But How's The Sex Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/but-hows-the-sex-howsthesexpod The only podcast where a romance writer and guest debate the sex lives of fictional characters. Hosted by bestselling author, Elissa Sussman. Best Boy Basil 2025 33bad4a5-eaad-5b51-aa83-6862f791d917 no Elissa Sussman Teaser: Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing But How's The Sex: The Teaser en Fri, 03 Apr 2026 03:35:33 -0700 Fri, 03 Apr 2026 03:38:50 -0700 https://elissasussman.com/podcast https://img.transistorcdn.com/2UsJ_BjltfKB8K7JkUvE-wdduFA15CZAqOWUsnT8yHo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xMTIz/NzQyY2JhODM5Zjk5/YmNiYjIyZTVjZDMz/NDdiYy5QTkc.jpg But How's The Sex https://elissasussman.com/podcast episodic Elissa Sussman The only podcast where a romance writer and guest debate the sex lives of fictional characters. Hosted by bestselling author, Elissa Sussman. The only podcast where a romance writer and guest debate the sex lives of fictional characters. pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Elissa Sussman howsthesexpod@gmail.com No Yes Mady Maio and LOVE, ACTUALLY, or why we all deserve a Karl of our very own 16 16 Mady Maio and LOVE, ACTUALLY, or why we all deserve a Karl of our very own full 322925d1-3999-47d4-989f-8bfe8dc09a83 https://share.transistor.fm/s/55216ca0 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Mady Maio, as we debate the sex lives of characters from LOVE, ACTUALLY.

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LOVE, ACTUALLY (2003)

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Mady Maio, as we debate the sex lives of characters from LOVE, ACTUALLY.

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LOVE, ACTUALLY (2003)

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]]> Fri, 19 Dec 2025 07:49:49 -0800 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 2165 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Mady Maio, as we debate the sex lives of characters from LOVE, ACTUALLY.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

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LOVE, ACTUALLY (2003)

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]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Mady Maio Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Paige Harbison and THE HOLIDAY, or why we're all horny for that f-cking cottage 15 15 Paige Harbison and THE HOLIDAY, or why we're all horny for that f-cking cottage full 2f9645b3-767b-4591-aa8c-80c0e01b6ed6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/1e2907c6 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Paige Harbison, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE HOLIDAY.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Paige Harbison, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE HOLIDAY.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

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THE HOLIDAY (2006)

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]]> Fri, 05 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0800 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 2071 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Paige Harbison, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE HOLIDAY.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

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THE HOLIDAY (2006)

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]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Paige Harbison Haley Renken and HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS, or why Ben can find your clit, but not your heart 14 14 Haley Renken and HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS, or why Ben can find your clit, but not your heart full a88fcf4b-ef53-4d26-aaf8-6666d81cb6a6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/743b1bcf Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS.

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HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003)

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS.

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HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003)

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]]> Fri, 21 Nov 2025 10:36:34 -0800 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1938 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS.

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HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003)

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]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Alex Heller Elissa Sussman Haley Renken Elizabeth Hughes and Star Wars, or why we should all be looking for our own Obi-Wan Kenobi 13 13 Elizabeth Hughes and Star Wars, or why we should all be looking for our own Obi-Wan Kenobi full 5cf40ab0-3279-4490-a1cd-ec49269b92d7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/29131c72 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe.

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STAR WARS in general, but specifically:
A New Hope (1977)
The Empire Strikes Back (1980)
Return of the Jedi (1983)
The Phantom Menace (1999)
Attack of the Clones (2002)
Revenge of the Sith (2005)

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metanoia by beskars
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Lost Stars by Claudia Gray
Leia: Princess of Alderaan by Claudia Gray
Eyes Like Stars by Ashley Poston (preorder)


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Tech Support - John Petaja

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

Spoiler Alerts for the following:
STAR WARS in general, but specifically:
A New Hope (1977)
The Empire Strikes Back (1980)
Return of the Jedi (1983)
The Phantom Menace (1999)
Attack of the Clones (2002)
Revenge of the Sith (2005)

