Bear Crawl with Dads

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Balancing Fatherhood and Entrepreneurship, the Power of Community, Horizontal vs Vertical, and More with Michael McCormack

Ross Purdy — Mon, 13 May 2024 02:00:00 -0700

In episode #30, we visit with Michael, a fellow dad sharing his journey in fatherhood. Michael talks about being a new dad with a daughter and a son, along with his wife of almost 10 years. The conversation touches on the joys and challenges of parenting, highlighting the continuous learning experience that comes with raising kids. Tune in for some heartfelt insights and relatable experiences from two dads navigating the world of fatherhood.

Join us for this episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" as we navigate the rewarding path of fatherhood, learning and growing along the way.

00:00:48 - Guest Introduction: Michael

Ross introduces his guest, Michael, who shares a bit about his background, family, and his transition from oil and gas to co-founding a software company.

00:02:47 - Michael's Work Explained

Michael explains the nature of his work in ERP software for wholesale distributors and how it helps businesses operate more efficiently.

00:04:19 - Michael's Role in His Company

Discussion about Michael's role as COO in his startup, overseeing operations, development, and customer support.

00:05:24 - Balancing Fatherhood and Entrepreneurship

Ross and Michael discuss the challenges of balancing new fatherhood with starting and running a new business.

00:06:56 - Michael's Childhood and Influence of His Father

Michael shares memories of his father, their relationship, and how it shaped his approach to life and fatherhood.

00:11:54 - Parenting Styles and Communication

Ross and Michael delve into the importance of communication in parenting and how Michael's father used dialogue as a form of teaching and discipline.

00:13:35 - Connecting Through Activities

Discussion on how physical activities like playing catch were a medium for bonding and communication between Michael and his father.

00:17:16 - Reflecting on Parental Influence

Michael reflects on how his parents encouraged his natural talents and how that influenced his approach to parenting.

00:22:09 - Transitioning to Discuss Michael as a Dad

Shift in conversation to focus on Michael's experiences and challenges as a dad.

00:25:24 - Challenges of Fatherhood

Michael discusses the challenges he faces in balancing work commitments with being a present and engaged father.

00:28:55 - Importance of Community and Communication in Parenting

Michael emphasizes the importance of community support and open communication with his wife to maintain alignment in parenting.

00:32:04 - Strategies for Being a Present Parent

Michael shares his strategies for ensuring he remains an active and present parent despite a busy professional life.

00:36:19 - Aligning Family and Career Goals

Discussion on how Michael aligns his career goals with his priorities as a husband and father, emphasizing the importance of his faith in guiding his decisions.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Michael McCormack on LinkedIn

Follow 10X ERP on LinkedIn

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker

Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture by Meg Meeker

Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas

Faithful Fathering Initiative by Rick Wertz

What Makes Love Last? By John Gottman/Nan Silver

Eight Dates by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, Rachel Abrams

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

Stephen F Austin State University

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Profound Transformation, Creating Family Culture, and More with Brian Smith

Ross Purdy — Thu, 04 Apr 2024 02:00:00 -0700

In episode #29, we visit a with fellow Houstonian and Baylor Bear, Brian Smith. Brian shares his journey of becoming a better father and husband, drawing from the profound transformation he witnessed in his own father after a pivotal moment of faith. We explored the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly the unique experience of raising daughters. Brian's stories about his father's shift from a hardworking provider to a present and engaged parent were not only inspiring but also a testament to the power of personal change.

Brian's message of gratitude to his father for the life lessons imparted and his desire to pass on those values to his daughters was a powerful reminder of the enduring influence of a father's love and guidance.

Join us for this episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" as we navigate the rewarding path of fatherhood, learning and growing along the way.

00:02:54 - Brian and His Wife's Long-Distance Relationship
00:03:42 - Brian's Houstonian Roots and Family Background
00:04:16 - Favorite BBQ Spot
00:05:07 - Daughters and Parenting Experience
00:06:02 - Father's Influence and Leap of Faith
00:07:10 - The Impact of Faith on Brian's Father
00:09:10 - Brian's Reflection on His Father's Transformation
00:11:12 - Father's Career Crisis and Faith Journey
00:18:19 - Challenges as a Father
00:20:04 - Realization of Fatherhood's Impact
00:21:28 - Thoughts on Raising Two Girls
00:22:13 - Advice from His Father
00:24:57 - Reflections on His Father's Advice and Legacy
00:25:41 - Parenting Philosophy and Challenges
00:27:24 - Aspirations for His Daughters' Self-Esteem
00:28:01 - Intentional Parenting Moments
00:29:07 - Perspective on Empowering His Daughters
00:33:06 - Transition from Guiding to Letting Go as a Parent
00:34:10 - Gratitude for His Father's Example
00:36:09 - Thoughts on Creating Family Traditions and Rites of Passage
00:37:10 - Plans for Creating a Family Culture
00:38:24 - Concerns About Social Media's Impact on His Daughters
00:39:39 - Intention to Protect His Daughters in a Digital Age
00:41:41 - Desire for Open Communication with His Daughters
00:42:56 - Thoughts on Establishing Family Traditions
00:44:10 - Family Culture of Community Service
00:45:03 - Personal Rites of Passage and Family Traditions
00:46:16 - Intention to Create Memorable Experiences with His Daughters
00:49:49 - Gratitude and Understanding Toward His Father
00:50:11 - Message to His Dad Now That He's a Father

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Baylor University

Memorial High School

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The Power of Outdoor Experiences, Being Comfortable with Discomfort, Balancing Grace and Discipline, and More with Hank Thompson

Ross Purdy — Thu, 21 Mar 2024 01:00:00 -0700

In episode #28, we had a heartwarming and insightful conversation with Hank, a father of three and a man juggling the responsibilities of managing auxiliary companies and a non-profit focused on land conservation and historical preservation in Houston and Virginia. We dove deep into the world of fatherhood, exploring the highs and lows that come with the journey. As a father, Hank opened up about the challenges of parenting at different stages of his children's lives and the lessons learned along the way. He emphasized the value of being comfortable with discomfort, a lesson he learned from his own father, who was a risk-taker and adventurer.

So, grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and join us for a conversation that is all about the adventure of fatherhood and the legacy we leave behind.

