Montessori Dad — Respectful Parenting & Fatherhood

When Your Kid Says No (And What It's Really Telling You)

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 27 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400

In this entry, I reflect on a moment of defiance, a sharp “no” that landed harder than expected, and what it revealed about boundaries, emotional regulation, and connection.

Through a Montessori lens, this episode explores resistance as communication, discipline as relationship, and the practice of bending without breaking. A meditation on staying present inside conflict, holding limits with compassion, and teaching autonomy without losing connection.

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Freedom Within Limits

J.D. Murgolo | Story House — Mon, 13 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0400

In this entry, I reflect on watching my children create stories entirely their own , worlds built from Legos, toy cars, and imagination, and what it asks of me as a parent.

Through a Montessori lens, this episode explores freedom within limits: how structure creates safety, how imagination flourishes when protected rather than directed, and how stepping back can be an act of trust.

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The Exhaustion of the "Good Parent": Honesty, Emotional Labor, and the Prepared Adult

J.D. Murgolo | Story House — Mon, 30 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

In this entry of Montessori Dad, I’m sitting with a specific kind of fatigue, the exhaustion that surfaces not from parenting itself, but from the labor of pretending we aren’t exhausted.

Through a Montessori lens, we often talk about the prepared environment, but we rarely discuss the prepared adult as someone who is allowed to have limits. This is a meditation on the “mirror” our children hold up to us, reflecting the parts of our own inner child that learned to perform “being okay” even when we weren’t.

This is a reflection on parenting while tired, loving without the weight of perfection, and offering ourselves the same compassion we offer our children. It’s about the shift from parental performance to authentic presence.

In This Episode:

* The Cost of the Mask: Why “performing” stability is more draining than the chaos itself.

* The Prepared Adult: Redefining the Montessori concept as someone who honors their own human capacity.

* Childhood as a Mirror: How our children reveal our own unmet needs and inner child triggers.

* Emotional Labor in Parenting: Navigating the “invisible work” of staying regulated.

* Compassion as a Practice: Learning to grow alongside our children, not just for them.Come along for a Montessori parenting journey with J.D. HERE

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What Happens When We Stop Rushing Our Children?

J.D. Murgolo | Story House — Mon, 16 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

What happens to our children—and ourselves—when we stop rushing the clock and start trusting the process?

In this entry, I reflect on the “threshold” of parenting: that difficult, quiet moment where we choose to step back and let a child be. Through a Montessori lens, we explore how a slow afternoon spent collecting rocks or building imaginary worlds isn’t “empty” time, it is the most profound form of growth.

This is a meditation on moving from a manager of tasks to a steward of wonder. It’s an invitation to every parent practicing respectful parenting who wants to trade the pressure of production for the alchemy of presence.

The Thread of This Conversation:

* The Prepared Environment: Why a slow pace is a required tool.

* Meaningful Work: How deep engagement fosters independence and calm.

* The Discipline of Silence: The art of not interrupting a focused child.

* Stewardship: Navigating the “spaces between” in modern fatherhood.

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The Game We Didn’t Finish

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 02 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0500

How do we help our children navigate disappointment without "fixing" it? We explore building resilience in children through the lens of a game that didn't finish.

In this entry, I sit with a small moment that carries a surprisingly heavy lesson. After a simple game at the kitchen table ends in disappointment, I watch my five-year-old decide he doesn’t want to keep playing. There’s no outburst, no blame—just the quiet weight of losing and not knowing what to do with it yet.

Through a Montessori lens, this episode reflects on emotional development and the tension between efficiency and empowerment. We move beyond "toughening kids up" to discuss the practice of co-regulation—staying with our children while something hard takes shape. By learning to lose slowly, safely, and in relationship, we help our children develop a growth mindset and a resilient sense of self. This is a reflection on when to step in, when to step back, and how Montessori at home is as much about the parent's internal work as it is the child's environment.

In This Episode:

The Weight of Losing: Understanding the "quiet" side of disappointment in toddler development.
Co-Regulation vs. Correction: Why staying present matters more than fixing the mood.
Building Resilience in Children: How "not finishing the game" can be a foundational lesson in self-regulation.
Efficiency vs. Empowerment: The cost of rushing a child through a difficult emotion.

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The Space Between Us

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 16 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0500

How do we explain the unexplainable to our children? In this entry, J.D. reflects on parenting through grief following the loss of his father. Watching his three and five-year-old children navigate the "Space Between Us," he explores the concept of developmental readiness and the importance of respecting a child’s pace as they process loss. It’s a quiet study in restraint, honesty, and the art of standing in the gap between an adult's understanding and a child's forming heart.

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While We Are Still Their World

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Right now, our children’s worlds are small, and we are at the center of them. Through a journal entry to his five-year-old son, J.D. examines the weight of intentional parenting and the fleeting nature of this season. We move beyond the physical prepared environment to discuss the internal work of presence and attention. This is a reflection on staying close without clinging and honoring the deep pull of family connection while we still can.

