict management. While not everyone has perfect skills, Greg says he would rather someone have poor skills than a poor conscience since skills can be learned while a badly formed conscience is harder to change. 

]]> Sun, 22 Feb 2026 08:57:14 -0500 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1398 Join Emily and Greg for their discussion of the last letter of John VanEpp's "get-to-know-you" acronym, "FACES." "S" stands for Skills of Communication. Their discussion involves body language, listening, and types of conflict management. While not everyone has perfect skills, Greg says he would rather someone have poor skills than a poor conscience since skills can be learned while a badly formed conscience is harder to change. 

]]> No 28 28 Purity Culture Revisited full e1387d2a-9c0c-47ac-b29b-f8a1accfd334 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/purity-culture-revisited Emily and Greg are back and so is Adriana Azarian to continue their conversation on the effects and extremes of purity culture. With the depth and breadth of the topic, these three realize they will need to continue the conversation even after all they cover here. 

]]> Emily and Greg are back and so is Adriana Azarian to continue their conversation on the effects and extremes of purity culture. With the depth and breadth of the topic, these three realize they will need to continue the conversation even after all they cover here. 

]]> Tue, 11 Nov 2025 22:12:22 -0500 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 Emily and Greg are back and so is Adriana Azarian to continue their conversation on the effects and extremes of purity culture. With the depth and breadth of the topic, these three realize they will need to continue the conversation even after all they cover here. 

]]> No 27 27 Infidelity, Pornography, and Sex full 5dc72ec2-6f5e-4224-a2cc-a0c905e7d25a https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/infidelity-pornography-and-sex Join Greg and Emily as they welcome guest, Adriana Azarian, senior Politics major at Hillsdale College. These three dive into several heavier topics surrounding relationships including questions like, "what to do if he cheats," "how ought we to respond to the issue of pornography," and "what to do about the shame surrounding sex."

]]> Join Greg and Emily as they welcome guest, Adriana Azarian, senior Politics major at Hillsdale College. These three dive into several heavier topics surrounding relationships including questions like, "what to do if he cheats," "how ought we to respond to the issue of pornography," and "what to do about the shame surrounding sex."

]]> Tue, 11 Nov 2025 22:11:09 -0500 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1348 Join Greg and Emily as they welcome guest, Adriana Azarian, senior Politics major at Hillsdale College. These three dive into several heavier topics surrounding relationships including questions like, "what to do if he cheats," "how ought we to respond to the issue of pornography," and "what to do about the shame surrounding sex."

]]> No 26 26 FACES: Examples of Other Relationships full 53007363-78bf-45d0-9f7b-df6b42b200dd https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-examples-of-other-relationships This week on Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?, Greg and Emily continue discussing John Van Epp's getting-to-know-you, FACES, acronym. They move into 'E,' Examples of Other Relationships whether those be relationships with siblings, parents, and friends or previous romantic relationships. 

]]> This week on Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?, Greg and Emily continue discussing John Van Epp's getting-to-know-you, FACES, acronym. They move into 'E,' Examples of Other Relationships whether those be relationships with siblings, parents, and friends or previous romantic relationships. 

]]> Mon, 27 Oct 2025 16:13:32 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 This week on Wherefore Art Thou, Romeo?, Greg and Emily continue discussing John Van Epp's getting-to-know-you, FACES, acronym. They move into 'E,' Examples of Other Relationships whether those be relationships with siblings, parents, and friends or previous romantic relationships. 

]]> No 25 25 FACES: Compatibility Potential full dc27faab-f536-4012-a7b1-f636226efce3 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-compatibility-potential Today, Greg and Emily explore John Van Epp's third letter in the getting-to-know acronym, FACES: Compatibility Potential. What are those make-or-break issues that make you compatible or incompatible with someone? Stay tuned till the end for the answer to a special question Emily has for Greg. 

]]> Today, Greg and Emily explore John Van Epp's third letter in the getting-to-know acronym, FACES: Compatibility Potential. What are those make-or-break issues that make you compatible or incompatible with someone? Stay tuned till the end for the answer to a special question Emily has for Greg. 

]]> Wed, 15 Oct 2025 20:58:33 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 Today, Greg and Emily explore John Van Epp's third letter in the getting-to-know acronym, FACES: Compatibility Potential. What are those make-or-break issues that make you compatible or incompatible with someone? Stay tuned till the end for the answer to a special question Emily has for Greg. 

