In this episode of Vision and Vows, Kayla and Angel share their story of marriage, the challenges of running a business together, and the lessons they've learned about communication, resilience, and stepping into the hard things. Whether you're dating, married, or building a business with your partner, their insights provide encouragement and practical advice for navigating life's biggest transitions.

Key topics

• The importance of knowing your partner deeply by working side by side
• Identifying and developing the fruits of the Spirit in marriage
• Challenging the American dream and pursuing alternative paths
• How starting an Airbnb was a turning point for their financial freedom
• The significance of communication and understanding each other's styles
• Embracing discomfort as part of growth and faith
• Overcoming analysis paralysis with action and faith
• The power of doing hard things and stepping out in obedience
• Practical steps for taking the first step toward your dreams despite fear

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction: Marriage, business, faith, and fun
 00:24 - How working together reveals personality quirks and character
 01:20 - Disillusionment with the American dream and pursuing financial freedom
 02:15 - The turning point: Getting tired of the rat race and exploring Airbnb
 03:22 - The journey of starting the Airbnb with nothing fancy and booking fast
 04:53 - Facing the pressure of business and the importance of communication
 05:29 - Learning each other's communication styles and the practice of understanding
 06:44 - The challenge of working next to each other and building trust
 07:14 - Reflecting on four years of business and the breakthrough with Airbnb
 08:44 - How COVID pushed them into real estate and Airbnb opportunities
 09:47 - The role of family and influence from parents in their journey
 10:17 - The importance of researching, learning from others, and taking action
 11:23 - Overcoming fear through faith and the mindset of doing hard things
 12:19 - The significance of getting tired of being tired and choosing new paths
 13:10 - The moment Airbnb took off and the power of making quick decisions
 14:02 - The philosophy of "do it afraid" and the value of stepping out in faith
 15:46 - The importance of trying, failing, and learning through risks
 16:15 - Embracing discomfort and trusting God's process in growth
 17:39 - The example of Abraham's obedience and the role of faith in life changes
 18:39 - Recognizing the importance of supporting each other and communicating effectively
 19:43 - The encouragement to take that hard step and trust God’s guidance
 20:13 - The definition of doing hard things and stepping into God's calling
 21:43 - A prayer for courage, obedience, and trusting God's plan
 22:10 - God’s presence in every step and the power of boldness
 23:04 - Closing prayer and blessing for those making difficult life decisions

Resources & Links:

• Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
• Joyce Meyer - Do It Afraid
• YouTube University for Airbnb tips and tutorials

Connect with Angel and Kayla:

• Kayla on LinkedIn
• Angel on Twitter

Welcome to the very first episode of Vision & Vows. Angel and Kayla Mendoza pull up two chairs and share the story behind the show: the dark season where Kayla felt God nudge her to start a podcast, and the Amazon cart full of gear that showed up at the door before she could talk herself out of it.

From there they walk through the early years: newlywed life, youth ministry, a cleaning business, and the dream house that came with a mortgage statement so lopsided it sparked the line that opens the episode, "the American dream is such a scam." They share the fight over the for-sale sign, the book that changed Angel's mindset, the move into their first duplex, and the string of failed side hustles that taught them you only lose when you stop learning.

Along the way, Angel introduces the Five F's, a simple way to write a vision for your faith, family, fitness, finances, and fun, inspired by Habakkuk 2 and the call to write the vision down and make it plain. The episode closes with a prayer for anyone who has stopped dreaming.

If you are ready to dream again, this one is for you. Welcome to the table.

Chapters

00:00 Cold open: "The American dream is such a scam"
00:36 Welcome to Vision & Vows
02:23 A dark season and a nudge to start a podcast
05:13 Motherhood, identity, and being more than one thing
08:15 Write the vision down (Habakkuk)
09:56 The Five F's: faith, family, fitness, finances, fun
14:52 Our story: 14 years and a cleaning business
17:00 Newlyweds, youth ministry, and the first house
20:26 Paycheck to paycheck
26:01 The mortgage statement that changed everything
29:43 The for-sale sign fight
31:48 Rich Dad Poor Dad and the first duplex
34:50 Failed side hustles and what they taught us
38:44 Dream bigger than your resources
43:15 There is so much more in you
45:39 A prayer for the dreamer
47:46 What's coming in episode 2

Quotes from this episode

"There's just so much more in your marriage, in your family, in you." (43:15)

"If you can do it by yourself, then you don't need God." (39:05)

"Success leaves clues." (32:29)

Resources mentioned

Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000FCK7PK
Habakkuk 2 (write the vision): https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Habakkuk%202&version=NIV

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