The Purple Pawedcast

Know That You Deserve Better - with Gloria Battini

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 20 Feb 2026 09:00:00 -0700

This week, we hear Gloria Battini's story of overcoming real life to reclaim her spiritual gifts. Gloria is a transformational guide, spiritual teacher, and empathic visionary whose work empowers humanity to reach its highest potential. Gloria and I discuss fascinating topics, such as how social healing really happens, listening to your soul's messages, and Ami's stunning ability to recognize Greek letters.

REFERENCES:
Gloria Battini’s Website: https://www.gloriabattini.com/

Follow Gloria on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gloriabattini

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Gloria Battini
(02:20) - From paralyzing OCD to seeing clearly
(08:33) - Matching outside to inside
(15:03) - Beating OCD with a great life
(16:36) - Not really able to read Greek
(18:23) - Healing from the bottom up
(21:54) - The layers of conditioning
(27:32) - Build a stronger foundation
(32:43) - Healing yourself is enough
(36:16) - Follow what makes you curious
(39:52) - See your child for who they are
(41:45) - The soul is chatty!
(45:26) - The beginning of a new cycle
(52:10) - How to find Gloria Battini on the internet
(55:15) - Show closing
(56:54) - Closing credits

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Anchor Your Gender in Joy - with DR Z PHD

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 06 Feb 2026 09:00:00 -0700

This week's episode was a tremendous treat for me - I got to talk to Dr. Natalia Zhikhareva, or DR Z PHD! Natalia is a clinical psychologist specializing in gender identity and author of the book “On Your Terms: Gender Transition Redefined for Adults.” Natalia and I discussed topics as widely diverse as the origin of gender identity, the only person able to define your identity, and why we should all learn not to give a shit.

REFERENCES:
Dr. Natalia Zhikhareva’s website: https://drzphd.com/

Follow Dr. Z on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DRZPHD

Follow Dr. Z on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drzphd/

Follow Dr. Z on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DRZPHDpractice/

Follow Dr. Z on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drz.phd/

Follow Dr. Z on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/thedrzphd/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:26) - Introducing Dr. Natalia Zhikhareva
(03:27) - Doing what comes naturally
(08:47) - Why is gender only important now?
(14:42) - The underlying cause of gender dysphoria
(20:50) - Failure to sit in the unknown
(26:38) - Nature vs Nurture
(32:37) - Let gender evolve
(37:42) - Anchor yourself in what feels like you
(41:15) - How biology relates to gender
(43:56) - Health insurance is for healing pain
(50:59) - How to find Dr. Z on the internet
(55:04) - Show closing
(55:32) - Closing credits

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Reality Seen Through the Eyes of Love - with Gregory James Thelian

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 23 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0700

This week, we hear about identity made manifest through boudoir photography with Gregory James Thelian. Gregory is an award-winning photographer and speaker on self-perception whose work focuses on helping clients see themselves as the rest of the world does. Gregory and I muse through topics as diverse as seeing yourself through self-worth, how Photoshop isn't evil in the right hands, and why Kim Kardashian should be BFFs with Gregory and Ami.

REFERENCES:
Gregory James Thelian’s Website: https://www.gregoryjamesphotography.com/

Gregory's "Reframing the Top 12 Self-limiting Beliefs" Guide: https://gjp.myflodesk.com/reframing-self-limiting-beliefs
Follow Gregory on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gregoryjames.photo/

Follow Gregory on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gregory.james.photography.nyc

Follow Gregory on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gregoryjames.photo

Follow Gregory on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gregoryjamesphotography

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Gregory James Thelian
(03:10) - Discarding outside perceptions
(09:45) - Finding the soul in photography
(15:30) - How the people who love you see you
(22:16) - Photoshop is not necessarily evil
(27:27) - Connecting the dots of who you are
(35:22) - Feeling heard and being seen
(40:58) - Life changes when you are worthy
(48:13) - Other people's small thinking inhibits your full thinking
(53:35) - How to find Gregory James Thelian on the internet
(54:54) - Show closing
(59:23) - Closing credits

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Re-Enchanted by the Unknown - with Dr. Richard Kaczynski

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 09 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0700

This week's episode is a story of science, politics, and ignorance with Dr. Richard Kaczynski. Richard is a psychologist, Thelemite, and author of the book "Mind Over Magick." Richard and I muse over topics as far afield as the human penchant to fill in where there are no blanks, why humans choose ignorance over science, and what "Ghostbusters" can teach about statistics.

REFERENCES:
Richard Kaczynski’s Website: https://richard-kaczynski.com/

Follow Richard on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/richardkaczynski.bsky.social

Learn more about Richard’s book “Mind Over Magick”: https://www.innertraditions.com/mind-over-magick

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing Richard Kaczynski
(02:42) - Just a typical magical childhood
(08:44) - Awkward pop culture references
(10:26) - Filling in where there are no blanks
(15:41) - Open or closed to magick, it still happens
(22:41) - We have no idea
(27:17) - Throwing out what we don't understand
(31:01) - Why do we choose ignorance?
(36:19) - Lost confidence from bullshit answers
(41:58) - Challenging what we already know
(47:19) - The disenchantment of the world
(52:58) - Applying science to magick
(57:12) - How to find Richard Kaczynski on the internet
(59:06) - Show closing
(01:01:21) - Closing credits

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Enhancing What Humans Do Better than Technology - with Derek Crager

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 02 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features a raw discussion with Derek Crager about the value of AI in human society. Derek Crager is a tech founder, an AI thought leader, and author of the upcoming book "Human First AI." Derek and I consider what AI excels at doing for humans, how humans can co-create with AI effectively, and why a printer telling you about its broken parts would be creepy.

REFERENCES:
Derek Crager’s Website: https://www.practicalai.app

Follow Derek on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amazonleadership/

Learn about Derek’s book: https://www.humanfirstai.net/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing Derek Crager
(02:22) - How to create the Universe
(05:40) - How humans can use AI best
(08:54) - AI is great at answering questions it already knows
(12:37) - But AI struggles to understand context
(16:03) - Mentorship, not copying and pasting
(22:02) - Conversing with yourself on any topic you choose
(28:37) - Co-creation or co-opting?
(37:41) - Specialized training just for you!
(44:25) - AI could actually prevent failure
(47:42) - Trust the human
(51:11) - Replacing humans while avoiding catastrophe
(55:25) - How to find Derek Crager on the internet
(56:38) - Show closing
(57:07) - Closing credits

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Great Sex for Life - with Eve Hall

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 19 Dec 2025 09:00:00 -0700

This week's episode features a candid conversation about sex with my dear friend Eve Hall. Eve is a physical therapist for sexual wellness and an award-winning hostess of the Please Me! Podcast. Together, Eve and I consider topics as diverse as pelvic floor health, the patriarchy, and awkward ways to describe what humans do naturally.

REFERENCES:
Eve Hall’s Website: https://pleaseme.online/

Follow Eve on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094393249379

Follow Eve on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEo1qdyY9pXicqeXYeyca9Q

Follow Eve on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/please.me.by.eve.creations/

Follow Eve on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@please_me__?lang=en

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Eve Hall
(04:20) - Reclaiming sexual liberation
(08:10) - Pelvic floor health and sexual health
(14:28) - Vaginoplasty and the pelvic floor
(19:19) - Awkward conversation about the prostate
(23:02) - Sex, shame, and the patriarchy
(30:28) - Perpetuating the human species
(33:07) - Blood flow and sexual health
(38:10) - Self-exploration on a daily basis
(43:53) - Gender-affirming surgery made better sex!
(48:37) - A bit about furries
(52:08) - Communicating with your partner
(57:57) - How to find Eve Hall on the internet
(01:01:00) - Show closing
(01:02:33) - Closing credits

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Developing as the People We Already Are - with Mary Kathleen Mehuron

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 12 Dec 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features a story of old-school New Jersey coming-of-age with Mary Kathleen Mehuron. Mary Kathleen is an author, educator, and artist whose most recent novel "Down on the South Beach Drag” explores Queer self-discovery. Mary Kathleen and I discuss the New Jersey art and music scene, The Boss, and giving children the space to grow up to be just who they are.

REFERENCES:
Mary Kathleen Mehuron’s Website: https://www.marykathleenmehuron.com/
Follow Mary Kathleen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mary.mehuron
Follow Mary Kathleen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marykathleenmehuron

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Respect and Humanity on the Campaign Trail '25 - with Erica Deuso

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 05 Dec 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features the new Mayor of Downingtown, PA, Dr. Erica Deuso. Erica is a scientist, advocate for the marginalized...oh, and the first openly transgender Mayor in the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania. Erica and I discuss topics as weighty as the dirty business inherent in politics, how education is the best form of activism, and how long a buffalo would need to be in electrolysis before a vaginoplasty.

REFERENCES:
Erica Deuso’s Website: https://www.ericadeuso.com/

Follow Erica on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/ericadeuso.bsky.social

Follow Erica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Erica_Deuso/

Follow Erica on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EricaForPA/

Follow Erica on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EricaforPA

Follow Erica on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@erica_deuso
Emerge Pennsylvania: https://pa.emergeamerica.org/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Erica Deuso
(04:34) - More worried about empty storefronts than gender
(09:45) - Just qualified for the job
(14:43) - The dirty business of politics
(19:15) - A quick jaunt into global finance
(25:32) - Dealing with hate on the campaign trail
(31:58) - Fighting hate with critical thinking
(37:50) - Activism means constantly learning more
(44:30) - Humanity is all about respect
(49:47) - The Good Neighbor Mayor
(53:45) - Deuso Herrick 2028!
(58:13) - How to find Erica Deuso on the internet
(01:03:36) - Show closing
(01:04:00) - Closing credits

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End Self-Sabotage with Discomfort - with Dr. Albert Bramante

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 28 Nov 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features insight into self-defeating behavior with Dr. Albert Bramante. Albert is a psychology professor, author, talent agent, and hypnotist whose newest book is titled "Rise Above the Script: Confronting Self Doubt and Mastering Self Sabotage for Performing Artists." Albert and I muse over topics as diverse as how self-sabotage stems from comfort, whether more physical danger would make for better people, and why drama majors inspire less drama than academics.

REFERENCES:
Albert Bramante’s Website: https://albertbramante.com/

Read “Rise Above the Script”: https://a.co/d/b770wPb

Follow Albert on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/albertbramante

Follow Albert on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dralbramante

Follow Albert on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/albertbramante

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The Mirror of Who We Really Are - with Dr. Stacy Friedman

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 14 Nov 2025 09:00:00 -0700

This week's episode features advice on having great sex by Dr. Stacy Friedman. Dr. Stacy is a clinical sexologist, podcaster, and Certified Sex Coach. We discuss topics as weighty as why we only learn about the negative aspects of sex, how teaching your partner what makes you happy is your gift to them, and why alliteration with P is the best there is.

REFERENCES:
Dr. Stacy Friedman’s Website: https://drstacyfriedman.com

Follow Dr. Stacy on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrStacyFriedman

Follow Dr. Stacy on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drstacyfriedman

Follow Dr. Stacy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstacyfriedman/

Follow Dr. Stacy on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrStacyFriedman

Follow Dr. Stacy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drstacy

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Dr. Stacy Friedman
(02:43) - The few willing to be open about sex
(06:59) - We only learn the negatives of sex
(11:45) - Why we struggle to make sex better
(16:24) - The gift of knowing how to make your partner happy
(21:05) - Honesty, curiosity, and authenticity are never selfish
(26:31) - Overcoming our personal stigmas and taboos
(33:27) - Getting over the religion thing
(43:57) - The beauty of full expression of identity
(50:50) - The role of fantasy is our sex life
(54:37) - How to find Dr. Stacy Friedman on the internet
(57:45) - Show closing
(58:08) - Closing credits

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Learning to Step into Our Power - with Tracey Napier

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 31 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Tracey Napier's story of shattering early perceptions of limitation to blossom into the Divine Plan. Tracey is an intuitive life coach, psychic, author, and speaker. Tracey and I consider topics as diverse as the beliefs that steal our control, how we can only delay the Divine Plan, and why we need to ask ourselves the right questions if we expect ourselves to answer.

REFERENCES:
Tracey Napier’s Website: https://www.traceynapier.com/

Follow Tracey on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traceyjeannapier2/

Follow Tracey on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@traceyjeannapier

Follow Tracey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traceyjeannapier/

Follow Tracey on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/traceynapier/

Follow Tracey on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@traceyjeannapier

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducting Tracey Napier
(02:15) - Opening the door to taking control
(08:49) - Thoughts and beliefs that limit us
(15:09) - Awakening to a spiritual calling
(22:13) - Building compassion for all
(26:53) - Allowing the Divine Plan to happen
(32:38) - Revealing our true purpose
(37:40) - Asking yourself the right questions
(44:20) - Co-creating our path in life
(47:05) - Making awareness a practice
(50:18) - How to find Tracey Napier on the internet
(52:41) - Show closing
(56:07) - Closing credits

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Curiosity Is Always Appropriate - with Anne Gillaspie

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 24 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Anne Gillaspie's raw story of hitting bottom, finding purpose, and reclaiming who she is. Anne is a Brand Therapist, podcaster, and Worshiper of Why. In our discussion, Anne and I touch on all damage caused by manipulation, trusting our children to learn from their mistakes, and how to rank the Spice Girls correctly.

CONTENT WARNING: Depression and Suicide

REFERENCES:
Anne Gillaspie’s Website: https://www.fixandform.com/

Follow Fix & Form on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fixandform

Follow Fix & Form on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FixandForm/

Follow Fix & Form on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/company/fixandform

Follow Fix & Form on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fix.form.branding

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Anne Gillaspie
(02:33) - Always stay curious
(12:12) - Damage to the manipulator
(17:54) - Existing as we are
(23:09) - Coming back to her own body
(28:55) - Getting out and surviving
(36:49) - Only share your experience
(45:27) - Trust cihildren to move through life
(53:36) - Healing with healthy leadership
(01:01:06) - How to find Anne Gillaspie on the internet
(01:04:17) - Show closing
(01:05:34) - Closing credits

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The Opposite of Symptoms - with Dr. Jeff Feinman

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 17 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Dr. Jeff Feinman and his Whole-istic approach to veterinary medicine. Dr. Jeff is a veterinarian as well as a Whole-istic connector and educator. Jeff and I muse over topics as far afield as context in science and medicine; life, death, and rebirth; and what to call the word 'laser.'

