Change The Odds

Don’t Say Everything You Think: Marriage, Mentors & Making It Last with Jim Burns

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 04 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0800

What really makes a marriage last? Jim Burns shares 51 years of hard-won wisdom on communication, connection, spiritual intimacy, and finishing well—proving marriage isn’t a coin flip… you can change the odds.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Grief, Marriage, and Going on Offense w/ Taylor & Chloe Gall

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 25 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0800

Taylor & Chloe Gall join us to talk grief, marriage in the “90/10” seasons, parenting four boys, and finding identity in Christ. Real talk on community, prayer, and moving from defense to offense after loss.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

When Fighting Is the Only Way You Feel Close

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 18 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0800

What if your biggest fights are actually your deepest moments of connection? In this Fight Club episode, we unpack anxious vs. avoidant attachment, makeup sex, and why some couples feel closer through chaos than calm.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

When Adult Children Walk Away—and How Parents Can Still Lead with Love with Jim Burns

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 11 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0800

Why are so many families experiencing estrangement with adult children? Kevin Thompson sits down with Jim Burns to unpack the causes, the hope, and the practical steps parents can take to pursue reconciliation without losing their convictions.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Mind Reading Is Ruining Your Relationship

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 04 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0800

Ever feel hurt by something you never actually asked for? This Fight Club unpacks expectations, mind reading, attachment styles, and why romance falls apart when clarity goes missing—especially around Valentine’s Day.
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Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram): https://go.bayside.church/fightclub

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Repair Before Romance

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 27 Jan 2026 17:00:00 -0800

When one partner reaches for connection through sex and the other pulls away, it’s not about rejection—it’s about repair. This Fight Club dives deep into attachment, intimacy, and the emotional work beneath the surface.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Why Do I Even Have to Ask? The Mental Load Fight

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 20 Jan 2026 23:00:00 -0800

What happens when one partner carries the weight of everything—while the other says, “you never asked”? We unpack the fight about invisible labor, attachment styles, and how to stop the burnout spiral in your relationship.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Real Fight Behind Being Late with Dinner Waiting

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 13 Jan 2026 23:00:00 -0800

What happens when he’s late (again), she’s overwhelmed, and neither feels seen? We break down the anxious-avoidant loop, love styles, and what actually helps couples change the odds when the same fight keeps happening.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

5 marriage trends for 2026

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 07 Jan 2026 13:02:43 -0800

From grey divorce to Gen Alpha’s AI-assisted dating future, we break down how each generation is reshaping marriage, sex, and relationships—and what it means for your love life in 2026.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Father & Son, Unfiltered: End-of-Year Reflections with Silas Thompson

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 31 Dec 2025 17:04:24 -0800

In a first-ever father-son episode, Kevin sits down with 17-year-old Silas Thompson for an unfiltered, moving, and often vulnerable conversation about parenting, faith, legacy, and growing up as a pastor’s kid.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Love Styles, Attachment Theory, and Real Change w/ Mark Clark

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 17 Dec 2025 17:22:52 -0800

Why do we love the way we do—and how can we change it? Kevin Thompson and Mark Clark break down attachment theory, love styles, and how to build healthier relationships in every area of life.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

When Christmas Blows the Budget and Trust

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 09 Dec 2025 23:00:00 -0800

He said $800, he spent $2,000. Can a little Christmas magic justify a big financial betrayal? We break down the fight, the fallout, and how to stop money issues from ruining the season.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Who Gets Christmas? Family Boundaries & Holiday Battles with Your Spouse

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 02 Dec 2025 23:00:00 -0800

Christmas is supposed to be joyful—but for many couples, it’s anything but. We unpack one couple’s holiday dilemma and dive into boundaries, triangulation, and how to stop dreading December.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Why Our Marriage Works: The Thompsons on Timing and Teamwork

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 25 Nov 2025 16:30:00 -0800

Kevin and Jenny Thompson join us to talk love, ministry, parenting challenges, and what makes a strong marriage work—even when you don’t cry at dedications.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Intimacy on Empty: When (It) Feels Like a Chore

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 23:00:00 -0800

When sex turns into another task on the to-do list, what’s really going on in the marriage? We unpack pursue-withdraw cycles, anxious attachment, and how real connection begins outside the bedroom.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Control vs Connection: The Parenting Fight No One Warns You About

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 12 Nov 2025 12:41:05 -0800

What happens when “because I said so” meets “let’s stay connected”? Blaine and Adrienne unpack a listener-submitted parenting fight and explore how control and connection can work together—not against each other.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Fight Club

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 04 Nov 2025 23:00:00 -0800

What if a fight over lost keys isn’t really about the keys? We break down how everyday conflict reveals deeper personality traits, attachment styles, and the hidden strength of a healthy fight.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

5 Signs You’re Growing Together in Faith and Purpose

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 29 Oct 2025 00:00:00 -0700

Struggles, spelling, and spiritual growth—this episode unpacks five signs your marriage might be aligned with God’s will (and why pain might actually be proof you’re on the right path).

