Carried Forward Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/carried-forward Grief doesn't end, it transforms. The Carried Forward Podcast is a conversation-driven show about what happens after loss. Not the moment of loss itself, but the long, slow, often invisible work of rebuilding identity, meaning, and purpose on the other side of it. Host Robert DelFave is a grief coach, author, and someone who lost both parents young. He sits down with grief professionals, researchers, therapists, authors, and thought leaders to ask the questions his clients are living with every day. What does carrying grief forward actually look like? How do you rebuild who you are on the other side of this? © 2026 Robert DelFave d75f9247-78a8-5f9d-8ad6-83fa4c90aca1 no https://podcastsconnect.apple.com/my-podcasts/show/carried-forward/fdc7183a-5eba-4fea-af01-9af91da6bc0b en Mon, 29 Jun 2026 09:00:35 -0400 Mon, 29 Jun 2026 09:01:41 -0400 http://robertdelfave.com https://img.transistorcdn.com/-lXNa3_9vVmkIECpHuY3MKhKsYOO5_P5VitiiVmDwNU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9hODI0/OGE0NjQxMWVhMzlk/NjQ4YzIwNmE3N2Qz/ZjU1OC5wbmc.jpg Carried Forward http://robertdelfave.com episodic Robert DelFave Grief doesn't end, it transforms. The Carried Forward Podcast is a conversation-driven show about what happens after loss. Not the moment of loss itself, but the long, slow, often invisible work of rebuilding identity, meaning, and purpose on the other side of it. Host Robert DelFave is a grief coach, author, and someone who lost both parents young. He sits down with grief professionals, researchers, therapists, authors, and thought leaders to ask the questions his clients are living with every day. What does carrying grief forward actually look like? How do you rebuild who you are on the other side of this? Grief doesn't end, it transforms. grief, loss, bereavement, grief coaching, grief therapy, identity, healing, transformation, rebuilding, integration, parent loss, carried forward, grief education, grief recovery, grieving, grief support, mental health, loss and healing, life after loss, grief coach, grief counseling, processing grief, grief journey, unprocessed grief, anticipatory grief, identity after loss, meaning making, purpose after loss, rebuilding identity, grief professional Robert DelFave robert@delfave.com No No Grief Is Not Just Emotional w/ Sylvia Wolfer 6 6 Grief Is Not Just Emotional w/ Sylvia Wolfer full 4e0cc5b6-262f-4149-bd50-d1e6388d5c90 https://share.transistor.fm/s/f0a7f14f “Many grieving people genuinely think they are losing themselves, when in reality their brain and body are adapting to profound change.”


In this episode, I sit down with Sylvia Wolfer for a conversation about what grief does beneath the surface. Sylvia is a grief coach and educator whose work lives at the intersection of grief, neuroscience, mindfulness, and movement.

We talk about grief as more than an emotional experience. Grief can affect memory, attention, sleep, energy, decision-making, the nervous system, identity, relationships, and the way a person moves through daily life. But underneath all of it, this conversation is about helping people understand that they are not broken. They are responding to loss.


We talk about:

  •  Why grief is not only emotional 
  •  How grief affects the brain, body, and nervous system 
  •  The tension between being capable and deeply impacted 
  •  What reduced capacity can look like after loss 
  •  How grief can reshape identity and a person’s sense of safety 
  •  Why mindfulness and movement can help without bypassing grief 
  •  What healing means when grief is not something we leave behind 
  •  What grief can teach us about love, presence, and connection 

At its core, this episode is about learning to carry grief without treating it like something that has to be fixed or erased.

Connect with Sylvia:
Website: https://sylviawolfer.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/

Free resources, discovery call, and book: robertdelfave.com/free-resources


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This. Robert works with grieving teenagers and the adults who used to be them.

]]> “Many grieving people genuinely think they are losing themselves, when in reality their brain and body are adapting to profound change.”