REFERENCES:
Jeff Feinmans’s Website: https://www.holisticactions.com/

Follow Jeff on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/holisticactions

Follow Jeff on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticActions

Follow Jeff on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticactions

Follow Jeff on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-jeff-feinman-72422013/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:36) - Introducing Jeff Feinman
(02:33) - Medical challenges from childhood
(06:28) - Science may not know all
(09:43) - It depends on the context
(15:17) - The importance of mindset
(19:36) - Rebirth of our most loved pets
(26:13) - Including our pets in spiritual focus
(32:07) - Behavior, Energy, Appetite, and Mood
(38:07) - Happiness is fundamental
(43:29) - Quality of Life and Healthspan
(47:52) - The future of Whole-isitic care
(53:40) - Treating humans as well as pets
(55:55) - How to find Dr. Jeff Feinman on the internet
(01:00:19) - Show closing
(01:02:44) - Closing credits

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Service over Self and Country over Party - with Dakarai Larriett

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 03 Oct 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode is an honor I won't forget - Candidate for US Senate Dakarai Larriett tells his story of police brutality turned into a run for America's future. Dakarai is a businessperson, an advocate, a police brutality survivor, and 2026 US Senate Candidate for the state of Alabama. Our conversation floats over topics are diverse as qualified immunity, Queer representation, and how most states are purple...as they should be!

REFERENCES:
Dakarai Larriett’s Website: https://dakarailarriett.com/

Read Dakarai’s book “Don’t Flush:” https://a.co/d/9evLdYt

Follow Dakarai on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dakarailarriettforsenate

Follow Dakarai on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/12H6Wmgbj8E/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Follow Dakarai on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dakarai.larriett

Follow Dakarai on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dakarail

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Dakarai Larriett
(02:18) - Congress should represent America
(05:42) - Racial profiling leads to police brutality
(14:03) - Qualified immunity must go!
(19:29) - Service over self and country over party
(26:25) - Queer eye for the government
(33:46) - What is true representation?
(37:06) - Equal access to the American Dream
(42:17) - American Dream or carrot and stick
(47:37) - Red vs Blue
(50:34) - Inspiring generations to come
(54:27) - Collaboration, not competition
(56:50) - How to find Dakarai Larriett on the internet
(59:38) - Show closing
(01:02:13) - Closing credits

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Mirroring Humanity with Artificial Intelligence - with Lynn Colepaugh

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 26 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Lynn Colepaugh and her conversation with Large Language Models (LLMs). Lynn is a brand strategist, music label founder, and Founder of Cyber PR Army, a woman-led digital strategy agency. Together, Lynn and I consider imagination as the Infinite Almost, how to keep your most important memories alive, and whether Pedro Pascal can conjugate.

REFERENCES:
Lynn Colepaugh’s Website: https://cyberprarmy.com/

See Lynn's story and book a consultation: https://cyberprarmy.com/thecastle

Follow Lynn on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lynn.daigle

Follow Lynn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynncolepaugh/

Follow Lynn on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lynncolepaugh/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Instroducing Lynn Colepaugh
(05:30) - The importance of being seen
(10:39) - Collapsing realities into The Almost
(15:52) - Imagination is the Real World
(18:38) - Humanizing ourselves through AI
(22:06) - Who is the intelligent one in AI?
(26:33) - Building a mirror of your Soul
(32:48) - Random access to identity
(38:50) - Trust through authenticity
(45:16) - We are what we consume
(50:11) - Discovering and developing who we are
(56:13) - Past Participles for Pedro
(57:47) - How to find Lynn Colepaugh on the internet
(01:00:14) - Show closing
(01:01:21) - Closing credits

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Dyslexia and the Craft of Research - with Russell Van Brocklen

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 12 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Russell Van Brocklen's struggles with dyslexia, and how he came out the other side. Russell is "The Dyslexia Professor" and founded the website https://dyslexiaclasses.com. In our discussion, Russell and I consider topics as diverse as language processing, how learning requires custom application per student, and why "Wonder Woman " was such a great movie.

REFERENCES:
Russell Van Brocklen’s Website: https://dyslexiaclasses.com/

Follow Russell on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dyslexiaclasses

Follow Russell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/teaching-students-with-dyslexia/

Follow Russell on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dyslexiaclasses7755

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Rejecting Consensus Reality - with Christian de la Huerta

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 05 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Christian de la Huerta and his story of reclaiming himself from other people's expectations. Christian is an author, TedX speaker, and personal transformation coach whose latest book explores the relationship of love, choice, and power. Christian and I discuss topics as wide as toxic masculinity, how power is not zero-sum, and the holistic nature of love.

REFERENCES:
Christian de la Huerta’s Website: https://soulfulpower.com/

Follow Christian on Facebook: http://facebook.com/groups/unleashyourinnerhero

Follow Christian on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christiandlh/

Follow Christian on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@soulfulpower6929

Follow Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christiandelahuerta/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Christian de la Huerta
(02:28) - Our ambivalent relationship with power
(07:02) - Giving our power away
(09:17) - Finding the balance between the masculine and feminine
(12:20) - The price for men of toxic masculinity
(15:03) - Misunderstanding our roles in the Universe
(18:54) - Popping out of consensus reality
(23:42) - Playing the victim card
(28:04) - Power is not a zero-sum game
(32:55) - Challenging our relationship to power
(38:04) - Communication and power relationships
(40:32) - Fulfillment as a definition of success
(42:33) - Love and the ego
(48:07) - Love, the Self, and Self-Love
(54:21) - How to find Christian de la Huerta on the internet
(59:54) - Show closing
(01:02:19) - Closing credits

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Growing by the Universe's Plan - with Kanika Vasudeva

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 29 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0600

This episode features a look into the Akashic Records with Kanika Vasudeva. Kanika is an Akashic Records reader and energy coach who founded the Art of Life Center to help parents create a better environment for their children. Kanika and I muse over profound topics as far afield as the natural happiness of children, learning the lessons the Universe presents us, and why the Universe still seems to make merging on the freeway so difficult.

REFERENCES:
Kanika Vasudeva’s Website: https://artoflifecenter.com/

Follow Kanika on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kanikaenergycoach

Follow Kanika on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kanikaenergycoach

Follow Kanika on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kanikaenergycoach

Follow Kanika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikaenergycoach/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:35) - Introducing Kanika Vasudeva
(02:21) - Life seemed perfect from the outside
(05:45) - Letting all the pain out
(08:43) - Squeezing happiness from the minutes
(11:09) - Finding the inherent happiness
(15:59) - A plan, even if not ours
(19:39) - This is for your own good...
(30:46) - Our role as a parent is to learn from our children
(36:05) - Beacons of truth and love
(41:47) - The Soul Contract of parent and child
(46:35) - Soul Contracts are naturally win / win
(58:19) - Processing anger from difficult Soul Contracts
(01:03:31) - Tuning into the Divine Plan
(01:07:49) - How to find Kanika Vasudeva on the internet
(01:13:26) - Show closing
(01:15:51) - Closing credits

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Mental Health through Storytelling - with Dr. Allison Battles

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 22 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Dr. Allison Battles, a Queer and Pagan licensed clinical psychologist, trauma specialist, and Certified Therapeutic Game Master. Yes - Game Master! Allison and I consider topics as far afield as how science can sometimes be unwieldy in healing, using Dungeons & Dragons for identity exploration, and that Dark Elf you made in WoW, but should likely be ashamed of.

REFERENCES:
Dr. Allison Battles's company, BattleRobin Counseling: https://battlerobincounseling.com/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Allison Battles
(03:45) - Dodecahedron in a square hole
(09:51) - Be yourself...just not too much
(13:57) - Healing the system itself
(17:00) - We are more than pathologies
(22:24) - The overscientification of mental health
(26:35) - How much evidence is enough to notice?
(31:09) - Pathologization and acceptable healing
(37:30) - Does Western medicine prize healing at all?
(40:03) - Telling new stories about who we are
(45:37) - Exploring gender through tabletop RPGs
(51:52) - Quick nerding out on Buffy and Xena
(54:28) - Making Queer exploration natural
(59:07) - How to find Dr. Allison Battles on the internet
(01:01:27) - Show closing
(01:02:05) - Closing credits

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The Universe Is on Your Side - with David Alan Brown

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 08 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features David Alan Brown's story of transformation. David is an author, educator, and developer of the Convergence method, which guides you through self-discovery and personal power. David and I cover the field from developing personal leadership to trusting you know who you are to finding gratitude you get to express who you are.

REFERENCES:
David Alan Brown’s Website: https://davidalanbrown.com/

Follow David on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/david.a.brown.940

Follow David on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthordavidalanbrown/

Follow David on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/thewriterdab

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing David Alan Brown
(02:47) - The opportunity of a lifetime
(05:42) - Those lies that help us ignore who we are
(12:51) - Tolerating for as long as we can
(17:40) - Being who you are with other people in the world
(25:19) - Only crazy people talk to themselves!
(30:06) - The trust necessary to become self-aware
(36:02) - Learning to listen to those inner voices
(41:09) - Being grateful for who you are
(47:06) - Embrace what support and love there is
(54:34) - Remove the circumstance from the love
(01:03:03) - How to find David Alan Brown on the internet
(01:05:40) - Show closing
(01:08:18) - Closing credits

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Finding the Flaw in Our Narrative - with Arnold Beekes

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 01 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's show features Arnold Beekes and his story of overcoming the narratives that hold us back. Arnold is an author, speaker, and Brain Fitness Trainer whose masterclasses help you uncondition your brain. Arnold and I ponder topics as diverse as why it can be damaging to do as you're asked, why sporadic positive reinforcement may not overcome chronic negative reinforcement, and how technology can stifle critical thought.

REFERENCES:
Arnold Beekes’s Website: https://braingym.fitness/

Follow Arnold on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/arnold.beekes

Follow Arnold on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrainGymFitness

Follow Arnold on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arnold.beekes/

Follow Arnold on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@podcastercoach

Follow Arnold on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arnoldbeekes/
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Roy Baumeister: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roy_Baumeister

Losada Line: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_positivity_ratio

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:35) - Introducting Arnold Beekes
(02:28) - Doing exactly what you're told to do
(05:54) - The narrative vs the reality
(13:08) - Mitigating our loosh - negative energy
(18:05) - Critical positivity ratio: overcoming our patterns
(20:44) - Why is the world so unhappy?
(26:12) - Breaking out of the duality
(39:10) - Dealing with our flawed narratives
(43:36) - Technology as a menace to humanity
(49:43) - What we lack is critical thought
(52:07) - Brain Fitness: our complete cognitive faculty
(59:51) - How to find Arnold Beekes on the internet
(01:03:03) - Show closing
(01:04:20) - Closing credits

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Drop Your Mask and Show Up - with Gretchen Schoser

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 18 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode follows Gretchen Schoser's chilling story of despair and rebirth. Gretchen is a suicide attempt survivor, award-winning podcaster, and tech-savvy entrepreneur whose work focuses on healing the mental health Western society wears down. Gretchen and I muse over topics as far afield as the importance of community, how friends love friends no matter what, and why baby raccoons are the balm for all maladies.

REFERENCES:
Gretchen Schoser’s website: https://www.schosersolutions.com/

Sh!t That Goes on in Our Heads Podcast: https://goesoninourheads.net/

Follow Gretchen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/schoser_tw_solutions

Follow Gretchen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/schoser-talent-and-wellness-llc/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Gretchen Schoser
(02:31) - Unlocking other people's prisons with our story
(08:05) - Healing through truly listening
(12:39) - Further negative self-talk for being Queer
(18:57) - Bringing your authentic self to work
(22:19) - Be safe, but show up for yourself!
(28:50) - You are NOT doing this for your child's sake
(34:36) - Love me for who I am or you don't love me at all
(39:13) - Pride as being that listening ear
(42:06) - Maintaining our own sanity while helping others
(47:09) - Healing work through authenticity
(50:51) - How to find Gretchen Schoser on the internet
(54:48) - Balloons and raccoons
(58:31) - Show closing
(59:46) - Closing credits

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Exploring Life with Open Curiosity - with Tigrilla Gardenia

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 11 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today I welcome Tigrilla Gardenia's plant wisdom to the show. Tigrilla is a Nature-Inspired Mentor, Certified Life Coach, and World Ambassador for Plant Advocacy. We consider topics as conceptually diverse as humanity's integration into Earth's story, Eco-feminism as our new word for how humans used to live, and whether Tiggers are made out of rubber or springs.

REFERENCES:
Tigrilla Gardenia’s Website: https://tigrillagardenia.com/

Follow Tigrilla on Facebook: https://facebook.com/tigrillagardenia

Follow Tigrilla on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tigrillagardenia

Follow Tigrilla on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tigrillagardenia

Follow Tigrilla on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tigrillagardenia

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:34) - Introducing Tigrilla Gardenia
(05:57) - Following the music of plants
(10:47) - Stepping back into open curiosity
(16:32) - Eco-feminism as a safe support system
(21:33) - Unlearning the tools that no longer serve
(27:42) - We must flow, not balance
(37:28) - Frame of reference is everything
(42:15) - The tapestry woven from threads of our minds
(45:17) - Scoring the music of the Universe
(50:44) - How to find Tigrilla Gardenia on the internet
(54:51) - Setting our sensory threshold higher
(01:01:00) - Show closing
(01:04:18) - Closing credits

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Revealing the Masterpiece Within with Bobbi Barrington

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 04 Jul 2025 09:00:00 -0600

This week's episode features Bobbi Barrington's ability to reframe the stories she told herself all her life. Bobbi is a keynote speaker, coach, and transgender woman who helps others reveal their own stories and how they can change them for a better life. Bobbi and I discuss topics as far afield as the power each of us has to tell our own story, how authenticity unlocks deep emotional regulation, and the beauty of getting chatted up in a bar.

REFERENCES:
Bobbi Barringtons’s Website: https://www.bobbibarrington.com/

Follow Bobbi on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bobbigirl1/

Follow Bobbi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bobbibarrington/

Follow Bobbi on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbibarrington/

Follow Bobbi on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BobbiBarrington

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Bobbi Barrington
(02:29) - Reframing the stories we tell ourselves
(06:40) - Unlocking what is already there
(13:05) - Buying into other peoples' fears
(16:36) - Fearing a fall to find we fly
(22:33) - Knowing the extraordinary within
(25:31) - Don't give your power to other people
(30:28) - Authenticity is the mindset of personal power
(37:37) - Recognizing our power brings emotional regulation
(40:41) - An emotion unexpressed stays in our bodies
(47:12) - So much more to come
(51:16) - How to find Bobbi Barrington on the internet
(54:25) - The ultimate transgender experience
(59:23) - Show closing
(01:01:32) - Closing credits

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Magic in Diversity - with Storm Faerywolf

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 27 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features the life and magic of Storm Faerywolf. Storm is an author, educator, warlock, and Co-Founder of Modern Witch University. In our discussion, Storm and I take on topics as far afield as the base nature of gender roles, each of our lasting legacies, and our favorite Monty Python movies.

