Rebel Mothers Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/rebel-mothers "Rebel Mothers" challenges the stifling institution of modern motherhood and reclaims mothering as an act of liberation. Each episode we’ll explore the struggles and expectations mothers face in a world built to exploit them, unveil the systematic institutions that create these challenges, and develop strategies for dismantling these oppressive systems. We'll shed light on the intersectionality of motherhood, addressing the unique struggles faced by women of diverse backgrounds. And we’ll hear inspiring stories of fearless women who are redefining the narrative of motherhood. © 2025 Susie Fishleder 78847b1e-ce5b-5b86-a32e-742096b06a49 yes Rebel Mothers Trailer en Wed, 30 Oct 2024 09:15:47 -0400 Tue, 28 Jan 2025 11:02:09 -0500 http://www.susiefishleder.com https://img.transistor.fm/JmcDqzx6lnExjRkYI9a1EWVhmBEyOn4nhrVtzYIHkfo/rs:fill:3000:3000:1/q:60/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzQ0MjA2LzE3MDAw/NTQzNzAtYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.jpg Rebel Mothers http://www.susiefishleder.com episodic Susie Fishleder "Rebel Mothers" challenges the stifling institution of modern motherhood and reclaims mothering as an act of liberation. Each episode we’ll explore the struggles and expectations mothers face in a world built to exploit them, unveil the systematic institutions that create these challenges, and develop strategies for dismantling these oppressive systems. We'll shed light on the intersectionality of motherhood, addressing the unique struggles faced by women of diverse backgrounds. And we’ll hear inspiring stories of fearless women who are redefining the narrative of motherhood. "Rebel Mothers" challenges the stifling institution of modern motherhood and reclaims mothering as an act of liberation. motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist Susie Fishleder susie@susiefishleder.com No No Interview with Katie B. Garner of IAMAS 30 30 Interview with Katie B. Garner of IAMAS full 25f9e9cd-3f54-467b-8107-0cd1b8cce3e0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/2921a538 Interview with Dr. Katie B. Garner, Executive Director of the International Association of Maternal Action and Scholarship (IAMAS) to talk about mothering, motherhood, carework, the field of motherhood studies and the upcoming 2025 conference: (Re-)Producing Motherhood, Motherwork, and Mothering. 


Topics: 

  • Submit abstracts for the 2025 IAMAS Conference HERE
  • Apply or nominate an individual or group for the Making Opportunities for Mothers in Academia (MOMA) Award HERE
  • The interdisciplinary nature of the field of motherhood studies
  • The worth of a mother’s labor
  • Carework, AI, technology 
  • Motherhood and caregiving as part of identity politics
  • The rhetoric of choice that surrounds motherhood 
  • The motherhood wage gap

Resources:

]]> Interview with Dr. Katie B. Garner, Executive Director of the International Association of Maternal Action and Scholarship (IAMAS) to talk about mothering, motherhood, carework, the field of motherhood studies and the upcoming 2025 conference: (Re-)Producing Motherhood, Motherwork, and Mothering. 


Topics: 

  • Submit abstracts for the 2025 IAMAS Conference HERE
  • Apply or nominate an individual or group for the Making Opportunities for Mothers in Academia (MOMA) Award HERE
  • The interdisciplinary nature of the field of motherhood studies
  • The worth of a mother’s labor
  • Carework, AI, technology 
  • Motherhood and caregiving as part of identity politics
  • The rhetoric of choice that surrounds motherhood 
  • The motherhood wage gap

Resources:

]]> Wed, 30 Oct 2024 09:15:47 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 2442 Interview with Dr. Katie B. Garner, Executive Director of the International Association of Maternal Action and Scholarship (IAMAS) to talk about mothering, motherhood, carework, the field of motherhood studies and the upcoming 2025 conference: (Re-)Producing Motherhood, Motherwork, and Mothering. 


Topics: 

  • Submit abstracts for the 2025 IAMAS Conference HERE
  • Apply or nominate an individual or group for the Making Opportunities for Mothers in Academia (MOMA) Award HERE
  • The interdisciplinary nature of the field of motherhood studies
  • The worth of a mother’s labor
  • Carework, AI, technology 
  • Motherhood and caregiving as part of identity politics
  • The rhetoric of choice that surrounds motherhood 
  • The motherhood wage gap

Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Summer Break 29 29 Summer Break full 578ee7b4-e9ec-409f-96c6-83a6a522d08b https://share.transistor.fm/s/9f9a476c Rebel Mothers will be taking a summer hiatus! Listen in to learn more about what Susie is working on during the break, including a new executive coaching certification program and enjoying more time with her kids.

Stay in touch! Visit Susie on Instagram at @susie.fishleder and sign up for her occasional email newsletter, Motherhood Musings.

Resources Mentioned:

]]> Rebel Mothers will be taking a summer hiatus! Listen in to learn more about what Susie is working on during the break, including a new executive coaching certification program and enjoying more time with her kids.

Stay in touch! Visit Susie on Instagram at @susie.fishleder and sign up for her occasional email newsletter, Motherhood Musings.

Resources Mentioned:

]]> Tue, 07 May 2024 04:55:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 504 Rebel Mothers will be taking a summer hiatus! Listen in to learn more about what Susie is working on during the break, including a new executive coaching certification program and enjoying more time with her kids.

Stay in touch! Visit Susie on Instagram at @susie.fishleder and sign up for her occasional email newsletter, Motherhood Musings.

Resources Mentioned:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Raising Boys in a Patriarchal Society 28 28 Raising Boys in a Patriarchal Society full e743050b-362e-4158-8ee0-33dc9dac8a3c https://share.transistor.fm/s/64112cb2 Today we explore the complexities of raising boys in a patriarchal society, diving deep into the origins of patriarchy, debunking common myths, and discussing its impact on both men and women.


Topics: 

  • Introduction to patriarchy
  • Definition and historical context of patriarchy 
  • Evolution of patriarchal beliefs and their societal impact
  • Arguments against patriarchy
  • How patriarchy hurts men and boys
  • Strategies for raising boys in a patriarchy


Resources:


Note: Susie will be taking a summer break after this episode, but stay tuned for updates on her new project and more discussions on Rebel Mothers! To receive email updates, join her newsletter.

]]> Today we explore the complexities of raising boys in a patriarchal society, diving deep into the origins of patriarchy, debunking common myths, and discussing its impact on both men and women.


Topics: 

  • Introduction to patriarchy
  • Definition and historical context of patriarchy 
  • Evolution of patriarchal beliefs and their societal impact
  • Arguments against patriarchy
  • How patriarchy hurts men and boys
  • Strategies for raising boys in a patriarchy


Resources:


Note: Susie will be taking a summer break after this episode, but stay tuned for updates on her new project and more discussions on Rebel Mothers! To receive email updates, join her newsletter.

]]> Tue, 30 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 2010 Today we explore the complexities of raising boys in a patriarchal society, diving deep into the origins of patriarchy, debunking common myths, and discussing its impact on both men and women.


Topics: 

  • Introduction to patriarchy
  • Definition and historical context of patriarchy 
  • Evolution of patriarchal beliefs and their societal impact
  • Arguments against patriarchy
  • How patriarchy hurts men and boys
  • Strategies for raising boys in a patriarchy


Resources:


Note: Susie will be taking a summer break after this episode, but stay tuned for updates on her new project and more discussions on Rebel Mothers! To receive email updates, join her newsletter.

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Matricentric Feminism 27 27 Matricentric Feminism full f0391205-19f0-4e06-be73-b11015e322fe https://share.transistor.fm/s/1d646ae2 Matricentric feminism, which is a huge theme of the Rebel Mothers podcast, centers on the experiences, perspectives, and voices of mothers within the broader feminist movement. In this episode, Susie discusses the definition of matricentric feminism, its importance in academia, public policy, and motherhood, as well as its pioneers and contemporary scholars.


Topics: 

  • Definition of matricentric feminism
  • Importance in academia, public policy, and motherhood
  • Lineage and pioneers of the movement: Adrienne Rich, Sara Ruddick, bell hooks, Riane Eisler, Silvia Federici, Andrea O’Reilly
  • Challenges faced by mothers under patriarchy
  • Exploration of motherhood within feminist discourse
  • The intersection of race, class, and motherhood
  • Critique of traditional notions of motherhood
  • Advocacy for policy changes and workplace accommodations
  • Redefining success and fulfillment for women
  • Questioning and challenging biological essentialism
  • Creating inclusive and empowering approaches to motherhood studies


Resources:

All of these books, and more, are available on my Bookshop* 

*Disclosure: I am an affiliate of Bookshop.org and I will earn a small commission at no cost to you if you click through and make a purchase.

]]> Matricentric feminism, which is a huge theme of the Rebel Mothers podcast, centers on the experiences, perspectives, and voices of mothers within the broader feminist movement. In this episode, Susie discusses the definition of matricentric feminism, its importance in academia, public policy, and motherhood, as well as its pioneers and contemporary scholars.


Topics: 

  • Definition of matricentric feminism
  • Importance in academia, public policy, and motherhood
  • Lineage and pioneers of the movement: Adrienne Rich, Sara Ruddick, bell hooks, Riane Eisler, Silvia Federici, Andrea O’Reilly
  • Challenges faced by mothers under patriarchy
  • Exploration of motherhood within feminist discourse
  • The intersection of race, class, and motherhood
  • Critique of traditional notions of motherhood
  • Advocacy for policy changes and workplace accommodations
  • Redefining success and fulfillment for women
  • Questioning and challenging biological essentialism
  • Creating inclusive and empowering approaches to motherhood studies


Resources:

All of these books, and more, are available on my Bookshop* 

*Disclosure: I am an affiliate of Bookshop.org and I will earn a small commission at no cost to you if you click through and make a purchase.

]]> Tue, 23 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1845 Matricentric feminism, which is a huge theme of the Rebel Mothers podcast, centers on the experiences, perspectives, and voices of mothers within the broader feminist movement. In this episode, Susie discusses the definition of matricentric feminism, its importance in academia, public policy, and motherhood, as well as its pioneers and contemporary scholars.


Topics: 

  • Definition of matricentric feminism
  • Importance in academia, public policy, and motherhood
  • Lineage and pioneers of the movement: Adrienne Rich, Sara Ruddick, bell hooks, Riane Eisler, Silvia Federici, Andrea O’Reilly
  • Challenges faced by mothers under patriarchy
  • Exploration of motherhood within feminist discourse
  • The intersection of race, class, and motherhood
  • Critique of traditional notions of motherhood
  • Advocacy for policy changes and workplace accommodations
  • Redefining success and fulfillment for women
  • Questioning and challenging biological essentialism
  • Creating inclusive and empowering approaches to motherhood studies


Resources:

All of these books, and more, are available on my Bookshop* 

*Disclosure: I am an affiliate of Bookshop.org and I will earn a small commission at no cost to you if you click through and make a purchase.

