Karaoke Wine Podcast

In Plain Sight: Unmasking the Rape Academy Epidemic & The Dark Web of Consent

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 05 May 2026 07:00:00 -0400

In Plain Sight: Unmasking the Rape Academy Epidemic & The Dark Web of Consent

In this episode, Jules & Tessa discuss a CNN investigation into an international “rape academy” chat group and content hosted on motherless.com, which they say received 62 million visits in February and includes thousands of videos of unconscious women tagged “passed out” and “eyecheck,” with users exchanging tips on drugging partners and avoiding detection. They connect the story to broader issues of misogyny, the manosphere, and consent, citing statistics including 10–14% of married women being raped by partners, laws in 17 states affecting prosecution when a spouse rapes an incapacitated partner, and low reporting, arrest, and conviction rates. They share personal experiences of sexual assault and abuse, discuss how mainstream media distractions and institutional cover-ups enable harm, reference cases like Gisèle Pelicot and films depicting “nice guy” predators, emphasize teaching consent and confronting systemic behavior, and provide the National Sexual Assault Hotline number (1-800-656-HOPE).

00:00 Cheers And Disclaimer

00:16 Rape Website Shocker

02:21 Married Men Drugging Wives

05:09 Consent And Culture

05:54 Marriage Rape Stats

08:36 Personal Assault Story

11:13 Media Distraction And Desensitization

17:09 Rape Reporting And Convictions

21:21 Trauma And Safety Strategies

24:57 Friend’s Break In Assault

27:00 Silencing Survivors

28:18 Power Abuse Coverups

30:12 Rape Academy Exposed

33:53 Why Prosecution Fails

35:16 Raising Better Men

36:38 Bear vs Man Debate

47:20 Consent Lessons

49:59 Ending With Action

Content quoted by: instagram @onyinyechi_blossom

Here are trusted organizations offering confidential support, resources, and guidance:

National Sexual Assault Hotline and Chat

www.rainn.org

www.crisistextline.org

Sexaul Assault Support for the DOD community: www.sapr.mil

Aid to Victims of Domestic Abuse (AVDA) https://www.avdaonline.org/

Help Home Safe https://www.helphomesafe.org/

Women in Distress of Broward County https://widbroward.org/

Families First of Palm Beach County https://familiesfirstpbc.org/

If you are in immediate danger, please contact local emergency services.

Incels or Influencers? The Truth About the Manosphere (Netflix Review)

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 21 Apr 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Incels or Influencers? The Truth About the Manosphere (Netflix Review)

Incels or Influencers? Let’s talk about it.

Jules and Tessa break down Netflix / Louis Theroux’s documentary on the manosphere and nothing is off limits.

From rage-bait podcasts to high-ticket “coaching” programs, we unpack the ecosystem built around masculinity, money, and influence

Ask yourself the real question:
who is actually benefiting?

We dive into key figures like Sneako, Justin Waller, Harrison (HS), Ed Matty, and Myron Gaines, calling out contradictions, occasional truths, and the bigger pattern behind it all.

This episode covers:

The manosphere as an online ecosystem (incels, influence, and identity)
Influencers profiting from courses, referrals, and “financial freedom” promises
Podcast culture that sets women up for humiliation
The contradiction between “traditional values” and modern behavior
Why younger audiences are especially vulnerable to this content
The connection between isolation, identity, and online influence

We also highlight where we do agree — including self-improvement, discipline, and men creating value — while pushing back on narratives rooted in anger, control, and misinformation.

At the end of the day, this isn’t just about content -
it’s about who it reaches, and why it works.

00:00 Karaoke Wine Intro

00:25 Why This Documentary

01:29 What Is Manosphere

02:37 Notes Over Rage

03:58 Influencer Money Machine

05:01 Meet The Cast

05:41 Hot Housekeeper Moment

06:55 Miami And Machismo

07:37 Justin Waller Breakdown

08:52 Podcast Women Setup

10:02 Living For The Camera

11:26 Fans And Value Talk

13:33 Wives Shift The Tone

16:40 Nice Guys Dont Win

17:20 HS Crash And Mom

19:14 Followers Are Mostly Kids

20:12 Who Watches Manosphere

21:23 Why Toxic Influencers Rise

23:39 Humiliation Podcast Culture

26:21 Justin And Locker Talk

27:39 Women Invent Nothing Claim

30:40 Traditional Roles Hypocrisy

33:15 Morals Faith And Respect

34:21 Depression And Incel Pipeline

35:49 How Big Is The Subculture

37:40 Raising Better Men

39:20 Therapy And Final Warning

90s Nostalgia: Agree or Disagree?

