In this episode of Rush Talk, Chloe shares her firsthand experience joining Alpha Chi Omega through COB at Oklahoma State University. We explain how continuous open bidding works, how chapters contact potential new members and why the process may include anything from a coffee date to an informal event at the chapter house.

You’ll also learn how COB differs from formal recruitment, why spring bids can be extremely competitive and what happens when a chapter only has a few available spots. Chloe gets honest about joining an established pledge class, finding her big, moving into the house and wondering whether she missed part of the traditional sorority experience.

Plus, Brooke and Chloe discuss why waiting for a particular chapter can be risky, how housing decisions affect COB members and what it takes to become fully involved after joining in the spring. Their biggest advice is clear: Don't use COB simply as a strategy to avoid formal recruitment — but know that it can still lead to an incredible sorority experience.

If COB is part of your recruitment plan, listen before you start waiting for that text.

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Bid Day is finally over... so why do so many new members suddenly feel anxious, overwhelmed, or even sad?

In this episode, Brooke and Chloe break down the emotional "post-Bid Day crash" that so many women experience after recruitment. From the adrenaline drop and self-doubt to comparing yourself on social media and wondering if you made the right choice, they explain why these feelings are completely normal—and why they don't mean you joined the wrong chapter.

You'll also hear practical advice on what to do during those first few weeks, why going to every new member event matters, how sisterhood is actually built, and why it's important to give your chapter time before making any big decisions. Plus, Brooke shares important advice for moms on supporting their daughters through the emotional transition after recruitment.

If you've ever wondered, "Did I make the right choice?"—this episode is for you. Take a deep breath, trust the process, and come hang out with us as we talk through one of the biggest emotional moments of sorority recruitment.

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They talk through what PNMs can expect, what parents should know before showing up, where to park, when to arrive, what to wear and what your real job is once your daughter runs home. Spoiler alert: you are mostly there to hold the stuff, find the water, take the pictures and let her have her moment.

The episode also covers bid day baskets, parent meetings, parents' club, new member expectations, why social media still matters after recruitment and how to support a roommate or friend who does not get a bid or decides to pursue COB.

It is honest, practical and full of the little details nobody tells you until you are standing outside a sorority house in August heat. Listen before bid day so you know what to expect.

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This week on Rush Talk, Brooke and Chloe break down one of the most confusing parts of Oklahoma State sorority recruitment: what happens after preference round and before Bid Day. They explain what MRABA actually is, why it is a binding agreement, what your daughter is agreeing to when she ranks chapters, and what it means if she only wants one house.

Returning guest Kaylee Holt joins the conversation with her perspective as a former Gamma Chi, helping unpack Bid Day curveballs like quota additions, chapter total, fall COB, snap bids and single intentional preference. The episode also gets into what happens if a PNM is released from recruitment, why grades can matter, why COB is not always a guaranteed backup plan, and how families can think through the emotional side of the decision.

It is insider, honest and full of the kind of information moms and PNMs wish they had before Pref night. Listen before you sign anything.

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In this episode of Rush Talk, Brooke and Chloe break down what actually happens during Preference Round at Oklahoma State, why the tone shifts so much, and how PNMs should think about those final conversations. They talk through the OSU Preference Day schedule, what to wear, how dressy is too dressy, and why comfort still matters when you are trying to feel polished and confident.

This episode also brings in Kaylee Holt, a 2023 Oklahoma State graduate, former Tri Delta chapter president and former Gamma Chi, to share her perspective from every side of recruitment. Kaylee helps explain what chapters are listening for during pref, how final lists are made, why being honest matters, and why PNMs should still keep an open mind even when they think they already know their choice.

Brooke and Chloe also cover what not to say, how to talk about loving a chapter without sounding desperate, and why the matching process is truly mutual selection. Listen before Preference Round so you can walk in prepared, reflective and steady.

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In this episode of Rush Talk, Brooke and Chloe break down what sisterhood round looks like during Oklahoma State sorority recruitment. They talk about what to wear, including game-day-inspired outfits, orange and black, boots, sneakers and sandals and the importance of bringing shoes you can actually walk in. They also explain what chapters are really evaluating during this round, from values and friendship to whether you seem genuinely interested in that chapter or just Greek life in general.