REFERENCES;
Storm Faerywolf’s Website: https://faerywolf.com/

Follow Storm on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/faerywolf/

Follow Storm on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/faerywolf/

Follow Storm on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@faerywolf

Follow Storm on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/faerywolf.bsky.social

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Instroducing Storm Faerywolf
(02:44) - Preinstalled with Magical OS
(07:15) - A sense of wonder keeps magicians young
(10:17) - Hate can happen anywhere
(13:41) - Queer was always a major component of magic
(19:39) - Gender roles are beneath humanity
(24:55) - Sexes are not opposite, they're complementary
(30:33) - Creating our own Queer Craft
(37:45) - And now for something completely different...
(40:27) - Be proud you made it this far!
(45:38) - You never know whom you touch
(52:37) - Storm Faerywolf's Pride
(57:14) - The Blue God of Faery Tradition
(59:23) - How to find Storm Faerywolf on the internet
(01:02:29) - Show closing
(01:04:01) - Closing credits

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Just Trying to Live with LouLou

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 20 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features the incredible Louise, or LouLou, and what life as a T Elder means. LouLou is just a lass trying to live her life, a transgender advocate, and hostess of 'The T Elders' podcast. We get pretty dang philosophical about topics as diverse as preventing gatekeeping within the transgender community, how gender never stops evolving, and Dickens's lesser-known novel, "Nancy Twist."

REFERENCES:
Louise’s Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Itsloulou43

Follow Louise on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/itsloulou43.bsky.social

Follow Louise on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@itsloulou43

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Louise
(02:24) - Of course we've always existed!
(06:16) - We need to remember the important stories
(12:21) - Stick together to avoid gatekeeping in any form
(19:54) - Transgender is who you are
(26:57) - An innate understanding of our identity
(30:23) - Gender is a moving target for life
(35:33) - Gender, culture, and romance
(40:52) - Improving media representation
(47:06) - Legislating the transgender communiity
(51:23) - A new day dawns on identity
(53:59) - Reflecting LouLou's Pride
(56:32) - How to find LouLou43 on the internet
(59:33) - Show closing
(01:00:53) - Closing credits

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The Reality of Being Human with Maevius Lynn

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 13 Jun 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode is a special Pride Month offering featuring Queer Thelemite Maevius Lynn. Lynn is an esoteric author, content creator, and advocate of the new religious movement, Thelema. We discuss topics as far afield as Aleister Crowley, how Thelema soothes religious trauma, and why screwing your neighbor isn't the same as Sex Magick.

REFERENCES:
Maevius Lynn’s Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/maeviuslynn

Follow Lynn on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MaeviusLynn

Follow Lynn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maeviuslynn/

Follow Lynn on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/maeviuslynn.bsky.social

Follow Lynn on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@maeviuslynn
Forgotten Templars book: https://richard-kaczynski.com/index.php/home/books/forgotten-templars-2/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Maevius Lynn
(02:51) - Finding magick through Queer nuns
(07:40) - The path to Thelema
(13:41) - Thelema as a new religious and mystical movement
(20:17) - Addressing the Aleister in the room
(26:40) - Queer People are divine in our humanity
(31:41) - Don't turn the other cheek
(33:26) - The Holy Guardian Angel
(36:59) - Symbols in the Golden Dawn tradition
(40:12) - Religious trauma and Thelema
(44:11) - The symbols of our time
(49:40) - Untangling the burdens of birth
(55:40) - Lynn's Reflection of Pride
(59:02) - How to find Maevius Lynn on the internet
(01:02:29) - Show closing
(01:03:08) - Closing credits

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Finding Peace in Not Knowing with Paul Cram

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 23 May 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features some funny (and poignant) stories from Paul Cram. Paul is an actor, book lover, and multimedia designer who catalogs and celebrates Queer experiences everywhere. Paul and I consider topics as far afield as growing up knowing we don't matter, how acting can be identity therapy, and how we should discover who our children are, not dictate who they are.

REFERENCES:
Paul Cram’s Website: https://iampaulcram.com

Follow Paul on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iampaulcram

Follow Paul on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@iampaulcram

Follow Paul on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iampaulcram/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Paul Cram
(05:00) - My story did not matter
(10:36) - How dare you...?
(15:27) - Accepting we can't understand the Bible
(18:47) - Peace in not knowing everything
(24:50) - In the name of love...
(28:18) - When we discovered who we are
(31:40) - Acting can be therapy...
(37:20) - ...but acting should not be therapy
(40:01) - Femininity and masculinity in romance
(46:41) - Toxic social scripts
(52:38) - Feeling good by smelling good
(58:12) - Dissonance in fragrance can be sexy
(01:04:38) - How to find Paul Cram on the internet
(01:06:58) - Paul is hilarious - for real
(01:08:58) - Show closing
(01:09:52) - Closing credits

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Strength is about Being Seen with Koby Falks

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 09 May 2025 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we hear Koby Falks's story of finding authenticity and strength by challenging toxic masculine stereotypes. Koby is an adult content creator, entrepreneur and advocate for authenticity in the adult content industry. Koby and I muse over topics as diverse as when masculinity turns toxic, how negating sex negates ourselves, and what it means to be a good bottom.

REFERENCES:
Koby Falks Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KobyFalks

Follow Koby on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChRpGMrLi-pnJFZCdP3e1Tg

Follow Koby on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kobyfalksofficial

Follow Koby on Facebook: https://facebook.com/kobyfalksdaddy

Follow Koby on Instagram: https://instagram.com/kobyfalks

Follow Koby on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@kobyfalks

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Koby Falks
(02:43) - The pandemic brings new opportunities
(07:07) - Instead of external, look at the internal
(12:13) - Dismissing what we don't understand
(18:13) - Masculinity isn't bottling up, it's showing up
(21:54) - Avoiding the masculine to feel more comfortable
(26:47) - Rigidity breeds toxicity
(32:35) - Being seen helps others be seen
(36:05) - Bisexual stigmatized in the Queer community
(41:21) - Challenging our own processes
(43:58) - Dominant is not always masculine
(45:54) - Controlling sex means controlling identity
(50:19) - Power in the feminine
(56:25) - Turns out we know about sex
(58:21) - How to find Koby Falks on the internet
(59:58) - Show closing
(01:00:55) - Closing credits

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Clearing Triggers Through Forgiveness with Katharine Giovanni

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 25 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0600

Today we hear a story of pain and forgiveness from Katharine Giovanni. Katharine is a three-time award-winning, best-selling author; speaker; and forgiveness and transformation coach whose system of forgiveness empowers others to clear their own energy, even if others do not. Katharine and I talk about topics as diverse as the missed opportunities from holding on to anger, how even entrenched hate and discrimination can be overcome personally, and why forgiveness might reward you with a long trip to the bathroom.

REFERENCES:
Katharine Giovanni’s website: https://katharinegiovanni.com/

Follow Katharine on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katharine.giovanni

Follow Katharine on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katharinegiovanni/

Follow Katharine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katharinegiovanni

Follow Katharine on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0PPtlSUPldGNl9mIRRtAmA/
Masaru Emoto and his Water Experiments: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masaru_Emoto
Native American Energy Health Practices: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2913884/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Katharine Giovanni
(02:19) - Everybody has a flashpoint
(04:49) - Accidentally discovering forgiveness as a practice
(07:48) - Forgiveness affects the bottom line
(10:05) - Missed opportunities from holding on to anger
(14:35) - Not forgotten, but perceived differently
(16:53) - The science and effects of forgiveness
(20:50) - Clearing the connections to the Universe
(27:14) - What is the connection to the Universe?
(36:07) - Finding forgiveness for yourself
(38:51) - Some cautions on clearing this energy
(42:54) - Forgiving the entrenched systems
(46:25) - But what if your anger is useful...?
(50:00) - Giving back the hate doesn't help
(53:39) - How to find Katharine Giovanni on the internet
(57:23) - Show closing
(58:22) - Closing credits

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Embracing Your Full Humanity with Pepper Kat

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 11 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0600

This week, I chat with Pepper Kat about Western society's difficulty in embracing physicality and sexuality. Pepper is an adult entertainer and podcaster who founded Design Your Dreamgirl to provide a space for all people to explore their desires with no judgment. Pepper and I discuss the spectrum of sexual fantasy, how shaming intimacy is the worst form of control, and why Sigmund Freud should probably be retired.

REFERENCES:
Pepper Kat’s website: https://www.pepperkat.com/

Spicy Spectrum Podcast: https://www.pepperkat.com/heartfelt-perspectives

Follow Pepper on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_pepper_kat_

Follow Pepper on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/pepperkat.bsky.social

Follow Pepper on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peppertheblackkat/

Follow Pepper on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091550276924
Follow Pepper on X: https://x.com/BlackKatPepper

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Pepper Kat
(02:06) - From news producer to Design Your Dream Girl
(04:04) - Acknowledging desires reduces assault
(09:12) - Historical biases drive current views on sex
(13:48) - The spectrum of desire
(18:23) - Sex work keeps the world sane
(21:53) - Embrace your physicality
(26:59) - Voice as a method of affirmation
(29:16) - Intimacy takes many forms
(32:22) - Being confident neough not to lie to yourself
(36:45) - Why not just change social norms?
(41:29) - And it all comes down to control
(48:02) - Who can call Pepper Kat?
(50:47) - How to find Pepper Kat on the internet
(52:27) - Spicy Spectrum Podcast
(54:04) - Show closing
(55:48) - Closing credits

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Attract Your Tribe by Being You with Leah Spasova

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 04 Apr 2025 09:00:00 -0600

My guest this week is Leah Spasova, a psychologist, sex and relationships expert, and Founder of the website lifesexplicit.com, which provides resources for exploring identity, gender, and sexual wellness. Leah and I muse over topics as far afield as why people have sex, why bro culture needs sex, and how to find Jesus.

REFERENCES:
Lifesexplicit website: https://www.lifesexplicit.com/

Follow Lifesexplicit on Facebook: https://facebook.com/your.lifesexplicit

Follow Lifesexplicit on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifesexplicit_

Follow Lifesexplicit on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahspasova/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Leah Spasova
(02:36) - Becoming the resident sexpert
(08:24) - Two hundred reasons to have sex
(14:06) - The horrific results of marketing with sex
(16:42) - Humans want black and white for reality
(23:18) - Combatting powerlessness with poor behavior
(29:38) - Don't pay public opinion tax
(35:32) - Don't be different from what you are
(39:17) - ...you left
(42:47) - Censorship from both sides
(46:35) - The protectors are the predators
(52:34) - Men's sexuality has no censorship
(56:00) - Battling the censorship around sexual wellness
(01:03:10) - How to find Leah Spasova on the internet
(01:04:45) - Parting thoughts
(01:06:57) - Show closing
(01:07:32) - Closing credits

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Love Your Life in Mind Maps with John Diggs

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 21 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, we hear John Diggs's story of distilling wisdom and personal insight using Mind Maps. John is a Mappineering Mentor, retired NFL and CFL player, and founder of MappineerVille.com, a community for the practice of Mappineering. John and I consider topics as far afield as the purpose of life, making sound decisions, and the importance of embracing who you are deep in your Soul.

REFERENCES:
John Diggs website: https://johndiggs.com

John’s I AM method: https://johndiggs.com/iam/

Follow John on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnDiggsMappineer/

Follow John on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MrJohnDiggs

Follow John on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-diggs-mappineer/

Follow John on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@johndiggable

MindMeister - with discount code DIGGIT: https://www.mindmeister.com/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing John Diggs
(02:15) - The purpose of life is to love it
(10:47) - Adults with minds of a child
(14:22) - Choose your friends wisely
(19:09) - The audacity of One True Perception
(24:05) - Making decisions with Five Ws and One H
(31:02) - The I AM Mind Map
(36:03) - Mental health requires good tools
(39:18) - Embrace what feels natural and right
(43:10) - Finding who you are in your Soul
(47:20) - Making I AM a practice
(49:41) - Tools for Mappineering
(56:50) - Find John Diggs on the internet
(01:00:08) - Show closing
(01:01:31) - Closing credits

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Mermaids, Witches, and Fairies with Mhara Starling

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 07 Mar 2025 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode is Mhara Starling's truly amazing magical journey of gender and self-acceptance. Mhara is a Welsh witch, spiritual leader, and author of the recent book "Welsh Fairies." Mhara and I muse over topics as far afield as natural churches, bigger-than-life mentors, and a Scooby Doo lesson in witchcraft.

REFERENCES:
Support Mhara on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/mharastarling
Follow Mhara on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mharastarling2730

Follow Mhara on TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@mharastarling

Follow Mhara on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MharaStarling

Follow Mhara on Instagram: https://instagram.com/mhara_starling

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Mhara Starling
(02:34) - Growing up transgender: mermaids, witches, and fairies
(10:30) - We know you don't like this, but you should
(13:41) - She has ever been Mhara
(15:49) - A church of trees and headland
(21:25) - Scooby Doo teaches about witchcraft
(24:35) - Mhara's first witch mentor
(28:53) - Meeting the drag queen down the road
(32:00) - Coming out with an explosion
(40:00) - Feeling completely and wholly accepted
(45:09) - Magic does not occur on a binary
(49:03) - A communal view to witchcraft
(55:00) - Find yourself, your land, and your community
(59:10) - Mhara's work for the near future
(01:03:50) - Show closing
(01:05:52) - Closing credits

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Discovering Our Princess of Light through Hypnosis with Deane Benninghoven

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 28 Feb 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features Deane Benninghoven's stories of subconscious symbolism. Deane is a certified hypnotherapist and hypnosis instructor who helps everyday people overcome everyday problems. Deane and I mull over topics as diverse as the value of dissociative states, Jungian archetypes in everyday life, and the lack of value in clucking like a chicken.

REFERENCES:
Summit Hypnosis website: https://www.summithypnosisnw.com/

Follow Deane on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/summithypnosis

Follow Deane on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/summithypnosisnw/

Émile Coué: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89mile_Cou%C3%A9

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Deane Benninghoven
(02:27) - Chronic pain, grief, and self-hypnosis
(08:34) - Working with the subconscious
(15:27) - Becoming the person we needed to heal
(19:53) - Hypnosis as a useful dissociative state
(26:57) - Intentional links into existing values
(33:52) - Empirical evidence of archetypes
(39:05) - Every one of us is the Princess of Light
(46:14) - Are there contraindications for hypnosis?
(49:30) - How can we get started in hypnosis?
(55:22) - How to find Deane Benninghoven on the internet
(57:34) - Hypnosis can save your life
(01:00:50) - Show closing
(01:02:15) - Closing credits

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Escaping Tribal Outrage with David Beckemeyer

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 14 Feb 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features David Beckemeyer discussing tribal identity and the outrage it brings. David is a bridge-builder and host of the "Outrage Overload" podcast. David and I consider topics as far afield as social media detox, street epistemology, and libraries lousy with drag queens.

