Under One Roof Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/under-one-roof A podcast about culture and discipleship in the christian home. © 2025 Andrey and Liya Bulanov 4318c81d-c50e-5808-a59e-88b5e5d4203f no en Thu, 20 Nov 2025 16:37:13 -0800 Tue, 02 Dec 2025 16:32:49 -0800 https://img.transistor.fm/Hk-Dtz5ymUJEiKA3K8TVsd92uusCGldLLNvmZongBgI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9kMzcw/OTcyZmI4MjRkZDRj/OTcwOWMzMGRlMDQy/OTNhNi5qcGc.jpg Under One Roof episodic Andrey and Liya Bulanov A podcast about culture and discipleship in the christian home. A podcast about culture and discipleship in the christian home. family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith Andrey Bulanov No No How to Have Better Conversations | Ep. 14 14 14 How to Have Better Conversations | Ep. 14 full 52b2375a-dadd-4106-ab0b-b0e9b79cd3bd https://share.transistor.fm/s/ccbcf624 Summary

In this episode of Under One Roof, we dive deep into one of the most practical skills for everyday life: how to navigate conversations well. Whether in marriage, friendships, church community, or even business, the ability to have meaningful conversations is essential for relational depth.

We explore why conversations matter, the posture of connection, the heart habits that help relationships grow, and several conversation killers we all need to avoid. You’ll learn practical principles for being present, asking better questions, drawing out people’s values, sensing social cues, and cultivating a Christlike posture of love that transforms the way we communicate.

If you've ever thought, “I don’t know what to say,” this episode will equip you with clear tools to build stronger, richer, more connected relationships.

Keywords:

Christian relationships
How to have better conversations
Christian communication
Conversation skills
Healthy relationships
Communication in marriage
Christian discipleship
Building deeper friendships
How to connect with people
Relational wisdom
Christian podcast
Under One Roof Podcast
Social skills for Christians

Chapters

00:00 – Welcome + Why Conversations Matter
02:10 – Why We Often Say “I Don’t Know What to Say”
05:30 – Conversations as the Glue of Relationships
10:18 – Why Quality Conversation Deepens Connection
14:40 – The Posture of Connection: Being Present & Interested
20:15 – Talking vs. Connecting: How to Tell the Difference
25:00 – Learning to Sense People & Read Social Cues
31:22 – Becoming a Person Who Values Others’ Stories
36:10 – Asking Better Questions (and the questions to avoid)
40:45 – Conversation Killers: Oversharing, One-Upping, Self-Centeredness
47:55 – Not Overwhelming Introverts & Knowing Your Role in Others’ Lives
52:40 – Openness, Trust & The Ingredients of Relational Growth
57:10 – How to Be Someone People Love Talking To
1:02:00 – Final Thoughts & Practical Takeaways

Hashtags 

#ChristianPodcast #ChristianRelationships #CommunicationSkills
#HowToConnect #HealthyRelationships #ChristianLiving
#Discipleship #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipAdvice
#SocialSkills #ChristianCommunity #UnderOneRoofPodcast
#FaithAndLife #GospelLiving #ChristCenteredLife

]]> Summary

In this episode of Under One Roof, we dive deep into one of the most practical skills for everyday life: how to navigate conversations well. Whether in marriage, friendships, church community, or even business, the ability to have meaningful conversations is essential for relational depth.

We explore why conversations matter, the posture of connection, the heart habits that help relationships grow, and several conversation killers we all need to avoid. You’ll learn practical principles for being present, asking better questions, drawing out people’s values, sensing social cues, and cultivating a Christlike posture of love that transforms the way we communicate.

If you've ever thought, “I don’t know what to say,” this episode will equip you with clear tools to build stronger, richer, more connected relationships.