Elizabeth's Recommendations:
Fanfic:
Four Days to Bespin by Leela Starsky
metanoia by beskars
Novels:
Lost Stars by Claudia Gray
Leia: Princess of Alderaan by Claudia Gray
Eyes Like Stars by Ashley Poston (preorder)


Find me:
Website
Instagram
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Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
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Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja

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]]> Fri, 14 Nov 2025 09:03:37 -0800 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1878 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

Spoiler Alerts for the following:
STAR WARS in general, but specifically:
A New Hope (1977)
The Empire Strikes Back (1980)
Return of the Jedi (1983)
The Phantom Menace (1999)
Attack of the Clones (2002)
Revenge of the Sith (2005)

Elizabeth's Recommendations:
Fanfic:
Four Days to Bespin by Leela Starsky
metanoia by beskars
Novels:
Lost Stars by Claudia Gray
Leia: Princess of Alderaan by Claudia Gray
Eyes Like Stars by Ashley Poston (preorder)


Find me:
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess
Tech Support - John Petaja

Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Lauren Airriess Leigh Bardugo, and fantasy villains of the 80's, or why the bad guy always gets the best lines 12 12 Leigh Bardugo, and fantasy villains of the 80's, or why the bad guy always gets the best lines full b2480261-bc3b-4375-9db2-71a9ea1c47b8 https://share.transistor.fm/s/004b0a66 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
LABYRINTH (1986)
LEGEND (1985)
LADYHAWKE (1985)
INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976)
THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985)


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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
LABYRINTH (1986)
LEGEND (1985)
LADYHAWKE (1985)
INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976)
THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985)


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Tech Support - John Petaja

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Fri, 31 Oct 2025 11:54:01 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1956 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
LABYRINTH (1986)
LEGEND (1985)
LADYHAWKE (1985)
INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976)
THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985)


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Tech Support - John Petaja

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Leigh Bardugo Candice Lim and THE GILMORE GIRLS, and who's the real sexual icon of Stars Hollow 11 11 Candice Lim and THE GILMORE GIRLS, and who's the real sexual icon of Stars Hollow full 0a3d210a-3e8a-4d14-9d63-23361e4a4865 https://share.transistor.fm/s/ad457708 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Candice Lim as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE GILMORE GIRLS

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THE GILMORE GIRLS (2000-2007)

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Candice Lim as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE GILMORE GIRLS

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
THE GILMORE GIRLS (2000-2007)

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]]> Fri, 24 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 2101 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Candice Lim as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE GILMORE GIRLS

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
THE GILMORE GIRLS (2000-2007)

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Candice Lim Charlotte Luce and THE MUMMY, or what's the *real* treasure under the sand 10 10 Charlotte Luce and THE MUMMY, or what's the *real* treasure under the sand full 15ecc494-6230-4e36-af29-2c60f29a75f1 https://share.transistor.fm/s/bb63717c Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Charlotte Luce as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE MUMMY

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
The Mummy (1999)

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Charlotte Luce as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE MUMMY

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
The Mummy (1999)

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Tech Support - John Petaja

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]]> Fri, 17 Oct 2025 10:44:54 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1970 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Charlotte Luce as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE MUMMY

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
The Mummy (1999)

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Tech Support - John Petaja

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> the mummy Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Charlotte Luce Amanda Jane Stern and THE PRINCESS BRIDE, or how to use that sixth finger for good, not evil 9 9 Amanda Jane Stern and THE PRINCESS BRIDE, or how to use that sixth finger for good, not evil full 39011418-df8e-47d5-8c42-1803af27de47 https://share.transistor.fm/s/e6175948 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Amanda Jane Stern as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE PRINCESS BRIDE

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
The Princess Bride (1987)

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Tech Support - John Petaja

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Amanda Jane Stern as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE PRINCESS BRIDE

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
The Princess Bride (1987)

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BlueSky
Letterboxd
Check out PERFECTLY GOOD MOMENT here!