00:01:19 - Hank's Professional Background and Non-Profit Work
00:01:56 - Hank's Involvement in Land Conservation and Historical Preservation
00:03:02 - The Need for Historical Narratives and Land Preservation
00:04:07 - The Non-Profit's Surprising Impact on Hank
00:05:00 - Restoring Historical Structures and Acknowledging the Past
00:05:44 - The Show's Focus on Fatherhood and Learning from Others
00:06:10 - Hank's Family and Parenting Experience
00:08:07 - Hank's Childhood and Family Business Background
00:09:16 - Moving from San Francisco to Wisconsin: A Culture Shock
00:10:18 - Hank's Relationship with His Father and Parenting Style
00:13:09 - Hank's Father's Adventurous Spirit and Its Influence
00:14:27 - The Challenges of Parenting Different Personalities
00:15:28 - The Importance of Being Present and Intentional as a Father
00:17:15 - Hank's Reflection on His Father's Advice and Example
00:18:06 - Outdoor Adventures and Life Lessons from Hank's Father
00:19:07 - The Significance of Being Comfortable with Discomfort
00:20:06 - Passing on Outdoor Experiences to Hank's Children
00:21:02 - The Impact of Outdoor Experiences on Personal Growth
00:21:38 - The Role of Fathers in Providing and Setting Examples
00:22:52 - The Importance of Acknowledging and Forgiving Parents
00:23:23 - The Legacy of Fathers and the Impact on Future Generations
00:25:04 - The Challenges of Balancing Discipline and Patience as a Dad
00:26:02 - The Value of Partner Support in Parenting
00:27:05 - The Dynamics of Parenting Styles Between Hank and His Wife
00:28:01 - The Importance of Family Meals and One-on-One Time with Kids
00:29:07 - The Impact of Intentional Parenting and Creating Memories
00:30:12 - The Role of Fathers in Shaping the Next Generation
00:31:15 - Hank's Greatest Challenge as a Father
00:32:32 - The Balance of Discipline and Grace in Parenting
00:33:00 - The Importance of Partner Support in Navigating Parenting Challenges
00:34:10 - The Role of Fathers in Household Responsibilities and Chores
00:35:05 - The Significance of Family Traditions and Individual Trips with Children
00:36:53 - The Impact of Fathers on Children's Lives and Future Generations
00:38:02 - The Importance of Fathers Being Present and Showing Love
00:39:01 - The Challenges Fathers Face in Today's Society
00:40:10 - The Importance of Fathers Understanding Their Impact on the Next Generation

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

National Outdoor Leadership School

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A Houstonian’s Journey from Michigan to South Africa, Fatherhood Insights, & More with Miah Collins

Ross Purdy — Thu, 22 Feb 2024 02:00:00 -0800

In episode #27, we visit with Miah who shares his unique upbringing, starting in Michigan and moving to Durban, South Africa, at the age of five. Through Miah’s story, we learn that fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growth. He reminds us that while we may not always meet our lofty parenting goals, it's the daily interactions and the environment we create for our children that truly define our success as dads.

00:01:19 - Miah's Background and Journey
00:02:24 - Miah's Early Memories of Moving to South Africa
00:03:43 - Discussing Michigan Roots and Family Connections
00:05:31 - Miah's Childhood Transition to South Africa
00:07:01 - Parental Influence and Framing Challenges as Adventures
00:07:34 - The Role of Miah's Father in His Upbringing
00:08:08 - Early Memories in South Africa and Family Dynamics
00:09:12 - Cultural Experiences and Family Adventures
00:11:19 - Learning About Father's Past During a Sermon
00:12:05 - The Importance of Communication Between Father and Son
00:13:19 - Miah Reflects on His Father's Approach to Parenting
00:15:05 - Challenges of Fatherhood and Time Management
00:16:16 - Family Traditions and Involving Kids in Decision Making
00:17:31 - Establishing Family Rules and Boundaries
00:18:49 - Intentionality in Parenting and Handling Sensitive Topics
00:20:37 – Miah’s Approach to Discussing Technology and Freedom with Kids
00:22:15 - Miah's Take on Family Traditions and Creating a Family Identity
00:24:37 - The Value of Capturing Family Moments and Decision-Making Tools
00:25:07 - Miah's Desire for More Guidance from His Father
00:26:19 - The Significance of Small Parenting Moments
00:29:37 - The Balance of Independence and Guidance in Parenting
00:32:17 - The Influence of Miah's Grandfather on Family Traditions
00:34:39 - The Challenge of Balancing Parental Expectations and Reality
00:36:05 - Teaching Kids About Family Values and Responsibilities
00:37:11 - Establishing and Explaining Family Rules to Children
00:38:13 - The Importance of Being Intentional with Children
00:39:53 - Creating a Safe Space for Open Communication with Kids
00:41:19 - The Impact of Miah's Wife's Profession on Parenting
00:42:53 - Discussing Sensitive Topics and Empowering Children
00:44:43 - The Importance of Ongoing Conversations About Difficult Topics
00:48:33 - The Importance of Addressing Taboo Topics with Children
00:49:52 - The Approach to Discussing Body Autonomy and Boundaries
00:51:09 - The Gradual Process of Discussing Sensitive Topics with Kids

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Durban, South Africa

Youth for Christ

Apartheid, South Africa

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The Power of Fatherhood and Vulnerability, The Importance of Being Present and More with Franklin Swann

Ross Purdy — Thu, 08 Feb 2024 03:55:00 -0800

Franklin Swann Notes

Episode Summary: The Power of Fatherhood and Vulnerability

In this heartfelt episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads," we had the pleasure of speaking with Franklin, a dedicated father and business owner from Tyler, Texas. Franklin shared his fatherhood journey, the challenges, and triumphs of running a family business, and the importance of being present and intentional as a dad.

Key Takeaways:

· Family Business Legacy: Franklin discussed his 128-year-old family business in furniture and interior design, highlighting the inherent pressures and his desire to contribute meaningfully rather than just taking over.
· Fatherhood Insights: We delved into Franklin's experiences as a father, his relationship with his dad, and the lessons he's learned along the way. He emphasized the value of patience, presence, and the power of apologizing to your children.
· Intentional Parenting: Franklin shared his daily practice of writing love notes to his wife and children, a simple yet profound act that strengthens his family bonds and ensures his loved ones know how much they are cherished.
· Vulnerability Among Men: Franklin opened up about his podcast, "The World Needs Men," which aims to provide a space for men to share their struggles and support each other in their roles as fathers and husbands.
· The Importance of Community: The episode highlighted the significance of men having a community where they can be vulnerable and honest about their challenges without fear of judgment.
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Reflections:

This episode was a powerful reminder of fathers' impact on their families and the importance of vulnerability and intentionality in parenting. Franklin's story and commitment to being the best dad he can be were genuinely inspiring. Creating a supportive community for fathers is beneficial and necessary for the well-being of families everywhere.

Remember, there is always time to reconnect with your children or your father. As we continue our journey to be better dads, let's take a page from Franklin's book and lead with humility, gratitude, and love.

