Real Matters Only Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/real-matters-only Real Matters Only is a psychology-informed relationship podcast that helps Nigerians build healthier relationships by questioning harmful beliefs and exploring the psychology behind love, marriage, family, and human behaviour. Grounded in truth, accountability, and emotional maturity What This Show Is - A psychology-informed examination of relationship beliefs, myths, and behaviours - An honest, educational space for Nigerians navigating love, marriage, and family - A platform grounded in emotional maturity, accountability, and sincere truth - A culturally specific show — Nigerian context is central, not incidental What This Show Is Not - Not a mental health podcast - Not a Christian or religious podcast - Not a therapy session or crisis support service - Not a sensational or argumentative platform Goodliving Podcast Network b9049793-9af8-5486-b0ba-392ca47f04f3 yes Introduction to Attachment Styles DISCLAIMER en Sun, 14 Jun 2026 19:17:08 +0000 Sun, 14 Jun 2026 19:18:06 +0000 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sb-crux https://img.transistorcdn.com/mR1d0TFwaF5d2xp2h_pf3SWwu6K5vRzpqJGQgBsEKe4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iNjU1/Y2NhOTk0NmE1ODU5/ZmZjYjg5ODYxMDg4/MjNmMy5wbmc.jpg Real Matters Only https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sb-crux episodic Goodliving Podcast Network Real Matters Only is a psychology-informed relationship podcast that helps Nigerians build healthier relationships by questioning harmful beliefs and exploring the psychology behind love, marriage, family, and human behaviour. Grounded in truth, accountability, and emotional maturity What This Show Is - A psychology-informed examination of relationship beliefs, myths, and behaviours - An honest, educational space for Nigerians navigating love, marriage, and family - A platform grounded in emotional maturity, accountability, and sincere truth - A culturally specific show — Nigerian context is central, not incidental What This Show Is Not - Not a mental health podcast - Not a Christian or religious podcast - Not a therapy session or crisis support service - Not a sensational or argumentative platform Real Matters Only is a psychology-informed relationship podcast that helps Nigerians build healthier relationships by questioning harmful beliefs and exploring the psychology behind love, marriage, family, and human behaviour. Goodliving Podcast network No No What you have is not love. 8 8 What you have is not love. full 4477ef9d-0d32-4970-a8ea-7b884fe60781 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e723afc3 If your relationship is tilting to one side.


you need to leave.

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you need to leave.

]]> Fri, 12 Jun 2026 10:05:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 239 If your relationship is tilting to one side.you need to leave. If your relationship is tilting to one side.you need to leave. No Parents transfer relationship truama 8 8 Parents transfer relationship truama full 4f6cf996-ec61-4053-bb25-1555777ebc2e https://share.transistor.fm/s/2c02668e Some parents tend to find themselves reporting their partner to their kids, and that's a dangerous cycle.

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]]> Wed, 10 Jun 2026 09:46:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 263 Some parents tend to find themselves reporting their partner to their kids, and that's a dangerous cycle. Some parents tend to find themselves reporting their partner to their kids, and that's a dangerous cycle. No The girl child was raised right. 8 8 The girl child was raised right. full 96f93825-c9f9-456c-b8c3-aff9ce04e353 https://share.transistor.fm/s/2da10871 So many times I've heard this statement, the girl child was raised right, the boy wasn't.


finally I have decided to give my 2 cents.

]]> So many times I've heard this statement, the girl child was raised right, the boy wasn't.


finally I have decided to give my 2 cents.

]]> Mon, 08 Jun 2026 09:38:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 418 So many times I've heard this statement, the girl child was raised right, the boy wasn't. finally I have decided to give my 2 cents. So many times I've heard this statement, the girl child was raised right, the boy wasn't. finally I have decided to give my 2 cents. No Disorganized attachment styles 8 8 Disorganized attachment styles full ba199587-4b04-4821-b0a3-c0a11c9a1113 https://share.transistor.fm/s/a2c75b86 Intense, push-pull and unpredictable, in my opinion it'it's possibly the most dangerous one of them all..