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Season 3 — The Montessori Dad

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 12 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0500

A quieter season begins.

The Montessori Dad returns this February with a new season of reflections on presence, patience, and parenting as an inner practice.

Season 3 continues the journal-style format — intimate, grounded, and unscripted — exploring the emotional work of fatherhood, the rhythms of home, and the slow shaping of both parent and child.

Produced by Not Today Media. New episodes begin February.

Growing Through the Quiet Storm - Entry #64

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 20 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Even the smallest storms—frustration, sadness, disappointment—can become opportunities for connection and growth. For the final entry of Season 2, I journal a tender moment of emotional expression, showing how presence and patience help children build emotional strength.

Through reflection, I share Montessori-inspired insights on emotional literacy, naming feelings, and holding space during challenging moments. This episode reminds us that growth often happens beneath the surface, during the quiet storms of childhood.

Reflective Question:

When your child experiences frustration or disappointment, how can you offer presence and calm guidance, allowing growth to take root naturally?

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Learning From Setbacks - Entry #63

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Mistakes are opportunities waiting to be noticed. In this episode, I journal a moment when a block tower collapses, and we explore how calm presence and gentle guidance turn setbacks into growth.

Montessori parenting teaches us to normalize mistakes, celebrate the process, and model reflective responses. Listeners are invited to see setbacks not as failures, but as quiet lessons in resilience, creativity, and emotional courage.

Reflective Question:

Where in your child’s day might a small setback be a chance to practice resilience? How can you respond calmly and supportively?

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Leaning Into Discomfort - Entry #62

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 06 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Growth often comes dressed as discomfort. This week, I journal about a moment when my child struggles to tie their shoes, and the subtle lesson that emerges when we allow children to face challenges on their own.

Through Montessori-informed reflection, we explore the power of letting children experience manageable frustration, and how stepping back encourages perseverance, problem-solving, and confidence.

Reflective Question:

What small challenge can you allow your child to experience this week, without stepping in too soon?

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Recognizing the Hidden Strengths - Entry #61

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 29 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Sometimes the most remarkable growth happens quietly. In this week’s episode, I reflect on the subtle moments when children show resilience and independence—the patient stacking of blocks, the careful pouring of water, the quiet focus on a small task.

Through my journal entry to my children, we explore the beauty of unseen courage, and how Montessori principles remind us to honor the inner life of our children. This episode invites parents to step back, observe, and recognize the hidden strengths in their child’s daily life.

Reflective Question:

Where do you notice quiet courage and self-reliance in your child this week? How can you honor it without interrupting?

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Nurturing the Roots of Connection - Entry #60

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 22 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400

So much of family life is built on the small, ordinary rituals—morning routines, bedtime stories, the little rhythms that seem almost invisible. Yet within them is something powerful: roots.

In this episode of Montessori Dad, I write to my children about how these daily rituals—pouring cereal, brushing teeth, sharing a bedtime book—are quietly weaving a foundation of belonging. Through the Montessori lens, we’ll reflect on how rhythm and routine nurture a child’s sense of safety and freedom.

Connection isn’t always about grand gestures. Sometimes it’s about the steady beat of small, ordinary acts repeated with love.

Roots first. Growth second. Always in that order.

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The Courage to Begin Again - Entry #59

J.D. Murgolo | Story House Studio — Mon, 15 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400

There are days when parenting doesn’t go the way we hope. We lose our patience, we rush, we miss the moment. And afterward, we carry the weight of regret.

But what if mistakes aren’t the end of the story? What if they’re an invitation to begin again?

In this episode, I share a journal entry to my children about the times I’ve stumbled, and the gift they give me each time they allow me to return.

Together, we’ll explore how Montessori’s view of mistakes—as opportunities, not failures—can shift the way we parent and the way we see ourselves.

Because the courage to begin again doesn’t just restore connection—it teaches our children resilience, grace, and the truth that love is always bigger than our mistakes.

A reminder: repair isn’t weakness. It’s strength.

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Planting Seeds of Patience - Entry #58

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 08 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This journal entry invites us to see our children's natural rhythms not as obstacles to efficiency, but as teachers showing us a more soulful way of being present.

What You'll Discover:

* Why Montessori viewed patience as active love rather than passive waiting

* How to create space for children's independence without abandoning them to struggle alone

* The profound message we send when we choose presence over productivity

* A father's honest reflections on learning to trust his children's timing

For Your Heart: This episode runs about 12 minutes, perfect for your morning walk or evening unwind. Let it remind you that the most important growth happens in its own time, and that your loving presence is often the richest soil for your child's becoming.

Reflection Invitation: Where in your day might you practice the sacred art of waiting? What would change if you trusted your child's timing just a little more? Share your thoughts, this community grows through our shared wisdom and gentle encouragement.

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Journal Entry #57 - Listening to the Quiet Within

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 01 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0400

As the seasons begin to shift, so too do we. September invites us to pause, to turn inward, and to notice the quiet places we often rush past.

