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<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!<br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE<br>https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training</p><p>In today’s episode, Adam dives deep into the crucial topic of trust and why it’s fundamental to every relationship. He shares how to build trust intentionally, whether at work, at home, or with friends. Drawing from personal stories and professional experience as a coach and family therapist, Adam unpacks seven actionable keys for cultivating lasting trust, and highlights common pitfalls people make along the way. From practicing consistent honesty, to taking responsibility, and having the courage for tough conversations, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you strengthen your relationships and lead with confidence. </p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Building trust in relationships<br>06:00 Building trust and confidence steps<br>09:37 Discussing car purchase planning<br>13:30 Building trust through consistency<br>14:16 Building trust through actions<br>20:45 Building trust and taking action<br>23:31 Building trust through follow-ups<br>25:09 Choosing your legacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!<br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE<br>https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training</p><p>In today’s episode, Adam dives deep into the crucial topic of trust and why it’s fundamental to every relationship. He shares how to build trust intentionally, whether at work, at home, or with friends. Drawing from personal stories and professional experience as a coach and family therapist, Adam unpacks seven actionable keys for cultivating lasting trust, and highlights common pitfalls people make along the way. From practicing consistent honesty, to taking responsibility, and having the courage for tough conversations, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you strengthen your relationships and lead with confidence. </p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Building trust in relationships<br>06:00 Building trust and confidence steps<br>09:37 Discussing car purchase planning<br>13:30 Building trust through consistency<br>14:16 Building trust through actions<br>20:45 Building trust and taking action<br>23:31 Building trust through follow-ups<br>25:09 Choosing your legacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>In this episode, Adam Gragg explores the powerful role our ego plays as a protector in our lives. Drawing from personal experiences, coaching insights, and therapeutic approaches like Internal Family Systems, Adam breaks down how self-protection can both serve and sabotage us, often without our awareness. You'll discover how the ego forms in response to past hurt, why it pushes us into drama and defense, and how it can unintentionally hold us back from authentic relationships and growth. This episode offers three practical decisions to recognize and calm your ego, inviting you to lead from your true self with confidence, compassion, and purpose.</p><p>Get ready to gain new tools for self-awareness, actionable strategies, and a fresh perspective on building connections, starting with yourself.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Three decisions to break barriers<br>03:47 Understanding the internal protector<br>08:42 Understanding self-protection and awareness<br>12:13 Formative childhood memories and trauma<br>16:48 Building confidence and self-concept<br>20:08 Learning to trust intuition<br>23:03 Understanding protectors and true self<br>25:11 Practicing gratitude and self-growth<br>30:33 Finding perspective to calm fears<br>31:36 Managing schedules for graduation<br>34:59 Closing thoughts on legacy</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>In this episode, Adam Gragg explores the powerful role our ego plays as a protector in our lives. Drawing from personal experiences, coaching insights, and therapeutic approaches like Internal Family Systems, Adam breaks down how self-protection can both serve and sabotage us, often without our awareness. You'll discover how the ego forms in response to past hurt, why it pushes us into drama and defense, and how it can unintentionally hold us back from authentic relationships and growth. This episode offers three practical decisions to recognize and calm your ego, inviting you to lead from your true self with confidence, compassion, and purpose.</p><p>Get ready to gain new tools for self-awareness, actionable strategies, and a fresh perspective on building connections, starting with yourself.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Three decisions to break barriers<br>03:47 Understanding the internal protector<br>08:42 Understanding self-protection and awareness<br>12:13 Formative childhood memories and trauma<br>16:48 Building confidence and self-concept<br>20:08 Learning to trust intuition<br>23:03 Understanding protectors and true self<br>25:11 Practicing gratitude and self-growth<br>30:33 Finding perspective to calm fears<br>31:36 Managing schedules for graduation<br>34:59 Closing thoughts on legacy</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>In this episode, Adam Gragg explores the powerful role our ego plays as a protector in our lives. Drawing from personal experiences, coaching insights, and therapeutic approaches like Internal Family Systems, Adam breaks down how self-protection can both serve and sabotage us, often without our awareness. You'll discover how the ego forms in response to past hurt, why it pushes us into drama and defense, and how it can unintentionally hold us back from authentic relationships and growth. This episode offers three practical decisions to recognize and calm your ego, inviting you to lead from your true self with confidence, compassion, and purpose.</p><p>Get ready to gain new tools for self-awareness, actionable strategies, and a fresh perspective on building connections, starting with yourself.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Three decisions to break barriers<br>03:47 Understanding the internal protector<br>08:42 Understanding self-protection and awareness<br>12:13 Formative childhood memories and trauma<br>16:48 Building confidence and self-concept<br>20:08 Learning to trust intuition<br>23:03 Understanding protectors and true self<br>25:11 Practicing gratitude and self-growth<br>30:33 Finding perspective to calm fears<br>31:36 Managing schedules for graduation<br>34:59 Closing thoughts on legacy</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Break free from your past and step boldly into your future with Episode 196 of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg as he fearlessly tackles the tough topic of trauma and reveals 3 pivotal decisions to help you get unstuck, heal, and reclaim your potential.</p><p>Are you tired of being told to “just think positive”? Discover why that’s not enough! Adam dives deep into the real work of overcoming PTSD and life’s hurdles by searching for the outliers, the hidden moments of hope and strength in your own story. Learn how to recreate past victories, embrace new actions, and even get the scoop on how emerging therapies like psychedelics are reshaping recovery.</p><p>It’s time to turn your pain into purpose, your struggles into stepping stones, and your wounds into wisdom. Listen now and make the decision to decide your legacy. Your future deserves more than bandaids and quick fixes. Shine boldly. Act bravely. And don’t forget, there’s no positive change unless you decide to change! Ready to leave the past where it belongs? Hit play and start your transformation today!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Emotional Healing Beyond Positivity"</p><p>05:28 "Temporary Fix, Long-Term Growth"</p><p>06:47 "Overcoming Struggles Through Reflection"</p><p>10:26 "Healing Trauma with Psychedelics"</p><p>14:31 "Short-Term Fix vs. Change"</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Break free from your past and step boldly into your future with Episode 196 of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg as he fearlessly tackles the tough topic of trauma and reveals 3 pivotal decisions to help you get unstuck, heal, and reclaim your potential.</p><p>Are you tired of being told to “just think positive”? Discover why that’s not enough! Adam dives deep into the real work of overcoming PTSD and life’s hurdles by searching for the outliers, the hidden moments of hope and strength in your own story. Learn how to recreate past victories, embrace new actions, and even get the scoop on how emerging therapies like psychedelics are reshaping recovery.</p><p>It’s time to turn your pain into purpose, your struggles into stepping stones, and your wounds into wisdom. Listen now and make the decision to decide your legacy. Your future deserves more than bandaids and quick fixes. Shine boldly. Act bravely. And don’t forget, there’s no positive change unless you decide to change! Ready to leave the past where it belongs? Hit play and start your transformation today!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Emotional Healing Beyond Positivity"</p><p>05:28 "Temporary Fix, Long-Term Growth"</p><p>06:47 "Overcoming Struggles Through Reflection"</p><p>10:26 "Healing Trauma with Psychedelics"</p><p>14:31 "Short-Term Fix vs. Change"</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Break free from your past and step boldly into your future with Episode 196 of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg as he fearlessly tackles the tough topic of trauma and reveals 3 pivotal decisions to help you get unstuck, heal, and reclaim your potential.</p><p>Are you tired of being told to “just think positive”? Discover why that’s not enough! Adam dives deep into the real work of overcoming PTSD and life’s hurdles by searching for the outliers, the hidden moments of hope and strength in your own story. Learn how to recreate past victories, embrace new actions, and even get the scoop on how emerging therapies like psychedelics are reshaping recovery.</p><p>It’s time to turn your pain into purpose, your struggles into stepping stones, and your wounds into wisdom. Listen now and make the decision to decide your legacy. Your future deserves more than bandaids and quick fixes. Shine boldly. Act bravely. And don’t forget, there’s no positive change unless you decide to change! Ready to leave the past where it belongs? Hit play and start your transformation today!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Emotional Healing Beyond Positivity"</p><p>05:28 "Temporary Fix, Long-Term Growth"</p><p>06:47 "Overcoming Struggles Through Reflection"</p><p>10:26 "Healing Trauma with Psychedelics"</p><p>14:31 "Short-Term Fix vs. Change"</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Ready to level up your relationships and leadership? Episode 195 of the DYL Podcast is your whistle-stop tour through the three red flags you should NEVER ignore at work, at home, or in your love life. Join host Adam Gragg as he spins real-life stories of dating and hiring gone awry. He also uncovers the telltale signs that could save your heart, your business, and your sanity.</p><p>Discover why ownership, follow-through, and maintaining healthy connections are non-negotiable, and learn how to spot the difference between promises and patterns. Packed with humor, hard truths, and easy-to-apply wisdom, this episode will make you rethink who gets a seat at your table, and maybe, who needs to go.</p><p>Don't settle for HALF relationships! Embrace the ELF (easy, lucrative, fun) formula for lasting success! Hit play and unlock the habits that turn red flags into green lights for your future. Your legacy is calling. Decide to answer.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Protecting Business and Personal Relationships"</p><p>06:07  "Ownership and Accountability Matter"</p><p>09:24  "Guard Your Heart, Seek Actions"</p><p>13:06  "Evaluating Long-Term Relationships"</p><p>16:49  "Show Up and Stay Engaged"</p><p>19:36  "Evaluating Fit and Key Traits"</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Ready to level up your relationships and leadership? Episode 195 of the DYL Podcast is your whistle-stop tour through the three red flags you should NEVER ignore at work, at home, or in your love life. Join host Adam Gragg as he spins real-life stories of dating and hiring gone awry. He also uncovers the telltale signs that could save your heart, your business, and your sanity.</p><p>Discover why ownership, follow-through, and maintaining healthy connections are non-negotiable, and learn how to spot the difference between promises and patterns. Packed with humor, hard truths, and easy-to-apply wisdom, this episode will make you rethink who gets a seat at your table, and maybe, who needs to go.</p><p>Don't settle for HALF relationships! Embrace the ELF (easy, lucrative, fun) formula for lasting success! Hit play and unlock the habits that turn red flags into green lights for your future. Your legacy is calling. Decide to answer.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Protecting Business and Personal Relationships"</p><p>06:07  "Ownership and Accountability Matter"</p><p>09:24  "Guard Your Heart, Seek Actions"</p><p>13:06  "Evaluating Long-Term Relationships"</p><p>16:49  "Show Up and Stay Engaged"</p><p>19:36  "Evaluating Fit and Key Traits"</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Ready to level up your relationships and leadership? Episode 195 of the DYL Podcast is your whistle-stop tour through the three red flags you should NEVER ignore at work, at home, or in your love life. Join host Adam Gragg as he spins real-life stories of dating and hiring gone awry. He also uncovers the telltale signs that could save your heart, your business, and your sanity.</p><p>Discover why ownership, follow-through, and maintaining healthy connections are non-negotiable, and learn how to spot the difference between promises and patterns. Packed with humor, hard truths, and easy-to-apply wisdom, this episode will make you rethink who gets a seat at your table, and maybe, who needs to go.</p><p>Don't settle for HALF relationships! Embrace the ELF (easy, lucrative, fun) formula for lasting success! Hit play and unlock the habits that turn red flags into green lights for your future. Your legacy is calling. Decide to answer.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Protecting Business and Personal Relationships"</p><p>06:07  "Ownership and Accountability Matter"</p><p>09:24  "Guard Your Heart, Seek Actions"</p><p>13:06  "Evaluating Long-Term Relationships"</p><p>16:49  "Show Up and Stay Engaged"</p><p>19:36  "Evaluating Fit and Key Traits"</p><p><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Ownership, Red flags, Relationships, Accountability, Integrity, Follow-through, Emotional maturity, Hiring, Trust, Loyalty, Defensiveness, Pattern recognition, Friendship, Communication, Leadership</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>194. Helping vs. Enabling Others</title>
      <itunes:episode>194</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Are you ready to transform your relationships and become the leader you were meant to be? Episode 194 of the DYL Podcast is your go-to guide for ditching excuses, banishing negativity, and making decisions that truly help. Join host Adam Gragg as he cuts through the fog of ambiguity, showing you how to turn discomfort into empowerment.</p><p>Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader must make: self-awareness, risk-setting boundaries, and letting go of the outcome. Whether you’re a parent, boss, or friend, these practical steps are designed to be so clear you can share them with your six-year-old! Hear engaging stories from real life and get actionable tools that you can use TODAY to make your legacy one that’s remembered.</p><p>Embrace the challenge, stand up for what matters, and create positive change that sticks. Don’t miss the episode that might just inspire you to live the life you want to be remembered for ten years after you’re gone. Tune in and learn how to help, not enable. Your legacy starts now!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Confronting Discomfort to Drive Change</p><p>05:19 Helper or Enabler: Know the Difference</p><p>06:52 "Overcoming Eggshelled Self-Doubt"</p><p>12:27 Helping vs. Harming Choices</p><p>15:54 "Building Accountability and Boundaries"</p><p>17:55 "Navigating Family Conflict and Growth"</p><p>22:08 "Impact Through Words and Actions"</p><p>23:29 "Decisions Shape Your Legacy"</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Are you ready to transform your relationships and become the leader you were meant to be? Episode 194 of the DYL Podcast is your go-to guide for ditching excuses, banishing negativity, and making decisions that truly help. Join host Adam Gragg as he cuts through the fog of ambiguity, showing you how to turn discomfort into empowerment.</p><p>Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader must make: self-awareness, risk-setting boundaries, and letting go of the outcome. Whether you’re a parent, boss, or friend, these practical steps are designed to be so clear you can share them with your six-year-old! Hear engaging stories from real life and get actionable tools that you can use TODAY to make your legacy one that’s remembered.</p><p>Embrace the challenge, stand up for what matters, and create positive change that sticks. Don’t miss the episode that might just inspire you to live the life you want to be remembered for ten years after you’re gone. Tune in and learn how to help, not enable. Your legacy starts now!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Confronting Discomfort to Drive Change</p><p>05:19 Helper or Enabler: Know the Difference</p><p>06:52 "Overcoming Eggshelled Self-Doubt"</p><p>12:27 Helping vs. Harming Choices</p><p>15:54 "Building Accountability and Boundaries"</p><p>17:55 "Navigating Family Conflict and Growth"</p><p>22:08 "Impact Through Words and Actions"</p><p>23:29 "Decisions Shape Your Legacy"</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1514</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Are you ready to transform your relationships and become the leader you were meant to be? Episode 194 of the DYL Podcast is your go-to guide for ditching excuses, banishing negativity, and making decisions that truly help. Join host Adam Gragg as he cuts through the fog of ambiguity, showing you how to turn discomfort into empowerment.</p><p>Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader must make: self-awareness, risk-setting boundaries, and letting go of the outcome. Whether you’re a parent, boss, or friend, these practical steps are designed to be so clear you can share them with your six-year-old! Hear engaging stories from real life and get actionable tools that you can use TODAY to make your legacy one that’s remembered.</p><p>Embrace the challenge, stand up for what matters, and create positive change that sticks. Don’t miss the episode that might just inspire you to live the life you want to be remembered for ten years after you’re gone. Tune in and learn how to help, not enable. Your legacy starts now!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Confronting Discomfort to Drive Change</p><p>05:19 Helper or Enabler: Know the Difference</p><p>06:52 "Overcoming Eggshelled Self-Doubt"</p><p>12:27 Helping vs. Harming Choices</p><p>15:54 "Building Accountability and Boundaries"</p><p>17:55 "Navigating Family Conflict and Growth"</p><p>22:08 "Impact Through Words and Actions"</p><p>23:29 "Decisions Shape Your Legacy"</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/">Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More</a>!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Enabling, Helping, Boundaries, Accountability, Self-preservation, Leadership, Negativity, Justification, Rationalization, Comfort zone, Resistance, Legacy, Difficult conversations, Personal growth, Consequences</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>193. Create a Legacy Plan That Guides Your Future | The Legacy Journey Process</title>
      <itunes:episode>193</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Are you living your own life or someone else’s? In Episode 193 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam Gragg launches a bold challenge: Stop drifting and start designing your future!</p><p>Tune in as Adam exposes the top regrets people confess at the end of their lives and gives you the practical playbook to avoid becoming just another cautionary tale. From the art of building rock-solid friendships (“Who are your monkeys?”), to unlocking your true purpose, to shaking off the comfort zone and chasing what matters, this episode is your jolt of inspiration to rewrite your story.</p><p>Discover how to create your legacy plan in three courageous steps, create, focus, and use, and why missing these moves might leave you with a lifetime of “what ifs.” It’s not just talk; Adam shares incredible real-life transformations and the secrets his most successful coaching clients use to go big, not stay safe.</p><p>Ready to ditch regret, ignite your impact, and live a life worth remembering? Hit play on Episode 193, and get ready to decide your legacy, before someone else decides it for you!</p><p>Join us as we explore the journey of personal development and how it directly influences business growth. This discussion emphasizes the importance of a strong mindset for effective leadership. Learn how to foster personal growth to achieve greater personal success.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Living Authentically Without Regrets"<br>05:34 "Start Planning and Find Monkeys"<br>09:08 "Using Wealth to Impact Lives"<br>10:40 Finding Purpose &amp; Facing Challenges<br>15:21 "Embracing Purpose and Future Growth"<br>17:09 "Aligning Life with Purpose"<br>20:10 "Legacy Jar: Life-Changing Questions"<br>______________________________________<br>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/47ammar">Top 5 Regrets of The Dying by Bronnie Ware<br></a><br>Blog Post ➡️ <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/personal-vision-activity">Clarifying a Vision for Your Future</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Are you living your own life or someone else’s? In Episode 193 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam Gragg launches a bold challenge: Stop drifting and start designing your future!</p><p>Tune in as Adam exposes the top regrets people confess at the end of their lives and gives you the practical playbook to avoid becoming just another cautionary tale. From the art of building rock-solid friendships (“Who are your monkeys?”), to unlocking your true purpose, to shaking off the comfort zone and chasing what matters, this episode is your jolt of inspiration to rewrite your story.</p><p>Discover how to create your legacy plan in three courageous steps, create, focus, and use, and why missing these moves might leave you with a lifetime of “what ifs.” It’s not just talk; Adam shares incredible real-life transformations and the secrets his most successful coaching clients use to go big, not stay safe.</p><p>Ready to ditch regret, ignite your impact, and live a life worth remembering? Hit play on Episode 193, and get ready to decide your legacy, before someone else decides it for you!</p><p>Join us as we explore the journey of personal development and how it directly influences business growth. This discussion emphasizes the importance of a strong mindset for effective leadership. Learn how to foster personal growth to achieve greater personal success.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Living Authentically Without Regrets"<br>05:34 "Start Planning and Find Monkeys"<br>09:08 "Using Wealth to Impact Lives"<br>10:40 Finding Purpose &amp; Facing Challenges<br>15:21 "Embracing Purpose and Future Growth"<br>17:09 "Aligning Life with Purpose"<br>20:10 "Legacy Jar: Life-Changing Questions"<br>______________________________________<br>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/47ammar">Top 5 Regrets of The Dying by Bronnie Ware<br></a><br>Blog Post ➡️ <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/personal-vision-activity">Clarifying a Vision for Your Future</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_lite_training">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!</a><br>7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</p><p>Are you living your own life or someone else’s? In Episode 193 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam Gragg launches a bold challenge: Stop drifting and start designing your future!</p><p>Tune in as Adam exposes the top regrets people confess at the end of their lives and gives you the practical playbook to avoid becoming just another cautionary tale. From the art of building rock-solid friendships (“Who are your monkeys?”), to unlocking your true purpose, to shaking off the comfort zone and chasing what matters, this episode is your jolt of inspiration to rewrite your story.</p><p>Discover how to create your legacy plan in three courageous steps, create, focus, and use, and why missing these moves might leave you with a lifetime of “what ifs.” It’s not just talk; Adam shares incredible real-life transformations and the secrets his most successful coaching clients use to go big, not stay safe.</p><p>Ready to ditch regret, ignite your impact, and live a life worth remembering? Hit play on Episode 193, and get ready to decide your legacy, before someone else decides it for you!</p><p>Join us as we explore the journey of personal development and how it directly influences business growth. This discussion emphasizes the importance of a strong mindset for effective leadership. Learn how to foster personal growth to achieve greater personal success.</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Living Authentically Without Regrets"<br>05:34 "Start Planning and Find Monkeys"<br>09:08 "Using Wealth to Impact Lives"<br>10:40 Finding Purpose &amp; Facing Challenges<br>15:21 "Embracing Purpose and Future Growth"<br>17:09 "Aligning Life with Purpose"<br>20:10 "Legacy Jar: Life-Changing Questions"<br>______________________________________<br>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/47ammar">Top 5 Regrets of The Dying by Bronnie Ware<br></a><br>Blog Post ➡️ <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/personal-vision-activity">Clarifying a Vision for Your Future</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Regrets, Legacy plan, Purpose, Friendships, Self-reflection, Wealth preservation, Health preservation, Anxiety, Fear, Core issues, Long-term change, Coaching, Personal growth, Action, Bravery</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>192. 3 Daily Decisions That Reduce Anxiety Fast</title>
      <itunes:episode>192</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>192</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>192. 3 Daily Decisions That Reduce Anxiety Fast</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Ready to kick anxiety to the curb? In Episode 192 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, join our fearless host Adam Gragg as he reveals the 3 Daily Decisions that will slash your anxiety, fast!</p><p>Discover how a shift in mindset, a sprinkle of optimism, and a dash of creative planning can shrink your worries, unlock your creativity, and bring back your sense of humor. Adam Gragg shares powerful, actionable tools, so simple you can teach them to a six-year-old, yet profound enough to reshape your future. Learn why perfectionism could be holding you back, how expanding your horizons opens up endless options, and why even a sloppy plan is better than standing still.</p><p>Don't just feed your fears, spark hope and momentum with every episode. Tune in for real-life stories, practical steps, and a fresh perspective that will leave you ready to tackle any challenge with courage.</p><p>Laugh, learn, and live boldly, because it's time you decided your legacy! Listen now and discover how to make anxiety work for you, not against you.</p><p>BLOG ARTICLE MENTION: <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/anxiety-can-impact-anyone-part-1">3 Keys to Lowering Anxiety</a></p><p>BOOK MENTION: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593715306?bestFormat=true&amp;k=primal+intelligence+angus+fletcher&amp;crid=1CQ3GRXFCYB7H&amp;sprefix=primal+inte&amp;linkCode=sl2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=b3f9fdc3783262e2632a7951c8b22f60&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">Primal Intelligence by Angus Fletcher</a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "3 Simple Decisions for Anxiety"</p><p>05:41 Critique of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy</p><p>09:01 "Building Hope Through Reflection"</p><p>13:36 "Finding Options Beyond Anxiety"</p><p>16:23 "Fear Signals Need for Planning"</p><p>19:32 "Vision vs. Plan: A Focus"</p><p>22:55 "Planning for Success &amp; Growth"</p><p>26:20 "Impactful Core Conversations"</p><p>28:04 "Commit, Act, Teach, Transform"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Ready to kick anxiety to the curb? In Episode 192 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, join our fearless host Adam Gragg as he reveals the 3 Daily Decisions that will slash your anxiety, fast!</p><p>Discover how a shift in mindset, a sprinkle of optimism, and a dash of creative planning can shrink your worries, unlock your creativity, and bring back your sense of humor. Adam Gragg shares powerful, actionable tools, so simple you can teach them to a six-year-old, yet profound enough to reshape your future. Learn why perfectionism could be holding you back, how expanding your horizons opens up endless options, and why even a sloppy plan is better than standing still.</p><p>Don't just feed your fears, spark hope and momentum with every episode. Tune in for real-life stories, practical steps, and a fresh perspective that will leave you ready to tackle any challenge with courage.</p><p>Laugh, learn, and live boldly, because it's time you decided your legacy! Listen now and discover how to make anxiety work for you, not against you.</p><p>BLOG ARTICLE MENTION: <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/anxiety-can-impact-anyone-part-1">3 Keys to Lowering Anxiety</a></p><p>BOOK MENTION: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593715306?bestFormat=true&amp;k=primal+intelligence+angus+fletcher&amp;crid=1CQ3GRXFCYB7H&amp;sprefix=primal+inte&amp;linkCode=sl2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=b3f9fdc3783262e2632a7951c8b22f60&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">Primal Intelligence by Angus Fletcher</a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "3 Simple Decisions for Anxiety"</p><p>05:41 Critique of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy</p><p>09:01 "Building Hope Through Reflection"</p><p>13:36 "Finding Options Beyond Anxiety"</p><p>16:23 "Fear Signals Need for Planning"</p><p>19:32 "Vision vs. Plan: A Focus"</p><p>22:55 "Planning for Success &amp; Growth"</p><p>26:20 "Impactful Core Conversations"</p><p>28:04 "Commit, Act, Teach, Transform"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Ready to kick anxiety to the curb? In Episode 192 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, join our fearless host Adam Gragg as he reveals the 3 Daily Decisions that will slash your anxiety, fast!</p><p>Discover how a shift in mindset, a sprinkle of optimism, and a dash of creative planning can shrink your worries, unlock your creativity, and bring back your sense of humor. Adam Gragg shares powerful, actionable tools, so simple you can teach them to a six-year-old, yet profound enough to reshape your future. Learn why perfectionism could be holding you back, how expanding your horizons opens up endless options, and why even a sloppy plan is better than standing still.</p><p>Don't just feed your fears, spark hope and momentum with every episode. Tune in for real-life stories, practical steps, and a fresh perspective that will leave you ready to tackle any challenge with courage.</p><p>Laugh, learn, and live boldly, because it's time you decided your legacy! Listen now and discover how to make anxiety work for you, not against you.</p><p>BLOG ARTICLE MENTION: <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/anxiety-can-impact-anyone-part-1">3 Keys to Lowering Anxiety</a></p><p>BOOK MENTION: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593715306?bestFormat=true&amp;k=primal+intelligence+angus+fletcher&amp;crid=1CQ3GRXFCYB7H&amp;sprefix=primal+inte&amp;linkCode=sl2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=b3f9fdc3783262e2632a7951c8b22f60&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">Primal Intelligence by Angus Fletcher</a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "3 Simple Decisions for Anxiety"</p><p>05:41 Critique of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy</p><p>09:01 "Building Hope Through Reflection"</p><p>13:36 "Finding Options Beyond Anxiety"</p><p>16:23 "Fear Signals Need for Planning"</p><p>19:32 "Vision vs. Plan: A Focus"</p><p>22:55 "Planning for Success &amp; Growth"</p><p>26:20 "Impactful Core Conversations"</p><p>28:04 "Commit, Act, Teach, Transform"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Anxiety, Optimism, Control, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Ambiguity, Avoidance, Negative beliefs, Action, Planning, Time horizon, Options, Legacy, Mental health, Creativity, Personal growth</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>191. Make Your Future Bigger Than Your Past</title>
      <itunes:episode>191</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>191</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>191. Make Your Future Bigger Than Your Past</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, host Adam Gragg welcomes entrepreneur and women's leadership advocate Audra Dinell. The conversation centers around three key decisions you can make to create a future that's bigger, brighter, and more authentic than your past.</p><p>Audra dives into her journey from founding The Thread, a women’s leadership organization, to lessons learned from business failures, parenting, and dealing with ADHD. She shares insights on how to define what you truly want, the power of accountability, and why believing in yourself is essential for growth. The episode also touches on overcoming perfectionism, building habits that stick, emotional agility, and the value of taking imperfect action.</p><p>Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or anyone looking for practical motivation to make meaningful changes, this episode offers genuine stories, actionable advice, and encouragement to go bigger in life and business.</p><p>Check Out ➡️ <a href="https://www.thethreadwlc.com/">The Thread</a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Choosing Growth Over Fear"</p><p>06:01 "Challenging Self-Limiting Stories"</p><p>07:48 Defining Personalized Values</p><p>09:53 "Lessons from Near Failure"</p><p>15:23 "Finding Balance Amid Growth"</p><p>17:07 "Getting Real with Financials"</p><p>21:05 Finding Your Best Accountability Strategy</p><p>24:25 Entrepreneurship: Curiosity and Experimentation</p><p>26:37 Women's Growth &amp; Accountability Program</p><p>29:52 Habit Tracker and Birthday Reflections</p><p>33:17 "Entrepreneurial Journey and New Beginnings"</p><p>37:59 Parenthood and Entrepreneurship: Growth Through Risk</p><p>39:48 "Envisioning Your Future Journey"</p><p>43:37 Unexpected Lessons of Taking Time</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, host Adam Gragg welcomes entrepreneur and women's leadership advocate Audra Dinell. The conversation centers around three key decisions you can make to create a future that's bigger, brighter, and more authentic than your past.</p><p>Audra dives into her journey from founding The Thread, a women’s leadership organization, to lessons learned from business failures, parenting, and dealing with ADHD. She shares insights on how to define what you truly want, the power of accountability, and why believing in yourself is essential for growth. The episode also touches on overcoming perfectionism, building habits that stick, emotional agility, and the value of taking imperfect action.</p><p>Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or anyone looking for practical motivation to make meaningful changes, this episode offers genuine stories, actionable advice, and encouragement to go bigger in life and business.</p><p>Check Out ➡️ <a href="https://www.thethreadwlc.com/">The Thread</a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Choosing Growth Over Fear"</p><p>06:01 "Challenging Self-Limiting Stories"</p><p>07:48 Defining Personalized Values</p><p>09:53 "Lessons from Near Failure"</p><p>15:23 "Finding Balance Amid Growth"</p><p>17:07 "Getting Real with Financials"</p><p>21:05 Finding Your Best Accountability Strategy</p><p>24:25 Entrepreneurship: Curiosity and Experimentation</p><p>26:37 Women's Growth &amp; Accountability Program</p><p>29:52 Habit Tracker and Birthday Reflections</p><p>33:17 "Entrepreneurial Journey and New Beginnings"</p><p>37:59 Parenthood and Entrepreneurship: Growth Through Risk</p><p>39:48 "Envisioning Your Future Journey"</p><p>43:37 Unexpected Lessons of Taking Time</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, host Adam Gragg welcomes entrepreneur and women's leadership advocate Audra Dinell. The conversation centers around three key decisions you can make to create a future that's bigger, brighter, and more authentic than your past.</p><p>Audra dives into her journey from founding The Thread, a women’s leadership organization, to lessons learned from business failures, parenting, and dealing with ADHD. She shares insights on how to define what you truly want, the power of accountability, and why believing in yourself is essential for growth. The episode also touches on overcoming perfectionism, building habits that stick, emotional agility, and the value of taking imperfect action.</p><p>Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or anyone looking for practical motivation to make meaningful changes, this episode offers genuine stories, actionable advice, and encouragement to go bigger in life and business.</p><p>Check Out ➡️ <a href="https://www.thethreadwlc.com/">The Thread</a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Choosing Growth Over Fear"</p><p>06:01 "Challenging Self-Limiting Stories"</p><p>07:48 Defining Personalized Values</p><p>09:53 "Lessons from Near Failure"</p><p>15:23 "Finding Balance Amid Growth"</p><p>17:07 "Getting Real with Financials"</p><p>21:05 Finding Your Best Accountability Strategy</p><p>24:25 Entrepreneurship: Curiosity and Experimentation</p><p>26:37 Women's Growth &amp; Accountability Program</p><p>29:52 Habit Tracker and Birthday Reflections</p><p>33:17 "Entrepreneurial Journey and New Beginnings"</p><p>37:59 Parenthood and Entrepreneurship: Growth Through Risk</p><p>39:48 "Envisioning Your Future Journey"</p><p>43:37 Unexpected Lessons of Taking Time</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Entrepreneurship, Accountability, Perfectionism, Emotional agility, Vulnerability, Work-life balance, Values, Failure, Risk-taking, Women's leadership, Habit stacking, ADHD, Self-belief, Future vision, Mastermind groups</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>190. Two Futures: How to Choose the Path That Leads to a Life of Meaning</title>
      <itunes:episode>189</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Are you ready to wake up and choose the life you truly want? In Episode 190 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam Gragg lays out a bold truth: you’re already scripting your future, so why not take control of the ending? Discover the two futures ahead of you, and learn how a few powerful decisions today can mean the difference between a life of confidence and meaning, or one weighed down by missed opportunities.</p><p><br>Packed with real-life stories, practical coaching tips, and a dose of tough love, this episode challenges you to stop drifting and start designing your one wild, precious life. You’ll explore the hidden costs of your current path, harness the energizing force of clear vision, and unlock the secret to taking brave action.</p><p>Don’t just settle for a life on autopilot. Tune in, get honest and get inspired. It’s time to decide your legacy and become the hero of your own story!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Bravery in Self-Reflection"</p><p>05:32 "Embracing Growth Through Self-Reflection"</p><p>09:25 "Breaking Habits, Building Futures"</p><p>10:26 "Envisioning and Building Your Future"</p><p>16:04 "Action Builds Confidence"</p><p>19:46 "Challenging Self-Doubt and Growth"</p><p>22:20 "Steps to a Better Future"</p><p>24:58 "Bravery to Pursue a Vision"</p><p>27:35 "Your Legacy, Your Choice"<br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Are you ready to wake up and choose the life you truly want? In Episode 190 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam Gragg lays out a bold truth: you’re already scripting your future, so why not take control of the ending? Discover the two futures ahead of you, and learn how a few powerful decisions today can mean the difference between a life of confidence and meaning, or one weighed down by missed opportunities.</p><p><br>Packed with real-life stories, practical coaching tips, and a dose of tough love, this episode challenges you to stop drifting and start designing your one wild, precious life. You’ll explore the hidden costs of your current path, harness the energizing force of clear vision, and unlock the secret to taking brave action.</p><p>Don’t just settle for a life on autopilot. Tune in, get honest and get inspired. It’s time to decide your legacy and become the hero of your own story!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Bravery in Self-Reflection"</p><p>05:32 "Embracing Growth Through Self-Reflection"</p><p>09:25 "Breaking Habits, Building Futures"</p><p>10:26 "Envisioning and Building Your Future"</p><p>16:04 "Action Builds Confidence"</p><p>19:46 "Challenging Self-Doubt and Growth"</p><p>22:20 "Steps to a Better Future"</p><p>24:58 "Bravery to Pursue a Vision"</p><p>27:35 "Your Legacy, Your Choice"<br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1716</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Are you ready to wake up and choose the life you truly want? In Episode 190 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam Gragg lays out a bold truth: you’re already scripting your future, so why not take control of the ending? Discover the two futures ahead of you, and learn how a few powerful decisions today can mean the difference between a life of confidence and meaning, or one weighed down by missed opportunities.</p><p><br>Packed with real-life stories, practical coaching tips, and a dose of tough love, this episode challenges you to stop drifting and start designing your one wild, precious life. You’ll explore the hidden costs of your current path, harness the energizing force of clear vision, and unlock the secret to taking brave action.</p><p>Don’t just settle for a life on autopilot. Tune in, get honest and get inspired. It’s time to decide your legacy and become the hero of your own story!</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Bravery in Self-Reflection"</p><p>05:32 "Embracing Growth Through Self-Reflection"</p><p>09:25 "Breaking Habits, Building Futures"</p><p>10:26 "Envisioning and Building Your Future"</p><p>16:04 "Action Builds Confidence"</p><p>19:46 "Challenging Self-Doubt and Growth"</p><p>22:20 "Steps to a Better Future"</p><p>24:58 "Bravery to Pursue a Vision"</p><p>27:35 "Your Legacy, Your Choice"<br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Two paths, Life design, Clarity, Self-reflection, Vision, Accountability, Mindset, Action, Legacy, Growth, Coaching, Fear vs. hope, Shame, Bad habits, Good habits</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>189. Building a Healthy Culture: Insights from a Dentist’s Leadership Journey</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Dr. Stacy Wince as they crack open the vault of vibrant company cultures and spill the three essential decisions every leader needs to supercharge their team.</p><p>From ice cream bribes with freshman boys to surprise shoe-shopping sprees for dental staff, this episode isn’t your average chat about core values and leadership. It’s a rollercoaster of real talk, personal stories, and laugh-out-loud moments. Discover how intentionality, accountability and pure awareness can transform even the busiest, most chaotic office into a place people can’t wait to show up to, and yes, even at the dentist!</p><p>Whether you’re a business leader, a team member, or just someone who dreams of loving Mondays, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom to help you build a culture that’s healthy, fun, and wildly effective. Don’t miss out on fresh insights, heart, humor, and a few family squabbles. Tune in now and learn how to make your workplace the envy of the block!</p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Building a Healthy Culture"</p><p>08:47 "Ensuring Cultural and Value Fit"</p><p>11:43 "Be Intentional About Culture"</p><p>16:02 "Advice Sticks Better Externally"</p><p>18:30 Empowering Growth Through Support</p><p>20:30 "Accountability Drives Personal Growth"</p><p>24:49 "Teamwork in Dental School"</p><p>28:06 "Leadership Tone Shapes Morale"</p><p>30:42 "Strong Values Build Resilience"</p><p>34:02 "Surprising Team with New Shoes"</p><p>38:00 "Action Drives Transformation"</p><p>39:32 "Decide Your Legacy Today"</p><p>Ready to improve your organization’s culture? Tune in now and let’s build a legacy worth sharing!</p><p>Connect with Dr. Stacy Wince: DrWince@wincedental.com<br>Learn more about Decide Your Legacy and Adam Gragg: https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/</p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with fellow leaders and friends! Your support helps us keep bringing you valuable content.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Dr. Stacy Wince as they crack open the vault of vibrant company cultures and spill the three essential decisions every leader needs to supercharge their team.</p><p>From ice cream bribes with freshman boys to surprise shoe-shopping sprees for dental staff, this episode isn’t your average chat about core values and leadership. It’s a rollercoaster of real talk, personal stories, and laugh-out-loud moments. Discover how intentionality, accountability and pure awareness can transform even the busiest, most chaotic office into a place people can’t wait to show up to, and yes, even at the dentist!</p><p>Whether you’re a business leader, a team member, or just someone who dreams of loving Mondays, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom to help you build a culture that’s healthy, fun, and wildly effective. Don’t miss out on fresh insights, heart, humor, and a few family squabbles. Tune in now and learn how to make your workplace the envy of the block!</p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Building a Healthy Culture"</p><p>08:47 "Ensuring Cultural and Value Fit"</p><p>11:43 "Be Intentional About Culture"</p><p>16:02 "Advice Sticks Better Externally"</p><p>18:30 Empowering Growth Through Support</p><p>20:30 "Accountability Drives Personal Growth"</p><p>24:49 "Teamwork in Dental School"</p><p>28:06 "Leadership Tone Shapes Morale"</p><p>30:42 "Strong Values Build Resilience"</p><p>34:02 "Surprising Team with New Shoes"</p><p>38:00 "Action Drives Transformation"</p><p>39:32 "Decide Your Legacy Today"</p><p>Ready to improve your organization’s culture? Tune in now and let’s build a legacy worth sharing!</p><p>Connect with Dr. Stacy Wince: DrWince@wincedental.com<br>Learn more about Decide Your Legacy and Adam Gragg: https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/</p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with fellow leaders and friends! Your support helps us keep bringing you valuable content.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Dr. Stacy Wince as they crack open the vault of vibrant company cultures and spill the three essential decisions every leader needs to supercharge their team.</p><p>From ice cream bribes with freshman boys to surprise shoe-shopping sprees for dental staff, this episode isn’t your average chat about core values and leadership. It’s a rollercoaster of real talk, personal stories, and laugh-out-loud moments. Discover how intentionality, accountability and pure awareness can transform even the busiest, most chaotic office into a place people can’t wait to show up to, and yes, even at the dentist!</p><p>Whether you’re a business leader, a team member, or just someone who dreams of loving Mondays, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom to help you build a culture that’s healthy, fun, and wildly effective. Don’t miss out on fresh insights, heart, humor, and a few family squabbles. Tune in now and learn how to make your workplace the envy of the block!</p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Building a Healthy Culture"</p><p>08:47 "Ensuring Cultural and Value Fit"</p><p>11:43 "Be Intentional About Culture"</p><p>16:02 "Advice Sticks Better Externally"</p><p>18:30 Empowering Growth Through Support</p><p>20:30 "Accountability Drives Personal Growth"</p><p>24:49 "Teamwork in Dental School"</p><p>28:06 "Leadership Tone Shapes Morale"</p><p>30:42 "Strong Values Build Resilience"</p><p>34:02 "Surprising Team with New Shoes"</p><p>38:00 "Action Drives Transformation"</p><p>39:32 "Decide Your Legacy Today"</p><p>Ready to improve your organization’s culture? Tune in now and let’s build a legacy worth sharing!</p><p>Connect with Dr. Stacy Wince: DrWince@wincedental.com<br>Learn more about Decide Your Legacy and Adam Gragg: https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/</p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with fellow leaders and friends! Your support helps us keep bringing you valuable content.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Workplace culture, Leadership, Accountability, Team values, Vision, Employee engagement, Conflict resolution, Ownership, Delegation, Stress reduction, Team building, Communication, Personal growth, Organizational change, Revenue impact</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>188. The Power of Encouragement: Three Daily Decisions Every Leader Should Make</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Unlock the secret superpower of leadership with Episode 188 of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg as he reveals why encouragement isn’t just an optional pep-talk—it’s the rocket fuel your team, family, and community need to soar.</p><p>Discover the three daily decisions that transform ordinary leaders into extraordinary encouragers. Learn how a simple act, like making a list of people to uplift, can revolutionize your workplace and relationships. Find out why real encouragement is more than empty praise, and how it can spark confidence, boost engagement, and ignite lasting success.</p><p>Are you ready to be the kind of leader others want to be around? Want your legacy to be one of courage, optimism, and contagious energy? Hit play and start building your encouragement habit today—because culture, performance, and your impact all begin with one courageous conversation at a time. Tune in now and unleash your leadership legacy with encouragement!</p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Leading by Example"<br>03:38 The Power of Encouragement<br>07:20 "Focus on Encouraging Others"<br>10:56 Breaking Free from Leadership Shame<br>15:27 "Positive Qualities Reflection Process"<br>16:50 "Encouragement Fuels Lasting Leadership"<br>19:23 "Your Legacy, Your Choice"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Unlock the secret superpower of leadership with Episode 188 of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg as he reveals why encouragement isn’t just an optional pep-talk—it’s the rocket fuel your team, family, and community need to soar.</p><p>Discover the three daily decisions that transform ordinary leaders into extraordinary encouragers. Learn how a simple act, like making a list of people to uplift, can revolutionize your workplace and relationships. Find out why real encouragement is more than empty praise, and how it can spark confidence, boost engagement, and ignite lasting success.</p><p>Are you ready to be the kind of leader others want to be around? Want your legacy to be one of courage, optimism, and contagious energy? Hit play and start building your encouragement habit today—because culture, performance, and your impact all begin with one courageous conversation at a time. Tune in now and unleash your leadership legacy with encouragement!</p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Leading by Example"<br>03:38 The Power of Encouragement<br>07:20 "Focus on Encouraging Others"<br>10:56 Breaking Free from Leadership Shame<br>15:27 "Positive Qualities Reflection Process"<br>16:50 "Encouragement Fuels Lasting Leadership"<br>19:23 "Your Legacy, Your Choice"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1244</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE</a></p><p>Unlock the secret superpower of leadership with Episode 188 of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg as he reveals why encouragement isn’t just an optional pep-talk—it’s the rocket fuel your team, family, and community need to soar.</p><p>Discover the three daily decisions that transform ordinary leaders into extraordinary encouragers. Learn how a simple act, like making a list of people to uplift, can revolutionize your workplace and relationships. Find out why real encouragement is more than empty praise, and how it can spark confidence, boost engagement, and ignite lasting success.</p><p>Are you ready to be the kind of leader others want to be around? Want your legacy to be one of courage, optimism, and contagious energy? Hit play and start building your encouragement habit today—because culture, performance, and your impact all begin with one courageous conversation at a time. Tune in now and unleash your leadership legacy with encouragement!</p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Leading by Example"<br>03:38 The Power of Encouragement<br>07:20 "Focus on Encouraging Others"<br>10:56 Breaking Free from Leadership Shame<br>15:27 "Positive Qualities Reflection Process"<br>16:50 "Encouragement Fuels Lasting Leadership"<br>19:23 "Your Legacy, Your Choice"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Encouragement, Leadership, Influence, Courage, Workplace culture, Accountability, Self-awareness, Shame, Remorse, Confidence, Positive feedback, Specific praise, Team engagement, Habits, Legacy</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>187. Yes, There Are Stupid Questions (Let’s Talk About Why)</title>
      <itunes:episode>187</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>187</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>187. Yes, There Are Stupid Questions (Let’s Talk About Why)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get ready to question everything you thought you knew, literally! In Episode 187 of the DYL Podcast, Adam pulls back the curtain on one of life’s biggest myths: “There are no stupid questions.” Think again! Discover why some questions hold us back, stir up confusion, and secretly protect our egos.</p><p>Join Adam Gragg as he boldly explores the difference between questions that open doors and questions that slam them shut. Learn how the right question can spark courageous conversations, ignite action, and change not just your interactions, but your whole life. Packed with practical tips and real-life examples, this episode will leave you eager to toss out your old script and start asking questions that actually matter.</p><p>Want to get unstuck, grow your confidence, and connect on a deeper level? Listen now and find out how asking better questions is the key to a more powerful legacy. Don’t just play it safe. Be brave, be curious, and never settle for half-hearted answers again!</p><p><br>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE </a></p><p>Referenced BLOG POST:<br>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/yes-there-are-stupid-questions"><strong>Yes, There Are Stupid Questions (Let’s Talk About Why)<br></strong></a><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Ask Better Questions"</p><p>03:39 "Impactful Conversations Through Questions"</p><p>09:22 Effective Questioning for Leadership Growth</p><p>11:44 "Leaders, Questions, and Ego"</p><p>15:39 "Be a Giver, Not a Taker"</p><p>19:15 "Ask Better Questions, Change Lives"</p><p>21:23 "Building Confidence, Defining Legacy"</p><p>Make your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it. Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get ready to question everything you thought you knew, literally! In Episode 187 of the DYL Podcast, Adam pulls back the curtain on one of life’s biggest myths: “There are no stupid questions.” Think again! Discover why some questions hold us back, stir up confusion, and secretly protect our egos.</p><p>Join Adam Gragg as he boldly explores the difference between questions that open doors and questions that slam them shut. Learn how the right question can spark courageous conversations, ignite action, and change not just your interactions, but your whole life. Packed with practical tips and real-life examples, this episode will leave you eager to toss out your old script and start asking questions that actually matter.</p><p>Want to get unstuck, grow your confidence, and connect on a deeper level? Listen now and find out how asking better questions is the key to a more powerful legacy. Don’t just play it safe. Be brave, be curious, and never settle for half-hearted answers again!</p><p><br>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE </a></p><p>Referenced BLOG POST:<br>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/yes-there-are-stupid-questions"><strong>Yes, There Are Stupid Questions (Let’s Talk About Why)<br></strong></a><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Ask Better Questions"</p><p>03:39 "Impactful Conversations Through Questions"</p><p>09:22 Effective Questioning for Leadership Growth</p><p>11:44 "Leaders, Questions, and Ego"</p><p>15:39 "Be a Giver, Not a Taker"</p><p>19:15 "Ask Better Questions, Change Lives"</p><p>21:23 "Building Confidence, Defining Legacy"</p><p>Make your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it. Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1392</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Get ready to question everything you thought you knew, literally! In Episode 187 of the DYL Podcast, Adam pulls back the curtain on one of life’s biggest myths: “There are no stupid questions.” Think again! Discover why some questions hold us back, stir up confusion, and secretly protect our egos.</p><p>Join Adam Gragg as he boldly explores the difference between questions that open doors and questions that slam them shut. Learn how the right question can spark courageous conversations, ignite action, and change not just your interactions, but your whole life. Packed with practical tips and real-life examples, this episode will leave you eager to toss out your old script and start asking questions that actually matter.</p><p>Want to get unstuck, grow your confidence, and connect on a deeper level? Listen now and find out how asking better questions is the key to a more powerful legacy. Don’t just play it safe. Be brave, be curious, and never settle for half-hearted answers again!</p><p><br>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE </a></p><p>Referenced BLOG POST:<br>►► <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/yes-there-are-stupid-questions"><strong>Yes, There Are Stupid Questions (Let’s Talk About Why)<br></strong></a><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Ask Better Questions"</p><p>03:39 "Impactful Conversations Through Questions"</p><p>09:22 Effective Questioning for Leadership Growth</p><p>11:44 "Leaders, Questions, and Ego"</p><p>15:39 "Be a Giver, Not a Taker"</p><p>19:15 "Ask Better Questions, Change Lives"</p><p>21:23 "Building Confidence, Defining Legacy"</p><p>Make your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it. Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Stupid questions, Good questions, Leadership, Self-awareness, Courageous conversations, Ego, Fear, Open-ended questions, Closed-ended questions, Status, Tone, Control, Curiosity, Avoidance, Growth</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>186. Why Leaders Hesitate to Try Coaching and How to Move Forward</title>
      <itunes:episode>186</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>186</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>186. Why Leaders Hesitate to Try Coaching and How to Move Forward</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you a leader or business owner considering team or personal coaching but held back by common objections like cost, time, or team buy-in? In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg dives deep into the nine most frequent objections he hears from leaders about business and leadership coaching.</p><p>Adam unpacks powerful insights on:</p><ul><li>The difference between coaching and consulting and why industry knowledge isn't always the key</li><li>How an outside, industry-agnostic perspective can break through company bottlenecks</li><li>The power of accountability, clarity, and consistent follow-up for lasting change</li><li>Why investing in coaching is about long-term growth, profitability, and a healthier culture (not just cost)</li><li>Real-life transformation stories from leaders who nearly said “no” but chose to invest in their teams and themselves</li></ul><p>Whether you’re skeptical about coaching or want to kick-start positive change in your organization, this episode will help you weigh not just the investment, but the real <em>cost</em> of staying stuck. Be inspired to face your leadership challenges, spark meaningful conversations, and design a legacy you're proud of. Want to learn more about the Decide Your Legacy approach or try a powerful confidence-building course? Don’t miss Adam Gragg’s practical steps and special offer in the episode!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads</p><p><strong>Make your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it.<br>Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!<br></strong><br></p><p>#Leadership #BusinessCoaching #TeamDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #DYLpodcast</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you a leader or business owner considering team or personal coaching but held back by common objections like cost, time, or team buy-in? In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg dives deep into the nine most frequent objections he hears from leaders about business and leadership coaching.</p><p>Adam unpacks powerful insights on:</p><ul><li>The difference between coaching and consulting and why industry knowledge isn't always the key</li><li>How an outside, industry-agnostic perspective can break through company bottlenecks</li><li>The power of accountability, clarity, and consistent follow-up for lasting change</li><li>Why investing in coaching is about long-term growth, profitability, and a healthier culture (not just cost)</li><li>Real-life transformation stories from leaders who nearly said “no” but chose to invest in their teams and themselves</li></ul><p>Whether you’re skeptical about coaching or want to kick-start positive change in your organization, this episode will help you weigh not just the investment, but the real <em>cost</em> of staying stuck. Be inspired to face your leadership challenges, spark meaningful conversations, and design a legacy you're proud of. Want to learn more about the Decide Your Legacy approach or try a powerful confidence-building course? Don’t miss Adam Gragg’s practical steps and special offer in the episode!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads</p><p><strong>Make your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it.<br>Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!<br></strong><br></p><p>#Leadership #BusinessCoaching #TeamDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #DYLpodcast</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 14:01:44 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1619</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you a leader or business owner considering team or personal coaching but held back by common objections like cost, time, or team buy-in? In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg dives deep into the nine most frequent objections he hears from leaders about business and leadership coaching.</p><p>Adam unpacks powerful insights on:</p><ul><li>The difference between coaching and consulting and why industry knowledge isn't always the key</li><li>How an outside, industry-agnostic perspective can break through company bottlenecks</li><li>The power of accountability, clarity, and consistent follow-up for lasting change</li><li>Why investing in coaching is about long-term growth, profitability, and a healthier culture (not just cost)</li><li>Real-life transformation stories from leaders who nearly said “no” but chose to invest in their teams and themselves</li></ul><p>Whether you’re skeptical about coaching or want to kick-start positive change in your organization, this episode will help you weigh not just the investment, but the real <em>cost</em> of staying stuck. Be inspired to face your leadership challenges, spark meaningful conversations, and design a legacy you're proud of. Want to learn more about the Decide Your Legacy approach or try a powerful confidence-building course? Don’t miss Adam Gragg’s practical steps and special offer in the episode!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads</p><p><strong>Make your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it.<br>Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!<br></strong><br></p><p>#Leadership #BusinessCoaching #TeamDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #DYLpodcast</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Business coaching, Leadership development, Team buy-in, Objections, Accountability, Industry agnostic, Confidentiality, Price/value, Behavioral change, Personal transformation, Crisis management, Consulting vs coaching, Long-term change, Communication, Emotional intelligence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>185. How to Play the Long Game</title>
      <itunes:episode>185</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>185</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>185. How to Play the Long Game</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to turn setbacks into your secret weapon? In Episode 185 of the DYL Podcast, Adam Gragg invites you to master "The Long Game" and discover why leaders, and anyone hungry for growth, must think beyond today. From NFL game-day blunders to personal battles with failure, Adam Gragg shows how grit, vulnerability, and vision fuel true success.</p><p>Get real about your fears, gather lessons from every stumble, and create a bounce-back plan that keeps you moving forward. Whether you’re a parent dreaming big for your kids or an entrepreneur navigating setbacks, these insights will inspire you to play, and WIN, the long game.</p><p>Tune in now to laugh, learn, and light up your legacy. This episode isn’t just hope, it’s your playbook for lasting impact. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and get ready to lead with courage!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads</p><p>►►WATCH THIS EPISODE FOR TIPS ON JOURNALING<br>https://youtu.be/QwJ5LFQ9GhE</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Resilience After Failure<br>05:26 "Parenting: Embrace the Long Game"<br>09:22 "Growth Through Fear and Lessons"<br>10:20 "Embrace Imperfection, Learn, Grow"<br>15:23 "Brian's First Year in Business"<br>17:30 "Letter from Daughter's Heart"<br>20:51 "Take Action and Share"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to turn setbacks into your secret weapon? In Episode 185 of the DYL Podcast, Adam Gragg invites you to master "The Long Game" and discover why leaders, and anyone hungry for growth, must think beyond today. From NFL game-day blunders to personal battles with failure, Adam Gragg shows how grit, vulnerability, and vision fuel true success.</p><p>Get real about your fears, gather lessons from every stumble, and create a bounce-back plan that keeps you moving forward. Whether you’re a parent dreaming big for your kids or an entrepreneur navigating setbacks, these insights will inspire you to play, and WIN, the long game.</p><p>Tune in now to laugh, learn, and light up your legacy. This episode isn’t just hope, it’s your playbook for lasting impact. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and get ready to lead with courage!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads</p><p>►►WATCH THIS EPISODE FOR TIPS ON JOURNALING<br>https://youtu.be/QwJ5LFQ9GhE</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Resilience After Failure<br>05:26 "Parenting: Embrace the Long Game"<br>09:22 "Growth Through Fear and Lessons"<br>10:20 "Embrace Imperfection, Learn, Grow"<br>15:23 "Brian's First Year in Business"<br>17:30 "Letter from Daughter's Heart"<br>20:51 "Take Action and Share"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1409</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to turn setbacks into your secret weapon? In Episode 185 of the DYL Podcast, Adam Gragg invites you to master "The Long Game" and discover why leaders, and anyone hungry for growth, must think beyond today. From NFL game-day blunders to personal battles with failure, Adam Gragg shows how grit, vulnerability, and vision fuel true success.</p><p>Get real about your fears, gather lessons from every stumble, and create a bounce-back plan that keeps you moving forward. Whether you’re a parent dreaming big for your kids or an entrepreneur navigating setbacks, these insights will inspire you to play, and WIN, the long game.</p><p>Tune in now to laugh, learn, and light up your legacy. This episode isn’t just hope, it’s your playbook for lasting impact. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and get ready to lead with courage!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads</p><p>►►WATCH THIS EPISODE FOR TIPS ON JOURNALING<br>https://youtu.be/QwJ5LFQ9GhE</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 Resilience After Failure<br>05:26 "Parenting: Embrace the Long Game"<br>09:22 "Growth Through Fear and Lessons"<br>10:20 "Embrace Imperfection, Learn, Grow"<br>15:23 "Brian's First Year in Business"<br>17:30 "Letter from Daughter's Heart"<br>20:51 "Take Action and Share"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Failure, Resilience, The long game, Leadership, Vision, Fear, Vulnerability, Lessons learned, Growth, Parenting, Entrepreneurship, Support systems, Action vs. Insight, Gratitude, Legacy</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>184. 3 Key Decisions to Successfully Navigate Hard Conversations</title>
      <itunes:episode>184</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>184</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>184. 3 Key Decisions to Successfully Navigate Hard Conversations</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into the arena of tough talks with Episode 184 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Troy Trussell as they crack the code on "Hard Conversations." Are you tired of walking on eggshells, dodging confrontations, or letting fear keep you silent? Discover the game-changing power of courage over comfort!</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn the three decisive moves you need to finally stop avoiding those difficult discussions—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. Uncover why we procrastinate, how planning to listen (not just to talk!) can transform your relationships, and why commitment is the secret sauce to real change. Packed with practical examples, personal stories, and actionable strategies, this episode is your blueprint for turning anxiety into productive action.</p><p>Most of us know there's a hard conversation we should have, but we keep putting it off. This video addresses the common tendency of conflict avoidance in relationships, whether with coworkers, family, or friends. Learn valuable strategies for navigating difficult conversations, fostering better communication, and enhancing your emotional intelligence for stronger connections.</p><p>Ready to punch fear in the face and create meaningful change? Listen now and let the DYL Podcast help you tackle the conversations you’ve been putting off. Your legacy starts with one brave step, don’t miss out!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE </a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Keys to Successful Hard Conversations"<br>05:34 "Dreaming of Family Legacy"<br>08:04 Avoiding Difficult Conversations<br>09:44 Avoiding Discomfort and Its Costs<br>14:22 "Facing Difficult Conversations"<br>17:12 "Listening Over Agenda"<br>22:02 "Parenting and Tough Conversations"<br>24:55 "Commit to Hard Conversations"<br>29:10 "Leveraging Growth for Success"<br>31:28 "Schedule, Commit, and Act"<br>35:55 "Overcoming Avoidance Through Action"<br>36:56 "Decide, Act, and Grow"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into the arena of tough talks with Episode 184 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Troy Trussell as they crack the code on "Hard Conversations." Are you tired of walking on eggshells, dodging confrontations, or letting fear keep you silent? Discover the game-changing power of courage over comfort!</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn the three decisive moves you need to finally stop avoiding those difficult discussions—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. Uncover why we procrastinate, how planning to listen (not just to talk!) can transform your relationships, and why commitment is the secret sauce to real change. Packed with practical examples, personal stories, and actionable strategies, this episode is your blueprint for turning anxiety into productive action.</p><p>Most of us know there's a hard conversation we should have, but we keep putting it off. This video addresses the common tendency of conflict avoidance in relationships, whether with coworkers, family, or friends. Learn valuable strategies for navigating difficult conversations, fostering better communication, and enhancing your emotional intelligence for stronger connections.</p><p>Ready to punch fear in the face and create meaningful change? Listen now and let the DYL Podcast help you tackle the conversations you’ve been putting off. Your legacy starts with one brave step, don’t miss out!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE </a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Keys to Successful Hard Conversations"<br>05:34 "Dreaming of Family Legacy"<br>08:04 Avoiding Difficult Conversations<br>09:44 Avoiding Discomfort and Its Costs<br>14:22 "Facing Difficult Conversations"<br>17:12 "Listening Over Agenda"<br>22:02 "Parenting and Tough Conversations"<br>24:55 "Commit to Hard Conversations"<br>29:10 "Leveraging Growth for Success"<br>31:28 "Schedule, Commit, and Act"<br>35:55 "Overcoming Avoidance Through Action"<br>36:56 "Decide, Act, and Grow"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 13:41:52 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into the arena of tough talks with Episode 184 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Troy Trussell as they crack the code on "Hard Conversations." Are you tired of walking on eggshells, dodging confrontations, or letting fear keep you silent? Discover the game-changing power of courage over comfort!</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn the three decisive moves you need to finally stop avoiding those difficult discussions—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. Uncover why we procrastinate, how planning to listen (not just to talk!) can transform your relationships, and why commitment is the secret sauce to real change. Packed with practical examples, personal stories, and actionable strategies, this episode is your blueprint for turning anxiety into productive action.</p><p>Most of us know there's a hard conversation we should have, but we keep putting it off. This video addresses the common tendency of conflict avoidance in relationships, whether with coworkers, family, or friends. Learn valuable strategies for navigating difficult conversations, fostering better communication, and enhancing your emotional intelligence for stronger connections.</p><p>Ready to punch fear in the face and create meaningful change? Listen now and let the DYL Podcast help you tackle the conversations you’ve been putting off. Your legacy starts with one brave step, don’t miss out!</p><p>►► GET MY FREE VIDEO &amp; WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE </a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Keys to Successful Hard Conversations"<br>05:34 "Dreaming of Family Legacy"<br>08:04 Avoiding Difficult Conversations<br>09:44 Avoiding Discomfort and Its Costs<br>14:22 "Facing Difficult Conversations"<br>17:12 "Listening Over Agenda"<br>22:02 "Parenting and Tough Conversations"<br>24:55 "Commit to Hard Conversations"<br>29:10 "Leveraging Growth for Success"<br>31:28 "Schedule, Commit, and Act"<br>35:55 "Overcoming Avoidance Through Action"<br>36:56 "Decide, Act, and Grow"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Hard conversations, Avoidance, Courage, Listening, Vulnerability, Self-awareness, Fear of rejection, Conflict, Preparation, Family dynamics, Business leadership, Taking action, Procrastination, Personal growth, Scheduling</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>183. 3 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Tension</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Feeling overwhelmed by holiday chaos? Press play on Episode 183 of the DYL Podcast and let stress melt away! Join host Adam Gragg with guest Troy Trussell as they swap real stories, unfiltered advice, and a few laughs about surviving, and thriving, during family gatherings.</p><p>Discover three game-changing tips for tackling tension, setting healthy boundaries, and finding gratitude (even when your sister has an epic Dutch Bros coffee meltdown!). Learn how to switch from “problem mode” to an opportunity mindset, focus on what you can control, and level up your self-care, all while keeping your cool in the lion’s den of holiday drama.</p><p>With vulnerable moments, relatable family tales, and practical insights, this episode is your go-to guide for turning dreaded get-togethers into moments of connection and growth. Tune in and unlock the secret to a stress-proof, joy-filled season.</p><p>Don’t let drama hijack your holidays—listen now and decide your legacy!</p><p>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout">Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Course</a><br>Shatterproof Yourself helps you break free from anxiety, build lasting confidence, and overcome the fears that hold you back. This video offers powerful insights into using "self reflection" to assess your actions and foster "personal growth". By asking yourself what advice you'd give to others, you cultivate "self awareness" and a stronger "mindset", leading to valuable "life lessons". This simple yet profound exercise in "asking for advice" ensures "positive thinking" and consistency in your principles.</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br></a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Advice You'd Give Yourself"<br>04:10 "Embracing Positive Family Time"<br>08:24 "Serenity Prayer in Action"<br>12:19 Resolving Conflict Through Communication<br>14:07 "Self-Care and Support Strategies"<br>16:27 "Holiday Tools for Stress Relief"</p><p>Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy nobody else.</p><p>#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Feeling overwhelmed by holiday chaos? Press play on Episode 183 of the DYL Podcast and let stress melt away! Join host Adam Gragg with guest Troy Trussell as they swap real stories, unfiltered advice, and a few laughs about surviving, and thriving, during family gatherings.</p><p>Discover three game-changing tips for tackling tension, setting healthy boundaries, and finding gratitude (even when your sister has an epic Dutch Bros coffee meltdown!). Learn how to switch from “problem mode” to an opportunity mindset, focus on what you can control, and level up your self-care, all while keeping your cool in the lion’s den of holiday drama.</p><p>With vulnerable moments, relatable family tales, and practical insights, this episode is your go-to guide for turning dreaded get-togethers into moments of connection and growth. Tune in and unlock the secret to a stress-proof, joy-filled season.</p><p>Don’t let drama hijack your holidays—listen now and decide your legacy!</p><p>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout">Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Course</a><br>Shatterproof Yourself helps you break free from anxiety, build lasting confidence, and overcome the fears that hold you back. This video offers powerful insights into using "self reflection" to assess your actions and foster "personal growth". By asking yourself what advice you'd give to others, you cultivate "self awareness" and a stronger "mindset", leading to valuable "life lessons". This simple yet profound exercise in "asking for advice" ensures "positive thinking" and consistency in your principles.</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br></a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Advice You'd Give Yourself"<br>04:10 "Embracing Positive Family Time"<br>08:24 "Serenity Prayer in Action"<br>12:19 Resolving Conflict Through Communication<br>14:07 "Self-Care and Support Strategies"<br>16:27 "Holiday Tools for Stress Relief"</p><p>Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy nobody else.</p><p>#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1160</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Feeling overwhelmed by holiday chaos? Press play on Episode 183 of the DYL Podcast and let stress melt away! Join host Adam Gragg with guest Troy Trussell as they swap real stories, unfiltered advice, and a few laughs about surviving, and thriving, during family gatherings.</p><p>Discover three game-changing tips for tackling tension, setting healthy boundaries, and finding gratitude (even when your sister has an epic Dutch Bros coffee meltdown!). Learn how to switch from “problem mode” to an opportunity mindset, focus on what you can control, and level up your self-care, all while keeping your cool in the lion’s den of holiday drama.</p><p>With vulnerable moments, relatable family tales, and practical insights, this episode is your go-to guide for turning dreaded get-togethers into moments of connection and growth. Tune in and unlock the secret to a stress-proof, joy-filled season.</p><p>Don’t let drama hijack your holidays—listen now and decide your legacy!</p><p>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout">Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Course</a><br>Shatterproof Yourself helps you break free from anxiety, build lasting confidence, and overcome the fears that hold you back. This video offers powerful insights into using "self reflection" to assess your actions and foster "personal growth". By asking yourself what advice you'd give to others, you cultivate "self awareness" and a stronger "mindset", leading to valuable "life lessons". This simple yet profound exercise in "asking for advice" ensures "positive thinking" and consistency in your principles.</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br></a></p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Advice You'd Give Yourself"<br>04:10 "Embracing Positive Family Time"<br>08:24 "Serenity Prayer in Action"<br>12:19 Resolving Conflict Through Communication<br>14:07 "Self-Care and Support Strategies"<br>16:27 "Holiday Tools for Stress Relief"</p><p>Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy nobody else.</p><p>#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Holiday stress, Family dynamics, Boundaries, Conflict resolution, Opportunity mindset, Gratitude, Self-care, Nicotine addiction, Sibling tension, Communication, Rage moments, Personal growth, Courageous conversations, Legacy, Action steps</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>182. Connecting with People</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the magic of meaningful conversation with Episode 182 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the art of Connecting With People—just in time for holidays, work parties, and real-life interactions that matter.</p><p>Discover three powerful tools to spark instant connection, even in the most challenging relationships. Learn how courageous conversations, sincere apologies, and adding genuine value can transform your friendships, family dynamics, and professional circles.</p><p>Feeling anxious about that upcoming get-together? Adam Gragg shares his personal blueprint for overcoming discomfort and building bridges, even when conflict rears its head. Plus, get his four must-ask questions guaranteed to break the ice and deepen relationships at any gathering.</p><p>Ready to turn awkward small talk into memorable moments? Don’t miss this episode—connection starts with you, and the ripple effect is life-changing.</p><p>Tune in now and start creating the legacy you want to be remembered for!</p><p>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout">Shatterproof Yourself LITE</a> - *FREE* Mini Course</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Connecting Through Holiday Interactions"<br>05:49 Healthy Relationships Require Humility<br>08:21 "Intentional Connection Over Avoidance"<br>12:36 "Near-Death Experiences and Childhood Memories"<br>13:28 Openness Leads to Healthier Connections</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the magic of meaningful conversation with Episode 182 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the art of Connecting With People—just in time for holidays, work parties, and real-life interactions that matter.</p><p>Discover three powerful tools to spark instant connection, even in the most challenging relationships. Learn how courageous conversations, sincere apologies, and adding genuine value can transform your friendships, family dynamics, and professional circles.</p><p>Feeling anxious about that upcoming get-together? Adam Gragg shares his personal blueprint for overcoming discomfort and building bridges, even when conflict rears its head. Plus, get his four must-ask questions guaranteed to break the ice and deepen relationships at any gathering.</p><p>Ready to turn awkward small talk into memorable moments? Don’t miss this episode—connection starts with you, and the ripple effect is life-changing.</p><p>Tune in now and start creating the legacy you want to be remembered for!</p><p>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout">Shatterproof Yourself LITE</a> - *FREE* Mini Course</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Connecting Through Holiday Interactions"<br>05:49 Healthy Relationships Require Humility<br>08:21 "Intentional Connection Over Avoidance"<br>12:36 "Near-Death Experiences and Childhood Memories"<br>13:28 Openness Leads to Healthier Connections</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1027</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the magic of meaningful conversation with Episode 182 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the art of Connecting With People—just in time for holidays, work parties, and real-life interactions that matter.</p><p>Discover three powerful tools to spark instant connection, even in the most challenging relationships. Learn how courageous conversations, sincere apologies, and adding genuine value can transform your friendships, family dynamics, and professional circles.</p><p>Feeling anxious about that upcoming get-together? Adam Gragg shares his personal blueprint for overcoming discomfort and building bridges, even when conflict rears its head. Plus, get his four must-ask questions guaranteed to break the ice and deepen relationships at any gathering.</p><p>Ready to turn awkward small talk into memorable moments? Don’t miss this episode—connection starts with you, and the ripple effect is life-changing.</p><p>Tune in now and start creating the legacy you want to be remembered for!</p><p>RESOURCES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout">Shatterproof Yourself LITE</a> - *FREE* Mini Course</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Connecting Through Holiday Interactions"<br>05:49 Healthy Relationships Require Humility<br>08:21 "Intentional Connection Over Avoidance"<br>12:36 "Near-Death Experiences and Childhood Memories"<br>13:28 Openness Leads to Healthier Connections</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Vacations, Holidays, Anxiety, Conflict, Connection, Game plan, Apology, Courageous conversations, Leadership, Vulnerability, Adding value, Forgiveness, Encouragement, Emotional openness, Legacy</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>181. How to Ask Yourself Great Questions</title>
      <itunes:episode>181</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to life-changing self-discovery in the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg in Episode 181 as he reveals the three powerful questions that can ignite your mindset, supercharge your confidence, and shatter the harmful beliefs holding you back.</p><p>Ready to rewrite your story? Adam Gragg will teach you how to ask yourself the questions that the brain simply can’t ignore. This will begin opening doors to personal clarity, bold vision, and deep-rooted self-truth. Whether you’re craving better relationships, unstoppable confidence, or freedom from self-doubt, this episode will give you the tools to step into your most courageous self.</p><p>Don’t just listen—take action! Tune in now and discover how one small question can spark your greatest transformation. Your legacy starts today!</p><p>The human brain responds uniquely to questions. Discover how effective "self questioning" can lead to significant "mindset shifts" and foster incredible "personal growth". This video offers practical "life advice" for "self improvement" by using your brain's natural tendencies.</p><p>RESOURCES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Leadership Through Reflection &amp; Gratitude"<br>04:21 "Imagining Unlimited Self-Confidence"<br>07:26 "Defining Actions for Progress"<br>11:47 "Transform Through Truth and Action"</p><p>Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy—nobody else.</p><p>#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to life-changing self-discovery in the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg in Episode 181 as he reveals the three powerful questions that can ignite your mindset, supercharge your confidence, and shatter the harmful beliefs holding you back.</p><p>Ready to rewrite your story? Adam Gragg will teach you how to ask yourself the questions that the brain simply can’t ignore. This will begin opening doors to personal clarity, bold vision, and deep-rooted self-truth. Whether you’re craving better relationships, unstoppable confidence, or freedom from self-doubt, this episode will give you the tools to step into your most courageous self.</p><p>Don’t just listen—take action! Tune in now and discover how one small question can spark your greatest transformation. Your legacy starts today!</p><p>The human brain responds uniquely to questions. Discover how effective "self questioning" can lead to significant "mindset shifts" and foster incredible "personal growth". This video offers practical "life advice" for "self improvement" by using your brain's natural tendencies.</p><p>RESOURCES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Leadership Through Reflection &amp; Gratitude"<br>04:21 "Imagining Unlimited Self-Confidence"<br>07:26 "Defining Actions for Progress"<br>11:47 "Transform Through Truth and Action"</p><p>Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy—nobody else.</p><p>#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2025 22:17:39 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to life-changing self-discovery in the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg in Episode 181 as he reveals the three powerful questions that can ignite your mindset, supercharge your confidence, and shatter the harmful beliefs holding you back.</p><p>Ready to rewrite your story? Adam Gragg will teach you how to ask yourself the questions that the brain simply can’t ignore. This will begin opening doors to personal clarity, bold vision, and deep-rooted self-truth. Whether you’re craving better relationships, unstoppable confidence, or freedom from self-doubt, this episode will give you the tools to step into your most courageous self.</p><p>Don’t just listen—take action! Tune in now and discover how one small question can spark your greatest transformation. Your legacy starts today!</p><p>The human brain responds uniquely to questions. Discover how effective "self questioning" can lead to significant "mindset shifts" and foster incredible "personal growth". This video offers practical "life advice" for "self improvement" by using your brain's natural tendencies.</p><p>RESOURCES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>CHAPTERS:<br>00:00 "Leadership Through Reflection &amp; Gratitude"<br>04:21 "Imagining Unlimited Self-Confidence"<br>07:26 "Defining Actions for Progress"<br>11:47 "Transform Through Truth and Action"</p><p>Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy—nobody else.</p><p>#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Mindset shifts, Self-confidence, Journaling, Personal growth, Leadership, Influence, Vision, Goal setting, Gratitude, Self-belief, Lies vs. Truth, Misalignment, Behavioral transformation, Action vs. Insight, Legacy</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>180. Three Practical Steps to Overcome Anger and Transform Your Life</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to overcoming anger in Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he dives headfirst into those fiery moments we all face, and turns them into opportunities for growth. Ever felt your blood boil over a holiday drama or at the office? You’re not alone! Discover why anger really shows up, what’s hiding beneath it, and the three powerful actions you can take today to reclaim control.</p><p><br>From wild tales of flying pen holders and kitchen knives, to honest confessions about facing fear, this episode is packed with relatable stories, laugh-out-loud insights, and practical tools to help you cool the flames before they burn bridges. Learn how externalizing your anger, digging into your hidden fears, and leaning on your “monkeys", those trusted friends, can set you free.</p><p>Ready to transform your frustration into confidence, gratitude, and lasting change? Listen now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for. Don’t miss out—your courage upgrade begins here!</p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><br>00:00 "Managing Anger and Expectations"</p><p>03:35 "Accepting the Uncontrollable"</p><p>08:20 "Unpacking and Addressing Fears"</p><p>10:23 "Overcoming Fear and Anger"</p><p>15:30 "Perspective on Wealth and Life"</p><p>18:01 "Fighting for Gratitude"</p><p>20:34 "Overcoming Anger and Legacy"</p><p>Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who could use help managing anger!</p><p><strong>Live the life today that you want to be remembered for 10 years after you’re gone—you decide your legacy!</strong></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to overcoming anger in Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he dives headfirst into those fiery moments we all face, and turns them into opportunities for growth. Ever felt your blood boil over a holiday drama or at the office? You’re not alone! Discover why anger really shows up, what’s hiding beneath it, and the three powerful actions you can take today to reclaim control.</p><p><br>From wild tales of flying pen holders and kitchen knives, to honest confessions about facing fear, this episode is packed with relatable stories, laugh-out-loud insights, and practical tools to help you cool the flames before they burn bridges. Learn how externalizing your anger, digging into your hidden fears, and leaning on your “monkeys", those trusted friends, can set you free.</p><p>Ready to transform your frustration into confidence, gratitude, and lasting change? Listen now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for. Don’t miss out—your courage upgrade begins here!</p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><br>00:00 "Managing Anger and Expectations"</p><p>03:35 "Accepting the Uncontrollable"</p><p>08:20 "Unpacking and Addressing Fears"</p><p>10:23 "Overcoming Fear and Anger"</p><p>15:30 "Perspective on Wealth and Life"</p><p>18:01 "Fighting for Gratitude"</p><p>20:34 "Overcoming Anger and Legacy"</p><p>Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who could use help managing anger!</p><p><strong>Live the life today that you want to be remembered for 10 years after you’re gone—you decide your legacy!</strong></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to overcoming anger in Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he dives headfirst into those fiery moments we all face, and turns them into opportunities for growth. Ever felt your blood boil over a holiday drama or at the office? You’re not alone! Discover why anger really shows up, what’s hiding beneath it, and the three powerful actions you can take today to reclaim control.</p><p><br>From wild tales of flying pen holders and kitchen knives, to honest confessions about facing fear, this episode is packed with relatable stories, laugh-out-loud insights, and practical tools to help you cool the flames before they burn bridges. Learn how externalizing your anger, digging into your hidden fears, and leaning on your “monkeys", those trusted friends, can set you free.</p><p>Ready to transform your frustration into confidence, gratitude, and lasting change? Listen now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for. Don’t miss out—your courage upgrade begins here!</p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><br>00:00 "Managing Anger and Expectations"</p><p>03:35 "Accepting the Uncontrollable"</p><p>08:20 "Unpacking and Addressing Fears"</p><p>10:23 "Overcoming Fear and Anger"</p><p>15:30 "Perspective on Wealth and Life"</p><p>18:01 "Fighting for Gratitude"</p><p>20:34 "Overcoming Anger and Legacy"</p><p>Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who could use help managing anger!</p><p><strong>Live the life today that you want to be remembered for 10 years after you’re gone—you decide your legacy!</strong></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Anger, Fear, Ego, Self, Externalization, Perspective, Coping mechanisms, Control, Unrealistic expectations, Communication, Resentment, Gratitude, Mindset, Relationships, Emotional health</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>179. Make Gratitude a Habit in Your Life and Work</title>
