So in this one I wanted to clear up why I work the way I do. And it goes back to the army. I got promoted quickly, and I used to hear sergeants say "this soldier's terrible". I'd ask them, have you actually coached him? Have you shown him how to do it properly? And the answer was nearly always no.

You're probably doing the same thing at home, in your business and with yourself. That's why I start where I start, with the hierarchy of needs, and it always starts with you.

What's in this one

• What 12 years in the army taught me about getting people past the ceiling everyone thinks they have
• Why frustrated business owners are usually the ones who haven't trained their staff, and how the same thing shows up in your health
• The hierarchy of needs from the bottom up, and why it's never static, it slides week to week with your life, your business and your hormones
• Where did you lose the last battle? What got in the way the last time you hit the brick wall?
• The now. The one nobody does properly, and why it usually ends up emotional when we crack it
• "I used to play hockey." "I used to be a prop." Why the old story keeps you stuck
• Your support network, and why the people who love you might be keeping you comfortable instead of moving you forward
• Plugging exercise into your life so it supports how you turn up as a leader, a parent and for your clients, without making your whole life about fitness

The line I'd leave you with

That's the story you tell your mates down the pub. What I want to know is where you're at right now.

Your homework

If this one hit home, drop me a DM on Instagram. Reach out and raise your hand, because I know I can help you where you're at right now.

Come and tell me

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Week six, you're out.

And then you decide it means something about you. That you're the sort of person who doesn't finish things. You've started six or seven of these now and every one has gone the same way.

It's not bad luck and it's not the wrong time. It's a loop, and you keep starting at the same point solving the same wrong problem.

What's in this one

• The loop, mapped out: start, progress, sacrifice, boredom, the pit, restart
• Why the killer isn't the pit, it's the sacrifice stage
• The night I cut my steak in half and asked the chef to cook it with no butter, and what I missed while everybody around me was laughing
• Why I stayed in a version of that far longer than I should have
• Why "sustainable programme" means nothing when it still starts at 10,000 steps and a calorie number
• The Hierarchy of Needs, and the questions nobody asks you before handing you a plan
• Why the weight loss might be slower, and why weight loss was never actually what you wanted
• The known pain of staying where you are, and why it wins so often

The line I'd leave you with

Never sacrifice something you love to make it work.

Your homework

Work out which part of the loop you're actually in right now. Starting. Progressing. Sacrificing. Bored. In the pit. About to restart.

Then fix one simple thing first. One problem at a time. Not the weight, not the whole life, one thing.

And if you're near the top of the loop, starting or making progress, message me before you get to week six. I'd rather give you a quick overview now than pick you up out of the pit in a month.

Everybody accepts that building a business is hard, and that saving money is hard. Then we all decide looking after ourselves is easy, and yet almost nobody does it.

Come and tell me

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You're eating well. Training four or five times a week. Doing everything you were told to do. Two months in, nothing has shifted, you're wrecked, and you've started assuming you're the problem. Broken metabolism. Bad genetics. No discipline.

It's none of those. And this is the most common message I get, word for word, usually from somebody already doing more than most people ever will.

What's in this one

• Why being told to eat less and train more is the wrong advice for where you actually are
• Your body doesn't read your food diary. It reads how safe it is.
• Self preservation, and why your body adapts to being underfed and under-recovered
• The overdraft. How you keep borrowing and topping up and never getting back to zero.
• Why 40 years of load doesn't reverse in 10 or 12 weeks, no matter what you took out of your coffee
• What it costs when food and coffee stop being a joy in your life
• Where I'd start instead, and it isn't a plan
• The one to ten rule for events and alcohol

The line I'd leave you with

Your body doesn't read your food diary. It doesn't know what day of the week it is. It cares whether you're fuelling it and recovering.

Your homework

Three things, in order, and none of them are an app.

Sleep first. No structure, no band, no alarm if you can help it. Bed when you're tired, roughly the same time within 30 to 45 minutes, and a wake up time within the same window. Caveman style. Do that first and watch your energy, your presence and how you handle stress change.

Then, if you've been training loads, pull one or two days out and use them for recovery. Walk on the treadmill, spin the bike, stay in the environment if you like the buzz of it. You're reducing one stress and adding recovery at the same time.

Then score your drinks. Is it a one event or a ten event? Your best friend's wedding is a ten. Your second cousin's evening do is a one, so you drive, you have a Coke Zero and you're out the door. And why do you need wine on a Tuesday? Sack it.

Give it two to three weeks, track the data, and message me with what changed.

Come and tell me

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That line sends me into the stratosphere. It's lazy, and it's almost always said by somebody with no staff, no kids and nobody depending on them.

I know, because I used to be that coach. I genuinely could not work out why people wouldn't just eat chicken and rice. "But Gordy, I've got a family." Well, they can eat something else. Put a sauce on theirs.

