MercyTalk

417| "Overcomer, Overcome"— Book Review and Caitlin's Story

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

When identity is restored, everything else begins to change. 2008 Mercy graduate and author of Overcomer, Overcome, Caitlin Hawk joins Mercy's Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, in an engaging conversation about finding lasting freedom, the power of the gospel, and how God restores what feels hopeless.

Caitlin’s story points to a God who breaks the darkest bondages and makes a way when there seems to be no way. Join us today as she reflects on how encountering Jesus and learning who she is in Christ changed her life.

In this episode, we cover:

Caitlin’s testimony of choosing life, including her decision to carry her twins and trust God with the outcome.
How God began breaking addiction, shame, and the spirit of accusation through the truth of the gospel.
Calling out the identity of overcoming in the next generation and living free from shame through Christ.

Resources & Links:

Get a copy of Caitlin's new book Overcomer, Overcome on Amazon or visit Caitlin's website to learn more about her story and her book at caitlinhawk.com.
Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.

Scripture references from today's episode:

Matthew 7:26-27
Hosea 4:6
Proverbs 19:18
John 4 (Woman at the Well)
1 Samuel 16:7
Deuteronomy 32:21
Matthew 5:13-16
Isaiah 61
Matthew 4:1-11 or Luke 4:1-13 (temptation of Jesus)
Isaiah 43:19, Luke 1:37 (He will make a way when there is seemingly no way)
Joel 2:25 (indirectly referenced)

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416 | More Than a Meal Plan—Overcoming an Eating Disorder

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400

An eating disorder doesn’t define a person, and true healing reaches far beyond symptoms. In this episode, Mercy’s Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, sits down with Kristen, a recent Mercy graduate, and Jenah, Mercy’s Nutrition & Fitness Manager, for an honest and hope‑filled conversation about eating disorder recovery and releasing control.

Together, they explore Mercy’s spirit‑soul‑body approach to healing, how residents learn to process difficult emotions in a safe environment, and what taking ownership in recovery really looks like. Kristen shares her own powerful journey, including the moment she allowed God to address the deeper roots of her struggle and stepped into true freedom.

In this episode, we cover:

Why true healing from eating disorders requires looking at roots causes not just symptoms
How Mercy’s program helps residents build healthy rhythms through nutrition, movement, and daily structure
Kristen’s personal story of surrender and the deeper healing God brought beneath the surface

Resources & Links:

Learn more about eating disorders on our signs & symptoms page here.
Are you or someone you know struggling with an Eating Disorder? Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.
Scripture References:
Proverbs 4:23
Psalms 119:30
Psalms 119: 68
Psalms 110:3

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415 | Choosing Life — Brooke & Kristen’s Stories of Hope, with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0500

In recognition of Eating Disorder Awareness Week, Mercy’s Founder and President Nancy Alcorn sits down with Mercy graduates Brooke (2003) and Kristen (2026) to share a deeply moving conversation about hope, healing, and the power of choosing life.

Together, they highlight how God meets us in our darkest places, how community and mentorship spark courage, and how one woman’s “yes” can impact another’s future. Their intertwined stories remind us that while our struggles may differ, the healing found in Jesus is the same, and the steps of obedience we take today can echo for generations.

In this episode, we cover:

What it looks like to move from self-reliance to receiving help and community.
The spiritual tools Mercy provides to walk in freedom beyond graduation.
Why choosing life is both a moment and an ongoing journey of faith.

Resources & Links:

Want to explore more on this topic? Check out this recent blog: Bodies Are Not the Enemy: Understanding Eating Disorders Through a Faith Lens
Learn more about eating disorders on our signs & symptoms page here.
Are you or someone you know struggling with an Eating Disorder? Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.

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414 | Grief, Loss, & the Journey Back to Joy

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0500

The experience of loss is universal, but when it arrives suddenly and upends our world, the journey through grief can feel like an impossible wilderness. In this episode, Mercy's Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, is joined by Mercy’s Ministry Care Leader, Carrie Christmas. Carrie opens up about the sudden passing of her husband, Joshua, and how what began as a normal afternoon four years ago led to 27 days of standing in faith in a COVID‑era ICU.

Carrie shares with raw honesty how she navigated isolation, the weight of telling her young sons their father wasn't coming back, and the conscious decision she had to make to prevent a "spirit of grief" from becoming a permanent foothold of depression. This conversation is a profound reminder that while our purpose isn't rooted in the people we love, the comfort of God is always available to meet us in the middle of our darkest seasons.

In this episode, we cover:

The tension of faith and reality: Reconciling the desire for a miracle and finding peace in unanswered questions.
Practical support in grief: Why "presence" matters more than advice and how to support others.
Purpose beyond loss: How God can use our deepest sorrows to minister to the pain of others.

Resources & Links:

You've Already Got It! by Andrew Wommack

2. Scripture References:

1 Thessalonians 4:13
Psalms 30:5
Jeremiah 29:11
Isaiah 43 (specifically verse 19)
2 Corinthians 1: 4
Book of Job

3. Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.

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413 | The Why Behind Mercy w/ Nancy Alcorn and Arianna Walker - pt.2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Jan 2026 01:00:00 -0500

Mercy's "why" has never changed, and never will. Join Nancy Alcorn, founder of Mercy Multiplied, and Arianna Walker, CEO of Mercy UK, as they continue their powerful conversation about the “why” that drives this global ministry.

Nancy and Arianna share personal stories, biblical foundations, and practical insights that reveal why Mercy exists and why it matters today.

In this episode, we cover:

Common misconceptions about Mercy’s work.
Practical ways you can apply Mercy’s principles in your life or church.
How Mercy’s message is multiplying globally and what’s next for the ministry.

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.
Click here to watch one outpatient client's story of transformation.

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412 | The Why Behind Mercy w/ Nancy Alcorn and Arianna Walker - pt.1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Jan 2026 01:00:00 -0500

Mercy’s work flows from a deep calling grounded in Scripture and God’s desire to bring true freedom. Happy New Year! In our first episode of 2026, we’re diving deep into the heart behind Mercy’s mission. Host Erin Gentry is joined by Nancy Alcorn, founder of Mercy Multiplied, and Arianna Walker, CEO of Mercy UK, for a powerful conversation about the “why” that drives this global ministry. Nancy and Arianna share personal stories, biblical foundations, and practical insights that reveal why Mercy exists and why it matters today.

In this episode, we cover:

The biblical foundation for healing and freedom (Isaiah 61:1 and more).
What true freedom looks like beyond coping or managing issues.
Why unconditional love paired with truth transforms lives.

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.
Click here to watch one past resident's story of transformation.

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411 | Finding Peace In Chaotic Times

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Oct 2025 01:00:00 -0400

The world can seem chaotic right now, but that should come as no surprise. Scripture tells us that troubling times are part of life on earth, and Jesus promises to be with us no matter what happens.

In today's episode of MercyTalk, Erin and Melody discuss some of the reasons it's easy to feel off balance right now, historical events that illustrate challenges we've made it through in the past, and practical ways we can pursue peace even in chaotic times.

Scriptures referenced in today's episode include:

Psalm 34:14: "Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it…"
John 14:27: “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
Romans 12:18: "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone…”
Isaiah 26:3: “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”

410 | Suicide Prevention Awareness: The Changing Language of Suicide

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Sep 2025 01:00:00 -0400

The words we use to talk about suicide are shifting. In recognition of Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, host Erin Gentry is joined by Mercy’s Assistant Counseling Director, Leslie Lamb, a Licensed Professional Counselor and National Certified Counselor. Together, they explore how language around suicide has evolved, why those changes matter, and how our words can either open the door to healing or reinforce stigma.

Leslie shares insights from her professional experience and personal journey, offering clarity and compassion on a topic that is often difficult to discuss. This episode is a call to create space for people, listen well, and choose our words wisely.

In this episode, we cover:

How social media, censorship, and cultural shifts have influenced the language of suicide.
How language affects survivors, loved ones, and those struggling with suicidal ideation.
Practical ways to hold space for others and show compassion, even when we don’t fully understand.

Resources & Links:

Want to explore more on this topic? Check out episode 387 | Myths + Misunderstandings around Suicide
If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a trusted counselor or call the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988.
Learn more about Mercy Multiplied’s programs and resources at mercymultiplied.com.
Learn more about suicidal thoughts on our signs & symptoms page here.

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409 | What Is God's Will For My Life?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Aug 2025 01:00:00 -0400

This question is deeply personal, often emotional, and one that many of us wrestle with at different points in our journey. The question is, what is God's will for my life? In this episode of MercyTalk, host Erin Gentry is joined by Mercy Multiplied’s Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, and Executive Pastor, Heidi Stevens, for a heartfelt and practical conversation about understanding God’s will and why it’s inseparable from His love.

You’ll also hear why we don’t need to be afraid to come to Him with our questions, and encouragement to anchor your beliefs in Scripture rather than personal experience or cultural trends alone.

In this episode, we cover:

God's Word is His will.
How God’s will is rooted in His love and revealed through His Word
Why we don’t need to be afraid to come to Him with our questions
Encouragement to anchor your beliefs in Scripture rather than personal experience or cultural trends alone

Resources & Links:

Want to understand more about God's love? Check out our episode 408 | Does God Still Love Me?

Here are some of the many Scriptures referenced in the episode:

Proverbs 24:6 (NIV) - There is wisdom in confirmation from others.
1 Thessalonians 5:19-21 (NIV) - Test what you hear from God.
Proverbs 16:9 (ESV) - Man plans his steps, but God establishes his steps.
Habakkuk 2:2 (ESV) - Write down what you receive from God.
Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV) - The joy of the Lord is our strength.
Psalm 119:133 (KJV) - God orders our steps in His Word.
Psalm 119:105 (ESV) - God's Word lights my path.
Psalm 119:89 (ESV) - God's Word is established in heaven.
Romans 12:2 (ESV) - Do not conform to this world.
1 Peter 5:8 (ESV) - The enemy roams like a roaring lion.
John 8:2-12 (NIV) - Story of the woman accused of adultery.
John 1:14 (NIV) - Jesus is the Word.
2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV) - Do not be unequally yoked.
Hebrews 13:4 (NIV) - Sexual morality is defined as in the confines of marriage.
Proverbs 9:10 (NIV) - The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
Proverbs 19:3 (AMPC) - When our own choices hurt us, we can tend to blame God.
John 7:28 (NIV) - The woman at the well tells everyone about Jesus.
Psalm 103:10-11 (ESV) - God does not deal with us according to our sin.
Isaiah 61:7 (ESV) - God gives a double portion of blessing instead of shame.
Romans 2:4 (ESV+KJV) - God's kindness leads us to repentance
1 Corinthians 3:9 (KJV) - We are co-laborers with God.
Hebrews 13:5 (ESV) - God never leaves or forsakes us.
Psalm 119:68 (ESV) - God is good and does good.
John 10:10 (ESV) - The thief comes for one purpose, but God comes for a different purpose.
2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV) - Anyone is Christ is a new creation.
Jeremiah 29:11 (ESV) - God has a plan for your life.
Psalm 68:6 (NKJV) - God sets the solitary in families.
Matthew 11:28 (NIV) - Come to God for rest.

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408 | Does God Still Love Me?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 Jul 2025 01:00:00 -0400

When life feels heavy, when mistakes pile up, or when things just don’t go the way we hope, a question may echo quietly in our minds: Am I still loved? In this episode of MercyTalk, host Melody Morris is joined by Mercy Multiplied Founder and President Nancy Alcorn, who shares wisdom from Scripture about the unconditional nature of God's love.

You'll also hear personal stories and powerful illustrations of how God's love transformed Nancy's life, and the lives of young women in Mercy's Residential Program. We hope you will be encouraged and inspired as you listen.

In this episode, we cover:

How God's love is extended to us in spite of our choices.
How we can misinterpret the consequences of our own actions, and feel like God is mad at us.
Truth's from Scripture about the nature of God's love.

Resources & Links:

Want to understand more about God's unfailing love? Check our episode, 364 | When You're Mad at God
Scriptures referenced in the episode include:
- John 3, verses 16-17
- Psalm 103, verses 10-12
- Isaiah 61, verse 7
- Jeremiah 29, verse 11
- Psalm 34, verse 18

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407 | MercyTalk Special Update

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Jul 2025 01:00:00 -0400

What’s next for MercyTalk? A new season, new voices, and the same powerful mission. In this special episode, longtime host Melanie Wise reflects on a decade of podcasting, shares heartfelt encouragement, and passes the mic to the new team stepping in to carry the vision forward. You’ll hear from Mercy’s Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, as well as the new hosts, Erin and Melody, who share their passion for equipping others with biblical principles for lasting healing and growth.

In this episode, we cover:

A look back at 400+ episodes and the heart behind MercyTalk
Melanie’s final encouragement to keep pursuing the “more” available in Christ
Meet the new hosts and hear why they’re passionate about this next season

Resources & Links:

Visit MercyMultiplied.com to learn more about our programs and resources.

Connect with us on Instagram, Facebook, and X @MercyMultiplied.

Email us at mercytalk@mercymultiplied.com with your thoughts or topic ideas.

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406 | Boundaries That Make Us Better Helpers

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Jul 2025 01:00:00 -0400

What if setting boundaries isn’t selfish—but sacred? Melody and Erin dive into the surprising truth about boundaries: they’re not about keeping people out, but about showing up in healthier, more sustainable ways. Through Scripture, personal stories, and practical wisdom, they explore how boundaries can actually make us better at loving and helping others.

In this episode, we cover:

Why boundaries are a form of love and responsibility—not rejection
How the Bible distinguishes between helping others and carrying what’s not ours
Practical ways to say “no” so you can say “yes” to what matters most

Resources & Links:

Sign up for the free Webinar by Mercy Multiplied – July 24, 2025 - Boundaries | What They Are and How to Communicate Them
Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend (Amazon)
MPower eCourse by Mercy Multiplied – Free Online Course

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405 | Transition Seasons with Arianna Walker

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Jun 2025 01:00:00 -0400

In this episode of MercyTalk, we share a powerful teaching by Mercy UK CEO, Arianna Walker. Arianna shares about transitions and how to navigate change in a healthy, faithful way.

Also, in this episode…

Four primary types of transitions and how to view them from a God-honoring perspective
The importance of surrender in transition seasons

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404 | When Pain Becomes Passion: A MercyStory

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Jun 2025 01:00:00 -0400

Life challenges can lead to opportunities for ministry that is fulfilling and far-reaching, as today's MercyStory illustrates. In this interview with Keys to Freedom leader Colleen Friesen, you will hear about how a mother and her daughter discovered the Keys to Freedom discipleship study, and why that made a profound difference in their lives and then impacted other people in their communities and around the world.

Also in this episode:

Ideas for developing Keys to Freedom leaders.
Following God's lead.
Hope for those struggling with life controlling issues and situations.

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Keys to Freedom: https://mercymultiplied.com/Keys%20to%20Freedom/
Contact us: mercytalk@mercymultiplied.com
Follow us on social: @MercyMultiplied on Instagram, Facebook, and X

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403 | Breaking Down the Big Question: What is Freedom?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 May 2025 01:00:00 -0400

A very personal conversation about the unique nature of the freedom found only in Christ. Join our host Melanie Wise and her guest, Melody Morris as they bring light and depth to this sometimes elusive question.

Featured in this episode…

A practical breakdown of Mercy’s tree analogy.
Thoughts on how God reveals the source of our struggles, and why that leads to transformation.
Personal stories illustrating how we can become more comfortable listening to and hearing from God.
Encouragement for going through the process of finding freedom from past hurts.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Keys to Freedom discipleship study
Hearing from God PDF resource

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402 | Listen First to Love Better: A Conversation about Mental Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 May 2025 01:00:00 -0400

In honor of Mental Health Month, explore how to support others through pain—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Erin Gentry and licensed counselor Leslie Lamb discuss the role of prayer, how to honor immediate needs before jumping to solutions, and what it means to trust God when healing doesn’t come as expected.

In this episode, we cover:

What it really means to reflect God’s provision in times of suffering
Stories of miraculous healing—and when healing doesn’t come
The role of prayer in both discernment and transformation

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Mercy Multiplied: www.MercyMultiplied.com
Contact us: mercytalk@mercymultiplied.com
Follow us on social: @MercyMultiplied on Instagram, Facebook, and X

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401 | MercyStory: Tallie & Wilson

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 Apr 2025 01:00:00 -0400

On this "MercyStory" episode of MercyTalk, you will be hearing the story of Wilson & Tallie, who participated in Mercy’s Center for Wellness and Counseling. We hope you’re encouraged by their story and how God has powerfully moved in their life!

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400 | Reconnecting to Intimacy with God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Apr 2025 01:00:00 -0400

In this episode of the Mercy Talk podcast, as we continue the theme of reconnecting with God, inspired by key insights from Carlos Whitaker’s book Reconnected, we revisit one of our earlier episodes that centers on the importance of building intimacy with God, particularly focusing on practical steps that can lead to a deeper relationship with Him.

Also, in this episode…

Understanding Intimacy with God
Five Steps to Intimacy with God
Steps Revealed to know how to get to know God

Additional Resources:
Listen to Part 2: https://mercytalk.transistor.fm/237

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399 | Reconnecting with the Life We're Made For

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Mar 2025 07:37:21 -0400

In this episode of MercyTalk, we dive into Reconnected, a book by Carlos Whittaker. We review the book concepts as Carlos shares his journey through a 7-week experiment, living among Benedictine monks in California and an Amish community in Ohio. Along the way, he rediscovered what it truly means to connect—with people, with God, and with the life we were created to live.

Also, in this episode…

· What it might look like to live at the pace of Jesus

· How to reengage with wonder

· The gift of solitude—and what we miss when we avoid it

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Reconnected by Carlos Whittaker

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398 | Transforming Habits in Our Homes and Lives - Part 3

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Mar 2025 01:00:00 -0400

In this episode of MercyTalk, we continue our conversation on the power of habits, specifically focusing on the habits of our digital lives.

Also, in this episode…

· The importance of recognizing how our digital habits impact every area of our lives

· A hard look at who’s really in control—are you working for your technology, or is it working for you?

· Practical tips for creating healthier habits around cell phone and TV usage

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Tech Wise Family by Andy Crouch

• Habits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Early

• The Digital Fast by Darren Whitehead

Recommended questions for reflection mentioned in this episode:

• What is the primary purpose of this device?

• Where will I charge my phone? Where is its home?

• When will I look at it first time in the morning?

• What time will I put it away at night?

• Where do I keep it during meals?

• In what situations will I not have my phone out?

• Which apps are most unhealthy for me?

• How will I interact with my phone when I’m driving? In meetings? with people I love?

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397 | MercyStory: Allison John

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Feb 2025 01:00:00 -0500

On this "Mercy Story" episode of MercyTalk, you will be hearing the story of Allison, who graduated from Mercy’s Residential Program. We hope you’re encouraged by Allison’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

Resources mentioned in today's episode:

https://mercymultiplied.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/A-Parents-Guide-to-a-Struggling-Teen.pdf

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396 | Real-Life Habits: Practical Examples to Transform Your Life

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Feb 2025 01:00:00 -0500

In this episode of MercyTalk, we continue our conversation on the power of habits by sharing real-life examples of habits our Mercy Multiplied staff members have incorporated into their lives that serve their mental, emotional, and/or spiritual health. This episode is full of ideas that will inspire you with ideas for habits to incorporate into your own life!

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395 | Transforming Habits in Our Homes and Lives

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Jan 2025 01:00:00 -0500

In this episode of MercyTalk, we begin a conversation on the power of habits in shaping our homes and our personal growth. We discuss some transformative principles when it comes to building healthy habits that we’ve learned from authors like James Clear and Justin Whitmel Early.

Also, in this episode…

· Why habits matter: the connection between mundane daily tasks and faith formation

· How James Clear’s “Four Laws of Behavior Change” can practically help you build habits that actually stick in your life

· Why bad habits form and powerful principles for breaking them

Resources mentioned in this episode:

· Habits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley

· Atomic Habits by James Clear

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394 | What a Lack of Emotional Health Looks Like – Part 3

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Jan 2025 01:00:00 -0500

In this episode of MercyTalk, we continue our conversation on emotional health and how it impacts our spiritual maturity. We specifically dive into the final three of the “Top Ten Symptoms of Emotionally Unhealthy Spirituality” from pastor and author Pete Scazzero’s book, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality.