      <itunes:episode>179</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret superpower behind bold leadership, gratitude! In Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with purpose-driven business leader Ben Hutton for a refreshingly real, fast-paced journey into the messy, courageous world of thankfulness. Are you tired of stress killing your creativity? Want to break the cycle of negativity and step into abundance? This episode throws open the vault of practical tips, personal stories, and, wait for it, worksheets that can supercharge your mindset and fuel actionable change.</p><p>Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader needs to make to keep gratitude at the center of life, work, and relationships. Hear how Ben Hutton cracked the code to staying present, transforming team culture, and fighting resistance to positivity, even on the construction site! This conversation doesn’t just make you feel good; it arms you for growth, resilience, and lasting impact.</p><p>Listen now to spark joy, crush comparison, banish perfectionism, and ignite bolder action. You’ll leave with an actionable plan you can use TODAY. Dare to be the leader who lives—and leaves—a legacy of gratitude. Dive in, and decide your legacy!</p><p>Contact Ben Hutton and the With Purpose Podcast:<br>https://benhutton.com/withpurpose/</p><p><b>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/25-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25</strong> Gratitude Questions to Stay Positive</a></b></p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Three Key Decisions Discussion"</p><p>05:41 "Working at Gratitude"</p><p>08:40 "Schedule Gratitude for Consistency"</p><p>10:43 Building Connection Through Gratitude</p><p>14:19 Gratitude and Life's Wake-Up Call</p><p>19:44 "Gratitude Brings Present Focus"</p><p>23:17 Practicing Gratitude Through Actions</p><p>26:19 "Finding Myself in Leadership"</p><p>27:31 "Leadership Reset and Self-Discovery"</p><p>32:56 "Choose Greatness Through Agency"</p><p>34:55 Weekly Planner for Prioritization</p><p>37:08 "Real Friends Amid Divorce"</p><p>Don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations on leadership, growth, and living your legacy!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret superpower behind bold leadership, gratitude! In Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with purpose-driven business leader Ben Hutton for a refreshingly real, fast-paced journey into the messy, courageous world of thankfulness. Are you tired of stress killing your creativity? Want to break the cycle of negativity and step into abundance? This episode throws open the vault of practical tips, personal stories, and, wait for it, worksheets that can supercharge your mindset and fuel actionable change.</p><p>Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader needs to make to keep gratitude at the center of life, work, and relationships. Hear how Ben Hutton cracked the code to staying present, transforming team culture, and fighting resistance to positivity, even on the construction site! This conversation doesn’t just make you feel good; it arms you for growth, resilience, and lasting impact.</p><p>Listen now to spark joy, crush comparison, banish perfectionism, and ignite bolder action. You’ll leave with an actionable plan you can use TODAY. Dare to be the leader who lives—and leaves—a legacy of gratitude. Dive in, and decide your legacy!</p><p>Contact Ben Hutton and the With Purpose Podcast:<br>https://benhutton.com/withpurpose/</p><p><b>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/25-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25</strong> Gratitude Questions to Stay Positive</a></b></p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Three Key Decisions Discussion"</p><p>05:41 "Working at Gratitude"</p><p>08:40 "Schedule Gratitude for Consistency"</p><p>10:43 Building Connection Through Gratitude</p><p>14:19 Gratitude and Life's Wake-Up Call</p><p>19:44 "Gratitude Brings Present Focus"</p><p>23:17 Practicing Gratitude Through Actions</p><p>26:19 "Finding Myself in Leadership"</p><p>27:31 "Leadership Reset and Self-Discovery"</p><p>32:56 "Choose Greatness Through Agency"</p><p>34:55 Weekly Planner for Prioritization</p><p>37:08 "Real Friends Amid Divorce"</p><p>Don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations on leadership, growth, and living your legacy!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret superpower behind bold leadership, gratitude! In Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with purpose-driven business leader Ben Hutton for a refreshingly real, fast-paced journey into the messy, courageous world of thankfulness. Are you tired of stress killing your creativity? Want to break the cycle of negativity and step into abundance? This episode throws open the vault of practical tips, personal stories, and, wait for it, worksheets that can supercharge your mindset and fuel actionable change.</p><p>Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader needs to make to keep gratitude at the center of life, work, and relationships. Hear how Ben Hutton cracked the code to staying present, transforming team culture, and fighting resistance to positivity, even on the construction site! This conversation doesn’t just make you feel good; it arms you for growth, resilience, and lasting impact.</p><p>Listen now to spark joy, crush comparison, banish perfectionism, and ignite bolder action. You’ll leave with an actionable plan you can use TODAY. Dare to be the leader who lives—and leaves—a legacy of gratitude. Dive in, and decide your legacy!</p><p>Contact Ben Hutton and the With Purpose Podcast:<br>https://benhutton.com/withpurpose/</p><p><b>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/25-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25</strong> Gratitude Questions to Stay Positive</a></b></p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Three Key Decisions Discussion"</p><p>05:41 "Working at Gratitude"</p><p>08:40 "Schedule Gratitude for Consistency"</p><p>10:43 Building Connection Through Gratitude</p><p>14:19 Gratitude and Life's Wake-Up Call</p><p>19:44 "Gratitude Brings Present Focus"</p><p>23:17 Practicing Gratitude Through Actions</p><p>26:19 "Finding Myself in Leadership"</p><p>27:31 "Leadership Reset and Self-Discovery"</p><p>32:56 "Choose Greatness Through Agency"</p><p>34:55 Weekly Planner for Prioritization</p><p>37:08 "Real Friends Amid Divorce"</p><p>Don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations on leadership, growth, and living your legacy!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>178. Finding Balance: Purpose, Surrender, and Structure for a Fulfilling Life</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to leave burnout and chaos behind? Tune in to Episode 178 of the DYL Podcast where host Adam Gragg teams up with Legacy Coaches Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson for a lively, honest, and practical dive into the secret sauce of living a well-balanced life.</p><p>Discover how purpose adds fuel to your happiness, why surrender is your superpower, and how structure can turn your wild garden of life into a blooming masterpiece. Laugh along with stories of accidental wisdom and honest struggles, get real-life tips for tackling perfectionism, and find out how simple rituals and small tweaks can transform your relationships, energy, and joy, at work and at home.</p><p>Don’t wait until you’re 80 to figure out what matters! Join the DYL Podcast and start making bold, balanced moves today. Listen now for practical tools, heartfelt stories, and a contagious dose of courage to help you decide, and live, your legacy.</p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>00:00 "Finding Balance in Life"</p><p>03:33 Struggling with Balance</p><p>06:18 "Adding Purpose to Your Life"</p><p>12:02 "Rigid Thinking and Life Balance"</p><p>14:29 "You Don't Have to Worry"</p><p>16:57 Tornado Facts and Clarity</p><p>19:07 Embracing Life's Shades of Gray</p><p>22:32 "Set Goals, Find Focus"</p><p>25:45 "Structuring Life for Balance"</p><p>28:47 "Lifelong Commitment to Scheduling"</p><p>32:27 "Decide Your Legacy Today"</p><p>Like, subscribe, and share. Leave us a review and tell us one action you’ll take for better balance today!</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/"><br></a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to leave burnout and chaos behind? Tune in to Episode 178 of the DYL Podcast where host Adam Gragg teams up with Legacy Coaches Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson for a lively, honest, and practical dive into the secret sauce of living a well-balanced life.</p><p>Discover how purpose adds fuel to your happiness, why surrender is your superpower, and how structure can turn your wild garden of life into a blooming masterpiece. Laugh along with stories of accidental wisdom and honest struggles, get real-life tips for tackling perfectionism, and find out how simple rituals and small tweaks can transform your relationships, energy, and joy, at work and at home.</p><p>Don’t wait until you’re 80 to figure out what matters! Join the DYL Podcast and start making bold, balanced moves today. Listen now for practical tools, heartfelt stories, and a contagious dose of courage to help you decide, and live, your legacy.</p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>00:00 "Finding Balance in Life"</p><p>03:33 Struggling with Balance</p><p>06:18 "Adding Purpose to Your Life"</p><p>12:02 "Rigid Thinking and Life Balance"</p><p>14:29 "You Don't Have to Worry"</p><p>16:57 Tornado Facts and Clarity</p><p>19:07 Embracing Life's Shades of Gray</p><p>22:32 "Set Goals, Find Focus"</p><p>25:45 "Structuring Life for Balance"</p><p>28:47 "Lifelong Commitment to Scheduling"</p><p>32:27 "Decide Your Legacy Today"</p><p>Like, subscribe, and share. Leave us a review and tell us one action you’ll take for better balance today!</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/"><br></a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to leave burnout and chaos behind? Tune in to Episode 178 of the DYL Podcast where host Adam Gragg teams up with Legacy Coaches Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson for a lively, honest, and practical dive into the secret sauce of living a well-balanced life.</p><p>Discover how purpose adds fuel to your happiness, why surrender is your superpower, and how structure can turn your wild garden of life into a blooming masterpiece. Laugh along with stories of accidental wisdom and honest struggles, get real-life tips for tackling perfectionism, and find out how simple rituals and small tweaks can transform your relationships, energy, and joy, at work and at home.</p><p>Don’t wait until you’re 80 to figure out what matters! Join the DYL Podcast and start making bold, balanced moves today. Listen now for practical tools, heartfelt stories, and a contagious dose of courage to help you decide, and live, your legacy.</p><p>Click Here ➡️ <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself Light Course</a></p><p><br></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br></a><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>00:00 "Finding Balance in Life"</p><p>03:33 Struggling with Balance</p><p>06:18 "Adding Purpose to Your Life"</p><p>12:02 "Rigid Thinking and Life Balance"</p><p>14:29 "You Don't Have to Worry"</p><p>16:57 Tornado Facts and Clarity</p><p>19:07 Embracing Life's Shades of Gray</p><p>22:32 "Set Goals, Find Focus"</p><p>25:45 "Structuring Life for Balance"</p><p>28:47 "Lifelong Commitment to Scheduling"</p><p>32:27 "Decide Your Legacy Today"</p><p>Like, subscribe, and share. Leave us a review and tell us one action you’ll take for better balance today!</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/"><br></a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Purpose, Balance, Surrender, Rigidity, Control, Perfectionism, Relationships, Structure, Goal-setting, Influence, Self-reflection, Mental health, Flexibility, Escapism, Habit formation</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#177. Three Strategic Decision-Making Tips Every Leader Needs for Clarity and Impact</title>
      <itunes:episode>177</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to fearless decision-making with Episode 177 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they blast through the myths of perfection and hesitation, serving up three sizzling tips to help you make strategic decisions with confidence.</p><p>Struggling with analysis paralysis? Haunted by the pursuit of the “perfect choice”? Discover why clarity beats certainty, how decisions are really part of dynamic systems (not isolated events!), and why your emotions might just be the secret ingredient to bold leadership. Whether you’re a CEO, a parent, or figuring out your next move in life, this episode shows you how to break free from indecision and lead with courage.</p><p>Tune in for real stories, practical wisdom, and a dash of humor—a surefire way to make every choice count. Take action, change your mindset, and finally move forward with decisions that build your legacy.</p><p>Ready to stop second-guessing and start living bravely? Hit play now—your future self will thank you!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Community Leadership and Legacy Insights<br>05:51 Clarity in Decision-Making<br>09:28 Clarity Beats Certainty<br>10:03 Letting Go of Perfection<br>13:45 "Pause After Religious Experiences"<br>16:45 Leadership Reflection and Improvement<br>21:51 Emotion: Friend, Not Master<br>23:58 Mastering Emotions Over Impulses<br>28:22 "Take Action, Share Impact"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to fearless decision-making with Episode 177 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they blast through the myths of perfection and hesitation, serving up three sizzling tips to help you make strategic decisions with confidence.</p><p>Struggling with analysis paralysis? Haunted by the pursuit of the “perfect choice”? Discover why clarity beats certainty, how decisions are really part of dynamic systems (not isolated events!), and why your emotions might just be the secret ingredient to bold leadership. Whether you’re a CEO, a parent, or figuring out your next move in life, this episode shows you how to break free from indecision and lead with courage.</p><p>Tune in for real stories, practical wisdom, and a dash of humor—a surefire way to make every choice count. Take action, change your mindset, and finally move forward with decisions that build your legacy.</p><p>Ready to stop second-guessing and start living bravely? Hit play now—your future self will thank you!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Community Leadership and Legacy Insights<br>05:51 Clarity in Decision-Making<br>09:28 Clarity Beats Certainty<br>10:03 Letting Go of Perfection<br>13:45 "Pause After Religious Experiences"<br>16:45 Leadership Reflection and Improvement<br>21:51 Emotion: Friend, Not Master<br>23:58 Mastering Emotions Over Impulses<br>28:22 "Take Action, Share Impact"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1813</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to fearless decision-making with Episode 177 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they blast through the myths of perfection and hesitation, serving up three sizzling tips to help you make strategic decisions with confidence.</p><p>Struggling with analysis paralysis? Haunted by the pursuit of the “perfect choice”? Discover why clarity beats certainty, how decisions are really part of dynamic systems (not isolated events!), and why your emotions might just be the secret ingredient to bold leadership. Whether you’re a CEO, a parent, or figuring out your next move in life, this episode shows you how to break free from indecision and lead with courage.</p><p>Tune in for real stories, practical wisdom, and a dash of humor—a surefire way to make every choice count. Take action, change your mindset, and finally move forward with decisions that build your legacy.</p><p>Ready to stop second-guessing and start living bravely? Hit play now—your future self will thank you!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Community Leadership and Legacy Insights<br>05:51 Clarity in Decision-Making<br>09:28 Clarity Beats Certainty<br>10:03 Letting Go of Perfection<br>13:45 "Pause After Religious Experiences"<br>16:45 Leadership Reflection and Improvement<br>21:51 Emotion: Friend, Not Master<br>23:58 Mastering Emotions Over Impulses<br>28:22 "Take Action, Share Impact"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Clarity beats certainty, Decision making, Perfectionism, Risk-taking, Analysis paralysis, Ambiguity, Anxiety, Leadership, Systems, Values, Emotional intelligence, Self-reflection, Spontaneity, Legacy, Professional vs. Amateur</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#176. The Power of Journaling: Leadership, Reflection, and Growth with Nick Bertram</title>
      <itunes:episode>176</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>176</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#176. The Power of Journaling: Leadership, Reflection, and Growth with Nick Bertram</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret superpower of self-reflection with Episode 176 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Nick Bertram, a seasoned leader and four-year journaling enthusiast, as they explore the transformative magic of journaling. Discover how putting pen to paper doesn’t just organize your thoughts, but clears mental clutter, sparks gratitude, and even revitalizes your leadership and relationships.</p><p>Ever wondered how great leaders cultivate self-awareness and tackle life’s messiness? It’s time to learn their not-so-secret weapon! Whether you’re a journaling newbie or a seasoned scribbler, this episode is packed with honest stories, practical tips, and laugh-out-loud moments that will inspire you to start your own journey—and give yourself some grace along the way.</p><p>Ready to find clarity, stress less, and reconnect with what matters most? Pop in your earbuds, grab your favorite notebook, and get ready to write your way to a better you. Press play now—your legacy is waiting!</p><p>This episode shows the impact of leadership and how self improvement can enhance your abilities. Great leaders intentionally practice self awareness and seek feedback through coaching. Developing these leadership skills and undergoing leadership training are crucial components of personal growth.</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 "Journaling for Leadership Insight"<br>05:43 Journaling to Clarify Emotions<br>06:52 "Journaling: A Lifelong Habit"<br>09:40 Evening Reflections and Simplicity<br>16:31 Organizing for Clarity and Stress Relief<br>19:53 Shift Toward Positive Journaling<br>23:39 "Start Gratitude Journaling"<br>24:41 "Journaling for Problem-Solving"<br>28:44 Journaling Sparks Growth<br>31:27 Reflecting Through Writing<br>34:50 Nick’s Journey: Mean to Friendly</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret superpower of self-reflection with Episode 176 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Nick Bertram, a seasoned leader and four-year journaling enthusiast, as they explore the transformative magic of journaling. Discover how putting pen to paper doesn’t just organize your thoughts, but clears mental clutter, sparks gratitude, and even revitalizes your leadership and relationships.</p><p>Ever wondered how great leaders cultivate self-awareness and tackle life’s messiness? It’s time to learn their not-so-secret weapon! Whether you’re a journaling newbie or a seasoned scribbler, this episode is packed with honest stories, practical tips, and laugh-out-loud moments that will inspire you to start your own journey—and give yourself some grace along the way.</p><p>Ready to find clarity, stress less, and reconnect with what matters most? Pop in your earbuds, grab your favorite notebook, and get ready to write your way to a better you. Press play now—your legacy is waiting!</p><p>This episode shows the impact of leadership and how self improvement can enhance your abilities. Great leaders intentionally practice self awareness and seek feedback through coaching. Developing these leadership skills and undergoing leadership training are crucial components of personal growth.</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 "Journaling for Leadership Insight"<br>05:43 Journaling to Clarify Emotions<br>06:52 "Journaling: A Lifelong Habit"<br>09:40 Evening Reflections and Simplicity<br>16:31 Organizing for Clarity and Stress Relief<br>19:53 Shift Toward Positive Journaling<br>23:39 "Start Gratitude Journaling"<br>24:41 "Journaling for Problem-Solving"<br>28:44 Journaling Sparks Growth<br>31:27 Reflecting Through Writing<br>34:50 Nick’s Journey: Mean to Friendly</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2189</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret superpower of self-reflection with Episode 176 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Nick Bertram, a seasoned leader and four-year journaling enthusiast, as they explore the transformative magic of journaling. Discover how putting pen to paper doesn’t just organize your thoughts, but clears mental clutter, sparks gratitude, and even revitalizes your leadership and relationships.</p><p>Ever wondered how great leaders cultivate self-awareness and tackle life’s messiness? It’s time to learn their not-so-secret weapon! Whether you’re a journaling newbie or a seasoned scribbler, this episode is packed with honest stories, practical tips, and laugh-out-loud moments that will inspire you to start your own journey—and give yourself some grace along the way.</p><p>Ready to find clarity, stress less, and reconnect with what matters most? Pop in your earbuds, grab your favorite notebook, and get ready to write your way to a better you. Press play now—your legacy is waiting!</p><p>This episode shows the impact of leadership and how self improvement can enhance your abilities. Great leaders intentionally practice self awareness and seek feedback through coaching. Developing these leadership skills and undergoing leadership training are crucial components of personal growth.</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Course<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 "Journaling for Leadership Insight"<br>05:43 Journaling to Clarify Emotions<br>06:52 "Journaling: A Lifelong Habit"<br>09:40 Evening Reflections and Simplicity<br>16:31 Organizing for Clarity and Stress Relief<br>19:53 Shift Toward Positive Journaling<br>23:39 "Start Gratitude Journaling"<br>24:41 "Journaling for Problem-Solving"<br>28:44 Journaling Sparks Growth<br>31:27 Reflecting Through Writing<br>34:50 Nick’s Journey: Mean to Friendly</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Journaling, Self-awareness, Leadership, Reflection, Gratitude, Consistency, Mental health, Workaholism, Personal growth, Vulnerability, Routine, Feedback, Emotional honesty, Change, Stress management</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#175. Four Ways Leaders Can Stop Giving Away Their Power and Take Charge of Their Legacy</title>
      <itunes:episode>175</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to reclaim your power and supercharge your leadership? Don’t miss Episode 175 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg gets real about the sneaky ways we give our power away to emotions, fears, and even the outcome of a lobster dinner! Adam breaks down the everyday traps—from that tough conversation you’re avoiding to letting a bad day hijack your mood—and hands you the keys to take your power back.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why your thoughts, emotions, responses, and actions are the real game-changers</li><li>How to stop ruminating and start acting with intention</li><li>The simple daily habits that put you back in the driver’s seat of your life</li><li>Strategies to face your fears, crush avoidance, and lead yourself (and others!) with confidence</li></ul><p>Plus, you’ll laugh, learn, and walk away inspired to tackle whatever you might be giving your power to right now.</p><p>Listen now and discover the liberating truth: you get to decide your legacy, no one else!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Face Fears, Teach Lessons"</p><p>05:09 "Beliefs, Power, and Choice"</p><p>08:17 "Managing Thoughts Through Positivity"</p><p>12:22 Cycle of Worry and Control</p><p>15:28 Facing Rejection and Self-Awareness</p><p>17:17 "Empower Your Mental Health"</p><p>22:12 "Preparing for Emotional Responses"</p><p>25:57 "Keep Commitments, No Excuses"</p><p>28:01 "Building Habits Through Routine"</p><p>29:44 "Insight vs Action: Take Risks"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to reclaim your power and supercharge your leadership? Don’t miss Episode 175 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg gets real about the sneaky ways we give our power away to emotions, fears, and even the outcome of a lobster dinner! Adam breaks down the everyday traps—from that tough conversation you’re avoiding to letting a bad day hijack your mood—and hands you the keys to take your power back.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why your thoughts, emotions, responses, and actions are the real game-changers</li><li>How to stop ruminating and start acting with intention</li><li>The simple daily habits that put you back in the driver’s seat of your life</li><li>Strategies to face your fears, crush avoidance, and lead yourself (and others!) with confidence</li></ul><p>Plus, you’ll laugh, learn, and walk away inspired to tackle whatever you might be giving your power to right now.</p><p>Listen now and discover the liberating truth: you get to decide your legacy, no one else!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Face Fears, Teach Lessons"</p><p>05:09 "Beliefs, Power, and Choice"</p><p>08:17 "Managing Thoughts Through Positivity"</p><p>12:22 Cycle of Worry and Control</p><p>15:28 Facing Rejection and Self-Awareness</p><p>17:17 "Empower Your Mental Health"</p><p>22:12 "Preparing for Emotional Responses"</p><p>25:57 "Keep Commitments, No Excuses"</p><p>28:01 "Building Habits Through Routine"</p><p>29:44 "Insight vs Action: Take Risks"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to reclaim your power and supercharge your leadership? Don’t miss Episode 175 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg gets real about the sneaky ways we give our power away to emotions, fears, and even the outcome of a lobster dinner! Adam breaks down the everyday traps—from that tough conversation you’re avoiding to letting a bad day hijack your mood—and hands you the keys to take your power back.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why your thoughts, emotions, responses, and actions are the real game-changers</li><li>How to stop ruminating and start acting with intention</li><li>The simple daily habits that put you back in the driver’s seat of your life</li><li>Strategies to face your fears, crush avoidance, and lead yourself (and others!) with confidence</li></ul><p>Plus, you’ll laugh, learn, and walk away inspired to tackle whatever you might be giving your power to right now.</p><p>Listen now and discover the liberating truth: you get to decide your legacy, no one else!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Face Fears, Teach Lessons"</p><p>05:09 "Beliefs, Power, and Choice"</p><p>08:17 "Managing Thoughts Through Positivity"</p><p>12:22 Cycle of Worry and Control</p><p>15:28 Facing Rejection and Self-Awareness</p><p>17:17 "Empower Your Mental Health"</p><p>22:12 "Preparing for Emotional Responses"</p><p>25:57 "Keep Commitments, No Excuses"</p><p>28:01 "Building Habits Through Routine"</p><p>29:44 "Insight vs Action: Take Risks"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#174. Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down</title>
      <itunes:episode>174</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Feeling rocked? Struggling with self-doubt? In Episode 174 of the DYL Podcast: Shatterproof Yourself with Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down, host Adam Gragg and his compelling co-hosts Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson tackle the secrets of bouncing back from insecurity and regaining your confidence!</p><p>Uncover the seven action-packed steps to rebuild your mojo and become shatterproof, just like the multi-layered glass on a jet! From unleashing your vision to conquering your past, rewriting your perspective, practicing purposeful self-care, and forging rock-solid relationships, Adam and friends break down each tactic with practical stories, humor, and real-life vulnerability.</p><p>This episode is your invitation to face your fears, ditch perfectionism, and embrace radical authenticity. Whether you’re a leader at work, home, or just leading yourself, learn how to shift from stuck to unstoppable. Find out how to build your “monkey list,” why self-care sometimes means getting out of your own head, and why action—not just insight—is the game-changer for personal growth.</p><p>Ready to step into confidence and courage? Hit play and let DYL Podcast help you live a legacy worth remembering.</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a><br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 Building Confidence with Expert Insights</p><p>04:45 Build Confidence Through Vision</p><p>07:00 "Roadmap to Success"</p><p>10:18 Self-Awareness Unlocks Personal Growth</p><p>13:34 "Know Your Worth, Be Shatterproof"</p><p>18:52 "Navigating Emotional Health Trailhead"</p><p>22:00 "Confidence Through Selfless Action"</p><p>23:06 "Cutting Distractions, Finding Balance"</p><p>26:10 "Overcome Insecurity Through Connection"</p><p>31:11 "Being There When Needed"</p><p>32:17 "Take Action, Build Confidence"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Feeling rocked? Struggling with self-doubt? In Episode 174 of the DYL Podcast: Shatterproof Yourself with Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down, host Adam Gragg and his compelling co-hosts Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson tackle the secrets of bouncing back from insecurity and regaining your confidence!</p><p>Uncover the seven action-packed steps to rebuild your mojo and become shatterproof, just like the multi-layered glass on a jet! From unleashing your vision to conquering your past, rewriting your perspective, practicing purposeful self-care, and forging rock-solid relationships, Adam and friends break down each tactic with practical stories, humor, and real-life vulnerability.</p><p>This episode is your invitation to face your fears, ditch perfectionism, and embrace radical authenticity. Whether you’re a leader at work, home, or just leading yourself, learn how to shift from stuck to unstoppable. Find out how to build your “monkey list,” why self-care sometimes means getting out of your own head, and why action—not just insight—is the game-changer for personal growth.</p><p>Ready to step into confidence and courage? Hit play and let DYL Podcast help you live a legacy worth remembering.</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a><br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 Building Confidence with Expert Insights</p><p>04:45 Build Confidence Through Vision</p><p>07:00 "Roadmap to Success"</p><p>10:18 Self-Awareness Unlocks Personal Growth</p><p>13:34 "Know Your Worth, Be Shatterproof"</p><p>18:52 "Navigating Emotional Health Trailhead"</p><p>22:00 "Confidence Through Selfless Action"</p><p>23:06 "Cutting Distractions, Finding Balance"</p><p>26:10 "Overcome Insecurity Through Connection"</p><p>31:11 "Being There When Needed"</p><p>32:17 "Take Action, Build Confidence"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Feeling rocked? Struggling with self-doubt? In Episode 174 of the DYL Podcast: Shatterproof Yourself with Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down, host Adam Gragg and his compelling co-hosts Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson tackle the secrets of bouncing back from insecurity and regaining your confidence!</p><p>Uncover the seven action-packed steps to rebuild your mojo and become shatterproof, just like the multi-layered glass on a jet! From unleashing your vision to conquering your past, rewriting your perspective, practicing purposeful self-care, and forging rock-solid relationships, Adam and friends break down each tactic with practical stories, humor, and real-life vulnerability.</p><p>This episode is your invitation to face your fears, ditch perfectionism, and embrace radical authenticity. Whether you’re a leader at work, home, or just leading yourself, learn how to shift from stuck to unstoppable. Find out how to build your “monkey list,” why self-care sometimes means getting out of your own head, and why action—not just insight—is the game-changer for personal growth.</p><p>Ready to step into confidence and courage? Hit play and let DYL Podcast help you live a legacy worth remembering.</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a><br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 Building Confidence with Expert Insights</p><p>04:45 Build Confidence Through Vision</p><p>07:00 "Roadmap to Success"</p><p>10:18 Self-Awareness Unlocks Personal Growth</p><p>13:34 "Know Your Worth, Be Shatterproof"</p><p>18:52 "Navigating Emotional Health Trailhead"</p><p>22:00 "Confidence Through Selfless Action"</p><p>23:06 "Cutting Distractions, Finding Balance"</p><p>26:10 "Overcome Insecurity Through Connection"</p><p>31:11 "Being There When Needed"</p><p>32:17 "Take Action, Build Confidence"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Confidence, Leadership, Vision, Self-care, Facing fears, Emotional health, Authenticity, Insecurity, Growth, Legacy, Schedule, Perspective shift, Relationships, Value, Action steps</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#173. Unlocking Your Listening Superpower: How Leaders Build Connection and Confidence</title>
      <itunes:episode>173</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>173</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#173. Unlocking Your Listening Superpower: How Leaders Build Connection and Confidence</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your leadership superpower in Episode 173 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they reveal the hidden magic of listening, yes, really listening. Discover why listening is not just a skill but your ultimate advantage in business, relationships, and life!</p><p>Are your fears and defenses getting in the way of real connection? Adam and Sherman pull back the curtain on how to get past surface-level chatter, tackle your inner critic, and forge deeper bonds at work and at home. Get ready for raw stories, laughter, and transformational insights that will have you tuned in and turning up your listening skills like never before.</p><p>Stop missing out on the breakthroughs waiting on the other side of silence. Hear how a single courageous conversation can spark growth, boost your confidence, and even turn bad news into new opportunities. Whether you’re leading a team, growing your business, or helping your family thrive, mastering the art of listening is your ticket to lasting impact.</p><p>Don’t just hear—listen, learn, and lead with purpose. Tune in now and start building the legacy you want to be remembered for!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself eCourse<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself<br></a><br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Fear Undermines Effective Listening"</p><p>05:15 "Facing Fears for Confidence"</p><p>06:34 Dreading Asking for Help</p><p>12:38 "Deep Listening Uncovers Core Issues"</p><p>13:26 Facing Core Issues Through Listening</p><p>19:49 "Business Requires Trust and Revenue"</p><p>22:30 <strong>Mastering Sales Objections</strong></p><p>24:07 Managing Defensive Supervisees Calmly</p><p>28:04 "Navigating Change and Connection"</p><p>30:22 "Boost Confidence, Master Listening"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your leadership superpower in Episode 173 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they reveal the hidden magic of listening, yes, really listening. Discover why listening is not just a skill but your ultimate advantage in business, relationships, and life!</p><p>Are your fears and defenses getting in the way of real connection? Adam and Sherman pull back the curtain on how to get past surface-level chatter, tackle your inner critic, and forge deeper bonds at work and at home. Get ready for raw stories, laughter, and transformational insights that will have you tuned in and turning up your listening skills like never before.</p><p>Stop missing out on the breakthroughs waiting on the other side of silence. Hear how a single courageous conversation can spark growth, boost your confidence, and even turn bad news into new opportunities. Whether you’re leading a team, growing your business, or helping your family thrive, mastering the art of listening is your ticket to lasting impact.</p><p>Don’t just hear—listen, learn, and lead with purpose. Tune in now and start building the legacy you want to be remembered for!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself eCourse<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself<br></a><br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Fear Undermines Effective Listening"</p><p>05:15 "Facing Fears for Confidence"</p><p>06:34 Dreading Asking for Help</p><p>12:38 "Deep Listening Uncovers Core Issues"</p><p>13:26 Facing Core Issues Through Listening</p><p>19:49 "Business Requires Trust and Revenue"</p><p>22:30 <strong>Mastering Sales Objections</strong></p><p>24:07 Managing Defensive Supervisees Calmly</p><p>28:04 "Navigating Change and Connection"</p><p>30:22 "Boost Confidence, Master Listening"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your leadership superpower in Episode 173 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they reveal the hidden magic of listening, yes, really listening. Discover why listening is not just a skill but your ultimate advantage in business, relationships, and life!</p><p>Are your fears and defenses getting in the way of real connection? Adam and Sherman pull back the curtain on how to get past surface-level chatter, tackle your inner critic, and forge deeper bonds at work and at home. Get ready for raw stories, laughter, and transformational insights that will have you tuned in and turning up your listening skills like never before.</p><p>Stop missing out on the breakthroughs waiting on the other side of silence. Hear how a single courageous conversation can spark growth, boost your confidence, and even turn bad news into new opportunities. Whether you’re leading a team, growing your business, or helping your family thrive, mastering the art of listening is your ticket to lasting impact.</p><p>Don’t just hear—listen, learn, and lead with purpose. Tune in now and start building the legacy you want to be remembered for!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself eCourse<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself<br></a><br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Fear Undermines Effective Listening"</p><p>05:15 "Facing Fears for Confidence"</p><p>06:34 Dreading Asking for Help</p><p>12:38 "Deep Listening Uncovers Core Issues"</p><p>13:26 Facing Core Issues Through Listening</p><p>19:49 "Business Requires Trust and Revenue"</p><p>22:30 <strong>Mastering Sales Objections</strong></p><p>24:07 Managing Defensive Supervisees Calmly</p><p>28:04 "Navigating Change and Connection"</p><p>30:22 "Boost Confidence, Master Listening"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Listening, Leadership, Fear, Vulnerability, Emotional intelligence, Defensiveness, Psychological safety, Surface-level communication, Self-awareness, Personal growth, Courageous conversations, Conflict, Avoidance, Sales objections, Connection</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#172. Grow a Pair: Real Stories of Facing Irrational Fears in Leadership</title>
      <itunes:episode>172</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are your fears standing in the way of your greatness? It’s time to grow a pair and leap into courage with Episode 172 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle the real monsters under your bed—fear of flying, public speaking, awkward conversations, and everything in between.</p><p>Uncover the secrets of Exposure Therapy and discover why baby steps, bold moves, and even a brush with a tarantula can shatter the chains of anxiety. Laugh along as Adam and Sherman share hilarious (and sometimes harrowing) stories of personal growth, embarrassing moments, and surprising breakthroughs. You’ll hear real-life strategies to crush perfectionism, face discomfort head-on, and finally take action on that ONE thing holding you back.</p><p>Stop avoiding. Start deciding. Listen now to learn how to embrace your fears, ignore the voice of doubt, and walk away with a game plan for courageous leadership—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or just conquering your next high school reunion.</p><p>It’s raw, it’s real, it’s wildly relatable. Hit play and decide your legacy today!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course (Decide Your Legacy’s free course)<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Critique of Mental Health Practices<br>05:48 Facing Fears for Mental Health<br>07:04 Recognizing and Overcoming Triggers<br>12:55 Tackling Leadership Fears Incrementally<br>16:15 Growth Through Intentional Listening<br>17:23 Step-by-Step Parachuting Preparation<br>21:42 "Overcoming Networking Anxiety"<br>25:14 Encouraging Willingness in Children<br>27:00 Facing Fears After Setbacks<br>30:23 "Effective Exposure Therapy Guidance"<br>36:15 "Overcoming Fear Imperfection"<br>37:54 Quick Reactions Hinder Transformation<br>42:31 Overcoming Fear Through Engagement<br>43:47 "Breakthrough Strategy for Team Meetings"<br>48:13 Take Action for Lasting Change</p><p>SUBSCRIBE for more inspiring conversations on leadership and personal growth!<br>Connect with us: https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are your fears standing in the way of your greatness? It’s time to grow a pair and leap into courage with Episode 172 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle the real monsters under your bed—fear of flying, public speaking, awkward conversations, and everything in between.</p><p>Uncover the secrets of Exposure Therapy and discover why baby steps, bold moves, and even a brush with a tarantula can shatter the chains of anxiety. Laugh along as Adam and Sherman share hilarious (and sometimes harrowing) stories of personal growth, embarrassing moments, and surprising breakthroughs. You’ll hear real-life strategies to crush perfectionism, face discomfort head-on, and finally take action on that ONE thing holding you back.</p><p>Stop avoiding. Start deciding. Listen now to learn how to embrace your fears, ignore the voice of doubt, and walk away with a game plan for courageous leadership—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or just conquering your next high school reunion.</p><p>It’s raw, it’s real, it’s wildly relatable. Hit play and decide your legacy today!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course (Decide Your Legacy’s free course)<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Critique of Mental Health Practices<br>05:48 Facing Fears for Mental Health<br>07:04 Recognizing and Overcoming Triggers<br>12:55 Tackling Leadership Fears Incrementally<br>16:15 Growth Through Intentional Listening<br>17:23 Step-by-Step Parachuting Preparation<br>21:42 "Overcoming Networking Anxiety"<br>25:14 Encouraging Willingness in Children<br>27:00 Facing Fears After Setbacks<br>30:23 "Effective Exposure Therapy Guidance"<br>36:15 "Overcoming Fear Imperfection"<br>37:54 Quick Reactions Hinder Transformation<br>42:31 Overcoming Fear Through Engagement<br>43:47 "Breakthrough Strategy for Team Meetings"<br>48:13 Take Action for Lasting Change</p><p>SUBSCRIBE for more inspiring conversations on leadership and personal growth!<br>Connect with us: https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are your fears standing in the way of your greatness? It’s time to grow a pair and leap into courage with Episode 172 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle the real monsters under your bed—fear of flying, public speaking, awkward conversations, and everything in between.</p><p>Uncover the secrets of Exposure Therapy and discover why baby steps, bold moves, and even a brush with a tarantula can shatter the chains of anxiety. Laugh along as Adam and Sherman share hilarious (and sometimes harrowing) stories of personal growth, embarrassing moments, and surprising breakthroughs. You’ll hear real-life strategies to crush perfectionism, face discomfort head-on, and finally take action on that ONE thing holding you back.</p><p>Stop avoiding. Start deciding. Listen now to learn how to embrace your fears, ignore the voice of doubt, and walk away with a game plan for courageous leadership—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or just conquering your next high school reunion.</p><p>It’s raw, it’s real, it’s wildly relatable. Hit play and decide your legacy today!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course (Decide Your Legacy’s free course)<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Critique of Mental Health Practices<br>05:48 Facing Fears for Mental Health<br>07:04 Recognizing and Overcoming Triggers<br>12:55 Tackling Leadership Fears Incrementally<br>16:15 Growth Through Intentional Listening<br>17:23 Step-by-Step Parachuting Preparation<br>21:42 "Overcoming Networking Anxiety"<br>25:14 Encouraging Willingness in Children<br>27:00 Facing Fears After Setbacks<br>30:23 "Effective Exposure Therapy Guidance"<br>36:15 "Overcoming Fear Imperfection"<br>37:54 Quick Reactions Hinder Transformation<br>42:31 Overcoming Fear Through Engagement<br>43:47 "Breakthrough Strategy for Team Meetings"<br>48:13 Take Action for Lasting Change</p><p>SUBSCRIBE for more inspiring conversations on leadership and personal growth!<br>Connect with us: https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Exposure therapy, Fear, Leadership, Courage, Personal growth, Legacy, Mental health, Baby steps, Failure, Vulnerability, Public speaking, Perfectionism, Willingness, Emotional triggers, Grit</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#171. Mastering Time Management: How Leaders Make Every Minute Count</title>
      <itunes:episode>171</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>171</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secrets of mastering your day with Episode 171 of the DYL Podcast—<em>Time Management</em>! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle one of life’s most precious gifts: your time. Are you tired of ending your days feeling frazzled, unproductive, or like you’re always running three meetings behind? This episode is your antidote!</p><p>Discover three powerful, actionable principles that set great leaders apart! Face the hard stuff, play the long game, and own your attention like it’s your superpower. With candid stories, playful banter, and wisdom born from real-life leadership, Adam and Sherman will show you how to turn time from your toughest enemy into your greatest ally.</p><p>Ready to kick procrastination to the curb, conquer your calendar, and feel the thrill of true accomplishment? Tune in and tap into strategies that make every minute count, so you can live your legacy, not leave it to chance.</p><p>Don’t let another moment slip away. Listen now and reclaim your most valuable resource!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secrets of mastering your day with Episode 171 of the DYL Podcast—<em>Time Management</em>! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle one of life’s most precious gifts: your time. Are you tired of ending your days feeling frazzled, unproductive, or like you’re always running three meetings behind? This episode is your antidote!</p><p>Discover three powerful, actionable principles that set great leaders apart! Face the hard stuff, play the long game, and own your attention like it’s your superpower. With candid stories, playful banter, and wisdom born from real-life leadership, Adam and Sherman will show you how to turn time from your toughest enemy into your greatest ally.</p><p>Ready to kick procrastination to the curb, conquer your calendar, and feel the thrill of true accomplishment? Tune in and tap into strategies that make every minute count, so you can live your legacy, not leave it to chance.</p><p>Don’t let another moment slip away. Listen now and reclaim your most valuable resource!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secrets of mastering your day with Episode 171 of the DYL Podcast—<em>Time Management</em>! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle one of life’s most precious gifts: your time. Are you tired of ending your days feeling frazzled, unproductive, or like you’re always running three meetings behind? This episode is your antidote!</p><p>Discover three powerful, actionable principles that set great leaders apart! Face the hard stuff, play the long game, and own your attention like it’s your superpower. With candid stories, playful banter, and wisdom born from real-life leadership, Adam and Sherman will show you how to turn time from your toughest enemy into your greatest ally.</p><p>Ready to kick procrastination to the curb, conquer your calendar, and feel the thrill of true accomplishment? Tune in and tap into strategies that make every minute count, so you can live your legacy, not leave it to chance.</p><p>Don’t let another moment slip away. Listen now and reclaim your most valuable resource!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#170. Proving Them Wrong: 3 Strategies for Young Leaders</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into the world of courageous leadership with Episode 170 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast! Ever wondered what it’s like to lead the way when you’re the youngest person in the room? Host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Tyler Higgins pull back the curtain on the real-life wins, wobbles, and wisdom of leading at any age, but especially your 20s and 30s.</p><p>From family businesses to boardroom breakthroughs, Tyler spills on balancing humility with confidence, conquering impostor syndrome, and discovering your unique strengths—even when the veterans joke they “changed your diapers.” Learn how to embrace fear, crush self-doubt, find mentors or become one! And why showing up, making mistakes, and building authentic connections are the superpowers every young—or young at heart—leader needs.</p><p>Unleash your potential, learn the secrets of self-auditing, and grab practical tips for finding your voice in a world that needs bold, fresh leadership now more than ever.</p><p>Ready to lead? Press play and get inspired to decide your legacy—no matter your age!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course:<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Young Leaders' Self-Doubt Challenges<br>05:58 Family Business Leadership Challenges<br>12:34 Harnessing Talents with Humility<br>20:52 Intentional Growth Through Mentorship<br>24:13 Internship Success Through Determination<br>27:01 Resilient Leadership Amid Resistance<br>32:17 "Embracing Spiritual and Personal Transformation"<br>37:26 Opportunities Grow with Leadership Visibility<br>46:47 "Secret to Success: Observe Others"<br>49:59 Focus on Progress, Not Problems<br>56:29 Estimating Challenges in Project Bidding<br>01:00:44 "Leadership Qualities Through Youth"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into the world of courageous leadership with Episode 170 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast! Ever wondered what it’s like to lead the way when you’re the youngest person in the room? Host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Tyler Higgins pull back the curtain on the real-life wins, wobbles, and wisdom of leading at any age, but especially your 20s and 30s.</p><p>From family businesses to boardroom breakthroughs, Tyler spills on balancing humility with confidence, conquering impostor syndrome, and discovering your unique strengths—even when the veterans joke they “changed your diapers.” Learn how to embrace fear, crush self-doubt, find mentors or become one! And why showing up, making mistakes, and building authentic connections are the superpowers every young—or young at heart—leader needs.</p><p>Unleash your potential, learn the secrets of self-auditing, and grab practical tips for finding your voice in a world that needs bold, fresh leadership now more than ever.</p><p>Ready to lead? Press play and get inspired to decide your legacy—no matter your age!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course:<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Young Leaders' Self-Doubt Challenges<br>05:58 Family Business Leadership Challenges<br>12:34 Harnessing Talents with Humility<br>20:52 Intentional Growth Through Mentorship<br>24:13 Internship Success Through Determination<br>27:01 Resilient Leadership Amid Resistance<br>32:17 "Embracing Spiritual and Personal Transformation"<br>37:26 Opportunities Grow with Leadership Visibility<br>46:47 "Secret to Success: Observe Others"<br>49:59 Focus on Progress, Not Problems<br>56:29 Estimating Challenges in Project Bidding<br>01:00:44 "Leadership Qualities Through Youth"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 22:32:16 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into the world of courageous leadership with Episode 170 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast! Ever wondered what it’s like to lead the way when you’re the youngest person in the room? Host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Tyler Higgins pull back the curtain on the real-life wins, wobbles, and wisdom of leading at any age, but especially your 20s and 30s.</p><p>From family businesses to boardroom breakthroughs, Tyler spills on balancing humility with confidence, conquering impostor syndrome, and discovering your unique strengths—even when the veterans joke they “changed your diapers.” Learn how to embrace fear, crush self-doubt, find mentors or become one! And why showing up, making mistakes, and building authentic connections are the superpowers every young—or young at heart—leader needs.</p><p>Unleash your potential, learn the secrets of self-auditing, and grab practical tips for finding your voice in a world that needs bold, fresh leadership now more than ever.</p><p>Ready to lead? Press play and get inspired to decide your legacy—no matter your age!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course:<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</p><p>00:00 Young Leaders' Self-Doubt Challenges<br>05:58 Family Business Leadership Challenges<br>12:34 Harnessing Talents with Humility<br>20:52 Intentional Growth Through Mentorship<br>24:13 Internship Success Through Determination<br>27:01 Resilient Leadership Amid Resistance<br>32:17 "Embracing Spiritual and Personal Transformation"<br>37:26 Opportunities Grow with Leadership Visibility<br>46:47 "Secret to Success: Observe Others"<br>49:59 Focus on Progress, Not Problems<br>56:29 Estimating Challenges in Project Bidding<br>01:00:44 "Leadership Qualities Through Youth"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Young leaders, Humility, Confidence, Mentors, Family business, Servant leadership, Self-audit, Mistakes, Courage, Resistance, Fresh perspective, Accountability, Work ethic, Faith, Personal growth</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#169. Being Courageous as a Leader</title>
      <itunes:episode>169</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret sauce of true leadership with Episode 169 of the DYL Podcast: “Being Courageous as a Leader!” Join host Adam Gragg and his powerhouse guests, Kelsey Torkelson and legacy coach Sherman Orr, as they pull back the curtain on what it really takes to lead with courage, in business, at home, and everywhere in between.</p><p>Ready to kick fear to the curb? Discover why facing those internal dragons (think: fear of embarrassment, judgment, or failure) is the ultimate game-changer. Sherman gets real about his leap from priesthood to the world of coaching, while Adam shares his own brave moments, and blunders, that paved the way for authentic, gutsy leadership.</p><p>You’ll learn the three essential benefits of courageous leadership: say goodbye to anxiety, watch your relationships blossom, and crank up your confidence to new heights! Plus, get inspired with practical tips, daily habits, and stories that prove courage isn’t just for superheroes—it’s for everyone, including you.</p><p>Listen now and get ready to do the scary thing anyway. Your legacy, and your team, are waiting. Decide your legacy, starting today!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret sauce of true leadership with Episode 169 of the DYL Podcast: “Being Courageous as a Leader!” Join host Adam Gragg and his powerhouse guests, Kelsey Torkelson and legacy coach Sherman Orr, as they pull back the curtain on what it really takes to lead with courage, in business, at home, and everywhere in between.</p><p>Ready to kick fear to the curb? Discover why facing those internal dragons (think: fear of embarrassment, judgment, or failure) is the ultimate game-changer. Sherman gets real about his leap from priesthood to the world of coaching, while Adam shares his own brave moments, and blunders, that paved the way for authentic, gutsy leadership.</p><p>You’ll learn the three essential benefits of courageous leadership: say goodbye to anxiety, watch your relationships blossom, and crank up your confidence to new heights! Plus, get inspired with practical tips, daily habits, and stories that prove courage isn’t just for superheroes—it’s for everyone, including you.</p><p>Listen now and get ready to do the scary thing anyway. Your legacy, and your team, are waiting. Decide your legacy, starting today!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2025 00:00:29 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret sauce of true leadership with Episode 169 of the DYL Podcast: “Being Courageous as a Leader!” Join host Adam Gragg and his powerhouse guests, Kelsey Torkelson and legacy coach Sherman Orr, as they pull back the curtain on what it really takes to lead with courage, in business, at home, and everywhere in between.</p><p>Ready to kick fear to the curb? Discover why facing those internal dragons (think: fear of embarrassment, judgment, or failure) is the ultimate game-changer. Sherman gets real about his leap from priesthood to the world of coaching, while Adam shares his own brave moments, and blunders, that paved the way for authentic, gutsy leadership.</p><p>You’ll learn the three essential benefits of courageous leadership: say goodbye to anxiety, watch your relationships blossom, and crank up your confidence to new heights! Plus, get inspired with practical tips, daily habits, and stories that prove courage isn’t just for superheroes—it’s for everyone, including you.</p><p>Listen now and get ready to do the scary thing anyway. Your legacy, and your team, are waiting. Decide your legacy, starting today!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself Course:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Courage, Leadership, Vulnerability, Fear, Anxiety, Trust, Personal growth, Difficult decisions, Feedback, Relationships, Self-confidence, Change, Mistakes, Influence, Action</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/kelsey-torkelson">Kelsey Torkelson</podcast:person>
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      <title>#168. The Benefits of Being Curious as a Leader</title>
      <itunes:episode>168</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>168</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#168. The Benefits of Being Curious as a Leader</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the hidden superpower every great leader needs, curiosity! In Episode 168 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how asking the right questions can instantly dissolve tension, spark meaningful connections, and propel your team toward real transformation.</p><p>Ever dreaded a tough conversation or felt anxious about feedback? Discover Adam’s game-changing strategy: swap confrontation for curiosity! Learn the art of open-ended, non-judgmental questions that inspire clarity and creativity, without being the “bad guy.” Whether you’re guiding a business or navigating holidays with relatives, Adam’s practical tips will help you lower anxiety, build trust, and bring out the best in others.</p><p><br>Ready to connect, create, and lead with heart? Hit play and get inspired to turn curious questions into courageous leadership. Your legacy starts with one question—will you ask it?</p><p><strong>COURSES:</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:<br></strong>00:00 Title: "Impact of Great Leadership Questions"</p><p>05:08 "Transformative Power of Questions"</p><p>07:32 Nonjudgmental Inquiry for Clarity</p><p>11:57 Curious Leadership Through Questioning</p><p>14:12 Curious Conversations for Thanksgiving</p><p>16:54 Personal Growth and Life Assessment</p><p>23:13 Curiosity Reduces Anxiety, Deepens Connections</p><p>25:15 Action is Key to Transformation</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the hidden superpower every great leader needs, curiosity! In Episode 168 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how asking the right questions can instantly dissolve tension, spark meaningful connections, and propel your team toward real transformation.</p><p>Ever dreaded a tough conversation or felt anxious about feedback? Discover Adam’s game-changing strategy: swap confrontation for curiosity! Learn the art of open-ended, non-judgmental questions that inspire clarity and creativity, without being the “bad guy.” Whether you’re guiding a business or navigating holidays with relatives, Adam’s practical tips will help you lower anxiety, build trust, and bring out the best in others.</p><p><br>Ready to connect, create, and lead with heart? Hit play and get inspired to turn curious questions into courageous leadership. Your legacy starts with one question—will you ask it?</p><p><strong>COURSES:</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:<br></strong>00:00 Title: "Impact of Great Leadership Questions"</p><p>05:08 "Transformative Power of Questions"</p><p>07:32 Nonjudgmental Inquiry for Clarity</p><p>11:57 Curious Leadership Through Questioning</p><p>14:12 Curious Conversations for Thanksgiving</p><p>16:54 Personal Growth and Life Assessment</p><p>23:13 Curiosity Reduces Anxiety, Deepens Connections</p><p>25:15 Action is Key to Transformation</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2025 18:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1633</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the hidden superpower every great leader needs, curiosity! In Episode 168 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how asking the right questions can instantly dissolve tension, spark meaningful connections, and propel your team toward real transformation.</p><p>Ever dreaded a tough conversation or felt anxious about feedback? Discover Adam’s game-changing strategy: swap confrontation for curiosity! Learn the art of open-ended, non-judgmental questions that inspire clarity and creativity, without being the “bad guy.” Whether you’re guiding a business or navigating holidays with relatives, Adam’s practical tips will help you lower anxiety, build trust, and bring out the best in others.</p><p><br>Ready to connect, create, and lead with heart? Hit play and get inspired to turn curious questions into courageous leadership. Your legacy starts with one question—will you ask it?</p><p><strong>COURSES:</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>CHAPTERS:<br></strong>00:00 Title: "Impact of Great Leadership Questions"</p><p>05:08 "Transformative Power of Questions"</p><p>07:32 Nonjudgmental Inquiry for Clarity</p><p>11:57 Curious Leadership Through Questioning</p><p>14:12 Curious Conversations for Thanksgiving</p><p>16:54 Personal Growth and Life Assessment</p><p>23:13 Curiosity Reduces Anxiety, Deepens Connections</p><p>25:15 Action is Key to Transformation</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#167. Every Leader is Afraid, Great Leaders Act Anyway</title>
      <itunes:episode>167</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>167</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 167 of the <em>Decide Your Legacy</em> podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insecurities and explains why vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a source of empowerment—especially for leaders.</p><p>Together, the trio explores how fear manifests in leadership, from avoiding tough conversations to the stress of making decisions that impact others' lives. You'll hear real stories about facing hard moments, why accountability matters at all levels, and how great leaders act despite their fears. Plus, they're sharing three practical tools you can use right away to identify, confront, and move through fear—whether you're leading a business, a family, or your own life.</p><p>If you've ever struggled with indecision, worried about letting others down, or wondered how to break through a paralyzing fear of failure, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice to help you lead courageously.</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>COURSES:</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p><p><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Facing Fear Empowers Leadership"</p><p>03:13 Embracing Balance and Growth</p><p>07:42 Leaders' Universal Struggles and Fears</p><p>11:02 Solo Advocate for Accountability</p><p>13:10 Fear of Conversations and Isolation</p><p>19:17 Overpowering Fear as a Leader</p><p>20:44 Empowering Choices Over Negativity</p><p>25:31 "Effective Conversations Over Email Challenges"</p><p>28:20 Resistance to Change: Accountability Challenges</p><p>31:11 "Empowerment and Accountability Strategy"</p><p>34:25 Overcoming Fear with Accountability</p><p>37:24 Home Stress and Apology Modeling</p><p>41:05 "Conquer Fear with Commitment"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 167 of the <em>Decide Your Legacy</em> podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insecurities and explains why vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a source of empowerment—especially for leaders.</p><p>Together, the trio explores how fear manifests in leadership, from avoiding tough conversations to the stress of making decisions that impact others' lives. You'll hear real stories about facing hard moments, why accountability matters at all levels, and how great leaders act despite their fears. Plus, they're sharing three practical tools you can use right away to identify, confront, and move through fear—whether you're leading a business, a family, or your own life.</p><p>If you've ever struggled with indecision, worried about letting others down, or wondered how to break through a paralyzing fear of failure, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice to help you lead courageously.</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>COURSES:</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p><p><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Facing Fear Empowers Leadership"</p><p>03:13 Embracing Balance and Growth</p><p>07:42 Leaders' Universal Struggles and Fears</p><p>11:02 Solo Advocate for Accountability</p><p>13:10 Fear of Conversations and Isolation</p><p>19:17 Overpowering Fear as a Leader</p><p>20:44 Empowering Choices Over Negativity</p><p>25:31 "Effective Conversations Over Email Challenges"</p><p>28:20 Resistance to Change: Accountability Challenges</p><p>31:11 "Empowerment and Accountability Strategy"</p><p>34:25 Overcoming Fear with Accountability</p><p>37:24 Home Stress and Apology Modeling</p><p>41:05 "Conquer Fear with Commitment"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 167 of the <em>Decide Your Legacy</em> podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insecurities and explains why vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a source of empowerment—especially for leaders.</p><p>Together, the trio explores how fear manifests in leadership, from avoiding tough conversations to the stress of making decisions that impact others' lives. You'll hear real stories about facing hard moments, why accountability matters at all levels, and how great leaders act despite their fears. Plus, they're sharing three practical tools you can use right away to identify, confront, and move through fear—whether you're leading a business, a family, or your own life.</p><p>If you've ever struggled with indecision, worried about letting others down, or wondered how to break through a paralyzing fear of failure, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice to help you lead courageously.</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>COURSES:</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p><p><br><strong>CHAPTERS:</strong><br>00:00 "Facing Fear Empowers Leadership"</p><p>03:13 Embracing Balance and Growth</p><p>07:42 Leaders' Universal Struggles and Fears</p><p>11:02 Solo Advocate for Accountability</p><p>13:10 Fear of Conversations and Isolation</p><p>19:17 Overpowering Fear as a Leader</p><p>20:44 Empowering Choices Over Negativity</p><p>25:31 "Effective Conversations Over Email Challenges"</p><p>28:20 Resistance to Change: Accountability Challenges</p><p>31:11 "Empowerment and Accountability Strategy"</p><p>34:25 Overcoming Fear with Accountability</p><p>37:24 Home Stress and Apology Modeling</p><p>41:05 "Conquer Fear with Commitment"</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>fear in leadership, vulnerability, leadership accountability, overcoming fear, decision making, team trust, workplace relationships, chronic stress, health challenges, business leadership, courageous leadership, personal growth, tough conversations, avoiding accountability, performance standards, perfectionism, work-life balance, leadership mistakes, culture of accountability, resisting change, managing transitions, self-awareness, leader influence, coaching leaders, setting boundaries, facing failure, mindset shifts, empowering leaders, making decisions, recognizing drift</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/kelsey-torkelson">Kelsey Torkelson</podcast:person>
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      <title>#166. Three Smart Ways to Handle Difficult People and Be Yourself at Work</title>
      <itunes:episode>166</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Tired of tiptoeing around drama at work, or at home? Unleash your authentic self and turn those “difficult” people into your greatest allies with Episode 166 of the DYL Podcast: “Be Yourself at Work.” Join legacy coach Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they crack the code on handling challenging relationships with empathy, humor, and wisdom.</p><p>Find out why being yourself is your ultimate superpower, learn three smart strategies to transform tense situations, and discover the surprising secret that will revolutionize your toughest conversations. Plus, get real-life stories, actionable tips, and just enough workplace mischief (fart machines and pool pranks included) to brighten your day.</p><p>Ready to lead with confidence, laugh more, and enjoy authentic connections at work and beyond? Hit play and decide your legacy today!</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Handling Difficult People: Key Strategies"</p><p>05:51 Hope for Struggling Employees</p><p>07:08 "Value Beyond Money: Growth Mindset"</p><p>11:19 Channel Passion to Reduce Drama</p><p>15:45 Balancing Leadership and Personal Anxiety</p><p>17:16 "Illuminate Passions for Motivation"</p><p>20:33 "Overcoming Metric-Driven Hiring Mistakes"</p><p>24:37 Embracing Diverse Perspectives</p><p>27:42 Action Over Insight</p><p>COURSES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Tired of tiptoeing around drama at work, or at home? Unleash your authentic self and turn those “difficult” people into your greatest allies with Episode 166 of the DYL Podcast: “Be Yourself at Work.” Join legacy coach Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they crack the code on handling challenging relationships with empathy, humor, and wisdom.</p><p>Find out why being yourself is your ultimate superpower, learn three smart strategies to transform tense situations, and discover the surprising secret that will revolutionize your toughest conversations. Plus, get real-life stories, actionable tips, and just enough workplace mischief (fart machines and pool pranks included) to brighten your day.</p><p>Ready to lead with confidence, laugh more, and enjoy authentic connections at work and beyond? Hit play and decide your legacy today!</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Handling Difficult People: Key Strategies"</p><p>05:51 Hope for Struggling Employees</p><p>07:08 "Value Beyond Money: Growth Mindset"</p><p>11:19 Channel Passion to Reduce Drama</p><p>15:45 Balancing Leadership and Personal Anxiety</p><p>17:16 "Illuminate Passions for Motivation"</p><p>20:33 "Overcoming Metric-Driven Hiring Mistakes"</p><p>24:37 Embracing Diverse Perspectives</p><p>27:42 Action Over Insight</p><p>COURSES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Tired of tiptoeing around drama at work, or at home? Unleash your authentic self and turn those “difficult” people into your greatest allies with Episode 166 of the DYL Podcast: “Be Yourself at Work.” Join legacy coach Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they crack the code on handling challenging relationships with empathy, humor, and wisdom.</p><p>Find out why being yourself is your ultimate superpower, learn three smart strategies to transform tense situations, and discover the surprising secret that will revolutionize your toughest conversations. Plus, get real-life stories, actionable tips, and just enough workplace mischief (fart machines and pool pranks included) to brighten your day.</p><p>Ready to lead with confidence, laugh more, and enjoy authentic connections at work and beyond? Hit play and decide your legacy today!</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 "Handling Difficult People: Key Strategies"</p><p>05:51 Hope for Struggling Employees</p><p>07:08 "Value Beyond Money: Growth Mindset"</p><p>11:19 Channel Passion to Reduce Drama</p><p>15:45 Balancing Leadership and Personal Anxiety</p><p>17:16 "Illuminate Passions for Motivation"</p><p>20:33 "Overcoming Metric-Driven Hiring Mistakes"</p><p>24:37 Embracing Diverse Perspectives</p><p>27:42 Action Over Insight</p><p>COURSES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Difficult people, Authenticity, Workplace relationships, Leadership, Empathy, Negativity, Drama, Ownership, Motivation, Strengths, Fear, Lightheartedness, Wisdom, Communication, Personal growth</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#165. Why Your Team Resists Goals and How to Fix It</title>
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      <podcast:episode>165</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your team’s true potential and blast through roadblocks in Episode 165 of the DYL Podcast: “Get Focused on Goals.” Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he gets real about what’s holding you (and your team) back from big achievements—and how to smash through resistance like a pro.</p><p>With the witty and insightful Kelsey Torkelson by his side, Adam pulls back the curtain on the hidden reasons we fear setting goals, why distractions always try to steal our thunder, and the secret sauce to turning great ideas into measurable results. From family inspirations to timer tricks and the five-goal rule, this episode is a crash course in clarity, commitment, and progress you can see.</p><p>Ready to trade ambiguity for action and stress for celebration? Tune in as Adam dishes out practical steps to find laser focus, build momentum in just 24 hours, and lead with courage—whether you’re at home, at work, or shaping your legacy. Don’t let fear call the shots—step up, set your sights, and make every minute count.</p><p>Hit play and start creating progress you can feel and a legacy you’ll love!</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 Overcoming Team Goal Resistance</p><p>05:11 Navigating Success and Struggles</p><p>08:57 Quarterly Sales and Goal Focus</p><p>09:51 Dad's Achievements at 86</p><p>16:12 Recognizing and Overcoming Goal Dread</p><p>18:57 Clarity Overcomes Ambiguity</p><p>20:51 Clarifying Vision and Addressing Fear</p><p>24:44 Quarterly Goal Setting Strategy</p><p>28:16 "Importance of Measuring Progress"</p><p>30:08 Tracking Progress with Metrics</p><p>COURSES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your team’s true potential and blast through roadblocks in Episode 165 of the DYL Podcast: “Get Focused on Goals.” Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he gets real about what’s holding you (and your team) back from big achievements—and how to smash through resistance like a pro.</p><p>With the witty and insightful Kelsey Torkelson by his side, Adam pulls back the curtain on the hidden reasons we fear setting goals, why distractions always try to steal our thunder, and the secret sauce to turning great ideas into measurable results. From family inspirations to timer tricks and the five-goal rule, this episode is a crash course in clarity, commitment, and progress you can see.</p><p>Ready to trade ambiguity for action and stress for celebration? Tune in as Adam dishes out practical steps to find laser focus, build momentum in just 24 hours, and lead with courage—whether you’re at home, at work, or shaping your legacy. Don’t let fear call the shots—step up, set your sights, and make every minute count.</p><p>Hit play and start creating progress you can feel and a legacy you’ll love!</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 Overcoming Team Goal Resistance</p><p>05:11 Navigating Success and Struggles</p><p>08:57 Quarterly Sales and Goal Focus</p><p>09:51 Dad's Achievements at 86</p><p>16:12 Recognizing and Overcoming Goal Dread</p><p>18:57 Clarity Overcomes Ambiguity</p><p>20:51 Clarifying Vision and Addressing Fear</p><p>24:44 Quarterly Goal Setting Strategy</p><p>28:16 "Importance of Measuring Progress"</p><p>30:08 Tracking Progress with Metrics</p><p>COURSES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your team’s true potential and blast through roadblocks in Episode 165 of the DYL Podcast: “Get Focused on Goals.” Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he gets real about what’s holding you (and your team) back from big achievements—and how to smash through resistance like a pro.</p><p>With the witty and insightful Kelsey Torkelson by his side, Adam pulls back the curtain on the hidden reasons we fear setting goals, why distractions always try to steal our thunder, and the secret sauce to turning great ideas into measurable results. From family inspirations to timer tricks and the five-goal rule, this episode is a crash course in clarity, commitment, and progress you can see.</p><p>Ready to trade ambiguity for action and stress for celebration? Tune in as Adam dishes out practical steps to find laser focus, build momentum in just 24 hours, and lead with courage—whether you’re at home, at work, or shaping your legacy. Don’t let fear call the shots—step up, set your sights, and make every minute count.</p><p>Hit play and start creating progress you can feel and a legacy you’ll love!</p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>00:00 Overcoming Team Goal Resistance</p><p>05:11 Navigating Success and Struggles</p><p>08:57 Quarterly Sales and Goal Focus</p><p>09:51 Dad's Achievements at 86</p><p>16:12 Recognizing and Overcoming Goal Dread</p><p>18:57 Clarity Overcomes Ambiguity</p><p>20:51 Clarifying Vision and Addressing Fear</p><p>24:44 Quarterly Goal Setting Strategy</p><p>28:16 "Importance of Measuring Progress"</p><p>30:08 Tracking Progress with Metrics</p><p>COURSES:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a> </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Goals, Resistance, Motivation, Fear, Clarity, Team Leadership, Distractions, Accountability, Measurement, Progress, Vision, Perfectionism, Procrastination, Commitment, Self-discipline</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#164. Effective Delegation: 3 Steps Every Leader Should Know</title>
      <itunes:episode>164</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:title>#164. Effective Delegation: 3 Steps Every Leader Should Know</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock freedom and supercharge your success with Episode 164 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he bares all about his lifelong struggle with control and reveals the surprisingly simple art of Effective Delegation. Are you ready to let go, trust your team, and watch them – and yourself – flourish?</p><p>Adam doesn’t just talk about delegation; he lives its challenges, sharing real stories of trust, courage, and the occasional hilarious blunder (yes, even family can throw you a curveball!). Discover the three essential steps every leader must master, and learn why failing forward is far better than standing still. Find out how clarity, trust, and letting go aren’t just business tactics, they’re your secret path to less stress, healthier relationships, and a legacy of courageous living.</p><p>Craving less control and more results? Tune in now for this inspiring, relatable episode. You’ll walk away ready to delegate with confidence—and maybe, just maybe, breathe a little easier. Your legacy, and your freedom, start here!</p><p>COURSES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p>Legacy Jar<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p><p>RESOURCES:<br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock freedom and supercharge your success with Episode 164 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he bares all about his lifelong struggle with control and reveals the surprisingly simple art of Effective Delegation. Are you ready to let go, trust your team, and watch them – and yourself – flourish?</p><p>Adam doesn’t just talk about delegation; he lives its challenges, sharing real stories of trust, courage, and the occasional hilarious blunder (yes, even family can throw you a curveball!). Discover the three essential steps every leader must master, and learn why failing forward is far better than standing still. Find out how clarity, trust, and letting go aren’t just business tactics, they’re your secret path to less stress, healthier relationships, and a legacy of courageous living.</p><p>Craving less control and more results? Tune in now for this inspiring, relatable episode. You’ll walk away ready to delegate with confidence—and maybe, just maybe, breathe a little easier. Your legacy, and your freedom, start here!</p><p>COURSES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p>Legacy Jar<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p><p>RESOURCES:<br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock freedom and supercharge your success with Episode 164 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he bares all about his lifelong struggle with control and reveals the surprisingly simple art of Effective Delegation. Are you ready to let go, trust your team, and watch them – and yourself – flourish?</p><p>Adam doesn’t just talk about delegation; he lives its challenges, sharing real stories of trust, courage, and the occasional hilarious blunder (yes, even family can throw you a curveball!). Discover the three essential steps every leader must master, and learn why failing forward is far better than standing still. Find out how clarity, trust, and letting go aren’t just business tactics, they’re your secret path to less stress, healthier relationships, and a legacy of courageous living.</p><p>Craving less control and more results? Tune in now for this inspiring, relatable episode. You’ll walk away ready to delegate with confidence—and maybe, just maybe, breathe a little easier. Your legacy, and your freedom, start here!</p><p>COURSES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p>Legacy Jar<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p><p>RESOURCES:<br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Delegation, Trust, Control, Anxiety, Leadership, Fear, Teamwork, Letting go, Accountability, Communication, Clarity, Mistakes, Growth, Decision-making, Relationships</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#163. Decide with Clarity: 3 Steps to Better, Faster Decisions</title>
      <itunes:episode>163</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>163</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#163. Decide with Clarity: 3 Steps to Better, Faster Decisions</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to escape the drama of tough choices? In Episode 163 of the DYL Podcast, "Decide with Clarity," Adam Gragg takes you on a whirlwind journey to fearless, faster, and razor-sharp decision making! From hiring dilemmas to family vacation conundrums, Adam spills the secrets to overcoming indecision anxiety so you can move boldly toward your goals.</p><p>Discover the three-step formula to blast through your next big decision: line up the facts, filter every option through your personal values, and, most importantly, trust your intuition like never before! Along the way, Adam shares his own real-life crossroads, crazy adventures, and how a dash of courage (and a sprinkle of fun) leads to massive growth, even when mistakes are made.</p><p><br>Whether you’re picking a business partner, booking a dream trip, or just settling the eternal “where do we eat tonight” debate, this episode empowers you to break free from doubt and start living the legacy you want to leave behind.</p><p>Crave more clarity? Hit play and transform your decision-making drama into unstoppable action—because your legacy starts with your next decision!</p><p>COURSES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p>Legacy Jar<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p><p>RESOURCES:<br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to escape the drama of tough choices? In Episode 163 of the DYL Podcast, "Decide with Clarity," Adam Gragg takes you on a whirlwind journey to fearless, faster, and razor-sharp decision making! From hiring dilemmas to family vacation conundrums, Adam spills the secrets to overcoming indecision anxiety so you can move boldly toward your goals.</p><p>Discover the three-step formula to blast through your next big decision: line up the facts, filter every option through your personal values, and, most importantly, trust your intuition like never before! Along the way, Adam shares his own real-life crossroads, crazy adventures, and how a dash of courage (and a sprinkle of fun) leads to massive growth, even when mistakes are made.</p><p><br>Whether you’re picking a business partner, booking a dream trip, or just settling the eternal “where do we eat tonight” debate, this episode empowers you to break free from doubt and start living the legacy you want to leave behind.</p><p>Crave more clarity? Hit play and transform your decision-making drama into unstoppable action—because your legacy starts with your next decision!</p><p>COURSES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p>Legacy Jar<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p><p>RESOURCES:<br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2025 09:40:09 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1505</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to escape the drama of tough choices? In Episode 163 of the DYL Podcast, "Decide with Clarity," Adam Gragg takes you on a whirlwind journey to fearless, faster, and razor-sharp decision making! From hiring dilemmas to family vacation conundrums, Adam spills the secrets to overcoming indecision anxiety so you can move boldly toward your goals.</p><p>Discover the three-step formula to blast through your next big decision: line up the facts, filter every option through your personal values, and, most importantly, trust your intuition like never before! Along the way, Adam shares his own real-life crossroads, crazy adventures, and how a dash of courage (and a sprinkle of fun) leads to massive growth, even when mistakes are made.</p><p><br>Whether you’re picking a business partner, booking a dream trip, or just settling the eternal “where do we eat tonight” debate, this episode empowers you to break free from doubt and start living the legacy you want to leave behind.</p><p>Crave more clarity? Hit play and transform your decision-making drama into unstoppable action—because your legacy starts with your next decision!</p><p>COURSES:<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p>Legacy Jar<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p><p>RESOURCES:<br>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Decision-making, Clarity, Anxiety, Core values, Intuition, Legacy, Business leadership, Fear, Facts, Filtering, Vision, Balance, Taking action, Mistakes, Growth</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#162: Three Keys to Energizing Your Workplace Meetings for Better Results</title>
      <itunes:episode>162</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>162</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#162: Three Keys to Energizing Your Workplace Meetings for Better Results</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, "Energizing Workplace Meetings," host Adam Gragg dives into a topic we all have strong feelings about—workplace meetings. While most people dread them, Adam believes meetings don’t have to sap your energy. In fact, with just a few simple tweaks, any meeting can become something your team actually looks forward to.</p><p><br>Drawing on his experience as a legacy and corporate coach, and over 25 years as a family therapist, Adam shares his personal struggles with meetings, along with universal reasons why so many of us find them discouraging. He then uncovers a practical, straightforward formula you can use right away to make your meetings more productive, more meaningful, and even fun.</p><p><br>In this episode, Adam breaks down his three essential keys for transforming any meeting: start with a bit of fun, embrace the “drama” instead of avoiding it, and always end with clear action steps. He also explores different types of meetings, the crucial role of facilitation, and shares icebreakers you’ll want to try at your next team gathering.</p><p><br>Whether you’re leading a business, part of a team, or just hoping to improve communication in your own circles, this episode is packed with actionable advice—and even a few stories that might make you rethink what a good meeting looks like.</p><p>So tune in to learn how to energize your workplace meetings and leave your team excited for what’s next!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, "Energizing Workplace Meetings," host Adam Gragg dives into a topic we all have strong feelings about—workplace meetings. While most people dread them, Adam believes meetings don’t have to sap your energy. In fact, with just a few simple tweaks, any meeting can become something your team actually looks forward to.</p><p><br>Drawing on his experience as a legacy and corporate coach, and over 25 years as a family therapist, Adam shares his personal struggles with meetings, along with universal reasons why so many of us find them discouraging. He then uncovers a practical, straightforward formula you can use right away to make your meetings more productive, more meaningful, and even fun.</p><p><br>In this episode, Adam breaks down his three essential keys for transforming any meeting: start with a bit of fun, embrace the “drama” instead of avoiding it, and always end with clear action steps. He also explores different types of meetings, the crucial role of facilitation, and shares icebreakers you’ll want to try at your next team gathering.</p><p><br>Whether you’re leading a business, part of a team, or just hoping to improve communication in your own circles, this episode is packed with actionable advice—and even a few stories that might make you rethink what a good meeting looks like.</p><p>So tune in to learn how to energize your workplace meetings and leave your team excited for what’s next!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1504</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, "Energizing Workplace Meetings," host Adam Gragg dives into a topic we all have strong feelings about—workplace meetings. While most people dread them, Adam believes meetings don’t have to sap your energy. In fact, with just a few simple tweaks, any meeting can become something your team actually looks forward to.</p><p><br>Drawing on his experience as a legacy and corporate coach, and over 25 years as a family therapist, Adam shares his personal struggles with meetings, along with universal reasons why so many of us find them discouraging. He then uncovers a practical, straightforward formula you can use right away to make your meetings more productive, more meaningful, and even fun.</p><p><br>In this episode, Adam breaks down his three essential keys for transforming any meeting: start with a bit of fun, embrace the “drama” instead of avoiding it, and always end with clear action steps. He also explores different types of meetings, the crucial role of facilitation, and shares icebreakers you’ll want to try at your next team gathering.</p><p><br>Whether you’re leading a business, part of a team, or just hoping to improve communication in your own circles, this episode is packed with actionable advice—and even a few stories that might make you rethink what a good meeting looks like.</p><p>So tune in to learn how to energize your workplace meetings and leave your team excited for what’s next!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#161: Leadership Lessons: Influence, Trust, and Action for Everyday Leaders</title>
      <itunes:episode>161</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>161</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#161: Leadership Lessons: Influence, Trust, and Action for Everyday Leaders</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your inner leader with Episode 161 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they dive deep into the messy, exhilarating, and downright human side of leadership. Ever felt like you weren't cut out to lead? Think again! From conquering self-doubt and trusting your team to turning failure into fuel, this episode is packed with real talk and actionable strategies for anyone leading at work, at home, or in their community.</p><p>Discover surprising truths about influence, why leaders are made (not born), and how the smallest, boldest step can change lives—including your own. Whether you’re wrangling a team, raising a family, or just trying to show up for yourself, Adam’s insights will make you laugh, reflect, and—most importantly—take action.</p><p>Ready to go first? Ditch the drama, lean into courage, and start building your leadership legacy today! Listen now and turn every day into a new chance to lead with heart and purpose.</p><p><strong>Top 5 Most Relatable Blog Posts from Decide Your Legacy:</strong></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p><br>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p><br>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p><br>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p><br>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>Shatterproof Yourself</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p><strong>Legacy Jar</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your inner leader with Episode 161 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they dive deep into the messy, exhilarating, and downright human side of leadership. Ever felt like you weren't cut out to lead? Think again! From conquering self-doubt and trusting your team to turning failure into fuel, this episode is packed with real talk and actionable strategies for anyone leading at work, at home, or in their community.</p><p>Discover surprising truths about influence, why leaders are made (not born), and how the smallest, boldest step can change lives—including your own. Whether you’re wrangling a team, raising a family, or just trying to show up for yourself, Adam’s insights will make you laugh, reflect, and—most importantly—take action.</p><p>Ready to go first? Ditch the drama, lean into courage, and start building your leadership legacy today! Listen now and turn every day into a new chance to lead with heart and purpose.</p><p><strong>Top 5 Most Relatable Blog Posts from Decide Your Legacy:</strong></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p><br>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p><br>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p><br>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p><br>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>Shatterproof Yourself</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p><strong>Legacy Jar</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2790</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock your inner leader with Episode 161 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they dive deep into the messy, exhilarating, and downright human side of leadership. Ever felt like you weren't cut out to lead? Think again! From conquering self-doubt and trusting your team to turning failure into fuel, this episode is packed with real talk and actionable strategies for anyone leading at work, at home, or in their community.</p><p>Discover surprising truths about influence, why leaders are made (not born), and how the smallest, boldest step can change lives—including your own. Whether you’re wrangling a team, raising a family, or just trying to show up for yourself, Adam’s insights will make you laugh, reflect, and—most importantly—take action.</p><p>Ready to go first? Ditch the drama, lean into courage, and start building your leadership legacy today! Listen now and turn every day into a new chance to lead with heart and purpose.</p><p><strong>Top 5 Most Relatable Blog Posts from Decide Your Legacy:</strong></p><p>3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p><br>7 Benefits of Being Courageous<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p><br>4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/</a></p><p><br>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p><br>How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p><strong>Shatterproof Yourself</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422</a></p><p><strong>Legacy Jar</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Influence, Leadership, Trust, Delegation, Fear, Conflict, Drama, Self-awareness, Collaboration, Courageous conversations, Growth, Accountability, Legacy, Decision-making, Action</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/kelsey-torkelson">Kelsey Torkelson</podcast:person>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#160: Travel Your Way to Self Confidence: Overcoming Fear of the Unknown</title>
      <itunes:episode>160</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>160</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#160: Travel Your Way to Self Confidence: Overcoming Fear of the Unknown</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you (or your team) stuck in a rut, resisting change, or afraid to step outside your comfort zone? In this inspiring episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with his sister, renowned travel expert Erica Gragg, to explore how travel can be the ultimate catalyst for self-confidence and personal growth.</p><p>Erica, co-owner of Escape to Shape Adventures &amp; Wellness and Escape Artists Travel, shares her own journey of overcoming fears, taking bold leaps, and building confidence through experiences around the globe. Discover how facing the unknown—whether it’s a fear of flying, navigating new cultures, or simply dining solo—can lead to transformative growth, both personally and professionally.</p><p>If you’re ready to step out, try something new, and see what you’re truly capable of—this episode is for you!</p><p>Connect with Erica Gragg:<br>Web: escapetoshape.com<br>Web: escapeartiststravel.com<br>Instagram: @EscapeArtistTravel | @EscapetoShape</p><p>More from Adam Gragg:<br>Free mini-course: Shadow for Yourself Light (seven steps to a giant leap in your mental health)<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422<br>Legacy Jar<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</p><p>Like, comment, and subscribe for more courage-driven episodes!</p><p>#TravelConfidence #PersonalGrowth #DecideYourLegacy #Podcast #EricaGrag #AdamGragg #WellnessTravel #LeadershipSkills #overcomefear</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Are you (or your team) stuck in a rut, resisting change, or afraid to step outside your comfort zone? In this inspiring episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with his sister, renowned travel expert Erica Gragg, to explore how travel can be the ultimate catalyst for self-confidence and personal growth.</p><p>Erica, co-owner of Escape to Shape Adventures &amp; Wellness and Escape Artists Travel, shares her own journey of overcoming fears, taking bold leaps, and building confidence through experiences around the globe. Discover how facing the unknown—whether it’s a fear of flying, navigating new cultures, or simply dining solo—can lead to transformative growth, both personally and professionally.</p><p>If you’re ready to step out, try something new, and see what you’re truly capable of—this episode is for you!</p><p>Connect with Erica Gragg:<br>Web: escapetoshape.com<br>Web: escapeartiststravel.com<br>Instagram: @EscapeArtistTravel | @EscapetoShape</p><p>More from Adam Gragg:<br>Free mini-course: Shadow for Yourself Light (seven steps to a giant leap in your mental health)<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422<br>Legacy Jar<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</p><p>Like, comment, and subscribe for more courage-driven episodes!</p><p>#TravelConfidence #PersonalGrowth #DecideYourLegacy #Podcast #EricaGrag #AdamGragg #WellnessTravel #LeadershipSkills #overcomefear</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3082</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you (or your team) stuck in a rut, resisting change, or afraid to step outside your comfort zone? In this inspiring episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with his sister, renowned travel expert Erica Gragg, to explore how travel can be the ultimate catalyst for self-confidence and personal growth.</p><p>Erica, co-owner of Escape to Shape Adventures &amp; Wellness and Escape Artists Travel, shares her own journey of overcoming fears, taking bold leaps, and building confidence through experiences around the globe. Discover how facing the unknown—whether it’s a fear of flying, navigating new cultures, or simply dining solo—can lead to transformative growth, both personally and professionally.</p><p>If you’re ready to step out, try something new, and see what you’re truly capable of—this episode is for you!</p><p>Connect with Erica Gragg:<br>Web: escapetoshape.com<br>Web: escapeartiststravel.com<br>Instagram: @EscapeArtistTravel | @EscapetoShape</p><p>More from Adam Gragg:<br>Free mini-course: Shadow for Yourself Light (seven steps to a giant leap in your mental health)<br>https://decideyourlegacy.com/<br>Shatterproof Yourself<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422<br>Legacy Jar<br>https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout</p><p>Like, comment, and subscribe for more courage-driven episodes!</p><p>#TravelConfidence #PersonalGrowth #DecideYourLegacy #Podcast #EricaGrag #AdamGragg #WellnessTravel #LeadershipSkills #overcomefear</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#159: Building Lasting Friendships: Steps to Create Meaningful Connections as an Adult</title>
      <itunes:episode>159</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>159</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#159: Building Lasting Friendships: Steps to Create Meaningful Connections as an Adult</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to revolutionize your friendships and supercharge your life? In Episode 159 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how making new friends as an adult is easier—and more powerful—than you think! Forget awkward small talk and the myth that relationships are “just soft skills”—these connections fuel your happiness, open doors, and even boost your bottom line.</p><p>Join Adam as he delivers three fearless steps to forging meaningful connections: put yourself out there, break the ice with genuine curiosity, and let your guard down. Hear real (and hilarious) stories about golf games, daring coffee invitations, and the bold risks that drive long-term change. Whether you’re a seasoned networker or a hesitant homebody, you’ll laugh, learn, and leave with the courage to build a vibrant circle of friends.</p><p>Ready to invest in relationships that make life (and work) truly extraordinary? Hit play and discover the secrets to friendship that lasts a lifetime!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health<br>Connect with Adam Gragg / Decide Your Legacy Coaching<br>Subscribe to the Decide Your Legacy Podcast<br>Upcoming: Episode on Confidence with Travel (featuring Adam’s sister)</p><p>The 5 Most Relatable Blogs from Decide Your Legacy:</p><p>How to Create Positive, Productive Workplace Relationships<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>One Big Relationship Mistake Most People Make<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to revolutionize your friendships and supercharge your life? In Episode 159 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how making new friends as an adult is easier—and more powerful—than you think! Forget awkward small talk and the myth that relationships are “just soft skills”—these connections fuel your happiness, open doors, and even boost your bottom line.</p><p>Join Adam as he delivers three fearless steps to forging meaningful connections: put yourself out there, break the ice with genuine curiosity, and let your guard down. Hear real (and hilarious) stories about golf games, daring coffee invitations, and the bold risks that drive long-term change. Whether you’re a seasoned networker or a hesitant homebody, you’ll laugh, learn, and leave with the courage to build a vibrant circle of friends.</p><p>Ready to invest in relationships that make life (and work) truly extraordinary? Hit play and discover the secrets to friendship that lasts a lifetime!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health<br>Connect with Adam Gragg / Decide Your Legacy Coaching<br>Subscribe to the Decide Your Legacy Podcast<br>Upcoming: Episode on Confidence with Travel (featuring Adam’s sister)</p><p>The 5 Most Relatable Blogs from Decide Your Legacy:</p><p>How to Create Positive, Productive Workplace Relationships<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>One Big Relationship Mistake Most People Make<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1712</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to revolutionize your friendships and supercharge your life? In Episode 159 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how making new friends as an adult is easier—and more powerful—than you think! Forget awkward small talk and the myth that relationships are “just soft skills”—these connections fuel your happiness, open doors, and even boost your bottom line.</p><p>Join Adam as he delivers three fearless steps to forging meaningful connections: put yourself out there, break the ice with genuine curiosity, and let your guard down. Hear real (and hilarious) stories about golf games, daring coffee invitations, and the bold risks that drive long-term change. Whether you’re a seasoned networker or a hesitant homebody, you’ll laugh, learn, and leave with the courage to build a vibrant circle of friends.</p><p>Ready to invest in relationships that make life (and work) truly extraordinary? Hit play and discover the secrets to friendship that lasts a lifetime!</p><p>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health<br>Connect with Adam Gragg / Decide Your Legacy Coaching<br>Subscribe to the Decide Your Legacy Podcast<br>Upcoming: Episode on Confidence with Travel (featuring Adam’s sister)</p><p>The 5 Most Relatable Blogs from Decide Your Legacy:</p><p>How to Create Positive, Productive Workplace Relationships<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/</a></p><p>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/</a></p><p>One Big Relationship Mistake Most People Make<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p><p>Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/</a></p><p>10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Friendships, Professional growth, Long term mindset, Vulnerability, Taking risks, Mental health, Isolation, Business networking, Open-ended questions, Defensiveness, Anxiety, Age diversity, Workplace relationships, Trust, Personal development</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#158: Three Practical Steps to Stop Getting Defensive and Improve Your Relationships</title>