]]> Intense, push-pull and unpredictable, in my opinion it'it's possibly the most dangerous one of them all..

]]> Sun, 22 Jun 2025 18:50:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 152 Intense, push-pull and unpredictable, in my opinion it'it's possibly the most dangerous one of them all.. Intense, push-pull and unpredictable, in my opinion it'it's possibly the most dangerous one of them all.. No Avoidant attachment style 8 8 Avoidant attachment style full 04f7a696-a638-45ea-8ea5-12411ad5cd69 https://share.transistor.fm/s/c869873a People who are distant, unemotional, and always avoiding closeness suffer from this style.

]]> People who are distant, unemotional, and always avoiding closeness suffer from this style.

]]> Fri, 20 Jun 2025 18:47:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 133 People who are distant, unemotional, and always avoiding closeness suffer from this style. People who are distant, unemotional, and always avoiding closeness suffer from this style. No Anxious Attachment style 8 8 Anxious Attachment style full edbaa404-f043-4354-a243-0331498ddb54 https://share.transistor.fm/s/84cc6f58 Check out this trait : Clingy , Highly Emotional, or Seekling reassurance to know if this is the attachment style you exhibit.

]]> Check out this trait : Clingy , Highly Emotional, or Seekling reassurance to know if this is the attachment style you exhibit.

]]> Tue, 17 Jun 2025 18:40:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 137 Check out this trait : Clingy , Highly Emotional, or Seekling reassurance to know if this is the attachment style you exhibit. Check out this trait : Clingy , Highly Emotional, or Seekling reassurance to know if this is the attachment style you exhibit. No Secure Attachment style 1 1 Secure Attachment style full 75b6ec7e-5419-474e-8e1e-1d2e53eb9951 https://share.transistor.fm/s/73ec67ec Confidence

self-worth

accepts support... If you find yourself truthfultruthfully displaying these three and more then this is your TRIBE

]]> Confidence

self-worth

accepts support... If you find yourself truthfultruthfully displaying these three and more then this is your TRIBE

]]> Thu, 12 Jun 2025 16:33:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 152 Confidence self-worthaccepts support... If you find yourself truthfultruthfully displaying these three and more then this is your TRIBE Confidence self-worthaccepts support... If you find yourself truthfultruthfully displaying these three and more then this is your TRIBE No Closure is a scam 8 8 Closure is a scam full d20c91f1-a976-4893-aba3-9ad54654f476 https://share.transistor.fm/s/410e7b24 A person's action speaks more than words, but most times, we forget that, in the bid to hear them say it to our face.

]]> A person's action speaks more than words, but most times, we forget that, in the bid to hear them say it to our face.

]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2025 09:10:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 118 A person's action speaks more than words, but most times, we forget that, in the bid to hear them say it to our face. A person's action speaks more than words, but most times, we forget that, in the bid to hear them say it to our face. No Introduction to Attachment Styles 8 8 Introduction to Attachment Styles trailer 549dd0cd-27e4-4256-994b-e4b2ae76de12 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e995b68d In the coming days or weeks, we'll break down each attachment style, and we'll have conversations that will enlighten us.

]]> In the coming days or weeks, we'll break down each attachment style, and we'll have conversations that will enlighten us.