Keywords:

Christian relationships
How to have better conversations
Christian communication
Conversation skills
Healthy relationships
Communication in marriage
Christian discipleship
Building deeper friendships
How to connect with people
Relational wisdom
Christian podcast
Under One Roof Podcast
Social skills for Christians

Chapters

00:00 – Welcome + Why Conversations Matter
02:10 – Why We Often Say “I Don’t Know What to Say”
05:30 – Conversations as the Glue of Relationships
10:18 – Why Quality Conversation Deepens Connection
14:40 – The Posture of Connection: Being Present & Interested
20:15 – Talking vs. Connecting: How to Tell the Difference
25:00 – Learning to Sense People & Read Social Cues
31:22 – Becoming a Person Who Values Others’ Stories
36:10 – Asking Better Questions (and the questions to avoid)
40:45 – Conversation Killers: Oversharing, One-Upping, Self-Centeredness
47:55 – Not Overwhelming Introverts & Knowing Your Role in Others’ Lives
52:40 – Openness, Trust & The Ingredients of Relational Growth
57:10 – How to Be Someone People Love Talking To
1:02:00 – Final Thoughts & Practical Takeaways

Hashtags 

#ChristianPodcast #ChristianRelationships #CommunicationSkills
#HowToConnect #HealthyRelationships #ChristianLiving
#Discipleship #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipAdvice
#SocialSkills #ChristianCommunity #UnderOneRoofPodcast
#FaithAndLife #GospelLiving #ChristCenteredLife

]]> Thu, 20 Nov 2025 16:37:13 -0800 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2562 Summary

In this episode of Under One Roof, we dive deep into one of the most practical skills for everyday life: how to navigate conversations well. Whether in marriage, friendships, church community, or even business, the ability to have meaningful conversations is essential for relational depth.

We explore why conversations matter, the posture of connection, the heart habits that help relationships grow, and several conversation killers we all need to avoid. You’ll learn practical principles for being present, asking better questions, drawing out people’s values, sensing social cues, and cultivating a Christlike posture of love that transforms the way we communicate.

If you've ever thought, “I don’t know what to say,” this episode will equip you with clear tools to build stronger, richer, more connected relationships.

Keywords:

Christian relationships
How to have better conversations
Christian communication
Conversation skills
Healthy relationships
Communication in marriage
Christian discipleship
Building deeper friendships
How to connect with people
Relational wisdom
Christian podcast
Under One Roof Podcast
Social skills for Christians

Chapters

00:00 – Welcome + Why Conversations Matter
02:10 – Why We Often Say “I Don’t Know What to Say”
05:30 – Conversations as the Glue of Relationships
10:18 – Why Quality Conversation Deepens Connection
14:40 – The Posture of Connection: Being Present & Interested
20:15 – Talking vs. Connecting: How to Tell the Difference
25:00 – Learning to Sense People & Read Social Cues
31:22 – Becoming a Person Who Values Others’ Stories
36:10 – Asking Better Questions (and the questions to avoid)
40:45 – Conversation Killers: Oversharing, One-Upping, Self-Centeredness
47:55 – Not Overwhelming Introverts & Knowing Your Role in Others’ Lives
52:40 – Openness, Trust & The Ingredients of Relational Growth
57:10 – How to Be Someone People Love Talking To
1:02:00 – Final Thoughts & Practical Takeaways

Hashtags 

#ChristianPodcast #ChristianRelationships #CommunicationSkills
#HowToConnect #HealthyRelationships #ChristianLiving
#Discipleship #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipAdvice
#SocialSkills #ChristianCommunity #UnderOneRoofPodcast
#FaithAndLife #GospelLiving #ChristCenteredLife

]]> family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No The Lies that Social Media Tells Us 17 17 The Lies that Social Media Tells Us full d359a701-0833-48de-93bb-f16f3d49d7a1 https://share.transistor.fm/s/c9a7f7cc Episode Summary

In this episode, we unpack several of the most common lies that modern social media—and the broader culture—feeds Christians today. Because we are all “creatures of culture,” ideas around boundaries, self-care, hustle culture, the “slow life,” and all-or-nothing thinking often slip into our minds without scrutiny.

Together we explore why these ideas resonate, what partial truths make them appealing, and—more importantly—how Scripture calls us to discernment, wisdom, hospitality, fruitful labor, sacrificial love, and a God-centered view of rest and identity.

This is a practical, honest conversation about learning to sift truth from error so our lives are shaped more by Christ than by the algorithm.

