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      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What if you aren't friends with your husband or wife? What can you do? What should you do? Should you do anything at all? </p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Pastor Tim Bayly talks about what to do if your spouse isn't your friend. </itunes:summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We all come into marriage with past sin. What do we do with it? What do we do with the sins that others have committed against us that make marriage difficult? How do we have faith to work through all of this? </p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Jun 2019 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Pastor Tim Bayly talks about having faith for marriage, despite our past sin. </itunes:summary>
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