relationSHIPS & Giggles Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/relationships-giggles Navigating relationships as a new single in your 30's, 40's, and beyond! 2024 Relationships N Giggles 426d61a4-f841-5233-b350-942f386ebd38 no en Tue, 30 Sep 2025 14:42:00 -0700 Tue, 02 Dec 2025 20:45:10 -0800 https://img.transistor.fm/oCPqq17ycHA9LVDBjBX9Ip3fQXgQi7ADRYKam2E1joQ/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84NmQ2/MDE4MmEyNmVmZmIy/Mjg1YmU4MTc0ZmIw/MDViZS5wbmc.jpg relationSHIPS & Giggles episodic J & A Navigating relationships as a new single in your 30's, 40's, and beyond! Navigating relationships as a new single in your 30's, 40's, and beyond!. dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties J & A relationshipsngiggles@gmail.com No Yes Sloppy Seconds? 41 41 Sloppy Seconds? full 5c2ab314-7ee3-4dc3-b6f0-6f37e6fac894 https://share.transistor.fm/s/d49f1bd8 Heyyyy we're back!
Would you date someone your friend has dated? Would you care if your friend dated your ex? Is this just part of life now? Is it inevitable to match the same guy at some point?

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Would you date someone your friend has dated? Would you care if your friend dated your ex? Is this just part of life now? Is it inevitable to match the same guy at some point?

]]> Tue, 30 Sep 2025 14:42:00 -0700 J & A J & A 3767 Heyyyy we're back!
Would you date someone your friend has dated? Would you care if your friend dated your ex? Is this just part of life now? Is it inevitable to match the same guy at some point?

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes The ICK Heard Round the World 40 40 The ICK Heard Round the World full e1eedf9a-fb85-4eac-9f3e-7dc92d09ff5e https://share.transistor.fm/s/3e7a8569 Let's get into the icky sticky. EWWWW

]]> Let's get into the icky sticky. EWWWW

]]> Mon, 11 Aug 2025 09:42:06 -0700 J & A J & A 4347 Let's get into the icky sticky. EWWWW

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes My Apologies Part 2 39 39 My Apologies Part 2 full fb3afa6c-d24f-4843-a0ed-981e14213b12 https://share.transistor.fm/s/8bfa5620 Part 2! More apologies we wanted and how the simple act of apologizing can break the cycle of poor parenting. And our apologies, this is a LONG one!

]]> Part 2! More apologies we wanted and how the simple act of apologizing can break the cycle of poor parenting. And our apologies, this is a LONG one!

]]> Sun, 03 Aug 2025 15:16:26 -0700 J & A J & A 5418 Part 2! More apologies we wanted and how the simple act of apologizing can break the cycle of poor parenting. And our apologies, this is a LONG one!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes My Apologies 38 38 My Apologies full 0dd3407f-b561-4348-a8c5-357d01f74910 https://share.transistor.fm/s/93f112f5 Sorry, not sorry? Today we talk about the apologies we deserve, the ones we will never get, and what happens when an apology just isn't enough.

]]> Sorry, not sorry? Today we talk about the apologies we deserve, the ones we will never get, and what happens when an apology just isn't enough.

]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2025 07:09:59 -0700 J & A J & A 4723 Sorry, not sorry? Today we talk about the apologies we deserve, the ones we will never get, and what happens when an apology just isn't enough.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes We're Alive! 37 37 We're Alive! full 20a3d7d2-6491-42f9-a3f3-007e6a8bac85 https://share.transistor.fm/s/3b960440 It has been a busy summer! But we're back baby! Back with the dating drama, ghosting, swiping, spiraling, and rostering!

]]> It has been a busy summer! But we're back baby! Back with the dating drama, ghosting, swiping, spiraling, and rostering!

]]> Mon, 21 Jul 2025 12:57:24 -0700 J & A J & A 4591 It has been a busy summer! But we're back baby! Back with the dating drama, ghosting, swiping, spiraling, and rostering!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes The Case for the Younger Man - Part 2! 36 36 The Case for the Younger Man - Part 2! full ba765e46-36d2-4132-837f-f4c400b5e421 https://share.transistor.fm/s/336402ec You loved the original episode, so here's some more case study material! Younger men: avoid? have fun with? ...DATE? Let's discuss!

]]> You loved the original episode, so here's some more case study material! Younger men: avoid? have fun with? ...DATE? Let's discuss!

