The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/the-ins-and-outs-with-ruby-and-megan <p>What do you get when you bring a curious sex expert together with the nicest woman on OnlyFans? A show that really goes there. Each week, Ruby Rare and Megan Barton-Hanson welcome listeners to an unfiltered, playful and inclusive space to talk about sex in all its glory. They unpick all the big questions like: “How can we talk about kinks and fantasies?”, “Does stress kill the vibe?”, “What place does humour have in the bedroom?”, “How can we banish shame around sexual desires?”, and “Does wearing socks <em>actually </em>lead to a better orgasm?!”. Along the way, they share their own unforgettable stories of sex and dating, and hear from you lovely lot about your sex questions and tried-and-tested sex tips.     </p><p><br></p><p>A Mags Creative and Dear Media production.</p> © 2025 Dear Media | MAGS 51940cb9-90b9-5d71-ac5b-d572fb382f74 no Introducing... The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan en Fri, 02 May 2025 14:40:39 +0000 Wed, 03 Dec 2025 05:39:12 -0100 https://art19.com/shows/the-ins-and-outs https://img.transistor.fm/u50iVsgt2W18XwBdP6UomvBGmrIY3Xn38sZPzZj4pv8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84YTdl/NmNlNmMzNTgwNGVk/NWM3NmExZjE2YjMy/OWVkNi5qcGVn.jpg The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan https://art19.com/shows/the-ins-and-outs episodic Dear Media | MAGS <p>What do you get when you bring a curious sex expert together with the nicest woman on OnlyFans? A show that really goes there. Each week, Ruby Rare and Megan Barton-Hanson welcome listeners to an unfiltered, playful and inclusive space to talk about sex in all its glory. They unpick all the big questions like: “How can we talk about kinks and fantasies?”, “Does stress kill the vibe?”, “What place does humour have in the bedroom?”, “How can we banish shame around sexual desires?”, and “Does wearing socks <em>actually </em>lead to a better orgasm?!”. Along the way, they share their own unforgettable stories of sex and dating, and hear from you lovely lot about your sex questions and tried-and-tested sex tips.     </p><p><br></p><p>A Mags Creative and Dear Media production.</p> <p>What do you get when you bring a curious sex expert together with the nicest woman on OnlyFans. Dear Media No No Happy Galentine’s Day! 19 19 Happy Galentine’s Day! full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/YVa_spQtTZwNofaPDtOwU6Smatttbd664CPqCGpX5sM https://share.transistor.fm/s/4dc39082 Galentine’s is a day to celebrate platonic relationships (yay!) and on this podcast we get a front row seat to Meg and Ruby’s gorgeous friendship. 

These are some nourishing moments from previous episodes where Ruby and Meg share dating app advice, give sex playlist tips, and get vulnerable about singleness and weird crushes.   

What are the most important relationships in your life? Get in touch and tell us! Also hot Valentine’s plans for tomorrow? Let us know!!! 

We are taking a little break now - see you soon!


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Links and resources:


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:


Clips taken from the following episodes:

  • Being single: love or loathe?
  • Grindr for girls?
  • Porn: Sexy or unrealistic? 
  • Opening up your relationship? 


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.


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]]> Galentine’s is a day to celebrate platonic relationships (yay!) and on this podcast we get a front row seat to Meg and Ruby’s gorgeous friendship. 

These are some nourishing moments from previous episodes where Ruby and Meg share dating app advice, give sex playlist tips, and get vulnerable about singleness and weird crushes.   

What are the most important relationships in your life? Get in touch and tell us! Also hot Valentine’s plans for tomorrow? Let us know!!! 

We are taking a little break now - see you soon!


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Links and resources:


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:


Clips taken from the following episodes:

  • Being single: love or loathe?
  • Grindr for girls?
  • Porn: Sexy or unrealistic? 
  • Opening up your relationship? 


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.


See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 13 Feb 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1619 Galentine’s is a day to celebrate platonic relationships (yay!) and on this podcast we get a front row seat to Meg and Ruby’s gorgeous friendship.  These are some nourishing moments from previous episodes where Ruby and Meg share dating app advice, give sex playlist tips, and get vulnerable about singleness and weird crushes.    What are the most important relationships in your life? Get in touch and tell us! Also hot Valentine’s plans for tomorrow? Let us know!!!  We are taking a little break now - see you soon! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources:Ruby’s steamy sex playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3v2QpYyO0tSz2I5nsbKt6R Ruby’s tender sex playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1UhYyzNIbc22sBQA76NHdR Mozart’s “Leck mich im Arsch” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C78HBp-Youk  Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:Ruby’s new book - The Non-Monogamy Playbook: https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook Ethical porn: Erika Lust, Lustery, Cheex Clips taken from the following episodes:Being single: love or loathe?Grindr for girls?Porn: Sexy or unrealistic? Opening up your relationship?  The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Galentine’s is a day to celebrate platonic relationships (yay!) and on this podcast we get a front row seat to Meg and Ruby’s gorgeous friendship.  These are some nourishing moments from previous episodes where Ruby and Meg share dating app advice, give Louis Theroux,Hinge,humour,demisexual,classical music,Galentine's,playlist,oversharing,non-monogamous,Mozart,crush,humor,polyamory,Galentines,sex,dating,single,podcast,friendship,independence No Our friend, the clitoris! 17 17 Our friend, the clitoris! full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/fTWhMTPfsB3DRFQAMwT3Vp--O6dnJNeRdsb3vJiBmeo https://share.transistor.fm/s/98d77ae6 Did you know the clitoris is a wishbone shape? Or that it’s made up of the same stuff as the penis and testes? Mind blown over here! 