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Eleanor Roosevelt 26 26 Eleanor Roosevelt full dbfa7ca3-57c9-4725-a401-958090177ed6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/2333d9ac Listen to the remarkable life and legacy of Eleanor Roosevelt, a true trailblazer of the 20th century. From her early challenges and insecurities to her groundbreaking activism and leadership as First Lady of the United States, Eleanor's impact on women and mothers continues to resonate today. Susie explores Eleanor's role as a champion for social justice, civil rights, and human rights, highlighting her efforts to create positive change and empower marginalized communities. Despite facing personal struggles, Eleanor's dedication to public service and her unwavering commitment to equality serve as an inspiration for women and mothers everywhere.


Topics: 

  • Eleanor Roosevelt's early life and influences
  • Her groundbreaking activism and leadership as First Lady
  • Advocacy for social justice, civil rights, and women's empowerment
  • Legacy and impact on women and mothers
  • Challenges and complexities of her role as a wife and mother


Resources:

]]> Listen to the remarkable life and legacy of Eleanor Roosevelt, a true trailblazer of the 20th century. From her early challenges and insecurities to her groundbreaking activism and leadership as First Lady of the United States, Eleanor's impact on women and mothers continues to resonate today. Susie explores Eleanor's role as a champion for social justice, civil rights, and human rights, highlighting her efforts to create positive change and empower marginalized communities. Despite facing personal struggles, Eleanor's dedication to public service and her unwavering commitment to equality serve as an inspiration for women and mothers everywhere.


Topics: 

  • Eleanor Roosevelt's early life and influences
  • Her groundbreaking activism and leadership as First Lady
  • Advocacy for social justice, civil rights, and women's empowerment
  • Legacy and impact on women and mothers
  • Challenges and complexities of her role as a wife and mother


Resources:

]]> Tue, 16 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1314 Listen to the remarkable life and legacy of Eleanor Roosevelt, a true trailblazer of the 20th century. From her early challenges and insecurities to her groundbreaking activism and leadership as First Lady of the United States, Eleanor's impact on women and mothers continues to resonate today. Susie explores Eleanor's role as a champion for social justice, civil rights, and human rights, highlighting her efforts to create positive change and empower marginalized communities. Despite facing personal struggles, Eleanor's dedication to public service and her unwavering commitment to equality serve as an inspiration for women and mothers everywhere.


Topics: 

  • Eleanor Roosevelt's early life and influences
  • Her groundbreaking activism and leadership as First Lady
  • Advocacy for social justice, civil rights, and women's empowerment
  • Legacy and impact on women and mothers
  • Challenges and complexities of her role as a wife and mother


Resources:

]]> Eleanor Roosevelt, mothering, motherhood No Wine Mom Culture: Alcohol, Patriarchy, and Motherhood 25 25 Wine Mom Culture: Alcohol, Patriarchy, and Motherhood full 4cf3d60a-6c94-4b9e-a012-6ead7137b65f https://share.transistor.fm/s/f0ab73a1 Why does wine and motherhood seem ubiquitous these days? In this thought-provoking episode, Susie dives into the complex intersection of alcohol, the patriarchy, and motherhood. Drawing on historical perspectives, societal norms, and personal anecdotes, she explores the evolution of women's relationship with alcohol, the rise of "mommy wine culture," and the detrimental effects of alcohol consumption on maternal well-being. Through discussions on Holly Whitaker's insights and personal reflections, Susie challenges traditional notions of alcoholism and offers empowering perspectives on reevaluating one's relationship with alcohol. Ultimately, she advocates for reframing societal norms and prioritizing the holistic health of women and mothers.


Topics: 

  • Historical role of women in brewing and alcohol consumption
  • Societal shifts leading to the stigmatization of female drinking
  • Women's participation in the temperance movement and prohibition
  • Rise of "mommy wine culture" and its impact on modern motherhood
  • Examination of alcohol marketing targeted at women as a form of feminist rebellion
  • Insights from Holly Whitaker's perspective on alcoholism and sobriety in the book Quit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed With Alcohol
  • Personal anecdotes and reflections on Susie's journey with alcohol
  • Strategies for examining and potentially altering one's relationship with alcohol

Resources:

Organizations for people who want to quit drinking:

]]> Why does wine and motherhood seem ubiquitous these days? In this thought-provoking episode, Susie dives into the complex intersection of alcohol, the patriarchy, and motherhood. Drawing on historical perspectives, societal norms, and personal anecdotes, she explores the evolution of women's relationship with alcohol, the rise of "mommy wine culture," and the detrimental effects of alcohol consumption on maternal well-being. Through discussions on Holly Whitaker's insights and personal reflections, Susie challenges traditional notions of alcoholism and offers empowering perspectives on reevaluating one's relationship with alcohol. Ultimately, she advocates for reframing societal norms and prioritizing the holistic health of women and mothers.


Topics: 

  • Historical role of women in brewing and alcohol consumption
  • Societal shifts leading to the stigmatization of female drinking
  • Women's participation in the temperance movement and prohibition
  • Rise of "mommy wine culture" and its impact on modern motherhood
  • Examination of alcohol marketing targeted at women as a form of feminist rebellion
  • Insights from Holly Whitaker's perspective on alcoholism and sobriety in the book Quit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed With Alcohol
  • Personal anecdotes and reflections on Susie's journey with alcohol
  • Strategies for examining and potentially altering one's relationship with alcohol

Resources:

Organizations for people who want to quit drinking:

]]> Tue, 09 Apr 2024 04:30:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1979 Why does wine and motherhood seem ubiquitous these days? In this thought-provoking episode, Susie dives into the complex intersection of alcohol, the patriarchy, and motherhood. Drawing on historical perspectives, societal norms, and personal anecdotes, she explores the evolution of women's relationship with alcohol, the rise of "mommy wine culture," and the detrimental effects of alcohol consumption on maternal well-being. Through discussions on Holly Whitaker's insights and personal reflections, Susie challenges traditional notions of alcoholism and offers empowering perspectives on reevaluating one's relationship with alcohol. Ultimately, she advocates for reframing societal norms and prioritizing the holistic health of women and mothers.


Topics: 

  • Historical role of women in brewing and alcohol consumption
  • Societal shifts leading to the stigmatization of female drinking
  • Women's participation in the temperance movement and prohibition
  • Rise of "mommy wine culture" and its impact on modern motherhood
  • Examination of alcohol marketing targeted at women as a form of feminist rebellion
  • Insights from Holly Whitaker's perspective on alcoholism and sobriety in the book Quit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed With Alcohol
  • Personal anecdotes and reflections on Susie's journey with alcohol
  • Strategies for examining and potentially altering one's relationship with alcohol

Resources:

Organizations for people who want to quit drinking:

]]> alcohol, wine mom, motherhood, patriarchy, quit like a woman No The Motherhood Revolution: Workshop Replay 24 24 The Motherhood Revolution: Workshop Replay full fff12786-998c-4aa2-bf78-e174c4d835d7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/850c9fb5 Susie replays a 2023 workshop called "The Motherhood Revolution." Learn more at https://www.susiefishleder.com/events 

Topics include:

  • Establishing the difference between mothering and motherhood and the cultural systems that affect both
  • Recognizing how the act of mothering is a path to self-actualization and empowerment…a practice that not only nourishes the mother, but elevates the entire family
  • Understanding the difference between dominator and partnership family models…and how to move from one to the other
]]> Susie replays a 2023 workshop called "The Motherhood Revolution." Learn more at https://www.susiefishleder.com/events 

Topics include:

  • Establishing the difference between mothering and motherhood and the cultural systems that affect both
  • Recognizing how the act of mothering is a path to self-actualization and empowerment…a practice that not only nourishes the mother, but elevates the entire family
  • Understanding the difference between dominator and partnership family models…and how to move from one to the other
]]> Tue, 02 Apr 2024 04:23:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 2001 Susie replays a 2023 workshop called "The Motherhood Revolution." Learn more at https://www.susiefishleder.com/events 

Topics include:

  • Establishing the difference between mothering and motherhood and the cultural systems that affect both
  • Recognizing how the act of mothering is a path to self-actualization and empowerment…a practice that not only nourishes the mother, but elevates the entire family
  • Understanding the difference between dominator and partnership family models…and how to move from one to the other
]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Rethinking the Economics of Motherhood: Alternative Economies 23 23 Rethinking the Economics of Motherhood: Alternative Economies full 487933c2-8d6e-4e53-9cf2-56310fe37e66 https://share.transistor.fm/s/209e0613 Let’s explore the historical and contemporary economic systems and their impact on motherhood! Starting with an overview of capitalism, socialism, and communism, Susie exposes the inherent flaws in these systems and proposes alternative paradigms like the gift economy and the sharing economy. Through an exploration of different economic models, she highlights the challenges and opportunities for mothers in various economic systems and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing human flourishing and caregiving in economic discourse.


Topics: 

  • Overview of capitalism, socialism, and communism
  • Impact of traditional economic systems on motherhood
  • Introduction to alternative economic paradigms: the gift economy and the sharing economy
  • Benefits and challenges of alternative economic systems for mothers
  • Reimagining economics through the lens of human flourishing and caregiving
  • Historical context of economic theories and their implications for gender and race equality
  • Critique of mainstream economic models and their failure to prioritize caregiving and human development

Resources:

]]> Let’s explore the historical and contemporary economic systems and their impact on motherhood! Starting with an overview of capitalism, socialism, and communism, Susie exposes the inherent flaws in these systems and proposes alternative paradigms like the gift economy and the sharing economy. Through an exploration of different economic models, she highlights the challenges and opportunities for mothers in various economic systems and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing human flourishing and caregiving in economic discourse.


Topics: 

  • Overview of capitalism, socialism, and communism
  • Impact of traditional economic systems on motherhood
  • Introduction to alternative economic paradigms: the gift economy and the sharing economy
  • Benefits and challenges of alternative economic systems for mothers
  • Reimagining economics through the lens of human flourishing and caregiving
  • Historical context of economic theories and their implications for gender and race equality
  • Critique of mainstream economic models and their failure to prioritize caregiving and human development

Resources:

]]> Tue, 26 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1986 Let’s explore the historical and contemporary economic systems and their impact on motherhood! Starting with an overview of capitalism, socialism, and communism, Susie exposes the inherent flaws in these systems and proposes alternative paradigms like the gift economy and the sharing economy. Through an exploration of different economic models, she highlights the challenges and opportunities for mothers in various economic systems and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing human flourishing and caregiving in economic discourse.


Topics: 

  • Overview of capitalism, socialism, and communism
  • Impact of traditional economic systems on motherhood
  • Introduction to alternative economic paradigms: the gift economy and the sharing economy
  • Benefits and challenges of alternative economic systems for mothers
  • Reimagining economics through the lens of human flourishing and caregiving
  • Historical context of economic theories and their implications for gender and race equality
  • Critique of mainstream economic models and their failure to prioritize caregiving and human development

Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Economics of Motherhood: The Hidden Costs of the Most Important Job 22 22 Economics of Motherhood: The Hidden Costs of the Most Important Job full 566be631-9bd5-4b6d-87aa-f85e41980dd4 https://share.transistor.fm/s/ffe1ed1a In the first of this two-part series on the economics of motherhood, Susie examines the cost of motherhood through the life story of a fictional mother in the United States, Emily, who faces the financial struggles and worries that many mothers face today. Stay tuned for next week when Susie explores some alternative economic systems and how those might shape motherhood.