]]> Mon, 23 Jun 2025 14:26:57 -0700 J & A J & A 4596 You loved the original episode, so here's some more case study material! Younger men: avoid? have fun with? ...DATE? Let's discuss!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes You Don't Always Get What You Want 35 35 You Don't Always Get What You Want full 200f9c20-7ee2-47e1-89c6-146e68075b80 https://share.transistor.fm/s/c65a7a17 It isn't always giggles, is it? Today we talk about disappointment, regret, and grieving the support you'll never experience. 

]]> It isn't always giggles, is it? Today we talk about disappointment, regret, and grieving the support you'll never experience. 

]]> Mon, 26 May 2025 16:31:49 -0700 J & A J & A 4453 It isn't always giggles, is it? Today we talk about disappointment, regret, and grieving the support you'll never experience. 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Fine, I'll Do It Myself 34 34 Fine, I'll Do It Myself full 386c7040-9d3c-4995-8382-ad4f1a4c8873 https://share.transistor.fm/s/0f4c7fa6 Why does it always seem like women are the default planners, emotional managers, and taskmasters in every relationship: romantic, platonic, family, or even work? In this episode, we’re diving into the mental load women often carry and the invisible labor that keeps everything running. 

]]> Why does it always seem like women are the default planners, emotional managers, and taskmasters in every relationship: romantic, platonic, family, or even work? In this episode, we’re diving into the mental load women often carry and the invisible labor that keeps everything running. 

]]> Mon, 19 May 2025 07:59:13 -0700 J & A J & A 4407 Why does it always seem like women are the default planners, emotional managers, and taskmasters in every relationship: romantic, platonic, family, or even work? In this episode, we’re diving into the mental load women often carry and the invisible labor that keeps everything running. 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Listener Questions - Part tres 33 33 Listener Questions - Part tres full 3ec80acb-649e-40ef-b464-683e383c75a6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/ce79148f 3rd and final (for now) listener questions episode! We hope you enjoyed them as much as we did!

]]> 3rd and final (for now) listener questions episode! We hope you enjoyed them as much as we did!

]]> Sun, 04 May 2025 14:36:16 -0700 J & A J & A 4259 3rd and final (for now) listener questions episode! We hope you enjoyed them as much as we did!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Listener Questions - Part Deux 32 32 Listener Questions - Part Deux full 60fe125b-5221-409a-b32e-4073dba3c43a https://share.transistor.fm/s/c2bcb0fe You asked and we sort of answered... when we were able to stay on topic! 

]]> You asked and we sort of answered... when we were able to stay on topic! 

]]> Mon, 28 Apr 2025 17:15:11 -0700 J & A J & A 3767 You asked and we sort of answered... when we were able to stay on topic! 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Listener Questions Part 1! 31 31 Listener Questions Part 1! full 3b53bed0-50f1-48e8-b03f-03524fa5ffbe https://share.transistor.fm/s/7b610584 A & J answer listener questions. There are some good ones!

]]> A & J answer listener questions. There are some good ones!

]]> Mon, 21 Apr 2025 15:47:11 -0700 J & A J & A 4335 A & J answer listener questions. There are some good ones!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Stop Effing Doubting Yourself! (Episode contains some audio issues) 30 30 Stop Effing Doubting Yourself! (Episode contains some audio issues) full 9c82417f-82a9-4833-90e8-1577711d0c3f https://share.transistor.fm/s/a530ae94

Too many women are holding back because of self-doubt—and it's time to stop. In this episode, we unpack where that doubt comes from, how it holds us back, and what to do about it. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not ready or not enough, this is your reminder that you are more powerful than you think. Let’s stop doubting and start doing.

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Too many women are holding back because of self-doubt—and it's time to stop. In this episode, we unpack where that doubt comes from, how it holds us back, and what to do about it. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not ready or not enough, this is your reminder that you are more powerful than you think. Let’s stop doubting and start doing.

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Too many women are holding back because of self-doubt—and it's time to stop. In this episode, we unpack where that doubt comes from, how it holds us back, and what to do about it. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not ready or not enough, this is your reminder that you are more powerful than you think. Let’s stop doubting and start doing.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Brace Yourselves! Dating Apps in 2025 29 29 Brace Yourselves! Dating Apps in 2025 full 7b35023b-b709-4f66-a3c7-46fee60706ba https://share.transistor.fm/s/d1e5355f

Look, we’re not saying you should be on dating apps in 2025… in fact, we don’t recommend it. But let’s be real, we know you’re gonna do it anyway. So, in this episode, we’re diving into the latest (and possibly most chaotic) trends in online dating. Buckle up, because whether you’re swiping, ghosting, or deleting your account for the 10th time, you’re in for a ride!