Key Themes & Keywords

Christian discipleship, Social media influence, Cultural discernment, Saying “no” wisely, Boundaries vs. selfishness, Self-care culture, Hustle culture & masculinity, Quiet life vs. productive life, Hospitality & fruitful labor, Biblical rest & Sabbath, Overstimulation & digital consumption, All-or-nothing thinking, Wisdom and vocation, Parenting, marriage, Christian home life, Contentment & calling

Chapters

00:00 – Intro: Why We’re Talking About Cultural Lies
Setting the stage: how culture subtly shapes our habits, expectations, and values.

03:10 – Lie #1: “Learning to Say No” / The Self-Care Obsession
The partial truth of boundaries, but the danger of self-protection, flakiness, and refusing to be inconvenienced in love.

10:45 – A Biblical Vision of Time, Calling, and Stewardship
Numbering our days, embracing God-given limits, and avoiding overload we create for ourselves.

17:20 – Hospitality, Hard Work & Fruitful Labor
Why Scripture presents a life of generosity, availability, and action—not self-preservation—as the norm for believers.

23:00 – Lie #2: The “Slow Life” Aesthetic
The Pinterest-perfect home, cottage-core mothering, and the myth of serene domesticity.

28:15 – Quiet Moments vs. Quiet Lifestyle
Why moms feel discouraged, and what real spiritual quiet looks like (prayer, Scripture, contemplation).

33:40 – Lie #3: Crunchy/Off-Grid/Organic = Godliness
How natural living can subtly become a point of pride or self-righteousness.

38:55 – Lie #4: Hustle Culture & Hyper-Masculinity
Why men today feel crushed under unrealistic expectations—and what biblical manhood really looks like.

46:30 – Faithful Ordinary Men
Redefining success: showing up, loving your family, fighting sin, and embracing your actual calling.

51:50 – Lie #5: All-or-Nothing Thinking
Oversimplifying complex issues, choosing sides, and demonizing other Christians in a polarized age.

58:00 – Disagreement, Discernment & Christian Unity
Learning to engage critically without shutting people out.

01:02:00 – Closing Encouragement
A call to wisdom: look to Christ, not culture, for identity, rest, and direction.

Hashtags

#UnderOneRoofPodcast #ChristianHome #ChristianDiscipleship #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianCulture #CounterculturalLiving #ChristianParents #FaithAndCulture #SocialMediaLies #BiblicalManhood #BiblicalWomanhood #ChristCenteredLiving #GospelLife #RestInChrist #ChristianPodcast

]]> Episode Summary

In this episode, we unpack several of the most common lies that modern social media—and the broader culture—feeds Christians today. Because we are all “creatures of culture,” ideas around boundaries, self-care, hustle culture, the “slow life,” and all-or-nothing thinking often slip into our minds without scrutiny.

Together we explore why these ideas resonate, what partial truths make them appealing, and—more importantly—how Scripture calls us to discernment, wisdom, hospitality, fruitful labor, sacrificial love, and a God-centered view of rest and identity.

This is a practical, honest conversation about learning to sift truth from error so our lives are shaped more by Christ than by the algorithm.

Key Themes & Keywords

Christian discipleship, Social media influence, Cultural discernment, Saying “no” wisely, Boundaries vs. selfishness, Self-care culture, Hustle culture & masculinity, Quiet life vs. productive life, Hospitality & fruitful labor, Biblical rest & Sabbath, Overstimulation & digital consumption, All-or-nothing thinking, Wisdom and vocation, Parenting, marriage, Christian home life, Contentment & calling

Chapters

00:00 – Intro: Why We’re Talking About Cultural Lies
Setting the stage: how culture subtly shapes our habits, expectations, and values.

03:10 – Lie #1: “Learning to Say No” / The Self-Care Obsession
The partial truth of boundaries, but the danger of self-protection, flakiness, and refusing to be inconvenienced in love.

10:45 – A Biblical Vision of Time, Calling, and Stewardship
Numbering our days, embracing God-given limits, and avoiding overload we create for ourselves.

17:20 – Hospitality, Hard Work & Fruitful Labor
Why Scripture presents a life of generosity, availability, and action—not self-preservation—as the norm for believers.

23:00 – Lie #2: The “Slow Life” Aesthetic
The Pinterest-perfect home, cottage-core mothering, and the myth of serene domesticity.

28:15 – Quiet Moments vs. Quiet Lifestyle
Why moms feel discouraged, and what real spiritual quiet looks like (prayer, Scripture, contemplation).