In this episode, I share a journal entry written to my children about the gift of silence—how the moments in between their laughter, their play, and their questions can teach us more than constant motion ever could. Montessori reminds us that silence isn’t emptiness—it’s presence.

Together, we’ll reflect on:

* How children thrive in stillness and concentration

* Why parents often feel the urge to “fill the silence”

* Gentle ways to notice and honor the quiet spaces in your own home

* The surprising freedom that emerges when we listen, instead of rush

This is the start of our September theme: The Journey Inward: Preparing for a Season of Growth. And it begins right here—with the courage to simply be still.

Because sometimes, the quiet within us is the loudest guide of all.

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Journal Entry #56 - Finding Freedom Within Routine

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 25 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Routines aren’t cages. When held with softness, they’re invitations to safety—and from safety, freedom grows.

In this reflective entry, JD shares a letter to his children about the surprising liberation that lives inside daily rhythms. What began as an attempt to create order turned into something far more meaningful: an anchor. A source of calm. A framework that allows his kids to move through their day with confidence, creativity, and trust.

For parents navigating the tug-of-war between flexibility and consistency, this episode offers both affirmation and a nudge.

There is freedom in predictability—when it’s shaped with care.

Inside this episode:

* How rhythm creates emotional safety for kids

* Why freedom thrives best within warm, predictable structure

* Questions to help you rethink your own daily routines

🌱 Let this one be your soft reset—an invitation to trust the steady beat of a well-loved day.

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Journal Entry #55 - The Beauty of Practical Life Skills

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 18 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0400

There’s a quiet power in pouring water, folding laundry, or sweeping the floor. Not just for us—but for our kids too.

In this journal-style episode, J.D. writes directly to his children, reflecting on the slow, meaningful work of learning practical life skills. These everyday tasks are often overlooked or rushed, but in the Montessori world (and in this father’s heart), they’re honored as sacred ground.

Through tender storytelling and grounded insight, JD explores how letting kids participate in daily life—with real tools, real responsibility, and real purpose—teaches more than coordination. It builds self-trust. It fosters belonging. It whispers, “You matter here.”

This one is for every parent who’s ever felt torn between getting it done fast and letting it be done slow and real.

Inside this episode:

* Why practical life tasks are emotionally nourishing (not just functional)

* How participation fosters confidence, care, and connection

* The reminder that slowness is not a flaw—it's a feature of learning

✨ Journal entry meets gentle coaching in this short and soulful reflection.

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Journal Entry #54 - Grace, Courtesy, and the Kindness My Kids Are Watching For

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 11 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, I write a personal letter to my kids about the quiet power of grace and courtesy—the small acts of kindness and respect that often go unnoticed but shape who we are and who our children become. It’s not about perfect manners or rote phrases; it’s about embodying kindness through how we move, speak, and show up every day, especially when it’s hard.

Drawing from Montessori philosophy, we explore how children learn far more from the soft example we set than from any words or instructions. I share moments of real-life reflection—when I forget to say thank you or interrupt, and how those moments become lessons for all of us in presence, humility, and respect.

This episode invites you to join me in embracing the beautiful, imperfect journey of living grace and courtesy—not just teaching it, but truly being it—for our children and ourselves.

What you’ll hear:

* A heartfelt journal entry written directly to my kids

* Montessori insights on grace and courtesy as foundational life skills

* The importance of modeling kindness through everyday actions

* Gentle guidance on cultivating respect and softness at home

* A listener prompt to practice small acts of grace in your own family life

Pull up a seat, and let’s explore how softness in fatherhood creates strength for our children—and for ourselves.

Join me on this journey toward gentle, thoughtful parenting. The table is yours.

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Journal Entry #53 - Movement Is Learning, Not Just Play

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 04 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, I write a letter to my kids about the deep connection between movement and learning. More than just fun or energy release, movement is a fundamental way children explore their world, develop coordination, and build independence. Through Montessori’s lens, we see how every step, climb, and reach is a meaningful part of growing.

I share moments of watching my kids move through their day—the way their bodies carry their curiosity and their confidence—and how I’m learning to honor that natural rhythm instead of rushing or interrupting. It’s an invitation to parents and caregivers to slow down, observe, and support movement as a vital part of development.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

* A heartfelt journal entry addressed to my children

* Reflections on how movement connects to brain development and emotional regulation

* Montessori philosophy on the prepared environment and supporting natural movement

* Gentle guidance on resisting the urge to control or restrict active play

* A listener prompt encouraging mindful observation of your child’s movement today

Pull up a chair, and let’s celebrate movement as a powerful, beautiful way of learning—not just play.

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Journal Entry #52 - The Way You Ask Questions Teaches Me Everything

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 28 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, a simple question from a child, “Why are construction trucks yellow?” becomes a profound lesson in curiosity, humility, and connection.