00:00:03 - Introduction to the Podcast
00:00:14 - Welcoming Listeners to "Bear Crawl with Dads"
00:00:24 - Discussing the Spectrum of Fatherhood
00:00:34 - Introducing Guest Franklin from Texas
00:01:20 - Franklin's Background and Family Business
00:02:07 - Franklin's Age and Schooling
00:02:24 - Visiting All Saints School for Innovative Education
00:02:47 - Franklin's Experience with Texas Football
00:03:36 - The Legacy of Franklin's Family Business
00:03:57 - Expectations and Pressures in a Family Business
00:04:09 - Franklin's Decision to Join the Family Business
00:04:52 - The Challenges of Running a Family Business
00:05:56 - The Pressure of Continuing a Family Legacy
00:06:07 - Franklin's Faith and Personal Growth
00:06:45 - Franklin's Relationship with His Brother
00:07:04 - Franklin Reflects on His Father's Influence
00:08:01 - Franklin's Father's Intentional Parenting
00:09:33 - Franklin's Father as a Grandfather
00:10:08 - The Importance of Quality Time and Presence
00:10:50 - Franklin's Take on His Father's Parenting Style
00:11:29 - Franklin's Brother's Relationship with Their Father
00:12:12 - Franklin's Gratitude Towards His Father
00:13:01 - The Impact of Fathers and the Importance of Gratitude
00:13:54 - Franklin's Advice to Fathers and Sons
00:14:20 - Franklin Shares a Personal Story About His Father
00:15:36 - The Significance of Fathers Being Present
00:16:08 - Franklin's Challenges as a Father
00:16:59 - Franklin's Son Calls Him Out
00:17:10 - Learning from Parenting Mistakes
00:18:01 - The Power of Apologizing to Your Children
00:19:16 - The Legacy of Fathers and Sons
00:19:51 - The Importance of Intentionality in Fatherhood
00:20:47 - Franklin's Morning Routine for Family Connection
00:21:31 - The Impact of Writing Love Notes to Family
00:22:25 - Encouraging Fathers to Reconnect with Their Children
00:22:47 - Franklin's Passion for Helping Fathers
00:23:01 - The Launch of Franklin's Podcast for Men
00:24:18 - Franklin's Journey from a Dark Place to Helping Others
00:25:33 - The Importance of Men Sharing Their Struggles
00:26:27 - The Power of Vulnerability Among Fathers
00:27:22 - Franklin's Experience with Men Opening Up
00:28:02 - The Comfort of Knowing Other Fathers Share Similar Struggles
00:29:12 - Franklin's Greatest Challenge as a Father
00:29:56 - Franklin's Strategies for Staying Centered and Present
00:30:33 - The Impact of Franklin's Morning Routine
00:31:29 - Franklin's Daily Love Notes to His Family
00:32:46 - The Significance of Franklin's Love Notes Tradition
00:33:27 - The Power of Intentionality in Franklin's Life
00:34:01 - Franklin's Mission to Support Fathers Through His Podcast
00:35:20 - The Importance of Men's Vulnerability and Support
00:36:07 - Franklin's Podcast as a Platform for Men's Stories
00:37:15 - The Healing Power of Men Sharing Their Pain
00:38:10 - The Loneliness Men Face and the Need for Connection
00:39:35 - The Importance of Real Conversations Among Men
00:40:31 - The Impact of Vulnerability and Honesty in Male Friendships
00:41:33 - Franklin's Personal Experience with Men's Vulnerability
00:42:35 - The Need for Authenticity and Support in Fatherhood
00:43:27 - Franklin's Personal Transformation and Desire to Help Others
00:44:23 - The Launch of Franklin's Podcast and Its Reception
00:45:33 - The Power of Shared Struggles and Vulnerability Among Men
00:46:39 - Franklin's Experience with Men Opening Up on a Fishing Trip
00:47:49 - The Isolation of Men and the Importance of Sharing Burdens
00:48:42 - Franklin's Journey to Helping Men Through His Podcast
00:49:35 - The Importance of Men's Groups and Honest Conversations

RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Franklin Swann’s Podcast, “The World Needs Men”
Follow Franklin Swann on “The World Needs Men” on Instagram
Follow Franklin Swann on Facebook
Swann Furniture and Design, Tyler, TX

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Connect with Bear Crawl with Dads on Facebook
Follow Ross Purdy on LinkedIn
Bear Crawl with Dad’s website

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Houseparent, Raised In The Virgin Islands, Power Of Mentors & More with Joaull Bazil

Ross Purdy — Thu, 14 Sep 2023 03:30:00 -0700

For Episode #25 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Joaull Bazil. Joaull is a husband, father, videographer, and photographer who grew up in the Virgin Islands. Joaull is a houseparent at a children's home in Texas who discusses his role and the dynamics of living with eight boys and his own three kids. He pays tribute to mentors that changed the trajectory of his life, and how that gave vision to his life calling. Joaull is in the trenches of making a difference in the lives of young men. You will be inspired by his story.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

00:01:09 Working at a children's home.

00:06:54 Children's homes serve different purposes.

00:19:35 Family support is crucial.

00:23:08 Father's work ethic influenced him.

00:31:18 Finding stability and faith through adversity.

00:39:26 The power of positive male role models.

00:42:10 Father figures shape our lives.

00:57:38 Importance of mentorship and community.

01:13:09 Empathy and understanding for children.

01:19:20 Connecting with children takes intentional time.

01:31:47 Men struggle with vulnerability and seeking help.

01:36:15 Diverse communities can lead to growth.

01:46:22 Never too late to reconnect.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Joaull Bazil on Instagram

Joaull Bazil’s website

St. Croix

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05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

08: Wrestling with Faith, Thoughts ...

The Pride Of Portsmouth, All Things Point To Some Good, Men Needing Community & More with Jim Miller

Ross Purdy — Thu, 17 Aug 2023 03:30:00 -0700

For Episode #24 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Jim Miller, entrepreneur, husband, and father who grew up on the banks of the Ohio River. Jim shares about his growing up in Portsmouth, Ohio, losing his father at 15, being a girl Dad, finding the good in everything, and so much more. You are going to want to know Jim as he is truly a one of a kind.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

00:02:03 Podcast guest from small town.

00:06:03 No takeaway

00:14:25 Family traditions shape identity.

00:20:33 Father was best friend, instilled work ethic.

00:24:28 Importance of nurturing creativity.

00:33:01 Father's promise shaped son's life.

00:41:07 Intentional parenting shapes independent children.

00:46:04 Finding the positive in everything.

00:49:07 Finding good in everything.

00:55:10 Understanding and addressing children's behavior.

01:05:46 Empower children through advocacy.

