Growing up in a Filipino household, nursing represented everything I was taught success should look like: stability, opportunity, financial security, and a future my immigrant parents could be proud of.

I followed the traditional path—RN, BSN, MSN-FNP—and eventually my Doctorate in Nursing Practice. I built a nursing career I genuinely love. And yet, even after landing what I once considered my dream job, I couldn’t shake a quiet feeling of restlessness.

Eventually, I realized: I didn’t need another credential. I needed another expression of myself.

In this episode of Sala Talks, I’m sharing my full nursing journey and what it took to realize that nursing can be an incredible foundation for your life without becoming the ceiling for everything you’re allowed to become.

✨ Why nursing holds such a powerful place in Filipino and immigrant families
✨ My journey from RN-BSN → MSN-FNP → DNP
✨ Why achieving my “dream” nursing career still didn’t completely fulfill me
✨ How I stopped confusing restlessness with needing another degree or promotion
✨ What happens when your professional identity becomes your entire identity
✨ Giving yourself permission to explore creativity and interests outside of healthcare
✨ Why gratitude for your career and desire for something more can coexist
✨ How a stable career can actually create the foundation to explore your other gifts
✨ Honoring our parents’ sacrifices without allowing their definition of success to determine the limits of our lives

You do NOT have to quit nursing or abandon everything you’ve worked for. Sometimes you just have to follow the curiosity. So, take the dance class. Start the business. Create the art. Start the podcast. Explore the part of yourself that keeps asking to be expressed.

Nursing is my foundation—but it was never meant to be my ceiling. And maybe it wasn’t meant to be yours either.

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Social media often glorifies the leap—quitting your job, following your passion, and trusting that everything will work out. But for many of us, especially children of immigrants, the reality is far more complicated.

In this episode of Sala Talks, I sit down with Calinnah—Filipino American independent artist, registered nurse, singer-songwriter, content creator, and host of the Cozy with Calinnah podcast.

Unlike many of us who became healthcare professionals before rediscovering our creative passions, Calinnah's story unfolded in reverse. She was a creative first. After years of pursuing art while working retail jobs, she made the decision to become a nurse—not because she gave up on her dream, but because she wanted to build a life that could sustain it.

Together, we explore the realities of balancing creativity with responsibility, building a sustainable creative life, overcoming comparison, preventing burnout, and why stability doesn't have to compete with your purpose—it can actually make it possible.

Whether you're a healthcare professional, creative entrepreneur, first-generation woman, or simply someone trying to balance your responsibilities with the life you're dreaming of, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to choose between stability and purpose.

In this episode, we discuss:
✨ The reality of chasing a creative dream
✨ Why social media glamorizes entrepreneurship
✨ Using a stable career to fund your passions
✨ Balancing nursing, music, podcasting, and content creation
✨ Comparison, self-doubt, and staying committed to your vision
✨ Building a sustainable creative life
✨ Burnout and protecting your creativity
✨ How nursing influenced her music and artistry
✨ The inspiration behind her new single, Short-Staffed
✨ Advice for anyone feeling "too late" to pursue their dreams

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In our season premiere, Permission to Take Up Space, I’m introducing this season’s theme: She is Rooted & Rising — a celebration of Filipina women who are honoring where they come from while giving themselves permission to explore who they’re becoming.

We’re talking about identity, creativity, ambition, and what it means to move beyond survival and the traditional definitions of success many of us inherited.

This season is for anyone who has ever wondered: *s there more to life than the path I was taught to follow?

Because we can honor the sacrifices that brought us here without limiting the possibilities of where we can go next.

Survival was the gift our ancestors gave us. Expansion is what we do with that gift.

Welcome back to the Sala. 🤎

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In this deeply personal season finale, I reflect on the journey that brought me back home to myself — through faith, creativity, healing, and storytelling.

Throughout this season, we explored the immigrant experience, achievement as survival, perseverance, identity, grief, purpose, and the pressure to constantly strive. But in this final episode, I share the inner transformation that changed my life the most:
learning that success without alignment still leaves you feeling empty.

From therapy and bicultural identity…
to dry January, gratitude journaling, creativity, and rediscovering God…
this episode is about what happens when you finally stop performing and start listening to yourself again.