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 07 Apr 2026 07:00:00 -0400

The 90s Secret We Can’t Stop Talking About

Karaoke Wine kicks off (in the morning, with coffee cheers) by slipping back into the pre-social-media 1990s—when grunge, boy bands, and hip hop all lived on the same radio dial, and nights meant Titanic tears, Jurassic Park obsession, The Matrix hype, dial-up internet, Blockbuster rituals, and Beanie Babies treated like investments. Jules and Tessa reflect on growing up as 90s kids sent outside until dark, trading school clothes for play clothes, reading Goosebumps, and mastering toys like Skip-It while memorizing phone numbers and using landlines. Then they reveal their most formative 90s fixations and icons—while arguing the era’s vibe, fashion, and attitude deserves a comeback.

Go down memory lane with us and drop a comment to who your favorite 90s icons were growing up.

00:00 Morning Coffee Kickoff

00:09 Why the 90s Ruled

01:10 Movies Politics and Dial Up

02:20 90s Kid Life Nostalgia

04:24 Outside All Day Memories

05:45 Pierce Brosnan Crush

07:17 Thomas Crown Style Icons

08:45 Jared Leto Heartthrob

10:52 Buffy and Sarah Michelle

14:34 Sharon Stone and Pfeiffer

16:45 I Know What You Did Summer

17:02 Teen Movie Icons

17:38 Reese Witherspoon Era

18:59 Julia Roberts Crush

20:40 Kate Beckinsale Love

23:31 Heartthrobs Then Now

24:13 Nineties Nostalgia Rant

24:53 Cigarettes Back Again

29:29 Old School Kid Games

30:30 Landlines And Dial Up

32:20 Bring Back The Nineties

34:24 Final Sign Off

From a life changing accident to CEO: Jamal Wright’s NoQuit Story

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Jules and Tessa reunite with their friend Jamal—former Neurotic November vocalist, actor, and now CEO of Supersonic Soft Washing—sharing how they met in a Miami acting class and recently learned pressure washing with his team. Jamal recounts shattering both Achilles tendons and being told he might never walk again, then getting hit by a car while setting up the business and suffering life changing injuries but through perseverance and faith, prevailed. They break down how he and his wife Desiree built the company through door-knocking, early underpricing, and word-of-mouth, plus hiring standout young workers. The episode highlights his faith-driven, fear-fueled mindset, family support, lessons on resilience, and rapid-fire picks for hype songs and karaoke.

00:00 Welcome and Toast

00:30 Meet Jamal the CEO

02:22 Metal Band to Acting

04:21 Injury and Comeback

08:21 Naming the Business

09:45 Starting with Family Team

11:19 Hiring and Gen Z Workers

14:17 Finding Clients and Growth

17:59 When It Finally Clicked

19:58 Mindset Faith and Resilience

21:43 Early Hustle and Sales Skills

24:28 Growing Up Different in Miami

28:02 Parents Support and Lessons

30:25 Tough Love Parenting Today

32:07 Tough Love Parenting

33:04 Fear Into Excitement

35:04 Leveling Up Like Mario

35:48 Retro Games Nostalgia

38:19 Make Your Bed Mindset

39:51 Small Business Grants

41:34 Services and Service Area

43:40 Gen Z Work Ethic

46:09 Desiree and Partnership

50:46 Acting Warmups and Stretching

55:02 Rapid Fire Music Picks

57:49 Final Mindset and Signoff

Voyage Mag, Hot Takes, Real Talk & the Episode That Shall Not Air

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 10 Mar 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Voyage Mag, Hot Takes, Real Talk & the Episode That Shall Not Air