By choosing honesty over authority, this dad models a Montessori-inspired approach to parenting that honors wonder and co-discovery.

More than just answering questions, it’s about creating a space where not knowing is safe and curiosity thrives.

This episode taps into a larger cultural shift where fathers are embracing softness and vulnerability as true strength.

What You’ll Hear:

* An intimate journal entry capturing a real moment of curiosity

* Reflections on how Montessori principles teach us to follow the child’s lead

* Insights on the evolving role of fathers as learners and companions rather than experts

* A gentle invitation to sit with uncertainty and explore questions together

Why This Episode Matters:

Modern fatherhood is redefining strength — moving away from knowing all the answers to being present in the unknown.

This episode offers a gentle reminder that vulnerability, curiosity, and shared discovery are powerful tools for connection and growth.

Connect & Reflect:

Have you ever felt pressure to be the “Answer Giver” in your family? What might happen if you let that go — just for a moment?

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Journal Entry #51 - You Don’t Have to Be Happy All the Time

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 21 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This episode explores a tender moment when a scraped knee became a doorway into a deeper lesson: you don’t have to be happy all the time.

Through Montessori eyes, we learn the power of sitting with discomfort, honoring big feelings, and resisting the urge to fix too fast.

More than just parenting advice, this episode joins a larger cultural conversation about how modern dads are redefining strength — moving from stoicism to softness, from silence to presence.

What You’ll Hear:

* An intimate journal entry witnessing a child’s small hurt

* A reflection on the emotional patience Montessori parenting encourages

* Insights on how modern fathers are embracing vulnerability as a form of strength

* An invitation to slow down and hold space for discomfort — in your kids and yourself

Why This Episode Matters:

As more fathers reject outdated notions of masculinity, this episode offers encouragement and permission to be emotionally present and gentle.

Parenting isn’t about rushing toward the fix; it’s about being steady, humble, and soft — qualities that nurture not just children, but entire families and communities.

Connect & Reflect:

Have you noticed the pressure to “make it better” quickly? How might slowing down to just be with your child change the dynamic?

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Journal Entry #50 - Why Uninterrupted Work Is a Gift for All of Us

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 14 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0400

I write a letter to my kids about a moment I almost interrupted…them lost in a world of Legos. It wasn’t just play; it was deep focus, flow, and creativity unfolding quietly in front of me.

This letter explores Montessori’s idea of uninterrupted work, the importance of protecting those moments when children dive deep, so their concentration can build and blossom. It’s also a reflection on how often we adults break our own flow, and what it might look like to protect that sacred space for ourselves, too.

What you’ll hear:

* A heartfelt journal entry about witnessing my kids building Legos in deep focus

* Reflections on Montessori’s respect for concentration and presence

* Thoughts on resisting the urge to interrupt and instead protect the child’s flow

* A gentle invitation to nurture quiet work in your own home and life

Why this episode matters:

In a world buzzing with distraction, uninterrupted work is revolutionary.

This episode reminds us that presence — for our kids and ourselves — is a gift worth protecting, and that softness in fatherhood means honoring those quiet moments with respect and love.

Connect & Reflect:If you’ve had a moment lately where you let go and something beautiful unfolded I’d love to hear about it. Drop a comment here or find me on Threads or IG @realmontessoridad.

This space is a slow build, a journal we’re writing together.

We’ll keep stitching the fragile back together — one story at a time.

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Journal Entry #49 - I’m Learning to Trust Your Inner Guide

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 07 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this weeks journal entry, I write a letter to my kids about something I almost missed: the quiet confidence with which they moved through their day, trying, failing, trying again.

No ask for help. No need for guidance. Just deep trust in their own process.

This is about learning to step back. To observe instead of direct. To listen instead of fix. And to trust that our children are led by something strong and sure, an inner guide that doesn’t need constant correction.

As parents, especially fathers, we’re often told our value lies in control, in being the fixer, in having the answers. But Montessori offers a different kind of strength, one rooted in softness, in presence, and in the radical act of letting go.

What you’ll hear:

* A single, flowing journal entry written to my kids about trust and letting go

* A reflection on the Montessori principle of observing without interference

* Gentle thoughts on how emotional control and trust are deeply connected

* A quiet invitation to slow down and honor your child’s process

Why this episode matters:Sometimes our kids don’t need our help, they need our belief.Montessori asks us to see the child as whole, capable, and innately wise.

This episode is a soft invitation to practice that belief, not just with our kids, but with ourselves.

This space is a slow build, a journal we’re writing together.

We’ll keep stitching the fragile back together — one story at a time.

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Journal Entry #48 - Today I Watched You Build Patience

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 30 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This weeks journal entry, I reflect on a quiet, ordinary moment — watching my children stack wooden blocks with calm and care. It’s in these small, slow spaces that I’m reminded of what Montessori teaches us: to respect our children’s process, to trust their timing, and to meet them where they are — not where we wish they were.

