ReStory Podcast

Purity Culture and the Impact on Women

Lisa Russell, Sheila Gray Gregoire, Beth Bruno — Tue, 16 May 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this episode of ReStory Podcast, let's hear some insights from Sheila Wray Gregoire, an advocate for healthier evangelical teachings on sex and marriage. Gregoire discusses her journey from a mommy blogger to challenging evangelical teachings through her research with 7,000 evangelical women, showcased in her book 'She Deserves Better: Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up.' The conversation covers the impact of purity culture on women's sexual health, self-esteem, and the excessive responsibilities it places on them, advocating for a significant shift towards teachings that respect women's agency and value. Gregoire's work, including her website BareMarriage.com and related podcast, aims to change the evangelical conversation about marriage and sex.

00:00 Introduction to Purity Culture and Its Impact
00:32 Exploring the Voices Behind the Movement
01:55 Sheila Wray Gregoire's Journey and Insights
05:42 Unveiling the Harms of Purity Culture
11:08 The Surprising Correlations: Periods, Talking, and Abuse
17:46 Consent, Sexual Abuse, and the Purity Culture
31:52 Addressing Modesty and Its Consequences

Learn more about ReStory at www.restory.life.
Listen to our webinar on Remnants of Purity Culture at www.restory.life/webinars.
Learn more about Sheila at www.baremarriage.com.

Purity Culture and the Impact on Men

Michael Krommendyk, Zachary Wagner, Beth Bruno — Tue, 09 May 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Learn more about ReStory at www.restory.life.
Listen to our webinar on Remnants of Purity Culture at www.restory.life/webinars.
Learn more about Zachary Wagner and his new book, Non-Toxic Masculinity at https://www.zacharycwagner.com/

Storied Parenting: What Happens When Your Adult Children Confront You?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 22 Dec 2021 06:00:00 +0000

In Part 4 of Storied Parenting, Chris and Beth give 3 "steps" to respond well when your adult children come to you with feelings and memories of your failure. Beth also shares an exciting adventure she is leading into the stories of women past.

Learn more about Storied Parenting and the Bruno's approach:

Fierce & Lovely
Fierce & Lovely Mini-Courses
Fierce & Lovely Turkey History Tour
Restoration Project

Books on Trauma:

My Grandmother's Hands
The Body Keeps the Score
The Relational Soul
The Wounded Heart

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

Storied Parenting: How Does Your Sexuality Story Show Up?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 06:00:00 +0000

In Part 3 of Storied Parenting, Chris and Beth Bruno talk about the ways our own sexuality stories show up in parenting and ways to be prepared and intentional to do things differently.

Learn more about Storied Parenting and the Bruno's approach:

Fierce & Lovely
Fierce & Lovely Mini-Courses
Fierce & Lovely Podcast
Restoration Project
Sex 101
Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma with Andrew Bauman

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

Storied Parenting: A Whole New Paradigm

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 06:00:00 +0000

In Part 2 of Storied Parenting, Chris and Beth Bruno talk about their paradigm of parenting that shifts everything from how we handle correction with 4-year olds to how we encourage 14-year olds. Our children are stories to be discovered. Our role as parents is to awaken in them the story they were meant to write.

Learn more about Storied Parenting and the Bruno's approach:

Fierce & Lovely
Fierce & Lovely Mini-Courses
Fierce & Lovely Podcast
Restoration Project
No Regrets

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

Storied Parenting: Where are you in your Story Journey?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 01 Dec 2021 06:00:00 +0000

In Part 1 of Storied Parenting, Chris and Beth Bruno talk about the 5 stages of a story journey that moms and dads find themselves in. How do you know which stage you're in and how do you advance to the final, desired stage?

Learn more about Storied Parenting and the Bruno's approach:

Fierce & Lovely
Fierce & Lovely Mini-Courses
Restoration Project
No Regrets

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

What does it mean to "shine your face and be gracious?" The Psychology of the Aaronic Blessing Part 4

Chris and Beth Bruno — Tue, 16 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We all crave the delight of another's face because we were designed for it. In Numbers 6, this is God's face shining upon us. We all know the blessing from Numbers 6: "The Lord bless you and keep you..." But do you know the psychology embedded in the blessing? Listen in as Chris and Beth unpack the genius template for neurobiology encoded in these verses. Part 4 of 4.