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

5 Spiritual Practices Every Strong Couple Needs

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 21 Oct 2025 23:00:00 -0700

Forget the cookie-cutter advice—this episode dives into five bold spiritual practices that build real connection, intimacy, and purpose in your marriage. It’s time to change the odds, together.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Red Flags, Real Talk, and Rebuilding Trust

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 14 Oct 2025 23:00:00 -0700

From smashed wedding cakes to CrossFit crushes, we’re talking marriage red flags, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and how to guard your relationship from subtle dangers—without sounding like your spouse’s preacher.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Stop Saying “He’s Logical, She’s Emotional”—Try This Instead

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 07 Oct 2025 23:00:00 -0700

We bust the “logical vs. emotional” myth, unpack the head–heart–gut framework, and share practical tools—“it felt like…”, absorbing the first jab, and naming emotions—to strengthen marriage, conflict, and parenting.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Q&A: Firemen, date nights, and dreams

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 09:15:03 -0700

Q&A time: staying connected with unpredictable schedules, business meeting vs date night, high/low drive and physical touch, dividing housework fairly, and how to align individual dreams into a shared one. Real talk, practical moves.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Truth, Love, and Maturity in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 23 Sep 2025 23:00:00 -0700

What happens when truth and love collide in marriage? We unpack why honesty, maturity, and intentionality are essential to unity—and how speaking truth in love transforms relationships.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Growth: the foundational skill for every marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 16 Sep 2025 23:00:00 -0700

We unpack how couples truly grow: build connection first, then stack skills. Growth mindset, tiny daily habits, community, and safety over nagging. Prehab > rehab. Practical steps you can start tonight.

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Dreaming Together: Rest, Vision, and Partnership in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 09 Sep 2025 23:00:00 -0700

We share how a retreat reshaped our view of marriage, rest, and partnership—and why dreaming together may be the most important thing you do as a couple.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Window of Tolerance

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 02 Sep 2025 23:00:00 -0700

We unpack the “window of tolerance”—hyper vs. hypoarousal, co-regulation, and simple tools (hello, breathing) to handle conflict, parenting chaos, and work stress—so you can fight for calm, not control.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Attend & Attune, Part 2: The Neuroscience of Connection

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 26 Aug 2025 23:00:00 -0700

Discover the neuroscience behind attending and attuning, why emotional safety boosts intimacy, and practical ways to connect deeply with your spouse every day.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Two Words That Could Transform Your Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 19 Aug 2025 23:00:00 -0700

Discover how the simple habits of attending and attuning can radically strengthen your marriage, deepen connection, and create emotional safety in every relationship.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Canadian Chocolate, Lost Rings, and the Real Secrets of Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 12 Aug 2025 23:00:00 -0700

Blaine and Adrienne celebrate 14 years of marriage—from sweet surprises to lost rings and everything in between—and reflect on what they’ve learned (and unlearned) along the way.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Why Smart Couples Don't Need to be Right

Kevin A. Thompson — Tue, 05 Aug 2025 23:00:00 -0700

Why do some couples fight better? In this episode, Kevin unpacks the overlooked secret to healthy conflict: intellectual humility—and how it could transform your marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

How To Fight Fair

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 31 Jul 2025 14:33:40 -0700

Discover how to turn conflict into connection and stop letting emotions drive your relationships with Kevin A. Thompson’s guide to fighting fair.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

God’s Design, Our Delight: Turning Marital Tension into Growth

Kevin A. Thompson — Fri, 27 Jun 2025 14:24:54 -0700

What if your biggest marital conflict is actually a God-given strength? Kevin unpacks Psalm 139 and shows how embracing differences can lead to deeper love and lasting connection.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Don’t Lose Yourself in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 18 Jun 2025 10:49:00 -0700

Marriage isn’t about losing yourself—it’s about building something new together. Kevin shares a powerful message on trust, individuality, and the beauty of integration in relationships.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

How to Parent Together Without Pulling Apart

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 11 Jun 2025 15:13:21 -0700

How do you keep your marriage strong while parenting kids with big personalities? Kevin and Blaine unpack five keys to unity in marriage—even when life gets chaotic.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Hidden Power of Generosity in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Sun, 01 Jun 2025 14:22:28 -0700