01:07:14 Open lines of honest communication.

01:13:08 Open communication with children is key.

01:23:06 Promote independence and open communication.

01:24:43 Family traditions and bonding.

01:37:09 Identity crisis for modern dads.

01:37:52 Men need examples and support.

01:43:27 Connect through shared interests and activities.

01:51:30 Importance of father figures.

01:55:37 Importance of asking questions.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Portsmouth, Ohio

Aristotle

Duchesne Academy of The Sacred Heart

Baylor University

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03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

Being A Principal, Team Jones, Truck Talks, Modeling Behavior & More with Dr. Christopher Jones

Ross Purdy — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 18:14:57 -0700

For Episode #23 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Dr. Christopher Jones, principal at a regional high school in Massachusetts, husband, father to two boys, and author. Dr. Jones shares about how being a high principal to practicing what you preach in modeling behavior to the power of connection with his truck talks. Dr. Jones is a positive force of nature that everyone needs to know!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

05:40 Toughest job, but worth it

06:01 Importance of positive feedback

12:31 Importance of being a present father

22:53 Father's vulnerability brings reconciliation

24:14 Importance of forgiveness in relationships

29:10 Teach empathy and self-awareness

35:17 Modeling behavior for children

39:04 Modeling love and acceptance matters

44:10 Honesty builds strong relationships

53:14 Importance of quality family time

54:11 Honesty and openness build trust

1:02:38 Time flies, be intentional

1:08:10 Dads need role clarity

1:15:43 Stand up for respect and accountability

1:20:42 Support, engage, and empower teachers

1:24:26 Embrace change, empower teachers

1:29:43 Finding purpose in education

1:39:19 Building a strong family team

1:40:02 Importance of teamwork and gratitude

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Dr. Jones on LinkedIn

Follow Dr. Jones’ on Twitter

Dr. Jones’ website

SEEing to Lead Podcast

SEEing to Lead Book

Whitman-Hanson Regional High School

Follow Dr. Jones’ on Facebook

Bridgewater State University

Dunkin’ Donuts

Jeff Corwin – BSU Alum

Robert Stack – BSU Alum

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

Follow Mike Yates on LinkedIn

Being An Educational Agitator, Tribute To His Mom, The Power of Role Models & More with Mike Yates

Ross Purdy — Thu, 22 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0700

For Episode #22 of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Mike Yates, an agitator in education, hails from Houston, Texas, and is a husband and father to four children ranging from ages four to nine. Mike shares the power of male role models in his life, a tribute to his mom, raising the bar of respect, and he shares his views on the current state of education. Mike’s story is powerful and empowering, so please sit back, relax, and enjoy!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

00:05:58 Name children after cities.

00:11:47 Flexibility to try new things.

00:14:59 Mom's love and grace is invaluable.

00:18:37 Inspiring male role models.

00:29:37 Women can achieve greatness.

00:35:02 Make a difference in one child.

00:37:57 Take risks and persevere.

00:47:44 Dreams can come true.

00:53:44 Struggle builds strength.

00:54:08 Intentional family time is key.

01:00:14 Raise the bar of respect.

01:10:54 Be present for your kids.

01:15:28 Fathers are essential for children.

01:23:04 Homeschooling is important.

01:25:02 More education options available.

01:34:33 Empowering middle schoolers.

01:35:14 Learn new trades on a farm.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Mike Yates on Twitter

Mike Yates’s website

Schoolish Podcast

The Reinvention Lab at Teach for America LinkedIn

Teach for America

Westside High School (Houston, TX)

Veritas Academy (Austin, TX)

Pershing Middle School (Houston, TX)

Hidden Figures 20th Century Fox movie

Katherine Johnson

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

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Legacy of Cars, Be True To Yourself, Family Courts Bias Against Fathers Perception, & More with David Turner

Ross Purdy — Thu, 15 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0700

Bear Crawl with Dads is a show that encourages dads from all walks of life, from young to empty nesters. Episode 21 features David Turner, owner operator of a trucking business 'Turner Transportation Solutions' in Houston. He has three children, two-year-old daughter, 8-year-old son, and 16-year-old daughter. David explains how he got into trucking, car connection with his father, celebrating your child’s uniqueness, fighting for custody of your children, and more. Do not miss this insightful conversation with David as you will be encouraged.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

00:03:29 Start your own business.

00:08:00 Be mindful of truck drivers.

00:11:38 Family bond through car culture.

00:21:26 Honor your family relationships.

00:22:51 Be true to yourself.

00:33:45 Make time for quality connection.

00:39:02 Stay open and honest.

00:46:16 Be mindful of social media.

00:52:07 Respect all lifestyles.

00:57:35 Celebrate your child's uniqueness.

01:02:37 Be okay with your choices.

01:07:02 Be emotionally available for kids.

01:15:01 Take advantage of time with kids.

01:17:30 Fight for custody of children.

01:22:47 Don't give up, keep fighting.

01:28:11 Stay alert while driving.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Alief ISD

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04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

08: Wrestling with Faith, Thoughts on this Generation and more with my Dad!

Growing Up Poor, Lessons Of Service, Empowering Men & More With Jethro Jones

Ross Purdy — Thu, 01 Jun 2023 01:00:00 -0700

Episode 20 of the Bear Crawl with Dads podcast features Jethro Jones, former school principal, who now does consulting full-time and has his own podcast network, Be Podcast Network. Jethro, a husband, father, who hails from the great state of Washington, speaks fondly of his late father, who taught him valuable lessons despite his own mistakes and shortcomings, growing up poor, empowering men, and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

00:03:47 Reaching podcast episode 20.

00:04:46 Family reconciliation is possible.

00:06:16 Love and support through adversity.

00:13:05 Love your kids unconditionally.

00:22:05 Open communication with children.

00:23:06 Trust your children to talk.

00:30:00 Love and affirm kids.

00:39:41 Quality time is powerful.

00:43:20 Love your kids unconditionally.

00:50:06 Raise children effectively.

00:57:50 It's never too late.

00:59:22 Be vulnerable and share stories.

01:04:40 Learn from others' stories.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Jethro Jones

Men Like Moroni

Transformative Principal

Spokane, Washington

Follow Jethro Jones on LinkedIn

Follow Jethro Jones on Twitter

Follow Jethro Jones on Instagram

Legado Family

BE Podcast Network

Follow BE Podcast Network on LinkedIn

Follow BE Podcast Network on Instagram

Follow BE Podcast Network on Twitter

Follow Transformative Principal on Facebook

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

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Follow on Twitter

Connect on Facebook

Bear Crawl with Dads website

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04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texa...

