Art of Spousing Transistor (https://transistor.fm) https://feeds.transistor.fm/art-of-spousing Art of Spousing is for marriages that what to move from being mundane to becoming masterpiece relationships. Hosts James and Lisa Duvall share truths and lessons learned from their 30 years of marriage and over a decade of teaching, coaching, and speaking on marriage. 2022 36d3aea3-1885-5efe-bce2-b9dbbdc3078f yes Trailer en Mon, 30 Mar 2026 06:50:24 -0400 Mon, 30 Mar 2026 06:51:12 -0400 http://www.artofspousing.com https://img.transistorcdn.com/6O0VKwIgNhTFePBjSYuUR4hliV7zdXrktVolDCz4Xjw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80YThk/OTU5YmMyMzk3YmIy/YWRjMDZiMzVmZDZm/ZmU1OS5wbmc.jpg Art of Spousing http://www.artofspousing.com episodic Art of Spousing Art of Spousing is for marriages that what to move from being mundane to becoming masterpiece relationships. Hosts James and Lisa Duvall share truths and lessons learned from their 30 years of marriage and over a decade of teaching, coaching, and speaking on marriage. Art of Spousing is for marriages that what to move from being mundane to becoming masterpiece relationships. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy James Duvall james@liveleadlast.com No No Two Great Forgivers: Breaking Free from Hurt and Rebuilding Oneness 6 6 77 77 Two Great Forgivers: Breaking Free from Hurt and Rebuilding Oneness full 17d4d515-427c-40fa-bd48-6676dcffecbf https://share.transistor.fm/s/638d421b Forgiveness is one of the most powerful—and most challenging—practices in marriage.


In this episode, James and Lisa unpack what it really means to become “two great forgivers.” If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of hurt, repeating the same arguments, or struggling to move forward after conflict, this conversation will give you clarity and hope.


You’ll discover why forgiveness is not about forgetting or losing yourself, but about choosing freedom—again and again. We explore the cost of unforgiveness, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and the practical steps couples can take to rebuild trust and restore connection.


This episode invites you into a deeper, Christ-centered vision of marriage—one marked by grace, humility, and intentional love.

Because a thriving marriage isn’t built on perfection… it’s built on two people who keep choosing to forgive.

🔑 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

  •  Why every healthy marriage requires two great forgivers
  •  The truth that forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling
  •  What forgiveness is not (forgetting, losing yourself, or avoiding the issue) 
  •  Why unforgiveness creates emotional distance, resentment, and disconnection 
  •  The hidden cost of holding onto hurt—and how it impacts your marriage long-term 
  •  How “small offenses” quietly build barriers between you and your spouse 
  •  The difference between forgiveness (individual) and reconciliation (relational)
  •  Why reconciliation requires both spouses—but forgiveness starts with you 
  •  A practical framework for giving and receiving forgiveness well
  •  How to take ownership, communicate clearly, and create a plan for change 
  •  The role of grace, self-awareness, and emotional maturity in healing 
  •  How choosing forgiveness reflects Christ and leads to deeper oneness 

🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES

Marriage Clarity Accelerator
A one-day guided experience to help you break cycles, gain clarity, and move forward together with a plan.

👉 Schedule your free 30-minute call (HERE)

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]]> Forgiveness is one of the most powerful—and most challenging—practices in marriage.


In this episode, James and Lisa unpack what it really means to become “two great forgivers.” If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of hurt, repeating the same arguments, or struggling to move forward after conflict, this conversation will give you clarity and hope.


You’ll discover why forgiveness is not about forgetting or losing yourself, but about choosing freedom—again and again. We explore the cost of unforgiveness, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and the practical steps couples can take to rebuild trust and restore connection.


This episode invites you into a deeper, Christ-centered vision of marriage—one marked by grace, humility, and intentional love.

Because a thriving marriage isn’t built on perfection… it’s built on two people who keep choosing to forgive.

🔑 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

  •  Why every healthy marriage requires two great forgivers
  •  The truth that forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling
  •  What forgiveness is not (forgetting, losing yourself, or avoiding the issue) 
  •  Why unforgiveness creates emotional distance, resentment, and disconnection 
  •  The hidden cost of holding onto hurt—and how it impacts your marriage long-term 
  •  How “small offenses” quietly build barriers between you and your spouse 
  •  The difference between forgiveness (individual) and reconciliation (relational)
  •  Why reconciliation requires both spouses—but forgiveness starts with you 
  •  A practical framework for giving and receiving forgiveness well
  •  How to take ownership, communicate clearly, and create a plan for change 
  •  The role of grace, self-awareness, and emotional maturity in healing 
  •  How choosing forgiveness reflects Christ and leads to deeper oneness 

🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES

Marriage Clarity Accelerator
A one-day guided experience to help you break cycles, gain clarity, and move forward together with a plan.

👉 Schedule your free 30-minute call (HERE)

5 Voices Resources:

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]]> Mon, 30 Mar 2026 06:49:39 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1889 Forgiveness is one of the most powerful—and most challenging—practices in marriage.


In this episode, James and Lisa unpack what it really means to become “two great forgivers.” If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of hurt, repeating the same arguments, or struggling to move forward after conflict, this conversation will give you clarity and hope.


You’ll discover why forgiveness is not about forgetting or losing yourself, but about choosing freedom—again and again. We explore the cost of unforgiveness, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and the practical steps couples can take to rebuild trust and restore connection.


This episode invites you into a deeper, Christ-centered vision of marriage—one marked by grace, humility, and intentional love.

Because a thriving marriage isn’t built on perfection… it’s built on two people who keep choosing to forgive.

🔑 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

  •  Why every healthy marriage requires two great forgivers
  •  The truth that forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling
  •  What forgiveness is not (forgetting, losing yourself, or avoiding the issue) 
  •  Why unforgiveness creates emotional distance, resentment, and disconnection 
  •  The hidden cost of holding onto hurt—and how it impacts your marriage long-term 
  •  How “small offenses” quietly build barriers between you and your spouse 
  •  The difference between forgiveness (individual) and reconciliation (relational)
  •  Why reconciliation requires both spouses—but forgiveness starts with you 
  •  A practical framework for giving and receiving forgiveness well
  •  How to take ownership, communicate clearly, and create a plan for change 
  •  The role of grace, self-awareness, and emotional maturity in healing 
  •  How choosing forgiveness reflects Christ and leads to deeper oneness 

🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES

Marriage Clarity Accelerator
A one-day guided experience to help you break cycles, gain clarity, and move forward together with a plan.

👉 Schedule your free 30-minute call (HERE)

5 Voices Resources:

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How to Build Emotional Safety in Your Marriage 6 6 76 76 How to Build Emotional Safety in Your Marriage full 23f365b9-0f37-4bbe-b97f-b1bd4971d0fb https://share.transistor.fm/s/35eeeb55 What makes a marriage feel emotionally safe?

In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa talk about one of the most important foundations of a healthy marriage: emotional safety. Because most couples do not struggle because they do not love each other. They struggle because it does not always feel safe to share what is really happening inside.


Together, they unpack seven practical ways to create a safer emotional environment in your marriage. They walk through three things couples need to avoid criticism, contempt, and defensiveness and four practices that help emotional intimacy grow: forgiveness, validation, compromise, and seeking outside help when needed.


This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply encouraging for couples who want to move from surface level interaction to deeper connection. Whether your marriage feels tense, disconnected, or simply ready for a healthier rhythm, this episode will help you take one intentional step toward greater trust, vulnerability, and closeness.