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Special thanks:
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]]> Fri, 10 Oct 2025 12:57:24 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1955 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Amanda Jane Stern as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE PRINCESS BRIDE

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]]> princess bride Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Amanda Jane Stern Erin La Rosa and Disney Princes, or why older women love Aladdin 8 8 Erin La Rosa and Disney Princes, or why older women love Aladdin full 8620b016-1499-4fe9-b9d2-d1f3e285186e https://share.transistor.fm/s/f5d30c32 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Erin La Rosa, as we debate the sex lives of Disney princes, in particular: Prince Eric, The Beast, Aladdin, Flynn Rider, and Kristoff

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Erin La Rosa, as we debate the sex lives of Disney princes, in particular: Prince Eric, The Beast, Aladdin, Flynn Rider, and Kristoff

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
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Aladdin (1992)
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]]> Thu, 02 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1914 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Erin La Rosa, as we debate the sex lives of Disney princes, in particular: Prince Eric, The Beast, Aladdin, Flynn Rider, and Kristoff

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
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The Little Mermaid (1989)
Beauty and the Beast (1991)
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Tangled (2010)
Frozen (2013)
Frozen 2 (2019)


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]]> disney Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Erin La Rosa Joss Richard and THREE'S COMPANY, or why Mrs. Roper deserves a happy ending (yes, that kind) 7 7 Joss Richard and THREE'S COMPANY, or why Mrs. Roper deserves a happy ending (yes, that kind) full bd963149-e410-4620-82e1-4585846b1136 https://share.transistor.fm/s/7164ceeb Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Joss Richard, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THREE'S COMPANY.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Joss Richard, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THREE'S COMPANY.

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]]> Wed, 24 Sep 2025 05:58:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1863 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Joss Richard, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THREE'S COMPANY.

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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> threes company Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Joss Richard Morgan Matson and PARKS AND REC, or why everyone in Pawnee is into role-playing 6 6 Morgan Matson and PARKS AND REC, or why everyone in Pawnee is into role-playing full 563969d8-732f-4396-a648-49a88f7d0eb5 https://share.transistor.fm/s/4be6968a Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Morgan Matson, as we debate the sex lives of characters from PARKS AND RECREATION.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Morgan Matson, as we debate the sex lives of characters from PARKS AND RECREATION.

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]]> Wed, 27 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1945 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Morgan Matson, as we debate the sex lives of characters from PARKS AND RECREATION.

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]]> parks and rec Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Morgan Matson Maurene Goo and the AVENGERS or why Loki is the ideal one-night stand 5 5 Maurene Goo and the AVENGERS or why Loki is the ideal one-night stand full 0c22b740-a878-40d2-9f9f-d211827a441b https://share.transistor.fm/s/dca34669 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Maurene Goo, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Maurene Goo, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Iron Man (2008)
Iron Man 2 (2010)
Thor (2011)
Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
The Avengers (2012)
Iron Man 3 (2013)
Thor: The Dark World (2013)
Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)
Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)
Captain America: Civil War (2016)
Thor: Ragnarok (2017)
Avengers: Infinity War (2018)
Avengers: Endgame (2019)


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But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Wed, 20 Aug 2025 08:37:35 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1901 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Maurene Goo, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Iron Man (2008)
Iron Man 2 (2010)
Thor (2011)
Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
The Avengers (2012)
Iron Man 3 (2013)
Thor: The Dark World (2013)
Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)
Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)
Captain America: Civil War (2016)
Thor: Ragnarok (2017)
Avengers: Infinity War (2018)
Avengers: Endgame (2019)


Find Maurene online:
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Preorder ONE AND ONLY here!
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]]> avengers Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Maurene Goo Falon Ballard and PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN, or why Elizabeth Swan needs a sex toy 4 4 Falon Ballard and PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN, or why Elizabeth Swan needs a sex toy full b4217823-2c9c-4e85-915c-06f55fa9db90 https://share.transistor.fm/s/5091846f Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
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Pirates of the Caribbean (2003)
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]]> Wed, 13 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1762 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
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Pirates of the Caribbean (2003)
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Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007)


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]]> pirates of the caribbean Yes Elissa Sussman Falon Ballard Alex Heller Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing, or why Dr Barlett is totally a top 3 3 Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing, or why Dr Barlett is totally a top full 954b9c08-fe7f-403b-bac1-adb87fdf44eb https://share.transistor.fm/s/c987092d Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing.