REFERENCES:
“Outrage Overload” website: https://outrageoverload.net/

Follow Outrage Overload on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OutrageOverload

Follow Outrage Overload on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outrageoverload/

Follow Outrage Overload on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OutrageOverload?sub_confirmation=1

Follow David on Mastodon: https://toad.social/@DavidBeckemeyer

Follow Outrage Overload on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/outrageoverload.bsky.social

Follow David on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidbeckemeyer/

Arnold Toynbee: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arnold_J._Toynbee

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing David Beckemeyer
(02:38) - How Facebook fights inspired a podcast
(08:26) - We love to be outraged, but we don't want to admit it
(12:13) - Blind spots to our side's behavior
(17:46) - A hot-button issue example with Ami!
(22:09) - Street epistemology of vegetables
(27:02) - Needing to change minds
(31:00) - Fear of social death
(36:27) - Enforcing social norms as the origin of outrage
(39:47) - When outrage becomes recreation or profession
(45:16) - And even when you're wrong, it doesn't matter
(47:27) - Ending reliance on outrage with a larger cultural identity
(54:49) - Building your own private echo chamber
(01:04:02) - How to find David Beckemeyer on the internet
(01:06:32) - Show closing
(01:07:18) - Closing credits

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Capturing Our Inner Story with Elizabeth Snyder

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 31 Jan 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features Elizabeth Snyder's honest humor. Liz is an author, women's portraiture artist, and confidence expert whose work focuses (little photography pun there) on encouraging all humans to find their inner beauty and take pride in who they are. Liz and I range over topics as diverse as the government's role in tearing down women's confidence, our fear at accepting who we are, and thumbs lucky for their wealth.

REFERENCES:
Elizabeth Snyder Photography website: https://www.elizabethsnyderphotography.com/

Follow Elizabeth on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/espllc1

Follow Elizabeth on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/esnyderphotog/

Follow Elizabeth on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ESPLLC

Follow Elizabeth on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethsnyderphotographyllc/

Follow Elizabeth on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabeth-snyder-089a14141/

Zoë Anthea Cross's TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZ6rYkOnTMs
Liz's book "Unbroken" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4jyNbK7
True Mirrors: https://www.truemirror.com/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing Elizabeth Snyder
(02:33) - Manifesting identity in all women
(05:09) - Manifesting Liz's own identity
(08:08) - Some photography nerdery
(12:10) - It's not all Photoshop
(15:13) - How the government made women self-conscious
(19:12) - Shame from social norms
(23:24) - Gender is NOT the domain of government
(27:57) - Finding the real person within
(34:52) - Changing the inner dialogue
(39:28) - Fear of accepting ourselves
(43:04) - Even thumbs are able to be anything they want
(47:14) - Men don't need confidence lessons
(51:42) - Is every one of us beautiful?
(53:51) - How to find Elizabeth Snyder on the internet
(56:18) - What is more beautiful than showing who you are?
(01:01:17) - Show closing
(01:02:19) - Closing credits

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Facing Our Heroic Journey with Allison Stieger

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 17 Jan 2025 09:00:00 -0700

In this week's episode, we hear the story of humanity in myth with Allison Stieger. Allison is a mythologist, author, speaker, and storyshaper who founded Mythic Stories Consulting. Allison and I muse over topics as far afield as our path to becoming ancestors, learning compassion through application of archetypes, and the Current of the Universe.

REFERENCES:
“Mythic Stories” website: https://mythicstories.com/

Follow Allison on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allison-stieger/

Follow Allison on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allison.stieger
"Where the Two Came to Their Father:" https://www.artworkarchive.com/profile/berman/exhibition/where-the-two-came-to-their-father

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Allison Stieger
(02:23) - A mythic view of the world
(06:29) - Becoming the next ancestors
(10:06) - Choosing a Heroic Journey
(13:21) - Don't turn into your own dragon!
(16:41) - Constraining wisdom into a tiny box
(19:22) - Changing your story through retelling
(22:50) - Seeing ourselves own the cultural power
(28:16) - Better humanity lies in diversity
(32:32) - Myth is by nature universal wisdom
(35:36) - Compassion as a multiplicity of archetypes
(42:16) - Seeing beyond our horizons
(46:35) - Face your opposite nature
(51:41) - Making our own stories
(56:45) - Integrating both sides of our Self
(01:01:29) - Myth and magic really can work
(01:03:19) - How to find Allison Stieger on the internet
(01:04:38) - Allison's up and coming book
(01:06:57) - Show closing
(01:07:52) - Closing credits

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Healing into Congruent Choice with Katharine Lazaruk

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 03 Jan 2025 09:00:00 -0700

Today's show features Katherine Lazaruk and some hilarious stories! Katherine is a Professional Presence Expert and author of the book “Executive Being: Humanizing Business One Leader at a Time.” Katherine and I muse over topics as far afield as preparing our environment for us to occupy it, the pain of getting out of our box, and not dumping on Judith Butler.

REFERENCES:
LZRK Consulting website: https://lzrkconsulting.com/

Follow Katherine on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherinelazaruk

Follow Katherine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katherinelazaruk

Follow LZRK Consulting on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LazarukConsultingInc

Purchase “Executive Being” from Amazon: https://amzn.to/3ObyXAt

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing Katharine Lazaruk
(02:36) - We don't need to die to be free
(08:17) - Surface....but never superficial
(09:53) - Character, Congruence, and Choice
(14:15) - Preparing the table so authenticity works
(17:30) - What is authenticity when so much of success is perception?
(20:47) - Changes to the environment
(23:09) - Did human nature change?
(27:04) - The path is not the path
(29:34) - Building the new social structures
(33:59) - It hurts to get out of the box
(38:02) - Good times with Generation X
(39:22) - Whole person, whole presence
(43:50) - Pathological introspection
(47:11) - Getting better at climbing out of holes
(50:10) - We don't heal all at once
(53:28) - Avoiding the holes is a process
(57:07) - How to find Katherine Lazaruk on the internet
(58:52) - Show closing
(01:00:20) - Closing credits

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Unlearning the Tools of Silence with Lindsay Bindman

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 27 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode, a wonderful friend of mine: Lindsay Bindman! Lindsay is an advocate, ally, sailor, and hostess of the "Getting Reflective" podcast, about unlearning the social norms that serve us poorly. Lindsay and I cover topics as diverse as learning to live life to its fullest, society as a tool for silence and punishment, and how you can actually meet nice people on the internet.

REFERENCES:
“Getting Reflective” website: https://www.gettingreflective.com/

Follow Lindsay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindsaybinds/

Listen to “Getting Reflective” on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/getting-reflective-a-podcast-about-unlearning/id1742272629

Listen to “Getting Reflective” on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1cQgMAsCHNBN0kjc73Etes?si=a5fa6880e57a4bdc

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:26) - Introducing Lindsay Bindman
(02:43) - Unlearning unhelpful social roles
(07:49) - Unlearning fear of personal danger
(15:09) - Sailing as a model for unlearning
(17:51) - What is unlearning?
(21:06) - Why is unlearning so difficult?
(26:02) - Tools of silence and punishment
(33:05) - Capitalism as defined vs. implemented
(39:36) - The lightbulb unlearning moment
(47:23) - Activism through providing an example
(50:19) - Necessary tools for unlearning
(53:43) - Lindsay's mission to bring the unlearning
(57:52) - Is experience necessary?
(01:05:11) - How to find Lindsay Bindman on the internet
(01:06:42) - Parting is such sweet sorrow
(01:09:25) - Closing credits

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Breaking Our Personal Narratives with K Anderson

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 20 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features K Anderson's dry wit and charm. K is a podcaster who hosts the "Lost Spaces" podcast, available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. K and I run the gamut of topics from tempering your expectations of community to choosing labels carefully to the importance of checkbox-action inclusivity.

REFERENCES:
“Lost Spaces” website: https://lostspacespodcast.com/

Listen to “Lost Spaces” on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/lost-spaces/id1484938210

Listen to “Lost Spaces” on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2QyzJQIlsUcdpRQ6H6eSV7?si=f590b547274f4b37

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing K Anderson
(03:20) - Why do humans do the things we do?
(06:52) - Breaking the stories we tell of ourselves
(10:10) - Not even making sense to our community
(13:56) - People don't care about belonging
(17:48) - No community is a monolith
(20:42) - We appreciate being able to discriminate
(23:43) - Does queer solidarity exist?
(29:13) - Fragmentation by digitization
(32:57) - Fighting for your label
(38:01) - At what point does identifying become identity?
(43:25) - A purpose for internalized queerphobia
(45:18) - Look, older British gay men - we're all this!
(49:28) - A bunch of letters go to a party...
(53:02) - And back to expectations vs. reality...
(55:44) - Nobody wants to stay static
(01:00:01) - How to find K Anderson on the internet
(01:02:19) - Show closing
(01:04:36) - Closing credits

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Gender-Affirming Self-Care with Matty Hennessey

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 13 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0700

Today's episode features Matty Hennessey and his journey within the gender-expansive community. Matty is the Founder, CEO, and Product Designer for Eversense Toys, a sex toy company targeted directly at making intimacy more comfortable for the gender-expansive community. Matty and I mull over topics as diverse as how children observe gender innocently, the struggle to be seen, and how important it is to take action when you know something is right.

References:

Eversense Toys website: https://eversensetoys.com/

Eversense Toys Indiegogo page: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/eversense-toys#/

Follow Eversense Toys on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eversensetoys

Follow Eversense Toys on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eversensetoys

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Matty Hennessey
(02:12) - The first gender-expansive experience
(09:44) - Gender is straightforward for kids
(16:56) - Gender transition happens to everyone around us
(18:49) - Struggling just to be seen
(25:02) - Do not wait if you know something is right for you
(28:19) - Living in a body that works for you
(32:41) - Alleviating dysphoria during intimacy
(37:29) - Gender-affirming self-care
(39:41) - The first ever gender-expansive sex toy
(43:02) - Gender transition game-changers
(46:22) - The Eversense community project
(52:58) - The future of gender-expansive sex toys
(56:43) - The Eversense Origin Story
(01:00:16) - Show closing
(01:00:40) - Closing credits

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Bridging Wisdom across Traditions with Bob Martin

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 06 Dec 2024 09:00:00 -0700

On the show today, Bob Martin and I talk about Taoism! Bob is a criminal trial lawyer, meditation teacher, and author of the book "I Am The Way," which recasts the I Ching in Christian terminology. Bob and I discuss topics as diverse as the I Ching, the Tao of gender, and Sonny Crockett's "Miami Vice" wardrobe.

REFERENCES:

Bob Martin’s website: https:/awiseandhappylife.com

Follow Bob on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bob-martin-995b30127/

Follow Bob on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/awiseandhappylife

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:34) - Introducing Bob Martin
(02:24) - An identity without ancestors
(06:09) - An unlikely ally
(08:28) - I Ching advice to a Florida lawyer
(12:13) - Starting over as a Taoist
(15:17) - Making a defense attorney
(18:31) - Stopping just before hitting bottom
(21:39) - Divination as a bridge between minds
(27:49) - Intuitive value of divination
(32:03) - Without the poles, current doesn't run
(35:35) - Humanity, evolution, gender, and the Tao
(41:24) - The Book of Changes
(46:55) - Learning to live in cycles
(49:26) - Bridging Taoism and Christianity
(54:28) - The Unknown Life of Jesus Christ
(59:50) - I Am The Way
(01:06:35) - Show closing
(01:07:43) - Closing credits

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Choosing a Life without Misery with Louise Richardson

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 22 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0700

As a special 50th Episode, I speak with Louise Richardson, a transgender woman whose transition in the 1970s demonstrates how - despite many strides made in society - the transgender experience is no better understood. Louise is an author, poet, and playwright whose work can be seen, heard, and read across many media. Louise and I discuss topics as diverse as early transgender community, how gender transition has changed, and how the girl next door always keeps you guessing.

REFERENCES:
Follow Louise on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@snardfluk

Buy Louise's books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00M7RGA8A
Follow Louise on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/snardfluk

Follow Louise on Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/louise-gail-richardson

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Louise Richardson
(02:19) - Experiencing a feminine childhood
(07:00) - Before the Egg Crack Moment
(11:22) - Confidential Magazine: 1970s transgender community
(14:40) - Choosing a life without misery
(18:21) - From reverence to controversy
(22:53) - All transgender people are weird...
(26:47) - ...present company excepted, of course...
(29:59) - Gender transition in 1970s San Francisco
(38:52) - Why in the everloving hell did she go back to Texas?
(43:41) - And sometimes family is not supportive...
(50:58) - Rebirth as actress, poet, and author
(54:02) - Procession: a poem about dimensions
(57:55) - Cheetahs: a poem about mothers
(59:19) - How to find Louise Richardson on the internet
(01:03:43) - Walk with Me, from "Blue Bonnet Road"
(01:04:56) - Sharing of ourselves
(01:07:50) - Closing credits

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Life, Death, and Equilibrium with Kristoffer Hughes

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 15 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0700

This week's episode is with the ever-effervescent Kristoffer Hughes. Kristoffer is an esoteric author, teacher of Death Midwifery, and Chief of the Anglesey Druid Order. Kristoffer and I discuss such diverse topics as growing up gay, The Middle Pillar, and what you should try if you think performing an autopsy looks difficult.

REFERENCES:
Anglesey Druid Order website: https://www.angleseydruidorder.co.uk

View “Marw gyda Kris” on BBC: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0jsv129

Follow Kristoffer on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristoffer.hughes

Follow Anglesey Druid Order on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/angleseydruidorder

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Kristoffer Hughes
(03:03) - Alone, gay, and resilient in sickenly picturesque Wales
(09:58) - Resiliency through relationship with the hidden
(16:12) - The morgue and a philosophy of empathy
(24:15) - Death brings a father and a drag queen together
(31:45) - Being Queer when empathy is important
(35:04) - The importance of tripartite relationships
(40:55) - Equilibrium breaks down difference between genders
(46:15) - Maggie Noggi, The Drag Queen Who Makes a Difference
(56:07) - The Universe is not diametrically opposed
(01:01:07) - Being present at our own death
(01:05:39) - Spiritually Queer
(01:08:08) - How to find Kristoffer on the internet
(01:10:34) - Show closing
(01:12:36) - Closing credits

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The Patterns in Our Biology with Dominika Staniewicz

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 08 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I chat with Dominika Staniewicz about the brain, biochemistry, and the origin of identity. Dominika is a Brain Coach, Elite Neuroencoding Specialist, and Holistic Life Coach who also writes fiction in between all her other activities. Dominika and I talk about topics as far afield as patriarchy, neuroplasticity, and how the color purple doesn't exist (much to my chagrin!).