Ruby and Meg get into the anatomy of the clitoris, chat pleasure and tell us about their own personal discovery of the clitoris. Dining room tables and bed frames may be involved... 

Listen with care as Ruby and Meg also briefly discuss FGM. If you have been affected by FGM, the NHS offers information and support: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ruby and Meg recommendations:


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Did you know the clitoris is a wishbone shape? Or that it’s made up of the same stuff as the penis and testes? Mind blown over here! 

Ruby and Meg get into the anatomy of the clitoris, chat pleasure and tell us about their own personal discovery of the clitoris. Dining room tables and bed frames may be involved... 

Listen with care as Ruby and Meg also briefly discuss FGM. If you have been affected by FGM, the NHS offers information and support: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ruby and Meg recommendations:


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 06 Feb 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1549 Did you know the clitoris is a wishbone shape? Or that it’s made up of the same stuff as the penis and testes? Mind blown over here!  Ruby and Meg get into the anatomy of the clitoris, chat pleasure and tell us about their own personal discovery of the clitoris. Dining room tables and bed frames may be involved...  Listen with care as Ruby and Meg also briefly discuss FGM. If you have been affected by FGM, the NHS offers information and support: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg recommendations:OMGYES: https://www.omgyes.com/join   The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Did you know the clitoris is a wishbone shape? Or that it’s made up of the same stuff as the penis and testes? Mind blown over here!  Ruby and Meg get into the anatomy of the clitoris, chat pleasure and tell us about their own personal discovery of the c relationship,clit,orgasm,FGM,date,shame,vulva,clitoris,anatomy,podcast,genitals,pleasure,arousal,art gallery No When you bump into a relative at a sex party… 18 18 When you bump into a relative at a sex party… full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/J5phGus1_C_w8MJKGnkJKDZacO_Fwpx9f8LDJv6ddFY https://share.transistor.fm/s/26a16f38 Wondering if a sex party is for you? Ruby and Meg chat to Logan Star who has been in the sex party and play party space for eight years. Logan created the organisation Little Black Book, which used to run sex parties and now supports people who want to set up their own play parties.

Ruby, Meg and Logan get to the bottom of the difference between a sex party, a play party and a fetish party. They talk about what happens at these parties and how consent and aftercare works. They also speak about how to find parties like these, in the first place! As well as sharing some stories of their own…


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_

Follow Logan on socials @iamloganstar

Follow Little Black Book on socials @littleblackbookparty


Logan’s recommendations:


1. Quench 

https://www.quenchlondon.co.uk/ 

https://www.instagram.com/quench_london?igsh=MXNnaDFubnMxNXE3Nw== 


2. Riot Party

https://riotparty.co.uk/ 

https://www.instagram.com/riotpartyuk?igsh=d2pqNnp3M3hxbHZo 


3. Dominium Vita

https://dominiumvita.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/dominiumvitaevents?igsh=MXhzb3h6bXVjZHd3NQ== 


4. One Night Parties

https://www.onenightparties.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/onenightparties?igsh=MTN5c2NmejhvNTdvdg== 


5. Scene

https://www.sceneldn.uk/

https://www.instagram.com/sceneldn?igsh=eWYzczMwaXR6MHc5 


6. Pinky Promise

https://www.pinkypromiseland.co.uk/ 

https://www.instagram.com/pinkypromise.world?igsh=eTFhdjZ5c3Rxejly 


7. Lucid

https://www.instagram.com/lucid_sober_events?igsh=MTJkYTI1ejRoMzNnYQ== 


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Wondering if a sex party is for you? Ruby and Meg chat to Logan Star who has been in the sex party and play party space for eight years. Logan created the organisation Little Black Book, which used to run sex parties and now supports people who want to set up their own play parties.

Ruby, Meg and Logan get to the bottom of the difference between a sex party, a play party and a fetish party. They talk about what happens at these parties and how consent and aftercare works. They also speak about how to find parties like these, in the first place! As well as sharing some stories of their own…


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_

Follow Logan on socials @iamloganstar

Follow Little Black Book on socials @littleblackbookparty


Logan’s recommendations:


1. Quench 

https://www.quenchlondon.co.uk/ 

https://www.instagram.com/quench_london?igsh=MXNnaDFubnMxNXE3Nw== 


2. Riot Party

https://riotparty.co.uk/ 

https://www.instagram.com/riotpartyuk?igsh=d2pqNnp3M3hxbHZo 


3. Dominium Vita

https://dominiumvita.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/dominiumvitaevents?igsh=MXhzb3h6bXVjZHd3NQ== 


4. One Night Parties

https://www.onenightparties.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/onenightparties?igsh=MTN5c2NmejhvNTdvdg== 