What You’ll Learn / Key Points

  • Why emotional safety is essential for emotional intimacy in marriage
  • How criticism quietly erodes trust and connection
  • The difference between being a problem identifier and a problem solver
  • Why empathy matters even when you do not fully agree
  • How contempt damages respect and creates distance
  • Why defensiveness blocks healing and honest communication
  • How forgiveness restores connection and rebuilds safety
  • Why validating feelings does not mean agreeing with everything
  • How compromise helps couples move toward each other with maturity
  • When seeking counseling or coaching is wise, not a sign of failure
  • Simple ways to create communication non-negotiables in your marriage
  • How small intentional practices help your marriage live with clarity, lead with love, and last with strength

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]]> What makes a marriage feel emotionally safe?

In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa talk about one of the most important foundations of a healthy marriage: emotional safety. Because most couples do not struggle because they do not love each other. They struggle because it does not always feel safe to share what is really happening inside.


Together, they unpack seven practical ways to create a safer emotional environment in your marriage. They walk through three things couples need to avoid criticism, contempt, and defensiveness and four practices that help emotional intimacy grow: forgiveness, validation, compromise, and seeking outside help when needed.


This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply encouraging for couples who want to move from surface level interaction to deeper connection. Whether your marriage feels tense, disconnected, or simply ready for a healthier rhythm, this episode will help you take one intentional step toward greater trust, vulnerability, and closeness.

What You’ll Learn / Key Points

  • Why emotional safety is essential for emotional intimacy in marriage
  • How criticism quietly erodes trust and connection
  • The difference between being a problem identifier and a problem solver
  • Why empathy matters even when you do not fully agree
  • How contempt damages respect and creates distance
  • Why defensiveness blocks healing and honest communication
  • How forgiveness restores connection and rebuilds safety
  • Why validating feelings does not mean agreeing with everything
  • How compromise helps couples move toward each other with maturity
  • When seeking counseling or coaching is wise, not a sign of failure
  • Simple ways to create communication non-negotiables in your marriage
  • How small intentional practices help your marriage live with clarity, lead with love, and last with strength

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]]> Mon, 16 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2147 What makes a marriage feel emotionally safe?

In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa talk about one of the most important foundations of a healthy marriage: emotional safety. Because most couples do not struggle because they do not love each other. They struggle because it does not always feel safe to share what is really happening inside.


Together, they unpack seven practical ways to create a safer emotional environment in your marriage. They walk through three things couples need to avoid criticism, contempt, and defensiveness and four practices that help emotional intimacy grow: forgiveness, validation, compromise, and seeking outside help when needed.


This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply encouraging for couples who want to move from surface level interaction to deeper connection. Whether your marriage feels tense, disconnected, or simply ready for a healthier rhythm, this episode will help you take one intentional step toward greater trust, vulnerability, and closeness.

What You’ll Learn / Key Points

  • Why emotional safety is essential for emotional intimacy in marriage
  • How criticism quietly erodes trust and connection
  • The difference between being a problem identifier and a problem solver
  • Why empathy matters even when you do not fully agree
  • How contempt damages respect and creates distance
  • Why defensiveness blocks healing and honest communication
  • How forgiveness restores connection and rebuilds safety
  • Why validating feelings does not mean agreeing with everything
  • How compromise helps couples move toward each other with maturity
  • When seeking counseling or coaching is wise, not a sign of failure
  • Simple ways to create communication non-negotiables in your marriage
  • How small intentional practices help your marriage live with clarity, lead with love, and last with strength

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Power of Positivity: How to Bring Light Instead of Gloom to Your Marriage 6 6 75 75 The Power of Positivity: How to Bring Light Instead of Gloom to Your Marriage full 1063623a-e5d4-4c8b-83f5-60690f4ddd5e https://share.transistor.fm/s/c40accbd Have you ever noticed how some couples just radiate joy while others seem to carry a cloud of negativity wherever they go? After 33 years of marriage, James and Lisa have discovered that the difference often comes down to one powerful choice: the intentional decision to bring light instead of gloom into your marriage.

In this episode, they dive deep into what it really means to cultivate positivity in marriage. This isn't about faking happiness or pretending everything's perfect—it's about the daily practice of choosing to focus on what's right, building emotional safety, and creating an atmosphere where both spouses can thrive. You'll learn practical tools for positive attribution, the science behind gratitude, and how to rewire your brain to notice the good in your relationship.

Key Points You'll Learn:

• Why positivity is a practice, not a personality trait
 • How your reticular activating system affects what you notice in your marriage
 • The power of positive attribution and assuming the best about your spouse's intentions
 • How to create emotional safety that allows for vulnerability without fear
 • The 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions needed for healthy marriages
 • Three practical gratitude exercises to transform your marriage atmosphere
 • Why gratitude is the ultimate mindset reset button
 • How to be your spouse's biggest cheerleader and personal champion


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]]> Have you ever noticed how some couples just radiate joy while others seem to carry a cloud of negativity wherever they go? After 33 years of marriage, James and Lisa have discovered that the difference often comes down to one powerful choice: the intentional decision to bring light instead of gloom into your marriage.

In this episode, they dive deep into what it really means to cultivate positivity in marriage. This isn't about faking happiness or pretending everything's perfect—it's about the daily practice of choosing to focus on what's right, building emotional safety, and creating an atmosphere where both spouses can thrive. You'll learn practical tools for positive attribution, the science behind gratitude, and how to rewire your brain to notice the good in your relationship.

Key Points You'll Learn:

• Why positivity is a practice, not a personality trait
 • How your reticular activating system affects what you notice in your marriage
 • The power of positive attribution and assuming the best about your spouse's intentions
 • How to create emotional safety that allows for vulnerability without fear
 • The 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions needed for healthy marriages
 • Three practical gratitude exercises to transform your marriage atmosphere
 • Why gratitude is the ultimate mindset reset button
 • How to be your spouse's biggest cheerleader and personal champion


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5 Voices Resources:

Previous Episodes:

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]]> Mon, 02 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1202 Have you ever noticed how some couples just radiate joy while others seem to carry a cloud of negativity wherever they go? After 33 years of marriage, James and Lisa have discovered that the difference often comes down to one powerful choice: the intentional decision to bring light instead of gloom into your marriage.

In this episode, they dive deep into what it really means to cultivate positivity in marriage. This isn't about faking happiness or pretending everything's perfect—it's about the daily practice of choosing to focus on what's right, building emotional safety, and creating an atmosphere where both spouses can thrive. You'll learn practical tools for positive attribution, the science behind gratitude, and how to rewire your brain to notice the good in your relationship.

Key Points You'll Learn:

• Why positivity is a practice, not a personality trait
 • How your reticular activating system affects what you notice in your marriage
 • The power of positive attribution and assuming the best about your spouse's intentions
 • How to create emotional safety that allows for vulnerability without fear
 • The 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions needed for healthy marriages
 • Three practical gratitude exercises to transform your marriage atmosphere
 • Why gratitude is the ultimate mindset reset button
 • How to be your spouse's biggest cheerleader and personal champion


Links & Resources:

5 Voices Resources:

Previous Episodes:

Connect With Us:

Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more married couples!