Also, in this episode…

· The consequences of trying to cover our brokenness and failures

· How seeking to cover our brokenness leads to judging others’ spiritual journeys

· The importance of understanding our own limits and God’s heart for our personal self care

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393 | What a Lack of Emotional Health Looks Like – Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Dec 2024 02:00:01 -0500

Also, in this episode…

The consequences of dividing life into “secular” and “sacred” compartments
What it means to die to the wrong things
The difference between doing for God instead of being with God

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392 | Conflict and the Lie of False Peacemaking with Jeff Helton

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Nov 2024 02:00:19 -0500

In this episode of MercyTalk, we continue diving into the “Top Ten Symptoms of Emotionally Unhealthy Spirituality” from Pete Scazzero’s book, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. One of the symptoms he mentions is “spiritualizing away conflict.” We’re especially excited to have Executive and Life Coach Jeff Helton with us to have this important conversation about what it looks like to engage in conflict in a healthy way!

Also, in this episode…

• Why so many people hate (or fear) conflict
• What it looks like to be the kind of peacemaker Jesus implored us to be
• The role of expectations in conflict

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391 | What a Lack of Emotional Health Looks Like

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 Oct 2024 02:00:17 -0400

In this episode of MercyTalk, we continue our conversation on emotional health and how it impacts our spiritual maturity. We specifically dive into three of the “Top Ten Symptoms of Emotionally Unhealthy Spirituality” from pastor and author Pete Scazzero’s book, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. Also, in this episode… · The importance of engaging, not ignoring, our anger, sadness, and fear · How important it is to process our past and its effects on our present · Using religious activity to avoid having to face our personal issues Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

390 | How Emotional Health Impacts Spiritual Maturity

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Oct 2024 02:00:16 -0400

In this episode of MercyTalk, we begin a conversation on the topic of emotional health and how it impacts our spiritual maturity. We introduce some of the big ideas from pastor and author Pete Scazzero’s book Emotionally Healthy Spirituality which poses the idea that “it’s impossible to be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature.”

Also, in this episode…

What emotional health actually looks like
How many of the traditional approaches to discipleship in the Church have resulted in minimal life change
What it looks like to address the whole person in healing and growth

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389 | God Cares About Mental Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Oct 2024 02:00:43 -0400

On today’s episode of MercyTalk, we recognize World Mental Health Day with a reflection on how God cares deeply about mental health! For some, “mental health” has become solely associated with science, medicine, and diagnoses. However, mental health is a deeply spiritual matter! God is concerned with mental health because he created us to experience it.

Also, in this episode…

The concept of holistic (spirit, soul, and body) health
Practical ways to grow in our mental health

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388 | How to Disagree Without Being a Jerk with Gavin Ortlund

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Oct 2024 02:00:47 -0400

In this episode of MercyTalk, we’re excited to have author and theologian Gavin Ortlund with us to have a conversation based on his upcoming book, The Art of Disagreeing. It’s hard to deny that the temperature has dramatically risen in our culture when it comes to politics, religion, culture wars, etc. As Gavin points out in his book, we seem to have lost the ability to disagree well, and as followers of Jesus, we are called to rise above “the rancor and ‘cancel culture’ tactics of the world around us.”

Also, in this episode…

How to stay self-aware when engaging in disagreements with others
The two virtues that lay a foundation for healthy disagreement: kindness and courage
The important roles of both listening and persuasion

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387 | Myths + Misunderstandings around Suicide

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Sep 2024 02:00:36 -0400

September is National Suicide Prevention Month. It’s a month to remember those we have lost to suicide and acknowledge the countless people who have been impacted. It’s also a time to raise awareness about suicide prevention and to share messages of hope! So today, we have two counselors from Mercy’s Center for Wellness and Counseling helping us unpack some of the most common myths and misconceptions around this very important topic.

Also, in this episode…

Why men statistically die by suicide more often than women
The difference between being suicidal and experiencing suicidal ideation
Lies people may believe about those who are suicidal or who take their life

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

386 | Crossroads Church’s Story: Bringing Freedom to a Community with Pastors Dave Vance and Chris Standridge

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Sep 2024 02:00:12 -0400

On this episode of MercyTalk, we welcome Pastors Dave Vance and Chris Standridge of Crossroads Church in Mansfield, OH. Crossroads is a multi-site church of around 4,000 people, and earlier this year, they held a church-wide campaign based on Mercy’s Keys to Freedom study. Today, Pastors Dave and Chris share about how God moved through their community throughout the campaign. You will be encouraged by their stories of God’s goodness and faithfulness!

Also, in this episode…

Why this church’s leadership team saw Keys to Freedom as a resource for their whole church, not just those who are “really struggling”
How a large church logistically rolled out Keys to Freedom to their entire community
The role the local church has in engaging mental health

If you would like to follow Crossroads Church, go to crossroadswired.com or you can find them on social media and YouTube.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

385 | When Your Child is Struggling : Exploring Next Steps

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Aug 2024 02:00:42 -0400

In this final episode of our “When Your Child is Struggling” series, we’re talking about what it looks like to explore next steps with your child who is struggling. It is not your job as the parent to figure everything out for your child, but to figure it out with them.

Also, in this episode…

How to navigate the “next steps” conversations with your child
When to know if you need professional support
What to do if your child is resistant to professional counseling

Resources mentioned in this episode:

MercyTalk Episode 344 – Why We Avoid Getting Help

When Additional Support Is Needed resource (how to find a professional counselor)

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

384 | When Your Child is Struggling: Listening and Learning Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Aug 2024 02:14:17 -0400

In this episode of our “When Your Child is Struggling” series, we’re sharing the second of two parts about how to navigate conversations with your child who is struggling, because the way you respond to your child is key! In this episode, we continue last week’s discussion on important principles to keep in mind in these conversations so that you can love and support your child well, while encouraging them toward growth, healing, and freedom!

Also, in this episode…

What it looks like to validate your child in the midst of their struggle
How to turn to God first in these conversations
How to speak hard truths to your child

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

383 | When Your Child is Struggling: Listening and Learning Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Jul 2024 02:00:05 -0400

In this episode of our When Your Child is Struggling series, we’re sharing the first of two parts about how to navigate conversations with your child who is struggling, because as we discussed in the last episode, the way you respond to your child is key! In this episode, we discuss some important principles to keep in mind in these conversations so that you can love and support your child well, while encouraging them toward growth, healing, and freedom!

Also, in this episode…

How to assess your child’s struggle and ask the right questions
How to listen, engage, and stay present with your child

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

382 | BONUS EPISODE: Kristy's Story

Mercy Multiplied — Wed, 10 Jul 2024 23:00:37 -0400

On this episode of MercyTalk, you will be hearing the story of Kristy, who graduated from Mercy’s residential program in Nashville in the year of 2000. We were also excited to have Mercy Multiplied Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, join us for this episode. We hope you’re encouraged by Kristy’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

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381 | When Your Child is Struggling: Your Response

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Jun 2024 09:53:04 -0400

In this episode of our When Your Child is Struggling series, we’re talking about how to respond to your child who is struggling, because the way you respond is key! We can get so caught up in saying and doing the perfect thing and forget that it’s actually the way we engage with a loved one who’s struggling that matters more than anything.

Also, in this episode…

A common parental response to a struggling child
Surrendering the need to understand your child’s struggles
Remembering that the issue you see isn’t the real issue

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

380 | When Your Child is Struggling: Are you Operating From a Place of Health?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Jun 2024 09:00:51 -0400

We are so excited to be kicking off a new series entitled When Your Child is Struggling! As a parent, it is so hard to see your child struggling – whether that be with things like anxiety and depression or things like substance abuse and self-harm. In this series, Dr Brooke Keels and Melanie Wise discuss some of the key things that any parent with a struggling child should know. (And even though this series is directed toward parents, it will be helpful for anyone who has a loved one in their life who is struggling!) In this episode, we discuss the importance of being healthy and self-aware as the parent so you can navigate the situation with your child from a place of health.

Also, in this episode…

How to assess what’s happening inside of you as you watch your loved one struggle
Common mental and emotional challenges for parents of struggling children
How to process your emotions about your child’s struggles with God

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

379 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Sky's Story

Mercy Multiplied — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 20:00:39 -0500

On this episode of Testimony Tuesday, we hear the powerful story of transformation of one of our Residential Program graduates, Sky! At Mercy, we get to hear so many incredible testimonies from people who have gone through our counseling programs and our Keys to Freedom study. However, those outside of Mercy rarely have the opportunity to hear these stories, which is why we host Testimony Tuesday. We hope you’re encouraged by Sky’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

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378 | The Brain and Renewing the Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Dec 2023 02:00:20 -0500

In this final episode of our “Train Your Brain” series, we discuss the topic of Renewing the Mind, specifically focusing on what is physiologically happening to our brains in the process of renewing the mind. This may be one of the clearest direct ties between neuroscience and the Word of God!

Also, in this episode…

Dr. Daniel Siegel’s concept of “mindsight” and how it connects to the biblical principle of “taking our thoughts captive”
The authority that we can take over our state of mind at any given moment
Practical steps for partnering with God in the health of our brain and neuropathways

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.

Keys to Freedom by Mercy Multiplied

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

377 | Trauma, Memory, and the Brain

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Nov 2023 02:00:55 -0500

In this episode of our “Train Your Brain” series, we discuss the concept of trauma, memory, and our brains. We unpack how memory works, how we integrate memory, and how trauma affects our brains.

Also, in this episode…

The difference between explicit and implicit memory
Trauma and brain fragmentation
What is happening on a neurological level when we are “triggered”
How to prevent a potentially traumatic experience from impacting us long-term

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.

The Place We Find Ourselves podcast (Adam Young)

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Vanderkolk

Keys to Freedom by Mercy Multiplied

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

376 | Let’s Talk Upstairs and Downstairs Brain

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Nov 2023 02:00:55 -0500

In this episode of our “Train Your Brain” series, we discuss the “upstairs” and “downstairs” of our brains. We unpack the functions of the frontal lobe (upstairs) and the limbic system (downstairs), what it looks like for these areas of our brains to be integrated, and why that integration matters.

Also, in this episode…

What’s actually happening in the brain when someone “flips their lid”
Strategies for building and reinforcing a metaphorical “staircase” between the upstairs and downstairs brain so they are more fully integrated

Resource mentioned in this episode:

The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

375 | Whole Brain Discipleship

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Nov 2023 02:00:20 -0500

In this episode of our “Train Your Brain” series, we’re talking about how understanding the functions of the left brain vs. right brain can have major implications when it comes to spiritual growth and discipleship. If you have found yourself frustrated by the lack of transformation you’re experiencing in your own life (or in the lives of those you lead), perhaps you’ve been neglecting the most important part of the brain for such transformation to actually occur!

Also, in this episode…

How character formation happens through the brain
The necessity of community for transformation
Practical ways to engage your right brain

Resource mentioned in this episode:

The Other Half of Church by Jim Wilder and Michel Hendricks

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

374 | Let's Talk Left Brain and Right Brain

Mercy Multiplied — Wed, 01 Nov 2023 21:00:15 -0400

In this episode of our “Train Your Brain” series, we discuss the left and right hemispheres of our brains. We unpack the functions of each side of the brain and also discuss what it looks like for the right and left hemispheres to be integrated and why that integration matters.

Also, in this episode…

The importance of accessing both logic and emotion
A thought-provoking definition of “mental health” from Dr. Dan Siegel
Strategies for engaging both the right and left hemispheres of the brain

Resource mentioned in this episode:

The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

373 | Why Talk About the Brain?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Oct 2023 02:00:05 -0400

We are so excited to be kicking off a new series entitled “Train Your Brain.” Mercy Multiplied strongly believes in the idea of holistic healing because we are holistic (spirit, soul, and body) beings. In this series, we will talk about God’s design for our brains and how our brains powerfully impact our personal growth and healing (and vice versa)! In this episode, we’ll discuss why we believe it’s so important for people to have a basic understanding of their brains and how God designed their brains to function, develop, heal, and change.

Also, in this episode…

Why Christians should never fear science
The primary functions of the brain
Brain integration – what it means and why it matters

Resource mentioned in this episode:

The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

372 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday - Amy's Story

Mercy Multiplied — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 21:00:00 -0400

On this episode of Testimony Tuesday, you will be hearing the story of Amy, who graduated from Mercy’s residential program during its third decade! We hope you’re encouraged by Amy’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

371 | Stories of Impact from Mercy Staff

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Aug 2023 02:00:29 -0400

Concluding our “40 Years of Freedom” series, we share stories from some of Mercy’s staff members about how working at Mercy has impacted their personal faith journeys. We hope you’re encouraged by the episode!

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370 | Mercy's Approach to Freedom in Christ with Fredrica and Shantray

Mercy Multiplied — Wed, 09 Aug 2023 21:00:00 -0400

As we continue our “40 Years of Freedom” series, we have two very special guests, Fredrica Singletary (Mercy’s Senior Director of Programs) and Shantray Smith (Mercy’s Director of Counseling Services for our Center for Wellness and Counseling). In this episode, we discuss the way that Mercy approaches inner healing and freedom in Christ. We hope you enjoy the episode and are encouraged!

Also, in this episode…

Overview of Mercy’s Residential and Outpatient Programs
Practical ways Mercy’s approach could impact you personally

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

369 | The Beliefs That Guide Us with Nicola and Arianna

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 02:00:52 -0400

In this episode of our “40 Years of Freedom” series, we have two very special guests, Nicola Bartel (Executive Director of Mercy Canada) and Arianna Walker (CEO of Mercy UK). Together, we discuss the core beliefs and ideas that guide Mercy Multiplied as an organization. Click the link below to visit Mercy Canada’s website and Mercy UK’s website!

Also, in this episode…

Exciting updates about what’s happening with Mercy Canada and Mercy UK
Practical ways these beliefs could impact anyone in their personal life

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Visit Mercy Canada’s website.

Visit Mercy UK’s website.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

368 | Mercy’s Last 20 Years with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Jul 2023 02:00:14 -0400

Continuing our “40 Years of Freedom” series, we have the second episode with our very special guest, Founder & President of Mercy Multiplied, Nancy Alcorn. In this episode, Nancy shares how God has been moving in the last 20 years of the ministry. We hope you’re encouraged and enjoy the episode!

Also, in this episode…

Surprising ways God has provided for Mercy
How the last 20 years have impacted Nancy’s faith
Nancy’s dreams and prayers for the future of Mercy

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Nancy Alcorn – Echoes of Mercy

Email MercyTalk@MercyMultiplied.com for a free copy of Echoes of Mercy.

Celebrate Mercy Multiplied’s 40th Anniversary at our Merry Mercy Christmas Benefit in Nashville on Friday, December 8th, 2023! Enjoy a plated dinner as you hear from Founder and President Nancy Alcorn and other special guests. Learn more and register at MerryMercyChristmas.com.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

367 | Mercy’s First 20 Years with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Jul 2023 02:00:51 -0400

We’re celebrating Mercy’s 40th anniversary! To kick off our “40 Years of Freedom” series, we have a very special guest, Founder & President of Mercy Multiplied, Nancy Alcorn. In this episode, Nancy shares stories and testimonies about the first 20 years of the ministry. We hope you’re encouraged and enjoy the episode!

Also, in this episode…

Nancy’s story prior to starting Mercy Multiplied
Three principles the Lord gave Nancy when she started Mercy
Some of Nancy’s favorite ways God provided for Mercy

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Nancy Alcorn – Echoes of Mercy

Email MercyTalk@mercymultiplied.com for a free copy of Echoes of Mercy.

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

366 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Kristin's Story

Mercy Multiplied — Mon, 26 Jun 2023 21:00:48 -0400

Mercy is celebrating 40 YEARS as a ministry this year! So over the course of 2023, we will be sharing a testimony from a graduate of our Residential Program from each decade that Mercy has been in existence! On this episode of Testimony Tuesday, you will be hearing the story of Kristin, who graduated from Mercy’s Residential Program during its second decade! We hope you’re encouraged by Kristin’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

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365 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Chris' Story

Mercy Multiplied — Mon, 27 Mar 2023 21:00:47 -0400

Mercy is celebrating 40 YEARS as a ministry this year! So over the course of 2023, we will be sharing a testimony from a graduate of our residential program from each decade that Mercy has been in existence! On this episode of Testimony Tuesday, you will be hearing the story of Chris, who graduated from Mercy’s residential program during its first decade! We get to hear so many incredible testimonies from people who have gone through our counseling programs and our Keys to Freedom study. However, those outside of Mercy rarely have the opportunity to hear these stories, which is why we host Testimony Tuesday. We hope you’re encouraged by Chris’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

364 | When You’re Mad at God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Mar 2023 02:00:11 -0500

Finishing our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series, we’re going to discuss how to process anger towards God. It’s common to struggle with anger and doubt when God doesn’t do what we think He should do or answer prayers in the way we hope He will answer. We hope you find this episode helpful and encouraging if you or someone you know is struggling in this area.

Also, in this episode…

The importance of having permission to be angry at God
How to practically walk through and process our anger at God
How a good and loving God could allow bad situations to happen

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Lysa TerKeurst – Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Jennifer Rothschild – God is Just Not Fair

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

363 | When You’re Mad at Yourself

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Mar 2023 02:00:08 -0500

Continuing in our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series, we’re going to discuss what it looks like when the person you cannot forgive is yourself. You have likely either heard or said something along the lines of, “I can never forgive myself for what I did.” It can be difficult to look at ourselves with the heart of God – with grace, compassion, and understanding. We hope you find this conversation helpful and encouraging if you or someone you know is struggling in this area.

Also, in this episode…

Practical steps for forgiving yourself
Importance of confessing to a close community
How to invite the Holy Spirit into your forgiveness journey

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Lysa TerKeurst – Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Mercy Multiplied’s – Keys to Freedom

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

362 | Forgiving Those You’re Stuck With

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Feb 2023 02:00:27 -0500

In this episode of our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series, we’re going to dive a little deeper into how to forgive the people in your life that you’re kind of “stuck with.” We’re talking about people like your mom, dad, sibling, boss, or even your spouse. These situations can feel tricky, so we hope you find this episode helpful!

Also, in this episode…

Assessing the boundaries you need to set up in a difficult relationship
Tips on having a conversation with someone about boundaries

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Lysa TerKeurst – Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Cloud and Townsend – Boundaries

Mercy Multiplied’s – MPower Workshop

In her book, Lysa TerKeurst offered these questions to consider:

What do I need to do in this relationship to stay consistent in my character, conduct, and communication?
What are some areas of my life where I have the most limited capacity? (at my job, in parenting, during the holidays…)
Do I feel the freedom in this relationship to communicate what I can and cannot give without the fear of being punished or pushed away?
What are some realistic restrictions I can place on myself to reduce the access this person has to my most limited emotional or physical resources?
What time of the day is most HEALTHY for me to interact with this person? What time of the day is the most unhealthy time for me to interact with this person?
How am I suffering the consequences of their choices more than they are? What are their most realistic and unrealistic?

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

361 | The Nuts and Bolts of Forgiveness

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Feb 2023 02:00:09 -0500

In this episode of our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series, we’re talking about how to walk out forgiveness. It’s important to know what forgiveness is and why it’s important, but none of that matters if we don’t know how to walk it out.

Also, in this episode…

3 practical steps toward forgiveness
How to approach forgiveness
What it means to be forgiving people

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Lysa TerKeurst – Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Mercy Multiplied – Keys to Freedom

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

360 | What Forgiveness Is and What It’s Not

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Feb 2023 02:00:01 -0500

For this episode in our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series, we’re doing a deep dive on what forgiveness is and what it’s not. There are a lot of misconceptions about forgiveness and many of those misconceptions hold people back in their willingness to forgive. Being able to see the truth about forgiveness clears the fog around the subject and allows you to walk in forgiveness.