5. Scene

https://www.sceneldn.uk/

https://www.instagram.com/sceneldn?igsh=eWYzczMwaXR6MHc5 


6. Pinky Promise

https://www.pinkypromiseland.co.uk/ 

https://www.instagram.com/pinkypromise.world?igsh=eTFhdjZ5c3Rxejly 


7. Lucid

https://www.instagram.com/lucid_sober_events?igsh=MTJkYTI1ejRoMzNnYQ== 


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 30 Jan 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2354 Wondering if a sex party is for you? Ruby and Meg chat to Logan Star who has been in the sex party and play party space for eight years. Logan created the organisation Little Black Book, which used to run sex parties and now supports people who want to set up their own play parties. Ruby, Meg and Logan get to the bottom of the difference between a sex party, a play party and a fetish party. They talk about what happens at these parties and how consent and aftercare works. They also speak about how to find parties like these, in the first place! As well as sharing some stories of their own… Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Follow Logan on socials @iamloganstar Follow Little Black Book on socials @littleblackbookparty Logan’s recommendations:Ethically Non Monogamous Fam London: @enmfamlondon ENM Fam calendar: https://teamup.com/ks2ujdfgkxiyjmkhf1Logan recommendations of sex parties: 1. Quench  https://www.quenchlondon.co.uk/  https://www.instagram.com/quench_london?igsh=MXNnaDFubnMxNXE3Nw==  2. Riot Party https://riotparty.co.uk/  https://www.instagram.com/riotpartyuk?igsh=d2pqNnp3M3hxbHZo  3. Dominium Vita https://dominiumvita.com/  https://www.instagram.com/dominiumvitaevents?igsh=MXhzb3h6bXVjZHd3NQ==  4. One Night Parties https://www.onenightparties.com/  https://www.instagram.com/onenightparties?igsh=MTN5c2NmejhvNTdvdg==  5. Scene https://www.sceneldn.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/sceneldn?igsh=eWYzczMwaXR6MHc5  6. Pinky Promise https://www.pinkypromiseland.co.uk/  https://www.instagram.com/pinkypromise.world?igsh=eTFhdjZ5c3Rxejly  7. Lucid https://www.instagram.com/lucid_sober_events?igsh=MTJkYTI1ejRoMzNnYQ==  The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Wondering if a sex party is for you? Ruby and Meg chat to Logan Star who has been in the sex party and play party space for eight years. Logan created the organisation Little Black Book, which used to run sex parties and now supports people who want to se non-monogamy,play party,community,fetishization,ethical non-monogamy,kink,elitist,sex party,race,consent,sex parties,diversity,libertine,fetish,sex,aftercare,access,lucid,intimacy,polyamory,compersion,fetish party,accessibility,queer,quench,BDSM,Swingers No Meg and Ruby get vulnerable about consent 16 16 Meg and Ruby get vulnerable about consent full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/G2vo_YSq5sf2GdPzU4T1d2l8V4WKuuhS-eUKwXWMlYM https://share.transistor.fm/s/3419d112 Consent is the bedrock of sexual interactions but so many of us have had experiences that we have not consented to. 

This is a vulnerable episode where Ruby and Meg share some of their personal experiences with consent and talk about damaging narratives around consent - something that isn’t spoken about openly enough. 

Please listen with care. Ruby and Meg spend significant time talking about rape and sexual assault.

If you have experienced rape or sexual assault, the NHS has guidance around how to find help and support. (https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/help-after-rape-and-sexual-assault/)    


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_

  

The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production


Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Consent is the bedrock of sexual interactions but so many of us have had experiences that we have not consented to. 

This is a vulnerable episode where Ruby and Meg share some of their personal experiences with consent and talk about damaging narratives around consent - something that isn’t spoken about openly enough. 

Please listen with care. Ruby and Meg spend significant time talking about rape and sexual assault.

If you have experienced rape or sexual assault, the NHS has guidance around how to find help and support. (https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/help-after-rape-and-sexual-assault/)    


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_

  

The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production


Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 23 Jan 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1864 Consent is the bedrock of sexual interactions but so many of us have had experiences that we have not consented to.  This is a vulnerable episode where Ruby and Meg share some of their personal experiences with consent and talk about damaging narratives around consent - something that isn’t spoken about openly enough.  Please listen with care. Ruby and Meg spend significant time talking about rape and sexual assault. If you have experienced rape or sexual assault, the NHS has guidance around how to find help and support. (https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/help-after-rape-and-sexual-assault/)     Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_    The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Consent is the bedrock of sexual interactions but so many of us have had experiences that we have not consented to.  This is a vulnerable episode where Ruby and Meg share some of their personal experiences with consent and talk about damaging narratives therapy,trauma responses,violence,blame,euphoria,survivors,freeze,normalization,fight or flight,vulnerability,pleasure,queer,sexual violence,strength,feelings,perpetrators,fawn,entitlement,boundaries,coercion,education,support,podcast,trans,love,communica No Being cheated on and the green-eyed monster, jealousy 15 15 Being cheated on and the green-eyed monster, jealousy full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/DKJQ7-aNu0g8Yrd67CYdwnMSnyB9Z9d5FfPOdZ19YgA https://share.transistor.fm/s/b283553b Why do we shy away from messy emotions? Meg and Ruby get into the nitty gritty of jealousy - an emotion that’s often labelled as “ugly” or “shameful”.  

Meg and Ruby talk about their experiences of being cheated on and how that can impact feeling jealous in relationships. “Mystic Meg” even had a dream about being cheated on which turned out to be true! Ruby opens up about jealousy in non-monogamous relationships and together they chat about ways of communicating jealousy to other people in a constructive way. Healthy stuff!  

Do you experience jealousy in relationships? Have you found a good way of communicating how you’re feeling? Get in touch and let us know! 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:

  • Ruby’s new book - The Non-Monogamy Playbook, which has chapters on jealousy and constructive conversation: https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook 
  • The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Why do we shy away from messy emotions? Meg and Ruby get into the nitty gritty of jealousy - an emotion that’s often labelled as “ugly” or “shameful”.  

Meg and Ruby talk about their experiences of being cheated on and how that can impact feeling jealous in relationships. “Mystic Meg” even had a dream about being cheated on which turned out to be true! Ruby opens up about jealousy in non-monogamous relationships and together they chat about ways of communicating jealousy to other people in a constructive way. Healthy stuff!  