You’ll hear what kinds of questions PNMs should expect, how to answer with depth without sounding rehearsed, why vulnerability can help, and what questions to ask members to figure out if the sisterhood is real. Plus, they share one of the biggest insider tips of the season: sisterhood round is a huge cut night, so make sure chapters know you want to be there.

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This is the day many PNMs wake up to their first party list and experience recruitment cuts for the very first time. It can feel exciting, emotional, confusing, and overwhelming all at once. In this episode, we're breaking down exactly what to expect.

We walk through the Philanthropy Round schedule, how party lists work, what cuts actually mean, and why getting fewer than a full schedule is completely normal. We also talk about what to wear, how to prepare for conversations, and the questions chapters are most likely to ask.

Plus, we're giving you a complete rundown of every chapter's philanthropy at Oklahoma State, including the causes they support, popular fundraising events, and conversation starters that can help you stand out during recruitment.

Whether you're a future PNM, a current recruit, or a parent trying to understand what your daughter is experiencing, this episode offers practical advice, insider perspective, and reassurance for one of the most important rounds of rush.

The strategy starts here. Press play and walk into Philanthropy Round feeling prepared.

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This week on Rush Talk, we are breaking down everything PNMs and parents need to know before recruitment move-in day, from packing smarter to surviving the August heat. The girls talk through the real logistics of hauling dorm supplies up stairs, what containers actually make life easier, why you should pack the car in reverse order, and why move-in day is not the time to bring the whole family entourage.

You will also hear the must-have dorm tools and supplies that are easy to forget, including power strips, command strips, zip ties, cleaning products, a step ladder, a vacuum and, of course, a steamer. Plus, there is plenty of honest mom advice about getting the bed set up, organizing rush outfits by day, making the Walmart run, meeting roommates and knowing when it is time to say goodbye.

It is practical, emotional, a little chaotic and full of the kind of insider tips that make recruitment week feel less overwhelming.

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We’re starting with Virtual Open House Round, the first official round of OSU sorority recruitment. Brooke and Chloe break down what PNMs and moms actually need to know before logging onto Zoom, from Wi-Fi and lighting to what to wear, what to avoid, and why moms absolutely need to leave the room once the round starts.

They also explain what happens behind the scenes inside the chapters, how breakout rooms work, what “bumping” means, and why the best recruitment conversations feel more like talking to a future friend than answering interview questions. Plus, they cover the topics PNMs should avoid, including booze, boys, ballots, bucks, Bibles, other houses and legacy name-dropping.

If Virtual Open House has you stressed, this episode will help you feel prepared, confident and a little more in the know.

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Trisha Addicks, known as the original sorority rush coach and founder of It’s All Greek to Me, joins Rush Talk to break down what actually matters during recruitment and what doesn’t. From her own experience, from not getting a bid freshman year to building a national coaching business, Trisha shares the real story behind sorority recruitment and how to navigate it with confidence.

We get into everything: what the Bama Rush documentary got wrong, why recruitment is more competitive than ever, and the biggest mistake PNMs make (hint: it’s easier to fix than you think). She also explains why TikTok might be hurting, not helping, your chances and what actually makes a girl stand out in conversations.

Plus, we talk about confidence, communication, conflict resolution, and why finding your right fit matters more than chasing a “top house.”

If you’re heading into recruitment — or helping someone who is — this episode is packed with insider advice you won’t find scrolling social media.

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This episode goes deeper than the usual "you'll make friends" pitch. They break down what sorority life really gives you at Oklahoma State, from built-in support systems and academic accountability to leadership skills, networking, confidence, and the kind of friendships that follow you long after college. They also get real about what people mean when they say you're "buying friends," what dues actually pay for, and why the value of Greek life often shows up in the experiences, traditions, and everyday memories you never could have created on your own.