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What does Peace/Grounding Mean? The Psychology of the Aaronic Blessing Part 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Tue, 09 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In psychology, we call it grounding. In Numbers 6, God offers this concept as "peace or shalom". We all know the blessing from Numbers 6: "The Lord bless you and keep you..." But do you know the psychology embedded in the blessing? Listen in as Chris and Beth unpack the genius template for neurobiology encoded in these verses. Part 3 of 4.

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How are we meant to "keep" (aka bring containment to) one another? The Psychology of the Aaronic Blessing Part 2

Chris and Beth Bruno — Tue, 02 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In psychology, we call it containment. In Numbers 6, God offers this necessary emotional regulation using the word, "kept". We all know the blessing from Numbers 6: "The Lord bless you and keep you..." But do you know the psychology embedded in the blessing? Listen in as Chris and Beth unpack the genius template for neurobiology encoded in these verses. Part 2 of 4.

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Why is it important to "show our face?": The Psychology of the Aaronic Blessing Part 1

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We all know the blessing from Numbers 6: "The Lord bless you and keep you..." But do you know the psychology embedded in the blessing? Listen in as Chris and Beth unpack the genius template for neurobiology encoded in these verses.

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

Do You Have a Comfort Deficit?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 06 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We were made to receive comfort, but most of us did not receive all that we needed. How do we know if this is us and what does that look like in our adult lives? How do we move forward in healthy ways if this is our story?

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You Remember More Than You Think

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Sometimes we're asked to tell stories of our childhood and we can't. We assume we don't have any memories, yet we sense that much of our present reality was shaped by things that happened to us. Why is that? Why do we FEEL something that makes no sense according to our "memory"? Chris and Beth Bruno discuss the difference between explicit and implicit memory and why our body remembers more than we're often cognizant of.

Mentioned in the show:

Dr. Daniel Siegel's Mindsight

Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk's The Body Keeps the Score

Find us at www.restory.life

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How to See Trauma: Death by Fire, Death by Drought

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 06:00:00 +0000

We experience trauma as a fire or as a drought. The one is far more visible and its ripple effect far more noticeable. But the other is equally harmful. How do we identify those in our lives and what do we do to come alive again?

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What if I don't have a "Story"?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 15 Sep 2021 06:00:00 +0000

"I had a great childhood. My parents are loving. I don't have a story." We hear this all the time. And it's utterly wrong. We all have stories and whether or not they could be classified as Big T or Little t traumas, we have all experienced shaping events. How can you tell what stories have shaped you?

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Why Does Counseling Get Worse Before It Gets Better?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 08 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000

This is a common experience: you come for relief from unwanted symptoms, but end up feeling worse for the first few sessions. Why? And what can you expect to start to happen once you start a journey with a ReStory™ practitioner?

Mentioned in the podcast: Jason Uptown's Scarecrow.

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What if your memory is wrong? On "The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill" and the stories we tell ourselves

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 01 Sep 2021 15:22:49 +0000

What if your memory is wrong? Have you been telling yourself lies or has your mind constructed a narrative it needed at the time? How do we make meaning of our experiences that differ from others who lived through the same ones? Join the Brunos in a conversation spurred by the Rise and Fall of Mars Hill Bonus Episode 9.

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ReStory™ and Content vs. Context

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 25 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In Part 4 of 4, Chris and Beth Bruno discuss the intricate blend of theology, psychology, and ministry to reveal deep human emotions and transformative healing. They delve into the unique approach of asking context-driven questions rather than focusing on content alone, uncovering the unspoken stories of pain, shame, and ultimately, restoration.

Find us at www.restory.life

Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

ReStory™ and the Role of Kindness

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In Part 3 of 4, Chris and Beth Bruno discuss the significant role of kindness in the Restory approach to counseling, highlighting its distinction from niceness and its foundation in strength and tenderness. They explore how kindness, as exemplified by the character of God, can disrupt harmful narratives and foster change, offering freedom and restoration by seeing beyond one's ''second story.''

