The Restorative Man Podcast

Surfing (and living) like a Child with Trevor Olson

Restoration Project — Mon, 27 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0700

We sat down with Trevor Olson thinking we’d talk about surfing, but the conversation took us somewhere much deeper. What started as a story about chasing waves became an honest look at how easily we start chasing control instead of connection. Trevor shared how the surfers getting the most out of the ocean aren’t the ones catching the most waves, but the ones who’ve learned to be present in it. There’s something here about living with open hands instead of clenched fists, about receiving instead of fighting for more. By the end, it feels less like a conversation about surfing and more like an invitation to rediscover joy, not by striving harder, but by paying attention to where God is already meeting us.

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When Good Intentions Never Happen

Restoration Project — Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0700

It starts with something small, like a kid reaching for your hand, and realizing those moments don’t last forever. Somewhere along the way, good intentions quietly turn into things we never actually do. This conversation gets honest about fear, scarcity, and why it’s easier to stay in the idea phase than risk showing up. There’s also a quiet invitation here to rethink what actually matters, especially while there’s still time. Not everything will land perfectly, but maybe that’s not the point anyway.

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Every Moment Holy: Rites of Passage with Doug McKelvey Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 30 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700

This part 2 of our conversation with Doug McKelvey feels like sitting with someone who kept showing up even when it felt like nothing was working. He shares what it was like to write in the middle of doubt, where faith looked less like clarity and more like staying. There is something grounding in hearing how these prayers were shaped slowly, quietly, and sometimes without any sense of momentum. You start to realize this book was not rushed into existence but carried through a long season of uncertainty and trust.

If you want to explore it for yourself, you can grab a copy here: https://store.rabbitroom.com/products/every-moment-holy-rites-of-passage-2
It is also available on Amazon: https://a.co/d/0hXhUPCI

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Every Moment Holy: Rites of Passage with Doug McKelvey Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 23 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700

This conversation drifts through the quiet places most people try to avoid, where calling feels unclear and life doesn’t follow the script you expected. Doug McKelvey shares how years that looked like failure slowly became the very soil that shaped his most meaningful work. There’s something grounding in the idea that even the smallest, most ordinary moments are not wasted but somehow tied to a much bigger story. You start to feel how honesty, disappointment, and faith can sit in the same room without needing to resolve too quickly. By the end, it leaves you noticing your own life a little differently, and if you want to keep exploring that lens, his latest book Every Moment Holy: Rites of Passage is a meaningful place to start.

You can find it here: https://store.rabbitroom.com/products/every-moment-holy-rites-of-passage-2
Also available on Amazon: https://a.co/d/0hXhUPCI

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Mother God? with Beth Bruno

Restoration Project — Mon, 16 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700

What happens when the idea of God as only Father starts to feel incomplete? In this episode, Beth Bruno joins Cody for an honest conversation that is both stretching and grounding. Beth takes us on a thoughtful journey that explores the often-overlooked motherly imagery of God in Scripture, why it makes some of us tense up, and what might open up if we approach it with a posture of what if instead of no way. Through a deft weaving of Scripture, history, personal story, and compassion, Beth offers a wise invitation to grow our image and experience of God.

If this conversation stirred something in you and you want to go deeper with Beth’s work, here are a few places to start:

Beth's new book! Lost Women of Turkey: https://amzn.to/47DlZW7
Resources for Raising Fierce and Lovely Women: https://www.bethbruno.org/fierceandlovely
A Voice Becoming book: https://amzn.to/4sKQ1PP
Follow Beth: https://www.bethbruno.org/

Resources mentioned:
God Has a Name by John Mark Comer - https://a.co/d/07gpqWay

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The Fight for Wonder in Modern Fatherhood with Jeff Zaugg

Restoration Project — Mon, 09 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700

In Part 2 of our conversation with Jeff Zaugg, we move past surface-level fatherhood advice and into the deeper work of becoming present, wholehearted dads. Jeff unpacks the six core discoveries that shape a man’s journey and explains why intent alone does not transform our families. We talk honestly about how modern dads often default to provision and protection while quietly losing wonder, delight, and emotional presence. This episode explores how pace, freedom, identity, and courage intersect in everyday fatherhood, from bedtime routines to life-altering decisions. If you have ever felt the tension between grinding through responsibility and treasuring your kids, this conversation will name it and reframe it.

If you want to know more about Jeff Zaugg, his work, and DadAwesome, visit https://dadawesome.org.

Grab a copy of his book, DadAwesome on Amazon: https://www.dadawesome.org/store/p/dadawesome-dad-discoveries-to-activate-awesomeness-jeff-zaugg-pre-order

Listen to DadAwesome Podcast:
Apple Podcast: DadAwesome
Spotify: DadAwesome
YouTube: @DadAwesome

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From Fearful Dad to Grounded Father with Jeff Zaugg

Restoration Project — Mon, 02 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Jeff Zaugg joins us to talk about fatherhood, but we end up talking about something deeper first. What if the pressure you feel as a dad is coming from a scoreboard God never set up? Jeff shares the story of the clipboard, the bridge, and the moment he realized he was trying to earn a love that was already his. This conversation is honest about the whispers that say you are not enough and clear about the truth that changes everything. If you have ever felt like you are behind, blowing it, or just tired, this one might feel like a deep breath.

If you want to know more about Jeff Zaugg, his work, and DadAwesome, visit https://dadawesome.org.

Grab a copy of his book, DadAwesome: https://www.dadawesome.org/store/p/dadawesome-dad-discoveries-to-activate-awesomeness-jeff-zaugg-pre-order

Listen to DadAwesome Podcast:
Apple Podcast: DadAwesome
Spotify: DadAwesome
YouTube: @DadAwesome

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Discipline Your Kids Without Losing Your Mind.

Restoration Project — Mon, 23 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Discipline sounds simple until you realize how much of it is actually about you. In this episode, Jesse French and Cody Buriff get honest about the moments they got big, shut down, or simply forgot their kid in the hallway. They explore what is really happening underneath our anger, why something in us feels threatened, and how that spills onto our sons and daughters. This is not about perfect behavior or perfect dads, but about repair, humility, and becoming the kind of man who can keep the slowest heart rate in the room. If you have ever wondered whether you already messed your kids up, this conversation might feel like oxygen.

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Lent's Invitation To Suffering

Restoration Project — Mon, 16 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Ash Wednesday is almost here, and for a lot of us Lent used to mean one thing: fish sandwiches and people with ashes on their foreheads. In this episode, Cody and Jesse unpack how Lent is actually an invitation to face suffering instead of numbing it, powering through it, or pretending we are fine. They wrestle with the idea of an “all-suffering God” and what it means to follow a Christ who meets us in grief, hunger, and weakness. From giving up sugar and coffee to choosing the slow lane on purpose, this conversation gets painfully practical about how fasting creates space for something deeper. If you have ever avoided pain or wondered why it matters, this one might change how you walk toward Easter.

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Dangerous Is The Man Who... with Nic Howe

Restoration Project — Mon, 09 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0800

What if the most dangerous men are not the loud ones, but the ones who quietly stopped showing up. This episode wrestles with a different kind of threat, the man who abdicates his place in his own life, marriage, friendships, and story. Through a simple gift and an unexpected phrase, Jesse and Nic explore how passivity can wound just as deeply as aggression, and why presence is a form of courage. They talk about the subtle, daily risks of asking one more honest question, turning off your phone, saying I need help, and staying true to who you actually are. If being good has felt small or safe, this conversation might mess with that in the best way.

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God's Activity In Our Lives | The Practice of Spiritual Direction with Greg Ehlert

Restoration Project — Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode, Jesse French sits down with Greg Ehlert for an unhurried conversation about noticing God’s activity in everyday life. They explore spiritual direction as the practice of holy listening and what it means to pay attention without rushing toward answers. Greg shares how contemplative practices reshaped his understanding of God from performance to presence. The conversation makes room for questions, silence, and the full range of human experience that often gets overlooked in faith spaces. This episode invites listeners to slow down and consider where God might already be at work in their story.

