Overcoming Shame, Setting Boundaries, and Prioritising Happiness | With Alex Fidoe

Elizabeth G. — Tue, 18 Jun 2024 17:00:00 +0100

‘I was publicly shamed by ex-boyfriends.’

In this episode, Elizabeth G. is joined by Alex Fidoe, a property entrepreneur and close friend, for a deeply personal and candid discussion about overcoming shame, particularly in the context of abusive relationships. They explore their experiences with shame in various aspects of their lives, including relationships, parenting, and the workplace.

Elizabeth, with a background as a former sex worker, opens up about the intense societal judgement she faced and the transformative journey she undertook to overcome it. She shares how therapy played a crucial role in helping her find purpose and reclaim her sense of self-worth, despite the stigmas attached to her past profession. Elizabeth's story is a testament to the strength required to overcome public shame and abuse from ex-boyfriends.

Alex, on the other hand, provides insight into her life as a single mother and successful businesswoman in the competitive property industry. Her story is one of resilience and determination as she navigates the challenges of thriving in a male-dominated field while raising her children. She recounts her struggle to break free from a controlling and emotionally abusive relationship, detailing the steps she took to overcome shame and regain her independence and self-confidence. "It was definitely the right thing to do, and going through all of that has made me so much stronger and happier," Alex reflects.

Throughout their conversation, both Elizabeth and Alex emphasise the critical importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, seeking professional therapy, and prioritising personal growth and happiness. They discuss the empowering effects of voicing their shame and how it has led them to a place of greater fulfilment and self-love.

Their dialogue serves as a powerful reminder of the strength and resilience that can be found in vulnerability and the pursuit of one's true self.

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Why Do People Pay for Sex? The Most Surprising Truths About Sex Workers

Elizabeth G. — Tue, 07 May 2024 17:24:35 +0100

“I had to live my life in shame for the best part of 20 years.”

In this podcast episode, Elizabeth G, a former sex worker turned author, unpacks the realities of the sex industry. Elizabeth shares her personal experiences and insights gained from her time in the industry, providing the candid look into a world often clouded by stigma and misunderstanding.

"It's not just about physical satisfaction; many are seeking a kind of emotional connection or a space to be heard and understood." We delve into the reasons why clients seek out the services of sex workers, discussing everything from fulfilling fantasies to finding emotional support in a judgement-free zone. Elizabeth doesn't hold back as she opens up about the positive aspects of her journey, but also confronts the harsh realities of stigma and shame associated with sex work.

We learn how Elizabeth navigated these challenges while striving for self-acceptance and discuss the impact of societal misconceptions and discrimination. Her journey to sobriety also takes centre stage, highlighting the role of therapy in providing a safe space for growth and introspection.

"I dream of a day when sex work is decriminalised and destigmatised, where sex workers are treated with the same respect as any other professional." Through her story, Elizabeth advocates for a more compassionate and understanding approach to sex work, challenging listeners to rethink their perceptions.

This episode isn't just about one person's life—it's a reminder of the importance of empathy and acceptance in all aspects of human experience.

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