Jules and Tessa celebrate their Voyage Magazine feature, spill how Karaoke Wine began (brunch + wine + “we should podcast”), and recap Season 1 chaos: dirty glasses, tequila decisions, and one lost episode too wild to post. They talk real behind-the-scenes podcast life—editing in Descript, tech fails, upgrading lighting/cameras, and dialing in audio with their current setup—while shouting out partners (Briosa/Jeff, Flow Haus Media/Ada, Sandra, Rip Print/Jay, Blissful Energy/Hally). They also joke about trolls as “fans,” tease possible live call-ins, and wrap with rapid-fire faves: wines and karaoke staples

00:00 Karaoke Wine Kickoff & Cheers

00:39 Featured in Voyage Magazine: Let’s Expand the Q&A

01:11 How the Podcast Started (Brunch Idea → Mic’d Up)

03:08 Early Episodes Chaos: Double-Recording, Dirty Glasses & Lost Footage

06:11 From Wasted to (Mostly) Sober: Finding the Right On-Camera Vibe

08:19 Behind the Scenes Editing Grind: Descript, Filler Words & Workflow

12:12 Tech & Production Upgrades: Lighting, Cameras, Audio Gear Lessons

14:03 Authentic Over Studio-Perfect + One-Take Recording Style

15:47 Who Gets Credit + Handling Fear, Support, and Troll “Fans”

19:41 Listener Engagement Ideas: Live Call-Ins & Future Formats

20:32 Shoutouts & Sponsor Love: Why Partnerships Matter

21:01 Meet Briza (Bosa) Founder Jeff: How the Collab Started

22:13 Authenticity & Integrity: Only Promoting What We Actually Like

23:05 Ada & Flow House Media: The Swipe-Story Cliffhanger + Season 2 Upgrades

24:41 More Thank-Yous: Sandra, Jay (Rip Print) & the South Florida Network

26:07 Going Beyond South Florida: Scaling Guests, Travel, and Big Plans

27:02 Season 2 Grind: Scheduling Chaos & Putting the Podcast First

28:24 Working With Your Best Friend: Fights, Growth, and Communication Styles

31:53 Business Behind the Scenes: Finally Setting Up the LLC (Without Overspending)

33:18 Rapid Fire Finale: Favorite Wines, Go-To Karaoke Songs & Season 2 Hype

Voyage Articles

https://voyagemia.com/interview/life-work-with-karaoke-wine-podcast-with-jules-tessa-of-fort-lauderdale/

https://voyagemia.com/interview/meet-ada-peschanskiy-of-flowhaus-media/

https://voyagemia.com/interview/meet-sandra-valencia-of-leak-and-subsurface-locators/

Collabs:

www.drinkbriosa.com

www.ripprint.com

www.flowhausmedia.com

The Speed Dating Diaries: Love, Louboutins, and a Lot of Stella

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Title: The Speed Dating Diaries: Love, Louboutins, and a Lot of Stella

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Join us as we dive into Tessa’s exciting and nerve-wracking experience at a speed dating event! From pre-date jitters and picking out outfits to surprise reunions and heartfelt gifts, we've got all the details. Listen in as Tessa shares her thoughts on the speed dating process, the interesting people she met, and her candid takeaways. It’s a fun-filled episode full of laughter, heartfelt moments, and some surprising turns. Will Tessa find love or at least a good story? Tune in to find out!

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

00:06 Speed Dating Event Preparation

00:41 Surprises and Gifts

02:47 Networking and First Impressions

06:14 Speed Dating Experience

10:04 Reflections and Takeaways

13:23 Reflecting on Speed Dating Experience

13:45 Realtor Days and Property Showings

14:02 Memorable Encounters and Doppelgangers

16:07 The After Party and QR Codes

16:56 Debating Relationship Dynamics

20:30 Unrequited Love and Personal Growth

25:48 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans

Pop, Fizz, Clink: A Dive into Netflix's Members Only, Fashion Faux Pas, and Etiquette Adventures

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 03 Feb 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Pop, Fizz, Clink: A Dive into Netflix's Members Only, Fashion Faux Pas, and Etiquette Adventures

Welcome to a sparkling new episode of Karaoke Wine! Today, we're popping bottles of Veuve Clicquot champagne and diving into the buzzworthy Netflix reality show 'Members Only' set in the elite circles of South Florida. Expect lots of laughter and opinions as we discuss everything from the show's cast, etiquette faux pas, and jaw-dropping fashion choices, to hot takes on cultural aspects and the reality TV landscape. We even touch on historical immigration and generational wealth, all while enjoying some classy champs. Buckle up for a rollercoaster of fervent and fabulous commentary—cheers to Season Two!