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Look, we’re not saying you should be on dating apps in 2025… in fact, we don’t recommend it. But let’s be real, we know you’re gonna do it anyway. So, in this episode, we’re diving into the latest (and possibly most chaotic) trends in online dating. Buckle up, because whether you’re swiping, ghosting, or deleting your account for the 10th time, you’re in for a ride!

]]> Fri, 28 Mar 2025 09:54:40 -0700 J & A J & A 4449

Look, we’re not saying you should be on dating apps in 2025… in fact, we don’t recommend it. But let’s be real, we know you’re gonna do it anyway. So, in this episode, we’re diving into the latest (and possibly most chaotic) trends in online dating. Buckle up, because whether you’re swiping, ghosting, or deleting your account for the 10th time, you’re in for a ride!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Am I the Villain? 28 28 Am I the Villain? full 2c5d69ce-e1f8-4899-8b84-4949c5260b3a https://share.transistor.fm/s/6d0fee80

We always spot red flags in others, but what about our own? In this episode, we get real about our toxic traits, why we do them, and what we want to change. Are we the villains, or just messy humans trying to grow? Tune in for laughs, self-reflection, and a little roasting. 

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We always spot red flags in others, but what about our own? In this episode, we get real about our toxic traits, why we do them, and what we want to change. Are we the villains, or just messy humans trying to grow? Tune in for laughs, self-reflection, and a little roasting. 

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We always spot red flags in others, but what about our own? In this episode, we get real about our toxic traits, why we do them, and what we want to change. Are we the villains, or just messy humans trying to grow? Tune in for laughs, self-reflection, and a little roasting. 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Newly Single in Your 30s and 40s, a Second Adolescence 27 27 Newly Single in Your 30s and 40s, a Second Adolescence full 381f768f-3ed2-4b10-96d4-85c931760182 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e3426c25

Being single in your 30s and 40s can feel like a second adolescence—crushes, awkward firsts, and figuring yourself out all over again. The difference? No curfew and better wine. In this episode, we dive into the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of dating, self-discovery, and embracing a fresh start (this time with a little more wisdom).

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Being single in your 30s and 40s can feel like a second adolescence—crushes, awkward firsts, and figuring yourself out all over again. The difference? No curfew and better wine. In this episode, we dive into the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of dating, self-discovery, and embracing a fresh start (this time with a little more wisdom).

]]> Sun, 09 Mar 2025 19:06:08 -0700 J & A J & A 5173

Being single in your 30s and 40s can feel like a second adolescence—crushes, awkward firsts, and figuring yourself out all over again. The difference? No curfew and better wine. In this episode, we dive into the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of dating, self-discovery, and embracing a fresh start (this time with a little more wisdom).

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Petty Dealbreakers - You Know You Have Them Too! 26 26 Petty Dealbreakers - You Know You Have Them Too! full b7542257-c688-4ac0-a308-fc4e4d0f68be https://share.transistor.fm/s/7f91dfd9 We all have dealbreakers, but what about the tiny ones? In this episode, we’re diving into petty dealbreakers—the little things that make us instantly say, “no thanks.” Are we being too picky, or are these red flags in disguise? Tune in for laughs, hot takes, and some shameless judgment!

]]> We all have dealbreakers, but what about the tiny ones? In this episode, we’re diving into petty dealbreakers—the little things that make us instantly say, “no thanks.” Are we being too picky, or are these red flags in disguise? Tune in for laughs, hot takes, and some shameless judgment!

]]> Sun, 02 Mar 2025 18:05:53 -0800 J & A J & A 4271 We all have dealbreakers, but what about the tiny ones? In this episode, we’re diving into petty dealbreakers—the little things that make us instantly say, “no thanks.” Are we being too picky, or are these red flags in disguise? Tune in for laughs, hot takes, and some shameless judgment!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Turns Out, We're Cougars 25 25 Turns Out, We're Cougars full eaa3f24b-5867-470a-b174-2dc0193fc325 https://share.transistor.fm/s/63e90442 In this episode, we dive into the cougar experience: embracing confidence, shifting dating dynamics, and the unexpected perks of dating younger.