Topics: 

  • Introduction to the Economics of Motherhood
  • Emily's Story: A Journey Through Motherhood and Economic Challenges
  • Healthcare Expenses and Lack of Paid Maternity Leave
  • The Impact of Childcare Costs
  • Income Disparities and the Motherhood Penalty
  • Retirement Savings and Social Security Benefits
  • The Influence of the Baby Industrial Complex
  • Analysis of Emily's Story: Highlighting Key Economic Factors
  • Healthcare: Comparing US Costs to Other Countries
  • Childcare: Availability, Affordability, and Quality of Care
  • Income and Wage Disparities: Gender Wage Gap and Motherhood Penalty
  • Retirement: Impact of Career Interruptions on Retirement Savings
  • The Baby Industrial Complex: Pressure on Parents to Consume
  • Reflections on Capitalism and Alternative Economic Systems
  • Conclusion: Recognizing the Intersections of Motherhood and Economics


Resources:

Baby Box program in Finland Why Finnish babies sleep in cardboard boxes - BBC News

]]> In the first of this two-part series on the economics of motherhood, Susie examines the cost of motherhood through the life story of a fictional mother in the United States, Emily, who faces the financial struggles and worries that many mothers face today. Stay tuned for next week when Susie explores some alternative economic systems and how those might shape motherhood.


Topics: 

  • Introduction to the Economics of Motherhood
  • Emily's Story: A Journey Through Motherhood and Economic Challenges
  • Healthcare Expenses and Lack of Paid Maternity Leave
  • The Impact of Childcare Costs
  • Income Disparities and the Motherhood Penalty
  • Retirement Savings and Social Security Benefits
  • The Influence of the Baby Industrial Complex
  • Analysis of Emily's Story: Highlighting Key Economic Factors
  • Healthcare: Comparing US Costs to Other Countries
  • Childcare: Availability, Affordability, and Quality of Care
  • Income and Wage Disparities: Gender Wage Gap and Motherhood Penalty
  • Retirement: Impact of Career Interruptions on Retirement Savings
  • The Baby Industrial Complex: Pressure on Parents to Consume
  • Reflections on Capitalism and Alternative Economic Systems
  • Conclusion: Recognizing the Intersections of Motherhood and Economics


Resources:

Baby Box program in Finland Why Finnish babies sleep in cardboard boxes - BBC News

]]> Tue, 19 Mar 2024 04:27:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1717 In the first of this two-part series on the economics of motherhood, Susie examines the cost of motherhood through the life story of a fictional mother in the United States, Emily, who faces the financial struggles and worries that many mothers face today. Stay tuned for next week when Susie explores some alternative economic systems and how those might shape motherhood.


Topics: 

  • Introduction to the Economics of Motherhood
  • Emily's Story: A Journey Through Motherhood and Economic Challenges
  • Healthcare Expenses and Lack of Paid Maternity Leave
  • The Impact of Childcare Costs
  • Income Disparities and the Motherhood Penalty
  • Retirement Savings and Social Security Benefits
  • The Influence of the Baby Industrial Complex
  • Analysis of Emily's Story: Highlighting Key Economic Factors
  • Healthcare: Comparing US Costs to Other Countries
  • Childcare: Availability, Affordability, and Quality of Care
  • Income and Wage Disparities: Gender Wage Gap and Motherhood Penalty
  • Retirement: Impact of Career Interruptions on Retirement Savings
  • The Baby Industrial Complex: Pressure on Parents to Consume
  • Reflections on Capitalism and Alternative Economic Systems
  • Conclusion: Recognizing the Intersections of Motherhood and Economics


Resources:

Baby Box program in Finland Why Finnish babies sleep in cardboard boxes - BBC News

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Jenny Marx 21 21 Jenny Marx full 3367fa88-5510-4b9f-926b-d1daf04a098b https://share.transistor.fm/s/27d00d0a Today we discuss the life of Jenny Marx, wife of Karl Marx, whose influence on the socialist movement is often overshadowed. From her aristocratic upbringing to her pivotal role in shaping the ideas that would change the world, Jenny's journey is one of resilience, commitment, and unwavering dedication to the emancipation of the working class. We explore her early years, her relationship with Karl, and the challenges they faced together, including poverty, exile, and personal tragedies. Through it all, Jenny remained a steadfast supporter of Karl's work, and deeply in love with the man behind the ideas. Her legacy as a feminist and revolutionary thinker continues to inspire activism and resistance to this day.


Topics: 

  • Early life and upbringing of Jenny von Westphalen
  • Relationship with Karl Marx and their marriage
  • Jenny's support for Karl's work and involvement in the socialist movement
  • Challenges faced by the Marx family, including poverty, exile, and personal tragedies
  • Jenny's role as a mother and activist


Resources:

]]> Today we discuss the life of Jenny Marx, wife of Karl Marx, whose influence on the socialist movement is often overshadowed. From her aristocratic upbringing to her pivotal role in shaping the ideas that would change the world, Jenny's journey is one of resilience, commitment, and unwavering dedication to the emancipation of the working class. We explore her early years, her relationship with Karl, and the challenges they faced together, including poverty, exile, and personal tragedies. Through it all, Jenny remained a steadfast supporter of Karl's work, and deeply in love with the man behind the ideas. Her legacy as a feminist and revolutionary thinker continues to inspire activism and resistance to this day.


Topics: 

  • Early life and upbringing of Jenny von Westphalen
  • Relationship with Karl Marx and their marriage
  • Jenny's support for Karl's work and involvement in the socialist movement
  • Challenges faced by the Marx family, including poverty, exile, and personal tragedies
  • Jenny's role as a mother and activist


Resources:

]]> Tue, 12 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1794 Today we discuss the life of Jenny Marx, wife of Karl Marx, whose influence on the socialist movement is often overshadowed. From her aristocratic upbringing to her pivotal role in shaping the ideas that would change the world, Jenny's journey is one of resilience, commitment, and unwavering dedication to the emancipation of the working class. We explore her early years, her relationship with Karl, and the challenges they faced together, including poverty, exile, and personal tragedies. Through it all, Jenny remained a steadfast supporter of Karl's work, and deeply in love with the man behind the ideas. Her legacy as a feminist and revolutionary thinker continues to inspire activism and resistance to this day.


Topics: 

  • Early life and upbringing of Jenny von Westphalen
  • Relationship with Karl Marx and their marriage
  • Jenny's support for Karl's work and involvement in the socialist movement
  • Challenges faced by the Marx family, including poverty, exile, and personal tragedies
  • Jenny's role as a mother and activist


Resources:

]]> Jenny Marx, Karl Marx, capitalism, communism, motherhood No Spring break updates! 20 20 Spring break updates! full a6aa339f-fe9d-4b59-b877-35e4df74f42d https://share.transistor.fm/s/1177c97a Susie is on spring break with her family this week, so this quick update offers some upcoming episode ideas, including anger in motherhood, managing transitions, white mothers, maternal ambivalence, mothers and sex, and more.

What do YOU want to hear about on Rebel Mothers? Email susie@susiefishleder.com with ideas and suggestions

]]> Susie is on spring break with her family this week, so this quick update offers some upcoming episode ideas, including anger in motherhood, managing transitions, white mothers, maternal ambivalence, mothers and sex, and more.

What do YOU want to hear about on Rebel Mothers? Email susie@susiefishleder.com with ideas and suggestions

]]> Tue, 05 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 323 Susie is on spring break with her family this week, so this quick update offers some upcoming episode ideas, including anger in motherhood, managing transitions, white mothers, maternal ambivalence, mothers and sex, and more.

What do YOU want to hear about on Rebel Mothers? Email susie@susiefishleder.com with ideas and suggestions

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Maternal Activism 19 19 Maternal Activism full b5b66294-c22b-4837-a5f7-add63833879c https://share.transistor.fm/s/e84f2a00 Maternal activism is a specific form of activism that is focused on addressing issues that impact mothers, children, and families within their communities and society at large. Susie breaks down why we don't usually hear this term used, the pros and cons of centering mothers in activism, and highlights the diverse forms of activism engaged in by mothers from different backgrounds. The episode emphasizes how maternal activism intertwines with broader social justice issues and challenges societal norms to advocate for mothers and their families.

Topics Covered

  • Defining Maternal Activism: Susie examines the seeming contradiction between 'maternal' and 'activism', debunking stereotypes and exploring the history of mothers in social movements.
  • Successful Maternal Activism Case Studies: In-depth analysis of organizations like Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense and Black Mamas Matter Alliance, exploring their strategies and successes.
  • Analysis of Unsuccessful Activism: A critical look at the Wall of Moms movement, understanding its pitfalls and lessons learned.
  • Intersectionality in Maternal Activism: Exploration of how maternal activism intersects with anti-racism, LGBTQ rights, and environmental issues.
  • What Makes Maternal Activism Successful: Storytelling, community, creating agency and authority for mothers, cooperation, and uplifting and taking initiative from historically marginalized mothers

Resources Mentioned

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]]> Maternal activism is a specific form of activism that is focused on addressing issues that impact mothers, children, and families within their communities and society at large. Susie breaks down why we don't usually hear this term used, the pros and cons of centering mothers in activism, and highlights the diverse forms of activism engaged in by mothers from different backgrounds. The episode emphasizes how maternal activism intertwines with broader social justice issues and challenges societal norms to advocate for mothers and their families.

Topics Covered

  • Defining Maternal Activism: Susie examines the seeming contradiction between 'maternal' and 'activism', debunking stereotypes and exploring the history of mothers in social movements.
  • Successful Maternal Activism Case Studies: In-depth analysis of organizations like Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense and Black Mamas Matter Alliance, exploring their strategies and successes.
  • Analysis of Unsuccessful Activism: A critical look at the Wall of Moms movement, understanding its pitfalls and lessons learned.
  • Intersectionality in Maternal Activism: Exploration of how maternal activism intersects with anti-racism, LGBTQ rights, and environmental issues.
  • What Makes Maternal Activism Successful: Storytelling, community, creating agency and authority for mothers, cooperation, and uplifting and taking initiative from historically marginalized mothers

Resources Mentioned

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]]> Tue, 27 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1876 Maternal activism is a specific form of activism that is focused on addressing issues that impact mothers, children, and families within their communities and society at large. Susie breaks down why we don't usually hear this term used, the pros and cons of centering mothers in activism, and highlights the diverse forms of activism engaged in by mothers from different backgrounds. The episode emphasizes how maternal activism intertwines with broader social justice issues and challenges societal norms to advocate for mothers and their families.