      <itunes:episode>158</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>158</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#158: Three Practical Steps to Stop Getting Defensive and Improve Your Relationships</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ever find yourself getting defensive—at work, at home, or even just scrolling through your texts? You’re not alone! In Episode 158 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals why defensiveness is sabotaging your connections, fueling drama, and draining your energy. Ready to put a stop to those knee-jerk reactions that keep you stuck?</p><p>Discover three powerful steps to break the cycle—shift your mindset, unleash curiosity, and expand your time horizon. Learn the real reasons we get defensive (hint: it’s not about you!), and walk away with actionable tools to turn tense interactions into opportunities for growth. Whether you’re brave enough to face a tough meeting or craving deeper family ties, this episode is your guide to channeling hope, ditching fear, and defusing defensiveness for good.</p><p>Tune in to reclaim your calm, connect more deeply, and start living the courageous life you want to be remembered for. Stop walking on eggshells—start soaring above defensiveness with the DYL Podcast!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ever find yourself getting defensive—at work, at home, or even just scrolling through your texts? You’re not alone! In Episode 158 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals why defensiveness is sabotaging your connections, fueling drama, and draining your energy. Ready to put a stop to those knee-jerk reactions that keep you stuck?</p><p>Discover three powerful steps to break the cycle—shift your mindset, unleash curiosity, and expand your time horizon. Learn the real reasons we get defensive (hint: it’s not about you!), and walk away with actionable tools to turn tense interactions into opportunities for growth. Whether you’re brave enough to face a tough meeting or craving deeper family ties, this episode is your guide to channeling hope, ditching fear, and defusing defensiveness for good.</p><p>Tune in to reclaim your calm, connect more deeply, and start living the courageous life you want to be remembered for. Stop walking on eggshells—start soaring above defensiveness with the DYL Podcast!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 08:32:31 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ever find yourself getting defensive—at work, at home, or even just scrolling through your texts? You’re not alone! In Episode 158 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals why defensiveness is sabotaging your connections, fueling drama, and draining your energy. Ready to put a stop to those knee-jerk reactions that keep you stuck?</p><p>Discover three powerful steps to break the cycle—shift your mindset, unleash curiosity, and expand your time horizon. Learn the real reasons we get defensive (hint: it’s not about you!), and walk away with actionable tools to turn tense interactions into opportunities for growth. Whether you’re brave enough to face a tough meeting or craving deeper family ties, this episode is your guide to channeling hope, ditching fear, and defusing defensiveness for good.</p><p>Tune in to reclaim your calm, connect more deeply, and start living the courageous life you want to be remembered for. Stop walking on eggshells—start soaring above defensiveness with the DYL Podcast!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Defensiveness, Curiosity, Empathy, Self-awareness, Communication, Mental health, Fear, Workplace interactions, Family relationships, Trust, Avoidance, Time horizon, Productivity, Collusion, Personal growth</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#157: Transform Your Day: Using the Daily Action Worksheet for Mental Health and Growth</title>
      <itunes:episode>157</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>157</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#157: Transform Your Day: Using the Daily Action Worksheet for Mental Health and Growth</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock unstoppable progress in your life with Episode 157 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the secret weapon for resilience and growth: the Daily Action Worksheet. Discover how this simple, life-changing habit can ground you in gratitude, fuel your focus, and empower you to overcome any setback—even eviction notices!</p><p>Adam shares candid stories, real-life wins, and the three essential keys to making gratitude your superpower. Learn how harnessing the Daily Action Worksheet will rewire your brain to spotlight the good, quiet your inner critic, and ignite positive energy across every area of your life—from career to friendships, health to happiness.</p><p>Ready to break free from perfectionism, procrastination, and negativity? Dive in now and snag your free worksheet and video guide. This is your invitation to smash old habits, take bold action, and start leaving a legacy you can be proud of.</p><p>Don’t just listen—decide today to transform your mindset and your future!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock unstoppable progress in your life with Episode 157 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the secret weapon for resilience and growth: the Daily Action Worksheet. Discover how this simple, life-changing habit can ground you in gratitude, fuel your focus, and empower you to overcome any setback—even eviction notices!</p><p>Adam shares candid stories, real-life wins, and the three essential keys to making gratitude your superpower. Learn how harnessing the Daily Action Worksheet will rewire your brain to spotlight the good, quiet your inner critic, and ignite positive energy across every area of your life—from career to friendships, health to happiness.</p><p>Ready to break free from perfectionism, procrastination, and negativity? Dive in now and snag your free worksheet and video guide. This is your invitation to smash old habits, take bold action, and start leaving a legacy you can be proud of.</p><p>Don’t just listen—decide today to transform your mindset and your future!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Adam Gragg</author>
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      <itunes:author>Adam Gragg</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1310</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock unstoppable progress in your life with Episode 157 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the secret weapon for resilience and growth: the Daily Action Worksheet. Discover how this simple, life-changing habit can ground you in gratitude, fuel your focus, and empower you to overcome any setback—even eviction notices!</p><p>Adam shares candid stories, real-life wins, and the three essential keys to making gratitude your superpower. Learn how harnessing the Daily Action Worksheet will rewire your brain to spotlight the good, quiet your inner critic, and ignite positive energy across every area of your life—from career to friendships, health to happiness.</p><p>Ready to break free from perfectionism, procrastination, and negativity? Dive in now and snag your free worksheet and video guide. This is your invitation to smash old habits, take bold action, and start leaving a legacy you can be proud of.</p><p>Don’t just listen—decide today to transform your mindset and your future!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Daily Action Worksheet, Gratitude, Mental health, Habits, Perfectionism, Commitment, Neuroplasticity, Intrusive thoughts, Focus, Life Tree, Wins, Adversity, Shame, Personal growth, Legacy</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#156: Turning Setbacks Into Success: How to Dream Seven Times Bigger in Life and Business</title>
      <itunes:episode>156</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:title>#156: Turning Setbacks Into Success: How to Dream Seven Times Bigger in Life and Business</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to break free from the ordinary and go seven times bigger with your life? Tune in to Episode 156 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg transforms an unexpected eviction notice into an empowering lesson in resilience, daring visions, and unstoppable momentum!</p><p>Discover how setbacks—no matter how embarrassing—can launch you toward your true potential. Learn Adam’s three powerhouse strategies to catapult your goals, supercharge your confidence, and unleash dreams you didn’t even realize you had. From the importance of a bold support network, to fueling your faith after failure, to the simple magic of daily commitment—this episode is your launchpad for explosive personal growth.</p><p>Don’t settle for small dreams. Press play and let Adam show you how to see setbacks as stepping stones and how going seven times bigger is just the beginning. Your next-level legacy starts here. Listen now and decide your legacy—nobody else!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to break free from the ordinary and go seven times bigger with your life? Tune in to Episode 156 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg transforms an unexpected eviction notice into an empowering lesson in resilience, daring visions, and unstoppable momentum!</p><p>Discover how setbacks—no matter how embarrassing—can launch you toward your true potential. Learn Adam’s three powerhouse strategies to catapult your goals, supercharge your confidence, and unleash dreams you didn’t even realize you had. From the importance of a bold support network, to fueling your faith after failure, to the simple magic of daily commitment—this episode is your launchpad for explosive personal growth.</p><p>Don’t settle for small dreams. Press play and let Adam show you how to see setbacks as stepping stones and how going seven times bigger is just the beginning. Your next-level legacy starts here. Listen now and decide your legacy—nobody else!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Adam Gragg</author>
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      <itunes:author>Adam Gragg</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1188</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to break free from the ordinary and go seven times bigger with your life? Tune in to Episode 156 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg transforms an unexpected eviction notice into an empowering lesson in resilience, daring visions, and unstoppable momentum!</p><p>Discover how setbacks—no matter how embarrassing—can launch you toward your true potential. Learn Adam’s three powerhouse strategies to catapult your goals, supercharge your confidence, and unleash dreams you didn’t even realize you had. From the importance of a bold support network, to fueling your faith after failure, to the simple magic of daily commitment—this episode is your launchpad for explosive personal growth.</p><p>Don’t settle for small dreams. Press play and let Adam show you how to see setbacks as stepping stones and how going seven times bigger is just the beginning. Your next-level legacy starts here. Listen now and decide your legacy—nobody else!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Eviction notice, Setbacks, Dreaming big, Vision, Potential, Faith, Anxiety, Commitment, Legacy, Coaching, Accountability, Fear, Overcoming failure, Personal growth, Daily Action worksheet</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#155: The Only Way to Confidence is Through Fear: 3 Principles</title>
      <itunes:episode>155</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>155</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#155: The Only Way to Confidence is Through Fear: 3 Principles</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to kick fear to the curb and finally feel confident—like, for real? Check out Episode 155 of the DYL Podcast, where Adam Gragg gets real about why waiting to feel ready is a trap and why the only way to true confidence is straight through the stuff that scares you.</p><p>With relatable stories (including awkward dating moments and golf misadventures), Adam breaks down the DC-G method that'll help you get moving even when you're nervous. Learn how to outsmart your excuses, why scheduling your fears makes you actually face them, and how remembering the good vibes after you take the leap will keep you coming back for more.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Overcoming Fear to Build Confidence</p><p>03:02 Growth Through Overcoming Challenges</p><p>08:48 Prioritize Tasks by Scheduling</p><p>10:15 Overcome Fears: Schedule Your Life</p><p>12:55 Overcoming Fear in Group Runs</p><p>17:24 Reflecting on an Imperfect Call</p><p>20:16 Influence Mind and Shape Path</p><p>22:53 Overcoming Fear and Seizing Growth</p><p>If you're tired of procrastinating, want to stop overthinking, or just need a boost to do the hard (but important) stuff, this episode’s packed with simple steps and friendly encouragement. Listen in and find out how pushing through fear can turn into your favorite new habit—because your legacy starts with the choices you make today!</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam Gragg has been a licensed mental health professional, <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong>Legacy Coach</strong></a> &amp; family therapist for over 25 years. His passion is to empower every person and organization to live with courage.<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Contact Adam</strong></a> to get started on your legacy journey.<em><br></em><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal<em>,</em> or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to kick fear to the curb and finally feel confident—like, for real? Check out Episode 155 of the DYL Podcast, where Adam Gragg gets real about why waiting to feel ready is a trap and why the only way to true confidence is straight through the stuff that scares you.</p><p>With relatable stories (including awkward dating moments and golf misadventures), Adam breaks down the DC-G method that'll help you get moving even when you're nervous. Learn how to outsmart your excuses, why scheduling your fears makes you actually face them, and how remembering the good vibes after you take the leap will keep you coming back for more.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Overcoming Fear to Build Confidence</p><p>03:02 Growth Through Overcoming Challenges</p><p>08:48 Prioritize Tasks by Scheduling</p><p>10:15 Overcome Fears: Schedule Your Life</p><p>12:55 Overcoming Fear in Group Runs</p><p>17:24 Reflecting on an Imperfect Call</p><p>20:16 Influence Mind and Shape Path</p><p>22:53 Overcoming Fear and Seizing Growth</p><p>If you're tired of procrastinating, want to stop overthinking, or just need a boost to do the hard (but important) stuff, this episode’s packed with simple steps and friendly encouragement. Listen in and find out how pushing through fear can turn into your favorite new habit—because your legacy starts with the choices you make today!</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam Gragg has been a licensed mental health professional, <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong>Legacy Coach</strong></a> &amp; family therapist for over 25 years. His passion is to empower every person and organization to live with courage.<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Contact Adam</strong></a> to get started on your legacy journey.<em><br></em><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal<em>,</em> or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ready to kick fear to the curb and finally feel confident—like, for real? Check out Episode 155 of the DYL Podcast, where Adam Gragg gets real about why waiting to feel ready is a trap and why the only way to true confidence is straight through the stuff that scares you.</p><p>With relatable stories (including awkward dating moments and golf misadventures), Adam breaks down the DC-G method that'll help you get moving even when you're nervous. Learn how to outsmart your excuses, why scheduling your fears makes you actually face them, and how remembering the good vibes after you take the leap will keep you coming back for more.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Overcoming Fear to Build Confidence</p><p>03:02 Growth Through Overcoming Challenges</p><p>08:48 Prioritize Tasks by Scheduling</p><p>10:15 Overcome Fears: Schedule Your Life</p><p>12:55 Overcoming Fear in Group Runs</p><p>17:24 Reflecting on an Imperfect Call</p><p>20:16 Influence Mind and Shape Path</p><p>22:53 Overcoming Fear and Seizing Growth</p><p>If you're tired of procrastinating, want to stop overthinking, or just need a boost to do the hard (but important) stuff, this episode’s packed with simple steps and friendly encouragement. Listen in and find out how pushing through fear can turn into your favorite new habit—because your legacy starts with the choices you make today!</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam Gragg has been a licensed mental health professional, <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong>Legacy Coach</strong></a> &amp; family therapist for over 25 years. His passion is to empower every person and organization to live with courage.<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Contact Adam</strong></a> to get started on your legacy journey.<em><br></em><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal<em>,</em> or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Confidence, Fear, Courage, Discipline, Motivation, Procrastination, Preparation, Perfectionism, Scheduling, Growth, Emotional mindset, Legacy, Accountability, Relationships, Change</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#154: Positive Relationships Are Retention Strategy #1</title>
      <itunes:episode>154</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Uncover the ultimate retention hack in Episode 154 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals why positive workplace relationships aren’t just nice-to-have—they’re your #1 strategy for keeping your team happy, engaged, and around for the long haul. Adam shares eye-popping stats (think 63% more likely to stay!), real-world stories, and three bold moves you can make today to turn your workplace—or any relationship—into a loyalty magnet.</p><p>Get ready for practical tips, new ways to connect, and a splash of inspiration for leaders at every level. Whether you lead a team of two or 200, this episode will spark ideas to build connection, spark courage, and foster belonging where it matters most.</p><p>Press play and discover how small, intentional relationships can yield giant leaps in retention, performance, and purpose. Don’t miss it—your legacy (and your team) depend on it!</p><p><br><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Workplace Connection Aids Retention</p><p>04:57 Empowering Leadership Through Impactful Connections</p><p>09:25 Effective Icebreakers for Meetings</p><p>10:59 "Fostering Openness and Mutual Respect"</p><p>13:37 Workplace Connections and Impact</p><p>16:52 Isolation Undermines Employee Retention</p><p><br><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work &amp; Social Events</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions To Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Fun Relationship-Building Questions</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Connection Hacks to Bring People Closer: The Ultimate Relationship Building Guide</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam Gragg has been a licensed mental health professional, <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong>Legacy Coach</strong></a> &amp; family therapist for over 25 years. His passion is to empower every person and organization to live with courage.<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Contact Adam</strong></a> to get started on you're your legacy journey.<em><br></em><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal<em>,</em> or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Uncover the ultimate retention hack in Episode 154 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals why positive workplace relationships aren’t just nice-to-have—they’re your #1 strategy for keeping your team happy, engaged, and around for the long haul. Adam shares eye-popping stats (think 63% more likely to stay!), real-world stories, and three bold moves you can make today to turn your workplace—or any relationship—into a loyalty magnet.</p><p>Get ready for practical tips, new ways to connect, and a splash of inspiration for leaders at every level. Whether you lead a team of two or 200, this episode will spark ideas to build connection, spark courage, and foster belonging where it matters most.</p><p>Press play and discover how small, intentional relationships can yield giant leaps in retention, performance, and purpose. Don’t miss it—your legacy (and your team) depend on it!</p><p><br><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Workplace Connection Aids Retention</p><p>04:57 Empowering Leadership Through Impactful Connections</p><p>09:25 Effective Icebreakers for Meetings</p><p>10:59 "Fostering Openness and Mutual Respect"</p><p>13:37 Workplace Connections and Impact</p><p>16:52 Isolation Undermines Employee Retention</p><p><br><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work &amp; Social Events</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions To Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Fun Relationship-Building Questions</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Connection Hacks to Bring People Closer: The Ultimate Relationship Building Guide</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam Gragg has been a licensed mental health professional, <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong>Legacy Coach</strong></a> &amp; family therapist for over 25 years. His passion is to empower every person and organization to live with courage.<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Contact Adam</strong></a> to get started on you're your legacy journey.<em><br></em><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal<em>,</em> or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Uncover the ultimate retention hack in Episode 154 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals why positive workplace relationships aren’t just nice-to-have—they’re your #1 strategy for keeping your team happy, engaged, and around for the long haul. Adam shares eye-popping stats (think 63% more likely to stay!), real-world stories, and three bold moves you can make today to turn your workplace—or any relationship—into a loyalty magnet.</p><p>Get ready for practical tips, new ways to connect, and a splash of inspiration for leaders at every level. Whether you lead a team of two or 200, this episode will spark ideas to build connection, spark courage, and foster belonging where it matters most.</p><p>Press play and discover how small, intentional relationships can yield giant leaps in retention, performance, and purpose. Don’t miss it—your legacy (and your team) depend on it!</p><p><br><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Workplace Connection Aids Retention</p><p>04:57 Empowering Leadership Through Impactful Connections</p><p>09:25 Effective Icebreakers for Meetings</p><p>10:59 "Fostering Openness and Mutual Respect"</p><p>13:37 Workplace Connections and Impact</p><p>16:52 Isolation Undermines Employee Retention</p><p><br><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself">Shatterproof Yourself</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work &amp; Social Events</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions To Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Fun Relationship-Building Questions</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Connection Hacks to Bring People Closer: The Ultimate Relationship Building Guide</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam Gragg has been a licensed mental health professional, <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong>Legacy Coach</strong></a> &amp; family therapist for over 25 years. His passion is to empower every person and organization to live with courage.<strong> </strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Contact Adam</strong></a> to get started on you're your legacy journey.<em><br></em><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal<em>,</em> or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Retention, Positive relationships, Workplace connection, Employee engagement, Belonging, Vulnerability, Leadership, Team building, Purpose, Recognition, Turnover, Workplace culture, Abandonment fear, Isolation, Performance</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#153: Unlock Clarity: Create Your Own Top 10 Questions Today</title>
      <itunes:episode>153</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>153</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to unforgettable conversations with Episode 153 of the DYL Podcast! Adam Gragg reveals how to transform awkward small talk into energizing, life-changing interactions. In this episode, you’ll uncover the power of crafting your personal Top 10 Questions list: a simple yet profound tool to break through anxiety, banish awkward silences, and build meaningful connections.</p><p>Discover the rules to masterful questioning, learn how to create curiosity-driven, non-judgmental questions that spark authentic conversations, and start building relationships that matter. Whether you want to deepen connections with friends, colleagues, or family, this episode gives you actionable steps—plus Adam’s own favorite questions—to help you turn every interaction into an opportunity for growth.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 The Power of Meaningful Conversations</p><p>04:04 Creating a List of Favorite Questions</p><p>07:55 Open-Ended Questioning Guidelines</p><p>12:21 Unlocking Conversations Through Questions</p><p>15:14 Mastering Effective Questioning Techniques</p><p>16:47 Decide Your Legacy</p><p><br><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">Legacy Jar</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions To Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Fun Relationship-Building Questions</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Connection Hacks to Bring People Closer: The Ultimate Relationship Building Guide</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p>Are you ready to connect, grow, and live more courageously? Tune in now and start your journey toward more meaningful conversations—because your legacy is built one question at a time.</p><p>Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to unforgettable conversations with Episode 153 of the DYL Podcast! Adam Gragg reveals how to transform awkward small talk into energizing, life-changing interactions. In this episode, you’ll uncover the power of crafting your personal Top 10 Questions list: a simple yet profound tool to break through anxiety, banish awkward silences, and build meaningful connections.</p><p>Discover the rules to masterful questioning, learn how to create curiosity-driven, non-judgmental questions that spark authentic conversations, and start building relationships that matter. Whether you want to deepen connections with friends, colleagues, or family, this episode gives you actionable steps—plus Adam’s own favorite questions—to help you turn every interaction into an opportunity for growth.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 The Power of Meaningful Conversations</p><p>04:04 Creating a List of Favorite Questions</p><p>07:55 Open-Ended Questioning Guidelines</p><p>12:21 Unlocking Conversations Through Questions</p><p>15:14 Mastering Effective Questioning Techniques</p><p>16:47 Decide Your Legacy</p><p><br><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">Legacy Jar</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions To Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Fun Relationship-Building Questions</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Connection Hacks to Bring People Closer: The Ultimate Relationship Building Guide</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p>Are you ready to connect, grow, and live more courageously? Tune in now and start your journey toward more meaningful conversations—because your legacy is built one question at a time.</p><p>Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1105</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to unforgettable conversations with Episode 153 of the DYL Podcast! Adam Gragg reveals how to transform awkward small talk into energizing, life-changing interactions. In this episode, you’ll uncover the power of crafting your personal Top 10 Questions list: a simple yet profound tool to break through anxiety, banish awkward silences, and build meaningful connections.</p><p>Discover the rules to masterful questioning, learn how to create curiosity-driven, non-judgmental questions that spark authentic conversations, and start building relationships that matter. Whether you want to deepen connections with friends, colleagues, or family, this episode gives you actionable steps—plus Adam’s own favorite questions—to help you turn every interaction into an opportunity for growth.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 The Power of Meaningful Conversations</p><p>04:04 Creating a List of Favorite Questions</p><p>07:55 Open-Ended Questioning Guidelines</p><p>12:21 Unlocking Conversations Through Questions</p><p>15:14 Mastering Effective Questioning Techniques</p><p>16:47 Decide Your Legacy</p><p><br><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/WcHmozLk/checkout">Legacy Jar</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions To Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Fun Relationship-Building Questions</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Connection Hacks to Bring People Closer: The Ultimate Relationship Building Guide</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p>Are you ready to connect, grow, and live more courageously? Tune in now and start your journey toward more meaningful conversations—because your legacy is built one question at a time.</p><p>Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Small talk, Anxiety, Meaningful conversations, Open-ended questions, Judgment, Networking, Relationship building, Personal growth, Curiosity, Legacy, Empathy, Team feedback, Career coaching, Goal-setting, Transformation</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#152: My Best 3 Pieces of Relationship Advice</title>
      <itunes:episode>152</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>152</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#152: My Best 3 Pieces of Relationship Advice</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the ultimate relationship upgrade with Episode 152 of the DYL Podcast! Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he distills his top three powerhouse tips for building better, bolder connections—at work, at home, and everywhere in between.</p><p>Ready to transform your relationships in just 15 minutes? Adam reveals why liking yourself changes everything, how going first in connection can energize your whole day, and the magic of genuine curiosity that turns every conversation into an adventure. From quirky icebreaker questions to embracing vulnerability and ditching self-doubt, this episode is packed with fun stories, practical challenges, and infectious encouragement. Whether you want to thrive in your friendships, ace that date, or bring new life to your business interactions—these three steps are your secret sauce.</p><p><br><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Top 3 Relationship Tips</p><p>05:27 Commitment and Self-Discipline Struggles</p><p>06:15 Self-Respect Leads to Bold Connections</p><p>09:51 Facing Challenges Through Accountability</p><p>12:40 Shatterproof Yourself: Mental Health Guide</p><p><br>Don’t miss out—tune in now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for! Like, share, and subscribe so you never miss another burst of inspiration from the DYL Podcast.</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422t">Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the ultimate relationship upgrade with Episode 152 of the DYL Podcast! Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he distills his top three powerhouse tips for building better, bolder connections—at work, at home, and everywhere in between.</p><p>Ready to transform your relationships in just 15 minutes? Adam reveals why liking yourself changes everything, how going first in connection can energize your whole day, and the magic of genuine curiosity that turns every conversation into an adventure. From quirky icebreaker questions to embracing vulnerability and ditching self-doubt, this episode is packed with fun stories, practical challenges, and infectious encouragement. Whether you want to thrive in your friendships, ace that date, or bring new life to your business interactions—these three steps are your secret sauce.</p><p><br><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Top 3 Relationship Tips</p><p>05:27 Commitment and Self-Discipline Struggles</p><p>06:15 Self-Respect Leads to Bold Connections</p><p>09:51 Facing Challenges Through Accountability</p><p>12:40 Shatterproof Yourself: Mental Health Guide</p><p><br>Don’t miss out—tune in now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for! Like, share, and subscribe so you never miss another burst of inspiration from the DYL Podcast.</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422t">Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>899</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the ultimate relationship upgrade with Episode 152 of the DYL Podcast! Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he distills his top three powerhouse tips for building better, bolder connections—at work, at home, and everywhere in between.</p><p>Ready to transform your relationships in just 15 minutes? Adam reveals why liking yourself changes everything, how going first in connection can energize your whole day, and the magic of genuine curiosity that turns every conversation into an adventure. From quirky icebreaker questions to embracing vulnerability and ditching self-doubt, this episode is packed with fun stories, practical challenges, and infectious encouragement. Whether you want to thrive in your friendships, ace that date, or bring new life to your business interactions—these three steps are your secret sauce.</p><p><br><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Top 3 Relationship Tips</p><p>05:27 Commitment and Self-Discipline Struggles</p><p>06:15 Self-Respect Leads to Bold Connections</p><p>09:51 Facing Challenges Through Accountability</p><p>12:40 Shatterproof Yourself: Mental Health Guide</p><p><br>Don’t miss out—tune in now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for! Like, share, and subscribe so you never miss another burst of inspiration from the DYL Podcast.</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422t">Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Self-worth, Relationships, Self-respect, Vulnerability, Taking risks, Self-discipline, Accountability, Curiosity, Listening, Personal growth, Legacy, Icebreakers, Support groups, Confidence, Personal development</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#151: How To Stay Out Of The Drama</title>
      <itunes:episode>151</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>151</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#151: How To Stay Out Of The Drama</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into a drama-free life with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In Episode 151, you will be challenged to cut the chaos and reclaim your power in how to stay out of the drama. Discover the hidden ways drama sneaks into your daily life—from subtle gossip at work to family triangulation—and learn Adam’s three powerful keys to breaking free.</p><p>Unlock insight into how drama holds you back from your goals, drains your energy, and distracts you from real growth. Adam shares actionable strategies that empower you to lead with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and build relationships rooted in self-respect. Whether you’re tired of office drama, family conflicts, or internal turmoil, this episode offers practical tools to help you rise above the noise.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Overcoming Personal Drama</p><p>04:35 Family Triangulation Dynamics</p><p>09:14 Handling Unwarranted Accusations Calmly</p><p>12:20 Embracing Criticism with Dignity</p><p>15:13 Choose Your Battles Wisely</p><p>17:12 Intuitive Decisions Over Cancel Culture</p><p>20:43 Avoiding Drama in Relationships</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself Course</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Ready to stop taking the bait and start living boldly? Listen now and transform how you handle conflict, protect your peace, and step into your best self. Make your legacy one of dignity, strength, and purpose—starting today!</p><p>Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into a drama-free life with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In Episode 151, you will be challenged to cut the chaos and reclaim your power in how to stay out of the drama. Discover the hidden ways drama sneaks into your daily life—from subtle gossip at work to family triangulation—and learn Adam’s three powerful keys to breaking free.</p><p>Unlock insight into how drama holds you back from your goals, drains your energy, and distracts you from real growth. Adam shares actionable strategies that empower you to lead with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and build relationships rooted in self-respect. Whether you’re tired of office drama, family conflicts, or internal turmoil, this episode offers practical tools to help you rise above the noise.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Overcoming Personal Drama</p><p>04:35 Family Triangulation Dynamics</p><p>09:14 Handling Unwarranted Accusations Calmly</p><p>12:20 Embracing Criticism with Dignity</p><p>15:13 Choose Your Battles Wisely</p><p>17:12 Intuitive Decisions Over Cancel Culture</p><p>20:43 Avoiding Drama in Relationships</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself Course</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Ready to stop taking the bait and start living boldly? Listen now and transform how you handle conflict, protect your peace, and step into your best self. Make your legacy one of dignity, strength, and purpose—starting today!</p><p>Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Step into a drama-free life with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In Episode 151, you will be challenged to cut the chaos and reclaim your power in how to stay out of the drama. Discover the hidden ways drama sneaks into your daily life—from subtle gossip at work to family triangulation—and learn Adam’s three powerful keys to breaking free.</p><p>Unlock insight into how drama holds you back from your goals, drains your energy, and distracts you from real growth. Adam shares actionable strategies that empower you to lead with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and build relationships rooted in self-respect. Whether you’re tired of office drama, family conflicts, or internal turmoil, this episode offers practical tools to help you rise above the noise.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong><br>00:00 Overcoming Personal Drama</p><p>04:35 Family Triangulation Dynamics</p><p>09:14 Handling Unwarranted Accusations Calmly</p><p>12:20 Embracing Criticism with Dignity</p><p>15:13 Choose Your Battles Wisely</p><p>17:12 Intuitive Decisions Over Cancel Culture</p><p>20:43 Avoiding Drama in Relationships</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself Course</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Ready to stop taking the bait and start living boldly? Listen now and transform how you handle conflict, protect your peace, and step into your best self. Make your legacy one of dignity, strength, and purpose—starting today!</p><p>Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. </p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Drama, Boundaries, Leadership, Triangulation, Gossip, Self-respect, Power dynamics, Defensiveness, Validation, Criticism, Healthy relationships, Cancel culture, Core issues, Communication strategies, Personal growth</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#150: Don't Make It About You: 3 Lessons</title>
      <itunes:episode>150</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to deeper relationships and true personal growth with Episode 150 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he shares three transformative lessons on how to stop making it about yourself—and make every interaction richer, calmer, and more meaningful. In this milestone episode, Adam reveals how shifting your focus to others isn’t just about empathy, it’s the key to your own emotional intelligence, growth, and lasting connection.</p><p>Find out how to stay grounded when emotions flare, respond with courage instead of anxiety, and inspire the people around you to feel heard and understood. Packed with real-life stories and actionable strategies, this episode will empower you to build stronger bonds at home, at work, and within yourself.</p><p>Ready to break free from self-centered reactions and create the legacy you want to be remembered for? Listen now to Episode 150 and discover how making it about others can transform your life, relationships, and future!</p><p>00:00 Shift Focus: It's Not About You</p><p>03:39 "It's About Them"</p><p>06:40 Growth Through Selfless Contribution</p><p>10:01 "It's About Growth, Not Me"</p><p>14:12 Embrace Growth and Connection</p><p>16:34 "Building Your Legacy Today"</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to deeper relationships and true personal growth with Episode 150 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he shares three transformative lessons on how to stop making it about yourself—and make every interaction richer, calmer, and more meaningful. In this milestone episode, Adam reveals how shifting your focus to others isn’t just about empathy, it’s the key to your own emotional intelligence, growth, and lasting connection.</p><p>Find out how to stay grounded when emotions flare, respond with courage instead of anxiety, and inspire the people around you to feel heard and understood. Packed with real-life stories and actionable strategies, this episode will empower you to build stronger bonds at home, at work, and within yourself.</p><p>Ready to break free from self-centered reactions and create the legacy you want to be remembered for? Listen now to Episode 150 and discover how making it about others can transform your life, relationships, and future!</p><p>00:00 Shift Focus: It's Not About You</p><p>03:39 "It's About Them"</p><p>06:40 Growth Through Selfless Contribution</p><p>10:01 "It's About Growth, Not Me"</p><p>14:12 Embrace Growth and Connection</p><p>16:34 "Building Your Legacy Today"</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1098</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to deeper relationships and true personal growth with Episode 150 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he shares three transformative lessons on how to stop making it about yourself—and make every interaction richer, calmer, and more meaningful. In this milestone episode, Adam reveals how shifting your focus to others isn’t just about empathy, it’s the key to your own emotional intelligence, growth, and lasting connection.</p><p>Find out how to stay grounded when emotions flare, respond with courage instead of anxiety, and inspire the people around you to feel heard and understood. Packed with real-life stories and actionable strategies, this episode will empower you to build stronger bonds at home, at work, and within yourself.</p><p>Ready to break free from self-centered reactions and create the legacy you want to be remembered for? Listen now to Episode 150 and discover how making it about others can transform your life, relationships, and future!</p><p>00:00 Shift Focus: It's Not About You</p><p>03:39 "It's About Them"</p><p>06:40 Growth Through Selfless Contribution</p><p>10:01 "It's About Growth, Not Me"</p><p>14:12 Embrace Growth and Connection</p><p>16:34 "Building Your Legacy Today"</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Emotional intelligence, Mental health, Personal growth, Relationships, Connection, Self-awareness, Anger management, Empathy, Humility, Courage, Drama, Boundaries, Vulnerability, Legacy</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#149: Seven Ways to Encourage Others: Start Building A Legacy Today (pt. 2)</title>
      <itunes:episode>149</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>149</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#149: Seven Ways to Encourage Others: Start Building A Legacy Today (pt. 2)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secrets to truly helping others with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg in Episode 149 as he dives into seven powerful ways you can make a real difference in the lives of your friends, family, co-workers, and even strangers. From breaking old patterns and facing tough emotions to building meaningful connections and fueling self-care, Adam delivers actionable strategies you won’t hear anywhere else. Hear an inspiring story of survival and lasting friendship—plus, discover why courage is the key to both your mental health and your legacy.</p><p>Are you ready to stop just hoping for positive change and actually make it happen? Tune in now to get the motivation and tools you need to help others—and yourself—live courageously and create a lasting impact!</p><p><br>Listen today and start deciding your legacy, one bold action at a time.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong>:<br>00:00 Encouraging Loved Ones Effectively</p><p>06:09 Avoid Impulsive Reactions</p><p>09:22 Providing Emotional Safety</p><p>10:07 Selfless Helping: Overcoming Discomfort</p><p>14:20 Rejuvenation and Giving Back</p><p>18:09 Invitations Foster Deeper Connections</p><p>21:40 "Steps to Transform Mental Health"</p><p>23:03 "Shape Your Legacy"</p><p><strong>Resources</strong>:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself Course</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/148">Episode 148: The First Four Powerful Ways You Can Help Others</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/signs-you-need-a-coach/">Signs You Need A Coach</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/live-courageously/">Live Courageously: Four Ways to Create a Life That Energizes You</a></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secrets to truly helping others with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg in Episode 149 as he dives into seven powerful ways you can make a real difference in the lives of your friends, family, co-workers, and even strangers. From breaking old patterns and facing tough emotions to building meaningful connections and fueling self-care, Adam delivers actionable strategies you won’t hear anywhere else. Hear an inspiring story of survival and lasting friendship—plus, discover why courage is the key to both your mental health and your legacy.</p><p>Are you ready to stop just hoping for positive change and actually make it happen? Tune in now to get the motivation and tools you need to help others—and yourself—live courageously and create a lasting impact!</p><p><br>Listen today and start deciding your legacy, one bold action at a time.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong>:<br>00:00 Encouraging Loved Ones Effectively</p><p>06:09 Avoid Impulsive Reactions</p><p>09:22 Providing Emotional Safety</p><p>10:07 Selfless Helping: Overcoming Discomfort</p><p>14:20 Rejuvenation and Giving Back</p><p>18:09 Invitations Foster Deeper Connections</p><p>21:40 "Steps to Transform Mental Health"</p><p>23:03 "Shape Your Legacy"</p><p><strong>Resources</strong>:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself Course</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/148">Episode 148: The First Four Powerful Ways You Can Help Others</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/signs-you-need-a-coach/">Signs You Need A Coach</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/live-courageously/">Live Courageously: Four Ways to Create a Life That Energizes You</a></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secrets to truly helping others with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg in Episode 149 as he dives into seven powerful ways you can make a real difference in the lives of your friends, family, co-workers, and even strangers. From breaking old patterns and facing tough emotions to building meaningful connections and fueling self-care, Adam delivers actionable strategies you won’t hear anywhere else. Hear an inspiring story of survival and lasting friendship—plus, discover why courage is the key to both your mental health and your legacy.</p><p>Are you ready to stop just hoping for positive change and actually make it happen? Tune in now to get the motivation and tools you need to help others—and yourself—live courageously and create a lasting impact!</p><p><br>Listen today and start deciding your legacy, one bold action at a time.</p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong>:<br>00:00 Encouraging Loved Ones Effectively</p><p>06:09 Avoid Impulsive Reactions</p><p>09:22 Providing Emotional Safety</p><p>10:07 Selfless Helping: Overcoming Discomfort</p><p>14:20 Rejuvenation and Giving Back</p><p>18:09 Invitations Foster Deeper Connections</p><p>21:40 "Steps to Transform Mental Health"</p><p>23:03 "Shape Your Legacy"</p><p><strong>Resources</strong>:<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2148658422">Shatterproof Yourself Course</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/148">Episode 148: The First Four Powerful Ways You Can Help Others</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/signs-you-need-a-coach/">Signs You Need A Coach</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/live-courageously/">Live Courageously: Four Ways to Create a Life That Energizes You</a></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unleash the power of encouragement on the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In this episode Adam Gragg reveals seven transformational ways to uplift those around you. Discover how simple actions, like recommending a life-changing book or offering a genuine compliment, can drastically impact and empower your friends, family, and colleagues.</p><p>With the insights that are gained, you'll learn how to inspire others to live courageously. This episode promises shocking revelations and practical tips to rejuvenate your personal and professional relationships. Break free from the norm and step into a world where your actions create a powerful ripple effect of encouragement and positivity.</p><p>Subscribe now and take the first step toward building a legacy of empowerment and courage. Don't miss out on becoming the person who makes others' lives brighter!</p><p><strong>Timestaps</strong><br>00:00 Books: Shortcuts to Personal Growth</p><p>05:45 Overcoming Insecurity and Trauma</p><p>09:20 Effective Therapy Communication Tips</p><p>11:42 Overcoming Self-Doubt in New Roles</p><p>13:15 Confronting Past Abandonment Issues</p><p>18:55 Overcoming Fear Through Empathy</p><p>20:26 "Self-Care Through Giving Back"</p><p>26:19 Shifting Perspectives to Overcome Anxiety</p><p>28:22 "Building Psychological Resilience"</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Light</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unleash the power of encouragement on the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In this episode Adam Gragg reveals seven transformational ways to uplift those around you. Discover how simple actions, like recommending a life-changing book or offering a genuine compliment, can drastically impact and empower your friends, family, and colleagues.</p><p>With the insights that are gained, you'll learn how to inspire others to live courageously. This episode promises shocking revelations and practical tips to rejuvenate your personal and professional relationships. Break free from the norm and step into a world where your actions create a powerful ripple effect of encouragement and positivity.</p><p>Subscribe now and take the first step toward building a legacy of empowerment and courage. Don't miss out on becoming the person who makes others' lives brighter!</p><p><strong>Timestaps</strong><br>00:00 Books: Shortcuts to Personal Growth</p><p>05:45 Overcoming Insecurity and Trauma</p><p>09:20 Effective Therapy Communication Tips</p><p>11:42 Overcoming Self-Doubt in New Roles</p><p>13:15 Confronting Past Abandonment Issues</p><p>18:55 Overcoming Fear Through Empathy</p><p>20:26 "Self-Care Through Giving Back"</p><p>26:19 Shifting Perspectives to Overcome Anxiety</p><p>28:22 "Building Psychological Resilience"</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Light</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unleash the power of encouragement on the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In this episode Adam Gragg reveals seven transformational ways to uplift those around you. Discover how simple actions, like recommending a life-changing book or offering a genuine compliment, can drastically impact and empower your friends, family, and colleagues.</p><p>With the insights that are gained, you'll learn how to inspire others to live courageously. This episode promises shocking revelations and practical tips to rejuvenate your personal and professional relationships. Break free from the norm and step into a world where your actions create a powerful ripple effect of encouragement and positivity.</p><p>Subscribe now and take the first step toward building a legacy of empowerment and courage. Don't miss out on becoming the person who makes others' lives brighter!</p><p><strong>Timestaps</strong><br>00:00 Books: Shortcuts to Personal Growth</p><p>05:45 Overcoming Insecurity and Trauma</p><p>09:20 Effective Therapy Communication Tips</p><p>11:42 Overcoming Self-Doubt in New Roles</p><p>13:15 Confronting Past Abandonment Issues</p><p>18:55 Overcoming Fear Through Empathy</p><p>20:26 "Self-Care Through Giving Back"</p><p>26:19 Shifting Perspectives to Overcome Anxiety</p><p>28:22 "Building Psychological Resilience"</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Light</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Books, Leadership, Self deception, Encouragement, Legacy, Clarity, Vision, Goals, Courage, Connections, Self worth, Past experiences, Therapy, Perspective, Resiliency</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#147: Mastering the Art of Blocking Out Negative Noise</title>
      <itunes:episode>147</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>147</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Silence the chaos within and take control of your life with Episode 147 of the DYL Podcast. In this episode we will discuss how to Mastering the Art of Blocking Out Negative Noise in Your Life. Join Adam Gragg as he delves into the damaging effects of internal noise and how it can lead us astray. Discover the powerful techniques to identify and silence this disruptive chatter to enhance your mental well-being.</p><p>Learn how Adam's personal experiences, from parental triggers to daring 70s disco dance floors, illustrate the pervasive nature of internal noise. But don't worry—there's hope! Equip yourself with the tools to channel your thoughts productively, steering clear of life's harmful gutter balls, and realigning your journey towards your vision and enriching relationships.</p><p>Tune in and unlock the secrets to living courageously by muting the distractions and focusing on your true path. This empowering episode will guide you toward purposeful action, long-term relief, and creating a legacy of intention. Listen now and start making mental resilience your superpower with the DYL Podcast!</p><p>00:00 Live Courageously: Silence Inner Noise</p><p>04:41 Noise vs. Constructive Thinking</p><p>07:16 Mindful Conversations on Parenting Challenges</p><p>13:00 Escaping Through Workaholism</p><p>16:28 Unproductive Meetings Hinder Leadership Progress</p><p>18:30 Policy Change: Promoting Unified Leadership</p><p>22:39 Being Psychologically Shatterproof</p><p>23:35 "Share and Review the Episode"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/43IdnfP">The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael Singer</a></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs on Decide Your Legacy:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous </a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One </a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Silence the chaos within and take control of your life with Episode 147 of the DYL Podcast. In this episode we will discuss how to Mastering the Art of Blocking Out Negative Noise in Your Life. Join Adam Gragg as he delves into the damaging effects of internal noise and how it can lead us astray. Discover the powerful techniques to identify and silence this disruptive chatter to enhance your mental well-being.</p><p>Learn how Adam's personal experiences, from parental triggers to daring 70s disco dance floors, illustrate the pervasive nature of internal noise. But don't worry—there's hope! Equip yourself with the tools to channel your thoughts productively, steering clear of life's harmful gutter balls, and realigning your journey towards your vision and enriching relationships.</p><p>Tune in and unlock the secrets to living courageously by muting the distractions and focusing on your true path. This empowering episode will guide you toward purposeful action, long-term relief, and creating a legacy of intention. Listen now and start making mental resilience your superpower with the DYL Podcast!</p><p>00:00 Live Courageously: Silence Inner Noise</p><p>04:41 Noise vs. Constructive Thinking</p><p>07:16 Mindful Conversations on Parenting Challenges</p><p>13:00 Escaping Through Workaholism</p><p>16:28 Unproductive Meetings Hinder Leadership Progress</p><p>18:30 Policy Change: Promoting Unified Leadership</p><p>22:39 Being Psychologically Shatterproof</p><p>23:35 "Share and Review the Episode"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/43IdnfP">The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael Singer</a></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs on Decide Your Legacy:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous </a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One </a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Silence the chaos within and take control of your life with Episode 147 of the DYL Podcast. In this episode we will discuss how to Mastering the Art of Blocking Out Negative Noise in Your Life. Join Adam Gragg as he delves into the damaging effects of internal noise and how it can lead us astray. Discover the powerful techniques to identify and silence this disruptive chatter to enhance your mental well-being.</p><p>Learn how Adam's personal experiences, from parental triggers to daring 70s disco dance floors, illustrate the pervasive nature of internal noise. But don't worry—there's hope! Equip yourself with the tools to channel your thoughts productively, steering clear of life's harmful gutter balls, and realigning your journey towards your vision and enriching relationships.</p><p>Tune in and unlock the secrets to living courageously by muting the distractions and focusing on your true path. This empowering episode will guide you toward purposeful action, long-term relief, and creating a legacy of intention. Listen now and start making mental resilience your superpower with the DYL Podcast!</p><p>00:00 Live Courageously: Silence Inner Noise</p><p>04:41 Noise vs. Constructive Thinking</p><p>07:16 Mindful Conversations on Parenting Challenges</p><p>13:00 Escaping Through Workaholism</p><p>16:28 Unproductive Meetings Hinder Leadership Progress</p><p>18:30 Policy Change: Promoting Unified Leadership</p><p>22:39 Being Psychologically Shatterproof</p><p>23:35 "Share and Review the Episode"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/43IdnfP">The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael Singer</a></p><p>Top 5 Most Relatable Blogs on Decide Your Legacy:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/">7 Benefits of Being Courageous </a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One </a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices</a></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#146. Transform Your Relationships with the DISC: Understanding Personality Styles for Better Connection</title>
      <itunes:episode>146</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>146</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#146. Transform Your Relationships with the DISC: Understanding Personality Styles for Better Connection</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the potential of your relationships with Episode 146 of the DYL Podcast. Join host Adam Gragg as he delves into the transformative power of the DISC Personality Assessment. Discover how understanding different personality styles can enhance your connections with family, co-workers, or friends. Gain the tools to communicate effectively, minimize conflicts, and nurture harmony in every area of your life.</p><p>Tune in now to see the world through the unique perspectives of a lion, otter, beaver, or golden retriever! Embrace the differences, boost your communication effectiveness, and take the courageous steps to improve your relationships today. Your journey to better connections starts here!</p><p>00:00 Awkward Conversation Turns Positive</p><p>03:26 "Effective Communication Strategies"</p><p>06:56 Positive Influence and Small Changes</p><p>12:09 Understanding DISC Personality Types</p><p>15:36 Socialize to Boost Productivity</p><p>17:12 Balancing Team Dynamics with DISC</p><p>22:48 Super Bowl Afterparty Adventure</p><p>24:26 Mastering DISC for Effective Communication</p><p>29:05 "Embrace Diverse Styles for Success"</p><p>30:04 "Be Fun, Be Enthusiastic"</p><p>33:12 "Adapting Communication for DISC Styles"</p><p>36:34 Validating D Style Decision-Makers</p><p>41:49 Avoid Promises You Can't Keep</p><p>44:12 Understanding 'C' and 'S' Personality Types</p><p>46:40 "Self-Paced Resilience Course"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://form.jotform.com/250474386563060">DISC Personality Assessment</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/4hRuzTn">Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/live-the-life-you-want/">The Courage to Be Yourself: How to Make Better Decisions and Live the Life You Want</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-signs-youre-an-overloaded-leader/">5 Signs You’re an Overloaded Leader &amp; What to Do About It</a>(Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/build-grit-and-resilience-in-teens/">The Secret to Building Grit &amp; Resilience in Teens</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/break-the-trauma-cycle/">How to Break the Trauma Cycle: Practical Tools &amp; Strategies for Making a Breakthrough</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/30-ways-to-attract-joy/">30 Small but Significant Ways to Attract More Joy Right Now</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the potential of your relationships with Episode 146 of the DYL Podcast. Join host Adam Gragg as he delves into the transformative power of the DISC Personality Assessment. Discover how understanding different personality styles can enhance your connections with family, co-workers, or friends. Gain the tools to communicate effectively, minimize conflicts, and nurture harmony in every area of your life.</p><p>Tune in now to see the world through the unique perspectives of a lion, otter, beaver, or golden retriever! Embrace the differences, boost your communication effectiveness, and take the courageous steps to improve your relationships today. Your journey to better connections starts here!</p><p>00:00 Awkward Conversation Turns Positive</p><p>03:26 "Effective Communication Strategies"</p><p>06:56 Positive Influence and Small Changes</p><p>12:09 Understanding DISC Personality Types</p><p>15:36 Socialize to Boost Productivity</p><p>17:12 Balancing Team Dynamics with DISC</p><p>22:48 Super Bowl Afterparty Adventure</p><p>24:26 Mastering DISC for Effective Communication</p><p>29:05 "Embrace Diverse Styles for Success"</p><p>30:04 "Be Fun, Be Enthusiastic"</p><p>33:12 "Adapting Communication for DISC Styles"</p><p>36:34 Validating D Style Decision-Makers</p><p>41:49 Avoid Promises You Can't Keep</p><p>44:12 Understanding 'C' and 'S' Personality Types</p><p>46:40 "Self-Paced Resilience Course"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://form.jotform.com/250474386563060">DISC Personality Assessment</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/4hRuzTn">Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/live-the-life-you-want/">The Courage to Be Yourself: How to Make Better Decisions and Live the Life You Want</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-signs-youre-an-overloaded-leader/">5 Signs You’re an Overloaded Leader &amp; What to Do About It</a>(Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/build-grit-and-resilience-in-teens/">The Secret to Building Grit &amp; Resilience in Teens</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/break-the-trauma-cycle/">How to Break the Trauma Cycle: Practical Tools &amp; Strategies for Making a Breakthrough</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/30-ways-to-attract-joy/">30 Small but Significant Ways to Attract More Joy Right Now</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Unlock the potential of your relationships with Episode 146 of the DYL Podcast. Join host Adam Gragg as he delves into the transformative power of the DISC Personality Assessment. Discover how understanding different personality styles can enhance your connections with family, co-workers, or friends. Gain the tools to communicate effectively, minimize conflicts, and nurture harmony in every area of your life.</p><p>Tune in now to see the world through the unique perspectives of a lion, otter, beaver, or golden retriever! Embrace the differences, boost your communication effectiveness, and take the courageous steps to improve your relationships today. Your journey to better connections starts here!</p><p>00:00 Awkward Conversation Turns Positive</p><p>03:26 "Effective Communication Strategies"</p><p>06:56 Positive Influence and Small Changes</p><p>12:09 Understanding DISC Personality Types</p><p>15:36 Socialize to Boost Productivity</p><p>17:12 Balancing Team Dynamics with DISC</p><p>22:48 Super Bowl Afterparty Adventure</p><p>24:26 Mastering DISC for Effective Communication</p><p>29:05 "Embrace Diverse Styles for Success"</p><p>30:04 "Be Fun, Be Enthusiastic"</p><p>33:12 "Adapting Communication for DISC Styles"</p><p>36:34 Validating D Style Decision-Makers</p><p>41:49 Avoid Promises You Can't Keep</p><p>44:12 Understanding 'C' and 'S' Personality Types</p><p>46:40 "Self-Paced Resilience Course"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://form.jotform.com/250474386563060">DISC Personality Assessment</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/4hRuzTn">Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson</a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/live-the-life-you-want/">The Courage to Be Yourself: How to Make Better Decisions and Live the Life You Want</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-signs-youre-an-overloaded-leader/">5 Signs You’re an Overloaded Leader &amp; What to Do About It</a>(Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/build-grit-and-resilience-in-teens/">The Secret to Building Grit &amp; Resilience in Teens</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/break-the-trauma-cycle/">How to Break the Trauma Cycle: Practical Tools &amp; Strategies for Making a Breakthrough</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/30-ways-to-attract-joy/">30 Small but Significant Ways to Attract More Joy Right Now</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#145 Crush Anxiety For Good: Overcoming Challenges for a Fearless Life</title>
      <itunes:episode>145</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 145 of the DYL Podcast, where we're diving deep into one of life's biggest challenges: crushing anxiety for good. In this episode, Adam Gragg shares personal stories and insights into how anxiety can hold us back from experiencing life's full potential. He talks about how our brains often paint worst-case scenarios, leading us to miss out on adventures, relationships, and opportunities. Drawing from over 25 years of experience as a family therapist and coach, Adam provides actionable steps to face fears, overcome anxiety, and live courageously. He encourages listeners to identify what's truly holding them back and take bold actions to break free from the shackles of anxiety, transforming fears into opportunities for growth and joy. Whether it's an unopened letter, a challenging conversation, or a new venture, it's time to stop letting anxiety rule your life. Tune in and discover how you can make positive changes and create a lasting legacy.</p><p>Timestamps<br>00:00 "Face Fears to Reduce Anxiety"</p><p>05:09 Understanding Anxiety's Protective Role</p><p>09:49 "Inward Creativity and Anxiety"</p><p>12:02 Regret-Driven Life Choices</p><p>16:26 "Prioritize Family Over Work Regrets"</p><p>16:58 Overcoming Fear in Sharing Work</p><p>20:02 Anxiety Fueled Motivation Post-Vacation</p><p>23:59 Overcoming Anxiety Through Confidence</p><p>26:34 Overcoming Social Anxiety</p><p>30:55 Overcoming Fear of Approaching Women</p><p>32:52 Breaking Fear and Achieving Success</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a> (Blog)<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/stop-letting-fear-damage-your-life/">Kickstart Your Self-Confidence</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 145 of the DYL Podcast, where we're diving deep into one of life's biggest challenges: crushing anxiety for good. In this episode, Adam Gragg shares personal stories and insights into how anxiety can hold us back from experiencing life's full potential. He talks about how our brains often paint worst-case scenarios, leading us to miss out on adventures, relationships, and opportunities. Drawing from over 25 years of experience as a family therapist and coach, Adam provides actionable steps to face fears, overcome anxiety, and live courageously. He encourages listeners to identify what's truly holding them back and take bold actions to break free from the shackles of anxiety, transforming fears into opportunities for growth and joy. Whether it's an unopened letter, a challenging conversation, or a new venture, it's time to stop letting anxiety rule your life. Tune in and discover how you can make positive changes and create a lasting legacy.</p><p>Timestamps<br>00:00 "Face Fears to Reduce Anxiety"</p><p>05:09 Understanding Anxiety's Protective Role</p><p>09:49 "Inward Creativity and Anxiety"</p><p>12:02 Regret-Driven Life Choices</p><p>16:26 "Prioritize Family Over Work Regrets"</p><p>16:58 Overcoming Fear in Sharing Work</p><p>20:02 Anxiety Fueled Motivation Post-Vacation</p><p>23:59 Overcoming Anxiety Through Confidence</p><p>26:34 Overcoming Social Anxiety</p><p>30:55 Overcoming Fear of Approaching Women</p><p>32:52 Breaking Fear and Achieving Success</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a> (Blog)<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/stop-letting-fear-damage-your-life/">Kickstart Your Self-Confidence</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 145 of the DYL Podcast, where we're diving deep into one of life's biggest challenges: crushing anxiety for good. In this episode, Adam Gragg shares personal stories and insights into how anxiety can hold us back from experiencing life's full potential. He talks about how our brains often paint worst-case scenarios, leading us to miss out on adventures, relationships, and opportunities. Drawing from over 25 years of experience as a family therapist and coach, Adam provides actionable steps to face fears, overcome anxiety, and live courageously. He encourages listeners to identify what's truly holding them back and take bold actions to break free from the shackles of anxiety, transforming fears into opportunities for growth and joy. Whether it's an unopened letter, a challenging conversation, or a new venture, it's time to stop letting anxiety rule your life. Tune in and discover how you can make positive changes and create a lasting legacy.</p><p>Timestamps<br>00:00 "Face Fears to Reduce Anxiety"</p><p>05:09 Understanding Anxiety's Protective Role</p><p>09:49 "Inward Creativity and Anxiety"</p><p>12:02 Regret-Driven Life Choices</p><p>16:26 "Prioritize Family Over Work Regrets"</p><p>16:58 Overcoming Fear in Sharing Work</p><p>20:02 Anxiety Fueled Motivation Post-Vacation</p><p>23:59 Overcoming Anxiety Through Confidence</p><p>26:34 Overcoming Social Anxiety</p><p>30:55 Overcoming Fear of Approaching Women</p><p>32:52 Breaking Fear and Achieving Success</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a> (Blog)<br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/stop-letting-fear-damage-your-life/">Kickstart Your Self-Confidence</a> (Blog)</p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Anxiety, Turbulence, Fear, Positive energy, Courageous actions, Mental health, Legacy coaching, Decision making, Relationships, Overactive brain, Mental space, Confidence</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#144: The Courage to be Yourself: 3 Truths You want to Remember</title>
      <itunes:episode>144</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode #144: The Courage to be Yourself: Three Truths You want to Remember, Adam shares a personal story about a skiing trip that leads into a deeper exploration of self-awareness and insecurities, particularly regarding interactions with others. He talks about the importance of living courageously and being true to oneself without succumbing to the pressures of fitting into societal norms.</p><p>In this episode, Adam encourages listeners to evaluate how they might be holding back and not being their authentic selves in everyday situations. He introduces three vital truths to help individuals embrace their unique qualities and overcome the barriers of self-doubt. This episode isn't just about self-reflection, though; Adam challenges you to take actionable steps towards personal growth. Whether it's embracing your quirks or saying no to things that don’t serve you, Adam provides insight into how to cultivate a fulfilling and courageous life. Tune in to find the inspiration to let go of your insecurities and be more authentically "you."</p><p>00:00 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity</p><p>05:44 "Embrace Authenticity: Be Yourself"</p><p>08:54 "Embracing Change and Motivation"</p><p>11:42 Learning to Say No</p><p>14:13 Ending Misleading Friendship</p><p>17:44 Embrace Your Unique Self</p><p>20:52 "The Car That Fits Me Best"</p><p>23:35 Live One Day at a Time</p><p>29:56 "Sharing Personal Struggles Frees Me"</p><p>31:21 Unemployment to Opportunity Transition</p><p>34:00 "Challenge Norms, Act Now"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://form.jotform.com/250474386563060">DYL Personality</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways to Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You're Demotivating Your Team: And What You can do About Each One</a></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode #144: The Courage to be Yourself: Three Truths You want to Remember, Adam shares a personal story about a skiing trip that leads into a deeper exploration of self-awareness and insecurities, particularly regarding interactions with others. He talks about the importance of living courageously and being true to oneself without succumbing to the pressures of fitting into societal norms.</p><p>In this episode, Adam encourages listeners to evaluate how they might be holding back and not being their authentic selves in everyday situations. He introduces three vital truths to help individuals embrace their unique qualities and overcome the barriers of self-doubt. This episode isn't just about self-reflection, though; Adam challenges you to take actionable steps towards personal growth. Whether it's embracing your quirks or saying no to things that don’t serve you, Adam provides insight into how to cultivate a fulfilling and courageous life. Tune in to find the inspiration to let go of your insecurities and be more authentically "you."</p><p>00:00 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity</p><p>05:44 "Embrace Authenticity: Be Yourself"</p><p>08:54 "Embracing Change and Motivation"</p><p>11:42 Learning to Say No</p><p>14:13 Ending Misleading Friendship</p><p>17:44 Embrace Your Unique Self</p><p>20:52 "The Car That Fits Me Best"</p><p>23:35 Live One Day at a Time</p><p>29:56 "Sharing Personal Struggles Frees Me"</p><p>31:21 Unemployment to Opportunity Transition</p><p>34:00 "Challenge Norms, Act Now"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://form.jotform.com/250474386563060">DYL Personality</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways to Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You're Demotivating Your Team: And What You can do About Each One</a></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode #144: The Courage to be Yourself: Three Truths You want to Remember, Adam shares a personal story about a skiing trip that leads into a deeper exploration of self-awareness and insecurities, particularly regarding interactions with others. He talks about the importance of living courageously and being true to oneself without succumbing to the pressures of fitting into societal norms.</p><p>In this episode, Adam encourages listeners to evaluate how they might be holding back and not being their authentic selves in everyday situations. He introduces three vital truths to help individuals embrace their unique qualities and overcome the barriers of self-doubt. This episode isn't just about self-reflection, though; Adam challenges you to take actionable steps towards personal growth. Whether it's embracing your quirks or saying no to things that don’t serve you, Adam provides insight into how to cultivate a fulfilling and courageous life. Tune in to find the inspiration to let go of your insecurities and be more authentically "you."</p><p>00:00 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity</p><p>05:44 "Embrace Authenticity: Be Yourself"</p><p>08:54 "Embracing Change and Motivation"</p><p>11:42 Learning to Say No</p><p>14:13 Ending Misleading Friendship</p><p>17:44 Embrace Your Unique Self</p><p>20:52 "The Car That Fits Me Best"</p><p>23:35 Live One Day at a Time</p><p>29:56 "Sharing Personal Struggles Frees Me"</p><p>31:21 Unemployment to Opportunity Transition</p><p>34:00 "Challenge Norms, Act Now"</p><p>Resources<br><a href="https://form.jotform.com/250474386563060">DYL Personality</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Foolproof Ways to Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader</a><br><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Ways You're Demotivating Your Team: And What You can do About Each One</a></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Adam dives into the art of having courageous conversations. Drawing from his experience as a Legacy coach and family therapist, Adam starts by sharing a personal story about a dating situation that reminded him of the importance of addressing tough topics head-on. Throughout the episode, he aims to provide listeners with three essential perspectives to help them feel more confident in tackling those difficult talks.</p><p>Adam emphasizes the cost of avoiding these conversations and how procrastination can erode both personal and professional relationships. As always, he challenges his listeners to take action by identifying a hard conversation they've been putting off. With practical advice and real-life examples, Adam guides you through how having these brave discussions benefits not only others but also yourself. Whether it's a chat with a family member or an employee, Adam encourages you to face these moments with courage and confidence, ultimately transforming your communication skills and relationships. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and powerful takeaways to help you live more courageously.</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Tools-Talking-Stakes/dp/1260474186/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VufgGWf1JuxUe2Xlnt-x6OqQ9pew4dFxN-TmRY63T3yHkns7deMZZjK8VnIGt5RcFxJ8e_gvjOxrZZj87zRzdHHa-_7rj5KKBfI2uuVUMnZoOCKvI5NwccAf7vRWXsVJ2sMKj3oAdyhA9PMQTlRqUEqnn1DWwWcFfzBRvvO8UtRrtONg0HnSADhaMmgj5m-cx_ElcvizgNW7YXwzFsavJ3fSAsrRS2C85zXhrON5vgQ.geMRT1FOrAOWP9d6l7ftUYROPglqWdfyd6a6OTcjoXY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=crucial+conversations&amp;qid=1742348945&amp;sr=8-1"><br>Crucial Conversations </a>- Book<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fierce-Conversations-Achieving-Success-Conversation/dp/0425193373/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T2T104229YE1&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.7whNnaXGWQbOypN2-BiAwVOVSoeo0-wkaCaO3I6vYCA5KmUvSRBDoDibMx4FYwhmbXLX13_zZN8T0xX8M7SXGnN4LCtC1MZxvCKDAqtzb5H7S_XTgPxOmd4251wMadsE_JGtxqjLMPrjEwaZJqmu1hmrLbnuQWOFoyvi1IwJZyvCvklKweka4Bcd65p3UVphtGQGn9QcCwFJ8IEvTIwyZmQx5CyQTJEpVEtXizDEC14.tlKABO4bzCTQF8ncwspF9jRTUz_GXaDxPULrrAuvIy4&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Fierce+conversations&amp;qid=1742348995&amp;sprefix=fierce+conversations%2Caps%2C167&amp;sr=8-1">Fierce Conversations</a> - Book<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a></p><p>00:00 Overcoming Communication Anxiety</p><p>06:05 The Importance of Direct Communication</p><p>06:52 Valuing Trust and Honest Conversations</p><p>12:33 "Decide Legacy App Challenge"</p><p>13:34 "Courageous Conversations Boost Confidence"</p><p>19:18 Prepare for Courageous Conversations</p><p>22:02 Lincoln's Unsent Letters Insight</p><p>24:42 Addressing Conversations with Care</p><p>29:23 "Exploring Insomnia-Inducing Worries"</p><p>30:05 Discover Desires Through Opposites</p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Adam dives into the art of having courageous conversations. Drawing from his experience as a Legacy coach and family therapist, Adam starts by sharing a personal story about a dating situation that reminded him of the importance of addressing tough topics head-on. Throughout the episode, he aims to provide listeners with three essential perspectives to help them feel more confident in tackling those difficult talks.</p><p>Adam emphasizes the cost of avoiding these conversations and how procrastination can erode both personal and professional relationships. As always, he challenges his listeners to take action by identifying a hard conversation they've been putting off. With practical advice and real-life examples, Adam guides you through how having these brave discussions benefits not only others but also yourself. Whether it's a chat with a family member or an employee, Adam encourages you to face these moments with courage and confidence, ultimately transforming your communication skills and relationships. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and powerful takeaways to help you live more courageously.</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Tools-Talking-Stakes/dp/1260474186/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VufgGWf1JuxUe2Xlnt-x6OqQ9pew4dFxN-TmRY63T3yHkns7deMZZjK8VnIGt5RcFxJ8e_gvjOxrZZj87zRzdHHa-_7rj5KKBfI2uuVUMnZoOCKvI5NwccAf7vRWXsVJ2sMKj3oAdyhA9PMQTlRqUEqnn1DWwWcFfzBRvvO8UtRrtONg0HnSADhaMmgj5m-cx_ElcvizgNW7YXwzFsavJ3fSAsrRS2C85zXhrON5vgQ.geMRT1FOrAOWP9d6l7ftUYROPglqWdfyd6a6OTcjoXY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=crucial+conversations&amp;qid=1742348945&amp;sr=8-1"><br>Crucial Conversations </a>- Book<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fierce-Conversations-Achieving-Success-Conversation/dp/0425193373/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T2T104229YE1&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.7whNnaXGWQbOypN2-BiAwVOVSoeo0-wkaCaO3I6vYCA5KmUvSRBDoDibMx4FYwhmbXLX13_zZN8T0xX8M7SXGnN4LCtC1MZxvCKDAqtzb5H7S_XTgPxOmd4251wMadsE_JGtxqjLMPrjEwaZJqmu1hmrLbnuQWOFoyvi1IwJZyvCvklKweka4Bcd65p3UVphtGQGn9QcCwFJ8IEvTIwyZmQx5CyQTJEpVEtXizDEC14.tlKABO4bzCTQF8ncwspF9jRTUz_GXaDxPULrrAuvIy4&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Fierce+conversations&amp;qid=1742348995&amp;sprefix=fierce+conversations%2Caps%2C167&amp;sr=8-1">Fierce Conversations</a> - Book<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a></p><p>00:00 Overcoming Communication Anxiety</p><p>06:05 The Importance of Direct Communication</p><p>06:52 Valuing Trust and Honest Conversations</p><p>12:33 "Decide Legacy App Challenge"</p><p>13:34 "Courageous Conversations Boost Confidence"</p><p>19:18 Prepare for Courageous Conversations</p><p>22:02 Lincoln's Unsent Letters Insight</p><p>24:42 Addressing Conversations with Care</p><p>29:23 "Exploring Insomnia-Inducing Worries"</p><p>30:05 Discover Desires Through Opposites</p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Adam dives into the art of having courageous conversations. Drawing from his experience as a Legacy coach and family therapist, Adam starts by sharing a personal story about a dating situation that reminded him of the importance of addressing tough topics head-on. Throughout the episode, he aims to provide listeners with three essential perspectives to help them feel more confident in tackling those difficult talks.</p><p>Adam emphasizes the cost of avoiding these conversations and how procrastination can erode both personal and professional relationships. As always, he challenges his listeners to take action by identifying a hard conversation they've been putting off. With practical advice and real-life examples, Adam guides you through how having these brave discussions benefits not only others but also yourself. Whether it's a chat with a family member or an employee, Adam encourages you to face these moments with courage and confidence, ultimately transforming your communication skills and relationships. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and powerful takeaways to help you live more courageously.</p><p><strong>Resources</strong><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Tools-Talking-Stakes/dp/1260474186/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VufgGWf1JuxUe2Xlnt-x6OqQ9pew4dFxN-TmRY63T3yHkns7deMZZjK8VnIGt5RcFxJ8e_gvjOxrZZj87zRzdHHa-_7rj5KKBfI2uuVUMnZoOCKvI5NwccAf7vRWXsVJ2sMKj3oAdyhA9PMQTlRqUEqnn1DWwWcFfzBRvvO8UtRrtONg0HnSADhaMmgj5m-cx_ElcvizgNW7YXwzFsavJ3fSAsrRS2C85zXhrON5vgQ.geMRT1FOrAOWP9d6l7ftUYROPglqWdfyd6a6OTcjoXY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=crucial+conversations&amp;qid=1742348945&amp;sr=8-1"><br>Crucial Conversations </a>- Book<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fierce-Conversations-Achieving-Success-Conversation/dp/0425193373/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T2T104229YE1&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.7whNnaXGWQbOypN2-BiAwVOVSoeo0-wkaCaO3I6vYCA5KmUvSRBDoDibMx4FYwhmbXLX13_zZN8T0xX8M7SXGnN4LCtC1MZxvCKDAqtzb5H7S_XTgPxOmd4251wMadsE_JGtxqjLMPrjEwaZJqmu1hmrLbnuQWOFoyvi1IwJZyvCvklKweka4Bcd65p3UVphtGQGn9QcCwFJ8IEvTIwyZmQx5CyQTJEpVEtXizDEC14.tlKABO4bzCTQF8ncwspF9jRTUz_GXaDxPULrrAuvIy4&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Fierce+conversations&amp;qid=1742348995&amp;sprefix=fierce+conversations%2Caps%2C167&amp;sr=8-1">Fierce Conversations</a> - Book<br><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/pl/2147818104">Shatterproof Yourself Lite</a></p><p>00:00 Overcoming Communication Anxiety</p><p>06:05 The Importance of Direct Communication</p><p>06:52 Valuing Trust and Honest Conversations</p><p>12:33 "Decide Legacy App Challenge"</p><p>13:34 "Courageous Conversations Boost Confidence"</p><p>19:18 Prepare for Courageous Conversations</p><p>22:02 Lincoln's Unsent Letters Insight</p><p>24:42 Addressing Conversations with Care</p><p>29:23 "Exploring Insomnia-Inducing Worries"</p><p>30:05 Discover Desires Through Opposites</p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>Courageous conversations, Hard conversation, Dating situation, Legacy coach, Family therapist, Confidence, Difficult conversations, Mental health, Honesty, Authenticity, Corporate development, Executive coaching, Avoidance</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#142: Decide on 2025 (Part 3)</title>
      <itunes:episode>142</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>142</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#142: Decide on 2025 (Part 3)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're wrapping up our 'Decide on 2025' series. I'm all about helping you find clarity and live your legacy this year. This time we are going to lean into being aware of your current mindset and emotions and how that impacts your day-to-day life. Expect a lot of real talk and actionable tips to set you up for success. Don't forget to reflect on your progress from last year and get ready to take some bold actions!</p><p><br></p><p>0:00 Welcome to Decide Your Legacy</p><p>01:16 Facing Fears and Taking Risks</p><p>02:40 Reflecting on Progress</p><p>03:27 Client Conversations and Insights</p><p>04:27 Reviewing the First Five Decisions</p><p>06:30 Decision Six: Mindset Awareness</p><p>17:39 Decision Seven: Emotional Awareness</p><p>21:20 Building Emotional Resilience</p><p>25:47 Gratitude and Giving Back</p><p>27:23 Final Thoughts and Action Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/"><strong>50 Excellent &amp; Fun Relationship-Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/"><strong>How to Change Damaging Mindsets (post</strong></a><strong>) by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3lCq2tp"><strong>The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42TvcVf"><strong>Man's Search for Meaning</strong></a><strong> by Viktor E. Frankl</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=7+habits+of+highly+effective+leader&amp;hvadid=694984211019&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=9024240&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=5442346067798967526&amp;hvtargid=kwd-822009507984&amp;hydadcr=22131_13541022&amp;tag=googhydr-20&amp;ref=pd_sl_5rwc1kdhev_e"><strong>The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're wrapping up our 'Decide on 2025' series. I'm all about helping you find clarity and live your legacy this year. This time we are going to lean into being aware of your current mindset and emotions and how that impacts your day-to-day life. Expect a lot of real talk and actionable tips to set you up for success. Don't forget to reflect on your progress from last year and get ready to take some bold actions!</p><p><br></p><p>0:00 Welcome to Decide Your Legacy</p><p>01:16 Facing Fears and Taking Risks</p><p>02:40 Reflecting on Progress</p><p>03:27 Client Conversations and Insights</p><p>04:27 Reviewing the First Five Decisions</p><p>06:30 Decision Six: Mindset Awareness</p><p>17:39 Decision Seven: Emotional Awareness</p><p>21:20 Building Emotional Resilience</p><p>25:47 Gratitude and Giving Back</p><p>27:23 Final Thoughts and Action Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/"><strong>50 Excellent &amp; Fun Relationship-Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/"><strong>How to Change Damaging Mindsets (post</strong></a><strong>) by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3lCq2tp"><strong>The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42TvcVf"><strong>Man's Search for Meaning</strong></a><strong> by Viktor E. Frankl</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=7+habits+of+highly+effective+leader&amp;hvadid=694984211019&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=9024240&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=5442346067798967526&amp;hvtargid=kwd-822009507984&amp;hydadcr=22131_13541022&amp;tag=googhydr-20&amp;ref=pd_sl_5rwc1kdhev_e"><strong>The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2025 06:09:47 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1846</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're wrapping up our 'Decide on 2025' series. I'm all about helping you find clarity and live your legacy this year. This time we are going to lean into being aware of your current mindset and emotions and how that impacts your day-to-day life. Expect a lot of real talk and actionable tips to set you up for success. Don't forget to reflect on your progress from last year and get ready to take some bold actions!</p><p><br></p><p>0:00 Welcome to Decide Your Legacy</p><p>01:16 Facing Fears and Taking Risks</p><p>02:40 Reflecting on Progress</p><p>03:27 Client Conversations and Insights</p><p>04:27 Reviewing the First Five Decisions</p><p>06:30 Decision Six: Mindset Awareness</p><p>17:39 Decision Seven: Emotional Awareness</p><p>21:20 Building Emotional Resilience</p><p>25:47 Gratitude and Giving Back</p><p>27:23 Final Thoughts and Action Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/"><strong>50 Excellent &amp; Fun Relationship-Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/"><strong>How to Change Damaging Mindsets (post</strong></a><strong>) by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3lCq2tp"><strong>The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42TvcVf"><strong>Man's Search for Meaning</strong></a><strong> by Viktor E. Frankl</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=7+habits+of+highly+effective+leader&amp;hvadid=694984211019&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=9024240&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=5442346067798967526&amp;hvtargid=kwd-822009507984&amp;hydadcr=22131_13541022&amp;tag=googhydr-20&amp;ref=pd_sl_5rwc1kdhev_e"><strong>The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#141: Decide on 2025 (Part 2)</title>
      <itunes:episode>141</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're kicking off 2025 with purpose and direction. It's the time of the year for setting goals and making impactful changes. In this episode, I share more critical decisions that will help you shape a successful and growth-oriented year. We'll discuss connecting with others and focusing on helping others. Join me as we explore actionable steps to achieve a fulfilling and purpose-driven year. Don't forget to check out Shatterproof Yourself Lite for additional guidance. Let's make 2025 a year of transformation together!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Welcome to Decide Your Legacy</p><p>00:48 Setting Goals for 2025</p><p>01:27 Personal Struggles and Changes</p><p>02:12 Facing Fears and Making Decisions</p><p>04:23 Seven Key Decisions for 2025</p><p>06:42 Building Relationships and Trust</p><p>08:25 Conflict as a Pathway to Intimacy</p><p>21:10 Healthy Relationships and Boundaries</p><p>26:44 Review and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/140"><strong>Decide on 2025 (Part 1)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're kicking off 2025 with purpose and direction. It's the time of the year for setting goals and making impactful changes. In this episode, I share more critical decisions that will help you shape a successful and growth-oriented year. We'll discuss connecting with others and focusing on helping others. Join me as we explore actionable steps to achieve a fulfilling and purpose-driven year. Don't forget to check out Shatterproof Yourself Lite for additional guidance. Let's make 2025 a year of transformation together!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Welcome to Decide Your Legacy</p><p>00:48 Setting Goals for 2025</p><p>01:27 Personal Struggles and Changes</p><p>02:12 Facing Fears and Making Decisions</p><p>04:23 Seven Key Decisions for 2025</p><p>06:42 Building Relationships and Trust</p><p>08:25 Conflict as a Pathway to Intimacy</p><p>21:10 Healthy Relationships and Boundaries</p><p>26:44 Review and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/140"><strong>Decide on 2025 (Part 1)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 06 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're kicking off 2025 with purpose and direction. It's the time of the year for setting goals and making impactful changes. In this episode, I share more critical decisions that will help you shape a successful and growth-oriented year. We'll discuss connecting with others and focusing on helping others. Join me as we explore actionable steps to achieve a fulfilling and purpose-driven year. Don't forget to check out Shatterproof Yourself Lite for additional guidance. Let's make 2025 a year of transformation together!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Welcome to Decide Your Legacy</p><p>00:48 Setting Goals for 2025</p><p>01:27 Personal Struggles and Changes</p><p>02:12 Facing Fears and Making Decisions</p><p>04:23 Seven Key Decisions for 2025</p><p>06:42 Building Relationships and Trust</p><p>08:25 Conflict as a Pathway to Intimacy</p><p>21:10 Healthy Relationships and Boundaries</p><p>26:44 Review and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/140"><strong>Decide on 2025 (Part 1)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#140: Decide on 2025 (Part 1)</title>
      <itunes:episode>140</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>140</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we transition into a new year, I know many of you are thinking about your future and what you want to change.. On this first part of our series we are going to cover some crucial steps to help you achieve personal and professional growth in the coming year. I'll delve into my own battles with fear and anxiety as I navigate significant life changes, offering insights on how to keep the big picture in mind, face scary things, and recognize your unique value. This episode is packed with actionable advice and inspiring challenges to set you up for a transformative 2025. Don't miss part two for the remaining four decisions!</p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview<br>00:57 Host Background and Personal Struggles<br>02:35 Facing Fears and Making Decisions<br>06:12 Creating a Vision for 2025<br>13:46 Facing the Past to Shape the Future<br>19:48 Recognizing Your Unique Value<br>24:46 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we transition into a new year, I know many of you are thinking about your future and what you want to change.. On this first part of our series we are going to cover some crucial steps to help you achieve personal and professional growth in the coming year. I'll delve into my own battles with fear and anxiety as I navigate significant life changes, offering insights on how to keep the big picture in mind, face scary things, and recognize your unique value. This episode is packed with actionable advice and inspiring challenges to set you up for a transformative 2025. Don't miss part two for the remaining four decisions!</p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview<br>00:57 Host Background and Personal Struggles<br>02:35 Facing Fears and Making Decisions<br>06:12 Creating a Vision for 2025<br>13:46 Facing the Past to Shape the Future<br>19:48 Recognizing Your Unique Value<br>24:46 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we transition into a new year, I know many of you are thinking about your future and what you want to change.. On this first part of our series we are going to cover some crucial steps to help you achieve personal and professional growth in the coming year. I'll delve into my own battles with fear and anxiety as I navigate significant life changes, offering insights on how to keep the big picture in mind, face scary things, and recognize your unique value. This episode is packed with actionable advice and inspiring challenges to set you up for a transformative 2025. Don't miss part two for the remaining four decisions!</p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview<br>00:57 Host Background and Personal Struggles<br>02:35 Facing Fears and Making Decisions<br>06:12 Creating a Vision for 2025<br>13:46 Facing the Past to Shape the Future<br>19:48 Recognizing Your Unique Value<br>24:46 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#139: Making New Friends with Nick Bertram</title>
      <itunes:episode>139</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>139</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're exploring a topic that's especially relevant during the holiday season: Making New Friends. In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Nick. We'll talk about the challenges and rewards of building new friendships, the importance of vulnerability, and how investing in relationships can enrich your life. Along the way, you'll hear personal stories from Nick and I, gain practical tips, and hopefully find inspiration to strengthen your own connections. Whether you're feeling the holiday loneliness or just wanting to expand your social circle, this episode is packed with insights to help you take action. So, tune in and let's explore how making new friends can truly transform your mental health and life journey!</p><p><br></p><p>00:33 The Importance of Making New Friends</p><p>01:33 Introducing Special Guest Nick</p><p>03:10 Nick's Background and Professional Journey</p><p>04:52 The Transition from Work to Personal Connections</p><p>08:37 Challenges and Successes in Building Relationships</p><p>12:39 The Power of Vulnerability</p><p>25:05 Tools and Resources for Building Connections</p><p>29:05 The Power of Sharing Goals with Friends</p><p>29:52 Overcoming Anxiety in Building Connections</p><p>33:14 The Impact of Vulnerability in Professional and Personal Life</p><p>38:33 Handling Rejection and Building Resilience</p><p>42:55 The Importance of Deep Connections</p><p>49:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>How to Organize Your Thoughts (Episode 56)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/"><strong>17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/"><strong>50 Relationship Building Questions (blog)</strong></a></p><p><strong>Contact Nick: </strong><a href="mailto:NBertram2@outlook.com"><strong>NBertram2@outlook.com</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're exploring a topic that's especially relevant during the holiday season: Making New Friends. In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Nick. We'll talk about the challenges and rewards of building new friendships, the importance of vulnerability, and how investing in relationships can enrich your life. Along the way, you'll hear personal stories from Nick and I, gain practical tips, and hopefully find inspiration to strengthen your own connections. Whether you're feeling the holiday loneliness or just wanting to expand your social circle, this episode is packed with insights to help you take action. So, tune in and let's explore how making new friends can truly transform your mental health and life journey!</p><p><br></p><p>00:33 The Importance of Making New Friends</p><p>01:33 Introducing Special Guest Nick</p><p>03:10 Nick's Background and Professional Journey</p><p>04:52 The Transition from Work to Personal Connections</p><p>08:37 Challenges and Successes in Building Relationships</p><p>12:39 The Power of Vulnerability</p><p>25:05 Tools and Resources for Building Connections</p><p>29:05 The Power of Sharing Goals with Friends</p><p>29:52 Overcoming Anxiety in Building Connections</p><p>33:14 The Impact of Vulnerability in Professional and Personal Life</p><p>38:33 Handling Rejection and Building Resilience</p><p>42:55 The Importance of Deep Connections</p><p>49:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>How to Organize Your Thoughts (Episode 56)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/"><strong>17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/"><strong>50 Relationship Building Questions (blog)</strong></a></p><p><strong>Contact Nick: </strong><a href="mailto:NBertram2@outlook.com"><strong>NBertram2@outlook.com</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're exploring a topic that's especially relevant during the holiday season: Making New Friends. In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Nick. We'll talk about the challenges and rewards of building new friendships, the importance of vulnerability, and how investing in relationships can enrich your life. Along the way, you'll hear personal stories from Nick and I, gain practical tips, and hopefully find inspiration to strengthen your own connections. Whether you're feeling the holiday loneliness or just wanting to expand your social circle, this episode is packed with insights to help you take action. So, tune in and let's explore how making new friends can truly transform your mental health and life journey!</p><p><br></p><p>00:33 The Importance of Making New Friends</p><p>01:33 Introducing Special Guest Nick</p><p>03:10 Nick's Background and Professional Journey</p><p>04:52 The Transition from Work to Personal Connections</p><p>08:37 Challenges and Successes in Building Relationships</p><p>12:39 The Power of Vulnerability</p><p>25:05 Tools and Resources for Building Connections</p><p>29:05 The Power of Sharing Goals with Friends</p><p>29:52 Overcoming Anxiety in Building Connections</p><p>33:14 The Impact of Vulnerability in Professional and Personal Life</p><p>38:33 Handling Rejection and Building Resilience</p><p>42:55 The Importance of Deep Connections</p><p>49:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>How to Organize Your Thoughts (Episode 56)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/"><strong>17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/"><strong>50 Relationship Building Questions (blog)</strong></a></p><p><strong>Contact Nick: </strong><a href="mailto:NBertram2@outlook.com"><strong>NBertram2@outlook.com</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#138: How to Make New Friends</title>