]]> In this episode, we dive into the cougar experience: embracing confidence, shifting dating dynamics, and the unexpected perks of dating younger.

]]> Tue, 18 Feb 2025 11:38:19 -0800 J & A J & A 4787 In this episode, we dive into the cougar experience: embracing confidence, shifting dating dynamics, and the unexpected perks of dating younger.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Were you ever a narcissist's supply? 24 24 Were you ever a narcissist's supply? full acc08278-9515-4394-828b-82410c884888 https://share.transistor.fm/s/cedc3ee0 Was it a parent, significant other, or...BOTH? Probably both. When did you realize? You might have some realizations after you listen to this episode!

]]> Was it a parent, significant other, or...BOTH? Probably both. When did you realize? You might have some realizations after you listen to this episode!

]]> Wed, 05 Feb 2025 18:59:27 -0800 J & A J & A 5408 Was it a parent, significant other, or...BOTH? Probably both. When did you realize? You might have some realizations after you listen to this episode!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes For the Anxious Girlies, Part 2 - Abandonment 23 23 For the Anxious Girlies, Part 2 - Abandonment full 52a0d5f2-6b19-4d3f-a4c7-7f613a1c64af https://share.transistor.fm/s/c9efc96b Are you guys mad at us for doing another Anxious attachment episode? Please don't leave! You're not mad? You seem mad. If that made sense to you, have a seat and get comfy, you're with your people!

]]> Are you guys mad at us for doing another Anxious attachment episode? Please don't leave! You're not mad? You seem mad. If that made sense to you, have a seat and get comfy, you're with your people!

]]> Mon, 27 Jan 2025 16:45:33 -0800 J & A J & A 5178 Are you guys mad at us for doing another Anxious attachment episode? Please don't leave! You're not mad? You seem mad. If that made sense to you, have a seat and get comfy, you're with your people!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Oh Boy - Raising the next generation of men 22 22 Oh Boy - Raising the next generation of men full 2e132406-a138-44e4-8a2a-f7b3209d6202 https://share.transistor.fm/s/157efbee Men, ugh! We know what we don't like about men today, but how do we teach our growing boys a different way?

]]> Men, ugh! We know what we don't like about men today, but how do we teach our growing boys a different way?

]]> Sun, 19 Jan 2025 17:26:49 -0800 J & A J & A 4852 Men, ugh! We know what we don't like about men today, but how do we teach our growing boys a different way?

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Ins and Outs 2025! 21 21 Ins and Outs 2025! full 6ef17480-0857-4f44-8a9f-c82e1b8f36c6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/9e31f229 In this episode, we talk about what we are bringing IN and sending OUT in our relationships for 2025. What does this mean for those closest to us? Our children, families, friends, and dates will find out soon!

]]> In this episode, we talk about what we are bringing IN and sending OUT in our relationships for 2025. What does this mean for those closest to us? Our children, families, friends, and dates will find out soon!

]]> Sun, 05 Jan 2025 17:00:15 -0800 J & A J & A 4675 In this episode, we talk about what we are bringing IN and sending OUT in our relationships for 2025. What does this mean for those closest to us? Our children, families, friends, and dates will find out soon!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Datify Wrapped! A month by month recap for 2024 20 20 Datify Wrapped! A month by month recap for 2024 full 383a76a7-32ea-4416-8388-3d41e3b83f80 https://share.transistor.fm/s/8bbcdaa3 And it went like...

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]]> Sun, 29 Dec 2024 20:45:33 -0800 J & A J & A 4416 And it went like...

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Dealbreakers, Baby! 19 19 Dealbreakers, Baby! full 0e211a62-ca66-4964-b9b8-46a35c20280c https://share.transistor.fm/s/f1dd8578 In typical fashion, we gab for 40 minutes and then get down to the topic! J got some action, ya'll!

]]> In typical fashion, we gab for 40 minutes and then get down to the topic! J got some action, ya'll!

]]> Sun, 15 Dec 2024 18:10:56 -0800 J & A J & A 4225 In typical fashion, we gab for 40 minutes and then get down to the topic! J got some action, ya'll!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No So Here's Where We Are 18 18 So Here's Where We Are full 9c63e677-02e4-4a90-880a-4eada030a8cb https://share.transistor.fm/s/dfa3814e Today's episode is an update on where we are in our "love lives", how we feel about it, and trying to take an honest look at our own mindsets.