Resources mentioned in the episode:

Spiritual Direction: A Guide to Giving and Receiving Direction by Gordon T. Smith
Grafted Life and the Christ-Centered Spiritual Directors Association (CSDA): https://www.graftedlife.org/csda/home/

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Mothering Sons with Beth Bruno

Restoration Project — Mon, 26 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0800

Young sons have a fire within them. But how is that fire channeled and not extinguished? In this episode, Beth Bruno joins Chris for an insightful conversation about the reality of mothering sons. Beth generously shares her own experience of navigating the emotions and shifts during her son's teenage years. She unpacks the importance of mothers adopting a posture of space and delight with their sons. While risky and new, this offering of space must be paired with the intentional engagement of the father, so the son can continue to grow. This conversation is a wise invitation for both parents to partner together in the becoming process of their children.

If this conversation stirred something in you and you want to go deeper with Beth’s work, here are a few places to start:

Resources for Raising Fierce and Lovely Women: https://www.bethbruno.org/fierceandlovely
A Voice Becoming book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1478974672
Follow Beth: https://www.bethbruno.org/

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Fierce and Lovely Experiences with Beth Bruno

Restoration Project — Mon, 19 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0800

One of the shaping but not well-known voices of Restoration Project is Beth Bruno. This episode tells some of the origin story of Beth's creation of the feminine categories of Fierce and Lovely. Beth shares her desire to create language that was exploratory rather than prescriptive for her own daughters and for women across the world. She graciously shared this framework with Restoration Project almost ten years ago, and it continues to be the cornerstone of how we engage the dad-daughter space. This is a ground-level, hopeful conversation about the creation of Fierce & Lovely and its continued relevance and impact on daughters, mothers, and dads throughout the world.

If this conversation stirred something in you and you want to go deeper with Beth’s work, here are a few places to start:

Resources for Raising Fierce and Lovely Women: https://www.bethbruno.org/fierceandlovely
A Voice Becoming book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1478974672
Follow Beth: https://www.bethbruno.org/

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I Left The Church (Part 2) | Michael Krommendyk

Restoration Project — Mon, 12 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0800

This is part two of our conversation with Michael Krommendyk, and it goes even deeper into the places many men quietly carry. We talk about church hurt, belonging, and what it feels like when your faith still matters but the structures around it no longer fit. Michael shares what it looks like to step away without walking away from God, and how community can hold you when certainty is gone. If you have ever wondered whether your questions mean you are losing your faith, this episode gently pushes back on that fear. This one feels like sitting across the table with someone who understands and is willing to stay.

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I Left the Church (Part 1) | Michael Krommendyk

Restoration Project — Mon, 05 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0800

What happens when the place that shaped your faith is also the place that wounds you? In this first part of a 2-part episode, Michael Krommendyk takes us through his journey from growing up in church to stepping into ministry and eventually stepping away from it all. He opens up about the weight of expectations, the quiet moments of doubt, and the small discoveries of grace that reshaped his story. This episode isn’t about answers, it’s about noticing the questions that hit hardest and the spaces where healing actually begins. Listen if you’re curious about what it looks like to wrestle honestly with faith, identity, and the messy middle of life.

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End the Year with a Period

Restoration Project — Mon, 15 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0800

This episode starts with punctuation, of all things, and somehow lands on one of the most grounded ways to close out a year. Jesse and Chris talk about how many of us end December with a question mark, an exclamation point, or a long, tired comma that never gives us a real pause. What if this time you ended with a period instead. The kind that lets the year be exactly what it was and lets you name who you have actually become. It is a simple idea with surprising weight, and the guys invite you into it with tenderness, honesty, and a pretty unforgettable image of God’s hands cupped around your becoming.

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The Narrative of Fitness, with Personal Trainer Tim Helwege

Restoration Project — Mon, 08 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man podcast, Jesse French and Cody Buriff engage in a deep conversation with Tim Helwege about the multifaceted nature of fitness and health. They explore personal stories of strength, the underlying motivations for pursuing fitness, and the impact of shame narratives on men's health. Tim emphasizes the importance of understanding one's 'why' behind fitness goals, the significance of long-term vision in health, and the concept of stewardship of the body. The discussion also touches on navigating body image issues and finding balance in caring for one's physical self.

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Fathering Report Card

Restoration Project — Mon, 01 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0800

As the year winds down, Chris and Jesse invite us into a different kind of reflection by asking what it might look like to receive a report card from your kids about how they actually experience you as their dad. Instead of performance or pressure, this simple tool opens the door to honest connection, real curiosity, and conversations most families never slow down enough to have. They walk through how the fathering report card helps you engage your kids, and how the kids’ self-report offers a calm space for them to reflect on their own growth as well.

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Overrated and Underrated Parts of December

Restoration Project — Mon, 24 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0800

This week, Chris and Jesse dive into the overrated and underrated parts of December and it is such a fun ride. They share family stories about cutting down Christmas trees, losing kids in snow wells, and why some traditions feel grounding while others just wear us out. You will hear honest reflections on Christmas music, the pressure to reflect at the end of the year, and the longing for simple moments of peace. More than anything, this conversation invites you to notice what actually brings delight and rest in your own holiday season. Join us for an easygoing, thoughtful episode that might help you enter December with a little more presence and a little less pressure.

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The 3 Seasons of Fathering

Restoration Project — Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0800

Chris just got back from California, where he spent the weekend with all three of his grown kids — and came home with some fresh reflections on fatherhood. In this episode, he and Jesse talk about what it means to still be a dad when your kids are adults and don’t need you in the same way anymore. They unpack three postures of fathering — out front, behind, and next to — and what each one asks of us as men. You’ll hear stories about letting kids fail, learning to respect them as adults, and realizing that parenting doesn’t end, it just changes. It’s an honest, funny, and heartfelt look at what growing alongside your kids can really look like.

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What Did You Lose? What Did You Gain?

Restoration Project — Mon, 10 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0800

Ever had a family plan that looked great on paper but fell apart somewhere around hour twenty-four? In this episode, Jesse shares a road trip story that turned from “adventure” to “are we there yet?” and back again, while Chris helps him uncover what was really going on beneath the chaos. Together they talk about how easy it is to chase efficiency and forget to set our families and ourselves up for success. But maybe the meltdown wasn’t failure after all. Maybe it was the moment that revealed what was lost, what was gained, and what actually matters when we invite others into our story.

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Rituals and Gratitude

Restoration Project — Mon, 03 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0800

Ever notice how certain family traditions just stick, not because of what you do, but because of who you become together? In this episode, Chris and Jesse talk about why rhythms like Thanksgiving trips, Christmas tree rituals, or even peeling apples as a family can quietly shape who we are. They explore how small, repeated moments turn into anchors of identity, grounding us when life feels scattered. You’ll hear stories that are both hilarious and deeply human, from failed traditions that burned (literally) to ones that became sacred. Maybe it’ll have you wondering what stories your own family rituals are telling.

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Fall Reflections Part 3: Laying Fallow

Restoration Project — Mon, 27 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is stop producing. In this conversation, Jesse French and Cody Buriff talk about what it means to let parts of our lives “lay fallow”—to rest, to pause, and to trust that unseen work is still happening beneath the surface. They explore why rest isn’t laziness, but wisdom, and how our constant drive to achieve can actually rob us of long-term health. Together they wrestle with questions about control, trust, and the fear of slowing down. It’s an honest look at what happens when men choose to stop forcing growth and let God do His quiet work.

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Fall Reflections Part 2: The Work of Threshing

Restoration Project — Mon, 20 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Sometimes the most important work isn’t in the harvesting but in the sorting that follows. Cody and Jesse talk about what it means to “thresh” our stories—to separate what’s real and life-giving from what’s just been protecting us. They explore how our masks and old ways of coping can hide the truer parts of who we are. Together they wonder what it looks like to name both the pain and the glory of how we’ve shown up this year. It’s an honest look at how reflection, curiosity, and the presence of others help reveal the man God is still shaping in us.