REFERENCES:

Dominika Staniewicz’s website: https://yourbraincoachd.com/

Follow Dominika on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YourBrainCoachD/

Follow Dominika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourbraincoachd/

Follow Dominika on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dominikastaniewicz/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Dominika Staniewicz
(03:09) - From spiritual to analytical to humble
(08:50) - Rebellion against the patriarchy
(13:01) - SPECT scan theory for Ami's sake alone
(17:48) - Using SPECT to find behavioral patterns
(20:39) - Breaking our entrenched patterns
(24:04) - Neuroplasticity, gender, and genetics
(29:44) - Does the brain cause the thought?
(34:15) - What's the definition of Identity?
(43:07) - Neuroplasticity in adults
(47:42) - Epigenetics as the blueprints for behavior
(53:47) - The origin of a human's values
(57:24) - Losing seven grams at death
(59:31) - Why you get offended
(01:03:06) - How to find Dominika Staniewicz
(01:05:50) - Show closing
(01:06:41) - Closing credits

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You're Not Kinky, You're Cool with Max Carey

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 25 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In today's fascinating episode, Max Carey discusses the world of kink. Max is a producer and director who created the documentary "tOuch Kink," about the BDSM community and the value it brings to humanity. Max and I talk about topics as diverse as the philosophy of pain, the wave theory of kink, and how it's always the quiet ones...

REFERENCES:

Official tOuch Kink website: https://touchkink.com
View tOuch Kink on Kinema: https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek

Follow Max on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddmaxcarey/

Follow Max on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seven_journeys/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Max Carey
(03:53) - Thou shalt not be weird
(07:16) - The hypocrisy of kink haters
(11:23) - Kinky people are more empathic
(15:16) - It's not the action, it's how it's done
(20:16) - Wave theory of kink
(24:47) - Sometimes empathy doesn't serve well
(27:51) - The most important word in kink is "no"
(31:50) - The best dominatrixes
(35:16) - It's not the pain, it's what it makes you feel
(41:01) - Submission and masochism
(44:41) - Ditching labels - define yourself!
(49:31) - Good old-fashioned ignorance
(54:46) - Kink is the future
(57:36) - The Hero's Journey in "tOuch Kink"
(01:03:35) - Finding Max Carey on the internet
(01:06:01) - Show closing
(01:07:34) - Closing credits

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Finding Ourselves in Sexual Fantasy with Artemisia de Vine

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 18 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Artemisia de Vine's theory of sexual fantasy. Artemisia is a sexual fantasy expert, sexologist and author who uses fantasy not as a source of shame and guilt, but as the key to unlocking our deepest motivations and desires. Artemisia and I discuss prevailing theories of sexual fantasy, the three paradoxes we seek to rectify through sex, and the origin of airborne penetration of pastry products.

REFERENCES:

deVining the Erotic (free) Substack: https://substack.com/@artemisiadevine

Artemisia de Vine’s website: https://www.artemisiadevine.com/

Follow Artemisia on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/artemisia-de-vine-780847184/

Follow Artemisia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/artemisiadevine/

Follow Artemisia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ArtemisiadeVine

Free mini course! The Celeb Swoon Technique: Uncover your own unique erotic narrative with this simple exercise:
https://MyFantasyIs.com (also found at https://www.artemisiadevine.com/CelebSwoon).

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Artemisia de Vine
(02:51) - Sex is in everything we do
(06:55) - Theories of sexual fantasy
(10:29) - A human-centered theory of sexual fantasy
(13:57) - The first paradox in sex
(19:14) - The second paradox in sex
(22:32) - The third paradox in sex
(26:35) - Resolving the paradoxes
(30:28) - Changing state of consciousness
(35:33) - Improving your life by understanding your fantasies
(40:43) - Why do we feel shame at fulfilling our fantasies?
(44:52) - The spirituality of smut
(48:42) - Fantasies are not necessarily about trauma
(52:41) - How to find Artemisia de Vine on the internet
(55:46) - Show closing
(58:02) - Closing credits

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Building Community through Diversity with Ailsa Blair

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 11 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600

On today's episode, I speak with Ailsa Blair about the drag community. Ailsa is a neurodiverse, nonbinary product designer and research leader who founded Drag Me, a company whose mobile app empowers drag artists to connect with their fans. Ailsa and I talk about topics as far afield as Tech Bros treating employees as tools, features of the Drag Me app, and invoking Rule 34 and Godwin's Law at the same time.

REFERENCES:

Ailsa Blair’s website: https://www.ailsamblair.com/

Follow Ailsa on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ailsamblair/

Follow Ailsa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whoaitsailsa

Drag Me website: https://www.dragme.io/

Follow Drag Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dragme.io

Follow Drag Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dragme.io

Follow Drag Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dragme.io

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Ailsa Blair
(02:46) - Transforming isolation into community
(07:18) - Using empathy to make the world better
(17:17) - Nameless faceless tools make lesser products
(24:29) - Invoking Rule 34 on identity legislation
(27:28) - The evolution of drag
(34:49) - Helping drag entrepreneurs
(40:00) - Bucking the gender hate
(43:37) - The Drag Me community thus far...
(46:37) - Coming soon to Drag Me
(48:52) - How the drag scene became mainstream
(55:22) - How to find Ailsa Blair and Drag Me on the internet
(58:22) - Show closing
(01:00:06) - Closing credits

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Claiming Our Identity through History with Neil Laird

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 04 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, I talk history with Neil Laird. Neil is an Emmy and BAFTA-nominated TV producer, novelist, and ancient history geek whose fiction retells gay stories across early human civilizations. We discuss such diverse topics as The Tomb of the Brothers, the Myth of Stonewall, and Toxic Avenger 3 or 4 - whichever was worse.

REFERENCES:
Neil Laird’s website: https://www.neillaird.com/
Follow Neil on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neillaird/
Follow Neil on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557422344116
Follow Neil on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gay_history

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Neil Laird
(03:12) - An early love of film and air conditioning
(06:38) - What does Western isolationism miss in human history?
(11:25) - Travel with a sense of humility
(15:04) - Promoting gay history in fiction
(17:52) - The Tomb of the Brothers
(22:06) - Humanity has always been queer
(25:17) - Prehistoric doesn't mean unknown
(29:29) - Interior decorators at Stonehenge
(33:50) - Christian suppression of history
(36:20) - Modern queer myths
(40:56) - Knowing the history claims the identity
(45:57) - The Other is magical
(48:35) - Making gay love in ancient Rome real today
(53:51) - The Mythology of the Stonewall Riots
(55:21) - How to find Neil Laird on the internet
(56:25) - Show closing
(56:54) - Closing credits

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Choosing to Quit for Life with Duncan Bhaskaran-Brown

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 27 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today we hear an inspirational story from Duncan Bhaskaran-Brown. Duncan is a speaker, author, sober coach, and Morris dancer whose work challenges the stranglehold alcohol maintains over Western life. Duncan and I cover topics as diverse as alcohol addiction, how drinking affects the rich more than the poor, and The Agrarian Reforms of the 16th Century.

REFERENCES:
Duncan Bhaskaran Brown’s website: https://www.bhaskaranbrown.com/

Follow Duncan on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/duncan.brown.5648/

Follow Duncan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soberwarriorcoach/

Follow Duncan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/duncanbhaskaranbrown/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Duncan Bhaskaran Brown
(02:48) - Good childhood, still unemployable...
(06:18) - Learning to be there for your family
(11:32) - From addictive personality to cognitive realignment
(14:52) - Everybody needs a coach
(20:07) - Addiction as a form of self-punishment
(23:10) - The unexpected demographics of drinking
(28:19) - The road to hell is paved with moderation
(32:40) - Can you be "cured?"
(38:18) - Quit first or change your mindset first?
(41:47) - Building the discipline of mindset
(45:49) - Replacing addiction with addiction
(48:38) - The joy of Morris Dancing
(53:22) - A quick Morris history lesson
(57:23) - The Agrarian Reforms of the 16th Century
(59:41) - A bit of thanks...
(01:01:07) - How to find Duncan Bhaskaran Brown
(01:02:39) - Show closing
(01:03:24) - Closing credits

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Strength in Our Weakness with Eric Gee

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 20 Sep 2024 21:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features a story of what can go right when you don't like school. Eric Gee is an author, a writing and life coach, and founder of the Youtopia Project, which helps people discover their personality and work with the strengths and weaknesses within. Eric and I mull over topics as far-flung as holistic personality theory, how we disagree with our negative traits, and the beauty of Abyssinian pottery.

REFERENCES:
Eric Gee’s website: https://www.projectyoutopia.com/
Youtopia Assessment: https://youtopiaproject.com/youtopia-16-assessment-2/
Follow Eric on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-gee-3565a79/
Follow Eric on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_power_of_personality/
Follow Eric on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eric.c.gee/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Eric Gee
(02:24) - When boring school subjects make great careers
(06:52) - Holistic theory vs independent variables
(09:39) - The four packs
(15:15) - Behavior vs core life values
(20:21) - The sixteen animal personalities
(23:49) - Nobody agrees with negative traits
(29:45) - Totally a chimpanzee...
(34:53) - How do we use our animal personality?
(39:25) - Demographics and animal personality
(45:51) - The strengths that play off our weaknesses
(49:42) - Find Eric Gee and Youtopia
(51:42) - Generation X reminisces...
(55:21) - Show closing
(56:20) - Closing credits

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The Adult You’re Looking for Is You with Kyleigh Weathers

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 13 Sep 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today we hear a heartbreaking story of disconnection with Kyleigh Weathers. Kyleigh is an attachment coach, podcaster, and the founder of Queerly Attached, through which she helps others overcome feeling outside the family to become secure in themselves. We speak about topics as diverse as how being raised Mormon demands so much, feeling and dealing with attachment wounds, and a prescient poem.

REFERENCES:
Kyleigh Weathers’s Queerly Attached website: https://queerlyattached.net/

Follow Kyleigh on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/QueerlyAttached/

Follow Kyleigh on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queerlyattached

Follow Kyleigh on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queerlyattached

Michael Singer "The Untethered Soul": https://untetheredsoul.com/untethered-soul

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:31) - Introducing Kyleigh Weathers
(03:22) - Creating a queer life
(10:31) - When you aren't part of the family
(15:58) - Creating her own family
(20:19) - Becoming reconnected in mind, body, and spirit
(25:19) - Feeling and dealing with emotions opens us to opportunity
(30:07) - Sit down, Kyleigh: an introduction to attachment theory
(35:43) - Models of insecure attachment
(40:12) - Reuniting with our abandoned self
(47:02) - Behaving as our higher self would
(53:21) - Breaking the cycle of insecure attachment
(56:20) - Intentions of Mormonism
(01:02:00) - Life is still stressful...just less so
(01:05:18) - A Permanent Address
(01:06:41) - How to find Kyleigh Weathers
(01:08:29) - Closing credits

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Transforming Weakness into Strength with Jhenah Telyndru

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 30 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features the eminently magical Jhenah Telyndru! Jhenah is an author, Celticist, and Priestess who founded the Sisterhood of Avalon. In this illuminating discussion, Jhenah and I consider the role of culture in gender, promote spiritual service to all, and have a good chuckle over ancient Welsh poetry slams.

REFERENCES:

Jhenah Telyndru’s website: https://ynysafallon.com/

Sisterhood of Avalon website: https://sisterhoodofavalon.org/

Follow Jhenah on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ynysafallon/

Follow Jhenah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ynysafallon/

Find Jhenah on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JhenahTelyndru

Keep up with Jhenah on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/YnysAfallon

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing Jhenah Telyndru
(03:01) - The birth of a Goddess worshiper
(04:27) - Does the body drive gender and magic?
(07:53) - Gender and culture
(12:38) - Conscious self-determination
(15:42) - The balance of power between genders
(26:08) - Spiritual service to the Universe
(34:38) - The Sisterhood of Avalon
(39:27) - The relationship between light and shadow
(43:26) - Is our existence pathological?
(47:43) - Our worst weakness can become our greatest strength
(53:55) - The three levels of the Avalonian Tradition
(01:02:01) - Geeking out on jewelry
(01:06:34) - How to find Jhenah Telyndru
(01:08:19) - Show closing
(01:09:58) - Closing credits

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How to Be Human with Louise Boye

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Mon, 26 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600

On today's show, I speak with the wonderfully introspective Louise Boye. Louise is a Qi Gong instructor and musician who also facilitates groups in learning Nonviolent Communication. We cover topics that span from honoring our bodies and emotions, recovering from isolation, and how Hamlet really fits into daily conversation.

REFERENCES:

Louise Boye's Qi Gong website: https://www.facebook.com/QiGongLouiseBoye/
Empati Venner / Empathy Buddies Discord server: https://discord.gg/cvxgkrCyXE
Follow Louise on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@zhcoop

Follow Louise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qigonglouiseboye/
Support Louise on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/zhcoop480/post

Find Louise on SoundCloud:
https://soundcloud.com/zhcoop
https://soundcloud.com/1n5ec7
https://soundcloud.com/bredsmag

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Louise Boye
(02:32) - Beginning to consider how to be human
(08:44) - Nonviolent communication is critical for healing
(14:56) - Communication requires connection
(21:24) - Learning who we are never ends
(26:28) - The cyclicity of life
(31:13) - Western society is too disconnected from Nature
(34:07) - Fear of death is fear of living
(37:53) - It can't always be Summer
(40:48) - Human life as a wheel
(48:15) - Modern life is making us sick
(52:43) - Some parts of life serve only as compost
(55:11) - Nature will supply what we need
(01:02:06) - Show closing
(01:02:38) - Closing credits

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Information Is Not Transformation with Gao Motsemme

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 16 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features a fascinating discussion of psychic energy with Gao Motsemme. An African Quantum Witchdoctor and Psychic Surgeon, Gao's work teaches us how to tune into our natural energetic fields to build a better life. Gao and I discuss topics as diverse as the power inherited through our names, the unsinkable honesty of our soul, and the social philosophy of Depeche Mode.

REFERENCES:

Gao Motsemme’s website: https://www.gaomotsemme.com/
Follow Gao on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gaoconfidence.motsemme
Follow Gao on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@gaomotsemme4856
Follow Gao on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gaomotsemme/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:26) - Introducing Gao Motsemme
(02:29) - A greeting and invitation to experience
(05:42) - Fighting to be who we are
(09:28) - What if you were meant to be the first to solve the problem?
(11:38) - What we inherit through our names
(16:51) - Changing our name can cast off past energy sinks
(29:23) - Heaping shame on a celebration
(36:51) - Soul connections
(39:47) - Being fully in the body
(46:38) - Self-hatred disconnects us from Source
(51:03) - Releasing guilt improves the Universe
(59:45) - The world according to Depeche Mode
(01:08:15) - How to find Gao Motsemme
(01:09:45) - Show closing
(01:10:45) - Closing credits

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The Liminal Spaces of Humanity with Dr. Redfern Jon Barrett

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 12 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, I have a delightful chat with Dr. Redfern Jon Barrett. Redfern is a writer, journalist, and activist who recently published "Proud Pink Sky," an alternate history of Nazi Germany and the establishment of the first gay state. Redfern and I discuss topics as diverse as being flexible with labels, the history of homosexual relationships, and the best Pokemon there is.