Topics Covered

  • Defining Maternal Activism: Susie examines the seeming contradiction between 'maternal' and 'activism', debunking stereotypes and exploring the history of mothers in social movements.
  • Successful Maternal Activism Case Studies: In-depth analysis of organizations like Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense and Black Mamas Matter Alliance, exploring their strategies and successes.
  • Analysis of Unsuccessful Activism: A critical look at the Wall of Moms movement, understanding its pitfalls and lessons learned.
  • Intersectionality in Maternal Activism: Exploration of how maternal activism intersects with anti-racism, LGBTQ rights, and environmental issues.
  • What Makes Maternal Activism Successful: Storytelling, community, creating agency and authority for mothers, cooperation, and uplifting and taking initiative from historically marginalized mothers

Resources Mentioned

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]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Motherhood as Enlightenment 18 18 Motherhood as Enlightenment full 10d4a5dd-176b-446b-965b-5ad39f8fb37c https://share.transistor.fm/s/8c39a41a In this episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie takes the audience on a journey to explore the concept of motherhood as enlightenment. She reflects on her own experiences and the parallels between motherhood and spiritual traditions. Susie challenges the societal norms and beliefs around motherhood and presents it as a path to spiritual growth and awakening.


Topics: 

  • Spiritual experience of motherhood
  • Societal challenges and pressures faced by mothers, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • Reframing motherhood as a spiritual path to empowerment and enlightenment.
  • Expanding the definition of motherhood to include anyone engaged in nurturing and raising children.
  • Differentiating motherhood as a spiritual path from essentialist narratives.
  • The spiritual parallels between motherhood and various spiritual traditions, including acts of selfless service, being present, and releasing the ego.
  • The societal isolation of mothers and the need for systemic support.
  • The intersection of motherhood as a spiritual path with social justice and the importance of continuous learning and growth.


Resources:

]]> In this episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie takes the audience on a journey to explore the concept of motherhood as enlightenment. She reflects on her own experiences and the parallels between motherhood and spiritual traditions. Susie challenges the societal norms and beliefs around motherhood and presents it as a path to spiritual growth and awakening.


Topics: 

  • Spiritual experience of motherhood
  • Societal challenges and pressures faced by mothers, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • Reframing motherhood as a spiritual path to empowerment and enlightenment.
  • Expanding the definition of motherhood to include anyone engaged in nurturing and raising children.
  • Differentiating motherhood as a spiritual path from essentialist narratives.
  • The spiritual parallels between motherhood and various spiritual traditions, including acts of selfless service, being present, and releasing the ego.
  • The societal isolation of mothers and the need for systemic support.
  • The intersection of motherhood as a spiritual path with social justice and the importance of continuous learning and growth.


Resources:

]]> Tue, 20 Feb 2024 04:17:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1112 In this episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie takes the audience on a journey to explore the concept of motherhood as enlightenment. She reflects on her own experiences and the parallels between motherhood and spiritual traditions. Susie challenges the societal norms and beliefs around motherhood and presents it as a path to spiritual growth and awakening.


Topics: 

  • Spiritual experience of motherhood
  • Societal challenges and pressures faced by mothers, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • Reframing motherhood as a spiritual path to empowerment and enlightenment.
  • Expanding the definition of motherhood to include anyone engaged in nurturing and raising children.
  • Differentiating motherhood as a spiritual path from essentialist narratives.
  • The spiritual parallels between motherhood and various spiritual traditions, including acts of selfless service, being present, and releasing the ego.
  • The societal isolation of mothers and the need for systemic support.
  • The intersection of motherhood as a spiritual path with social justice and the importance of continuous learning and growth.


Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Radical Mother Love 17 17 Radical Mother Love full 929663c4-daa9-4611-bae9-f918065faf1b https://share.transistor.fm/s/f6c978e1 A mother’s love is often romanticized and idealized, but really, radical mother love is an opportunity to challenge traditional motherhood norms and dismantle larger systems of oppression. The discussion ranges from expanding the definition of motherhood beyond the normative mother and family to embracing the complexities of maternal ambivalence and the radical nature of mother love in uplifting and supporting all children and families.


Topics: 

  • Expanding Motherhood Definitions: Discussion on moving beyond the stereotypical image of a white, middle-class, heterosexual, nuclear family mother.
  • Diversity in Motherhood: Examining how race, class, sexuality, and non-traditional family structures like chosen families and non-biological mothers contribute to a richer understanding of motherhood.
  • Nuclear Family Critique: Exploring the history and socio-economic influences of the nuclear family model and its impact on societal norms.
  • Maternal Ambivalence: Addressing the complex and often contradictory emotions mothers experience in their caregiving roles.
  • Radical Mother Love: Discussing how maternal love can be a revolutionary force, with examples from activists who embody this concept.
  • Maternal Activism: Linking radical mother love with movements like Moms Demand Action and Free Mom Hugs.
  • Challenging Traditional Motherhood Norms: How redefining mother love and motherhood challenges oppressive systems like patriarchy, capitalism, and white supremacy.

Resources:

  • O'Reilly, Andrea, and Association for Research on Mothering. Mother Matters: Motherhood As Discourse and Practice : Essays from the Journal of the Association for Research on Mothering. Toronto: Association for Research on Mothering, 2004, 22.  
  • Revolutionary Mothering: Love on the Front Line by Alexis Pauline Gumbs, China Martens and Mai'a Williams
  • Collins, P.H. (1998). It’s All in the Family: Intersections of Gender, Race, and Nation. Hypatia. Summer Vol. 13, No.3. 62-82.

Data mentioned in podcast came from the following sources:

]]> A mother’s love is often romanticized and idealized, but really, radical mother love is an opportunity to challenge traditional motherhood norms and dismantle larger systems of oppression. The discussion ranges from expanding the definition of motherhood beyond the normative mother and family to embracing the complexities of maternal ambivalence and the radical nature of mother love in uplifting and supporting all children and families.


Topics: 

  • Expanding Motherhood Definitions: Discussion on moving beyond the stereotypical image of a white, middle-class, heterosexual, nuclear family mother.
  • Diversity in Motherhood: Examining how race, class, sexuality, and non-traditional family structures like chosen families and non-biological mothers contribute to a richer understanding of motherhood.
  • Nuclear Family Critique: Exploring the history and socio-economic influences of the nuclear family model and its impact on societal norms.
  • Maternal Ambivalence: Addressing the complex and often contradictory emotions mothers experience in their caregiving roles.
  • Radical Mother Love: Discussing how maternal love can be a revolutionary force, with examples from activists who embody this concept.
  • Maternal Activism: Linking radical mother love with movements like Moms Demand Action and Free Mom Hugs.
  • Challenging Traditional Motherhood Norms: How redefining mother love and motherhood challenges oppressive systems like patriarchy, capitalism, and white supremacy.

Resources:

  • O'Reilly, Andrea, and Association for Research on Mothering. Mother Matters: Motherhood As Discourse and Practice : Essays from the Journal of the Association for Research on Mothering. Toronto: Association for Research on Mothering, 2004, 22.  
  • Revolutionary Mothering: Love on the Front Line by Alexis Pauline Gumbs, China Martens and Mai'a Williams
  • Collins, P.H. (1998). It’s All in the Family: Intersections of Gender, Race, and Nation. Hypatia. Summer Vol. 13, No.3. 62-82.

Data mentioned in podcast came from the following sources:

]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1438 A mother’s love is often romanticized and idealized, but really, radical mother love is an opportunity to challenge traditional motherhood norms and dismantle larger systems of oppression. The discussion ranges from expanding the definition of motherhood beyond the normative mother and family to embracing the complexities of maternal ambivalence and the radical nature of mother love in uplifting and supporting all children and families.


Topics: 

  • Expanding Motherhood Definitions: Discussion on moving beyond the stereotypical image of a white, middle-class, heterosexual, nuclear family mother.
  • Diversity in Motherhood: Examining how race, class, sexuality, and non-traditional family structures like chosen families and non-biological mothers contribute to a richer understanding of motherhood.
  • Nuclear Family Critique: Exploring the history and socio-economic influences of the nuclear family model and its impact on societal norms.
  • Maternal Ambivalence: Addressing the complex and often contradictory emotions mothers experience in their caregiving roles.
  • Radical Mother Love: Discussing how maternal love can be a revolutionary force, with examples from activists who embody this concept.
  • Maternal Activism: Linking radical mother love with movements like Moms Demand Action and Free Mom Hugs.
  • Challenging Traditional Motherhood Norms: How redefining mother love and motherhood challenges oppressive systems like patriarchy, capitalism, and white supremacy.

Resources:

  • O'Reilly, Andrea, and Association for Research on Mothering. Mother Matters: Motherhood As Discourse and Practice : Essays from the Journal of the Association for Research on Mothering. Toronto: Association for Research on Mothering, 2004, 22.  
  • Revolutionary Mothering: Love on the Front Line by Alexis Pauline Gumbs, China Martens and Mai'a Williams
  • Collins, P.H. (1998). It’s All in the Family: Intersections of Gender, Race, and Nation. Hypatia. Summer Vol. 13, No.3. 62-82.

Data mentioned in podcast came from the following sources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Boundaries in Motherhood 16 16 Boundaries in Motherhood full 60bb03b8-adc2-4823-9526-3b66b9063d78 https://share.transistor.fm/s/0238e43e Today we explore boundaries in motherhood: exploring how boundaries help create a sense of personal agency and autonomy, emphasizing their role in empowering women, and finding a balance between individualism and collective well-being. This episode highlights the challenges mothers face in setting boundaries with their children, and offers guidance on setting boundaries as a way to reclaim our time, energy, and purpose.


Topics: 

  • Boundaries in motherhood
  • Personal agency and autonomy for women
  • Balancing individualism and collective well-being
  • Challenges of setting boundaries with children
  • Feminist perspective on boundaries
  • Using values when determining boundaries
  • Motherhood as empowerment


Resources:

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]]> Today we explore boundaries in motherhood: exploring how boundaries help create a sense of personal agency and autonomy, emphasizing their role in empowering women, and finding a balance between individualism and collective well-being. This episode highlights the challenges mothers face in setting boundaries with their children, and offers guidance on setting boundaries as a way to reclaim our time, energy, and purpose.


Topics: 

  • Boundaries in motherhood
  • Personal agency and autonomy for women
  • Balancing individualism and collective well-being
  • Challenges of setting boundaries with children
  • Feminist perspective on boundaries
  • Using values when determining boundaries
  • Motherhood as empowerment


Resources:

Sign up for my monthly newsletter by visiting www.susiefishleder.com for more content like this!

]]> Tue, 06 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1822 Today we explore boundaries in motherhood: exploring how boundaries help create a sense of personal agency and autonomy, emphasizing their role in empowering women, and finding a balance between individualism and collective well-being. This episode highlights the challenges mothers face in setting boundaries with their children, and offers guidance on setting boundaries as a way to reclaim our time, energy, and purpose.


Topics: 

  • Boundaries in motherhood
  • Personal agency and autonomy for women
  • Balancing individualism and collective well-being
  • Challenges of setting boundaries with children
  • Feminist perspective on boundaries
  • Using values when determining boundaries
  • Motherhood as empowerment


Resources:

Sign up for my monthly newsletter by visiting www.susiefishleder.com for more content like this!