33:40 – Lie #3: Crunchy/Off-Grid/Organic = Godliness
How natural living can subtly become a point of pride or self-righteousness.

38:55 – Lie #4: Hustle Culture & Hyper-Masculinity
Why men today feel crushed under unrealistic expectations—and what biblical manhood really looks like.

46:30 – Faithful Ordinary Men
Redefining success: showing up, loving your family, fighting sin, and embracing your actual calling.

51:50 – Lie #5: All-or-Nothing Thinking
Oversimplifying complex issues, choosing sides, and demonizing other Christians in a polarized age.

58:00 – Disagreement, Discernment & Christian Unity
Learning to engage critically without shutting people out.

01:02:00 – Closing Encouragement
A call to wisdom: look to Christ, not culture, for identity, rest, and direction.

Hashtags

#UnderOneRoofPodcast #ChristianHome #ChristianDiscipleship #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianCulture #CounterculturalLiving #ChristianParents #FaithAndCulture #SocialMediaLies #BiblicalManhood #BiblicalWomanhood #ChristCenteredLiving #GospelLife #RestInChrist #ChristianPodcast

]]> Thu, 20 Nov 2025 16:32:06 -0800 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2451 Episode Summary

In this episode, we unpack several of the most common lies that modern social media—and the broader culture—feeds Christians today. Because we are all “creatures of culture,” ideas around boundaries, self-care, hustle culture, the “slow life,” and all-or-nothing thinking often slip into our minds without scrutiny.

Together we explore why these ideas resonate, what partial truths make them appealing, and—more importantly—how Scripture calls us to discernment, wisdom, hospitality, fruitful labor, sacrificial love, and a God-centered view of rest and identity.

This is a practical, honest conversation about learning to sift truth from error so our lives are shaped more by Christ than by the algorithm.

Key Themes & Keywords

Christian discipleship, Social media influence, Cultural discernment, Saying “no” wisely, Boundaries vs. selfishness, Self-care culture, Hustle culture & masculinity, Quiet life vs. productive life, Hospitality & fruitful labor, Biblical rest & Sabbath, Overstimulation & digital consumption, All-or-nothing thinking, Wisdom and vocation, Parenting, marriage, Christian home life, Contentment & calling

Chapters

00:00 – Intro: Why We’re Talking About Cultural Lies
Setting the stage: how culture subtly shapes our habits, expectations, and values.

03:10 – Lie #1: “Learning to Say No” / The Self-Care Obsession
The partial truth of boundaries, but the danger of self-protection, flakiness, and refusing to be inconvenienced in love.

10:45 – A Biblical Vision of Time, Calling, and Stewardship
Numbering our days, embracing God-given limits, and avoiding overload we create for ourselves.

17:20 – Hospitality, Hard Work & Fruitful Labor
Why Scripture presents a life of generosity, availability, and action—not self-preservation—as the norm for believers.

23:00 – Lie #2: The “Slow Life” Aesthetic
The Pinterest-perfect home, cottage-core mothering, and the myth of serene domesticity.

28:15 – Quiet Moments vs. Quiet Lifestyle
Why moms feel discouraged, and what real spiritual quiet looks like (prayer, Scripture, contemplation).

33:40 – Lie #3: Crunchy/Off-Grid/Organic = Godliness
How natural living can subtly become a point of pride or self-righteousness.

38:55 – Lie #4: Hustle Culture & Hyper-Masculinity
Why men today feel crushed under unrealistic expectations—and what biblical manhood really looks like.

46:30 – Faithful Ordinary Men
Redefining success: showing up, loving your family, fighting sin, and embracing your actual calling.

51:50 – Lie #5: All-or-Nothing Thinking
Oversimplifying complex issues, choosing sides, and demonizing other Christians in a polarized age.

58:00 – Disagreement, Discernment & Christian Unity
Learning to engage critically without shutting people out.

01:02:00 – Closing Encouragement
A call to wisdom: look to Christ, not culture, for identity, rest, and direction.

