Shattered and Shamed with Laney and Brian Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/shattered-and-shamed-with-laney-and-brian Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery © 2025 Laney and Brian 1c07c139-bc36-57d5-a541-ca321e034016 no en Wed, 23 Jul 2025 09:37:20 -0500 Wed, 03 Dec 2025 00:44:15 -0600 https://img.transistor.fm/xu1aJSIZoKTRn8F5Y_31naIzrs-YVlSmeQl18v6gzWE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9mMThl/YWRlNGUxYjg5OWQ1/N2I4ODkyMWYwYzJi/NTc4Ny5wbmc.jpg Shattered and Shamed with Laney and Brian episodic Laney and Brian Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery. Shattered and Shamed No No Episode 6: Dina Hijazi – Therapeutic Disclosure 6 6 Episode 6: Dina Hijazi – Therapeutic Disclosure full 546c3607-a4f3-4ea3-9fb5-7da455ed0caf https://share.transistor.fm/s/92c933f8 Summary: Dina talks about therapeutic disclosure of betrayal. She talks through the different steps of therapeutic disclosure and the difference between therapeutic disclosure and self-led disclosures.

Links: https://d2counseling.com/

Disclosure Booklet A (https://a.co/d/fsowyYi) 

Disclosure Booklet B (https://a.co/d/8A12JtA)

]]> Summary: Dina talks about therapeutic disclosure of betrayal. She talks through the different steps of therapeutic disclosure and the difference between therapeutic disclosure and self-led disclosures.

Links: https://d2counseling.com/

Disclosure Booklet A (https://a.co/d/fsowyYi) 

Disclosure Booklet B (https://a.co/d/8A12JtA)

]]> Sat, 17 May 2025 19:50:10 -0500 Laney and Brian Laney and Brian 2096 Summary: Dina talks about therapeutic disclosure of betrayal. She talks through the different steps of therapeutic disclosure and the difference between therapeutic disclosure and self-led disclosures.

Links: https://d2counseling.com/

Disclosure Booklet A (https://a.co/d/fsowyYi) 

Disclosure Booklet B (https://a.co/d/8A12JtA)

]]> No Episode 5: Daniel Gowan – Why Do Men Cheat? 5 5 Episode 5: Daniel Gowan – Why Do Men Cheat? full a56811d3-7a43-4c0b-8d1f-c2ce8246eb9e https://share.transistor.fm/s/0fb66a95 Summary: Daniel talks about different factors that lead men to cheat, including lack of healthy boundaries, unhealthy coping mechanisms, unhealthy relationships with self, along with how to shift out of those patterns. 

Links: https://d2counseling.com/

]]> Summary: Daniel talks about different factors that lead men to cheat, including lack of healthy boundaries, unhealthy coping mechanisms, unhealthy relationships with self, along with how to shift out of those patterns. 

Links: https://d2counseling.com/

]]> Sat, 17 May 2025 19:47:42 -0500 Laney and Brian Laney and Brian 2279 Summary: Daniel talks about different factors that lead men to cheat, including lack of healthy boundaries, unhealthy coping mechanisms, unhealthy relationships with self, along with how to shift out of those patterns. 

Links: https://d2counseling.com/

]]> No Episode 4: Maddie Corman – Creating “Accidentally Brave” 4 4 Episode 4: Maddie Corman – Creating “Accidentally Brave” full 1607fd5d-8c56-4b00-8d3b-a46140e0ee3c https://share.transistor.fm/s/a8f13108 Summary: Maddie talks about creating her play “Accidentally Brave” and the process that led to the creation of the movie, along with what she learned from the process. 

Links: https://www.maddiecorman.com/accidentally-brave

http://accidentallybrave.com/

Accidentally Brave Movie (https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0DTSKRB2Z/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r)

Accidentally Brave Audible (https://a.co/d/2AIF4Cq) 

 

]]> Summary: Maddie talks about creating her play “Accidentally Brave” and the process that led to the creation of the movie, along with what she learned from the process. 

Links: https://www.maddiecorman.com/accidentally-brave

http://accidentallybrave.com/

Accidentally Brave Movie (https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0DTSKRB2Z/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r)

Accidentally Brave Audible (https://a.co/d/2AIF4Cq) 

 

]]> Sat, 17 May 2025 19:40:59 -0500 Laney and Brian Laney and Brian 4418 Summary: Maddie talks about creating her play “Accidentally Brave” and the process that led to the creation of the movie, along with what she learned from the process. 

Links: https://www.maddiecorman.com/accidentally-brave

http://accidentallybrave.com/

Accidentally Brave Movie (https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0DTSKRB2Z/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r)

Accidentally Brave Audible (https://a.co/d/2AIF4Cq) 

 

]]> No Episode 3: Dan Drake - Using the Intimacy Pyramid in Individual and Relational Recovery 3 3 Episode 3: Dan Drake - Using the Intimacy Pyramid in Individual and Relational Recovery full e91394e8-e7b9-44bc-be8d-6bf72408985e https://share.transistor.fm/s/c123ce35 Summary: Dan Drake talks about how the steps of the Intimacy Pyramid outline the process of recovering from betrayal in primary relationships. He explains that connection is built on honesty, which creates safety, building the potential for trust, which allows for vulnerability, leading to intimacy. 