Great Depression, Nurturing Community, Krispy Kreme, & More with Dr. Colin Harris - Bear Crawl with Dads - 19

Ross Purdy — Thu, 25 May 2023 01:00:00 -0700

Episode 19 of the Bear Crawl with Dads podcast features Dr. Colin Harris, retired professor from Mercer University, husband, father, grandfather, who hails from the great state of Georgia. Dr. Harris shares his parents surviving the great depression,

the importance of relationships in creating a healthier society, Krispy Kreme, challenges facing fathers today, and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

[00:03:31] Importance of good conversation.

[00:07:57] Great Depression and Adulthood.

[00:08:29] College education and sacrifices.

[00:13:55] Relationship with father.

[00:17:24] Woodworking as a bonding activity.

[00:22:57] Fathers as role models.

[00:28:03] Time with children.

[00:33:55] Lines of communication with children.

[00:36:24] Effective communication with children.

[00:43:26] Challenges facing dads today.

[00:45:44] Rethinking fatherhood as an attitude.

[00:53:58] Encouragement for parenting.

[00:56:00] Nurturing community for survival.

[01:02:57] Fatherhood as a "young man's sport".

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Dr. John Colin Harris

Mercer University

The Great Depression

Krispy Kreme

Decatur, Georgia

NuGrape Company

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05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

08: Wrestling with Faith, Though...

Threats to Modern Day Fatherhood, Building Mentorship Networks, & More with Matt Barnes - Bear Crawl with Dads - 18

Ross Purdy — Thu, 18 May 2023 01:00:00 -0700

In this episode, Matt Barnes, husband, father of 3, joins Bear Crawls with Dads to discuss parental influence in education, building mentorship networks, threats to modern day fatherhood and more! You do not want to miss this conversation as Matt is passionate about replacing parental anxiety with Hope and a Plan. “Education is 90% Parent Behavior | Learning is 100% Child Desire” – Matt Barnes

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

[00:02:30] Teaching self-leadership to toddlers.

[00:03:49] Parenting disagreements and agreements.

[00:07:46] Parental Influence in Education

[00:11:43] Legacy of education.

[00:15:35] Being vulnerable with children.

[00:19:40] Authority transition for children.

[00:22:29] Coming of age traditions.

[00:26:35] Rites of passage for young men.

[00:29:58] Human decency in media.

[00:33:35] Building relationships with children.

[00:37:03] Building mentorship networks.

[00:41:06] Importance of reading with children.

[00:45:30] Self-leadership and parenting.

[00:50:58] Traditional education critique.

[00:53:03] Education's focus on entrance exams.

[00:55:42] Skills for effective living.

[01:00:43] Alternative paths to education.

[01:03:06] Education and self-governance.

[01:06:34] Honoring and empowering students.

[01:10:13] Greatest challenge as a dad.

[01:15:53] Parenting advice for new fathers.

[01:18:13] Threats to modern fatherhood.

[01:22:23] Desire to learn is scarce.

[01:25:59] Meeting for barbecue or coffee.

[01:25:00] Leading by example as fathers.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Matt Barnes’ website

Follow Matt Barnes on LinkedIn

The Education Game

2 Min Parent/Child Check-Up

C.S. Lewis quote

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05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

Super Human Father, Lucky Charms, Annihilating the Day & More with Kyle Carnohan - Bear Crawl With Dads - 17

Ross Purdy, Kyle Carnohan — Wed, 03 May 2023 23:30:00 -0700

Bear Crawl with Dads is joined by Kyle, husband, father of 5, who shares his advice for men and fathers. Kyle is a busy man and explains his lifestyle as "annihilating the day,” while speaking from the heart. This is a motivational and encourage interview so put on your seatbelt and get ready as Kyle encourages other dads to take notes and learn from their experiences.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

[00:01:47] "Effing annihilating the day".

[00:04:50] Coping with stress and diet.

[00:08:37] Sacrifices for success.

[00:12:35] Skateboarding and identity.

[00:16:25] Self-discovery and growth.

[00:23:14] Superhuman Fathers Movement.

[00:25:15] Overcoming lack of consistency.

[00:29:00] Overcoming personal obstacles.

[00:32:38] Finding strength in resistance.

[00:37:00] Quitting bad habits.

[00:41:56] Overcoming criticism and hate.

[00:44:42] Building a successful coaching business.

[00:48:05] Building yourself to serve.

[00:53:14] Finding faith through discipline.

[00:57:02] Obsession and balance.

[01:02:20] Choosing to believe.

[01:06:10] Rites of passage for men.

[01:08:54] Family bonding through challenges.

[01:13:25] Raising self-sufficient young men.

[01:16:44] Epic Fatherhood.

[01:21:14] Community over fitness.

[01:25:00] Leading by example as fathers.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Superhuman Fathers’ website

Follow Superhuman Fathers on Instagram

Follow Superhuman Fathers on Facebook

Raising a Modern Day Knight by Robert Lewis

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How Anorexia Took Him to Hell & More with Kevin Olmsted - Bear Crawl with Dads - 16

Ross Purdy, Kevin E. Olmsted — Wed, 19 Apr 2023 22:30:00 -0700

In this special episode of "Bear Crawl with Dads" we visit with Kevin Olmsted, author of the new book "Scared Dad Feeding". We talk guilty music pleasures, to his story of fighting for his daughter’s struggle with anorexia, to what it takes to get Dads engaged in their child’s struggles, and More.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

[00:01:39] Musical Preferences of Dads

[00:04:08] Guilty pleasure music.

[00:10:53] Memoirs of a Journey.

[00:11:28] Self-publishing and Direct to Consumer.

[00:15:05] Anorexia's high mortality rate.

[00:18:46] eating disorders and mortality rate.

[00:23:01] Heredity in Eating Disorders.

[00:27:29] Treating eating disorders at home.

[00:31:35] Early intervention for eating disorders.

[00:33:32] Eating Disorder Struggles.

[00:37:14] Parenting a child with an eating disorder.

[00:42:03] Fathers and eating disorders.

[00:44:12] Embracing a growth mindset.

[00:49:30] Parenting and time flies.

[00:53:01] Sought-after eating disorder clinic.

[00:55:13] Battling eating disorders.

[00:59:09] Self-care for caregivers.

[01:03:21] Dealing with anorexia.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Scared Dad Feeding website

Follow Kevin Olmsted on Instagram

Follow Kevin Olmsted on LinkedIn

F.E.A.S.T.