Patience isn’t just something we give to our kids. It’s something we grow inside ourselves, over and over again. And in that practice, there’s a softness — one that feels more like strength than anything I’ve ever known.

What you’ll hear:

* A heartfelt letter to my kids about learning patience side-by-side

* Reflections on Montessori’s deep respect for the child’s natural rhythm

* Honest thoughts on the tension between our adult urgency and a child’s slower pace

* A gentle prompt for noticing where patience might already be showing up in your life

Why this episode matters:Parenting often asks us to move faster, fix quicker, and hold it all together. But Montessori parenting — and fatherhood done with softness — invites a different kind of strength: the kind that shows up slowly, quietly, and with open hands. This episode is a space to breathe, reflect, and return to what really matters.

Connect & Reflect:I’d love to hear how you’re practicing patience in your home — or how your kids are teaching it to you in unexpected ways.

Feel free to reply here or share your thoughts on Instagram. Let’s keep building something softer, together.

We’ll keep stitching the fragile back together — one story at a time.

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Journal Entry #47 - Modeling, Not Managing: The Role of the Adult in a Child’s Emotional World

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 23 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this weeks entry, we’re looking at the emotional world of children—not through the lens of control, but through the lens of connection.

So often, we think our job is to manage our kids’ emotions: to fix the crying, calm the tantrums, or talk them out of being upset. But what if our real role is to model emotional regulation, not micromanage their experience?

This is about what it means to be real, not perfect. It’s about being witnessed as a feeling person in front of your children and letting them learn from how you move through frustration, repair, or vulnerability.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “supposed to” be the calm one at all times, this episode invites you to take a breath and remember: they don’t need you to be flawless. They just need you to be human.

What We Talk About:

* Why trying to “fix” feelings can backfire

* The power of emotional modeling in real-time

* Apologizing as a form of parenting

* How our own emotional discomfort shapes the way we show up

* Why our messiness matters more than we think

Favorite Line from the Episode:

“You don’t need me to be perfect. You need me to be real.”

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Journal Entry #46 - The Quiet Power of Play: Letting Go of Over-Scheduling

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 16 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this journal-style reflection, I explore what it means to truly trust in play—not as a break from learning, but as the learning itself.

So often, we find ourselves packing every minute of our kids’ days with structured activities, worried they’ll fall behind or miss out. But what if the very thing we’re skipping—the unscheduled, open-ended, magical nothing time—is actually where the most important development happens?

This episode is a letter to my kids, and to any parent who needs the reminder that doing less can sometimes give our children so much more. More space to grow, to imagine, to lead themselves—and to just be.

What’s Inside:

* Why play is emotional and cognitive work

* The hidden cost of over-scheduling

* Why boredom isn’t a problem—it’s a portal

* How to build trust in your child’s internal rhythm

* A gentle reflection for anyone feeling the pressure to do more

Favorite Quote from the Episode:

“They are the quiet work you do to grow strong inside. They are the practice fields for creativity, resilience, and emotional strength.”

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Journal Entry #45 - The Sock Situation: Life Skills, Tiny Shoes, and Big Lessons

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 09 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, I share a moment that started with a simple sock and turned into something much deeper—a lesson in patience, trust, and what it really means to raise capable kids.

When our children try to do something hard—like get dressed, make their own breakfast, or zip up their coat—we often rush in. Not because we don’t believe in them, but because we’re tired, running late, or worried they’ll get upset.

But what if those “inconvenient” moments are actually the ones that matter most?

This journal-style reflection is for every parent who’s ever wanted to jump in, fix it, do it faster—but is learning (like me) to slow down, let go, and trust the process.

💡 In This Episode:

* Why life skills aren’t just about chores

* What our kids are really asking for when they say “I want to do it myself”

* The emotional power of letting kids struggle a little (with support)

* How our responses shape their self-belief more than we think

* Why socks can sometimes be soul work 😅

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Journal Entry #44 - The Day of 27 Whys

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 02 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

What do birds sitting on wires, squirrels without hats, and early-morning curiosity have in common?

They all showed up before 9am.

In this episode, I reflect on a real-life, journal-style morning where my child asked 27 “why” questions before breakfast—and how I nearly missed the moment by trying to survive it instead of engaging with it.

This isn’t just a story about being a tired parent (though, yes, there’s plenty of that). It’s a story about the beauty and brilliance of a child’s mind in full question-asking mode—and what it means for us, as adults, to slow down and meet it with presence instead of shutting it down.

In This Episode, I Talk About:

* Why “Why?” questions can feel so overwhelming—and why they matter so much

* The subtle harm of saying “just because” too often

* How small moments of connection shape long-term trust

* What it really means to see the world through a child’s eyes

* The magic of flipping the question back: “What do you think?”

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Interview: Let Them Pour the Milk - Ian Standard

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 26 May 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Ian Standard, a new dad and someone who really understands the emotional intelligence side of life skills and why those small moments of independence aren’t just about tasks, but about trust, resilience, and building a strong inner voice in our kids.

