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After the Resurrection… What’s Next for Women? | Obedience After Healing, Heartbreak & Restoration

Tarnesha McCrary — Wed, 27 May 2026 17:35:06 +0000

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A few weeks ago for Mother’s Day at Greater Gathering Church, I shared a message that has continued to stay with me—and I felt led to share it here with the ladies of It’s My Time with Tarnesha.

The message was simple, but powerful:

👉 After the resurrection… what’s next for women?
Obedience.

So many of us as women have walked through heartbreak, church hurt, grief, rejection, disappointment, trauma, loss, and seasons that tested our faith.

But God kept us.

And sometimes after God heals us, restores us, and brings us through difficult seasons, we can become hesitant to move forward in what He’s calling us to do next.

Drawing from Matthew 28 and the women at the tomb after the resurrection of Jesus, this message is a reminder that Jesus did not heal us just so we could survive—He healed us so we could move forward in purpose and obedience.

In this message, we talk about:

healing after heartbreak and difficult seasons
why healed women cannot stay stuck
obedience after restoration
commitment during seasons of suffering
trusting God after disappointment
moving forward even while fear is still present
how Jesus meets us on the road of obedience

One of the biggest reminders from this message:

✨ “He healed you. He kept you. He restored you. Now go.” ✨

If you’ve been waiting for another sign, another confirmation, or the perfect moment to move forward, I pray this message encourages you to trust what God has already spoken.

Because what’s next for women after the resurrection is not endless hesitation.

What’s next is obedience.

💬 Reflection Questions

💛 For Single Women:
Has fear, disappointment, or past pain caused you to hesitate in areas where God already told you to move?

💍 For Married Women:
Are you remaining committed to what God called you to—even in seasons where it feels difficult or costly?

✨ For All Women:
What area of your life is God calling you to stop hesitating and start obeying?

Caregiving, Disability, Marriage, and Faith | A Conversation for Wives, Caregivers, and Military Families

Tarnesha McCrary — Tue, 14 Apr 2026 17:23:25 +0000

What does marriage look like when caregiving becomes part of your everyday life?

In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, Tarnesha sits down with her husband, Pastor Commodore “PC” McCrary, to talk openly about caregiving, disability, marriage, faith, and family life. PC is a disabled veteran, husband, father, and pastor, and together they share an honest conversation about what it means to navigate life, love, and leadership while living with disability.

This episode is for:

caregivers
wives caring for their husbands
spouses of disabled veterans
military families
people living with disabilities
couples facing health challenges
Christian wives and women supporting loved ones through hard seasons

In this conversation, they discuss:

what it means to be a man of God while living with disability
how disability can affect marriage and family roles
what caregiving looks like inside a marriage
how wives can support their husbands with grace and strength
how faith helps couples through physical, emotional, and life changes
encouragement for caregivers, veterans, and families adjusting to a new normal

This episode offers support and encouragement for anyone navigating caregiving, chronic health challenges, disability in marriage, or the emotional realities of loving someone through a difficult season.

If you are a wife, caregiver, military spouse, disabled veteran, or someone supporting a loved one through disability or illness, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

Reflection Questions:

For married women:
How are you supporting your spouse in this season, not only with love, but with patience, grace, and understanding?

For all listeners:
What does commitment look like when marriage, caregiving, and disability become part of your daily life?

Keywords:
caregiving, caregivers, caregiver support, marriage and caregiving, disability in marriage, disabled veteran, veteran spouse, military family, military marriage, Christian marriage, wives and caregiving, caregiving wife, faith and disability, marriage support, chronic illness and marriage, spouse support, disability and family life

Are You Struggling In Your Marriage?

Tarnesha McCrary — Thu, 26 Mar 2026 09:49:01 -0100

Are you struggling in your marriage and looking for biblical guidance, encouragement, and real relationship advice?

In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, we have a real, honest, and faith-filled conversation about marriage in the middle—the season where things aren’t falling apart, but they’re not exactly easy either.

I’m joined by Pastor Dana Che Williams—wife of 30 years, pastor, author, coach, and host—who shares powerful insight from her book Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples.

This episode is for:

Married women navigating challenges in their relationship
Women who feel disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck in marriage
Women believing God for marriage and wanting to prepare the right way

We discuss:

Why “marriage in the middle” is one of the most overlooked seasons
Biblical marriage advice from imperfect couples
How to stay committed when marriage feels hard
Reconnecting emotionally and spiritually with your spouse
Balancing leadership in life, business, and ministry without losing alignment at home
How faith, grace, and wisdom strengthen real relationships

This conversation will encourage you, challenge you, and remind you that your marriage doesn’t have to be perfect to be purposeful.

We also share a special announcement about Tarnesha’s upcoming book:
✨ When Her Crown Slips: Leading in Life Without Losing Your Marriage (Fall 2026)
and how you can be part of the launch team.