In this episode, I sit down with Sylvia Wolfer for a conversation about what grief does beneath the surface. Sylvia is a grief coach and educator whose work lives at the intersection of grief, neuroscience, mindfulness, and movement.

We talk about grief as more than an emotional experience. Grief can affect memory, attention, sleep, energy, decision-making, the nervous system, identity, relationships, and the way a person moves through daily life. But underneath all of it, this conversation is about helping people understand that they are not broken. They are responding to loss.


We talk about:

  •  Why grief is not only emotional 
  •  How grief affects the brain, body, and nervous system 
  •  The tension between being capable and deeply impacted 
  •  What reduced capacity can look like after loss 
  •  How grief can reshape identity and a person’s sense of safety 
  •  Why mindfulness and movement can help without bypassing grief 
  •  What healing means when grief is not something we leave behind 
  •  What grief can teach us about love, presence, and connection 

At its core, this episode is about learning to carry grief without treating it like something that has to be fixed or erased.

Connect with Sylvia:
Website: https://sylviawolfer.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/

Free resources, discovery call, and book: robertdelfave.com/free-resources


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This. Robert works with grieving teenagers and the adults who used to be them.

]]> Mon, 29 Jun 2026 09:00:00 -0400 Robert DelFave Robert DelFave 4153 “Many grieving people genuinely think they are losing themselves, when in reality their brain and body are adapting to profound change.”


In this episode, I sit down with Sylvia Wolfer for a conversation about what grief does beneath the surface. Sylvia is a grief coach and educator whose work lives at the intersection of grief, neuroscience, mindfulness, and movement.

We talk about grief as more than an emotional experience. Grief can affect memory, attention, sleep, energy, decision-making, the nervous system, identity, relationships, and the way a person moves through daily life. But underneath all of it, this conversation is about helping people understand that they are not broken. They are responding to loss.


We talk about:

  •  Why grief is not only emotional 
  •  How grief affects the brain, body, and nervous system 
  •  The tension between being capable and deeply impacted 
  •  What reduced capacity can look like after loss 
  •  How grief can reshape identity and a person’s sense of safety 
  •  Why mindfulness and movement can help without bypassing grief 
  •  What healing means when grief is not something we leave behind 
  •  What grief can teach us about love, presence, and connection 

At its core, this episode is about learning to carry grief without treating it like something that has to be fixed or erased.

Connect with Sylvia:
Website: https://sylviawolfer.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/

Free resources, discovery call, and book: robertdelfave.com/free-resources


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This. Robert works with grieving teenagers and the adults who used to be them.

]]> Sylvia Wolfer, grief coach, grief educator, grief neuroscience, nervous system and grief, grief and the body, mindfulness and grief, movement and grief, sibling grief, sudden loss, loss of a parent, loss of a sibling, cumulative grief, grief and identity, brain fog and grief, grief recovery, grief integration, carrying grief forward, grief podcast, Carried Forward, Robert DelFave, grief support, grief and capacity, emotional numbness, grief and trauma, body-based grief support, healing after loss No The Map Underneath Every Conversation: The Carried Forward Framework Explained 5 5 The Map Underneath Every Conversation: The Carried Forward Framework Explained full 6e110503-c87e-42b9-83be-ae02db2834aa https://share.transistor.fm/s/cbbd0e22 "I'm just carrying it. I don't know where forward is anymore." That's what Katie said when I asked her what carrying grief forward meant to her. And I think it might be the most honest thing anyone has said on this show.

In this solo episode, I do something I've never done on The Carried Forward Podcast before: I explain the framework that runs underneath every conversation. The Carried Forward Framework — five phases called Named, Heard, Reclaimed, Reframed, and Reconnected — is the map I use in my coaching work and the thread that runs through every episode of this show.

Using real moments from conversations with guests Katie Rizzo (episode 4) and Nikki J. Borger, I walk through what each phase actually means, what it looks like in a real person's life, and why the goal was never to get over grief — but to carry it.