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Matrescence: Birth & Postpartum Healing 15 15 Matrescence: Birth & Postpartum Healing full 489e90ed-807b-416e-8f73-7b2e4dd99dec https://share.transistor.fm/s/82c9f60d In the second part of this two-part series, Susie focuses on rewriting birth narratives for peace, strength, and agency. Susie shares her personal journey of healing and empowerment after challenging birthing experiences, emphasizing the societal pressures of the myth of the perfect mother and its impact on maternal well-being. Drawing from Robbie Davis-Floyd's insights, the episode discusses the importance of self-reflection, body practices, and positive affirmations in the healing process. Susie also highlights the significance of support, both in sharing birth stories and engaging in practices that release stored emotions. 


Topics Included: 

  • Matrescence journey and its impact on motherhood
  • Rewriting birth narratives for healing and empowerment
  • Societal pressures and the myth of the perfect mother
  • Self-reflection and positive affirmations
  • Supportive practices for emotional release
  • Embracing the diversity of birth stories and finding validation in unique journeys


Resources:

]]> In the second part of this two-part series, Susie focuses on rewriting birth narratives for peace, strength, and agency. Susie shares her personal journey of healing and empowerment after challenging birthing experiences, emphasizing the societal pressures of the myth of the perfect mother and its impact on maternal well-being. Drawing from Robbie Davis-Floyd's insights, the episode discusses the importance of self-reflection, body practices, and positive affirmations in the healing process. Susie also highlights the significance of support, both in sharing birth stories and engaging in practices that release stored emotions. 


Topics Included: 

  • Matrescence journey and its impact on motherhood
  • Rewriting birth narratives for healing and empowerment
  • Societal pressures and the myth of the perfect mother
  • Self-reflection and positive affirmations
  • Supportive practices for emotional release
  • Embracing the diversity of birth stories and finding validation in unique journeys


Resources:

]]> Tue, 30 Jan 2024 04:39:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1304 In the second part of this two-part series, Susie focuses on rewriting birth narratives for peace, strength, and agency. Susie shares her personal journey of healing and empowerment after challenging birthing experiences, emphasizing the societal pressures of the myth of the perfect mother and its impact on maternal well-being. Drawing from Robbie Davis-Floyd's insights, the episode discusses the importance of self-reflection, body practices, and positive affirmations in the healing process. Susie also highlights the significance of support, both in sharing birth stories and engaging in practices that release stored emotions. 


Topics Included: 

  • Matrescence journey and its impact on motherhood
  • Rewriting birth narratives for healing and empowerment
  • Societal pressures and the myth of the perfect mother
  • Self-reflection and positive affirmations
  • Supportive practices for emotional release
  • Embracing the diversity of birth stories and finding validation in unique journeys


Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Matrescence: Birth as an American Rite of Passage 14 14 Matrescence: Birth as an American Rite of Passage full 5e2b26ec-c541-49c7-9c00-bb3974820c44 https://share.transistor.fm/s/aa885f97 In part one of this two-part series on matrescence, Susie explores the transformative concept of matrescence. Drawing on insights from Dr. Aurélie Athan and Robbie Davis-Floyd's "Birth as an American Rite of Passage," Susie unpacks the stages of matrescence, comparing it to adolescence and emphasizing the need for empathy and celebration in this unique journey. She draws parallels between the classic elements of a rite of passage and matrescence. She gives globally diverse examples of birthing rituals and sheds light on how hospital births in America have unintentionally adopted rituals that emphasize society’s patriarchal core values.


Topics Included: 

  • Matrescence definition and stages
  • Matrescence vs. adolescence
  • Global birthing rituals
  • Hospital births in America
  • Rite of passage stages: separation, transition, integration
  • Cultural variations in matrescence celebrations
  • Rewriting matrescence narratives for healing
  • Marginalized identities in matrescence
  • Transgender and LGBTQ+ maternal experiences
  • Matrescence for Black women
  • Matrescence for disabled mothers
  • Healing from difficult birth experiences
  • Support resources for diverse maternal journeys

Resources:

]]> In part one of this two-part series on matrescence, Susie explores the transformative concept of matrescence. Drawing on insights from Dr. Aurélie Athan and Robbie Davis-Floyd's "Birth as an American Rite of Passage," Susie unpacks the stages of matrescence, comparing it to adolescence and emphasizing the need for empathy and celebration in this unique journey. She draws parallels between the classic elements of a rite of passage and matrescence. She gives globally diverse examples of birthing rituals and sheds light on how hospital births in America have unintentionally adopted rituals that emphasize society’s patriarchal core values.


Topics Included: 

  • Matrescence definition and stages
  • Matrescence vs. adolescence
  • Global birthing rituals
  • Hospital births in America
  • Rite of passage stages: separation, transition, integration
  • Cultural variations in matrescence celebrations
  • Rewriting matrescence narratives for healing
  • Marginalized identities in matrescence
  • Transgender and LGBTQ+ maternal experiences
  • Matrescence for Black women
  • Matrescence for disabled mothers
  • Healing from difficult birth experiences
  • Support resources for diverse maternal journeys

Resources:

]]> Tue, 23 Jan 2024 04:16:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1539 In part one of this two-part series on matrescence, Susie explores the transformative concept of matrescence. Drawing on insights from Dr. Aurélie Athan and Robbie Davis-Floyd's "Birth as an American Rite of Passage," Susie unpacks the stages of matrescence, comparing it to adolescence and emphasizing the need for empathy and celebration in this unique journey. She draws parallels between the classic elements of a rite of passage and matrescence. She gives globally diverse examples of birthing rituals and sheds light on how hospital births in America have unintentionally adopted rituals that emphasize society’s patriarchal core values.


Topics Included: 

  • Matrescence definition and stages
  • Matrescence vs. adolescence
  • Global birthing rituals
  • Hospital births in America
  • Rite of passage stages: separation, transition, integration
  • Cultural variations in matrescence celebrations
  • Rewriting matrescence narratives for healing
  • Marginalized identities in matrescence
  • Transgender and LGBTQ+ maternal experiences
  • Matrescence for Black women
  • Matrescence for disabled mothers
  • Healing from difficult birth experiences
  • Support resources for diverse maternal journeys

Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Motherline: Reclaiming Women's Stories 13 13 Motherline: Reclaiming Women's Stories full 8fbafec7-40bd-4cd8-9bef-9fa28ac5f018 https://share.transistor.fm/s/63f663e7 Susie discusses the motherline (matrilineal ancestry) and the importance of women’s stories. Navigating through historical struggles, ancient goddess cultures, and societal shifts, Susie invites listeners to reclaim the stories of women that have been obscured, stolen, or silenced.    Join the journey of exploration and empowerment as we reimagine narratives and contribute to a paradigm shift in the broader motherhood revolution. 


Topics: 

  • Historical Struggles of Women's Voices
  • Impact of Narratives like the Story of Eve
  • Ancient Goddess Cultures: Catalhoyuk and Marija Gimbutas
  • Transition from Matrilineal to Patrilineal Societies
  • 3 Steps for Reclaiming Personal the Motherline
    • Step 1: Reflect on your own narrative
    • Step 2: Motherline Meditation: A Tool for Intuitive Connection
    • Step 3: Telling Our Own Stories as a Revolutionary Act
  • Contribution to the Broader Motherhood Revolution

Resources:

]]> Susie discusses the motherline (matrilineal ancestry) and the importance of women’s stories. Navigating through historical struggles, ancient goddess cultures, and societal shifts, Susie invites listeners to reclaim the stories of women that have been obscured, stolen, or silenced.    Join the journey of exploration and empowerment as we reimagine narratives and contribute to a paradigm shift in the broader motherhood revolution. 


Topics: 

  • Historical Struggles of Women's Voices
  • Impact of Narratives like the Story of Eve
  • Ancient Goddess Cultures: Catalhoyuk and Marija Gimbutas
  • Transition from Matrilineal to Patrilineal Societies
  • 3 Steps for Reclaiming Personal the Motherline
    • Step 1: Reflect on your own narrative
    • Step 2: Motherline Meditation: A Tool for Intuitive Connection
    • Step 3: Telling Our Own Stories as a Revolutionary Act
  • Contribution to the Broader Motherhood Revolution

Resources:

]]> Tue, 16 Jan 2024 04:24:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1958 Susie discusses the motherline (matrilineal ancestry) and the importance of women’s stories. Navigating through historical struggles, ancient goddess cultures, and societal shifts, Susie invites listeners to reclaim the stories of women that have been obscured, stolen, or silenced.    Join the journey of exploration and empowerment as we reimagine narratives and contribute to a paradigm shift in the broader motherhood revolution. 


Topics: 

  • Historical Struggles of Women's Voices
  • Impact of Narratives like the Story of Eve
  • Ancient Goddess Cultures: Catalhoyuk and Marija Gimbutas
  • Transition from Matrilineal to Patrilineal Societies
  • 3 Steps for Reclaiming Personal the Motherline
    • Step 1: Reflect on your own narrative
    • Step 2: Motherline Meditation: A Tool for Intuitive Connection
    • Step 3: Telling Our Own Stories as a Revolutionary Act
  • Contribution to the Broader Motherhood Revolution

Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Becoming a Momrade! With Mexie & Susie Fishleder 12 12 Becoming a Momrade! With Mexie & Susie Fishleder full b51da5e5-ebdd-430a-abe7-abfc5dc2bab4 https://share.transistor.fm/s/da0861fb This episode is an interview Susie did with Mexie from Total Liberation in the spring of 2023. Susie & Mexie discuss how capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy shape the institution of motherhood and harm people who take on the work of mothering. We end with discussing what a motherhood revolution could look like and how it would dovetail with a broader societal revolution.

Sources and Links

]]> This episode is an interview Susie did with Mexie from Total Liberation in the spring of 2023. Susie & Mexie discuss how capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy shape the institution of motherhood and harm people who take on the work of mothering. We end with discussing what a motherhood revolution could look like and how it would dovetail with a broader societal revolution.

Sources and Links

]]> Tue, 09 Jan 2024 04:58:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 3737 This episode is an interview Susie did with Mexie from Total Liberation in the spring of 2023. Susie & Mexie discuss how capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy shape the institution of motherhood and harm people who take on the work of mothering. We end with discussing what a motherhood revolution could look like and how it would dovetail with a broader societal revolution.

Sources and Links

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Partnership Families 11 11 Partnership Families full 11cedda4-5a16-49bc-82c1-7fdf2650e021 https://share.transistor.fm/s/723b93dd In this episode of Rebel Mothers, we explored Riane Eisler's paradigm-shifting concepts of dominator and partnership societies, applying them to the context of our own families. Eisler's model, rooted in historical evidence and cultural practices, offers a spectrum approach to understanding societal structures. Focusing on family and childhood relations within the dominator and partnership systems, we discussed actionable steps to nurture a partnership family, emphasizing democratic decision-making and equal partnerships. Eisler's work goes beyond critique, providing a blueprint for transformative change, with broader societal implications—shaping empathetic citizens, addressing racism, and preparing children for the demands of the 21st-century economy. The episode concludes with the recognition that implementing partnership values in our families contributes to creating a compassionate and egalitarian society, with ripple effects extending far beyond our homes.