One of the habits that genuinely shifted my mindset this past year was practicing daily gratitude journaling. It became a small but powerful way for me to slow down, reconnect with myself, and appreciate the life I already had while building the life I wanted. I linked the gratitude journal I personally use below in case it supports your journey too. 🤍

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This is not just the end of Season 1.
It’s the beginning of a new chapter.

If you’ve ever struggled with feeling “not enough,” living between two worlds, or trying to redefine success on your own terms — this episode is for you.

Thank you for being here with me in the Sala. 🤍

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend Natasha Shrank — entrepreneur, mother, and Founder of Scarlet Rope Permanent Jewelry — for a heartfelt conversation about faith, creativity, motherhood, and learning to trust God with your calling.

Over the last few episodes, we’ve been unpacking perseverance, identity, and the version of success many of us were taught to chase—especially within immigrant families and high-achieving communities. But what happens when the path God is calling you toward looks completely different from the “safe” path?

In this conversation, Natasha shares the story behind Scarlet Rope, the biblical meaning behind her brand, the seasons where she had to pause her dreams, and how becoming a mother reshaped her relationship with creativity and purpose. We also talk about balancing entrepreneurship with motherhood, surrendering control, and learning that creativity is not just something we do—but a part of who we are.

In this episode, we discuss:
✨ Faith and entrepreneurship
✨ Creativity and purpose
✨ Motherhood and identity
✨ Trusting God in uncertain seasons
✨  Redefining success
✨  Building a business rooted in meaning and connection
✨ Returning to yourself after seasons of pause

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But after earning my doctorate, I was forced to confront a painful question:
Who am I outside of my achievements?

This episode is about the hidden side of ambition, the emotional cost of constantly striving, and the moment I realized that perseverance can sometimes turn into self-abandonment.

We talk about:
✨ Achievement as armor
✨ The immigrant daughter/high-achiever trap
✨ Over-identifying with success
✨ Emotional burnout and disconnection
✨ Learning to sit still
✨ Reclaiming identity beyond accomplishments
✨ Coming home to yourself

If you’ve ever felt like your worth was tied to your productivity, titles, or achievements… this conversation is for you.

Welcome to the Sala.

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In this episode of Sala Talks, I sit down with my longtime friend Raquel Michel — nurse practitioner, entrepreneur, mother, and Founder of Vida Wellness & Aesthetics.

After 16 years in healthcare and navigating the emotional weight of the COVID pandemic, Raquel opens up about burnout, grief, identity loss, reinvention, and the courage it takes to rebuild yourself from the inside out.

This conversation is for the woman who has always been the strong one.
The caregiver.
The provider.
The one who kept pushing through.

Together, we talk about:
✨ Burnout and survival mode
✨ Reinventing yourself in your 40s
✨ Grief, healing, and identity
✨ Motherhood and choosing yourself
✨ Building confidence from the inside out
✨ Coming home to yourself again

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from yourself while pouring into everyone else… this episode is for you. Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with someone who needs this conversation.

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In this deeply personal solo episode of Sala Talks, I open up about the hidden emotional cost of being a first-generation immigrant daughter constantly chasing success. From growing up in the Philippines raised by my grandparents, to navigating bullying, survival, and the pressure to “make it” in America—this episode unpacks how education can quietly become both protection and addiction.

We talk about:
✨ The immigrant pressure to overachieve
✨ Education as survival and emotional armor
✨ Achievement addiction & productivity culture
✨ Why high-achieving women often struggle with stillness
✨ The hidden emptiness after reaching your “dream” goal
✨ Learning to separate your worth from your accomplishments

If you’ve ever felt like you had to constantly prove yourself to feel safe, accepted, or enough… this conversation is for you.

Welcome to Sala Talks — conversations about identity, healing, creativity, faith, womanhood, and building a life beyond survival.

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In today’s episode, I sit down with Daisy De Anda, Founder of Dayz & Co, for a powerful conversation about the first-generation experience, navigating professional spaces without a blueprint, and learning to redefine success on your own terms.

As a proud first-generation Mexican-American, single mother, legal professional, speaker, and mentor, Daisy shares her journey of navigating two worlds, overcoming imposter syndrome, surviving high-achievement culture, and ultimately building the kind of community she once needed herself.