Our brother organization, Restoration Project, and sister organization, Fierce & Lovely, share our heart and ethos.

Find us at www.restory.life

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ReStory™ and the Role of Evil

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 11 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In Part 2 of 4, Chris and Beth Bruno discuss the challenges of sharing the confidential and profound experiences encountered in their counseling center and podcast, focusing on the role of evil in dehumanizing individuals and the importance of connection and 'with-ness' in healing. They explore the concept of ''ReStory,'' aiming to recover the original story of God's design for individuals, combating the assault of evil with kindness and a firm belief in people's intrinsic worth.

Find us at www.restory.life

Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

What is ReStory™?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 04 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In this part 1 of 4 of "ReStory" of the Walking With Podcast, hosts Chris and Beth Bruno discuss the ReStory approach, a unique counseling method that navigates the intersection of theology, psychology, and narrative therapy, aiming to uncover and revitalize individuals' inherent stories as designed by God. The discussion covers the global attention their trademark application has received, the difference between their approach and traditional narrative therapy, and the importance of diving deep into one's story rather than just managing symptoms.

Find us at www.restory.life

Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

Marriage in Ministry: Ministry Mistress

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 28 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In Part 4 of 4, Chris and Beth share openly about a season when building a ministry became a mistress, to them both. Learn what helped reorient them to the way and the reason why they started to say yes or no to opportunities.

Ministry Resources from the Brunos:

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Marriage in Ministry: Fishbowl Life

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 21 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In Part 3 of 4, the Brunos share about the "Fishbowl Life". When your finances come from donations, often your time and money are scrutinized. But what if sanity is worth money? And how can you make those choices while cultivating a discipline of living a private life in a documented world?

Ministry Resources from the Brunos:

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Marriage in Ministry: Foodchain Friends

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 14 Jul 2021 06:00:00 +0000

In Part 2 of 4, the Brunos share about "Foodchain Friends". When everyone in your life is either above, below, or working alongside of you, how do you have safe friendships? Who do you go to when some of your struggle is with your ministry friends and co-workers?

Ministry Resources from the Brunos:

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Marriage in Ministry: Pillow Talk

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 07 Jul 2021 06:00:00 +0000

In Part 1 of 4, the Brunos share about "Pillow Talk." How do you stop the bleed of work and ministry into every crevice of your marriage? With personal stories and insight, they'll encourage you to craft your own STOP phrase to create a spacious life.

Ministry Resources from the Brunos:

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With Alex: For those who wonder if they're depressed

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 30 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We're committed to helping people come alive and leading conversations at the intersection of theology and psychology.

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With Nicole: For those who realize their parents have their own trauma

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 23 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We're committed to helping people come alive and leading conversations at the intersection of theology and psychology.

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With CJ: For those who need Jesus to save them from God

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 16 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Book mentioned: The Suffering of God

A few books in Chris' current stack: Richard Rohr's Immortal Diamond, Larry Crabb's Fully Alive, and Justin Baldoni's Man Enough

A few books in Beth's current stack: Hillary McBride's Mothers, Daughters, and Body Image, Bettany Hughes' Istanbul: A Tale of Three Cities, and James Scott Bell's Plot and Structure

We're committed to helping people come alive and leading conversations at the intersection of theology and psychology.

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

With Becky: For those who are in a dark night of the soul

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 09 Jun 2021 06:00:00 +0000

The book we referenced: The Dark Night of the Soul: A Psychiatrist Explores the Connection Between Darkness and Spiritual Growth

We're committed to helping people come alive and leading conversations at the intersection of theology and psychology.

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Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

With Jeremy: For those who question their calling

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 02 Jun 2021 06:00:00 +0000

What if the exhaustion you feel is a loss of calling? What then? Listen in to former church planter, missionary, and humanitarian aid worker Jeremy Williamson talk about what he sees from ministry counseling clients and church leaders these days.

We're committed to helping people come alive and leading conversations at the intersection of theology and psychology.

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Q&A with a Ministry Leader: What if I feel betrayed by Ravi Zacharias?

Beth Bruno, Sandhya Oaks — Wed, 31 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000

This is our 50th episode!!! Help us celebrate by leaving a rating or review.