]]> No 24 24 FACES: Attitudes, Actions, and Apologies full d52e1381-90e5-4fec-867e-348aa84d0994 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces_attitudes-actions-and-apologies In this week's episode, Greg and Emily discuss the two primary roles of the conscience as well as some tendencies that can show a well or poorly formed conscience. They also explore the role of the apology in building and maintaining relationships. 

]]> In this week's episode, Greg and Emily discuss the two primary roles of the conscience as well as some tendencies that can show a well or poorly formed conscience. They also explore the role of the apology in building and maintaining relationships. 

]]> Wed, 08 Oct 2025 22:18:07 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1329 In this week's episode, Greg and Emily discuss the two primary roles of the conscience as well as some tendencies that can show a well or poorly formed conscience. They also explore the role of the apology in building and maintaining relationships. 

]]> No 23 23 FACES: Attitudes and Actions of the Conscience full 7b233db4-bbd4-4831-805e-e94ff3a1ee60 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-attitudes-and-actions-of-the-conscience Join Greg and Emily as they discuss the second step in getting to know someone; learning about the foundation for their actions. In John Van Epp's book, How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk (or Jerkette), he discusses the acronym, FACES, and A stands for attitudes and actions of the conscience. This can be anything from political standing to matters of faith. Greg and Emily explore what to watch for when considering becoming more serious with someone. 

]]> Join Greg and Emily as they discuss the second step in getting to know someone; learning about the foundation for their actions. In John Van Epp's book, How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk (or Jerkette), he discusses the acronym, FACES, and A stands for attitudes and actions of the conscience. This can be anything from political standing to matters of faith. Greg and Emily explore what to watch for when considering becoming more serious with someone. 

]]> Tue, 30 Sep 2025 23:34:49 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 Join Greg and Emily as they discuss the second step in getting to know someone; learning about the foundation for their actions. In John Van Epp's book, How to Avoid Falling In Love with a Jerk (or Jerkette), he discusses the acronym, FACES, and A stands for attitudes and actions of the conscience. This can be anything from political standing to matters of faith. Greg and Emily explore what to watch for when considering becoming more serious with someone. 

]]> No 22 22 FACES: Family Background P.2 full bfda7f8b-5a96-41e4-bfd6-d07ccca7cf99 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-family-background-p-2 Emily and Greg continue their conversation about John Van Epp's 'getting-to-know' acronym, FACES, and the role of family in your relationships. Are you doomed to be your parents? How does your family effect your own relationships and what does it say about how you deal with problems? Hear about this and more on today's episode. 

]]> Emily and Greg continue their conversation about John Van Epp's 'getting-to-know' acronym, FACES, and the role of family in your relationships. Are you doomed to be your parents? How does your family effect your own relationships and what does it say about how you deal with problems? Hear about this and more on today's episode. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:42:24 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1347 Emily and Greg continue their conversation about John Van Epp's 'getting-to-know' acronym, FACES, and the role of family in your relationships. Are you doomed to be your parents? How does your family effect your own relationships and what does it say about how you deal with problems? Hear about this and more on today's episode. 

]]> No 21 21 FACES: Family Background P.1 full a64cf81c-1cda-4fd3-8be0-3e2ee93e1eac https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faces-family-background-p-1 In John Van Epp's Book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk, Van Epp uses the acronym, FACES, to explain how best to get to know a person. Greg and Emily work through the first letter, F for Family Background. What roles do your parents play in your future relationships? Hear about this and more on today's episode. 

]]> In John Van Epp's Book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk, Van Epp uses the acronym, FACES, to explain how best to get to know a person. Greg and Emily work through the first letter, F for Family Background. What roles do your parents play in your future relationships? Hear about this and more on today's episode. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:42:16 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1321 In John Van Epp's Book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk, Van Epp uses the acronym, FACES, to explain how best to get to know a person. Greg and Emily work through the first letter, F for Family Background. What roles do your parents play in your future relationships? Hear about this and more on today's episode. 

]]> No 20 20 Dealing with Breakups full b32806e2-d0aa-4a89-9184-84c8231b8120 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/dealing-with-breakups Have you ever noticed the drastic number of relationship changes when coming back to school after the summer? Greg and Emily discuss why this might happen and whether absence really does make the heart grow fonder. 