Looking back at how I used to coach, I'd hold my hands up and say I probably caused more problems than I solved.

What's in this one

• Why the same 24 hours line is lazy, and who it's usually coming from
• The bold admission about how I used to coach and what it cost people
• Why I've never once met a high performer who genuinely had no time anywhere in their day
• The values exercise I run with every client, and the light bulb moment when we x-ray where their time actually goes
• Where my own gaps were hiding when I was doing 10 and 12 hour days on the gym floor
• What has to give when you're in a service business and your time keeps going to everybody else
• Busy as a hiding place, and why the more capable you are the better you are at hiding
• Why you're telling me you value something you're spending no time on

The line I'd leave you with

You don't have a time problem. You have an order problem.

Your homework

Look at your week ahead. Find the gaps going on people who don't deserve them and things that add nothing. The WhatsApp groups. The scrolling.

Then protect one hour. No matter what's planned. Put it in the diary, tell your PA, tell your family, and tell them it's none of their business what you're doing in it.

Sit in the dark, go to the gym, go for a swim, go and see somebody you've been meaning to see for years. It doesn't matter. You've built a boundary and you've given yourself some freedom.

And ask yourself this one honestly. When was the last time you did something purely because you wanted to?

Come and tell me

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Everyone opens with me the same way. "Gordy, I just need a plan."

You've had the plans. Twelve weeks, the apps, the trackers, the check-ins. They work for a while and then they stop. So here's the question nobody asks... if the plan works, why does it keep stopping?

What's in this one

• Why two people carrying the identical load end up in completely different places
• The 12 years in the army, making sergeant at 25, and what happened when I walked out the gate
• Why I was in the best shape of my life at the exact point my life was falling apart
• The heroic method, and why it always collapses in the same place
• Why calories, steps and reps are the wrong starting point, and what to work through instead
• The 30 second nutrition lesson that proves you were never short of information
• Why you are not the 25 year old on Instagram, and why you do not actually want to be
• What a real quick win looks like in the first 14 days

The line I'd leave you with

You do not have a nutrition problem. You have a diary problem.

Your homework

It is not tracking your food.

Write down the one thing you have been avoiding that you know you should have done already. The one that came straight into your head the second you read that sentence.

Then message me and tell me what you are going to do about it.

You are not lazy. You are not different from everybody else. You have just been solving the wrong problem.

Come and tell me

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We cover:

• Why women often have a tighter “margin for error” (smaller daily calorie budget)
• How dieting creates adaptation (you burn less / move less without realising) and why plateaus are normal
• Why cycle, sleep and stress can amplify hunger and cravings — and how to plan around it
• Why “perfect diets” and most food intolerance testing is a distraction for most people
• The CAPACITY solution: a repeatable baseline, tracking without drama, and simple weekly levers that hold up in real life

In this episode, I break down the dopamine trap — a silent loop that keeps high performers stuck, flat, and constantly distracted without realising why.

We talk about:

• What dopamine actually is (and why it’s not pleasure)
• How modern life floods your brain with cheap stimulation
• Why anticipation feels better than achievement
• How scrolling, snacking, distraction, and avoidance quietly kill motivation
• Why driven, intelligent people are most at risk
• The real cost of staying stuck in this loop
• And how to start pulling yourself out without extreme rules, monk mode, or deleting your life

This isn’t about perfection, punishment, or doing more.
 It’s about structure over stimulation — and reconnecting dopamine to effort, values, and real progress.

If you’ve ever said:
 “I know what to do, I just don’t do it”
 “I feel flat”
 “I’m tired all the time”
 “I can’t focus like I used to”

This episode will hit home.

In this episode, I break down why setting short-term, superficial goals (lose weight, get fitter, push for 12 weeks) keeps you stuck in the same loop year after year. You hit the goal… then what? No fireworks. No fulfilment. Life creeps back in, motivation fades, and you’re right back at the start resetting the same goal again.

I explain the “half-circle loop” most people live in — pushing hard, hitting a wall, restarting — and why it happens when goals aren’t aligned with values, identity, and real-world pressures.

We talk about:

• Why discipline without alignment always runs out
• How sleep, food, training, and habits must support life outcomes (not aesthetics)
• Why long-term success feels boring in the moment — but incredible in hindsight
• How to stop repeating the same January reset every year

If your goals don’t support the life you actually want, you won’t sustain them.
 This episode will force you to think deeper, plan smarter, and finally move forward in 2026.