]]> Today's episode is an update on where we are in our "love lives", how we feel about it, and trying to take an honest look at our own mindsets.

]]> Sun, 01 Dec 2024 16:43:45 -0800 J & A J & A 4643 Today's episode is an update on where we are in our "love lives", how we feel about it, and trying to take an honest look at our own mindsets.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes So, would you ever? (Seggs Worker Edition) 17 17 So, would you ever? (Seggs Worker Edition) full 9f338c6b-9cb7-4905-91b5-3c07fae0b3de https://share.transistor.fm/s/f10fe531
In this episode of Relationships & Giggles, J&A take on a spicy and thought-provoking topic: the world of seggs work. From feet pics to OnlyFans, we dive into the different types of work in this industry and ask ourselves the big question—would we do it? Tune in for an honest, hilarious, and insightful conversation about boundaries, societal perceptions, and our personal takes. It's a fun and candid chat you won’t want to miss!

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In this episode of Relationships & Giggles, J&A take on a spicy and thought-provoking topic: the world of seggs work. From feet pics to OnlyFans, we dive into the different types of work in this industry and ask ourselves the big question—would we do it? Tune in for an honest, hilarious, and insightful conversation about boundaries, societal perceptions, and our personal takes. It's a fun and candid chat you won’t want to miss!

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In this episode of Relationships & Giggles, J&A take on a spicy and thought-provoking topic: the world of seggs work. From feet pics to OnlyFans, we dive into the different types of work in this industry and ask ourselves the big question—would we do it? Tune in for an honest, hilarious, and insightful conversation about boundaries, societal perceptions, and our personal takes. It's a fun and candid chat you won’t want to miss!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes For the Anxious Girlies 16 16 For the Anxious Girlies full be2b728f-a640-4f3e-9054-a9fc8bfb7d9b https://share.transistor.fm/s/52943f62 Mayyyyybe we're all a little anxious this week, but for today, let's focus on the girlies dealing with anxious attachment.

]]> Mayyyyybe we're all a little anxious this week, but for today, let's focus on the girlies dealing with anxious attachment.

]]> Sun, 10 Nov 2024 18:14:08 -0800 J & A J & A 4155 Mayyyyybe we're all a little anxious this week, but for today, let's focus on the girlies dealing with anxious attachment.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Death to the Dating Apps 15 15 Death to the Dating Apps full 05f11e36-89ba-4ae0-80bc-71639ce3cb7b https://share.transistor.fm/s/91f268a3 Death to the dating apps! We're done, you're done. Can we just nail the lid on the coffin at this point?? Today we give a breakdown on what the apps were SUPPOSED to be and what they have become.

]]> Death to the dating apps! We're done, you're done. Can we just nail the lid on the coffin at this point?? Today we give a breakdown on what the apps were SUPPOSED to be and what they have become.

]]> Sun, 03 Nov 2024 18:13:58 -0800 J & A J & A 5034 Death to the dating apps! We're done, you're done. Can we just nail the lid on the coffin at this point?? Today we give a breakdown on what the apps were SUPPOSED to be and what they have become.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No The Menendez Brothers - Tragedy and Betrayal 14 14 The Menendez Brothers - Tragedy and Betrayal full f86ec7e1-5bac-4329-8fd2-eee668e9e9c8 https://share.transistor.fm/s/9ee049c2 In this episode, we dive into the complex and turbulent relationships within the Menendez family. We explore the psychological dynamics between parents and children, the pressures that shaped their family bonds, and how these connections ultimately unraveled. Through examining the Menendez brothers’ perspectives, we discuss the role of family expectations, control, and abuse, asking how strained relationships can lead to devastating outcomes. Join us as we unpack the warning signs, conflicts, and emotions at the heart of this infamous story

]]> In this episode, we dive into the complex and turbulent relationships within the Menendez family. We explore the psychological dynamics between parents and children, the pressures that shaped their family bonds, and how these connections ultimately unraveled. Through examining the Menendez brothers’ perspectives, we discuss the role of family expectations, control, and abuse, asking how strained relationships can lead to devastating outcomes. Join us as we unpack the warning signs, conflicts, and emotions at the heart of this infamous story