We talk about:

  • Why you can't carry something well if you don't know what it is
  • What happens when grief goes underground because the world moves on before you're ready
  • The difference between being defined by a loss and being built by it
  • Why reframing isn't positive thinking — and what it actually is
  • What it looks like to carry grief forward in ordinary, daily life

At its core, this episode is about one thing: wherever you are in your grief is a real place on a real map. You're not behind. You're not doing it wrong. You're carrying something that matters.

Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com

The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This: The Messy Truth About Grief for Teens.

]]> "I'm just carrying it. I don't know where forward is anymore." That's what Katie said when I asked her what carrying grief forward meant to her. And I think it might be the most honest thing anyone has said on this show.

In this solo episode, I do something I've never done on The Carried Forward Podcast before: I explain the framework that runs underneath every conversation. The Carried Forward Framework — five phases called Named, Heard, Reclaimed, Reframed, and Reconnected — is the map I use in my coaching work and the thread that runs through every episode of this show.

Using real moments from conversations with guests Katie Rizzo (episode 4) and Nikki J. Borger, I walk through what each phase actually means, what it looks like in a real person's life, and why the goal was never to get over grief — but to carry it.


We talk about:

  • Why you can't carry something well if you don't know what it is
  • What happens when grief goes underground because the world moves on before you're ready
  • The difference between being defined by a loss and being built by it
  • Why reframing isn't positive thinking — and what it actually is
  • What it looks like to carry grief forward in ordinary, daily life

At its core, this episode is about one thing: wherever you are in your grief is a real place on a real map. You're not behind. You're not doing it wrong. You're carrying something that matters.

Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com

The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This: The Messy Truth About Grief for Teens.

]]> Mon, 15 Jun 2026 16:45:46 -0400 Robert DelFave Robert DelFave 1350 "I'm just carrying it. I don't know where forward is anymore." That's what Katie said when I asked her what carrying grief forward meant to her. And I think it might be the most honest thing anyone has said on this show.

In this solo episode, I do something I've never done on The Carried Forward Podcast before: I explain the framework that runs underneath every conversation. The Carried Forward Framework — five phases called Named, Heard, Reclaimed, Reframed, and Reconnected — is the map I use in my coaching work and the thread that runs through every episode of this show.

Using real moments from conversations with guests Katie Rizzo (episode 4) and Nikki J. Borger, I walk through what each phase actually means, what it looks like in a real person's life, and why the goal was never to get over grief — but to carry it.


We talk about:

  • Why you can't carry something well if you don't know what it is
  • What happens when grief goes underground because the world moves on before you're ready
  • The difference between being defined by a loss and being built by it
  • Why reframing isn't positive thinking — and what it actually is
  • What it looks like to carry grief forward in ordinary, daily life

At its core, this episode is about one thing: wherever you are in your grief is a real place on a real map. You're not behind. You're not doing it wrong. You're carrying something that matters.

Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com

The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This: The Messy Truth About Grief for Teens.

]]> Robert DelFave, Carried Forward Framework, grief framework, grief phases, grief coaching, grief education, carrying grief forward, complicated grief, anticipatory grief, grief and identity, grief and love, grief podcast, how to process grief, named heard reclaimed reframed reconnected, Katie Rizzo, Nikki J. Borger, David Kessler, grief educator No I’m Just Carrying It w/ Katie Rizzo 4 4 I’m Just Carrying It w/ Katie Rizzo full cebabdd8-c856-4a8e-9bf7-decf491e637b https://share.transistor.fm/s/579a1684 “I’m just carrying it. I don’t know where forward is anymore.”


In this episode, I sit down with author, poet, and grieving mother Katie Rizzo for one of the most honest conversations I’ve had about addiction, shame, identity, and what it means to survive the loss of a child.

Katie’s son Nicholas died in September 2024 after struggling with opioid addiction. But this conversation is not just about addiction or loss. It’s about Nicholas himself. Who he was. What grief does to a body, a marriage, a family, and the impossible task of learning how to keep loving someone after they’re gone.