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Fall Reflections Part 1: The Need To Harvest

Restoration Project — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0700

It’s fall, and Jesse and Cody are leaning into what this season has to teach us about our own lives. Harvest is more than gathering crops; it’s about looking back and naming what’s been growing in us over the past year. Maybe some things thrived, maybe others didn’t—but either way, this is a time to take stock without shame. They talk about how reflection helps us see what’s been formed in our hearts and where God’s been at work, even when we missed it. Because before we can move forward, we have to gather what’s grown.

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Sleep. Creep. Leap. And Other Helpful Lessons From Plants

Restoration Project — Mon, 06 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Sometimes growth feels invisible and you wonder if anything is really happening beneath the surface. In this episode, Cody, Jesse, and Alison Buriff explore the surprising wisdom of the garden and what it teaches us about patience, tending, and transformation. From soil health to the slow process of rooting, they connect the hidden work of plants with the hidden work of our own lives. You will hear stories of pulling weeds, waiting for fruit, and learning to trust the process. It is an honest conversation about why real growth takes time and why that is actually good news.

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Between Wonder and Grief: The Work of Fathering Daughters

Restoration Project — Mon, 29 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Cody and Jesse sit down to talk about the beauty and ache of raising daughters. From the first time you hold them to the teenage years that stretch you in new ways, the journey brings both joy and grief. They share stories of tenderness, protection, and the surprising wisdom their daughters have offered back to them. This isn’t just about parenting skills, but about how fathering changes a man from the inside out. It’s an honest look at the mystery, the laughter, and even the tears that come with walking alongside daughters as they grow.

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Why The World Needs You To Show Up (Jon Tyson Restorative Manhood Summit Teaser)

Restoration Project — Mon, 22 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Jesse and Jeremy kick off this episode laughing and teasing each other, but pretty quickly the conversation turns to something deeper. They play a clip from Jeremy’s interview with John Tyson that names a truth many men have never heard clearly enough: you are needed. Not when you get everything figured out, not when you feel strong enough, but right now as you are. Together they talk about how easy it is to freeze up waiting to be “ready” and how powerful it is when a brother or father says show up anyway. It is a reminder that what the world needs is not a perfect man but a present one.

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Coming Home to Your True Self

Restoration Project — Mon, 15 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

It’s easy to spend years playing a role and lose touch with who you really are. We all create masks and false selves to survive disconnection or to chase the love we longed for but didn’t know how to receive. In this episode, Chris and Jesse explore the reality that every man wrestles with a false persona, and every man is invited to risk laying it down. They unpack what it means to return to your true story, to embrace your identity as beloved, and why that journey can feel both terrifying and deeply freeing. This is a grounding conversation about shedding the false self and stepping into restorative manhood rooted in love.

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From Control to Curiosity (Mark Batterson Restorative Manhood Digital Summit Teaser)

Restoration Project — Mon, 08 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Parenting has a way of exposing just how quickly we can lose our cool. In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French talk about the practice of non-anxious curiosity, a simple but powerful way to stop yelling at your kids and become a calm dad. Sparked by a conversation with Mark Batterson on the Restorative Manhood Digital Summit, they explore how choosing curiosity over control changes the way we parent, love, and lead. Through real stories of rupture and repair, they get honest about the messy moments every father faces. If you’ve been searching for how to connect with your kids without constant correction, this conversation will help you breathe a little easier.

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Reclaiming What Makes You Come Alive (Dude Dad Restorative Manhood Summit Teaser)

Restoration Project — Mon, 01 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0700

So many men grow up cutting off parts of themselves just to fit expectations. In this episode, Cody Buriff and Jesse French share a teaser from Jesse's interview with Taylor Calmus, aka "Dude Dad", featured in the upcoming Restorative Manhood Digital Summit. Taylor talks about chasing creativity, rediscovering childhood passions, and why refusing to box yourself in can actually lead to a more authentic life. Cody and Jesse reflect on their own journeys of integration, reminding us that the things that once made us come alive as kids still matter today. It’s an honest, funny, and hopeful look at manhood that invites us to carry all of who we are into the world.

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Personal, Not Performative Spiritual Disciplines with John Ortberg (Restorative Manhood Summit Teaser)

Restoration Project — Mon, 25 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Jesse French and Greg Ehlert share a heartfelt conversation sparked by Greg’s interview with John Ortberg on spiritual disciplines. They unpack how practices meant to bring us closer to God can easily slip into performance and self-evaluation, leaving us striving instead of resting in grace. With insights from Dallas Willard and vivid metaphors like sailing and surfing, they reflect on how spiritual practices are less about achieving and more about opening ourselves to God’s love. The discussion also explores how living in this posture of receptivity reshapes not only our relationship with God but also the way we show up with our families and communities. It’s an honest and freeing reminder that disciplines are not about shoulds or striving, but about connection and trust.

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When Men Feel Too Much or Not Enough (Cathy Loerzel Restorative Manhood Summit Teaser)

Restoration Project — Mon, 18 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Cathy Loerzel says the world needs men in their most redeemed form—men who don’t apologize for their manhood but offer it as strength, not power. In this teaser for her interview in the upcoming Restorative Manhood Digital Summit, Chris and Cody unpack the tension so many men feel between being “too much” and “not enough,” and how those messages often start in childhood. They share how fear of hurting others can cause men to pull back, creating a “masculine famine” in relationships and communities. The conversation explores the difference between power that wounds and strength that creates safety, as well as how repair after rupture can be one of the truest signs of maturity. Vulnerability, confidence, and the willingness to show up as the man you were made to be all take center stage.

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Discussing Dan Allender's Take On Disillusionment (Restorative Manhood Summit Teaser)

Restoration Project — Mon, 11 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Ever feel like life didn’t turn out the way you hoped, and you’re left holding the pieces of what you thought would be? In this episode, Cody and Jesse sit down to talk about disillusionment—how it shows up in our faith, families, and even our own growth, and why it might not be the enemy we think it is. With a powerful snippet from Dan Allender (part of our upcoming Restorative Manhood Digital Summit), they reflect on the quiet invitations hidden inside our disappointments. What if disillusionment isn’t something to avoid, but something that clears space for something deeper, truer, and more lasting?

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The 4 Aspects of Adventure and Why We Need It

Restoration Project — Mon, 04 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Jesse French and Cody Buriff explore what truly defines adventure—not just epic outdoor experiences, but everyday moments that challenge and shape us. They identify four essential aspects of adventure: wilderness (the unknown), risk (the possibility of loss), struggle (both internal and external), and glory (the beauty or transformation that follows). Through stories ranging from backcountry hailstorms to backyard sprinkler repairs, they show how adventure invites growth and soul-deep change. They challenge the idea that adventure is only for the bold or athletic, and instead frame it as essential for every man’s formation. Real adventure, they argue, happens whenever we step into the unknown with courage and openness.

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The Swarm Within: Escaping the Scarcity Mindset

Restoration Project — Mon, 28 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

What do a plague of locusts and our inner world have in common? In this vivid and surprisingly relatable conversation, Cody and Jesse unpack how a scarcity mindset can transform us—just like grasshoppers turning into swarming locusts when the environment shifts. Through stories from childhood, garden failures, and even reality TV survival shows, they explore how fear of “not enough” can quietly dictate our decisions and relationships. But they also name the quiet miracle of abundance: people who live open-handed, present, and generous even in the face of limitations. This episode holds up a mirror to our everyday stress and invites us to imagine a different way of being—one rooted in trust, freedom, and enoughness.

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Who Are You Becoming?

Restoration Project — Mon, 21 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Summer’s in full swing, but what if now is the perfect time to look ahead? In this episode, Chris and Jesse invite us to lift our eyes from the daily grind and glimpse something on the horizon—The Grove. They share the heart behind this unique gathering of men, where connection and equipping go hand in hand. From its humble beginnings in a Wyoming basement to a movement rooted in the metaphor of the Aspen Grove, the conversation explores why men need each other now more than ever. And what if the way forward isn’t through doing more… but becoming more?