      <itunes:episode>138</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today I'm excited to dive into the topic of making new friends and rekindling old ones. Drawing from my 25 years as a coach, family therapist, and mental health professional, I'll share my personal experiences and offer actionable steps to strengthen your social connections. We'll discuss the importance of being vulnerable, letting go of control, and facing your fears to improve your mental health and overall quality of life. From practical tips to heartfelt stories, this episode is designed to inspire you to take concrete actions towards building meaningful relationships. Whether you're feeling lonely or looking to enhance your existing friendships, join me as we explore how genuine connections can boost resilience, provide new perspectives, and help you achieve your personal goals. Let's make this holiday season a time for connection and growth!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Story</p><p>02:28 The Importance of Friendships</p><p>03:32 Taking Action to Build Friendships</p><p>05:30 Benefits of Friendships</p><p>08:48 Practical Tips for Making Friends</p><p>12:20 Engaging with Diverse Age Groups</p><p>14:39 Accountability and Reaching Goals</p><p>22:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/"><strong>17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today I'm excited to dive into the topic of making new friends and rekindling old ones. Drawing from my 25 years as a coach, family therapist, and mental health professional, I'll share my personal experiences and offer actionable steps to strengthen your social connections. We'll discuss the importance of being vulnerable, letting go of control, and facing your fears to improve your mental health and overall quality of life. From practical tips to heartfelt stories, this episode is designed to inspire you to take concrete actions towards building meaningful relationships. Whether you're feeling lonely or looking to enhance your existing friendships, join me as we explore how genuine connections can boost resilience, provide new perspectives, and help you achieve your personal goals. Let's make this holiday season a time for connection and growth!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Story</p><p>02:28 The Importance of Friendships</p><p>03:32 Taking Action to Build Friendships</p><p>05:30 Benefits of Friendships</p><p>08:48 Practical Tips for Making Friends</p><p>12:20 Engaging with Diverse Age Groups</p><p>14:39 Accountability and Reaching Goals</p><p>22:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/"><strong>17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1457</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today I'm excited to dive into the topic of making new friends and rekindling old ones. Drawing from my 25 years as a coach, family therapist, and mental health professional, I'll share my personal experiences and offer actionable steps to strengthen your social connections. We'll discuss the importance of being vulnerable, letting go of control, and facing your fears to improve your mental health and overall quality of life. From practical tips to heartfelt stories, this episode is designed to inspire you to take concrete actions towards building meaningful relationships. Whether you're feeling lonely or looking to enhance your existing friendships, join me as we explore how genuine connections can boost resilience, provide new perspectives, and help you achieve your personal goals. Let's make this holiday season a time for connection and growth!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Story</p><p>02:28 The Importance of Friendships</p><p>03:32 Taking Action to Build Friendships</p><p>05:30 Benefits of Friendships</p><p>08:48 Practical Tips for Making Friends</p><p>12:20 Engaging with Diverse Age Groups</p><p>14:39 Accountability and Reaching Goals</p><p>22:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/"><strong>17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#137: Get Excited About Your Future</title>
      <itunes:episode>137</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>137</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to get excited about your future. Over the years, I've faced my own fears and realized how vital it is to confront what holds us back if we want to live our legacy. In this episode, we explore how to overcome self-sabotage and addictive behaviors, and why having a clear vision for your future can transform your mental health and overall life satisfaction. We will discuss common myths about goal-setting and cover actionable steps to help you visualize and achieve your dreams. By the end, I hope you'll feel inspired and equipped to create a compelling vision for your life and take the steps to make it a reality. Let's get started on this journey together!</p><p><br></p><p>01:17 Overcoming Fear and Self-Sabotage</p><p>02:29 The Importance of Vision</p><p>03:21 Facing Personal Fears</p><p>05:15 Identifying Areas of Stagnation</p><p>06:20 Benefits of a Big Future Vision</p><p>11:48 Common Lies About Vision</p><p>16:41 Creating and Visualizing Your Vision</p><p>29:34 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to get excited about your future. Over the years, I've faced my own fears and realized how vital it is to confront what holds us back if we want to live our legacy. In this episode, we explore how to overcome self-sabotage and addictive behaviors, and why having a clear vision for your future can transform your mental health and overall life satisfaction. We will discuss common myths about goal-setting and cover actionable steps to help you visualize and achieve your dreams. By the end, I hope you'll feel inspired and equipped to create a compelling vision for your life and take the steps to make it a reality. Let's get started on this journey together!</p><p><br></p><p>01:17 Overcoming Fear and Self-Sabotage</p><p>02:29 The Importance of Vision</p><p>03:21 Facing Personal Fears</p><p>05:15 Identifying Areas of Stagnation</p><p>06:20 Benefits of a Big Future Vision</p><p>11:48 Common Lies About Vision</p><p>16:41 Creating and Visualizing Your Vision</p><p>29:34 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 20 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to get excited about your future. Over the years, I've faced my own fears and realized how vital it is to confront what holds us back if we want to live our legacy. In this episode, we explore how to overcome self-sabotage and addictive behaviors, and why having a clear vision for your future can transform your mental health and overall life satisfaction. We will discuss common myths about goal-setting and cover actionable steps to help you visualize and achieve your dreams. By the end, I hope you'll feel inspired and equipped to create a compelling vision for your life and take the steps to make it a reality. Let's get started on this journey together!</p><p><br></p><p>01:17 Overcoming Fear and Self-Sabotage</p><p>02:29 The Importance of Vision</p><p>03:21 Facing Personal Fears</p><p>05:15 Identifying Areas of Stagnation</p><p>06:20 Benefits of a Big Future Vision</p><p>11:48 Common Lies About Vision</p><p>16:41 Creating and Visualizing Your Vision</p><p>29:34 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#136: What is it Like to be Coached?</title>
      <itunes:episode>136</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:title>#136: What is it Like to be Coached?</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today we're doing something a bit special. I’m diving into a live coaching session with Bryan, who’s facing some common but tough parenting challenges. Bryan’s got a 12-year-old son, and like many of us, he’s worried about how to prepare him for the real world. We'll talk about everything from overcoming fears, dealing with insecurities, and the importance of being vulnerable with our kids. We’ll even touch on how these same strategies can amp up your professional life. You’ll get a real sneak peek into what happens in a coaching session and see firsthand how powerful these conversations can be. Stick around for some great insights and practical tips you can use in your own life. Let’s jump in!</p><p><br></p><p>00:45 Live Coaching Session Setup</p><p>02:31 Bryan's Parenting Concerns</p><p>06:14 Defining Success and Core Issues</p><p>13:36 Exploring Confidence and Vulnerability</p><p>20:20 Insights and Takeaways</p><p>22:50 Reflecting on Past Mistakes</p><p>23:42 Building Trust Through Vulnerability</p><p>24:16 Commitment to Personal Growth</p><p>24:35 Sharing Personal Stories</p><p>28:13 Overcoming Limiting Mindsets</p><p>30:18 Entrepreneurial Confidence</p><p>37:20 Creating a Healthier Perspective</p><p>39:44 Applying Coaching Insights</p><p>41:21 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today we're doing something a bit special. I’m diving into a live coaching session with Bryan, who’s facing some common but tough parenting challenges. Bryan’s got a 12-year-old son, and like many of us, he’s worried about how to prepare him for the real world. We'll talk about everything from overcoming fears, dealing with insecurities, and the importance of being vulnerable with our kids. We’ll even touch on how these same strategies can amp up your professional life. You’ll get a real sneak peek into what happens in a coaching session and see firsthand how powerful these conversations can be. Stick around for some great insights and practical tips you can use in your own life. Let’s jump in!</p><p><br></p><p>00:45 Live Coaching Session Setup</p><p>02:31 Bryan's Parenting Concerns</p><p>06:14 Defining Success and Core Issues</p><p>13:36 Exploring Confidence and Vulnerability</p><p>20:20 Insights and Takeaways</p><p>22:50 Reflecting on Past Mistakes</p><p>23:42 Building Trust Through Vulnerability</p><p>24:16 Commitment to Personal Growth</p><p>24:35 Sharing Personal Stories</p><p>28:13 Overcoming Limiting Mindsets</p><p>30:18 Entrepreneurial Confidence</p><p>37:20 Creating a Healthier Perspective</p><p>39:44 Applying Coaching Insights</p><p>41:21 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today we're doing something a bit special. I’m diving into a live coaching session with Bryan, who’s facing some common but tough parenting challenges. Bryan’s got a 12-year-old son, and like many of us, he’s worried about how to prepare him for the real world. We'll talk about everything from overcoming fears, dealing with insecurities, and the importance of being vulnerable with our kids. We’ll even touch on how these same strategies can amp up your professional life. You’ll get a real sneak peek into what happens in a coaching session and see firsthand how powerful these conversations can be. Stick around for some great insights and practical tips you can use in your own life. Let’s jump in!</p><p><br></p><p>00:45 Live Coaching Session Setup</p><p>02:31 Bryan's Parenting Concerns</p><p>06:14 Defining Success and Core Issues</p><p>13:36 Exploring Confidence and Vulnerability</p><p>20:20 Insights and Takeaways</p><p>22:50 Reflecting on Past Mistakes</p><p>23:42 Building Trust Through Vulnerability</p><p>24:16 Commitment to Personal Growth</p><p>24:35 Sharing Personal Stories</p><p>28:13 Overcoming Limiting Mindsets</p><p>30:18 Entrepreneurial Confidence</p><p>37:20 Creating a Healthier Perspective</p><p>39:44 Applying Coaching Insights</p><p>41:21 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#135: Overcome YOUR Fear</title>
      <itunes:episode>135</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>135</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going back to one of my favorite topics: overcoming fears. You’ll hear my personal experiences and struggles with fear, including a recent skydiving adventure. We discuss common social fears such as fear of failure, judgment, and rejection, and offer actionable steps to face and conquer these fears. We will also consider the damaging effects of avoiding fears and how it impacts our relationships and creativity. Join us as we motivate each other to take action and live lives free from fear's limitations.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Fears<br>01:31 Personal Experiences with Fear<br>02:06 Facing Fears: Skydiving Story<br>03:27 Common Fears and Social Anxiety<br>04:56 Taking Action Against Fear<br>05:55 Four Facts About Fear<br>08:03 Damages of Not Facing Your Fears<br>15:30 Building Stronger Relationships<br>18:06 Shatterproof Yourself Course<br>24:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going back to one of my favorite topics: overcoming fears. You’ll hear my personal experiences and struggles with fear, including a recent skydiving adventure. We discuss common social fears such as fear of failure, judgment, and rejection, and offer actionable steps to face and conquer these fears. We will also consider the damaging effects of avoiding fears and how it impacts our relationships and creativity. Join us as we motivate each other to take action and live lives free from fear's limitations.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Fears<br>01:31 Personal Experiences with Fear<br>02:06 Facing Fears: Skydiving Story<br>03:27 Common Fears and Social Anxiety<br>04:56 Taking Action Against Fear<br>05:55 Four Facts About Fear<br>08:03 Damages of Not Facing Your Fears<br>15:30 Building Stronger Relationships<br>18:06 Shatterproof Yourself Course<br>24:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going back to one of my favorite topics: overcoming fears. You’ll hear my personal experiences and struggles with fear, including a recent skydiving adventure. We discuss common social fears such as fear of failure, judgment, and rejection, and offer actionable steps to face and conquer these fears. We will also consider the damaging effects of avoiding fears and how it impacts our relationships and creativity. Join us as we motivate each other to take action and live lives free from fear's limitations.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Fears<br>01:31 Personal Experiences with Fear<br>02:06 Facing Fears: Skydiving Story<br>03:27 Common Fears and Social Anxiety<br>04:56 Taking Action Against Fear<br>05:55 Four Facts About Fear<br>08:03 Damages of Not Facing Your Fears<br>15:30 Building Stronger Relationships<br>18:06 Shatterproof Yourself Course<br>24:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#134: How to Like Yourself</title>
      <itunes:episode>134</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>134</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#134: How to Like Yourself</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How much do you like yourself? On today’s episode, I’m sharing essential strategies for building self-esteem and self-respect. We'll discuss the importance of facing fears, taking 100% ownership of your life, and maintaining consistent self-care. Discover actionable steps to align your actions with your values, enhance your relationships, and live a life of integrity and fulfillment. Inspired by my 'Shatterproof Yourself' course, this episode is packed with insights to improve your self-perception and mental health, empowering you to take proactive steps toward a brighter future. Join me on this transformative journey and remember, you have the power to decide your legacy!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Host Background</p><p>01:09 Personal Struggles and Self-Care</p><p>02:16 The Importance of Liking Yourself</p><p>03:02 Facing Fears and Taking Risks</p><p>03:45 Identifying Areas for Improvement</p><p>04:28 Personal Story of Struggle and Growth</p><p>06:44 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence</p><p>08:57 Showing Up for Yourself</p><p>12:27 Making and Keeping Commitments</p><p>16:16 Taking Ownership of Your Life</p><p>17:11 The Problem of Being Owned by Your Phone</p><p>17:57 Ownership and Leadership</p><p>19:59 The Elephant and the Rider: Understanding Your Brain</p><p>22:41 Creating a Vision for Your Future</p><p>24:44 Be Yourself: Embracing Your True Colors</p><p>30:23 Applying What You've Learned</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How much do you like yourself? On today’s episode, I’m sharing essential strategies for building self-esteem and self-respect. We'll discuss the importance of facing fears, taking 100% ownership of your life, and maintaining consistent self-care. Discover actionable steps to align your actions with your values, enhance your relationships, and live a life of integrity and fulfillment. Inspired by my 'Shatterproof Yourself' course, this episode is packed with insights to improve your self-perception and mental health, empowering you to take proactive steps toward a brighter future. Join me on this transformative journey and remember, you have the power to decide your legacy!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Host Background</p><p>01:09 Personal Struggles and Self-Care</p><p>02:16 The Importance of Liking Yourself</p><p>03:02 Facing Fears and Taking Risks</p><p>03:45 Identifying Areas for Improvement</p><p>04:28 Personal Story of Struggle and Growth</p><p>06:44 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence</p><p>08:57 Showing Up for Yourself</p><p>12:27 Making and Keeping Commitments</p><p>16:16 Taking Ownership of Your Life</p><p>17:11 The Problem of Being Owned by Your Phone</p><p>17:57 Ownership and Leadership</p><p>19:59 The Elephant and the Rider: Understanding Your Brain</p><p>22:41 Creating a Vision for Your Future</p><p>24:44 Be Yourself: Embracing Your True Colors</p><p>30:23 Applying What You've Learned</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1945</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How much do you like yourself? On today’s episode, I’m sharing essential strategies for building self-esteem and self-respect. We'll discuss the importance of facing fears, taking 100% ownership of your life, and maintaining consistent self-care. Discover actionable steps to align your actions with your values, enhance your relationships, and live a life of integrity and fulfillment. Inspired by my 'Shatterproof Yourself' course, this episode is packed with insights to improve your self-perception and mental health, empowering you to take proactive steps toward a brighter future. Join me on this transformative journey and remember, you have the power to decide your legacy!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Host Background</p><p>01:09 Personal Struggles and Self-Care</p><p>02:16 The Importance of Liking Yourself</p><p>03:02 Facing Fears and Taking Risks</p><p>03:45 Identifying Areas for Improvement</p><p>04:28 Personal Story of Struggle and Growth</p><p>06:44 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence</p><p>08:57 Showing Up for Yourself</p><p>12:27 Making and Keeping Commitments</p><p>16:16 Taking Ownership of Your Life</p><p>17:11 The Problem of Being Owned by Your Phone</p><p>17:57 Ownership and Leadership</p><p>19:59 The Elephant and the Rider: Understanding Your Brain</p><p>22:41 Creating a Vision for Your Future</p><p>24:44 Be Yourself: Embracing Your True Colors</p><p>30:23 Applying What You've Learned</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#133: Why You Should Change Your Mindset</title>
      <itunes:episode>133</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>133</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're examining why you want to change your mindset to foster personal growth and freedom. I've faced my own battles with fear and anxiety and learned the power of shifting one's mindset. In this episode, I'll share three compelling reasons to focus on changing your mindset, especially when you're stuck in negativity. We'll explore practical techniques, like expanding your time horizon, to help you face your fears more effectively. We’ll also discuss how adopting a flexible mindset opens up new opportunities, enhances personal freedom, and helps you distinguish truth from fear-driven lies. This isn't just about listening—it's about taking action. So, join me as we explore how a mindset shift can transform your life. Don't forget to check out the free course 'Shatterproof Yourself' for more actionable insights!</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Changing Your Mindset<br>01:24 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear<br>03:07 Expanding Your Time Horizon<br>05:07 Facing Fears and Taking Action<br>06:42 Fixed vs. Flexible Mindsets<br>09:54 Sales Tactics and Mindset<br>13:59 Seeing Opportunities and Staying Positive<br>19:52 Truth Over Lies: Overcoming Fear<br>26:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)<br>The Impact of Great Questions (Episode #132)</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're examining why you want to change your mindset to foster personal growth and freedom. I've faced my own battles with fear and anxiety and learned the power of shifting one's mindset. In this episode, I'll share three compelling reasons to focus on changing your mindset, especially when you're stuck in negativity. We'll explore practical techniques, like expanding your time horizon, to help you face your fears more effectively. We’ll also discuss how adopting a flexible mindset opens up new opportunities, enhances personal freedom, and helps you distinguish truth from fear-driven lies. This isn't just about listening—it's about taking action. So, join me as we explore how a mindset shift can transform your life. Don't forget to check out the free course 'Shatterproof Yourself' for more actionable insights!</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Changing Your Mindset<br>01:24 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear<br>03:07 Expanding Your Time Horizon<br>05:07 Facing Fears and Taking Action<br>06:42 Fixed vs. Flexible Mindsets<br>09:54 Sales Tactics and Mindset<br>13:59 Seeing Opportunities and Staying Positive<br>19:52 Truth Over Lies: Overcoming Fear<br>26:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)<br>The Impact of Great Questions (Episode #132)</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we're examining why you want to change your mindset to foster personal growth and freedom. I've faced my own battles with fear and anxiety and learned the power of shifting one's mindset. In this episode, I'll share three compelling reasons to focus on changing your mindset, especially when you're stuck in negativity. We'll explore practical techniques, like expanding your time horizon, to help you face your fears more effectively. We’ll also discuss how adopting a flexible mindset opens up new opportunities, enhances personal freedom, and helps you distinguish truth from fear-driven lies. This isn't just about listening—it's about taking action. So, join me as we explore how a mindset shift can transform your life. Don't forget to check out the free course 'Shatterproof Yourself' for more actionable insights!</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Changing Your Mindset<br>01:24 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear<br>03:07 Expanding Your Time Horizon<br>05:07 Facing Fears and Taking Action<br>06:42 Fixed vs. Flexible Mindsets<br>09:54 Sales Tactics and Mindset<br>13:59 Seeing Opportunities and Staying Positive<br>19:52 Truth Over Lies: Overcoming Fear<br>26:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)<br>The Impact of Great Questions (Episode #132)</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#132: The Impact of Great Questions</title>
      <itunes:episode>132</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we get into the transformative power of asking great questions. As someone who's battled a lifelong fear of rejection and anxiety, we’ll discuss how curiosity and meaningful inquiries have shaped my journey as a coach and therapist. There is great value in stepping outside your comfort zone, engaging with others, and building connections through open-ended questions. Learn how these questioning techniques not only reduce stress and anxiety but also provide transformational clarity and strengthen relationships in both personal and professional settings. Join me and discover how asking the right questions can be a game-changer for you.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast</p><p>01:25 Personal Struggles and Inspirations</p><p>02:21 The Power of Asking Questions</p><p>04:04 Benefits of Asking Great Questions</p><p>07:25 Practical Applications and Examples</p><p>09:54 Transformational Clarity Through Questions</p><p>13:27 Connecting Through Questions</p><p>18:15 Final Thoughts and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/131"><strong>Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we get into the transformative power of asking great questions. As someone who's battled a lifelong fear of rejection and anxiety, we’ll discuss how curiosity and meaningful inquiries have shaped my journey as a coach and therapist. There is great value in stepping outside your comfort zone, engaging with others, and building connections through open-ended questions. Learn how these questioning techniques not only reduce stress and anxiety but also provide transformational clarity and strengthen relationships in both personal and professional settings. Join me and discover how asking the right questions can be a game-changer for you.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast</p><p>01:25 Personal Struggles and Inspirations</p><p>02:21 The Power of Asking Questions</p><p>04:04 Benefits of Asking Great Questions</p><p>07:25 Practical Applications and Examples</p><p>09:54 Transformational Clarity Through Questions</p><p>13:27 Connecting Through Questions</p><p>18:15 Final Thoughts and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/131"><strong>Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we get into the transformative power of asking great questions. As someone who's battled a lifelong fear of rejection and anxiety, we’ll discuss how curiosity and meaningful inquiries have shaped my journey as a coach and therapist. There is great value in stepping outside your comfort zone, engaging with others, and building connections through open-ended questions. Learn how these questioning techniques not only reduce stress and anxiety but also provide transformational clarity and strengthen relationships in both personal and professional settings. Join me and discover how asking the right questions can be a game-changer for you.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast</p><p>01:25 Personal Struggles and Inspirations</p><p>02:21 The Power of Asking Questions</p><p>04:04 Benefits of Asking Great Questions</p><p>07:25 Practical Applications and Examples</p><p>09:54 Transformational Clarity Through Questions</p><p>13:27 Connecting Through Questions</p><p>18:15 Final Thoughts and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/131"><strong>Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#131: Every 15 Minutes Counts</title>
      <itunes:episode>131</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to cover the importance of making every 15 minutes count in our lives. We will discuss struggles with distraction and explore how small increments of time can lead to significant transformations. I explain how using 15-minute blocks productively can help in various life areas such as mental health, relationships, career, and personal growth. We explore how to identify and make better use of wasted time and I share a personal story about facing fears by playing frisbee golf. Tune in to learn actionable steps to improve your life in small, manageable chunks and check out our 'Shatterproof Yourself Lite' app for additional resources.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Episode 131</p><p>01:34 The Importance of Every 15 Minutes</p><p>01:56 Facing Fears and Taking Action</p><p>03:49 Transformations Happen Quickly</p><p>07:03 Breaking Down Goals into 15-Minute Increments</p><p>13:49 Balancing Life with 15-Minute Investments</p><p>16:30 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/129"><strong>“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to cover the importance of making every 15 minutes count in our lives. We will discuss struggles with distraction and explore how small increments of time can lead to significant transformations. I explain how using 15-minute blocks productively can help in various life areas such as mental health, relationships, career, and personal growth. We explore how to identify and make better use of wasted time and I share a personal story about facing fears by playing frisbee golf. Tune in to learn actionable steps to improve your life in small, manageable chunks and check out our 'Shatterproof Yourself Lite' app for additional resources.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Episode 131</p><p>01:34 The Importance of Every 15 Minutes</p><p>01:56 Facing Fears and Taking Action</p><p>03:49 Transformations Happen Quickly</p><p>07:03 Breaking Down Goals into 15-Minute Increments</p><p>13:49 Balancing Life with 15-Minute Investments</p><p>16:30 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/129"><strong>“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 02 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to cover the importance of making every 15 minutes count in our lives. We will discuss struggles with distraction and explore how small increments of time can lead to significant transformations. I explain how using 15-minute blocks productively can help in various life areas such as mental health, relationships, career, and personal growth. We explore how to identify and make better use of wasted time and I share a personal story about facing fears by playing frisbee golf. Tune in to learn actionable steps to improve your life in small, manageable chunks and check out our 'Shatterproof Yourself Lite' app for additional resources.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Episode 131</p><p>01:34 The Importance of Every 15 Minutes</p><p>01:56 Facing Fears and Taking Action</p><p>03:49 Transformations Happen Quickly</p><p>07:03 Breaking Down Goals into 15-Minute Increments</p><p>13:49 Balancing Life with 15-Minute Investments</p><p>16:30 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/129"><strong>“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#130: Why I Don't Like "Old" People</title>
      <itunes:episode>130</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly why I don't like 'old people.' Now, I'm not talking about age; I'm talking about a mindset that refuses to grow, challenge itself, and embrace new experiences. I'll share my personal journey, including a recent skiing trip that tested my fears, and explain how the DCG (Decide, Courage, Grow) model can help you stay young at heart. We'll explore the negative effects of an 'old' mindset on anxiety, physical health, and missed opportunities. Join me as I urge you to stay proactive, embrace new opportunities, and sustain a youthful, adventurous attitude for a more fulfilling life.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview</p><p>00:56 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear</p><p>02:58 The Concept of a 'Young' Mindset</p><p>04:08 The DCG Model Explained</p><p>05:53 Applying the Young Mindset in Life</p><p>07:58 The Physical and Mental Benefits of Staying Young</p><p>13:01 Real-Life Examples and Personal Stories</p><p>22:48 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/129"><strong>“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly why I don't like 'old people.' Now, I'm not talking about age; I'm talking about a mindset that refuses to grow, challenge itself, and embrace new experiences. I'll share my personal journey, including a recent skiing trip that tested my fears, and explain how the DCG (Decide, Courage, Grow) model can help you stay young at heart. We'll explore the negative effects of an 'old' mindset on anxiety, physical health, and missed opportunities. Join me as I urge you to stay proactive, embrace new opportunities, and sustain a youthful, adventurous attitude for a more fulfilling life.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview</p><p>00:56 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear</p><p>02:58 The Concept of a 'Young' Mindset</p><p>04:08 The DCG Model Explained</p><p>05:53 Applying the Young Mindset in Life</p><p>07:58 The Physical and Mental Benefits of Staying Young</p><p>13:01 Real-Life Examples and Personal Stories</p><p>22:48 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/129"><strong>“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1671</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly why I don't like 'old people.' Now, I'm not talking about age; I'm talking about a mindset that refuses to grow, challenge itself, and embrace new experiences. I'll share my personal journey, including a recent skiing trip that tested my fears, and explain how the DCG (Decide, Courage, Grow) model can help you stay young at heart. We'll explore the negative effects of an 'old' mindset on anxiety, physical health, and missed opportunities. Join me as I urge you to stay proactive, embrace new opportunities, and sustain a youthful, adventurous attitude for a more fulfilling life.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview</p><p>00:56 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear</p><p>02:58 The Concept of a 'Young' Mindset</p><p>04:08 The DCG Model Explained</p><p>05:53 Applying the Young Mindset in Life</p><p>07:58 The Physical and Mental Benefits of Staying Young</p><p>13:01 Real-Life Examples and Personal Stories</p><p>22:48 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/129"><strong>“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#129: Turning Life's Obstacles Into Opportunities</title>
      <itunes:episode>129</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>129</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m opening up about some tough times I've been through. My business fell apart, I went through a divorce, and had to rebuild from scratch. I share how I turned these big challenges into opportunities to grow and find success again. I'll also talk about the experiences of some of my clients who have faced their own hurdles. This episode is all about shifting your mindset to tackle life's obstacles head-on and turn them into something positive. Tune in for some real talk and practical advice!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Story</p><p>02:16 Rebuilding Trust and Business</p><p>04:00 Facing Uncomfortable Challenges</p><p>05:29 Transforming Obstacles into Opportunities</p><p>09:49 Client Success Stories</p><p>15:52 Energizing Your Future</p><p>20:49 Focus and Control</p><p>22:06 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m opening up about some tough times I've been through. My business fell apart, I went through a divorce, and had to rebuild from scratch. I share how I turned these big challenges into opportunities to grow and find success again. I'll also talk about the experiences of some of my clients who have faced their own hurdles. This episode is all about shifting your mindset to tackle life's obstacles head-on and turn them into something positive. Tune in for some real talk and practical advice!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Story</p><p>02:16 Rebuilding Trust and Business</p><p>04:00 Facing Uncomfortable Challenges</p><p>05:29 Transforming Obstacles into Opportunities</p><p>09:49 Client Success Stories</p><p>15:52 Energizing Your Future</p><p>20:49 Focus and Control</p><p>22:06 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m opening up about some tough times I've been through. My business fell apart, I went through a divorce, and had to rebuild from scratch. I share how I turned these big challenges into opportunities to grow and find success again. I'll also talk about the experiences of some of my clients who have faced their own hurdles. This episode is all about shifting your mindset to tackle life's obstacles head-on and turn them into something positive. Tune in for some real talk and practical advice!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Story</p><p>02:16 Rebuilding Trust and Business</p><p>04:00 Facing Uncomfortable Challenges</p><p>05:29 Transforming Obstacles into Opportunities</p><p>09:49 Client Success Stories</p><p>15:52 Energizing Your Future</p><p>20:49 Focus and Control</p><p>22:06 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#128: Relationship Building Actions - Part 2 (w/ Brent Coppock)</title>
      <itunes:episode>128</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>128</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#128: Relationship Building Actions - Part 2 (w/ Brent Coppock)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In the second part of our series on Relationship Building Actions, hosts Adam Gragg and Brent Coppock dives into practical strategies for enhancing relationships. We discuss the five love languages, emphasizing their importance and offering examples like walking and hiking to integrate these languages. Brent shares personal anecdotes, including a challenging hike with his family that ended in a memorable experience, to highlight the benefits of doing hard things. Then we talk about the significance of taking proactive steps, such as scheduling activities and creating 'if-then' plans, to build stronger connections. Our conversation concludes with actionable advice on facing fears and maintaining commitment to relational goals.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Relationship Building Actions</p><p>01:01 Exploring the Five Love Languages</p><p>01:58 The Power of Walking Together</p><p>03:21 Hiking Adventures and Family Bonding</p><p>07:06 Facing Resistance and Setting Goals</p><p>09:12 Creating If-Then Plans for Success</p><p>10:26 Introducing Shatterproof Yourself Lite</p><p>11:43 The Importance of Doing the Hard Things</p><p>18:30 Scheduling and Accountability</p><p>24:31 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Email Brent (</strong><a href="mailto:brent@axiomcounseling.com"><strong>brent@axiomcounseling.com</strong></a><strong>)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In the second part of our series on Relationship Building Actions, hosts Adam Gragg and Brent Coppock dives into practical strategies for enhancing relationships. We discuss the five love languages, emphasizing their importance and offering examples like walking and hiking to integrate these languages. Brent shares personal anecdotes, including a challenging hike with his family that ended in a memorable experience, to highlight the benefits of doing hard things. Then we talk about the significance of taking proactive steps, such as scheduling activities and creating 'if-then' plans, to build stronger connections. Our conversation concludes with actionable advice on facing fears and maintaining commitment to relational goals.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Relationship Building Actions</p><p>01:01 Exploring the Five Love Languages</p><p>01:58 The Power of Walking Together</p><p>03:21 Hiking Adventures and Family Bonding</p><p>07:06 Facing Resistance and Setting Goals</p><p>09:12 Creating If-Then Plans for Success</p><p>10:26 Introducing Shatterproof Yourself Lite</p><p>11:43 The Importance of Doing the Hard Things</p><p>18:30 Scheduling and Accountability</p><p>24:31 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Email Brent (</strong><a href="mailto:brent@axiomcounseling.com"><strong>brent@axiomcounseling.com</strong></a><strong>)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 04 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In the second part of our series on Relationship Building Actions, hosts Adam Gragg and Brent Coppock dives into practical strategies for enhancing relationships. We discuss the five love languages, emphasizing their importance and offering examples like walking and hiking to integrate these languages. Brent shares personal anecdotes, including a challenging hike with his family that ended in a memorable experience, to highlight the benefits of doing hard things. Then we talk about the significance of taking proactive steps, such as scheduling activities and creating 'if-then' plans, to build stronger connections. Our conversation concludes with actionable advice on facing fears and maintaining commitment to relational goals.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Relationship Building Actions</p><p>01:01 Exploring the Five Love Languages</p><p>01:58 The Power of Walking Together</p><p>03:21 Hiking Adventures and Family Bonding</p><p>07:06 Facing Resistance and Setting Goals</p><p>09:12 Creating If-Then Plans for Success</p><p>10:26 Introducing Shatterproof Yourself Lite</p><p>11:43 The Importance of Doing the Hard Things</p><p>18:30 Scheduling and Accountability</p><p>24:31 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Email Brent (</strong><a href="mailto:brent@axiomcounseling.com"><strong>brent@axiomcounseling.com</strong></a><strong>)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#127: Relationship Building Actions - Part 1 (w/ Brent Coppock)</title>
      <itunes:episode>127</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>127</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#127: Relationship Building Actions - Part 1 (w/ Brent Coppock)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are welcoming Brent Coppock, a licensed professional counselor, for an engaging discussion about actions that build strong and healthy relationships. Brent and I explore the significance of taking intentional steps in relationship building, sharing personal stories and professional insights. They cover essential elements such as creating a safe environment, the importance of going first in relationships, and practical strategies like understanding love languages. This insightful conversation is aimed at helping listeners cultivate more fulfilling and resilient relationships in both personal and professional settings.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview</p><p>00:57 A Memorable Hiking Experience</p><p>02:12 Introducing Brent Coppock</p><p>02:37 Brent's Family and Career Journey</p><p>05:11 Facing Fears and Making Big Decisions</p><p>08:58 Building Trust and Safety in Relationships</p><p>20:19 Building Trust Early in Therapy</p><p>20:29 Creating a Safe Environment</p><p>21:04 Personal Reflections on Professional Challenges</p><p>21:42 The Importance of Safe People</p><p>22:56 Changing Mindsets and Overcoming Fears</p><p>27:22 The Power of Going First in Relationships</p><p>32:55 Practical Tips for Relationship Building</p><p>33:10 The Five Love Languages</p><p>37:07 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/120"><strong>Wisdom From My Dad (Episode 120)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are welcoming Brent Coppock, a licensed professional counselor, for an engaging discussion about actions that build strong and healthy relationships. Brent and I explore the significance of taking intentional steps in relationship building, sharing personal stories and professional insights. They cover essential elements such as creating a safe environment, the importance of going first in relationships, and practical strategies like understanding love languages. This insightful conversation is aimed at helping listeners cultivate more fulfilling and resilient relationships in both personal and professional settings.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview</p><p>00:57 A Memorable Hiking Experience</p><p>02:12 Introducing Brent Coppock</p><p>02:37 Brent's Family and Career Journey</p><p>05:11 Facing Fears and Making Big Decisions</p><p>08:58 Building Trust and Safety in Relationships</p><p>20:19 Building Trust Early in Therapy</p><p>20:29 Creating a Safe Environment</p><p>21:04 Personal Reflections on Professional Challenges</p><p>21:42 The Importance of Safe People</p><p>22:56 Changing Mindsets and Overcoming Fears</p><p>27:22 The Power of Going First in Relationships</p><p>32:55 Practical Tips for Relationship Building</p><p>33:10 The Five Love Languages</p><p>37:07 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/120"><strong>Wisdom From My Dad (Episode 120)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 28 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are welcoming Brent Coppock, a licensed professional counselor, for an engaging discussion about actions that build strong and healthy relationships. Brent and I explore the significance of taking intentional steps in relationship building, sharing personal stories and professional insights. They cover essential elements such as creating a safe environment, the importance of going first in relationships, and practical strategies like understanding love languages. This insightful conversation is aimed at helping listeners cultivate more fulfilling and resilient relationships in both personal and professional settings.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview</p><p>00:57 A Memorable Hiking Experience</p><p>02:12 Introducing Brent Coppock</p><p>02:37 Brent's Family and Career Journey</p><p>05:11 Facing Fears and Making Big Decisions</p><p>08:58 Building Trust and Safety in Relationships</p><p>20:19 Building Trust Early in Therapy</p><p>20:29 Creating a Safe Environment</p><p>21:04 Personal Reflections on Professional Challenges</p><p>21:42 The Importance of Safe People</p><p>22:56 Changing Mindsets and Overcoming Fears</p><p>27:22 The Power of Going First in Relationships</p><p>32:55 Practical Tips for Relationship Building</p><p>33:10 The Five Love Languages</p><p>37:07 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/120"><strong>Wisdom From My Dad (Episode 120)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#126: Surprising Truths About Self-Care</title>
      <itunes:episode>126</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>126</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#126: Surprising Truths About Self-Care</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we’re diving into some surprising truths about self care. I share my personal journey of overcoming a major sleep issue and anxiety, and how I realized that my self-focused mindset was holding me back. Inspired by a powerful sermon from Craig Groeschel, I discuss the importance of thinking less about yourself, thinking more about others, and shifting your perspective for better mental and physical health. I challenge you to take actionable steps that might feel uncomfortable but are crucial for your growth. Join me as we navigate these surprising insights and work towards living the legacy we want to leave.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 My Journey Through a Major Sleep Issue</p><p>00:46 The Big Mistake: Making Life All About Me</p><p>01:57 Introduction to the Podcast and Episode Overview</p><p>03:17 Facing Fears and Seeking Advice</p><p>04:04 The Surprising Truths About Self Care</p><p>06:51 The Importance of Thinking Less About Yourself</p><p>11:47 Shifting Focus: Thinking More of Others</p><p>16:34 Shifting Perspectives for Better Self Care</p><p>23:26 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/"><strong>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/125"><strong>How to Face Your Biggest Fears (Episode 125)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/z5MKqT_zPbI?si=ix2bTtQhV1R3iT2R"><strong>When Self-Love is Selfish</strong></a><strong> Life Church sermon</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we’re diving into some surprising truths about self care. I share my personal journey of overcoming a major sleep issue and anxiety, and how I realized that my self-focused mindset was holding me back. Inspired by a powerful sermon from Craig Groeschel, I discuss the importance of thinking less about yourself, thinking more about others, and shifting your perspective for better mental and physical health. I challenge you to take actionable steps that might feel uncomfortable but are crucial for your growth. Join me as we navigate these surprising insights and work towards living the legacy we want to leave.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 My Journey Through a Major Sleep Issue</p><p>00:46 The Big Mistake: Making Life All About Me</p><p>01:57 Introduction to the Podcast and Episode Overview</p><p>03:17 Facing Fears and Seeking Advice</p><p>04:04 The Surprising Truths About Self Care</p><p>06:51 The Importance of Thinking Less About Yourself</p><p>11:47 Shifting Focus: Thinking More of Others</p><p>16:34 Shifting Perspectives for Better Self Care</p><p>23:26 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/"><strong>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/125"><strong>How to Face Your Biggest Fears (Episode 125)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/z5MKqT_zPbI?si=ix2bTtQhV1R3iT2R"><strong>When Self-Love is Selfish</strong></a><strong> Life Church sermon</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we’re diving into some surprising truths about self care. I share my personal journey of overcoming a major sleep issue and anxiety, and how I realized that my self-focused mindset was holding me back. Inspired by a powerful sermon from Craig Groeschel, I discuss the importance of thinking less about yourself, thinking more about others, and shifting your perspective for better mental and physical health. I challenge you to take actionable steps that might feel uncomfortable but are crucial for your growth. Join me as we navigate these surprising insights and work towards living the legacy we want to leave.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 My Journey Through a Major Sleep Issue</p><p>00:46 The Big Mistake: Making Life All About Me</p><p>01:57 Introduction to the Podcast and Episode Overview</p><p>03:17 Facing Fears and Seeking Advice</p><p>04:04 The Surprising Truths About Self Care</p><p>06:51 The Importance of Thinking Less About Yourself</p><p>11:47 Shifting Focus: Thinking More of Others</p><p>16:34 Shifting Perspectives for Better Self Care</p><p>23:26 Summary and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/"><strong>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/125"><strong>How to Face Your Biggest Fears (Episode 125)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/z5MKqT_zPbI?si=ix2bTtQhV1R3iT2R"><strong>When Self-Love is Selfish</strong></a><strong> Life Church sermon</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#125: How to Face Your Biggest Fears</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into practical strategies for confronting and overcoming your biggest fears. Drawing from my personal experiences, like tackling my fear of flying and challenging myself in a paddleboard yoga class, I outline three essential steps: counting the cost of avoidance, recognizing the opportunities and growth in facing fears, and leveraging your strengths to tackle daunting tasks. I emphasize the importance of action over insight and encourage you to identify and address the fears that hinder your personal and professional development. Tune in to learn these transformative truths and start living a courageous life.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Facing Your Fears<br>01:00 Personal Stories and Inspirations<br>01:25 The Importance of Facing Your Fears<br>02:32 Identifying and Addressing Your Fears<br>04:25 Counting the Cost of Avoidance<br>08:46 Seeing the Potential Gains<br>15:19 Tapping into Your Strengths<br>20:11 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears<br>Stepping Into Courage (Episode 124)</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into practical strategies for confronting and overcoming your biggest fears. Drawing from my personal experiences, like tackling my fear of flying and challenging myself in a paddleboard yoga class, I outline three essential steps: counting the cost of avoidance, recognizing the opportunities and growth in facing fears, and leveraging your strengths to tackle daunting tasks. I emphasize the importance of action over insight and encourage you to identify and address the fears that hinder your personal and professional development. Tune in to learn these transformative truths and start living a courageous life.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Facing Your Fears<br>01:00 Personal Stories and Inspirations<br>01:25 The Importance of Facing Your Fears<br>02:32 Identifying and Addressing Your Fears<br>04:25 Counting the Cost of Avoidance<br>08:46 Seeing the Potential Gains<br>15:19 Tapping into Your Strengths<br>20:11 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears<br>Stepping Into Courage (Episode 124)</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into practical strategies for confronting and overcoming your biggest fears. Drawing from my personal experiences, like tackling my fear of flying and challenging myself in a paddleboard yoga class, I outline three essential steps: counting the cost of avoidance, recognizing the opportunities and growth in facing fears, and leveraging your strengths to tackle daunting tasks. I emphasize the importance of action over insight and encourage you to identify and address the fears that hinder your personal and professional development. Tune in to learn these transformative truths and start living a courageous life.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Facing Your Fears<br>01:00 Personal Stories and Inspirations<br>01:25 The Importance of Facing Your Fears<br>02:32 Identifying and Addressing Your Fears<br>04:25 Counting the Cost of Avoidance<br>08:46 Seeing the Potential Gains<br>15:19 Tapping into Your Strengths<br>20:11 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears<br>Stepping Into Courage (Episode 124)</p><p>If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health.<br> <br>Get free content to start your legacy journey</p><p>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg<br> <br>Connect with Decide Your Legacy!<br> <br>Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE &amp; leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#124: Stepping Into Courage</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of facing fears, based on my own experiences including a risky cab ride in Montreal. Throughout the episode, I explore seven unexpected benefits of confronting fears: reduced anxiety, a smaller ego, increased creativity, improved relationships, access to new opportunities, better health, and enhanced confidence. I challenge you to take noteworthy action by identifying and tackling small, uncomfortable tasks to build momentum for bigger challenges. Join me as I provide insights and practical steps to help you courageously face your fears.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles</p><p>01:36 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction</p><p>02:36 Facing Fears: The Concept and Its Importance</p><p>02:59 Personal Story: Montreal Trip</p><p>04:09 Action Steps: Embracing Discomfort</p><p>05:07 Core Values and Book Recommendation</p><p>06:07 Unexpected Benefits of Facing Fears</p><p>06:20 Benefit 1: Decreased Anxiety</p><p>07:55 Benefit 2: Shrinking Ego</p><p>10:20 Benefit 3: Increased Creativity</p><p>11:59 Mid-Episode Call to Action</p><p>13:10 Benefit 4: Improved Relationships</p><p>16:15 Benefit 5: New Opportunities</p><p>18:43 Benefit 6: Better Health</p><p>21:17 Benefit 7: Boosted Confidence</p><p>23:53 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/"><strong>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of facing fears, based on my own experiences including a risky cab ride in Montreal. Throughout the episode, I explore seven unexpected benefits of confronting fears: reduced anxiety, a smaller ego, increased creativity, improved relationships, access to new opportunities, better health, and enhanced confidence. I challenge you to take noteworthy action by identifying and tackling small, uncomfortable tasks to build momentum for bigger challenges. Join me as I provide insights and practical steps to help you courageously face your fears.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles</p><p>01:36 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction</p><p>02:36 Facing Fears: The Concept and Its Importance</p><p>02:59 Personal Story: Montreal Trip</p><p>04:09 Action Steps: Embracing Discomfort</p><p>05:07 Core Values and Book Recommendation</p><p>06:07 Unexpected Benefits of Facing Fears</p><p>06:20 Benefit 1: Decreased Anxiety</p><p>07:55 Benefit 2: Shrinking Ego</p><p>10:20 Benefit 3: Increased Creativity</p><p>11:59 Mid-Episode Call to Action</p><p>13:10 Benefit 4: Improved Relationships</p><p>16:15 Benefit 5: New Opportunities</p><p>18:43 Benefit 6: Better Health</p><p>21:17 Benefit 7: Boosted Confidence</p><p>23:53 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/"><strong>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 31 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of facing fears, based on my own experiences including a risky cab ride in Montreal. Throughout the episode, I explore seven unexpected benefits of confronting fears: reduced anxiety, a smaller ego, increased creativity, improved relationships, access to new opportunities, better health, and enhanced confidence. I challenge you to take noteworthy action by identifying and tackling small, uncomfortable tasks to build momentum for bigger challenges. Join me as I provide insights and practical steps to help you courageously face your fears.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles</p><p>01:36 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction</p><p>02:36 Facing Fears: The Concept and Its Importance</p><p>02:59 Personal Story: Montreal Trip</p><p>04:09 Action Steps: Embracing Discomfort</p><p>05:07 Core Values and Book Recommendation</p><p>06:07 Unexpected Benefits of Facing Fears</p><p>06:20 Benefit 1: Decreased Anxiety</p><p>07:55 Benefit 2: Shrinking Ego</p><p>10:20 Benefit 3: Increased Creativity</p><p>11:59 Mid-Episode Call to Action</p><p>13:10 Benefit 4: Improved Relationships</p><p>16:15 Benefit 5: New Opportunities</p><p>18:43 Benefit 6: Better Health</p><p>21:17 Benefit 7: Boosted Confidence</p><p>23:53 Conclusion and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/"><strong>7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your Fears</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#123: You Own Your Attention - Part 2</title>
      <itunes:episode>123</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>123</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#123: You Own Your Attention - Part 2</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we dive deep into the pervasive issue of distraction and its impact on our lives. I start by sharing my own struggles with distraction and how I often fall victim to addictive algorithms. I discuss the importance of taking ownership of our attention and share advice from strangers on minimizing distractions. We explore the three pillars of focus: managing emotions, creating productive environments, and building meaningful connections. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, I guide you on how to take actionable steps to improve your focus and productivity. Join me as we learn how to overcome distractions, face our fears, and live a more intentional life.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Battle with Distraction</p><p>01:28 Admitting the Problem: Recognizing Addiction</p><p>01:51 Welcome to the Podcast: You Own Your Attention</p><p>02:47 Facing Fears: The Key to Mental Health</p><p>03:15 Advice from Strangers: Overcoming Distraction</p><p>06:07 Taking Ownership: Emotions, Environment, and Connections</p><p>06:26 Emotional Connections: The First Pillar</p><p>11:44 Creating Focused Environments: The Second Pillar</p><p>16:27 Building Relationships: The Third Pillar</p><p>20:11 Conclusion: Taking Back Your Attention</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGnNHWQMfdE">Mistral by Stephan Moccio</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/122">You Own Your Attention - Part 1</a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we dive deep into the pervasive issue of distraction and its impact on our lives. I start by sharing my own struggles with distraction and how I often fall victim to addictive algorithms. I discuss the importance of taking ownership of our attention and share advice from strangers on minimizing distractions. We explore the three pillars of focus: managing emotions, creating productive environments, and building meaningful connections. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, I guide you on how to take actionable steps to improve your focus and productivity. Join me as we learn how to overcome distractions, face our fears, and live a more intentional life.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Battle with Distraction</p><p>01:28 Admitting the Problem: Recognizing Addiction</p><p>01:51 Welcome to the Podcast: You Own Your Attention</p><p>02:47 Facing Fears: The Key to Mental Health</p><p>03:15 Advice from Strangers: Overcoming Distraction</p><p>06:07 Taking Ownership: Emotions, Environment, and Connections</p><p>06:26 Emotional Connections: The First Pillar</p><p>11:44 Creating Focused Environments: The Second Pillar</p><p>16:27 Building Relationships: The Third Pillar</p><p>20:11 Conclusion: Taking Back Your Attention</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGnNHWQMfdE">Mistral by Stephan Moccio</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/122">You Own Your Attention - Part 1</a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, we dive deep into the pervasive issue of distraction and its impact on our lives. I start by sharing my own struggles with distraction and how I often fall victim to addictive algorithms. I discuss the importance of taking ownership of our attention and share advice from strangers on minimizing distractions. We explore the three pillars of focus: managing emotions, creating productive environments, and building meaningful connections. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, I guide you on how to take actionable steps to improve your focus and productivity. Join me as we learn how to overcome distractions, face our fears, and live a more intentional life.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Battle with Distraction</p><p>01:28 Admitting the Problem: Recognizing Addiction</p><p>01:51 Welcome to the Podcast: You Own Your Attention</p><p>02:47 Facing Fears: The Key to Mental Health</p><p>03:15 Advice from Strangers: Overcoming Distraction</p><p>06:07 Taking Ownership: Emotions, Environment, and Connections</p><p>06:26 Emotional Connections: The First Pillar</p><p>11:44 Creating Focused Environments: The Second Pillar</p><p>16:27 Building Relationships: The Third Pillar</p><p>20:11 Conclusion: Taking Back Your Attention</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGnNHWQMfdE">Mistral by Stephan Moccio</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/122">You Own Your Attention - Part 1</a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#122: You Own Your Attention - Part 1</title>
      <itunes:episode>122</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>122</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to spend some intentional time on the critical topic of owning your attention amidst a world full of distractions. I share my personal struggle with getting sucked into my phone and how it can derail an entire day. Today, we outline three key strategies to reclaim focus: starting your day right, ending your day right, and stopping the spiral of distraction by facing underlying fears. I offer practical actions and routines that have worked for me and challenge you to create your own. Your attention is priceless, and taking control of it can transform your life. Join me as we explore the steps to live intentionally and face our biggest fears.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Distraction</p><p>01:22 Owning Your Attention</p><p>01:29 Meet Your Host: Adam Gragg</p><p>01:57 Real-Life Distractions: A Coffee Shop Experiment</p><p>03:08 The Value of Your Attention</p><p>04:28 Three Keys to Owning Your Attention</p><p>04:54 Key 1: Start Your Day Off Right</p><p>10:59 Key 2: End Your Day Right</p><p>18:32 Key 3: Stop the Spiral of Fear</p><p>22:20 Conclusion: Take Action and Own Your Attention</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to spend some intentional time on the critical topic of owning your attention amidst a world full of distractions. I share my personal struggle with getting sucked into my phone and how it can derail an entire day. Today, we outline three key strategies to reclaim focus: starting your day right, ending your day right, and stopping the spiral of distraction by facing underlying fears. I offer practical actions and routines that have worked for me and challenge you to create your own. Your attention is priceless, and taking control of it can transform your life. Join me as we explore the steps to live intentionally and face our biggest fears.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Distraction</p><p>01:22 Owning Your Attention</p><p>01:29 Meet Your Host: Adam Gragg</p><p>01:57 Real-Life Distractions: A Coffee Shop Experiment</p><p>03:08 The Value of Your Attention</p><p>04:28 Three Keys to Owning Your Attention</p><p>04:54 Key 1: Start Your Day Off Right</p><p>10:59 Key 2: End Your Day Right</p><p>18:32 Key 3: Stop the Spiral of Fear</p><p>22:20 Conclusion: Take Action and Own Your Attention</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 17 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1487</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going to spend some intentional time on the critical topic of owning your attention amidst a world full of distractions. I share my personal struggle with getting sucked into my phone and how it can derail an entire day. Today, we outline three key strategies to reclaim focus: starting your day right, ending your day right, and stopping the spiral of distraction by facing underlying fears. I offer practical actions and routines that have worked for me and challenge you to create your own. Your attention is priceless, and taking control of it can transform your life. Join me as we explore the steps to live intentionally and face our biggest fears.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Distraction</p><p>01:22 Owning Your Attention</p><p>01:29 Meet Your Host: Adam Gragg</p><p>01:57 Real-Life Distractions: A Coffee Shop Experiment</p><p>03:08 The Value of Your Attention</p><p>04:28 Three Keys to Owning Your Attention</p><p>04:54 Key 1: Start Your Day Off Right</p><p>10:59 Key 2: End Your Day Right</p><p>18:32 Key 3: Stop the Spiral of Fear</p><p>22:20 Conclusion: Take Action and Own Your Attention</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#121: Don't Get Sucked Down by Toxic People</title>
      <itunes:episode>121</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>121</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into the crucial topic of avoiding the negative impact of toxic people in your life. I discuss three essential truths that you need to understand: recognizing your own toxic behaviors, identifying toxicity in others, and owning your attention as your property. Drawing from my 25 years of experience as a mental health professional, I'll guide you through actionable steps for setting boundaries, managing your attention, and taking charge of your personal growth. Learn how to face your fears, stay growth-oriented, and prevent yourself from being dragged down by others' negativity. Join me, Adam Gragg, and let’s work together to transform your life and safeguard your mental well-being.</p><p><br></p><p>00:51 Understanding Toxic People</p><p>02:47 Personal Experiences and Uncomfortable Actions</p><p>05:40 Recognizing Toxic Traits in Yourself</p><p>10:33 Identifying Toxic Traits in Others</p><p>18:48 Managing Your Attention</p><p>28:44 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into the crucial topic of avoiding the negative impact of toxic people in your life. I discuss three essential truths that you need to understand: recognizing your own toxic behaviors, identifying toxicity in others, and owning your attention as your property. Drawing from my 25 years of experience as a mental health professional, I'll guide you through actionable steps for setting boundaries, managing your attention, and taking charge of your personal growth. Learn how to face your fears, stay growth-oriented, and prevent yourself from being dragged down by others' negativity. Join me, Adam Gragg, and let’s work together to transform your life and safeguard your mental well-being.</p><p><br></p><p>00:51 Understanding Toxic People</p><p>02:47 Personal Experiences and Uncomfortable Actions</p><p>05:40 Recognizing Toxic Traits in Yourself</p><p>10:33 Identifying Toxic Traits in Others</p><p>18:48 Managing Your Attention</p><p>28:44 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1816</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into the crucial topic of avoiding the negative impact of toxic people in your life. I discuss three essential truths that you need to understand: recognizing your own toxic behaviors, identifying toxicity in others, and owning your attention as your property. Drawing from my 25 years of experience as a mental health professional, I'll guide you through actionable steps for setting boundaries, managing your attention, and taking charge of your personal growth. Learn how to face your fears, stay growth-oriented, and prevent yourself from being dragged down by others' negativity. Join me, Adam Gragg, and let’s work together to transform your life and safeguard your mental well-being.</p><p><br></p><p>00:51 Understanding Toxic People</p><p>02:47 Personal Experiences and Uncomfortable Actions</p><p>05:40 Recognizing Toxic Traits in Yourself</p><p>10:33 Identifying Toxic Traits in Others</p><p>18:48 Managing Your Attention</p><p>28:44 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#120: Wisdom from my Dad</title>
      <itunes:episode>120</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>120</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 120 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today, we're diving deep into the topics of facing fear and asking for what you want. Joined by my special guest and father, Eric Gragg, we'll explore how addiction and fear can act as major roadblocks in life. We'll break down the fear of rejection and offer three powerful tools to help you ask for what you want: cultivating courage, maintaining a positive attitude, and staying organized. Eric shares his invaluable experiences from his prolific career in sales and commercial real estate, revealing how his effective cold calling techniques and strong relationship-building skills led to his success. We'll uncover actionable insights that you can apply immediately to your life, business, and relationships. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with personal stories, practical advice, and tools to help you overcome your own fears and move forward.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Understanding Addiction and Fear</p><p>01:21 Introducing the Special Guest: My Dad</p><p>01:27 The Fear of Rejection</p><p>01:47 Tools to Ask for What You Want</p><p>02:19 Personal Story: Facing My Fears</p><p>03:24 Meet the Host: Adam Gragg</p><p>04:08 Reflecting on Personal Fears</p><p>04:49 Sales and Marketing Strategies</p><p>05:50 Interview with My Dad: Early Life and Career</p><p>06:25 First Jobs and Early Sales Experiences</p><p>08:42 Challenges and Adversities</p><p>22:26 Transition to Commercial Real Estate</p><p>24:10 Dealing with Rejection in Sales</p><p>30:23 Mindset and Attitude for Success</p><p>31:35 Identifying and Solving Client Needs</p><p>33:24 Overcoming Challenges in Real Estate</p><p>34:55 Building Confidence and Effective Cold Calling</p><p>48:32 Staying Healthy and Organized for Success</p><p>01:01:04 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 120 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today, we're diving deep into the topics of facing fear and asking for what you want. Joined by my special guest and father, Eric Gragg, we'll explore how addiction and fear can act as major roadblocks in life. We'll break down the fear of rejection and offer three powerful tools to help you ask for what you want: cultivating courage, maintaining a positive attitude, and staying organized. Eric shares his invaluable experiences from his prolific career in sales and commercial real estate, revealing how his effective cold calling techniques and strong relationship-building skills led to his success. We'll uncover actionable insights that you can apply immediately to your life, business, and relationships. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with personal stories, practical advice, and tools to help you overcome your own fears and move forward.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Understanding Addiction and Fear</p><p>01:21 Introducing the Special Guest: My Dad</p><p>01:27 The Fear of Rejection</p><p>01:47 Tools to Ask for What You Want</p><p>02:19 Personal Story: Facing My Fears</p><p>03:24 Meet the Host: Adam Gragg</p><p>04:08 Reflecting on Personal Fears</p><p>04:49 Sales and Marketing Strategies</p><p>05:50 Interview with My Dad: Early Life and Career</p><p>06:25 First Jobs and Early Sales Experiences</p><p>08:42 Challenges and Adversities</p><p>22:26 Transition to Commercial Real Estate</p><p>24:10 Dealing with Rejection in Sales</p><p>30:23 Mindset and Attitude for Success</p><p>31:35 Identifying and Solving Client Needs</p><p>33:24 Overcoming Challenges in Real Estate</p><p>34:55 Building Confidence and Effective Cold Calling</p><p>48:32 Staying Healthy and Organized for Success</p><p>01:01:04 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 28 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 120 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today, we're diving deep into the topics of facing fear and asking for what you want. Joined by my special guest and father, Eric Gragg, we'll explore how addiction and fear can act as major roadblocks in life. We'll break down the fear of rejection and offer three powerful tools to help you ask for what you want: cultivating courage, maintaining a positive attitude, and staying organized. Eric shares his invaluable experiences from his prolific career in sales and commercial real estate, revealing how his effective cold calling techniques and strong relationship-building skills led to his success. We'll uncover actionable insights that you can apply immediately to your life, business, and relationships. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with personal stories, practical advice, and tools to help you overcome your own fears and move forward.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Understanding Addiction and Fear</p><p>01:21 Introducing the Special Guest: My Dad</p><p>01:27 The Fear of Rejection</p><p>01:47 Tools to Ask for What You Want</p><p>02:19 Personal Story: Facing My Fears</p><p>03:24 Meet the Host: Adam Gragg</p><p>04:08 Reflecting on Personal Fears</p><p>04:49 Sales and Marketing Strategies</p><p>05:50 Interview with My Dad: Early Life and Career</p><p>06:25 First Jobs and Early Sales Experiences</p><p>08:42 Challenges and Adversities</p><p>22:26 Transition to Commercial Real Estate</p><p>24:10 Dealing with Rejection in Sales</p><p>30:23 Mindset and Attitude for Success</p><p>31:35 Identifying and Solving Client Needs</p><p>33:24 Overcoming Challenges in Real Estate</p><p>34:55 Building Confidence and Effective Cold Calling</p><p>48:32 Staying Healthy and Organized for Success</p><p>01:01:04 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#119: Stop Playing the Victim</title>
      <itunes:episode>119</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we delve into the common issue of clients avoiding confrontation with their past traumas due to the fear of being labeled as 'playing the victim'. We discuss the importance of facing and acknowledging past hurts like trauma, abuse, or betrayal to avoid being perpetually victimized by them. I outline four crucial steps: admitting the impact of past events, recognizing their effects, discussing them with a trusted person, and finding value in the experiences. By following these steps, you can overcome fear, build self-confidence, and transform your past challenges into positive motivation for personal growth. Join me as I help you embark on the journey of reclaiming and reshaping your life’s narrative.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Frustration of Playing the Victim</p><p>00:53 Understanding the Impact of Trauma</p><p>01:47 Stop Being a Victim</p><p>01:57 Four Ingredients to Move Past Your Past</p><p>02:58 Personal Stories and Struggles</p><p>06:46 Admitting the Impact of the Past</p><p>10:52 Recognizing the Impact on Your Life</p><p>15:46 The Importance of Talking to Someone</p><p>20:23 Finding Value in Your Experiences</p><p>27:16 Conclusion: Taking Action and Living Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we delve into the common issue of clients avoiding confrontation with their past traumas due to the fear of being labeled as 'playing the victim'. We discuss the importance of facing and acknowledging past hurts like trauma, abuse, or betrayal to avoid being perpetually victimized by them. I outline four crucial steps: admitting the impact of past events, recognizing their effects, discussing them with a trusted person, and finding value in the experiences. By following these steps, you can overcome fear, build self-confidence, and transform your past challenges into positive motivation for personal growth. Join me as I help you embark on the journey of reclaiming and reshaping your life’s narrative.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Frustration of Playing the Victim</p><p>00:53 Understanding the Impact of Trauma</p><p>01:47 Stop Being a Victim</p><p>01:57 Four Ingredients to Move Past Your Past</p><p>02:58 Personal Stories and Struggles</p><p>06:46 Admitting the Impact of the Past</p><p>10:52 Recognizing the Impact on Your Life</p><p>15:46 The Importance of Talking to Someone</p><p>20:23 Finding Value in Your Experiences</p><p>27:16 Conclusion: Taking Action and Living Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1878</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we delve into the common issue of clients avoiding confrontation with their past traumas due to the fear of being labeled as 'playing the victim'. We discuss the importance of facing and acknowledging past hurts like trauma, abuse, or betrayal to avoid being perpetually victimized by them. I outline four crucial steps: admitting the impact of past events, recognizing their effects, discussing them with a trusted person, and finding value in the experiences. By following these steps, you can overcome fear, build self-confidence, and transform your past challenges into positive motivation for personal growth. Join me as I help you embark on the journey of reclaiming and reshaping your life’s narrative.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Frustration of Playing the Victim</p><p>00:53 Understanding the Impact of Trauma</p><p>01:47 Stop Being a Victim</p><p>01:57 Four Ingredients to Move Past Your Past</p><p>02:58 Personal Stories and Struggles</p><p>06:46 Admitting the Impact of the Past</p><p>10:52 Recognizing the Impact on Your Life</p><p>15:46 The Importance of Talking to Someone</p><p>20:23 Finding Value in Your Experiences</p><p>27:16 Conclusion: Taking Action and Living Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#118: Stop Trying to Impress Others</title>
      <itunes:episode>118</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>118</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#118: Stop Trying to Impress Others</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we delve into the struggles and pressures of constantly seeking validation from others. I share my personal experiences and highlight the detrimental effects of comparison and people-pleasing on mental health. In this episode, I present four practical tools to help break the cycle of trying to impress others: sharing your vulnerabilities, being true to yourself, measuring progress against your past self, and finding meaning in your experiences. I encourage you to take actionable steps towards self-improvement and authenticity, emphasizing the importance of facing fears and living in alignment with your values. Join me as we explore how to stop trying to impress others and start embracing your true self.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Comparison Trap</p><p>01:52 Episode Overview: Stop Proving Yourself</p><p>02:43 Facing Your Fears: The Key to Mental Health</p><p>04:05 Vulnerability: Sharing Your Struggles</p><p>07:27 Tool 1: Share Your Junk</p><p>14:16 Tool 2: Be Your True Self</p><p>19:57 Tool 3: Compare Yourself to Yourself</p><p>24:31 Tool 4: Find the Meaning</p><p>27:50 Conclusion: Take Action and Live Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/25-books-that-changed-my-life-for-the-better/"><strong>25 Books That Have Changed My Life (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3KJXueg"><strong>The Top 5 Regrets of the Dyin</strong>g </a> by Bronnie Ware</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-tips-for-healing-after-a-divorce/"><strong>12 Tips for Healing After A Divorce</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we delve into the struggles and pressures of constantly seeking validation from others. I share my personal experiences and highlight the detrimental effects of comparison and people-pleasing on mental health. In this episode, I present four practical tools to help break the cycle of trying to impress others: sharing your vulnerabilities, being true to yourself, measuring progress against your past self, and finding meaning in your experiences. I encourage you to take actionable steps towards self-improvement and authenticity, emphasizing the importance of facing fears and living in alignment with your values. Join me as we explore how to stop trying to impress others and start embracing your true self.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Comparison Trap</p><p>01:52 Episode Overview: Stop Proving Yourself</p><p>02:43 Facing Your Fears: The Key to Mental Health</p><p>04:05 Vulnerability: Sharing Your Struggles</p><p>07:27 Tool 1: Share Your Junk</p><p>14:16 Tool 2: Be Your True Self</p><p>19:57 Tool 3: Compare Yourself to Yourself</p><p>24:31 Tool 4: Find the Meaning</p><p>27:50 Conclusion: Take Action and Live Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/25-books-that-changed-my-life-for-the-better/"><strong>25 Books That Have Changed My Life (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3KJXueg"><strong>The Top 5 Regrets of the Dyin</strong>g </a> by Bronnie Ware</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-tips-for-healing-after-a-divorce/"><strong>12 Tips for Healing After A Divorce</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1819</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we delve into the struggles and pressures of constantly seeking validation from others. I share my personal experiences and highlight the detrimental effects of comparison and people-pleasing on mental health. In this episode, I present four practical tools to help break the cycle of trying to impress others: sharing your vulnerabilities, being true to yourself, measuring progress against your past self, and finding meaning in your experiences. I encourage you to take actionable steps towards self-improvement and authenticity, emphasizing the importance of facing fears and living in alignment with your values. Join me as we explore how to stop trying to impress others and start embracing your true self.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: The Comparison Trap</p><p>01:52 Episode Overview: Stop Proving Yourself</p><p>02:43 Facing Your Fears: The Key to Mental Health</p><p>04:05 Vulnerability: Sharing Your Struggles</p><p>07:27 Tool 1: Share Your Junk</p><p>14:16 Tool 2: Be Your True Self</p><p>19:57 Tool 3: Compare Yourself to Yourself</p><p>24:31 Tool 4: Find the Meaning</p><p>27:50 Conclusion: Take Action and Live Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/25-books-that-changed-my-life-for-the-better/"><strong>25 Books That Have Changed My Life (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3KJXueg"><strong>The Top 5 Regrets of the Dyin</strong>g </a> by Bronnie Ware</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-tips-for-healing-after-a-divorce/"><strong>12 Tips for Healing After A Divorce</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#117: Bro, Stop Being So Negative!</title>
      <itunes:episode>117</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>117</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#117: Bro, Stop Being So Negative!</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today's episode, we dive deep into my personal struggles with negativity over the past several years and share how I've learned to tackle these challenges head-on. We'll discuss the ease of falling into negative thought patterns and how common this struggle is for many of us. I'll share three actionable strategies to help you stop being negative: eating healthy with your mind, recognizing and replacing negative thoughts, and seeking discomfort for growth. Using personal anecdotes and practical tips, I'll guide you through ways to build a positive mindset, improve your mental health, and live a more fulfilled life. Plus, stick around for a special seven-minute coaching session where we'll explore overcoming social comparisons and how it impacts your life. Join me in this journey towards positivity and let's work together to decide our legacy!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Negativity</p><p>01:03 Personal Story: Alone at the Pool</p><p>01:49 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction</p><p>03:20 The Impact of Negativity</p><p>04:47 Strategies to Combat Negativity</p><p>06:30 Eating Healthy with Your Mind</p><p>11:51 Recognizing and Replacing Negative Thoughts</p><p>18:46 Seeking Discomfort for Growth</p><p>20:51 River Fest Memories and 4x4 Adventures</p><p>23:09 Embracing Discomfort for Personal Growth</p><p>24:16 Practical Tips for Positive Thinking</p><p>25:17 The Importance of Taking Action</p><p>27:32 Overcoming Social Comparison</p><p>27:39 Seven-Minute Coaching Session on Negativity</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today's episode, we dive deep into my personal struggles with negativity over the past several years and share how I've learned to tackle these challenges head-on. We'll discuss the ease of falling into negative thought patterns and how common this struggle is for many of us. I'll share three actionable strategies to help you stop being negative: eating healthy with your mind, recognizing and replacing negative thoughts, and seeking discomfort for growth. Using personal anecdotes and practical tips, I'll guide you through ways to build a positive mindset, improve your mental health, and live a more fulfilled life. Plus, stick around for a special seven-minute coaching session where we'll explore overcoming social comparisons and how it impacts your life. Join me in this journey towards positivity and let's work together to decide our legacy!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Negativity</p><p>01:03 Personal Story: Alone at the Pool</p><p>01:49 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction</p><p>03:20 The Impact of Negativity</p><p>04:47 Strategies to Combat Negativity</p><p>06:30 Eating Healthy with Your Mind</p><p>11:51 Recognizing and Replacing Negative Thoughts</p><p>18:46 Seeking Discomfort for Growth</p><p>20:51 River Fest Memories and 4x4 Adventures</p><p>23:09 Embracing Discomfort for Personal Growth</p><p>24:16 Practical Tips for Positive Thinking</p><p>25:17 The Importance of Taking Action</p><p>27:32 Overcoming Social Comparison</p><p>27:39 Seven-Minute Coaching Session on Negativity</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 05 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In today's episode, we dive deep into my personal struggles with negativity over the past several years and share how I've learned to tackle these challenges head-on. We'll discuss the ease of falling into negative thought patterns and how common this struggle is for many of us. I'll share three actionable strategies to help you stop being negative: eating healthy with your mind, recognizing and replacing negative thoughts, and seeking discomfort for growth. Using personal anecdotes and practical tips, I'll guide you through ways to build a positive mindset, improve your mental health, and live a more fulfilled life. Plus, stick around for a special seven-minute coaching session where we'll explore overcoming social comparisons and how it impacts your life. Join me in this journey towards positivity and let's work together to decide our legacy!</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Negativity</p><p>01:03 Personal Story: Alone at the Pool</p><p>01:49 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction</p><p>03:20 The Impact of Negativity</p><p>04:47 Strategies to Combat Negativity</p><p>06:30 Eating Healthy with Your Mind</p><p>11:51 Recognizing and Replacing Negative Thoughts</p><p>18:46 Seeking Discomfort for Growth</p><p>20:51 River Fest Memories and 4x4 Adventures</p><p>23:09 Embracing Discomfort for Personal Growth</p><p>24:16 Practical Tips for Positive Thinking</p><p>25:17 The Importance of Taking Action</p><p>27:32 Overcoming Social Comparison</p><p>27:39 Seven-Minute Coaching Session on Negativity</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#116: From Stress to Strength</title>
      <itunes:episode>116</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>116</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#116: From Stress to Strength</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 116 of the 'Decide Your Legacy' podcast. Today we're diving deep into how you can recognize when someone is struggling and what you can do to support them. I'll be walking you through practical methods to encourage, build trust, and connect emotionally with others. With personal anecdotes and research-backed strategies, this episode is designed to help you transform stress into strength—both in your life and in the lives of those you care about. We'll explore how consistency, taking risks, and embracing discomfort can lead to significant improvements in mental well-being. Join me on this journey to better mental health and life transformation.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Opening Thoughts on Supporting Team Members</p><p>01:21 From Stress to Strength: A Guide to Support</p><p>01:57 Personal Reflections and Mental Health Insights</p><p>03:37 Challenging Yourself and Others</p><p>05:50 Identifying and Supporting Those Who Struggle</p><p>06:25 Mental Wellness vs. Mental Unwellness</p><p>09:11 Building Trust and Influence</p><p>12:16 Encouraging Others: Practical Advice</p><p>19:47 Celebrating Technical Skills and Personal Growth</p><p>20:17 The Power of Encouragement and Overcoming Challenges</p><p>21:08 Celebrating Mother's and Father's Day</p><p>21:30 Shatterproof Yourself: Steps to Mental Health</p><p>21:54 Building Trust Through Consistency</p><p>22:27 Personal Stories of Trust and Relationship Building</p><p>23:27 Effective Sales and Relationship Strategies</p><p>28:43 Connecting with Emotions to Build Trust</p><p>33:30 Practical Tips for Emotional Connection</p><p>35:48 Review and Application of Key Concepts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 116 of the 'Decide Your Legacy' podcast. Today we're diving deep into how you can recognize when someone is struggling and what you can do to support them. I'll be walking you through practical methods to encourage, build trust, and connect emotionally with others. With personal anecdotes and research-backed strategies, this episode is designed to help you transform stress into strength—both in your life and in the lives of those you care about. We'll explore how consistency, taking risks, and embracing discomfort can lead to significant improvements in mental well-being. Join me on this journey to better mental health and life transformation.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Opening Thoughts on Supporting Team Members</p><p>01:21 From Stress to Strength: A Guide to Support</p><p>01:57 Personal Reflections and Mental Health Insights</p><p>03:37 Challenging Yourself and Others</p><p>05:50 Identifying and Supporting Those Who Struggle</p><p>06:25 Mental Wellness vs. Mental Unwellness</p><p>09:11 Building Trust and Influence</p><p>12:16 Encouraging Others: Practical Advice</p><p>19:47 Celebrating Technical Skills and Personal Growth</p><p>20:17 The Power of Encouragement and Overcoming Challenges</p><p>21:08 Celebrating Mother's and Father's Day</p><p>21:30 Shatterproof Yourself: Steps to Mental Health</p><p>21:54 Building Trust Through Consistency</p><p>22:27 Personal Stories of Trust and Relationship Building</p><p>23:27 Effective Sales and Relationship Strategies</p><p>28:43 Connecting with Emotions to Build Trust</p><p>33:30 Practical Tips for Emotional Connection</p><p>35:48 Review and Application of Key Concepts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 28 May 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2309</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to episode 116 of the 'Decide Your Legacy' podcast. Today we're diving deep into how you can recognize when someone is struggling and what you can do to support them. I'll be walking you through practical methods to encourage, build trust, and connect emotionally with others. With personal anecdotes and research-backed strategies, this episode is designed to help you transform stress into strength—both in your life and in the lives of those you care about. We'll explore how consistency, taking risks, and embracing discomfort can lead to significant improvements in mental well-being. Join me on this journey to better mental health and life transformation.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Opening Thoughts on Supporting Team Members</p><p>01:21 From Stress to Strength: A Guide to Support</p><p>01:57 Personal Reflections and Mental Health Insights</p><p>03:37 Challenging Yourself and Others</p><p>05:50 Identifying and Supporting Those Who Struggle</p><p>06:25 Mental Wellness vs. Mental Unwellness</p><p>09:11 Building Trust and Influence</p><p>12:16 Encouraging Others: Practical Advice</p><p>19:47 Celebrating Technical Skills and Personal Growth</p><p>20:17 The Power of Encouragement and Overcoming Challenges</p><p>21:08 Celebrating Mother's and Father's Day</p><p>21:30 Shatterproof Yourself: Steps to Mental Health</p><p>21:54 Building Trust Through Consistency</p><p>22:27 Personal Stories of Trust and Relationship Building</p><p>23:27 Effective Sales and Relationship Strategies</p><p>28:43 Connecting with Emotions to Build Trust</p><p>33:30 Practical Tips for Emotional Connection</p><p>35:48 Review and Application of Key Concepts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#115: Coaching v. Counseling</title>
      <itunes:episode>115</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>115</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#115: Coaching v. Counseling</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we dive deep into the transformative world of coaching, comparing and contrasting it with counseling. Reflecting on my personal journey, I share how the evolution from a controlled, teaching-centric approach to a more liberating, coaching-oriented mindset has brought immense joy and fulfillment into my life and the lives of those I work with. We are joined by Adam, also known by the affectionate nickname 'Lloyd', a valued team member of Decide Your Legacy, to explore the significant impact of coaching through storytelling and real-life experiences. As a host and a seasoned professional with 25 years of experience in both coaching and therapy, we discuss the four main differences between coaching and counseling: the coach's role as a partner, coaching's emphasis on thriving and future potential, its action-driven approach, and the self-improvement and accountability it fosters. Together with Lloyd, we discuss actionable insights for listeners to embrace change, face their fears, and pursue a life of purpose and transformation. This episode is not just about listening; it's an invitation to step into uncomfortable territories that promise growth, learning, and ultimately, living a legacy today.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Journey to Joy: Embracing Coaching Over Counseling</p><p>01:25 The Essence of Coaching: A Personal and Professional Transformation</p><p>02:51 Facing Fears: The Path to Personal Growth</p><p>04:34 Coaching vs. Counseling: Unpacking the Differences</p><p>12:07 Introducing Adam Lutes: A New Chapter in Decide Your Legacy</p><p>15:29 Envisioning the Future: Setting Goals and Breaking Habits</p><p>24:03 The Unforgettable Diet Story</p><p>24:33 The Onion Lunch: A Diet Disaster</p><p>26:13 Exploring Coaching: Goals and Growth</p><p>27:23 Drumming Dreams: Setting Personal Goals</p><p>28:06 The Art of Drumming: Expression and Problem Solving</p><p>32:04 Coaching vs. Counseling: Action and Accountability</p><p>32:20 Shatterproof Yourself: Steps to Mental Health</p><p>33:25 The Essence of Coaching: Action-Oriented Growth</p><p>35:31 The Power of Courage and Confidence in Coaching</p><p>41:27 Insights and Actions: The Coaching Difference</p><p>44:49 Taking Emotional Risks: The Path to Transformation</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/select-great-counselor-coach/"><strong>Choosing a Great Coach (or Counselor)</strong></a><strong> (blog article)<br></strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-i-started-decide-your-legacy-part-1/"><strong>Why I Started Decide Your Legacy </strong></a><strong>(blog article)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we dive deep into the transformative world of coaching, comparing and contrasting it with counseling. Reflecting on my personal journey, I share how the evolution from a controlled, teaching-centric approach to a more liberating, coaching-oriented mindset has brought immense joy and fulfillment into my life and the lives of those I work with. We are joined by Adam, also known by the affectionate nickname 'Lloyd', a valued team member of Decide Your Legacy, to explore the significant impact of coaching through storytelling and real-life experiences. As a host and a seasoned professional with 25 years of experience in both coaching and therapy, we discuss the four main differences between coaching and counseling: the coach's role as a partner, coaching's emphasis on thriving and future potential, its action-driven approach, and the self-improvement and accountability it fosters. Together with Lloyd, we discuss actionable insights for listeners to embrace change, face their fears, and pursue a life of purpose and transformation. This episode is not just about listening; it's an invitation to step into uncomfortable territories that promise growth, learning, and ultimately, living a legacy today.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Journey to Joy: Embracing Coaching Over Counseling</p><p>01:25 The Essence of Coaching: A Personal and Professional Transformation</p><p>02:51 Facing Fears: The Path to Personal Growth</p><p>04:34 Coaching vs. Counseling: Unpacking the Differences</p><p>12:07 Introducing Adam Lutes: A New Chapter in Decide Your Legacy</p><p>15:29 Envisioning the Future: Setting Goals and Breaking Habits</p><p>24:03 The Unforgettable Diet Story</p><p>24:33 The Onion Lunch: A Diet Disaster</p><p>26:13 Exploring Coaching: Goals and Growth</p><p>27:23 Drumming Dreams: Setting Personal Goals</p><p>28:06 The Art of Drumming: Expression and Problem Solving</p><p>32:04 Coaching vs. Counseling: Action and Accountability</p><p>32:20 Shatterproof Yourself: Steps to Mental Health</p><p>33:25 The Essence of Coaching: Action-Oriented Growth</p><p>35:31 The Power of Courage and Confidence in Coaching</p><p>41:27 Insights and Actions: The Coaching Difference</p><p>44:49 Taking Emotional Risks: The Path to Transformation</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/select-great-counselor-coach/"><strong>Choosing a Great Coach (or Counselor)</strong></a><strong> (blog article)<br></strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-i-started-decide-your-legacy-part-1/"><strong>Why I Started Decide Your Legacy </strong></a><strong>(blog article)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we dive deep into the transformative world of coaching, comparing and contrasting it with counseling. Reflecting on my personal journey, I share how the evolution from a controlled, teaching-centric approach to a more liberating, coaching-oriented mindset has brought immense joy and fulfillment into my life and the lives of those I work with. We are joined by Adam, also known by the affectionate nickname 'Lloyd', a valued team member of Decide Your Legacy, to explore the significant impact of coaching through storytelling and real-life experiences. As a host and a seasoned professional with 25 years of experience in both coaching and therapy, we discuss the four main differences between coaching and counseling: the coach's role as a partner, coaching's emphasis on thriving and future potential, its action-driven approach, and the self-improvement and accountability it fosters. Together with Lloyd, we discuss actionable insights for listeners to embrace change, face their fears, and pursue a life of purpose and transformation. This episode is not just about listening; it's an invitation to step into uncomfortable territories that promise growth, learning, and ultimately, living a legacy today.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Journey to Joy: Embracing Coaching Over Counseling</p><p>01:25 The Essence of Coaching: A Personal and Professional Transformation</p><p>02:51 Facing Fears: The Path to Personal Growth</p><p>04:34 Coaching vs. Counseling: Unpacking the Differences</p><p>12:07 Introducing Adam Lutes: A New Chapter in Decide Your Legacy</p><p>15:29 Envisioning the Future: Setting Goals and Breaking Habits</p><p>24:03 The Unforgettable Diet Story</p><p>24:33 The Onion Lunch: A Diet Disaster</p><p>26:13 Exploring Coaching: Goals and Growth</p><p>27:23 Drumming Dreams: Setting Personal Goals</p><p>28:06 The Art of Drumming: Expression and Problem Solving</p><p>32:04 Coaching vs. Counseling: Action and Accountability</p><p>32:20 Shatterproof Yourself: Steps to Mental Health</p><p>33:25 The Essence of Coaching: Action-Oriented Growth</p><p>35:31 The Power of Courage and Confidence in Coaching</p><p>41:27 Insights and Actions: The Coaching Difference</p><p>44:49 Taking Emotional Risks: The Path to Transformation</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/select-great-counselor-coach/"><strong>Choosing a Great Coach (or Counselor)</strong></a><strong> (blog article)<br></strong><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-i-started-decide-your-legacy-part-1/"><strong>Why I Started Decide Your Legacy </strong></a><strong>(blog article)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#114: Have Unforgettable Conversations</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we will delve into the profound importance and transformative potential of having unforgettable conversations. Drawing from a personal experience of reconnection with old friends, I illustrate how engaging, meaningful dialogue can strengthen relationships and foster deep connections after years of distance. We will detail three essential strategies to make every interaction memorable: letting go of outcomes, focusing on the other person, and coming equipped with a list of meaningful questions. Through anecdotes and reflective questions, this episode is an invitation to evaluate their conversational practices and embrace the power of dialogue to forge meaningful, lasting relationships. Join me as we explore the art and impact of unforgettable conversations.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Reconnecting Through Conversation</p><p>01:11 The Power of Unforgettable Conversations</p><p>01:22 Decide Your Legacy: Insights from a Life Coach</p><p>02:22 Taking Risks in Conversations: A Dinner Story</p><p>06:11 Three Keys to Memorable Conversations</p><p>11:21 Making Conversations About Them, Not You</p><p>16:46 Crafting Your Own List of Impactful Questions</p><p>23:21 Applying Insights and Taking Action</p><p>25:15 Closing Thoughts and Challenges</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3"><strong>Asking Great Questions</strong></a><strong> (Episode #3)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we will delve into the profound importance and transformative potential of having unforgettable conversations. Drawing from a personal experience of reconnection with old friends, I illustrate how engaging, meaningful dialogue can strengthen relationships and foster deep connections after years of distance. We will detail three essential strategies to make every interaction memorable: letting go of outcomes, focusing on the other person, and coming equipped with a list of meaningful questions. Through anecdotes and reflective questions, this episode is an invitation to evaluate their conversational practices and embrace the power of dialogue to forge meaningful, lasting relationships. Join me as we explore the art and impact of unforgettable conversations.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Reconnecting Through Conversation</p><p>01:11 The Power of Unforgettable Conversations</p><p>01:22 Decide Your Legacy: Insights from a Life Coach</p><p>02:22 Taking Risks in Conversations: A Dinner Story</p><p>06:11 Three Keys to Memorable Conversations</p><p>11:21 Making Conversations About Them, Not You</p><p>16:46 Crafting Your Own List of Impactful Questions</p><p>23:21 Applying Insights and Taking Action</p><p>25:15 Closing Thoughts and Challenges</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3"><strong>Asking Great Questions</strong></a><strong> (Episode #3)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we will delve into the profound importance and transformative potential of having unforgettable conversations. Drawing from a personal experience of reconnection with old friends, I illustrate how engaging, meaningful dialogue can strengthen relationships and foster deep connections after years of distance. We will detail three essential strategies to make every interaction memorable: letting go of outcomes, focusing on the other person, and coming equipped with a list of meaningful questions. Through anecdotes and reflective questions, this episode is an invitation to evaluate their conversational practices and embrace the power of dialogue to forge meaningful, lasting relationships. Join me as we explore the art and impact of unforgettable conversations.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Reconnecting Through Conversation</p><p>01:11 The Power of Unforgettable Conversations</p><p>01:22 Decide Your Legacy: Insights from a Life Coach</p><p>02:22 Taking Risks in Conversations: A Dinner Story</p><p>06:11 Three Keys to Memorable Conversations</p><p>11:21 Making Conversations About Them, Not You</p><p>16:46 Crafting Your Own List of Impactful Questions</p><p>23:21 Applying Insights and Taking Action</p><p>25:15 Closing Thoughts and Challenges</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3"><strong>Asking Great Questions</strong></a><strong> (Episode #3)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#113: Life Balance is Possible</title>