Hashtags

#UnderOneRoofPodcast #ChristianHome #ChristianDiscipleship #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianCulture #CounterculturalLiving #ChristianParents #FaithAndCulture #SocialMediaLies #BiblicalManhood #BiblicalWomanhood #ChristCenteredLiving #GospelLife #RestInChrist #ChristianPodcast

]]> family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Becoming Parents | Ep. 16 16 16 Becoming Parents | Ep. 16 full 08f9464e-de20-486e-b2a5-6150036e585f https://share.transistor.fm/s/a0b4c679 Wed, 12 Nov 2025 12:55:41 -0800 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2197 family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No The Power of Affection 13 13 The Power of Affection full 39645f5e-03c1-490b-8908-62e0d8fe17d0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/27646630 What is the role of affection in marriage? We are all born with a deep desire to be affirmed and loved. But the way we express affection can often be dependant on how we grew up, and the way we grew up may not always be so healthy! How do we talk about our need to grow in affection in marriage when we don't feel like its being expressed properly? 

]]> What is the role of affection in marriage? We are all born with a deep desire to be affirmed and loved. But the way we express affection can often be dependant on how we grew up, and the way we grew up may not always be so healthy! How do we talk about our need to grow in affection in marriage when we don't feel like its being expressed properly? 

]]> Wed, 02 Jul 2025 12:59:22 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2340 What is the role of affection in marriage? We are all born with a deep desire to be affirmed and loved. But the way we express affection can often be dependant on how we grew up, and the way we grew up may not always be so healthy! How do we talk about our need to grow in affection in marriage when we don't feel like its being expressed properly? 

]]> family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Identifying Envy 12 12 Identifying Envy full 8959c296-a03b-4e84-a520-6f9ab03e4231 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f4c4306 Envy can quietly poison your joy, relationships, and spiritual growth — and often, we don’t even realize it’s there. In this powerful episode, we unpack what the Bible really says about envy, why it’s so spiritually dangerous, and how it impacts your emotional and social life. More importantly, we give you practical, biblical steps to recognize envy when it creeps in — and how to fight back with truth, contentment, and faith. If you’ve ever felt comparison, jealousy, or frustration over someone else's success, this conversation is for you.


#FaithPodcast #ChristianLiving #BibleTruth #SpiritualGrowth #OvercomingEnvy #MentalHealthAndFaith #ChristianLife #BiblicalWisdom #JesusCentered #ChristianPodcast #FaithJourney #ToxicEmotions #HeartCheck #ComparisonTrap #EnvyKillsJoy #ChristianEncouragement #KingdomMindset

Support the show! - https://www.patreon.com/c/underoneroofpod
Follow on IG! - https://www.instagram.com/underoneroof.podcast/

]]> Envy can quietly poison your joy, relationships, and spiritual growth — and often, we don’t even realize it’s there. In this powerful episode, we unpack what the Bible really says about envy, why it’s so spiritually dangerous, and how it impacts your emotional and social life. More importantly, we give you practical, biblical steps to recognize envy when it creeps in — and how to fight back with truth, contentment, and faith. If you’ve ever felt comparison, jealousy, or frustration over someone else's success, this conversation is for you.


#FaithPodcast #ChristianLiving #BibleTruth #SpiritualGrowth #OvercomingEnvy #MentalHealthAndFaith #ChristianLife #BiblicalWisdom #JesusCentered #ChristianPodcast #FaithJourney #ToxicEmotions #HeartCheck #ComparisonTrap #EnvyKillsJoy #ChristianEncouragement #KingdomMindset

Support the show! - https://www.patreon.com/c/underoneroofpod
Follow on IG! - https://www.instagram.com/underoneroof.podcast/

]]> Tue, 17 Jun 2025 12:40:50 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2656 Envy can quietly poison your joy, relationships, and spiritual growth — and often, we don’t even realize it’s there. In this powerful episode, we unpack what the Bible really says about envy, why it’s so spiritually dangerous, and how it impacts your emotional and social life. More importantly, we give you practical, biblical steps to recognize envy when it creeps in — and how to fight back with truth, contentment, and faith. If you’ve ever felt comparison, jealousy, or frustration over someone else's success, this conversation is for you.