We're committed to helping people come alive and leading conversations at the intersection of theology and psychology.

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Q&A with a Pastor: How do I help marriages that keep getting stuck?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 24 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000

The issue on the table is NOT the issue on the table. Chris shares about two different levels to working with couples and how to help them understand why they keep getting stuck.

Learn more about Thrive Marriage HERE.

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Q&A with Ministry Leaders: Brunos and the Fight to Play

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We've been in a series with pastors and ministry leaders asking questions to walk with others well and noticed a theme: weariness! In this episode, Chris and Beth talk about how they fight to play and how being tenacious to hold onto hope that God has restoration for us all is vital.

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Q&A with Ministry Leaders: If we can't figure out how to rest, how will we ever find peace?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000

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Q&A with a Ministry Leader: How do I disappoint people?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 03 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Jesse French, with Restoration Project, asks "How do I disappoint people because my capacity is just so big?" Join us in a conversation about limits, organizational health, and honest probing of whether we are addicted to our own capacity?

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Q&A with a pastor: How do we leave darkness at the door?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 24 Feb 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Charlie Sandberg is a pastor at Faith Church in Fort Collins, Colorado and asks "How do I leave the darkness of the stories I hear at the door and not bring them home, carry them with me, and let them linger in my mind?" After 10 years of navigating this very thing, Chris and Beth weigh in with their experiences.

Find us at www.restory.life
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Q&A with a Pastor: How do we love those who love conspiracy theories?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 17 Feb 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Corey Nelson is the Head Pastor at First Presbyterian Church in Fort Collins, Colorado and asks, "How do we care for and love people who seem to have gotten lost in conspiracy theories or versions of reality that don't sync with what we believe are are true? And especially when those beliefs take people in directions that seem dangerous? Dangerous to themselves and their own sort of mental and social wellbeing, and also dangerous to relationships and to society?" Join us for an incredibly relevant and poignant conversation about a new pastoral care issue birthed this year.

Find us at www.restory.life
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Q&A with a Ministry Leader: How do we lead well in ongoing disappointment and disconnection?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 10 Feb 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Jen McLain is the Executive Director of Alpha Center, a Christian medical clinic addressing men and women's sexual health needs in Northern Colorado. Jen asks the question, "How do we lead well in ongoing disappointment and disconnection?" Join the conversation on how to lead through something you've never done before, like leading through a pandemic.

Find us at www.restory.life
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Q&A with a Pastor: How do we care without carrying?

Chris and Beth Bruno and Aaron Stern — Wed, 03 Feb 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Aaron Stern is the pastor of Mill City Church in Fort Collins, Colorado and asks the question, "How do I care for people and their various (sometimes opposing) opinions without carrying how they feel?" Join the conversation on how to navigate your own story in the midst of disappointing others as Chris and Beth share about 3 key letters that change it all.

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Advent Series: Peace

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 23 Dec 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Join Chris and Beth in a short series of personal reflections on the 4 themes of Advent. Walk with them into the pain and suffering of this season, devoid of easy answers and pithy sayings, but full of raw and honest story.

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Advent Series: Joy

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 16 Dec 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Join Chris and Beth in a short series of personal reflections on the 4 themes of Advent. Walk with them into the struggle of disruption and anticipation this season.

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Advent Series: Faith

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 09 Dec 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Join Chris and Beth this month in a short series of personal reflections on the 4 themes of Advent. Walk with them through the disruption and anticipation of this season.

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Advent Series: Hope

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 02 Dec 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Join Chris and Beth this month in a short series of personal reflections on the 4 seasons of Advent. Full of doubt, discontent, and disruption, walk with them into the struggle to hope and anticipate this year.

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Psych Terms Made Easy: Spiritual Bypassing

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 25 Nov 2020 12:00:00 +0000

As we wrap up this month's series on psychology terms explained, Chris and Beth are joined by therapist Kevala Kenna to discuss "Spiritual Bypassing." You may have heard something similar called Toxic Positivity. This is the spiritualized version.