      <itunes:episode>113</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>113</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#113: Life Balance is Possible</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today, I want to share my conviction that life balance is key to success and happiness. This episode revolves around understanding the life wheel for consistent self-assessment across seven crucial life areas. I unpack three critical secrets to living a balanced life: redefining life balance with healthy, realistic expectations, the importance of getting organized to avoid distraction, and the power of trusting your gut to guide life decisions. We will aim to inspire one another to face our fears, take action, and embrace small, incremental changes toward balancing their lives. </p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Unlocking Life Balance with the Life Wheel</p><p>01:16 The Journey to Embracing Life Balance</p><p>02:08 Three Secrets to Living a Balanced Life</p><p>02:37 Facing Fears and Personal Growth</p><p>04:50 Practical Steps to Achieve Life Balance</p><p>10:51 Organizing Your Life for Balance</p><p>14:51 Trusting Your Gut for a Balanced Life</p><p>19:08 Challenge and Recap: Transform Your Life Today</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/fimiwvl3fg61a7j/Life%20Balance%20Tactics.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Life Balance Tactics Worksheet</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/"><strong>12 Life Balance Tips</strong></a><strong> (blog)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today, I want to share my conviction that life balance is key to success and happiness. This episode revolves around understanding the life wheel for consistent self-assessment across seven crucial life areas. I unpack three critical secrets to living a balanced life: redefining life balance with healthy, realistic expectations, the importance of getting organized to avoid distraction, and the power of trusting your gut to guide life decisions. We will aim to inspire one another to face our fears, take action, and embrace small, incremental changes toward balancing their lives. </p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Unlocking Life Balance with the Life Wheel</p><p>01:16 The Journey to Embracing Life Balance</p><p>02:08 Three Secrets to Living a Balanced Life</p><p>02:37 Facing Fears and Personal Growth</p><p>04:50 Practical Steps to Achieve Life Balance</p><p>10:51 Organizing Your Life for Balance</p><p>14:51 Trusting Your Gut for a Balanced Life</p><p>19:08 Challenge and Recap: Transform Your Life Today</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/fimiwvl3fg61a7j/Life%20Balance%20Tactics.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Life Balance Tactics Worksheet</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/"><strong>12 Life Balance Tips</strong></a><strong> (blog)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today, I want to share my conviction that life balance is key to success and happiness. This episode revolves around understanding the life wheel for consistent self-assessment across seven crucial life areas. I unpack three critical secrets to living a balanced life: redefining life balance with healthy, realistic expectations, the importance of getting organized to avoid distraction, and the power of trusting your gut to guide life decisions. We will aim to inspire one another to face our fears, take action, and embrace small, incremental changes toward balancing their lives. </p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Unlocking Life Balance with the Life Wheel</p><p>01:16 The Journey to Embracing Life Balance</p><p>02:08 Three Secrets to Living a Balanced Life</p><p>02:37 Facing Fears and Personal Growth</p><p>04:50 Practical Steps to Achieve Life Balance</p><p>10:51 Organizing Your Life for Balance</p><p>14:51 Trusting Your Gut for a Balanced Life</p><p>19:08 Challenge and Recap: Transform Your Life Today</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/fimiwvl3fg61a7j/Life%20Balance%20Tactics.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Life Balance Tactics Worksheet</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/"><strong>12 Life Balance Tips</strong></a><strong> (blog)</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#112: Life Balance Self-Assessment</title>
      <itunes:episode>112</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>112</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#112: Life Balance Self-Assessment</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going delve into the often misunderstood concept of life balance. We are going to challenge the common belief that life balance is unattainable, proposing instead a realistic approach to achieving it. We will discuss the seven essential areas of life: spiritual, family, health and self-care, intellectual, social and fun, career and business, and financial. By sharing personal stories and engaging with the struggles I face, I aim to demonstrate the importance of assessing and intentionally adjusting these areas. This episode not only provides practical tools for self-assessment but also encourages setting achievable goals aligned with the legacy listeners aspire to leave. It's a call to action for listeners to face their fears, embrace uncomfortable growth, and ultimately seek a balanced life that reflects their true values and aspirations.</p><p><br></p><p>02:02 Personal Struggles and the Power of Self-Assessment</p><p>03:09 Facing Fears and Embracing Uncomfortable Growth</p><p>05:02 The Essential Life Areas for a Balanced Life</p><p>12:05 Practical Steps to Assess and Improve Your Life Balance</p><p>18:34 The Legacy You Leave: A Guide to Self-Assessment</p><p>22:04 Overcoming Enemies of a Successful Life Assessment</p><p>24:38 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/"><strong>12 Life Balance Tips (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/vbtl79kc0tbeuyua7vd6t/DYL-Tree-Life-Wheel.pdf?rlkey=u035a36rm4fslzoyj8qq4d63k&amp;dl=1"><strong>DYL Tree &amp; Life Wheel</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going delve into the often misunderstood concept of life balance. We are going to challenge the common belief that life balance is unattainable, proposing instead a realistic approach to achieving it. We will discuss the seven essential areas of life: spiritual, family, health and self-care, intellectual, social and fun, career and business, and financial. By sharing personal stories and engaging with the struggles I face, I aim to demonstrate the importance of assessing and intentionally adjusting these areas. This episode not only provides practical tools for self-assessment but also encourages setting achievable goals aligned with the legacy listeners aspire to leave. It's a call to action for listeners to face their fears, embrace uncomfortable growth, and ultimately seek a balanced life that reflects their true values and aspirations.</p><p><br></p><p>02:02 Personal Struggles and the Power of Self-Assessment</p><p>03:09 Facing Fears and Embracing Uncomfortable Growth</p><p>05:02 The Essential Life Areas for a Balanced Life</p><p>12:05 Practical Steps to Assess and Improve Your Life Balance</p><p>18:34 The Legacy You Leave: A Guide to Self-Assessment</p><p>22:04 Overcoming Enemies of a Successful Life Assessment</p><p>24:38 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/"><strong>12 Life Balance Tips (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/vbtl79kc0tbeuyua7vd6t/DYL-Tree-Life-Wheel.pdf?rlkey=u035a36rm4fslzoyj8qq4d63k&amp;dl=1"><strong>DYL Tree &amp; Life Wheel</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 27 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today we are going delve into the often misunderstood concept of life balance. We are going to challenge the common belief that life balance is unattainable, proposing instead a realistic approach to achieving it. We will discuss the seven essential areas of life: spiritual, family, health and self-care, intellectual, social and fun, career and business, and financial. By sharing personal stories and engaging with the struggles I face, I aim to demonstrate the importance of assessing and intentionally adjusting these areas. This episode not only provides practical tools for self-assessment but also encourages setting achievable goals aligned with the legacy listeners aspire to leave. It's a call to action for listeners to face their fears, embrace uncomfortable growth, and ultimately seek a balanced life that reflects their true values and aspirations.</p><p><br></p><p>02:02 Personal Struggles and the Power of Self-Assessment</p><p>03:09 Facing Fears and Embracing Uncomfortable Growth</p><p>05:02 The Essential Life Areas for a Balanced Life</p><p>12:05 Practical Steps to Assess and Improve Your Life Balance</p><p>18:34 The Legacy You Leave: A Guide to Self-Assessment</p><p>22:04 Overcoming Enemies of a Successful Life Assessment</p><p>24:38 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/"><strong>12 Life Balance Tips (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/vbtl79kc0tbeuyua7vd6t/DYL-Tree-Life-Wheel.pdf?rlkey=u035a36rm4fslzoyj8qq4d63k&amp;dl=1"><strong>DYL Tree &amp; Life Wheel</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today on the Decide Your Legacy podcast we are going to dive into the topic of building trust. Drawing from my experiences working with fatherless kids and men in prison, I reflect on the stark reality of fatherlessness among the incarcerated and its impact on trust. We will discuss the seven pivotal keys to nurturing trust: nurturing self-trust, mitigating overthinking, championing consistency, enhancing predictability, valuing actions over words, embracing vulnerability, and committing to honesty. This episode is packed with actionable insights aimed at empowering you to foster deeper connections by mastering the art of trust. Join me as we embark on this transformative journey together, aiming to leave behind a legacy of profound trust and meaningful relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>00:58 Introduction to Building Trust</p><p>01:28 Taking Risks and Personal Growth</p><p>02:33 The Struggle with Trust and Overcoming Betrayal</p><p>03:02 Understanding Habitual Thinking and Neural Pathways</p><p>03:52 Attachment Theory and Its Impact on Trust</p><p>04:14 The Importance of Trust and How to Build It</p><p>05:21 Seven Keys to Building Trust: Starting with Yourself</p><p>10:35 Consistency and Predictability in Building Trust</p><p>14:07 Prioritizing Actions Over Words</p><p>17:05 The Power of Vulnerability and Honesty</p><p>22:20 Applying the Seven Tips for Building Trust</p><p>24:49 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/"><strong>25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Core Values</strong></a> (Episode 23)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14"><strong>Clarify Your Purpose</strong></a> (Episode 14)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today on the Decide Your Legacy podcast we are going to dive into the topic of building trust. Drawing from my experiences working with fatherless kids and men in prison, I reflect on the stark reality of fatherlessness among the incarcerated and its impact on trust. We will discuss the seven pivotal keys to nurturing trust: nurturing self-trust, mitigating overthinking, championing consistency, enhancing predictability, valuing actions over words, embracing vulnerability, and committing to honesty. This episode is packed with actionable insights aimed at empowering you to foster deeper connections by mastering the art of trust. Join me as we embark on this transformative journey together, aiming to leave behind a legacy of profound trust and meaningful relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>00:58 Introduction to Building Trust</p><p>01:28 Taking Risks and Personal Growth</p><p>02:33 The Struggle with Trust and Overcoming Betrayal</p><p>03:02 Understanding Habitual Thinking and Neural Pathways</p><p>03:52 Attachment Theory and Its Impact on Trust</p><p>04:14 The Importance of Trust and How to Build It</p><p>05:21 Seven Keys to Building Trust: Starting with Yourself</p><p>10:35 Consistency and Predictability in Building Trust</p><p>14:07 Prioritizing Actions Over Words</p><p>17:05 The Power of Vulnerability and Honesty</p><p>22:20 Applying the Seven Tips for Building Trust</p><p>24:49 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/"><strong>25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Core Values</strong></a> (Episode 23)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14"><strong>Clarify Your Purpose</strong></a> (Episode 14)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today on the Decide Your Legacy podcast we are going to dive into the topic of building trust. Drawing from my experiences working with fatherless kids and men in prison, I reflect on the stark reality of fatherlessness among the incarcerated and its impact on trust. We will discuss the seven pivotal keys to nurturing trust: nurturing self-trust, mitigating overthinking, championing consistency, enhancing predictability, valuing actions over words, embracing vulnerability, and committing to honesty. This episode is packed with actionable insights aimed at empowering you to foster deeper connections by mastering the art of trust. Join me as we embark on this transformative journey together, aiming to leave behind a legacy of profound trust and meaningful relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>00:58 Introduction to Building Trust</p><p>01:28 Taking Risks and Personal Growth</p><p>02:33 The Struggle with Trust and Overcoming Betrayal</p><p>03:02 Understanding Habitual Thinking and Neural Pathways</p><p>03:52 Attachment Theory and Its Impact on Trust</p><p>04:14 The Importance of Trust and How to Build It</p><p>05:21 Seven Keys to Building Trust: Starting with Yourself</p><p>10:35 Consistency and Predictability in Building Trust</p><p>14:07 Prioritizing Actions Over Words</p><p>17:05 The Power of Vulnerability and Honesty</p><p>22:20 Applying the Seven Tips for Building Trust</p><p>24:49 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/"><strong>25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Core Values</strong></a> (Episode 23)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14"><strong>Clarify Your Purpose</strong></a> (Episode 14)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I'm thrilled to take you through a journey of understanding the critical role of accountability in personal growth and self-improvement. From the release of my new course, Shatterproof Yourself, to overcoming personal challenges with nicotine addiction, I share firsthand the transformative power of having accountable relationships in our lives. I'll share four compelling reasons why accountability is indispensable - it helps us think, feel, and act better, and accelerates our change process. Through practical steps and personal anecdotes, we aim to equip you with the tools to harness the positive force of accountability, bringing you closer to living the legacy you aspire to. So join me as we embark on this journey to unlock your fullest potential by embracing accountability at every step.</p><p><br></p><p>01:28 The Importance of Accountability in Personal Growth</p><p>02:18 Sharing Personal Struggles and the Role of Accountability</p><p>03:34 Taking Action: The First Step Towards Change</p><p>06:03 The Four Pillars of Accountability</p><p>08:22 How Accountability Leads to Better Thinking</p><p>12:48 Feeling Better Through Accountability</p><p>19:40 Acting Better with Accountability</p><p>25:36 Accelerating Change with Accountability</p><p>27:50 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/"><strong>25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Core Values</strong></a> (Episode 23)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14"><strong>Clarify Your Purpose</strong></a> (Episode 14)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I'm thrilled to take you through a journey of understanding the critical role of accountability in personal growth and self-improvement. From the release of my new course, Shatterproof Yourself, to overcoming personal challenges with nicotine addiction, I share firsthand the transformative power of having accountable relationships in our lives. I'll share four compelling reasons why accountability is indispensable - it helps us think, feel, and act better, and accelerates our change process. Through practical steps and personal anecdotes, we aim to equip you with the tools to harness the positive force of accountability, bringing you closer to living the legacy you aspire to. So join me as we embark on this journey to unlock your fullest potential by embracing accountability at every step.</p><p><br></p><p>01:28 The Importance of Accountability in Personal Growth</p><p>02:18 Sharing Personal Struggles and the Role of Accountability</p><p>03:34 Taking Action: The First Step Towards Change</p><p>06:03 The Four Pillars of Accountability</p><p>08:22 How Accountability Leads to Better Thinking</p><p>12:48 Feeling Better Through Accountability</p><p>19:40 Acting Better with Accountability</p><p>25:36 Accelerating Change with Accountability</p><p>27:50 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/"><strong>25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Core Values</strong></a> (Episode 23)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14"><strong>Clarify Your Purpose</strong></a> (Episode 14)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I'm thrilled to take you through a journey of understanding the critical role of accountability in personal growth and self-improvement. From the release of my new course, Shatterproof Yourself, to overcoming personal challenges with nicotine addiction, I share firsthand the transformative power of having accountable relationships in our lives. I'll share four compelling reasons why accountability is indispensable - it helps us think, feel, and act better, and accelerates our change process. Through practical steps and personal anecdotes, we aim to equip you with the tools to harness the positive force of accountability, bringing you closer to living the legacy you aspire to. So join me as we embark on this journey to unlock your fullest potential by embracing accountability at every step.</p><p><br></p><p>01:28 The Importance of Accountability in Personal Growth</p><p>02:18 Sharing Personal Struggles and the Role of Accountability</p><p>03:34 Taking Action: The First Step Towards Change</p><p>06:03 The Four Pillars of Accountability</p><p>08:22 How Accountability Leads to Better Thinking</p><p>12:48 Feeling Better Through Accountability</p><p>19:40 Acting Better with Accountability</p><p>25:36 Accelerating Change with Accountability</p><p>27:50 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/"><strong>25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Core Values</strong></a> (Episode 23)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14"><strong>Clarify Your Purpose</strong></a> (Episode 14)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today, we're unpacking a question close to my heart and crucial for our mental health—how do we relax? Inspired by a client's struggle with finding calm in the chaos, we delve deep into the art of relaxation. Together, we explore the significance of engaging with others, the transformative power of letting go, and the pivotal role of choosing productive distractions. Furthermore, I demystify mindfulness and distinguish between functional and dysfunctional ways to unwind. I also share my personal relaxation go-tos: learning, exploring, writing, and surrounding myself with relaxed, supportive people. Join me on this journey to not only discover relaxation techniques but to live a legacy worth remembering.</p><p><br></p><p>01:28 The Power of Engaging with Others</p><p>02:09 Personal Struggles with Relaxation</p><p>03:10 The Art of Letting Go</p><p>04:13 Distraction in Relaxation</p><p>05:38 The Concept of Mindfulness</p><p>06:25 Functional vs Dysfunctional Ways of Relaxing</p><p>07:25 Four Favorite Relaxation Activities</p><p>07:56 The Power of Learning</p><p>11:16 The Joy of Exploration</p><p>17:54 The Therapeutic Effect of Writing</p><p>23:33 Benefits of Being Around Relaxed People</p><p>26:45 Recap and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ways-to-calm-yourself-flooded/">12 Tools for Regulating Your Emotions</a> (blog post)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today, we're unpacking a question close to my heart and crucial for our mental health—how do we relax? Inspired by a client's struggle with finding calm in the chaos, we delve deep into the art of relaxation. Together, we explore the significance of engaging with others, the transformative power of letting go, and the pivotal role of choosing productive distractions. Furthermore, I demystify mindfulness and distinguish between functional and dysfunctional ways to unwind. I also share my personal relaxation go-tos: learning, exploring, writing, and surrounding myself with relaxed, supportive people. Join me on this journey to not only discover relaxation techniques but to live a legacy worth remembering.</p><p><br></p><p>01:28 The Power of Engaging with Others</p><p>02:09 Personal Struggles with Relaxation</p><p>03:10 The Art of Letting Go</p><p>04:13 Distraction in Relaxation</p><p>05:38 The Concept of Mindfulness</p><p>06:25 Functional vs Dysfunctional Ways of Relaxing</p><p>07:25 Four Favorite Relaxation Activities</p><p>07:56 The Power of Learning</p><p>11:16 The Joy of Exploration</p><p>17:54 The Therapeutic Effect of Writing</p><p>23:33 Benefits of Being Around Relaxed People</p><p>26:45 Recap and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ways-to-calm-yourself-flooded/">12 Tools for Regulating Your Emotions</a> (blog post)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 06 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Today, we're unpacking a question close to my heart and crucial for our mental health—how do we relax? Inspired by a client's struggle with finding calm in the chaos, we delve deep into the art of relaxation. Together, we explore the significance of engaging with others, the transformative power of letting go, and the pivotal role of choosing productive distractions. Furthermore, I demystify mindfulness and distinguish between functional and dysfunctional ways to unwind. I also share my personal relaxation go-tos: learning, exploring, writing, and surrounding myself with relaxed, supportive people. Join me on this journey to not only discover relaxation techniques but to live a legacy worth remembering.</p><p><br></p><p>01:28 The Power of Engaging with Others</p><p>02:09 Personal Struggles with Relaxation</p><p>03:10 The Art of Letting Go</p><p>04:13 Distraction in Relaxation</p><p>05:38 The Concept of Mindfulness</p><p>06:25 Functional vs Dysfunctional Ways of Relaxing</p><p>07:25 Four Favorite Relaxation Activities</p><p>07:56 The Power of Learning</p><p>11:16 The Joy of Exploration</p><p>17:54 The Therapeutic Effect of Writing</p><p>23:33 Benefits of Being Around Relaxed People</p><p>26:45 Recap and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ways-to-calm-yourself-flooded/">12 Tools for Regulating Your Emotions</a> (blog post)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#108: Transformative Power of Mentoring (w/ David Riffel)</title>
      <itunes:episode>108</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>108</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we will dive into the profound impact of mentoring. Special guest David Riffel, executive director of Mentoring Warriors, joins me to share his inspiring story from facing a life-threatening health scare to founding a non-profit focused on mentoring young men. David unfolds the significance of 'father wounds', the necessity of being a safe and trustworthy mentor, and the mutual growth both mentor and mentee undergo. Together, we explore the challenges of fatherhood, the lack of mentors in today's society, especially for men, and how Mentoring Warriors is addressing this gap. We wrap up by discussing the role of gratitude and joy in our lives, professional mentoring practices, and the interpersonal skills young men are often missing. Our conversation leaves listeners with practical advice on becoming a mentor and the encouragement to take small steps towards big impacts in both personal and professional spheres.</p><p><br></p><p>01:32 The Power and Impact of Mentoring</p><p>03:47 Introducing the Guest: David Riffel</p><p>04:12 David's Journey and the Birth of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>08:35 The Challenges and Surprises in Mentoring</p><p>12:38 The Process and Impact of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>18:06 Overcoming Fears in Mentoring</p><p>22:24 The Power of Vulnerability in Mentoring</p><p>26:05 Personal Success Story of Mentoring</p><p>28:55 The Challenges of Fatherhood</p><p>29:24 The Importance of Mentors</p><p>30:04 Raising Daughters: A Father's Perspective</p><p>32:11 Professional Mentoring in Architecture</p><p>33:57 The Role of Social Skills in Mentoring</p><p>34:44 Vulnerability in Relationships</p><p>35:40 The Need for Mentoring in Today's Society</p><p>36:54 The Future of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>40:16 Self-Grace and Gratitude</p><p>46:35 Encouragement in the Workplace</p><p>47:00 Final Thoughts on Mentoring and Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we will dive into the profound impact of mentoring. Special guest David Riffel, executive director of Mentoring Warriors, joins me to share his inspiring story from facing a life-threatening health scare to founding a non-profit focused on mentoring young men. David unfolds the significance of 'father wounds', the necessity of being a safe and trustworthy mentor, and the mutual growth both mentor and mentee undergo. Together, we explore the challenges of fatherhood, the lack of mentors in today's society, especially for men, and how Mentoring Warriors is addressing this gap. We wrap up by discussing the role of gratitude and joy in our lives, professional mentoring practices, and the interpersonal skills young men are often missing. Our conversation leaves listeners with practical advice on becoming a mentor and the encouragement to take small steps towards big impacts in both personal and professional spheres.</p><p><br></p><p>01:32 The Power and Impact of Mentoring</p><p>03:47 Introducing the Guest: David Riffel</p><p>04:12 David's Journey and the Birth of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>08:35 The Challenges and Surprises in Mentoring</p><p>12:38 The Process and Impact of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>18:06 Overcoming Fears in Mentoring</p><p>22:24 The Power of Vulnerability in Mentoring</p><p>26:05 Personal Success Story of Mentoring</p><p>28:55 The Challenges of Fatherhood</p><p>29:24 The Importance of Mentors</p><p>30:04 Raising Daughters: A Father's Perspective</p><p>32:11 Professional Mentoring in Architecture</p><p>33:57 The Role of Social Skills in Mentoring</p><p>34:44 Vulnerability in Relationships</p><p>35:40 The Need for Mentoring in Today's Society</p><p>36:54 The Future of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>40:16 Self-Grace and Gratitude</p><p>46:35 Encouragement in the Workplace</p><p>47:00 Final Thoughts on Mentoring and Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we will dive into the profound impact of mentoring. Special guest David Riffel, executive director of Mentoring Warriors, joins me to share his inspiring story from facing a life-threatening health scare to founding a non-profit focused on mentoring young men. David unfolds the significance of 'father wounds', the necessity of being a safe and trustworthy mentor, and the mutual growth both mentor and mentee undergo. Together, we explore the challenges of fatherhood, the lack of mentors in today's society, especially for men, and how Mentoring Warriors is addressing this gap. We wrap up by discussing the role of gratitude and joy in our lives, professional mentoring practices, and the interpersonal skills young men are often missing. Our conversation leaves listeners with practical advice on becoming a mentor and the encouragement to take small steps towards big impacts in both personal and professional spheres.</p><p><br></p><p>01:32 The Power and Impact of Mentoring</p><p>03:47 Introducing the Guest: David Riffel</p><p>04:12 David's Journey and the Birth of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>08:35 The Challenges and Surprises in Mentoring</p><p>12:38 The Process and Impact of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>18:06 Overcoming Fears in Mentoring</p><p>22:24 The Power of Vulnerability in Mentoring</p><p>26:05 Personal Success Story of Mentoring</p><p>28:55 The Challenges of Fatherhood</p><p>29:24 The Importance of Mentors</p><p>30:04 Raising Daughters: A Father's Perspective</p><p>32:11 Professional Mentoring in Architecture</p><p>33:57 The Role of Social Skills in Mentoring</p><p>34:44 Vulnerability in Relationships</p><p>35:40 The Need for Mentoring in Today's Society</p><p>36:54 The Future of Mentoring Warriors</p><p>40:16 Self-Grace and Gratitude</p><p>46:35 Encouragement in the Workplace</p><p>47:00 Final Thoughts on Mentoring and Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#107: The Impact of Facing Past Trauma</title>
      <itunes:episode>107</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>107</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode, host Adam Gragg discusses the importance of dealing with past trauma. He highlights how individuals achieve life-changing transformations by confronting their past and working on self improvement. Through these transformations, he observes clearer vision and direction in life, improved mental and physical health, and the ability to express love to oneself and others more freely. Adam then uses case studies from his coaching clients, demonstrating the profound effect that processing past traumas has on their current lives and overall wellbeing.</p><p><br></p><p>01:30 The Importance of Dealing with Past Trauma</p><p>02:35 Personal Experiences and Overcoming Challenges</p><p>04:13 Understanding and Defining Past Trauma</p><p>06:44 The Impact of Past Trauma on Mental Health</p><p>06:58 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Clarity</p><p>09:42 Tools and Resources for Dealing with Past Trauma</p><p>11:53 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Health</p><p>18:14 Personal Stories of Transformation</p><p>19:09 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Love</p><p>26:47 Conclusion: The Power of Facing Your Past</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You Must Face Your Past</a> (blog post)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode, host Adam Gragg discusses the importance of dealing with past trauma. He highlights how individuals achieve life-changing transformations by confronting their past and working on self improvement. Through these transformations, he observes clearer vision and direction in life, improved mental and physical health, and the ability to express love to oneself and others more freely. Adam then uses case studies from his coaching clients, demonstrating the profound effect that processing past traumas has on their current lives and overall wellbeing.</p><p><br></p><p>01:30 The Importance of Dealing with Past Trauma</p><p>02:35 Personal Experiences and Overcoming Challenges</p><p>04:13 Understanding and Defining Past Trauma</p><p>06:44 The Impact of Past Trauma on Mental Health</p><p>06:58 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Clarity</p><p>09:42 Tools and Resources for Dealing with Past Trauma</p><p>11:53 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Health</p><p>18:14 Personal Stories of Transformation</p><p>19:09 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Love</p><p>26:47 Conclusion: The Power of Facing Your Past</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You Must Face Your Past</a> (blog post)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode, host Adam Gragg discusses the importance of dealing with past trauma. He highlights how individuals achieve life-changing transformations by confronting their past and working on self improvement. Through these transformations, he observes clearer vision and direction in life, improved mental and physical health, and the ability to express love to oneself and others more freely. Adam then uses case studies from his coaching clients, demonstrating the profound effect that processing past traumas has on their current lives and overall wellbeing.</p><p><br></p><p>01:30 The Importance of Dealing with Past Trauma</p><p>02:35 Personal Experiences and Overcoming Challenges</p><p>04:13 Understanding and Defining Past Trauma</p><p>06:44 The Impact of Past Trauma on Mental Health</p><p>06:58 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Clarity</p><p>09:42 Tools and Resources for Dealing with Past Trauma</p><p>11:53 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Health</p><p>18:14 Personal Stories of Transformation</p><p>19:09 The Benefits of Processing Past Trauma: Love</p><p>26:47 Conclusion: The Power of Facing Your Past</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You Must Face Your Past</a> (blog post)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#106: My Struggle with Change</title>
      <itunes:episode>106</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>106</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#106: My Struggle with Change</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this milestone 100th original episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, we are going to talk about the three main reasons that I struggle with change: pursuing comfort, giving in to fear, and holding onto a flawed identity. We’ll cover my personal experience and perspective, touching on my journey as a therapist and content creator. Today I’m going to challenge you to recognize and confront your fears, to shift your mindset, and to redefine any flawed identities. The ultimate aim of these changes lies in improved mental health and personal growth. This episode includes tools such as an exercise called 'Be Truth Oriented' that can help you shift your mindset towards a more positive identity.</p><p><br></p><p>00:40 Personal Reflections</p><p>01:56 The Struggle with Change</p><p>02:57 Facing Fears and Embracing Discomfort</p><p>03:43 Identifying Personal Changes</p><p>04:27 The Role of Comfort in Resistance to Change</p><p>10:28 The Impact of Fear on Change</p><p>15:48 Practical Steps to Overcome Resistance to Change</p><p>16:20 The Power of Identity in Change</p><p>28:49 Conclusion: Embrace Change and Decide Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4bNt1bs">Atomic Habits: An Easy &amp; Proven Way to Build Good Habits &amp; Break Bad Ones</a> by James Clear</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3wgI39r">The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do In Life &amp; Business</a> by Charles Duhigg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this milestone 100th original episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, we are going to talk about the three main reasons that I struggle with change: pursuing comfort, giving in to fear, and holding onto a flawed identity. We’ll cover my personal experience and perspective, touching on my journey as a therapist and content creator. Today I’m going to challenge you to recognize and confront your fears, to shift your mindset, and to redefine any flawed identities. The ultimate aim of these changes lies in improved mental health and personal growth. This episode includes tools such as an exercise called 'Be Truth Oriented' that can help you shift your mindset towards a more positive identity.</p><p><br></p><p>00:40 Personal Reflections</p><p>01:56 The Struggle with Change</p><p>02:57 Facing Fears and Embracing Discomfort</p><p>03:43 Identifying Personal Changes</p><p>04:27 The Role of Comfort in Resistance to Change</p><p>10:28 The Impact of Fear on Change</p><p>15:48 Practical Steps to Overcome Resistance to Change</p><p>16:20 The Power of Identity in Change</p><p>28:49 Conclusion: Embrace Change and Decide Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4bNt1bs">Atomic Habits: An Easy &amp; Proven Way to Build Good Habits &amp; Break Bad Ones</a> by James Clear</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3wgI39r">The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do In Life &amp; Business</a> by Charles Duhigg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2024 06:09:34 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1809</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this milestone 100th original episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, we are going to talk about the three main reasons that I struggle with change: pursuing comfort, giving in to fear, and holding onto a flawed identity. We’ll cover my personal experience and perspective, touching on my journey as a therapist and content creator. Today I’m going to challenge you to recognize and confront your fears, to shift your mindset, and to redefine any flawed identities. The ultimate aim of these changes lies in improved mental health and personal growth. This episode includes tools such as an exercise called 'Be Truth Oriented' that can help you shift your mindset towards a more positive identity.</p><p><br></p><p>00:40 Personal Reflections</p><p>01:56 The Struggle with Change</p><p>02:57 Facing Fears and Embracing Discomfort</p><p>03:43 Identifying Personal Changes</p><p>04:27 The Role of Comfort in Resistance to Change</p><p>10:28 The Impact of Fear on Change</p><p>15:48 Practical Steps to Overcome Resistance to Change</p><p>16:20 The Power of Identity in Change</p><p>28:49 Conclusion: Embrace Change and Decide Your Legacy</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4bNt1bs">Atomic Habits: An Easy &amp; Proven Way to Build Good Habits &amp; Break Bad Ones</a> by James Clear</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3wgI39r">The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do In Life &amp; Business</a> by Charles Duhigg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#105: Self-Care Secrets</title>
      <itunes:episode>105</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>105</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#105: Self-Care Secrets</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we are going to discuss seven profound self-care secrets inspired by my client's decision to make a 'life list' of things that make him happy and things he wanted to improve. We’ll talk about asking for help, avoiding hypocrisy, self-retreats, creating a self-care plan, managing finances, creating a happy list, and being rigid in prioritization. Self-care plays a critical role in individual well-being and the realization of a personal legacy.</p><p><br></p><p>00:57 The Concept of a Life List</p><p>01:16 Seven Profound Self-Care Secrets</p><p>02:17 The Importance of Facing Your Fears</p><p>03:19 Power of Self-Care Activities</p><p>03:53 The Role of Help and Support in Self-Care</p><p>05:21 Impact of Hypocrisy on Self-Care</p><p>08:16 The Value of Personal Retreats</p><p>09:52 Creating a Self-Care Plan</p><p>12:19 Financial Management in Self-Care</p><p>16:13 Making a Happy List</p><p>17:47 The Power of Prioritization in Self-Care</p><p>19:40 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/104">Building Positive Experiences</a> (Podcast Episode #104)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we are going to discuss seven profound self-care secrets inspired by my client's decision to make a 'life list' of things that make him happy and things he wanted to improve. We’ll talk about asking for help, avoiding hypocrisy, self-retreats, creating a self-care plan, managing finances, creating a happy list, and being rigid in prioritization. Self-care plays a critical role in individual well-being and the realization of a personal legacy.</p><p><br></p><p>00:57 The Concept of a Life List</p><p>01:16 Seven Profound Self-Care Secrets</p><p>02:17 The Importance of Facing Your Fears</p><p>03:19 Power of Self-Care Activities</p><p>03:53 The Role of Help and Support in Self-Care</p><p>05:21 Impact of Hypocrisy on Self-Care</p><p>08:16 The Value of Personal Retreats</p><p>09:52 Creating a Self-Care Plan</p><p>12:19 Financial Management in Self-Care</p><p>16:13 Making a Happy List</p><p>17:47 The Power of Prioritization in Self-Care</p><p>19:40 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/104">Building Positive Experiences</a> (Podcast Episode #104)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we are going to discuss seven profound self-care secrets inspired by my client's decision to make a 'life list' of things that make him happy and things he wanted to improve. We’ll talk about asking for help, avoiding hypocrisy, self-retreats, creating a self-care plan, managing finances, creating a happy list, and being rigid in prioritization. Self-care plays a critical role in individual well-being and the realization of a personal legacy.</p><p><br></p><p>00:57 The Concept of a Life List</p><p>01:16 Seven Profound Self-Care Secrets</p><p>02:17 The Importance of Facing Your Fears</p><p>03:19 Power of Self-Care Activities</p><p>03:53 The Role of Help and Support in Self-Care</p><p>05:21 Impact of Hypocrisy on Self-Care</p><p>08:16 The Value of Personal Retreats</p><p>09:52 Creating a Self-Care Plan</p><p>12:19 Financial Management in Self-Care</p><p>16:13 Making a Happy List</p><p>17:47 The Power of Prioritization in Self-Care</p><p>19:40 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/104">Building Positive Experiences</a> (Podcast Episode #104)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#104: Build Positive Experiences</title>
      <itunes:episode>104</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>104</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This year is the one to build in more positive experiences to your life.  We discuss how nostalgic moments led me to realize the importance of creating positive experiences in life. Practical advice includes creating an experience-oriented mindset, learning to prioritize experiences over material possessions, and seeing the potential for great memories in every moment. On this episode we emphasize the practice of gratitude, living intentionally, building positive morning routines, saying 'yes' to opportunities, and meeting new people to foster connections. I’ll share some personal stories demonstrating the benefits of his advice and encourages his listeners to actively implement these strategies in daily life.</p><p><br></p><p>01:33 Sharing Personal Experiences</p><p>03:02 Building Positive Experiences: Seven Actions</p><p>07:23 Personal Reflections and Future Goals</p><p>13:23 The Importance of Capturing Moments</p><p>15:40 Creating Positive Morning Routines</p><p>17:12 Saying Yes to New Opportunities</p><p>18:58 Meeting New People and Building Relationships</p><p>22:14 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This year is the one to build in more positive experiences to your life.  We discuss how nostalgic moments led me to realize the importance of creating positive experiences in life. Practical advice includes creating an experience-oriented mindset, learning to prioritize experiences over material possessions, and seeing the potential for great memories in every moment. On this episode we emphasize the practice of gratitude, living intentionally, building positive morning routines, saying 'yes' to opportunities, and meeting new people to foster connections. I’ll share some personal stories demonstrating the benefits of his advice and encourages his listeners to actively implement these strategies in daily life.</p><p><br></p><p>01:33 Sharing Personal Experiences</p><p>03:02 Building Positive Experiences: Seven Actions</p><p>07:23 Personal Reflections and Future Goals</p><p>13:23 The Importance of Capturing Moments</p><p>15:40 Creating Positive Morning Routines</p><p>17:12 Saying Yes to New Opportunities</p><p>18:58 Meeting New People and Building Relationships</p><p>22:14 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1557</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This year is the one to build in more positive experiences to your life.  We discuss how nostalgic moments led me to realize the importance of creating positive experiences in life. Practical advice includes creating an experience-oriented mindset, learning to prioritize experiences over material possessions, and seeing the potential for great memories in every moment. On this episode we emphasize the practice of gratitude, living intentionally, building positive morning routines, saying 'yes' to opportunities, and meeting new people to foster connections. I’ll share some personal stories demonstrating the benefits of his advice and encourages his listeners to actively implement these strategies in daily life.</p><p><br></p><p>01:33 Sharing Personal Experiences</p><p>03:02 Building Positive Experiences: Seven Actions</p><p>07:23 Personal Reflections and Future Goals</p><p>13:23 The Importance of Capturing Moments</p><p>15:40 Creating Positive Morning Routines</p><p>17:12 Saying Yes to New Opportunities</p><p>18:58 Meeting New People and Building Relationships</p><p>22:14 Conclusion and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#103: 7 Decisions for a Great 2024</title>
      <itunes:episode>103</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>103</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we close out the year and look ahead, we discuss seven decisions listeners can make to ensure a fruitful 2024. These decisions range from focusing on dreams, choosing an outward perspective, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and learning to cope with discomfort, among others. Adopting such choices will contribute to one's overall mental health, personal relationships, and overall sense of happiness. Practical actions are recommended throughout to help implement these decisions. The importance of embracing change and discomfort, and not going in alone are emphasized. By doing so individuals are encouraged to live a life they would want to be remembered for.</p><p><br></p><p>02:16 Visualizing a Successful 2024</p><p>02:57 Decision 1: Choose to Focus on Your Dreams</p><p>05:27 Decision 2: Choose an Outward Perspective</p><p>08:09 Decision 3: Don't Go It Alone</p><p>14:15 Decision 4: Choose to be Healthy</p><p>17:47 Decision 5: Choose to be Happy</p><p>19:32 Decision 6: Choose to Journal</p><p>20:57 Decision 7: Choose Discomfort</p><p>23:08 Recap of Decisions and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>Benefits of Journaling (w/ Nick Bertram)</strong></a> (Podcast Episode #56)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we close out the year and look ahead, we discuss seven decisions listeners can make to ensure a fruitful 2024. These decisions range from focusing on dreams, choosing an outward perspective, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and learning to cope with discomfort, among others. Adopting such choices will contribute to one's overall mental health, personal relationships, and overall sense of happiness. Practical actions are recommended throughout to help implement these decisions. The importance of embracing change and discomfort, and not going in alone are emphasized. By doing so individuals are encouraged to live a life they would want to be remembered for.</p><p><br></p><p>02:16 Visualizing a Successful 2024</p><p>02:57 Decision 1: Choose to Focus on Your Dreams</p><p>05:27 Decision 2: Choose an Outward Perspective</p><p>08:09 Decision 3: Don't Go It Alone</p><p>14:15 Decision 4: Choose to be Healthy</p><p>17:47 Decision 5: Choose to be Happy</p><p>19:32 Decision 6: Choose to Journal</p><p>20:57 Decision 7: Choose Discomfort</p><p>23:08 Recap of Decisions and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>Benefits of Journaling (w/ Nick Bertram)</strong></a> (Podcast Episode #56)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we close out the year and look ahead, we discuss seven decisions listeners can make to ensure a fruitful 2024. These decisions range from focusing on dreams, choosing an outward perspective, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and learning to cope with discomfort, among others. Adopting such choices will contribute to one's overall mental health, personal relationships, and overall sense of happiness. Practical actions are recommended throughout to help implement these decisions. The importance of embracing change and discomfort, and not going in alone are emphasized. By doing so individuals are encouraged to live a life they would want to be remembered for.</p><p><br></p><p>02:16 Visualizing a Successful 2024</p><p>02:57 Decision 1: Choose to Focus on Your Dreams</p><p>05:27 Decision 2: Choose an Outward Perspective</p><p>08:09 Decision 3: Don't Go It Alone</p><p>14:15 Decision 4: Choose to be Healthy</p><p>17:47 Decision 5: Choose to be Happy</p><p>19:32 Decision 6: Choose to Journal</p><p>20:57 Decision 7: Choose Discomfort</p><p>23:08 Recap of Decisions and Final Thoughts</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>Benefits of Journaling (w/ Nick Bertram)</strong></a> (Podcast Episode #56)</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#102: Opportunity in Meeting Others</title>
      <itunes:episode>102</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>102</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we are going to discuss the importance of overcoming fear to build better connections with others. We reveal three key attitudes for making new friendships and enhancing existing ones: viewing people as fascinating, finding ways to assist them, and seeing conflict as an opportunity to grow. I’ll also share personal experiences, give insights on managing internal conflicts, and offer tips on how listeners can build self-confidence.</p><p><br></p><p>01:18 The Importance of Getting to Know People</p><p>02:06 About the Host and His Passion</p><p>02:37 Sharing Personal Experiences and Encouraging Listeners</p><p>03:08 Facing Fears and Building Connections</p><p>04:42 The Importance of Journaling and Self-Reflection</p><p>05:23 Meeting New People and Building Relationships</p><p>06:47 The Three Attitudes to Develop</p><p>07:36 Building Self Confidence</p><p>10:00 The Power of Helping Others</p><p>15:18 The Role of Conflict in Relationships</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/"><strong>15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we are going to discuss the importance of overcoming fear to build better connections with others. We reveal three key attitudes for making new friendships and enhancing existing ones: viewing people as fascinating, finding ways to assist them, and seeing conflict as an opportunity to grow. I’ll also share personal experiences, give insights on managing internal conflicts, and offer tips on how listeners can build self-confidence.</p><p><br></p><p>01:18 The Importance of Getting to Know People</p><p>02:06 About the Host and His Passion</p><p>02:37 Sharing Personal Experiences and Encouraging Listeners</p><p>03:08 Facing Fears and Building Connections</p><p>04:42 The Importance of Journaling and Self-Reflection</p><p>05:23 Meeting New People and Building Relationships</p><p>06:47 The Three Attitudes to Develop</p><p>07:36 Building Self Confidence</p><p>10:00 The Power of Helping Others</p><p>15:18 The Role of Conflict in Relationships</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/"><strong>15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode we are going to discuss the importance of overcoming fear to build better connections with others. We reveal three key attitudes for making new friendships and enhancing existing ones: viewing people as fascinating, finding ways to assist them, and seeing conflict as an opportunity to grow. I’ll also share personal experiences, give insights on managing internal conflicts, and offer tips on how listeners can build self-confidence.</p><p><br></p><p>01:18 The Importance of Getting to Know People</p><p>02:06 About the Host and His Passion</p><p>02:37 Sharing Personal Experiences and Encouraging Listeners</p><p>03:08 Facing Fears and Building Connections</p><p>04:42 The Importance of Journaling and Self-Reflection</p><p>05:23 Meeting New People and Building Relationships</p><p>06:47 The Three Attitudes to Develop</p><p>07:36 Building Self Confidence</p><p>10:00 The Power of Helping Others</p><p>15:18 The Role of Conflict in Relationships</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/"><strong>15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#101: Get to Know People</title>
      <itunes:episode>101</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s time to make connections with new people. In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, I explore the idea of reaching out to new people and turning them into friends or contacts. We delve into how we can view new faces as interesting people and opportunities for growth. I share experiences where I did something uncomfortable, which resulted in forming deeper connections with others. We will also discuss how individuals can use a 'how can I help?' mindset to build connections. Moreover, I explain how viewing conflict as positive can be beneficial to creating new relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, I emphasize the importance of taking action, challenging personal mindsets, and helping others to facilitate transformation and personal growth.</p><p><br></p><p>00:44 The Importance of Meeting New People</p><p>02:23 Personal Story: Reconnecting with an Old Friend</p><p>03:46 The Challenge of Engaging with Strangers</p><p>06:54 Benefits of Meeting New People</p><p>08:11 Overcoming Negativity Bias</p><p>10:49 Building Self Confidence</p><p>14:58 Viewing People as Interesting</p><p>17:25 Helping Others as a Way to Connect</p><p>18:43 The Power of Generosity and Helping Others</p><p>20:14 The Role of Trust in Building Relationships</p><p>20:38 Expanding Business and Team</p><p>21:38 The Impact of Generosity in Daily Life</p><p>23:11 Differing Opinions and Conflict</p><p>24:48 Understanding and Respecting Different Perspectives</p><p>29:46 The Value of Every Individual</p><p>32:40 The Power of Action and Transformation</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/6ySLGfsuPa0?si=pAj7tb1uchyZhfuy"><strong>StoryCorps Video</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/"><strong>15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s time to make connections with new people. In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, I explore the idea of reaching out to new people and turning them into friends or contacts. We delve into how we can view new faces as interesting people and opportunities for growth. I share experiences where I did something uncomfortable, which resulted in forming deeper connections with others. We will also discuss how individuals can use a 'how can I help?' mindset to build connections. Moreover, I explain how viewing conflict as positive can be beneficial to creating new relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, I emphasize the importance of taking action, challenging personal mindsets, and helping others to facilitate transformation and personal growth.</p><p><br></p><p>00:44 The Importance of Meeting New People</p><p>02:23 Personal Story: Reconnecting with an Old Friend</p><p>03:46 The Challenge of Engaging with Strangers</p><p>06:54 Benefits of Meeting New People</p><p>08:11 Overcoming Negativity Bias</p><p>10:49 Building Self Confidence</p><p>14:58 Viewing People as Interesting</p><p>17:25 Helping Others as a Way to Connect</p><p>18:43 The Power of Generosity and Helping Others</p><p>20:14 The Role of Trust in Building Relationships</p><p>20:38 Expanding Business and Team</p><p>21:38 The Impact of Generosity in Daily Life</p><p>23:11 Differing Opinions and Conflict</p><p>24:48 Understanding and Respecting Different Perspectives</p><p>29:46 The Value of Every Individual</p><p>32:40 The Power of Action and Transformation</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/6ySLGfsuPa0?si=pAj7tb1uchyZhfuy"><strong>StoryCorps Video</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/"><strong>15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s time to make connections with new people. In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, I explore the idea of reaching out to new people and turning them into friends or contacts. We delve into how we can view new faces as interesting people and opportunities for growth. I share experiences where I did something uncomfortable, which resulted in forming deeper connections with others. We will also discuss how individuals can use a 'how can I help?' mindset to build connections. Moreover, I explain how viewing conflict as positive can be beneficial to creating new relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, I emphasize the importance of taking action, challenging personal mindsets, and helping others to facilitate transformation and personal growth.</p><p><br></p><p>00:44 The Importance of Meeting New People</p><p>02:23 Personal Story: Reconnecting with an Old Friend</p><p>03:46 The Challenge of Engaging with Strangers</p><p>06:54 Benefits of Meeting New People</p><p>08:11 Overcoming Negativity Bias</p><p>10:49 Building Self Confidence</p><p>14:58 Viewing People as Interesting</p><p>17:25 Helping Others as a Way to Connect</p><p>18:43 The Power of Generosity and Helping Others</p><p>20:14 The Role of Trust in Building Relationships</p><p>20:38 Expanding Business and Team</p><p>21:38 The Impact of Generosity in Daily Life</p><p>23:11 Differing Opinions and Conflict</p><p>24:48 Understanding and Respecting Different Perspectives</p><p>29:46 The Value of Every Individual</p><p>32:40 The Power of Action and Transformation</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/6ySLGfsuPa0?si=pAj7tb1uchyZhfuy"><strong>StoryCorps Video</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/"><strong>15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#100: Keys to Mental Toughness</title>
      <itunes:episode>100</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>100</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s Mental Health Month and today we are going to delve deeper into keys to developing mental toughness. He explains its implications for life challenges, delaying gratification, building a more profitable outcome, and promoting faith in influencing your future. Today it’s going to be the actions that you can take.  On this episode we discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>01:22 Celebrating 100th Episode and Podcast Promotion</p><p>02:09 Personal Experiences and Mental Health Awareness</p><p>02:56 Understanding Mental Toughness and Self-Assessment</p><p>03:32 Observations from a Business Environment</p><p>04:51 Four Keys to Mental Toughness</p><p>07:26 The Importance of Planning Fun</p><p>09:53 Understanding and Dealing with Anxiety</p><p>13:23 The Power of Asking for Help</p><p>19:32 Doing the Next Right Thing</p><p>25:21 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/99"><strong>The Root of Your Stress (Podcast Episode #99)</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/72-ways-to-love-yourself/"><strong>How to Be a Better Friend to Yourself (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s Mental Health Month and today we are going to delve deeper into keys to developing mental toughness. He explains its implications for life challenges, delaying gratification, building a more profitable outcome, and promoting faith in influencing your future. Today it’s going to be the actions that you can take.  On this episode we discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>01:22 Celebrating 100th Episode and Podcast Promotion</p><p>02:09 Personal Experiences and Mental Health Awareness</p><p>02:56 Understanding Mental Toughness and Self-Assessment</p><p>03:32 Observations from a Business Environment</p><p>04:51 Four Keys to Mental Toughness</p><p>07:26 The Importance of Planning Fun</p><p>09:53 Understanding and Dealing with Anxiety</p><p>13:23 The Power of Asking for Help</p><p>19:32 Doing the Next Right Thing</p><p>25:21 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/99"><strong>The Root of Your Stress (Podcast Episode #99)</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/72-ways-to-love-yourself/"><strong>How to Be a Better Friend to Yourself (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s Mental Health Month and today we are going to delve deeper into keys to developing mental toughness. He explains its implications for life challenges, delaying gratification, building a more profitable outcome, and promoting faith in influencing your future. Today it’s going to be the actions that you can take.  On this episode we discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>01:22 Celebrating 100th Episode and Podcast Promotion</p><p>02:09 Personal Experiences and Mental Health Awareness</p><p>02:56 Understanding Mental Toughness and Self-Assessment</p><p>03:32 Observations from a Business Environment</p><p>04:51 Four Keys to Mental Toughness</p><p>07:26 The Importance of Planning Fun</p><p>09:53 Understanding and Dealing with Anxiety</p><p>13:23 The Power of Asking for Help</p><p>19:32 Doing the Next Right Thing</p><p>25:21 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/99"><strong>The Root of Your Stress (Podcast Episode #99)</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/72-ways-to-love-yourself/"><strong>How to Be a Better Friend to Yourself (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#99: The Root of Your Stress</title>
      <itunes:episode>99</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we discuss how to get to the root of stress to prevent it from hindering life. You’ll hear my own experience with nail-biting due to stress and fear. We’ll talk about the importance of identifying stressful situations, acknowledging the physical reactions to stress, noting the thoughts contributing to the stress, and understanding its connection to the past. Finally emphasizing the importance of facing these fears and taking necessary actions like journaling and consulting with family or a therapist to root it out. The journey requires discomfort, but overcoming it leads to transformational change.</p><p>00:39 When I stopped biting my nails</p><p>00:59 Welcome to the Podcast and Host Introduction</p><p>02:01 Personal Anecdote and Importance of Facing Fears</p><p>02:58 Identifying Stress Triggers</p><p>03:48 Understanding Fear and Its Impact</p><p>04:19 Personal Experience with Fear and Change</p><p>05:16 Understanding Anxiety as a Self-Protection Mechanism</p><p>06:17 Identifying Negative Thoughts and Emotions</p><p>07:15 Steps to Find the Root of Your Fear</p><p>13:33 Understanding How Feelings Impact Perspective</p><p>17:44 Connecting Stress Triggers to Past Experiences</p><p>21:43 Facing Your Fears and Taking Action</p><p>24:08 Recap and Final Thoughts</p><p>25:18 Podcast Conclusion and Sign Off</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we discuss how to get to the root of stress to prevent it from hindering life. You’ll hear my own experience with nail-biting due to stress and fear. We’ll talk about the importance of identifying stressful situations, acknowledging the physical reactions to stress, noting the thoughts contributing to the stress, and understanding its connection to the past. Finally emphasizing the importance of facing these fears and taking necessary actions like journaling and consulting with family or a therapist to root it out. The journey requires discomfort, but overcoming it leads to transformational change.</p><p>00:39 When I stopped biting my nails</p><p>00:59 Welcome to the Podcast and Host Introduction</p><p>02:01 Personal Anecdote and Importance of Facing Fears</p><p>02:58 Identifying Stress Triggers</p><p>03:48 Understanding Fear and Its Impact</p><p>04:19 Personal Experience with Fear and Change</p><p>05:16 Understanding Anxiety as a Self-Protection Mechanism</p><p>06:17 Identifying Negative Thoughts and Emotions</p><p>07:15 Steps to Find the Root of Your Fear</p><p>13:33 Understanding How Feelings Impact Perspective</p><p>17:44 Connecting Stress Triggers to Past Experiences</p><p>21:43 Facing Your Fears and Taking Action</p><p>24:08 Recap and Final Thoughts</p><p>25:18 Podcast Conclusion and Sign Off</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1644</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we discuss how to get to the root of stress to prevent it from hindering life. You’ll hear my own experience with nail-biting due to stress and fear. We’ll talk about the importance of identifying stressful situations, acknowledging the physical reactions to stress, noting the thoughts contributing to the stress, and understanding its connection to the past. Finally emphasizing the importance of facing these fears and taking necessary actions like journaling and consulting with family or a therapist to root it out. The journey requires discomfort, but overcoming it leads to transformational change.</p><p>00:39 When I stopped biting my nails</p><p>00:59 Welcome to the Podcast and Host Introduction</p><p>02:01 Personal Anecdote and Importance of Facing Fears</p><p>02:58 Identifying Stress Triggers</p><p>03:48 Understanding Fear and Its Impact</p><p>04:19 Personal Experience with Fear and Change</p><p>05:16 Understanding Anxiety as a Self-Protection Mechanism</p><p>06:17 Identifying Negative Thoughts and Emotions</p><p>07:15 Steps to Find the Root of Your Fear</p><p>13:33 Understanding How Feelings Impact Perspective</p><p>17:44 Connecting Stress Triggers to Past Experiences</p><p>21:43 Facing Your Fears and Taking Action</p><p>24:08 Recap and Final Thoughts</p><p>25:18 Podcast Conclusion and Sign Off</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#98: Obstacles to Seeing a Brighter Future</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes things get in the way of seeing what is possible.  I used to have a great vision for a bright future back in 2015, but challenges I faced put me in survival mode and I lost sight of it.  You may feel the same way but today we are going to break down those barriers together.   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The myths that we believe</li><li>The false belief that we don’t need to achieve our goals or that your life isn’t in your own hands</li><li>Vision gives you traction in your life</li><li>The emotional baggage you carry</li><li>Buy a journal and carry it around</li><li>Dealing with self-pity</li><li>How mindset coaching works</li><li>How holding on to grief or trauma limits your future</li><li>Don’t get stuck looking in the past</li><li>Finding time to dream</li><li>How the wrong people blind us from what is possible</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes things get in the way of seeing what is possible.  I used to have a great vision for a bright future back in 2015, but challenges I faced put me in survival mode and I lost sight of it.  You may feel the same way but today we are going to break down those barriers together.   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The myths that we believe</li><li>The false belief that we don’t need to achieve our goals or that your life isn’t in your own hands</li><li>Vision gives you traction in your life</li><li>The emotional baggage you carry</li><li>Buy a journal and carry it around</li><li>Dealing with self-pity</li><li>How mindset coaching works</li><li>How holding on to grief or trauma limits your future</li><li>Don’t get stuck looking in the past</li><li>Finding time to dream</li><li>How the wrong people blind us from what is possible</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2023 06:11:10 -0600</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes things get in the way of seeing what is possible.  I used to have a great vision for a bright future back in 2015, but challenges I faced put me in survival mode and I lost sight of it.  You may feel the same way but today we are going to break down those barriers together.   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The myths that we believe</li><li>The false belief that we don’t need to achieve our goals or that your life isn’t in your own hands</li><li>Vision gives you traction in your life</li><li>The emotional baggage you carry</li><li>Buy a journal and carry it around</li><li>Dealing with self-pity</li><li>How mindset coaching works</li><li>How holding on to grief or trauma limits your future</li><li>Don’t get stuck looking in the past</li><li>Finding time to dream</li><li>How the wrong people blind us from what is possible</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Many times when I’m speaking with a client I have to engage in courageous honesty.  People will avoid things that are uncomfortable truths in their life.  Today we are going to get into several key items you won’t want to hear (but can be incredibly powerful).   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The one phrase I often preface statements with is…</li><li>What are you currently avoiding</li><li>The impact of avoiding things</li><li>Lower your expectations</li><li>Stop giving your emotions power (but be aware of them)</li><li>Peace comes after courageous action</li><li>Avoidance will end up destroying your life</li><li>Live the life you were meant to live</li><li>When people show you who they are, believe them</li><li>Be willing to identify the red flags</li><li>Happiness is not something you can find</li><li>Delayed gratification is the name of the game</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3O5HYcu"><strong>Top 5 Regrets of the Dying </strong>by Bronnie Ware</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Many times when I’m speaking with a client I have to engage in courageous honesty.  People will avoid things that are uncomfortable truths in their life.  Today we are going to get into several key items you won’t want to hear (but can be incredibly powerful).   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The one phrase I often preface statements with is…</li><li>What are you currently avoiding</li><li>The impact of avoiding things</li><li>Lower your expectations</li><li>Stop giving your emotions power (but be aware of them)</li><li>Peace comes after courageous action</li><li>Avoidance will end up destroying your life</li><li>Live the life you were meant to live</li><li>When people show you who they are, believe them</li><li>Be willing to identify the red flags</li><li>Happiness is not something you can find</li><li>Delayed gratification is the name of the game</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3O5HYcu"><strong>Top 5 Regrets of the Dying </strong>by Bronnie Ware</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 31 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Many times when I’m speaking with a client I have to engage in courageous honesty.  People will avoid things that are uncomfortable truths in their life.  Today we are going to get into several key items you won’t want to hear (but can be incredibly powerful).   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The one phrase I often preface statements with is…</li><li>What are you currently avoiding</li><li>The impact of avoiding things</li><li>Lower your expectations</li><li>Stop giving your emotions power (but be aware of them)</li><li>Peace comes after courageous action</li><li>Avoidance will end up destroying your life</li><li>Live the life you were meant to live</li><li>When people show you who they are, believe them</li><li>Be willing to identify the red flags</li><li>Happiness is not something you can find</li><li>Delayed gratification is the name of the game</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3O5HYcu"><strong>Top 5 Regrets of the Dying </strong>by Bronnie Ware</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#96: Become More Encouraging (Rebroadcast)</title>
      <itunes:episode>96</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>Why social skills matter</li><li>Asking questions instead of giving advice</li><li>Letting go of having control</li><li>The best types of open ended questions</li><li>Learning to trust your intuition</li><li>Seeking first to understand and validate</li><li>Expressing appreciation consistently</li><li>How to appreciate in the workplace</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode 14:Finding Your Life Purpose</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3">Episode 3: Asking Great Questions</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversation</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/4zny4kr3hjap2gd/Speaker%20Listener%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Speaker/Listener Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Emotions Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/6d42a3mp9baiu34/5%20Languages%20of%20Appreciation%20in%20the%20Workplace.pdf?dl=1">5 Languages of Appreciation in The Workplace</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ix8hyamjavuolhx/9%20Key%20Social%20Skills.pdf?dl=1">9 Key Social Skills</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>Why social skills matter</li><li>Asking questions instead of giving advice</li><li>Letting go of having control</li><li>The best types of open ended questions</li><li>Learning to trust your intuition</li><li>Seeking first to understand and validate</li><li>Expressing appreciation consistently</li><li>How to appreciate in the workplace</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode 14:Finding Your Life Purpose</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3">Episode 3: Asking Great Questions</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversation</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/4zny4kr3hjap2gd/Speaker%20Listener%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Speaker/Listener Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Emotions Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/6d42a3mp9baiu34/5%20Languages%20of%20Appreciation%20in%20the%20Workplace.pdf?dl=1">5 Languages of Appreciation in The Workplace</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ix8hyamjavuolhx/9%20Key%20Social%20Skills.pdf?dl=1">9 Key Social Skills</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2023 20:27:30 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>Why social skills matter</li><li>Asking questions instead of giving advice</li><li>Letting go of having control</li><li>The best types of open ended questions</li><li>Learning to trust your intuition</li><li>Seeking first to understand and validate</li><li>Expressing appreciation consistently</li><li>How to appreciate in the workplace</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode 14:Finding Your Life Purpose</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3">Episode 3: Asking Great Questions</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversation</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/4zny4kr3hjap2gd/Speaker%20Listener%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Speaker/Listener Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Emotions Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/6d42a3mp9baiu34/5%20Languages%20of%20Appreciation%20in%20the%20Workplace.pdf?dl=1">5 Languages of Appreciation in The Workplace</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ix8hyamjavuolhx/9%20Key%20Social%20Skills.pdf?dl=1">9 Key Social Skills</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>#95: Power of Taking Responsibility</title>
      <itunes:episode>95</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>95</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>When I get a coach for anything, I pay for everything up front.  I do this so that I force a level of commitment that allows me to take responsibility with my life.  That responsibility is power and today we’re going to define several actions you can take right now to grab responsibility by the horns.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is the big challenge you struggle to take responsibility for</li><li>The cost of giving your power away</li><li>Focusing more on the solutions</li><li>The freedom that comes from taking responsibility</li><li>You can own your thoughts and perspective</li><li>How addiction is driven first by habit of thought</li><li>Owning the emotions that you experience</li><li>Model to yourself how you feel</li><li>Power to own the actions you take</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>When I get a coach for anything, I pay for everything up front.  I do this so that I force a level of commitment that allows me to take responsibility with my life.  That responsibility is power and today we’re going to define several actions you can take right now to grab responsibility by the horns.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is the big challenge you struggle to take responsibility for</li><li>The cost of giving your power away</li><li>Focusing more on the solutions</li><li>The freedom that comes from taking responsibility</li><li>You can own your thoughts and perspective</li><li>How addiction is driven first by habit of thought</li><li>Owning the emotions that you experience</li><li>Model to yourself how you feel</li><li>Power to own the actions you take</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>When I get a coach for anything, I pay for everything up front.  I do this so that I force a level of commitment that allows me to take responsibility with my life.  That responsibility is power and today we’re going to define several actions you can take right now to grab responsibility by the horns.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is the big challenge you struggle to take responsibility for</li><li>The cost of giving your power away</li><li>Focusing more on the solutions</li><li>The freedom that comes from taking responsibility</li><li>You can own your thoughts and perspective</li><li>How addiction is driven first by habit of thought</li><li>Owning the emotions that you experience</li><li>Model to yourself how you feel</li><li>Power to own the actions you take</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#94: Dealing with Manipulative People</title>
      <itunes:episode>94</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>94</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#94: Dealing with Manipulative People</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’ve had people in my life use manipulation to create leverage that allows them to achieve their goals.  But there is a way to handle these situations effectively to keep yourself in check.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Who is challenging/manipulative in your life</li><li>Why people resort to manipulation</li><li>Don’t get sucked in</li><li>Focusing on your breathing</li><li>Slowing down by asking questions</li><li>It is NOT about YOU</li><li>Let go of anger and resentment</li><li>Rebuilding trust</li><li>Ask for what you need</li><li>Be prepared for people who are difficult</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Assertiveness Activity</strong></p><p>Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>DEAR MAN Assertiveness Worksheet</strong></a>. Save the worksheet on your desktop, fill in your answers, save it again, and email it back to me before your next session. </p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’ve had people in my life use manipulation to create leverage that allows them to achieve their goals.  But there is a way to handle these situations effectively to keep yourself in check.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Who is challenging/manipulative in your life</li><li>Why people resort to manipulation</li><li>Don’t get sucked in</li><li>Focusing on your breathing</li><li>Slowing down by asking questions</li><li>It is NOT about YOU</li><li>Let go of anger and resentment</li><li>Rebuilding trust</li><li>Ask for what you need</li><li>Be prepared for people who are difficult</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Assertiveness Activity</strong></p><p>Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>DEAR MAN Assertiveness Worksheet</strong></a>. Save the worksheet on your desktop, fill in your answers, save it again, and email it back to me before your next session. </p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1631</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’ve had people in my life use manipulation to create leverage that allows them to achieve their goals.  But there is a way to handle these situations effectively to keep yourself in check.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Who is challenging/manipulative in your life</li><li>Why people resort to manipulation</li><li>Don’t get sucked in</li><li>Focusing on your breathing</li><li>Slowing down by asking questions</li><li>It is NOT about YOU</li><li>Let go of anger and resentment</li><li>Rebuilding trust</li><li>Ask for what you need</li><li>Be prepared for people who are difficult</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Assertiveness Activity</strong></p><p>Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>DEAR MAN Assertiveness Worksheet</strong></a>. Save the worksheet on your desktop, fill in your answers, save it again, and email it back to me before your next session. </p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#93: Taking Consistent Action [Rebroadcast]</title>
      <itunes:episode>93</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>93</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#93: Taking Consistent Action [Rebroadcast]</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Growing up I had a bully that always bothered me.  One day, I found out firsthand how taking decisive and consistent action can be transformational.  And I want you to have that same victory in your life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the act of spitting energized me</li><li>What is that one thing you are procrastinating on?</li><li>Defining the perfection trap</li><li>Getting out of your head</li><li>Focusing on how action will help others</li><li>Identifying how action will benefit yourself</li><li>Eliminating excuses by having an answer for them</li><li>Identifying how you will feel afterward</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Risks Frequently</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=0">Scary Actions You Can Take Today</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50">Episode 50: A Big Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Growing up I had a bully that always bothered me.  One day, I found out firsthand how taking decisive and consistent action can be transformational.  And I want you to have that same victory in your life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the act of spitting energized me</li><li>What is that one thing you are procrastinating on?</li><li>Defining the perfection trap</li><li>Getting out of your head</li><li>Focusing on how action will help others</li><li>Identifying how action will benefit yourself</li><li>Eliminating excuses by having an answer for them</li><li>Identifying how you will feel afterward</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Risks Frequently</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=0">Scary Actions You Can Take Today</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50">Episode 50: A Big Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Growing up I had a bully that always bothered me.  One day, I found out firsthand how taking decisive and consistent action can be transformational.  And I want you to have that same victory in your life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the act of spitting energized me</li><li>What is that one thing you are procrastinating on?</li><li>Defining the perfection trap</li><li>Getting out of your head</li><li>Focusing on how action will help others</li><li>Identifying how action will benefit yourself</li><li>Eliminating excuses by having an answer for them</li><li>Identifying how you will feel afterward</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Risks Frequently</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=0">Scary Actions You Can Take Today</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50">Episode 50: A Big Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#92: Get Better Sleep Tonight</title>
      <itunes:episode>92</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>92</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>There was a time when I didn’t get sleep for several nights in a row, and it really messed me up.  We underestimate the power great sleep can have on our lives and today we are going to help get better sleep.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What are the things that interrupt your sleep?</li><li>Health impacts of not getting enough sleep</li><li>Get curious about something stimulating</li><li>Stick with a sleep schedule (even on the weekends)</li><li>Get more Vitamin D</li><li>Deal with the mindsets that you have</li><li>Put the journal by your bed</li><li>Exercise each day in some way</li><li>Face something scary in your life</li><li>Take a cold shower or an ice bath</li><li>Create anticipation for tomorrow</li><li>Write down your dreams (the actual dreams)</li><li>Listen to music</li><li>Don’t hit the snooze button</li><li>Play a game before bed</li><li>Deal with your trauma</li><li>Get some medical help when needed</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><strong>Favorite Short Stories</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3LxD8Wc"><strong>Tales from the Klondike: A Treasury of Jack London’s Best Short Stories</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3ES0Ngn"><strong>The Complete Short Stories of Earnest Hemmingway</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3LxD8Wc"><strong>The Complete Stories</strong></a> by Flannery O'Connor</p><p><br><a href="https://thisonevsthatone.com/sympathetic-vs-parasympathetic/"><strong>Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/bandv5rrxiy6x2o/Polyvagal%20Theory.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Polyvagal Theory</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/iba9n7laopdbvuu/Neuroplasticity_and_Implications_for_Mental_Health.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Neuroplasticity and Implications for Mental Health</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/me97pzilaectw7d/Emotion%20Regulation%20DBT%20Skills.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Emotion Regulation Skills</strong></a></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>There was a time when I didn’t get sleep for several nights in a row, and it really messed me up.  We underestimate the power great sleep can have on our lives and today we are going to help get better sleep.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What are the things that interrupt your sleep?</li><li>Health impacts of not getting enough sleep</li><li>Get curious about something stimulating</li><li>Stick with a sleep schedule (even on the weekends)</li><li>Get more Vitamin D</li><li>Deal with the mindsets that you have</li><li>Put the journal by your bed</li><li>Exercise each day in some way</li><li>Face something scary in your life</li><li>Take a cold shower or an ice bath</li><li>Create anticipation for tomorrow</li><li>Write down your dreams (the actual dreams)</li><li>Listen to music</li><li>Don’t hit the snooze button</li><li>Play a game before bed</li><li>Deal with your trauma</li><li>Get some medical help when needed</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><strong>Favorite Short Stories</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3LxD8Wc"><strong>Tales from the Klondike: A Treasury of Jack London’s Best Short Stories</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3ES0Ngn"><strong>The Complete Short Stories of Earnest Hemmingway</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3LxD8Wc"><strong>The Complete Stories</strong></a> by Flannery O'Connor</p><p><br><a href="https://thisonevsthatone.com/sympathetic-vs-parasympathetic/"><strong>Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/bandv5rrxiy6x2o/Polyvagal%20Theory.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Polyvagal Theory</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/iba9n7laopdbvuu/Neuroplasticity_and_Implications_for_Mental_Health.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Neuroplasticity and Implications for Mental Health</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/me97pzilaectw7d/Emotion%20Regulation%20DBT%20Skills.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Emotion Regulation Skills</strong></a></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 26 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>There was a time when I didn’t get sleep for several nights in a row, and it really messed me up.  We underestimate the power great sleep can have on our lives and today we are going to help get better sleep.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What are the things that interrupt your sleep?</li><li>Health impacts of not getting enough sleep</li><li>Get curious about something stimulating</li><li>Stick with a sleep schedule (even on the weekends)</li><li>Get more Vitamin D</li><li>Deal with the mindsets that you have</li><li>Put the journal by your bed</li><li>Exercise each day in some way</li><li>Face something scary in your life</li><li>Take a cold shower or an ice bath</li><li>Create anticipation for tomorrow</li><li>Write down your dreams (the actual dreams)</li><li>Listen to music</li><li>Don’t hit the snooze button</li><li>Play a game before bed</li><li>Deal with your trauma</li><li>Get some medical help when needed</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><strong>Favorite Short Stories</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3LxD8Wc"><strong>Tales from the Klondike: A Treasury of Jack London’s Best Short Stories</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3ES0Ngn"><strong>The Complete Short Stories of Earnest Hemmingway</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3LxD8Wc"><strong>The Complete Stories</strong></a> by Flannery O'Connor</p><p><br><a href="https://thisonevsthatone.com/sympathetic-vs-parasympathetic/"><strong>Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/bandv5rrxiy6x2o/Polyvagal%20Theory.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Polyvagal Theory</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/iba9n7laopdbvuu/Neuroplasticity_and_Implications_for_Mental_Health.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Neuroplasticity and Implications for Mental Health</strong></a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/me97pzilaectw7d/Emotion%20Regulation%20DBT%20Skills.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Emotion Regulation Skills</strong></a></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#91: Ego is the Enemy</title>
      <itunes:episode>91</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>91</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#91: Ego is the Enemy</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>There are times when I’ve given in to the pressure to impress others.  My insecurities can cause my ego to kick in, and the ego is the enemy.  Today we are going to explore four ways to overcome your ego.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>I, me and mine perspective</li><li>Ego = fear</li><li>Operating out of the self instead of the ego</li><li>The comparison trap</li><li>Doing something kind for others, becoming a giver</li><li>How pride gets in the way of enjoying life</li><li>The act of creation to impact others for their benefit</li><li>Remembering the meaning behind what you engage in</li><li>Become more connected spiritually</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>There are times when I’ve given in to the pressure to impress others.  My insecurities can cause my ego to kick in, and the ego is the enemy.  Today we are going to explore four ways to overcome your ego.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>I, me and mine perspective</li><li>Ego = fear</li><li>Operating out of the self instead of the ego</li><li>The comparison trap</li><li>Doing something kind for others, becoming a giver</li><li>How pride gets in the way of enjoying life</li><li>The act of creation to impact others for their benefit</li><li>Remembering the meaning behind what you engage in</li><li>Become more connected spiritually</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 19 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>There are times when I’ve given in to the pressure to impress others.  My insecurities can cause my ego to kick in, and the ego is the enemy.  Today we are going to explore four ways to overcome your ego.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>I, me and mine perspective</li><li>Ego = fear</li><li>Operating out of the self instead of the ego</li><li>The comparison trap</li><li>Doing something kind for others, becoming a giver</li><li>How pride gets in the way of enjoying life</li><li>The act of creation to impact others for their benefit</li><li>Remembering the meaning behind what you engage in</li><li>Become more connected spiritually</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/subscription-sign-up"><strong>Get free content to start your legacy journey</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#90: Power to Resist Temptations</title>
      <itunes:episode>90</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>90</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What do you do that you know is bad for you?  How are these sabotaging the future you are building?  Today we are going to give you strategies to have power over the temptations in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Understand what is holding you back</li><li>You have power over your behaviors</li><li>Using replacement behaviors to create new habits</li><li>You have power over your emotions</li><li>Learning to engage with emotional sobriety</li><li>Recognizing the anxiety and externalizing it</li><li>Stepping back from incorrect thinking</li><li>The role that your phone can play in your thinking</li><li>Using support to move forward from temptation</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What do you do that you know is bad for you?  How are these sabotaging the future you are building?  Today we are going to give you strategies to have power over the temptations in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Understand what is holding you back</li><li>You have power over your behaviors</li><li>Using replacement behaviors to create new habits</li><li>You have power over your emotions</li><li>Learning to engage with emotional sobriety</li><li>Recognizing the anxiety and externalizing it</li><li>Stepping back from incorrect thinking</li><li>The role that your phone can play in your thinking</li><li>Using support to move forward from temptation</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 12 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1468</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What do you do that you know is bad for you?  How are these sabotaging the future you are building?  Today we are going to give you strategies to have power over the temptations in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Understand what is holding you back</li><li>You have power over your behaviors</li><li>Using replacement behaviors to create new habits</li><li>You have power over your emotions</li><li>Learning to engage with emotional sobriety</li><li>Recognizing the anxiety and externalizing it</li><li>Stepping back from incorrect thinking</li><li>The role that your phone can play in your thinking</li><li>Using support to move forward from temptation</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#89: Declutter Your Life</title>
      <itunes:episode>89</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>89</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#89: Declutter Your Life</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Has anyone ever asked you if you are crazy? Do you feel like your brain has clutter scattered throughout? Today we are going to break down seven different ways to declutter your life to create space.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is an area of your life that needs de-cluttered?</li><li>The contributions of Leonardo da Vinci to society</li><li>Record your thoughts</li><li>Focus on the important / not-urgent tasks</li><li>Get rid of something every day</li><li>Delegate something to someone else - develop them</li><li>The practice of time blocking via the Pomodoro technique</li><li>Plan your week on Sundays</li><li>Commit to follow through</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/"><strong>Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/"><strong>Eliminate Mental Clutter &amp; Procrastination (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://todoist.com/productivity-methods/pomodoro-technique"><strong>The Pomodoro Technique: Beat Procrastination &amp; Improve Your Focus One Pomodoro at a Time (post)</strong></a> by Todoist</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/Wby3n-GAt8w"><strong>4 Quadrants Time Management Tool Explained</strong></a><strong> (video)</strong> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5 </strong></p><p>Read this article about the Daily 5 &amp; 5 called <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/"><strong>How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</strong></a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Daily 5 &amp; 5 worksheet</strong></a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset. </p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Has anyone ever asked you if you are crazy? Do you feel like your brain has clutter scattered throughout? Today we are going to break down seven different ways to declutter your life to create space.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is an area of your life that needs de-cluttered?</li><li>The contributions of Leonardo da Vinci to society</li><li>Record your thoughts</li><li>Focus on the important / not-urgent tasks</li><li>Get rid of something every day</li><li>Delegate something to someone else - develop them</li><li>The practice of time blocking via the Pomodoro technique</li><li>Plan your week on Sundays</li><li>Commit to follow through</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/"><strong>Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/"><strong>Eliminate Mental Clutter &amp; Procrastination (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://todoist.com/productivity-methods/pomodoro-technique"><strong>The Pomodoro Technique: Beat Procrastination &amp; Improve Your Focus One Pomodoro at a Time (post)</strong></a> by Todoist</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/Wby3n-GAt8w"><strong>4 Quadrants Time Management Tool Explained</strong></a><strong> (video)</strong> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5 </strong></p><p>Read this article about the Daily 5 &amp; 5 called <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/"><strong>How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</strong></a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Daily 5 &amp; 5 worksheet</strong></a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset. </p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Has anyone ever asked you if you are crazy? Do you feel like your brain has clutter scattered throughout? Today we are going to break down seven different ways to declutter your life to create space.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is an area of your life that needs de-cluttered?</li><li>The contributions of Leonardo da Vinci to society</li><li>Record your thoughts</li><li>Focus on the important / not-urgent tasks</li><li>Get rid of something every day</li><li>Delegate something to someone else - develop them</li><li>The practice of time blocking via the Pomodoro technique</li><li>Plan your week on Sundays</li><li>Commit to follow through</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/"><strong>Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done (post)</strong></a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/"><strong>Eliminate Mental Clutter &amp; Procrastination (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://todoist.com/productivity-methods/pomodoro-technique"><strong>The Pomodoro Technique: Beat Procrastination &amp; Improve Your Focus One Pomodoro at a Time (post)</strong></a> by Todoist</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/Wby3n-GAt8w"><strong>4 Quadrants Time Management Tool Explained</strong></a><strong> (video)</strong> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5 </strong></p><p>Read this article about the Daily 5 &amp; 5 called <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/"><strong>How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</strong></a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Daily 5 &amp; 5 worksheet</strong></a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset. </p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>If you found this information helpful, <a href="https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/content-sign-up"><strong>SUBSCRIBE TODAY</strong></a> and you’ll receive our Free Video &amp; Workbook <strong>Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#88: How to Feel Great About Life</title>
