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    <itunes:complete>No</itunes:complete>
    <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What actually makes a wedding feel good — not just look good. Renee from Tobi Tobi joins me to talk about live ceremony music, why the aisle moment should be slow and intentional, and how choosing the right song can set the emotional temperature of a whole celebration.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What actually makes a wedding feel good — not just look good. Renee from Tobi Tobi joins me to talk about live ceremony music, why the aisle moment should be slow and intentional, and how choosing the right song can set the emotional temperature of a whole celebration.</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>It's hard for AI to describe a wedding photographer’s presence on the day</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of For Those Of You Who Don't Know Me, I chat with photographer Joshua Mikhaiel about how the wedding world is changing and what that means for couples and vendors alike.</p><p>We dive into the so-called “wedding tax,” whether AI has a real role in planning, and why personal touch always matters more than any tool. We talk about wedding photography as more than just pretty pictures—it’s about capturing real, human moments—and we look at how traditions can be both grounding and restrictive.</p><p>A big part of our chat is about communication: how couples often struggle to say what they want, and how vendors can listen and guide without pushing their own agenda. At the end of the day, I believe weddings aren’t about appearances—they’re about connection, authenticity, and creating memories that actually last.</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/music/music-features/oasis-gallaghers-met-life-concert-1236358264/">Here's a link to the Hollywood Reporter piece about Oasis</a>.</li><li><a href="https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/">Joshua Mikhaeil's website</a></li></ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of For Those Of You Who Don't Know Me, I chat with photographer Joshua Mikhaiel about how the wedding world is changing and what that means for couples and vendors alike.</p><p>We dive into the so-called “wedding tax,” whether AI has a real role in planning, and why personal touch always matters more than any tool. We talk about wedding photography as more than just pretty pictures—it’s about capturing real, human moments—and we look at how traditions can be both grounding and restrictive.</p><p>A big part of our chat is about communication: how couples often struggle to say what they want, and how vendors can listen and guide without pushing their own agenda. At the end of the day, I believe weddings aren’t about appearances—they’re about connection, authenticity, and creating memories that actually last.</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/music/music-features/oasis-gallaghers-met-life-concert-1236358264/">Here's a link to the Hollywood Reporter piece about Oasis</a>.</li><li><a href="https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/">Joshua Mikhaeil's website</a></li></ul>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of For Those Of You Who Don't Know Me, I chat with photographer Joshua Mikhaiel about how the wedding world is changing and what that means for couples and vendors alike.</p><p>We dive into the so-called “wedding tax,” whether AI has a real role in planning, and why personal touch always matters more than any tool. We talk about wedding photography as more than just pretty pictures—it’s about capturing real, human moments—and we look at how traditions can be both grounding and restrictive.</p><p>A big part of our chat is about communication: how couples often struggle to say what they want, and how vendors can listen and guide without pushing their own agenda. At the end of the day, I believe weddings aren’t about appearances—they’re about connection, authenticity, and creating memories that actually last.</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/music/music-features/oasis-gallaghers-met-life-concert-1236358264/">Here's a link to the Hollywood Reporter piece about Oasis</a>.</li><li><a href="https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/">Joshua Mikhaeil's website</a></li></ul>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sarah-Louise Anderson reveals how her $60,000 micro-wedding sparked family feuds, severed friendships, and taught her which relationships were worth keeping—all over ginger beer and missing guests.</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sarah-Louise Anderson reveals how her $60,000 micro-wedding sparked family feuds, severed friendships, and taught her which relationships were worth keeping—all over ginger beer and missing guests.</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2025 10:28:50 +1000</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sarah-Louise Anderson reveals how her $60,000 micro-wedding sparked family feuds, severed friendships, and taught her which relationships were worth keeping—all over ginger beer and missing guests.</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>Playing Battleships with wedding photographers</title>
      <itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>Playing Battleships with wedding photographers</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan from Creative Weddings Byron Bay chooses the three wedding photographers she would get if she was getting married this afternoon as she joins the first episode of my new podcast, For those of you who don't know me…</p><p><strong>Links from the episode:</strong><br><a href="https://www.bayleighvedelago.com/">Bayleigh Vedelago wedding photographer</a><br><a href="https://cassandraladru.com/">Cassandra Ladru wedding photographer</a><br><a href="https://www.megankelly.com.au/">Megan Kelly Studio</a><br><a href="https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/">Creative Weddings Byron Bay</a><br><a href="https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/podcast">Dear Future Bride Podcast</a><br><a href="https://marriedbyjosh.com">Josh Withers Celebrant</a></p><p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose<br>02:05 The Essence of Meaningful Weddings<br>04:52 The Role of Wedding Planners<br>08:15 The Impact of Wedding Planning on Couples<br>10:25 Film Photography in Weddings<br>13:25 Choosing the Right Wedding Photographer<br>17:41 Candid Photography vs. Posed Shots<br>19:45 The Importance of Communication with Photographers<br>27:23 Navigating Wedding Planning Expectations<br>33:38 Underrated Aspects of Wedding Staffing</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan from Creative Weddings Byron Bay chooses the three wedding photographers she would get if she was getting married this afternoon as she joins the first episode of my new podcast, For those of you who don't know me…</p><p><strong>Links from the episode:</strong><br><a href="https://www.bayleighvedelago.com/">Bayleigh Vedelago wedding photographer</a><br><a href="https://cassandraladru.com/">Cassandra Ladru wedding photographer</a><br><a href="https://www.megankelly.com.au/">Megan Kelly Studio</a><br><a href="https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/">Creative Weddings Byron Bay</a><br><a href="https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/podcast">Dear Future Bride Podcast</a><br><a href="https://marriedbyjosh.com">Josh Withers Celebrant</a></p><p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose<br>02:05 The Essence of Meaningful Weddings<br>04:52 The Role of Wedding Planners<br>08:15 The Impact of Wedding Planning on Couples<br>10:25 Film Photography in Weddings<br>13:25 Choosing the Right Wedding Photographer<br>17:41 Candid Photography vs. Posed Shots<br>19:45 The Importance of Communication with Photographers<br>27:23 Navigating Wedding Planning Expectations<br>33:38 Underrated Aspects of Wedding Staffing</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan from Creative Weddings Byron Bay chooses the three wedding photographers she would get if she was getting married this afternoon as she joins the first episode of my new podcast, For those of you who don't know me…</p><p><strong>Links from the episode:</strong><br><a href="https://www.bayleighvedelago.com/">Bayleigh Vedelago wedding photographer</a><br><a href="https://cassandraladru.com/">Cassandra Ladru wedding photographer</a><br><a href="https://www.megankelly.com.au/">Megan Kelly Studio</a><br><a href="https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/">Creative Weddings Byron Bay</a><br><a href="https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/podcast">Dear Future Bride Podcast</a><br><a href="https://marriedbyjosh.com">Josh Withers Celebrant</a></p><p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose<br>02:05 The Essence of Meaningful Weddings<br>04:52 The Role of Wedding Planners<br>08:15 The Impact of Wedding Planning on Couples<br>10:25 Film Photography in Weddings<br>13:25 Choosing the Right Wedding Photographer<br>17:41 Candid Photography vs. Posed Shots<br>19:45 The Importance of Communication with Photographers<br>27:23 Navigating Wedding Planning Expectations<br>33:38 Underrated Aspects of Wedding Staffing</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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