]]> Mon, 28 Oct 2024 19:46:33 -0700 J & A J & A 4656 In this episode, we dive into the complex and turbulent relationships within the Menendez family. We explore the psychological dynamics between parents and children, the pressures that shaped their family bonds, and how these connections ultimately unraveled. Through examining the Menendez brothers’ perspectives, we discuss the role of family expectations, control, and abuse, asking how strained relationships can lead to devastating outcomes. Join us as we unpack the warning signs, conflicts, and emotions at the heart of this infamous story

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No After it Ends: Navigating Your Relationships Post Separation 13 13 After it Ends: Navigating Your Relationships Post Separation full 9e45a043-56be-44d7-b2f0-35a1b0f38a99 https://share.transistor.fm/s/40d7fbbc In this episode, we dive into life after a relationship ends and explore how to navigate the emotional and social ripple effects that follow. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or ending a situationship, separation often reshapes not just our romantic lives but our friendships, family dynamics, and even our relationship with ourselves. We'll discuss how to heal, set boundaries, rebuild your sense of self, and find a new normal. 

]]> In this episode, we dive into life after a relationship ends and explore how to navigate the emotional and social ripple effects that follow. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or ending a situationship, separation often reshapes not just our romantic lives but our friendships, family dynamics, and even our relationship with ourselves. We'll discuss how to heal, set boundaries, rebuild your sense of self, and find a new normal. 

]]> Sun, 13 Oct 2024 19:31:58 -0700 J & A J & A 5033 In this episode, we dive into life after a relationship ends and explore how to navigate the emotional and social ripple effects that follow. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or ending a situationship, separation often reshapes not just our romantic lives but our friendships, family dynamics, and even our relationship with ourselves. We'll discuss how to heal, set boundaries, rebuild your sense of self, and find a new normal. 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes The Absolute Worst Part 2 12 12 The Absolute Worst Part 2 full 2988e20b-f97c-4977-92b6-b8b1c638ef25 https://share.transistor.fm/s/1a8ca377 In this episode, we discuss the second worst person we’ve ever met—someone who caused harm through emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and control. We explore how abuse isn’t always physical, highlighting the hidden dangers of psychological and emotional abuse in toxic relationships. 

]]> In this episode, we discuss the second worst person we’ve ever met—someone who caused harm through emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and control. We explore how abuse isn’t always physical, highlighting the hidden dangers of psychological and emotional abuse in toxic relationships. 

]]> Sun, 06 Oct 2024 17:55:00 -0700 J & A J & A 4833 In this episode, we discuss the second worst person we’ve ever met—someone who caused harm through emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and control. We explore how abuse isn’t always physical, highlighting the hidden dangers of psychological and emotional abuse in toxic relationships. 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No The Absolute Worst Part 1 11 11 The Absolute Worst Part 1 full 41288e90-c8eb-4b3a-bc10-8286ec1d12e7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/a61fd380 Today we discuss one of the Absolute Worst people we've ever met.

Trigger/Activation Warning: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In this episode we discuss domestic violence.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org for support. 

]]> Today we discuss one of the Absolute Worst people we've ever met.

Trigger/Activation Warning: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In this episode we discuss domestic violence.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org for support. 

]]> Sun, 29 Sep 2024 17:41:42 -0700 J & A J & A 5363 Today we discuss one of the Absolute Worst people we've ever met.

Trigger/Activation Warning: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In this episode we discuss domestic violence.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org for support. 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes The Case for the Younger Man 10 10 The Case for the Younger Man full 83d74fb9-351c-4683-bcb9-8d7f06c63b31 https://share.transistor.fm/s/69f73a74 In this episode, we dive into the intriguing world of dating younger men. From challenging societal norms to exploring the benefits of dating someone with fresh perspectives and energy, we make "The Case for the Younger Man." We'll unpack common misconceptions, share personal stories, and examine what really matters when it comes to age and relationships. Tune in as we explore whether dating younger could lead to deeper connections or just new kinds of challenges.

]]> In this episode, we dive into the intriguing world of dating younger men. From challenging societal norms to exploring the benefits of dating someone with fresh perspectives and energy, we make "The Case for the Younger Man." We'll unpack common misconceptions, share personal stories, and examine what really matters when it comes to age and relationships. Tune in as we explore whether dating younger could lead to deeper connections or just new kinds of challenges.