REFERENCES:

Redfern Jon Barrett’s website: https://www.redjon.com/

Follow Redfern on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/redfernjon.bsky.social

Follow Redfern on Mastodon: https://mastodon.social/@redfern@wandering.shop

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Redfern Jon Barrett
(02:26) - All the pieces of the puzzle without being assembled
(06:53) - Owning a name to own an identity
(10:58) - The power of being flexible with labels
(18:00) - The liminal spaces of identity
(24:11) - What happened to change our perception of relationships?
(28:12) - Identity shouldn't be a straightjacket
(36:04) - How much Redfern is in their books?
(39:10) - Queer culture is not Utopia
(45:53) - Making Queer culture even less normal
(49:55) - The LGBTQ Civil War
(53:08) - What is a Proud Pink Sky?
(01:00:03) - Finding Redfern Jon Barrett
(01:04:50) - Show closing
(01:05:29) - Closing credits

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Speak Truth to Power with Catherine Stagg-Macey

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 05 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features the amazing Catherine Stagg-Macey. Catherine is an Executive Coach, hostess of the podcast Unsaid @ Work, and finder of lost mojo. We discuss topics critical to improving the workplace today, including living our own dreams, being safely authentic, and wearing a purple Speedo to work.

REFERENCES:

Catherine Stagg-Macey’s website: https://www.conversationsattheedge.co.uk/

Unsaid @ Work podcast: https://www.podpage.com/unsaid-at-work/

Follow Catherine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/staggmacey/?hl=en

Follow Catherine on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/staggmacey/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:30) - Introducing Catherine Stagg-Macey
(02:48) - Is it possible to be fulfilled with work?
(06:30) - Examining our lives gives them meaning
(09:43) - Living someone else's dream
(13:19) - The fish rots from the head down
(17:45) - Fitting the purpose of the organization
(20:48) - Speaking truth to power
(26:41) - Authenticity must have a positive influence
(31:35) - Authentic in which social environment?
(35:58) - Be authentic only where it's safe
(40:14) - Women in technology
(49:19) - Do women make better leaders?
(56:37) - Let's not entertain fragile egos
(01:00:18) - Finding Catherine Stagg-Macey
(01:01:29) - Show closing
(01:03:30) - Closing credits

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Sex and Gender in Magic with Josephine McCarthy

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Tue, 02 Jul 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, I have an enchanting conversation with Josephine McCarthy. Josephine is an esoteric author and the Director of Quareia, a free, online, magical training course (that I highly recommend!). We cover topics as diverse as goddesses beautiful and terrible, how physical changes affect our magical connection, and dangerous cows.

REFERENCES:

Josephine McCarthys’s website: https://josephinemccarthy.com/

Quareia’s website: https://www.quareia.com/

Quareia Publishing website: https://www.quareiapublishing.com/

Follow Quareia on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/quareia

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:28) - Introducing Josephine McCarthy
(03:40) - What is magic?
(07:56) - Stable magical systems
(16:11) - Are we so ignorant of Nature around us?
(23:26) - A wide scale of gender is normal
(31:11) - The power to bring both life and death
(40:08) - The ability to feel both sides
(44:51) - Magic can change with physical changes
(54:03) - Protective magic comes with femininity
(01:01:15) - Big magical hits can be devastating
(01:06:41) - Ladyboys and mangirls
(01:11:57) - Show closing
(01:13:48) - Closing credits

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Trauma is a Gift for Growth with Sara Webb

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Tue, 25 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, I speak with Sara Webb, a Resilience Coach who specializes in breakup and meditation therapy. Sara and I talk about topics as off-the-wall as how trauma can be seen as valuable to growth, Western medicine's focus on symptoms instead of health, and the billions of bits of data that hit you every second.

REFERENCES:
Sara Webb’s website: https://www.sarawebbsays.com/

Follow Sara on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarawebbsays/

Follow Sara on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaraWebbSays

Follow Sara on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/SaraWebbSays/
"Breath" by James Nestor: https://www.amazon.com/Breath-New-Science-Lost-Art/dp/0735213615
The Buteyko mthod: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buteyko_method
"Autobiography of a Yogi" by Paramahamsa Yogananda: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autobiography_of_a_Yogi

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Sara Webb
(02:27) - Trauma is a gift
(06:41) - The value of denial, distraction, and dissociation
(11:05) - Heartbreak is not genderered
(15:46) - Billions of bits of data
(21:07) - A mental fast from billions of bits of data
(24:06) - The role of breath in therapy
(31:16) - Be wary of a Master with One True Way
(33:23) - We only have normal people here
(37:13) - Attachment traits, not attachment states
(41:05) - Becoming aware of our body
(46:51) - Journaling as therapy
(52:58) - Challenging your body to do the uncomfortable
(57:17) - It can't always be Summer
(01:01:51) - How to find Sara Webb
(01:03:57) - Show closing
(01:04:25) - Closing credits

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Find Your Life's Meaning in Uncomfortable Experiences with Andrea Leigh

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 14 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, I speak with Andrea Leigh about saying "yes" to experiences. Andrea is a high-impact coach, fashionista, and Co-Host on Thriving Women Network TV. Topics include finding comfort in discomfort, living life to the fullest, and parents who accept gender transition as long as football isn't impacted.

REFERENCES:

Andrea Leigh’s website: https://www.andrealeigh.com/

Follow Andrea on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-leigh-borth-b72159b/

Follow Andrea on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealandrealeigh/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Andrea Leigh
(02:16) - Love and purpose shape a childhood
(09:06) - Parents can accept their transgender daughter!
(12:38) - Saying yes to experiences
(17:08) - Finding comfort in discomfort
(20:11) - Conquering the fashion industry
(25:58) - Authenticity and success
(30:42) - Putting yourself into uncomfortable places in order to grow
(34:31) - Our adversity is our own perception
(39:08) - Is there room for femininity in corporate America?
(49:41) - There is no normal
(54:37) - What truly divides us as a society
(59:10) - How to find Andrea Leigh
(01:00:04) - You are not a constituency
(01:04:39) - Show closing
(01:05:04) - Closing credits

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07 June 2024 - Kink Will Bring Us Together

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 07 Jun 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Jake Didinsky, a pansexual, nonbinary DJ and Producer. Jake is also co-founder of the inclusive night club event "Lights Out, Barks Out." In our discussion, we cover topics as far afield as the power of inclusivity, helping cis / het people understand the queer experience, and the Right Old White Guy.

REFERENCES:
Jake Didinsky’s website: https://jakemaxwellproductions.com/

Follow Jake on MixCloud: https://www.mixcloud.com/live/jakeMaxwell/

Follow Jake on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LightsOutBarksOut

Follow Jake on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightsoutbarksoutdc/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:25) - Introducing Jake Didinsky
(02:30) - A quick biology lesson about mitochondria
(07:44) - Adversity as an instruction manual
(15:25) - Inclusivity is giving people the benefit of human decency
(20:05) - Kink can bring us all together if we let it
(25:31) - Cis / het people CAN understand
(30:15) - What makes us unique is allows us to grow
(37:29) - From crummy DJ to kicking in doors
(43:59) - LOBO grows out of the need to make the world better
(48:23) - White straight men with money ruin everything
(53:10) - How to find Jake Didinsky
(55:15) - An unrelated story about every day in the ICU
(58:22) - We need to use the system to change the system
(01:09:04) - A quick plug for Gender Identity Today
(01:10:20) - Show closing
(01:11:04) - Closing credits

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Within Madness Lies Power - 31 May 2024

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 31 May 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, I speak with Karen Anne Coccioli. Karen is a queer author and public speaker whose queer memoir "Paradise" is available on Amazon. We cover topics as disparate as fleeing fascism, madness as a source of gender, and the purple light within.

REFERENCES:

Karen Anne Coccioli’s website: https://www.karenannecoccioli.com/

Annie Moon’s website: https://www.authoranniemoon.com/

Follow Karen Anne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenannecoccioli/

Follow Karen Anne on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/karenanne.coccioli/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Karen Anne Coccioli
(02:02) - The origin of an author
(09:07) - Family flight from fascism
(16:01) - Writing through conversion therapy
(22:27) - The gendered body and madness
(27:12) - Is madness pathological or powerful?
(34:35) - Madness as a source of gender
(40:32) - Living as you are glows you up
(44:45) - Using what we have to work with
(50:25) - You can't be told who you are
(55:09) - Would you change it if you could?
(59:00) - Don't stamp your children's sparks
(01:03:05) - How to find Karen
(01:03:53) - Show closing
(01:05:29) - Closing credits

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24 May 2024 - Changing the Narrative

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 24 May 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features the effervescent Cherish Amber! Cherish is a queer sex, love, and relationship coach who teaches we must know ourselves in order to have good sex and solid relationships. We talk about topics as diverse as prerequisites to good sex, stigmatizing sex to maintain control, and Virgin Condoms.

REFERENCES:

Cherish Amber’s website: https://www.cherishamber.com/

Follow Cherish on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cherishambercoaching

Follow Cherish on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecherishamber/

Follow Cherish on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cherishambercoaching
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Cherish Amber
(02:43) - Learning from every person
(07:16) - Know your own pleasure
(09:49) - Being gentle with yourself
(14:01) - Good sex means meeting yourself where you are
(16:24) - Can we meet ourselves and not have it relate to sex?
(21:42) - The stigma of sex is all for control
(27:42) - Masculinization of sex, love, and relationships
(34:07) - Rejecting social expectations means being more aware of trauma
(39:38) - Tools to address trauma
(46:00) - No such thing as little bits of trauma
(51:32) - Language as a contributor to misunderstanding
(01:01:01) - How to find Cherish Amber
(01:02:43) - Show closing
(01:03:01) - Closing credits

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17 May 2024 - Doing What It Takes Because You Must

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 17 May 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, I speak with the incredible Jasmine Vine! If you've been living under a rock for the past decade, Jasmine is a trans empowerment specialist with training in several modalities of mental health treatment. Jasmine and I discuss the urgency of gender transition, being able to identify with your therapist, and West Coast Privilege.

REFERENCES:

Javine Coaching: https://www.javinecoaching.com

Follow Jasmine on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jasminevinee

Follow Jasmine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasmine.vinee

Follow Jasmine on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jasminevinee
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:24) - Introducing Jasmine Vine
(02:11) - Jasmine's public gender transition
(06:06) - Not initially a transgender story
(10:18) - We do what it takes because we must
(13:31) - Was transition a part of the mental health struggle?
(18:09) - Breaking out of the hater cycle
(23:48) - Find the root cause
(27:39) - Risk involved in becoming who we are
(32:07) - Young transition doesn't mean less shame to process
(35:24) - Experience makes a better teacher
(40:10) - How does a mentor process another person's shame?
(44:33) - Vocal feminization and West Coast Privilege
(51:25) - You must believe for it to be true
(57:16) - How to find Jasmine Vine
(58:41) - Show closing

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10 May 2024 - Breaking All the Rules

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 10 May 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, I am proud to feature my dear friend Kaedyn Nedopak. Kaedyn is an Award-winning Queer Transgender Producer, Author, Podcaster, and Activist...and he really lives up to the list! Kaedyn and I talk about such interesting topics as Hollywood's failure to break gender roles, Pagan practices with Irish goddesses, and dissin' from the 80s.

REFERENCES:

Follow Kaedyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/transfaerieprince/

Follow Kaedyn on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@transfaerieprince

Follow Kaedyn on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaedynnedopak/

Watch CAGD Interview with Kaedyn: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVtpsXku2hM

Kaedyn Nedopak on IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2969725

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:24) - Introducing Kaedyn Nedopak
(03:48) - Small town productions to cast as trophy wife
(08:13) - Somewhere in between
(12:28) - Gender roles or cast roles- same rigidity
(19:41) - Dissin' from the 80s
(20:48) - Faerie Prince of the Land
(27:14) - The Sun and The Morrigan
(31:25) - We are each a Triple Goddess
(34:18) - The Moon and hormone therapy
(40:52) - Pagan practices
(45:40) - Quick etymology and history lesson
(52:51) - Leadership of the Trans Faerie Prince
(01:01:26) - Showing, telling, and completing stories
(01:07:15) - Show closing
(01:13:16) - Closing credits

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03 May 2024 - Evolving Past Adversity

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 03 May 2024 09:00:00 -0600

This episode features Win Charles, an award-winning author, podcaster, and advocate for people with disabilities. Win and I discuss the abuse people with disability face, the help available after abuse, and why you should have a rainbow sticker on your wheelchair.

REFERENCES:

Win Charles on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ButterfliesofWisdom

Win Charles on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wincharles/

“I, Win” on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B009YLKW54

Win Charles on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGN0mfJdlpKG8IdJTBjKTow

CEO of a Disability podcast: http://ceoofadisability.weebly.com/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:33) - Introducing Win Charles
(02:22) - The beginning of Win's tenacity
(08:19) - High incidence of abuse for people with disabilities
(17:21) - Finally getting help
(21:17) - Confronting the abusers
(24:15) - Protection for people with disabilities
(28:52) - Escaping the situation
(40:20) - Being able to move forward
(48:42) - How to find Win
(51:28) - Let us all rally together!
(53:24) - Show closing
(53:42) - Closing credits

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26 April 2024 - The Stories That Must Be Told

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today I present an amazing conversation with Lindsay Law. Lindsay retired from a career as an executive producer and President of Fox Searchlight Pictures to become a novelist. Lindsay and I discuss the story of "Boys Don't Cry," why we need more gay people in media, and the magic of Vermont.

REFERENCES:

Lindsay’s personal website: https://www.lindsaylaw.net/

Follow Lindsay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindsay.law/

“The Orphan from Shepherds Keep:” https://www.amazon.com/Orphan-Shepherds-Keep-Intertwined-Rightful/dp/B0CXYPYX23

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:37) - Introducing Lindsay Law
(04:26) - Choosing stories for American Playhouse
(07:40) - Good storytelling has an impact
(11:57) - Boys Don't Cry
(18:32) - Introducing the world to gay people
(24:48) - Why wouldn't these stories be on TV?
(29:33) - We are all in a 10 percent category
(31:50) - The truth cannot be generic
(35:02) - Characters live inside your identity
(40:00) - Good storytelling has a real atmosphere
(47:50) - Stories about healing
(52:09) - Characters lead to the story
(54:57) - Writing longhand vs. on a computer
(58:18) - Finance who people are, not what they can pitch
(01:04:07) - How to find Lindsay
(01:06:55) - Show closing
(01:08:26) - Closing credits

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19 April 2024 - Reclaiming the Present Moment

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 19 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, I host Dr. Lino Martinez! Dr. Lino is an author, podcaster, and Professor of Psychology who views his ability to survive not as extraordinary, only human. Lino and I discuss existential psychology, depleting ourselves to please others, and The Meaning to Life.