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Stop Living By Default: Build a Marriage by Design with Simple Habits (Part 2) 6 6 74 74 Stop Living By Default: Build a Marriage by Design with Simple Habits (Part 2) full 74e0193f-96d2-4076-96be-86b1ab12c43a https://share.transistor.fm/s/dc47d981 In Part 2 of our series on the essential habits of a healthy marriage, we’re focusing on what it looks like to stop living by default and start building your relationship by design. We talk about consistency over perfection (not perfectly, but persistently), and we share practical ways to create momentum—plus a fun real-life story about “floating shelves” that became shorthand for turning tension.

What You’ll Learn (Key Takeaways)

  • Why a “masterpiece marriage” doesn’t just happen—it’s shaped with intention
  • How to stop running your relationship on autopilot and start building day by day, choice by choice
  • Why couples grow best when they grow consistently (not perfectly, but persistently)
  • How shared humor and “inside jokes” can turn frustrating moments into connection points
  • A simple way to think about habits as tools for your toolbelt—practical, repeatable, and usable in real life
  • How to take the next step if you want ongoing support and structure for growth

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]]> In Part 2 of our series on the essential habits of a healthy marriage, we’re focusing on what it looks like to stop living by default and start building your relationship by design. We talk about consistency over perfection (not perfectly, but persistently), and we share practical ways to create momentum—plus a fun real-life story about “floating shelves” that became shorthand for turning tension.

What You’ll Learn (Key Takeaways)

  • Why a “masterpiece marriage” doesn’t just happen—it’s shaped with intention
  • How to stop running your relationship on autopilot and start building day by day, choice by choice
  • Why couples grow best when they grow consistently (not perfectly, but persistently)
  • How shared humor and “inside jokes” can turn frustrating moments into connection points
  • A simple way to think about habits as tools for your toolbelt—practical, repeatable, and usable in real life
  • How to take the next step if you want ongoing support and structure for growth

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]]> Mon, 16 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1204 In Part 2 of our series on the essential habits of a healthy marriage, we’re focusing on what it looks like to stop living by default and start building your relationship by design. We talk about consistency over perfection (not perfectly, but persistently), and we share practical ways to create momentum—plus a fun real-life story about “floating shelves” that became shorthand for turning tension.

What You’ll Learn (Key Takeaways)

  • Why a “masterpiece marriage” doesn’t just happen—it’s shaped with intention
  • How to stop running your relationship on autopilot and start building day by day, choice by choice
  • Why couples grow best when they grow consistently (not perfectly, but persistently)
  • How shared humor and “inside jokes” can turn frustrating moments into connection points
  • A simple way to think about habits as tools for your toolbelt—practical, repeatable, and usable in real life
  • How to take the next step if you want ongoing support and structure for growth

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Previous Episodes:


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Stop Living by Default: Build a Marriage by Design with Simple Habits (Part 1) 6 6 73 73 Stop Living by Default: Build a Marriage by Design with Simple Habits (Part 1) full 0117910b-b45f-4c5d-a365-22f47615d4f6 https://share.transistor.fm/s/5be769cc A healthy marriage doesn’t happen on accident—it’s built with intention, practice, and a few simple rhythms that strengthen connection over time. In this episode, James and Lisa introduce four foundational habits that have shaped their marriage, their coaching, and the couples they’ve served for years. You’ll walk away with practical next steps you can start this week—especially around Habit 1 (Love God First) and Habit 2 (Love & Respect).

Key Points / What You’ll Learn

  • Why the new year is a natural “reset” for your marriage—not an overhaul, but a recalibration
  • The four habits of a healthy marriage (and why they’re simple, biblical, and practical)
  • Habit 1: Love God First—how spiritual alignment becomes the foundation your marriage draws strength from
  • Why loving God first is a daily orientation, not a one-time decision or a religious checkbox
  • Practical ways to build spiritual rhythms together (even with busy schedules)
  • Habit 2: Love & Respect—how small, consistent gestures shape the emotional culture of your marriage
  • Why unmet core needs often sit underneath conflict—and how love/respect gives you language for what’s really happening
  • A direct challenge for husbands (and wives): what did you do while pursuing your spouse that you’ve stopped doing?
  • Simple “start this week” actions that create momentum over time

Action Steps for This Week

  • Choose one spiritual practice (worship, prayer, scripture, church) and commit to it together this week.
  • Ask each other: “What is one way I can show you love or respect this week?” Then follow through.
  • Think of one small pursuit habit you used to do early on (a note, a text, opening the door, favorite coffee) and bring it back.

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]]> A healthy marriage doesn’t happen on accident—it’s built with intention, practice, and a few simple rhythms that strengthen connection over time. In this episode, James and Lisa introduce four foundational habits that have shaped their marriage, their coaching, and the couples they’ve served for years. You’ll walk away with practical next steps you can start this week—especially around Habit 1 (Love God First) and Habit 2 (Love & Respect).

Key Points / What You’ll Learn

  • Why the new year is a natural “reset” for your marriage—not an overhaul, but a recalibration
  • The four habits of a healthy marriage (and why they’re simple, biblical, and practical)
  • Habit 1: Love God First—how spiritual alignment becomes the foundation your marriage draws strength from
  • Why loving God first is a daily orientation, not a one-time decision or a religious checkbox
  • Practical ways to build spiritual rhythms together (even with busy schedules)
  • Habit 2: Love & Respect—how small, consistent gestures shape the emotional culture of your marriage
  • Why unmet core needs often sit underneath conflict—and how love/respect gives you language for what’s really happening
  • A direct challenge for husbands (and wives): what did you do while pursuing your spouse that you’ve stopped doing?
  • Simple “start this week” actions that create momentum over time

Action Steps for This Week

  • Choose one spiritual practice (worship, prayer, scripture, church) and commit to it together this week.
  • Ask each other: “What is one way I can show you love or respect this week?” Then follow through.
  • Think of one small pursuit habit you used to do early on (a note, a text, opening the door, favorite coffee) and bring it back.

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]]> Mon, 02 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1472 A healthy marriage doesn’t happen on accident—it’s built with intention, practice, and a few simple rhythms that strengthen connection over time. In this episode, James and Lisa introduce four foundational habits that have shaped their marriage, their coaching, and the couples they’ve served for years. You’ll walk away with practical next steps you can start this week—especially around Habit 1 (Love God First) and Habit 2 (Love & Respect).

Key Points / What You’ll Learn

  • Why the new year is a natural “reset” for your marriage—not an overhaul, but a recalibration
  • The four habits of a healthy marriage (and why they’re simple, biblical, and practical)
  • Habit 1: Love God First—how spiritual alignment becomes the foundation your marriage draws strength from
  • Why loving God first is a daily orientation, not a one-time decision or a religious checkbox
  • Practical ways to build spiritual rhythms together (even with busy schedules)
  • Habit 2: Love & Respect—how small, consistent gestures shape the emotional culture of your marriage
  • Why unmet core needs often sit underneath conflict—and how love/respect gives you language for what’s really happening
  • A direct challenge for husbands (and wives): what did you do while pursuing your spouse that you’ve stopped doing?
  • Simple “start this week” actions that create momentum over time

Action Steps for This Week

  • Choose one spiritual practice (worship, prayer, scripture, church) and commit to it together this week.
  • Ask each other: “What is one way I can show you love or respect this week?” Then follow through.
  • Think of one small pursuit habit you used to do early on (a note, a text, opening the door, favorite coffee) and bring it back.