What if generosity is the secret to a thriving marriage? Kevin sits down with generosity expert Jim Sheppard to explore how giving changes relationships—and lives.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

What Nobody Talks About (But Everyone’s Asking) with Dr. Barbara Wilson

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 21 May 2025 09:52:47 -0700

We open the vault on a raw, insightful live Q&A with Dr. Barbara Wilson—covering everything from spiritual intimacy to sex after 70, toys, trauma, and turning vulnerability into connection.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Breaking the Silence: How Couples Can Talk About Sex and Intimacy

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 14 May 2025 16:20:28 -0700

Learn how open conversations about sex can transform your marriage, strengthen your parenting, and break old taboos—with expert tips from Dr. Wilson and real talk from Blaine and Adrienne.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

What Great Lovers Understand: A Conversation with Dr. Barbara Wilson

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 07 May 2025 14:13:45 -0700

Discover how couples can reignite intimacy, navigate vulnerability, and make sex meaningful again—featuring clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Wilson and real-life marriage insights.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Beyond the Bedroom: Building Emotional Intimacy in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 30 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Discover why intimacy starts outside the bedroom. Kevin, Blaine and Adrienne welcome Dr. Barbara Wilson to unpack how trust, respect, and vulnerability shape connection and lasting love.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

This Is Why You Keep Having the Same Fight in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 23 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Kevin dives into Sue Johnson’s three types of recurring fights in marriage—Find the Bad Guy, Protest Polka, and Freeze & Flee—offering tools to break the loop and build deeper connection.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The One Thing You Are Forgetting in Every Communication

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 16 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Discover how the stories we tell ourselves shape our feelings, actions, and relationships—with practical tools for deeper, more compassionate communication in marriage and beyond.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Power Couple Finances: Systems That Save Your Sanity

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 09 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0700

What if you never had to fight about money again? We unpack how financial trust, team systems, and intentional spending can transform your marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Five Steps to Money Misery (And How to Avoid Them)

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 02 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Is money hurting your marriage? Kevin and Adrienne dive into the five mistakes couples make with money—and how to fix them for good. This episode is part one of a two-part conversation you don’t want to miss.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Does Your Spouse Respect You? Part 2

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 26 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0700

What does disrespect really look like in marriage? Kevin, Blaine, and Adrian unpack the subtle ways we dishonor our partners—and how to rebuild trust and connection with intentional respect.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Does Your Spouse Respect You? Part 1

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 19 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Respect isn’t just a nice-to-have in marriage—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into what respect is, what it isn’t, and how to cultivate it in your relationship. Plus, real-life moments that prove respect makes all the difference!

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

7 Daily Habits to Strengthen Your Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 12 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Is apathy the true enemy of marriage? In this episode, we unpack why drifting apart—not adultery, finances, or poor communication—is the real cause of divorce. Learn how small, intentional actions can transform your relationship and keep you and your spouse connected.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

What Are You Becoming?

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 06 Mar 2025 17:12:44 -0800

Is your marriage thriving or just surviving? In this episode, we unpack how to intentionally build a relationship rooted in friendship, partnership, and intimacy—before drifting into something you never intended.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Becoming a Power Couple

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 26 Feb 2025 17:57:35 -0800

What does it take to become a power couple? In this episode, we explore the keys to building a thriving relationship—shared vision, secure attachment, personal growth, and more. Whether you’re in a great place or facing struggles, these insights will help you grow and inspire others along the way.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Power of Opposites in Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 20 Feb 2025 22:34:30 -0800

Are differences in marriage a weakness or a strength? In this episode, we unpack how contrasting personalities, perspectives, and habits can actually strengthen relationships—if handled with respect and understanding. From dishwasher debates to financial mindsets, Blaine and Adrienne explore how their differences bring balance, growth, and unity.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Love, Loss, and Learning to Grieve Together

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 12 Feb 2025 06:00:00 -0800

Grief looks different for everyone—but what happens when two people in a marriage process loss in completely different ways? Blaine and Adrienne share their deeply personal miscarriage story, revealing the unexpected challenges, the healing power of community, and how suffering can either pull couples apart or make them stronger than ever.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

How Your Childhood Shapes Your Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 06 Feb 2025 17:46:27 -0800

Your childhood experiences shape your relationships more than you think! In this episode, we dive into attachment theory—the science behind why we connect, argue, and love the way we do. Learn how to break old cycles, build secure attachments, and strengthen your marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Science of Personality: How It Shapes Your Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 30 Jan 2025 14:07:30 -0800