      <itunes:episode>88</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>88</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#88: How to Feel Great About Life</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How would you feel if you always took the actions you wanted?  Today we’re going to cover some strategies to showing up in a way that allows you to feel great about yourself and the life you are living. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How do you beat yourself up</li><li>How would you feel if you took the actions you want</li><li>What happens to your inner life when you try to please others</li><li>Be generous - with you treasure, time and talent</li><li>Tell the truth - don’t spin or evade</li><li>Show up for yourself - commit to yourself</li><li>Set guardrails - stay on track</li><li>Move out of the safe harbor - where are you hiding</li><li>Embrace the suck - see it as the process</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How would you feel if you always took the actions you wanted?  Today we’re going to cover some strategies to showing up in a way that allows you to feel great about yourself and the life you are living. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How do you beat yourself up</li><li>How would you feel if you took the actions you want</li><li>What happens to your inner life when you try to please others</li><li>Be generous - with you treasure, time and talent</li><li>Tell the truth - don’t spin or evade</li><li>Show up for yourself - commit to yourself</li><li>Set guardrails - stay on track</li><li>Move out of the safe harbor - where are you hiding</li><li>Embrace the suck - see it as the process</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1688</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How would you feel if you always took the actions you wanted?  Today we’re going to cover some strategies to showing up in a way that allows you to feel great about yourself and the life you are living. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How do you beat yourself up</li><li>How would you feel if you took the actions you want</li><li>What happens to your inner life when you try to please others</li><li>Be generous - with you treasure, time and talent</li><li>Tell the truth - don’t spin or evade</li><li>Show up for yourself - commit to yourself</li><li>Set guardrails - stay on track</li><li>Move out of the safe harbor - where are you hiding</li><li>Embrace the suck - see it as the process</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#87: Decrease Social Anxiety</title>
      <itunes:episode>87</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>87</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#87: Decrease Social Anxiety</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s that time of year, many are going back to school.  In a few months the holidays will be upon us.  These events and situations can often bring social anxiety with them.  But today we are going to dive into the strategies you can use to decrease the impact social anxiety has on you.   On this episode we discuss:What social situations cause you the most fear?</p><ul><li>Why do they trigger you?</li><li>Ice breakers that can transform your engagement with others</li><li>The four keys to reducing social anxiety</li><li>First get started</li><li>Stay positive, no matter what happens</li><li>Persist, don’t push</li><li>Remember the big picture</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/85"><strong>Power of Forgiveness (Podcast Episode #85)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Icebreakers (post)</strong></a><strong> - by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U"><strong>If</strong></a><strong> - by Rudyard Kipling (read by Sir Michael Caine)</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0"><strong>Do it Anyway</strong></a><strong> by Mother Teresa</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo"><strong>How Did You Die</strong></a><strong> by Edmund Vance Cooke</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s that time of year, many are going back to school.  In a few months the holidays will be upon us.  These events and situations can often bring social anxiety with them.  But today we are going to dive into the strategies you can use to decrease the impact social anxiety has on you.   On this episode we discuss:What social situations cause you the most fear?</p><ul><li>Why do they trigger you?</li><li>Ice breakers that can transform your engagement with others</li><li>The four keys to reducing social anxiety</li><li>First get started</li><li>Stay positive, no matter what happens</li><li>Persist, don’t push</li><li>Remember the big picture</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/85"><strong>Power of Forgiveness (Podcast Episode #85)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Icebreakers (post)</strong></a><strong> - by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U"><strong>If</strong></a><strong> - by Rudyard Kipling (read by Sir Michael Caine)</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0"><strong>Do it Anyway</strong></a><strong> by Mother Teresa</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo"><strong>How Did You Die</strong></a><strong> by Edmund Vance Cooke</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s that time of year, many are going back to school.  In a few months the holidays will be upon us.  These events and situations can often bring social anxiety with them.  But today we are going to dive into the strategies you can use to decrease the impact social anxiety has on you.   On this episode we discuss:What social situations cause you the most fear?</p><ul><li>Why do they trigger you?</li><li>Ice breakers that can transform your engagement with others</li><li>The four keys to reducing social anxiety</li><li>First get started</li><li>Stay positive, no matter what happens</li><li>Persist, don’t push</li><li>Remember the big picture</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/85"><strong>Power of Forgiveness (Podcast Episode #85)</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/"><strong>11 Fun Icebreakers (post)</strong></a><strong> - by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U"><strong>If</strong></a><strong> - by Rudyard Kipling (read by Sir Michael Caine)</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0"><strong>Do it Anyway</strong></a><strong> by Mother Teresa</strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo"><strong>How Did You Die</strong></a><strong> by Edmund Vance Cooke</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <itunes:episode>86</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Why do some people seem so self-confident?  How can you become more self-confident?  While you might think that self-confidence is something you develop first, there are actually 5 actions you can take that will bring more energy and self-confidence to your life.   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Where do you lack self-confidence</li><li>The difference between confidence and self-confidence</li><li>How distractions keep us from finding clarity</li><li>How living decided can bring energy</li><li>The role of setting boundaries</li><li>Taking your commitment seriously</li><li>Play the long game</li><li>Create a vision board for your future (and have fun)</li><li>Watching your language</li><li>What do you love about yourself?</li><li>The 5-second rule (no, not that one)</li><li>What would you do if you had 10x the self-confidence</li><li>Tell people how you actually feel</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ij4r0osf265f2uv/If%20I%20Had%20More%20Confidence.pdf?dl=1"><strong>If I Had More Confidence Worksheet</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><a href="https://app.kajabi.com/r/QLwaj5BF"><strong>GET 14 DAYS FREE OF KAJABI</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/16-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/"><strong>18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence (post)</strong></a><strong> - by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Why do some people seem so self-confident?  How can you become more self-confident?  While you might think that self-confidence is something you develop first, there are actually 5 actions you can take that will bring more energy and self-confidence to your life.   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Where do you lack self-confidence</li><li>The difference between confidence and self-confidence</li><li>How distractions keep us from finding clarity</li><li>How living decided can bring energy</li><li>The role of setting boundaries</li><li>Taking your commitment seriously</li><li>Play the long game</li><li>Create a vision board for your future (and have fun)</li><li>Watching your language</li><li>What do you love about yourself?</li><li>The 5-second rule (no, not that one)</li><li>What would you do if you had 10x the self-confidence</li><li>Tell people how you actually feel</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ij4r0osf265f2uv/If%20I%20Had%20More%20Confidence.pdf?dl=1"><strong>If I Had More Confidence Worksheet</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><a href="https://app.kajabi.com/r/QLwaj5BF"><strong>GET 14 DAYS FREE OF KAJABI</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/16-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/"><strong>18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence (post)</strong></a><strong> - by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Why do some people seem so self-confident?  How can you become more self-confident?  While you might think that self-confidence is something you develop first, there are actually 5 actions you can take that will bring more energy and self-confidence to your life.   On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Where do you lack self-confidence</li><li>The difference between confidence and self-confidence</li><li>How distractions keep us from finding clarity</li><li>How living decided can bring energy</li><li>The role of setting boundaries</li><li>Taking your commitment seriously</li><li>Play the long game</li><li>Create a vision board for your future (and have fun)</li><li>Watching your language</li><li>What do you love about yourself?</li><li>The 5-second rule (no, not that one)</li><li>What would you do if you had 10x the self-confidence</li><li>Tell people how you actually feel</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ij4r0osf265f2uv/If%20I%20Had%20More%20Confidence.pdf?dl=1"><strong>If I Had More Confidence Worksheet</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><a href="https://app.kajabi.com/r/QLwaj5BF"><strong>GET 14 DAYS FREE OF KAJABI</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/16-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/"><strong>18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence (post)</strong></a><strong> - by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#85: Power of Forgiveness</title>
      <itunes:episode>85</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>85</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week I’m joined by my good friend Rusty.  Over the past few months, I’ve noticed a major transformation and shift in his demeanor and perspective, so I wanted him to join me to talk about how forgiveness has transformed his life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Rusty’s upbringing, moving from place to place</li><li>The struggle with his father and recognizing the trauma</li><li>Seeing the good and the bad in people</li><li>How forgiveness created a shift</li><li>The shades of forgiveness</li><li>The burden of carrying around a lack of forgiveness</li><li>How trust fits into the equation with forgiveness</li><li>Why Rusty wouldn’t change the past if he could</li><li>Don’t drag your past with you, let it go and forgive</li><li>Why forgiving yourself is so important</li><li>How culture leads to avoidance</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/oknac6cbt6jc53yhlzq8u/Carl-Jung-Quotes.pdf?rlkey=66do9kn0pkyrxjz08e2di8322&amp;dl=1"><strong>Carl Jung Quotes</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week I’m joined by my good friend Rusty.  Over the past few months, I’ve noticed a major transformation and shift in his demeanor and perspective, so I wanted him to join me to talk about how forgiveness has transformed his life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Rusty’s upbringing, moving from place to place</li><li>The struggle with his father and recognizing the trauma</li><li>Seeing the good and the bad in people</li><li>How forgiveness created a shift</li><li>The shades of forgiveness</li><li>The burden of carrying around a lack of forgiveness</li><li>How trust fits into the equation with forgiveness</li><li>Why Rusty wouldn’t change the past if he could</li><li>Don’t drag your past with you, let it go and forgive</li><li>Why forgiving yourself is so important</li><li>How culture leads to avoidance</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/oknac6cbt6jc53yhlzq8u/Carl-Jung-Quotes.pdf?rlkey=66do9kn0pkyrxjz08e2di8322&amp;dl=1"><strong>Carl Jung Quotes</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week I’m joined by my good friend Rusty.  Over the past few months, I’ve noticed a major transformation and shift in his demeanor and perspective, so I wanted him to join me to talk about how forgiveness has transformed his life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Rusty’s upbringing, moving from place to place</li><li>The struggle with his father and recognizing the trauma</li><li>Seeing the good and the bad in people</li><li>How forgiveness created a shift</li><li>The shades of forgiveness</li><li>The burden of carrying around a lack of forgiveness</li><li>How trust fits into the equation with forgiveness</li><li>Why Rusty wouldn’t change the past if he could</li><li>Don’t drag your past with you, let it go and forgive</li><li>Why forgiving yourself is so important</li><li>How culture leads to avoidance</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/oknac6cbt6jc53yhlzq8u/Carl-Jung-Quotes.pdf?rlkey=66do9kn0pkyrxjz08e2di8322&amp;dl=1"><strong>Carl Jung Quotes</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#84: Secret Communication Skills [Rebroadcast]</title>
      <itunes:episode>84</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>84</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#84: Secret Communication Skills [Rebroadcast]</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Problems that can arise from poor communication</li><li>A fly-over of a few of the communication skills we usually talk about</li><li>Never giving your power away</li><li>How to not give up in communication with others</li><li>Sharing your story in a vulnerable way</li><li>How to dig deeper in conversation with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Conflict Resolution</a> (Episode #41)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/_w6PcOzIm7A">New Orleans Surprise Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U">If by Rudyard Kipling</a> - Read by Sir Michael Caine<br><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0">Do it Anyway</a> by Mother Teresa<br><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo">How Did You Die</a> by Edmund Vance Cooke<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Problems that can arise from poor communication</li><li>A fly-over of a few of the communication skills we usually talk about</li><li>Never giving your power away</li><li>How to not give up in communication with others</li><li>Sharing your story in a vulnerable way</li><li>How to dig deeper in conversation with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Conflict Resolution</a> (Episode #41)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/_w6PcOzIm7A">New Orleans Surprise Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U">If by Rudyard Kipling</a> - Read by Sir Michael Caine<br><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0">Do it Anyway</a> by Mother Teresa<br><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo">How Did You Die</a> by Edmund Vance Cooke<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Problems that can arise from poor communication</li><li>A fly-over of a few of the communication skills we usually talk about</li><li>Never giving your power away</li><li>How to not give up in communication with others</li><li>Sharing your story in a vulnerable way</li><li>How to dig deeper in conversation with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Conflict Resolution</a> (Episode #41)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/_w6PcOzIm7A">New Orleans Surprise Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U">If by Rudyard Kipling</a> - Read by Sir Michael Caine<br><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0">Do it Anyway</a> by Mother Teresa<br><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo">How Did You Die</a> by Edmund Vance Cooke<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#83: Develop a Positive Perspective</title>
      <itunes:episode>83</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>83</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#83: Develop a Positive Perspective</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Our brains are wired against us sometimes.  It tries to protect us, but often puts us on the defensive.  Today we take back our perspective and build positivity into our lives.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Confirmation bias and negativity bias</li><li>Looking for evidence that things can go right</li><li>Living in the moment and enjoying it</li><li>What you focus on grows</li><li>Facing the core issues in your life relentlessly</li><li>Engaging in meditative practices to gain clarity</li><li>What might you be avoiding?</li><li>Ask what the opportunities are</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/"><strong>How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Our brains are wired against us sometimes.  It tries to protect us, but often puts us on the defensive.  Today we take back our perspective and build positivity into our lives.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Confirmation bias and negativity bias</li><li>Looking for evidence that things can go right</li><li>Living in the moment and enjoying it</li><li>What you focus on grows</li><li>Facing the core issues in your life relentlessly</li><li>Engaging in meditative practices to gain clarity</li><li>What might you be avoiding?</li><li>Ask what the opportunities are</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/"><strong>How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2415</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Our brains are wired against us sometimes.  It tries to protect us, but often puts us on the defensive.  Today we take back our perspective and build positivity into our lives.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Confirmation bias and negativity bias</li><li>Looking for evidence that things can go right</li><li>Living in the moment and enjoying it</li><li>What you focus on grows</li><li>Facing the core issues in your life relentlessly</li><li>Engaging in meditative practices to gain clarity</li><li>What might you be avoiding?</li><li>Ask what the opportunities are</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/"><strong>How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#82: Never Give Your Power Away</title>
      <itunes:episode>82</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>82</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#82: Never Give Your Power Away</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Often the circumstances in our lives can try to derail us completely.  Just a few weeks ago I was involved in a fender bender.  No one was hurt, but it could have easily caused me to give my power.  Today I want to explore four key facts to ensure that you don’t give power away to your circumstances.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Who or what do you give your power away to?</li><li>You have power over your thoughts (but not control)</li><li>Staying productively busy</li><li>How neurofeedback works</li><li>You have power over your emotions (but not control)</li><li>Figuring out the root of your emotions</li><li>You have power over your response to others</li><li>Just try your best when you get flustered</li><li>Asking clarifying questions</li><li>Create an intentional or planned response</li><li>You have power over the actions that you take</li><li>Actions are your own responsibility</li><li>The “No Snooze Button” promise</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Neurofeedback</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.mendi.io/"><strong>Mendi</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.myndlift.com/"><strong>Myndlift</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/81"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #81: One Small Massive Radical Change </strong></a><strong>on</strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000620744143"><strong> Apple</strong></a><strong> &amp; </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6RUusyynCLGmTPB6LbsLbA?si=DOQ4BAlDQ42OfaA0xxOHSQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><strong> &amp; </strong><a href="https://youtu.be/5plNWZ3-K6A"><strong>YouTube</strong></a><strong> (full episode video)</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Often the circumstances in our lives can try to derail us completely.  Just a few weeks ago I was involved in a fender bender.  No one was hurt, but it could have easily caused me to give my power.  Today I want to explore four key facts to ensure that you don’t give power away to your circumstances.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Who or what do you give your power away to?</li><li>You have power over your thoughts (but not control)</li><li>Staying productively busy</li><li>How neurofeedback works</li><li>You have power over your emotions (but not control)</li><li>Figuring out the root of your emotions</li><li>You have power over your response to others</li><li>Just try your best when you get flustered</li><li>Asking clarifying questions</li><li>Create an intentional or planned response</li><li>You have power over the actions that you take</li><li>Actions are your own responsibility</li><li>The “No Snooze Button” promise</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Neurofeedback</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.mendi.io/"><strong>Mendi</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.myndlift.com/"><strong>Myndlift</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/81"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #81: One Small Massive Radical Change </strong></a><strong>on</strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000620744143"><strong> Apple</strong></a><strong> &amp; </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6RUusyynCLGmTPB6LbsLbA?si=DOQ4BAlDQ42OfaA0xxOHSQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><strong> &amp; </strong><a href="https://youtu.be/5plNWZ3-K6A"><strong>YouTube</strong></a><strong> (full episode video)</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1943</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Often the circumstances in our lives can try to derail us completely.  Just a few weeks ago I was involved in a fender bender.  No one was hurt, but it could have easily caused me to give my power.  Today I want to explore four key facts to ensure that you don’t give power away to your circumstances.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Who or what do you give your power away to?</li><li>You have power over your thoughts (but not control)</li><li>Staying productively busy</li><li>How neurofeedback works</li><li>You have power over your emotions (but not control)</li><li>Figuring out the root of your emotions</li><li>You have power over your response to others</li><li>Just try your best when you get flustered</li><li>Asking clarifying questions</li><li>Create an intentional or planned response</li><li>You have power over the actions that you take</li><li>Actions are your own responsibility</li><li>The “No Snooze Button” promise</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Neurofeedback</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.mendi.io/"><strong>Mendi</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.myndlift.com/"><strong>Myndlift</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/81"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #81: One Small Massive Radical Change </strong></a><strong>on</strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000620744143"><strong> Apple</strong></a><strong> &amp; </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6RUusyynCLGmTPB6LbsLbA?si=DOQ4BAlDQ42OfaA0xxOHSQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><strong> &amp; </strong><a href="https://youtu.be/5plNWZ3-K6A"><strong>YouTube</strong></a><strong> (full episode video)</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#81: One Small Massive Fanatical Change</title>
      <itunes:episode>81</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>81</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’m a fan of several sports teams: Oakland A’s and the Oregon Ducks.  But I wouldn’t classify myself as a fanatic.  Today we are going to dive into one fanatical thing you can do to make a massive impact on your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is a change you keep putting off</li><li>What do you want the most</li><li>Commit to one small change for 7 straight days</li><li>Create clarity</li><li>How will you feel with this change</li><li>What are your biggest obstacles</li><li>Identify the positive triggers</li><li>The if/then strategy</li><li>Who can support you?</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’m a fan of several sports teams: Oakland A’s and the Oregon Ducks.  But I wouldn’t classify myself as a fanatic.  Today we are going to dive into one fanatical thing you can do to make a massive impact on your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is a change you keep putting off</li><li>What do you want the most</li><li>Commit to one small change for 7 straight days</li><li>Create clarity</li><li>How will you feel with this change</li><li>What are your biggest obstacles</li><li>Identify the positive triggers</li><li>The if/then strategy</li><li>Who can support you?</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>990</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’m a fan of several sports teams: Oakland A’s and the Oregon Ducks.  But I wouldn’t classify myself as a fanatic.  Today we are going to dive into one fanatical thing you can do to make a massive impact on your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What is a change you keep putting off</li><li>What do you want the most</li><li>Commit to one small change for 7 straight days</li><li>Create clarity</li><li>How will you feel with this change</li><li>What are your biggest obstacles</li><li>Identify the positive triggers</li><li>The if/then strategy</li><li>Who can support you?</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#80: Make Yourself a Priority</title>
      <itunes:episode>80</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>80</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#80: Make Yourself a Priority</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Where does your time and talents go?  Where we spend these items indicates what we place a priority on.  But to remain balanced and healthy you must ensure you regularly make your own self-care a priority.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens when we make our priorities</li><li>Don’t let self-care become urgent and critical</li><li>The danger of tunnel vision</li><li>Confusing selfish v. selfless</li><li>Have faith rather than fear</li><li>Trust your intuition</li><li>Be disciplined</li><li>Create a time budget/diary</li><li>Plan things into your schedule</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/"><strong>How to Make Good Decisions (post)</strong></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/4-life-changing-books-i-hope-you-read/"><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/Wby3n-GAt8w"><strong>4 Quadrants Time Management Tool Explained</strong></a><strong> (video) by Adam Graggs</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/22"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #22: Trusting Your Intuitiion</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/22-trusting-your-intuition/id1512950050?i=1000516990312"><strong>Apple</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4M1bHf1vkeTJW9MvAFyZzE?si=PFgPhaNOQsWsD5OJhfsF2g"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Where does your time and talents go?  Where we spend these items indicates what we place a priority on.  But to remain balanced and healthy you must ensure you regularly make your own self-care a priority.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens when we make our priorities</li><li>Don’t let self-care become urgent and critical</li><li>The danger of tunnel vision</li><li>Confusing selfish v. selfless</li><li>Have faith rather than fear</li><li>Trust your intuition</li><li>Be disciplined</li><li>Create a time budget/diary</li><li>Plan things into your schedule</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/"><strong>How to Make Good Decisions (post)</strong></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/4-life-changing-books-i-hope-you-read/"><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/Wby3n-GAt8w"><strong>4 Quadrants Time Management Tool Explained</strong></a><strong> (video) by Adam Graggs</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/22"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #22: Trusting Your Intuitiion</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/22-trusting-your-intuition/id1512950050?i=1000516990312"><strong>Apple</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4M1bHf1vkeTJW9MvAFyZzE?si=PFgPhaNOQsWsD5OJhfsF2g"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Where does your time and talents go?  Where we spend these items indicates what we place a priority on.  But to remain balanced and healthy you must ensure you regularly make your own self-care a priority.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens when we make our priorities</li><li>Don’t let self-care become urgent and critical</li><li>The danger of tunnel vision</li><li>Confusing selfish v. selfless</li><li>Have faith rather than fear</li><li>Trust your intuition</li><li>Be disciplined</li><li>Create a time budget/diary</li><li>Plan things into your schedule</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/"><strong>How to Make Good Decisions (post)</strong></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/4-life-changing-books-i-hope-you-read/"><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/Wby3n-GAt8w"><strong>4 Quadrants Time Management Tool Explained</strong></a><strong> (video) by Adam Graggs</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/22"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #22: Trusting Your Intuitiion</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/22-trusting-your-intuition/id1512950050?i=1000516990312"><strong>Apple</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4M1bHf1vkeTJW9MvAFyZzE?si=PFgPhaNOQsWsD5OJhfsF2g"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Someone once asked me what the best advice I would give on relationships if I only had a minute.  And that question was in my head for an entire week.  Today I want to share with you my biggest two pieces of advice to mend your closest relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The damage of avoidance and withdrawal</li><li>Actions v. intentions</li><li>The defensiveness trigger</li><li>What inconvenience communicates</li><li>Blame the right thing (go to the source)</li><li>How is the avoidance connected to the past</li><li>What happens when you believe your assumptions</li><li>Ask for more clarity and be curious</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/78"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #78: Get You Mind to Shut Up </strong></a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000617820018"> </a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000616790528"><strong>Apple</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4hLJUALuEREeA7G8jtQM7u?si=0nhTrzLGT7uzb3pV9s5DtA"><strong>Spotify</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://youtu.be/lHmatJS03_4"><strong>YouTube</strong></a> (full episode video)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/62"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #62: Building Trust with Others</strong> </a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000602025285"> <strong>Apple</strong> </a>&amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5jYa0Vp6oGruy5s3BXzqSE?si=DzV-aslhQ861-d8zcyDwkQ"> <strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #50: A Big Mistake Most People Make </strong></a>on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000587089119"><strong>Apple</strong> </a>on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6wRTmMnR6eG8XBoV6A9xNc?si=12b94a653ed64afe"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42TvcVf"><strong>Man's Search for Meaning</strong></a> by Viktor E. Frankl</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Someone once asked me what the best advice I would give on relationships if I only had a minute.  And that question was in my head for an entire week.  Today I want to share with you my biggest two pieces of advice to mend your closest relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The damage of avoidance and withdrawal</li><li>Actions v. intentions</li><li>The defensiveness trigger</li><li>What inconvenience communicates</li><li>Blame the right thing (go to the source)</li><li>How is the avoidance connected to the past</li><li>What happens when you believe your assumptions</li><li>Ask for more clarity and be curious</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/78"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #78: Get You Mind to Shut Up </strong></a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000617820018"> </a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000616790528"><strong>Apple</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4hLJUALuEREeA7G8jtQM7u?si=0nhTrzLGT7uzb3pV9s5DtA"><strong>Spotify</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://youtu.be/lHmatJS03_4"><strong>YouTube</strong></a> (full episode video)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/62"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #62: Building Trust with Others</strong> </a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000602025285"> <strong>Apple</strong> </a>&amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5jYa0Vp6oGruy5s3BXzqSE?si=DzV-aslhQ861-d8zcyDwkQ"> <strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #50: A Big Mistake Most People Make </strong></a>on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000587089119"><strong>Apple</strong> </a>on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6wRTmMnR6eG8XBoV6A9xNc?si=12b94a653ed64afe"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42TvcVf"><strong>Man's Search for Meaning</strong></a> by Viktor E. Frankl</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Someone once asked me what the best advice I would give on relationships if I only had a minute.  And that question was in my head for an entire week.  Today I want to share with you my biggest two pieces of advice to mend your closest relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The damage of avoidance and withdrawal</li><li>Actions v. intentions</li><li>The defensiveness trigger</li><li>What inconvenience communicates</li><li>Blame the right thing (go to the source)</li><li>How is the avoidance connected to the past</li><li>What happens when you believe your assumptions</li><li>Ask for more clarity and be curious</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/78"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #78: Get You Mind to Shut Up </strong></a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000617820018"> </a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000616790528"><strong>Apple</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4hLJUALuEREeA7G8jtQM7u?si=0nhTrzLGT7uzb3pV9s5DtA"><strong>Spotify</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://youtu.be/lHmatJS03_4"><strong>YouTube</strong></a> (full episode video)</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/62"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #62: Building Trust with Others</strong> </a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000602025285"> <strong>Apple</strong> </a>&amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5jYa0Vp6oGruy5s3BXzqSE?si=DzV-aslhQ861-d8zcyDwkQ"> <strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #50: A Big Mistake Most People Make </strong></a>on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000587089119"><strong>Apple</strong> </a>on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6wRTmMnR6eG8XBoV6A9xNc?si=12b94a653ed64afe"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42TvcVf"><strong>Man's Search for Meaning</strong></a> by Viktor E. Frankl</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whenever something good happens my first reaction is surprise and excitement.  But almost immediately after, my inner monologue chimes in and starts spreading lies.  It doesn’t have to be that way and today we’ll explore why the voice exists and what you can do to make it shut up.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The book that I recommend to so many people</li><li>What is something you keep putting off?</li><li>The Inner Roommate</li><li>How the past informs our inner voice</li><li>Why safety is at odds with what’s best for us</li><li>Being response-able</li><li>The four things you can do to shut the voice up</li><li>Increase your awareness</li><li>Turning down the volume</li><li>Call B.S. when necessary</li><li>Being compassionate to yourself</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Recommended Books</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3lCq2tp"><strong>The Untethered Soul</strong> by Michael Singer</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3Pig14J"><strong>Soundtracks</strong></a> by Jon Acuff</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3NDT7Dt"><strong>Feel the Fear &amp; Do It Anyway</strong></a> by Susan Jeffers</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3Xg3wZc"><strong>The 4:8 Principle</strong></a> by Tommy Newberry</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3CFsvfm"><strong>Winning the War in Your Mind</strong></a> by Craig Groeschel</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42N6zt7"><strong>The Magic of Thinking Big</strong></a> by Richard Schwartz</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Podcast &amp; More on Journaling</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #56: How to Organize Your Thoughts</strong></a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"> </a>on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000594884092"><strong>Apple</strong> </a>on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Su6kIWWtZbxOapC5Snc8i?si=1wJjevqiQJ2eCXSf61monQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/100-journaling-prompts-for-reflection-insight/"><strong>100 Journaling Prompts for Reflection &amp; Insight (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/"><strong>How to Journal for Self-Improvement (post)</strong></a> by Darius Foroux</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whenever something good happens my first reaction is surprise and excitement.  But almost immediately after, my inner monologue chimes in and starts spreading lies.  It doesn’t have to be that way and today we’ll explore why the voice exists and what you can do to make it shut up.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The book that I recommend to so many people</li><li>What is something you keep putting off?</li><li>The Inner Roommate</li><li>How the past informs our inner voice</li><li>Why safety is at odds with what’s best for us</li><li>Being response-able</li><li>The four things you can do to shut the voice up</li><li>Increase your awareness</li><li>Turning down the volume</li><li>Call B.S. when necessary</li><li>Being compassionate to yourself</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Recommended Books</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3lCq2tp"><strong>The Untethered Soul</strong> by Michael Singer</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3Pig14J"><strong>Soundtracks</strong></a> by Jon Acuff</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3NDT7Dt"><strong>Feel the Fear &amp; Do It Anyway</strong></a> by Susan Jeffers</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3Xg3wZc"><strong>The 4:8 Principle</strong></a> by Tommy Newberry</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3CFsvfm"><strong>Winning the War in Your Mind</strong></a> by Craig Groeschel</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42N6zt7"><strong>The Magic of Thinking Big</strong></a> by Richard Schwartz</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Podcast &amp; More on Journaling</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #56: How to Organize Your Thoughts</strong></a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"> </a>on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000594884092"><strong>Apple</strong> </a>on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Su6kIWWtZbxOapC5Snc8i?si=1wJjevqiQJ2eCXSf61monQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/100-journaling-prompts-for-reflection-insight/"><strong>100 Journaling Prompts for Reflection &amp; Insight (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/"><strong>How to Journal for Self-Improvement (post)</strong></a> by Darius Foroux</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 21 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whenever something good happens my first reaction is surprise and excitement.  But almost immediately after, my inner monologue chimes in and starts spreading lies.  It doesn’t have to be that way and today we’ll explore why the voice exists and what you can do to make it shut up.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The book that I recommend to so many people</li><li>What is something you keep putting off?</li><li>The Inner Roommate</li><li>How the past informs our inner voice</li><li>Why safety is at odds with what’s best for us</li><li>Being response-able</li><li>The four things you can do to shut the voice up</li><li>Increase your awareness</li><li>Turning down the volume</li><li>Call B.S. when necessary</li><li>Being compassionate to yourself</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><strong>Recommended Books</strong></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3lCq2tp"><strong>The Untethered Soul</strong> by Michael Singer</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3Pig14J"><strong>Soundtracks</strong></a> by Jon Acuff</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3NDT7Dt"><strong>Feel the Fear &amp; Do It Anyway</strong></a> by Susan Jeffers</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3Xg3wZc"><strong>The 4:8 Principle</strong></a> by Tommy Newberry</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/3CFsvfm"><strong>Winning the War in Your Mind</strong></a> by Craig Groeschel</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/42N6zt7"><strong>The Magic of Thinking Big</strong></a> by Richard Schwartz</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Podcast &amp; More on Journaling</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #56: How to Organize Your Thoughts</strong></a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"> </a>on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000594884092"><strong>Apple</strong> </a>on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Su6kIWWtZbxOapC5Snc8i?si=1wJjevqiQJ2eCXSf61monQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/100-journaling-prompts-for-reflection-insight/"><strong>100 Journaling Prompts for Reflection &amp; Insight (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/"><strong>How to Journal for Self-Improvement (post)</strong></a> by Darius Foroux</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Corporate &amp; Group Workshops</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#77: Helping Others Who Are Struggling</title>
      <itunes:episode>77</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>77</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We just finished mental health month and you might be thinking about some people around you that you know are struggling.  Even though we sometimes feel like we can’t do anything, little things can make a big difference and we’re going to talk about how to provide that help.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Learning to listen and validate others</li><li>Asking open ended questions</li><li>Getting your heart right</li><li>Directly ask how you can help them</li><li>Make an offer</li><li>Find out what they have tried already</li><li>Help them change their perspective</li><li>Support their pursuit of action</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Getting to Know You Activity</strong></p><p>I guarantee there is much you will never learn about those you're close to unless you ask. You WILL be surprised by what you discover from asking some of the questions on this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/cb79hg2pg0023c4/Getting%20to%20Know%20Your%20Family.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Getting to Know Your Family</strong></a> question list. Start with the questions you're <strong>most</strong> <strong>genuinely curious</strong> to learn about the other person. It’s fine if they want to pass or not answer. Consider making an audio or video recording of these interviews for others to enjoy.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/anyone-can-struggle-with-depression-part-1/"><strong>A Secret to Overcoming Depression (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/anxiety-can-impact-anyone-part-1/"><strong>Coping with Anxiety (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We just finished mental health month and you might be thinking about some people around you that you know are struggling.  Even though we sometimes feel like we can’t do anything, little things can make a big difference and we’re going to talk about how to provide that help.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Learning to listen and validate others</li><li>Asking open ended questions</li><li>Getting your heart right</li><li>Directly ask how you can help them</li><li>Make an offer</li><li>Find out what they have tried already</li><li>Help them change their perspective</li><li>Support their pursuit of action</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Getting to Know You Activity</strong></p><p>I guarantee there is much you will never learn about those you're close to unless you ask. You WILL be surprised by what you discover from asking some of the questions on this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/cb79hg2pg0023c4/Getting%20to%20Know%20Your%20Family.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Getting to Know Your Family</strong></a> question list. Start with the questions you're <strong>most</strong> <strong>genuinely curious</strong> to learn about the other person. It’s fine if they want to pass or not answer. Consider making an audio or video recording of these interviews for others to enjoy.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/anyone-can-struggle-with-depression-part-1/"><strong>A Secret to Overcoming Depression (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/anxiety-can-impact-anyone-part-1/"><strong>Coping with Anxiety (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We just finished mental health month and you might be thinking about some people around you that you know are struggling.  Even though we sometimes feel like we can’t do anything, little things can make a big difference and we’re going to talk about how to provide that help.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Learning to listen and validate others</li><li>Asking open ended questions</li><li>Getting your heart right</li><li>Directly ask how you can help them</li><li>Make an offer</li><li>Find out what they have tried already</li><li>Help them change their perspective</li><li>Support their pursuit of action</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Getting to Know You Activity</strong></p><p>I guarantee there is much you will never learn about those you're close to unless you ask. You WILL be surprised by what you discover from asking some of the questions on this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/cb79hg2pg0023c4/Getting%20to%20Know%20Your%20Family.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Getting to Know Your Family</strong></a> question list. Start with the questions you're <strong>most</strong> <strong>genuinely curious</strong> to learn about the other person. It’s fine if they want to pass or not answer. Consider making an audio or video recording of these interviews for others to enjoy.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/anyone-can-struggle-with-depression-part-1/"><strong>A Secret to Overcoming Depression (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/anxiety-can-impact-anyone-part-1/"><strong>Coping with Anxiety (post) </strong></a>by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#76: Travel and Your Mental Health</title>
      <itunes:episode>76</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>76</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#76: Travel and Your Mental Health</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s a very special episode of the podcast as we are coming to you live from Italy!  I’m joined by travel expert (and my sister) Erica Gragg and my travel savvy daughter, Emerson.  We explore how you can get the most for your mental health through the joy and discovery of travel.  On this episode we discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>00:00:00 "Exploring the Benefits of Travel on Mental Health with Adam Gragg"</p><p>00:03:00 Exploring Mental Health and Travel</p><p>00:06:00 Packing Light for International Trips</p><p>00:09:00 Favorite Travel Destinations and Overcoming Jet Lag</p><p>00:12:00 How to Make the Most of a Transformative Travel Experience</p><p>00:15:00 Journaling to Let Go of Stress and Worry</p><p>00:16:00 Balancing Business and Pleasure During Travel</p><p>00:18:00 Benefits of Small Group Adventures in Wellness with Escape Artists Travel</p><p>00:19:00 Planning a Trip with Friends</p><p>00:22:00 Exploring the Benefits of Flexible Travel Planning</p><p>00:24:00 Managing Anxiety in Stressful Situations</p><p>00:28:00 Exploring Mental Health and Spiritual Growth Through Travel</p><p>00:29:00 Enhancing Spiritual Experiences Through Travel</p><p>00:32:00 Mindfulness and Overcoming Stressful Travel Experiences</p><p>00:34:00 Overcoming Fear of Traveling</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fssdl7z88jil4f6/AAAT9OQ4QKYlX8iKk1KxlndNa?dl=0">VENICE, ITALY </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fssdl7z88jil4f6/AAAT9OQ4QKYlX8iKk1KxlndNa?dl=0"> PICTURES</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/100-journaling-prompts-for-reflection-insight/"><strong>100 Journaling Prompts for Reflection &amp; Insight (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/"><strong>How to Journal for Self-Improvement (post)</strong></a> by Darius Foroux</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>Summary/Abstract</p><p><br></p><p>Adam Gragg begins by encouraging listeners to rate and review the podcast to help it grow organically. He then introduces the topic of today's episode: how travel can improve mental health and transform one's life. To illustrate this, he shares two risks he has taken recently: playing at a men's golf club and not having enough money to pay for his round of golf. Despite feeling embarrassed and the eye-roll from one of the players, Adam had a great time. He believes that taking risks and doing new things is a great way to improve one's mental health. Adam Gragg is a legacy coach.</p><p><br></p><p>The speaker is a mental health professional who helps people find clarity that allows them to face their fears and live out their desired legacy. He encourages listeners to think of themselves as both students and teachers and challenges them to describe a goal to a six year old. He then introduces two special guests: his sister Erica, who has traveled to over 85 countries and is rated by Conde Nast as one of the top travel experts, and his 16 year old daughter Emerson, who has been to Europe twice and all over the US. The speaker wants listeners to think of a place they want to travel to and write down their biggest fears about it. He and Emerson recently went on an RV trip around Utah.</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation between the hosts and Erica Gragg began with them discussing her travels over the past year. She has now visited ninety countries, the most recent being Egypt. She was captivated by the culture and history of the country, particularly the pyramids of Giza. They then discussed Colorado National Parks, and how she had trouble packing light for the trip. She mentioned she will have to do that for her school's trip to Ireland, Scotland, and Great Britain. They then talked about how they were currently in Venice, enjoying their stay at the Centurion Hotel, and their plans to also visit Verona and Milan before flying back to the U.S.</p><p><br></p><p>Erica and Adam have a conversation about the most exotic places Erica has visited. She has been to Egypt, Morocco, Turkey, Greece, Italy, and Tanzania. She has plans to go to Bhutan, Rwanda, Botswana, and some new islands in Greece. She also recently visited the Dolomites in Italy. Adam jokes that the longer he is in Italy, the more his accent becomes Italian.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s a very special episode of the podcast as we are coming to you live from Italy!  I’m joined by travel expert (and my sister) Erica Gragg and my travel savvy daughter, Emerson.  We explore how you can get the most for your mental health through the joy and discovery of travel.  On this episode we discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>00:00:00 "Exploring the Benefits of Travel on Mental Health with Adam Gragg"</p><p>00:03:00 Exploring Mental Health and Travel</p><p>00:06:00 Packing Light for International Trips</p><p>00:09:00 Favorite Travel Destinations and Overcoming Jet Lag</p><p>00:12:00 How to Make the Most of a Transformative Travel Experience</p><p>00:15:00 Journaling to Let Go of Stress and Worry</p><p>00:16:00 Balancing Business and Pleasure During Travel</p><p>00:18:00 Benefits of Small Group Adventures in Wellness with Escape Artists Travel</p><p>00:19:00 Planning a Trip with Friends</p><p>00:22:00 Exploring the Benefits of Flexible Travel Planning</p><p>00:24:00 Managing Anxiety in Stressful Situations</p><p>00:28:00 Exploring Mental Health and Spiritual Growth Through Travel</p><p>00:29:00 Enhancing Spiritual Experiences Through Travel</p><p>00:32:00 Mindfulness and Overcoming Stressful Travel Experiences</p><p>00:34:00 Overcoming Fear of Traveling</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fssdl7z88jil4f6/AAAT9OQ4QKYlX8iKk1KxlndNa?dl=0">VENICE, ITALY </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fssdl7z88jil4f6/AAAT9OQ4QKYlX8iKk1KxlndNa?dl=0"> PICTURES</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/100-journaling-prompts-for-reflection-insight/"><strong>100 Journaling Prompts for Reflection &amp; Insight (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/"><strong>How to Journal for Self-Improvement (post)</strong></a> by Darius Foroux</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>Summary/Abstract</p><p><br></p><p>Adam Gragg begins by encouraging listeners to rate and review the podcast to help it grow organically. He then introduces the topic of today's episode: how travel can improve mental health and transform one's life. To illustrate this, he shares two risks he has taken recently: playing at a men's golf club and not having enough money to pay for his round of golf. Despite feeling embarrassed and the eye-roll from one of the players, Adam had a great time. He believes that taking risks and doing new things is a great way to improve one's mental health. Adam Gragg is a legacy coach.</p><p><br></p><p>The speaker is a mental health professional who helps people find clarity that allows them to face their fears and live out their desired legacy. He encourages listeners to think of themselves as both students and teachers and challenges them to describe a goal to a six year old. He then introduces two special guests: his sister Erica, who has traveled to over 85 countries and is rated by Conde Nast as one of the top travel experts, and his 16 year old daughter Emerson, who has been to Europe twice and all over the US. The speaker wants listeners to think of a place they want to travel to and write down their biggest fears about it. He and Emerson recently went on an RV trip around Utah.</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation between the hosts and Erica Gragg began with them discussing her travels over the past year. She has now visited ninety countries, the most recent being Egypt. She was captivated by the culture and history of the country, particularly the pyramids of Giza. They then discussed Colorado National Parks, and how she had trouble packing light for the trip. She mentioned she will have to do that for her school's trip to Ireland, Scotland, and Great Britain. They then talked about how they were currently in Venice, enjoying their stay at the Centurion Hotel, and their plans to also visit Verona and Milan before flying back to the U.S.</p><p><br></p><p>Erica and Adam have a conversation about the most exotic places Erica has visited. She has been to Egypt, Morocco, Turkey, Greece, Italy, and Tanzania. She has plans to go to Bhutan, Rwanda, Botswana, and some new islands in Greece. She also recently visited the Dolomites in Italy. Adam jokes that the longer he is in Italy, the more his accent becomes Italian.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It’s a very special episode of the podcast as we are coming to you live from Italy!  I’m joined by travel expert (and my sister) Erica Gragg and my travel savvy daughter, Emerson.  We explore how you can get the most for your mental health through the joy and discovery of travel.  On this episode we discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>00:00:00 "Exploring the Benefits of Travel on Mental Health with Adam Gragg"</p><p>00:03:00 Exploring Mental Health and Travel</p><p>00:06:00 Packing Light for International Trips</p><p>00:09:00 Favorite Travel Destinations and Overcoming Jet Lag</p><p>00:12:00 How to Make the Most of a Transformative Travel Experience</p><p>00:15:00 Journaling to Let Go of Stress and Worry</p><p>00:16:00 Balancing Business and Pleasure During Travel</p><p>00:18:00 Benefits of Small Group Adventures in Wellness with Escape Artists Travel</p><p>00:19:00 Planning a Trip with Friends</p><p>00:22:00 Exploring the Benefits of Flexible Travel Planning</p><p>00:24:00 Managing Anxiety in Stressful Situations</p><p>00:28:00 Exploring Mental Health and Spiritual Growth Through Travel</p><p>00:29:00 Enhancing Spiritual Experiences Through Travel</p><p>00:32:00 Mindfulness and Overcoming Stressful Travel Experiences</p><p>00:34:00 Overcoming Fear of Traveling</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fssdl7z88jil4f6/AAAT9OQ4QKYlX8iKk1KxlndNa?dl=0">VENICE, ITALY </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fssdl7z88jil4f6/AAAT9OQ4QKYlX8iKk1KxlndNa?dl=0"> PICTURES</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/100-journaling-prompts-for-reflection-insight/"><strong>100 Journaling Prompts for Reflection &amp; Insight (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/"><strong>How to Journal for Self-Improvement (post)</strong></a> by Darius Foroux</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p><p>Summary/Abstract</p><p><br></p><p>Adam Gragg begins by encouraging listeners to rate and review the podcast to help it grow organically. He then introduces the topic of today's episode: how travel can improve mental health and transform one's life. To illustrate this, he shares two risks he has taken recently: playing at a men's golf club and not having enough money to pay for his round of golf. Despite feeling embarrassed and the eye-roll from one of the players, Adam had a great time. He believes that taking risks and doing new things is a great way to improve one's mental health. Adam Gragg is a legacy coach.</p><p><br></p><p>The speaker is a mental health professional who helps people find clarity that allows them to face their fears and live out their desired legacy. He encourages listeners to think of themselves as both students and teachers and challenges them to describe a goal to a six year old. He then introduces two special guests: his sister Erica, who has traveled to over 85 countries and is rated by Conde Nast as one of the top travel experts, and his 16 year old daughter Emerson, who has been to Europe twice and all over the US. The speaker wants listeners to think of a place they want to travel to and write down their biggest fears about it. He and Emerson recently went on an RV trip around Utah.</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation between the hosts and Erica Gragg began with them discussing her travels over the past year. She has now visited ninety countries, the most recent being Egypt. She was captivated by the culture and history of the country, particularly the pyramids of Giza. They then discussed Colorado National Parks, and how she had trouble packing light for the trip. She mentioned she will have to do that for her school's trip to Ireland, Scotland, and Great Britain. They then talked about how they were currently in Venice, enjoying their stay at the Centurion Hotel, and their plans to also visit Verona and Milan before flying back to the U.S.</p><p><br></p><p>Erica and Adam have a conversation about the most exotic places Erica has visited. She has been to Egypt, Morocco, Turkey, Greece, Italy, and Tanzania. She has plans to go to Bhutan, Rwanda, Botswana, and some new islands in Greece. She also recently visited the Dolomites in Italy. Adam jokes that the longer he is in Italy, the more his accent becomes Italian.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week Adam is joined by a special guest expert on travel (and his sister), Erica Gragg from Escape to Shape to talk about the three ways that travel can positively transform your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How Erica discovered her passion for travel</li><li>How she approaches travel in her business</li><li>Using travel to creating a shift in perspective</li><li>How fear drives us to pull away from things that are helpful</li><li>Becoming more flexible and open to new experiences</li><li>Travel revealing opportunity for growth</li><li>Getting started with travel through food</li></ul><p>See how Erica can help you with your travel needs!</p><p><a href="https://escapetoshape.com/">www.escapetoshape.com</a></p><p><a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">www.escapeartiststravel.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/28">Be More Spontaneous</a> (podcast)</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Travel-Book-Lonely-Planet/dp/1838694595?keywords=travel+book&amp;qid=1647029675&amp;sr=8-1-spons&amp;psc=1&amp;spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzSFRNSzVUVkQ4VVVBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwODI0NzI4MjdISEc4TzdORTgxVCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNTEyNjE1MU9JUldYM0xNVEc3SSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=9e205a39f9733ad6b85e81824a4e90ad&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">The Travel Book</a> by Lonely Planet</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week Adam is joined by a special guest expert on travel (and his sister), Erica Gragg from Escape to Shape to talk about the three ways that travel can positively transform your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How Erica discovered her passion for travel</li><li>How she approaches travel in her business</li><li>Using travel to creating a shift in perspective</li><li>How fear drives us to pull away from things that are helpful</li><li>Becoming more flexible and open to new experiences</li><li>Travel revealing opportunity for growth</li><li>Getting started with travel through food</li></ul><p>See how Erica can help you with your travel needs!</p><p><a href="https://escapetoshape.com/">www.escapetoshape.com</a></p><p><a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">www.escapeartiststravel.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/28">Be More Spontaneous</a> (podcast)</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Travel-Book-Lonely-Planet/dp/1838694595?keywords=travel+book&amp;qid=1647029675&amp;sr=8-1-spons&amp;psc=1&amp;spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzSFRNSzVUVkQ4VVVBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwODI0NzI4MjdISEc4TzdORTgxVCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNTEyNjE1MU9JUldYM0xNVEc3SSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=9e205a39f9733ad6b85e81824a4e90ad&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">The Travel Book</a> by Lonely Planet</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 30 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week Adam is joined by a special guest expert on travel (and his sister), Erica Gragg from Escape to Shape to talk about the three ways that travel can positively transform your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How Erica discovered her passion for travel</li><li>How she approaches travel in her business</li><li>Using travel to creating a shift in perspective</li><li>How fear drives us to pull away from things that are helpful</li><li>Becoming more flexible and open to new experiences</li><li>Travel revealing opportunity for growth</li><li>Getting started with travel through food</li></ul><p>See how Erica can help you with your travel needs!</p><p><a href="https://escapetoshape.com/">www.escapetoshape.com</a></p><p><a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">www.escapeartiststravel.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/28">Be More Spontaneous</a> (podcast)</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Travel-Book-Lonely-Planet/dp/1838694595?keywords=travel+book&amp;qid=1647029675&amp;sr=8-1-spons&amp;psc=1&amp;spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzSFRNSzVUVkQ4VVVBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwODI0NzI4MjdISEc4TzdORTgxVCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNTEyNjE1MU9JUldYM0xNVEc3SSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=9e205a39f9733ad6b85e81824a4e90ad&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">The Travel Book</a> by Lonely Planet</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#74: Overcome Your Addictions</title>
      <itunes:episode>74</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>74</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#74: Overcome Your Addictions</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>If left to my own devices I could be addicted to almost anything.  Today I want to break down why we get addicted and ways that we can overcome those addictions.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we become addicted</li><li>The benefits of overcoming addictions</li><li>Sympathetic v. Parasympathetic</li><li>What are you avoiding?</li><li>You must admit there is a problem</li><li>Create a regular schedule</li><li>Don’t go it alone</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/POiIzgXVSeQ"><strong>Who Are Your True Friends? (video)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #52: Pain is the Price of Freedom</strong></a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"><strong> </strong></a><strong>on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000590726096"><strong>Apple </strong></a><strong>on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Te5ic5QBUVHgMsC15EjU2?si=_CwQGo4tT-aJwvswcBLTpQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><strong>  </strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/PCwkgqqKPZs"><strong>Buster Douglas vs. Mike Tyson (1990)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>If left to my own devices I could be addicted to almost anything.  Today I want to break down why we get addicted and ways that we can overcome those addictions.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we become addicted</li><li>The benefits of overcoming addictions</li><li>Sympathetic v. Parasympathetic</li><li>What are you avoiding?</li><li>You must admit there is a problem</li><li>Create a regular schedule</li><li>Don’t go it alone</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/POiIzgXVSeQ"><strong>Who Are Your True Friends? (video)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #52: Pain is the Price of Freedom</strong></a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"><strong> </strong></a><strong>on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000590726096"><strong>Apple </strong></a><strong>on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Te5ic5QBUVHgMsC15EjU2?si=_CwQGo4tT-aJwvswcBLTpQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><strong>  </strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/PCwkgqqKPZs"><strong>Buster Douglas vs. Mike Tyson (1990)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>If left to my own devices I could be addicted to almost anything.  Today I want to break down why we get addicted and ways that we can overcome those addictions.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we become addicted</li><li>The benefits of overcoming addictions</li><li>Sympathetic v. Parasympathetic</li><li>What are you avoiding?</li><li>You must admit there is a problem</li><li>Create a regular schedule</li><li>Don’t go it alone</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/POiIzgXVSeQ"><strong>Who Are Your True Friends? (video)</strong></a><strong> by Adam Gragg</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #52: Pain is the Price of Freedom</strong></a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"><strong> </strong></a><strong>on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000590726096"><strong>Apple </strong></a><strong>on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Te5ic5QBUVHgMsC15EjU2?si=_CwQGo4tT-aJwvswcBLTpQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><strong>  </strong></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/PCwkgqqKPZs"><strong>Buster Douglas vs. Mike Tyson (1990)</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#73: How to Energize Yourself</title>
      <itunes:episode>73</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>73</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#73: How to Energize Yourself</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you feel depleted?  Like things around you are leaving you drained?  Today I want to explore how we can build energy into our lives so that we have the courage and capacity to achieve our goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Identify things that energize you and fills you up</li><li>The leaky cup</li><li>Emotional v. physical energy</li><li>How energy levels shift</li><li>What are your energy drains</li><li>The role anxiety plays in your energy level</li><li>Making a plan and be accountable</li><li>What you are good at and what you enjoy</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/zpkepxammsakzga/Drainers%20&amp;%20Energizers.pdf?dl=1"><strong>FILLS &amp; DRAINS WORKSHEET</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you feel depleted?  Like things around you are leaving you drained?  Today I want to explore how we can build energy into our lives so that we have the courage and capacity to achieve our goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Identify things that energize you and fills you up</li><li>The leaky cup</li><li>Emotional v. physical energy</li><li>How energy levels shift</li><li>What are your energy drains</li><li>The role anxiety plays in your energy level</li><li>Making a plan and be accountable</li><li>What you are good at and what you enjoy</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/zpkepxammsakzga/Drainers%20&amp;%20Energizers.pdf?dl=1"><strong>FILLS &amp; DRAINS WORKSHEET</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1703</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you feel depleted?  Like things around you are leaving you drained?  Today I want to explore how we can build energy into our lives so that we have the courage and capacity to achieve our goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Identify things that energize you and fills you up</li><li>The leaky cup</li><li>Emotional v. physical energy</li><li>How energy levels shift</li><li>What are your energy drains</li><li>The role anxiety plays in your energy level</li><li>Making a plan and be accountable</li><li>What you are good at and what you enjoy</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/zpkepxammsakzga/Drainers%20&amp;%20Energizers.pdf?dl=1"><strong>FILLS &amp; DRAINS WORKSHEET</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#72: Don't Compromise (Your Values)</title>
      <itunes:episode>72</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>72</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So I bought a car with cash, no loan required.  But something was nagging at me and I decided to return the vehicle within the 30-day window.  I discovered I was compromising my values by purchasing this vehicle and I want to share with you how to ensure you don’t compromise on your values.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why staying true to your values is so important</li><li>Identify your core values </li><li>What do other people believe your values are</li><li>Values are behaviors</li><li>Being willing to make adjustments</li><li>Take a personal inventory of your life</li><li>Be prepared for the temptations</li><li>The times you should not make decisions</li><li>Feeding your imagination by ruminating</li><li>Seek accountability</li><li>Share how your values are being lived out</li><li>Work your core values into your life</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #23: Core Values</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/23-core-values/id1512950050?i=1000523379616"><strong>Apple</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/69QC1m94T20AcNszjK6XlI?si=XLhaId8vQV2T7XdqX0ZrcA"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/POiIzgXVSeQ"><strong>Who Are Your True Friends?</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So I bought a car with cash, no loan required.  But something was nagging at me and I decided to return the vehicle within the 30-day window.  I discovered I was compromising my values by purchasing this vehicle and I want to share with you how to ensure you don’t compromise on your values.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why staying true to your values is so important</li><li>Identify your core values </li><li>What do other people believe your values are</li><li>Values are behaviors</li><li>Being willing to make adjustments</li><li>Take a personal inventory of your life</li><li>Be prepared for the temptations</li><li>The times you should not make decisions</li><li>Feeding your imagination by ruminating</li><li>Seek accountability</li><li>Share how your values are being lived out</li><li>Work your core values into your life</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #23: Core Values</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/23-core-values/id1512950050?i=1000523379616"><strong>Apple</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/69QC1m94T20AcNszjK6XlI?si=XLhaId8vQV2T7XdqX0ZrcA"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/POiIzgXVSeQ"><strong>Who Are Your True Friends?</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 09 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So I bought a car with cash, no loan required.  But something was nagging at me and I decided to return the vehicle within the 30-day window.  I discovered I was compromising my values by purchasing this vehicle and I want to share with you how to ensure you don’t compromise on your values.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why staying true to your values is so important</li><li>Identify your core values </li><li>What do other people believe your values are</li><li>Values are behaviors</li><li>Being willing to make adjustments</li><li>Take a personal inventory of your life</li><li>Be prepared for the temptations</li><li>The times you should not make decisions</li><li>Feeding your imagination by ruminating</li><li>Seek accountability</li><li>Share how your values are being lived out</li><li>Work your core values into your life</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #23: Core Values</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/23-core-values/id1512950050?i=1000523379616"><strong>Apple</strong></a><strong> on </strong><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/69QC1m94T20AcNszjK6XlI?si=XLhaId8vQV2T7XdqX0ZrcA"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/POiIzgXVSeQ"><strong>Who Are Your True Friends?</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you in a rut and not progressing forward?  You need to ask the right questions to expose what is keeping you stuck.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The things that are keeping you dissatisfied</li><li>How perfectionism kept me from making my first course</li><li>What would you do if you had no fear and 10x more courage?</li><li>Define what you want</li><li>Get clarity on what is creating the gap</li><li>What is the action that you can take</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/"><strong>My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/"><strong>20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-questions-that-can-positively-transform-your-relationship/"><strong>7 Questions That Can Positively Transform Your Relationship (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000474338236"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #2: The Decide Your Legacy Journey</strong></a> on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/2-the-decide-your-legacy-journey/id1512950050?i=1000474338236"><strong>Apple</strong></a> on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/1eFY1STDXvEFbkmSciHPmL?si=TEkmHCrlRr2Ba9MyOPo7IQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #3: Asking Great Question to Build Relationships</strong></a> on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-asking-great-questions-to-build-relationships/id1512950050?i=1000474338235"><strong>Apple</strong></a> on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6apISlbPxek49F8k4M0MFj?si=v-7WWL7NQUWOfTRFFRYz0g"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you in a rut and not progressing forward?  You need to ask the right questions to expose what is keeping you stuck.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The things that are keeping you dissatisfied</li><li>How perfectionism kept me from making my first course</li><li>What would you do if you had no fear and 10x more courage?</li><li>Define what you want</li><li>Get clarity on what is creating the gap</li><li>What is the action that you can take</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/"><strong>My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/"><strong>20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-questions-that-can-positively-transform-your-relationship/"><strong>7 Questions That Can Positively Transform Your Relationship (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000474338236"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #2: The Decide Your Legacy Journey</strong></a> on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/2-the-decide-your-legacy-journey/id1512950050?i=1000474338236"><strong>Apple</strong></a> on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/1eFY1STDXvEFbkmSciHPmL?si=TEkmHCrlRr2Ba9MyOPo7IQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #3: Asking Great Question to Build Relationships</strong></a> on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-asking-great-questions-to-build-relationships/id1512950050?i=1000474338235"><strong>Apple</strong></a> on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6apISlbPxek49F8k4M0MFj?si=v-7WWL7NQUWOfTRFFRYz0g"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 02 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you in a rut and not progressing forward?  You need to ask the right questions to expose what is keeping you stuck.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The things that are keeping you dissatisfied</li><li>How perfectionism kept me from making my first course</li><li>What would you do if you had no fear and 10x more courage?</li><li>Define what you want</li><li>Get clarity on what is creating the gap</li><li>What is the action that you can take</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/"><strong>My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/"><strong>20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-questions-that-can-positively-transform-your-relationship/"><strong>7 Questions That Can Positively Transform Your Relationship (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000474338236"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #2: The Decide Your Legacy Journey</strong></a> on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/2-the-decide-your-legacy-journey/id1512950050?i=1000474338236"><strong>Apple</strong></a> on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/1eFY1STDXvEFbkmSciHPmL?si=TEkmHCrlRr2Ba9MyOPo7IQ"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3"><strong>Decide Your Legacy Podcast #3: Asking Great Question to Build Relationships</strong></a> on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-asking-great-questions-to-build-relationships/id1512950050?i=1000474338235"><strong>Apple</strong></a> on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6apISlbPxek49F8k4M0MFj?si=v-7WWL7NQUWOfTRFFRYz0g"><strong>Spotify</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#70: Finding Value within Yourself</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This episode I wanted to build on last week and focus on how you can find value within yourself.  We look at three practical ways you can improve your self-concept and handle the trauma that is in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The difference between self-worth and self-concept</li><li>The role of critical people in our lives</li><li>Comparison v. inspiration</li><li>The lies we believe about ourselves</li><li>Your three closest friends</li><li>Being a friend to yourself</li><li>Cleaning up what’s on the inside</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://share.transistor.fm/s/e0a27bd9"><strong>Dealing with Disappointment (Podcast Episode 69)</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Self-Worth Activity<br>What are 4 qualities you like about yourself? Watch this <a href="https://vimeo.com/348377760/154af5c8ae"><strong>Your True Value Video</strong></a><strong> </strong>and complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20%28Self-Worth%29.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Your True Value Worksheet</strong></a>. Save it on your desktop, complete it, and email it back to me. Use this article <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/"><strong>A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</strong></a> as a guide as well. Consider getting input from friends and family on what they see as your positive intrinsic qualities. Post these qualities somewhere where you see them every day. (e.g mirror in the bathroom, your car dash, on the fridge, etc.)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This episode I wanted to build on last week and focus on how you can find value within yourself.  We look at three practical ways you can improve your self-concept and handle the trauma that is in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The difference between self-worth and self-concept</li><li>The role of critical people in our lives</li><li>Comparison v. inspiration</li><li>The lies we believe about ourselves</li><li>Your three closest friends</li><li>Being a friend to yourself</li><li>Cleaning up what’s on the inside</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://share.transistor.fm/s/e0a27bd9"><strong>Dealing with Disappointment (Podcast Episode 69)</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Self-Worth Activity<br>What are 4 qualities you like about yourself? Watch this <a href="https://vimeo.com/348377760/154af5c8ae"><strong>Your True Value Video</strong></a><strong> </strong>and complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20%28Self-Worth%29.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Your True Value Worksheet</strong></a>. Save it on your desktop, complete it, and email it back to me. Use this article <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/"><strong>A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</strong></a> as a guide as well. Consider getting input from friends and family on what they see as your positive intrinsic qualities. Post these qualities somewhere where you see them every day. (e.g mirror in the bathroom, your car dash, on the fridge, etc.)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This episode I wanted to build on last week and focus on how you can find value within yourself.  We look at three practical ways you can improve your self-concept and handle the trauma that is in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The difference between self-worth and self-concept</li><li>The role of critical people in our lives</li><li>Comparison v. inspiration</li><li>The lies we believe about ourselves</li><li>Your three closest friends</li><li>Being a friend to yourself</li><li>Cleaning up what’s on the inside</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://share.transistor.fm/s/e0a27bd9"><strong>Dealing with Disappointment (Podcast Episode 69)</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Self-Worth Activity<br>What are 4 qualities you like about yourself? Watch this <a href="https://vimeo.com/348377760/154af5c8ae"><strong>Your True Value Video</strong></a><strong> </strong>and complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20%28Self-Worth%29.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Your True Value Worksheet</strong></a>. Save it on your desktop, complete it, and email it back to me. Use this article <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/"><strong>A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</strong></a> as a guide as well. Consider getting input from friends and family on what they see as your positive intrinsic qualities. Post these qualities somewhere where you see them every day. (e.g mirror in the bathroom, your car dash, on the fridge, etc.)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Some days (weeks, months, years, etc.) just don’t turn out the way that we are hoping.  Honestly, I’m wrestling with some of that right now.  But today I want to share with you how I’m dealing with my own disappointment.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How do you define a close friend?</li><li>Process your feelings with trusted people</li><li>The value in seeking to understand others</li><li>Remember the good things in your life and practice gratitude</li><li>You must be specific</li><li>Do things you enjoy (even when you want to isolate yourself) and take care of yourself</li><li>Maintaining your energy level (energizers v. drainers)</li><li>Lower your expectations</li><li>Give back to your community</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Some days (weeks, months, years, etc.) just don’t turn out the way that we are hoping.  Honestly, I’m wrestling with some of that right now.  But today I want to share with you how I’m dealing with my own disappointment.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How do you define a close friend?</li><li>Process your feelings with trusted people</li><li>The value in seeking to understand others</li><li>Remember the good things in your life and practice gratitude</li><li>You must be specific</li><li>Do things you enjoy (even when you want to isolate yourself) and take care of yourself</li><li>Maintaining your energy level (energizers v. drainers)</li><li>Lower your expectations</li><li>Give back to your community</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Some days (weeks, months, years, etc.) just don’t turn out the way that we are hoping.  Honestly, I’m wrestling with some of that right now.  But today I want to share with you how I’m dealing with my own disappointment.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How do you define a close friend?</li><li>Process your feelings with trusted people</li><li>The value in seeking to understand others</li><li>Remember the good things in your life and practice gratitude</li><li>You must be specific</li><li>Do things you enjoy (even when you want to isolate yourself) and take care of yourself</li><li>Maintaining your energy level (energizers v. drainers)</li><li>Lower your expectations</li><li>Give back to your community</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/"><strong>25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/"><strong>30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#68: Time to Follow Through</title>
      <itunes:episode>68</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:title>#68: Time to Follow Through</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What would your life look like if you followed through on your commitments?  So much can be possible when you can take the action that allows you to pursue your goals.  Today we are going to get down to some actionable strategies that will allow you to move forward.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Become aware of your thoughts</li><li>Core beliefs you have about yourself</li><li>Power questions to become aware of your thinking</li><li>Learn to relax</li><li>Peace from your mind</li><li>Taking smaller incremental steps</li><li>Expose yourself to the fear holding you back</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/8gj74lrhru0vol3/CBT%20Cycle%20Graphic.png?dl=1">Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Cycle Graphic</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/60">Decide Your Legacy Podcast #62: Building Trust with Others </a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000602025285"> Apple </a>&amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5jYa0Vp6oGruy5s3BXzqSE?si=DzV-aslhQ861-d8zcyDwkQ"> Spotify</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What would your life look like if you followed through on your commitments?  So much can be possible when you can take the action that allows you to pursue your goals.  Today we are going to get down to some actionable strategies that will allow you to move forward.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Become aware of your thoughts</li><li>Core beliefs you have about yourself</li><li>Power questions to become aware of your thinking</li><li>Learn to relax</li><li>Peace from your mind</li><li>Taking smaller incremental steps</li><li>Expose yourself to the fear holding you back</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/8gj74lrhru0vol3/CBT%20Cycle%20Graphic.png?dl=1">Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Cycle Graphic</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/60">Decide Your Legacy Podcast #62: Building Trust with Others </a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000602025285"> Apple </a>&amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5jYa0Vp6oGruy5s3BXzqSE?si=DzV-aslhQ861-d8zcyDwkQ"> Spotify</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1978</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>What would your life look like if you followed through on your commitments?  So much can be possible when you can take the action that allows you to pursue your goals.  Today we are going to get down to some actionable strategies that will allow you to move forward.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Become aware of your thoughts</li><li>Core beliefs you have about yourself</li><li>Power questions to become aware of your thinking</li><li>Learn to relax</li><li>Peace from your mind</li><li>Taking smaller incremental steps</li><li>Expose yourself to the fear holding you back</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/8gj74lrhru0vol3/CBT%20Cycle%20Graphic.png?dl=1">Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Cycle Graphic</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/60">Decide Your Legacy Podcast #62: Building Trust with Others </a>on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000602025285"> Apple </a>&amp; <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5jYa0Vp6oGruy5s3BXzqSE?si=DzV-aslhQ861-d8zcyDwkQ"> Spotify</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p><strong><em>Adam Gragg</em></strong><em> is a </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/life-coaching/"><strong><em>Legacy Coach</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/blog/"><strong><em>Blogger</em></strong></a><em>,</em> <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050"><strong><em>Podcaster</em></strong></a><em>, </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/speaking-engagements-trainings/"><strong><em>Speaker</em></strong></a><em>, &amp; Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people &amp; organizations find </em><strong><em>transformational clarity</em></strong><em> that propels them forward to </em><strong><em>face their biggest fears</em></strong><em> to LIVE &amp; leave their </em><strong><em>chosen legacy</em></strong><em>. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION &amp; </em><strong><em>practical tools, practiced consistently,</em></strong><em> WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression &amp; trauma. Contact Adam </em><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong><em>HERE</em></strong></a><em>. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.</em></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#67: Performing Under Pressure</title>
      <itunes:episode>67</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>67</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#67: Performing Under Pressure</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whether in the office or on the field, young or old, it’s common for internal or external factors to create pressure that leads to anxiety.  I recently appeared as a guest on the Feel Better Be Better Show with my friends Nevada and Kaitlyn to talk about this very subject.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The art of letting go</li><li>The Magic Magnifying Mind</li><li>The difference between process and outcome</li><li>Training instead of trying</li><li>Staying in the game</li><li>Trusting your personal value</li><li>Not giving fear time to set in</li><li>Unspoken expectations</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>Check out the Feel Better Be Better Show on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feel-better-be-better-show/id1674927742">Apple</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6jssEnkByrSFyN5PHIvRaP">Spotify</a> or <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@kneticx">YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whether in the office or on the field, young or old, it’s common for internal or external factors to create pressure that leads to anxiety.  I recently appeared as a guest on the Feel Better Be Better Show with my friends Nevada and Kaitlyn to talk about this very subject.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The art of letting go</li><li>The Magic Magnifying Mind</li><li>The difference between process and outcome</li><li>Training instead of trying</li><li>Staying in the game</li><li>Trusting your personal value</li><li>Not giving fear time to set in</li><li>Unspoken expectations</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>Check out the Feel Better Be Better Show on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feel-better-be-better-show/id1674927742">Apple</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6jssEnkByrSFyN5PHIvRaP">Spotify</a> or <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@kneticx">YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>3602</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whether in the office or on the field, young or old, it’s common for internal or external factors to create pressure that leads to anxiety.  I recently appeared as a guest on the Feel Better Be Better Show with my friends Nevada and Kaitlyn to talk about this very subject.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The art of letting go</li><li>The Magic Magnifying Mind</li><li>The difference between process and outcome</li><li>Training instead of trying</li><li>Staying in the game</li><li>Trusting your personal value</li><li>Not giving fear time to set in</li><li>Unspoken expectations</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>Check out the Feel Better Be Better Show on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feel-better-be-better-show/id1674927742">Apple</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6jssEnkByrSFyN5PHIvRaP">Spotify</a> or <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@kneticx">YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#66: How to Believe in Yourself</title>
      <itunes:episode>66</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>66</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#66: How to Believe in Yourself</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We’ve all seen the “believe” sign on Ted Lasso and experienced the hope that it stirs inside us.  We aspire to be people who believe in ourselves and our capabilities, but how do we get there?  Today we chart a path to developing a strong belief in yourself.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The ways we put ourselves down</li><li>Accepting your past</li><li>Forgive those that have hurt you</li><li>Build positives into your life (big and small)</li><li>The act of building mastery</li><li>Shifting your focus to others</li><li>Identify what you truly like about yourself</li><li>Trusting your intuition and ignoring the noise</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/">30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Assertiveness Activity</strong></p><p>Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness Tool</a>. </p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Decide Your Legacy Podcast #47: Being Assertive with Difficult People / Situations</a> on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"> Apple</a> &amp;<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/7y2c6ypuRbhPWJerVnaBuB?si=edd4491851d34d72"> Spotify</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions (post)</a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/4-life-changing-books-i-hope-you-read/"> by Adam Gragg</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We’ve all seen the “believe” sign on Ted Lasso and experienced the hope that it stirs inside us.  We aspire to be people who believe in ourselves and our capabilities, but how do we get there?  Today we chart a path to developing a strong belief in yourself.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The ways we put ourselves down</li><li>Accepting your past</li><li>Forgive those that have hurt you</li><li>Build positives into your life (big and small)</li><li>The act of building mastery</li><li>Shifting your focus to others</li><li>Identify what you truly like about yourself</li><li>Trusting your intuition and ignoring the noise</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/">30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Assertiveness Activity</strong></p><p>Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness Tool</a>. </p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Decide Your Legacy Podcast #47: Being Assertive with Difficult People / Situations</a> on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"> Apple</a> &amp;<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/7y2c6ypuRbhPWJerVnaBuB?si=edd4491851d34d72"> Spotify</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions (post)</a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/4-life-changing-books-i-hope-you-read/"> by Adam Gragg</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1721</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We’ve all seen the “believe” sign on Ted Lasso and experienced the hope that it stirs inside us.  We aspire to be people who believe in ourselves and our capabilities, but how do we get there?  Today we chart a path to developing a strong belief in yourself.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The ways we put ourselves down</li><li>Accepting your past</li><li>Forgive those that have hurt you</li><li>Build positives into your life (big and small)</li><li>The act of building mastery</li><li>Shifting your focus to others</li><li>Identify what you truly like about yourself</li><li>Trusting your intuition and ignoring the noise</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/">30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Assertiveness Activity</strong></p><p>Select a specific interpersonal challenge you’re currently dealing with, will most likely face soon, or that you’ve unsuccessfully addressed in the past. Answer the questions for addressing this issue using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness Tool</a>. </p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Decide Your Legacy Podcast #47: Being Assertive with Difficult People / Situations</a> on<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000582254496"> Apple</a> &amp;<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/7y2c6ypuRbhPWJerVnaBuB?si=edd4491851d34d72"> Spotify</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/">How to Make Good Decisions (post)</a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/4-life-changing-books-i-hope-you-read/"> by Adam Gragg</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#65: Do You Really Know Your Family/Friends</title>
      <itunes:episode>65</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>65</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#65: Do You Really Know Your Family/Friends</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it’s easy to gloss over the fact that we don’t always know our family and friends nearly as well as we think.  But with every day there is a new opportunity to increase that connection in meaningful ways, whether focusing on the past or the future together.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The unexpected thing I learned about my dad</li><li>Focusing on creating meaningful experiences together</li><li>Creating keepsakes to deepen connection</li><li>Being there when they really need you</li><li>Interviewing family members (and not making it weird)</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.joincake.com/blog/family-questions/">40 Thought-Provoking Questions to Ask Your Family</a></p><p><br>Clients create a <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/9wb9f712ofpqas1/Legacy%20Plan%20Sam%20Sample.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Legacy Plan</strong></a><strong> </strong>which is a guiding document we co-create and use to stay on the path to your success! When you focus on your Legacy Plan every day, you will remember what you want and stay headed in the right direction.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it’s easy to gloss over the fact that we don’t always know our family and friends nearly as well as we think.  But with every day there is a new opportunity to increase that connection in meaningful ways, whether focusing on the past or the future together.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The unexpected thing I learned about my dad</li><li>Focusing on creating meaningful experiences together</li><li>Creating keepsakes to deepen connection</li><li>Being there when they really need you</li><li>Interviewing family members (and not making it weird)</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.joincake.com/blog/family-questions/">40 Thought-Provoking Questions to Ask Your Family</a></p><p><br>Clients create a <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/9wb9f712ofpqas1/Legacy%20Plan%20Sam%20Sample.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Legacy Plan</strong></a><strong> </strong>which is a guiding document we co-create and use to stay on the path to your success! When you focus on your Legacy Plan every day, you will remember what you want and stay headed in the right direction.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it’s easy to gloss over the fact that we don’t always know our family and friends nearly as well as we think.  But with every day there is a new opportunity to increase that connection in meaningful ways, whether focusing on the past or the future together.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The unexpected thing I learned about my dad</li><li>Focusing on creating meaningful experiences together</li><li>Creating keepsakes to deepen connection</li><li>Being there when they really need you</li><li>Interviewing family members (and not making it weird)</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">25 Tips for Strengthening Relationships (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.joincake.com/blog/family-questions/">40 Thought-Provoking Questions to Ask Your Family</a></p><p><br>Clients create a <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/9wb9f712ofpqas1/Legacy%20Plan%20Sam%20Sample.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Legacy Plan</strong></a><strong> </strong>which is a guiding document we co-create and use to stay on the path to your success! When you focus on your Legacy Plan every day, you will remember what you want and stay headed in the right direction.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <title>#64: Persevering Toward Your Goals</title>