REFERENCES:

Lino’s professional website: https://www.alittlelessfear.com/

A Little LESS FEAR podcast: https://www.alittlelessfear.com/podcast
Muckle-Wells Syndrome: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muckle%E2%80%93Wells_syndrome

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Dr. Lino Martinez
(03:09) - Birth as we choose it, even when it's difficult
(08:10) - Fighting not for life, but for being awesome
(17:34) - The rebirth of Dr. Lino Martinez
(24:01) - Dr. Lino's search for meaning
(29:27) - Combating a sense of isolation
(34:04) - The Meaning to Life
(38:24) - Pleasing people as a trauma response
(43:16) - Gender transition is not a change of identity
(52:51) - What doesn't kill me reveals the strength that was already there
(01:01:30) - How to find Dr. Lino
(01:02:58) - Show closing
(01:04:10) - Closing credits

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12 April 2024 - Music, Community, and How We Become

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 12 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features Mx. Crys/ta Song, a Speech Language Pathologist and vocalist who is also Board Co-Chair of Queer Oriented Radical Days of Summer (QORDS). Crys/ta and I talk about such topics as why the South should not be discounted as a political forum, how we cannot help but be part of humanity, and obscure William Makepeace Thackeray quotes.

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REFERENCES:

Follow Crys/ta Song on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mx.singasong/

QORDS website: https://qords.org/

Follow QORDS on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Qords/

Follow QORDS on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qords_camp/

Transcend NYC Chorus: https://www.transcendsings.org/

“Braiding Sweetgrass:” https://milkweed.org/book/braiding-sweetgrass

Quote from “The Crow:” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6sz0mgQL_A

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:32) - Introducing Crys/ta Song
(02:31) - The beauty in pure vocal sounds
(06:11) - Applying sound to the human experience
(09:52) - Genderless choir
(12:23) - Music Theory for Cis/Het White Dudes
(15:11) - Gendered Voice for Cis/Het White Dudes
(20:59) - Healing through community connections
(27:15) - Chosen family is different from the labels we adopt
(31:07) - Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children
(35:55) - Stay aloof or be in the human community?
(43:12) - Why it's worth investing in the South
(49:44) - Transformation during Queer Oriented Radical Days of Summer
(57:10) - Can QORDS help youth with recalcitrant parents?
(01:01:41) - Finding Crys/ta in the Universe
(01:03:21) - Show closing
(01:04:54) - Closing credits

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05 April 2024 - Marketing to the Transgender Experience

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 05 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0600

This week's episode features the ever-talented Danni Velasquez-Mora. Danni is Founder and Creative Director of Womankind Creative and - because we had such a great conversation about women's representation the first time (see the link below), Danni wanted to interview me to get an angle on how the transgender community would appreciate representation in marketing. We talk about topics as far-reaching as where gender originates, who fits the mold of "normal" woman, and the importance of label-lumping.

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REFERENCES:

Womankind Creative: https://www.womankindcreative.com/

Womankind Creative LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/womankindcreative/

Womankind Creative Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womankindcreative/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:49) - Introducing...Amethysta?
(07:55) - Gender is not a choice
(12:06) - Gender is hard for everybody
(16:07) - Presenting as a woman when you aren't a "normal" woman
(24:24) - And it's no easier for transgender men
(27:12) - Manifesting who we are requires grit
(29:32) - Marketing and the transgender experience
(34:15) - Doctor? Or Woman Doctor?
(36:55) - Marketing and the Self-Concept
(43:12) - Appearing inclusive vs. being inclusive
(46:26) - Transgender hyperexpression
(52:07) - Every conversation is only about people
(56:25) - Is the problem too much knowledge?
(01:01:34) - Lumped into labels
(01:04:54) - Let's have more of these conversations
(01:08:22) - Show closing
(01:09:08) - Closing credits

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29 March 2024 - In Praise of the Mammal Brain

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 29 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In this week's episode, I speak with Professor Loretta Breuning about human behavior. Loretta is a Professor Emerita of Management, the Founder of The Inner Mammal Institute, and author of the book "Habits of a Happy Brain." We consider such topics as how our undesired behavior can be modified given the appropriate reward, finding forgiveness even for our parents, and why not everybody is mad at you.

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REFERENCES:

The Inner Mammal Institute: https://innermammalinstitute.org/

Alice Miller: http://www.alice-miller.com/
Albert Ellis: http://www.albertellis.info/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Loretta Breuning
(02:13) - How conflict made a career
(06:22) - Building the brain's big highways
(10:05) - The animal brain explains it all
(13:00) - The mammal brain brings cooperation
(14:28) - Neuroplasticity demonstrates experience, not genetics
(18:03) - Working with our neurochemical preferences
(22:52) - Running away from fear and pain works
(26:12) - Not everybody is mad at you
(30:33) - Forgiveness is almost unnecessary
(35:37) - Rearing childhood out of children
(40:22) - At least your crush doesn't have lice
(43:26) - Being cool is hard work
(45:37) - Any similarity between the Mammal Brain and modern psychology?
(49:13) - The Mammal Brain in human identity
(53:03) - Life doesn't always suck
(57:15) - Show closing

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22 March 2024 - The Stories That Live between the Lines

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 22 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -0600

Today's episode features an amazing artist and friend, Cendrine Marrouat. Cendrine really has done it all: poet, photographer, painter, podcaster, and author. We discuss topics as diverse as camels, the importance of haiku, and why Hemingway is boring.

REFERENCES:
Cendrine’s professional website: https://creativeramblings.com/

Auroras & Blossoms website: https://abpositiveart.com/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Cendrine Marrouat
(03:11) - How does one become this creative?
(07:50) - Perfectionism taken to the right level
(10:54) - Challenge yourself constantly
(15:34) - Being comfortable looking ignorant
(19:27) - Good writing lets you read between the lines
(23:01) - Our favorite Jane Austen books
(28:24) - When too little space exists between the lines
(32:31) - Learn to write a good haiku
(38:03) - The space between in photography
(45:33) - Synthesizing a visceral YES
(52:23) - Refusing to open to the story
(56:30) - Trauma does not need to be our story
(01:02:44) - Leading with the between
(01:04:52) - Show closing
(01:07:23) - Closing credits

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15 March 2024 - The Effect of Childhood on Who We Are

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 15 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, I have a fun discussion about a serious topic with Brittany Sandoval. As a registered nurse and foster parent, Brittany had to process her childhood trauma to help her children become better people. Brittany and I talk about the meaning of anger, how generational trauma can be healed, and Lesbian TikTok.

P.S. No cats were harmed in the making of this podcast.

REFERENCES:
The Odd Mom Pod: https://link.chtbl.com/oddmompod

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanysandovalrn/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:27) - Introducing Brittany Sandoval
(03:06) - What makes Brittany's journey?
(06:32) - Healing spreads outward from the source
(11:00) - From eight months old, for the rest of our lives
(15:40) - How can happy parents have unhappy children?
(20:10) - What anger agaisnt others really means
(24:06) - Swinging from one side to another in search of ourselves
(28:31) - Paganism, Moon phases, and boobs
(33:58) - Is generational trauma based on nature or nurture?
(36:18) - Breaking the chain of generational trauma
(41:57) - Healing scars with Lesbian TikTok
(46:29) - Respecting our children to teach them respect
(50:01) - A journey of sexuality and gender
(52:44) - Are Brittany and I "groomers?"
(56:23) - How to find Brittany
(57:50) - Show closing
(58:24) - Closing credits

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01 March 2024 - Becoming Unstoppable

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 09:00:00 -0700

In today's episode, I have an honest conversation with Victoria Pelletier, an executive leader, best-selling author, and motivational speaker. Victoria talks me through what it takes to push through adversity, how transgender care is even more difficult for parents, and why jerks need honesty more than the rest of us.

REFERENCES:
Victoria’s website: https://victoria-pelletier.com

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:24) - Introducing Victoria Pelletier
(02:36) - Victoria's Origin Story
(04:49) - Can you choose to become unstoppable?
(07:52) - Facing discomfort
(11:12) - Being aware of your role in the situation
(14:57) - Make the choice to lead
(17:09) - What if you really are a jerk?
(18:35) - Diversity is good for business
(22:35) - Token diversity is not good for business
(25:13) - Personal branding is more than a hair flip
(30:01) - Make the brand worth a damn
(34:25) - Your legacy will change over time
(39:24) - From victim to unstoppable requires control
(40:54) - Hard choices being transgender
(45:01) - Show closing
(45:54) - Closing credits

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23 February 2024 - Representing Humans in Marketing

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I talk with Danni Velasquez-Mora, an absolutely amazing woman who ups the game in marketing as Founder and Creative Director at Womankind Creative. Danni and I talk about important topics as healing through representation, seeing our own possibilities, and why Wonder Girl should have had a longer run.

REFERENCES:
Womankind Creative: https://www.womankindcreative.com/

Womankind Creative LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/womankindcreative/

Womankind Creative Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womankindcreative/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:24) - Introducing Danni Velasquez-Mora
(02:19) - Womankind Creative as a journey of healing
(07:22) - The impact of unhiding womanhood
(10:54) - The divine feminine of Womankind
(16:19) - The battle against reinforcing male dominance
(19:33) - Seeing the possibility in ourselves
(24:34) - Token representation comes from ignorance of the experience
(28:52) - Showing us all uplifts us all
(37:23) - Making brands compete for our attention
(42:54) - Buying power from more than white men
(47:56) - Healing gender dysphoria for everybody
(51:48) - Feminism as reality, not another fantasy
(58:15) - Show closing
(59:25) - Closing credits

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16 February 2024 - Finding Our Soul in Dance

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0700

In this on-location podcast shoot, I have a grand time with Julia DiVerdi. Julia is a stunning burlesque and belly dancer who shifted her focus to an inclusive dance studio where she can teach anybody how to dance! We talk about subjects as far afield as accidentally starting to teach, how learning dance can be healing, and Julia's plan for my first burlesque routine (yikes!!).

REFERENCES:
Julia DiVerdi and Starlight Studio: https://juliadiverdi.com/
Overcoming My Hidden Transphobia: https://genderidentitytoday.com/overcoming-my-hidden-transphobia/

(00:00) - Opening credits
(00:37) - Show opening
(01:29) - Introducing Julia DiVerdi
(03:47) - Beginning to dance...and teach!
(07:32) - Cupcake Cabaret and the burlesque explosion
(10:30) - Julia can teach anybody to dance
(15:05) - Teaching comfort by example
(20:02) - The hyperfemininity of burlesque
(23:20) - Is drag a mockery of femininity?
(27:36) - No drag class for you!
(32:30) - Fundamentalist Christian drag queens
(37:05) - Hair removal horror stories
(40:13) - A genderless mess
(43:43) - Body and mind as one
(48:25) - Dance for healing
(53:52) - Authentic expression of the feminine
(57:25) - Show closing
(58:35) - Closing credits

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09 February 2024 - The First Step Is to Believe

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 09 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I speak with John C. Morley. John is a prolific podcaster and writer, a great storyteller, and a serial entrepreneur. John and I talk about believing in ourselves as the foundation of success, taking the risks necessary to achieve what we want, and why hypnotists shouldn't embarrass people during their shows.

REFERENCES:

John’s Linktree: http://believemeachieve.com

The JMOR Tech Talk Show: https://www.youtube.com/@TheJMORTechTalkShow

Inspirations for your Life: https://podcastscj.podbean.com/

John’s Recent Articles: https://www.linkedin.com/in/johncmorleyiv/recent-activity/articles/

The Silva Method: https://silvamethod.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:44) - Introducing John C. Morley
(01:29) - Serial entrepreneurship
(07:15) - Creating new beliefs
(16:11) - Letting them down easy
(20:29) - Integrity and knowing you can
(24:53) - Breakfast, lunch, or dinner?
(29:49) - Promises, not goals
(32:49) - Take challenges as they come
(37:32) - Make it happen by manifesting it
(43:55) - Thought is connected to the world
(49:54) - Karma is a harsh mistress
(55:27) - What frequency are you tuned in to?
(58:59) - The Alphabet of Gratitude
(01:01:27) - Show closing

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02 February 2024 - Building a Community Identity

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 02 Feb 2024 11:00:00 -0700

Today I have the distinct honor of interviewing Emily Kailyn. Emily began a community called The Transverse and continues her great work for the transgender, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming community. Emily and I consider the hard decisions required in building community, the dreams we need to move society forward, and why confidence makes the gender.

The Transverse: https://thetransverse.net/

The community Discord server: https://thetransverse.net/discord

Instagram:
https://instagram.com/thetransversenetwork
https://instagram.com/thetransgendershow

YouTube:
Video: https://youtube.com/thetransverse
The Transgender Show Podcast: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD_d3L2xVsoEEr5boQSP8nn6jekFnzROB&si=fErmwzDzSCiR-SMH

Follow Emily’s personal account at https://instagram.com/emilywouldgo

Support at https://patreon.com/thetransverse

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:47) - Introducing Emily
(01:37) - How The Transverse begun
(05:40) - Community as activism
(08:43) - Running a business sometimes takes hard decisions
(13:02) - Helping with housing
(17:26) - Yet another "Am I Trans Enough?"
(22:03) - Transgender Elders and their benefits
(25:40) - How do you find the identity of 1400 people as one?
(32:09) - The value of cisgender people in transgender communities
(37:59) - The most important component of a social transition
(45:41) - Gatekeepers need not apply
(55:01) - Calls to Action!
(56:42) - Show closing

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19 January 2024 - Adequate Representation in Fiction

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 19 Jan 2024 11:00:00 -0700

Today on the program, I speak with Amanda Lien, a technical copywriter and published science fiction author. Amanda gives us the lowdown on why technology and fiction must show humanity as it is - to remind each of us we are a part of it. We talk about how marketing frequently doesn't get it, lament villains made worse by being gay, and remember 1970s pop music.

REFERENCES:

Amanda Lien professional website: https://www.amandajlien.com/
Find Amanda on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandajlien/-sense

"I Am Woman" by Helen Reddy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Am_Woman
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:37) - Introducing Amanda Lien
(01:15) - If you know...you know
(06:47) - Conducting yourself professionally should be enough
(09:25) - Representation is about getting it
(12:46) - Things are better and worse
(14:48) - Gender neutrality in anime
(20:53) - When villians are only "queer"
(26:28) - Tell the stories nobody else will give you
(30:37) - Representation is not always appreciated
(33:25) - What is good representation?
(38:32) - Hear me roar with my power
(44:20) - Token representation is worse than none
(49:50) - Quality is the point of representation
(53:58) - A hidden cost of representation in film
(58:49) - Feeling uncomfortable about taking the spotlight
(01:04:10) - Show closing

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12 December 2024 - Building Technology That Supports Humanity

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 12 Jan 2024 11:00:00 -0700

In this fascinating episode, get ready to geek out with Lindsay Tabas, a technologist also known as The Lady Engineer®. Lindsay and I have some great discussion around why technology works against us instead of for us. I only make a few diversions...like why that red button requires a new security architecture.