Brooke shares her top five reasons sorority life matters, Chloe reflects on how her experience prepared her for law school and life after college, and both hosts talk about the alumni connections, cross-generational friendships, and ordinary sorority house moments that ended up meaning the most.

They also keep it honest: Greek life is not perfect, and there are hard moments too. But for both of them, the good still outweighs it all by a mile. If you've been wondering whether recruitment is really worth the cost, stress, and emotional roller coaster, this episode is for you.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

In this episode of Rush Talk, Brooke and Chloe get into the part of sorority recruitment nobody really explains: what freshman fall actually feels like after Bid Day at Oklahoma State. From the inevitable post-recruitment sickness and emotional crash to chapter meetings, big/little dates, philanthropy events, and the nonstop pace of Greek life, this episode gives listeners a real look at what comes next.

They also break down why OSU homecoming is such a huge deal, what "pomping" actually is, how much time it takes, and why not understanding homecoming can make you look unprepared during recruitment conversations. Brooke and Chloe also talk honestly about balancing school, sorority commitments, freshman follies or homecoming, and the temptation to skip class once college freedom kicks in.

This episode is especially helpful for moms and daughters trying to understand what freshman semester really looks like beyond the excitement of recruitment week. It is honest, practical, funny, and full of insider context that can help families prepare for the reality of sorority life at OSU.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

From a bird pooping on a PNM's head right before walking into a house, to burned-off hair before rounds, to a girl bringing a rock into recruitment, this episode is full of the kind of moments no one puts in the recruitment guide. But underneath all the chaos is a reassuring reminder: awkward things happen to everyone. If something goes wrong during recruitment, it does not mean your day is ruined. Sometimes it becomes your best conversation starter.

The episode also dives into strange recruitment conversations, distress signals inside sorority houses, unforgettable campus moments, and the kind of OSU Greek life stories that become legend. It is funny, honest, a little unhinged, and surprisingly comforting for anyone nervous about rush.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

Chloe sits down with Brooke and her daughter Parker, plus Jessica and her daughter Ella, to talk through two very different recruitment stories. One daughter ended up in her mom's house. One didn't. Both experiences show that legacy status can shape recruitment, but it does not have to define it.

They talk about the subtle pressure daughters can feel, the emotions moms carry into recruitment, what it is like to love more than one house during the week, and how Bid Day can bring clarity no matter where you land. This episode also gets into how much girls should mention legacy status during recruitment, whether family ties affect perceptions of certain houses, and why finding your people matters more than following someone else's path.

If legacy status has ever felt confusing, loaded or overhyped, this conversation brings it back down to earth in the best way.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

They explain what "legacy" really means, how different chapters define it, and why legacy status used to carry way more weight than it does now. From the old rules that practically guaranteed a second look to the current reality of strategic chapter decisions, this episode gets honest about why moms are often shocked when their daughters do not get special treatment.

The conversation also digs into the "hierarchy" of legacies, from distant relatives to moms, sisters, and active in-house siblings, and how each one can affect a PNM's chances at both her legacy house and every other house. Brooke and Chloe also share practical advice on what girls should say when asked about legacy status during recruitment, especially if they want to keep an open mind and find the best fit for themselves.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

Brooke and Chloe walk through recruitment outfits round by round, from Zoom and philanthropy to sisterhood and preference, with honest advice on what works, what doesn't, and how to look put together without overthinking every detail. They talk about the OSU-specific vibe, why campus culture matters more than generic rush advice, and how to choose outfits that feel cute, comfortable, and like you. They also get into the real MVP of recruitment week: the rush bag. From backup shoes and portable chargers to deodorant, snacks, fans, and emergency outfit fixes, this episode covers the practical stuff that can save your day when Oklahoma heat and long walks hit hard.

If you've been wondering what to buy, what to skip, and how to prep without blowing your budget, this is the episode for you.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com. 

In this episode, Brooke and Chloe walk through the sorority recruitment registration process — when it opens (early summer), what gets uploaded, and how chapters actually use that info. Spoiler: your resume is basically your “elevator pitch,” and it helps houses learn your GPA, activities, leadership, and what you’re likely to get involved in once you’re on campus.