Also, in this episode…

Beliefs about forgiveness in the Church that aren’t true
Forgiveness as a process

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Lysa TerKeurst – Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Mercy Multiplied – MPower Workshop

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

359 | Grieving our Hurts

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Feb 2023 02:00:03 -0500

We’re continuing our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series by discussing what it means to grieve our hurts and how vital it is to the forgiveness process. The reality is that we’ve all been wounded by the sins of other people and we all need to learn the steps required to process, grieve, and forgive those hurts. Our hope is that this episode encourages you and gives insight into this important topic.

Also, in this episode…

Why our hurts matter
What it means to “grieve our hurts”
Practical steps for grieving life hurts

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Adam Young’s Podcast – The Place We Find Ourselves

Mercy Multiplied’s – Keys to Freedom discipleship study

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

358 | Why Forgiveness Matters

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Jan 2023 02:00:24 -0500

We’re kicking off our “Breaking Down Forgiveness” series on MercyTalk by discussing why forgiveness is essential to our ability to walk in freedom. We would all acknowledge that forgiveness is important, but could you verbalize why? Our hope is that today’s episode will help clarify that question and inspire each of us to grow in our capacity to forgive.

Also, in this episode…

The fruits of unforgiveness
The power of forgiveness

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Lysa TerKeurst – Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Tim Keller – Forgive – Why Should I and How Can I

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

357 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Julia’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Tue, 06 Dec 2022 02:00:58 -0500

On this episode of Testimony Tuesday, we hear the powerful story of transformation of one of our Residential Program graduates, Julia! At Mercy, we get to hear so many incredible testimonies from people who have gone through our counseling programs and our Keys to Freedom study. However, those outside of Mercy rarely have the opportunity to hear these stories, which is why we host Testimony Tuesday. We hope you’re encouraged by Julia’s story and how God has powerfully moved in her life!

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

356 | How to Find Deep Community

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 02:00:54 -0500

Finishing up our “We Need Each Other” series on MercyTalk, we’re going to unpack practical steps on how to find the deep community we’ve presented over the course of this series! Everyone wants to be known and loved by others, but that kind of community does not come without some real work and intention. Our hope is that this episode helps guide you to find others who want to engage in deep community.

Also, in this episode…

Questions to ask when looking for community
Personal barriers that can stand in our way
Three steps for moving towards deep community

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Jennie Allen – Find Your People

Cloud and Townsend – Safe People

John Townsend – People Fuel

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

355 | When You’ve Been Hurt

Mercy Multiplied — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 15:17:05 -0400

As we continue our “We Need Each Other” series, we’re going to talk about the reality of being hurt in community. Much of the pain that people live with comes as a direct result of painful or disappointing relationships where trust was broken. These hurts can then become a massive barrier for people wanting to engage in deep relationships again. We hope to encourage and help you work through those wounds so that you can open yourself back up to the kind of rich community that God has in His heart for you.

Also, in this episode…

Why working through relational wounds is so vital
Practical ways to work through areas of hurt
The role that community plays in healing from past hurts

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Mercy Multiplied – Keys to Freedom

Andy Crouch – The Life We’re Looking For

John Townsend – People Fuel

Cloud and Townsend – Safe People

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

354 | Deep Community Requires Vulnerability

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Oct 2022 02:00:11 -0400

In this episode of our “We Need Each Other” series, we’ll talk about the importance of embracing vulnerability if we want to experience deep relationships and community. Part of being vulnerable with others is expressing our need for one another, which can be scary because it acknowledges dependence on others. The reality is that expressing our needs and being vulnerable with one another (in a wise and healthy way) honors God because it’s how He created deep community to operate.

Also, in this episode…

How Western culture has affected our view of vulnerability
What it takes to be fully known
How to start walking in deeper vulnerability

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

353 | Barriers to Community

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 02:00:14 -0400

Continuing in our “We Need Each Other” series, we’re going to discuss what’s standing in our way of deep relationships and community. Countless people today feel lonely and isolated and can’t figure out why “finding their people” seems so challenging. So in this episode, we’ll break down some of the most common barriers to community to shed some light on why this is such a challenging area in many of our lives!

Also, in this episode…

How the enemy attacks our experience of community
Lies that we believe and agreements we make that keep us from deep relationships
The investment it requires of us to have a deep community

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

352 | What Deep Community Looks Like

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Oct 2022 02:00:48 -0400

Continuing our “We Need Each Other” series, we’re going to talk about what a deeply committed community could look like in our lives. Many people haven’t experienced deep community in a long time or have never experienced it at all. In this episode, we hope to share a vision that compels you to intentionally seek out what the Lord has in His heart for you when it comes to community.

Also, in this episode…

Assessing whether or not you have deep community
Receiving relational nutrients from others
The five characteristics to aim for in your closest inner circle of relationships

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

351 | How Western Culture is Working Against Community

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Oct 2022 02:00:24 -0400

We’re in our “We Need Each Other” series on MercyTalk where we’re talking about the vital role that community plays in our mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual health. Our Western culture is constantly working against us having deep community. How did we get here and why does everything seem to be pushing against us in this area? Join Melanie and Brooke as they dig into these questions and more.

Also, in this episode…

How the history of American society has affected community
Technology’s role in our current culture
How our money economy has made for a very impersonal world

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350 | The Life We’re Looking For with Andy Crouch

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 02:00:54 -0400

As we continue our MercyTalk series “We Need Each Other” on relationships and community, we’re thrilled to have nationally renowned author and speaker, Andy Crouch, join us! In this episode, we have a conversation based on Andy’s recently released book, The Life We’re Looking For, where he shares about how impersonal our world has become and how we have displaced some of our most core needs with the ease of technology. Andy also gives us hope for restoring a world where we can truly know and be known.

Also, in this episode…

How things would change if we interacted with others as “persons” versus “people”
How our current world has left us underdeveloped and how that affects the defining condition of our time: loneliness
How we can restore true community in a world dominated by money and power

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Andy Crouch – The Life We’re Looking For

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

349 | Is God Supposed to Be Enough?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Sep 2022 02:00:06 -0400

This episode marks the start of our new MercyTalk series “We Need Each Other” on the vital role that relationships and community play in our mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual health. We’re going to come out strong by diving into what may sound like a very provocative question, “Is God supposed to be enough?”. This conversation sets the stage for this series by talking about how we are all designed for relationships and community.

Also, in this episode…

How we’re created in the image of a “we” and not an “I”
How Scripture points to our call to go to one another and need one another
What science is teaching us about our need for one another

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

348 | How Mercy is Supporting Young Women Facing an Unplanned Pregnancy with Founder & President Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Sep 2022 02:00:44 -0400

The recent overturning of Roe vs Wade has undoubtedly been a significant moment in our nation. In this episode, Founder & President of Mercy Multiplied, Nancy Alcorn, shares about how since 1985, Mercy has been giving women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy an opportunity to choose life. Nancy also shares how God has specifically led us to put more focus on our services for unplanned pregnancy in this season of time.

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347 | Important MercyTalk Update

Mercy Multiplied — Fri, 22 Jul 2022 16:30:15 -0400

Hey MercyTalk listeners, it’s Melanie Wise here, and I wanted to give you all a heads up on some really exciting things that we are working on with MercyTalk. If you have been following us for long, you know that we have typically posted a podcast every week to two weeks for the past few years, and we are excited to be transitioning MercyTalk into more of a series structure. What does that mean? It means that we are going to be releasing a few series of episodes each year instead of a podcast every other week. Each series will be focused on a specific theme, and I’m personally excited about this because it’s allowing us to really spend focused time preparing, writing, and recording for each series. We are PUMPED to announce that our upcoming 2022 Fall Series on MercyTalk is going to be on the topic of how relationships and community serve and support your mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual health. As we have been researching and writing the various episodes for this series, I can tell you that it’s personally been rocking MY world, so I can’t tell you how excited I am to get this content out to you all. Until then, be sure that you are following Mercy Multiplied on Instagram and/or Facebook because we’ll be sharing some of our past episodes over the coming weeks until our fall series launches. And then BE SURE that you are subscribed to MercyTalk on whatever podcast platform you use, and be on the lookout for our fall series that we plan to release starting around the middle to end of September! Can’t wait to be back with you guys then!

346 | What Pastors Want to Ask Counselors

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Jun 2022 10:00:10 -0400

We believe that Jesus is the key player in your healing journey. We are also big supporters of people getting professional help when needed. They both have vital roles, but they haven’t always worked well together or understood one another. On this episode, we have a conversation with a pastor and a counselor on some of the common struggles and questions that leaders in the church have for mental health experts. We also talk about how people in the Body of Christ can best support and come alongside those who are engaging in professional counseling.

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345 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Jenna’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 02:00:55 -0400

We get to hear so many incredible testimonies from people who have gone through our residential and outpatient programs, as well as those who have completed Mercy’s Keys to Freedom study. However, those outside of Mercy don’t have the opportunity to hear these stories as often, which is why we host a quarterly “Testimony Tuesday” episode on the MercyTalk podcast. This episode of Testimony Tuesday highlights someone who has gone through Keys to Freedom several times, Jenna! Listen as she shares her story about how Keys to Freedom has impacted her life!

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344 | Why We Avoid Getting Help

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 May 2022 02:00:23 -0400

People can come up with a million reasons why they can’t (or don’t want to) receive professional counseling. While some of these reasons may simply be “excuses,” others are valid struggles and concerns. In this episode, we share tips and encouragement to help move past some of these barriers, whether you are personally struggling or you know others who need help.

Also, in this episode…

Do Christians really need counseling?
What if counseling is too expensive?
How to respond to people that are resisting professional help

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

343 | Breaking Agreements and Renewing the Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Tue, 17 May 2022 15:45:32 -0400

Whether we’re aware of them or not, we’ve all made agreements with lies from the enemy in moments of pain in our lives. These agreements may be about ourselves, God, or the people and the world around us. These agreements grow over time and shape the way we see the world. The good news is that we do not have to live with the agreements that we’ve made. As Christians, we can walk in the truth that Romans 12:2 declares, “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Also, in this episode…

The role our belief system places in our lives
How to identify the agreements we’ve made
Practical steps to breaking those agreements

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

342 | Jesus’ Role in Your Freedom with Mercy UK’s Rob Harvie

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Apr 2022 02:00:31 -0400

We discuss Jesus’ role (and your role) in your freedom journey with a very special guest, Rob Harvie, who is part of the Senior Leadership team of Mercy UK. Rob shares from his passion and experience of seeing Mercy’s Keys to Freedom resource explode around the entire continent of Europe!

Also, in this episode…

Why simply “praying off” our issues or praying for deliverance is rarely complete
The power of partnering with Jesus in a powerful process
How vital it is for each of us to take responsibility for our lives

Have a topic suggestion or question? Email MercyTalk.

341 | How Sleep Impacts Mental and Emotional Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Apr 2022 02:00:08 -0400

Our culture commonly conveys the message that sleep is for the “weak” and is nothing but a necessary evil and threat to productivity. The truth is that sleep greatly affects your mental and emotional health! We are all spirit, soul, and body, and one aspect affects all of the others. So while sleep may not be a cure for your mental or emotional health struggles, it is an essential component of holistic health.

Also, in this episode…

Behaviors during the day that impact your sleep
What happens in your brain while you are sleeping
Practical steps that can improve your sleep
Brooke’s love for early bedtimes

340 | How One Church is Leaning Into the Mental Health Crisis with Rachael Schmidt and Tyler Kurbat

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 02:00:04 -0400

Both the Church and mental health professionals play important roles in serving the holistic health (spirit, soul, and body) of the people in our churches and communities. However, historically, the Church has either A. tried to help people struggling with significant mental/emotional health issues without ever consulting professionals or B. passed it off to professionals and absolved themselves of any involvement. Neither extreme is healthy! It’s very difficult for a church to find the balance, but that’s exactly what Christ’s Church of the Valley in Phoenix, AZ, has done. Today’s guests, Rachael and Tyler, are on staff at CCV, and they share with us what they’ve learned about what it looks like for the Church to partner with local professionals to serve the holistic health of a community.

Also, in this episode…

What it can look like for a church to offer care and support
How the culture at CCV and their community has been impacted by leaning into the mental health conversation

Christ Church of the Valley is open-handed with their content and what they’ve learned. If your church or organization wants to brainstorm or ask questions, they’d love to connect.

Tyler Kurbat – TylerKurbat@ccv.church

Rachael Schmidt – RachaelSchmidt@ccv.church

339 | The Gift of Grief with Rachelle Ashbee

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 02:01:40 -0500

Grief is a strong reality for many people right now. If you aren’t walking through a season of grief, you likely know someone who is. Most people associate the word “grief” with the death of a loved one, but there are many things throughout our lives that we grieve. On this episode, Mercy Canada Program Director, Rachelle Ashbee, shares some of her own journey through grief and what she’s learned.

Also, in this episode…

How to allow community to care for and meet us in our grief
Allowing grief to shape who we are and who we are becoming
How to not get stuck in grief

338 | What You May Not Know About Disordered Eating

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 05:00:36 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk (being shared during National Eating Disorder Awareness Week), we talk about disordered eating with one of our Mercy graduates and current staff member, Mary Ellen Alexander. Mary Ellen shares about her experience with disordered eating, including how she’s been able to overcome her struggle and is now able to help others. Whether disordered eating affects you personally or affects someone you know, we hope this show is helpful and is something you can share with others who may be struggling.

Also, in this episode…

The difference between disordered eating and an eating disorder
Emotional eating and the importance of awareness when it comes to our eating habits
Practical ways that we can prevent moving into an unhealthy relationship with food

337 | “God is Good and Does Good” with Founder & President Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Feb 2022 05:00:32 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we have a conversation about the goodness of God with the Founder & President of Mercy Multiplied, Nancy Alcorn. We talk about some of the various perspectives that exist about God’s character and how He operates and exercises His sovereignty in the world, specifically as it relates to pain and suffering. Nancy shares her personal perspective on who He is, how He works, and what she’s learned regarding the “will of God” throughout her life.

Also, in this episode…

“Is it God’s will when bad things happen on Earth?”
How God uses pain and suffering for good
A word of encouragement for someone who is struggling with anger or bitterness toward the Lord

336 | Navigating Virtual Life Back to Relational Life

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Jan 2022 05:42:17 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we discuss what it looks like to navigate between virtual and relational lives in a way that’s healthy and life-giving with Dr. Brooke Keels. For a significant portion of the past two years, almost every aspect of our lives was moved to the online space. However, society has begun shifting back to more and more in-person gatherings. For some, it can be tempting to stay in the virtual world, but virtual relationships ultimately fall short of the benefits of personal connection. Together, we encourage you to walk back into relational life.

Also, in this episode…

The problems with staying in the virtual space
“Re-entry anxiety” – what it is and how to handle it
Practical ideas to help you reconnect with people

335 | How Living in Freedom Can Impact Your Marriage

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Jan 2022 05:00:08 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we are sharing a conversation that Melanie Wise had with Adam and Karissa King on their podcast, “Dear Young Married Couple.” It was a great conversation about how the biblical principles shared in Mercy’s Keys to Freedom study can transform and strengthen a marriage. Whether you’re currently married, want to one day be married, or know people who are married who you could share this episode, we hope this conversation is encouraging (and maybe even a little challenging)!

334 | Advent Series: Choosing Hope and Joy in the New Year

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Dec 2021 05:00:22 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we finish our Advent series by discussing the themes of hope and joy with Dr. Brooke Keels. As we enter a new year, we want to posture our hearts in such a way that we maintain our mental, emotional, and spiritual health. No matter what 2021 may have held for you, we hope this show encourages you to move into this new year with a renewed sense of hope and joy in the Lord.

Also, in this episode…

The difference between joy and happiness
Accessing joy that the world can’t touch
What true biblical hope looks like

333 | Advent Series: Choosing Love in the Holidays

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 05:00:33 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we continue our Advent series by discussing the theme of love with Dr. Brooke Keels. How we understand and walk in the love of God impacts every single aspect of our lives. And ultimately, the Father’s greatest expression of His love for us is the sending of Jesus.

Also, in this episode…

Practical ways for living in the love of the Father
How to know you’re living in the fullness of God’s love
What Scripture tells us about the love of God

332 | Advent Series: Choosing Peace in the Holidays

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Dec 2021 05:00:28 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we begin our Advent series by discussing the theme of peace with Dr. Brooke Keels. During the holiday season, it can be easy to find yourself in a place of anxiety and worry. In this episode, we remind you that peace is not the absence of conflict, but the presence of God. If we want peace in our lives, God has to rule and reign in our lives.

Also, in this episode…

The importance of physical rest and Sabbath
How prayer can lead your heart and mind to a place of peace
Practical ways to maintain inner peace during the holidays

331 | God's Yes Needs Your Amen with Arianna Walker

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Nov 2021 05:00:29 -0500

On this episode of MercyTalk, we discuss faith and the fulfillment of God’s promises with a very special guest, Arianna Walker, CEO of Mercy UK. Arianna shares her story of starting the Mercy program in the UK and discovering the power of partnering with God’s promises.

Also, in this episode…

God’s provision for His calling on our lives

330 | Why is Talking About Mental Health in the Church so Tricky?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Nov 2021 06:00:11 -0400

On this episode of MercyTalk, we talk about mental health and the Church with Dr. Brooke Keels and a new guest to MercyTalk, Marshall Gallagher. Marshall is a local pastor and serves as Mercy’s Church Strategy Advisor. Why do conversations around mental health and psychology seem to be so tricky in the Church? Marshall helps us to understand how we got here and what we can do to normalize these conversations.

Also, in this episode…

The history of how the Church has dealt with mental health and how it is still shaping our approach
Why leaders in the Church might be so defensive or skeptical of psychology
Why mental health should be a significant concern in the Church and how we can do better

329 | Jesus and Counseling…How Can I Have Both?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Oct 2021 06:00:21 -0400

On this episode of MercyTalk, we dive deeper into the steps for finding the right counselor. Professional, licensed counseling combined with Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit are both vitally important on a healing journey. And in this episode, Melanie Wise will interview Dr. Brooke Keels and Kim Brown, the Director of Counseling in our Nashville residential home, to discuss how they integrate these two important things in their counseling work.

Also, in this episode…

Specific questions that you can ask a prospective counselor – whether you’re looking for one for yourself or you’re trying to build a referral list – to find out if, and how, they incorporate Jesus and the Holy Spirit into their counseling.
What to do if you are unable to find a counselor who integrates Jesus into their sessions.

328 | Guilt, Shame, and Regret with Evan Owens

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Oct 2021 06:00:03 -0400

On this episode of MercyTalk, we discuss guilt, shame, and regret with the Executive Director of REBOOT Recovery, Evan Owens. Evan helps us understand the difference between guilt, shame, and regret, including how each can be used for both good and evil in our lives. Most importantly, Evan shares about how to move from the wounds of guilt, shame, and regret into a place of greater healing and wholeness.

Also, in this episode…

Placing our feelings and emotions in their right place in our lives
Different types of guilt and why false guilt is so dangerous
Helping our children understand how to identify and navigate feelings of guilt, shame, and regret

To learn more about Evan and REBOOT Recovery, check out www.rebootrecovery.com/.

327 | Navigating Blended Families with Nicola Bartel

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 06:00:07 -0400

On this episode of MercyTalk, we discuss how to navigate blended families with the Executive Director of Mercy Canada, Nicola Bartel. A blended family is a family where at least one parent has children that are not biologically or adoptive related to the other spouse. Either parent, or both, may have children from previous relationships or marriages. As someone who is part of a blended family herself, Nicola shares invaluable wisdom and insight on how to navigate blended family dynamics in a healthy way.

Also, in this episode…

Dating after the end of a marriage
Grieving the loss of a marriage while also making space for something new
Establishing healthy boundaries and dynamics between children and stepparents

326 | Best of MercyTalk - Helping Someone with Suicidal Thoughts

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Sep 2021 06:00:03 -0400

On this special episode of Mercy Talk, we revisit a conversation with 2015 Mercy graduate Ashley as she shares her story of multiple suicide attempts and her journey to finding healing in Jesus. If you or someone you know is struggling to find a reason to live, then don’t miss this very important episode as we discuss the lies of the enemy and the truth and hope found only in Jesus Christ.