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Psych Terms Made Easy: Delusional Disorder

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 18 Nov 2020 12:00:00 +0000

This month we're in a series on commonly heard, but not understood psychology terms. Therapist Lynsey Crevier joins Chris and Beth Bruno to talk about Delusional Disorder, a rare, but deeply misunderstood disorder on the Schizophrenia Spectrum.

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Psych Terms Made Easy: Embodiment

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 11 Nov 2020 12:00:00 +0000

In this series, Chris and Beth Bruno are joined by Restoration mental health therapist, Sam Alvis to discuss how embodiment brings us back to ourselves. When we learn to listen to what our bodies are trying to tell us, transformation and healing are possible.

The Walking With Podcast is a product of ReStory Labs, powered by Restoration Counseling.

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Psych Terms Made Easy: Survival Strategies and Coping Mechanisms

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 04 Nov 2020 12:05:00 +0000

We're in a series on psychology terms made easy and today we're joined by Spiritual Counselor, Tammy Furrier to talk about survival strategies and coping mechanisms. What do these mean, how did they serve us well as children, and how do they serve us as adults?

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Relationships: The 2 Primary Issues for Teens Right Now

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 11:00:00 +0000

We're in a series on relationships that aren't mainstream. Today we're joined by Colorado therapist, CJ Rithner, to talk about the 2 primary issues teens are facing these days and how adults can love them well.

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Relationships: Transracial Adoptees

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 21 Oct 2020 11:00:00 +0000

We're in a series on relationships that aren't mainstream. Today we're joined by Sandhya Oaks, our Race and Diversity Specialist, to talk about walking with transracial adoptees.

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Relationships: Sexual Abuse Recovery

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 14 Oct 2020 11:00:00 +0000

We're in a series on relationships that aren't mainstream. This week, we're joined by Spiritual Counselor, Cris Flippen, to talk about walking with those who have sexual abuse in their past.

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Faith: Why Forgiveness Might be the Root

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 30 Sep 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In their series on Faith, Chris and Beth Bruno are joined by Restoration Story Coach, Jason Stoub to explore his perspective on the power of forgiveness as the root of all change.

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Faith: Integral Living

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Chris and Beth chat with Spiritual Counselor, Jeremy Williamson, about the importance of faith leaders living an integral life, mess and all. Jeremy has served in missions, as a church planter, and a humanitarian aid worker. We are thrilled he is offering counseling to ministry leaders through Restoration Counseling.

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Faith: Deconstruction and Exvangelicals

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 16 Sep 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In this series on Faith, Chris and Beth Bruno are joined by Restoration Life Coach, Nicole Clifton to talk about her perspectives on faith deconstruction and exvangelicals.

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Faith: Stages of Faith

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 09 Sep 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Welcome back to Season Two of the Walking With Podcast, where each week Chris and Beth Bruno chat with a team member from Restoration Counseling about issues at the intersection of theology and psychology.

This month, they are in a series on faith, and on today's episode, Spiritual Counselor, Lisa Russell explains the Stages of Faith and the places we often remain caged.

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Re|Wire: How Sexual Addiction is Not About Sex - Part 3 of 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 01 Jul 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In this last part of a 3-part series, Chris and Beth talk about different categories of people you're walking with around the issue of p*rn. Are you a parent? In kids' ministry? How about a ministry leader looking through applications for new staff with a p*rn problem? Or a pastor choosing a better way to lead? Regardless of the role you play, p*rn is something you've faced. On today's episode, the Brunos share some helpful ways to walk with those in various ages/stages.

As an onramp to counseling, Chris has male clients take the self-paced, online course Re|Wire. To access it, find out more, or download the "5 Signs You May Have a P*rnography Problem" head here.

Find us at www.restory.life
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Re|Wire: How Sexual Addiction is Not About Sex Part 2 of 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 24 Jun 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In this series, Chris and Beth are debunking common misconceptions around sexual addiction and p*rn use because it is one of the biggest things facing ministry leaders today. In today's episode, Chris talks about his unique approach to addressing this with his clients.

As an onramp to counseling, Chris' male clients take the Re|Wire course. Entirely self-paced and online, Re|Wire is a great primer to finding freedom from sexual addiction. Learn more and access it yourself here.