]]> Sun, 22 Sep 2024 18:49:59 -0700 J & A J & A 3863 In this episode, we dive into the intriguing world of dating younger men. From challenging societal norms to exploring the benefits of dating someone with fresh perspectives and energy, we make "The Case for the Younger Man." We'll unpack common misconceptions, share personal stories, and examine what really matters when it comes to age and relationships. Tune in as we explore whether dating younger could lead to deeper connections or just new kinds of challenges.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Why We're In Therapy 9 9 Why We're In Therapy full a2186a1e-f683-4336-9b31-20addf9f62bd https://share.transistor.fm/s/f2c17d91  "Why We're In Therapy," we dive into the personal journeys that led us to seek therapy and the mental health challenges we've faced along the way. We'll explore the stigma around getting help, share the lessons we've learned in therapy, and discuss why prioritizing mental health is essential for growth, healing, and thriving in today's world. Whether you're in therapy, considering it, or just curious, this episode offers candid insights into the power of self-care and mental wellness.

]]>  "Why We're In Therapy," we dive into the personal journeys that led us to seek therapy and the mental health challenges we've faced along the way. We'll explore the stigma around getting help, share the lessons we've learned in therapy, and discuss why prioritizing mental health is essential for growth, healing, and thriving in today's world. Whether you're in therapy, considering it, or just curious, this episode offers candid insights into the power of self-care and mental wellness.

]]> Mon, 16 Sep 2024 13:20:55 -0700 J & A J & A 4682  "Why We're In Therapy," we dive into the personal journeys that led us to seek therapy and the mental health challenges we've faced along the way. We'll explore the stigma around getting help, share the lessons we've learned in therapy, and discuss why prioritizing mental health is essential for growth, healing, and thriving in today's world. Whether you're in therapy, considering it, or just curious, this episode offers candid insights into the power of self-care and mental wellness.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No Are men in crisis? 8 8 Are men in crisis? full 0d2113e9-d4c5-444e-834c-95d4f2f042e2 https://share.transistor.fm/s/1a9322c2 In this episode, we dive into a pressing question: Are men facing a crisis today? We explore the societal, emotional, and psychological challenges that men encounter in the modern world, from shifting gender roles to mental health struggles and evolving expectations in relationships and careers. Is there hope for our generation? What can we, as women, do about it?

Let me know if you’d like any changes!

]]> In this episode, we dive into a pressing question: Are men facing a crisis today? We explore the societal, emotional, and psychological challenges that men encounter in the modern world, from shifting gender roles to mental health struggles and evolving expectations in relationships and careers. Is there hope for our generation? What can we, as women, do about it?

Let me know if you’d like any changes!

]]> Sun, 08 Sep 2024 14:21:47 -0700 J & A J & A 4392 In this episode, we dive into a pressing question: Are men facing a crisis today? We explore the societal, emotional, and psychological challenges that men encounter in the modern world, from shifting gender roles to mental health struggles and evolving expectations in relationships and careers. Is there hope for our generation? What can we, as women, do about it?

Let me know if you’d like any changes!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No There One Where We (Over) Analyze Friends! 7 7 There One Where We (Over) Analyze Friends! full 9349c73f-63ab-46c3-a185-2d348511d6eb https://share.transistor.fm/s/f36f37c5 Warning: It's a long one! Spoiler - Ross sucks

]]> Warning: It's a long one! Spoiler - Ross sucks

]]> Thu, 05 Sep 2024 17:40:20 -0700 J & A J & A 5558 Warning: It's a long one! Spoiler - Ross sucks

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No And Just Like That - We (over) Analyze SATC 6 6 And Just Like That - We (over) Analyze SATC full 2c4ea807-d82f-4653-bf70-0382748872e6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/539fea5d In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationships of Sex and the City's unforgettable characters—Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda. We'll analyze the attachment styles that shape their romantic choices and friendships, and discuss the dynamics that make their love lives so fascinating. From Carrie's on-again, off-again romances to Charlotte's quest for the perfect relationship, we break down the reality behind their stories. How true to life are their struggles and triumphs in love?

]]> In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationships of Sex and the City's unforgettable characters—Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda. We'll analyze the attachment styles that shape their romantic choices and friendships, and discuss the dynamics that make their love lives so fascinating. From Carrie's on-again, off-again romances to Charlotte's quest for the perfect relationship, we break down the reality behind their stories. How true to life are their struggles and triumphs in love?