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Journal Entry #43

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 19 May 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This week we’re talking about daily routines like pouring milk, folding towels, loading the dishwasher, and why those small, often frustrating moments are actually where emotional development and confidence get built. And yeah, we'll talk about how to hand over control without the whole house burning down in the process.

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Journal Entry #42

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 12 May 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This weeks journal entry is a bit of a pause button. We’re talking about what it really means to slow down—not just for our kids’ sake, but for our own. And what might happen if we stop dragging them through our timelines, and start walking with them at theirs.

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Journal Entry #41

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 05 May 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Regulating emotions can be a challenge. Have you ever seen what it looks like when someone tries to though? I did, and it was my 4yo son.

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Interview: Mothering Without A Mother - Alyssa Carlene

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 28 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Alyssa Carlene chose the path of healing. Not for a neat ending, but for a beginning. She became the mother she never had piece by piece, breath by breath.

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Journal Entry #40

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 21 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Little humans, big emotions. What does that look like when a 2yo breaks a 4yo’s heart by denying a before bedtime hug?

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Journal Entry #39

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 14 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Experience the world through a child’s eye they say.

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Journal Entry #38

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 07 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Celebrating my birthday is different when you’re kiddo actually knows how to count.

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Interview: A State Of Being Whelmed - Rhalyn David

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 31 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

For much of my life, I was brought up in an environment where the phrase “follow the child” is the guiding principle.

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Journal Entry #37

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 24 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This week I discuss the fear of losing connection with my children as they grow up

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Journal Entry #36

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 17 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

This week I explore the meaning of a parenting quote I stumbled across that hit me deep.

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Journal Entry #35

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 10 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

My kids ask if they can keep me forever, if I can be their friend, and what my favorite character in Star Wars is.

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Interview: The Value of Calm Parenting - Kirk Martin

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 03 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Yelling doesn't teach; it creates a cycle of negativity.

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Journal Entry #34

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 17 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0500

I often forget what it must be like to see things for the first time. My kids like to remind me of that on a regular basis and this week they’ve done that at the dinner table.

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Interview: Dear Men (And All Ya'll) - Steph McFarland

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 03 Feb 2025 09:04:54 -0500

How do we define masculinity and why should be viewing it differently?

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Journal Entry #33

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 03 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0500

First journal entry for the new season and for this episode we’re talking about those profound and existential questions from a toddler.

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Season 2 Trailer

J.D. Murgolo — Thu, 23 Jan 2025 13:24:49 -0500

New journal entries and interviews begin February 3.

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Entry 32: Choosing Compassion and Grace - Sam Morris

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 30 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0500

In the realm of parenting, it is natural to experience a range of emotions, both positive and negative. While it is common to feel love, joy, and pride, there are times when frustration, anger, and fear can arise. However, when it comes to responding to our children's behaviors, choosing compassion and grace over fear and anger is of paramount importance.

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Entry 31: The Challenges of Co-Parenting - Anonymous

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0500

When a couple with children decides to separate or divorce, one of the most important considerations is how to co-parent effectively. Co-parenting can be a challenging endeavor, but it is essential for the well-being of the children involved.

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Entry 30: What Does Staying Fit As A Parent Really Mean? - Patricia Siegel

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 02 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0500

There are many parts of us that we have to rethink and reevaluate when we become parents. Our health in all it’s many forms is one though that often seems to take a backseat, when really our health should be the first thing on our minds.

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Entry 29: Crafting Loves Legacy - Matthew Wilson

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 18 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Matt Wilson, a 29-year-old from Abbeville, Louisiana, shares his unique journey from working in the oil field to writing a children's book. Matt discusses his upbringing in a large, loving but unconventional Cajun family, his diverse career path, and the inspiration behind his book.

Despite not being a parent himself, Matt emphasizes the importance of imparting positive values and mindfulness to the next generation.

He dedicates his book to his mother, who taught him about unconditional love and intentional decision-making, aiming to create a lasting legacy that can guide children in their formative years.

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Entry #28: The Stigma of Lost Pregnancies - Lindsey Paulson

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 04 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Losing a pregnancy is a devastating experience that affects millions of people worldwide. Despite its prevalence, there is still a significant stigma surrounding lost pregnancies, which can make it difficult for individuals and families to cope with their grief.

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Entry 27: Unraveling Generational Ties - Jennifer McGinley

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0400

In the journey of parenting, we often find ourselves reflecting on our own upbringing and considering how we want to raise our children. While some may choose to follow in the footsteps of their parents, others may opt to break the cycle and parent differently.

This decision can be influenced by various factors, such as personal experiences, societal changes, and a desire to provide our children with a better and more nurturing environment..

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Entry 26: Why "Why" Matters - Rachael Choate

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 07 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Have you ever noticed how young children are constantly asking "why"? It's a seemingly endless barrage of questions that can sometimes be exhausting for adults. But this incessant questioning is a crucial part of a child's development.