Do you experience jealousy in relationships? Have you found a good way of communicating how you’re feeling? Get in touch and let us know! 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:

  • Ruby’s new book - The Non-Monogamy Playbook, which has chapters on jealousy and constructive conversation: https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook 
  • The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Thu, 16 Jan 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2014 Why do we shy away from messy emotions? Meg and Ruby get into the nitty gritty of jealousy - an emotion that’s often labelled as “ugly” or “shameful”.   Meg and Ruby talk about their experiences of being cheated on and how that can impact feeling jealous in relationships. “Mystic Meg” even had a dream about being cheated on which turned out to be true! Ruby opens up about jealousy in non-monogamous relationships and together they chat about ways of communicating jealousy to other people in a constructive way. Healthy stuff!   Do you experience jealousy in relationships? Have you found a good way of communicating how you’re feeling? Get in touch and let us know!  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:Ruby’s new book - The Non-Monogamy Playbook, which has chapters on jealousy and constructive conversation: https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Why do we shy away from messy emotions? Meg and Ruby get into the nitty gritty of jealousy - an emotion that’s often labelled as “ugly” or “shameful”.   Meg and Ruby talk about their experiences of being cheated on and how that can impact feeling jealous forgiveness,Shakespeare,comparison,vulnerability,Insecurity,emotional honesty,comfort,attraction,cheating,insecurity,variety,relationship,self-reflection,mental health,childhood,sleep,non-monogamy,exes,dreams,emotions,monogamy,hookups,communication,emotio No "Is my big sexual fantasy normal?" Your sex questions and stories! 14 14 "Is my big sexual fantasy normal?" Your sex questions and stories! full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/K6eDvTzNcXAV3l1_Jjv3Z-0hfVkRjhy6BAXTCZ1meHQ https://share.transistor.fm/s/a395a78d We have been gagging for an episode full of your sex questions and stories and finally here it is! Ruby and Meg de-stigmatise a listener’s kink - wanting to watch his partner have sex with someone else - and discuss the “cuck” chair in hotel rooms. (You’ll never be able to see a hotel room in the same way again). Ruby and Meg get deep talking through a listener question about whether BDSM should be on the sex ed curriculum. And we settle in for story time as a listener message transports us back to a noughties hip hop night where a bandana-fuelled hook up ended in bloody bed sheets. It’s a wild ride. You’re welcome!   

Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

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Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

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]]> We have been gagging for an episode full of your sex questions and stories and finally here it is! Ruby and Meg de-stigmatise a listener’s kink - wanting to watch his partner have sex with someone else - and discuss the “cuck” chair in hotel rooms. (You’ll never be able to see a hotel room in the same way again). Ruby and Meg get deep talking through a listener question about whether BDSM should be on the sex ed curriculum. And we settle in for story time as a listener message transports us back to a noughties hip hop night where a bandana-fuelled hook up ended in bloody bed sheets. It’s a wild ride. You’re welcome!   

Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

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Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Thu, 09 Jan 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1825 We have been gagging for an episode full of your sex questions and stories and finally here it is! Ruby and Meg de-stigmatise a listener’s kink - wanting to watch his partner have sex with someone else - and discuss the “cuck” chair in hotel rooms. (You’ll never be able to see a hotel room in the same way again). Ruby and Meg get deep talking through a listener question about whether BDSM should be on the sex ed curriculum. And we settle in for story time as a listener message transports us back to a noughties hip hop night where a bandana-fuelled hook up ended in bloody bed sheets. It’s a wild ride. You’re welcome!    Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. We have been gagging for an episode full of your sex questions and stories and finally here it is! Ruby and Meg de-stigmatise a listener’s kink - wanting to watch his partner have sex with someone else - and discuss the “cuck” chair in hotel rooms. (You’l Ruby Rare,kink,safety,humiliation,cuckold,consent,sexual,BDSM,sex education,desire,sex,porn,podcast,masculinity,fantasy,sexuality,Megan Barton-Hanson,The Ins and Outs No Opening up your relationship? 11 11 Opening up your relationship? full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/nsZ8ZrISBSri5EsRWTXLJt8SsHBlNoqdqmOrlhUmszM https://share.transistor.fm/s/08a5f360 Wondering if you should open up your relationship or try out polyamory? You’re not alone! More and more people seem to be having this conversation. 

Ruby and Meg get into what it truly means to be non-monogamous. Ruby shares what her life looks like as a solo polyamorous babe and Meg contemplates whether non-monogamy could ever be for her. They chat about what it means to build relationships outside of the “norm” and why we’re taught to believe that love can run out. A hot Countdown collab is floated with (non-monogamous?) Carol Vorderman. Plus plot twist - Meg wonders whether she could date Ruby’s dad…


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Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

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Resources:


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:

  • Ruby’s new book! The Non-Monogamy Playbook https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook 
  • The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy by Lola Phoenix  
  • Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson
  • How to understand your relationship by Meg-John Barker and Alex Iantaffi (Pub. 2025) 


 

The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

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]]> Wondering if you should open up your relationship or try out polyamory? You’re not alone! More and more people seem to be having this conversation. 

