Husbands 2 Dads Podcast

An Update from Husbands 2 Dads

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 04 Sep 2025 14:16:30 -0700

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Episode 8: TidyDad on Breaking Gender Roles, Embracing Mess, and Creating a Joyful Home

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 14 Aug 2025 01:00:00 -0700

In this heartfelt and hilariously honest episode, we sit down with Tyler Moore — aka @TidyDad — a straight dad of three daughters, author, and Instagram fave, who's redefining fatherhood and the family home.

We talk:

How to raise tidy (but still playful!) kids
What “just enough” really means as a parent
Rethinking gender roles in the home
How tidying helped Tyler recover from a mental health crisis
Why shared spaces teach life lessons
And how queer and straight dads alike are pushing back on outdated norms

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Episode 7: No Manual, No Map: Queer Parenthood with Jamie Kelton

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 07 Aug 2025 06:10:00 -0700

In this heartfelt and hilarious Episode 7 of From Husbands to Dads, Stephen and Bret sit down with Jamie Kelton, host of the groundbreaking Queer Family Podcast, for a raw and real conversation on queer parenting, identity, and community. With two kids of her own and over 200 queer family interviews under her belt, Jamie shares insights into the unique challenges and beautiful chaos that come with LGBTQ+ parenthood.

Together, they unpack what it means to build community, redefine family roles, and navigate the emotional rollercoaster of becoming parents. From breastfeeding pressure to queer representation in schools, no topic is off-limits. Jamie gets real about "lesbian bed death," screaming babies, and how to find your village when you're exhausted and feeling isolated. The result? A candid, laugh-out-loud, and empowering episode full of honesty, empathy, and hope.

Whether you’re a queer parent, aspiring to be one, or just curious about what real LGBTQ+ family life looks like beyond the rainbow-filtered Instagram squares, this episode is for you.

Follow Jamie and the podcast here: https://www.thequeerfamilypodcast.com/

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Episode 6: Why All Kids Benefit From LGBTQ+ Stories — A Conversation With Eric Rosswood

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 31 Jul 2025 01:00:00 -0700

In today’s episode, we’re joined by award-winning LGBTQ+ author and advocate Eric Rosswood, whose books have become lifelines for queer families navigating parenting, identity, and representation. We dive into the importance of LGBTQ+ stories in children's literature — and why they’re not just for queer kids.

Eric shares deeply personal insights on parenting as a gay dad, the emotional toll of constantly “coming out” in public spaces, and how to prepare for the unexpected shifts in relationship and identity that come with fatherhood.

We also reflect on our recent family whirlwind (including dance intensives, sick days, and solo parenting), and explore what allies can actually do to support queer families in everyday spaces — from schools to playgrounds.

Mentioned in this episode:

The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads by Eric Rosswood - https://amzn.to/4odOgt9
Strong (Stonewall Honor picture book) - https://amzn.to/4odOgt9
Queer parenting Facebook groups and LGBTQ+ centers
Broadway Husbands Substack Community

💡 KEY TOPICS:

LGBTQ+ inclusion in children's media
Parenting with pride — even in uncomfortable spaces
How schools, PTAs, and allies can do better
Relationship shifts after becoming parents
Advice for new LGBTQ+ dads

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Episode 5: Goodbye Texas, Hello Florida: Life Update from the Broadway Husbands

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 24 Jul 2025 13:00:00 -0700

In this heartfelt episode of From Husbands to Dads, Stephen and Bret open up about their unexpected move from Texas to Florida—yes, another red state—but one that already feels more welcoming. They candidly discuss what led to the decision, the emotional rollercoaster of leaving their first family home, and the challenges of moving with a toddler (including major meltdowns and amusement park mishaps).

From navigating career uncertainty to solo parenting during Disney contracts, the Broadway Husbands reflect on what it means to start over in midlife—as dads, artists, and partners. They also highlight the subtle wins—like making queer connections at playgrounds and how a supportive community can change everything.

Whether you're planning a move, parenting through transitions, or just need a dose of real talk and reassurance, this episode is a vulnerable and honest window into life beyond the curated Instagram square. Spoiler: it’s messy, meaningful, and full of hope.