Do you greet your kids or your spouse first when you walk through the door? This episode dives into the science of personality, exploring how different perspectives shape relationships, communication, and connection in marriage. Discover how to use your differences as strengths and build a stronger family dynamic.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The ABCs of Marriage: Agency, Bonding, and Certainty

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 23 Jan 2025 11:53:25 -0800

How do personality and autopilot behaviors impact your marriage? Kevin Thompson dives into agency, bonding, and certainty with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld, exploring the Enneagram, parenting, and rewiring your relationship dynamics.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Why Marriage and Parenting Are Evolving in 2025

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 15 Jan 2025 17:38:45 -0800

Explore the five biggest marriage trends of 2025 with Kevin Thompson. From delayed marriages to flourishing relationships, this episode unpacks the changing dynamics of love, partnership, and family.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Five Marriage Trends for 2025: Redefining Connection

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 08 Jan 2025 16:54:25 -0800

Start 2025 right! Kevin Thompson sits down with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld to explore five game-changing marriage trends for the year, tackling myths about marriage happiness, overcoming distractions, and sharing simple ways to deepen connection daily.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Problem of Life: Finding Purpose and Identity w/ Mark Clark

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 18 Dec 2024 21:58:34 -0800

As 2024 wraps up, Kevin Thompson sits down with Pastor Mark Clark to explore themes from Mark’s upcoming book, The Problem of Life. They discuss how personal growth impacts marriage, the pursuit of joy in a disconnected world, and why facing life’s challenges with faith can lead to flourishing relationships.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Restoring Intimacy in Marriage: The Journey to Healing w/ Barbara Wilson

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 12 Dec 2024 19:19:56 -0800

Discover how unresolved wounds from the past impact intimacy and how Dr. Barbara Wilson’s transformative study helps women find healing, restoration, and freedom in marriage and faith.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Freedom of Forgiveness: Letting Go to Truly Live

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 05 Dec 2024 13:06:34 -0800

Explore how forgiveness unlocks freedom, restores connections, and transforms exhaustion into engagement. Learn practical steps to let go of grudges, extend grace, and embrace the life you’re called to live.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

5 Ways to Stay Happily Married During the Holidays

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 27 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0800

Discover five practical ways to stay happily married during the holiday season. From tackling stress to prioritizing connection, learn how to thrive as a couple amidst the busyness and expectations of the holidays.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Love, Guilt, and Christmas: A Holiday Q&A with Dr. Barbara Wilson

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 21 Nov 2024 10:17:53 -0800

The holidays can be joyous—or stressful. Kevin Thompson and Dr. Barbara Wilson dive into family dynamics, guilt-free boundaries, and how to manage holiday conflicts with love and grace.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Gift of With: Faith Through Life’s Unexpected Turns with Janelle and Scott McGuckin

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 13 Nov 2024 18:18:32 -0800

Discover how Janelle and Scott McGuckin faced cancer, faith, and marriage head-on, leading to Janelle’s powerful book, The Gift of With. Their journey is a testament to the power of community, resilience, and God’s presence in every moment.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Cutting Through the Clutter to Focus on What Matters Most

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 06 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0800

In this episode, Kevin dives into part two of “engagement” by exploring how quieting life’s constant noise can restore clarity, compassion, and deeper connections in marriage, family, and faith. Discover how intentional disengagement helps us focus on what truly matters.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Engaging Life (and Marriage) with Purpose

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 30 Oct 2024 16:46:45 -0700

In this episode, Kevin dives into what it means to be truly engaged in a world full of distractions. Explore the importance of prioritizing what matters most in life and relationships, while eliminating noise and worry to live fully engaged.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Surviving the Odds: Will Robins on Marriage, Addiction, and Faith

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 23 Oct 2024 19:09:32 -0700

Will Robins shares his powerful story of survival, addiction, and recovery, as he and his wife, Mandy, navigate life after a near-death experience. From professional golf to battling personal demons, Will’s journey reveals how faith and resilience changed the odds in their marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Love Can’t Thrive in a Hurry

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 17 Oct 2024 16:23:48 -0700

In this episode, Kevin Thompson explores how the hurried pace of modern life erodes intimacy in relationships and offers practical strategies to create intentional moments of connection amidst the chaos.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Cost of Overworking Your Relationship

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 09 Oct 2024 13:46:49 -0700

In this episode, we explore the hidden dangers of living like machines in marriage, emphasizing the power of rest and rejuvenation. Learn how exhaustion clouds judgment, increases selfishness, and harms relationships, and discover practical steps to reclaim rest.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Real Key to Marriage: Be Human, Not Perfect

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 02 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0700