Ruby and Meg get into what it truly means to be non-monogamous. Ruby shares what her life looks like as a solo polyamorous babe and Meg contemplates whether non-monogamy could ever be for her. They chat about what it means to build relationships outside of the “norm” and why we’re taught to believe that love can run out. A hot Countdown collab is floated with (non-monogamous?) Carol Vorderman. Plus plot twist - Meg wonders whether she could date Ruby’s dad…


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Resources:


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:

  • Ruby’s new book! The Non-Monogamy Playbook https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook 
  • The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy by Lola Phoenix  
  • Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson
  • How to understand your relationship by Meg-John Barker and Alex Iantaffi (Pub. 2025) 


 

The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Thu, 02 Jan 2025 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2306 Wondering if you should open up your relationship or try out polyamory? You’re not alone! More and more people seem to be having this conversation.  Ruby and Meg get into what it truly means to be non-monogamous. Ruby shares what her life looks like as a solo polyamorous babe and Meg contemplates whether non-monogamy could ever be for her. They chat about what it means to build relationships outside of the “norm” and why we’re taught to believe that love can run out. A hot Countdown collab is floated with (non-monogamous?) Carol Vorderman. Plus plot twist - Meg wonders whether she could date Ruby’s dad… Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Resources:Non-monogamy quiz from: https://www.askdiem.com/post/the-beginner-s-guide-to-opening-up-your-relationship-part-1   Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:Ruby’s new book! The Non-Monogamy Playbook https://lnk.to/thenonmonogamyplaybook The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy by Lola Phoenix  Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. PattersonHow to understand your relationship by Meg-John Barker and Alex Iantaffi (Pub. 2025)    The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Wondering if you should open up your relationship or try out polyamory? You’re not alone! More and more people seem to be having this conversation.  Ruby and Meg get into what it truly means to be non-monogamous. Ruby shares what her life looks like as a relationships,ruby rare,selfies,love,jealousy,monogamish,cheating,polyamory,OnlyFans,podcast,solo polyamory,megan barton-hanson,nude,non-monogamy,advice,jealous No Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! Back on 2nd Jan 12 12 Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! Back on 2nd Jan full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/AFW2aWdrwQVnyLlpimI2PRZBFqgnjDYirSsn2JP8iRs https://share.transistor.fm/s/db2a258a Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! We'll be back with a full episode of The Ins and Outs on 2nd Jan

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]]> Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! We'll be back with a full episode of The Ins and Outs on 2nd Jan

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]]> Thu, 26 Dec 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 138 Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! We'll be back with a full episode of The Ins and Outs on 2nd Jan See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! We'll be back with a full episode of The Ins and Outs on 2nd Jan See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. podcast,Christmas,New Year,Ruby Rare,Megan Barton-Hanson No Grindr for girls? 10 10 Grindr for girls? full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/uUcoB_4TSYFx8jHkc2MNi5cnST4VWtdbDQvFL2VClTE https://share.transistor.fm/s/d1a0e7d8 Buckle up as Ruby and Meg reveal their Hinge and Feeld dating profiles, offering each other (and you listeners!) dating app tips along the way. 

We hear about Ruby and Meg’s best and weirdest dating app stories - from Ruby’s first date at a sex party to Meg’s phase of dating furiously to get a ‘festive boyfriend’. They laugh about creating romantic fantasies about people before and after dates - “what will my wedding speech be like?!” And Meg prepares for a first date TONIGHT! Also… where is the Grindr for girls please?? 


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Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Buckle up as Ruby and Meg reveal their Hinge and Feeld dating profiles, offering each other (and you listeners!) dating app tips along the way. 

We hear about Ruby and Meg’s best and weirdest dating app stories - from Ruby’s first date at a sex party to Meg’s phase of dating furiously to get a ‘festive boyfriend’. They laugh about creating romantic fantasies about people before and after dates - “what will my wedding speech be like?!” And Meg prepares for a first date TONIGHT! Also… where is the Grindr for girls please?? 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


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]]> Thu, 19 Dec 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2258 Buckle up as Ruby and Meg reveal their Hinge and Feeld dating profiles, offering each other (and you listeners!) dating app tips along the way.  We hear about Ruby and Meg’s best and weirdest dating app stories - from Ruby’s first date at a sex party to Meg’s phase of dating furiously to get a ‘festive boyfriend’. They laugh about creating romantic fantasies about people before and after dates - “what will my wedding speech be like?!” And Meg prepares for a first date TONIGHT! Also… where is the Grindr for girls please??  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Buckle up as Ruby and Meg reveal their Hinge and Feeld dating profiles, offering each other (and you listeners!) dating app tips along the way.  We hear about Ruby and Meg’s best and weirdest dating app stories - from Ruby’s first date at a sex party to Sniffies,icks,ick,relationships,profile,Grindr,fantasy,cruising,Romance,cottaging,feeld,love,dating apps,Hinge,queer,dating,Podcast,non-monogamy No Self-love slob 9 9 Self-love slob full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/31ry307optwoImXsZMVCKSNM1fERdoeUKb0naFbgAtY https://share.transistor.fm/s/1a7a6c96 Stress can be a b**ch for us and our sex lives. 

Ruby and Meg share what happens to their sexual desire when they’re stressed, Ruby reveals the science behind stress and they both share their tips for how to deal with stress impacting your sex life. Meg also petitions for a national holiday where only hibernation and self-love slobbing is allowed. Sounds great, no?!


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Stress can be a b**ch for us and our sex lives. 

Ruby and Meg share what happens to their sexual desire when they’re stressed, Ruby reveals the science behind stress and they both share their tips for how to deal with stress impacting your sex life. Meg also petitions for a national holiday where only hibernation and self-love slobbing is allowed. Sounds great, no?!