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Summer Rhythms

Restoration Project — Mon, 14 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Summer can feel like a juggling act, between work, kids, house projects, and the pressure to make every moment Instagram-worthy. In this episode, Chris and Jesse reflect on how they’re navigating two very different family rhythms during the summer months. They explore the myth of summer being a “slower” season for adults and challenge the idea that it has to be filled with big plans to be meaningful. Instead, they highlight the power of small moments, five-minute connections that carry more weight than any epic vacation. With honesty and humor, they remind us that sometimes aiming lower might actually help us connect more deeply.

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Affirmation Hunger

Restoration Project — Mon, 07 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0700

A quick drive to a summer basketball camp turns into an unexpected heart-stirring moment for Jesse when he runs into the coaches who once shaped his teenage years. In this episode, he and Chris unpack how affirmation, especially from people who matter, can echo across decades and still touch something deep inside. They talk about the difference between being affirmed for your performance versus being affirmed for simply who you are. Along the way, they explore how remembered goodness can be just as powerful as present affirmation. If you've ever longed to hear “you matter” from someone important, this conversation will meet you right there.

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Questions of the Sage

Restoration Project — Mon, 30 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

What do fish and chips, flying french fries, and a rowdy Scottish pub have to do with becoming a Sage? In this episode, Chris and Jesse reflect on their recent trip to Scotland with a group of men exploring what it means to step into midlife with intention. From the tremors of transition to questions of identity, legacy, and regret, they share the kinds of conversations that shape a man’s decades ahead. If this kind of journey sounds like something your soul is craving, consider joining one of our upcoming Sage Experiences. Spots are open now for:

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The Anatomy of Launching Kids

Restoration Project — Mon, 23 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

What does it really mean to launch your kids well? In this episode, Chris and Jesse unpack the transition from fathering children to walking alongside them as young adults—with all the joy, grief, and humility it requires. They share powerful moments from Trek: Kenya, a father-teen expedition that invites dads into raw conversations and real growth. From the weight of past mistakes to the wonder of seeing your child’s glory up close, this is about launching hearts, not just moving boxes. And somewhere between wildebeest stampedes and safari trucks, a deeper kind of beauty emerges: the honor of being a dad.

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Identity Beyond Occupation with Kevin Lyon

Restoration Project — Mon, 16 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Jesse sits down in person with longtime friend and retired firefighter Kevin Lyon for a raw, thoughtful conversation about vocation, transition, and identity. From the unexpected pivot out of pastoral ministry to crawling through tight fire academy pipes (literally)Kevin shares how his journey has been shaped by fear, purpose, and presence. He reflects on what it meant to be an “undercover pastor” in the firehouse, navigating trauma while trying not to lose himself or his family in the process. They also explore what it takes to re-enter home life after high-stakes calls and why retirement isn’t the finish line, but a shift into deeper availability. Together, they talk about daily bread, dark humor, sonship, and the power of people who are unimpressed with your résumé.

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A Case For Rest and Sabbatical

Restoration Project — Mon, 09 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Chris is back from a three-month sabbatical, and in this episode, he and Jesse dive into what that time really held. Hint: it wasn’t just naps and novels on the beach. They explore the difference between being tired and being truly weary, and why the latter can’t be fixed with just a vacation. Chris opens up about the hard and beautiful work of processing grief, naming loss, and discovering what genuine rest looks like. Together, they unpack how sabbatical is less about stepping away and more about stepping into deeper restoration. Whether or not a three-month break is in your future, this episode invites you to consider how rest might look different and more honest this season.

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How Can We Mine Meaning From Sports

Restoration Project — Mon, 02 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Whether you’re a die-hard fan or someone who’s never cared about sports, this episode has something for you. Jesse and Michael Krommendyk explore how sports can be both a bonding force and a barrier for men trying to connect meaningfully. They reflect on childhood memories, emotional investments in games, and the pressure to find belonging through shared interests. But they also make space for men who’ve felt left out of that world. Could sports be more than just entertainment—maybe even a clue to where we truly belong?

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Surviving Divorce: A Story of Resilience with Ike Dolby - Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 26 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Sometimes the most defining moments in our lives don’t come with clarity—they come with exhaustion, heartbreak, and longing. In Part 2 of his story, Ike Dolby shares what it meant to be in the thick of disappointment and disconnection, craving his father’s presence and learning to reach for community. He tells of how light broke through in the form of phone calls, honest friends, and even laughter. And ultimately, how God met him with the release he didn’t know he needed.

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Surviving Divorce: A Story of Resilience with Ike Dolby - Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 19 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Jesse and Cody catch up with their old friend Ike Dolby, whose story isn’t clean or easy—but it’s real. Ike opens up about his marriage falling apart, the quiet loneliness of trying to hold it all together, and the gut-punch of discovering layers of betrayal. For years, he believed if he just tried harder, prayed harder, and sacrificed more, things would work out. But it didn’t—and instead of resolution, he was handed heartbreak. Through it all, he met a God who didn’t fix things overnight, but stayed with him in the mess.

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The Invitation of Fly Fishing

Restoration Project — Mon, 12 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Jesse French and Cody Buriff dive into the surprising depth of fly fishing—not just as a hobby, but as a gateway to connection, healing, and invitation. From Jesse’s first cast in Montana to Cody’s unexpected beginner’s luck, the conversation explores how small moments outdoors can uncover big truths about story, identity, and desire. They reflect on what it means to be invited in, especially as men who often feel like outsiders. Through laughter, memory, and honesty, they reveal how even tangled lines and missed casts can become sacred spaces. Whether you fish or not, this episode is an invitation to pursue joy, presence, and deeper connection.

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Beyond Words: FBI Chaplain Scott Sommer on the Healing Power of Presence

Restoration Project — Mon, 05 May 2025 05:00:00 -0700

What if the most powerful thing you could offer someone wasn’t advice or solutions—but just your presence?

In this episode, Cody and Jesse catch up with their good friend Scott Sommer, an FBI chaplain who shares wild, heartfelt, and sometimes hilarious stories from his years of showing up in the hardest moments. From a parking ticket that launched a career to sitting with people as they take their final breaths, Scott reminds us that being there matters more than having the right words. You'll walk away seeing grief, courage, and real love through a whole new lens. It’s a raw, hopeful, and surprisingly funny conversation about what truly matters—and why simply being there can change everything.

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Navigating Life After a Traumatic Brain Injury, with Josh Wright

Restoration Project — Mon, 28 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

When life takes a sudden, traumatic turn, how do you begin to rebuild? In this powerful episode, Josh Wright shares the moment everything changed—an accident that left him navigating life with a traumatic brain injury. With honesty and humility, Josh opens up about the grief, the anger, and ultimately, the slow, steady work of healing and discovering a new way to live. His story is one of mourning what was lost and embracing what can still be found—presence, depth, and surprising new purpose. This conversation will move you, challenge you, and remind you of the quiet strength in choosing to keep going.

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Drive Your Car: In The Truck Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 21 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Stuck in traffic, Jesse French and Chris Bruno find themselves in an impromptu driving school deep in the mountains—complete with snark, humor, and life lessons. From the art of parallel parking to the non-negotiable skill of driving a manual, Chris lays out his four tenets of responsible driving (and maybe life itself). Along the way, they explore the unexpected connection between making decisions and embracing the reality that every choice requires saying no to something. As frustration mounts and patience is tested, the conversation shifts to the deeper meaning of ownership—whether it’s behind the wheel or in everyday life. So buckle up for a hilarious, thought-provoking ride through standstill traffic and the choices that shape us.

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Not Everything is Meaningful: In The Truck Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 14 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Chris Bruno and Jesse French take the podcast on the road...literally! Stuck in Colorado traffic at a blistering 6 miles per hour, they pass the time debating Apple vs. Android, reminiscing about childhood road trips, and questioning Jesse’s choice of route. Between laughter, lighthearted jabs, and a plea for highway patrol intervention, they find meaning in the slow moments of life. Will Jesse ever admit defeat in the great phone debate?