National Eating Disorder Association

Equip - Virtual FBT for remote families

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

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Men's Mental Health, Space to Talk, & More with Daniel Huvard - Bear Crawl with Dads - 15

Ross Purdy, Daniel Huvard — Wed, 12 Apr 2023 23:30:00 -0700

Ross, interviews Daniel, who is a licensed clinical social worker currently working at the MD Anderson Cancer Center, and has his own private practice. Daniel talks about his experience of why he opted to go into the field of mental health, and stresses that dads need to remember that pursuing their passions is important and necessary, regardless of the money they might make.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

[00:01:41] Mental health with fathers.

[00:07:15] Men and depression.

[00:07:28] Men's mental health struggles.

[00:12:30] Men and cancer diagnosis.

[00:16:59] Facing life or death.

[00:19:07] Men and counseling.

[00:23:40] Importance of male friendship.

[00:27:45] The fear of getting hurt.

[00:31:12] Importance of healthy relationships.

[00:36:02] Divorce rate and delayed marriage.

[00:39:32] Rebuilding after cancer diagnosis.

[00:43:13] Setting boundaries in relationships.

[00:48:19] Importance of self-care for dads.

[00:50:08] Connection and relationships.

[00:54:47] Parenting: Things are big to kids.

[00:57:23] The Importance of Small Things.

[01:02:08] Men's mental health resources.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Daniel Huvard’s website

M. D. Anderson Cancer Center

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

Follow on Instagram

Follow on Twitter

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02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

Hurricane Maria, Confronting Dad & More with Gama - Bear Crawl with Dads - 14

Ross Purdy, Gama Claudio — Wed, 05 Apr 2023 08:31:49 -0700

Ross, host of Bear Crawl With Dads, interviews guest Gama about his experiences being a dad. They talk about their own parenting paths, experiences, responsibilities and blessings that come with being a dad. Gama, is from Puerto Rico married for 14 years with three kids, who experienced Hurricane Maria and had to move to the States. Finally, they discuss potty training tips and agree that the best method is to just go with the flow.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

[00:00:09] Dads Need Love Too.

[00:04:03] Gamma's background and family.

[00:08:32] Potty training tips.

[00:12:31] Father-son relationship dynamics.

[00:17:39] Needing words of affirmation from father.

[00:22:36] Unexpected realizations about relationships.

[00:28:45] Being real & practicing what you preach.

[00:30:29] Need for parental affirmation.

[00:36:08] Raising Confident Children.

[00:39:35] Family values and mantras.

[00:43:38] Joy of watching children succeed.

[00:49:48] Raising kids to be themselves.

[00:52:21] Overcoming School System Challenges.

[00:56:18] Building trust with children.

[01:04:34] Government and family relationships.

[01:05:09] Parenting and external influences.

[01:19:01] Blessings of moving to Houston.

[01:25:51] Words of affirmation to children.

[01:29:00] Time Flies So Quickly.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Hurricane Maria

Puerto Rico

Gama Claudio on Facebook

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

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Paul’s Executive Life Coach’s website

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1st Generation, Adoption Lineage, Chill Out & More with Paul Strobl - Bear Crawl with Dads - 13

Ross Purdy, Paul Strobl — Wed, 29 Mar 2023 21:30:00 -0700

In this 13th episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Paul Strobl! Paul is a husband, father, a life and executive coach since 2008, who visits us from the Rhodope Mountains of Southern Bulgaria near the border with Greece in a little tiny village of about 2,500 people. We discuss his grandparents being Austrian immigrants, being adopted by a 1st generation American to adopting a son of his own, to chill out while doing the best you can and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

Executive Life Coach
1st Generation
Austria
New Rochelle, NY
Rough upbringing
Self-made man
Snow or no snow? No snow!
Adoption
At every game
Created a safe environment
Am I good enough?
Strong work ethic
Connecting through music & sport
NFL
You never save money by spending it
Family over promotion
Christmas was a big deal
Dinner table = sacred place
Marriage followed by a remarriage + one
The handhold that changed everything
Skipped the diaper stage
Connecting through languages and hiking
Just be you
Bulgarian adoption
Adoptions across generations
Tell them when they are young
Different country every Christmas
Message to my Dad
Creating a safe space
Both men and women working
Social media dilemma
Outward Bound as a “rite of passage?”
just chill out and do the best you can and be you

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Paul Strobl on YouTube

Paul Strobl on Instagram

Raising Independent Girls, a Message to His Dad & More with Josh Bailey - Bear Crawl with Dads - 12

Ross Purdy, Josh Bailey — Wed, 22 Mar 2023 21:30:00 -0700

In this 12th episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Josh Bailey! Josh is a husband, father of two girls, works for a major national bank by day, and blogger/podcaster by night. We chat about his growing up in a divorced home, wanting to raise strong, independent girls, the importance of taking a break when parents, and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

#girlDad Bank by day Blogger by night Lawn care as a side hustle Family divorce at 3 Parents that served their communities “I love you” at every chat Cincinnati Reds connection Different from Dad Structure vs non-structure Dad work ethic Showing empathy Moving to Dad’s house Parent reconciliation “Stuck at the train track…” D.A.R.E. program, Best thing ever happened – my two girls Emotional intelligence Equal treatment Bald is beautiful Raising independent, strong, confident young ladies Not discipling out of anger Lines of communication Take a break Punched a kid Rites of passage – trips “Two minutes before bed” Mental health Educated extended family Leading by example Movement in fatherhood? Monitor everything Building a community for men One blog at a time A message to my Dad Josh turns the tables Bengals or Browns

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Cincinnati Reds

D.A.R.E.

Columbus City Schools

WHERE WE CAN CONNECT:

Josh Bailey’s podcast, “Count It Down!”

Josh Bailey’s lawn company, “Greener Grasses Turf Services”

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03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

08: Wrestling with Faith, Thoughts on this Generation and more with my Dad!

09: From Addiction to Finding Purpose and More with Coach Hicks

Painful Past to Reconciliation to Showing Up and more with Ahmad - Bear Crawl with Dads - 11

Ross Purdy Ahmad Washington — Wed, 15 Mar 2023 21:30:00 -0700

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Ahmad Washington! Ahmad is a husband, father of two, and Lead Advisor to the President at the Methodist Children’s Home in Waco, TX, and Founder of Movement Up. We discuss a painful past to moving forward purposefully to showing up and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

Rooted
MovementUp
Methodist Children’s Home
Painful past
Breaking point
Changed perspective
“Jerusalem” on the Brazos
Silver lining…football
Generational shift
Move forward purposefully
Finding community
Father figures
Being self-aware
Humbled heart
Comparing notes
Adaptive behavior
Set the example
Healthy foundation for honest conversations
Unhealthy leftovers
My Dad, the rapper
Quality, intentional time
Mentoring
Night rides
Buc-ees
Raising a daughter
Loving our Bride…
Art of listening
Marvel…Dr. Strange?
Being present
What does it mean to be masculine?
Showing up
Surrender and willingness
Making family first
Reconciliation
Heavenly closure