      <itunes:episode>64</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>64</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes even when we are pursuing our goals and passions, things happen that can just suck the wind out of our sails.  These obstacles, whether internal or external, can be challenging to overcome.  Today we will break down steps you can take to persevere on the path to achieving your own goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being inspired by my own daughter’s resilience</li><li>Different kinds of distractions</li><li>Visualize achieving your goals</li><li>Wanting to want to pursue your goals</li><li>Using a mindset shift to provide motivation</li><li>Using the Pomodoro Technique</li><li>Handling the doubters</li><li>Doing one productive thing to build momentum</li><li>Making a plan of action</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/">Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/">Eliminate Mental Clutter &amp; Procrastination (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://todoist.com/productivity-methods/pomodoro-technique">The Pomodoro Technique: Beat Procrastination &amp; Improve Your Focus One Pomodoro at a Time (post)</a> by Todoist</p><p><strong>Definition of Success Activity </strong><br>If you died today, would you have lived a successful life? According to whose definition? Is your view of success driven by what you were raised to believe, something modeled to you, what our culture and society convey, or your own unique &amp; inspiring idea of what makes a significant and impactful life? Use this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/8p1lnvghro7rc9x/Definition%20of%20Success%20Activity.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Definition of Success worksheet</strong></a> to list two separate definitions of success. The first is the default cultural definition you’ve absorbed from outside social influences. The second is YOUR OWN personal inspiring definition of success.</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes even when we are pursuing our goals and passions, things happen that can just suck the wind out of our sails.  These obstacles, whether internal or external, can be challenging to overcome.  Today we will break down steps you can take to persevere on the path to achieving your own goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being inspired by my own daughter’s resilience</li><li>Different kinds of distractions</li><li>Visualize achieving your goals</li><li>Wanting to want to pursue your goals</li><li>Using a mindset shift to provide motivation</li><li>Using the Pomodoro Technique</li><li>Handling the doubters</li><li>Doing one productive thing to build momentum</li><li>Making a plan of action</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/">Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/">Eliminate Mental Clutter &amp; Procrastination (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://todoist.com/productivity-methods/pomodoro-technique">The Pomodoro Technique: Beat Procrastination &amp; Improve Your Focus One Pomodoro at a Time (post)</a> by Todoist</p><p><strong>Definition of Success Activity </strong><br>If you died today, would you have lived a successful life? According to whose definition? Is your view of success driven by what you were raised to believe, something modeled to you, what our culture and society convey, or your own unique &amp; inspiring idea of what makes a significant and impactful life? Use this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/8p1lnvghro7rc9x/Definition%20of%20Success%20Activity.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Definition of Success worksheet</strong></a> to list two separate definitions of success. The first is the default cultural definition you’ve absorbed from outside social influences. The second is YOUR OWN personal inspiring definition of success.</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1757</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes even when we are pursuing our goals and passions, things happen that can just suck the wind out of our sails.  These obstacles, whether internal or external, can be challenging to overcome.  Today we will break down steps you can take to persevere on the path to achieving your own goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being inspired by my own daughter’s resilience</li><li>Different kinds of distractions</li><li>Visualize achieving your goals</li><li>Wanting to want to pursue your goals</li><li>Using a mindset shift to provide motivation</li><li>Using the Pomodoro Technique</li><li>Handling the doubters</li><li>Doing one productive thing to build momentum</li><li>Making a plan of action</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/">Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/">Eliminate Mental Clutter &amp; Procrastination (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://todoist.com/productivity-methods/pomodoro-technique">The Pomodoro Technique: Beat Procrastination &amp; Improve Your Focus One Pomodoro at a Time (post)</a> by Todoist</p><p><strong>Definition of Success Activity </strong><br>If you died today, would you have lived a successful life? According to whose definition? Is your view of success driven by what you were raised to believe, something modeled to you, what our culture and society convey, or your own unique &amp; inspiring idea of what makes a significant and impactful life? Use this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/8p1lnvghro7rc9x/Definition%20of%20Success%20Activity.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Definition of Success worksheet</strong></a> to list two separate definitions of success. The first is the default cultural definition you’ve absorbed from outside social influences. The second is YOUR OWN personal inspiring definition of success.</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#63: Get Out of Your Head!</title>
      <itunes:episode>63</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>63</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#63: Get Out of Your Head!</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever read the page of a book and then realized you didn’t absorb anything because you were too distracted?  Today we are going to talk about how to get out of your own head.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What’s happening in our brain when we get stuck in our head</li><li>What is “brain lock”?</li><li>Having a vision for life without anxiety</li><li>Noticing that you are stuck in your head</li><li>Getting the thoughts in your head out</li><li>Choosing gratitude</li><li>Taking an MRA (massive radical action)</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ways-to-calm-yourself-flooded/">What to Do When Emotionally Overwhelmed (post)</a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/">30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/62">Build Trust with Others </a>(Episode 62)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever read the page of a book and then realized you didn’t absorb anything because you were too distracted?  Today we are going to talk about how to get out of your own head.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What’s happening in our brain when we get stuck in our head</li><li>What is “brain lock”?</li><li>Having a vision for life without anxiety</li><li>Noticing that you are stuck in your head</li><li>Getting the thoughts in your head out</li><li>Choosing gratitude</li><li>Taking an MRA (massive radical action)</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ways-to-calm-yourself-flooded/">What to Do When Emotionally Overwhelmed (post)</a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/">30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/62">Build Trust with Others </a>(Episode 62)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Have you ever read the page of a book and then realized you didn’t absorb anything because you were too distracted?  Today we are going to talk about how to get out of your own head.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What’s happening in our brain when we get stuck in our head</li><li>What is “brain lock”?</li><li>Having a vision for life without anxiety</li><li>Noticing that you are stuck in your head</li><li>Getting the thoughts in your head out</li><li>Choosing gratitude</li><li>Taking an MRA (massive radical action)</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ways-to-calm-yourself-flooded/">What to Do When Emotionally Overwhelmed (post)</a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/30-happiness-building-actions/">30 Happiness Building Actions (post)</a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a><strong> </strong>by Adam Gragg<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/62">Build Trust with Others </a>(Episode 62)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy">Decide Your Legacy</a>!</p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
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      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#62: Building Trust with Others</title>
      <itunes:episode>62</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It can take a lifetime to build and a moment to destroy. So much of the depth of our relationships depends on how much we are trusted.  Today we are going to break down the key components to build trust with others in relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The importance of being trustworthy</li><li>Ensuring appropriate boundaries in relationships</li><li>Start by trusting yourself</li><li>Stop overthinking</li><li>Create the expectation of consistency</li><li>Becoming more predictable</li><li>Prioritize actions over words</li><li>Build an appropriate level of vulnerability</li><li>Live honestly with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/Daily%205%20&amp;%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard (post)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-keys-to-building-a-trusting-relationship/">7 Keys to Building Trust in Relationships (post)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/61">How to Embrace Failure</a> (Episode 61)</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy"><strong>Decide Your Legacy</strong></a><strong>!</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It can take a lifetime to build and a moment to destroy. So much of the depth of our relationships depends on how much we are trusted.  Today we are going to break down the key components to build trust with others in relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The importance of being trustworthy</li><li>Ensuring appropriate boundaries in relationships</li><li>Start by trusting yourself</li><li>Stop overthinking</li><li>Create the expectation of consistency</li><li>Becoming more predictable</li><li>Prioritize actions over words</li><li>Build an appropriate level of vulnerability</li><li>Live honestly with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/Daily%205%20&amp;%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard (post)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-keys-to-building-a-trusting-relationship/">7 Keys to Building Trust in Relationships (post)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/61">How to Embrace Failure</a> (Episode 61)</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy"><strong>Decide Your Legacy</strong></a><strong>!</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1611</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It can take a lifetime to build and a moment to destroy. So much of the depth of our relationships depends on how much we are trusted.  Today we are going to break down the key components to build trust with others in relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The importance of being trustworthy</li><li>Ensuring appropriate boundaries in relationships</li><li>Start by trusting yourself</li><li>Stop overthinking</li><li>Create the expectation of consistency</li><li>Becoming more predictable</li><li>Prioritize actions over words</li><li>Build an appropriate level of vulnerability</li><li>Live honestly with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/Daily%205%20&amp;%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard (post)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-keys-to-building-a-trusting-relationship/">7 Keys to Building Trust in Relationships (post)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/61">How to Embrace Failure</a> (Episode 61)</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with <a href="http://linktr.ee/decideyourlegacy"><strong>Decide Your Legacy</strong></a><strong>!</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#61: How to Embrace Failure</title>
      <itunes:episode>61</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>61</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#61: How to Embrace Failure</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we are so focused on the dangers from failure we forget that many of the same traits that lead to failure also lead to success.  That’s why I’m so excited about taking the opportunity to fail and you should be too. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens when I get more comfortable with failure</li><li>Defining what success and failure are (and what they look like)</li><li>Success can be just as scary as failure</li><li>Working on your mindset around failure</li><li>Doing something hard every day (maybe multiple things)</li><li>Reflect on the growth that failure has brought to you</li><li>Fear stacking</li><li>Planning actions that you could fail at</li><li>Adding some comfort so that it’s easier to fail</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/DEAR%20Man%20Assertiveness%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/60">Make Yourself More Attractive</a> (Episode 60)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we are so focused on the dangers from failure we forget that many of the same traits that lead to failure also lead to success.  That’s why I’m so excited about taking the opportunity to fail and you should be too. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens when I get more comfortable with failure</li><li>Defining what success and failure are (and what they look like)</li><li>Success can be just as scary as failure</li><li>Working on your mindset around failure</li><li>Doing something hard every day (maybe multiple things)</li><li>Reflect on the growth that failure has brought to you</li><li>Fear stacking</li><li>Planning actions that you could fail at</li><li>Adding some comfort so that it’s easier to fail</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/DEAR%20Man%20Assertiveness%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/60">Make Yourself More Attractive</a> (Episode 60)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>1552</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we are so focused on the dangers from failure we forget that many of the same traits that lead to failure also lead to success.  That’s why I’m so excited about taking the opportunity to fail and you should be too. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens when I get more comfortable with failure</li><li>Defining what success and failure are (and what they look like)</li><li>Success can be just as scary as failure</li><li>Working on your mindset around failure</li><li>Doing something hard every day (maybe multiple things)</li><li>Reflect on the growth that failure has brought to you</li><li>Fear stacking</li><li>Planning actions that you could fail at</li><li>Adding some comfort so that it’s easier to fail</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/DEAR%20Man%20Assertiveness%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/60">Make Yourself More Attractive</a> (Episode 60)</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#60: Making Yourself More Attractive</title>
      <itunes:episode>60</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>60</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’ve been single for a few years now.  And as I have started dating again I became acutely aware of some things that I was doing that would make me more or less attractive to others.  Whether looking for a romantic partner or a great friend, the things we discuss today can serve to draw others to yourself.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being you as your best self</li><li>What it looks like to be a jerk (but nicely)</li><li>Assertiveness and honesty</li><li>Taking risks in your own life</li><li>Maintaining your values</li><li>Being willing to express your passions</li><li>Red flags to avoid</li><li>How others expectations can negatively influence us</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/jty4e60bw6b3rwy/Know%20Thyself.pdf?dl=0">Know Thyself</a> (worksheet)</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/DEAR%20Man%20Assertiveness%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness (worksheet)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’ve been single for a few years now.  And as I have started dating again I became acutely aware of some things that I was doing that would make me more or less attractive to others.  Whether looking for a romantic partner or a great friend, the things we discuss today can serve to draw others to yourself.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being you as your best self</li><li>What it looks like to be a jerk (but nicely)</li><li>Assertiveness and honesty</li><li>Taking risks in your own life</li><li>Maintaining your values</li><li>Being willing to express your passions</li><li>Red flags to avoid</li><li>How others expectations can negatively influence us</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/jty4e60bw6b3rwy/Know%20Thyself.pdf?dl=0">Know Thyself</a> (worksheet)</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/DEAR%20Man%20Assertiveness%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness (worksheet)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1630</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I’ve been single for a few years now.  And as I have started dating again I became acutely aware of some things that I was doing that would make me more or less attractive to others.  Whether looking for a romantic partner or a great friend, the things we discuss today can serve to draw others to yourself.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being you as your best self</li><li>What it looks like to be a jerk (but nicely)</li><li>Assertiveness and honesty</li><li>Taking risks in your own life</li><li>Maintaining your values</li><li>Being willing to express your passions</li><li>Red flags to avoid</li><li>How others expectations can negatively influence us</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/jty4e60bw6b3rwy/Know%20Thyself.pdf?dl=0">Know Thyself</a> (worksheet)</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=1">Scary Actions You Can Take (worksheet)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/DEAR%20Man%20Assertiveness%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness (worksheet)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#59: What Successful People Do</title>
      <itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>59</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#59: What Successful People Do</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So many times fear has held me back from pursuing things that could bring me success.  When we look at the successful people around us, I’ve found that there are a series of habits they engage in that encourage them to move forward.  Today we are going to break those down so you can apply them to your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The pursuits I could have taken if fear didn’t hold me back</li><li>The value of regular and consistent sleep</li><li>What my dad was always doing to support his health</li><li>Waking early and getting the day started</li><li>Taking time to read often</li><li>Keeping space in your life for self-reflection</li><li>Choosing to have a positive perspective</li><li>Having a list of written goals</li><li>Identifying a bigger purpose</li><li>Living with a spiritual focus</li><li>Taking care of your own health</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So many times fear has held me back from pursuing things that could bring me success.  When we look at the successful people around us, I’ve found that there are a series of habits they engage in that encourage them to move forward.  Today we are going to break those down so you can apply them to your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The pursuits I could have taken if fear didn’t hold me back</li><li>The value of regular and consistent sleep</li><li>What my dad was always doing to support his health</li><li>Waking early and getting the day started</li><li>Taking time to read often</li><li>Keeping space in your life for self-reflection</li><li>Choosing to have a positive perspective</li><li>Having a list of written goals</li><li>Identifying a bigger purpose</li><li>Living with a spiritual focus</li><li>Taking care of your own health</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1478</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So many times fear has held me back from pursuing things that could bring me success.  When we look at the successful people around us, I’ve found that there are a series of habits they engage in that encourage them to move forward.  Today we are going to break those down so you can apply them to your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The pursuits I could have taken if fear didn’t hold me back</li><li>The value of regular and consistent sleep</li><li>What my dad was always doing to support his health</li><li>Waking early and getting the day started</li><li>Taking time to read often</li><li>Keeping space in your life for self-reflection</li><li>Choosing to have a positive perspective</li><li>Having a list of written goals</li><li>Identifying a bigger purpose</li><li>Living with a spiritual focus</li><li>Taking care of your own health</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#58: Build Emotional and Relational Health (w/ Todd Nickel)</title>
      <itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>58</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The foundation of so much of our lives can be found in our emotional and relational health.  To really unpack this, I brought in my good friend and fellow mental health specialist Todd Nickel to talk about the ways in which we can improve our relationships with others and ourselves.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Improving our communication with others</li><li>Identifying priorities and goals in our lives</li><li>The faulty assumption we make with our relationships</li><li>Making communication safe</li><li>How to build new friendships</li><li>The power that emotions create in our lives</li><li>Emotion v. emotionality</li><li>The danger that emotions can present</li><li>Sharing your emotions with others</li><li>Benefits of journaling</li><li>Defining grief and how to support others through it</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/57">Benefits of Journaling (Episode 57)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The foundation of so much of our lives can be found in our emotional and relational health.  To really unpack this, I brought in my good friend and fellow mental health specialist Todd Nickel to talk about the ways in which we can improve our relationships with others and ourselves.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Improving our communication with others</li><li>Identifying priorities and goals in our lives</li><li>The faulty assumption we make with our relationships</li><li>Making communication safe</li><li>How to build new friendships</li><li>The power that emotions create in our lives</li><li>Emotion v. emotionality</li><li>The danger that emotions can present</li><li>Sharing your emotions with others</li><li>Benefits of journaling</li><li>Defining grief and how to support others through it</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/57">Benefits of Journaling (Episode 57)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2699</itunes:duration>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The foundation of so much of our lives can be found in our emotional and relational health.  To really unpack this, I brought in my good friend and fellow mental health specialist Todd Nickel to talk about the ways in which we can improve our relationships with others and ourselves.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Improving our communication with others</li><li>Identifying priorities and goals in our lives</li><li>The faulty assumption we make with our relationships</li><li>Making communication safe</li><li>How to build new friendships</li><li>The power that emotions create in our lives</li><li>Emotion v. emotionality</li><li>The danger that emotions can present</li><li>Sharing your emotions with others</li><li>Benefits of journaling</li><li>Defining grief and how to support others through it</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/57">Benefits of Journaling (Episode 57)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#57: Clarify a Vision for Your Future</title>
      <itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>57</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Recently I walked a group of people through the process of creating a vision board.  Following a similar process yourself can give you clarity and focus as you move towards your own chosen Legacy.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How things on my vision board resulted in an RV adventure with my daughter</li><li>Taking time to reflect</li><li>Identifying where you want to be</li><li>Giving yourself a vision board challenge</li><li>How a vision board creates clarity</li><li>The process is where the joy is found</li><li>The four steps to creating a vision</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>How to Organize Your Thoughts</strong></a><strong> (Episode 56)</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/"><strong>Clarifying a Vision for your Future</strong></a><strong><br></strong><a href="https://youtu.be/OjsBxnr25Ho"><strong>Taking Opposite Action to Your Emotions (video)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Workshop &amp; Training List</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Vision Activity</strong><br>Take some time to create a healthy personal and professional vision for your future. Read the articles <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-find-clarity-life/"><strong>How to Find Clarity in Life</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/"><strong>Clarifying a Vision for Your Future</strong></a><strong>.</strong> Then complete this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ftk3xfe700bvgse/3%20-%205%20Year%20Vision%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>3 - 5 Year Vision Worksheet</strong></a>. Jot down anything that comes to mind.</p><p><br></p><p>Speaking in action clips</p><p><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/ygqHfKrMyZU"><strong>Don’t Play it Safe (YouTube)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@decideyourlegacy/video/7191608249542659374?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7158276835885057582"><strong>Don’t Play it Safe (TikTok)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Recently I walked a group of people through the process of creating a vision board.  Following a similar process yourself can give you clarity and focus as you move towards your own chosen Legacy.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How things on my vision board resulted in an RV adventure with my daughter</li><li>Taking time to reflect</li><li>Identifying where you want to be</li><li>Giving yourself a vision board challenge</li><li>How a vision board creates clarity</li><li>The process is where the joy is found</li><li>The four steps to creating a vision</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">Shatterproof Yourself Video: 7 ACTIONS to START Building Your Legacy</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/56"><strong>How to Organize Your Thoughts</strong></a><strong> (Episode 56)</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/"><strong>Clarifying a Vision for your Future</strong></a><strong><br></strong><a href="https://youtu.be/OjsBxnr25Ho"><strong>Taking Opposite Action to Your Emotions (video)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/oevkwy4mq55x8ey/DYL%20Workshops%20List.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Workshop &amp; Training List</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Vision Activity</strong><br>Take some time to create a healthy personal and professional vision for your future. Read the articles <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-find-clarity-life/"><strong>How to Find Clarity in Life</strong></a> &amp; <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/"><strong>Clarifying a Vision for Your Future</strong></a><strong>.</strong> Then complete this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ftk3xfe700bvgse/3%20-%205%20Year%20Vision%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>3 - 5 Year Vision Worksheet</strong></a>. Jot down anything that comes to mind.</p><p><br></p><p>Speaking in action clips</p><p><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/ygqHfKrMyZU"><strong>Don’t Play it Safe (YouTube)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@decideyourlegacy/video/7191608249542659374?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7158276835885057582"><strong>Don’t Play it Safe (TikTok)</strong></a> by Adam Gragg</p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1742</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Recently I walked a group of people through the process of creating a vision board.  Following a similar process yourself can give you clarity and focus as you move towards your own chosen Legacy.</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#56: How to Organize Your Thoughts (w/ Nick Bertram)</title>
      <itunes:episode>56</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>56</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>You’ve heard it before, but journaling is a powerful way to gain clarity and organize your thoughts without being overwhelmed.  This week I’m joined by Nick Bertram to discuss how journaling has transformed his life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why Adam burned a bunch of journals</li><li>The different types of journals</li><li>What to write about</li><li>How journaling helps organize your thoughts</li><li>What happens when you physically write by hand</li><li>Don’t overcomplicate things</li><li>Being kind to yourself</li><li>Seeing progress over time</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/">How to Journal for Self-Improvement</a></p><p><a href="https://thoughtcatalog.com/jeremy-goldberg/2018/02/here-are-the-50-best-journaling-prompts-you-will-ever-read-or-need/">50 Best Journaling Prompts</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>You’ve heard it before, but journaling is a powerful way to gain clarity and organize your thoughts without being overwhelmed.  This week I’m joined by Nick Bertram to discuss how journaling has transformed his life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why Adam burned a bunch of journals</li><li>The different types of journals</li><li>What to write about</li><li>How journaling helps organize your thoughts</li><li>What happens when you physically write by hand</li><li>Don’t overcomplicate things</li><li>Being kind to yourself</li><li>Seeing progress over time</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/">How to Journal for Self-Improvement</a></p><p><a href="https://thoughtcatalog.com/jeremy-goldberg/2018/02/here-are-the-50-best-journaling-prompts-you-will-ever-read-or-need/">50 Best Journaling Prompts</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>You’ve heard it before, but journaling is a powerful way to gain clarity and organize your thoughts without being overwhelmed.  This week I’m joined by Nick Bertram to discuss how journaling has transformed his life.</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#55: End the Cycle of Negativity [Rebroadcast]</title>
      <itunes:episode>55</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>55</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#55: End the Cycle of Negativity [Rebroadcast]</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that negativity to be more fulfilled, engaged and satisfied.  On this episode:</p><ul><li>Adam answers listener questions</li><li>How Adam has struggled with negativity and how it has cost him</li><li>What the ego is doing in causing us to be critical</li><li>Three strategies to overcome negativity<ul><li>Identifying the critical inner voice</li><li>Achieving relentless optimism</li><li>Taking action and putting faith in the outcome</li></ul></li><li>Adam also gives tactical tips for each of these strategies and explains how you can implement Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in your own life.</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that negativity to be more fulfilled, engaged and satisfied.  On this episode:</p><ul><li>Adam answers listener questions</li><li>How Adam has struggled with negativity and how it has cost him</li><li>What the ego is doing in causing us to be critical</li><li>Three strategies to overcome negativity<ul><li>Identifying the critical inner voice</li><li>Achieving relentless optimism</li><li>Taking action and putting faith in the outcome</li></ul></li><li>Adam also gives tactical tips for each of these strategies and explains how you can implement Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in your own life.</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2363</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that negativity to be more fulfilled, engaged and satisfied.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that neg</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#54: How to Regulate Your Emotions</title>
      <itunes:episode>54</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>54</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The world will always come at us with stressful situations, but it’s the ability to manage and regulate our emotional responses that will allow us to live intentionally.  With these strategies you can improve your emotional reactions and live more intentionally. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The importance of managing stress well</li><li>How addictive habits form</li><li>How intentional self-regulation can provide confidence</li><li>Increase and focus on the positives</li><li>Prepare in advance</li><li>Grow in your mastery</li><li>Engage your brain to think forward</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52">Episode #52: Pain is the Price of Freedom</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Episode #47: Being Assertive with Difficult People / Situations</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Dealing with Your Past (article)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The world will always come at us with stressful situations, but it’s the ability to manage and regulate our emotional responses that will allow us to live intentionally.  With these strategies you can improve your emotional reactions and live more intentionally. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The importance of managing stress well</li><li>How addictive habits form</li><li>How intentional self-regulation can provide confidence</li><li>Increase and focus on the positives</li><li>Prepare in advance</li><li>Grow in your mastery</li><li>Engage your brain to think forward</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/52">Episode #52: Pain is the Price of Freedom</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Episode #47: Being Assertive with Difficult People / Situations</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Dealing with Your Past (article)</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>The world will always come at us with stressful situations, but it’s the ability to manage and regulate our emotional responses that will allow us to live intentionally.  With these strategies you can improve your emotional reactions and live more intentionally.</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#53: A Mini-Retreat for Self-Reflection</title>
      <itunes:episode>53</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>53</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we close in on the end of the year, it’s the perfect time to do some self-reflection on what has happened so you can launch into the new year with clarity.  I’m joined by my friends Bryan and Gavin and together we explore some of the reflections they’ve had about their own year. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why self-reflection is so valuable</li><li>Ways to have a mini-retreat to facilitate reflection</li><li>Discovering things that surprised you, both successes and challenges</li><li>Identifying things that energize and drain you</li><li>Using your life purpose statement to propel yourself forward</li><li>Maintaining flexibility while you brainstorm</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode #14: Clarify Your Life Purpose</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we close in on the end of the year, it’s the perfect time to do some self-reflection on what has happened so you can launch into the new year with clarity.  I’m joined by my friends Bryan and Gavin and together we explore some of the reflections they’ve had about their own year. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why self-reflection is so valuable</li><li>Ways to have a mini-retreat to facilitate reflection</li><li>Discovering things that surprised you, both successes and challenges</li><li>Identifying things that energize and drain you</li><li>Using your life purpose statement to propel yourself forward</li><li>Maintaining flexibility while you brainstorm</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode #14: Clarify Your Life Purpose</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1847</itunes:duration>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#52: Pain is the Price of Freedom</title>
      <itunes:episode>52</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>52</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Some mental health professionals say you need to "move on" from past pain and trauma.  But I think the only way to experience true freedom in your life is to face this pain, and today we will cover a process to help you through that. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The trauma I experienced in my own life and the scars I carried</li><li>You need to have the ability to face depression and anxiety in your life</li><li>Beginning with a life timeline</li><li>Write about the details</li><li>Talk with those you can trust</li><li>Move towards acceptance</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You MUST Deal with Your Past</a> </p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/11">Episode #11: Why You Should Deal with Your Past</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/27">Episode #27: Dealing with Trauma w/ Jenny Helms</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/43">Episode #43: Working Through Grief or Trauma</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Some mental health professionals say you need to "move on" from past pain and trauma.  But I think the only way to experience true freedom in your life is to face this pain, and today we will cover a process to help you through that. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The trauma I experienced in my own life and the scars I carried</li><li>You need to have the ability to face depression and anxiety in your life</li><li>Beginning with a life timeline</li><li>Write about the details</li><li>Talk with those you can trust</li><li>Move towards acceptance</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You MUST Deal with Your Past</a> </p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/11">Episode #11: Why You Should Deal with Your Past</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/27">Episode #27: Dealing with Trauma w/ Jenny Helms</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/43">Episode #43: Working Through Grief or Trauma</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1955</itunes:duration>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#51: Taking Consistent Action</title>
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      <podcast:episode>51</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Growing up I had a bully that always bothered me.  One day, I found out firsthand how taking decisive and consistent action can be transformational.  And I want you to have that same victory in your life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the act of spitting energized me</li><li>What is that one thing you are procrastinating on?</li><li>Defining the perfection trap</li><li>Getting out of your head</li><li>Focusing on how action will help others</li><li>Identifying how action will benefit yourself</li><li>Eliminating excuses by having an answer for them</li><li>Identifying how you will feel afterward</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Risks Frequently</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=0">Scary Actions You Can Take Today</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50">Episode 50: A Big Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Growing up I had a bully that always bothered me.  One day, I found out firsthand how taking decisive and consistent action can be transformational.  And I want you to have that same victory in your life. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the act of spitting energized me</li><li>What is that one thing you are procrastinating on?</li><li>Defining the perfection trap</li><li>Getting out of your head</li><li>Focusing on how action will help others</li><li>Identifying how action will benefit yourself</li><li>Eliminating excuses by having an answer for them</li><li>Identifying how you will feel afterward</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Risks Frequently</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/p933nz18yd495oc/Scary%20Actions%20You%20Can%20Take%20Today.pdf?dl=0">Scary Actions You Can Take Today</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/50">Episode 50: A Big Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#50: A Big Mistake Most People Make</title>
      <itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>50</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>People are always asking me how they can have better, more vibrant relationships.  But often, there is one big mistake that most people make in their relationships.  We're going to dive into that mistake and 10 strategies for countering it. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The big mistake of invalidating others</li><li>How invalidation drives wedges</li><li>Strategies for being more validating of others<ul><li>Avoid being critical</li><li>Keep the focus off yourself</li><li>Use someone's first name</li><li>Show interest in them and their interests</li><li>Validate their feelings</li><li>Apologize with no excuses</li><li>Name their emotions</li><li>Ask more questions</li><li>Love how they want to be loved</li><li>Paraphrase and summarize</li></ul></li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/49">Rekindling Relationships (Episode 49)</a><br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients </a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">One Big Relationship Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong><br>Read these articles below about the<strong> Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong>. <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 Worksheet</a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>People are always asking me how they can have better, more vibrant relationships.  But often, there is one big mistake that most people make in their relationships.  We're going to dive into that mistake and 10 strategies for countering it. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The big mistake of invalidating others</li><li>How invalidation drives wedges</li><li>Strategies for being more validating of others<ul><li>Avoid being critical</li><li>Keep the focus off yourself</li><li>Use someone's first name</li><li>Show interest in them and their interests</li><li>Validate their feelings</li><li>Apologize with no excuses</li><li>Name their emotions</li><li>Ask more questions</li><li>Love how they want to be loved</li><li>Paraphrase and summarize</li></ul></li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/49">Rekindling Relationships (Episode 49)</a><br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients </a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/">One Big Relationship Mistake Most People Make</a></p><p><br><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong><br>Read these articles below about the<strong> Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong>. <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 Worksheet</a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#49: Rekindling Relationships</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we approach the holidays this year you may be thinking about relationships that have gone stale, or people you don't talk to often or have the level of closeness or intimacy you would like to have.  But with the change in schedules you will have the opportunity to use the strategies in this conversation to rekindle and strengthen those connections. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The value of relationships on our mental health</li><li>What makes someone a true friend</li><li>Loving yourself first</li><li>My 30-day challenge to you</li><li>Valuing honesty, even when it's uncomfortable</li><li>Viewing conflict as an opportunity</li><li>Helping other people succeed</li><li>Share your personal goals with others</li><li>Be more curious</li><li>Be yourself</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/48">Getting to Know Yourself (Episode 48)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/29">Repairing Relationships Over the Holidays (Episode 29)</a><br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/">A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</a></p><p><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong><br>Read these articles below about the<strong> Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong>. <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 Worksheet</a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we approach the holidays this year you may be thinking about relationships that have gone stale, or people you don't talk to often or have the level of closeness or intimacy you would like to have.  But with the change in schedules you will have the opportunity to use the strategies in this conversation to rekindle and strengthen those connections. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The value of relationships on our mental health</li><li>What makes someone a true friend</li><li>Loving yourself first</li><li>My 30-day challenge to you</li><li>Valuing honesty, even when it's uncomfortable</li><li>Viewing conflict as an opportunity</li><li>Helping other people succeed</li><li>Share your personal goals with others</li><li>Be more curious</li><li>Be yourself</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/48">Getting to Know Yourself (Episode 48)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/29">Repairing Relationships Over the Holidays (Episode 29)</a><br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/">A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</a></p><p><strong>The Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong><br>Read these articles below about the<strong> Daily 5 &amp; 5</strong>. <a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life Is Hard</a>. Start your own Daily 5 &amp; 5 on your phone, in a journal, or using this <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20%26%205.pdf?dl=1">Daily 5 &amp; 5 Worksheet</a>. After a few days, reflect on how this activity impacts your mindset.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>As we approach the holidays this year you may be thinking about relationships that have gone stale, or people you don't talk to often or have the level of closeness or intimacy you would like to have.  But with the change in schedules you will have the opportunity to use the strategies in this conversation to rekindle and strengthen those connections.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>As we approach the holidays this year you may be thinking about relationships that have gone stale, or people you don't talk to often or have the level of closeness or intimacy you would like to have.  But with the change in schedules you will have the op</itunes:subtitle>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>Listen to Decide Your Legacy!</title>
      <itunes:episode>50</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Find transformational growth on every episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast with Adam Gragg!  Live the life you want, the legacy you decide!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2022 08:14:59 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Find transformational growth on every episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast with Adam Gragg!  Live the life you want, the legacy you decide!</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#48: Getting to Know Yourself</title>
      <itunes:episode>48</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we deal with the challenges of pleasing others and overcoming past trauma, it can sometimes be hard to know what we truly want in life.  Today we are going to break down some actionable strategies you can use to understand yourself in a deeper and more authentic way. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why I invite people to take risks</li><li>Knowing yourself as the key to long-term happiness</li><li>Laughing and having fun</li><li>What codependency does to us</li><li>Journaling regularly to externalize your thoughts</li><li>Creating a plan to overcome negative core beliefs</li><li>Taking emotional risks</li><li>Radical acceptance of reality</li><li>Getting professional help</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Being Assertive (Episode 47)</a><br><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/">How to Journal for Self-Improvement</a><br><a href="https://thoughtcatalog.com/jeremy-goldberg/2018/02/here-are-the-50-best-journaling-prompts-you-will-ever-read-or-need/">50 Best Journaling Prompts</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/uglke58sny8dbg2/Damaging%20Core%20Beliefs%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">30 Damaging Core Beliefs</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/yx3cnkd8bkbyamd/Acceptance.pdf?dl=1">What is </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/yx3cnkd8bkbyamd/Acceptance.pdf?dl=0">Acceptance</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/uzjx1wbixgps09j/Acceptance%20Is%20Not.pdf?dl=1">Acceptance is Not</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Emotional Risks Frequently!</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/select-great-counselor-coach/">How to Select a Great Life Coach (or Counselor)</a></p><p><br><strong>Self-Care Activity</strong><br>Take the time to get to know yourself. Complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/jty4e60bw6b3rwy/Know%20Thyself.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Know Thyself Worksheet</strong></a> and use those answer to help you complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/k7m2ipflbq89vdq/Radical%20Self%20Care.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Radical Self Care Worksheet</strong></a>.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As we deal with the challenges of pleasing others and overcoming past trauma, it can sometimes be hard to know what we truly want in life.  Today we are going to break down some actionable strategies you can use to understand yourself in a deeper and more authentic way. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why I invite people to take risks</li><li>Knowing yourself as the key to long-term happiness</li><li>Laughing and having fun</li><li>What codependency does to us</li><li>Journaling regularly to externalize your thoughts</li><li>Creating a plan to overcome negative core beliefs</li><li>Taking emotional risks</li><li>Radical acceptance of reality</li><li>Getting professional help</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/47">Being Assertive (Episode 47)</a><br><a href="https://dariusforoux.com/how-to-journal/">How to Journal for Self-Improvement</a><br><a href="https://thoughtcatalog.com/jeremy-goldberg/2018/02/here-are-the-50-best-journaling-prompts-you-will-ever-read-or-need/">50 Best Journaling Prompts</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/uglke58sny8dbg2/Damaging%20Core%20Beliefs%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">30 Damaging Core Beliefs</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/yx3cnkd8bkbyamd/Acceptance.pdf?dl=1">What is </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/yx3cnkd8bkbyamd/Acceptance.pdf?dl=0">Acceptance</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/uzjx1wbixgps09j/Acceptance%20Is%20Not.pdf?dl=1">Acceptance is Not</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/take-risks-frequently/">Take Emotional Risks Frequently!</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/select-great-counselor-coach/">How to Select a Great Life Coach (or Counselor)</a></p><p><br><strong>Self-Care Activity</strong><br>Take the time to get to know yourself. Complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/jty4e60bw6b3rwy/Know%20Thyself.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Know Thyself Worksheet</strong></a> and use those answer to help you complete the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/k7m2ipflbq89vdq/Radical%20Self%20Care.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Radical Self Care Worksheet</strong></a>.</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>As we deal with the challenges of pleasing others and overcoming past trauma, it can sometimes be hard to know what we truly want in life.  Today we are going to break down some actionable strategies you can use to understand yourself in a deeper and more authentic way. </itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The themes in our lives where we avoid confrontation reveal where we give our power away to others.  But to get the best possible outcome we must avoid assuming the end result and become assertive enough to enter those difficult situations.  The result can be life-giving.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What it means to give your power away</li><li>How being more assertive can energize your life</li><li>Staying committed and following through</li><li>Taking consistent risks</li><li>The DEAR MAN framework for dealing with difficult situations / people</li><li>Illustrations of how my clients have applied the DEAR MAN framework to their lives</li><li>Taking a reasonable negotiation strategy</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/46">Staying Motivated to Reach Your Goals</a> (Episode 46)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/44">Secret Communication Skills</a> (Episode 44)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness Tool</a> (worksheet)</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The themes in our lives where we avoid confrontation reveal where we give our power away to others.  But to get the best possible outcome we must avoid assuming the end result and become assertive enough to enter those difficult situations.  The result can be life-giving.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What it means to give your power away</li><li>How being more assertive can energize your life</li><li>Staying committed and following through</li><li>Taking consistent risks</li><li>The DEAR MAN framework for dealing with difficult situations / people</li><li>Illustrations of how my clients have applied the DEAR MAN framework to their lives</li><li>Taking a reasonable negotiation strategy</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/46">Staying Motivated to Reach Your Goals</a> (Episode 46)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/44">Secret Communication Skills</a> (Episode 44)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/teyzkufr8y2q8pi/Dear%20Man%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1">DEAR MAN Assertiveness Tool</a> (worksheet)</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We know what it feels like to be motivated right after hearing or reading something inspiring.  But what happens on day five, or day 50?  How do you maintain that energy level to achieve your goals?  On this episode we break down several practical strategies you can engage to stay motivated for the long haul.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Making things stick</li><li>Not moving forward is actually a step back</li><li>Avoiding the leak, writing it down</li><li>Identifying the expected obstacles</li><li>Focusing on a vision</li><li>The biggest obstacle is yourself</li><li>Negativity bias is all about feeding our insecurities</li><li>Focusing on the potential outcomes and opportunity</li><li>Get some accountability and put a little skin in the game</li><li>Measure it to get more of it</li><li>Focus on the intrinsic</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/45">How to be Happier</a> (Episode 45)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Identifying Core Values</a> (Episode 23)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/2-SBsL94plg">Perfectionism v. Procrastination Trap</a> (video)</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We know what it feels like to be motivated right after hearing or reading something inspiring.  But what happens on day five, or day 50?  How do you maintain that energy level to achieve your goals?  On this episode we break down several practical strategies you can engage to stay motivated for the long haul.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Making things stick</li><li>Not moving forward is actually a step back</li><li>Avoiding the leak, writing it down</li><li>Identifying the expected obstacles</li><li>Focusing on a vision</li><li>The biggest obstacle is yourself</li><li>Negativity bias is all about feeding our insecurities</li><li>Focusing on the potential outcomes and opportunity</li><li>Get some accountability and put a little skin in the game</li><li>Measure it to get more of it</li><li>Focus on the intrinsic</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/45">How to be Happier</a> (Episode 45)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Identifying Core Values</a> (Episode 23)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/2-SBsL94plg">Perfectionism v. Procrastination Trap</a> (video)</p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>We know what it feels like to be motivated right after hearing or reading something inspiring.  But what happens on day five, or day 50?  How do you maintain that energy level to achieve your goals?  On this episode we break down several practical strategies you can engage to stay motivated for the long haul.</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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      <title>#45: How to be Happier</title>
      <itunes:episode>45</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>45</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's written right there in the Constitution of the United States of America: we have the right to pursue happiness.  But what is it that will make us happy?  We get down to the practical this week on how you can cultivate happiness in your own life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Why happiness is important to us</li><li>Avoiding Facebook happiness</li><li>How I found myself on a beautiful beach, but ultimately was miserable</li><li>The cost of misery in our lives</li><li>Focusing on a clear vision for your future</li><li>Enjoying the journey instead of focusing on the destination</li><li>Do the hard work first</li><li>Reframing the negative experiences in our lives</li><li>Standing up for yourself</li><li>Meaningfully connecting with others.</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/44">Secret Communication Skills</a> (Episode 44)</p><p><strong>Core Beliefs Activity</strong><br>Most people have 3 - 10 deeply rooted negative core beliefs. Become aware of them and replace them with a healthier perspective so they no longer drive you. Identify your top 3 - 5 negative core beliefs using this<a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/egfy8powdkqi4y9/Core%20Beliefs.pdf?dl=1"> </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/uglke58sny8dbg2/Damaging%20Core%20Beliefs%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>30 Damaging Core Beliefs Worksheet. </strong></a>You never know when something might go wrong. Seeing that there are lots of option.. Then complete a <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/dkbco9ypscsfmgn/Be%20Truth%20Oriented.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Be Truth Oriented Worksheet </strong></a>for each one. Enter the negative core belief in step 1 on the Be Truth Oriented worksheet and follow each step. Save on your desktop, completed, and email the completed worksheets back to me before our next visit. Here's an article article to read that will be helpful <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/"><strong>How to Change Negative Core Beliefs.</strong></a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's written right there in the Constitution of the United States of America: we have the right to pursue happiness.  But what is it that will make us happy?  We get down to the practical this week on how you can cultivate happiness in your own life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Why happiness is important to us</li><li>Avoiding Facebook happiness</li><li>How I found myself on a beautiful beach, but ultimately was miserable</li><li>The cost of misery in our lives</li><li>Focusing on a clear vision for your future</li><li>Enjoying the journey instead of focusing on the destination</li><li>Do the hard work first</li><li>Reframing the negative experiences in our lives</li><li>Standing up for yourself</li><li>Meaningfully connecting with others.</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/44">Secret Communication Skills</a> (Episode 44)</p><p><strong>Core Beliefs Activity</strong><br>Most people have 3 - 10 deeply rooted negative core beliefs. Become aware of them and replace them with a healthier perspective so they no longer drive you. Identify your top 3 - 5 negative core beliefs using this<a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/egfy8powdkqi4y9/Core%20Beliefs.pdf?dl=1"> </a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/uglke58sny8dbg2/Damaging%20Core%20Beliefs%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=1"><strong>30 Damaging Core Beliefs Worksheet. </strong></a>You never know when something might go wrong. Seeing that there are lots of option.. Then complete a <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/dkbco9ypscsfmgn/Be%20Truth%20Oriented.pdf?dl=1"><strong>Be Truth Oriented Worksheet </strong></a>for each one. Enter the negative core belief in step 1 on the Be Truth Oriented worksheet and follow each step. Save on your desktop, completed, and email the completed worksheets back to me before our next visit. Here's an article article to read that will be helpful <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/"><strong>How to Change Negative Core Beliefs.</strong></a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1745</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>It's written right there in the Declaration of Independence: we have the right to pursue happiness.  But what is it that will make us happy?  We get down to the practical this week on how you can cultivate happiness in your own life.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>It's written right there in the Declaration of Independence: we have the right to pursue happiness.  But what is it that will make us happy?  We get down to the practical this week on how you can cultivate happiness in your own life.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#44: Secret Communication Skills</title>
      <itunes:episode>44</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>44</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#44: Secret Communication Skills</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Problems that can arise from poor communication</li><li>A fly-over of a few of the communication skills we usually talk about</li><li>Never giving your power away</li><li>How to not give up in communication with others</li><li>Sharing your story in a vulnerable way</li><li>How to dig deeper in conversation with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Conflict Resolution</a> (Episode #41)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/_w6PcOzIm7A">New Orleans Surprise Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U">If by Rudyard Kipling</a> - Read by Sir Michael Caine<br><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0">Do it Anyway</a> by Mother Teresa<br><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo">How Did You Die</a> by Edmund Vance Cooke<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>All the risks I'm taking (I'm doing it a lot lately)</li><li>Problems that can arise from poor communication</li><li>A fly-over of a few of the communication skills we usually talk about</li><li>Never giving your power away</li><li>How to not give up in communication with others</li><li>Sharing your story in a vulnerable way</li><li>How to dig deeper in conversation with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Conflict Resolution</a> (Episode #41)<br><a href="https://youtu.be/_w6PcOzIm7A">New Orleans Surprise Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/sqOgyNfHl1U">If by Rudyard Kipling</a> - Read by Sir Michael Caine<br><a href="https://youtu.be/rOIQ5968Ph0">Do it Anyway</a> by Mother Teresa<br><a href="https://youtu.be/WgDCoH79kyo">How Did You Die</a> by Edmund Vance Cooke<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p><br>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1667</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>We regularly talk about the basics of communication and how to improve them, but I want to go beyond the basics today.  I'm going to share several secret skills that will take your communication to a deeper and stronger level with those around you.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>BONUS: Serenity Meditation</title>
      <itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided serenity mediation exercise.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some meditation practice.</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided serenity mediation exercise.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some meditation practice.</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>534</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided serenity mediation exercise.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some meditation practice.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided serenity mediation exercise.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some meditation practice.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#43: Working Through Grief or Trauma</title>
      <itunes:episode>43</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>43</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>One of the things we most desperately want to avoid is dealing with grief and trauma in our lives.  In this episode, we break down the grief process and several actions you can take to help move through it.   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>One of the most procrastinated items is facing grief or trauma</li><li>The 5 stages of grief</li><li>Finding a process for healing</li><li>Feeling your feelings</li><li>The danger of emotional constipation</li><li>Understanding the impact of loss</li><li>Talking about your loss with others</li><li>Facing your trauma</li><li>Creating a dookie list</li><li>Having a bigger purpose</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You Should Deal with Your Past</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/42">Episode 41: Stop Procrastination Now!</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0GQSJrpVhM">How to Fix a Broken Heart: Poop List</a> (TED Talk)<br><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/i5_rlD2j4As">YouTube Short: Plan Exciting Things</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>One of the things we most desperately want to avoid is dealing with grief and trauma in our lives.  In this episode, we break down the grief process and several actions you can take to help move through it.   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>One of the most procrastinated items is facing grief or trauma</li><li>The 5 stages of grief</li><li>Finding a process for healing</li><li>Feeling your feelings</li><li>The danger of emotional constipation</li><li>Understanding the impact of loss</li><li>Talking about your loss with others</li><li>Facing your trauma</li><li>Creating a dookie list</li><li>Having a bigger purpose</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why You Should Deal with Your Past</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/42">Episode 41: Stop Procrastination Now!</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0GQSJrpVhM">How to Fix a Broken Heart: Poop List</a> (TED Talk)<br><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/i5_rlD2j4As">YouTube Short: Plan Exciting Things</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>1326</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>One of the things we most desperately want to avoid is dealing with grief and trauma in our lives.  In this episode, we break down the grief process and several actions you can take to help move through it.   And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life! </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>One of the things we most desperately want to avoid is dealing with grief and trauma in our lives.  In this episode, we break down the grief process and several actions you can take to help move through it.   And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Li</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#42: Stop Procrastination Now! (9 Strategies You Can Use)</title>
      <itunes:episode>42</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Most people actually have goals and aspirations for their lives.  But despite knowing what they want, they find themselves spinning their wheels (present company included) because of procrastination.  In this episode we review 9 strategies you can implement now to stop procrastinating!   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The four (4) risks I took recently</li><li>Why we procrastinate</li><li>The emotional component of procrastination</li><li>How many people can identify their goals</li><li>Delayed gratification</li><li>Harvard goals study and what it says about the influence goals have on our life</li><li>What delegation can do for you</li></ul><p>The 10 Strategies:</p><ol><li>Identifying your ideal weekly schedule</li><li>Clarifying the quadrants of important / urgent</li><li>Planning your top tasks regularly</li><li>Creating a written schedule</li><li>Writing down your goals</li><li>Counting the cost of procrastination</li><li>Asking others for help</li><li>Dealing with your perfectionism</li><li>Creating a life purpose statement</li></ol><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46473/if---">If by Rudyard Kipling</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/">Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done</a></p><p><a href="http://www.planetofsuccess.com/blog/2015/stephen-coveys-time-management-matrix-explained/">Stephen Covey's Time Management Matrix Explained</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/">3 Ways to Eliminate Mental Clutter</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-1/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-2/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 2)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-3/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 3)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Dealing With Conflict (Episode 41)</a><br><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/SP9uVI_spdY?feature=share">Clip: Do the Hardest Thing First</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Most people actually have goals and aspirations for their lives.  But despite knowing what they want, they find themselves spinning their wheels (present company included) because of procrastination.  In this episode we review 9 strategies you can implement now to stop procrastinating!   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The four (4) risks I took recently</li><li>Why we procrastinate</li><li>The emotional component of procrastination</li><li>How many people can identify their goals</li><li>Delayed gratification</li><li>Harvard goals study and what it says about the influence goals have on our life</li><li>What delegation can do for you</li></ul><p>The 10 Strategies:</p><ol><li>Identifying your ideal weekly schedule</li><li>Clarifying the quadrants of important / urgent</li><li>Planning your top tasks regularly</li><li>Creating a written schedule</li><li>Writing down your goals</li><li>Counting the cost of procrastination</li><li>Asking others for help</li><li>Dealing with your perfectionism</li><li>Creating a life purpose statement</li></ol><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46473/if---">If by Rudyard Kipling</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/avoid-procrastination/">Stop Procrastinating &amp; Get Things Done</a></p><p><a href="http://www.planetofsuccess.com/blog/2015/stephen-coveys-time-management-matrix-explained/">Stephen Covey's Time Management Matrix Explained</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/3-ways-to-eliminate-mental-clutter/">3 Ways to Eliminate Mental Clutter</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-1/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-2/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 2)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-3/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 3)</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/41">Dealing With Conflict (Episode 41)</a><br><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/SP9uVI_spdY?feature=share">Clip: Do the Hardest Thing First</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1382</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Most people actually have goals and aspirations for their lives.  But despite knowing what they want, they find themselves spinning their wheels (present company included) because of procrastination.  In this episode we review 9 strategies you can implement now to stop procrastinating!   And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life! </itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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        <![CDATA[<p>One of the things holding us back from true connection and intimacy with others is our inability to engage conflict in a healthy way.  I ran away from it myself for years.  But today I'm going to break down six essentials to engage conflict resolution.   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The kind of conflict we are talking about</li><li>Why conflict is so important for intimacy</li><li>How fear causes us to be passive and not engage</li><li>Abraham Lincoln's approach to engaging conflict</li><li>Stay away from all-or-nothing thinking</li><li>Following rules or guidelines for conflict</li><li>Don't take the bait!</li><li>The soft startup</li><li>Living in the middle</li><li>Listening and zoning in on others</li><li>Erring on the side of addressing things with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/3cmDTTa">Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln</a> by Dorris Kearns Goodwin<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/qwb945zruaeaydh/10%20Conflict%20Resolutions%20Rules%20&amp;%20Guidelines.pdf?dl=1">10 Conflict Resolution Rules &amp; Guidelines</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>One of the things holding us back from true connection and intimacy with others is our inability to engage conflict in a healthy way.  I ran away from it myself for years.  But today I'm going to break down six essentials to engage conflict resolution.   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The kind of conflict we are talking about</li><li>Why conflict is so important for intimacy</li><li>How fear causes us to be passive and not engage</li><li>Abraham Lincoln's approach to engaging conflict</li><li>Stay away from all-or-nothing thinking</li><li>Following rules or guidelines for conflict</li><li>Don't take the bait!</li><li>The soft startup</li><li>Living in the middle</li><li>Listening and zoning in on others</li><li>Erring on the side of addressing things with others</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://amzn.to/3cmDTTa">Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln</a> by Dorris Kearns Goodwin<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/qwb945zruaeaydh/10%20Conflict%20Resolutions%20Rules%20&amp;%20Guidelines.pdf?dl=1">10 Conflict Resolution Rules &amp; Guidelines</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1561</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>One of the things holding us back from true connection and intimacy with others is our inability to engage conflict in a healthy way.  I ran away from it myself for years.  But today I'm going to break down six essentials to engage conflict resolution.</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#40: 6 Ways to Cope with Stress (and avoid a mental breakdown)</title>
      <itunes:episode>40</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>40</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#40: 6 Ways to Cope with Stress (and avoid a mental breakdown)</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Not long ago I went through a serious struggle with anxiety and depression that left me sleepless for 5 straight nights.  I wasn't focusing on the steps I could implement to manage my own stress.  Here we break down six different ways you can make yourself shatterproof from the stress that will inevitably come.   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>My struggle with anxiety and depression</li><li>What a lack of sleep did to my perspective</li><li>Engaging positive relationships consistently</li><li>Consistent exercise to move your body</li><li>Rest and relaxation</li><li>Practicing gratitude</li><li>How to write effective affirmations</li><li>Engaging in self-care, finding those things that fill you up and energize you</li><li>Taking risks in your everyday life.</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Not long ago I went through a serious struggle with anxiety and depression that left me sleepless for 5 straight nights.  I wasn't focusing on the steps I could implement to manage my own stress.  Here we break down six different ways you can make yourself shatterproof from the stress that will inevitably come.   And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>My struggle with anxiety and depression</li><li>What a lack of sleep did to my perspective</li><li>Engaging positive relationships consistently</li><li>Consistent exercise to move your body</li><li>Rest and relaxation</li><li>Practicing gratitude</li><li>How to write effective affirmations</li><li>Engaging in self-care, finding those things that fill you up and energize you</li><li>Taking risks in your everyday life.</li></ul><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/e8480ce43e">And click HERE to get my NEW FREE <em>SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF </em>MENTAL HEALTH CHECKLIST!</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1654</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Not long ago I went through a serious struggle with anxiety and depression that left me sleepless for 5 straight nights.  I wasn't focusing on the steps I could implement to manage my own stress.  Here we break down six different ways you can make yourself shatterproof from the stress that will inevitably come.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Not long ago I went through a serious struggle with anxiety and depression that left me sleepless for 5 straight nights.  I wasn't focusing on the steps I could implement to manage my own stress.  Here we break down six different ways you can make yoursel</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#39: 5 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</title>
      <itunes:episode>39</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>39</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#39: 5 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So many people want to become more confident but they just don't know how.  On this episode we break down 5 specific and actionable steps you can take that will start building your self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risks I took this past week</li><li>How you can take risks in your life</li><li>Working on communication skills</li><li>Getting curious</li><li>The importance of body language and tone</li><li>Creating a schedule (and sticking to it)</li><li>Identifying that damaging mindsets that are impacting you</li><li>Velcro and Teflon</li><li>Having SMART-C goals</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvCYjjA1n98">My Easter Prank</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/3O5HYcu">Top 5 Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So many people want to become more confident but they just don't know how.  On this episode we break down 5 specific and actionable steps you can take that will start building your self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risks I took this past week</li><li>How you can take risks in your life</li><li>Working on communication skills</li><li>Getting curious</li><li>The importance of body language and tone</li><li>Creating a schedule (and sticking to it)</li><li>Identifying that damaging mindsets that are impacting you</li><li>Velcro and Teflon</li><li>Having SMART-C goals</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvCYjjA1n98">My Easter Prank</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/3O5HYcu">Top 5 Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1658</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>So many people want to become more confident but they just don't know how.  On this episode we break down 5 specific and actionable steps you can take that will start building your self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>So many people want to become more confident but they just don't know how.  On this episode we break down 5 specific and actionable steps you can take that will start building your self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:subtitle>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#38: Motivation in the Workplace (w/ Nevada Raitt)</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Got a special episode this time as I discuss motivation in the workplace with Nevada Raitt.  We discuss building effective teams and creating meaningful connections so that an organization can thrive.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why start a business that focuses on employee wellness</li><li>Learning from failures</li><li>Fostering connection between employees</li><li>Struggling together through adversity</li><li>How remote work is influencing connection in the workplace</li><li>How to build engagement at work</li><li>Giving ownership to others</li><li>Having fun as a team</li><li>Motivation works differently for everyone</li><li>Being available to your team</li><li>Being genuine and consistent over time</li><li>Making conflict safe for employees</li><li>Helping others achieve their dreams</li><li>Staying focused on your goals</li><li>Highlighting the meaning behind everything</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Tips for Improving Your Work Environment</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/6">Episode #6: Developing Deep &amp; Meaningful Friendships</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/31">Episode #31: Overcome the Fear of Rejection</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Things that Make Work Suck</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/Pk2CMjcNxsU">Skills for Successful Relationships - 10 min Video</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Got a special episode this time as I discuss motivation in the workplace with Nevada Raitt.  We discuss building effective teams and creating meaningful connections so that an organization can thrive.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why start a business that focuses on employee wellness</li><li>Learning from failures</li><li>Fostering connection between employees</li><li>Struggling together through adversity</li><li>How remote work is influencing connection in the workplace</li><li>How to build engagement at work</li><li>Giving ownership to others</li><li>Having fun as a team</li><li>Motivation works differently for everyone</li><li>Being available to your team</li><li>Being genuine and consistent over time</li><li>Making conflict safe for employees</li><li>Helping others achieve their dreams</li><li>Staying focused on your goals</li><li>Highlighting the meaning behind everything</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/">3 Tips for Improving Your Work Environment</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/6">Episode #6: Developing Deep &amp; Meaningful Friendships</a></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/31">Episode #31: Overcome the Fear of Rejection</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Fun Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/">4 Things that Make Work Suck</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/Pk2CMjcNxsU">Skills for Successful Relationships - 10 min Video</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Got a special episode this time as I discuss motivation in the workplace with Nevada Raitt.  We discuss building effective teams and creating meaningful connections so that an organization can thrive.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Got a special episode this time as I discuss motivation in the workplace with Nevada Raitt.  We discuss building effective teams and creating meaningful connections so that an organization can thrive.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:subtitle>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#37: Stop Sabotaging Your Success</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So often, we come incredibly close to having a positive breakthrough in our lives, only to turn around and self-sabotage the good things that are happening.  Why do we do that? And what can we do to stop it?  We discuss all that today on the podcast.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Where does self-sabotage come from?</li><li>Taking big risks</li><li>Intrinsic v. extrensic worth</li><li>The power of the pause</li><li>Taking the opposite action</li></ul><ol><li>Improve your self-worth</li><li>Visualize success</li><li>Work on emotional and mental health</li></ol><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/19">Episode 19: Improving Your Self-Worth</a><br><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000551141308">Episode 36: Identifying Healthy vs. Toxic Relationships</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/">A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</a> - Article</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-be-emotionally-healthy-part-1/">4 Tools for Becoming Emotionally Healthy</a> - Article</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So often, we come incredibly close to having a positive breakthrough in our lives, only to turn around and self-sabotage the good things that are happening.  Why do we do that? And what can we do to stop it?  We discuss all that today on the podcast.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Where does self-sabotage come from?</li><li>Taking big risks</li><li>Intrinsic v. extrensic worth</li><li>The power of the pause</li><li>Taking the opposite action</li></ul><ol><li>Improve your self-worth</li><li>Visualize success</li><li>Work on emotional and mental health</li></ol><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/19">Episode 19: Improving Your Self-Worth</a><br><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/decide-your-legacy/id1512950050?i=1000551141308">Episode 36: Identifying Healthy vs. Toxic Relationships</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-are-valuable/">A Transformational Self-Confidence Building Activity</a> - Article</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-be-emotionally-healthy-part-1/">4 Tools for Becoming Emotionally Healthy</a> - Article</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2031</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>So often, we come incredibly close to having a positive breakthrough in our lives, only to turn around and self-sabotage the good things that are happening.  Why do we do that? And what can we do to stop it?  We discuss all that today on the podcast!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>So often, we come incredibly close to having a positive breakthrough in our lives, only to turn around and self-sabotage the good things that are happening.  Why do we do that? And what can we do to stop it?  We discuss all that today on the podcast!</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#36: Identifying Healthy v. Toxic Relationships</title>
      <itunes:episode>36</itunes:episode>
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      <itunes:title>#36: Identifying Healthy v. Toxic Relationships</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Relationships are a key part of all of our lives and have major ramifications on our life satisfaction.  But how do we know which ones are good for us?  On this episode we explore what healthy v. toxic looks like.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risks I took last week</li><li>Why healthy relationships are so important</li><li>The monkey and his buddy</li><li>7 things to look for in healthy relationships</li></ul><ol><li>Do they having lasting relationships?</li><li>Do they have a sense of humor?</li><li>Are they easily offended?</li><li>Are they willing to deal with their past?</li><li>Do they have healthy lifestyle habits?</li><li>Do they establish healthy boundaries that are in line with their values?</li><li>Do they have a healthy amount of self-confidence?</li></ol><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://youtu.be/XvCYjjA1n98">Easter Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/19">Episode 19: Improving Your Self-Worth</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/35">Episode 35: Practices to Overcome Anxiety</a><br><a href="https://wichita.loonybincomedy.com/">The Loony Bin</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Relationships are a key part of all of our lives and have major ramifications on our life satisfaction.  But how do we know which ones are good for us?  On this episode we explore what healthy v. toxic looks like.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risks I took last week</li><li>Why healthy relationships are so important</li><li>The monkey and his buddy</li><li>7 things to look for in healthy relationships</li></ul><ol><li>Do they having lasting relationships?</li><li>Do they have a sense of humor?</li><li>Are they easily offended?</li><li>Are they willing to deal with their past?</li><li>Do they have healthy lifestyle habits?</li><li>Do they establish healthy boundaries that are in line with their values?</li><li>Do they have a healthy amount of self-confidence?</li></ol><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://youtu.be/XvCYjjA1n98">Easter Prank 2022</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/19">Episode 19: Improving Your Self-Worth</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/35">Episode 35: Practices to Overcome Anxiety</a><br><a href="https://wichita.loonybincomedy.com/">The Loony Bin</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2022 06:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2273</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Relationships are a key part of all of our lives and have major ramifications on our life satisfaction.  But how do we know which ones are good for us?  On this episode we explore what healthy v. toxic looks like.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Relationships are a key part of all of our lives and have major ramifications on our life satisfaction.  But how do we know which ones are good for us?  On this episode we explore what healthy v. toxic looks like.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>BONUS: Guided Self-Confidence Mindfulness Meditation</title>
      <itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided mindfulness mediation exercise to help you become more focused and aware.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some practice at mindfulness.</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided mindfulness mediation exercise to help you become more focused and aware.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some practice at mindfulness.</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>518</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided mindfulness mediation exercise to help you gain perspective and become more aware.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some practice at mindfulness.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>On this special BONUS episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast Adam walks you through a guided mindfulness mediation exercise to help you gain perspective and become more aware.  Come back to this episode anytime you need some practice at mindfulness.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#35: Practices to Overcome Anxiety</title>
      <itunes:episode>35</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>35</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's time to get practical on dealing with anxiety.  This week we will cover 3 specific practices you can do today to overcome your anxiety, including walking through a mindfulness exercise together.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How anxiety is different from fear</li><li>Sympathetic v. parasympathetic</li><li>Taking action to get out from anxiety</li><li>Identifying negative core beliefs</li><li>The value of journaling</li><li>Adding humor to your life</li><li>Practicing mindfulness</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-2/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 2)<br></a><br><em>Short Stories<br></em><a href="https://amzn.to/3vaMuj1">The Essential Earnest Hemingway</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/39fxaJl">Tales from the Klondike: A Treasury of Jack London's Best Short </a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/38fDWOH">The Complete Stories</a> by Flannery O'Connor<br><a href="https://amzn.to/3EKurmF">50 Great Short Stories</a></p><p><em>Funny Videos (I can watch these over and over)<br></em><a href="https://youtu.be/YMJPrNQxPNA">The Farting Old Man</a><br><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/hnvWlo2mqnk?feature=share">Nobody Messes with my BOY……FRIEND</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/nGeKSiCQkPw">Ultimate Dog Tease</a></p><p><em>Gag Gifts (Oh yes, I have these and many more)<br></em><a href="https://amzn.to/3LcdF2d">Remote Controlled Fart Machine</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/3xVIBQR">Fake Beer Belly Waist Pack</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/3KgVlns">Yodeling Pickle</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's time to get practical on dealing with anxiety.  This week we will cover 3 specific practices you can do today to overcome your anxiety, including walking through a mindfulness exercise together.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How anxiety is different from fear</li><li>Sympathetic v. parasympathetic</li><li>Taking action to get out from anxiety</li><li>Identifying negative core beliefs</li><li>The value of journaling</li><li>Adding humor to your life</li><li>Practicing mindfulness</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-2/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 2)<br></a><br><em>Short Stories<br></em><a href="https://amzn.to/3vaMuj1">The Essential Earnest Hemingway</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/39fxaJl">Tales from the Klondike: A Treasury of Jack London's Best Short </a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/38fDWOH">The Complete Stories</a> by Flannery O'Connor<br><a href="https://amzn.to/3EKurmF">50 Great Short Stories</a></p><p><em>Funny Videos (I can watch these over and over)<br></em><a href="https://youtu.be/YMJPrNQxPNA">The Farting Old Man</a><br><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/hnvWlo2mqnk?feature=share">Nobody Messes with my BOY……FRIEND</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/nGeKSiCQkPw">Ultimate Dog Tease</a></p><p><em>Gag Gifts (Oh yes, I have these and many more)<br></em><a href="https://amzn.to/3LcdF2d">Remote Controlled Fart Machine</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/3xVIBQR">Fake Beer Belly Waist Pack</a><br><a href="https://amzn.to/3KgVlns">Yodeling Pickle</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <title>#34: Building a Life You Love</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Our world is filled with so many distractions that it is easy to go through the motions.  However, by using a process I help every client through can help you to build a life that you love and are passionate about.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam took this week</li><li>When my house was on fire</li><li>A process of transformation through "The Legacy Cycle"</li><li>Starting with a good foundation of beans</li><li>The importance of social skills</li><li>Building your self-concept</li><li>Connecting with your emotions</li><li>Creating the right filters in your life</li><li>How we are giving ourselves ADD</li><li>Creating a balanced lifestyle</li><li>Setting the right goals and their corresponding habits</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Creating Your Core Values</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/y3ff68tt0manxgk/TheLegacyCycle-Vertical2019_updated.pdf?dl=1">The Legacy Cycle</a> (guide)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-i-started-decide-your-legacy-part-1/">Why I Started Decide Your Legacy</a> (blog)<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-find-clarity-life/">How to Find Clarity in Your Life</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/">Clarifying a Vision for your Future</a> (blog)</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Our world is filled with so many distractions that it is easy to go through the motions.  However, by using a process I help every client through can help you to build a life that you love and are passionate about.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam took this week</li><li>When my house was on fire</li><li>A process of transformation through "The Legacy Cycle"</li><li>Starting with a good foundation of beans</li><li>The importance of social skills</li><li>Building your self-concept</li><li>Connecting with your emotions</li><li>Creating the right filters in your life</li><li>How we are giving ourselves ADD</li><li>Creating a balanced lifestyle</li><li>Setting the right goals and their corresponding habits</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Creating Your Core Values</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/y3ff68tt0manxgk/TheLegacyCycle-Vertical2019_updated.pdf?dl=1">The Legacy Cycle</a> (guide)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-i-started-decide-your-legacy-part-1/">Why I Started Decide Your Legacy</a> (blog)<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-find-clarity-life/">How to Find Clarity in Your Life</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/">Clarifying a Vision for your Future</a> (blog)</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>Our world is filled with so many distractions that it is easy to go through the motions.  However, by using a process I help every client through can help you to build a life that you love and are passionate about.</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#33: How Travel Can Transform Your Life</title>
      <itunes:episode>33</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>33</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week Adam is joined by a special guest expert on travel (and his sister), Erica Gragg from Escape to Shape to talk about the three ways that travel can positively transform your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How Erica discovered her passion for travel</li><li>How she approaches travel in her business</li><li>Using travel to creating a shift in perspective</li><li>How fear drives us to pull away from things that are helpful</li><li>Becoming more flexible and open to new experiences</li><li>Travel revealing opportunity for growth</li><li>Getting started with travel through food</li></ul><p>See how Erica can help you with your travel needs!<br><a href="https://escapetoshape.com/">www.escapetoshape.com</a><br><a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">www.escapeartiststravel.com</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/28">Be More Spontaneous</a> (podcast) <br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Travel-Book-Lonely-Planet/dp/1838694595?keywords=travel+book&amp;qid=1647029675&amp;sr=8-1-spons&amp;psc=1&amp;spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzSFRNSzVUVkQ4VVVBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwODI0NzI4MjdISEc4TzdORTgxVCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNTEyNjE1MU9JUldYM0xNVEc3SSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=9e205a39f9733ad6b85e81824a4e90ad&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">The Travel Book</a> by Lonely Planet</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week Adam is joined by a special guest expert on travel (and his sister), Erica Gragg from Escape to Shape to talk about the three ways that travel can positively transform your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How Erica discovered her passion for travel</li><li>How she approaches travel in her business</li><li>Using travel to creating a shift in perspective</li><li>How fear drives us to pull away from things that are helpful</li><li>Becoming more flexible and open to new experiences</li><li>Travel revealing opportunity for growth</li><li>Getting started with travel through food</li></ul><p>See how Erica can help you with your travel needs!<br><a href="https://escapetoshape.com/">www.escapetoshape.com</a><br><a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">www.escapeartiststravel.com</a></p><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/28">Be More Spontaneous</a> (podcast) <br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Travel-Book-Lonely-Planet/dp/1838694595?keywords=travel+book&amp;qid=1647029675&amp;sr=8-1-spons&amp;psc=1&amp;spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzSFRNSzVUVkQ4VVVBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwODI0NzI4MjdISEc4TzdORTgxVCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNTEyNjE1MU9JUldYM0xNVEc3SSZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=9e205a39f9733ad6b85e81824a4e90ad&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">The Travel Book</a> by Lonely Planet</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#32: Becoming More Encouraging</title>