Topics Included:

- Dominator and partnership societies

- Historical precedent and societies

- Eisler's four cornerstones for societal shift

- Dominator and partnership families

- Hierarchies of domination vs. hierarchies of actualization

- Actions for nurturing a partnership family

- Resources for implementing partnership principles

- Impact of partnership families on the world


Resources Mentioned:’

]]> In this episode of Rebel Mothers, we explored Riane Eisler's paradigm-shifting concepts of dominator and partnership societies, applying them to the context of our own families. Eisler's model, rooted in historical evidence and cultural practices, offers a spectrum approach to understanding societal structures. Focusing on family and childhood relations within the dominator and partnership systems, we discussed actionable steps to nurture a partnership family, emphasizing democratic decision-making and equal partnerships. Eisler's work goes beyond critique, providing a blueprint for transformative change, with broader societal implications—shaping empathetic citizens, addressing racism, and preparing children for the demands of the 21st-century economy. The episode concludes with the recognition that implementing partnership values in our families contributes to creating a compassionate and egalitarian society, with ripple effects extending far beyond our homes.


Topics Included:

- Dominator and partnership societies

- Historical precedent and societies

- Eisler's four cornerstones for societal shift

- Dominator and partnership families

- Hierarchies of domination vs. hierarchies of actualization

- Actions for nurturing a partnership family

- Resources for implementing partnership principles

- Impact of partnership families on the world


Resources Mentioned:’

]]> Tue, 02 Jan 2024 04:12:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1713 In this episode of Rebel Mothers, we explored Riane Eisler's paradigm-shifting concepts of dominator and partnership societies, applying them to the context of our own families. Eisler's model, rooted in historical evidence and cultural practices, offers a spectrum approach to understanding societal structures. Focusing on family and childhood relations within the dominator and partnership systems, we discussed actionable steps to nurture a partnership family, emphasizing democratic decision-making and equal partnerships. Eisler's work goes beyond critique, providing a blueprint for transformative change, with broader societal implications—shaping empathetic citizens, addressing racism, and preparing children for the demands of the 21st-century economy. The episode concludes with the recognition that implementing partnership values in our families contributes to creating a compassionate and egalitarian society, with ripple effects extending far beyond our homes.


Topics Included:

- Dominator and partnership societies

- Historical precedent and societies

- Eisler's four cornerstones for societal shift

- Dominator and partnership families

- Hierarchies of domination vs. hierarchies of actualization

- Actions for nurturing a partnership family

- Resources for implementing partnership principles

- Impact of partnership families on the world


Resources Mentioned:’

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Merry Christmas greeting! 10 10 Merry Christmas greeting! full d37894a6-db4b-4844-931c-9f9cc894c41d https://share.transistor.fm/s/e9d777d2 Merry Christmas! In this “Christmas Card” episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie celebrates the milestone of reaching the 10th episode. Reflecting on the journey so far, she shares the joys and challenges of podcasting and gratitude for the supportive messages and interactions from listeners. 


Topics Covered:

  • The significance of reaching the 10th episode milestone.
  • Ways to support Rebel Mothers, including sharing episodes and leaving reviews.
  • Overview of the MotherBLOOM coaching program's structure and steps.
  • Special offer: 50% off the MotherBLOOM coaching program until December 31, 2023.


Resources Mentioned:

  • MotherBLOOM Coaching - only 3 spots left for the first quarter of 2024!
  • Email susie@susiefishleder.com for questions 


Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas season and a Happy New Year!!

]]> Merry Christmas! In this “Christmas Card” episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie celebrates the milestone of reaching the 10th episode. Reflecting on the journey so far, she shares the joys and challenges of podcasting and gratitude for the supportive messages and interactions from listeners. 


Topics Covered:

  • The significance of reaching the 10th episode milestone.
  • Ways to support Rebel Mothers, including sharing episodes and leaving reviews.
  • Overview of the MotherBLOOM coaching program's structure and steps.
  • Special offer: 50% off the MotherBLOOM coaching program until December 31, 2023.


Resources Mentioned:

  • MotherBLOOM Coaching - only 3 spots left for the first quarter of 2024!
  • Email susie@susiefishleder.com for questions 


Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas season and a Happy New Year!!

]]> Tue, 26 Dec 2023 03:44:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 754 Merry Christmas! In this “Christmas Card” episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie celebrates the milestone of reaching the 10th episode. Reflecting on the journey so far, she shares the joys and challenges of podcasting and gratitude for the supportive messages and interactions from listeners. 


Topics Covered:

  • The significance of reaching the 10th episode milestone.
  • Ways to support Rebel Mothers, including sharing episodes and leaving reviews.
  • Overview of the MotherBLOOM coaching program's structure and steps.
  • Special offer: 50% off the MotherBLOOM coaching program until December 31, 2023.


Resources Mentioned:

  • MotherBLOOM Coaching - only 3 spots left for the first quarter of 2024!
  • Email susie@susiefishleder.com for questions 


Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas season and a Happy New Year!!

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Seasons of Motherhood: Winter 9 9 Seasons of Motherhood: Winter full b2b04769-0b09-4702-b46e-3c2adaf0d82a https://share.transistor.fm/s/c9d0b077 In this episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie explores the metaphor of seasons in motherhood, shedding light on how the different seasons—spring, summer, fall, and winter—correspond to various stages of a mother's journey. She focuses on the unique experiences and emotions experienced in the winter of motherhood, including the personal story of her own miscarriage, and offers relatable examples and insights. 


Topics: 

  • Seasons of motherhood
  • Spring: New beginnings, matrescence, early motherhood, blended families
  • Summer: Growth and nurturing, active parenting, challenges and joys of school-age children, balancing work and family live
  • Fall: Letting go, transition to children gaining independence, major life changes
  • Winter: Rest, and renewal, empty nest transition, bereavement and grief, wonderment and reflection of mothering journey


Resources:

]]> In this episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie explores the metaphor of seasons in motherhood, shedding light on how the different seasons—spring, summer, fall, and winter—correspond to various stages of a mother's journey. She focuses on the unique experiences and emotions experienced in the winter of motherhood, including the personal story of her own miscarriage, and offers relatable examples and insights. 


Topics: 

  • Seasons of motherhood
  • Spring: New beginnings, matrescence, early motherhood, blended families
  • Summer: Growth and nurturing, active parenting, challenges and joys of school-age children, balancing work and family live
  • Fall: Letting go, transition to children gaining independence, major life changes
  • Winter: Rest, and renewal, empty nest transition, bereavement and grief, wonderment and reflection of mothering journey


Resources:

]]> Tue, 19 Dec 2023 04:43:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1812 In this episode of Rebel Mothers, Susie explores the metaphor of seasons in motherhood, shedding light on how the different seasons—spring, summer, fall, and winter—correspond to various stages of a mother's journey. She focuses on the unique experiences and emotions experienced in the winter of motherhood, including the personal story of her own miscarriage, and offers relatable examples and insights. 


Topics: 

  • Seasons of motherhood
  • Spring: New beginnings, matrescence, early motherhood, blended families
  • Summer: Growth and nurturing, active parenting, challenges and joys of school-age children, balancing work and family live
  • Fall: Letting go, transition to children gaining independence, major life changes
  • Winter: Rest, and renewal, empty nest transition, bereavement and grief, wonderment and reflection of mothering journey


Resources:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Mary, (Rebel) Mother of Jesus 8 8 Mary, (Rebel) Mother of Jesus full 76d99a2f-3fc3-4823-a924-c5e0ec64e09a https://share.transistor.fm/s/08b96e69 In this special Christmas episode, Susie explores the life of Mary, the mother of Jesus, looking at her as a symbol of motherhood and what that means for modern mothers. We discuss her reverence in Christianity and Islam, her experience as a real-life mother, and her significance in various social justice issues, including interfaith cooperation, immigration reform, classism, feminism, and anti-racism. Mary's multifaceted role as both a symbol and a historical mother is examined, focusing on her empowerment and resilience in the face of adversity.


Topics Include:

  • Introduction to Mary as a symbol of motherhood
  • Mary’s significance in Christianity and Islam and her relevance to modern mothers.
  • Mary’s perspective of Jesus’ life through her eyes as a real-life mother
  • The challenges and struggles Mary might have faced as an unwed teenager with an unexpected pregnancy
  • Mary’s seven sorrows as a mother
  • Intersection of Mary’s story with social justice issues, including interfaith cooperation, immigration and refugee concerns, classism, racism, and feminism
  • Mary as a symbol of female empowerment, consent, and resilience who celebrates the diverse experiences of motherhood.
  • Mary's depiction as a Black Madonna
  • The fusion of Mary with indigenous goddesses and African spiritual traditions.
  • Mary as a rebel mother who continues to have a profound impact on women’s lives


Resources Mentioned: 

]]> In this special Christmas episode, Susie explores the life of Mary, the mother of Jesus, looking at her as a symbol of motherhood and what that means for modern mothers. We discuss her reverence in Christianity and Islam, her experience as a real-life mother, and her significance in various social justice issues, including interfaith cooperation, immigration reform, classism, feminism, and anti-racism. Mary's multifaceted role as both a symbol and a historical mother is examined, focusing on her empowerment and resilience in the face of adversity.


Topics Include:

  • Introduction to Mary as a symbol of motherhood
  • Mary’s significance in Christianity and Islam and her relevance to modern mothers.
  • Mary’s perspective of Jesus’ life through her eyes as a real-life mother
  • The challenges and struggles Mary might have faced as an unwed teenager with an unexpected pregnancy
  • Mary’s seven sorrows as a mother
  • Intersection of Mary’s story with social justice issues, including interfaith cooperation, immigration and refugee concerns, classism, racism, and feminism
  • Mary as a symbol of female empowerment, consent, and resilience who celebrates the diverse experiences of motherhood.
  • Mary's depiction as a Black Madonna
  • The fusion of Mary with indigenous goddesses and African spiritual traditions.
  • Mary as a rebel mother who continues to have a profound impact on women’s lives


Resources Mentioned: 

]]> Tue, 12 Dec 2023 04:35:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1998 In this special Christmas episode, Susie explores the life of Mary, the mother of Jesus, looking at her as a symbol of motherhood and what that means for modern mothers. We discuss her reverence in Christianity and Islam, her experience as a real-life mother, and her significance in various social justice issues, including interfaith cooperation, immigration reform, classism, feminism, and anti-racism. Mary's multifaceted role as both a symbol and a historical mother is examined, focusing on her empowerment and resilience in the face of adversity.


Topics Include:

  • Introduction to Mary as a symbol of motherhood
  • Mary’s significance in Christianity and Islam and her relevance to modern mothers.
  • Mary’s perspective of Jesus’ life through her eyes as a real-life mother
  • The challenges and struggles Mary might have faced as an unwed teenager with an unexpected pregnancy
  • Mary’s seven sorrows as a mother
  • Intersection of Mary’s story with social justice issues, including interfaith cooperation, immigration and refugee concerns, classism, racism, and feminism
  • Mary as a symbol of female empowerment, consent, and resilience who celebrates the diverse experiences of motherhood.
  • Mary's depiction as a Black Madonna
  • The fusion of Mary with indigenous goddesses and African spiritual traditions.
  • Mary as a rebel mother who continues to have a profound impact on women’s lives


Resources Mentioned: 

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Invisible Labor: Emotional Labor 7 7 Invisible Labor: Emotional Labor full f60655fd-7db0-4498-878c-14f733a2cfe6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/d35f707f Get your free PDF copy of the Mental Load in Parenting checklist!