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The Cost of Performance, with Shae McCowen

Restoration Project — Mon, 07 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Many men build their lives around performance—measuring their worth by what they achieve rather than who they are. In this episode, Jesse French and Cody Buriff sit down with Shae McCowen, the chairman of the board at Restoration Project, to unpack the hidden costs of striving. Shae shares his journey from being a skeptical participant at his first Restoration Project gathering to discovering the power of authenticity, brotherhood, and self-awareness. Through laughter, deep reflection, and a few wild stories from early retreats, we explore how men can step out of the performance trap and into something richer.

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Sonship: Orphan or Adopted, with Greg Ehlert

Restoration Project — Mon, 31 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Are you living as an orphan or as an adopted son? In this episode, Jesse and Cody sit down with Greg Ehlert to explore the journey of sonship—what it means to truly embrace our identity as beloved sons of God. Greg shares his own awakening to this reality, the struggles men face in shifting from self-reliance to interdependence, and why play, community, and surrender are crucial in this transformation. Together, they unpack the difference between striving for approval and resting in the Father's delight. Tune in for an honest, insightful conversation that will challenge and encourage you in your own journey toward sonship.

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Lessons From the Special Needs Community, with Paul Hathcoat

Restoration Project — Mon, 24 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

What can the special needs community teach us about authenticity, dignity, and connection? In this episode, Jesse and Cody sit down with Paul Hathcoat, who shares his journey from bounty hunter to special needs pastor and the deep lessons he’s learned along the way. Paul opens up about how his childhood friendship, personal struggles, and unexpected call to ministry shaped his heart for those with disabilities. Together, they explore the difference between pity and dignity, the transformative power of authentic relationships, and what it truly means to be indispensable in God’s kingdom.

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Transform Your Marriage: What is Thrive Marriage Lab?

Restoration Project — Mon, 17 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French dive into what it means to intentionally invest in marriage rather than settle for survival. They introduce Thrive Marriage Lab, an online year-long marriage cohort designed to help couples move beyond status quo and grow in awareness, curiosity, and kindness toward one another. Chris shares the story behind Thrive’s creation during COVID and how it continues to provide structured, accessible support for couples wanting more for their relationship. They discuss the reality that marriage is always moving either toward connection or away from it—and that investing in intentional growth is essential.

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The Essential Role of Men in Marriage

Restoration Project — Mon, 10 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Jesse shares the unforgettable story of his "lucky number seven" anniversary trip gone completely sideways—from a missing campsite to an unplanned visit with his mom and a cooler lost to the river. Chris and Jesse unpack the tension between planning and spontaneity in relationships and how missteps can become legendary family stories. They reflect on the deeper lessons hidden in relational mishaps, like how silence can make things worse and why awareness matters. Through laughter and honesty, they explore what it really takes to build strong connections, even when things don't go as planned.

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"Do It Yourself" Leaves You By Yourself, with Cody Buriff

Restoration Project — Mon, 03 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Cody Buriff and Jesse French dive into the world of DIY—not just the hands-on projects, but the deeper emotional and psychological layers that come with them. They get real about the pressure men feel to be self-reliant and competent, the unspoken struggle of asking for help, and why just knowing how to do something isn’t the same as actually growing through it.

Through personal stories and honest reflections, Cody and Jesse unpack what it means to learn, to be vulnerable, and to show up—not just for projects, but for people. They remind us that transformation doesn’t happen in isolation but through community, support, and the willingness to be seen beyond our achievements.

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Wholeheartedness, Ambition, and Personal Growth, with Lantz Howard

Restoration Project — Mon, 24 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, hosts Cody Buriff and Jesse French sit down with Lantz Howard to explore the balance between wholeheartedness, ambition, and personal growth. Lantz shares his journey from pastoral ministry to coaching men in leadership, touching on the struggles of people-pleasing, burnout, and finding true purpose. The conversation dives into what it means to live with integrity, pursue ambition with gratitude, and foster deep, meaningful relationships. Lantz challenges men to examine their motivations and embrace the risky but rewarding work of becoming wholehearted leaders.

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Architecting a New Path: Overcoming Doubt and Embracing Calling

Restoration Project — Mon, 17 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man podcast, hosts Cody Buriff and Jesse French interview Michael Bowen, an architect who shares his transformative journey from a career in construction to pursuing his passion for architecture later in life. Michael discusses the importance of listening and collaboration in his work, the challenges he faced in returning to school at 40, and the personal growth he experienced while building his own home. The conversation highlights the significance of faith, patience, and the lessons learned through the process of creating a space that reflects one's values and aspirations.

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Shae McCowen: The Discomfort of Self-Discovery

Restoration Project — Mon, 10 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man podcast, hosts Cody Buriff and Jesse French welcome Shae McCowen, who shares his journey from being a Division 1 swimmer to navigating the complexities of personal worth and success. Shae discusses the rigorous discipline of his college years, the motivations behind his performance addiction, and the transformative experiences that led him to reevaluate his values. Through candid reflections on his life changes, relationships, and the counter-cultural perspectives on success, Shae offers insights into the importance of personal growth and connection over accolades.

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Jeremy Williamson: Wrestling With God En Español

Restoration Project — Mon, 03 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of The Restorative Man podcast, hosts Jesse French and Cody Buriff sit down with Jeremy Williamson, Restoration Project's Director of Experiences. Jeremy shares his journey of immersing himself in Latino culture and the Spanish language. Jeremy shares how his passion led him to El Salvador, where he encountered both profound challenges and deep personal growth. Through stories of loneliness, resilience, and faith, he reflects on the tension between joy and suffering and the transformative power of embracing life’s messiness. What happens when we lean into our passions, even when they require us to confront our fears? How do we hold onto our identity when life feels unsteady?

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The Heart of a Bounty Hunter

Restoration Project — Mon, 27 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man podcast, Jesse French and Cody Buriff engage in a deep conversation with Paul Hathcoat, a pastor and former bounty hunter. Paul shares his unique journey from pursuing a career in baseball to becoming a bounty hunter, detailing the intricacies of the bail bond system and the challenges he faced in the field. Through personal stories, he reflects on the impact of his experiences on his understanding of humanity, justice, and faith. The conversation highlights the importance of dignity in the judicial process and how Paul's encounters with individuals in distress led to a transformation in his perspective and purpose in life.

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Looking Yourself In The Eye: Choosing Authenticity Over Approval: Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 20 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode, we continue our heartfelt conversation with Justin Morgan, diving deeper into the tension between authenticity and approval in today’s social media-driven culture. Together, we explore how the quest for likes and validation often replaces genuine relationships and the importance of reclaiming deeper connections. Justin shares insights on the value of apprenticeship—embracing the long, unseen work of becoming who we were created to be—and contrasts it with the superficiality of image management. We also discuss the role of community and fathering in fostering true transformation and calling out the best in one another.

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Looking Yourself In The Eye: Choosing Authenticity Over Approval: Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 13 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Jesse French, Cody Buriff, and Justin Morgan dive deep into the tension between authenticity and the need for approval. Justin shares vulnerable stories from his life, including childhood insecurities and a pivotal moment of rejection that shaped his journey. Together, they explore the barriers to self-worth and how daily practices, like looking yourself in the eye, can help rewrite the stories we believe about ourselves. This heartfelt conversation offers insights into the power of vulnerability, fatherhood, and the courage to show up as your true self.

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When the Storm Comes: A Journey Through Loss, Healing, and Brotherhood

Restoration Project — Mon, 06 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man podcast, Jesse French and Cody Burriff engage in a heartfelt conversation with Michael Bowen, who shares his experiences following Hurricane Helene. Michael discusses the emotional and physical devastation caused by the hurricane, the sense of violation he felt, and the overwhelming support from his community. The conversation delves into the importance of processing emotions, the role of brotherhood in recovery, and offers insights for those removed from the situation on how to support loved ones affected by natural disasters. Michael emphasizes the duality of experiencing trauma while also recognizing the beauty in community support and personal growth.