      <itunes:episode>32</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>Why social skills matter</li><li>Asking questions instead of giving advice</li><li>Letting go of having control</li><li>The best types of open ended questions</li><li>Learning to trust your intuition</li><li>Seeking first to understand and validate</li><li>Expressing appreciation consistently</li><li>How to appreciate in the workplace</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode 14:Finding Your Life Purpose</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3">Episode 3: Asking Great Questions</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversation</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/4zny4kr3hjap2gd/Speaker%20Listener%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Speaker/Listener Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Emotions Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/6d42a3mp9baiu34/5%20Languages%20of%20Appreciation%20in%20the%20Workplace.pdf?dl=1">5 Languages of Appreciation in The Workplace</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ix8hyamjavuolhx/9%20Key%20Social%20Skills.pdf?dl=1">9 Key Social Skills</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>Why social skills matter</li><li>Asking questions instead of giving advice</li><li>Letting go of having control</li><li>The best types of open ended questions</li><li>Learning to trust your intuition</li><li>Seeking first to understand and validate</li><li>Expressing appreciation consistently</li><li>How to appreciate in the workplace</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Episode 14:Finding Your Life Purpose</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/3">Episode 3: Asking Great Questions</a> (podcast)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversation</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/4zny4kr3hjap2gd/Speaker%20Listener%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Speaker/Listener Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=1">Emotions Bookmark</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/6d42a3mp9baiu34/5%20Languages%20of%20Appreciation%20in%20the%20Workplace.pdf?dl=1">5 Languages of Appreciation in The Workplace</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ix8hyamjavuolhx/9%20Key%20Social%20Skills.pdf?dl=1">9 Key Social Skills</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>2528</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Social skills can be a powerful way to develop the life you've always wanted.  In this episode we get down to how you can be more encouraging to those around you and the impact that can have on your life.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#31. Overcome the Fear of Rejection</title>
      <itunes:episode>31</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>31</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#31. Overcome the Fear of Rejection</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The most common thing holding us back from the life we want is the fear of rejection.  Learn where that fear is coming from and how you can overpower it in your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>How fear of rejection is holding you back</li><li>Avoiding being excluded from the tribe</li><li>Rejection will not kill you</li><li>The role of confirmation bias</li><li>Knowing your "why"</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591846447/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1591846447&amp;linkId=726b15b9405a1f752f3de656b659edf8">Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action</a> by Simon Sinek<br><a href="https://youtu.be/u4ZoJKF_VuA">Start with Why - How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action</a> - Ted Talk by Simon Sinek<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0966398130/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=0966398130&amp;linkId=b204fa79cc1796831fa094c1407f7fde">Go For the No! Yes is the Destination, No is How You Get There</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401956009/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1401956009&amp;linkId=10e57fd9fe2151c69636f6e4c7d026ef">Top Five Regrets of the Dying. A Life Transformed By the Dearly Departing</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ">What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection (Ja Jing Ted Talk)</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The most common thing holding us back from the life we want is the fear of rejection.  Learn where that fear is coming from and how you can overpower it in your life.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a> (and use the code "mylifepurpose" to get $100 off)!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The risk Adam is taking right now</li><li>How fear of rejection is holding you back</li><li>Avoiding being excluded from the tribe</li><li>Rejection will not kill you</li><li>The role of confirmation bias</li><li>Knowing your "why"</li></ul><p>Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg</p><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591846447/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1591846447&amp;linkId=726b15b9405a1f752f3de656b659edf8">Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action</a> by Simon Sinek<br><a href="https://youtu.be/u4ZoJKF_VuA">Start with Why - How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action</a> - Ted Talk by Simon Sinek<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0966398130/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=0966398130&amp;linkId=b204fa79cc1796831fa094c1407f7fde">Go For the No! Yes is the Destination, No is How You Get There</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401956009/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1401956009&amp;linkId=10e57fd9fe2151c69636f6e4c7d026ef">Top Five Regrets of the Dying. A Life Transformed By the Dearly Departing</a> (book)<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ">What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection (Ja Jing Ted Talk)</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>1930</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>The most common thing holding us back from the life we want is the fear of rejection.  Learn where that fear is coming from and how you can overpower it in your life.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life! </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>The most common thing holding us back from the life we want is the fear of rejection.  Learn where that fear is coming from and how you can overpower it in your life.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life! </itunes:subtitle>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#30: Kickstart Your Self-Confidence</title>
      <itunes:episode>30</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>30</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#30: Kickstart Your Self-Confidence</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This is the year to beat back the negativity and build your self-confidence.  Adam breaks down three commitments you can make now to start engaging in a way that will build your own self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why are we so negative?</li><li>Commitment #1: Stop Avoiding Things</li><li>Counting the cost of procrastination</li><li>The confidence visualization exercise</li><li>Commitment #2: Keep Promises to Yourself</li><li>The dangers of self-sabotage</li><li>Envisioning your ideal day</li><li>Commitment #3: Don't Play It Safe</li><li>Things Adam and his clients have done to step out in courage</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ij4r0osf265f2uv/If%20I%20Had%20More%20Confidence.pdf?dl=1">If I Had More Confidence Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/a-simple-and-powerful-stress-coping-tool/">A Simple &amp; Powerful Stress Coping Tool</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/0ajn0w9uf1kx5ef/Can_Cannot%20Non%20Fillable.pdf?dl=0">Focus on What You Can Influence Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self Confidence</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This is the year to beat back the negativity and build your self-confidence.  Adam breaks down three commitments you can make now to start engaging in a way that will build your own self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life</a>!  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why are we so negative?</li><li>Commitment #1: Stop Avoiding Things</li><li>Counting the cost of procrastination</li><li>The confidence visualization exercise</li><li>Commitment #2: Keep Promises to Yourself</li><li>The dangers of self-sabotage</li><li>Envisioning your ideal day</li><li>Commitment #3: Don't Play It Safe</li><li>Things Adam and his clients have done to step out in courage</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ij4r0osf265f2uv/If%20I%20Had%20More%20Confidence.pdf?dl=1">If I Had More Confidence Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/a-simple-and-powerful-stress-coping-tool/">A Simple &amp; Powerful Stress Coping Tool</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/0ajn0w9uf1kx5ef/Can_Cannot%20Non%20Fillable.pdf?dl=0">Focus on What You Can Influence Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self Confidence</a><br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2312</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>This is the year to beat back the negativity and build your self-confidence.  Adam breaks down three commitments you can make now to start engaging in a way that will build your own self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>This is the year to beat back the negativity and build your self-confidence.  Adam breaks down three commitments you can make now to start engaging in a way that will build your own self-confidence.  And don't forget to sign up for Tune Up For Life!</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#29: Repair Relationships Over the Holidays [Rebroadcast]</title>
      <itunes:episode>29</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>29</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repair those relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens to our anxiety as we approach the holidays</li><li>Why it is important to address the potential harm this anxiety brings</li><li>Specific and actionable strategies to build your relationships<ul><li>Lower expectations</li><li>Do something new</li><li>Be generous</li><li>Ask for help</li><li>Be curious</li><li>Open your heart</li><li>Focus on the positive</li></ul></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-strategies-engage-family-holidays-celebrations/">7 Strategies for Positively Engaging Family Members Over the Holidays</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Relationship Building Questions</a> (blog)<br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repair those relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens to our anxiety as we approach the holidays</li><li>Why it is important to address the potential harm this anxiety brings</li><li>Specific and actionable strategies to build your relationships<ul><li>Lower expectations</li><li>Do something new</li><li>Be generous</li><li>Ask for help</li><li>Be curious</li><li>Open your heart</li><li>Focus on the positive</li></ul></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-strategies-engage-family-holidays-celebrations/">7 Strategies for Positively Engaging Family Members Over the Holidays</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Relationship Building Questions</a> (blog)<br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>2112</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repair those relationships.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repa</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#28: Be More Spontaneous</title>
      <itunes:episode>28</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>28</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>"Dad, I'd love to see the mountains."  It's a simple statement, and one that can be ignored or pushed out into an ambiguous future.  Find out what can happen when we intentionally use these promptings to have amazing spontaneous experiences. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What Adam wants to be when he grows up</li><li>What it means to be spontaneous</li><li>The fun things I like to do in Wichita and how to make your own "fun list"</li><li>Inspiration v. Information</li><li>Avoiding getting stuck on results</li><li>Spontaneity is not an excuse to make bad choices</li><li>The benefits of being flexible</li><li>Making a habit of saying "yes" to the right things</li><li>The three A's of being spontaneous</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>"Dad, I'd love to see the mountains."  It's a simple statement, and one that can be ignored or pushed out into an ambiguous future.  Find out what can happen when we intentionally use these promptings to have amazing spontaneous experiences. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What Adam wants to be when he grows up</li><li>What it means to be spontaneous</li><li>The fun things I like to do in Wichita and how to make your own "fun list"</li><li>Inspiration v. Information</li><li>Avoiding getting stuck on results</li><li>Spontaneity is not an excuse to make bad choices</li><li>The benefits of being flexible</li><li>Making a habit of saying "yes" to the right things</li><li>The three A's of being spontaneous</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2021 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>1956</itunes:duration>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#27: Dealing with Trauma (w/ Jenny Helms)</title>
      <itunes:episode>27</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>27</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's a heavy and difficult topic, but many of us have past trauma in our lives that needs to be dealt with.  On this episode Jenny Helms, a trauma and eating disorder specialist from Soma Therapy, joins Adam as they dive into this incredibly valuable discussion. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How trauma impacts our lives if not addressed</li><li>The power that denial can have</li><li>The impact parents have on their children, even unintended</li><li>The value of getting to know yourself</li><li>The relationship between addictions and trauma</li><li>The identity of self</li><li>Catching the narrative in your life</li><li>Top-down and bottom-up approaches for dealing with trauma</li><li>Learning from your emotions</li><li>Psychedelics in dealing with trauma</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.somawichita.com/jenny-helms/">More about Jenny Helms</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's a heavy and difficult topic, but many of us have past trauma in our lives that needs to be dealt with.  On this episode Jenny Helms, a trauma and eating disorder specialist from Soma Therapy, joins Adam as they dive into this incredibly valuable discussion. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How trauma impacts our lives if not addressed</li><li>The power that denial can have</li><li>The impact parents have on their children, even unintended</li><li>The value of getting to know yourself</li><li>The relationship between addictions and trauma</li><li>The identity of self</li><li>Catching the narrative in your life</li><li>Top-down and bottom-up approaches for dealing with trauma</li><li>Learning from your emotions</li><li>Psychedelics in dealing with trauma</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.somawichita.com/jenny-helms/">More about Jenny Helms</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>It's a heavy and difficult topic, but many of us have past trauma in our lives that needs to be dealt with.  On this episode Jenny Helms, a trauma and eating disorder specialist from Soma Therapy, joins Adam as they dive into this incredibly valuable discussion.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>It's a heavy and difficult topic, but many of us have past trauma in our lives that needs to be dealt with.  On this episode Jenny Helms, a trauma and eating disorder specialist from Soma Therapy, joins Adam as they dive into this incredibly valuable disc</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#26: Finding Your Career Fit</title>
      <itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>26</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#26: Finding Your Career Fit</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Just graduated and starting out?  Stuck in a job you don't like but don't know where to go?  Having the right career fit can make a massive difference in your life, so today we break down how to point yourself in the right direction! On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why is a career fit so important?</li><li>What happened when I was unemployed</li><li>Stop trying harder</li><li>The two questions I ask every client</li><li>Three steps to finding your career fit<ul><li>Know yourself</li><li>Create and use filters</li><li>Take action regularly</li></ul></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get career coaching from Adam and Hunter!</a></li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/8">Developing life balance<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Clarifying your life purpose</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Refining your core values</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Just graduated and starting out?  Stuck in a job you don't like but don't know where to go?  Having the right career fit can make a massive difference in your life, so today we break down how to point yourself in the right direction! On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why is a career fit so important?</li><li>What happened when I was unemployed</li><li>Stop trying harder</li><li>The two questions I ask every client</li><li>Three steps to finding your career fit<ul><li>Know yourself</li><li>Create and use filters</li><li>Take action regularly</li></ul></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get career coaching from Adam and Hunter!</a></li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/8">Developing life balance<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/14">Clarifying your life purpose</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Refining your core values</a></p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2202</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Just graduated and starting out?  Stuck in a job you don't like but don't know where to go?  Having the right career fit can make a massive difference in your life, so today we break down how to point yourself in the right direction!</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Just graduated and starting out?  Stuck in a job you don't like but don't know where to go?  Having the right career fit can make a massive difference in your life, so today we break down how to point yourself in the right direction!</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#25: Facing Your Fears</title>
      <itunes:episode>25</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>25</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#25: Facing Your Fears</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you ready to punch fear in the face?  Adam breaks down simple and tactical steps to get you on the road to overcoming the fear roadblocks that are holding you back.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How fears can drive us</li><li>Becoming aware of the fears in your life</li><li>Accepting how these fears are influencing you</li><li>Finding action that can be taken</li><li>Tons of strategies and tactical ways to engage in facing your biggest fears</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">22 Tips for Strengthening Relationships</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/11-marriage-building-activities/">12 Dating &amp; Marriage Building Activities</a><br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/16-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/2n41e9su3fM">5 Second Rule</a> - Mel Robbins</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/_BNDdamTDak">No More Excuses</a> - Mel Robbins</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Are you ready to punch fear in the face?  Adam breaks down simple and tactical steps to get you on the road to overcoming the fear roadblocks that are holding you back.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How fears can drive us</li><li>Becoming aware of the fears in your life</li><li>Accepting how these fears are influencing you</li><li>Finding action that can be taken</li><li>Tons of strategies and tactical ways to engage in facing your biggest fears</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-building-relationships/">22 Tips for Strengthening Relationships</a></p><p><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/11-marriage-building-activities/">12 Dating &amp; Marriage Building Activities</a><br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/16-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/2n41e9su3fM">5 Second Rule</a> - Mel Robbins</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/_BNDdamTDak">No More Excuses</a> - Mel Robbins</p><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE!</p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2021 07:21:53 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#24: Staying Focused on Your Goals</title>
      <itunes:episode>24</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>24</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#24: Staying Focused on Your Goals</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It happens every year on January 1st.  Millions of people make promises to change and commit to achieving new goals only to find themselves months later wondering what went wrong.  Adam is joined on this episode by Hunter LaMunyon to discuss how we can set goals more effectively and focus in such a way to overcome the obstacles that face us.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Adam and Hunter answer a question from <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/product/the-legacy-jar/">The Legacy Jar</a></li><li>Setting goals in all life areas to maintain balance</li><li>Three primary steps to get your goals in focus</li><li>Leaning into and accepting fear and rejection</li><li>Setting SMART-C goals</li><li>Habits and strategies for keeping your goals in front of you</li><li>Finding small successes to build momentum</li><li>Celebrating the completion of goals</li><li>Sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up for Life</a>!</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Episode 23: Core Values<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/">Clarifying a Vision for your Future</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-1/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-2/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 2)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-3/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 3)</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/mipegcv67rt5jcx/Goals%20are%20a%20Friend%20of%20Marriage.pdf?dl=0">Goals Are a Friend of Marriage</a></p><p>Interested in learning more from Hunter?  You can reach him at hunter@decideyourlegacy.com</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It happens every year on January 1st.  Millions of people make promises to change and commit to achieving new goals only to find themselves months later wondering what went wrong.  Adam is joined on this episode by Hunter LaMunyon to discuss how we can set goals more effectively and focus in such a way to overcome the obstacles that face us.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Adam and Hunter answer a question from <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/product/the-legacy-jar/">The Legacy Jar</a></li><li>Setting goals in all life areas to maintain balance</li><li>Three primary steps to get your goals in focus</li><li>Leaning into and accepting fear and rejection</li><li>Setting SMART-C goals</li><li>Habits and strategies for keeping your goals in front of you</li><li>Finding small successes to build momentum</li><li>Celebrating the completion of goals</li><li>Sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up for Life</a>!</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/23">Episode 23: Core Values<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/personal-vision-activity/">Clarifying a Vision for your Future</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-1/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-2/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 2)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-3/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 3)</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/mipegcv67rt5jcx/Goals%20are%20a%20Friend%20of%20Marriage.pdf?dl=0">Goals Are a Friend of Marriage</a></p><p>Interested in learning more from Hunter?  You can reach him at hunter@decideyourlegacy.com</p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2021 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>It happens every year on January 1st.  Millions of people make promises to change and commit to achieving new goals only to find themselves months later wondering what went wrong.  Adam is joined on this episode by Hunter LaMunyon to discuss how we can set goals more effectively and focus in such a way to overcome the obstacles that face us.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>It happens every year on January 1st.  Millions of people make promises to change and commit to achieving new goals only to find themselves months later wondering what went wrong.  Adam is joined on this episode by Hunter LaMunyon to discuss how we can se</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#23: Core Values</title>
      <itunes:episode>23</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>23</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>You hear the buzzword in businesses everywhere: core values.  But what are they?  And how can they help you live a more fulfilled and purpose-driven life? On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What are core values?</li><li>The benefit of having a clearly defined set of core values in your life</li><li>The different types of values</li><li>How many core values is too many?</li><li>Figuring out your own core values with the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/qdamxhdwnj2kjbu/Core%20Values%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=0">Core Values Worksheet</a></li><li>Sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up for Life</a>!</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/22">Episode 22: Trusting Your Intuition<br></a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/k7m2ipflbq89vdq/Radical%20Self%20Care.pdf?dl=0">Radical Self Care</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work and Family Events</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Great Questions to Spark Meaningful Conversation</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>You hear the buzzword in businesses everywhere: core values.  But what are they?  And how can they help you live a more fulfilled and purpose-driven life? On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What are core values?</li><li>The benefit of having a clearly defined set of core values in your life</li><li>The different types of values</li><li>How many core values is too many?</li><li>Figuring out your own core values with the <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/qdamxhdwnj2kjbu/Core%20Values%20Worksheet.pdf?dl=0">Core Values Worksheet</a></li><li>Sign up for <a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up for Life</a>!</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/22">Episode 22: Trusting Your Intuition<br></a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/k7m2ipflbq89vdq/Radical%20Self%20Care.pdf?dl=0">Radical Self Care</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work and Family Events</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Great Questions to Spark Meaningful Conversation</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2021 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:duration>1661</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>You hear the buzzword in businesses everywhere: core values.  But what are they?  And how can they help you live a more fulfilled and purpose-driven life?</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>You hear the buzzword in businesses everywhere: core values.  But what are they?  And how can they help you live a more fulfilled and purpose-driven life?</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#22: Trusting Your Intuition</title>
      <itunes:episode>22</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>22</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>That feeling in your gut, that small voice in your head, your intuition is always there trying to guide you in the right direction when things are not always obvious.  But before you can reap the benefit of a healthy intuition, you have to first train yourself to be aware of it and listen to it.  On this episode we will explore how intuition influences our lives and some practical exercises to get more in touch with it. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What trusting your intuition looks like</li><li>How to define intuition</li><li>The relationship between intuition and mindfulness</li><li>3 types of intuition connecting activities<ul><li>Physically focusing</li><li>Attention focusing</li><li>Breathing</li></ul></li><li>Guided breathing exercises</li><li>How these exercises connect to your intuition.</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/1">Episode 1: Overcoming Anxiety<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/5">Episode 5: Addressing Anxiety in the Moment<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/11">Episode 11: Why You Should Deal with Your Past<br></a><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>That feeling in your gut, that small voice in your head, your intuition is always there trying to guide you in the right direction when things are not always obvious.  But before you can reap the benefit of a healthy intuition, you have to first train yourself to be aware of it and listen to it.  On this episode we will explore how intuition influences our lives and some practical exercises to get more in touch with it. On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What trusting your intuition looks like</li><li>How to define intuition</li><li>The relationship between intuition and mindfulness</li><li>3 types of intuition connecting activities<ul><li>Physically focusing</li><li>Attention focusing</li><li>Breathing</li></ul></li><li>Guided breathing exercises</li><li>How these exercises connect to your intuition.</li></ul><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/1">Episode 1: Overcoming Anxiety<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/5">Episode 5: Addressing Anxiety in the Moment<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/11">Episode 11: Why You Should Deal with Your Past<br></a><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2021 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1680</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>That feeling in your gut, that small voice in your head, your intuition is always there trying to guide you in the right direction when things are not always obvious.  But before you can reap the benefit of a healthy intuition, you have to first train yourself to be aware of it and listen to it.  On this episode we will explore how intuition influences our lives and some practical exercises to get more in touch with it.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>That feeling in your gut, that small voice in your head, your intuition is always there trying to guide you in the right direction when things are not always obvious.  But before you can reap the benefit of a healthy intuition, you have to first train you</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#21: Strategies for Reducing Perfectionism</title>
      <itunes:episode>21</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>21</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#21: Strategies for Reducing Perfectionism</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Perfectionism is that evil that keeps us from making progress in our lives.  It shouts out that unless its "perfect" then it's not worth it.  You don't have to accept this lie, you can combat it, and in this episode I break down several strategies that can help you overcome this tendency in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The value in lowering the bar and giving yourself and others grace</li><li>Why people tend towards perfection</li><li>The danger of hyper-vigilance in your life</li><li>How past trauma has affected my life</li><li>3 strategies to reduce perfection tendencies<ul><li>Fix your standard setter</li><li>Choose to get messy</li><li>Figure yourself out</li></ul></li><li>The two things everyone has to get over</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Perfectionism is that evil that keeps us from making progress in our lives.  It shouts out that unless its "perfect" then it's not worth it.  You don't have to accept this lie, you can combat it, and in this episode I break down several strategies that can help you overcome this tendency in your life.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The value in lowering the bar and giving yourself and others grace</li><li>Why people tend towards perfection</li><li>The danger of hyper-vigilance in your life</li><li>How past trauma has affected my life</li><li>3 strategies to reduce perfection tendencies<ul><li>Fix your standard setter</li><li>Choose to get messy</li><li>Figure yourself out</li></ul></li><li>The two things everyone has to get over</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2021 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1963</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Perfectionism is that evil that keeps us from making progress in our lives.  It shouts out that unless its "perfect" then it's not worth it.  You don't have to accept this lie, you can combat it, and in this episode I break down several strategies that can help you overcome this tendency in your life.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Perfectionism is that evil that keeps us from making progress in our lives.  It shouts out that unless its "perfect" then it's not worth it.  You don't have to accept this lie, you can combat it, and in this episode I break down several strategies that ca</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#20: You Can Change</title>
      <itunes:episode>20</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>20</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#20: You Can Change</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So often in our lives we believe the lie that we are stuck the way we are.  That change is impossible for us.  I am here today to tell you that YOU CAN CHANGE!  You no longer have to accept the status quo.  On this episode I will unpack the three steps I take all my clients through to deliver change in their lives.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The 5 Days to Overpowering Anxiety Challenge</li><li>How I took a risk (and how it went)</li><li>The first moment that you realize things can be different</li><li>The biggest fears people have</li><li>Being a 7 is enough</li><li>How our expectations are inversely proportional to our joy in life</li><li>The role of anxiety</li><li>How to change<ul><li>Focus on the truth</li><li>Get support</li><li>Take action</li></ul></li><li>The physiological response to fear</li><li>The 7 truth-seeking questions to transform your perspective</li><li>Acting your way out of anxiety</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/">15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>So often in our lives we believe the lie that we are stuck the way we are.  That change is impossible for us.  I am here today to tell you that YOU CAN CHANGE!  You no longer have to accept the status quo.  On this episode I will unpack the three steps I take all my clients through to deliver change in their lives.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The 5 Days to Overpowering Anxiety Challenge</li><li>How I took a risk (and how it went)</li><li>The first moment that you realize things can be different</li><li>The biggest fears people have</li><li>Being a 7 is enough</li><li>How our expectations are inversely proportional to our joy in life</li><li>The role of anxiety</li><li>How to change<ul><li>Focus on the truth</li><li>Get support</li><li>Take action</li></ul></li><li>The physiological response to fear</li><li>The 7 truth-seeking questions to transform your perspective</li><li>Acting your way out of anxiety</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="http://www.decideyourlegacy.com/13-simple-ways-adults-can-make-new-friends/">15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>TAKE THE CHALLENGE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br>This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network.  For more information visit <a href="https://ictpod.net/">ictpod.net</a></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2021 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>So often in our lives we believe the lie that we are stuck the way we are.  That change is impossible for us.  I am here today to tell you that YOU CAN CHANGE!  You no longer have to accept the status quo.  On this episode I will unpack the three steps I take all my clients through to deliver change in their lives.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>So often in our lives we believe the lie that we are stuck the way we are.  That change is impossible for us.  I am here today to tell you that YOU CAN CHANGE!  You no longer have to accept the status quo.  On this episode I will unpack the three steps I </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#19: Improving Your Self-Worth</title>
      <itunes:episode>19</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>19</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#19: Improving Your Self-Worth</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How we view ourselves makes an incredible impact on the decisions and actions we take in our lives.  That's why it's important to have a healthy and accurate view of your self-worth.  On this episode I dive into I have struggled with my self-concept and three strategies I found that can help me overcome those negative views.  On this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>Getting a definition for self-worth</li><li>How a negative self-worth becomes destructive</li><li>Why incredibly successful people can struggle with self-worth</li><li>3 Strategies for improving your self-concept<ul><li>Taking bold action to face things that are scary</li><li>Giving back to others authentically</li><li>Learning to accept yourself the way you are</li></ul></li><li>Developing a self-concept that can't be diminished</li><li>How being extrinsic can add to your anxiety</li><li>The beauty of letting go</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/">15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20(Self-Worth).pdf?dl=0">4 Positive Intrinsic Traits Worksheet</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>How we view ourselves makes an incredible impact on the decisions and actions we take in our lives.  That's why it's important to have a healthy and accurate view of your self-worth.  On this episode I dive into I have struggled with my self-concept and three strategies I found that can help me overcome those negative views.  On this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>Getting a definition for self-worth</li><li>How a negative self-worth becomes destructive</li><li>Why incredibly successful people can struggle with self-worth</li><li>3 Strategies for improving your self-concept<ul><li>Taking bold action to face things that are scary</li><li>Giving back to others authentically</li><li>Learning to accept yourself the way you are</li></ul></li><li>Developing a self-concept that can't be diminished</li><li>How being extrinsic can add to your anxiety</li><li>The beauty of letting go</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/15-ways-adults-can-make-friends/">15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends</a> (article)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20(Self-Worth).pdf?dl=0">4 Positive Intrinsic Traits Worksheet</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2021 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2248</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>How we view ourselves makes an incredible impact on the decisions and actions we take in our lives.  That's why it's important to have a healthy and accurate view of your self-worth.  On this episode I dive into I have struggled with my self-concept and three strategies I found that can help me overcome those negative views.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>How we view ourselves makes an incredible impact on the decisions and actions we take in our lives.  That's why it's important to have a healthy and accurate view of your self-worth.  On this episode I dive into I have struggled with my self-concept and t</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#18: How to be Grateful When Life is Hard</title>
      <itunes:episode>18</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>18</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#18: How to be Grateful When Life is Hard</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Life is always going to throw challenges at us, whether we are expecting them or not.  But how we respond to those challenges is going to dictate so much of our personal joy and peace.  On this episode we dive into my favorite activity, the "Daily 5 and 5" and unpack how to use it effectively in your life to grow in gratitude no matter your circumstances.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!<ul><li>How do I help a struggling co-worker?</li><li>What advice do you have for dealing with anxiety during COVID-19?</li></ul></li><li>Why is it so hard to be grateful?</li><li>How the "Daily 5 and 5" works</li><li>The impact of overpowering neural pathways</li><li>7 reasons to practice the Daily 5 and 5</li><li>5 keys to being successful at the Daily 5 and 5</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/c1mwuw02ugzkogt/Gratitude%20Using%20the%20Life%20Wheel.pdf?dl=0">Life Wheel Gratitude</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions (Blog)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life is Hard (Blog)</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20&amp;%205.pdf?dl=0">The Daily 5 &amp; 5 PDF</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/O9Lf7Oc8FYw">Hope vs. Fear Cycle (Video)</a><br> <br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!<br> <br>NEW FREE GUIDE! <br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a><br> <br>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.<br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Life is always going to throw challenges at us, whether we are expecting them or not.  But how we respond to those challenges is going to dictate so much of our personal joy and peace.  On this episode we dive into my favorite activity, the "Daily 5 and 5" and unpack how to use it effectively in your life to grow in gratitude no matter your circumstances.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!<ul><li>How do I help a struggling co-worker?</li><li>What advice do you have for dealing with anxiety during COVID-19?</li></ul></li><li>Why is it so hard to be grateful?</li><li>How the "Daily 5 and 5" works</li><li>The impact of overpowering neural pathways</li><li>7 reasons to practice the Daily 5 and 5</li><li>5 keys to being successful at the Daily 5 and 5</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/c1mwuw02ugzkogt/Gratitude%20Using%20the%20Life%20Wheel.pdf?dl=0">Life Wheel Gratitude</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions (Blog)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/you-feel-the-way-you-think-part-1/">How to Be Grateful When Life is Hard (Blog)</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/lna567d1fy1zipq/The%20Daily%205%20&amp;%205.pdf?dl=0">The Daily 5 &amp; 5 PDF</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/O9Lf7Oc8FYw">Hope vs. Fear Cycle (Video)</a><br> <br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!<br> <br>NEW FREE GUIDE! <br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a><br> <br>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.<br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2020 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2031</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Life is always going to throw challenges at us, whether we are expecting them or not.  But how we respond to those challenges is going to dictate so much of our personal joy and peace.  On this episode we dive into my favorite activity, the "Daily 5 and 5" and unpack how to use it effectively in your life to grow in gratitude no matter your circumstances.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Life is always going to throw challenges at us, whether we are expecting them or not.  But how we respond to those challenges is going to dictate so much of our personal joy and peace.  On this episode we dive into my favorite activity, the "Daily 5 and 5</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#17: Repair Relationships Over the Holidays</title>
      <itunes:episode>17</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>17</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#17: Repair Relationships Over the Holidays</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repair those relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens to our anxiety as we approach the holidays</li><li>Why it is important to address the potential harm this anxiety brings</li><li>Specific and actionable strategies to build your relationships<ul><li>Lower expectations</li><li>Do something new</li><li>Be generous</li><li>Ask for help</li><li>Be curious</li><li>Open your heart</li><li>Focus on the positive</li></ul></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-strategies-engage-family-holidays-celebrations/">7 Strategies for Positively Engaging Family Members Over the Holidays</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Relationship Building Questions</a> (blog)<br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repair those relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What happens to our anxiety as we approach the holidays</li><li>Why it is important to address the potential harm this anxiety brings</li><li>Specific and actionable strategies to build your relationships<ul><li>Lower expectations</li><li>Do something new</li><li>Be generous</li><li>Ask for help</li><li>Be curious</li><li>Open your heart</li><li>Focus on the positive</li></ul></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-strategies-engage-family-holidays-celebrations/">7 Strategies for Positively Engaging Family Members Over the Holidays</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Ice Breakers for Work Meetings and Social Events</a> (blog)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/50-excellent-fun-relationship-building-questions/">50 Relationship Building Questions</a> (blog)<br> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2020 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2112</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repair those relationships.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>The holidays can bring a lot of stress and anxiety, especially if you have strained relationships with friends and family.  But it doesn't have to be that way.  By shifting your perspective you can head into the holidays with a plan to strengthen and repa</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#16: Navigating Life Transitions</title>
      <itunes:episode>16</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>16</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#16: Navigating Life Transitions</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>All of us will go through numerous and significant transitions during our lives.  How we approach these situations can have a dramatic impact on our mental and emotional health.  On this episode we explore actionable strategies to ensure you are able to successfully navigate these life transitions.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The Great Equalizer</li><li>Unhealthy coping mechanisms</li><li>How to know if you are triggered?</li><li>The importance of creating space</li><li>Tools to navigate life transition<ul><li>Do not go it alone</li><li>Seek out healthy perspectives</li><li>Invest in personal care</li></ul></li><li>Who inspires me</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/ive-had-some-very-dark-days/">I Have Had Some Dark Days (blog)</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>All of us will go through numerous and significant transitions during our lives.  How we approach these situations can have a dramatic impact on our mental and emotional health.  On this episode we explore actionable strategies to ensure you are able to successfully navigate these life transitions.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The Great Equalizer</li><li>Unhealthy coping mechanisms</li><li>How to know if you are triggered?</li><li>The importance of creating space</li><li>Tools to navigate life transition<ul><li>Do not go it alone</li><li>Seek out healthy perspectives</li><li>Invest in personal care</li></ul></li><li>Who inspires me</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/ive-had-some-very-dark-days/">I Have Had Some Dark Days (blog)</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2020 03:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2481</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>All of us will go through numerous and significant transitions during our lives.  How we approach these situations can have a dramatic impact on our mental and emotional health.  On this episode we explore actionable strategies to ensure you are able to successfully navigate these life transitions.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>All of us will go through numerous and significant transitions during our lives.  How we approach these situations can have a dramatic impact on our mental and emotional health.  On this episode we explore actionable strategies to ensure you are able to s</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#15: Set Real Goals and Don't Hide Them</title>
      <itunes:episode>15</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>15</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#15: Set Real Goals and Don't Hide Them</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This is one of my favorite topics to talk about.  Setting goals and dreaming about what is possible is when people come alive, especially when done with a vision for living their best life.  On this episode we dive into major excuses and ways we sabotage our goals and how to make more effective goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions</li><li>Why is goal setting important?</li><li>The effect of neural pathways on our lives</li><li>4 excuses we make against setting goals</li><li>3 steps to set effective goals</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-1/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-2/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 2)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-3/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 3)</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/mbqk5z1jf5ctcjq/Goal%20Reward%20Ideas.pdf?dl=0">Goal Reward Ideas</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/1gqmc6u68nsli3y/Evaluate%20Your%20Goals.pdf?dl=0">Evaluate Your Goals Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0807014273/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0807014273&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=716b59f739e7887982fd0fd4012a2260">“</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1612680194/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1612680194&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=de6d90ea4360318ceb6bf4677f56804e">Rich Dad Poor Dad”</a> by Robert Kiyosaki<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1595555277/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1595555277&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=583a7ebca674b1eeb1de4d3675802f72">“The Total Money Makeover</a> by Dave Ramsey</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This is one of my favorite topics to talk about.  Setting goals and dreaming about what is possible is when people come alive, especially when done with a vision for living their best life.  On this episode we dive into major excuses and ways we sabotage our goals and how to make more effective goals.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions</li><li>Why is goal setting important?</li><li>The effect of neural pathways on our lives</li><li>4 excuses we make against setting goals</li><li>3 steps to set effective goals</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-1/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-2/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 2)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/reach-your-goals-part-3/">How to Reach Your Goals (Part 3)</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/mbqk5z1jf5ctcjq/Goal%20Reward%20Ideas.pdf?dl=0">Goal Reward Ideas</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/1gqmc6u68nsli3y/Evaluate%20Your%20Goals.pdf?dl=0">Evaluate Your Goals Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0807014273/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0807014273&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=716b59f739e7887982fd0fd4012a2260">“</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1612680194/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1612680194&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=de6d90ea4360318ceb6bf4677f56804e">Rich Dad Poor Dad”</a> by Robert Kiyosaki<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1595555277/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1595555277&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;linkId=583a7ebca674b1eeb1de4d3675802f72">“The Total Money Makeover</a> by Dave Ramsey</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2242</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>This is one of my favorite topics to talk about.  Setting goals and dreaming about what is possible is when people come alive, especially when done with a vision for living their best life.  On this episode we dive into major excuses and ways we sabotage our goals and how to make more effective goals.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>This is one of my favorite topics to talk about.  Setting goals and dreaming about what is possible is when people come alive, especially when done with a vision for living their best life.  On this episode we dive into major excuses and ways we sabotage </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#14: Clarify Your Life Purpose</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's easy to find yourself feeling adrift, with a lack of focus or drive.  Taking some time to clarify your personal life purpose can have a profound impact on your outlook for the future.  We dive into the benefits of having a clear life purpose and three steps to help you get there.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!</li><li>Why people feel stuck in their current situations</li><li>What is a "life purpose"</li><li>Examples of Life Purpose Statements</li><li>The difference between a life purpose and mission</li><li>Three (3) benefits of finding your life purpose<ul><li>Improves mental, emotional and physical health</li><li>Brings focused and productive living</li><li>Attracts the right positive relationships into your life</li></ul></li><li>Three (3) tools to help you find your life purpose<ul><li>Determine your self-concept</li><li>Identify "on-purpose" situations</li><li>Help others by serving</li></ul></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1101875321/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1101875321&amp;linkId=3598155cc26832076388bb44636d334e">Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett &amp; Dave Evans</a> (referral link)<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1433685922/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1433685922&amp;linkId=c20155299b77d96681bb5f472a2e1038">48 Days to the Work Your Love by Dan Miller</a> (referral link)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ad9lp3znn8fklro/Why%20You%20Exist%20(Life%20Purpose).pdf?dl=0">Why You Exist (Life Purpose) Worksheet</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20(Self-Worth).pdf?dl=0">My True Value (Self Concept) Worksheet</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ivb0xws06jj95s6/My%20Calling.pdf?dl=0">My Calling Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life Course</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>It's easy to find yourself feeling adrift, with a lack of focus or drive.  Taking some time to clarify your personal life purpose can have a profound impact on your outlook for the future.  We dive into the benefits of having a clear life purpose and three steps to help you get there.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!</li><li>Why people feel stuck in their current situations</li><li>What is a "life purpose"</li><li>Examples of Life Purpose Statements</li><li>The difference between a life purpose and mission</li><li>Three (3) benefits of finding your life purpose<ul><li>Improves mental, emotional and physical health</li><li>Brings focused and productive living</li><li>Attracts the right positive relationships into your life</li></ul></li><li>Three (3) tools to help you find your life purpose<ul><li>Determine your self-concept</li><li>Identify "on-purpose" situations</li><li>Help others by serving</li></ul></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1101875321/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1101875321&amp;linkId=3598155cc26832076388bb44636d334e">Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett &amp; Dave Evans</a> (referral link)<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1433685922/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1433685922&amp;linkId=c20155299b77d96681bb5f472a2e1038">48 Days to the Work Your Love by Dan Miller</a> (referral link)<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ad9lp3znn8fklro/Why%20You%20Exist%20(Life%20Purpose).pdf?dl=0">Why You Exist (Life Purpose) Worksheet</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/gztdto89kvoeaiu/Your%20True%20Value%20(Self-Worth).pdf?dl=0">My True Value (Self Concept) Worksheet</a></p><p><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/ivb0xws06jj95s6/My%20Calling.pdf?dl=0">My Calling Worksheet</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/tune-up-for-life/">Tune Up For Life Course</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>1751</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>It's easy to find yourself feeling adrift, with a lack of focus or drive.  Taking some time to clarify your personal life purpose can have a profound impact on your outlook for the future.  We dive into the benefits of having a clear life purpose and three steps to help you get there.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>It's easy to find yourself feeling adrift, with a lack of focus or drive.  Taking some time to clarify your personal life purpose can have a profound impact on your outlook for the future.  We dive into the benefits of having a clear life purpose and thre</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#13: Fear of Rejection w/ Suzanna Mathews</title>
      <itunes:episode>13</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>13</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#13: Fear of Rejection w/ Suzanna Mathews</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Dating has always been difficult but this new age of technology has accelerated the pace of feedback.  This can very easily add a lot of anxiety for single people looking for connection with others.  This week I am joined by a very special guest, Suzanna Mathews (aka "The Date Maven"), to talk about dealing with fear of rejection in relationships and how to have a healthy approach to dating relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!</li><li>Identifying and dealing with the physical responses to fear</li><li>Being present with others</li><li>Criticism rejection frameworks</li><li>PTSD created from relationships</li><li>How relationships can be part of your healing process</li><li>How to reject someone else with sensitivity</li><li>The collateral damage of ghosting</li><li>Engaging those you know in real-life through dating apps</li><li>Setting healthy expectations for a first date</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080414138X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=080414138X&amp;linkId=964e6b27f57d6fbd38ccc9bfa9826b73">"Rejection Proof" by Jia Jiang</a> (referral link)<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ">"What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection" (Jia Jiang Ted Talk</a>)<br><a href="https://thedatemaven.com">The Date Maven</a><br>Contact Suzanna Mathews (suzanna@thedatemaven.com)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com">Decide Your Legacy</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Dating has always been difficult but this new age of technology has accelerated the pace of feedback.  This can very easily add a lot of anxiety for single people looking for connection with others.  This week I am joined by a very special guest, Suzanna Mathews (aka "The Date Maven"), to talk about dealing with fear of rejection in relationships and how to have a healthy approach to dating relationships.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!</li><li>Identifying and dealing with the physical responses to fear</li><li>Being present with others</li><li>Criticism rejection frameworks</li><li>PTSD created from relationships</li><li>How relationships can be part of your healing process</li><li>How to reject someone else with sensitivity</li><li>The collateral damage of ghosting</li><li>Engaging those you know in real-life through dating apps</li><li>Setting healthy expectations for a first date</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080414138X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=decideyourleg-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=080414138X&amp;linkId=964e6b27f57d6fbd38ccc9bfa9826b73">"Rejection Proof" by Jia Jiang</a> (referral link)<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ">"What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection" (Jia Jiang Ted Talk</a>)<br><a href="https://thedatemaven.com">The Date Maven</a><br>Contact Suzanna Mathews (suzanna@thedatemaven.com)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com">Decide Your Legacy</a></p><p> </p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2321</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Dating has always been difficult but this new age of technology has accelerated the pace of feedback.  This can very easily add a lot of anxiety for single people looking for connection with others.  This week I am joined by a very special guest, Suzanna Mathews (aka "The Date Maven"), to talk about dealing with fear of rejection in relationships and how to have a healthy approach to dating relationships.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Dating has always been difficult but this new age of technology has accelerated the pace of feedback.  This can very easily add a lot of anxiety for single people looking for connection with others.  This week I am joined by a very special guest, Suzanna </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#12: Mental Health in the Workplace</title>
      <itunes:episode>12</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>12</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#12: Mental Health in the Workplace</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The world is constantly shifting and changing around us and 2020 has been an extreme example of that.  Between the threat of job losses and working remotely from home there is a tremendous shift happening in the workplace.  And with that shift comes the opportunity for additional stress to appear in our lives.  On this week's episode we dive into the keys of maintaining your mental health in the workplace.  These tips are practical and actionable, whether you are trying to help yourself or your team manage difficult times.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!<ul><li>"I'm afraid of losing my job, even though it's a job I'm not happy in.  What do I do?"</li><li>"How do I stop listening to the voice of fear and anxiety in my head?"</li></ul></li><li>How to know if you have a mental health issue</li><li>The costs of poor mental health in the workplace</li><li>Four (4) major mental health issues at work</li><li>Three (3) things you must know about mental health in the workplace<ol><li>You cannot go it alone</li><li>It is essential to get space from your thinking</li><li>You must make self-care a priority</li></ol></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Icebreaker Activities Blog Article</a><br><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/oak-meditation-breathing/id1210209691">Oak Meditation App<br></a><a href="https://calm.com">Calm Meditation App</a><br><a href="https://headspace.com">Headspace Meditation App</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!<br> <br>NEW FREE GUIDE! <br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a><br> <br>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The world is constantly shifting and changing around us and 2020 has been an extreme example of that.  Between the threat of job losses and working remotely from home there is a tremendous shift happening in the workplace.  And with that shift comes the opportunity for additional stress to appear in our lives.  On this week's episode we dive into the keys of maintaining your mental health in the workplace.  These tips are practical and actionable, whether you are trying to help yourself or your team manage difficult times.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!<ul><li>"I'm afraid of losing my job, even though it's a job I'm not happy in.  What do I do?"</li><li>"How do I stop listening to the voice of fear and anxiety in my head?"</li></ul></li><li>How to know if you have a mental health issue</li><li>The costs of poor mental health in the workplace</li><li>Four (4) major mental health issues at work</li><li>Three (3) things you must know about mental health in the workplace<ol><li>You cannot go it alone</li><li>It is essential to get space from your thinking</li><li>You must make self-care a priority</li></ol></li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-ice-breakers-work-family-events/">11 Icebreaker Activities Blog Article</a><br><a href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/oak-meditation-breathing/id1210209691">Oak Meditation App<br></a><a href="https://calm.com">Calm Meditation App</a><br><a href="https://headspace.com">Headspace Meditation App</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!<br> <br>NEW FREE GUIDE! <br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a><br> <br><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a><br> <br>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2400</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>The world is constantly shifting and changing around us and 2020 has been an extreme example of that.  Between the threat of job losses and working remotely from home there is a tremendous shift happening in the workplace.  And with that shift comes the opportunity for additional stress to appear in our lives.  On this week's episode we dive into the keys of maintaining your mental health in the workplace.  These tips are practical and actionable, whether you are trying to help yourself or your team manage difficult times.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>The world is constantly shifting and changing around us and 2020 has been an extreme example of that.  Between the threat of job losses and working remotely from home there is a tremendous shift happening in the workplace.  And with that shift comes the o</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#11: Why You Should Deal With Your Past</title>
      <itunes:episode>11</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>11</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#11: Why You Should Deal With Your Past</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The past is a tricky thing.  Sometimes we want to avoid it and pretend like it's not there.  But it is always influencing the way we live .  On this episode we dive into why you should confront your past and how overcoming that history can help you write a better future.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!</li><li>Why you and others hesitate to talk about their past</li><li>Understanding your emotional triggers</li><li>Incidents that created emotional triggers in my life</li><li>Three (3) reasons to deal with your past</li><li>Five (5) things you must accept about your past</li><li>Three (3) exercises to help you confront your past</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why you should deal with your past (blog)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence (blog)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/4">Identifying Limiting Mindsets (Podcast Episode #4)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/7">Building Authentic Confidence (Podcast Episode #7)</a></li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>The past is a tricky thing.  Sometimes we want to avoid it and pretend like it's not there.  But it is always influencing the way we live .  On this episode we dive into why you should confront your past and how overcoming that history can help you write a better future.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Listener questions!</li><li>Why you and others hesitate to talk about their past</li><li>Understanding your emotional triggers</li><li>Incidents that created emotional triggers in my life</li><li>Three (3) reasons to deal with your past</li><li>Five (5) things you must accept about your past</li><li>Three (3) exercises to help you confront your past</li></ul><p>Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/why-you-should-deal-with-your-past-part-1/">Why you should deal with your past (blog)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/18-ways-to-build-self-confidence-part-1/">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence (blog)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/4">Identifying Limiting Mindsets (Podcast Episode #4)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/7">Building Authentic Confidence (Podcast Episode #7)</a></li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>The past is a tricky thing.  Sometimes we want to avoid it and pretend like it's not there.  But it is always influencing the way we live .  On this episode we dive into why you should confront your past and how overcoming that history can help you write a better future.</itunes:summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that negativity to be more fulfilled, engaged and satisfied.  On this episode:</p><ul><li>Adam answers listener questions</li><li>How Adam has struggled with negativity and how it has cost him</li><li>What the ego is doing in causing us to be critical</li><li>Three strategies to overcome negativity<ul><li>Identifying the critical inner voice</li><li>Achieving relentless optimism</li><li>Taking action and putting faith in the outcome</li></ul></li><li>Adam also gives tactical tips for each of these strategies and explains how you can implement Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in your own life.</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Visit the website to learn more!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com"><strong>Decide Your Legacy</strong></a></p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that negativity to be more fulfilled, engaged and satisfied.  On this episode:</p><ul><li>Adam answers listener questions</li><li>How Adam has struggled with negativity and how it has cost him</li><li>What the ego is doing in causing us to be critical</li><li>Three strategies to overcome negativity<ul><li>Identifying the critical inner voice</li><li>Achieving relentless optimism</li><li>Taking action and putting faith in the outcome</li></ul></li><li>Adam also gives tactical tips for each of these strategies and explains how you can implement Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in your own life.</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p>Visit the website to learn more!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com"><strong>Decide Your Legacy</strong></a></p><p> </p><p>NEW FREE GUIDE! </p><p><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that negativity to be more fulfilled, engaged and satisfied.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Do you struggle with being critical of yourself and others?  Do you find yourself in a daily battle with negativity?  On this episode we dive into what causes us to be negative and how it impacts our lives.  Then we explore three ways to overcome that neg</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Learning how to process and deal with emotions is a key component of living a full and healthy life.  Avoiding or suppressing them creates tension and pushes you away from the relationships in your life.  Learn the 4 transformational concepts that helped me to understand my emotions as well as 4 tools for dealing with them.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The roots of our emotions and how they impact our lives</li><li>4 transformational concepts for understanding your emotions<ul><li>The compass of our emotions</li><li>The two choices we have to deal with emotions</li><li>The hope v. fear cycle</li><li>How emotions affect our thinking</li></ul></li><li>4 tools for processing and embracing your emotions</li><li>Examples from my life and those of my clients on processing emotions.</li></ul><p><strong>Episode resources:</strong><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-be-emotionally-healthy-part-1/">Article: How to be emotionally healthy</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/qm8eyrf9p7env9b/Understanding%20Your%20Emotions.pdf?dl=0">List of 40 common emotions</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=0">The emotions bookmark</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/O9Lf7Oc8FYw">Video: The Hope v. Fear Cycle</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><strong>NEW FREE GUIDE! </strong><br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Learning how to process and deal with emotions is a key component of living a full and healthy life.  Avoiding or suppressing them creates tension and pushes you away from the relationships in your life.  Learn the 4 transformational concepts that helped me to understand my emotions as well as 4 tools for dealing with them.  On this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The roots of our emotions and how they impact our lives</li><li>4 transformational concepts for understanding your emotions<ul><li>The compass of our emotions</li><li>The two choices we have to deal with emotions</li><li>The hope v. fear cycle</li><li>How emotions affect our thinking</li></ul></li><li>4 tools for processing and embracing your emotions</li><li>Examples from my life and those of my clients on processing emotions.</li></ul><p><strong>Episode resources:</strong><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-be-emotionally-healthy-part-1/">Article: How to be emotionally healthy</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/qm8eyrf9p7env9b/Understanding%20Your%20Emotions.pdf?dl=0">List of 40 common emotions</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/04a14fcjpwgmqg9/Emotions%20Bookmark.pdf?dl=0">The emotions bookmark</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/O9Lf7Oc8FYw">Video: The Hope v. Fear Cycle</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><strong>NEW FREE GUIDE! </strong><br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p><p><br></p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:duration>2459</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Learning how to process and deal with emotions is a key component of living a full and healthy life.  Avoiding or suppressing them creates tension and pushes you away from the relationships in your life.  Learn the 4 transformational concepts that helped me to understand my emotions as well as 4 tools for dealing with them.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Learning how to process and deal with emotions is a key component of living a full and healthy life.  Avoiding or suppressing them creates tension and pushes you away from the relationships in your life.  Learn the 4 transformational concepts that helped </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#8: Get a Foundation of Life Balance</title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you often find one area of your life being successful while others fall apart?  Life balance is desired but everyone but can be difficult to achieve.  In this episode we dive into the 3 focal points that can build balance into our lives.  In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why balance is so critical to our resilience</li><li>The causes of imbalance in our lives</li><li>The 3 focal points of life balance and tactics for accomplishing them<ul><li>Slow down and get space</li><li>Assess your life as it truly is</li><li>Actively engage and make changes</li></ul></li><li>The 7 life areas that need evaluation</li></ul><p><strong>Resources:</strong><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/5k460j4atq7jgp2/Life%20Wheel%20Assessment.pdf?dl=0">Life Wheel Assessment<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/">12 Life Balance Tips<br></a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/fbk5y5avj15xn4i/Life%20Balance%20Tactics.pdf?dl=0">Life Balance Tactics<br></a><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><strong>NEW FREE GUIDE! </strong><br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you often find one area of your life being successful while others fall apart?  Life balance is desired but everyone but can be difficult to achieve.  In this episode we dive into the 3 focal points that can build balance into our lives.  In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why balance is so critical to our resilience</li><li>The causes of imbalance in our lives</li><li>The 3 focal points of life balance and tactics for accomplishing them<ul><li>Slow down and get space</li><li>Assess your life as it truly is</li><li>Actively engage and make changes</li></ul></li><li>The 7 life areas that need evaluation</li></ul><p><strong>Resources:</strong><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/5k460j4atq7jgp2/Life%20Wheel%20Assessment.pdf?dl=0">Life Wheel Assessment<br></a><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/12-life-balance-tips-part-1/">12 Life Balance Tips<br></a><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/fbk5y5avj15xn4i/Life%20Balance%20Tactics.pdf?dl=0">Life Balance Tactics<br></a><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><strong>NEW FREE GUIDE! </strong><br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Do you often find one area of your life being successful while others fall apart?  Life balance is desired but everyone but can be difficult to achieve.  In this episode we dive into the 3 focal points that can build balance into our lives.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Do you often find one area of your life being successful while others fall apart?  Life balance is desired but everyone but can be difficult to achieve.  In this episode we dive into the 3 focal points that can build balance into our lives.  </itunes:subtitle>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whatever you face in life, having confidence is a key ingredient to living the way you desire.  But some people just seem born with it while the rest of us struggle to get traction and feel confident about what we are doing and the direction we are heading.  On this episode, we will unpack what confidence can do for you and the three essential building blocks to a confident life.  On this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>How confidence affects both our day-to-day lives but also the trajectory of our life</li><li>How our brains become the enemy by getting in the way</li><li>Three essential ways to build confidence (and a detailed breakdown of each):<ul><li>Find clarity</li><li>Find hope</li><li>Take action</li></ul></li><li>Tactical ways to build self-confidence</li><li>How going skydiving made me more confident</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://el2.convertkit-mail2.com/c/0vudrvm5x9i9hqmrpril/25h2hohokde9xn/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVjaWRleW91cmxlZ2FjeS5jb20vMTgtd2F5cy10by1idWlsZC1zZWxmLWNvbmZpZGVuY2UtcGFydC0xLw==">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br><strong>NEW FREE GUIDE! </strong><br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Whatever you face in life, having confidence is a key ingredient to living the way you desire.  But some people just seem born with it while the rest of us struggle to get traction and feel confident about what we are doing and the direction we are heading.  On this episode, we will unpack what confidence can do for you and the three essential building blocks to a confident life.  On this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>How confidence affects both our day-to-day lives but also the trajectory of our life</li><li>How our brains become the enemy by getting in the way</li><li>Three essential ways to build confidence (and a detailed breakdown of each):<ul><li>Find clarity</li><li>Find hope</li><li>Take action</li></ul></li><li>Tactical ways to build self-confidence</li><li>How going skydiving made me more confident</li></ul><p>Resources:<br><a href="https://el2.convertkit-mail2.com/c/0vudrvm5x9i9hqmrpril/25h2hohokde9xn/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVjaWRleW91cmxlZ2FjeS5jb20vMTgtd2F5cy10by1idWlsZC1zZWxmLWNvbmZpZGVuY2UtcGFydC0xLw==">18 Ways to Build Self-Confidence</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br><strong>NEW FREE GUIDE! </strong><br><a href="https://deft-speaker-8148.ck.page/15f381362b">5 Days to overpowering anxiety!</a></p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Whatever you face in life, having confidence is a key ingredient to living the way you desire.  But some people just seem born with it while the rest of us struggle to get traction and feel confident about what we are doing and the direction we are heading.  On this episode, we will unpack what confidence can do for you and the three essential building blocks to a confident life.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Whatever you face in life, having confidence is a key ingredient to living the way you desire.  But some people just seem born with it while the rest of us struggle to get traction and feel confident about what we are doing and the direction we are headin</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#6: Develop Deep and Meaningful Friendships</title>
      <itunes:episode>6</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Deep and true friendships are an incredible key to overcoming difficulties and challenges that you may face in your life.  But many adults struggle with how to identify and grow friends beyond a simple surface-level interaction.  In this episode we dive into the key anchors to developing deep and trustworthy friendships that have lasting satisfaction.  In this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>How friends have made an impact on my life</li><li>The 3 Anchors of Friendship</li><li>How and where to find potential friends</li><li>How to overcome personal insecurities when meeting new people</li><li>Key social skills that can help connect with others</li></ul><p>Resources</p><ul><li><a href="https://bit.ly/DYL_MakeFriends">15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/DYL_SocialSkills">9 Key Social Skills</a></li></ul><p><strong>Free Building Relationships Coaching Group<br></strong>7/1 from 9:30AM - 11AM CST<br><a href="https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJYlc-CsqzMjHNV3nOciEn0szIs9AQBIttpy">https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJYlc-CsqzMjHNV3nOciEn0szIs9AQBIttpy</a></p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Deep and true friendships are an incredible key to overcoming difficulties and challenges that you may face in your life.  But many adults struggle with how to identify and grow friends beyond a simple surface-level interaction.  In this episode we dive into the key anchors to developing deep and trustworthy friendships that have lasting satisfaction.  In this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>How friends have made an impact on my life</li><li>The 3 Anchors of Friendship</li><li>How and where to find potential friends</li><li>How to overcome personal insecurities when meeting new people</li><li>Key social skills that can help connect with others</li></ul><p>Resources</p><ul><li><a href="https://bit.ly/DYL_MakeFriends">15 Ways Adults Can Make Friends</a></li><li><a href="https://bit.ly/DYL_SocialSkills">9 Key Social Skills</a></li></ul><p><strong>Free Building Relationships Coaching Group<br></strong>7/1 from 9:30AM - 11AM CST<br><a href="https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJYlc-CsqzMjHNV3nOciEn0szIs9AQBIttpy">https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJYlc-CsqzMjHNV3nOciEn0szIs9AQBIttpy</a></p><p><br>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>Deep and true friendships are an incredible key to overcoming difficulties and challenges that you may face in your life.  But many adults struggle with how to identify and grow friends beyond a simple surface-level interaction.  In this episode we dive into the key anchors to developing deep and trustworthy friendships that have lasting satisfaction.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Deep and true friendships are an incredible key to overcoming difficulties and challenges that you may face in your life.  But many adults struggle with how to identify and grow friends beyond a simple surface-level interaction.  In this episode we dive i</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#5: Overcoming Anxiety in the Moment</title>
      <itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#5: Overcoming Anxiety in the Moment</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week we return to the topic of anxiety in our lives.  In our last episode, we discussed a lot about preventative care to avoid anxiety.  However, a lot of times anxiety can spring up on us and we have to respond in the moment.  In this episode we look at what gives anxiety its power and the strategies to overcome it in the moment.  In this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>How categories can harm our perspectives and create anxiety</li><li>How intuition can be used powerfully</li><li>The way our brains weight negative and positive thoughts and emotions</li><li>How you respond physically to anxiety</li><li>Three (3) ways that we feed our anxiety without realizing it</li><li>Three (3) ways to directly face anxiety in the moment</li></ul><p>Additional resources:</p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYL5and5">The Daily 5 &amp; 5<br></a><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLChooseGratitude">Choose Gratitude<br></a><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This week we return to the topic of anxiety in our lives.  In our last episode, we discussed a lot about preventative care to avoid anxiety.  However, a lot of times anxiety can spring up on us and we have to respond in the moment.  In this episode we look at what gives anxiety its power and the strategies to overcome it in the moment.  In this episode we will discuss:</p><ul><li>How categories can harm our perspectives and create anxiety</li><li>How intuition can be used powerfully</li><li>The way our brains weight negative and positive thoughts and emotions</li><li>How you respond physically to anxiety</li><li>Three (3) ways that we feed our anxiety without realizing it</li><li>Three (3) ways to directly face anxiety in the moment</li></ul><p>Additional resources:</p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYL5and5">The Daily 5 &amp; 5<br></a><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLChooseGratitude">Choose Gratitude<br></a><br></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLSubscribe">Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</a></p><p> </p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/DYLCoach">Get personalized coaching from Adam!</a></p><p> </p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:author>Decide Your Legacy</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1747</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>This week we return to the topic of anxiety in our lives.  In our last episode, we discussed a lot about preventative care to avoid anxiety.  However, a lot of times anxiety can spring up on us and we have to respond in the moment.  In this episode we look at what gives anxiety its power and the strategies to overcome it in the moment.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>This week we return to the topic of anxiety in our lives.  In our last episode, we discussed a lot about preventative care to avoid anxiety.  However, a lot of times anxiety can spring up on us and we have to respond in the moment.  In this episode we loo</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#4: Identifying Limiting Mindsets</title>
      <itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode>
      <podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode>
      <itunes:title>#4: Identifying Limiting Mindsets</itunes:title>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Many times our heads can get filled with limiting mindsets and negative core beliefs.  Host Adam Gragg breaks down where these come from and how we can identify them.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>How core beliefs impact our lives</li><li>The sources of our core beliefs</li><li>Different types of limiting mindsets</li><li>Strategies for dealing with and overcoming limiting beliefs</li></ul><p>Worksheets:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/dkbco9ypscsfmgn/Truth%20Oriented.pdf?dl=0">Be Truth Oriented</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/b9gdkqrr5oa2qka/Don't%20Believe%20Every%20Stupid%20Think%20Your%20Think.pdf?dl=0">Don’t Believe Everything Your Think</a></p><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-2/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 2)</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Get personalized coaching from Adam!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Many times our heads can get filled with limiting mindsets and negative core beliefs.  Host Adam Gragg breaks down where these come from and how we can identify them.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>How core beliefs impact our lives</li><li>The sources of our core beliefs</li><li>Different types of limiting mindsets</li><li>Strategies for dealing with and overcoming limiting beliefs</li></ul><p>Worksheets:<br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/dkbco9ypscsfmgn/Truth%20Oriented.pdf?dl=0">Be Truth Oriented</a><br><a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/b9gdkqrr5oa2qka/Don't%20Believe%20Every%20Stupid%20Think%20Your%20Think.pdf?dl=0">Don’t Believe Everything Your Think</a></p><p>Other resources:<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-1/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 1)</a><br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/replace-your-mental-trash-with-truth-part-2/">How to Change Negative Core Beliefs (Part 2)</a></p><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Get personalized coaching from Adam!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Decide Your Legacy</author>
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      <itunes:summary>Many times our heads can get filled with limiting mindsets and negative core beliefs.  On this episode Adam breaks down where these come from and how we can identify them.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Many times our heads can get filled with limiting mindsets and negative core beliefs.  On this episode Adam breaks down where these come from and how we can identify them.</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#2: The Decide Your Legacy Journey</title>
      <itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode, Adam takes a step back to talk about the creation of Decide Your Legacy and his core values and beliefs that he operates out of.  Then he walks us through a brief overview of his coaching process that he takes every coaching client through.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>Adam's hopes and goals for Decide Your Legacy</li><li>Adam's core values that inspired him to start Decide Your Legacy</li><li>The coffee process illustration<ul><li>Get good beans (getting clarity)</li><li>A good filter (vision, core values, core needs, balance, life purpose)</li><li>Good hot cup of coffee (goals, results, mission, transformational habits)</li></ul></li><li>Tactical tips for each part of the process<ul><li>Better beans<ul><li>Improving relationships</li><li>Emotional health</li><li>Perspective</li><li>Self-concept</li></ul></li><li>Better filters<ul><li>Projecting each area of the 7 areas of your life</li><li>Developing core values</li><li>Identifying core needs</li><li>Life purpose statements</li></ul></li><li>Better coffee<ul><li>Mission assessments</li><li>Goal identification</li><li>Habit formation</li></ul></li></ul></li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to leave us a review!</p><p>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/</strong></a></p><p>Get personalized coaching from Adam! (and ask for a bookmark!)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On this episode, Adam takes a step back to talk about the creation of Decide Your Legacy and his core values and beliefs that he operates out of.  Then he walks us through a brief overview of his coaching process that he takes every coaching client through.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>Adam's hopes and goals for Decide Your Legacy</li><li>Adam's core values that inspired him to start Decide Your Legacy</li><li>The coffee process illustration<ul><li>Get good beans (getting clarity)</li><li>A good filter (vision, core values, core needs, balance, life purpose)</li><li>Good hot cup of coffee (goals, results, mission, transformational habits)</li></ul></li><li>Tactical tips for each part of the process<ul><li>Better beans<ul><li>Improving relationships</li><li>Emotional health</li><li>Perspective</li><li>Self-concept</li></ul></li><li>Better filters<ul><li>Projecting each area of the 7 areas of your life</li><li>Developing core values</li><li>Identifying core needs</li><li>Life purpose statements</li></ul></li><li>Better coffee<ul><li>Mission assessments</li><li>Goal identification</li><li>Habit formation</li></ul></li></ul></li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to leave us a review!</p><p>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/</strong></a></p><p>Get personalized coaching from Adam! (and ask for a bookmark!)<br><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling. </p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2020 03:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>On this episode, Adam takes a step back to talk about the creation of Decide Your Legacy and his core values and beliefs that he operates out of.  Then he walks us through a brief overview of his coaching process that he takes every coaching client through.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>On this episode, Adam takes a step back to talk about the creation of Decide Your Legacy and his core values and beliefs that he operates out of.  Then he walks us through a brief overview of his coaching process that he takes every coaching client throug</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>self-improvement, relationships, life transition, life coaching, career coaching, transformation, mental health</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Editor" href="https://www.decideyourlegacypodcast.com/people/sherman-orr-569244e7-367a-4e26-bf29-ac46de1d5646">Sherman Orr</podcast:person>
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      <title>#3: Asking Great Questions to Build Relationships</title>
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      <podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you want to develop deep and profound relationships with others?  On this episode Adam breaks down how questions are the key to getting others to open up.  And with the right questions, you can unlock deeper bonds and connections to friends, family or colleagues.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>Why questions are so powerful</li><li>Preparing for meeting with someone by thinking of questions</li><li>The characteristics of great questions</li><li>How asking great questions can help you focus on the conversation</li><li>The three levels of conversation</li><li>Find out some of Adam's favorite questions (links to even more below)<ul><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 10 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-questions-that-can-positively-transform-your-relationship/">7 Questions That Can Positively Transform Your Marriage</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions</a></li></ul></li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Get personalized coaching from Adam!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Do you want to develop deep and profound relationships with others?  On this episode Adam breaks down how questions are the key to getting others to open up.  And with the right questions, you can unlock deeper bonds and connections to friends, family or colleagues.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>Why questions are so powerful</li><li>Preparing for meeting with someone by thinking of questions</li><li>The characteristics of great questions</li><li>How asking great questions can help you focus on the conversation</li><li>The three levels of conversation</li><li>Find out some of Adam's favorite questions (links to even more below)<ul><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-favorite-questions-clients/">My 10 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/20-questions-to-ignite-meaningful-conversations/">20 Questions to Ignite Meaningful Conversations</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/7-questions-that-can-positively-transform-your-relationship/">7 Questions That Can Positively Transform Your Marriage</a></li><li><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/10-gratitude-questions-that-can-change-your-life-forever/">25 Gratitude Building Questions</a></li></ul></li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Get personalized coaching from Adam!</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.  He specializes in anxiety, depression, life &amp; career transitions, adolescent challenges, and family counseling.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:summary>Do you want to develop deep and profound relationships with others?  On this episode Adam breaks down how questions are the key to getting others to open up.  And with the right questions, you can unlock deeper bonds and connections to friends, family or colleagues.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Do you want to develop deep and profound relationships with others?  On this episode Adam breaks down how questions are the key to getting others to open up.  And with the right questions, you can unlock deeper bonds and connections to friends, family or </itunes:subtitle>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Has our uncertain world created more <strong>anxiety </strong>in your life?  Are you <strong>struggling </strong>to find ways to <strong>overcome </strong>it?  On this inaugural episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast host Adam Gragg provides strategies and perspective on getting the clarity that allows you to get past the anxiety that can be so paralyzing.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>The three ways we feed out anxiety</li><li>The hope / fear cycle</li><li>Three tools for helping with anxiety</li><li>Seven questions to gain perspective and truth</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to leave us a review!</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Get personalized coaching from Adam!</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Has our uncertain world created more <strong>anxiety </strong>in your life?  Are you <strong>struggling </strong>to find ways to <strong>overcome </strong>it?  On this inaugural episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast host Adam Gragg provides strategies and perspective on getting the clarity that allows you to get past the anxiety that can be so paralyzing.  On this episode we talk about...</p><ul><li>The three ways we feed out anxiety</li><li>The hope / fear cycle</li><li>Three tools for helping with anxiety</li><li>Seven questions to gain perspective and truth</li></ul><p>Thanks for listening, be sure to leave us a review!</p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/subscribe/"><strong>Get 50 free relationship building questions and a free e-book on life balance!</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/contact/"><strong>Get personalized coaching from Adam!</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p>Adam is a life coach and counselor who specializes in helping individuals and organizations find transformational clarity.</p>
<br><p>Be sure to check out <a href="https://escapeartiststravel.com/">Escape Artists Travel</a> and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!</p>]]>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Has our uncertain world created more anxiety in your life?  Are you struggling to find ways to overcome it?  On this inaugural episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast host Adam Gragg provides strategies and perspective on getting the clarity that allows</itunes:subtitle>
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      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
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