]]> Have you ever noticed the drastic number of relationship changes when coming back to school after the summer? Greg and Emily discuss why this might happen and whether absence really does make the heart grow fonder. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:42:10 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1261 Have you ever noticed the drastic number of relationship changes when coming back to school after the summer? Greg and Emily discuss why this might happen and whether absence really does make the heart grow fonder. 

]]> No 19 19 Unaddressed Issues P.2 full 00541c97-b4c3-4d43-9a81-bb1109e10622 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/unaddressed-issues-p-2 Greg and Emily jump back into the discussion on commonly unaddressed issues which lead to unhappiness in marriage. Greg encourages taking time to truly get to know one other, especially discussions on child baring and parenting. Listen to today's episode for this and more on the topic of unaddressed issues which lead to unhappiness. 

]]> Greg and Emily jump back into the discussion on commonly unaddressed issues which lead to unhappiness in marriage. Greg encourages taking time to truly get to know one other, especially discussions on child baring and parenting. Listen to today's episode for this and more on the topic of unaddressed issues which lead to unhappiness. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:41:52 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1431 Greg and Emily jump back into the discussion on commonly unaddressed issues which lead to unhappiness in marriage. Greg encourages taking time to truly get to know one other, especially discussions on child baring and parenting. Listen to today's episode for this and more on the topic of unaddressed issues which lead to unhappiness. 

]]> No 18 18 Unaddressed Issues P.1 full f1a592e8-73ce-44c8-b5a2-a72f904ffa93 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/unaddressed-issues-p-1 What are some most commonly unaddressed issues that are likely to lead to unhappiness in marriage? Should I go into marriage thinking I can change the other person? Greg and Emily discuss topics of communication and working through conflict among other things on today's episode. 

]]> What are some most commonly unaddressed issues that are likely to lead to unhappiness in marriage? Should I go into marriage thinking I can change the other person? Greg and Emily discuss topics of communication and working through conflict among other things on today's episode. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:41:43 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1291 What are some most commonly unaddressed issues that are likely to lead to unhappiness in marriage? Should I go into marriage thinking I can change the other person? Greg and Emily discuss topics of communication and working through conflict among other things on today's episode. 

]]> No 17 17 Bad Dating Advice full f20b1ae8-07ae-401b-a2bf-565604998b80 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/bad-dating-advice Greg and Emily discuss a list of alleged bad dating advice and whether it is actually bad advice or not. Join them as they discuss what might be good or bad ideas before, on, or after a date.  

]]> Greg and Emily discuss a list of alleged bad dating advice and whether it is actually bad advice or not. Join them as they discuss what might be good or bad ideas before, on, or after a date.  

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:41:27 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 2631 Greg and Emily discuss a list of alleged bad dating advice and whether it is actually bad advice or not. Join them as they discuss what might be good or bad ideas before, on, or after a date.  

]]> No 16 16 Faith in Relationships full dd8c817e-4429-429d-af68-be58e9ce0a5c https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/faith-in-relationships Greg and Emily discuss the role of faith in relationships. Do you need to share the same faith? Why or why not? This and more in today's episode. 

]]> Greg and Emily discuss the role of faith in relationships. Do you need to share the same faith? Why or why not? This and more in today's episode. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:41:09 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 2641 Greg and Emily discuss the role of faith in relationships. Do you need to share the same faith? Why or why not? This and more in today's episode. 

]]> No 15 15 Approachability P.2 full d1913507-b1e8-4ffb-b6b8-fe79479c0575 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/approachability-p-2 How can I be more approachable? Greg and Emily continue their discussion on approachability and how to develop that skill. Consider ways to be open to others and learn not to read too much into someone's kindness. This and more on today's episode. 

]]> How can I be more approachable? Greg and Emily continue their discussion on approachability and how to develop that skill. Consider ways to be open to others and learn not to read too much into someone's kindness. This and more on today's episode. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:40:51 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1336 How can I be more approachable? Greg and Emily continue their discussion on approachability and how to develop that skill. Consider ways to be open to others and learn not to read too much into someone's kindness. This and more on today's episode. 

]]> No 14 14 Approachability P.1 full 044acd52-ad22-42b5-846a-5307b6f01090 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/approachability-p-1 Are women more approachable to a man or a man more approachable to a woman. Is this always true? Greg and Emily discuss how sometimes we are more open to individuals of the opposite gender even before knowing them well. How can this be done in a healthy manner, and how does it become unhealthy? This and more on today's episode. 