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Methodist Children’s Home

MovementUp

Waco, TX

Phubbing, “To Much of a Good Thing” & More with Dr. Jim Roberts - Bear Crawl with Dads - 10

Ross Purdy, Dr. Jim Roberts — Wed, 08 Mar 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Dr. Jim Roberts, husband, father of two, Professor of Marketing and the Ben H. Williams Professor of Marketing at Baylor University in Waco, TX., plus author of over 100 articles published in academic literature. We discuss what phubbing means to being a Dad of two girls to battling screen addiction and More!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

Battling screen time
#girldad
Lead by example
Connection through basketball
Tough love
Self-reliance
Total protectors
Instill confidence
Modeling
Tech/social media
“Shiny Objects”
“To Much of a Good Thing: Are you addicted to your cell phone?”
Addiction
Living life online
Computer mediated conversations
Well-being impact
Losing self-control
47% worse without cell phone
8.25 seconds
IQ drops 10%
To much of a good thing
10,000 non-verbal cues
Social meter in our brains
Fubbing
Proactive monitoring
Boys – gaming
Looking for signs
Do not be a hypocrite
Hey parents, parent!
What is the right age?
Avoiding reality
Battle worth fighting for….
Being remembered

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Dr. Roberts on LinkedIn

Baylor University

“Shiny Objects” by Dr. Jim Roberts

“Too Much of a Good Thing: Are you addicted to your smartphone?” by Dr. Jim Roberts

Phubbing

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03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

05: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mom, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

From Addiction to Finding Purpose & More with Coach Hicks - Bear Crawl with Dads - 9

Ross Purdy, Minister Stephan "Coach" Hicks — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this special episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, we visit with Coach Hicks, father of five, and Founder/Executive Director of My Brother’s Keeper of Greater Richmond in Richmond, VA. We discuss overcoming hurdles to finding purpose and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

Civil rights movement; discrimination
Lack of a father; signed his rights away
Addictions
Incarceration
Parenting my siblings
Heart issues
Here for a purpose
Resilience
Family Business
Being transparent
Baltimore exodus
Returning to Faith
Authentic Manhood
Filling a void
Extended adolescence
Father wound
Power of mentoring
Bottled up
Power of dinner
Quality time
Thanking those who coached us
Self-taught
National Mentor Month
Message to Moms/Wives
Power of Blessing
Secret in life: relationships
Your voice matters
Know thy enemy
You still have a lot to offer
Sense of urgency
Lacking vision
Triggers
Transforming power

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

My Brother’s Keeper of Greater Richmond

Richmond Free Press

Fatherhood Initiative

Frederick Douglas quote

National Mentor Month

Follow Coach Hicks on LinkedIn

Follow Coach Hicks on Facebook

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04: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

05: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and our True North with Steve Pulley

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

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Wrestling with Faith, Thoughts on this Generation, & More with My Dad - Bear Crawl with Dads - 8

Ross Purdy, Tom Purdy — Wed, 22 Feb 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this special episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with my Dad! My Dad is husband to my mom of over 57 years, father of three, and former CEO of the Chamber of Commerce in Trinity, TX; Galveston, TX, and New Orleans, LA. We discuss my Dad’s upbringing from humble beginnings in Macon, Georgia to raising children in the eccentric city of New Orleans to loving others that are different from you and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

“We had the Dad we needed…”
One of 11 from the hills of North Georgia
No junior high or high schools?
Train wreck survivor/amateur boxer
The three Macon boys were born
The best Dad
Sole provider
“When home, the joy of my life…”
Wrestling with my faith
Underground explosion
Deep commitment to my mother and prayers for his sons
Love your mother and love your wife
Don’t pretend
Raised poor but the surprise of supporting family
Braving segregation – loving others
Servant leader
Transitioning to being a Dad
How can I provide the needs you all have to be who God created?
God answered my prayers…with your Mom
Work life/home life
No child asked to come in this world
Respect that they are creations to be honored
Worshipping together
Family mealtime is sacred
To make sure they know they are really loved
Their own journey to faith
Make your own decisions
I’m a fixer
I was not my brother’s parent
What I would tell my Dad
Thoughts for the next generation
Mercy and justice
Problem with only associating with like minded people
Thank you for the being such an example

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Augusta, Georgia

Macon Peaches Baseball

Mercer University's website

Galveston Chamber of Commerce's website

New Orleans Chamber of Commerce's website

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06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

07: Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laugher, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton

Loss of a Mother, Legacy of Laughter, & the Power of Being Present with David Hamilton - Bear Crawl with Dads - 7

Ross Purdy, David Hamilton — Wed, 15 Feb 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with David Hamilton, husband, father of four, and Vice President of Titan Equipment based in Denver, CO. We discuss the loss of his mother at a crucial age, the toll it took on himself and his father, raising his four children, the power of counseling, and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

“Checking In” song by Michael Farren
Fargo
Youngest child = golden child?
Dad was true to himself; authenticity rubbed off
Rare lung cancer strikes the family “backbone”
Script flipped after the loss of Mom
Conflict at 16
Roles changed
Leaning on my Heavenly Father
Growing up in church was ritualistic
Angry at God
Older positive FCA mentors
Legacy of laughter and never quitting
Found letter of affirmation from Dad
10-year-old trip – rite of passage
Being present
Struggles with friendships for the right reasons?
Asking mature questions while asking the right questions
Working on my triggers
Not being everything, I want to be for my children
Counseling has helped in being more self-aware
They need to choose for themselves
They’re gonna fail
Anger issues
Two thumbs up for counseling
Best gift your family…a healthy you!
Text from your daughter

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

“Checking In” by Michael Farren

Fargo movie

Fellowship of Christian Athletes' website

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02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

06: 5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal

5th Generation Texan, Refugees, and More with Joel Vestal - Bear Crawl with Dads - 6

Ross Purdy, Joel Vestal — Wed, 08 Feb 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with Joel Vestal, husband, father of two, and Founder/Lead Facilitator at Migros Aid, Inc. based in Indianapolis, IN. We discuss following in his dad’s footsteps, the 4 Cs of parenting, letting coaches coach, God image at kindergarten and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