#FaithPodcast #ChristianLiving #BibleTruth #SpiritualGrowth #OvercomingEnvy #MentalHealthAndFaith #ChristianLife #BiblicalWisdom #JesusCentered #ChristianPodcast #FaithJourney #ToxicEmotions #HeartCheck #ComparisonTrap #EnvyKillsJoy #ChristianEncouragement #KingdomMindset

Support the show! - https://www.patreon.com/c/underoneroofpod
Follow on IG! - https://www.instagram.com/underoneroof.podcast/

]]> family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Dealing with Tantrums 11 11 Dealing with Tantrums full 7487a8d6-899c-43bc-ba78-67ece94a1972 https://share.transistor.fm/s/cb7d1143 How do we deal with the toddler that goes bezerk?? Its amazing to see what a three year old can do to a full grown man. In this episdoe we talk about practical tools for handling toddler tantrums with patience, grace, and biblical wisdom. A Christian perspective on parenting through meltdowns, emotional outbursts, and everyday challenges with toddlers.
#ChristianParenting #ToddlerTantrums #BiblicalParenting #FaithBasedParenting #ChristianMoms #ParentingPodcast #GodlyParenting

]]> How do we deal with the toddler that goes bezerk?? Its amazing to see what a three year old can do to a full grown man. In this episdoe we talk about practical tools for handling toddler tantrums with patience, grace, and biblical wisdom. A Christian perspective on parenting through meltdowns, emotional outbursts, and everyday challenges with toddlers.
#ChristianParenting #ToddlerTantrums #BiblicalParenting #FaithBasedParenting #ChristianMoms #ParentingPodcast #GodlyParenting

]]> Wed, 11 Jun 2025 20:32:58 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2233 How do we deal with the toddler that goes bezerk?? Its amazing to see what a three year old can do to a full grown man. In this episdoe we talk about practical tools for handling toddler tantrums with patience, grace, and biblical wisdom. A Christian perspective on parenting through meltdowns, emotional outbursts, and everyday challenges with toddlers.
#ChristianParenting #ToddlerTantrums #BiblicalParenting #FaithBasedParenting #ChristianMoms #ParentingPodcast #GodlyParenting

]]> family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Taking Ownership 10 10 Taking Ownership full e67caee8-d1c9-4493-9581-d0817fd506d6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/4f25fdff In this episode of the Under One Roof podcast, Andrey and Leah Bulanov discuss the vital role of ownership in relationships, particularly in the context of conflict resolution. They explore how taking full responsibility for one's actions, whether in family dynamics or broader relationships, can lead to healthier interactions and deeper trust. The conversation delves into the importance of repentance, the challenges of unintentional hurt, and the necessity of compassion in communication. They also provide practical steps for navigating conflicts and emphasize the significance of emotional awareness in fostering understanding and resolution.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and New Beginnings
02:45 Conflict Resolution and Taking Responsibility
07:18 Understanding Sin and Unintentional Hurt
12:59 Teaching Kids About Ownership and Apologies
19:09 Responding to Grievances with Compassion
24:49 The Importance of Trust and Apologies in Relationships
31:06 Understanding Emotional Responses and Ownership
36:04 Building Trust Through Ownership and Apologies

Takeaways

Taking ownership is crucial in relationships.
Conflict resolution requires specific habits and skills.
Partial ownership leaves loose ends hanging.
God cares about full obedience, not partial.
We want to teach our kids full ownership.
Healthy conflict resolution builds trust.
Compassion is key in relationships.
Emotional responses can cloud our judgment.
Taking ownership leads to reconciliation.
Healthy conflict resolution restores peace.

Check out our new Youtube Channel! - https://www.youtube.com/@Underoneroof.podcast

]]> In this episode of the Under One Roof podcast, Andrey and Leah Bulanov discuss the vital role of ownership in relationships, particularly in the context of conflict resolution. They explore how taking full responsibility for one's actions, whether in family dynamics or broader relationships, can lead to healthier interactions and deeper trust. The conversation delves into the importance of repentance, the challenges of unintentional hurt, and the necessity of compassion in communication. They also provide practical steps for navigating conflicts and emphasize the significance of emotional awareness in fostering understanding and resolution.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and New Beginnings
02:45 Conflict Resolution and Taking Responsibility
07:18 Understanding Sin and Unintentional Hurt
12:59 Teaching Kids About Ownership and Apologies
19:09 Responding to Grievances with Compassion
24:49 The Importance of Trust and Apologies in Relationships
31:06 Understanding Emotional Responses and Ownership
36:04 Building Trust Through Ownership and Apologies

Takeaways

Taking ownership is crucial in relationships.
Conflict resolution requires specific habits and skills.
Partial ownership leaves loose ends hanging.
God cares about full obedience, not partial.
We want to teach our kids full ownership.
Healthy conflict resolution builds trust.
Compassion is key in relationships.
Emotional responses can cloud our judgment.
Taking ownership leads to reconciliation.
Healthy conflict resolution restores peace.