Wondering if you may have a problem yourself? Download the "5 Signs You Might Have a P*rnography Problem" here.

Find us at www.restory.life
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Re|Wire: How Sexual Addiction is Not About Sex - Part 1 of 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 17 Jun 2020 11:00:00 +0000

P*rn addiction is the number one reason men and women are disqualified for ministry leadership today. We get asked all the time, "How can I help someone who is struggling?" Those of you walking with others have tried programs, books, and therapy often without success. Accountability feels hollow. True freedom seems elusive. In this new series, Chris and Beth debunk many myths surrounding this issue to help you walk with others wisely and effectively.

As an onramp to counseling, Chris has male clients go through the course, Re|Wire.

You can access the same course for yourself or someone you care about and take a short self-assessment to see if you may have a problem with p*rn here.

Find us at www.restory.life
Learn More about ReStory® HERE.

The Disordered Life: Depression and Anxiety

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 03 Jun 2020 11:00:00 +0000

A recent study claims that 1/3 of Adult Americans report an increase in depression and/or anxiety as a result of COVID. Chris and Beth Bruno jump in there. Is this accurate? What is the difference between "situational" and "clinical" depression? For those of you walking with others experiencing a mood disorder, what should you know? Listen in!

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The Disordered Life: Borderline

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 27 May 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In part 3 of the series, The Disordered Life, Chris and Beth Bruno talk about Borderline Personality Disorder. Debunking myths, explaining common signs, and encouraging those in ministry to handle things differently.

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The Disordered Life: Narcissism

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 20 May 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Chris and Beth Bruno continue in their series diving into the most well-known personality disorder, Narcissism. What is it? Why are authors and pastors like Chuck DeGroat writing about it? Can it be "cured?" Listen in.

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The Disordered Life: Mood vs. Personality Disorders

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 13 May 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Chris and Beth Bruno dive into a new series this week. We've all heard the terms, tossed them around for fun, and speculated on who might actually be... but do we really know what various disorders are or mean? Listen in.

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Amplified: Kids

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 06 May 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Chris and Beth Bruno continue in the series Amplified/ Part 5 by addressing the amplification of space that kids are facing as we look to the next wave of loss with the approach of summer. As May is Mental Health Awareness Month, they dive into things to be concerned about with kids and mental health in light of COVID-19.

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AMPLIFIED: Addictions and Idolatry

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 29 Apr 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Chris and Beth continue their series. In part 4 of Amplified, they dive into addictions. Why do we have them? What are two categories they fall into? Why has p*orn increased by 12% globally since the corona virus began? And how can YOU ask someone who struggles in a way that gets to the heart and not just the behavior?

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Amplified: Couples in COVID

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 22 Apr 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Chris and Tracy Johnson talk about marriage conflict, tension, and just friendship challenges being amplified in quarantine. What's the difference between Fantasy and Dreaming? What is a Corona Marriage? How can a desert valley become a place of hope?

Stay tuned to the end to hear about an exciting thing we've been creating behind the scenes that launches in a couple of weeks! Beth shares a coupon code for listeners to use at the very end.

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Amplified: COVID-19 and Domestic Violence

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 15 Apr 2020 11:00:00 +0000

While everyone is quarantined at home, issues that were already present are more amplified. In part 2 of this series, Chris and Beth Bruno interview friend and fellow therapist, Sarah Kardelen about domestic violence. What does it look like right now for victims and how can we walk with them in awareness and preparedness?

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Amplified: STAB

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 11:00:00 +0000

As the pandemic continues, "all the things that were already things are bigger things." Everything is AMPLIFIED. Chris explains how S.T.A.B. (stressed, tired, alone, bored) plays into our shrinking window of tolerance. It's normal. And it's tiring. And it's crucial to recognize with those you walk with.

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Centering and Calming Ourselves in COVID

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 01 Apr 2020 13:06:05 +0000

Beth Bruno hosts Heather Stringer, therapist and ritual maker, to bring listeners a centering practice for their soul in the midst of strenuous times. As you walk with others, may you be grounded and present to your self and God.