00:00 Welcome to Karaoke Wine

00:06 Introducing Veuve Champagne

00:18 Discussing Netflix's Members Only

00:57 Champagne Etiquette and Preferences

01:29 Reality Show Critique

04:08 Members Only Cast Insights

11:14 Fashion and Etiquette in Palm Beach

21:39 Fashion Highlights and Critiques

24:19 Palm Beach Member Etiquette

25:05 Caviar and Champagne on the Beach

25:39 Donald Trump and Elon Musk Cameos

26:06 Favorite Characters and Their Traits

29:10 Blurred Faces and High-End Donors

33:40 Immigration Stories and the American Dream

35:39 Generational Wealth and Laziness

42:53 Chelsea Handler and 50 Cent

45:23 Season Two Excitement and Future Plans

Navigating the Rage Bait Era: Insights on Outrage Culture and Social Media

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 27 Jan 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Navigating the Rage Bait Era: Insights on Outrage Culture and Social Media

In this episode of 'Karaoke Wine,' Jules and Tessa dive deep into the topic of 'rage bait,' discussing its nomination as Oxford's word(s) of the year for 2025 and its impact on social media and real-world events. They explore how online content is designed to elicit anger and outrage, the spread of misinformation, and the psychological aspects behind people's reactions to rage bait. The conversation touches on various societal issues including the political climate, gender identity debates, and the effects of deep fake technology. The hosts also share personal anecdotes and reflections on how rage bait influences their daily lives and broader society. Additionally, they emphasize the importance of constructive discourse and the need for empathy and understanding in today's polarized world.

Please note that we mentioned a story about a man dressed as a deer that was in a hunting accident. We researched and found that this was satire (click bait) not factual, which is on theme for this episode.

Enjoy!

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:29 Morning Show Vibes

01:07 Oxford's Word of the Year: Rage Bait

01:41 The Impact of Rage Bait on Society

02:23 Personal Experiences with Misinformation

05:01 Rage Bait in Media and Politics

09:05 Conspiracy Theories and Social Media

19:34 AI and Deep Fakes

22:16 Rage Bait in Gaming and Relationships

23:40 The Problem with Modern News

24:13 Movie Review: I'm Not Okay

26:05 Social Media and Influencer Culture

27:44 Rage Bait and Its Impact

40:18 The Role of Music in Mental Health

44:44 The Importance of Open Conversations

47:27 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Building an Unstoppable Business: Sandra's Journey from Medical Assistant to Leak Detection CEO

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 30 Dec 2025 07:00:00 -0500

Building an Unstoppable Business: Sandra's Journey from Medical Assistant to Leak Detection CEO | Karaoke Wine

Join us for a fun and insightful episode of Karaoke Wine where we chat with Sandra, the powerhouse behind Leak and Subsurface Locators. Sandra shares her remarkable journey from being a medical assistant to co-founding a successful leak detection and pool inspection business in Florida. We discuss overcoming stereotypes in a male-dominated industry, the challenges and triumphs of starting a business, and the importance of family and faith in her life. Plus, enjoy some light-hearted karaoke, wine tasting, and witty banter along the way!

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming

00:04 Wine Tasting and Preferences

02:26 Discussing Leak Detection Business

05:45 Starting and Growing the Business

09:58 Challenges and Successes

15:58 Family and Business Integration

26:02 Meeting Jeff: A Twist of Fate

27:21 A Chance Encounter at the Mall

28:34 The Car Accident That Changed Everything

33:05 The Proposal on a Cruise Ship

35:58 Building a Business and Life Together

39:27 Overcoming Domestic Violence

43:24 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun

For Domestic Violence Resources:
www.avdaonline.org
www.helphomesafe.org
https://widbroward.org
https://familiesfirstpbc.org

Dissecting Netflix's Oh, Hi: From Kidnapping to I'm Sorry. How It Relates to Real Life.

Jules and Tessa — Sun, 28 Dec 2025 10:29:53 -0500

One-Year Anniversary Explosive Reveal: Dating Disasters & New Merch!