In Part Two of this Invisible Labor series, Susie discusses the invisible and emotionally taxing work that mothers undertake in the realm of emotional labor. She debunks the misconception that emotional labor is gender-specific and explores how societal conditioning has led to mothers taking on this role, while also discussing ways to make it more manageable and equitable. 


Topics Include:

  • Defining emotional labor in motherhood
  • Societal expectations of mothers
  • Emotional labor in attachment parenting, gentle communication, breaking generational trauma, and more
  • A class and race bases analysis on invisible, mental, and emotional labor
  • The impact of patriarchy on men and emotional labor
  • Practical strategies for equal partnership

Resources Mentioned:

]]> Get your free PDF copy of the Mental Load in Parenting checklist!

In Part Two of this Invisible Labor series, Susie discusses the invisible and emotionally taxing work that mothers undertake in the realm of emotional labor. She debunks the misconception that emotional labor is gender-specific and explores how societal conditioning has led to mothers taking on this role, while also discussing ways to make it more manageable and equitable. 


Topics Include:

  • Defining emotional labor in motherhood
  • Societal expectations of mothers
  • Emotional labor in attachment parenting, gentle communication, breaking generational trauma, and more
  • A class and race bases analysis on invisible, mental, and emotional labor
  • The impact of patriarchy on men and emotional labor
  • Practical strategies for equal partnership

Resources Mentioned:

]]> Tue, 05 Dec 2023 04:28:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1296 Get your free PDF copy of the Mental Load in Parenting checklist!

In Part Two of this Invisible Labor series, Susie discusses the invisible and emotionally taxing work that mothers undertake in the realm of emotional labor. She debunks the misconception that emotional labor is gender-specific and explores how societal conditioning has led to mothers taking on this role, while also discussing ways to make it more manageable and equitable. 


Topics Include:

  • Defining emotional labor in motherhood
  • Societal expectations of mothers
  • Emotional labor in attachment parenting, gentle communication, breaking generational trauma, and more
  • A class and race bases analysis on invisible, mental, and emotional labor
  • The impact of patriarchy on men and emotional labor
  • Practical strategies for equal partnership

Resources Mentioned:

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Invisible Labor: The Mental Load 6 6 Invisible Labor: The Mental Load full 6018142d-8c72-4c73-9c70-4e196bade60e https://share.transistor.fm/s/b0d60b40 Get your free PDF copy of the Mental Load in Parenting checklist!

In Part One of this two-part series, Susie dive deep into a critical topic: The Mental Load of Motherhood. The mental load of motherhood is a hidden yet profound aspect of women's lives. It encompasses the cognitive labor of planning, organizing, and anticipating everything required to raise children and manage a household. This invisible labor, predominantly carried by women, has deep historical roots and serves as the underpinning of both patriarchy and the capitalist system.


In this episode, Susie highlights the importance of advocating for change on a collective level and encouraging equitable partnerships with men sharing domestic labor. On an individual level, she emphasizes the necessity of open and respectful conversations between mothers and their partners about the division of invisible labor and the mental load. These conversations are pivotal for prioritizing mothers' mental well-being and creating a more balanced and harmonious family life. As rebel mothers, it's our duty to challenge traditional gender norms and pave the way for a brighter future.


Topics Include:

  • Understanding invisible labor
  • Unpacking the mental load
  • How patriarchy and capitalism create and sustain the mental load in motherhood
  • Easing the mental load
  • How to initiate a conversation with your partner


Resources Mentioned:


Disclosure: I am an affiliate of Bookshop.org and I will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.

]]> Get your free PDF copy of the Mental Load in Parenting checklist!

In Part One of this two-part series, Susie dive deep into a critical topic: The Mental Load of Motherhood. The mental load of motherhood is a hidden yet profound aspect of women's lives. It encompasses the cognitive labor of planning, organizing, and anticipating everything required to raise children and manage a household. This invisible labor, predominantly carried by women, has deep historical roots and serves as the underpinning of both patriarchy and the capitalist system.


In this episode, Susie highlights the importance of advocating for change on a collective level and encouraging equitable partnerships with men sharing domestic labor. On an individual level, she emphasizes the necessity of open and respectful conversations between mothers and their partners about the division of invisible labor and the mental load. These conversations are pivotal for prioritizing mothers' mental well-being and creating a more balanced and harmonious family life. As rebel mothers, it's our duty to challenge traditional gender norms and pave the way for a brighter future.


Topics Include:

  • Understanding invisible labor
  • Unpacking the mental load
  • How patriarchy and capitalism create and sustain the mental load in motherhood
  • Easing the mental load
  • How to initiate a conversation with your partner


Resources Mentioned:


Disclosure: I am an affiliate of Bookshop.org and I will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.

]]> Tue, 28 Nov 2023 04:24:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1814 Get your free PDF copy of the Mental Load in Parenting checklist!

In Part One of this two-part series, Susie dive deep into a critical topic: The Mental Load of Motherhood. The mental load of motherhood is a hidden yet profound aspect of women's lives. It encompasses the cognitive labor of planning, organizing, and anticipating everything required to raise children and manage a household. This invisible labor, predominantly carried by women, has deep historical roots and serves as the underpinning of both patriarchy and the capitalist system.


In this episode, Susie highlights the importance of advocating for change on a collective level and encouraging equitable partnerships with men sharing domestic labor. On an individual level, she emphasizes the necessity of open and respectful conversations between mothers and their partners about the division of invisible labor and the mental load. These conversations are pivotal for prioritizing mothers' mental well-being and creating a more balanced and harmonious family life. As rebel mothers, it's our duty to challenge traditional gender norms and pave the way for a brighter future.


Topics Include:

  • Understanding invisible labor
  • Unpacking the mental load
  • How patriarchy and capitalism create and sustain the mental load in motherhood
  • Easing the mental load
  • How to initiate a conversation with your partner


Resources Mentioned:


Disclosure: I am an affiliate of Bookshop.org and I will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Mom Guilt During the Holidays 5 5 Mom Guilt During the Holidays full 77ea6933-13ea-47cc-a262-cc35ea2b4bf6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/bac3e848 Susie talks about the phenomenon of “mom guilt,” especially as it shows up in the holidays. She discusses the nuances of mom guilt and distinguishes it from regular guilt. Plus she uncovers its roots in patriarchal norms, and discusses strategies for addressing and overcoming this complex emotion.


Topics:

  • What is mom guilt and how does it differ from regular guilt?
  • The unique pressure on mothers expected to be the primary caregivers and nurturers 
  • How mom guilt serves the patriarchy
  • How does mom guilt show up during the holiday season


Strategies for addressing mom guilt:

  1. Get organized
  2. Know your values
  3. Practice mindfulness and bodyfulness
  4. Get honest with yourself about what needs to stay and what needs to go
  5. You might have to say no and disappoint people
  6. You don’t need to be the maker of all the memories 


Resources:

Shame on You: An Analysis of Guilt-Based Advertising Strategies Directed at Parents

Bodyfulness: Somatic Practices for Presence, Empowerment, and Waking Up in This Life by Christine Caldwell

Rebel Mothers is brought to you by MotherBLOOM coaching. Learn more at www.mymotherbloom.com and join the motherhood revolution!

]]> Susie talks about the phenomenon of “mom guilt,” especially as it shows up in the holidays. She discusses the nuances of mom guilt and distinguishes it from regular guilt. Plus she uncovers its roots in patriarchal norms, and discusses strategies for addressing and overcoming this complex emotion.


Topics:

  • What is mom guilt and how does it differ from regular guilt?
  • The unique pressure on mothers expected to be the primary caregivers and nurturers 
  • How mom guilt serves the patriarchy
  • How does mom guilt show up during the holiday season


Strategies for addressing mom guilt:

  1. Get organized
  2. Know your values
  3. Practice mindfulness and bodyfulness
  4. Get honest with yourself about what needs to stay and what needs to go
  5. You might have to say no and disappoint people
  6. You don’t need to be the maker of all the memories 


Resources:

Shame on You: An Analysis of Guilt-Based Advertising Strategies Directed at Parents

Bodyfulness: Somatic Practices for Presence, Empowerment, and Waking Up in This Life by Christine Caldwell

Rebel Mothers is brought to you by MotherBLOOM coaching. Learn more at www.mymotherbloom.com and join the motherhood revolution!

]]> Tue, 21 Nov 2023 04:18:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 2050 Susie talks about the phenomenon of “mom guilt,” especially as it shows up in the holidays. She discusses the nuances of mom guilt and distinguishes it from regular guilt. Plus she uncovers its roots in patriarchal norms, and discusses strategies for addressing and overcoming this complex emotion.


Topics:

  • What is mom guilt and how does it differ from regular guilt?
  • The unique pressure on mothers expected to be the primary caregivers and nurturers 
  • How mom guilt serves the patriarchy
  • How does mom guilt show up during the holiday season


Strategies for addressing mom guilt:

  1. Get organized
  2. Know your values
  3. Practice mindfulness and bodyfulness
  4. Get honest with yourself about what needs to stay and what needs to go
  5. You might have to say no and disappoint people
  6. You don’t need to be the maker of all the memories 


Resources:

Shame on You: An Analysis of Guilt-Based Advertising Strategies Directed at Parents

Bodyfulness: Somatic Practices for Presence, Empowerment, and Waking Up in This Life by Christine Caldwell

Rebel Mothers is brought to you by MotherBLOOM coaching. Learn more at www.mymotherbloom.com and join the motherhood revolution!

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist Yes Coretta Scott King 4 4 Coretta Scott King full a1735f43-e1be-47ac-ba22-1995676ba802 https://share.transistor.fm/s/5e7d12c8 Welcome to a special episode of Rebel Mothers where Susie does a deep dive into the extraordinary life of a REAL rebel mother: Coretta Scott King, a woman who defied expectations and used her motherhood as a source of strength in her fight for justice and equality. From the racially segregated Alabama of her youth to becoming an iconic civil rights leader and activist in her own right, Coretta is an inspiration for maternal activists everywhere. 


Topics Include:

  • Coretta Scott King early life and education
  • Marriage to Martin Luther King, Jr. 
  • Evolving role of Black women in the 1950s, balancing domestic responsibilities with activism.
  • Coretta’s experiences during the Montgomery Bus Boycott
  • Coretta's multiples roles as a mother, wife, activist, and singer
  • Coretta’s many accomplishments, which includes establishing The Martin Luther King Jr. Center for Nonviolent Social Change, securing Martin Luther King Jr. Day as a national holiday, advocacy for women's rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and worker's rights, and her legacy as both a mother and a relentless advocate for justice, equality, and nonviolence

Resources:

Coretta: My Life, My Love, My Legacy by Coretta Scott King with the Reverend Dr. Barbara Reynolds


Thank you for joining us in this episode of "Rebel Mothers." Stay tuned for more stories of extraordinary women who dared to challenge the status quo and shape the world in their own unique ways. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review. Your feedback is valuable as we continue to explore the lives and legacies of remarkable rebel mothers.