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Breaking the Spiral: How to Defeat the 5 Mindset Killers in Marriage 6 6 72 72 Breaking the Spiral: How to Defeat the 5 Mindset Killers in Marriage full fcaed932-8cd6-4c82-895c-757091f1d20b https://share.transistor.fm/s/55b67520 In this episode, James and Lisa dive into the Five Mindset Killers that can quietly sabotage your marriage—distortion, discouragement, doubt, distraction, and division. Based on John Gordon’s framework, they unpack how these "5 Ds" show up in real relationships and what to do when they start pulling you into emotional and spiritual drift. Learn how to recognize the signs early, interrupt the cycle, and reset your mindset through presence, unity, and the life-giving power of gratitude. Plus, hear about The Collective—a brand new way to grow your marriage in rhythm all year long!

What You'll Learn / Key Points:

  • The Five D’s that pull your mindset—and marriage—into unhealthy patterns:
    • Distortion (twisted perceptions)
    • Discouragement (emotional drain)
    • Doubt (relational uncertainty)
    • Distraction (emotional avoidance)
    • Division (emotional disconnection)
  • How to interrupt the downward spiral and reset your mindset before disconnection sets in.
  • Real-life examples from James & Lisa’s marriage—like the “pillow on the floor” moment—and how catching distortion can shift the whole tone.
  • What each “D” needs to be healed:
    • Clarity for distortion
    • Encouragement for discouragement
    • Truth for doubt
    • Presence for distraction
    • Unity for division
  • Why gratitude is the ultimate mindset reset and the secret weapon to reframe even hard seasons.
  • A sneak peek at The Collective, their new year-round community to help couples grow together in rhythm.

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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa dive into the Five Mindset Killers that can quietly sabotage your marriage—distortion, discouragement, doubt, distraction, and division. Based on John Gordon’s framework, they unpack how these "5 Ds" show up in real relationships and what to do when they start pulling you into emotional and spiritual drift. Learn how to recognize the signs early, interrupt the cycle, and reset your mindset through presence, unity, and the life-giving power of gratitude. Plus, hear about The Collective—a brand new way to grow your marriage in rhythm all year long!

What You'll Learn / Key Points:

  • The Five D’s that pull your mindset—and marriage—into unhealthy patterns:
    • Distortion (twisted perceptions)
    • Discouragement (emotional drain)
    • Doubt (relational uncertainty)
    • Distraction (emotional avoidance)
    • Division (emotional disconnection)
  • How to interrupt the downward spiral and reset your mindset before disconnection sets in.
  • Real-life examples from James & Lisa’s marriage—like the “pillow on the floor” moment—and how catching distortion can shift the whole tone.
  • What each “D” needs to be healed:
    • Clarity for distortion
    • Encouragement for discouragement
    • Truth for doubt
    • Presence for distraction
    • Unity for division
  • Why gratitude is the ultimate mindset reset and the secret weapon to reframe even hard seasons.
  • A sneak peek at The Collective, their new year-round community to help couples grow together in rhythm.

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]]> Mon, 19 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1137 In this episode, James and Lisa dive into the Five Mindset Killers that can quietly sabotage your marriage—distortion, discouragement, doubt, distraction, and division. Based on John Gordon’s framework, they unpack how these "5 Ds" show up in real relationships and what to do when they start pulling you into emotional and spiritual drift. Learn how to recognize the signs early, interrupt the cycle, and reset your mindset through presence, unity, and the life-giving power of gratitude. Plus, hear about The Collective—a brand new way to grow your marriage in rhythm all year long!

What You'll Learn / Key Points:

  • The Five D’s that pull your mindset—and marriage—into unhealthy patterns:
    • Distortion (twisted perceptions)
    • Discouragement (emotional drain)
    • Doubt (relational uncertainty)
    • Distraction (emotional avoidance)
    • Division (emotional disconnection)
  • How to interrupt the downward spiral and reset your mindset before disconnection sets in.
  • Real-life examples from James & Lisa’s marriage—like the “pillow on the floor” moment—and how catching distortion can shift the whole tone.
  • What each “D” needs to be healed:
    • Clarity for distortion
    • Encouragement for discouragement
    • Truth for doubt
    • Presence for distraction
    • Unity for division
  • Why gratitude is the ultimate mindset reset and the secret weapon to reframe even hard seasons.
  • A sneak peek at The Collective, their new year-round community to help couples grow together in rhythm.

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Hummingbirds, Vultures, and the Mindset That Can Change Your Marriage 6 6 71 71 Hummingbirds, Vultures, and the Mindset That Can Change Your Marriage full 3b7f8241-4d24-49af-946a-bab51974e8a2 https://share.transistor.fm/s/c77b5097 What if the greatest influence on your marriage isn’t your circumstances, your history, or even your differences—but your mindset?

In this relaunch episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa return with a powerful conversation about growth mindset vs. fixed mindset in marriage. Using the vivid illustration of hummingbirds and vultures, they explore how two people can walk through the same season yet experience it completely differently—based solely on what they’re looking for.

You’ll hear honest stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools that help couples move from “this is just how we are” to “God is still at work here.” This episode also marks the launch of The Art of Spousing Collective, a new online community designed to help couples grow consistently all year long.


If you want this year to be marked by greater connection, emotional maturity, and shared growth, this conversation sets the foundation.

What You’ll Learn / Key Takeaways

  • Why how you think determines how you relate in marriage
  • The difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset—and how each quietly shapes your relationship
  • How the hummingbird vs. vulture illustration reveals what you’re training yourself to see
  • Why many couples stop growing even when growth is still possible
  • How “not yet” language creates momentum instead of discouragement
  • Why small, consistent decisions matter more than big emotional moments
  • How curiosity fuels intimacy—and assumptions create distance
  • The biblical foundation for mindset renewal (Romans 12:2)
  • Why marriage requires growing with multiple versions of your spouse over time
  • How a growth mindset honors God, the covenant, and the person you promised your life to

Links & Resources:

  • Join The Art of Spousing Collective (Founding Members Open):
    👉 https://aos-collective.com
  • Email Us:
    👉 hello@artofspousing.com

Connect With Us:

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]]> What if the greatest influence on your marriage isn’t your circumstances, your history, or even your differences—but your mindset?

In this relaunch episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa return with a powerful conversation about growth mindset vs. fixed mindset in marriage. Using the vivid illustration of hummingbirds and vultures, they explore how two people can walk through the same season yet experience it completely differently—based solely on what they’re looking for.

You’ll hear honest stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools that help couples move from “this is just how we are” to “God is still at work here.” This episode also marks the launch of The Art of Spousing Collective, a new online community designed to help couples grow consistently all year long.


If you want this year to be marked by greater connection, emotional maturity, and shared growth, this conversation sets the foundation.

What You’ll Learn / Key Takeaways

  • Why how you think determines how you relate in marriage
  • The difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset—and how each quietly shapes your relationship
  • How the hummingbird vs. vulture illustration reveals what you’re training yourself to see
  • Why many couples stop growing even when growth is still possible
  • How “not yet” language creates momentum instead of discouragement
  • Why small, consistent decisions matter more than big emotional moments
  • How curiosity fuels intimacy—and assumptions create distance
  • The biblical foundation for mindset renewal (Romans 12:2)
  • Why marriage requires growing with multiple versions of your spouse over time
  • How a growth mindset honors God, the covenant, and the person you promised your life to

Links & Resources:

  • Join The Art of Spousing Collective (Founding Members Open):
    👉 https://aos-collective.com
  • Email Us:
    👉 hello@artofspousing.com

Connect With Us:

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Your feedback helps us reach more couples and continue building marriages that grow with intention.