]]> Sat, 07 Jun 2025 09:02:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 62 In the coming days or weeks, we'll break down each attachment style, and we'll have conversations that will enlighten us. In the coming days or weeks, we'll break down each attachment style, and we'll have conversations that will enlighten us. No Is True Love real? 8 8 Is True Love real? full 9b964552-3151-4799-bf18-d2cd69dcfd5c https://share.transistor.fm/s/1925b384 Tue, 19 Nov 2024 13:32:17 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 162 Everyone wants to experience true love, though alot of us do not believe in it. Everyone wants to experience true love, though alot of us do not believe in it. No MenTAL HEALTH JUNE 8 8 MenTAL HEALTH JUNE full 8fba5b2a-b355-467a-bf9f-9caa49f2d03c https://share.transistor.fm/s/9a4c1fb4 Wed, 05 Jun 2024 23:00:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 456 No EMOTIONAL JUNE 8 8 EMOTIONAL JUNE full 749f2b61-22d7-4965-a555-705fb0bd9282 https://share.transistor.fm/s/d896dd58 Sun, 02 Jun 2024 11:00:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 719 Love makes you do crazy things, Yes. Well how about you check first and be sure, these crazy isn't stage one of madness, be sure it's all a Love induced crazy... Love makes you do crazy things, Yes. Well how about you check first and be sure, these crazy isn't stage one of madness, be sure it's all a Love induced crazy... No TALKING STAGE KILLED FRIENDSHIPS 8 8 TALKING STAGE KILLED FRIENDSHIPS full 64490029-5804-4fe3-92b9-4b45b3e36edb https://share.transistor.fm/s/b7e88cef Fri, 26 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 387 Everyone now is in multiple talking stages. Everyone now is in multiple talking stages. No SPEC VS TRIBE 8 8 SPEC VS TRIBE full 76714f2f-4a05-4e84-ba20-a6fc587bc34a https://share.transistor.fm/s/6136d02a Fri, 19 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 327 Do we settle for our Spec or our Tribe? Do we settle for our Spec or our Tribe? No Myths & Truths 4 4 Myths & Truths full f1f4e53d-0388-432a-b71f-fda4f5a1aaba https://share.transistor.fm/s/01ad3d25 Fri, 12 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 1299 A couple of episodes of us analyzing phrases we've had to believe in for a long time.. A couple of episodes of us analyzing phrases we've had to believe in for a long time.. No You are not your Partner's Peace of Mind. 8 8 You are not your Partner's Peace of Mind. full dbe509e7-b3f1-4f53-b1b2-0808610b2080 https://share.transistor.fm/s/653fd67e Fri, 05 Jan 2024 07:00:00 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 389 Do you ever wonder why people crave peace? Even when they have a good-looking partner, they still say they want peace!!! Basically, it's because you are not their peace. Do you ever wonder why people crave peace? Even when they have a good-looking partner, they still say they want peace!!! Basically, it's because you are not their peace. No Ho Ho Ho 8 8 Ho Ho Ho full 7c9c8f4c-0317-4b98-b550-e22b28e29678 https://share.transistor.fm/s/84b91ddc Wed, 20 Dec 2023 06:00:00 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 518 It's our last Q & A session for 2023. It's our last Q & A session for 2023. No APOLOGY 8 8 APOLOGY full 5de69859-9db7-4807-bbf7-e9a5095d5b03 https://share.transistor.fm/s/b64086cf Sun, 15 Oct 2023 09:57:46 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 827 There's a right way to apologize, and there is a wrong way. What do you look out for in an apology? There's a right way to apologize, and there is a wrong way. What do you look out for in an apology? No MALE PERSONALITY TYPES. 7 7 MALE PERSONALITY TYPES. full 6a20a2c5-14e8-4b20-9f71-eae4a2ba0c51 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e36bdcf8 Mon, 04 Sep 2023 07:00:00 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 1006 It's easy to claim being an ALPHA MALE, but knowing who you really are makes being you a whole lot easier. Also, it helps the Ladies to identify the personality type they are attracted to. It's easy to claim being an ALPHA MALE, but knowing who you really are makes being you a whole lot easier. Also, it helps the Ladies to identify the personality type they are attracted to. No TOXIC PEOPLE 1 1 TOXIC PEOPLE full 7cf7fae5-bdd0-477e-a951-5da93b30c10e https://share.transistor.fm/s/ea698bb6 Mon, 05 Jun 2023 11:19:43 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 317 We finally started on a Toxic path ... We finally started on a Toxic path ... No I sometimes need my space. 