]]> Welcome to a special episode of Rebel Mothers where Susie does a deep dive into the extraordinary life of a REAL rebel mother: Coretta Scott King, a woman who defied expectations and used her motherhood as a source of strength in her fight for justice and equality. From the racially segregated Alabama of her youth to becoming an iconic civil rights leader and activist in her own right, Coretta is an inspiration for maternal activists everywhere. 


Topics Include:

  • Coretta Scott King early life and education
  • Marriage to Martin Luther King, Jr. 
  • Evolving role of Black women in the 1950s, balancing domestic responsibilities with activism.
  • Coretta’s experiences during the Montgomery Bus Boycott
  • Coretta's multiples roles as a mother, wife, activist, and singer
  • Coretta’s many accomplishments, which includes establishing The Martin Luther King Jr. Center for Nonviolent Social Change, securing Martin Luther King Jr. Day as a national holiday, advocacy for women's rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and worker's rights, and her legacy as both a mother and a relentless advocate for justice, equality, and nonviolence

Resources:

Coretta: My Life, My Love, My Legacy by Coretta Scott King with the Reverend Dr. Barbara Reynolds


Thank you for joining us in this episode of "Rebel Mothers." Stay tuned for more stories of extraordinary women who dared to challenge the status quo and shape the world in their own unique ways. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review. Your feedback is valuable as we continue to explore the lives and legacies of remarkable rebel mothers.

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2023 09:00:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1745 Welcome to a special episode of Rebel Mothers where Susie does a deep dive into the extraordinary life of a REAL rebel mother: Coretta Scott King, a woman who defied expectations and used her motherhood as a source of strength in her fight for justice and equality. From the racially segregated Alabama of her youth to becoming an iconic civil rights leader and activist in her own right, Coretta is an inspiration for maternal activists everywhere. 


Topics Include:

  • Coretta Scott King early life and education
  • Marriage to Martin Luther King, Jr. 
  • Evolving role of Black women in the 1950s, balancing domestic responsibilities with activism.
  • Coretta’s experiences during the Montgomery Bus Boycott
  • Coretta's multiples roles as a mother, wife, activist, and singer
  • Coretta’s many accomplishments, which includes establishing The Martin Luther King Jr. Center for Nonviolent Social Change, securing Martin Luther King Jr. Day as a national holiday, advocacy for women's rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and worker's rights, and her legacy as both a mother and a relentless advocate for justice, equality, and nonviolence

Resources:

Coretta: My Life, My Love, My Legacy by Coretta Scott King with the Reverend Dr. Barbara Reynolds


Thank you for joining us in this episode of "Rebel Mothers." Stay tuned for more stories of extraordinary women who dared to challenge the status quo and shape the world in their own unique ways. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review. Your feedback is valuable as we continue to explore the lives and legacies of remarkable rebel mothers.

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Identity Loss: Why You Lose Yourself in Motherhood 3 3 Identity Loss: Why You Lose Yourself in Motherhood full d1a182ba-f48f-423d-9bb3-8d742b5f36f2 https://share.transistor.fm/s/3ed9fab5 Susie goes deep into a common topic that resonates with many mothers – the journey of losing, and rediscovering, one's identity in the context of motherhood. It's a story that many mothers share, but it's one that society doesn't often pause to truly understand, because it's more than just losing your identity: it means identifying the systematic inequalities that many mothers face.

Topics include:

  • What your identity is and how it is formed
  • Matrescence, which is the transition into motherhood
  • Why you lose your identity in motherhood (spoiler alert, it's not your fault!)
  • Actions you can take to regain a sense of self

Thank you for listening! Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode.

]]> Susie goes deep into a common topic that resonates with many mothers – the journey of losing, and rediscovering, one's identity in the context of motherhood. It's a story that many mothers share, but it's one that society doesn't often pause to truly understand, because it's more than just losing your identity: it means identifying the systematic inequalities that many mothers face.

Topics include:

  • What your identity is and how it is formed
  • Matrescence, which is the transition into motherhood
  • Why you lose your identity in motherhood (spoiler alert, it's not your fault!)
  • Actions you can take to regain a sense of self

Thank you for listening! Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode.

]]> Tue, 07 Nov 2023 04:18:00 -0500 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1713 Susie goes deep into a common topic that resonates with many mothers – the journey of losing, and rediscovering, one's identity in the context of motherhood. It's a story that many mothers share, but it's one that society doesn't often pause to truly understand, because it's more than just losing your identity: it means identifying the systematic inequalities that many mothers face.

Topics include:

  • What your identity is and how it is formed
  • Matrescence, which is the transition into motherhood
  • Why you lose your identity in motherhood (spoiler alert, it's not your fault!)
  • Actions you can take to regain a sense of self

Thank you for listening! Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode.

]]> new mom, motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist, identity loss, identity crisis No Mothering vs Motherhood 2 2 Mothering vs Motherhood full acceed75-9b14-4c0f-8ee0-8794988dfe8e https://share.transistor.fm/s/0f7a4db0 Susie explores the significance of the language used to describe motherhood, and how our words shape societal expectations of what it means to be a mother. 


Topics include:

  • The complexity of motherhood language, including addressing issues of gender, race, class, location, ability, and more
  • Struggles and responsibilities of using inclusive and non-stereotypical language and balancing empowerment with avoiding romanticization and sexist stereotypes
  • Defining mothering vs motherhood, examples of how systems of patriarchy, whiteness, and capitalism affect the motherhood experience, and the difference between dominator and partnership family models
  • Insights on mothering from scholars like Sara Ruddick, Adrienne Rich, Andrea O'Reilly, and Patricia Hill Collins 


Resources mentioned:

Thank you for listening! Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode!

]]> Susie explores the significance of the language used to describe motherhood, and how our words shape societal expectations of what it means to be a mother. 


Topics include:

  • The complexity of motherhood language, including addressing issues of gender, race, class, location, ability, and more
  • Struggles and responsibilities of using inclusive and non-stereotypical language and balancing empowerment with avoiding romanticization and sexist stereotypes
  • Defining mothering vs motherhood, examples of how systems of patriarchy, whiteness, and capitalism affect the motherhood experience, and the difference between dominator and partnership family models
  • Insights on mothering from scholars like Sara Ruddick, Adrienne Rich, Andrea O'Reilly, and Patricia Hill Collins 


Resources mentioned:

Thank you for listening! Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode!

]]> Tue, 31 Oct 2023 04:17:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1381 Susie explores the significance of the language used to describe motherhood, and how our words shape societal expectations of what it means to be a mother. 


Topics include:

  • The complexity of motherhood language, including addressing issues of gender, race, class, location, ability, and more
  • Struggles and responsibilities of using inclusive and non-stereotypical language and balancing empowerment with avoiding romanticization and sexist stereotypes
  • Defining mothering vs motherhood, examples of how systems of patriarchy, whiteness, and capitalism affect the motherhood experience, and the difference between dominator and partnership family models
  • Insights on mothering from scholars like Sara Ruddick, Adrienne Rich, Andrea O'Reilly, and Patricia Hill Collins 


Resources mentioned:

Thank you for listening! Remember to subscribe, share, and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode!

]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist No Welcome and Introduction 1 1 Welcome and Introduction full d7931247-731c-411f-b32d-27b4ebe218d3 https://share.transistor.fm/s/773c3dab Welcome to the premiere episode of Rebel Mothers! In today’s episode, Susie gives more background context to who she is, why this podcast came to be in existence, and what you can expect in episodes to come.


Topics include:

  • Personal backstory
  • The difference between motherhood as an institution and mothering as an act of liberation
  • What you can expect in episodes to come

Resources mentioned:

Be sure to subscribe to the show so you don't miss any of the upcoming episodes!

Newsletter subscribers also get a sneak peek a few days before the episode is released...click here to receive Susie's weekly newsletter: Motherhood Musings


]]> Welcome to the premiere episode of Rebel Mothers! In today’s episode, Susie gives more background context to who she is, why this podcast came to be in existence, and what you can expect in episodes to come.


Topics include:

  • Personal backstory
  • The difference between motherhood as an institution and mothering as an act of liberation
  • What you can expect in episodes to come

Resources mentioned:

Be sure to subscribe to the show so you don't miss any of the upcoming episodes!

Newsletter subscribers also get a sneak peek a few days before the episode is released...click here to receive Susie's weekly newsletter: Motherhood Musings


]]> Tue, 24 Oct 2023 04:00:00 -0400 Susie Fishleder Susie Fishleder 1457 Welcome to the premiere episode of Rebel Mothers! In today’s episode, Susie gives more background context to who she is, why this podcast came to be in existence, and what you can expect in episodes to come.


Topics include:

  • Personal backstory
  • The difference between motherhood as an institution and mothering as an act of liberation
  • What you can expect in episodes to come

Resources mentioned:

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Newsletter subscribers also get a sneak peek a few days before the episode is released...click here to receive Susie's weekly newsletter: Motherhood Musings


]]> motherhood, mothering, patriarchy, feminist Yes Rebel Mothers Trailer Rebel Mothers Trailer trailer 58787f14-c8b2-4b98-b8ac-6d2071300394 https://share.transistor.fm/s/de8be8e8 Motherhood has been used to oppress and exploit women for centuries. But it doesn’t have to be this way, and as mothers, we’re ready for a revolution. We love our kids, but we struggle with losing our identities, bearing the weight of motherhood without enough support, and striving to meet the impossible standards of what it means to be a ‘good’ mother. It’s time to openly discuss how motherhood is deeply affected by patriarchy, racism, and capitalism so that we can break free of these systems. As mothers, we know our work is valuable and has radical potential to birth a more equitable and inclusive future for ourselves and our children.


Welcome to the Rebel Mothers podcast. I’m your host, Susie Fishleder, and together we’ll explore the challenges of modern motherhood and reclaim mothering as an act of liberation. 


Learn more at www.susiefishleder.com

]]> Motherhood has been used to oppress and exploit women for centuries. But it doesn’t have to be this way, and as mothers, we’re ready for a revolution. We love our kids, but we struggle with losing our identities, bearing the weight of motherhood without enough support, and striving to meet the impossible standards of what it means to be a ‘good’ mother. It’s time to openly discuss how motherhood is deeply affected by patriarchy, racism, and capitalism so that we can break free of these systems. As mothers, we know our work is valuable and has radical potential to birth a more equitable and inclusive future for ourselves and our children.


Welcome to the Rebel Mothers podcast. I’m your host, Susie Fishleder, and together we’ll explore the challenges of modern motherhood and reclaim mothering as an act of liberation. 


Learn more at www.susiefishleder.com

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Welcome to the Rebel Mothers podcast. I’m your host, Susie Fishleder, and together we’ll explore the challenges of modern motherhood and reclaim mothering as an act of liberation. 


Learn more at www.susiefishleder.com

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