Celebrate our one-year anniversary of Karaoke Wine with an exclusive look at our sizzling new merch! In this special episode, we dive into the provocative world of modern dating, ignited by the Netflix movie 'Oh, Hi.' Brace yourselves for juicy insights on miscommunications, steamy personal dating disasters, and shocking revelations. Plus, get the lowdown on our epic WrestleMania SmackDown moment and how we overcame it. This unfiltered episode is packed with laughs, drama, and everything in between. Don't miss out!

00:00 Introduction and Anniversary Celebration

00:19 New Merch Unveiling

02:02 Reflecting on Friendship and Conflicts

03:34 Modern Dating and Communication

04:04 Movie Discussion: 'O Hi'

07:48 Personal Dating Experiences

16:09 Overheard Conversations and Reflections

21:15 The Art of Loud Talking

22:03 Living in a Fantasy World

23:31 The Rule vs. The Exception

24:53 Navigating Modern Dating

27:32 The Tinder Experiment

33:48 The Importance of Honesty in Relationships

37:58 Reflecting on Past Relationships

41:30 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

Was Vogue Right? Is Having a BF an Embarrassment? Soft vs Hard Launch on Social

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 02 Dec 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to Karaoke Wine! Grab a glass and join Jules and Tessa on the couch for this week's hot topics. We dive into the intricacies of sharing your relationship on social media, touching on everything from hard launches to the impact on your follower count from the new Hot Off the Press Vogue article. We share personal experiences, discuss societal shifts on relationship dynamics, and bring insights from friends who balance authenticity with influencer life. Expect a mix of laughter, real talk, and a few cheeky moments as we explore the evolving landscape of love and online presence. Cheers!

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

00:44 Switching Roles and Energy

02:35 Throwback Girls Night Plans

03:04 Discussing the Vogue Article

04:58 Social Media and Relationships

08:15 Personal Experiences with Posting Relationships

15:39 Archiving and Moving On

19:15 Navigating Social Media and Relationships

20:00 Soft Launching Your Relationship

21:55 Authenticity and Influence

23:51 The Impact of Posting Partners

28:11 The Me Era and Singlehood

33:07 Dating Dynamics and Social Media

35:34 Balancing Success and Relationships

42:02 Concluding Thoughts on Social Media

Dating App Deal Breakers: Who Gets the X and Who Gets a YES!!!

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Join Jules and Tessa as they dive into the world of dating apps, exploring their profiles, preferences, and hilarious experiences while sipping on wine and enjoying some karaoke. From the intricacies of matching to the downright bizarre profiles they've encountered, this episode is packed with fun, laughter, and a candid look at modern dating. Perfect for anyone navigating the dating scene or looking for a good laugh!

00:00 Welcome to Karaoke Wine

00:58 Getting Back on the Dating Apps

01:40 Profile Preferences and Deal Breakers

03:54 Dating App Strategies and Experiences

05:38 Filtering Matches and First Date Stories

13:23 The Importance of Career and Compatibility

18:41 Navigating Dating App Filters and Preferences

20:07 Dating Profiles and Frustrations

21:05 Bumble Prompts and Strategies

23:42 Critical Thinking and Communication Boundaries

24:26 Profile Pictures and First Impressions

25:37 Setting Boundaries and Intentions

27:55 Podcast and Personal Boundaries

30:18 Enjoying the Present and Future Plans

36:06 Final Thoughts and Advice

Ditching Bitch Boys: Tales of Modern Dating Struggles

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 04 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Ditching Bitch Boys: Tales of Modern Dating Struggles

Welcome to the latest episode where we dive into the trials and tribulations of modern dating! Join us as we share hilarious yet eye-opening stories of dealing with 'bitch boys'—men who lead with disrespect and inflated egos. From absurd date experiences to harsh breakups and the importance of respecting oneself, this episode is packed with relatable situations and life lessons. Plus, we discuss the power of female friendships, setting high standards, and navigating through the world of instant gratification. Cheers to self-love and saying no to toxic relationships!