We talk about:

  • grief as something physical, not just emotional
  • the shame and isolation surrounding addiction loss
  • what it means to “carry” grief
  • how identity changes after losing a child
  • the fear of moving forward without forgetting
  • why grief groups can both heal and trap us
  • the pressure grieving parents place on themselves
  • the role creativity and writing can play in surviving loss

Katie also shares the story behind her upcoming memoir, The Trimesters of Grief, and her poetry collection, None of Them Are You.

At its core, this conversation is about love that refuses to disappear.

Connect with Katie:
Website: katierizzo.com

Instagram: @katierizzo007

Upcoming Books:

  • The Trimesters of Grief
  • None of Them Are You

Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.


New episodes released regularly.

]]> “I’m just carrying it. I don’t know where forward is anymore.”


In this episode, I sit down with author, poet, and grieving mother Katie Rizzo for one of the most honest conversations I’ve had about addiction, shame, identity, and what it means to survive the loss of a child.

Katie’s son Nicholas died in September 2024 after struggling with opioid addiction. But this conversation is not just about addiction or loss. It’s about Nicholas himself. Who he was. What grief does to a body, a marriage, a family, and the impossible task of learning how to keep loving someone after they’re gone.


We talk about:

  • grief as something physical, not just emotional
  • the shame and isolation surrounding addiction loss
  • what it means to “carry” grief
  • how identity changes after losing a child
  • the fear of moving forward without forgetting
  • why grief groups can both heal and trap us
  • the pressure grieving parents place on themselves
  • the role creativity and writing can play in surviving loss

Katie also shares the story behind her upcoming memoir, The Trimesters of Grief, and her poetry collection, None of Them Are You.

At its core, this conversation is about love that refuses to disappear.

Connect with Katie:
Website: katierizzo.com

Instagram: @katierizzo007

Upcoming Books:

  • The Trimesters of Grief
  • None of Them Are You

Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.


New episodes released regularly.

]]> Fri, 29 May 2026 09:00:00 -0400 Robert DelFave Robert DelFave 4890 “I’m just carrying it. I don’t know where forward is anymore.”


In this episode, I sit down with author, poet, and grieving mother Katie Rizzo for one of the most honest conversations I’ve had about addiction, shame, identity, and what it means to survive the loss of a child.

Katie’s son Nicholas died in September 2024 after struggling with opioid addiction. But this conversation is not just about addiction or loss. It’s about Nicholas himself. Who he was. What grief does to a body, a marriage, a family, and the impossible task of learning how to keep loving someone after they’re gone.


We talk about:

  • grief as something physical, not just emotional
  • the shame and isolation surrounding addiction loss
  • what it means to “carry” grief
  • how identity changes after losing a child
  • the fear of moving forward without forgetting
  • why grief groups can both heal and trap us
  • the pressure grieving parents place on themselves
  • the role creativity and writing can play in surviving loss

Katie also shares the story behind her upcoming memoir, The Trimesters of Grief, and her poetry collection, None of Them Are You.

At its core, this conversation is about love that refuses to disappear.

Connect with Katie:
Website: katierizzo.com

Instagram: @katierizzo007

Upcoming Books:

  • The Trimesters of Grief
  • None of Them Are You

Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.


New episodes released regularly.

]]> grief, child loss, loss of a child, addiction grief, overdose loss, opioid addiction, grief podcast, grieving mother, bereavement, trauma, emotional healing, grief support, complicated grief, parental grief, addiction recovery, grief counseling, grief therapy, shame and grief, healing after loss, surviving grief, family grief, grief and identity, grief and trauma, mental health, coping with loss, poetry and grief, memoir, The Trimesters of Grief, Katie Rizzo No The Loneliness of Sibling Grief w/ Zander Sprague 3 3 The Loneliness of Sibling Grief w/ Zander Sprague full 10fa57c2-939a-4cae-8850-b9e1df04963f https://share.transistor.fm/s/6750543a “Everyone asks how the parents are doing. Nobody asks how the siblings are doing.”