Sober reality with National Fatherhood Initiative statistics
5th generation Texan living in the wilderness of Indiana
Sport prodigies
Connecting through their sports
Parents behaving poorly on the sidelines
Unrealistic expectations
Entrepreneur at heart
Power of Mentorship
God image at kindergarten
Teddy Roosevelt quote
The power of presence
Great example of a father
Self-awareness and honesty
The 4 Cs of parenting
Blended family
Louie Mueller BBQ
Speak truth in love
Fathering a daughter
Man Maker Project
Raising a Modern Day Knight
“Your role matches your soul…” Parker Palmer
“You’re not going to know how much I love you until you’re a dad….”
Loving your child conditionally?
You are defined by your Heavenly Father
Let the coach’s coach
Greatest challenge to dads

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Joel Vestal on Twitter

Follow Joel Vestal on Instagram

Follow Joel Vestal on Facebook

Check out Migros Aid, Inc.’s website

Follow Migros Aid on Instagram

Follow Migros Aid on Facebook

National Fatherhood Initiative facts

President Theodore Roosevelt Quote

The Four C’s of Parenting

Louie Mueller Barbecue

Man Maker Project by Chris Bruno

Raising a Modern Day Knight by Robert Lewis

Parker Palmer

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02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

05: The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins

Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, & Our True North with Steve Pulley - Bear Crawl with Dads - 5

Ross Purdy, Steve Pulley — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with Steve Pulley, husband, father of three young ladies, and Senior Associate Pastor of Pastoral Care at Milestone Church in Keller, TX. We talk about being the father to three girls to a family cultural shift in 1988 to finding our true North in our Heavenly father and so much more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

NYT “Crisis of Men and Boys” article stats
Steve on the front lines with Restore ministry
Spiritual bankrupt until 1988
Different generation
Legacy of laughter
Lines of communication
Establishing trust
Different stages of parenting
Can’t take credit…caring for God’s gifts
Not perfect parents
Keep God as your true North
Keeping the Main thing, the Main thing – Our 1st love
Never to late to get in the game
Needing each other
Trusting our Heavenly Father

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Steve Pulley on Twitter

Follow Steve Pulley on Instagram

Follow Steve Pulley on Facebook

Milestone Church's website

Follow Milestone Church on Facebook

Follow Milestone Church on Twitter

Follow Milestone Church on Instagram

“Crisis of Men and Boys” NYT article

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02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: The Pulpit, to Nepal, to Being Present with Adam Nevins

The Pulpit to Nepal to Being Present with Adam Nevins - Bear Crawl with Dads - 4

Ross Purdy, Adam Nevins — Wed, 25 Jan 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with Adam Nevins, husband, father of three, and Executive Director at ServLife International, Inc. based in Indianapolis, IN. We discuss his journey to the stage to off the stage to travelling around the globe equipping pastors while educating children and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS: Permission to record Rubbed elbows with John Cougar, Bowling for Soup, and Mandy Moore? Worship leaders with breathy voices? Nothing like a reality check by Amos and Micah Mission teams to mission trips to Non-profits 2012 – opportunity of lifetime Church planting and education children/pastors in Nepal and India Frederick Douglas + C. S. Lewis Really wanted to be a Dad Great co-pilot Two amazing but so different daughters Miscarriages Raw from the stage Vulnerability builds trust The joy of adoption – love from India Bonding through smells and music Now that the children are older Child’s life 3 different stages Parenting formula? Our perfect Father Embracing John Eldredge Personal Sabbath Just be present “Raising Human Beings” by Ross Greene Authoritarian to Equipper Marriage in Nepal/India Nevins family game nights What do you like about my parenting? Rite of Passage The Second Mountain by David Brooks Striving for the 2nd Mountain

RESOURCES MENTIONED: Follow Adam Nevins on Twitter Follow Adam Nevins on Instagram Follow Adam Nevins on Facebook Check out ServLife International’s website Follow ServLife on Twitter Follow ServLife on Instagram Follow ServLife on Facebook Frederick Douglas quote

Arkansas, Africa, & Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon - Bear Crawl with Dads - 3

Ross Purdy, Todd Brogdon — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with Todd Brogdon, husband, father of two, and Chief Operating Office of Wingmead Inc., in North Little Rock, AR. We discuss his growing up on his family farm in east Arkansas, lessons learned and reflecting the life of his father and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

National Fatherhood Initiative stats
Small town Arkansas
From Arkansas to Africa Back to Arkansas
Bill Maher Real Time “Men in Crisis”
Dealing with Divorce in 3rd Grade and choosing sides
Longing to leave small town America
Boiling under the surface
Generational residue
Man of few words – Gentle Giant
6th anniversary of his passing
I am my father’s son
Absence makes a heart grow fonder
Lessons from the combine
Proud legacy
Elusive QT
Kid-centric
Disagreeing as an example?
What would you do differently?
Duck hunting with Dad
Social Media
Masculinity
Father reflections on the farm

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Todd Brogdon on Twitter

Follow Todd Brogdon’s Blog

Bill Maher YouTube channel clip

National Fatherhood Initiative

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02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

Texas Football, Greatest Generation & More with Geoff King - Bear Crawl with Dads - 2

Ross Purdy, Geoff King — Wed, 11 Jan 2023 21:30:00 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I chat with Geoff King, husband, father of three, and a in risk management for a Houston-based real estate development builder and property management company with 25 years of experience. We discuss his growing in the shadows of a Texas football legend, being ok with allowing his children to pursue their interest…and more!

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

Dad/Uncle All-Americans in football
Positive parent relationship
Abilene Eagles
Strong silent type
Connecting with Dad through shared interest
The gift of quality time
Meeting your kids where they are
Championing your children’s passions
How to respond to each child as they are so different from each other
One day you are the hero, next day…you’re not
Becoming my own man
Just let them play and have fun
Battling technology is hard
Spending time with your children is important
Always being available

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Geoff King on Twitter

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Dads, Dogs, and More with Lamar Smith - Bear Crawl with Dads - 1

Ross Purdy, Lamar Smith — Mon, 02 Jan 2023 10:55:41 -0800

In this episode of Bear Crawl with Dads, I sat down with Lamar Smith, husband, father of two, and co-owner of Divine Dynasty K9, to talk about his journey from being homeless to being the proud father of two girls while owning a very successful dog training, kennel, and boarding company in Central Texas.

IN TODAY’S EPISODE WE DISCUSS:

2020 key Fatherless Household statistics
Role of positive stepfathers; father-like role models
Military brat
Influence of teachers
The power of working with dogs
Soldiering alone – life of a runaway
Needing to find Jesus and get my stuff together
To move forward, gotta learn to forgive
Military provided men in my life as positive role models
The best advice has been from women
Foster care
Lessons from the hairstylist’s chair
Greatest challenge as a Dad
Mental health for men
Spanking…discipline
Negative stimulus
Managing stress
Accountability
Mental abuse
Co-parenting with an ex-spouse

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Follow Divine Dynasty K9 on Instagram

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