00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

00:21 Discussing Bria and Drinking Preferences

01:22 Introducing the Episode Topic: Little Bitch Boys

02:20 Breakup Story and New Date

03:24 The Jewish Italian Date

05:04 Third Date Disasters

07:04 Confrontation and Realization

10:27 The Final Straw and Ending It

21:23 High School Memories and Dating Apps

22:12 Rejection and Respectful Responses

22:51 Mental Health and Insults

24:02 Ghosting Etiquette

26:40 Dealing with Rejection

30:57 Modern Dating Challenges

35:13 The Importance of Friendships

41:52 Evolving Gender Roles

44:54 Concluding Thoughts on Dating and Respect

Wine and Wisdom: Lessons Into Life | Growth, Grace, and the Moments That Changed Everything

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 21 Oct 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this touching episode, Tessa dives deep into the importance of mental health and shares her heartfelt experiences. Despite the long duration, the discussion is heartfelt and sincere, aiming to provide comfort and understanding. Join us as we engage in a conversation that resonates with our listeners, emphasizing the significance of mental well-being.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

46:53 Discussing the Episode Length

46:57 Feedback and Editing Concerns

47:01 Final Thoughts

The Tale of 2 Vaginas: Unfiltered Talk on Lady Bits, Love and Life

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 07 Oct 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Join Jules and Tessa as they dive into an open and entertaining conversation about women's health issues, especially focusing on vaginal care as they transition into their 40s. They share personal stories about mammograms, UTIs, yeast infections, and how their bodies have changed since their twenties. The episode is filled with laughter and candid moments about the realities of getting older, maintaining vaginal health, and the importance of regular check-ups. Perfect for women of all ages, this chat is both informative and hilariously relatable!

In the aftermath of Charlie Kirk and Iryna Zarutska: Reflecting on Tragedy and Unity: Empathy, Politics, and a Call for Humanity

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 23 Sep 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Join us in this heartfelt episode as we discuss the challenges of setting up our new studio, while diving into profound topics such as mental health journeys, the impact of tragic recent events, and the importance of empathy vs. sympathy. We explore the complexities of political affiliation and differences, the importance of respectful dialogue, and the devastating effects of celebrating the misfortunes of others such as Charlie Kirk and Iryna Zarutska . This episode honors the memory of public figures and discusses the broader societal implications of violence, respect for humanity, and the power of intelligent conversations. We also share personal stories, including Jules' conversion to Judaism and the ongoing need to find light and love in the world.

Exploring Modern Relationships: A Dive into Polyamory, Monogamy, and Beyond

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 09 Sep 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this exciting episode of Karaoke Wine, the Jules and Tessa celebrate their move to a new studio space, followed by an unexpected birthday surprise for one of the hosts. The conversation then shifts to an in-depth discussion on polyamory, modern dating, and various forms of non-monogamous relationships. The hosts explore the intricacies of polyamory, the concept of ethical non-monogamy, and share personal insights into monogamy, open marriages, and fluid bonding. They reflect on societal changes, the dynamics of relationship boundaries, and celebrate the beauty of love in its many forms. Don't miss out on this engaging and thought-provoking episode!

00:00 Welcome to Karaoke Wine!

00:27 Birthday Surprise for Jules

01:55 Cheers with Custom Microphones

04:48 Discussing Polyamory

07:59 Exploring Open Relationships

15:40 Ethically Non-Monogamous

18:36 Reflecting on Changing Perspectives

19:33 Exploring Modern Relationship Dynamics

21:15 Polyamory vs. Polygamy

23:04 Monogamy and Personal Space

24:03 Honesty and Openness in Relationships

30:02 Fluid Bonding and New Relationship Energy

32:21 Embracing Love in All Forms

36:13 Gratitude and Growth in Relationships

38:21 Final Thoughts on Relationship Choices

Boundaries Are a Sign of Love & Building Connection. Not a Threat to IT.

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 26 Aug 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Boundaries or control? Protection or possession?
This week, Jules and Tessa react to a viral podcast clip comparing women to G-Wagons—and it sparks a powerful conversation.

They break down:

The subtle shift from healthy boundaries to toxic control
What real protection looks like in a relationship
How emotional responsibility is the new sexy
Why women (and men) need to stop romanticizing jealousy

From stories about girls' night gone wrong to the manipulative tactics of modern dating culture, this episode is real, relatable, and necessary.

Follow, share, and DM us your take—where’s your boundary line?