REFERENCES:

Lindsay Tabas professional website: https://www.lindsayt.com/

Follow Lindsay on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/lindsaytabas

Make Sense w/ the Lady Engineer®: https://www.lindsayt.com/make-sense

Product-Market Fit E-book: https://www.lindsayt.com/product-market-fit

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:36) - Introducing Lindsay Tabas
(08:02) - The Lady Engineer brand
(12:47) - The tech industry gets an unwarranted free pass
(17:09) - Developers give entrepreneurs a snow job...
(18:57) - ...and sometimes the entrepreneur is just a dick
(23:00) - Breaking the myths of entrepreneurship
(28:53) - Dialing in your product's sights
(32:00) - Find a real problem to solve
(35:30) - The real problem in technology is hubris about the solution
(41:59) - Being risk-averse is a good trait!
(46:05) - Let go of the ego to invoke success
(49:35) - Changing the system is neverending
(57:45) - And in the end...this is identity
(01:01:48) - Show closing

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05 December 2023 - Relationships as a Study of Self

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 05 Jan 2024 11:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I have a great conversation with Mona Lazar, an artist, writer, and relationship coach. Mona and I contemplate finding reflection in a relationship, why social roles must change for humanity to survive, and how filled doughnuts probably roll downhill better than those with holes in the middle.

REFERENCES:
Mona's personal website: https://monalazar.com/

Find Mona on Medium: https://medium.com/@monalazzar

Find Mona on Substack: https://wordwhisperers.substack.com

"And Then All the Women Wanted to Be Lesbians": https://medium.com/the-soulciety/and-then-all-the-women-wished-they-were-lesbians-419923cf10f

Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:37) - Introducing Mona
(04:32) - And Then All the Women Wanted to Be Lesbians
(07:44) - Being completed in a relationship
(13:36) - Is it being a lesbian or finding reflection?
(18:21) - The difficulty with most relationships
(23:57) - Permission to be ourselves
(29:26) - Breaking out of social roles
(36:04) - The value of other gender roles
(41:46) - So how do we be ourselves?
(49:18) - We need those people who challenge social expectations
(55:43) - Mona reflects Ami
(00:19) - Of moving reproduction and rotating pastries
(01:04:35) - Show closing

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30 December 2023 - The Labels We Choose for Ourselves

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Sat, 30 Dec 2023 11:00:00 -0700

In this episode of the show, I speak with my very good friend Shannara Quissell, an amazing attorney and Executive Director of the Colorado Name Change Project. Shannara and I discuss the important things in life: our right to define ourselves, our obligation to trust each other, and the beauty of the brocket for storing documents.

REFERENCES:

Connect with Shannara on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannara-quissell-25072387/

The first of name change blogs: https://www.zalesskylaw.com/blog/name-changes

Colorado LGBTQ Bar Association: https://www.clba.net

Colorado Name Change Project: https://www.namechangeproject.org/

Dana Zzyym: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dana_Zzyym

Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:36) - Introducing Shannara Quissell
(03:43) - A desire to make a difference
(07:18) - Law as penalty, not support
(09:17) - Finding Colorado Name Change Project
(12:42) - Names as identity, not gender
(17:46) - Name change is even hard for attorneys
(21:49) - For the love of stamping
(23:49) - States get to make names change as hard as they choose
(27:23) - Names are only about money
(31:29) - Names used to be only social constructs
(34:00) - Gender marker is less than social construct in Colorado
(37:56) - Jude's Law
(42:16) - Change your entire view of identity
(49:12) - Gender change for intersex people
(54:41) - Trust could go a little further
(56:43) - The Episode's Misty-Eyed Moment
(01:01:57) - Show closing

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22 December 2023 - Perceiving Our True Selves

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 22 Dec 2023 11:00:00 -0700

In today's episode, I speak with Lisa Haukom: a dear friend, photographer, and developer of The Self-Portrait Method - a course designed to help us learn to see who we truly are. Lisa and I talk about topics as diverse as self-objectification, why we must approve of ourselves first, and the claptrap of a French Bitch.

REFERENCES:
Goldenbrand Photography: https://www.thegoldenbrand.co/

The Self-Portrait Method: https://www.thegoldenbrand.co/self-portraitstudio

Austin Kleon: https://austinkleon.com/

Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:36) - Introducing Lisa
(03:05) - Why did I feel beautiful in a photo shoot?
(05:36) - The magic of being seen through other eyes
(09:15) - Affirming, not validating
(12:22) - The selfie camera is validation
(15:33) - Just be yourself is terrible advice
(20:21) - Self-objectification
(25:15) - Affirmation requires our own approval
(32:35) - Why do we try so hard when it isn't real?
(37:32) - The truth you didn't know existed
(40:35) - Why is authenticity compelling?
(46:48) - Therapeutic value of selfies
(54:57) - You really do gotta have faith
(57:54) - Doing the work for French Bitch with a Window
(59:59) - Show closing

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15 December 2023 - Role-Playing Games as Identity Discovery

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 11:00:00 -0700

Today on the show, I discuss role-playing games with Bill Tucker, an experienced improv actor and tabletop role-playing gamer. Bill and I get philosophical about good and evil, when we can't be the person we want to be, and Darth Vader's poor fashion choices.

REFERENCES:
Find Bill on Twitter: https://twitter.com/imbilltucker
Sly Flourish - Playing D&D can save your life: https://slyflourish.com/playing_dnd_can_save_your_life.html

Dungeons & Dragons: https://dnd.wizards.com/

Traveller: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traveller_(role-playing_game)

Shadowdark: https://www.thearcanelibrary.com/pages/shadowdark

Call of Cthulu: https://www.chaosium.com/call-of-cthulhu-rpg/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:43) - Introducing Bill Tucker
(02:51) - RPGs can save your life
(07:03) - Performing for an audience of one
(11:38) - What's my motivation?
(17:31) - Skin in the game
(20:14) - When you don't make the character you want
(25:55) - Moving the story forward
(29:11) - The big and small stories
(33:14) - Accept and build
(36:36) - Society hands us roles
(42:07) - Playing a role we can't understand
(45:56) - Christmas in R'leyh
(50:21) - Role-playing the typical human experience
(53:36) - Good and bad - what's the diff?
(58:36) - Show closing

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01 December 2023 - Sex, Gender, and Sexuality

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 01 Dec 2023 11:00:00 -0700

Today I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from music to politics to sex. Ossiana and I discuss Lolita fashion, control freaks, and why we should not be embarrassed to appreciate a good orgasm.

REFERENCES:
Find Ossiana on Substack: https://ossiana.substack.com/
Find Ossiana on Medium: https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart
Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack: https://therefugee.substack.com/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:35) - Introducing Ossiana
(03:46) - Gender, beauty, and sexuality
(09:01) - Unreal social expectations
(11:27) - Ami defines gender and sexuality in 10 words or less
(14:45) - Sex and gender are more than physical
(18:26) - Beauty is not (always) symmetrical
(23:26) - Scary sells...really well
(29:28) - Sex is not a bad thing
(33:42) - Victorian era repression
(38:19) - Shame as a means of control
(40:50) - Slut-shaming and society
(45:00) - Forbidden fruit
(48:59) - Abuse at the hands of those not getting any
(51:43) - Show closing

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17 November 2023 - Divination as a Path to Introspection

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 17 Nov 2023 11:00:00 -0700

In this slightly different show, I engage my witchy side with Miriam Rachel, a medium and tarot reader who writes and teaches how to improve your life through divination. Miriam and I discuss karma, finding your inner depths, and why social media kinda sucks.

REFERENCES:
Miriam Reads Tarot on the web: https://miriamreadstarot.com/

Find Miriam on Substack: https://miriamreadstarot.substack.com/
Find Miriam on Medium: https://medium.com/@msmir
Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack: https://therefugee.substack.com/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:34) - Introducing Miriam
(02:12) - How divination fits into a career
(05:18) - The effect of the past on the present
(06:30) - Overcoming Echoism with Tarot
(10:23) - Self-reflection with tarot
(13:51) - Western Magical Tradition
(19:26) - Divination as forcing different experiences
(24:34) - Introspection through divination
(29:29) - Probing your personality
(34:00) - Learning to read tarot
(41:45) - Sleep paralysis
(44:18) - Healthy balance with divination
(47:42) - Do you believe in magic?
(50:15) - How to get started
(53:25) - How to find Miriam
(54:40) - Social media as a distraction
(56:52) - Show closing

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10 November 2024 - Body, Embodiment, and Identity

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 10 Nov 2023 11:00:00 -0700

In this episode, I talk to Caitie Corradino, a Registered Dietician and body worker who explains the connections among body, mind, and spirit. Caitie and I talk about topics as diverse as fasting, dietary supplements, and one step better than acceptance.

REFERENCES:
Full Soul Nutritiion: https://www.fullsoulnutrition.com/

Whole, Full, & Alive Podcast: https://www.fullsoulnutrition.com/wholefullandalivepodcast
Find Caitie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caitie.c.rd/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:36) - Introducing Caitie
(01:12) - Identity and the body
(04:19) - Why Caitie is so committed to the cause
(07:42) - The effect of social environment on body image
(11:03) - Our bodies are not just slabs of meat
(14:28) - Our own personal apothecary
(18:50) - How long have we taken a reductionist view of nutrition?
(21:01) - Body image and gender
(27:27) - Intermittent fasting
(31:07) - The definition of a good relationship with food
(35:16) - Only pretty, rich, and thin people are worth a damn
(38:54) - Embodiment occurs first in our heads
(44:50) - Not acceptance, but friendship
(50:41) - Show closing

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27 October 2023 - Art as a Method of Identity

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 27 Oct 2023 11:00:00 -0600

Today I talk to Tucker Lieberman, an excellent author and philosopher whose transgender journey took place in part through his creativity. Tucker and I discuss important artistic media, how we find ourselves in fictional characters, and give a nod to Wes Craven.

REFERENCES:
Tucker’s Personal Website: https://tuckerlieberman.com

Find Tucker on Medium: https://medium.com/@tuckerlieberman
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:35) - Introducing Tucker
(01:28) - The role of creativity in who we are
(05:54) - Photography as a medium of identity
(10:02) - The value of not having a reason
(16:03) - Fiction as a vehicle to explore our parts
(22:29) - More than "only" who we are
(26:25) - Finding the ineffable quality of art
(34:01) - Constraints to help make better art
(38:03) - There are no accidents
(46:13) - No art is truly bad art
(49:26) - Tarot to show our angles and dimensions
(57:57) - Show closing

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20 October 2023 - Gender-Affirming Voice Therapy

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 11:00:00 -0600

In this episode, I have an informal discussion with my good friend Alison (Dragon) Hiester - because any discussion we have is informal! We talk about what it means to be cis / het in a world of rainbow, what would make a good speech language pathologist, and apologize to Robert DeNiro.

REFERENCES:
Prismatic Speech Services: https://prismaticspeech.com/
Alison Hiester on Prismatic: https://prismaticspeech.com/about-us/#alison
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:33) - Introducing Alison
(02:50) - Gender and communication
(03:54) - Being cis/het in a rainbow world
(08:55) - We all need validation
(14:21) - From Alison to the community...
(19:10) - Using pronouns make you a good person
(21:49) - Do transgender people get a free pass on being polite?
(24:55) - We will all mess up at one point
(27:38) - And then some people just want to piss you off
(29:27) - Is a cisgender speech therapist better?
(34:38) - Observing gender voice roles
(37:38) - The best speech therapist
(42:04) - Performing nonverbal communication
(45:30) - Being Robert DeNiro - or not
(48:29) - What it takes to live the voice
(50:47) - Speaking is not like breathing - at first, anyway
(54:31) - Show closing

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13 October 2023 - The Transgender Experience in Türkiye

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 13 Oct 2023 11:00:00 -0600

Today I am honored to share this interview with my inspiring Sister Döro. She speaks under cover of anonymity about being transgender in Türkiye. The stories she tells are harrowing, and I ask each of you listening please to share this with as many people as you can. Improving conditions for transgender people everywhere must be a global concern.

REFERENCES:
Döro on Medium: https://medium.com/@DoroVolkova

Gülya on Medium: https://medium.com/@GulyaKerimoglu

Transgender Mental Health: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/transgender-mental-health

US Transgender Employment: https://transequality.org/issues/employment

Transgender People in Sex Work: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender_sex_workers
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

(00:00) - Show opening
(00:37) - Introducing Döro
(03:03) - Growing up transgender, not human
(07:38) - No access to health care
(09:56) - Changing name and gender marker
(13:41) - Employment as a transgender person
(18:50) - The option is sex work
(22:21) - Worker organization is not for transgender people
(26:59) - No protection from police
(30:03) - So why not just move away?
(33:47) - Solidarity of the community
(35:53) - Fighting back
(39:18) - What can we do?
(42:52) - Transgender people aren't going away
(44:51) - We must all stand together
(47:15) - If you can't be yourself, there's no point
(50:07) - Better to be happy and in danger...
(51:32) - Giving love to those who hate us
(53:46) - Remembering our community
(57:20) - Off to bed!

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06 October 2023 - Observations on Feminism

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Fri, 06 Oct 2023 11:00:00 -0600

Today's episode is about feminism. My friend Kendra and I muse on Western society and feminism's role in it.

REFERENCES: Dreamers & Doers: https://www.dreamersdoers.com/
The Kochfidential: https://www.thekochfidential.com/notes
Get Touchy Feely: https://gettouchyfeely.com/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com

(00:00) - Show Opening
(03:22) - Trying Harder Doesn't Always Work
(06:15) - How Kendra and I Got into Feminism
(08:22) - Ami Takes an English Course
(13:18) - Feminism is a Western Concept
(15:44) - Other Cultural Takes on the Divine Feminine
(19:39) - Why Kant Women Have a Career?
(21:25) - Growing up in a Small Town
(26:45) - Unreal Expectations from Feminism
(28:35) - Christian Philosophy and Western Society
(32:07) - Capitalism as the Culprit
(42:02) - Blame, Responsibility, and Feeling like a Failure
(49:54) - We Can Always Improve
(52:19) - Divine Feminine as Completing
(58:27) - Using Sex where a Gender is Required
(01:00:47) - It's Summer All the Time!
(01:04:45) - Finding Kendra
(01:05:24) - Show Closing

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08 September 2023 - Mental Health and the LGBTQ Community

Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D. — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 11:00:00 -0600

This episode is the beginning of what is to become Gender Identity Weekly - my existing Dingbat Diaries idea, but engaging other contributors to Gender Identity Today. I may someday break this out into a separate podcast, but I will publish them here as well until the change occurs.

REFERENCES:
CDC Statistics: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/suicide-data-statistics.html
The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2023/
Williams Institute - LGBTQ: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/suicide-coming-out-press-release/
Williams Institute - Transgender: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/suicidality-transgender-adults/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

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