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 

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]]> Thu, 12 Dec 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2131 Stress can be a b**ch for us and our sex lives.  Ruby and Meg share what happens to their sexual desire when they’re stressed, Ruby reveals the science behind stress and they both share their tips for how to deal with stress impacting your sex life. Meg also petitions for a national holiday where only hibernation and self-love slobbing is allowed. Sounds great, no?! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Stress can be a b**ch for us and our sex lives.  Ruby and Meg share what happens to their sexual desire when they’re stressed, Ruby reveals the science behind stress and they both share their tips for how to deal with stress impacting your sex life. Meg pleasure,self-love,burnout,ADHD,stress,sex,ectopic pregnancy,grief No I’m on Grindr not Children in Need! With Ash Self 8 8 I’m on Grindr not Children in Need! With Ash Self full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/mm6rY-h6FqT0mpTuMZTLcDOPRL4rDsI-59ddBo8ZoDI https://share.transistor.fm/s/1d09b95e Ruby and Meg chat to actor, comedian and writer Ash Self (best known for playing Felix in Heartstopper), who debunks the myth that disabled people either can’t have sex or don’t want to. 

We hear about sex education (or lack of it) in the hospital youth ward where Ash spent some time and how he feels people expect to see him on Children in Need rather than Grindr. Ruby, Meg and Ash also debate whether Love Island is ready for a trans wheelchair user (or even just hairy armpits?!). 

Ash shares his dating highs - sleeping with another trans person for the first time - and dating lows  - a comically bad sex moment that he swerved, thanks to asthma and his gran! 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

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Follow Ash on socials @smashself


Ash’s recommendations:

  • Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire, edited by Alice Wong


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations

  • Heartstopper TV series (Netflix)


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Ruby and Meg chat to actor, comedian and writer Ash Self (best known for playing Felix in Heartstopper), who debunks the myth that disabled people either can’t have sex or don’t want to. 

We hear about sex education (or lack of it) in the hospital youth ward where Ash spent some time and how he feels people expect to see him on Children in Need rather than Grindr. Ruby, Meg and Ash also debate whether Love Island is ready for a trans wheelchair user (or even just hairy armpits?!). 

Ash shares his dating highs - sleeping with another trans person for the first time - and dating lows  - a comically bad sex moment that he swerved, thanks to asthma and his gran! 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_

Follow Ash on socials @smashself


Ash’s recommendations:

  • Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire, edited by Alice Wong


Ruby and Meg’s recommendations

  • Heartstopper TV series (Netflix)


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


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]]> Thu, 05 Dec 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2159 Ruby and Meg chat to actor, comedian and writer Ash Self (best known for playing Felix in Heartstopper), who debunks the myth that disabled people either can’t have sex or don’t want to.  We hear about sex education (or lack of it) in the hospital youth ward where Ash spent some time and how he feels people expect to see him on Children in Need rather than Grindr. Ruby, Meg and Ash also debate whether Love Island is ready for a trans wheelchair user (or even just hairy armpits?!).  Ash shares his dating highs - sleeping with another trans person for the first time - and dating lows  - a comically bad sex moment that he swerved, thanks to asthma and his gran!  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Follow Ash on socials @smashself Ash’s recommendations:Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire, edited by Alice Wong Ruby and Meg’s recommendationsHeartstopper TV series (Netflix) The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Ruby and Meg chat to actor, comedian and writer Ash Self (best known for playing Felix in Heartstopper), who debunks the myth that disabled people either can’t have sex or don’t want to.  We hear about sex education (or lack of it) in the hospital youth intimacy coordinator,access ,queer,dating profiles,trans,sex education,sex ed,dating shows,education,queer joy,Heartstopper,dating apps,disability,trans joy,bad sex story,Love Island,humour,advocacy,disabilities,sex No Is squirt actually wee? Strap in! 7 7 Is squirt actually wee? Strap in! full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/IQ97Byo3_oDGiqF2YJ7gdHpSdpXXaA6buE-ynzHsVtw https://share.transistor.fm/s/ebf1509c There are stories akimbo in this episode as Ruby and Meg continue chatting about the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons!   

Ruby shares whether squirting is actually pee and reveals the world record for the highest volume of squirt. (Pimms jug anyone?!). Ruby and Meg exchange surprising squirting stories and discuss wearing a strap-on to… watch TV. 

This is the second half of a two-part episode. Scroll back to last week’s episode for part one!   


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

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Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Splash Blanket
  • Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo 


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> There are stories akimbo in this episode as Ruby and Meg continue chatting about the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons!   

Ruby shares whether squirting is actually pee and reveals the world record for the highest volume of squirt. (Pimms jug anyone?!). Ruby and Meg exchange surprising squirting stories and discuss wearing a strap-on to… watch TV. 

This is the second half of a two-part episode. Scroll back to last week’s episode for part one!   


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_

 

Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Splash Blanket
  • Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo 


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Thu, 28 Nov 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2536 There are stories akimbo in this episode as Ruby and Meg continue chatting about the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons!    Ruby shares whether squirting is actually pee and reveals the world record for the highest volume of squirt. (Pimms jug anyone?!). Ruby and Meg exchange surprising squirting stories and discuss wearing a strap-on to… watch TV.  This is the second half of a two-part episode. Scroll back to last week’s episode for part one!    Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_   Ruby and Meg recommendations:Splash BlanketNjoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo  The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. There are stories akimbo in this episode as Ruby and Meg continue chatting about the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons!    Ruby shares whether squirting is actually pee and reveals the world record for the highest volume of squirt sex,lube,strap-ons,sex education,sex ed,squirting,dildo,squirt,strap on,The Ins and Outs,strap-on,Megan Barton-Hanson,strapon,Ruby Rare No Gliding and sliding, baby! 6 6 Gliding and sliding, baby! full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/_IqSYHnRTd453Gu19Rt_F0LuoAQmzndYpbvaHKnFqy4 https://share.transistor.fm/s/dd2e7d24 Ruby and Meg tackle the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons! 