Touch Me, Teach Me: The New Way We Give and Receive Love

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 05 Aug 2025 11:00:00 -0400

The 5 love languages just got an upgrade. Tessa and Jules explore the 8 modern expressions of love—and how these deeper categories reveal who we are, what we crave, and why some relationships never quite click.

In this unfiltered episode, they compare results, share vulnerable truths about touch, emotional safety, thoughtful gestures, and the importance of feeling chosen. From trauma healing to masculine energy, from butt slaps to intellectual foreplay—this is a love language deep dive you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you're dating, healing, or discovering yourself, this one hits hard (and funny).

Share it with your person—or send it to your therapist.

The Ick List: Pet Names, Baby Voices & All the Non-Negotiables

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 22 Jul 2025 11:00:00 -0400

What’s your biggest ick? In this episode, Tessa and Jules list their top dating icks and relationship non-negotiables—from early pet names and baby talk, to lack of hygiene, no follow-through, and toxic tantrums in public.

This is a must-listen for anyone navigating modern dating, dodging red flags, or learning how to hold stronger boundaries.

Get ready for:

Hygiene deal-breakers (yes, we’re talking teeth, toenails & farting)
Men who can’t make a plan (ick)
Dreamers vs. doers: what separates fantasy from reality
Over-apologizing vs. not apologizing at all
Reading the room and respecting the vibe

Unfiltered, funny, and full of truth bombs.
Hit “Follow” to never miss an episode of Karaoke Wine, where we keep it real and occasionally savage.

Sponsored by Briosa Wine Seltzer. Have to be 21 and over.

Thresholds, Toxic Love & The Moment You Know It’s Over

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 01 Jul 2025 11:00:00 -0400

What’s your breaking point in love? In this vulnerable episode, Tessa and Jules open up about knowing when enough is enough—whether it’s a long-term relationship or a situationship that leaves you drained.

Jules shares what it took to walk away from a 13-year relationship, while Tessa reflects on the heartbreak that lasted far longer than the romance. Together, they explore emotional thresholds, triggers, and the courage it takes to finally put yourself first.

This one’s for anyone who’s ever lost themselves trying to keep love alive.

🎙️ Topics:

• Relationship thresholds

• Emotional triggers and trauma

• Breakup recovery and healing

• Self-worth and romantic clarity

• Why walking away is sometimes the bravest choice

Follow Karaoke Wine for real talk on modern love, friendship, and growth.

Dating Categories: The Dream Girl, The Desperado and The Situationship Saga

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 17 Jun 2025 12:19:06 -0400

Are women being categorized in dating… and do we do the same to men? In this episode of Karaoke Wine with Jules and Tessa, we explore the unspoken labels — from the “Good Time Girl” to the “Dream Girl” — and what happens when the chemistry is real but the commitment isn’t.

We also get into:

• How oxytocin can trick your heart

• Why “the one” feels more like calm than chaos

• The difference between butterflies and true compatibility

Whether you're a hard yes, a friend zone pro, or somewhere in between — you’re not alone.

What category have you been put in? DM us or drop your thoughts below.

Dating Categories: The Dream Girl, the Desperado & the Situationship Saga

Elite Education : Elite Entanglements. Who's Really Funding College Now?

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 03 Jun 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Forget FAFSA - there's a new scholarship in town. Sugar Baby University (SBU) is literally ranking college by how many students are using sugar daddies to pay for school. Yup. Tuition's getting handled -- just not by financial aid.

In this episode, we dive into the wild world of sponsored degrees, side hustles turned lifestyles, and the unfiltered economics of higher education. Is it empowerment, exploitation, or just Gen Z doing what they gotta do?

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Worst Dates Ever: American Psycho to Parisian Golden Showers....

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 20 May 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Buckle up for a wild ride through the most disastrous, cringe-worthy, and downright bizarre dating stories you've ever heard. In this episode, we spill all the tea on a toothless Tinder date, a charming guy with major American Psycho vibes, and a golden shower surprise straight out of Paris. From red flags to full-on horror shows, these are the worst dates that make ghosting look like a blessing. Whether you're single, dating, or just love chaos, you won’t want to miss this hilarious and unfiltered storytelling session.