We talk about:
✨ Growing up first-gen and carrying immigrant expectations
✨ Navigating professional spaces where you don’t feel represented
✨ Achievement, survival mode, and identity
✨ Self-advocacy and reclaiming your voice
✨ Mentorship, representation, and community
✨ Building what didn’t exist for you through Dayz & Co.

If you’ve ever felt like you did everything “right” and still found yourself asking, “Is there more?” — this episode is for you.

Thank you for being here and for growing with me through this journey. 🤍

If this episode resonated with you, make sure to like, comment, subscribe, and share it with someone navigating their own journey beyond survival.

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In this deeply personal episode of Sala Talks, I share my story as a Filipino immigrant who came to America at 13 years old — caught between two cultures, two identities, and two versions of myself.

From being bullied for speaking Bisaya, to struggling with internalized shame, people-pleasing, and identity confusion… this episode explores the emotional reality of growing up “in between.”
Not Filipino enough.
Not American enough.
Just trying to figure out where I belonged.

We talk about:
✨ Bicultural identity
✨ Immigrant experiences & assimilation
✨ Crab mentality in immigrant communities
✨ Shapeshifting to survive
✨ Therapy, healing, and self-acceptance
✨ Learning to embrace ALL parts of yourself

Maybe the goal was never to choose one side.
Maybe the beauty is in becoming the bridge between both worlds.

If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to the channel for more conversations on identity, healing, creativity, womanhood, and the first-generation experience.

Welcome to the Sala.

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Sources:
• “Crab Mentality.” The SAGE Encyclopedia of Filipina/x/o American Studies (2022).
• Garcha et al. (2025). Cultural Frame Switching & Well-Being
• Lerias et al. (2024). Acculturative Stress and Immigrant Mental Health
• Nadal, K. L. (2021). Filipino American Psychology: A Handbook of Theory, Research, and Clinical Practice. Wiley.
• Taas-Noo Pilipino. (2025, January 9). The “crab mentality”: Understanding envy and its impact on Filipino society.
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If you are struggling emotionally or experiencing a mental health crisis, please seek support from a licensed mental health professional or contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 (U.S. & Canada).
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In this introductory episode, I share the story behind why I started this podcast, the meaning of the “sala” in Filipino culture, and the journey that led me here.

For almost 15 years, nursing was the center of my identity. But this season of my life is about learning who I am outside of achievement, survival, productivity, and the roles I’ve always carried.

Sala Talks was created as a space for honest conversations about identity, healing, womanhood, creativity, faith, purpose, and the first-generation immigrant experience.

A space where we can finally let our guard down.
A space where stories are heard.
A space where we remind each other that we are not navigating this world alone.

In this season, we’ll be unpacking:
✨ the first-generation immigrant identity
✨ bicultural pressure and expectations
✨ redefining success beyond survival
✨ healing, growth, and self-expression
✨ what it means to build a life that feels true to who you are

If you’ve ever felt caught between who you were expected to become and who you actually are… welcome to the Sala.

Support the mission and wear the message. Explore the She is Rooted & Rising (SRR) collection linked below. Your support helps make future episodes and conversations possible. 
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Written, Produced, and Directed by:
Dr. Kat Besas, DNP

After being in nursing for almost 15 years, it was not until now that I fully gave myself permission to explore my creativity— and I have completely surprised myself in this process. I have found that “thing” that truly lights up my soul on fire and I hope that my courage to share my story inspires you to do the same.

Acknowledgements:

A very special thank you to the incredibly talented Maximo Reyes for capturing the emotional depth and grounded femininity that I envisioned for this podcast soundtrack. Thank you for always believing in me.

To Jackie Sihanouvoung for being my primary cheerleader in this creative entrepreneurship journey. I don’t have very many creative friends, but I am grateful to have the best one (you) on my team since Day 1.

To my studio engineers Danny Lopez and Eric Flores, thank you so much for all the work that you do for me. To the Pod Place LA team, thank you so much for helping me execute my vision for this project.

To my mom and dad for always believing in me and supporting me in everything that I do.

And most importantly, to The Most High, for planting this vision in my heart. Thank you for opening my mind to my creativity that I did not even realize I had. Thank you for the strength and daily endurance that you have given me, as I battled self-doubt doing something outside of my comfort zone for the first time in my life. All glory, honor, and praise to God.

Phil 4:13. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

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See you next week—Wed, June 10, 2026! ✨
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