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Episode 4: How to Advocate for LGBTQ Families with Luce Remy

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 17 Jul 2025 07:11:17 -0700

In this powerful episode, we’re joined by Luce Remy, Director of Policy at Family Equality, to talk about the challenges LGBTQ+ families face in today’s political and social climate—and what it really means to be an accomplice instead of just an ally.

We cover:

How anti-LGBTQ+ legislation is affecting schools, surrogacy, and adoption
What to ask your school to ensure inclusivity for all families
Personal stories from Luce’s advocacy work and parenting journey
What families (queer or not) can do to create safer, more inclusive spaces

We also share our own update about beginning the journey for baby #2 and how Maverick’s love for flowers brought unexpected joy to our week.Want to be our next hero? Check out Nodal to register to help a family. https://tinyurl.com/broadwaydads-nodal

🔗 Learn more about Family Equality: https://familyequality.org
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Episode 3: Donor Conception 101: What LGBTQ+ Parents Need to Know with Lisa Schuman

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 10 Jul 2025 06:52:57 -0700

Thinking about building your family through donor conception? In this episode, we sit down with Lisa Schuman, founder of the Center for Family Building, to demystify donor-assisted reproduction for LGBTQ+ families. From legal questions to emotional readiness to how to choose a donor — this is a must-listen for anyone exploring this path to parenthood.

Follow Lisa and her community and check out https://familybuilding.net/ to see all the amazing resources available.

Also listen to Lisa on her podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1iPTI62w2fANnkOLaSjsCe

Creators & Guests

Sean Wilkinson - Editor
Frank Galgano - Composer
Matt Castle - Composer
Lisa Schuman - Guest

Special thanks to Matt Castle and Frank Galgano for our amazing theme song.

Click here to view the episode transcript.

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Episode 2: Adoption Real Talk – With Brian Rosenberg from Gays With Kids

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 03 Jul 2025 01:00:00 -0700

If you’ve ever considered adoption — or been overwhelmed by it — this is the episode you need.

Brian Rosenberg, founder of Gays With Kids and GWK Academy, joins us to debunk myths, share facts, and give insight into the adoption process, especially for LGBTQ+ families.

We talk about:

The real barriers (and breakthroughs) in LGBTQ+ adoption
Foster care, international, and domestic routes — and how they differ
What birth parents are really like (spoiler: they're not scary)
Why adoption doesn’t mean 'less than' — it just means different

Plus: Brian shares the emotional moment he knew his adopted son was 100% his.

Brian Rosenberg is the founder of GWK Academy Family Building, a non-profit spin off of the popular Gays With Kids website and virtual community he launched in 2014. Brian is very excited to share the news of GWK Academy’s upcoming expansion plans. Soon they will announce that they now support all paths to family-building for the entire LGBTQ+ community. visit GWKAcademy.org

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Episode 1: From Broadway Husbands to Dads — Why This Podcast Exists

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Thu, 26 Jun 2025 01:00:00 -0700

We open up about our journey from performing on Broadway to raising a child in a world that often wasn’t designed for families like ours.

We talk about:

Parenting as a two-dad family
Feeling "othered" in mom-centric spaces
Creating (and losing) a gay dads group
Dealing with trolls, assumptions, and parenting pressure

This isn’t just a podcast about gay dads. It’s about parenting with intention, joy, and authenticity.

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Welcome to Husbands 2 Dads!

Bret Shuford & Stephen Hanna — Fri, 30 May 2025 08:43:13 -0700

Welcome to the Husbands 2 Dads Podcast—where Broadway meets fatherhood!

Join Bret and Stephen, the duo behind @BroadwayHusbands and proud dads to their son via surrogacy, as they share candid conversations about parenting, marriage, mental health, and life in the spotlight. Each episode dives into the joys and challenges of being two dads raising a family, while navigating careers in the entertainment world and beyond.

Follow along for heartwarming stories, laughs, and real talk by following us on Instagram: @husbands2dads and @broadwayhusbands. Want exclusive behind-the-scenes content, bonus episodes, and more? Subscribe to our Substack at broadwayhusbands.substack.com!

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