]]> Thu, 05 Sep 2024 17:29:17 -0700 J & A J & A 4374 In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationships of Sex and the City's unforgettable characters—Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda. We'll analyze the attachment styles that shape their romantic choices and friendships, and discuss the dynamics that make their love lives so fascinating. From Carrie's on-again, off-again romances to Charlotte's quest for the perfect relationship, we break down the reality behind their stories. How true to life are their struggles and triumphs in love?

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No Medal Worthy Mishaps: The Worst Date Olympics 5 5 Medal Worthy Mishaps: The Worst Date Olympics full 72dff247-677c-4613-95f0-b7bb6d1cb765 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e6a477d9 In honor of the Summer Olympics, J & A award gold, silver, and bronze medals to their top 3 worst dates!

]]> In honor of the Summer Olympics, J & A award gold, silver, and bronze medals to their top 3 worst dates!

]]> Thu, 05 Sep 2024 17:24:45 -0700 J & A J & A 4546 In honor of the Summer Olympics, J & A award gold, silver, and bronze medals to their top 3 worst dates!

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Mr. Red Flag 4 4 Mr. Red Flag full a3d8e648-6722-40c7-a694-9bdf7907c999 https://share.transistor.fm/s/50b41fab Learn from our mistakes! In this episode, we talk about several different types of red flags and how to spot them early on.

]]> Learn from our mistakes! In this episode, we talk about several different types of red flags and how to spot them early on.

]]> Thu, 05 Sep 2024 17:17:29 -0700 J & A J & A 4482 Learn from our mistakes! In this episode, we talk about several different types of red flags and how to spot them early on.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No Situationships & Tears 3 3 Situationships & Tears full 69b0cc7a-93a2-4387-9a77-3940cc5f8f57 https://share.transistor.fm/s/78730fdc In this episode, we dive into the murky waters of situationships. Ever wondered what exactly a situationship is? We’re here to define it, share our personal experiences, and explore how this ambiguous term has evolved over time. Join us as we discuss what situationships mean for modern dating, the emotional rollercoaster they often entail, and how to navigate these undefined relationships. Whether you're in one, recovering from one, or just curious, this episode is for you. Tune in for an insightful conversation about the highs and lows of situationships.

]]> In this episode, we dive into the murky waters of situationships. Ever wondered what exactly a situationship is? We’re here to define it, share our personal experiences, and explore how this ambiguous term has evolved over time. Join us as we discuss what situationships mean for modern dating, the emotional rollercoaster they often entail, and how to navigate these undefined relationships. Whether you're in one, recovering from one, or just curious, this episode is for you. Tune in for an insightful conversation about the highs and lows of situationships.

]]> Thu, 05 Sep 2024 17:12:03 -0700 J & A J & A 3247 In this episode, we dive into the murky waters of situationships. Ever wondered what exactly a situationship is? We’re here to define it, share our personal experiences, and explore how this ambiguous term has evolved over time. Join us as we discuss what situationships mean for modern dating, the emotional rollercoaster they often entail, and how to navigate these undefined relationships. Whether you're in one, recovering from one, or just curious, this episode is for you. Tune in for an insightful conversation about the highs and lows of situationships.

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No POV - I'm Single, Now What?? 2 2 POV - I'm Single, Now What?? full 15a08d99-4fa3-4f4e-96cc-fffbd7681eaf https://share.transistor.fm/s/eafb8367 Are you ready to date? Are the kids ready for you to date? Do you even want to date?


Let's discuss the elation, guilt, hard decisions, self-investigation and other feelings that come along with being single for the first time in a long time! 

]]> Are you ready to date? Are the kids ready for you to date? Do you even want to date?


Let's discuss the elation, guilt, hard decisions, self-investigation and other feelings that come along with being single for the first time in a long time! 

]]> Thu, 05 Sep 2024 16:52:44 -0700 J & A J & A 3194 Are you ready to date? Are the kids ready for you to date? Do you even want to date?


Let's discuss the elation, guilt, hard decisions, self-investigation and other feelings that come along with being single for the first time in a long time! 

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties Yes Intro to Relationships & Giggles 1 1 Intro to Relationships & Giggles full 7e4bea0c-f1ac-4314-bbe5-8c764c5513cd https://share.transistor.fm/s/fe9ca40c Dating Terms 101

]]> Dating Terms 101

]]> Wed, 04 Sep 2024 11:40:08 -0700 J & A J & A 3432 Dating Terms 101

]]> dating, single, 40's, mom, single women, 30's, attachment style, dating tips, dating stories, dating in your thirties, dating in your forties No