Follow Heather on Instagram @life_in_ritual

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Walking through COVID-19

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 25 Mar 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Ministry leaders, you've done the triage. You've moved your service online or canceled the trips and events. Now, is your heart catching up to the overdrive you've been in? You're holding so much. Chris and Beth offer a few thoughts on what's going on for some of your people and what to do when you don't have the words of your own...

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Sabbaticals: Behind the Scenes on our Mini-Sabbatical

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 18 Mar 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In the last of their series on Sabbaticals, Chris and Beth pull back the curtain to tell you some things that went well and not so well on their own Sabbatical (with 3 teens) last year.

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Sabbaticals: The Number One Thing You Must Do Before You Take A Sabbatical

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 11:00:00 +0000

In part two of their series on sabbaticals, Chris and Beth Bruno talk about the number one thing you must do before you take a sabbatical. Whether you are taking one this summer, or years down the road, this one thing is crucial.

Don't be unprepared for your sabbatical. The Roadmap to a Restorative Sabbatical will prepare you before, during, and after. Learn more at https://www.restorylabs.com/sabbatical

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Sabbaticals: Creating a Culture of Care

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 04 Mar 2020 12:00:00 +0000

In their new series on sabbaticals, Chris and Beth Bruno talk about the need to prepare your ministry environment to be ready for you to take an extended sabbatical. Many teams, churches, etc. do not yet have a culture of care that includes sabbaticals. Walking with others well requires you to be spiritually and emotionally healthy, the goal of a sabbatical. How do you prepare your people for this need?

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FAQ's: What do I do when I'm stretched too thin?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 12:00:00 +0000

We hear it (and feel it) all the time! What do I do when I'm stretched too thin? Am I burned out? Is it time to leave? Do I need a sabbatical or just a weekend away? How do I stay healthy for the long haul? Chris and Beth share 5 ways to practice self-care today as you begin to ask yourself what this overwhelm is really telling you.

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FAQ's: What do I do when I don't know what to do?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 19 Feb 2020 12:00:00 +0000

What do I do when I don’t know what to do? You’re walking with someone who is going through something you have no experience with, don’t know what you believe about it, or otherwise have no idea what to do to help them. Your heart races and you panic. What do you say!?

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FAQ's: What is Required for Reconciliation?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 12 Feb 2020 12:00:00 +0000

In this series, we’re answering frequently asked questions. “What are the requirements of reconciliation?” Is it possible for all scenarios? And how does spiritual abuse creep into this with ministry leaders?

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FAQ's: How to Help a Couple in Conflict?

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 05 Feb 2020 12:00:00 +0000

In this next series, we’re answering frequently asked questions. “How do I help a couple in conflict?” Listen to our 4 Stages of Conflict framework and download the reference sheet.

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Why Story Matters as a Pastoral Counselor Part 3 of 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 29 Jan 2020 15:07:26 +0000

In this last part of our "Why Story Matters" series, we talk about how to find the story behind the "story." Often someone leads with a "presenting problem" that is merely a symptom of the deeper issue. How do you move beyond triage?

Download our Story Framework

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Why Story Matters in the Life of a Leader Part 2 of 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 22 Jan 2020 14:33:47 +0000

You're a ministry leader, pastor, or team lead and you find your story "leaking" onto your people. What does that mean? How can you tell? What's really going on? And how do you attend to it for their sake? This is part 2 of a three part series. Grab a free copy of our story framework to learn more:https://www.restorylabs.com/episode1

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Why Story Matters Part 1 of 3

Chris and Beth Bruno — Wed, 15 Jan 2020 18:07:25 +0000

Story may be trendy, but it's crucial. In Part 1 of 3, Chris and Beth talk about the foundation of ReStory Labs and Restoration Counseling, their Story Framework. To walk with others well, this is crucial to understand.

Download your free Story Framework reference guide here.

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Walking With Podcast Trailer

Chris and Beth Bruno — Thu, 09 Jan 2020 23:23:10 +0000

Welcome to our new podcast, an offering of ReStory Labs.

God called you to help people, he called us to help you.

Join us for weekly conversations at the intersection of theology, psychology, and ministry so that you might feel a little less overwhelmed and a little more confident as you walk with people.

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Learn More about ReStory® HERE.