325 | Best of Mercy Talk - Little Steps Conquer Big Mountains

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Sep 2021 06:00:42 -0400

Welcome back to Mercy Talk! This week as we revisit a conversation between our Senior Director of Outreach, Melanie Wise, and Laura Ryder (one of our UK staff back in 2015). Laura shares her personal experience of climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro in Tanzania, and the lessons she learned about journeying with the Lord and trusting His ways. They will also talk about the connection between physical challenges and spiritual growth as well as the importance of celebrating all of the steps on the way to the breakthrough. Listen and be encouraged!

324 | Best of Mercy Talk - Overcoming Rejection

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Aug 2021 06:00:53 -0400

Hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of Mercy Talk! Today, we’re revisiting a conversation between Jen Otero and Melanie Wise as they walk through the how of overcoming rejection. They’ll also discuss the importance of identifying rejection at the root level and the branches that it can create as well as practical steps to forgiveness and renewing the mind. If you want to find out more about the HOW of overcoming fear, then check out the full series from March of 2018!

323 | Best of Mercy Talk - Mental Health: How do we Respond? Part Two

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 06:00:39 -0400

Welcome back to another episode of Mercy Talk! In today’s discussion with Rachael Thomas and Dr. Brook Keels, we revisit a topic that has oftentimes been misunderstood in the church. This is a forum in which to ask ourselves, “How can we be motivated to better respond from a place of love?” (1 Peter 4:8). Join us today as we discuss the way the church has traditionally approached mental health, common misunderstandings of mental health terms, and how we can better serve those asking for mental health help.

322 | Best of Mercy Talk - Preventing Compassion Fatigue

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Aug 2021 05:08:28 -0400

Hey Mercy Talk friends! In today’s “Best of Mercy Talk” episode, our Senior Director of Outreach, Melanie Wise, and Jen Otero jump into a conversation all about preventing compassion fatigue. They’ll lay the foundation for what “safeguarding oneself” even means and dispel some of the myths that keep us from establishing healthy boundaries. Tune in!

321 | Best of Mercy Talk - Overcoming Fear: How?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Aug 2021 06:00:23 -0400

Welcome back to another episode of Mercy Talk! On this episode of “The Best of Mercy Talk”, join hosts Jen Otero and Melanie Wise as they unpack HOW to overcome fear! They also discuss generational patterns, power in taking responsibility, and how our thoughts, words, and actions are big factors in overcoming what we’ve been running from. Don’t miss this incredibly practical episode!

320 | Best of Mercy Talk - Permission to be Angry at God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Jul 2021 05:59:05 -0400

This summer, we’re walking through some of our favorite Mercy Talk episodes and today, we’re sharing a conversation from Melanie Wise and Jen Otero as they discuss anger at God. They also remind us of the truth that God is not disappointed in our anger towards Him and how to face those emotions so we don’t stay there. Be encouraged today…don’t miss it!

319 | Best of Mercy Talk - Roadblocks to Hearing and Connecting to the Father in Your Prayer Life

Mercy Multiplied — Fri, 23 Jul 2021 06:28:15 -0400

Hey everyone and welcome to another Mercy Talk! Today we’re revisiting a conversation between Brooke Keels and Rachael Thomas as they discuss the importance of community when it comes to battling shame. They’ll also discuss living vulnerably with others, the practice of disregarding shame, and why modeling vulnerability within our communities matters! Don’t miss this incredibly encouraging episode!

318 | Best of Mercy Talk - Redeeming Shame in Our Nurturing Communities

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Jul 2021 05:45:44 -0400

317 | Best of Mercy Talk - Safeguarding Yourself Through Self-Care

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 05:47:55 -0400

In today’s episode of Mercy Talk, we’ll revisit a conversation between Melanie Wise and Jen Otero as they discuss safeguarding yourself through self-care. They’ll also break down what self-care actually is and the lies that prevent us from implementing it into our daily lives. Feeling weary and worn? Take a few minutes to listen to [...]

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316 | Best of Mercy Talk - Parental Boundaries

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Jul 2021 06:00:54 -0400

Hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of Mercy Talk! Over the summer, we’ll continue to revisit and share some of our favorite episodes from Mercy Talk with you! On today’s episode, we revisit a conversation between Jen Otero and Dr. Brooke Keels as they discuss parental boundaries and how to set them with [...]

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315 | Best of Mercy Talk - Heartache and Suffering

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 Jun 2021 06:04:23 -0400

Hey everyone and welcome to another episode of Mercy Talk! If you haven’t heard yet, we’re revisiting some of our favorite episodes from Mercy Talk over the years and sharing them this summer! On today’s episode, we’re looking back at a conversation between our Senior Director of Outreach, Melanie Wise and Jen Otero as they [...]

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314 | Best of Mercy Talk - Lead Your Soul

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 06:30:13 -0400

Hey Mercy Talk friends! Today, we’re excited to kick off our new summer series, “The Best of Mercy Talk”, as we revisit some of our favorite conversations from over the years! Join us today as we dive into the story of one of our UK Mercy Executives, Arianna Walker. We’ll listen as Arianna shares the [...]

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313 | Saying ‘Yes’ to God with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Jun 2021 06:00:49 -0400

On today’s episode of MercyTalk, we have a conversation with our Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn, about some of her story and some of the things that God has taught her – not only when she started Mercy back in 1983 but as she has continued to lead this organization for the past almost 38 [...]

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312 | Steps to Finding the Right Counselor

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Jun 2021 04:34:17 -0400

Hey everyone, and welcome to another episode of Mercy Talk! Today, we’re continuing our conversation on counseling by focusing on steps we can take to find the right counselor. What kinds of questions should we be asking in our search, and what types of parameters should we have set in place, so we know we’re headed in the right direction?

Join us today as we focus on practical steps anyone can take in their journey towards greater freedom and wholeness!

311 | Using Prayer in Counseling

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 May 2021 06:08:48 -0400

Hey everyone, and welcome to another episode of Mercy Talk! Over the next two weeks, we'll be turning our attention towards the topic of counseling!! While it's no secret that we're huge fans of counseling here at Mercy, today, we wanted to break down the two specific types that we talk about on the show: prayer counseling and licensed counseling. Join us today as we take a closer look at how these services can offer incredible insight individually and work powerfully together!

310 | Longing, Beauty, and Community: A Conversation with Dr. Curt Thompson

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 May 2021 06:00:38 -0400

On today’s episode of MercyTalk, we are thrilled to have a conversation with nationally renowned psychiatrist, speaker, and author, Dr. Curt Thompson, about some of the amazing content in his upcoming book, The Soul of Desire: Discovering the Neuroscience of Longing, Beauty and Community (releasing in Fall of 2021). Dr Thompson shares about what it means that we are people of desire and the relationship between longing and beauty. Also, in this episode, Dr Thompson shares about…

The problem with approaching our lives as problems to be solved instead of artifacts of beauty to create
What it means for us to be people of grief
How beauty, art, nature, etc change how we approach our lives
The importance of community and what it looks like for us to “practice for heaven”

Join us for this powerful conversation as we learn from Dr Thompson about what it means to be human, to fulfill our intrinsic desire to feel known, valued and connected, and to live into the meaningful reality we desire to create.

For more from Dr Thompson, check out his “Being Known” podcast and his books, The Anatomy of the Soul and Soul of Shame. You can find those resources and more on his website at CurtThompsonMD.com.

309 | Mental Health Check Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 May 2021 04:17:30 -0400

Hey everyone, and welcome to another episode of Mercy Talk! Last week, we talked about what MENTAL HEALTH actually IS but, more importantly, WHY it should matter to every one of us! So today, we wanted to talk about some practical ways that we can ALL assess our current mental state and increase our mental health. So often, we think of mental health as "all science" or "all Jesus" with no mixture of the 2. But what if we addressed our mental health from a holistic viewpoint (spirit, soul, body)? Don't miss this conversation as we consider what it means to assess our mental health from a more honest place!

308 | Mental Health Check Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 May 2021 09:30:30 -0400

Welcome back to another episode of MercyTalk! This month is Mental Health Awareness Month and we would be remiss if we didn’t take time to talk about a subject that Mercy deals with so heavily! While it can be tempting to omit ourselves from this conversation, mental health is something that should matter to every single one of us! Join us today as we talk about why we should be intentional about our mental health and how it affects our emotional, spiritual, and physical health as well!

307 | Maintaining Lifelong Freedom

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 06:00:08 -0400

Today on MercyTalk, we’re so excited to jump into the very last key to freedom, and it’s one that is so essential in helping us to integrate all the other keys into our daily life! So for today’s episode, we’re going to be talking about Maintaining Lifelong Freedom and diving into the “4 stay ins”! This final key is about focusing on key lifestyle choices that help us maintain freedom and wholeness for life. Join us as we talk about how consistent practices can make a big difference in our freedom journey with Jesus!

306 | Using Your Authority in Christ

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 06:00:43 -0400

We are so glad you’re back with us for another episode of Mercy Talk as we continue to revisit the Keys to Freedom! Today, we’re diving into a key that can be easily misunderstood: “Using Your Authority in Christ”! We have an enemy who is out to steal, kill, and destroy our freedom in Christ, and he will take any opportunity to apply pressure to our life. Understanding your authority as a believer is a game changer, because while Jesus certainly bought our eternal freedom, He also made a way for us to stand in our authority and walk in greater freedom and wholeness here on earth as well! Join us today as we dive into this pivotal conversation.

305 | Breaking Generational Patterns

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Apr 2021 06:00:47 -0400

Hey Mercy Talk family! We are so excited that you’ve joined us for today’s show as we dive into key 5 of the 7 keys, “Breaking Generational Patterns”! All of us inherit patterns of living and thinking that are passed down to us whether we like them or not. Without realizing it, we typically adopt our parents’ and grandparents’ approach to life. The good news here is that God has given us the power to identify and reject negative patterns in our family’s history and establish new patterns that bring blessing to our future and our children’s futures as well! Join us today as we break down what it means to walk in freedom for ourselves and the generations in front of us!

304 | Choosing to Forgive

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 06:00:04 -0400

On today’s episode of MercyTalk, we’re especially excited that you’ve joined us as we dive into the key, “Choosing to Forgive”! Many of our biggest issues and deepest struggles in life are rooted in a painful event. And more times than not, that event was connected to a relationship, to a person. Therefore, the topic of forgiveness is unavoidable. While it may feel impossible in our own strength, God designed forgiveness to actually lead to healing and freedom through His supernatural design. Join us today as we talk about this significant key and how it plays a pivotal role in our healing journey.

303 | Healing Life’s Hurts

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Apr 2021 06:00:42 -0400

In this episode of Mercy Talk, we’ll discuss a pivotal key to freedom – Healing Life’s Hurts. When the hurts of our lives go unhealed, they affect us in ways that we may not even realize. They can cause us to hold back from life or operate from a place of fear. They can come out through anger or bitterness and shape who we become as spouses, friends, parents, and coworkers. Through this key, we invite the Lord into the hurts of our lives, ask for His perspective, and allow Him to do the healing that only HE is able to do so that our hurts are no longer allowed to impact our lives in destructive ways. Join us today for this important conversation!

302 | Renewing the Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Mar 2021 06:00:27 -0400

In this episode of Mercy Talk, we’ll discuss what some consider to be the most pivotal key in the Keys to Freedom study: Renewing the Mind. Whether we realize it or not, our daily thought patterns are affected by a belief system that was primarily cultivated in our earliest childhood years – a belief system about God, ourselves, others, and the world around us. Over time, our thought patterns develop well-worn “trails” in our minds, and it’s this belief system that eventually determines our daily behaviors, words, and attitudes. Join us today for this important conversation!

301 | Commitment and Connection to Christ

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Mar 2021 06:00:50 -0400

Hey Mercy Talk listeners! In this week’s episode of MercyTalk, we’re going to be moving into the first of the seven keys to freedom and this one is really what we would call the “master key”. We’re talking about Committing and Connecting to Christ! It’s so easy for us to become distracted with whether or not we look like we have it all together, but Jesus invites us to view freedom and wholeness from a different perspective - as an inside job that starts at the root level of our lives. Join us today as we consider what it means to be free from the inside out!

300 | What's New with "Keys to Freedom" and Setting the Stage

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 05:15:49 -0500

Hey all! We’re so excited you’ve joined us for another episode of Mercy Talk! We are so thrilled to announce that in just a few short few weeks, we are going to be releasing our updated edition of Keys to Freedom that we’ve been working on for one full year! In today’s episode, we want to give you a preview of what you can expect (updated leader guide, TONS of training videos and KTF video teaching series), as well as set the stage with the foundational principles that help bring so much clarity to the teachings in Keys to Freedom ! Join us as we walk through this study over the next few weeks and share how the Lord has been moving in new ways!

299 | Eating Disorder Awareness

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Mar 2021 06:00:49 -0500

This week on Mercy Talk, in honor of National Eating Disorder Awareness Week, we wanted to discuss the important topic of eating disorders and how we can better serve those who are struggling. If you’ve been around Mercy for a while, you know we are BIG believers in addressing the root of the problem rather than just the visible behaviors of a life controlling issue. Join us today as we re-visit this very important conversation with Brooke, Melanie and Rachael! Also, in this episode…

The importance of inner healing rather than just managing behavior
Helpful ways to start hard conversations with those who are struggling
Mistaken beliefs surrounding eating disorders

298 | Self-Injury Awareness Day

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 04:00:51 -0500

On this very important episode of Mercy Talk, we wanted to take some time to shed light on what can often be a misunderstood topic: self-injury/harm. We want to encourage you that this episode is meant to be a resource in your journey in helping others, but it is by no means exhaustive. March 1st is “National Self-Injury Awareness Day,” so, we wanted to spend some time talking about this issue that can feel very complex, as well as some ways you can better love and support those around you who are struggling with self-harm.  Also, in this episode…

The importance of not projecting our own discomforts/fears on those who are sharing their struggles with us
Questions to ask if we’re concerned someone is self-harming
Owning our unique role in helping others and referring them when we need to
For more information on how you can support someone who is dealing with a life controlling issue, please click on the free resource below:

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297 | People Fuel Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Feb 2021 05:00:21 -0500

We’re so glad you’ve joined us for another episode of Mercy Talk! This week, we are pumped to continue diving into the topic of relationships and a book by one of our favorite authors, Dr. John Townsend, called People Fuel. While most of us know that relationships are critical to being a healthy and whole human, most of us are unaware of the fact that we need specific types of relationship in order to have longevity in helping others and growing in our calling. In other words, output is not the same as input when it comes to relationships and we must be re-filled ourselves in order to prevent burnout. Join us today as we talk about the types of people we need to seek out for our “inner circle” and how they re-fuel us in God designed ways we may have never thought about! Also, in this episode…

The need for grace and honesty in the relationships that refuel us
Practical ways to seek out these key people
How shame tries to discourage us in reaching out for help

296 | People Fuel Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Feb 2021 05:00:07 -0500

We’re so glad you’ve joined us for another episode of Mercy Talk! For the next 2 weeks, we are pumped to dive into a topic that has been spearheaded by one of our favorite authors, Dr. John Townsend and his book, People Fuel! While most of us know that relationships are critical to being a healthy and whole human, most of us are unaware of the fact that we need specific types of relationship in order to have longevity in helping others and growing in our calling. In other words, output is not the same as input when it comes to relationships and we must be re-filled ourselves in order to prevent burnout. Join us today as we talk about the necessity of relationships and how they re-fuel us in God designed ways we may have never thought about! Also, in this episode…

Why you cannot have relationships that truly re-fuel you without vulnerability
The importance of practicing what we preach to others
Why we need relationships that consist of more than our family and spouse

295 | Steps to Intimacy with God Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Feb 2021 05:00:22 -0500

If you’ve been around Mercy for a while, then you know we’re huge fans of all things practical…especially when it comes to our relationship with the Lord. If you’re new to Mercy then you’re about to find out just how practical because we’re jumping into a 2-part series called “Steps to Intimacy with God”! While our culture has trained us to think that intimacy is sex, that’s not where we’re headed. The definition of the word is actually “close familiarity or friendship,” and that’s exactly what we’re talking about: CLOSENESS with God or a FRIENDSHIP with God. We wanted to take a deeper look at what leads to the familiarity and closeness we long for in a relationship with the Lord. Today, we’ll dive into the second part of this conversation and cover steps 3-5 that you can implement in your own walk with God! Also, in this episode…

Trusting the personhood and promises of God in the face of disappointment
Learning to see ourselves the same way God sees us
Being vulnerable and honest with the One who made us

294 | Steps to Intimacy with God Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Jan 2021 05:00:30 -0500

If you’ve been around Mercy for a while, then you know we’re huge fans of all things practical…especially when it comes to our relationship with the Lord. If you’re new to Mercy then you’re about to find out just how practical because we’re jumping into a 2-part series called “Steps to Intimacy with God”! While our culture has trained us to think that intimacy is sex, that’s not where we’re headed. The definition of the word is actually “close familiarity or friendship,” and that’s exactly what we’re talking about: CLOSENESS with God or a FRIENDSHIP with God. We wanted to take a deeper look at what leads to the familiarity and closeness we long for in a relationship with the Lord. Join us today as we discuss tangible steps you can implement in your own walk with God! Also, in this episode…

The importance of identifying what first attracted us to the Lord
Identifying the voice of the Lord and how He speaks to us
Discipleship and the significance of developing a relationship with the personhood of God

293 | State of Mercy Address

Mercy Multiplied — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 05:00:52 -0500

As we begin a new year, we wanted to take some time to hear from our Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn. On the heels of 2020, the Lord has continued to prove faithful and provide for Mercy in the midst of the unknown. Today, we wanted to sit down and talk with Nancy about some of the most surprising ways God has moved in this past year and the vision for where Mercy is headed in 2021. We hope you’re encouraged as you join us for today’s podcast!

292-B | Just Keep Going

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Jan 2021 05:00:30 -0500

It’s no secret that with all that’s happened over this past year, there’s a very real emotional and mental health crisis around the world. At the beginning of a new year, we simply cannot continue to grit our teeth and try to power through life. We have to take a good look at our physical, mental, and emotional health and come up with some INTENTIONAL plans for staying healthy and whole in this season. On today’s episode, we’ll dive into 5 questions to help you do that very thing as you head into this new year. Also, in this episode.

In what areas of life do you need to ask for help/support?
How renewing the mind is an active concept
What it could look like to make room for habits that support your physical health

292-A | Looking Ahead

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 Dec 2020 05:00:10 -0500

Hey Mercy Talk Fam! Before we finish out the crazy year that’s been, we wanted to take a few moments to share how God has been encouraging us and how we’ve been praying for you! We know so many of us have walked different roads in 2020 and it’s tempting to look ahead and expect the new year to bring a complete change of circumstance. But how can we trust God right where we are, no matter what the future may hold? Join us today for this very personal episode as we share from our hearts what the Lord is teaching us.

291 | Expectations in Conflict

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 05:00:35 -0500

Conflict can certainly take on many uncomfortable scenarios. But if we can take a closer look at our expectations in conflict, it can really reframe the way we approach and respond to others (even in the most difficult of circumstances). Our expectation for specific desired outcomes in conflict can often become more important than the love we have for the other person. Join us today on #MercyTalk as we take a deeper look at what it means to be honest about our own expectations, loving people where they are, and learning to let go of the outcomes that shape the way we handle conflict. Also, in this episode…

Addressing our mindset before addressing conflict with someone else
Remembering the “Imago Dei” and personhood of another
Letting go of the need to control the outcomes in conflict

290 | Combating Entitlement with Our Kids and Ourselves

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Dec 2020 05:00:30 -0500

As the holidays approach, the MercyTalk team tackles entitlement, not just in kids, but in all of us. This honest conversation explores boundaries, parenting, self‑care versus entitlement, and how healing our own wounds helps us raise resilient, grateful, and grounded kids.