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Advent Part 5: Empty Baskets

Restoration Project — Mon, 30 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0800

What does it mean to have faith when the basket looks empty? In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French take us to the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 in Mark 6, exploring the idea of faith built one reach at a time. As we reflect on the past year and anticipate the next, this passage challenges us to consider: Are our baskets full, empty, or being filled through acts of trust? Join the conversation and rediscover how small, steady steps of faith can reveal abundance in the most unexpected ways.

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Advent Part 4: The Food You Know Not Of

Restoration Project — Mon, 23 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man podcast, Jesse French and Chris Bruno explore the concept of ''bonking''—a state of hunger that affects one's mood and behavior. They delve into the spiritual sustenance found in John 4, discussing how Jesus' interaction with the Samaritan woman illustrates a deeper nourishment beyond physical needs. The conversation touches on themes of father hunger, the importance of brotherhood, and the idea of finding fulfillment in unexpected places, especially during the Advent season.

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Advent Part 3: The God Who Plays

Restoration Project — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode, Jesse French and Chris Bruno explore the themes of playfulness and recognition of Jesus during the Advent season, particularly through the lens of the Road to Emmaus story. They discuss how Jesus engages with his disciples in a lighthearted manner, emphasizing the importance of shared joy in shaping identity and recognizing Jesus in our lives. The conversation highlights the interplay of joy and grief, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences of recognizing Jesus in playful and unexpected ways.

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Advent Part 2: The Whole Truth

Restoration Project — Mon, 09 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0800

What happens when Jesus stops everything for one desperate, unclean woman? In this Advent reflection, Jesse French and Chris Bruno delve into the profound encounter between Jesus and the woman with the issue of blood from Mark 5:21-34. Together, they unpack her bold faith, her risk to touch Jesus, and the deeper healing she receives—not just in her body but in her soul. Through cinematic storytelling and thoughtful insight, they invite us to see the tenderness of Jesus as He kneels beside her and listens to "the whole truth." This episode challenges us to reflect: what healing might Jesus offer when He calls us to step out of the shadows?

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Advent Part 1: The Paralysis of Shame

Restoration Project — Mon, 02 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this Advent series, Chris Bruno and Jesse French dive into the profound story of Jesus healing the paralyzed man, exploring layers beyond the physical miracle. The episode unpacks how shame and a fear of divine wrath can leave us spiritually paralyzed, disconnected from the life Jesus calls us to live. By reflecting on this miracle, they invite listeners to consider their own "paralysis"—the hidden beliefs that hold them back. As the busiest season of the year begins, this episode challenges us to focus less on outward fixations and more on the soul's healing. Advent, they remind us, is an invitation to spiritual restoration, disrupting our norms with the deeper gift of Christ's arrival.

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Six Core Values

Restoration Project — Mon, 25 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris and Jesse pull back the curtain on Restoration Project's six core values, offering insight into what makes the organization tick. They dive into each value, from embracing relentless curiosity to being grassroots-driven, and share why these values are more than just words—they shape daily decisions and interactions. The hosts also reflect on the importance of celebrating accomplishments, staying humble as participants in the "meta-narrative," and crafting unique experiences that avoid the "rubber chicken" standard.

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Feed Your Soul Or Feed Your Ego

Restoration Project — Mon, 18 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0800

Join Jesse French and Chris Bruno as they open up about their recent mountain adventure, where an unforgettable lesson on ego and soul emerged. Jesse shares a powerful story from a horse-riding clinic led by the legendary Buck Brannaman, who gave them a choice: feed your soul or feed your ego. This conversation unpacks the everyday ways we can decide between validation and true fulfillment in our passions, relationships, and work. Together, they reflect on how our intentions shape our experiences, from being present with loved ones to embracing the journey of growth.

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Introduction to The Restorative Man Podcast

Restoration Project — Mon, 11 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0800

Welcome to the first-ever episode of The Restorative Man Podcast! Today, Chris Bruno and Jesse French share an exciting announcement: after years of building community and resources through The Forge Podcast, they're re-centering around the vision of “The Restorative Man.” In this conversation, Chris and Jesse dive into what this shift means and the heart behind the new name. They reflect on how the “forge” concept captured the process of growth, while “The Restorative Man” captures the goal—a lifelong journey to become men who actively bring restoration to themselves and the world around them. Join us as we explore what it means to become restorative men and how that mission shapes everything Restoration Project is about.

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Losing My Father with Bart Lillie

Restoration Project — Mon, 04 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this deeply emotional episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French are joined by Bart Lillie as he courageously shares the profound story of losing his father. Bart reflects on the tragic day his father was taken from him in an unexpected act of violence and how this pivotal moment shaped his life and faith journey. He recounts precious memories, including the last moments he spent with his dad during a trip to Turkey. As Bart opens up about the grief and the enduring impact of his father's legacy, he offers a poignant reminder of the power of love, loss, and hope. Join us for a raw and heartfelt conversation that explores the depths of sorrow and the resilience that follows.

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Exploring My Father's Fathering with Bart Lillie

Restoration Project — Mon, 28 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French sit down with Bart Lillie to explore the legacy of fathering and how it has shaped their lives. Bart reflects on his father's journey from a Michigan farm to Chicago, where he worked at an orphanage and eventually helped launch Spring Hill Camps. He discusses how these stories, some of which were lost to time, have recently come to light, revealing deeper connections between his father’s life and his own work with Restoration Project. Bart also shares how his father’s example of intentionality and care for children foreshadowed his own heart for fathering.

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The Risk of Dreaming with Brayden Lans

Restoration Project — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Jesse French and Chris Bruno sit down for a second conversation with Brayden Lans, a man deeply invested in his community through his coffee business and his ministry, Half Step Ministries. Brayden shares the origins of his calling, how he and his wife, Abby, built their outreach to high school students from the ground up, and the risks they've faced along the way. He reflects on the fear of responsibility that comes with success and how stepping into vulnerability has shaped his journey. This episode is a deep dive into the challenges and rewards of following a dream, and the importance of support from a close-knit community.

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What's Your Year Plan?

Restoration Project — Mon, 14 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French dive into the importance of creating an intentional plan for the year ahead. Through personal stories of adventure and unexpected encounters in the wilderness, they explore how God shows up in surprising ways—whether it’s through a bear in the woods or a cooler of cold beers floating down a river. What’s your plan for the next year? Are you carving out time for meaningful experiences with your kids, or are you letting the year slip by? Join Chris and Jesse as they challenge us to think deeper about how we spend our time and why intentionality matters for the journey ahead.

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6 Seasons of A Man's Life: Part 3

Restoration Project — Mon, 07 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, co-hosts Chris Bruno and Jesse French discuss the final stages of a man’s journey: “The Restored King” and “The Sage.” The "Restored King" emerges from his wounds, not by force or effort, but by finding inner peace and accepting his scars as part of his story. This stage is marked by wisdom, humility, and leadership that invites relief and trust from those around him. In the final stage, “The Sage,” a man divests from external importance and embraces a life of guidance and presence, offering wisdom without the need for recognition. Both stages reflect a man’s evolution from striving to embodying his true purpose.

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6 Seasons of a Man's Life: Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 30 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this continuation of the '’6 Seasons of a Man's Life’' series, Jesse French and Chris Bruno dive into the 'Zealous Warrior' stage in a man's life. Jesse kicks things off with a hilarious story from his college days, where he and a friend test the limits of a John Deere Gator by stacking hay bales far beyond capacity. This sets the stage for a deeper discussion on the Zealous Warrior phase—a time when young men feel the need to take responsibility, push boundaries, and conquer their battles. Chris explains why this stage is crucial for developing grit and purpose, and what happens when it's bypassed. They also tease the next episode, which will explore the often-overlooked 'Wounded Man' stage, adding layers to the journey of masculinity.