Check out our new Youtube Channel! - https://www.youtube.com/@Underoneroof.podcast

]]> Mon, 02 Jun 2025 16:04:57 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2555 In this episode of the Under One Roof podcast, Andrey and Leah Bulanov discuss the vital role of ownership in relationships, particularly in the context of conflict resolution. They explore how taking full responsibility for one's actions, whether in family dynamics or broader relationships, can lead to healthier interactions and deeper trust. The conversation delves into the importance of repentance, the challenges of unintentional hurt, and the necessity of compassion in communication. They also provide practical steps for navigating conflicts and emphasize the significance of emotional awareness in fostering understanding and resolution.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and New Beginnings
02:45 Conflict Resolution and Taking Responsibility
07:18 Understanding Sin and Unintentional Hurt
12:59 Teaching Kids About Ownership and Apologies
19:09 Responding to Grievances with Compassion
24:49 The Importance of Trust and Apologies in Relationships
31:06 Understanding Emotional Responses and Ownership
36:04 Building Trust Through Ownership and Apologies

Takeaways

Taking ownership is crucial in relationships.
Conflict resolution requires specific habits and skills.
Partial ownership leaves loose ends hanging.
God cares about full obedience, not partial.
We want to teach our kids full ownership.
Healthy conflict resolution builds trust.
Compassion is key in relationships.
Emotional responses can cloud our judgment.
Taking ownership leads to reconciliation.
Healthy conflict resolution restores peace.

Check out our new Youtube Channel! - https://www.youtube.com/@Underoneroof.podcast

]]> family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No How to Deepen Your Relationships and Love Others Better 9 9 How to Deepen Your Relationships and Love Others Better full 024c5833-1891-417e-808f-9939d4eb6d63 https://share.transistor.fm/s/21fa819a Tue, 27 May 2025 13:10:25 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2276 family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Going Deeper in Conflict Resolution 8 8 Going Deeper in Conflict Resolution full f6d027a9-c146-41db-8658-5aa80657001f https://share.transistor.fm/s/87c6407c "I'm sorry honey I know I was wrong and I hurt you." To many of us, this is the great finish line of healthy conflict resolution. But the truth is, this is just the beginning. Healthy conflict resolution needs to go deeper than just slapping a bandaid "I'm sorry" on it. It has to seek to understand the other, and the desires and expectations that came into collision to cause the conflict to begin with. 

]]> "I'm sorry honey I know I was wrong and I hurt you." To many of us, this is the great finish line of healthy conflict resolution. But the truth is, this is just the beginning. Healthy conflict resolution needs to go deeper than just slapping a bandaid "I'm sorry" on it. It has to seek to understand the other, and the desires and expectations that came into collision to cause the conflict to begin with. 

]]> Wed, 22 Feb 2023 04:00:00 -0800 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2193 "I'm sorry honey I know I was wrong and I hurt you." To many of us, this is the great finish line of healthy conflict resolution. But the truth is, this is just the beginning. Healthy conflict resolution needs to go deeper than just slapping a bandaid "I'm sorry" on it. It has to seek to understand the other, and the desires and expectations that came into collision to cause the conflict to begin with. 