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289 | Boundaries with Our Parents as Adults

Mercy Multiplied — Fri, 04 Dec 2020 04:24:44 -0500

Setting boundaries with others is a vital way of protecting our relationships as well as our own health in the process. However, what may feel less obvious are the boundaries that need to be reevaluated as life changes. Of course, we’re talking about boundaries with our parents as we age (and as they age as well). How do we honor and show respect to those who’ve raised us while also setting healthy boundaries and limits in the process? Join us today as we tackle what can feel like a complicated issue! Also, in this episode…

Why boundaries should evolve with time in order to maintain a healthy relationship
Disagreements vs. manipulative behavior
Honoring our parents in the midst of hurt

288 | Mixed Emotions

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Nov 2020 05:00:33 -0500

As we near Thanksgiving, recognize that it can feel complicated trying to process the disappointment, loss, and grief of the past year while also cultivating gratitude. It’s clear that the Bible tells us we can have joy even in the hardest of circumstances, but how do we practically do this without becoming bitter or depressed?
Join us today as we tackle this conversation head on! Also, in this episode…

Why it’s important to be honest about disappointment rather than explain it away
The complexity and layers of grief (especially during the holidays)
The power of gratitude even when we don’t feel it in the moment

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287 | How to Set Boundaries with Family

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Nov 2020 05:00:58 -0500

We’re so excited you’ve joined us for another episode of #MercyTalk! Last week, we kicked off the month by talking about why it’s important to set healthy boundaries with toxic or unhealthy family members. This week, we wanted to talk more about the HOW. If we recognize that we need to set some boundaries within a family relationship, what do those boundaries even look like and how do we go about doing that? As the year comes to a close, join us for this timely conversation! Also, in this episode…

Practical ways to have hard conversations
When to reassess boundaries
Processing needed boundaries with the Lord

286 | Boundaries with Family

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Nov 2020 05:00:41 -0500

In this episode of MercyTalk, we sit down to discuss the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries with family members, even if there are still areas of unhealth. While we recognize there are no perfect people, at the end of the day, how can we decipher the difference between a family member who has made some mistakes and one who is continually a toxic person? Join us today for this timely conversation as we head into the holidays! Also, in this episode…

Working through the guilt of trying to set boundaries with those you love
Assessing the boundaries needed, rather than automatically cutting people off
Addressing a victim mentality in our own hearts

285 | Attachment and the Father Ladder

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 06:55:44 -0400

Today we’re going to continue our conversation on attachment but through the lens of our relationship with the Lord and how our earliest relationships have influenced that. We’re also going to take a look at the “Father Ladder” tool and how we can better process our experiences with our caregivers with the Lord. Also, on this episode…

Ungodly beliefs and our image of Heavenly Father
How other family relationships can influence our view of the Trinity (Father, Son and Holy Spirit)
Allowing God to heal the wounds we’ve experienced with our earthly Fathers, for His perfect role as a Father in our lives

284 | Attachment and Breaking Free from Generational Patterns

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Oct 2020 04:31:07 -0400

On this episode of Mercy Talk, we continue our conversation on attachment as we discuss what it means through the lens of breaking free from generational patterns. As we’ve discussed here before, so much of our upbringing directly affects the way we show up in the world. Today, we’ll dive into what it looks like to identify both positive and negative patterns in our family and how we can choose the legacy we leave for those who follow in our footsteps. Also, in this episode…

Working through wounds and being intentional about our healing
Forgiveness and grace for those who hurt us
Our new bloodline in Jesus Christ!

283 | Attachment and Our Ability to Handle Conflict

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Oct 2020 06:00:04 -0400

Whether it’s stress from work, an argument with our spouse/roommate or dealing with a challenging child, conflict can cause us to posture ourselves from a place of defense rather than from intentionality in our relationships. Conflict is a part of life and cannot be avoided (at least not forever), so how do we recognize unhealthy patterns and strategize with better ones? Join us today as we explore the different ways attachment influences conflict and can help us become more self-aware as we move towards healthier relationships. Also, in this episode…

Why putting off necessary conversations cannot be counted as “resolution”
Healthy conflict and our ability to handle the emotions of others
Expressing feelings of disagreement without the fear of abandonment

282 | Let’s Talk Attachment

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Oct 2020 11:00:53 -0400

No matter our age, the relationships we had growing up play a key role in the way we relate to others. Even now, many of us are making decisions based on the way we connected with our caretakers. So how does this affect our ability to attach with friends, partners or even our kids in a healthy way now? How can we recognize unhealthy patterns and approach our relationships from a more secure place? Let’s dive in as we talk about attachment!

281 | Asking for Help when You’re Hurting

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 06:00:47 -0400

In a world that encourages the self-made man or woman, it can be hard to admit when we need help…much less counseling for ourselves. In today’s Mercy Talk episode, we sit down with our Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn as she shares her own story of processing grief and reaching out for help. Don’t miss this timely conversation as we discuss the importance of needing others on the road to healing. Also, in this episode…

Roadblocks and lies that discourage us from being vulnerable
Why you shouldn’t wait for things to “get really bad” before getting help
The impact your healing journey will have on those around you

280 | Aftermath of Suicide

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Sep 2020 11:00:06 -0400

In this follow up conversation on the topic of suicide, we dive into the sobering reality that mental health issues and suicidal struggles are no stranger to those within the church. What’s more, we have people in our congregations who have been directly affected by suicide and are silently suffering. As followers of Jesus, how can we do a better job of offering care in the midst of grief, shame and even anger? Join us today for this very important discussion. Also, in this episode…

Addressing mental health issues from the highest clinical and deepest spiritual standpoint
Things to remember when reaching out to someone who’s lost a loved one to suicide
Learning to just be with someone when you can’t “fix” the pain

279 | Helping Someone with Suicidal Thoughts

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 06:00:46 -0400

In this episode, 2015 Mercy graduate Ashley shares her journey of facing deep pain and depression, including seasons marked by suicide attempts, self-harm, and alcohol. She courageously debunks common misconceptions and stigmas, and offers practical insight into how to support someone who is struggling with suicidal ideation.

278 | Roadblocks to Freedom

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 06:00:47 -0400

On this episode of Mercy Talk, we continue our conversation on freedom and what kinds of things can get in the way as we journey there. While most of us would say freedom is something we want, the investment in our freedom can feel like another matter altogether. Join us today as we discuss why our commitment to living life God’s way, is always worth it! Also, in this episode…

Common lies that may be holding us back from freedom
Fear and stigmas surrounding our freedom in Christ
Why professional counseling AND Jesus can exist together!

277 | What is Freedom?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Aug 2020 06:00:21 -0400

Freedom is something we’re extremely passionate about here at Mercy…but what does that look like on a practical level and what are some misconceptions we […]

276 | Why Roots Matter

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Aug 2020 06:00:28 -0400

On this episode of Mercy Talk, we dive into our up and coming Keys to Freedom Teaching Series and how you can be apart! We also revisit the vital role of a root system and why addressing what’s unseen first, is essential to lasting freedom in all areas of our life! Also, in this episode…

The difference Jesus makes in our freedom journey
Examining the lies we’ve believed and how they’ve affected us
Why managing unwanted behaviors does not lead to freedom!

275 | Counterfeit Hospitality and Healthy Boundaries

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Jul 2020 06:00:21 -0400

On this episode of Mercy Talk, we take a close look at what it means to extend genuine, missional hospitality versus the polished, “perfect” version we imagine in our minds. As followers of Jesus, how do we lay down our hidden desires to have “everything all together” in favor of vulnerable, honest relationships where we share the hope of Christ? What is more, how do we do this in a practical, regular way as to not run the risk of burning out? Join us today as we discuss these questions and many more! Also, in this episode…

The importance of establishing a support system in reaching your community
The reason authentic hospitality (versus counterfeit) matters in building relationships
Recognizing certain seasons of life and setting healthy boundaries

274 | Living as Christians in a Post Christian World

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 06:00:05 -0400

On this episode of Mercy Talk, we’re excited to continue our discussion on missional hospitality and explore the claim that Christians could be victims in a post Christian world. While many of us may experience uncomfortable conversations and disagreements with those who don’t believe in Jesus, the statement tends to promote more fear rather than kindness when it comes to loving our neighbors well. This is a topic author and speaker Rosario Butterfield discusses in her book, The Gospel Comes with a Housekey and we’re thrilled to be able to utilize this resource over these next few weeks! Also, in this episode…

Practical ways to show dignity to others (even if you don’t agree/approve)
Why a victim mentality does more harm than good
Investing in people for the long haul

273 | Love of the Stranger…A Closer look at Missional Hospitality

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Jul 2020 06:00:03 -0400

This month on MercyTalk, we’re diving into missional hospitality and what it looks like to reach those around us for Christ. We talk about loving our neighbors intentionally, building real relationships, and showing up for people in our everyday communities.

272 | Seeking Help Before You Hit Rock Bottom

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Jul 2020 06:00:01 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the value of taking a gap year, or simply taking time off, to heal and get help before moving into the next season of life. Whether it’s before, during, or after college, choosing to pause can help you thrive rather than just survive, and reminds us that getting help now is far better than waiting for rock bottom.

271 | Finding Purpose in the Problem: a Conversation with Melanie Wise

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Jul 2020 06:00:02 -0400

COVID became an unexpected turning point, revealing the power of surrender and the freedom found in gratitude. Even when God’s purposes are hard to see, this conversation points to His faithfulness in using every season for good.

270 | Processing with Jesus

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Jun 2020 06:00:26 -0400

In the midst of a broken world, the sorrow, grief, and pain we experience can at times feel overwhelming. We talk about the importance of naming our emotions during the pandemic and learning how to surrender them to God, rather than carrying them alone.

269 | Come to the table: A Discussion on Racial Injustice with Pastors Jerome and Lisa Lewis of Seeds of Greatness Bible Church

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 06:00:58 -0400

Pastors Jerome and Lisa Lewis of Seeds of Greatness Bible Church offer insight into facing racial injustice without losing heart. The discussion centers on spiritual resilience, engaging both the natural and spiritual dimensions of this issue, and the responsibility of the Church to respond with faith, leadership, and love.

268 | Listening and Learning…A Discussion Panel on Racial Injustice by Seeds of Greatness Bible Church

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Jun 2020 06:00:49 -0400

In this powerful panel from Seeds of Greatness in New Castle, Delaware, the focus is on justice, reconciliation, and the importance of listening well. Pastor Lisa Lewis offers wisdom on how meaningful change begins when we slow down, hear one another, and respond with faith and action.

267 | The Show Must Be Paused

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 06:00:40 -0400

Choosing to pause. We pray that you will join us.

266 | Ways Growing in your EQ Can Affect your Mental Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 May 2020 06:00:43 -0400

On this last episode for Mental Health Awareness month, we’re so excited to jump into a conversation around the connection between our mental health and emotional intelligence. While it may appear to be all too “touchy feely” in the discussion surrounding mental health, many studies, psychologists, and counselors have come to say otherwise. Join us today as we break down a bit of what emotional intelligence (or EQ) is and why it matters to our mental health journey. Also, in this episode…

The importance of counseling, feedback and reaching out for help
Why our relational health/success depends on our willingness to know ourselves and God better
Our response during stress and what we can do to better prepare ourselves

265 | Childhood Wounds, Forgiveness and the Way We Respond in Crisis

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 May 2020 06:00:05 -0400

As I’m sure you’re aware of now, May is “Mental Health Awareness Month” so we’re taking this month to have a conversation around a topic that we care very deeply about here at Mercy. This week, we wanted to dive a bit deeper and talk about where some of our mental health struggles originated from and how they affect the way we respond in crisis (even in the current crisis we find ourselves in). By this, we mean we’re going all the way back to our family of origin and looking at our parents, childhood and even the woundings that occurred there. Also, in this episode…

The role forgiveness plays in our mental health journey
How wounds left unattended, can affect those we love most
Recognizing our tendencies in managing the behavior of others (especially our parents)

264 | Misunderstandings and Stigmas Surrounding Mental Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 May 2020 06:00:07 -0400

It’s no secret that there are many stigmas today surrounding mental health. These can often keep us from being honest with one another (or even ourselves) for fear of what people might think. On this episode of Mercy talk, we dive into the stigmas and fears that have held us back from taking the necessary steps to live a freer, healthier life. Also, in this episode…

Our call to treat others with dignity and compassion
The power of referral in helping others
Recognizing our own fears in asking for help

263 | The Vital Role our Spiritual Lives Play in Mental Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 May 2020 06:00:35 -0400

Often, it is thought you must hold to one or two sides of the argument in the mental health camp (either all faith or all science). As we dive into Mental Health awareness month this May, we’re kicking off our series by taking a closer look at what it means to address mental health from a wholistic approach (both mind, body and soul). Join us as we discuss the important role our spiritual lives play in our mental health journey while examining the way science, creation and faith can exist together.

262 | Gladness in a Worldwide Pandemic

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Apr 2020 06:00:38 -0400

In the midst of a crisis, the probability of gladness feels almost laughable. Death, sickness, loss of jobs and even social distancing are all very real in this COVID-19 crisis. However, what if gladness has been misunderstood and cultivating it is actually a possibility (even in a worldwide pandemic)? Join us as we dive into the final emotion of this series and consider what it means to be glad in the midst of life’s struggles. Also, in this episode…

The difference between happiness, gladness and sensuality activity
The daily importance of gratitude
The relationship between gladness and sadness

261 | Processing Anger

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Apr 2020 06:00:35 -0400

Anger is a feeling that most of us associate with unpleasant experiences (who can blame us!). Whether recalling fights with family, friends or maybe just those moments when we flew off the handle ourselves, we have all endured times of frustration. But is that feeling really what anger is, or could it be trying to point us to something different? Join us today as we dive into this often-misunderstood emotion…the conversation might surprise you! Also, in this episode…

The difference between rage and anger
The gift anger can lead us to
The danger of suppressing and depressing what is going on inside of you

259 | Loneliness and Quarantine

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Apr 2020 06:00:20 -0400

As we continue to navigate a world that feels so different from even a month ago, it should come as no surprise that emotions are running a bit rapid these days! Today, we’ll continue to examine another feeling that many of us are experiencing during this time, and that is loneliness. While it may sound logical to categorize emotions as “good” or “bad”, Chip Dodd encourages us to think of them as signals that inform us of our needs. Join us today as we talk about the “signal” loneliness is trying to send; not only in times of stress but also throughout our lives. Also, in this episode…

The difference between solitude and isolation
The 4 types of relationships we’re all lonely for
Guarding against apathy and practicing vulnerability

258 | Processing Fear and Sadness

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 06:00:55 -0400

More than ever before, many of us can relate to feelings of fear and sadness on a global level. While those who trust in Jesus can rest assured their hope is secure, it doesn’t take away from the sorrow of witnessing so many struggles around us. On today’s podcast, we’ll dive into the topic of both fear and sadness and how properly processing both, can lead to a more resilient and faith filled life. Also, in this episode…

The correlation between fear, anxiety and faith
Why feeling sadness, actually matters in the journey to healing
Self-pity, anxiety and other ways we try to by-pass working through our pain

257 | Peace in the Midst of Anxiety

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Apr 2020 06:00:26 -0400

With quarantine in full effect and COVID-19 on everyone’s radar, it’s safe to say that most of us are struggling with anxiety on some level. However, what does anxiety actually mean and what should we do when we notice it rising in both our minds and bodies? What’s more, how do we process our feelings honestly while also renewing our minds with the truth of God? Join us today as we talk about the peace that is available to us even in the midst of chaos, corona and anxiety! Also, in this episode…

Practical “do’s and don’ts” for promoting peace in your own life during quarantine
The difference between anxiety disorders and anxiety during stressful times
Hope in the midst of uncertain days

255 | Our Call in the Midst of Covid-19

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Mar 2020 06:00:02 -0400

It’s no secret that our world is hurting and facing unknown territory in the wake of COVID-19. With so many questions and hurdles to climb, it can feel overwhelming to say the least. How do we best share the hope of Christ while not caving into the panic and fear around us? Today, we’re breaking away from our normally scheduled series to talk about our response in the midst of the chaos as well as practical ways to show up and love those around us.

254 | Navigating Hard Seasons through Renewing the Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 06:00:51 -0400

Renewing our minds to the truth of God’s Word changes everything. In Keys to Freedom we present tools to find hope and healing in Christ. We are taking a little break from our current series in light of the recent world events. The fear, uncertainty, and chaos that coronavirus has brought our world is not bigger than our God. In response to the crisis, we wanted to re-post this episode from awhile back to help through these uncertain times.

253 | Technology and the Online Space: Bullying, Trolling and Safeguarding your Heart and Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Mar 2020 06:00:08 -0400

It’s no secret that we are living in the most technologically advanced time in history. More than ever before, we have access to devices that allow us to buy, learn and explore almost anything from the touch of a screen! We also have the opportunity to enter into community with people from all over the world. However, with this new innovation also comes increased opportunity for much harm. Bullying, “trolling” and even harassment have all been at the source of many struggling with depression and even contemplating suicide. In this episode, we talk about ways to better safeguard ourselves and our loved ones. Also, in this episode…

Why we must be active participants in what we allow ourselves to be exposed to
The difference between feedback, criticism and mistreatment
Practical ways to respond to negativity in the moment
How to practice loving our enemies

252 | Technology and the Online Space: Community, Confrontation and Connecting with Others Online

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Mar 2020 05:00:39 -0500

It’s no secret that we are living in the most technologically advanced age in history. More than ever before, we have access to devices that allow us to buy, learn and explore almost anything from the touch of a screen! We also have the opportunity to connect, collaborate and enter into community with people from all over the world. However, with innovation in technology, also comes increased reliance upon devices that require less work from us to truly connect. Despite the ease of our gadgets, Jealousy, comparison and discontentment seem to be the common undercurrent in so many of our lives. This begs the question, “is ‘easier’ really better or does it just bring along a new set of problems?”. Join us this month as we discuss what it means to utilize our devices with awareness and seek true satisfaction in Jesus! Also, in this episode…

Why surrounding yourself with people who are ONLY likeminded, is a trap!
The importance of learning to disagree gracefully
The value of online community while still maintaining face to face interaction

251 | Envy, Comparison, and the Power of Generosity

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 05:00:46 -0500

Envy, pride, comparison and greed. At times, it can feel like a struggle to be honest about what’s really going on inside our hearts as we work alongside other co-laborers in the Kingdom. In the final instalment of this episode, we’ll talk about the way comparison serves to keep us disconnect and ineffective in the race we’re called to run. As we conclude our discussion on the book “Rooting for Rivals”, we’ll also examine the power of generosity and how giving away more, leads to the abundant life! Also, in this episode…

The dead-end road of envy, comparison and jealously
The secret to a life of contentment
Practical ways to cheer on others from a more genuine place!