]]> Are women more approachable to a man or a man more approachable to a woman. Is this always true? Greg and Emily discuss how sometimes we are more open to individuals of the opposite gender even before knowing them well. How can this be done in a healthy manner, and how does it become unhealthy? This and more on today's episode. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 13:40:33 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1339 Are women more approachable to a man or a man more approachable to a woman. Is this always true? Greg and Emily discuss how sometimes we are more open to individuals of the opposite gender even before knowing them well. How can this be done in a healthy manner, and how does it become unhealthy? This and more on today's episode. 

]]> No 13 13 Just Have Fun full 3afd1caf-809a-4af1-ae84-d1c0877b3df7 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/just-have-fun Have you ever struggled with how serious relationships seem to be? Emily and Greg explore how to have fun in a relationship while still acknowledging the challenge. 

]]> Have you ever struggled with how serious relationships seem to be? Emily and Greg explore how to have fun in a relationship while still acknowledging the challenge. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:27:01 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1399 Have you ever struggled with how serious relationships seem to be? Emily and Greg explore how to have fun in a relationship while still acknowledging the challenge. 

]]> No 12 12 Dealing with the Family full df043c19-6b7f-4a89-9cc5-a7caed937b44 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/dealing-with-the-family What if his family is CRAZY! This and more from Greg and Emily on the topic of working through family differences and difficulties. 

]]> What if his family is CRAZY! This and more from Greg and Emily on the topic of working through family differences and difficulties. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:26:24 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1335 What if his family is CRAZY! This and more from Greg and Emily on the topic of working through family differences and difficulties. 

]]> No 11 11 Waiting and Dating full 646654ca-af88-4ebf-8bd9-9abdfbe0bb66 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/waiting-and-dating Should I wait for someone if they are in a period of discernment or ask to take a break? How long, if at all? Emily and Greg explore this through the question, do I wait for him/her? 

]]> Should I wait for someone if they are in a period of discernment or ask to take a break? How long, if at all? Emily and Greg explore this through the question, do I wait for him/her? 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:20:31 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1404 Should I wait for someone if they are in a period of discernment or ask to take a break? How long, if at all? Emily and Greg explore this through the question, do I wait for him/her? 

]]> No 10 10 Perfectionism full 04b92419-4e17-4f37-a482-7b60416186af https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/perfectionism Emily and Greg discuss the topic of perfectionism in the relationship process. Does everything have to be perfect before you start dating or get married? How much money do I need in order to succeed in this? These and more are part of the discussion on perfectionism. 

]]> Emily and Greg discuss the topic of perfectionism in the relationship process. Does everything have to be perfect before you start dating or get married? How much money do I need in order to succeed in this? These and more are part of the discussion on perfectionism. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:18:39 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1466 Emily and Greg discuss the topic of perfectionism in the relationship process. Does everything have to be perfect before you start dating or get married? How much money do I need in order to succeed in this? These and more are part of the discussion on perfectionism. 

]]> No 9 9 Intimacy Revisited full afcf99aa-c295-469a-8aec-e732c134b5de https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/intimacy-revisited Emily and Greg Schutte revisit the topic of intimacy in dating with a focus on modes of communication like texting. They also dive into topics like the needs we have as humans whether they be physical, mental, or emotional and how these relate to intimacy in a relationship.

]]> Emily and Greg Schutte revisit the topic of intimacy in dating with a focus on modes of communication like texting. They also dive into topics like the needs we have as humans whether they be physical, mental, or emotional and how these relate to intimacy in a relationship.

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:16:40 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 2756 Emily and Greg Schutte revisit the topic of intimacy in dating with a focus on modes of communication like texting. They also dive into topics like the needs we have as humans whether they be physical, mental, or emotional and how these relate to intimacy in a relationship.

]]> No 8 8 Intimacy in Dating full f0622c88-61ed-4f36-8e13-e95a46e3dea9 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/intimacy-in-dating Emily and Greg discuss the topic of intimacy prior to marriage and what that might look like. They also explore how certain modes of communication might enhance or inhibit that connection. 

]]> Emily and Greg discuss the topic of intimacy prior to marriage and what that might look like. They also explore how certain modes of communication might enhance or inhibit that connection. 