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6 Seasons of a Man's Life: Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 23 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French dive into the first two of the "6 Seasons of a Man’s Life," starting with the Innocent Boy phase. They reflect on how this stage, marked by naivety and learning, shapes a man's identity and understanding of the world. Chris shares a story about Jesse's son, Case, to illustrate the pure focus and joy of childhood. They also discuss the transition into the next phase, the Phallic Man, where a boy starts becoming aware of his strength, sexuality, and relationships.

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Aim Lower: The Case For Human Sized Expectations This Fall

Restoration Project — Mon, 16 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, hosts Jesse French and Chris Bruno explore the idea of aiming lower to set realistic, human-sized expectations as we transition into fall. They recount a humorous yet insightful story about a child advising a teacher to "aim lower" and discuss how this philosophy can alleviate the pressures of performance and productivity. Reflecting on personal experiences and societal pressures, Jesse and Chris share strategies to prioritize presence and intentional living over busyness.

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The Case For Intention At Midlife

Restoration Project — Mon, 09 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French discuss the exciting launch of the Sage audiobook. Chris shares the unique challenges and joys of recording the audiobook, including the meticulous process of bringing the written word to life through his voice. They explore the deeper themes of the book, particularly the passage from manhood to becoming a sage, and the importance of intentionality in this journey. Chris also reflects on how revisiting the content of Sage through the recording process brought new insights and personal growth.

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Staring Mortality In the Face with Robin Erkkila

Restoration Project — Mon, 02 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno welcomes back Robin Erkkila to share his powerful journey with stage four prostate cancer. Robin recounts the emotional rollercoaster of his diagnosis, the aggressive treatment, and the unexpected remission that has brought hope and a renewed perspective on life. Through candid reflections and heartfelt conversations, Robin emphasizes the importance of early detection and the profound impact of support from loved ones and fellow survivors. Tune in to hear Robin's inspiring story and his message of resilience and faith amidst life's most challenging battles.

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Ruin and Redemption with Drew Boa

Restoration Project — Mon, 26 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Jesse and Chris welcome back their good friend Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material, an organization dedicated to helping men engage with their sexuality and achieve greater levels of freedom. Drew shares his deeply personal journey of moving around North America, his formative years in Toronto, and the challenges he faced moving to Texas. He opens up about his struggles with identity, emotional awareness, and the pivotal moments that shaped his path towards redemption.

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Who Is the Restorative Man?

Restoration Project — Mon, 19 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Join co-hosts Jesse French and Chris Bruno as they delve into the heart of Restoration Project and its mission over the past 14 years. They recount the origins of this initiative, highlighting an early gathering in snowy Wyoming where men shared stories, built trust, and embraced the core values of Experience, Story, and Blessing (ESB). Discover how this humble beginning evolved into a vibrant community of "restorative men" dedicated to bringing God's glory and goodness to the world. Learn about the significance of the Grove, a metaphor for interconnectedness and growth, inspired by Colorado's resilient Aspen trees. Don't miss out on their upcoming Grove experiences, designed to nurture and expand this thriving brotherhood.

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The Secret Sauce of Experience, Story, Blessing

Restoration Project — Mon, 12 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French share the unexpected joys of backyard chickens and delve into the importance of meaningful connections among men. From humorous anecdotes about their own feathered friends to discussing the Restoration Project's core philosophy of Experience, Story, Blessing (ESB), they emphasize how shared activities can deepen relationships. Chris and Jesse explore how intentional conversations can transform casual hobbies into opportunities for personal growth and blessing. Don't miss their insights on upcoming events designed to foster these profound connections.

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The Question No One Asks

Restoration Project — Mon, 05 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Jesse French and Chris Bruno dive into a profound question that goes beyond the usual surface-level inquiries. This question has become a cornerstone of their organizational ethos, particularly during their father-son expeditions. Listen in as they discuss the significance of asking "What did it mean?" instead of the typical "How was the trip?" or "What did you do?" They share personal stories, including Chris's recent family trip to Morocco, and explore how reflecting on the meaning of experiences can lead to deeper transformation and understanding of oneself.

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A Husband's Journey With Breast Cancer with Rob Bremer

Restoration Project — Mon, 29 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Chris Bruno and Jesse French welcome Rob Bremer back to the Restorative Man Podcast to discuss his wife's breast cancer journey and its impact on their lives. Rob opens up about the emotional rollercoaster and the lessons learned about intimacy and support. Discover the raw truths about how this life-altering news impacted their marriage, reshaped their intimacy, and tested their resilience.

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Did I Mess Up? with Nic Howe

Restoration Project — Mon, 22 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast, Jesse and Chris welcome back Nic Howe for a deep dive into the struggles and growth of the past three years. Nic shares candidly about his move from Washington to Minnesota, the challenges of starting his own therapy practice, and the profound personal lessons learned along the way. Tune in to hear insights on coping with self-doubt and finding growth amidst life's unpredictable journey.

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Inviting Sages to Speak with Justin Koehn

Restoration Project — Mon, 15 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Join us on the Restorative Man Podcast as Chris Bruno interviews Justin Koehn about the profound reflections that come with turning 40, focusing on intentional living and fatherhood. Justin shares his journey of seeking wisdom from sage men through heartfelt letters, emphasizing the importance of soul health, marriage, and personal growth. Dive into their discussion on navigating midlife challenges with intentionality and insight.

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The Roller Coaster with Brayden Lans

Restoration Project — Mon, 08 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Jesse French and Chris Bruno sit down with Brayden Lans, a devoted father, husband, and entrepreneur from Fort Collins, Colorado. Brayden shares his journey of balancing fatherhood, running a ministry, and a coffee business, drawing parallels to the ups and downs of a roller coaster. With heartfelt honesty, he discusses the challenges and growth he's experienced, emphasizing the importance of presence and perseverance in both personal and professional life.

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Anti-Burnout with Alan Briggs - Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 01 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In the second part of this conversation, Alan explores the practical shifts needed to move from reactive to proactive leadership, emphasizing the importance of co-designing a fulfilling life. He shares his experiences on combating burnout, highlighting key practices like Sabbath, intentional recovery, and creating empowering communities. Discover how these strategies can help you flourish, maintain emotional health, and lead with a restorative presence in a demanding world.

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Anti-Burnout with Alan Briggs - Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 24 Jun 2024 04:52:03 -0700

In this episode, hosts Chris and Jesse welcome adventurist and leadership coach Alan Briggs to the Restorative Man Podcast. Alan discusses his new book "Anti-Burnout: A Lighter Way to Live and Lead in a Heavy World," which addresses the epidemic of burnout among leaders and offers insights into aligning one's identity and work. They explore the complexities of voluntary self-exploitation, the impact of modern technology, and the significance of rest and identity in counteracting burnout.

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Fathering A Child With A Disability with Robin Erkkila

Restoration Project — Mon, 17 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

This episode of the Restorative Man Podcast features a deep and insightful conversation between Jesse French and his guest Robin Erkkila, focusing on the complexities and emotional journey of raising a child with significant disabilities. Robin shares his personal experience with his son, Drew, who has a rare condition that leaves him significantly disabled and requires round-the-clock care, including non-verbal communication and the use of a G-tube for feeding. The discussion covers the challenges and emotional rollercoaster of parenting a child with special needs, the support systems in place, and the lessons in kindness, awareness, and presence that come from living with and loving a child with unique needs.

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The Sex Talk I Never Had with Sam Jolman - Part 2

Restoration Project — Mon, 10 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In the second-part of Chris and Jesse's conversation with Sam Jolman, Sam delves deeper into the exploration of masculine desire, urging listeners to ponder the profound depths of their desires beyond mere surface needs. He highlights the transformative power of engaging with desire, offering a fresh perspective that encourages curiosity rather than shame. Through compelling anecdotes and thoughtful analysis, Sam unpacks the intricate layers of male sexuality, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's emotional landscape and reclaiming the narrative of masculine embodiment.