250 | National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

Mercy Multiplied — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 05:00:40 -0500

On this very special episode of Mercy Talk, we’re dropping a “one off” episode for National Eating Disorder Awareness Week (Feb 24th-March 1st). As we discuss the definition of what an eating disorder actually is, our Director of Counseling Services, Brooke Keels gives some practical advice for helping walk alongside someone with an eating disorder as well as steps you can take if you yourself are struggling. Also, in this episode…

Common misconceptions surrounding eating disorders
Root issues and behaviors
Helpful ways to start hard conversations

249 | The Pitfalls of Pride

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 05:00:07 -0500

Envy, pride, comparison and greed. At times, it can feel like a struggle to be honest about what’s really going on inside our hearts as we work alongside other co-laborers in the Kingdom. Today, we’re talking about pride and the role it plays in our hidden motives as we continue our discussion on the book “Rooting for Rivals”. Also, in this episode…

Getting to the root of prideful behaviors
Fostering a heart of humility and service before the Lord
Being WITH Jesus rather than just doing things FOR Him

248 | No Room at the Table

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Feb 2020 05:00:35 -0500

Envy, pride, comparison and greed. At times, it can feel like a struggle to be honest about what’s really going on inside our hearts as we work alongside other co-laborers in the Kingdom. This month, we’re diving into the book “Rooting for Rivals” and today, we’re talking about the abundance vs. scarcity mentality and how it affects the way we operate in the world more than we know. Also, in this episode…

Competition and the never ending need to stay on top
Why “limited” resources are never really the problem
Preference, diversity and the good news of collaboration

247 | Why We Root for Rivals

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Feb 2020 11:00:47 -0500

Envy, pride, comparison and greed. At times, it can feel like a struggle to be honest about what’s really going on inside our hearts as we work alongside other co-laborers in the Kingdom. This month, we’re diving into the book “Rooting for Rivals” and talking about what it means to truly celebrate the wins of others, all the while running the race we were called to run. Also, in this episode…

The Kingdom of God over agenda
Ungodly beliefs and living from a place of freedom
Unity and the prayer Jesus prayed for us

246 | State of Mercy address with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Jan 2020 11:00:32 -0500

Today we’re taking a moment to pause and speak with our Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn! We’ll talk about the year in review and where the Lord is leading us in 2020! Also, in this episode…

What’s on the horizon for Mercy in a new decade
Lessons learned and wisdom gained from 2019
What the Lord is teaching Nancy in her personal walk with Him

245 | Roadblocks to Hearing and Connecting with the Father in our Prayer Life

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Jan 2020 11:00:49 -0500

This year, we’re kicking off January by talking about what it means to hear from and connect with the Father. While we may be familiar with the importance of growing in our prayer lives, somehow there can still be fear and uncertainty surrounding hearing the voice of the Lord. Today, we dive into the 2nd part of a 2-part interview with Jen Barnett, executive director of Freedom Prayer. We also look at the ways our relationships with our earthly family can affect the way we see the Trinity (Father, Son & Holy Spirit). Also, in this episode…

Roadblocks that we may encounter in our prayer life
Cultivating a prayer life that’s thriving
The practice of decerning our own thoughts and what God is saying

244 | A Conversation with Nancy Alcorn – 1/22/20

Mercy Multiplied — Wed, 22 Jan 2020 11:00:02 -0500

This short episode captures Nancy’s heart behind Mercy and the choice to open our doors to girls experiencing unplanned pregnancy. She looks back on 37 years of ministry, highlighting God’s faithfulness and the power of compassionate care.

243 | Connecting with the Father Through Freedom Prayer with Jen Barnett

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Jan 2020 11:00:42 -0500

This year, we’re kicking off January by talking about what it means to hear from and connect with the Father. Many of us are familiar with the importance of growing in our prayer lives. Yet, somehow there’s still fear and uncertainty around hearing the voice of the shepherd. Today, we’re talking about practical, tangible ways of developing in our relationship with the Lord. Also in this episode…

Addressing the question, “How do we know when we’ve heard from the Lord?”
2-way journaling and documenting our prayers with the Lord
The importance of Godly accountability in discerning what we think we’ve heard

242 | The Practical Side of Connecting with the Father

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Jan 2020 11:00:14 -0500

Addressing the question, “How do we know when we’ve heard from the Lord?”
2-way journaling and documenting our prayers with the Lord
The importance of Godly accountability in discerning what we think we’ve heard

241 | The Importance of Learning to Hear the Voice of God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Jan 2020 11:00:15 -0500

This year, we’re kicking off 2020 by talking about what it means to hear from and connect with the Father. Many of us are familiar with the importance of growing in our prayer lives. Yet, somehow there’s still fear and uncertainty around hearing the voice of the shepherd. So what better way to start the new year than to dive into some practical steps that can better help us to cultivate our connection with the Lord and lead to a thriving prayer life! Also, in this episode…

The importance of learning to hear the voice of God
Biblical grounding for hearing from the Lord
Personal stories of growth in discerning God’s voice

240 | The Father’s Heart as Promise Keeper

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Dec 2019 11:00:44 -0500

This December join Mercy Talk as we celebrate the Christmas season with our series, “The Father’s Heart at Christmas”. We’re taking a closer look at how several stories surrounding the birth of Christ, point back to the unified message of God’s heart for humanity! More specifically in this episode, we’ll take a look at how God is a promise keeper. Also, in this episode:

Why we should wait on the Lord
Simeon’s faithfulness to God

239 | The Father’s Heart as Guide

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 11:00:05 -0500

How God works behind the scenes
God works in all things for the good of those who love Him
God will direct your path

238 | The Father’s Heart as Protector

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Dec 2019 11:00:08 -0500

This December join Mercy Talk as celebrate the season with our series, “The Father’s Heart at Christmas”. We’re taking a closer look at how several stories surrounding the birth of Christ, point back to the unified message of God’s heart for humanity! More specifically in this episode, we’ll take a look at how God is our guide in times of uncertainty. Also, in this episode:

How God redirected Joseph when he planned to leave Mary
How God sees the bigger picture, where we often only see a piece
How God addresses root issues in our lives

237 | The Father’s Heart at Christmas

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Dec 2019 11:00:10 -0500

This December join Mercy Talk as we kick off the season with our new series, “The Father’s Heart at Christmas”. We’ll be taking a closer look at how several stories surrounding the birth of Christ, point back to the unified message of God’s heart for humanity! More specifically in this episode, we’ll take a look at how God is a friend to us in ways we may not always suspect. Also, in this episode:

God’s provision of friendship for Mary through Elizabeth
Being the hands and feet of Jesus
How God takes care of us through others

236 | Redeeming Shame in Our Nurturing Communities

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Nov 2019 11:00:43 -0500

Hey everyone and welcome to MercyTalk! While it’s nothing new, shame has pushed its way to the forefront of social media feeds and Ted Talks everywhere in the last few years.  Our desire with this series is to not only have conversations around the root causes of shame, but also see how the Gospel speaks a better word to the wounded places in our hearts. As we wrap up the final episode in the series, we’ll be examining the important role community plays in our healing. Also, in this episode…

Living vulnerably with others and why it matters
The practice of disregarding shame
Modeling vulnerability within our communities

235 | Shame and Biblical Nature

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Nov 2019 11:00:36 -0500

Hey everyone and welcome to MercyTalk! While it’s nothing new, the topic of shame has pushed its way to the forefront of social media feeds and Ted Talks everywhere in the last few years.  On today’s episode, we’ll discuss how the story of the Gospel serves to erase that narrative of shame from the enemy. Also, in this episode

Going to God with our doubts instead of hiding them
 Jesus, vulnerability and the answer to shame
The distinction between vulnerability and humiliation

234 | The Story of Shame You Are Living

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Nov 2019 11:00:26 -0500

Hey everyone and welcome to another episode of MercyTalk! As we head into November, we’ll be diving into the topic of shame and why it’s a more serious issue than we may think. In today’s episode, we’ll examine the stories we’ve been telling ourselves and why overtime, they become a part of our belief system. Also, in this episode...

How storytelling plays a role in our everyday lives
Why “belief” is more about what we actually do than what we cognitively know 
The mother/father woundings that play a role in the stories we tell ourselves

233 | How Shame Targets the Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Nov 2019 11:00:22 -0500

Hey everyone and welcome to a new month here on MercyTalk! For the last few years, the topic of shame has pushed its way to the forefront of our social media feeds and book covers. From the oldest to the youngest among us, shame is no respecter of persons and can be traced all the way back to the garden. This November join us as we explore the ways shame has tried to embed itself into the narrative of our lives as we focus on the place it all starts…the mind. Also, in this episode…

Why shame strives to undermine God’s creation of goodness and beauty
The self-reinforcing cycle of shame
The way our brains work in regard to shame

233 | Intimacy with God Leads to a New Identity

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 Oct 2019 11:00:35 -0400

This October join us on Mercy Talk as we dive into our new series, “Thriving in Your Relationship with God”. This month, we’ll be taking a closer look at what it means to not merely exist in our relationship with the Lord, but rather, flourish and thrive! Also, in today’s episode:

-How intimacy with the Father leads to confidence and freedom!

-Abiding in Christ (a human “being” vs. a human “doing”)

-The importance of rooting our worth in Jesus over our successes

232 | Pray Without Ceasing Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Fri, 25 Oct 2019 11:00:59 -0400

Resting in God’s pleasure over us
Letting go of legalistic habits and embracing God’s grace
Hearing the voice of the Shepherd

231 | Praying Without Ceasing, Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Oct 2019 11:00:05 -0400

- New instincts and habits in our prayer life

-The blueprint Jesus left for us in prayer

- Delighting in the nearness of God

230 | Live Like You’re Forgiven, Because You Are

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Oct 2019 11:00:20 -0400

-Trusting God’s forgiveness and forgiving ourselves

-God’s goodness in the midst of our wrestling

- Combating the lies of the enemy with what God has said over us

229 | Humility and Your Relationship with God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Oct 2019 11:00:50 -0400

This October join us on Mercy Talk as we dive into our new series, “Thriving in Your Relationship with God”. This month, we’ll be taking a closer look at what it means to not simply exist in our relationship with the Lord but rather, flourish and thrive! Also, in today’s episode:

-Intimacy with God in the midst of grief, anger and pain

-The crucial role humility plays in our relationship with the Lord

-The time frame of exhaling pain and starting again

223 | How to Deal With Difficult People : The Manipulator

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Aug 2019 11:00:06 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be welcoming special guest Jenn Otero as we dive into our theme, “How to Deal”. In this series, we’ll be looking at 5 difficult, yet common behaviors we often encounter in relationships and how to deal with them in healthier ways. In this episode, we’ll be looking at “The Manipulator” role in a relationship and practical ways to identify their behavior before it blindsides you. Also, in this episode:

Reclaiming the good in the word “NO”
How to recognize the part we play in a manipulator’s game (and walk away)
Leaving self-blame and guilt behind when dealing with a manipulator

222 | How to Deal with Difficult People : The Victim

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Aug 2019 11:00:58 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be welcoming special guest Jenn Otero as we dive into our theme, “How to Deal”. In this series, we’ll be looking at 5 difficult, yet common behaviors we often encounter in relationships and how to deal with them in healthier ways. In this episode, we’ll be looking at “The Victim” mentality and how it fosters more problems in our relationships than we realize. Also, in this episode:

Why learning to set boundaries is key to working with those who have a victim mindset
How to identify tendencies that enable others
Why ownership, responsibility and honesty are key to fighting the victim in us all

221 | How to Deal with Difficult People: The Steam Roller

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Aug 2019 11:00:12 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be welcoming special guest Jenn Otero as we dive into our theme, “How to Deal”. In this series, we’ll be looking at 5 difficult, yet common behaviors we often encounter in relationships and how to deal with them in healthier ways. In this episode, we’ll be looking at the “Steam Roller” and why avoiding confrontation, may not be the most effective way of addressing this type of behavior in a relationship. Also, in this episode:

Why tolerating certain behaviors says more about you than you think
How to have healthy conflict resolution conversations
How Self-awareness impacts those around you

220 | How to Deal with Difficult People : The Know It All

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Aug 2019 11:00:14 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be welcoming special guest Jenn Otero as we dive into our theme, “How to Deal”. In this series, we’ll be looking at 5 difficult, yet common behaviors we often encounter in relationships and how to deal with them in healthier ways. In this episode, we’ll be looking at the “Know it All” and why staying curious in the conversation, is the secret weapon to defusing frustration. Also, in this episode:

The underlying issue behind the need for approval
Why getting to the root of behaviors is key to addressing them head on
Practical ways to show compassion while helping others become more self-aware

219 | How to Deal with Difficult People: The Friendly Sniper

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Aug 2019 11:00:10 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be welcoming special guest Jenn Otero as we dive into our theme, “How to Deal”. In “How to Deal”, we’ll be looking at 5 difficult, yet common behaviors we often encounter in relationships and how to deal with them in healthier ways. In the first installment of this series, we’ll take a look at the “Friendly Sniper” and talk about creating safe boundaries with those who pick on others as a means of deflecting their own pain. Also, in this episode:

Why the overuse of sarcasm reveals more than it hides
How to have a vulnerable yet safe conversation with someone who continues to belittle you
How to be aware of the resentment and contempt in our own lives so as to avoid a critical spirit

218 | Doing the Next Hard Thing (NHT)

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Jul 2019 11:00:48 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be diving into the book, “The Entitlement Cure” by Dr. John Townsend and examining how entitlement lies to us in 2 primary ways… (1) I am exempt from responsibility; and (2) I am owed special treatment. In the last installment of this series, we’ll look at why doing hard things first and keeping inconvenient commitments makes all the difference in a culture of entitlement.

Why the NHT (Next Hard Thing) is so key to getting away from entitlement
What Self-medicating behaviors are keeping you from your Next Hard Thing
Why the little things are a BIG deal!
How to quit making commitments you don’t have the resources to keep

217 | Entitlement vs. Responsibility

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Jul 2019 11:00:53 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be diving into the book, “The Entitlement Cure” by Dr. John Townsend and examining how entitlement lies to us in 2 primary ways… (1) I am exempt from responsibility; and (2) I am owed special treatment. In the third episode of this series, we’ll discuss a self-image that actually helps with the entitlement problem and how to replace the phrase, “I deserve” with “I am responsible”. Also, in this episode:

The right way/wrong way to deserve
How playing word games hinders our self-improvement
Skills for developing a self-image that will serve you both in success and failure

216 | Recognizing a Spirit of Entitlement

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Jul 2019 11:00:00 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be diving into the book, “The Entitlement Cure” by Dr. John Townsend and examining how entitlement lies to us in 2 primary ways… (1) I am exempt from responsibility; and (2) I am owed special treatment. In the second instalment of this series, we’ll discuss God’s framework for working through entitlement and how to encourage others who find themselves stuck there. Also, in this episode:

The hard way principles
vulnerable and consequence-based conversations (and what those even are!)
Why discipline and structure are more feasible than you think!

215 | The Entitlement Cure

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Jul 2019 11:00:16 -0400

This month on Mercy Talk, we’ll be diving into the book, “The Entitlement Cure” by Dr. John Townsend and examining how entitlement feeds us 2 primary lies… (1) I am exempt from responsibility; and (2) I am owed special treatment. In the first installment of this series, we’ll look at the deeper narrative behind what entitlement actually is. Also, in this episode:

The universal disease of entitlement
The cure for entitlement and doing things the hard way
Relational patterns that drive entitlement

214 | Mental Health : How Do We Respond? Part Two

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Jun 2019 11:00:49 -0400

This series is meant to explore the church’s response to topics that are often times criticized, belittled or even ignored. This is a forum in which to ask ourselves, “how can we be motivated to better respond from a place of love?” (1 Peter 4:8). In this episode, we’ll discuss the way the church has traditionally approached mental health, common misunderstandings of mental health terms and how we can better serve those asking for mental health help.

213 | Mental Health : How Do We Respond? Part One

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:00:19 -0400

This series is meant to explore the church’s response to topics that are often times criticized, belittled or even ignored. This is a forum in which to ask ourselves, “how can we be motivated to better respond from a place of love?” (1 Peter 4:8). In this episode, we’ll break down a basic understanding of what mental health means, how we approach mental health at Mercy and how we can better serve those seeking help for mental health issues.

212 | Unplanned Pregnancy : How Do We Respond – Part Two

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Jun 2019 11:00:14 -0400

This series is meant to explore the church’s response to topics that are often times criticized, belittled or even ignored. This is a forum in which to ask ourselves, “how can we be motivated to better respond from a place of love?” (1 Peter 4:8). In this episode, we’ll look at how we can better serve those faced with an unplanned pregnancy as well as practical ways the church can convey support to a woman, even after a pregnancy is over.

211 | Unplanned Pregnancy : How Do We Respond – Part One

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Jun 2019 11:10:25 -0400

This series is meant to explore the church’s response to topics that are often times criticized, belittled or even ignored. This is a forum in which to ask ourselves, “how can we be motivated to better respond from a place of love?” (1 Peter 4:8). In this episode, we’ll look at how we can better serve those faced with an unplanned pregnancy without pushing our own agenda.

210 | Divorce : How Do We Respond?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 May 2019 11:00:19 -0400

In this episode, we’ll look at how we can better love and serve those who have walked through the pain and difficulty of divorce.

209 | Infertility and Pregnancy Loss: How Do We Respond?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 May 2019 11:00:28 -0400

This fourth "How Do We Respond?" conversation invites us to pause and consider how we show up for those experiencing infertility or pregnancy loss. We discuss the importance of speaking up, offering prayer and support, and creating safe spaces where people feel seen, heard, and valued.

208 | Special Needs: How Do We Respond?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 May 2019 11:00:05 -0400

In the third installment of our series, "How Do We Respond?", we explore the body of Christ’s posture toward the special needs community. This conversation challenges us to avoid assumptions, stay curious, and recognize the sacred gift of being invited into someone else’s world.

205 | Singleness: How Do We Respond?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 May 2019 11:00:14 -0400

In the second installment of How Do We Respond?, we turn our attention to singleness and the ways well‑meaning attempts to serve can sometimes miss the heart. This conversation invites us to shift our view of singleness from a problem to be solved and instead embrace a Kingdom perspective that honors wholeness, purpose, and calling.

204 | How Do We Respond?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 May 2019 11:00:01 -0400

The first installment of How Do We Respond? invites us to truly see people. This series explores how believers respond to topics that are often criticized, belittled, or ignored, calling us to remember where we came from and allow compassion to shape how we engage others’ experiences.

203 | Treatment or Transformation: Porsha’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Apr 2019 11:00:55 -0400

Join MercyTalk as we dive into stories from Nancy’s new book, “Treatment or Transformation”. In this episode, we’ll look at the life of Porsha.

The importance of community in our lives and in our healing
The power of forgiveness
Reconciliation vs. forgiveness

202 | Treatment or Transformation: Heather’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Apr 2019 11:00:05 -0400

Join MercyTalk as we dive into stories from Nancy’s new book, “Treatment or Transformation”. In this episode, we’ll look at the life of Heather and also discuss:

Trusting God with the future of our loved ones (even when it feels hopeless)
Truth statements and how they can practically help in our everyday lives
Why others must first want help for themselves before you can help them

201 | Treatment or Transformation: Brittany’s Story and Why It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Apr 2019 11:00:52 -0400

Join MercyTalk as we dive into stories from Nancy’s new book, “Treatment or Transformation”. In this episode, we’ll look at the life of Brittany and also discuss:

Integrity in leadership, why it matters and how it can impact the most vulnerable
Why admitting our need is so important in our healing
The power of Christ’s redemption in the most desperate of situations

200 | Treatment or Transformation: Breanne’s Story and Learning to Forgive Yourself

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Apr 2019 11:00:53 -0400

Join MercyTalk as we dive into stories from Nancy’s new book, “Treatment or Transformation”. In this episode, we’ll look at the life of Breanne and how she found freedom from the destructive beliefs she was holding onto. We’ll also cover:

Learning to forgive yourself
Identifying what we really believe about God’s character
Why It’s important to not minimize our pain in the healing process

200 | Treatment or Transformation: Kirstin’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Mar 2019 11:00:56 -0400

Join MercyTalk this week as we dive into the 3rd installment of our “Treatment or Transformation” series. In this episode, we’ll look at the story of Kirstin and the freedom that comes from breaking with destructive family patterns.  Also, in this episode:

The importance of renewing the mind and creating new “trails”
Choosing a legacy of freedom
Surrendering control and getting to the root of the problem

199 | Treatment or Transformation: Franny’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Mar 2019 11:00:55 -0400

Join MercyTalk this week as we dive into the 2nd installment of our “Treatment or Transformation” series. In this episode, we’ll look at the story of Franny and the healing and hope she found in Christ. Also, in this episode:

Awareness for sex trafficking in the states
Forgiveness for self and others
The power of love and community in the healing process

198 | Treatment or Transformation: Emily’s Story

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Mar 2019 11:00:03 -0400

Join MercyTalk this week as we dive into the 1st installment of our “Treatment or Transformation” series. In this episode, we’ll look at the story of Emily and the transformative power of Jesus in her life. Also, in this episode:

Why forgiveness is an essential part of healing and wholeness
The weight of change and who is responsible
Freedom from oppression

197 | Treatment or Transformation Book Release

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Mar 2019 11:00:18 -0500

You can't argue with a changed life! In this conversation, Melanie and Rachael interview Nancy Alcorn about her book Treatment or Transformation and the heart behind its message of hope. Inspired by themes raised in 13 Reasons Why, Nancy points listeners to the power of true healing and lasting change.