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]]> Mon, 05 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1633 What if the greatest influence on your marriage isn’t your circumstances, your history, or even your differences—but your mindset?

In this relaunch episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa return with a powerful conversation about growth mindset vs. fixed mindset in marriage. Using the vivid illustration of hummingbirds and vultures, they explore how two people can walk through the same season yet experience it completely differently—based solely on what they’re looking for.

You’ll hear honest stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools that help couples move from “this is just how we are” to “God is still at work here.” This episode also marks the launch of The Art of Spousing Collective, a new online community designed to help couples grow consistently all year long.


If you want this year to be marked by greater connection, emotional maturity, and shared growth, this conversation sets the foundation.

What You’ll Learn / Key Takeaways

  • Why how you think determines how you relate in marriage
  • The difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset—and how each quietly shapes your relationship
  • How the hummingbird vs. vulture illustration reveals what you’re training yourself to see
  • Why many couples stop growing even when growth is still possible
  • How “not yet” language creates momentum instead of discouragement
  • Why small, consistent decisions matter more than big emotional moments
  • How curiosity fuels intimacy—and assumptions create distance
  • The biblical foundation for mindset renewal (Romans 12:2)
  • Why marriage requires growing with multiple versions of your spouse over time
  • How a growth mindset honors God, the covenant, and the person you promised your life to

Links & Resources:

  • Join The Art of Spousing Collective (Founding Members Open):
    👉 https://aos-collective.com
  • Email Us:
    👉 hello@artofspousing.com

Connect With Us:

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Your feedback helps us reach more couples and continue building marriages that grow with intention.


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No When You Feel Off: Five Gauges for Measuring and Restoring Peace 5 5 70 70 When You Feel Off: Five Gauges for Measuring and Restoring Peace full 57af9566-e491-46ad-8b70-d92554a9fc13 https://share.transistor.fm/s/d0dc73f4 In this deeply practical and insightful episode, James and Lisa unpack a powerful diagnostic tool from GiANT called the Peace Index. This framework helps individuals—and couples—measure five key areas that influence internal wellbeing: purpose, place, provision, personal health, and people. With honest reflection, engaging stories, and easy-to-use language, this episode equips you to recognize what’s really going on beneath the surface and take intentional steps toward renewed peace in your life and marriage.

Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to grow more aware together, this episode offers clarity, connection, and tangible next steps.

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]]> In this deeply practical and insightful episode, James and Lisa unpack a powerful diagnostic tool from GiANT called the Peace Index. This framework helps individuals—and couples—measure five key areas that influence internal wellbeing: purpose, place, provision, personal health, and people. With honest reflection, engaging stories, and easy-to-use language, this episode equips you to recognize what’s really going on beneath the surface and take intentional steps toward renewed peace in your life and marriage.

Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to grow more aware together, this episode offers clarity, connection, and tangible next steps.

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]]> Mon, 26 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2518 In this deeply practical and insightful episode, James and Lisa unpack a powerful diagnostic tool from GiANT called the Peace Index. This framework helps individuals—and couples—measure five key areas that influence internal wellbeing: purpose, place, provision, personal health, and people. With honest reflection, engaging stories, and easy-to-use language, this episode equips you to recognize what’s really going on beneath the surface and take intentional steps toward renewed peace in your life and marriage.

Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to grow more aware together, this episode offers clarity, connection, and tangible next steps.

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]]> peace index, mental health, GiANT tools, personal development, marriage growth, James and Lisa Duvall, purpose, provision, place, personal health, relationships, Christian podcast, internal wellbeing, Live Lead Last No The Change Equation: Moving from Stuck to Stronger in Your Marriage 5 5 69 69 The Change Equation: Moving from Stuck to Stronger in Your Marriage full 88963f11-d06e-4138-b32c-ebcc207ee0b5 https://share.transistor.fm/s/a99041d3 In this heart-opening episode, James and Lisa share exciting updates—including the relaunch of the Live Lead Last podcast—and how launching something new inevitably impacts marriage. They introduce the Change Equation, a powerful visual tool from GiANT that explains why real change happens—or doesn’t—in relationships. Through vulnerable personal stories and practical insights, they walk you through how to overcome resistance together using vision, first steps, and emotional clarity. If your marriage feels stuck or off-track, this episode will help you reconnect and move forward with purpose.

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]]> In this heart-opening episode, James and Lisa share exciting updates—including the relaunch of the Live Lead Last podcast—and how launching something new inevitably impacts marriage. They introduce the Change Equation, a powerful visual tool from GiANT that explains why real change happens—or doesn’t—in relationships. Through vulnerable personal stories and practical insights, they walk you through how to overcome resistance together using vision, first steps, and emotional clarity. If your marriage feels stuck or off-track, this episode will help you reconnect and move forward with purpose.

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]]> Mon, 12 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1686 In this heart-opening episode, James and Lisa share exciting updates—including the relaunch of the Live Lead Last podcast—and how launching something new inevitably impacts marriage. They introduce the Change Equation, a powerful visual tool from GiANT that explains why real change happens—or doesn’t—in relationships. Through vulnerable personal stories and practical insights, they walk you through how to overcome resistance together using vision, first steps, and emotional clarity. If your marriage feels stuck or off-track, this episode will help you reconnect and move forward with purpose.

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]]> marriage reboot, leadership in marriage, five voices, GiANT tools, emotional intimacy, change equation, resistance in relationships, stuck in marriage, communication in marriage, Christian marriage, art of spousing, James and Lisa Duvall No From “I Do” to “We Still Do”: Building a Marriage on Layers of Commitment 5 5 68 68 From “I Do” to “We Still Do”: Building a Marriage on Layers of Commitment full 26fb6f76-8c0b-44db-922b-77a3e7c0ac3e https://share.transistor.fm/s/8bf8406f Commitment in marriage is so much deeper than just staying under the same roof. In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa Duvall explore what it really means to build a lifelong marriage rooted in intentional, daily choices. They unpack the four layers of commitment—personal, moral, spiritual, and structural—and share how couples can move from surviving to thriving, even when seasons get tough. You'll also hear real stories, biblical encouragement, and practical tools you can start using today to strengthen your "we still do."


Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this conversation will help you cultivate a marriage that lasts — and inspires.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Marriage Reboot Coaching Experience — 3 months of intensive coaching designed to help you move from surviving to thriving FREE 30-minute Discovery Call — Schedule with James and Lisa here

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]]> Commitment in marriage is so much deeper than just staying under the same roof. In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa Duvall explore what it really means to build a lifelong marriage rooted in intentional, daily choices. They unpack the four layers of commitment—personal, moral, spiritual, and structural—and share how couples can move from surviving to thriving, even when seasons get tough. You'll also hear real stories, biblical encouragement, and practical tools you can start using today to strengthen your "we still do."


Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this conversation will help you cultivate a marriage that lasts — and inspires.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Marriage Reboot Coaching Experience — 3 months of intensive coaching designed to help you move from surviving to thriving FREE 30-minute Discovery Call — Schedule with James and Lisa here

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]]> Mon, 28 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1277 Commitment in marriage is so much deeper than just staying under the same roof. In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa Duvall explore what it really means to build a lifelong marriage rooted in intentional, daily choices. They unpack the four layers of commitment—personal, moral, spiritual, and structural—and share how couples can move from surviving to thriving, even when seasons get tough. You'll also hear real stories, biblical encouragement, and practical tools you can start using today to strengthen your "we still do."


Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this conversation will help you cultivate a marriage that lasts — and inspires.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

  • Marriage Reboot Coaching Experience — 3 months of intensive coaching designed to help you move from surviving to thriving FREE 30-minute Discovery Call — Schedule with James and Lisa here

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]]> Marriage, Commitment, Christian Marriage, Covenant Love, Marriage Coaching, Marriage Reboot, Faith, Relationships, Art of Spousing No Decoding Your Spouse: The Secret to Communication that Connects 5 5 67 67 Decoding Your Spouse: The Secret to Communication that Connects full 223aadf2-b9fc-4566-9449-916a9e3f2683 https://share.transistor.fm/s/06878540 In this heartwarming and practical episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa break down one of the most transformative tools for marriage communication: The Communication Code. Ever found yourself trying to be helpful, only to realize your spouse needed something entirely different? This episode will help you stop the cycle of misfires and start connecting more deeply.


You’ll learn how to use five powerful communication codes—Celebrate, Care, Clarify, Collaborate, and Critique—to improve emotional safety, reduce frustration, and build deeper intimacy. Packed with relatable stories (including a hilarious miscommunication over “small smart choices”) and powerful insights, this episode equips couples to decode not just what’s being said—but how it’s meant to be received.


Whether you're a problem-solver or a feeler, a planner or a processor, this episode will help you and your spouse communicate with greater grace, clarity, and unity.

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]]> In this heartwarming and practical episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa break down one of the most transformative tools for marriage communication: The Communication Code. Ever found yourself trying to be helpful, only to realize your spouse needed something entirely different? This episode will help you stop the cycle of misfires and start connecting more deeply.


You’ll learn how to use five powerful communication codes—Celebrate, Care, Clarify, Collaborate, and Critique—to improve emotional safety, reduce frustration, and build deeper intimacy. Packed with relatable stories (including a hilarious miscommunication over “small smart choices”) and powerful insights, this episode equips couples to decode not just what’s being said—but how it’s meant to be received.


Whether you're a problem-solver or a feeler, a planner or a processor, this episode will help you and your spouse communicate with greater grace, clarity, and unity.

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]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2025 05:30:59 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1556 In this heartwarming and practical episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa break down one of the most transformative tools for marriage communication: The Communication Code. Ever found yourself trying to be helpful, only to realize your spouse needed something entirely different? This episode will help you stop the cycle of misfires and start connecting more deeply.


You’ll learn how to use five powerful communication codes—Celebrate, Care, Clarify, Collaborate, and Critique—to improve emotional safety, reduce frustration, and build deeper intimacy. Packed with relatable stories (including a hilarious miscommunication over “small smart choices”) and powerful insights, this episode equips couples to decode not just what’s being said—but how it’s meant to be received.


Whether you're a problem-solver or a feeler, a planner or a processor, this episode will help you and your spouse communicate with greater grace, clarity, and unity.

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]]> communication in marriage, marriage podcast, communication code, five communication codes, celebrate code, care code, critique code, clarify code, collaborate code, GiANT tools, communication tools, five voices, marriage advice, Christian marriage, relationship growth, emotional intimacy, decoding your spouse, intentional marriage, art of spousing, James and Lisa Duvall, provisional plan promise, know yourself to lead yourself, love languages, marital connection, healthy communication, marriage coaching, conflict resolution, faith and marriage No Tickling the Funny Bone: How Humor Helps Foster a Healthy Marriage 5 5 66 66 Tickling the Funny Bone: How Humor Helps Foster a Healthy Marriage full 19e561e2-ba02-40a9-a911-941d89789380 https://share.transistor.fm/s/ef387b48 Let’s face it—married life can be a wild ride. Between never-ending to-do lists, navigating seasons of grief, and the everyday chaos of family life, it’s easy to lose sight of the fun. But what if we told you that learning to laugh together might just be one of the most powerful tools you have to build connection, reduce stress, and keep your love vibrant?


In this episode, we explore why humor isn’t just a “nice-to-have” in marriage—it’s essential. We’ll unpack the four types of humor, dive into what science and Scripture say about laughter, and share stories (like Lisa’s “this is what I do” southern cooking moment and James’ infamous floating shelf fail) that show how humor can bond us… or blow up in our face. We also talk about what not to joke about, how timing and tone matter, and how to bring more intentional joy into your relationship—without crossing emotional lines.


Whether your marriage feels light and playful or a little dried up like that overcooked kielbasa (you’ll get it when you listen), this episode will inspire you to embrace laughter as a pathway to intimacy.

Key Takeaways

  • Laughter builds connection and reduces stress—it literally rewires your brain with bonding hormones like oxytocin.
  • Know your humor style—and your spouse’s. Healthy humor (like affiliative and self-enhancing) draws you closer; aggressive or self-defeating humor can harm connection.
  • Create “callbacks” or inside jokes. They build emotional intimacy and give you a shared language of joy.
  • Tone and timing are everything. A well-placed joke can heal, but the wrong moment can wound.
  • Honor your spouse’s sensitivities. Don’t joke to make a point. Be sensitive and lighthearted—it's not either/or.
  • Don't just hope for fun—plan it. Schedule laughter through games, funny shows, silly traditions, or storytelling.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

  • Marriage Reboot – Our two-day coaching intensive plus 3 months of intentional follow-up to help couples move from surviving to thriving. Learn more at artofspousing.com/coaching
  • Schedule a a Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
  • Tools Referenced:
    • Know Yourself to Lead Yourself – understanding your humor style and voice weapon systems
    • 5 Voices – using humor in ways that align with your personality
    • Checkpoints – use humor to shift tension, but with permission

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And remember—if you're in a tough season, and laughter feels far off, there is hope. Don’t just survive—start practicing the art of spousing today. 💛🎙️

]]> Let’s face it—married life can be a wild ride. Between never-ending to-do lists, navigating seasons of grief, and the everyday chaos of family life, it’s easy to lose sight of the fun. But what if we told you that learning to laugh together might just be one of the most powerful tools you have to build connection, reduce stress, and keep your love vibrant?


In this episode, we explore why humor isn’t just a “nice-to-have” in marriage—it’s essential. We’ll unpack the four types of humor, dive into what science and Scripture say about laughter, and share stories (like Lisa’s “this is what I do” southern cooking moment and James’ infamous floating shelf fail) that show how humor can bond us… or blow up in our face. We also talk about what not to joke about, how timing and tone matter, and how to bring more intentional joy into your relationship—without crossing emotional lines.


Whether your marriage feels light and playful or a little dried up like that overcooked kielbasa (you’ll get it when you listen), this episode will inspire you to embrace laughter as a pathway to intimacy.

Key Takeaways

  • Laughter builds connection and reduces stress—it literally rewires your brain with bonding hormones like oxytocin.
  • Know your humor style—and your spouse’s. Healthy humor (like affiliative and self-enhancing) draws you closer; aggressive or self-defeating humor can harm connection.
  • Create “callbacks” or inside jokes. They build emotional intimacy and give you a shared language of joy.
  • Tone and timing are everything. A well-placed joke can heal, but the wrong moment can wound.
  • Honor your spouse’s sensitivities. Don’t joke to make a point. Be sensitive and lighthearted—it's not either/or.
  • Don't just hope for fun—plan it. Schedule laughter through games, funny shows, silly traditions, or storytelling.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

  • Marriage Reboot – Our two-day coaching intensive plus 3 months of intentional follow-up to help couples move from surviving to thriving. Learn more at artofspousing.com/coaching
  • Schedule a a Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
  • Tools Referenced:
    • Know Yourself to Lead Yourself – understanding your humor style and voice weapon systems
    • 5 Voices – using humor in ways that align with your personality
    • Checkpoints – use humor to shift tension, but with permission

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If you enjoyed this episode, we’d love it if you subscribed, left a review, and shared it with another couple who needs a little more laughter in their lives. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to build a strong, Christ-centered, joy-filled marriage.