💍 For Married Women:
What is one area in your marriage that needs intentional attention this week?

💕 For Single Women (Believing God for Marriage):
Are you becoming the woman who is spiritually, emotionally, and mentally prepared for the marriage you are praying for?

✨ For All Women:
What is one thing you can do this week to strengthen your current or future marriage?

If you’ve been searching for Christian marriage encouragement, relationship advice, or biblical wisdom for marriage struggles—this episode is for you.

What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do

Tarnesha McCrary — Wed, 18 Mar 2026 22:05:46 -0100

Have you ever found yourself in a hard place and honestly not known what to do next?

Maybe you are facing a diagnosis, grieving the loss of a loved one, walking through unexpected hardship, or simply feeling stuck and overwhelmed. In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, we talk about what to do when life hits hard and you do not know how to process what you are facing.

This conversation is for married women and women believing God for marriage who want to stay grounded in faith when life feels uncertain.

In this episode, we talk about:

Remembering whose you are and who you are
Choosing composure over chaos in difficult seasons
Building a strong prayer life and staying connected to the Vine
Seeking wisdom, understanding, peace, and direction from God

If you are in a season where you need clarity, comfort, and next steps, this episode will encourage you to slow down, stay connected to God, and trust that He already knows the way forward.

Also in this episode, I share a special update about my upcoming Fall 2026 book launch, When Her Crown Slips: Leading in Life Without Losing Your Marriage, and invite listeners to stay tuned for the launch team.

Next week, Author and Pastor Dana Che joins me to discuss her new book, Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples.

Are you moving the needle? Episode 17

Tarnesha McCrary — Tue, 24 Feb 2026 21:14:26 -0100

We are six weeks into 2026.

Some of us are focused and flowing.
Some of us have been distracted.
Some of us have faced health challenges, weather delays, unexpected interruptions… and life has simply been lifing.

In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, we pause for a real check-in.

Are you truly moving the needle — or are you measuring progress the wrong way?

In this conversation, I share:

Why progress should be tracked in weeks, not days
How to evaluate goals in real time without self-condemnation
Why stillness can actually be forward movement
The power of having a “word” for the year
The significance of building memorial reminders (Joshua 4)
What restoration has looked like for me personally in this season

God gave me one word for 2026: Restore.

Even in the middle of health challenges and unexpected snowstorms here in South Carolina, I realized something powerful — what felt like lost momentum was actually quiet restoration.

This episode is for married women and women believing God for marriage — women who are leading in life but refusing to lose their alignment at home.

We end with reflection questions and a challenge:

What is ONE thing you will do this week to move the needle?

Sometimes movement looks like action.
Sometimes movement looks like being still.

Either way — check in.

Your crown doesn’t slip overnight.
It slips slowly when we stop paying attention.

Let’s stay aligned.

Are You Leading Or Are You Controlling?

Tarnesha McCrary — Thu, 08 Jan 2026 20:43:29 -0100

Happy New Year! Let's start the new year right by answering a very important question. Are you in a constant battle with yourself, thinking, "Am I controlling, Or Am I leading?" Let's talk about it on today's episode- My time with Tarnesha! Our FIRST episode of the 2026! Let's GO...

Home For The Holidays with The Blunts

Tarnesha McCrary — Tue, 09 Dec 2025 22:26:05 -0100

Join us for a special holiday episode as Pastor Commodore (PC) as my co-host, featuring our friends Mitch and Trina Blunt, a military family we've known and loved for over 16 years. We're sitting down couple to couple to talk about:
-How to build HOME even when family lives far away
-Creating Christ-centered traditions as a military or transplanted family
-Generational shifts, new rhythms, and setting the culture in your household
-Raising children differently than how you were raised
-Becoming the family you always prayed for
-And how to stay grounded, joyful, and connected during the holiday season
This conversation is REAL, practical, and filled with wisdom for couples, parents, military families, and anyone navigating the holidays in a new way.
You don't want to miss Home for the Holidays! It's going to bless your family in this season.

Revival Starts With Your Family

Tarnesha McCrary — Wed, 12 Nov 2025 15:26:57 -0100

In this heartfelt episode, Tarnesha sits down with wife, mother, pastor, and ministry leader Sonia Nhira to discuss what it truly means to see revival within the family. Together, they explore faith, unity, and leadership in the home, how can we nurture marriages, raise godly children, and invite God's presence back into the center of our homes.

Leading As One Part 2- Episode 8 of The Crown Edition- Episode 13 of the Podcast

Tarnesha McCrary — Wed, 05 Nov 2025 22:31:47 -0100

Episode 8: Leading as One (Part 2) with Pastor Commodore “PC” McCrary
In this special follow-up episode, Tarnesha and Pastor PC dive deeper into leadership, marriage, and unity from a husband’s perspective. Learn what it means to lead together in love, faith, and vision and how God commands a blessing where there is unity.