In this episode, I sit down with author, speaker, counselor, and sibling grief advocate Zander Sprague for a deeply honest conversation about sibling loss, overlooked grief, and what it means to carry someone forward after tragedy.

Zander’s older sister Lucy was murdered in 1996. Nearly thirty years later, he’s helping sibling survivors feel seen through his writing, counseling, advocacy work, and communities like The Compassionate Friends and TCF Sibs.

We talk about:

  • why sibling grief is so often overlooked 
  • the loneliness of becoming “the forgotten mourner” 
  • grief ambushes and emotional triggers 
  • what it means to let grief shape you without defining you 
  • why people never truly “get over” losing someone they love 
  • the power of community after loss 
  • how remembering someone keeps them alive in our lives

At its core, this episode is about recognition.

About finally hearing: “I see you. Your grief matters too.”

Connect with Zander: 

  • Website: ZanderSprague.com
  • Instagram: @epic_begins
  • YouTube: @epicbegins
  • LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ZanderSprague
  • Books: Epic Begins With 1 Step Forward
  • Making Lemonade: Choosing A Positive Pathway After Losing Your Sibling
  • Why Don’t They Cry?: Understanding Your Living Child’s Grief


Resources: robertdelfave.com
Free audio series: Not Alone —robertdelfave.com
Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com

The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.

New episodes released regularly.

]]> “Everyone asks how the parents are doing. Nobody asks how the siblings are doing.”

In this episode, I sit down with author, speaker, counselor, and sibling grief advocate Zander Sprague for a deeply honest conversation about sibling loss, overlooked grief, and what it means to carry someone forward after tragedy.

Zander’s older sister Lucy was murdered in 1996. Nearly thirty years later, he’s helping sibling survivors feel seen through his writing, counseling, advocacy work, and communities like The Compassionate Friends and TCF Sibs.

We talk about:

  • why sibling grief is so often overlooked 
  • the loneliness of becoming “the forgotten mourner” 
  • grief ambushes and emotional triggers 
  • what it means to let grief shape you without defining you 
  • why people never truly “get over” losing someone they love 
  • the power of community after loss 
  • how remembering someone keeps them alive in our lives

At its core, this episode is about recognition.

About finally hearing: “I see you. Your grief matters too.”

Connect with Zander: 

  • Website: ZanderSprague.com
  • Instagram: @epic_begins
  • YouTube: @epicbegins
  • LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ZanderSprague
  • Books: Epic Begins With 1 Step Forward
  • Making Lemonade: Choosing A Positive Pathway After Losing Your Sibling
  • Why Don’t They Cry?: Understanding Your Living Child’s Grief


Resources: robertdelfave.com
Free audio series: Not Alone —robertdelfave.com
Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com

The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.

New episodes released regularly.

]]> Fri, 22 May 2026 16:15:06 -0400 Robert DelFave Robert DelFave 4193 “Everyone asks how the parents are doing. Nobody asks how the siblings are doing.”

In this episode, I sit down with author, speaker, counselor, and sibling grief advocate Zander Sprague for a deeply honest conversation about sibling loss, overlooked grief, and what it means to carry someone forward after tragedy.

Zander’s older sister Lucy was murdered in 1996. Nearly thirty years later, he’s helping sibling survivors feel seen through his writing, counseling, advocacy work, and communities like The Compassionate Friends and TCF Sibs.

We talk about:

  • why sibling grief is so often overlooked 
  • the loneliness of becoming “the forgotten mourner” 
  • grief ambushes and emotional triggers 
  • what it means to let grief shape you without defining you 
  • why people never truly “get over” losing someone they love 
  • the power of community after loss 
  • how remembering someone keeps them alive in our lives

At its core, this episode is about recognition.

About finally hearing: “I see you. Your grief matters too.”