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Entry #25: Helping Children Learn to Regulate Their Emotions - Rée

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 23 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Children's emotional experiences can be as vast and unpredictable as the ocean. Just as waves crash and recede, their emotions can surge and ebb, often leaving them feeling overwhelmed or confused. This is a normal part of childhood development, but it can also be challenging for children and their caregivers.

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Entry #24: From A Child's Perspective - Jenna Van Eps

J.D. Murgolo — Mon, 09 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0400

For a little human, the world is a boundless realm where anything is possible, and the ordinary becomes extraordinary.

Their vivid imaginations transform playtime into epic adventures where they soar through the skies as superheroes, converse with woodland creatures, and embark on daring quests.

The mundane transforms into the magnificent as they marvel at the intricate patterns of a butterfly's wings or the way sunlight dances on raindrops.

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Entry #23: Children Learn to Feel What They're Allowed - Diane Garzon

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 25 Aug 2024 05:02:00 -0400

A child’s emotional landscape is largely sculpted by the environment they grow up in. The adults in their lives, primarily parents and caregivers, act as the first and most influential teachers in this complex process.

My guest this week is: Diane Garzon

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Entry #22: Small Victories, Big Impact - Carrie Lingenfelter

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 11 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0400

In the hustle and bustle of raising children, it's easy to focus on the big milestones: first steps, first words, and graduations. While these achievements are undoubtedly significant, the smaller victories often go unnoticed. However, these seemingly insignificant triumphs play a crucial role in shaping a child's self-esteem, confidence, and overall development.

My guest this week is: Carrie Lingenfelter

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Entry 21: From First To Last - Brooke Outlaw

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 28 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0400

As a father, I try to be as present as possible. Present in body, sure. But also present in mind. Some days are easier than others. But when I do, I really lock in and see my babies experiencing the world around them, recognizing that this moment, like all moments, is as fleeting as they are unique. It’s a profound feeling, especially when those moments are quantifiable, as they are whether they’re firsts or last firsts.

This week’s guest is the founder of Conscious and Connected Parenting Brooke Outlaw

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Entry #20: Sleep Is A Skill - Kerry Secker

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 14 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Ah, bedtime. That magical time of day when dreams are made and...toddlers turn into tiny ninjas determined to avoid sleep at all costs. Anyone who's ever parented a toddler knows the struggle is real.

This week’s guest is sleep consultant and Care It Out founder Kerry Secker

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Entry #19: Words Are Important - Stacey Simms

J.D. Murgolo — Sat, 29 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Making sure that every single word in your story exists for a reason is a skill.

It’s a skill I’m constantly sharpening and, given that I’m a bit long-winded by nature, one that I don’t know I’ll ever master.

But it’s a skill that our four-year-old son puts to through its real-world paces on a nearly daily basis.

Because four-year-olds have attention spans that can only be measured in nanoseconds, whenever I’m telling my son something, I need to get the main idea across using as few words as possible.

This week’s guest is podcaster, author, and World’s Worst Diabetes Mom Stacey Simms

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Entry 18: Father's Day Fog - Peter Marusca

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 16 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Father's Day. It used to be a day of barbecues, bad jokes from Dad, and maybe a tie I’m sure my dad just humored me and wore. Now, staring down the barrel of my fourth one as a parent myself, it feels…different.

This week’s guest is Oncology Health and Wellness Coach Peter Marusca

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Entry 17: The Public Eyes of Private Children - Morgan Geyer

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 02 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Whenever I make public something about my children, I have a little emotional wrestling match.

Should I be doing this? Why? Why not? Is it causing any harm? Could it be somewhere down the line?

This podcast and accompanying newsletter are what I wrestle with most.

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Entry #16: Amplified Version Of The World - Sarah Moore

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 19 May 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Being a sensitive child may not always be an easy path, but it is a path rich with potential for growth, connection, and the creation of a more compassionate and understanding world.

This week's guest is Sarah Moore, author of “Peaceful Discipline.”

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Entry #15: You’re A Bad Guy - Johnny Bowman

J.D. Murgolo and Johnny Bowman — Sun, 05 May 2024 05:00:00 -0400

How can we understand that our kids are too young for certain activities, but when it comes to their big emotions, we expect them to be able to control them and not fall on the floor kicking and screaming?

Our guest this week is co-leader of All Kings and writer of the publication “Mens Work,” Johnny Bowman.

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Entry #14: Why Yelling Doesn't Work (and What Does) - Simone Davies

J.D. Murgolo — Thu, 25 Apr 2024 12:01:46 -0400

Think about the last time you were truly angry. Maybe it was a heated argument with a friend or a frustrating interaction at work. In those moments, could you easily articulate your feelings and propose solutions? Most likely not.

My guest this week is the wonderful ⁠Simone Davies. ⁠Simone Davies is a Montessori expert and advocate for gentle parenting. With over 15 years of experience in early childhood education, Simone is passionate about helping parents raise happy, confident, and capable children.