Links: https://banyantherapygroup.com/

https://kintsugirecoverypartners.com/

Books: Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection That Stands the Test of Time https://a.co/d/6Wvd5fc

Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal (https://a.co/d/cxXFuZi)

Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal (https://a.co/d/09IzFSg) 

]]> Summary: Dan Drake talks about how the steps of the Intimacy Pyramid outline the process of recovering from betrayal in primary relationships. He explains that connection is built on honesty, which creates safety, building the potential for trust, which allows for vulnerability, leading to intimacy. 

Links: https://banyantherapygroup.com/

https://kintsugirecoverypartners.com/

Books: Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection That Stands the Test of Time https://a.co/d/6Wvd5fc

Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal (https://a.co/d/cxXFuZi)

Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal (https://a.co/d/09IzFSg) 

]]> Sat, 17 May 2025 19:36:20 -0500 Laney and Brian Laney and Brian 2590 Summary: Dan Drake talks about how the steps of the Intimacy Pyramid outline the process of recovering from betrayal in primary relationships. He explains that connection is built on honesty, which creates safety, building the potential for trust, which allows for vulnerability, leading to intimacy. 

Links: https://banyantherapygroup.com/

https://kintsugirecoverypartners.com/

Books: Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection That Stands the Test of Time https://a.co/d/6Wvd5fc

Full Disclosure: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal (https://a.co/d/cxXFuZi)

Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal (https://a.co/d/09IzFSg) 

]]> No Episode 2: Carol Sheets – Building Empathy in the Process of Repairing Trust 2 2 Episode 2: Carol Sheets – Building Empathy in the Process of Repairing Trust full 17fec941-d28d-4cb7-ac69-ae15af61a374 https://share.transistor.fm/s/156ea608 Summary: Carol the Coach talks with us about ERCEM (Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model), which she developed to help couples heal from betrayal. She explains the model and the importance of empathy in relational recovery from betrayal. 

Links: https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/certification

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/ercem-specialist

Books: Help.Her.Heal (https://a.co/d/8UokOh4) 

Help.Them.Heal (https://a.co/d/hSDFfT9) 

Unleashing Your Power (https://a.co/d/6w8mbNM)

]]> Summary: Carol the Coach talks with us about ERCEM (Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model), which she developed to help couples heal from betrayal. She explains the model and the importance of empathy in relational recovery from betrayal. 

Links: https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/certification

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/ercem-specialist

Books: Help.Her.Heal (https://a.co/d/8UokOh4) 

Help.Them.Heal (https://a.co/d/hSDFfT9) 

Unleashing Your Power (https://a.co/d/6w8mbNM)

]]> Sat, 17 May 2025 19:33:00 -0500 Laney and Brian Laney and Brian 2350 Summary: Carol the Coach talks with us about ERCEM (Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model), which she developed to help couples heal from betrayal. She explains the model and the importance of empathy in relational recovery from betrayal. 

Links: https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/certification

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/ercem-specialist

Books: Help.Her.Heal (https://a.co/d/8UokOh4) 

Help.Them.Heal (https://a.co/d/hSDFfT9) 

Unleashing Your Power (https://a.co/d/6w8mbNM)

]]> No Episode 1: An introduction to Laney and Brian, the hosts of Shattered & Shamed. 1 1 Episode 1: An introduction to Laney and Brian, the hosts of Shattered & Shamed. full 7960b36a-00c7-4901-a9c0-4c8981a3341c https://share.transistor.fm/s/8e397fd5 Summary: Laney and Brian introduce each other and explain why they started this podcast and what you can expect from the episodes. 

Links: https://northstarrc.com/

https://knowltoncounseling.com/

https://relationshipsmatter.com/

https://www.connectedrecoverytraining.com/

Books: Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery (https://a.co/d/3wqfWbP)

Disclosure Booklet A (https://a.co/d/fsowyYi) 

Disclosure Booklet B (https://a.co/d/8A12JtA)

]]> Summary: Laney and Brian introduce each other and explain why they started this podcast and what you can expect from the episodes. 

Links: https://northstarrc.com/

https://knowltoncounseling.com/

https://relationshipsmatter.com/

https://www.connectedrecoverytraining.com/

Books: Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery (https://a.co/d/3wqfWbP)

Disclosure Booklet A (https://a.co/d/fsowyYi) 

Disclosure Booklet B (https://a.co/d/8A12JtA)

]]> Sat, 17 May 2025 19:23:01 -0500 Laney and Brian Laney and Brian 1257 Summary: Laney and Brian introduce each other and explain why they started this podcast and what you can expect from the episodes. 

Links: https://northstarrc.com/

https://knowltoncounseling.com/

https://relationshipsmatter.com/

https://www.connectedrecoverytraining.com/

Books: Healing from Betrayal, Infidelity, and Problematic Sexual Behaviors: A Guide to Individual and Relational Recovery (https://a.co/d/3wqfWbP)

Disclosure Booklet A (https://a.co/d/fsowyYi) 

Disclosure Booklet B (https://a.co/d/8A12JtA)

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