Connect with Zander: 

  • Website: ZanderSprague.com
  • Instagram: @epic_begins
  • YouTube: @epicbegins
  • LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ZanderSprague
  • Books: Epic Begins With 1 Step Forward
  • Making Lemonade: Choosing A Positive Pathway After Losing Your Sibling
  • Why Don’t They Cry?: Understanding Your Living Child’s Grief


Resources: robertdelfave.com
Free audio series: Not Alone —robertdelfave.com
Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com

The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.

New episodes released regularly.

]]> sibling grief, sibling loss, grief, grief support, grief podcast, sibling survivor, loss of a sibling, bereavement, trauma, healing, emotional healing, grief counseling, grief therapy, family loss, murder loss, traumatic grief, complicated grief, mental health, grieving, The Compassionate Friends, TCF Sibs, coping with grief, life after loss, grief community, grief recovery No Grief Has No Timeline w/ Zulma Williams 2 2 Grief Has No Timeline w/ Zulma Williams full 35059695-0769-458e-b607-06c5f69182fe https://share.transistor.fm/s/f0a56515 “Grief is love that has nowhere to go.”

In this episode, I sit down with therapist and grief counselor Zulma Williams for an honest conversation about grief, trauma, healing, and the emotional unpredictability of loss.

We talk about why grief has no timeline, how loss reshapes identity, what grief ambushes actually feel like, and the difference between carrying grief and being consumed by it.

Zulma is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with clients navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, and major life transitions. But more than that, she’s someone who deeply understands the emotional reality of loss.


At its core, The Carried Forward Podcast is about one thing:
learning how to live with grief without losing yourself inside of it.


This conversation explores:

  • why grief and trauma are so deeply connected
  • the pressure people feel to “move on”
  • what healing actually looks like after loss
  • why grief changes identity
  • how to support someone who is grieving
  • the emotional reality of grief ambushes
  • why it’s okay to not be okay

Connect with Zulma
Website: www.dragonflytherapyservices.net

Instagram: @theswearingtherapist


Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.


New episodes released regularly.

]]> “Grief is love that has nowhere to go.”

In this episode, I sit down with therapist and grief counselor Zulma Williams for an honest conversation about grief, trauma, healing, and the emotional unpredictability of loss.

We talk about why grief has no timeline, how loss reshapes identity, what grief ambushes actually feel like, and the difference between carrying grief and being consumed by it.

Zulma is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with clients navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, and major life transitions. But more than that, she’s someone who deeply understands the emotional reality of loss.


At its core, The Carried Forward Podcast is about one thing:
learning how to live with grief without losing yourself inside of it.


This conversation explores:

  • why grief and trauma are so deeply connected
  • the pressure people feel to “move on”
  • what healing actually looks like after loss
  • why grief changes identity
  • how to support someone who is grieving
  • the emotional reality of grief ambushes
  • why it’s okay to not be okay

Connect with Zulma
Website: www.dragonflytherapyservices.net

Instagram: @theswearingtherapist


Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.


New episodes released regularly.

]]> Sun, 17 May 2026 09:00:00 -0400 Robert DelFave Robert DelFave 4013 “Grief is love that has nowhere to go.”

In this episode, I sit down with therapist and grief counselor Zulma Williams for an honest conversation about grief, trauma, healing, and the emotional unpredictability of loss.

We talk about why grief has no timeline, how loss reshapes identity, what grief ambushes actually feel like, and the difference between carrying grief and being consumed by it.

Zulma is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with clients navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, and major life transitions. But more than that, she’s someone who deeply understands the emotional reality of loss.


At its core, The Carried Forward Podcast is about one thing:
learning how to live with grief without losing yourself inside of it.


This conversation explores:

  • why grief and trauma are so deeply connected
  • the pressure people feel to “move on”
  • what healing actually looks like after loss
  • why grief changes identity
  • how to support someone who is grieving
  • the emotional reality of grief ambushes
  • why it’s okay to not be okay

Connect with Zulma
Website: www.dragonflytherapyservices.net

Instagram: @theswearingtherapist


Resources: robertdelfave.com

Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com

Book a free discovery call: robertdelfave.com


The Carried Forward Podcast is hosted by Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and author of The Other Side of This.