In this episode I talk about frustration as a double-edged sword – or as I call it, the “Christmas hand grenade”. The same frustration that makes you annoyed you’re not training or eating well can either:

• Push you to protect what matters
• Or give you an excuse to down tools, drift, and write December off

We get into:

• Why December time isn’t “lost” – it’s just redistributed
• How to use extra movement and steps to protect digestion, energy and mood
• Why wasting Christmas so much you can’t eat your Christmas dinner should be illegal
• Old Christmas vs New Christmas: what you don’t want to repeat next year
• Why 2026 isn’t magic and what actually needs to change for it to be different

If you’re tired of promising yourself “New Year, new me” while spending December in fantasy land, this one’s your wake-up call – and your plan.

Gordy explains why most busy, UK-based adults are likely running low on key nutrients like vitamin D, magnesium and calcium, and how that links to tiredness, poor sleep, brain fog and faster ageing.

He talks about “optimal” blood ranges versus what your GP might call “fine”, and why how you actually feel day to day still matters. Drawing on big studies (COSMOS and JAMA), he frames multivitamins not as magic pills or life-extenders, but as cheap “nutritional insurance” that quietly cover gaps when life is chaotic, food quality dips, and you’re juggling work, kids and stress.

He finishes with practical guardrails: do your own research, check with your GP if you’re on meds/pregnant or have health issues, don’t just buy whatever an influencer peddles, and if you use them, choose a decent-quality product that fits your context rather than a one-size-fits-all solution.

We talk about what it really means to move from the majority into the minority – the small group who eat differently, order differently, dress differently, and carry themselves with more confidence. I explain why friends, family and partners can (often unintentionally) sabotage your progress, how to set boundaries without being an arse, and why proper coaching isn’t just “drink more water and check in next week”. I’ll show you how to hold your line, get support, and stay in the minority long enough for your new identity to actually stick – so you don’t keep boomeranging back to your old self.

In this episode I break down why you must look back if you actually want to move forward.
Not to beat yourself up. Not to stroke your ego.
But to see the evidence.

We get into:

• The two traps: living on a pedestal vs living in the pit
• How shiny-object advice pulls you away from your own values
• Why you keep outsourcing your decisions to coaches, podcasts, friends and “experts”
• How to review your last year of business, training or life without lying to yourself
• The Hyrox example: how I blew my first race, owned it, and then took 13 minutes off my time
• The simple “pick 2 problems and actually fix them” exercise for the next 8–10 weeks

If you feel like you’re spinning in circles, chasing other people’s goals, or stuck in mum-guilt / burnout mode, this one is for you.

You’ll walk away with a clearer idea of:

• What got you here
• What’s genuinely in your way
• And what two actions you need to commit to next

No fluff. Just you, your evidence, and a plan.

In this episode, I break down:

• Why you keep loading your life with the “easy ingredients” (steps, walks, random runs, ‘healthy’ foods you like) and avoiding the stuff that actually drives results.
• How comfort choices in food, training, and routine create the illusion of progress while your outcome never changes.
• The trap of chasing pleasure without accepting any discomfort, and how that mindset bleeds into your health, work, and relationships.
• Why your version of the “perfect plan” keeps failing, and how to finally define the outcome you actually want instead of copying someone else’s.
• A simple way to audit your current mix of habits, bin the useless ones, and rebuild a plan that matches your real values and real life.

If you’ve “started again” more times than you can count, this one will make you uncomfortable in the right way.

What you’ll hear

• The algorithm shows you what you signal you want. Your clicks, watch time, and searches train it.
• Aspire, but respect capacity. Follow people one level ahead, not ten.
• Stop feeding outrage. Curate for health, learning, and action.
• How to run a 10-minute audit that changes what you see tomorrow morning.
• Simple rules that reduce doom scrolling and increase follow-through.

Tactics you can apply today

• Unfollow, mute, or “Not interested” on anything that drags mood or adds no value.
• Follow accounts aligned to your current goal: sleep, steps, protein, strength, mindset.
• Use in-app tools: time limits, keyword filters, “See fewer like this,” “Favorites.”
• Start sessions with a search that serves your goal to re-seed the feed.
• Review monthly. If it doesn’t help, it goes.

Key questions

• What exactly are you training your feed to deliver?
• Are you chasing a fantasy that ignores your real capacity right now?
• Who is one step ahead of you that you can learn from this week?

• What’s really happening when energy tanks: estrogen shifts, dopamine drain from screens, poor sleep, and a widening gap between what you say you value and what you actually do.
• Why the problem isn’t fasting or calories—it’s your attitude toward yourself and your inputs.
• Gut–brain reality: “cheat weekends” wreck digestion, mood, and momentum. Swap “cheat meals” for refeeds—nutrient-dense, bigger portions, no binge.
• Acceptance as a lever: get honest about where you are so action becomes possible.

Quick wins to start today:

• Cut screen time by 25% and use that block for walks, planning, or lights-out.
• Pre-log tomorrow’s food (Fridge Method).
• Set 3 non-negotiables: sleep window, steps, protein at each meal.
• Weekly values check: does your calendar match what you say you want?