]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:13:14 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1269 Emily and Greg discuss the topic of intimacy prior to marriage and what that might look like. They also explore how certain modes of communication might enhance or inhibit that connection. 

]]> No 7 7 How I Met Your Mother (Dayton Edition) Part 3 full 67c269c7-b35d-42b6-b507-ebe0d29453c4 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/how-i-met-your-mother-dayton-edition-part-3 Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's Mother, to the show. Join them in the last of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's Mother, to the show. Join them in the last of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> Sat, 26 Jul 2025 09:48:03 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1457 Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's Mother, to the show. Join them in the last of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> No 6 6 How I Met Your Mother (Dayton Edition) Part 2 full 96b6b6da-5510-428c-af5b-0e74644edc55 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/how-i-met-your-mother-dayton-edition-part-2 Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's Mother, to the show. Join them in the second of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's Mother, to the show. Join them in the second of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> Sat, 26 Jul 2025 09:45:02 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1420 Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's Mother, to the show. Join them in the second of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> No 5 5 How I Met Your Mother (Dayton Edition) Part 1 full 63b88895-750b-4767-b450-3020de94598d https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/how-i-met-your-mother-dayton-edition-part-1 Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's mother, to the show. Join them in the first of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's mother, to the show. Join them in the first of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> Sat, 26 Jul 2025 09:39:46 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1331 Emily and Greg welcome Stephanie Schutte, Greg's wife and Emily's mother, to the show. Join them in the first of a three-part series in which Stephanie and Greg share their relationship from dating to marriage to starting a family. 

]]> No 4 4 Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) and Long-Distance Part 2 full 7c8cbae8-6ef6-4e8e-8bf6-200a5975bfd5 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/relationship-attachment-model-ram-and-long-distance-part-2 In this episode, Emily and Greg finish discussing John Van Epp's RAM board and use it as a reference in their conversation about long distance relationships. They ask the question, "Can long distance relationships be successful?" 

]]> In this episode, Emily and Greg finish discussing John Van Epp's RAM board and use it as a reference in their conversation about long distance relationships. They ask the question, "Can long distance relationships be successful?" 

]]> Sat, 26 Jul 2025 09:34:49 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1314 In this episode, Emily and Greg finish discussing John Van Epp's RAM board and use it as a reference in their conversation about long distance relationships. They ask the question, "Can long distance relationships be successful?" 

]]> No 3 3 Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) and Long-Distance Part 1 full d08c312c-367d-4afc-b777-df6486bfecd2 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/relationship-attachment-model-ram-and-long-distance-part-1 In this episode, Emily Schutte and Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte discuss John Van Epp's RAM board or the Relationship Attachment Model as a means of explaining how to pace a healthy relationship. 

]]> In this episode, Emily Schutte and Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte discuss John Van Epp's RAM board or the Relationship Attachment Model as a means of explaining how to pace a healthy relationship. 

]]> Sat, 26 Jul 2025 09:30:03 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1444 In this episode, Emily Schutte and Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte discuss John Van Epp's RAM board or the Relationship Attachment Model as a means of explaining how to pace a healthy relationship. 

]]> No 2 2 To DTR or Not to DTR full 99f562d4-d3b9-432c-9c9c-0d14e49f21cb https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/to-dtr-or-not-to-dtr In this episode, Emily and Greg discuss how many dates before you ought to define the relationship as well as whether women should initiate or not. 

]]> In this episode, Emily and Greg discuss how many dates before you ought to define the relationship as well as whether women should initiate or not. 

]]> Sat, 26 Jul 2025 09:11:25 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1373 In this episode, Emily and Greg discuss how many dates before you ought to define the relationship as well as whether women should initiate or not. 

]]> #relationship, #dating, #DTR No 1 1 Relationship Red Flags full b0085ed9-328c-4d95-9010-6b2da86a86b0 https://whereforeartthouromeo.transistor.fm/episodes/relationship-red-flags In this episode, hosts Emily Schutte and Licensed Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte, discuss some of the red flags to look for when starting a relationship. 

]]> In this episode, hosts Emily Schutte and Licensed Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte, discuss some of the red flags to look for when starting a relationship. 

]]> Wed, 14 May 2025 13:40:53 -0400 Emily Schutte Emily Schutte 1253 In this episode, hosts Emily Schutte and Licensed Marriage Therapist, Greg Schutte, discuss some of the red flags to look for when starting a relationship. 

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