New episodes released regularly.

]]> grief, grief therapy, grief counselor, trauma, healing, loss, bereavement, grief support, emotional healing, parent loss, mental health, therapy, grief podcast, life transitions, anxiety, depression, grief coaching, coping with loss, trauma therapy, grieving No Grief Doesn't End. It Transforms. 1 1 Grief Doesn't End. It Transforms. full 7b06764a-4d62-491f-9493-4db9ce9c8f7c https://share.transistor.fm/s/cb6668ec What's the grief milestone nobody prepares you for? Not the funeral. Not the first year. The weird specific one nobody talks about.

I asked that question recently and over nine hundred people answered. Their responses told me everything I needed to know about why this show exists.

In this first episode I'm introducing The Carried Forward Podcast — what it is, who it's for, and why I built it. I'm Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and someone who lost both parents before the age of thirty. For twenty years I carried that grief alone. This show is what I wish had existed back then.

Every episode of The Carried Forward Podcast asks one question: what does carrying grief forward actually look like? I'll be sitting down with grief professionals, researchers, therapists, authors, and people with profound lived experience to find out.

Grief doesn't end. It transforms. And the goal isn't to get over it — it's to carry it forward.

In this episode:

  • Why nine hundred strangers on the internet changed how I think about grief
  • The four month drop-off nobody talks about
  • What the Carried Forward Framework is and why I built it
  • What to expect from this show

Resources mentioned:

  • robertdelfave.com
  • Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com
  • Book a free discovery call — robertdelfave.com
]]> What's the grief milestone nobody prepares you for? Not the funeral. Not the first year. The weird specific one nobody talks about.

I asked that question recently and over nine hundred people answered. Their responses told me everything I needed to know about why this show exists.

In this first episode I'm introducing The Carried Forward Podcast — what it is, who it's for, and why I built it. I'm Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and someone who lost both parents before the age of thirty. For twenty years I carried that grief alone. This show is what I wish had existed back then.

Every episode of The Carried Forward Podcast asks one question: what does carrying grief forward actually look like? I'll be sitting down with grief professionals, researchers, therapists, authors, and people with profound lived experience to find out.

Grief doesn't end. It transforms. And the goal isn't to get over it — it's to carry it forward.

In this episode:

  • Why nine hundred strangers on the internet changed how I think about grief
  • The four month drop-off nobody talks about
  • What the Carried Forward Framework is and why I built it
  • What to expect from this show

Resources mentioned:

  • robertdelfave.com
  • Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com
  • Book a free discovery call — robertdelfave.com
]]> Fri, 24 Apr 2026 13:09:02 -0400 Robert DelFave Robert DelFave 439 What's the grief milestone nobody prepares you for? Not the funeral. Not the first year. The weird specific one nobody talks about.

I asked that question recently and over nine hundred people answered. Their responses told me everything I needed to know about why this show exists.

In this first episode I'm introducing The Carried Forward Podcast — what it is, who it's for, and why I built it. I'm Robert DelFave, grief coach, David Kessler Certified Grief Educator, and someone who lost both parents before the age of thirty. For twenty years I carried that grief alone. This show is what I wish had existed back then.

Every episode of The Carried Forward Podcast asks one question: what does carrying grief forward actually look like? I'll be sitting down with grief professionals, researchers, therapists, authors, and people with profound lived experience to find out.

Grief doesn't end. It transforms. And the goal isn't to get over it — it's to carry it forward.

In this episode:

  • Why nine hundred strangers on the internet changed how I think about grief
  • The four month drop-off nobody talks about
  • What the Carried Forward Framework is and why I built it
  • What to expect from this show

Resources mentioned:

  • robertdelfave.com
  • Free audio series: Not Alone — robertdelfave.com
  • Book a free discovery call — robertdelfave.com
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