Ruby gives us the lowdown on different kinds of lube and Meg shares the moment lube got her featured in The Sun. Ruby builds up to revealing an explicit lube-related story that her book editor asked her to remove before the book was published. 

This is a two-part episode. Part two out next week!   


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ruby and Meg’s lube recommendations:

  • YES Organic lube
  • Pasante lube
  • Liquid silk lube


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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]]> Ruby and Meg tackle the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons! 

Ruby gives us the lowdown on different kinds of lube and Meg shares the moment lube got her featured in The Sun. Ruby builds up to revealing an explicit lube-related story that her book editor asked her to remove before the book was published. 

This is a two-part episode. Part two out next week!   


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ruby and Meg’s lube recommendations:

  • YES Organic lube
  • Pasante lube
  • Liquid silk lube


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 



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]]> Thu, 21 Nov 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1897 Ruby and Meg tackle the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons!  Ruby gives us the lowdown on different kinds of lube and Meg shares the moment lube got her featured in The Sun. Ruby builds up to revealing an explicit lube-related story that her book editor asked her to remove before the book was published.  This is a two-part episode. Part two out next week!    Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg’s lube recommendations:YES Organic lubePasante lubeLiquid silk lube The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Ruby and Meg tackle the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons!  Ruby gives us the lowdown on different kinds of lube and Meg shares the moment lube got her featured in The Sun. Ruby builds up to revealing an explicit lube-related stor Relationships,misconceptions,lubrication,wetness,dating,normalise,sexuality,change,sex,fisting,stigma,single life,condoms,yeast infections,shame,Ruby Rare,Podcast,Sex education,Lube,The Ins and Outs,Megan Barton-Hanson No Slut shaming and secret fantasies with Charlotte Fox Weber 5 5 Slut shaming and secret fantasies with Charlotte Fox Weber full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/krPoVs4_j04nd704-a8SeRXMx8P_ZXP7zxFI96yGjeA https://share.transistor.fm/s/b4a1fbb8 Who are you when no one else is watching? Ruby and Meg have a raw and candid discussion with their first ever guest: author and psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber. 

From painful stories of being slut shamed to laughing at the shame you can feel for f*cked up TV crushes, Ruby, Meg and Charlotte get shame out in the open. This is a complex and tender discussion. 

Sexual violence is discussed in this episode so please listen with care. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Links and resources: 


Charlotte recommendations:

  • Paula Rego (Artist)
  • Anaïs Nin (Author)


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


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]]> Who are you when no one else is watching? Ruby and Meg have a raw and candid discussion with their first ever guest: author and psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber. 

From painful stories of being slut shamed to laughing at the shame you can feel for f*cked up TV crushes, Ruby, Meg and Charlotte get shame out in the open. This is a complex and tender discussion. 

Sexual violence is discussed in this episode so please listen with care. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Links and resources: 


Charlotte recommendations:

  • Paula Rego (Artist)
  • Anaïs Nin (Author)


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. 


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]]> Thu, 14 Nov 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1818 Who are you when no one else is watching? Ruby and Meg have a raw and candid discussion with their first ever guest: author and psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber.  From painful stories of being slut shamed to laughing at the shame you can feel for f*cked up TV crushes, Ruby, Meg and Charlotte get shame out in the open. This is a complex and tender discussion.  Sexual violence is discussed in this episode so please listen with care. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources: Charlotte Fox Weber: @charlottefoxweberpsychotherapy Sacred Monsters (Forthcoming) by Charlotte Fox WeberWhat We Want by Charlotte Fox Weber Charlotte recommendations:Paula Rego (Artist)Anaïs Nin (Author) The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Who are you when no one else is watching? Ruby and Meg have a raw and candid discussion with their first ever guest: author and psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber.  From painful stories of being slut shamed to laughing at the shame you can feel for f*ck No Speedy sperm, awkward sex-ed and Meg asks: why are we learning about triangles but not sex? 4 4 Speedy sperm, awkward sex-ed and Meg asks: why are we learning about triangles but not sex? full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/9WYREnL3xpQDwHUpJbCcsHCPHa0Nsgv2NM3aJnK092A https://share.transistor.fm/s/1ea3e7a9 Was your sex ed growing up giving Mean Girls vibes? Ruby and Meg give you the sex ed you wish you’d had…. Including a fun fact about the speed of sperm! 


As a sex educator on the ground, Ruby shares some of the most popular questions kids ask in sex ed classes and Meg shares her mortifying 1970s-style sex ed experience at school. They chat about the things they wish they’d been told and why a more open dialogue would help cut the shame and stigma for teens figuring out their sexuality. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_



Links and resources: 


Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults by Ruby Rare



The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Was your sex ed growing up giving Mean Girls vibes? Ruby and Meg give you the sex ed you wish you’d had…. Including a fun fact about the speed of sperm! 