]]> conflict resolution, relationships, marriage No Are your kids good people? 7 7 Are your kids good people? full 375e7fb3-cfb8-4700-a2cd-b6785e90f2d0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6813ca40 Mon, 13 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0800 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 1641 Often we think about parenting in terms of cultivating true love for God and people, as well as an awareness of sin. But do we think about it in terms of shaping our kids up to be good and pleasant people? Are our kids the becoming the kind of people we would want to hang out with? Often we think about parenting in terms of cultivating true love for God and people, as well as an awareness of sin. But do we think about it in terms of shaping our kids up to be good and pleasant people? Are our kids the becoming the kind of people we w parenting, family, relationships No You family needs your healing 6 6 You family needs your healing full cb5701b3-9b9c-4593-b0dd-7413108ef5d7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/c86427b9 Tue, 07 Feb 2023 14:58:00 -0800 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2191 One of the most important things we can do for the good of our families is to face the uncomfortable reality of the pain and trauma we experienced in the past. Here is the link to Healing Hearts Ministries: https://www.healinghearts.org/ One of the most important things we can do for the good of our families is to face the uncomfortable reality of the pain and trauma we experienced in the past. Here is the link to Healing Hearts Ministries: https://www.healinghearts.org/ family, healing, trauma No Being Known in Marriage 5 5 Being Known in Marriage full b7aa2539-03e2-4fd6-a6ac-a6d82d80bd33 https://share.transistor.fm/s/200c7384 Tue, 04 Oct 2022 15:44:05 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2208 The concept of healthy communication in marriage can easily become a cliche. And for good reason. This is because we seek not just healthy communication. We seek to be truly known and loved. How many people would say they feel fully known and understood in their marriage? How many people live with a sense of misunderstanding and miscommunication about key aspects of their life? A marriage that is empowered by the grace of Jesus is a marriage that has both the tools and the power to truly know and love. The concept of healthy communication in marriage can easily become a cliche. And for good reason. This is because we seek not just healthy communication. We seek to be truly known and loved. How many people would say they feel fully known and understood i family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Two Pillars of Daily Parenting 4 4 Two Pillars of Daily Parenting full 40647da9-5a39-44ac-8e37-6a853739c7d0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/cf4df6d5 Sat, 17 Sep 2022 15:00:00 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2326 Parenting and family life can be crazy and overwhelming. How do we think about it in ways that are both biblical and simple? Two pillars that can help us keep track of our parenting are: grace and instruction. Parenting and family life can be crazy and overwhelming. How do we think about it in ways that are both biblical and simple? Two pillars that can help us keep track of our parenting are: grace and instruction. family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No What do you REALLY think of your spouse? 3 3 What do you REALLY think of your spouse? full 694b36a4-37cb-4d9d-b49d-51e4a9204668 https://share.transistor.fm/s/2b1d9688 Wed, 24 Aug 2022 11:37:21 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 1926 Here's the tricky thing about marriage: you can be married for so many years and yet in your heart you may have layers of thoughts and perspective on your spouse that you don't always reveal. You may not even be aware of them yourself! Do you take time to build a genuinely honest view of your loved one, one that involves embracing their sins and struggles as well as their strengths? Here's the tricky thing about marriage: you can be married for so many years and yet in your heart you may have layers of thoughts and perspective on your spouse that you don't always reveal. You may not even be aware of them yourself! Do you take time to family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Living in Fellowship 2 2 Living in Fellowship full 2d22de5e-ee37-4c65-a849-e3dc1cbbca59 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f900e15 Fri, 19 Aug 2022 15:55:15 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 2196 One of the central aspects of the biblical storyline is the idea of fellowship and unity between God and between people. A home that is empowered by the story of Scripture is a home that consciously cultivates, not just correct behaviors, but a disposition towards others that is rooted in the love and unity that God gives us. Is your home filled with the fellowship of God? How do we build an atmosphere of fellowship in the home? One of the central aspects of the biblical storyline is the idea of fellowship and unity between God and between people. A home that is empowered by the story of Scripture is a home that consciously cultivates, not just correct behaviors, but a dispositio family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No Welcome to Under One Roof! 1 1 Welcome to Under One Roof! full 3f1b7ce6-d6da-4e3d-930b-d1902122dd3d https://share.transistor.fm/s/2cb46c93 Mon, 08 Aug 2022 14:13:38 -0700 Andrey and Liya Bulanov Andrey and Liya Bulanov 1853 Andrey and Liya kick off the Under One Roof podcast by talking about the need that we have for encouragement in the trenches of family life. We are excited to be here for you as a weekly source of biblical wisdom and encouragement to equip you on your journey. Andrey and Liya kick off the Under One Roof podcast by talking about the need that we have for encouragement in the trenches of family life. We are excited to be here for you as a weekly source of biblical wisdom and encouragement to equip you on your jou family, parenting, romance, marriage, relationships, faith No