Friendships on Fire: Conflict, Loyalty and Letting Go...How We Resolved Our First Fight

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 06 May 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Discover how to handle friendship conflict, emotional boundaries, and loyalty in this powerful episode: Friendships on Fire – Conflict, Loyalty, and Letting Go. We share how we resolved our first fight, offering real talk on communication, trust, and healing after a fallout. Tune in as we talk about how we navigated tough conversations, rebuilt trust, and decided what was worth holding on to—and what wasn’t. If you’ve ever struggled with conflict in close friendships, this one's for you. It is packed with relatable insights and practical tips for managing friendship drama.

Karaoke Wine Goes to LIV Golf Miami - Hot Topics Discussed (Body Count, Toxicity, Exception to the Rule)

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 22 Apr 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Jules and Tessa went to LIV Golf Miami with their most popular topics (Does body count really matter, what is the most toxic thing you have ever done, and the exception to the rule). This episode sheds some light on what other people think and of course we had to add some post commentary. Find out what people of the streets think.

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Feminist vs Feminine: Why Modern Dating Has Women Caught in the Middle

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 08 Apr 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Is it giving boss babe or Stepford wife? On this spicy episode of Feminist or Feminine? Why Modern Dating Has Women Caught in the Middle, Jules and Tessa get real about the dating double bind—be strong, but not too strong; sexy, but still “wife material.” They’re unpacking the chaos of modern romance, calling out contradictions, and asking the question every woman’s thought: can you be both feminist and feminine without losing your damn mind? Grab a glass (or bottle)—it’s smart, sassy, and just a little savage.

Good Girl vs. Bad Girl: The Social Media Effect on Modern Dating - Do Men Really Care?

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 25 Mar 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Jules and Tessa sit down and discuss how men can perceive your social media profiles. Are the good girls staying home and the bad girls out living their best lives? We asked our followers and share their responses on this episode.

Young, Wild, and Worth It: The Forbidden Thrill of Younger Men

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 11 Mar 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Jules and Tessa dive into the irresistible allure of dating younger men - the passion, the excitement, and the taboo. From undeniable chemistry to breaking societal norms, they explore why age-gap relationships could be more than just a fling. Is it wild fun or truly worth it? Grab your glass or wine and let's talk.

Love's Labyrinth: Chemistry, Connection and Crazy

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 25 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Jules and Tessa discuss the difference between chemistry and connection. And just sometimes, the crazy comes out!

Check or Mate: Romance, Power, & the Price of Dinner

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 11 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Jules, Tessa, joined by guest James, engage in a lively discussion about dating trends like splitting the bill and the role of economic power in relationships.

Dating: From a Guy's Perspective.

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 28 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Jules and Tessa sit down with Jules' brother to discuss dating apps, and what it's like dating but from a guy's perspective. Join us for a rapid fire discussion.

Toxicity Behavior: the funny, the ugly, and the bad

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 14 Jan 2025 11:00:00 -0500

Jules and Tessa share amusing stories about their toxic behaviors while also exploring how such experiences can lead to personal growth and ultimately foster healthier relationships.

What is too much, too soon or too little, too late when dating?

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 31 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0500

Jules and Tessa walk through current dating intentions and discuss how they approach dating life. The hot topic of how much you should give, trust, and invest during dating. What timeline is appropriate?

But Did You Die (Ep. 1)

Jules and Tessa — Fri, 27 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0500

Jules and Tessa share 2 "But Did You Die" stories from their friends. Just what the title is...listen to what their friends went through and how hilariously they survived!!!

Intro to US and What Friendship means to us.

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 17 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0500

Jules and Tessa take a step back to do a proper introduction. Both small town girls, turned to the big city life. They take a walk down memory lane to share a small piece on how they got to be where they are some beliefs they have picked up along the way.

Body Count. Does it matter? And how does sexual history play a part in dating.

Jules and Tessa — Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:12:52 -0500

Jules and Tessa have a candid conversation on body count and speaking on sexual history when dating new people.

Life Experiences & Choosing Men

Jules and Tessa — Thu, 28 Nov 2024 12:00:46 -0500

Jules and Tessa sit down to discuss past relationships that brought them to the dating app life. As we all know, there are trials and tribulations with all things relationships and the girls tell us first-hand how they maneuver through this new part of their life. Grab a bottle of wine (or two) and Carpe Diem, Bitches!