Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/eva-after Stories about one woman's navigation, survival and healing within the biased rules and gender expectations of a masculinized, patriarchal society. © 2025 Eva After b32eec50-64e8-5db2-98be-8558101e242f no en-us Fri, 09 Feb 2024 21:09:27 +0100 Tue, 02 Dec 2025 23:30:25 +0100 http://evaafter.com https://img.transistor.fm/0-6yH_Ru6Kc9OK8wOaTI6zhA1KM0jpPb8MM66hpFjSw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzIwMDM5LzE2MzI5/MzY5MzgtYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.jpg http://evaafter.com serial Eva After Stories about one woman's navigation, survival and healing within the biased rules and gender expectations of a masculinized, patriarchal society. Stories about one woman's navigation, survival and healing within the biased rules and gender expectations of a masculinized, patriarchal society. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny Eva After No Yes 1 1 Virtual Rape full 9f6c2b5a-184d-4b82-8e1f-8d2973d15138 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6d3c67f5 Wed, 07 Apr 2021 17:54:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 789 The true, brutal and naked story of how our marriage ended... The true, brutal and naked story of how our marriage ended... feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny Yes 2 2 The Raphaël full 9c5bda45-943a-4480-b1a6-74268acc6020 https://share.transistor.fm/s/1890aa4f Wed, 14 Apr 2021 15:15:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 763 The rabbit hole of domestic violence... and how a woman gets trapped. The rabbit hole of domestic violence... and how a woman gets trapped. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny Yes 3 3 Shopping full d748f349-6902-4326-8d19-cf09d517e3c9 https://share.transistor.fm/s/50e1f719 Wed, 21 Apr 2021 14:57:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 754 Welcome to Ted's world of financial domination where cash & cards were his kink and control his fetish... only without the actual ropes and chains! Welcome to Ted's world of financial domination where cash & cards were his kink and control his fetish... only without the actual ropes and chains! feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 4 4 Masturbation full 9dd2990b-1638-4fdc-a77f-01c5fee46c99 https://share.transistor.fm/s/1e055167 Wed, 28 Apr 2021 14:43:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 706 Praise to the freedom of female pleasure, solo satisfaction and especially to self love. Praise to the freedom of female pleasure, solo satisfaction and especially to self love. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 5 5 The Notice full 3420522b-c9e2-485a-816a-904416fcf106 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e325a049 Wed, 05 May 2021 16:19:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 433 When a husband's smoke and mirrors dirty a divorce... When a husband's smoke and mirrors dirty a divorce... feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 6 6 Good Wife full e151b322-3857-4c73-a3a6-c61351c54260 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e35ebb0b Wed, 12 May 2021 16:33:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 251 Behaviors and expectations relating to partnership... which snuggle right into patriarchal societal views. Behaviors and expectations relating to partnership... which snuggle right into patriarchal societal views. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny Yes 7 7 The Contract full d901e810-4c4e-40ac-8205-e2b918794328 https://share.transistor.fm/s/5a4e01d3 Wed, 19 May 2021 16:52:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 347 What should a girl have done...? What should a girl have done...? feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 8 8 The Jewel Box full f75bd30f-4de9-4bff-a222-62bb9aa1fb36 https://share.transistor.fm/s/02daa48f Wed, 26 May 2021 16:00:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 318 You can never judge a box by its cover!! You can never judge a box by its cover!! feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 9 9 Consent? full 8e0fcd60-85f7-4470-b769-4d9086c2faf8 https://share.transistor.fm/s/013ec375 Wed, 02 Jun 2021 17:25:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 285 Where did my consent even begin and where would it ever wind up? Where did my consent even begin and where would it ever wind up? feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 10 10 Body Count full 7ae00632-95e6-4de3-8b8e-39af5b87d4a7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6ad5df79 Wed, 09 Jun 2021 15:00:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 540 An honest look at the real cost of trauma... and how a body, heart and mind can heal. An honest look at the real cost of trauma... and how a body, heart and mind can heal. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 11 11 Conformity full 949f98e1-9558-481d-969d-6b0695fe5372 https://share.transistor.fm/s/b1b168d1 Wed, 16 Jun 2021 14:43:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 428 The lengths to which we're willing to go for others in spite of ourselves... are often the same limits that keep us locked in place. The lengths to which we're willing to go for others in spite of ourselves... are often the same limits that keep us locked in place. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 12 12 Connivance full 46548649-7446-443c-b70a-c780c1e9f97c https://share.transistor.fm/s/cab93dc7 Wed, 07 Jul 2021 18:15:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 376 A foray into the audience's responsibility... Is the instigator always the sole culprit? Or are his followers liable too? If only for believing? A foray into the audience's responsibility... Is the instigator always the sole culprit? Or are his followers liable too? If only for believing? feminism, narcissistic abuse, patriarchy, domestic abuse, narcissism, women's power, women's rights No 13 13 What about you? full aa25e8d6-7689-4a1b-867e-267c4f46225a https://share.transistor.fm/s/bab25666 Wed, 21 Jul 2021 17:28:22 +0200 Eva After Eva After 717 I want to tell your truth about your abuse and give you a platform to publicize it… So that you can move on to your next stage of healing... I want to tell your truth about your abuse and give you a platform to publicize it… So that you can move on to your next stage of healing... feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 14 14 The Banker full a436db35-e46d-4cf4-8142-33658aeccbf6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/7e5f4605 Wed, 04 Aug 2021 17:26:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 616 Addressing sexual abuses, trauma and our gendered roles in society through Restorative Justice is a big step in the right direction. Addressing sexual abuses, trauma and our gendered roles in society through Restorative Justice is a big step in the right direction. sexual harassment, feminism, abuse, trauma, restorative justice Yes 15 15 The AdMan full da23899a-c6f5-495d-a243-6a7278a0f568 https://share.transistor.fm/s/413a35cd Importuner : when cultural norms color an older man’s fantasy… and drive him to make it happen… with or without a young woman's consent.