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Entry #13: How Wonderful This All Is - Dolores Murgolo

J.D. Murgolo — Sun, 07 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0400

After a bit of time off, we’re back and we’re starting with a refresher on why being a stay-at-home father has been the biggest gift I’ve ever received and what I am doing to change the narrative around fatherhood for the better.

We also sit down to chat with the first guest on this show. Some people call her teacher, others call her director, and many little kids call her Mrs. Dolores. As for me, I’ve spent 43 years calling her mom.

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J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 08:53:00 -0500

Join me, JD, the humbled stay-at-home father currently of a 3-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter on “Dads Cry Too” wherever you listen to podcasts, as I share both my journey of being a father as well as the stories of parents and parenting experts all across the world so that together we can change the definition of masculinity and what it means to be a father, for the better.

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Entry #12 - Let's Pause and Be Grateful

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 22 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0500

As we approach the end of the year, it's time to kick back, reflect, and bask in the warm glow of gratitude.

This will be the last episode for the year and then I’m going to take a much-needed break. When I return, I’ll be coming back with a brand new take on sharing support for parents and I cannot wait to bring it to your ears.

Until then, today, we're diving into the heart of the matter - being thankful as a parent.

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Entry #11 - Why We Shouldn't Cancel the Big Guy in Red

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Ho, ho, ho, and welcome back to another festive episode of Dad’s Cry Too! This week we're diving into a hot topic that's been circulating in the holiday air lately – the controversial idea of canceling Santa Claus.

Yes, you heard it right! But before you grab your pitchforks and candy canes, let's unwrap this debate and see why some folks are saying we should give the big guy in red a break.

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Entry #10 - Nurturing Childhood Through Family Traditions

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 08 Dec 2023 11:52:14 -0500

This week we're diving into the heartwarming world of family traditions, exploring why they're not just sentimental moments but essential building blocks for a child's upbringing.

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Entry #9 - Juggling Flaming Torches While Riding A Unicycle

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 01 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Today, we're diving into a topic that hits close to home for many of us at this time of year - the challenges of being a parent when your little bundle of energy turns into a sniffling, feverish tiny human.

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Entry #8 - Why Interacting with Your Kids Matters

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 24 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Today, we've got a topic that's close to my heart – the importance of interacting with your kids from day one.

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Entry #7 - The Changing Face of Fatherhood

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 17 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Today, we're diving into a topic that challenges the norms, reshapes perspectives, and celebrates the evolution of masculinity. That's right, we're talking about the rise of stay-at-home dads.

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Entry #6 - Follow the Child

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0400

There’s a lot of Montessori lingo out there that can sometimes be confusing, so today we’re going to take a closer look at the phrase “follow the child” and find out not only what it means, but how you can begin practicing it at home even at the infant stage of your child's development.

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Entry #5 - What's This Montessori Thing All About?

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 15 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0400

For much of my life, I was brought up in an environment where the phrase “follow the child” is the guiding principle. While there are many approaches to how one can navigate the waters of raising a child, the one we have stuck with here in our household is a Montessori approach.

Today we’re talking about what the meaning is behind a Montessori education and how adopting this philosophy can help to answer the age-old question of nature versus nurture.

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* American Montessori Society

* “The Montessori Toddler” by Simone Davies

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Entry #4 - Why Changing a Diaper is Gross, but Still the Gentleman Thing to Do

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0400

I figure that if I can change diapers, any father can. Of course, we seem to be living in a new age of fatherhood, when men do chores their fathers once avoided. Still, I’m sure there are fathers out there who are squeamish when it comes to diapers, particularly “poopies.”

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Entry #3 - From Fear to Joy: The First Week of Fatherhood

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 04 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0400

Becoming a father turned my world upside-down, in the most exhilarating way imaginable. The birth of my son sparked an emotional rollercoaster, filled with joy, fear, and a profound sense of responsibility. Welcome to a heartfelt conversation, as I recount my journey into fatherhood, and share the three most significant lessons I learned in the first week of my son’s life.

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Entry #2 - Avoiding Analysis Paralysis When You're Expecting

J.D. Murgolo — Fri, 14 Jul 2023 05:03:00 -0400

Having a baby. That’s it, that’s the sentence… err phrase. And especially if you’re a first time dad, it’s one heck of a phrase.

While I would like to leave it at that, there is a lot more to it than ‘having a baby’. Many parents find themselves in analysis paralysis when they start getting into the details of preparing for a baby.

Fear not, these tips for the first time and new dads are going to have you heading toward pro dad land in no time.

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Entry #1 - What They Don’t Tell You About Being A Stay At Home Dad

J.D. Murgolo — Thu, 25 May 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Being a parent is challenging, and anyone who tells you otherwise isn’t being honest with themselves. Getting this out of the way in the beginning not to deter you from being a parent or even cause the slightest bit of anxiety, rather, it’s something I wish more people told me before I became a parent.

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