Marriage is meant to be a union of two human beings, but are we really living that truth? In this episode, Kevin Thompson explores how overestimating or underestimating ourselves can erode intimacy, and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our full humanity in relationships.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

God, Sex, and Shame Pt. 2

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 25 Sep 2024 17:19:06 -0700

In this episode, Kevin and Jay continue their discussion on the role shame plays in hindering healthy intimacy with individuals and couples.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

God, Sex, and Shame

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 19 Sep 2024 18:34:16 -0700

In this conversation, Kevin is joined by Jay Stringer, author of Unwanted: How sexual brokenness reveals our way to healing.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

How To Love Others Well

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 28 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0700

In this episode of Change The Odds, Kevin talks with two callers, offering guidance on how to navigate life’s challenging moments while embracing the power of love and empathy. Tune in as he shares insights that can help transform difficulties into opportunities for personal growth and deeper connections with others.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Work/Life Balance

Kevin A. Thompson — Thu, 15 Aug 2024 00:26:49 -0700

Everyone is searching for work/life balance but what if that search is in vain? In this episode, Kevin talks about the myth of work/life balance and points toward a better way to find meaning and home and work.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Happiness, Marriage, and Who's to Blame

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 31 Jul 2024 16:54:13 -0700

In this episode, Kevin discusses the idea of happiness and marriage. Is it something you're supposed to get from marriage or something you're supposed to bring to marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Twenty-Something’s, Dating, and Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 10 Jul 2024 16:22:55 -0700

In this episode Kevin is joined by Leslie and Morgan as they talk about the ever changing nature of relationships.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Why Respect Matters

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 26 Jun 2024 17:38:16 -0700

It’s been said “women need love and men need respect.” But what a sad relationship that would be when men are unloved and women are disrespected. Respect matters to everyone, especially in marriage. In the episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about the importance of respect in marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

You Asked It

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 12 Jun 2024 11:55:44 -0700

In this episode, Kevin is joined by Dr. Barbara Wilson as they answer questions sent in by viewers. From sex, communication and respect, listen as Kevin and Barbara answer your questions.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Good News About Marriage in California

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 29 May 2024 06:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Kevin talks with Matt Brown, founder of Sandals Church in Riverside, California. They discuss the latest trends in marriages on the west coast as well as pointing out some potential good news among young adults and their desire for emotional connection.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Dr. Phil’s Got Issues

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 15 May 2024 16:56:57 -0700

Pastors Kevin Thompson and Ray Johnston sit down with Tv's Dr. Phil and talk about his new book "We've Got Issues." Kevin, Ray, and Phil address the growing issues with Christianity in America and the importance of being who you are on purpose.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Brain and Sex

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:51:07 -0700

Kevin talks with special guest Dr. Barbara Wilson about what happens in the brain during the different stages of a relationship.
Barbara is a Doctor of clinical psychology and the founder of Freedom Bound Communications, and specializes in sexual bonding and healing.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Characteristics of a Secure Relationship

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:44:28 -0700

What does a healthy relationship look like? Many people grow up without having a strong marriage modeled for them so they don’t even know what a good marriage is. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about 15 characteristics of a healthy relationship.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Questions and Answers

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:43:32 -0700

It’s Q&A time. Everyone has questions about their relationship, but few people have a place to ask them. We are that place. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie answer questions from listeners. Text Marriage to 56316 to submit your anonymous question for future episodes.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Foundational Friendship

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:42:24 -0700

Friendship is the foundation of a healthy marriage. How does one know if their friendship is strong? In this episode Leslie and Kevin look at the ten questions from the Change The Odds Marriage Assessment that deal with the topic of friendship. From trust to time to attention, take the assessment and listen to this discussion to increase your connection with your spouse. For more information about the assessment, go to changetheodds.com

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Art of Attention

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:40:24 -0700

The number one issue in marriage in 2024 is the issue of attention. As major corporations spend billions of dollars to gain our attention those who are often lose are the ones we love the most. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about the issue of attention—why has it become the most important issue in marriage, how do we control where our attention goes, and what to do if your spouse no longer sees you. This is the first topic in the Marriage Assessment used by Change The Odds to determine a couple’s friend, partner and lover score.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

Friends, Partners, Lovers

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:39:14 -0700

In Episode 3 of Change the Odds the Podcast, Kevin and Leslie discuss what it means for a couple to become Friends, Partners & Lovers.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.

The Decline of Young Marriage

Kevin A. Thompson — Wed, 01 May 2024 09:38:19 -0700

The number of young adults who are delaying marriage has doubled in the last two decades. Why? Leslie and Kevin are joined by Curt Harlow as they discuss the pros and cons of delaying marriage.

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You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.