4 4 I sometimes need my space. full b25b9de4-3e56-48ab-be80-faebf11f55a7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/cda766c3 Fri, 26 May 2023 09:28:47 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 314 Do partners need to take breaks from relationships to find or discover themselves? Do partners need to take breaks from relationships to find or discover themselves? No Love at first sight 4 4 Love at first sight full e1db938a-1800-4a83-800f-769c84214e82 https://share.transistor.fm/s/5f196cb2 Thu, 25 May 2023 08:45:57 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 248 We've heard this phrase "Love at first sight" so many times, We've almost lost actually knowledge of the meaning of this phrase. We've heard this phrase "Love at first sight" so many times, We've almost lost actually knowledge of the meaning of this phrase. No SELF-LOVE or SELF-CENTERED 4 4 SELF-LOVE or SELF-CENTERED full 2a338558-48bb-4e5c-b15d-06b0f6393bd3 https://share.transistor.fm/s/dddc4f1a Sun, 30 Apr 2023 20:25:02 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 502 Is it truly Self-love when it's tough on others? Is it truly Self-love when it's tough on others? No TEMPERAMENTS & VERSIONS 3 3 TEMPERAMENTS & VERSIONS full 5ba53146-ba27-4910-ab09-105dcb44a3f0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/8a76a0af Tue, 01 Nov 2022 07:51:34 -0100 SB CRUX SB CRUX 729 This episode talks about the difference between Temperaments and also links them to Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts. This episode talks about the difference between Temperaments and also links them to Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts. No FLAGS FOR FLOWERS 3 3 FLAGS FOR FLOWERS full 046f0b3c-1de3-4945-b3ed-64ba8fb8a6d2 https://share.transistor.fm/s/dba759a8 Sun, 16 Oct 2022 11:31:32 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 311 Many atimes, we fall in love for all the wrong reasons all because, we don't thoroughly check all boxes. Many atimes, we fall in love for all the wrong reasons all because, we don't thoroughly check all boxes. No WE ALL CAN'T BE HAPPY 3 3 WE ALL CAN'T BE HAPPY full 5958b260-5e36-4160-9a1a-fd3c3fbf8551 https://share.transistor.fm/s/33356fd8 Tue, 11 Oct 2022 13:02:14 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 333 Some persons believe, because they are good people they deserve good people or good relationships. Some persons believe, because they are good people they deserve good people or good relationships. No Q & As from SEPTEMBER 3 3 Q & As from SEPTEMBER full f06e0fb9-3a3f-4c32-9f74-ef11fce3ec54 https://share.transistor.fm/s/61aa7fdb Sat, 08 Oct 2022 08:23:27 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 779 So we'll be kicking things off this October with a recap from September, so let's dive in. No long talk. So we'll be kicking things off this October with a recap from September, so let's dive in. No long talk. No RELATIONSHIPS & WHAT WE DON'T SAY. 3 3 RELATIONSHIPS & WHAT WE DON'T SAY. full 0cc9e692-9aa8-4ce4-9a52-9719cb4db7d0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/ad15e9e4 Mon, 05 Sep 2022 12:13:32 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 1210 So we'll try to talk about some serious yet little topics, we ignore and then struggle in our relationships. Well let's see how well we can discuss this pointers.. So we'll try to talk about some serious yet little topics, we ignore and then struggle in our relationships. Well let's see how well we can discuss this pointers.. No Meet Your Host 2 2 Meet Your Host full 3b6c40c0-0fa7-43ae-9694-8a32ded98508 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f33af2c Tue, 07 Sep 2021 22:40:51 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 61 You'll probably not have heard me speak before. You'll probably not have heard me speak before. No Relationship spoilers. 1 1 Relationship spoilers. full 2ba9db23-271b-46e8-87c6-e259ce9ab379 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6892ef86 Tue, 07 Sep 2021 22:39:48 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 327 Little things matter, and it's why we all in need of them little things. Little things matter, and it's why we all in need of them little things. No DISCLAIMER 1 1 DISCLAIMER trailer ab2e1bc5-2780-4147-8d2b-bbb951018344 https://share.transistor.fm/s/df230489 Tue, 07 Sep 2021 22:24:26 +0000 SB CRUX SB CRUX 51 No