As a sex educator on the ground, Ruby shares some of the most popular questions kids ask in sex ed classes and Meg shares her mortifying 1970s-style sex ed experience at school. They chat about the things they wish they’d been told and why a more open dialogue would help cut the shame and stigma for teens figuring out their sexuality. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_



Links and resources: 


Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults by Ruby Rare



The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 07 Nov 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 2232 Was your sex ed growing up giving Mean Girls vibes? Ruby and Meg give you the sex ed you wish you’d had…. Including a fun fact about the speed of sperm!  As a sex educator on the ground, Ruby shares some of the most popular questions kids ask in sex ed classes and Meg shares her mortifying 1970s-style sex ed experience at school. They chat about the things they wish they’d been told and why a more open dialogue would help cut the shame and stigma for teens figuring out their sexuality.  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources: History of the dildo - e.g. https://umsu.unimelb.edu.au/news/article/7797/2019-08-11-the-history-of-the-dildo/ Alabama and sex toys - e.g. https://www.seattletimes.com/nation-world/high-court-lets-alabama-sex-toy-ban-stand/ Sex ed guidance (May 2024) - https://educationhub.blog.gov.uk/2024/05/16/new-rshe-guidance-what-it-means-for-sex-education-lessons-in-schools/  Ruby and Meg recommendations:Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults by Ruby Rare The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Was your sex ed growing up giving Mean Girls vibes? Ruby and Meg give you the sex ed you wish you’d had…. Including a fun fact about the speed of sperm!  As a sex educator on the ground, Ruby shares some of the most popular questions kids ask in sex e No Porn: Sexy or unrealistic? 3 3 Porn: Sexy or unrealistic? full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/qesdw1y4EWSyA2RJve042D_UGcpGMCN-JovpEjeBCus https://share.transistor.fm/s/c5ccdced Ruby and Meg chat about the first time they watched porn, growing up queer, the history of porn, and the ethical porn industry. Plus, what are the top 5 search terms of PornHub? Ruby and Meg reveal all. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_



Links and resources:


Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Ethical porn: Erika Lust, Lustery, Cheex



The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



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]]> Ruby and Meg chat about the first time they watched porn, growing up queer, the history of porn, and the ethical porn industry. Plus, what are the top 5 search terms of PornHub? Ruby and Meg reveal all. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_



Links and resources:


Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Ethical porn: Erika Lust, Lustery, Cheex



The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 31 Oct 2024 02:00:00 -0100 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1678 Ruby and Meg chat about the first time they watched porn, growing up queer, the history of porn, and the ethical porn industry. Plus, what are the top 5 search terms of PornHub? Ruby and Meg reveal all.  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources:Mozart’s “Leck mich im Arsch” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C78HBp-Youk Ruby’s steamy sex playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3v2QpYyO0tSz2I5nsbKt6R Ruby’s tender sex playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1UhYyzNIbc22sBQA76NHdR Top 5 UK search terms on Pornhub (2023) - https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2023-year-in-review#united-kingdom   Ruby and Meg recommendations:Ethical porn: Erika Lust, Lustery, Cheex The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Ruby and Meg chat about the first time they watched porn, growing up queer, the history of porn, and the ethical porn industry. Plus, what are the top 5 search terms of PornHub? Ruby and Meg reveal all.  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Fol No Kinks, BDSM and fetishes: What's the difference? 2 2 Kinks, BDSM and fetishes: What's the difference? full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/AIiwm-yuRZ4XHP-okxLyHGKh6Jpc_esRO4AXdL1rZGo https://share.transistor.fm/s/cd6fb37b Do you know your fetish from your kink? Ruby and Meg have got you covered. 


Meg spills the beans (or should we say custard and gravy?!) on things she was asked to do as a sex worker and Ruby gets hot and bothered talking about jelly. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_



Ruby and Meg recommendations:


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Do you know your fetish from your kink? Ruby and Meg have got you covered. 


Meg spills the beans (or should we say custard and gravy?!) on things she was asked to do as a sex worker and Ruby gets hot and bothered talking about jelly. 


Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_



Ruby and Meg recommendations:


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Thu, 24 Oct 2024 02:00:00 +0000 Dear Media | MAGS Dear Media | MAGS 1750 Do you know your fetish from your kink? Ruby and Meg have got you covered.  Meg spills the beans (or should we say custard and gravy?!) on things she was asked to do as a sex worker and Ruby gets hot and bothered talking about jelly.  Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare  Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg recommendations:The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet HardyKink, edited by R.O. Kwon and Garth GreenwellKink educator Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom/?hl=en  The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production   Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Do you know your fetish from your kink? Ruby and Meg have got you covered.  Meg spills the beans (or should we say custard and gravy?!) on things she was asked to do as a sex worker and Ruby gets hot and bothered talking about jelly.  Email the po No Being single: love or loathe? 1 1 Being single: love or loathe? full gid://art19-episode-locator/V0/SyGg06Y1GM4ZWi1vgWohdEelOwmw2T13aUMUYhroCDQ https://share.transistor.fm/s/b4f27454 Ruby is newly single and to use her own words, entering a ‘slaggy era’. Megan has been single for years. So what’s their take on singleness? 


Ruby and Meg chat about their personal lives, the shocking cost of being single, solo sex and w**king stories, and where the “modern Bridget Jones” would be living today.

Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@InsandOutspod

Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ep links and resources: 


Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Really Good, Actually by Monica Heisey


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional.



See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

]]> Ruby is newly single and to use her own words, entering a ‘slaggy era’. Megan has been single for years. So what’s their take on singleness? 


Ruby and Meg chat about their personal lives, the shocking cost of being single, solo sex and w**king stories, and where the “modern Bridget Jones” would be living today.

Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@InsandOutspod

Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com

Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare 

Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_


Ep links and resources: 


Ruby and Meg recommendations:

  • Really Good, Actually by Monica Heisey


The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production

 

Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale

Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House

Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom


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