196 | Talking Through Anger with God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Feb 2019 11:00:22 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts Melanie, Brooke and Rachael as they dive into all the incredible teachings from Mercy UK executive, Debbie Harvey. On the final installment of this series, they’ll also cover:

Why dealing with hurt/pain honestly is so important
The importance of Learning to hear God’s voice in your own walk
Leadership takeaways from both Arianna and Debbie’s story

195 | From Anger at God to Intimacy with God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Feb 2019 11:00:06 -0500

Join MercyTalk this week as we dive into the story of one of our UK Mercy Executives, Debbie Harvey. In the 3rd instalment of this series, we’ll listen as Debbie shares her own story of pain, anger and steps towards intimacy with God. This episode will also include:

How to deal with anger at God
Learning intimacy with the Father
Practical tools for dealing with your own pain honestly

194 | Lead Your Body and Spirit

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 11:00:00 -0500

Join MercyTalk this week as they dive into the incredible teaching shared from our UK Mercy Executive, Arianna Walker. The 2nd installment of this series will also include:

Arianna’s story of leadership and growth in the early days of Mercy UK
Practical tools for “leading your body and spirit” and what that means
Learning to take responsibility and ownership of your life

193 | Lead Your Soul

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Feb 2019 11:00:46 -0500

Join MercyTalk this week as we dive into the story of one of our UK Mercy Executives, Arianna Walker. In the first installment of this series, we’ll listen as Arianna shares the importance of leading your own soul. Also, in this episode:

A glimpse at Mercy UK and their story along the way
Learning to hear God’s voice for yourself
Leading your own soul and what that means for your everyday life

192 | A Leader People Want to Follow

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 Jan 2019 11:00:45 -0500

The final installment of this leadership series focuses on courageous leadership rooted in trust in God. Melanie, Rachael, and Brooke talk about leading with conviction, making wise decisions, and refusing to simply say what people want to hear.

191 | A Leader People Want to Follow Lives Courageously

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 Jan 2019 11:00:15 -0500

190 | A Leader People Want to Follow Practices Open-Handed Generosity

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Jan 2019 11:00:30 -0500

This third installment in our leadership series explores open generosity and what it means to lead from abundance rather than comparison. Melanie, Brooke, and Rachael talk about serving others, celebrating others’ success, and rejecting the lie that someone else’s growth diminishes your own. It’s a conversation about leadership rooted in trust, humility, and a God who has more than enough.

189 | A Leader People Want to Follow Values Communication

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Jan 2019 11:00:16 -0500

As the leadership series continues, this episode dives into communication and emotional awareness. We reflect on how Jesus modeled empathy and presence, offering wisdom for navigating difficult and high‑stress situations with grace.

188 | A Leader People Want to Follow Takes Ownership

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Jan 2019 11:00:06 -0500

Taking ownership is not about control, it is about responsibility and humility. This podcast unpacks the difference between being a leader and being a boss, challenging us to lead without assumptions, remain repentant, and steward influence with grace.

187 | Word of the Year

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Dec 2018 11:00:53 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie, Brooke, Jen and Rachael as they dive into some of their favorite resources/devotionals for the Christmas season! In this episode they’ll also cover:

Grace for resolutions and embracing our “Word for the Year”
Learning to listen to the voice of God
The new year ahead, changes to come and exciting things in the works!

186 | Loving My Actual Christmas

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Dec 2018 11:00:51 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie, Brooke, Jen and Rachael as they dive into some of their favorite resources/devotionals for the Christmas season! In this episode they’ll also cover:

How to enjoy the Christmas season in your real, everyday life
Boundaries, rest and permission to hit “pause”
Healthy expectation during the holiday season

185 | God Came Near

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Dec 2018 11:00:30 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie, Brooke, Jen and Rachael as they dive into some of their favorite resources/devotionals for the Christmas season! In this episode they’ll also cover:

Remembering the humanity of Jesus and its impact for our lives
The radical nature of the Gospel
The power of the manger in our walk with Jesus

184 | Past the Shadows and to the Form

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 11:00:48 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie, Brooke, Jen and Rachael as they dive into some of their favorite resources/devotionals for the Christmas season! In this episode they’ll also cover:

The evidence of the gospel in the manger and what that means for our everyday lives
The fullness of God as seen in Jesus and why it matters
How to see past the “shadows” of the season to what’s most important

183 | Finding Our Identity in Christ

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Nov 2018 11:00:49 -0500

Finding Our Identity in Christ Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, with special guest, Brooke, as they each share from their own stories. Today they will discuss how they have each grown in their own identity in Christ.

182 | The Power of Gratitude

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Nov 2018 11:00:29 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie, Jen and Rachael as they explore the powerful effects of gratitude. Today they will discuss the ways in which gratitude is often overlooked and how it can prove to be an antidote in so many areas of our lives! They will also discuss:

What science is now saying about gratitude and how it aligns with scripture
The harmful effects of not practicing grateful rhythms
The impact of exercising gratitude in painful circumstances
Practical ways of integrating gratitude into your daily life

181 | The Power in our Identity in Christ: Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Nov 2018 11:00:12 -0500

In part two of this conversation, Pastors Mike and Stephanie Burnette join Jen and Melanie to talk about identity in Christ through the lens of the prodigal son. Together, they share testimonies of shedding false labels and living from God‑given identity

180 | The Power in Our Identity in Christ with Pastors Mike and Stephanie Burnette

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Nov 2018 11:00:43 -0500

In part one, Pastors Mike and Stephanie Burnette share their testimonies and examine the roots of identity and temptation. The conversation points back to the Garden and forward to the freedom found in knowing whose we are in Christ.

179 | Identity in Christ with Pastor Mike Burnette

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Nov 2018 11:00:29 -0400

Note to listeners with small children: This teaching includes some sensitive language, so please be aware of this if you have little ones listening with you. This week we are excited to share a teaching on identity from Pastor Mike Burnette, Lead Pastor of LifePoint Church in Clarksville, TN. He and his wife, Stephanie Burnette.

178 | A Message for Leaders in the Church

Mercy Multiplied — Mon, 29 Oct 2018 11:00:44 -0400

Jen and Melanie sit down with Pastors Mike and Stephanie Burnette to talk about missional leadership. Together, they explore reflecting the heart of the city, meeting people where they are, and leading with conviction without losing a prophetic voice.

177 | Parenting Series : Position Yourself and Your Kids to Succeed

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Oct 2018 11:00:23 -0400

This final installment of the parenting series focuses on practical ways to position yourself and your kids to succeed. Melanie, Jen, and Brooke share how a strong relationship with Jesus and healthy adult relationships create a foundation for grace‑filled parenting.

176 | Parenting Series: Heart to Heart Connection

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Oct 2018 11:00:05 -0400

Parenting is about more than raising obedient children, it’s about building real relationship. This episode unpacks heart‑to‑heart connection, addressing root issues, and how our own healing shapes the way we love and lead our kids.

175 | Boundaries in Marriage and Family

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Oct 2018 11:00:57 -0400

Jen and Melanie talk about boundaries in marriage and family and the fruit that comes from living within them. This conversation unpacks what we are responsible for, what we are not, and how letting go of control creates healthier relationships.

174 | Boundaries for Teens, Part 2: Understanding Teenagers

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Oct 2018 11:00:22 -0400

This conversation continues the boundaries discussion by helping parents better understand their teens. Melanie, Jen, and Brooke explore why questioning and challenging can be signs of healthy development, and why consistent love and support matter more than ever in seasons of change.

173 | Boundaries for Teens: Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Sep 2018 11:00:14 -0400

In this first conversation on boundaries with teens, Melanie, Jen, and Brooke explore the importance of modeling responsibility and self‑control. They highlight how parents owning their own choices and staying connected to healthy community creates a strong foundation for teens to grow.

172 | Parental Boundaries

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Sep 2018 11:00:07 -0400

Brooke, Jen, and Melanie unpack healthy parental boundaries and practical ways to build responsibility. From offering safe choices to allowing consequences, they explore how boundaries support growth and maturity.

171 | Enabling versus Supporting Your Child

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Sep 2018 11:00:25 -0400

Enabling versus Supporting Your Child Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, with special guest, Brooke, as they continue their discussion on parenting. Today they will discuss the challenge of enabling vs supporting in our parent-child relationships.

170 | Codependent Child and Parent Relationships

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Sep 2018 11:00:36 -0400

Melanie, Jen, and Brooke talk about codependency in families and how it impacts both parents and children. They identify common behaviors, patterns to watch for, and how healthy boundaries foster growth and freedom.

169 | The Why Behind the What: Breaking Strongholds of the Mind

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Aug 2018 11:00:32 -0400

Melanie and Jen unpack the roots of mental strongholds and the beliefs formed through painful experiences. This episode invites listeners to let the Lord into their minds and begin healing by asking Him honest, life‑giving questions.

168 | The Why Behind the What: Getting to the Root of the Problem

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Aug 2018 11:00:01 -0400

Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they begin a new discussion today on areas of bondage and challenge in our lives.

167 | Safeguarding Yourself Through Self-Care

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Aug 2018 11:00:18 -0400

Melanie and Jen talk about self‑care and what it means to rest well without living in chronic overload. This conversation reframes rest as trust, reminding listeners that we are called to partner with God, not live as His workhorse.

166 | Safeguarding Yourself Through Healthy Boundaries

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Aug 2018 11:00:51 -0400

Healthy boundaries are worth the hard work. Melanie and Jen unpack where you begin and where you end, with a focus on emotional boundaries and why clarity protects both you and your relationships. They also share how open, honest communication is key to safeguarding your heart.

165 | Preventing Compassion Fatigue by Safeguarding Ourselves

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Aug 2018 11:00:51 -0400

Compassion fatigue often comes from taking on weight that was never meant to be ours. Melanie and Jen share how to prevent burnout by clarifying your responsibility, setting healthy limits, and trusting God with the outcome.

164 | Being A Safe Accountability Partner

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Jul 2018 04:00:33 -0400

Accountability can be a powerful part of healing, but only when it is done in a healthy way. Melanie and Jen are joined by Mercy graduate Chelsea to talk about what it means to be a safe accountability partner, when accountability can cause harm, and how to know if you are in the right season to invite someone in.

163 | Finding A Safe Accountability Partner

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Jul 2018 04:00:43 -0400

Finding A Safe Accountability Partner Accountability and mentoring are similar in many ways and can add to our lives in a powerful way. Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they discuss how accountability is for any believer who desires to grow.

162 | The Power in Christian Mentoring Relationships

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Jul 2018 09:00:08 -0400

In part two of our mentoring series, Melanie and Jen sit down with Jayme Hull to talk about Christian mentoring versus accountability. They discuss how mentoring creates space for growth, discipleship, and multiplication as we learn to invest in others the way someone invested in us.

161 | What is Christian Mentoring?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Jul 2018 09:00:47 -0400

What is Christian mentoring, and why does it matter? Melanie and Jen are joined by Jayme Hull, a church mentoring coordinator, to explore mentoring through a biblical lens, who it’s for, why we need it, and how to step into it with intention.

160 | Journeying Through Our Anger at God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Jun 2018 09:00:09 -0400

The journey through anger at God requires honesty, courage, and surrender. Jen and Melanie talk through practical tools for processing anger and learning how to anchor our trust in who God is, not just how we feel.

159 | Spiritual Warfare in Our Anger at God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Jun 2018 09:00:21 -0400

Anger toward God often raises hard questions about fairness and why He allows certain things to happen. In part three of this series, Jen and Melanie explore the role of spiritual warfare in anger toward God and how lies can distort our view of His justice and character.

158 | Questioning and Doubting God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Jun 2018 09:00:01 -0400

Doubt does not have to push us away from God. In part two of this series, Melanie and Jen explore how honest questions can lead us toward Jesus and how letting go of control opens the door to deeper trust.

157 | Permission to be Angry at God

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Jun 2018 09:00:09 -0400

Life’s pain can leave us frustrated, confused, and even angry with God. In the second installment, Melanie and Jen discuss why acknowledging that anger is not a faith failure but an invitation into deeper trust and connection.

156 | Viewing Heartache and Suffering from God’s Perspective

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 May 2018 09:00:57 -0400

Heartache and suffering can leave us full of questions for God. In the fourth episode of this series, Melanie and Jen explore God’s perspective on pain, and how suffering can protect us, grow us, and reshape us over time. Discover why understanding His perspective often takes patience and trust.

155 | Navigating Heartache and Suffering

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 May 2018 09:00:32 -0400

In the third installment of Navigating Heartache and Suffering, Melanie and Jen talk about choosing gratitude even when pain feels overwhelming. They also unpack how to support others well, renew your mind, and recognize the ways the enemy tries to use suffering against us.

154 | Why Does God Allow Heartache and Suffering?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 May 2018 04:00:13 -0400

What do you do when suffering rattles your faith? In part two, Melanie and Jen sit down with Debbie Harvie, Mercy UK’s Executive Director of Services and Mercy graduate, to explore how God’s presence is often discovered through pain and why perseverance in Him is key.

153 | Heartache and Suffering

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 May 2018 04:00:30 -0400

In this new series on heartache and suffering, Melanie and Jen share their own stories and what they have learned along the way. They explore the stages of grief, what research reveals about heartache, and why letting go of control is often a necessary step toward healing.

152 | A Journey Through Anger to Healing

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 May 2018 04:00:02 -0400

Debbie Harvie brings a vulnerable and hope-filled message as she shares her journey from anger toward healing. Teaching from the story of Mary and Martha after Lazarus’ death, Debbie reminds us that Jesus enters both our grief and our questions with compassion.

151 | The Impact of Your Voice

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Apr 2018 04:00:34 -0400

Teaspoon Asks, Ocean Answers is a powerful teaching from Mercy UK CEO, Arianna Walker. Enjoy the show!

150 | The Importance of Your Voice

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Apr 2018 04:00:33 -0400

MercyTalk hosts Melanie and Jen welcome Mercy’s Executive Director, Leah, for a powerful conversation on the importance of your voice. Together, they unpack how knowing yourself helps you lead yourself, with Leah sharing insights from her Guardian voice and how it shapes the way she relates to and leads others.

149 | Discovering Your Voice: Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Apr 2018 04:00:07 -0400

Discovering Your Voice: Part 2 We each have a God-given voice and are wired uniquely. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they welcome back Amy Norton from, Giant Worldwide.

148 | Discovering Your Voice: Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Apr 2018 04:00:30 -0400

Discovering Your Voice: Part 1 Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, with special guest, Amy Norton, from Giant Worldwide as they discuss the power in finding your leadership voice from the book, 5 Voices.

147 | Teaspoon Asks Ocean Answers with Arianna Walker

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Mar 2018 04:00:25 -0400

Teaspoon Asks Ocean Answers with Arianna Walker Today on MercyTalk we have a special guest, Arianna Walker, sharing a powerful message on seeking and receiving […]

146 | Overcoming Rejection: How?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 04:00:13 -0400

Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they talk through how to overcome rejection. So you have identified rejection in your life? What can you do about it? Join them as they discuss:

The importance of identifying and overcoming rejection in our lives
How to identify a root of rejection and the branches that it can create
How rejection attacks our identity, worth and value
The power to overcome rejection through forgiveness and renewing our minds
Practical steps to forgiveness and renewing our minds

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145 | Overcoming Rejection: Why?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Mar 2018 04:00:53 -0400

Today, Melanie and Jen will discuss why overcoming rejection is so important. Join them as they discuss:

The difficulty in identifying rejection for what it is
Why it is so important to identify it and the freedom that can come when we do
How rejection manifests for different individuals
The importance of overcoming rejection for ourselves and for others

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144 | Overcoming Rejection: Defined

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Mar 2018 03:00:39 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they start a new series on Overcoming Rejection. Most, if not all, of us have experienced rejection at one point or another in our lives. Today they will define what rejection is and discuss:

Different definitions for rejection
How rejection can manifest in our lives
The different forms of rejection
How to identify a root of rejection in your life

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143 | Keys to Freedom One Year Anniversary with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Mar 2018 03:00:35 -0500

Keys to Freedom One Year Anniversary with Nancy Alcorn Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they celebrate the one year anniversary of the release of Keys to Freedom with a SPECIAL guest – Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn!

142 | A Special Message From Julie Bailey

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 03:00:31 -0500

Today on MercyTalk we have a special guest, Julie Bailey, sharing a powerful message on Overcoming! Julie is the International director of Christian International in Australia. Enjoy the show!

141 | Overcoming Fear: How?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Feb 2018 06:40:44 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they unpack HOW to overcome fear! There are many ways to begin to address the fear that you may be experiencing in your life. They discuss different ways to overcome including:

Specific questions to ask the Lord to get to the root of fear
Identifying open doors as well as generational patterns
The power in taking personal responsibility
How your thoughts, words and actions are keys to overcoming fear

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140 | Overcoming Fear: Why?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Feb 2018 03:00:13 -0500

Today, Melanie and Jen take the discussion one step further as they talk through WHY it is so important to overcome fear. They will also chat through:

The different ways that fear can manifest in our lives
Reasons why fear is hard to identify and address
Ways that fear opens the door to other areas of bondage
How to use Scripture to begin to challenge the fear in your life

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139 | Overcoming Fear: Defined

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Feb 2018 03:00:04 -0500

Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they begin a new series this month on MercyTalk. They will discuss Overcoming Fear! Today they focus on defining fear as well as:

Different types of fear
What Scripture says about fear
How to identify unhealthy fear
How to identify the root of fear in your life

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138 | MercyTalk Listener Responses for 2018: Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 Jan 2018 05:20:41 -0500

MercyTalk Listener Responses for 2018: Part 2 Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, on the second part of a two-part discussion as they share MercyTalk […]

137 | MercyTalk Listener Responses for 2018: Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 18 Jan 2018 03:00:44 -0500

MercyTalk Listener Responses for 2018: Part 1 Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, on the first part of a two part discussion as they share MercyTalk listener responses to one of the three questions posed for reflection for 2018!

136 | Pursuing Your Vision with Nancy Alcorn

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 03:00:03 -0500

Today on MercyTalk we have a very special treat! Who better to hear from when discussing the topic of “vision” than Mercy Multiplied’s Founder and President, Nancy Alcorn?! Join Nancy for a recent message that she shared on “vision,” where she specifically discusses:

Pursuing the dream that God has placed in your heart.
The importance of obedience.
How to faithfully follow God’s promptings and where they can lead when we do.

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135 | Looking Ahead to 2018

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 04 Jan 2018 03:00:02 -0500

Looking Ahead to 2018 With the start of a New Year comes the opportunity to look ahead, set some goals and enter the year connected to the heart of the Lord. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they discuss the importance of intentionally taking […]

134 | Looking Back to Look Ahead

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Dec 2017 03:00:05 -0500

The end of the year can bring some excitement for many, but also some disappointment and even regret as you look back over the last 12 months. Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they discuss the importance of intentionally looking back at the year that has passed in preparation for the year to come! They will also talk through:

The importance of celebrating the good things and mourning and processing the hard things that happened in 2017.
Why putting a period on the last year is important for you to shift fully into the New Year that is ahead.
Practical ways to look back over the last year and remember what the Lord has done.
How to take ownership if you are heading into the New Year with the same struggles that you had at the start of 2017.
Some specific questions to ask yourself as you head into a New Year – and a challenge to share them with us here at MercyTalk!

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133 | Creating Boundaries During the Holidays

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Dec 2017 03:00:42 -0500

In preparation for MercyTalk in the month of December, our team decided to share some shows from years past on the very topics that we wanted to discuss this year during the holiday season. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, and special guest Mickenzie as they discuss boundaries and how they can help during the holidays. They will also discuss:

How boundaries can help with some of the interpersonal challenges that the holidays can bring.
Defining boundaries: what they are and how to set them.
The peace and freedom that boundaries can bring to your holidays.

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132 | True Rest During the Holidays

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Dec 2017 03:00:06 -0500

This month we are pulling out some of our MercyTalk podcasts from last year in preparation for the holidays. Join Melanie and Jen, our MercyTalk hosts, as they discuss how to walk in and experience rest during the holiday season. They will also chat through

How true rest is a posture of the heart and soul.
Rest can come in a variety of different forms and looks different for everyone as an individual.
Examples of true rest and practical ways to rest during the holidays.