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]]> Wed, 06 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1980 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
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The West Wing (1999)


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]]> West Wing Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Kate Stayman-London Teaser: Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing 3 3 Teaser: Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing trailer 84887ec1-03d6-41d3-bebb-3cbc345043fd https://share.transistor.fm/s/bb9f94e7 Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically: 

Josh Lyman
Sam Seaborne
Toby Ziegler
CJ Craig
Dr. and Mr. Bartlett

Full episode available on August 6th

]]> Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically: 

Josh Lyman
Sam Seaborne
Toby Ziegler
CJ Craig
Dr. and Mr. Bartlett

Full episode available on August 6th

]]> Wed, 30 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 48 Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically: 

Josh Lyman
Sam Seaborne
Toby Ziegler
CJ Craig
Dr. and Mr. Bartlett

Full episode available on August 6th

]]> West Wing Yes Elissa Sussman Alex Heller Kate Stayman-London Zan Romanoff and dirtbags, or why Travis Birkenstock is a national treasure 2 2 Zan Romanoff and dirtbags, or why Travis Birkenstock is a national treasure full c218e92e-13ae-432f-9734-0ab888373363 https://share.transistor.fm/s/ea027c14 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags.

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]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Clueless (1995)
Reality Bites (1994)
Friday Night Lights - TV Show (2006)
The L Word - TV Show (2004)

On The Bleachers Podcast with Zan and Sarah
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SELAH: Neighborhood Homeless Coalition

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Buy her latest here!

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]]> Wed, 23 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1837 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags.

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alerts for the following:
Clueless (1995)
Reality Bites (1994)
Friday Night Lights - TV Show (2006)
The L Word - TV Show (2004)

On The Bleachers Podcast with Zan and Sarah
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SELAH: Neighborhood Homeless Coalition

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More information on the podcast can be found here. 

But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> dirtbags Yes Elissa Sussman Zan Romanoff Alex Heller Teaser: Zan Romanoff and Dirtbags 2 2 Teaser: Zan Romanoff and Dirtbags full 7f4a6517-aa61-4807-b439-b91e34024b81 https://share.transistor.fm/s/70dcc14d Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically: 

Travis Birkenstock from Clueless
Troy Dyer from Reality Bites
Tim Riggins from Friday Night Lights
Shane McCutcheon from The L Word

Full episode available on July 23rd

]]> Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically: 

Travis Birkenstock from Clueless
Troy Dyer from Reality Bites
Tim Riggins from Friday Night Lights
Shane McCutcheon from The L Word

Full episode available on July 23rd

]]> Wed, 16 Jul 2025 12:02:48 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 50 Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically: 

Travis Birkenstock from Clueless
Troy Dyer from Reality Bites
Tim Riggins from Friday Night Lights
Shane McCutcheon from The L Word

Full episode available on July 23rd

]]> pop culture, romance, romancelandia, otp, sex Yes Alex Heller Elissa Sussman Zan Romanoff Kate Spencer and FRIENDS, or why Monica is the best in bed 1 1 Kate Spencer and FRIENDS, or why Monica is the best in bed full 03731c32-f376-4788-acdb-5c21d429717d https://share.transistor.fm/s/4e64521d Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!)

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alert: Friends (1994)

Find Kate on the internet:
Website
Instagram
FaceBook
TikTok
Buy her books here!

Find me!
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy my latest here!

Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess

Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here. 

But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!)

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alert: Friends (1994)

Find Kate on the internet:
Website
Instagram
FaceBook
TikTok
Buy her books here!

Find me!
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy my latest here!

Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess

Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here. 

But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

]]> Wed, 09 Jul 2025 06:00:00 -0700 Elissa Sussman Elissa Sussman 1549 Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!)

Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
Spoiler Alert: Friends (1994)

Find Kate on the internet:
Website
Instagram
FaceBook
TikTok
Buy her books here!

Find me!
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Buy my latest here!

Special thanks:
Theme - Alex Heller
Logo - Lauren Airriess

Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
More information on the podcast can be found here. 

But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

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