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The Sex Talk I Never Had with Sam Jolman - Part 1

Restoration Project — Mon, 03 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this 2-part episode of the The Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris Bruno and Jesse French welcome Sam Jolman, a therapist and author of the upcoming book ''The Sex Talk You Never Got''. Sam discusses the importance of sexual formation, moving beyond the mechanics to explore the poetics of sex, which includes desire, longing, and the stories that shape one's sexuality. He emphasizes that sexual education often neglects this aspect, offering only basic anatomical lessons devoid of deeper emotional and relational context. Sam advocates for a shift from viewing sex as a need or drive to understanding it as a desire rooted in beauty and awe, aiming to transform conversations around masculinity and sexuality.

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The Call You Don't Want to Get with Rob Bremer

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 27 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Jesse French and Chris Bruno talk with Rob Bremer about enduring career challenges and personal growth. Rob shares his journey of coming to the end of himself, dealing with a significant career disappointment, and learning to depend on God through a period of uncertainty and change. The discussion highlights themes of identity, control, and finding new beginnings in the face of fear and loss.

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Story and Fantasy with Drew Boa

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 20 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French are joined by Drew Boa from Husband Material to discuss the journey of sexual and emotional maturity for men, focusing on the early exposure to pornography and its long-lasting effects. Drew shares his insights on how pornography acts as a ''sexualized solution to our pain,'' and emphasizes the importance of awareness, understanding, and healing from these early experiences to achieve true freedom. The conversation also delves into the detrimental effects of silence and toxic shame around sexuality, as well as the need to ''befriend our sexuality'' and heal the inner child within for lasting change.

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Becoming a Father After Losing A Father with Nic Howe

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 13 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris Bruno and Jesse French delve into Nic Howe's experiences of becoming a father after losing his own. Nic shares his journey as a mental health therapist in Minnesota, the profound impact of his daughter Scout's birth, and coping with the grief of his father's tragic death. The discussion explores the complexities of grief, the pursuit of connection with lost loved ones, and the transformative process of becoming a father.

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Shut Downs and Melt Downs

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 06 May 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Jesse French and Chris Bruno discuss the detrimental effects of men shutting down or melting down in response to life's challenges. They explore the importance of presence, sharing personal stories and the impact of men's actions on their families and themselves. The conversation emphasizes the need for men to modulate their responses to avoid both extremes, aiming for a balanced presence that brings warmth and light rather than cold and darkness.

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Three Unlikely Fathers

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 29 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Today's episode delves into non-traditional aspects of fatherhood through personal stories from Chris and Jesse, along with their experiences and insights on how men can embody fathering qualities beyond biological connections. They discuss the impactful stories of Buken from Nairobi, Cecil the rancher, and Aidan, Chris's son, who all serve as 'unlikely fathers' by offering strength, tenderness, and presence. The episode emphasizes the importance of male presence in lives, challenging the conventional definitions of fatherhood and encouraging all men to embrace their inherent ability to nurture and guide.

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The Hammer Throwing Medical Professional

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French welcome Drew Loftin, a medical professional and the Grove chaplain for the Restoration Project. Drew shares his unique journey from being a professional hammer and discus thrower to pursuing a career in medicine, specializing in nephrology, hospital medicine, and psychiatric care. He discusses the transition from the medical field to becoming a chaplain and leading the Grove Initiative. Lofton opens up about his own journey of dealing with personal trauma, the importance of brotherhood and safe spaces, and how these experiences have enhanced his empathy and presence in providing care for patients in psychiatric and rehab settings. Through sharing his story, Drew highlights the transformative power of vulnerability, community, and understanding one's own trauma in order to bring healing presence to others.

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Is Your Penis Securely Attached with Corey Allan - Part 2

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 15 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Chris and Jesse continue their conversation with Corey Allan, exploring themes of masculinity, sexual behavior, and the concept of securely attaching one's sexuality within the context of a relationship. Corey discusses the importance of men engaging decisively and authentically in their relationships, both sexually and non-sexually. He emphasizes the role of self-awareness and maturity in overcoming challenges and enhancing intimacy. Additionally, the conversation covers how men can address and heal from past experiences that may have negatively impacted their sexual relationships and self-perception.

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Is Your Penis Securely Attached with Corey Allan - Part 1

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 08 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French are joined by marriage and family therapist Corey Allan to discuss the role of sexuality in marriage and personal growth. Allan emphasizes the importance of bringing one's full self to their partner, exploring how sexuality intersects with identity, and navigating the challenges of physical and emotional intimacy. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, the conversation highlights the journey of understanding and cultivating sexual relationships within the framework of marriage, identity, and personal development.

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Beard the Lion with Justin Koehn

Chris Bruno — Mon, 01 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Chris Bruno sits down with his long-time friend Justin Koehn to explore the fascinating phrase "to beard the lion." They dive into the historical origins of this term, from Shakespeare to the Bible, uncovering its deep metaphorical meaning. Justin unpacks how the concept reflects the courage to confront life’s most formidable challenges—those battles that require us to return and face our fears again. Chris and Justin discuss how this ancient metaphor resonates with modern-day men and how it shapes the way they face personal struggles.

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Why Your Story Matters To Your Son

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 25 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Chris Bruno and Jesse French dive into the journey of fathering boys and the profound moment of realizing the weight of leading them into manhood. Chris shares a powerful story about holding his newborn son and the overwhelming responsibility that came with it. Jesse reflects on how having a son sparked a different awareness in him, as he considered the unique role fathers play in shaping their boys. Together, they discuss the importance of understanding their own stories and how unresolved issues can unknowingly affect their sons. They also explore the value of doing personal work to give the next generation a better starting point.

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Rites of Passage - Do I Have What It Takes?

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 18 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Jesse and Chris dive into the essential question every man asks: "Do I have what it takes?" They explore rites of passage, looking at how boys transition into manhood, and reflect on how these pivotal moments shape us. From getting your first job to facing personal challenges, the conversation touches on the cultural significance of intentional initiation for boys. Jesse and Chris also discuss how modern life, shaped by the Industrial Revolution, has changed the father-son dynamic, making rites of passage more important than ever.

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Squirrels in the Floor - Restore

Chris Bruno, Jesse French, and Cody Buriff — Mon, 11 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Chris Bruno and Jesse French are joined by Cody Buriff, the Chief of Resources and Experiences at Restoration Project. Cody, currently recording from Puerto Rico, shares how his family's bold decision to move there was inspired by a desire for a new adventure and seeking God’s direction. The conversation delves into Cody's many ongoing restoration projects, including flipping houses and restoring old vehicles, with a humorous story involving an unexpected squirrel encounter. The episode also explores the powerful metaphor of restoration in a man’s life, drawing parallels between Cody’s projects and the restorative work men must undertake in their own souls. Tune in for laughs and meaningful reflections on what it means to become a restorative man.

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The God of Fish - Know

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 04 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris Bruno and Jesse French explore the journey towards becoming a ''restorative man'', delving into the stages of healing wounds, knowing God, and restoring the world. Through the narrative of blacksmith Pierce Richardson, renowned for crafting intricate blades, they draw parallels between his artistry and the spiritual journey of healing and restoration. Emphasizing the importance of knowing and being known by God, they highlight how this intimate connection provides hope, purpose, and courage for engaging in restorative work.

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Leaking Wounds - Heal

Chris Bruno and Jesse French — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode of The Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris Bruno and Jesse French dive deep into the importance of healing the wounds men often carry, reflecting on Chris's recent experience leading a group of 20 men through the Sage experience in Scotland. They explore how society pushes men to "tough it out," but real courage lies in acknowledging pain and stepping into healing. Using the rugged landscape of Scotland as a metaphor for the inner landscape of men’s lives, they challenge the common idea that men shouldn't engage in emotional work. Chris and Jesse also discuss the global need for men to pursue intentional heart work and how this effort can transform both their lives and relationships.

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