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131 | Choosing Joy During the Holidays

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Dec 2017 03:00:29 -0500

As our MercyTalk team was preparing shows for December, we realized that everything we wanted to discuss was already recorded last year on MercyTalk! So we decided to do some December throwbacks for you to enjoy! This week, join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they discuss how choosing joy can posture your heart for the holidays! They will also discuss:

The strength that can be found as we choose joy.
How JOY counters the sadness and depression that the holidays can bring.
The truth that joy is not just an emotion – it is a choice.
Practical ways to choose joy this holiday season.

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130 | Depression and Suicide: Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 30 Nov 2017 03:00:53 -0500

When you google “overcoming depression and suicide” there are a variety of articles and websites that will come up with many helpful steps to take that address these struggles, but those steps typically focus on the behavior and not the true root. Today on MercyTalk, join hosts, Jen and Melanie, with guest, Brooke as they spend some time discussing some of the biblical keys to overcoming depression and suicide that we have used for decades here at Mercy and have watched countless young women use to overcome. They will talk through:

Some of the root causes of depression and suicide
Identifying the hurts and/or the spiritual warfare that may be present
How to address the hurts and/or spiritual warfare that you identify
What is on the other side of our obedience and choosing to take steps to overcome

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129 | Thanksgiving At Mercy

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 23 Nov 2017 03:00:16 -0500

Happy Thanksgiving from our MercyTalk team! We hope that you are enjoying the holiday and that you will join us as we listen in with MercyTalk host, Melanie, and two of our home staff members, Erin and Janelle, as they share a sneak peek into the Thanksgiving holiday for our residents and staff. They will discuss:

What holiday food prep for a Thanksgiving meal for 40 residents entails!
How the Thanksgiving holiday in the home impacts the residents and the staff
How to have a happy, meaningful holiday despite the challenges in the past
The truth that the Lord places the lonely in family and how to receive His love this holiday season

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128 | Depression and Suicide: Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 16 Nov 2017 03:00:50 -0500

It can be easy to get into the excitement and preparation of the holidays and forget that, while we may enjoy this time of year, it is not always enjoyable for everyone.

Some individuals have not experienced joyful holidays in the past, so what we may experience as fun and full of tradition is not what they may experience. When this is the case, depression, and at times, struggles with suicide, can come in. We talk about the different things users can do to relieve their depression – from getting a good nights sleep to using relaxing lights and herbal teas.

Join our MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, with guest, Brooke, as they spend some time discussing depression and suicide. Join our hosts as they discuss:

Definitions for depression and suicide
How depression and suicide are linked
Important statistics
The importance of getting to the real root of these issues
Biblical keys to overcoming depression and/or suicidal ideations

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127 | Little Steps Conquer Big Mountains

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 09 Nov 2017 03:00:39 -0500

Welcome back to MercyTalk this week as we enjoy another Throwback Thursday! Enjoy this second show with MercyTalk host, Melanie, as she discusses how little steps overcome big mountains with one of our UK staff in 2015. Melanie connects with Laura Ryder as she shares from her personal experience climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro in Tanzania, and the lessons she learned about journeying with the Lord and trusting His ways. They will also talk about:

The connection between physical challenges and spiritual growth
How little steps conquer big mountains
Trusting God in the big picture and following His pace in order to reach the summit
The importance of celebrating all of the steps on the way to the breakthrough
How to see things as an opportunity instead of a problem

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126 | Loving People Back to Life

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 02 Nov 2017 04:00:06 -0400

Welcome to Throwback Thursday on MercyTalk! We hope you will enjoy this show from 2015 with some of our United Kingdom Mercy staff, as they discuss what it means to love people back to life. Laura Ryder and Pam Grimshaw share their love for Mercy and the power that comes from loving people well. Join MercyTalk host, Melanie, as she and our UK staff discuss:

Their “Mercy story” and how they connected with Mercy Multiplied
What it means to “love people back to life”
How God doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called
The urgency for the Church to be healthy and whole and why that is important
How to practically love others back to life and how to safeguard ourselves as we do so

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125 | Roots of Addiction: People Pleasing

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 26 Oct 2017 04:00:40 -0400

Join us on MercyTalk today as we discuss an addiction to people pleasing and how people pleasing can attempt to meet our need for approval. People pleasing is an area that MANY people struggle with, but are not always aware that it’s happening and that it can have serious repercussions. MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, with special guest, Brooke will discuss the need for healthy approval and how we can address an addiction to people pleasing from a biblical perspective. They will also discuss:

What people pleasing is and what to do if we identify it in our lives
The personal and relational challenges that people pleasing can create
How to overcome people pleasing
The importance of boundary setting
Additional resources

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124 | Roots of Addiction: Sex

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 04:00:36 -0400

We are made for intimacy and healthy connection. Sex is an area that our world has perverted and drawn away from God’s original design. This week on MercyTalk we continue our discussion on the roots of addiction and the many ways that we meet healthy needs with unhealthy addictions. Today our hosts, Jen and Melanie, with special guest, Brooke will discuss the need for healthy connection and how we can try to meet that need with an addiction to sex. Sex addiction permeates our culture in a variety of ways, but freedom and healing is possible. Join our hosts as they discuss:

What sex addiction is
What is God’s original design for sex
How sex addiction is actually a search for God-ordained intimacy in the wrong places
How sexual addiction attempts to meet our need for connection
How to identify sexual addiction and how to address it from a Biblical perspective

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123 | Roots of Addiction: Social Media & Gaming

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 12 Oct 2017 04:00:29 -0400

Join us this week on MercyTalk as we discuss another area of addiction and one of the roots to this addiction—the addiction of social media and gaming. Today our hosts, Melanie and Jen, with special guest, Brooke will discuss the need for significance and how we often try to meet that need with an addiction to social media, the internet, and, at times, gaming. Join them as they talk through:

What social media addiction is and how to recognize it
The need we have for connection and significance and the immediacy that social media can provide
Other reasons that social media can become an issue, including comparison and fear in relationship
How to address social media addiction in a biblical way in your life or in the life of someone you care about

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122 | Roots of Addiction: Food

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 05 Oct 2017 04:00:21 -0400

This week on MercyTalk we continue our discussion on the roots of addiction and the many ways that we meet healthy needs with unhealthy addictions. Today our hosts, Melanie and Jen, with special guest, Brooke, will discuss the need for comfort and how we can try to meet that need with an addiction to food. Food addiction is a serious issue in our culture and has impacted obesity rates as well as overall national health. As with any addiction, freedom is possible. Join us as we discuss:

What food addiction is and how it attempts to meet our need for comfort
What the ramifications of this struggle are on a natural and spiritual level
How shame plays into the cycle of food addiction and how that cycle can be broken
Ways to overcome addiction to food from a Biblical perspective

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121 | Roots of Addiction: Workaholism

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 28 Sep 2017 04:00:35 -0400

We all have a need to feel valued, but sometimes that drive for value and purpose can lead to an addiction to work. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, along with special guest, Brooke, as they discuss workaholism and the need for value that it attempts to meet. An addiction to work can create many issues in someone’s life, relationships and relationship with God. We hope you will join us as we talk through:

What workaholism is from a Christian perspective
How addiction to work can impact the individual struggling as well as their relationships with God and with others
Ways to rein in overwork in your own life and find time for rest
How our value can be found in our relationship with the Lord and who He says we are in Christ

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120 | Roots of Addiction: Eating Disorders & Self-Harm

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 21 Sep 2017 04:00:04 -0400

Experiencing a sense of control over our lives is a normal and healthy need. When we do not have healthy control, we can attempt to gain control in unhealthy and destructive ways. This week on MercyTalk our hosts, Melanie and Jen, with special guest, Brooke, will discuss the need to have healthy control and how that can manifest through an addiction to self-harm and/or an eating disorder. We see these two areas in many of the young women that come into the Mercy residential program and have watched many of them overcome. Join us as we:

Define what self-harm and eating disorders are and how they attempt to meet a need for control
Share examples of how these two areas cause individuals who are struggling to feel in “control”
Why a need for control is healthy and other ways to meet that need in a healthy way
Practical steps to overcome self-harm and/or an eating disorder from a Christian perspective

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119 | Roots of Addiction Introduction: Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 14 Sep 2017 04:00:36 -0400

Join us on MercyTalk this week as we add another layer to our discussion on the roots of addiction. Addiction does not just manifest through substances – such as drugs and alcohol – but through other things – such as sex, social media, work, food, and even, approval. Join hosts, Jen and Melanie, and special guest, Brooke, as the discussion continues to unfold on addiction, how it works and how it can rob you of the freedom God intended you to have. They will also discuss:

The similarities and difference between substance addiction and addiction to areas such as social media, food and work.
Why many people think of substances when they hear the term “addiction.”
Why it is a struggle in our culture to acknowledge these other outlying areas as addictions.
The healthy needs that addiction tries to meet and the importance of getting to the root to experience freedom from addiction.

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118 | Roots of Addiction Introduction: Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 07 Sep 2017 04:00:46 -0400

Join us this week as we begin a new discussion on the topic of addiction…but not addiction as we would typically think. We will discuss other areas of addiction, such as food, social media, shopping, work, sex – areas that meet a “need” but can actually become an addiction in our lives, much like substances can. Today we will focus on setting a foundation for what addiction is and how it operates in individual’s lives. Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, with special guest, Brooke, as they unpack what addiction is and what it is not from a Christian perspective. We hope you will join us as we discuss:

A good base-line definition of addiction.
How addiction works and why it is such an issue in our culture.
Myths and misconceptions about addiction.
Practical steps in starting the process of overcoming addiction.

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117 | Spiritual Gifts and Fruits of the Spirit

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 31 Aug 2017 04:00:20 -0400

Join us this week as we wrap up our ongoing discussion on the topic of spiritual gifts with MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen. This week they discuss the link between spiritual gifts and the fruit of the spirit. How does the fruit of the spirit impact our ability to walk out our spiritual gifts from a solid and pure place? We hope you will join us as they discuss the very important role that the fruit of the spirit plays in our spiritual gifts being alive and active!

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116 | Walking In Your Spiritual Gifts

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 24 Aug 2017 04:00:38 -0400

piritual gifts are given for the common good, yet many times, individuals may not know how to fully connect and put their spiritual gifts to work. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they discuss their own spiritual gift assessments, some of the things they have learned along their personal and ministry journeys, and some practical ways to put your spiritual gifts to work in your own life and for the common good.

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115 | Unpacking Your Spiritual Gifts: Part 2

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 17 Aug 2017 04:00:42 -0400

We continue our discussion on Spiritual Gifts this week on MercyTalk! Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they unpack many of the pitfalls and lies that exist when walking out our spiritual gifts. Comparison, pride, and ignorance are just a few of the areas that can create hindrances in our ability to fully assess and purely experience the fullness of our spiritual gifts. They also discuss some practical steps to addressing any hindrances that you may experience. We hope you will join us!

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114 | Unpacking Your Spiritual Gifts: Part 1

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 10 Aug 2017 04:00:43 -0400

Unpacking Your Spiritual Gifts: Part 1 Our discussion on spiritual gifts continues as MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, begin to unpack why we need to know what our spiritual gifts are and some additional ways to identify the spiritual gifts that God h...

113 | What Are Spiritual Gifts?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 04:00:57 -0400

This week on MercyTalk we will begin a new series on the topic of spiritual gifts! Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they discuss what spiritual gifts are and what the Word says about these specific gifts. Melanie and Jen will dig into the different reasons that God gives the gifts that He does to each of us as sons and daughters of God. Different means of spiritual gifts assessment, from online tools to other resources, will also be discussed. We hope you will join us!

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112 | Pornography: A Parent’s Perspective

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 27 Jul 2017 04:00:02 -0400

Pornography impacts many areas of our culture – on an individual and familial basis – and has woven its way into many children’s lives through internet use. Therefore, pornography is an important topic for parents as they seek to protect and support their children – those who have never viewed pornographic material and those whohave. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie as they welcome Parent’s Who Fight founder, Sarah Siegand, as they discuss ways that parents can fight against pornography in their homes and children’s lives. They will discuss:

Why parents play such an important role in equipping and safeguarding their kids.
Specific ways that parents can safeguard their children in the area of pornography.
Encouragement for parents whose children have already viewed pornography.
Specific resources for parents on the issue of pornography.
Practical encouragement from a biblical perspective for all caregivers and parents of kids.

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111 | Pornography: What Now?

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 04:00:37 -0400

So far this month our MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, along with special guest, Brooke, have discussed the overall impact that pornography has on individuals, but today they will expand their discussion to the overall cultural impact that pornography has, and continues to have. Join them as they discuss:

The personal and cultural impact of pornography.
The secular concern that is being raised in the area of pornography.
Helpful statistics on pornography.
Practical steps for individuals who are personally struggling with pornography.
Practical take-a-ways for individuals who are in relationship with someone who is struggling with pornography.

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110 | Pornography: At The Root

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 13 Jul 2017 04:00:52 -0400

The area of pornography is not an easy one to discuss or address if you or someone you care about is struggling. The truth is that nothing is too hard for God to heal and set us free from – including an addiction to pornography. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, and special guest, Brooke, as they discuss the importance of getting to the root issues of pornography in order to experience healing and freedom from it. In this episode, they will talk through:

The importance of tackling the topic of pornography head on and being educated about it.
Some of the root causes for pornography use and sexual addictions as a whole.
The differences and similarities for men and women in pornography use.
How individuals struggling with pornography can overcome.

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109 | Pornography: Defined

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 06 Jul 2017 04:00:45 -0400

Pornography is rampant in our culture and in our churches. Pornography has become an area that everyone needs to be educated about in this day and age. Join MercyTalk hosts, Melanie and Jen, as they welcome special guest, Brooke, to discuss what pornography is and why it is a problem. They will cover:

A working definition on WHAT pornography is.
Why it is important for everyone –especially Christians – to be educated on the topic of pornography.
WHY pornography is a problem and the issues that is opens individuals up to.
How pornography impacts an individual’s relationships and life.
Practical steps and the hope of FREEDOM in Christ from pornography.

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108 | Forgiveness

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 29 Jun 2017 04:00:32 -0400

Forgiveness Many misconceptions surround forgiveness. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they welcome back Scott Keels to discuss forgiveness and how that plays into our relationships with the Lord. Have a comment or question? Email MercyTalk.

107 | Emotional Health

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 22 Jun 2017 04:00:11 -0400

Often times it’s hard to get in tune with our emotions. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they welcome back Ted Quinn, Director of Coaches Programs at Nations of Coaches, to discuss the significance of our emotions and how important it is to be emotionally healthy.

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106 | Prayer and Healing

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 15 Jun 2017 08:57:48 -0400

Prayer is partnering with God to see His promises fulfilled on this earth. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they continue the discussion for International Men’s Health Month and elaborate on the importance of prayer and healing from a man’s perspective.

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105 | Identity in Christ

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 08 Jun 2017 04:00:08 -0400

Identity in Christ Knowing your identity in Christ is critical. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they kick off International Men’s Health Month with a special guest who offers a male perspective on the importance of your identity in Christ.

104 | Outreach Update

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 01 Jun 2017 04:00:12 -0400

Outreach Update! It’s been an exciting year for Mercy’s Outreach Department! Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, as they share some of the amazing things God has been doing, along with several testimonies of lives that have been touched.

103 | Persevering in the Vision

Mercy Multiplied — Thu, 25 May 2017 04:00:37 -0400

An actual God vision is bigger than anything we can do on our own. Join MercyTalk hosts, Jen and Melanie, and Mercy’s Executive Director of Counseling Services, Brooke Keels, as they discuss how to partner with the Lord to discover that vision and to persevere through the process of seeing that vision come to light.

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417| "Overcomer, Overcome"— Book Review and Caitlin's Story

416 | More Than a Meal Plan—­Overcoming an Eating Disorder

415 | Choosing Life — Brooke & Kristen’s Stories of Hope, with Nancy Alcorn

414 | Grief, Loss, & the Journey Back to Joy

413 | The Why Behind Mercy w/ Nancy Alcorn and Arianna Walker - pt.2

412 | The Why Behind Mercy w/ Nancy Alcorn and Arianna Walker - pt.1

411 | Finding Peace In Chaotic Times

410 | Suicide Prevention Awareness: The Changing Language of Suicide

409 | What Is God's Will For My Life?

408 | Does God Still Love Me?

407 | MercyTalk Special Update

406 | Boundaries That Make Us Better Helpers

405 | Transition Seasons with Arianna Walker

404 | When Pain Becomes Passion: A MercyStory

403 | Breaking Down the Big Question: What is Freedom?

402 | Listen First to Love Better: A Conversation about Mental Health

401 | MercyStory: Tallie & Wilson

400 | Reconnecting to Intimacy with God

399 | Reconnecting with the Life We're Made For

398 | Transforming Habits in Our Homes and Lives - Part 3

397 | MercyStory: Allison John

396 | Real-Life Habits: Practical Examples to Transform Your Life

395 | Transforming Habits in Our Homes and Lives

394 | What a Lack of Emotional Health Looks Like – Part 3

393 | What a Lack of Emotional Health Looks Like – Part 2

392 | Conflict and the Lie of False Peacemaking with Jeff Helton

391 | What a Lack of Emotional Health Looks Like

390 | How Emotional Health Impacts Spiritual Maturity

389 | God Cares About Mental Health

388 | How to Disagree Without Being a Jerk with Gavin Ortlund

387 | Myths + Misunderstandings around Suicide

386 | Crossroads Church’s Story: Bringing Freedom to a Community with Pastors Dave Vance and Chris Standridge

385 | When Your Child is Struggling : Exploring Next Steps

384 | When Your Child is Struggling: Listening and Learning Part 2

383 | When Your Child is Struggling: Listening and Learning Part 1

382 | BONUS EPISODE: Kristy's Story

381 | When Your Child is Struggling: Your Response

380 | When Your Child is Struggling: Are you Operating From a Place of Health?

379 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Sky's Story

378 | The Brain and Renewing the Mind

377 | Trauma, Memory, and the Brain

376 | Let’s Talk Upstairs and Downstairs Brain

375 | Whole Brain Discipleship

374 | Let's Talk Left Brain and Right Brain

373 | Why Talk About the Brain?

372 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday - Amy's Story

371 | Stories of Impact from Mercy Staff

370 | Mercy's Approach to Freedom in Christ with Fredrica and Shantray

369 | The Beliefs That Guide Us with Nicola and Arianna

368 | Mercy’s Last 20 Years with Nancy Alcorn

367 | Mercy’s First 20 Years with Nancy Alcorn

366 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Kristin's Story

365 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Chris' Story

364 | When You’re Mad at God

363 | When You’re Mad at Yourself

362 | Forgiving Those You’re Stuck With

361 | The Nuts and Bolts of Forgiveness

360 | What Forgiveness Is and What It’s Not

359 | Grieving our Hurts

358 | Why Forgiveness Matters

357 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Julia’s Story

356 | How to Find Deep Community

355 | When You’ve Been Hurt

354 | Deep Community Requires Vulnerability

353 | Barriers to Community

352 | What Deep Community Looks Like

351 | How Western Culture is Working Against Community

350 | The Life We’re Looking For with Andy Crouch

349 | Is God Supposed to Be Enough?

348 | How Mercy is Supporting Young Women Facing an Unplanned Pregnancy with Founder & President Nancy Alcorn

347 | Important MercyTalk Update

346 | What Pastors Want to Ask Counselors

345 | BONUS EPISODE: Testimony Tuesday – Jenna’s Story

344 | Why We Avoid Getting Help

343 | Breaking Agreements and Renewing the Mind

342 | Jesus’ Role in Your Freedom with Mercy UK’s Rob Harvie

341 | How Sleep Impacts Mental and Emotional Health

340 | How One Church is Leaning Into the Mental Health Crisis with Rachael Schmidt and Tyler Kurbat

339 | The Gift of Grief with Rachelle Ashbee

416 | More Than a Meal Plan—Overcoming an Eating Disorder