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]]> feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 16 16 The Boss full 12e9166e-7f1c-4315-8bda-9e5ce7aeb24f https://share.transistor.fm/s/365d86b6 Wed, 01 Sep 2021 16:38:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 280 The lengths to which women in compromising situations go… to sidestep or to confront the insistence of powerful men. The lengths to which women in compromising situations go… to sidestep or to confront the insistence of powerful men. misogyny, sexual harassment, sexual abuse, toxic masculinity, feminism Yes 17 17 The Attorney full a6a2db3d-0c8e-4c9f-b72f-07140c432268 https://share.transistor.fm/s/533b2441 Wed, 08 Sep 2021 16:30:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 747 How power and subordination get whipped into a sex-in-the-city-sauce that seems accommodating... but isn't. How power and subordination get whipped into a sex-in-the-city-sauce that seems accommodating... but isn't. patriarchy, harassement, abuse, survivor, toxic masculinity No 18 18 Justice full 2be8409e-cd29-4d1d-b4fb-e0f225d34710 https://share.transistor.fm/s/5a73f99e Wed, 15 Sep 2021 16:25:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 401 When telling the truth evokes a bigger sense of justice than a court of law could perhaps ever offer. When telling the truth evokes a bigger sense of justice than a court of law could perhaps ever offer. misogyny, patriarchy, toxic masculinity, domestic violence, narcissistic abuse No 19 19 Fear full 646c8ff8-5f80-433f-9732-b2ee6d8b2a2c https://share.transistor.fm/s/fa85b1fd Wed, 22 Sep 2021 17:00:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 526 I'm still afraid of Ted. Abusers are like that. They never go away. But only survivors can tell their stories. I'm still afraid of Ted. Abusers are like that. They never go away. But only survivors can tell their stories. domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, NPD, patriarchy, toxic masculinity No 20 20 Salope* full f1abcbe1-fb0a-4eab-b9cb-156f779ef6f3 https://share.transistor.fm/s/3c78771c Wed, 29 Sep 2021 17:00:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 206 Ted's one-stop-shop-concept for all of his occasions. Ted's one-stop-shop-concept for all of his occasions. misogyny, patriarchy, domestic violence, catcalling, narcissistic abuse Yes 21 21 Shame full 29fe49db-0e95-429d-b101-7962eac2a055 https://share.transistor.fm/s/9e150c1d Wed, 06 Oct 2021 15:15:00 +0200 Eva After Eva After 499 Shame lives in that fuzzy space between our original desire to create harmony and our final comprehension that we've been conned. Shame lives in that fuzzy space between our original desire to create harmony and our final comprehension that we've been conned. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 22 22 M.O.M. full c4da0d1c-5d6e-459c-90d6-512a6a0cdd57 https://share.transistor.fm/s/87a3223f Wed, 24 Nov 2021 16:43:00 +0100 Eva After Eva After 847 Our patriarchal culture maintains the capital in male hands… pauperizing female caregivers to try to keep us under control. Our patriarchal culture maintains the capital in male hands… pauperizing female caregivers to try to keep us under control. feminism, the patriarchy, toxic masculinity, male domination, women's liberation, Wages for Housework No 23 23 Domination full 3a42901c-d643-4274-a08c-d73869e8a6c9 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e8a3c8b0 Wed, 01 Dec 2021 13:57:00 +0100 Eva After Eva After 612 It doesn't matter where or how violence is served... It happens to women across every social class and the consequences are always caustic. It doesn't matter where or how violence is served... It happens to women across every social class and the consequences are always caustic. feminism, sexuality, sexualization, masculinized society, patriarchal society, gendered expectations, gender, misogyny No 24 24 Unsaid full 884f3525-4854-4e8d-abac-9530908599f6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/85591d15 Wed, 08 Dec 2021 13:08:26 +0100 Eva After Eva After 300 Unspoken words... boxing me into unwanted situations, actually accommodated my abuser. Unspoken words... boxing me into unwanted situations, actually accommodated my abuser. domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, toxic masculinity, abuse survivor, feminism No