Ask yourself: What am I avoiding? What evidence did I produce today for the life I say I value?

I show you how to involve your partner/kids so everyone has input, why this stops food waste, and how it builds the consistency your results depend on. Expect practical examples, safety-first training reminders for this phase, and a weekly cadence—new episode every Tuesday. 

Try it tonight, tag me with your most creative (even weird!) combos, and let’s turn “what’s for dinner?” into a non-issue.

 We cover the SHIFT loop (assess → adapt → apply → review), negative feedback as a safety signal, and how to replace fantasy goals with evidence-based action. You’ll leave with a simple drill to rebuild belief and momentum this week.

What you’ll learn:

• Why retreating from hard things often makes it worse.
• How to extract principles from your toughest moments and reuse them.
• How the SHIFT loop forces honesty and protects progress.
• A 10-minute exercise to turn past resilience into a current plan.

I cover serotonin, dopamine, gut health, and why your “80/20” approach might be the very thing holding you back.

You’ll learn how to manage emotional crashes, build fulfilment over happiness, and accept change instead of fighting it.
If you’re tired of starting over, feeling off, or losing control of your own body, this one’s for you.

Every decision you make costs mental energy.
 When your day has structure, you save that energy for what actually matters.

Task:
Write down everything you do in a normal week.
Include work, food prep, travel, gym, kids, social time, phone time — everything.
Now estimate how long each one takes.

That’s your capacity map.

Once you see where your time is really going, you can start to build better habits instead of winging it.

What you’ll learn:

• How external noise hijacks your focus and ruins consistency
• The telltale signs you’re reacting, not leading (mood-led food, skipped training, decision fatigue)
• A simple “control stack”: values → priorities → actions → review
• How to build non-negotiables that survive busy seasons

Quick actions:

• Set two no-scroll windows daily (AM/PM).
• Plan tomorrow’s meals and training before bed.
• Pick three controllables for the day: move, meals, mindset.
• Review at night: what helped, what hurt, what’s next.

Questions to sit with:

• Where are you letting the outside run your day?
• What one boundary will you set today to protect your focus?

I break down:

• Why clinging to “what worked before” keeps you stuck.
• The difference between fantasy goals on consultation forms and the reality of your life now.
• How self-awareness and daily self-assessment will do more for your progress than any cookie-cutter nutrition or training plan.
• Why setbacks, missed sessions, and imperfect weeks are not failure—they’re part of the process.
• How comparison (to your past self or to others) destroys your confidence and progress.

You’ll walk away with a simple but hard truth: progress only happens when you start from where you are right now, not from where you wish you were.

• Why you need to redefine consistency
• How to train and eat smart around real events
• Why waiting for the “perfect window” to start is a trap
• What it actually looks like to make long-term change stick
• And how I personally navigated a heavy social weekend with Guinness, rich food, and zero guilt

If you’ve ever told yourself “I’ll start when things settle down”…
 Hit play.
 This is your wake-up call.

We talk:

• Why you’re overwhelmed (and it’s not just work)
• How to spot the fake progress you think you’re making
• The "pro vs con" method I use with clients to make real decisions
• How misplaced priorities quietly destroy your energy, fat loss, and confidence
• And why mindset isn’t about doing more — it’s about clearing what doesn’t matter

If you’re tired of motivational clichés and want a way to actually move forward — this one’s for you.

 hey chase what looks good on paper, not what actually matters to them.

And that’s exactly why they keep falling off.

In this episode — recorded raw and unfiltered from the road — I break down the first layer of my SHIFT hierarchy of needs: You.
This isn’t another motivational chat. It’s a full-on challenge to stop bullshitting yourself about what you value... and start living by it.

I’ll walk you through:

• Why your top 3 values are running your entire life (even if you don’t realise it)
• How to spot the difference between your real values and the ones you think you “should” have
• The one reason your goals fall apart when life gets messy
• A simple, ruthless task that’ll show you what’s actually driving you (and what’s holding you back)

This episode isn’t for box-tickers.
 It’s for people ready to get unstuck — properly.

Listen while you’re walking, driving, or sitting alone. But whatever you do, don’t just ‘tick it off.’
Take notes. Take action.
Then get ready for the next layer: the stuff that’s really been holding you back.

Want help mapping your values?
DM me "Values" on Instagram — @onlinegordy
or drop me an email: info@onlinegordy.com

No fluff. No filters. No recycled Instagram advice.

This podcast is for those stuck in cycles of quick fixes, confusion, and surface-level BS. Gordy brings real-world lessons, hard-won insights, and raw conversations about what actually works.

Fat loss. Mindset. Identity. And the uncomfortable truths behind real transformation.

Whether you're a busy parent, a burnt out professional, or someone who’s tried everything and still feels lost this is for you.

It’s time to stop racing to nowhere.
It’s time to build something that lasts.