They also dig into the surprisingly tricky question: should you list Greek affiliation/legacy connections?

Brooke shares what she did for her daughter — and why, if she could redo it, she’d handle that line very differently. Then it’s rec letters: what they are, how much they matter now (hint: not like “back then”), which schools still treat them seriously, and why “RECs from strangers on Facebook” can be more cringe than helpful. You’ll also get a practical checklist for what to send an alum writing your rec (resume, cover letter, photo file, PDF format) and the simplest etiquette move most people forget: the thank you note.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com. 

Hit play and get one step ahead before the doors even open.

In this episode of our three part Prepping for Rush series, we get real about how chapters actually use Instagram, TikTok, and yes...even Facebook to learn who you are before you ever step into a conversation.

Chloe breaks down why having a social presence matters, how chapters match PNMs (potential new members) with members ahead of time, and what they're really scanning for (hint: it's not just aesthetics, it's risk, drama, and liability). 

We talk about what to post, what to delete, and why too many selfies or boyfriend-only pics can raise eyebrows fast. You'll also hear the "quiet stuff" people don't always say out loud: tagged photos matter, captions matter, your bio can signal a vibe, and alumni and moms absolutely do some digging.

Then we get into RushTok. It's fun, it's addictive, and it's not always smart to post during recruitment. We explain why "save it for after Bid Day" might be the best advice you hear all season.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

Press play for the insider rules that keep you on the radar in a good way.

In this episode of Rush Talk, Brooke and Chloe break down the real timeline (and the real emotions) behind what everyone still calls "rush." From the awkward-but-important Zoom open house round to move-in day chaos, philanthropy round, sisterhood round, preference, and the confetti-flying sprint to Bid Day, we walk you through what happens and when.

You’ll hear how recruitment has changed since Brooke’s OSU days (yes, there were door chants, snacks you couldn't leave with, and even full-on skit day costumes), and what still stays the same: the heat, the exhaustion, and the pressure to keep your smile on even when your face is tired. We also talk about cuts (why they’re usually not personal), how moms can support without spiraling, and the underrated practical stuff like Wi-Fi, crickets in the dorms, and why everyone gets sick after recruitment.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

Hit play and let’s make the week feel way less mysterious.

In this kickoff episode of Rush Talk, you’re meeting your insiders.

Brooke is a former Oklahoma State University sorority girl turned sorority mom who's mentored hundreds of families through recruitment — and even started a parents group when she realized how many moms were spiraling during rush week. Chloe is a recent chapter president who lived in-house for three years, made the lists, signed the bid cards, and saw recruitment from the inside.

Together, they break down their own Greek journeys — from getting cut as a triple legacy, to running a chapter, to navigating rush as a mom during the TikTok era. They talk about how recruitment has changed, why OSU rush is its own "animal," what COVID and Bama Rush did to the process, and why not all internet advice applies to every campus.

Season One of Rush Talk is sponsored by The Wooden Nickel in Stillwater — your one-stop shop for Greek life essentials, from Bid Day gifts to rush wardrobes and everything in between. Shop in-store or online at www.shopthenickel.com.

If you're a high school senior, a freshman planning to rush, or a mom with 47 tabs open about recruitment… this is your backstage pass.

Hosted by Brooke, longtime recruitment mentor and founder of the Oklahoma State Sorority Recruitment Parents Group, and Chloe, a recent OSU graduate, sorority alumnae and former chapter president, this podcast bridges the gap between nervous moms and hopeful daughters.

Season One of Rush Talk is all about what happens before recruitment week ever begins.

We cover the questions everyone is Googling — and the ones they’re too afraid to ask.

From social media do’s and don’ts, what to wear, recommendation letters and what a legacy actually means, to what sorority life looks like during your first fall semester — we break down the realities behind the rumors.

You’ll hear honest advice, insider perspective from both sides of the door, reassurance when emotions run high, and practical tips to help you navigate recruitment with confidence.

If you’re heading into recruitment — or just trying to understand it — this is your backstage pass.

Welcome to Rush Talk.