And remember—if you're in a tough season, and laughter feels far off, there is hope. Don’t just survive—start practicing the art of spousing today. 💛🎙️

]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2349 Let’s face it—married life can be a wild ride. Between never-ending to-do lists, navigating seasons of grief, and the everyday chaos of family life, it’s easy to lose sight of the fun. But what if we told you that learning to laugh together might just be one of the most powerful tools you have to build connection, reduce stress, and keep your love vibrant?


In this episode, we explore why humor isn’t just a “nice-to-have” in marriage—it’s essential. We’ll unpack the four types of humor, dive into what science and Scripture say about laughter, and share stories (like Lisa’s “this is what I do” southern cooking moment and James’ infamous floating shelf fail) that show how humor can bond us… or blow up in our face. We also talk about what not to joke about, how timing and tone matter, and how to bring more intentional joy into your relationship—without crossing emotional lines.


Whether your marriage feels light and playful or a little dried up like that overcooked kielbasa (you’ll get it when you listen), this episode will inspire you to embrace laughter as a pathway to intimacy.

Key Takeaways

  • Laughter builds connection and reduces stress—it literally rewires your brain with bonding hormones like oxytocin.
  • Know your humor style—and your spouse’s. Healthy humor (like affiliative and self-enhancing) draws you closer; aggressive or self-defeating humor can harm connection.
  • Create “callbacks” or inside jokes. They build emotional intimacy and give you a shared language of joy.
  • Tone and timing are everything. A well-placed joke can heal, but the wrong moment can wound.
  • Honor your spouse’s sensitivities. Don’t joke to make a point. Be sensitive and lighthearted—it's not either/or.
  • Don't just hope for fun—plan it. Schedule laughter through games, funny shows, silly traditions, or storytelling.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

  • Marriage Reboot – Our two-day coaching intensive plus 3 months of intentional follow-up to help couples move from surviving to thriving. Learn more at artofspousing.com/coaching
  • Schedule a a Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
  • Tools Referenced:
    • Know Yourself to Lead Yourself – understanding your humor style and voice weapon systems
    • 5 Voices – using humor in ways that align with your personality
    • Checkpoints – use humor to shift tension, but with permission

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And remember—if you're in a tough season, and laughter feels far off, there is hope. Don’t just survive—start practicing the art of spousing today. 💛🎙️

]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Think Together, Not Alike: How to Make Decisions as a Team 5 5 65 65 Think Together, Not Alike: How to Make Decisions as a Team full ce5b4300-d012-459f-9fc1-e1d4b401322a https://share.transistor.fm/s/73eadd56 Decision-making is a daily reality in marriage—sometimes small (what’s for dinner?) and sometimes huge (where do we live?). But if we’re not intentional, making decisions together can turn into a battleground or a passive-aggressive standoff.


In this episode, we explore how to make decisions as a team, even when you and your spouse see things differently. We’ll walk through practical tools to navigate different decision-making styles, how to build a bridge between future-oriented and present-oriented spouses, and how to seek unity even when you disagree. You’ll also hear some of our personal stories (including Lisa’s hilarious “no snakes or orange shag carpet” church move requirements) and biblical wisdom to help you grow in this crucial area of marriage.

Key Takeaways:
✅ Biblical unity isn’t about thinking alike—it’s about thinking together.
✅ Identify your decision-making style and learn how to complement each other.
✅ Build a bridge between your perspectives instead of dragging your spouse across the gap.
✅ When you don’t see eye to eye, focus on listening, compromise, and trust.
✅ Who gets the final say? We unpack biblical leadership and servant-hearted decision-making.


By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical strategies to make decisions together in a way that strengthens—not stresses—your marriage.


Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Related Episodes:

🎧 The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage
🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect
🎧 Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity 
 

Connect with Us:

📸 Instagram: @artofspousing
🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.com

💌 Join our weekly Marriage Practice email for tools & encouragement: Text AOS to 66866


Subscribe & Review:

If you enjoyed this episode, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more couples who want to build strong, thriving marriages.

Know a couple who could use this episode? Share it with them! 💛

Until next time—keep practicing the art of spousing! 🎙️💍


]]> Decision-making is a daily reality in marriage—sometimes small (what’s for dinner?) and sometimes huge (where do we live?). But if we’re not intentional, making decisions together can turn into a battleground or a passive-aggressive standoff.


In this episode, we explore how to make decisions as a team, even when you and your spouse see things differently. We’ll walk through practical tools to navigate different decision-making styles, how to build a bridge between future-oriented and present-oriented spouses, and how to seek unity even when you disagree. You’ll also hear some of our personal stories (including Lisa’s hilarious “no snakes or orange shag carpet” church move requirements) and biblical wisdom to help you grow in this crucial area of marriage.

Key Takeaways:
✅ Biblical unity isn’t about thinking alike—it’s about thinking together.
✅ Identify your decision-making style and learn how to complement each other.
✅ Build a bridge between your perspectives instead of dragging your spouse across the gap.
✅ When you don’t see eye to eye, focus on listening, compromise, and trust.
✅ Who gets the final say? We unpack biblical leadership and servant-hearted decision-making.


By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical strategies to make decisions together in a way that strengthens—not stresses—your marriage.


Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Related Episodes:

🎧 The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage
🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect
🎧 Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity 
 

Connect with Us:

📸 Instagram: @artofspousing
🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.com

💌 Join our weekly Marriage Practice email for tools & encouragement: Text AOS to 66866


Subscribe & Review:

If you enjoyed this episode, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more couples who want to build strong, thriving marriages.

Know a couple who could use this episode? Share it with them! 💛

Until next time—keep practicing the art of spousing! 🎙️💍


]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1795 Decision-making is a daily reality in marriage—sometimes small (what’s for dinner?) and sometimes huge (where do we live?). But if we’re not intentional, making decisions together can turn into a battleground or a passive-aggressive standoff.


In this episode, we explore how to make decisions as a team, even when you and your spouse see things differently. We’ll walk through practical tools to navigate different decision-making styles, how to build a bridge between future-oriented and present-oriented spouses, and how to seek unity even when you disagree. You’ll also hear some of our personal stories (including Lisa’s hilarious “no snakes or orange shag carpet” church move requirements) and biblical wisdom to help you grow in this crucial area of marriage.

Key Takeaways:
✅ Biblical unity isn’t about thinking alike—it’s about thinking together.
✅ Identify your decision-making style and learn how to complement each other.
✅ Build a bridge between your perspectives instead of dragging your spouse across the gap.
✅ When you don’t see eye to eye, focus on listening, compromise, and trust.
✅ Who gets the final say? We unpack biblical leadership and servant-hearted decision-making.


By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical strategies to make decisions together in a way that strengthens—not stresses—your marriage.


Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Related Episodes:

🎧 The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage
🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect
🎧 Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity 
 

Connect with Us:

📸 Instagram: @artofspousing
🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.com

💌 Join our weekly Marriage Practice email for tools & encouragement: Text AOS to 66866


Subscribe & Review:

If you enjoyed this episode, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more couples who want to build strong, thriving marriages.

Know a couple who could use this episode? Share it with them! 💛

Until next time—keep practicing the art of spousing! 🎙️💍


]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage 5 5 64 64 The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage full 813ef900-5643-4736-bdd5-fbd5c444d392 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f00131f Ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? In this episode, we dive into The Five Voices—a powerful tool that helps you understand your unique communication style and how it interacts with your spouse’s. When you recognize your voice and your spouse’s, you can stop having the same frustrating conversations and start truly understanding each other.


This episode will help you:
✅ Identify your Foundational Voice (and your spouse’s!)
✅ Understand why some conversations feel like a constant battle
✅ Learn practical ways to use your voice to build unity instead of conflict


If you’ve ever wished for a user manual on marriage communication, this is it! Tune in, take the Five Voices Assessment (link below), and start speaking each other’s language.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Related Episodes:

🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect
🎧 Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks
🎧 Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Humility

Connect with Us:

Subscribe & Review:

If this episode helped you, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps more couples build strong, resilient marriages. And if you found this conversation valuable, share it with a friend who could use these insights too! ❤️

Until next time, remember: A better me = A better we. 💙

]]> Ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? In this episode, we dive into The Five Voices—a powerful tool that helps you understand your unique communication style and how it interacts with your spouse’s. When you recognize your voice and your spouse’s, you can stop having the same frustrating conversations and start truly understanding each other.


This episode will help you:
✅ Identify your Foundational Voice (and your spouse’s!)
✅ Understand why some conversations feel like a constant battle
✅ Learn practical ways to use your voice to build unity instead of conflict


If you’ve ever wished for a user manual on marriage communication, this is it! Tune in, take the Five Voices Assessment (link below), and start speaking each other’s language.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Related Episodes:

🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect
🎧 Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks
🎧 Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Humility

Connect with Us:

Subscribe & Review:

If this episode helped you, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps more couples build strong, resilient marriages. And if you found this conversation valuable, share it with a friend who could use these insights too! ❤️

Until next time, remember: A better me = A better we. 💙

]]> Mon, 03 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1316 Ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? In this episode, we dive into The Five Voices—a powerful tool that helps you understand your unique communication style and how it interacts with your spouse’s. When you recognize your voice and your spouse’s, you can stop having the same frustrating conversations and start truly understanding each other.


This episode will help you:
✅ Identify your Foundational Voice (and your spouse’s!)
✅ Understand why some conversations feel like a constant battle
✅ Learn practical ways to use your voice to build unity instead of conflict


If you’ve ever wished for a user manual on marriage communication, this is it! Tune in, take the Five Voices Assessment (link below), and start speaking each other’s language.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Related Episodes:

🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect
🎧 Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks
🎧 Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Humility

Connect with Us:

Subscribe & Review:

If this episode helped you, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps more couples build strong, resilient marriages. And if you found this conversation valuable, share it with a friend who could use these insights too! ❤️

Until next time, remember: A better me = A better we. 💙

]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks 5 5 63 63 Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks full e3f83bfe-77fe-49ca-9fc2-b31e9b666b3d https://share.transistor.fm/s/2cc1a8a2 This week, James and Lisa dive into a topic that affects every marriage: communication roadblocks. Whether you're struggling with distractions, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions, today’s episode is packed with practical tools and biblical wisdom to help you break through barriers and build a deeper connection with your spouse.

Episode Highlights

  1. Why Communication is Foundational
    • Communication is the heartbeat of a healthy marriage, influencing every other area of your relationship.
    • Poor communication can lead to frustration, disconnection, and unresolved conflict—but with intentionality, you can transform it.
  2. 5 Common Communication Roadblocks & How to Overcome Them
    • Distracted Listening
      • Problem: One or both spouses aren't fully present.
      • Fix: Use the "Five Gears" framework to shift into the right gear for meaningful connection. Spend at least 10 minutes daily in “Gear 2” with no distractions.
      • Biblical Insight: James 1:19—“Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”
    • Assumptions & Misunderstandings
      • Problem: Believing you're a mind reader, leading to miscommunication.
      • Fix: Use the “Impact and Intent” tool and avoid J.A.D.E. (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain).
      • Pro Tip: Practice the CLEAR Model—Clarify, Listen, Empathize, Ask, Respond.
    • Emotional Escalation
      • Problem: Letting emotions like anger or contempt take over.
      • Fix: Manage the pause with E+R=O (Event + Response = Outcome). Respond with gentleness instead of reacting emotionally.
      • Biblical Insight: Proverbs 15:1—“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
    • Avoiding or Controlling Conflict
      • Problem: Stonewalling or dominating discussions.
      • Fix: Name your feelings and set time to revisit the conversation if overwhelmed. Use the Platinum Rule: Treat your spouse how they want to be treated.
      • Biblical Insight: Romans 12:18—“As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
    • Lack of Appreciation and Balance
      • Problem: Conversations focus only on critiques.
      • Fix: Adopt a 5:1 gratitude-to-critique ratio. Use tools like the Enneagram to foster empathy and celebrate your spouse’s strengths.
      • Biblical Insight: 1 Thessalonians 5:11—“Encourage one another and build each other up.”
  3. Practical Takeaways
    • Dedicate 10 minutes daily for distraction-free connection in “Gear 2.”
    • Share five specific affirmations with your spouse this week.
    • Tackle only one issue at a time during tough conversations.

Resources & Recommendations

Get Involved

If you found this episode helpful:

  • Share it with friends who might benefit!
  • Leave us a review—it helps others find the show.
  • Subscribe to ensure you never miss an episode.

Work With Us:

Connect With Us:

]]> This week, James and Lisa dive into a topic that affects every marriage: communication roadblocks. Whether you're struggling with distractions, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions, today’s episode is packed with practical tools and biblical wisdom to help you break through barriers and build a deeper connection with your spouse.

Episode Highlights

  1. Why Communication is Foundational
    • Communication is the heartbeat of a healthy marriage, influencing every other area of your relationship.
    • Poor communication can lead to frustration, disconnection, and unresolved conflict—but with intentionality, you can transform it.
  2. 5 Common Communication Roadblocks & How to Overcome Them
    • Distracted Listening
      • Problem: One or both spouses aren't fully present.
      • Fix: Use the "Five Gears" framework to shift into the right gear for meaningful connection. Spend at least 10 minutes daily in “Gear 2” with no distractions.
      • Biblical Insight: James 1:19—“Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”
    • Assumptions & Misunderstandings
      • Problem: Believing you're a mind reader, leading to miscommunication.
      • Fix: Use the “Impact and Intent” tool and avoid J.A.D.E. (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain).
      • Pro Tip: Practice the CLEAR Model—Clarify, Listen, Empathize, Ask, Respond.
    • Emotional Escalation
      • Problem: Letting emotions like anger or contempt take over.
      • Fix: Manage the pause with E+R=O (Event + Response = Outcome). Respond with gentleness instead of reacting emotionally.
      • Biblical Insight: Proverbs 15:1—“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
    • Avoiding or Controlling Conflict
      • Problem: Stonewalling or dominating discussions.
      • Fix: Name your feelings and set time to revisit the conversation if overwhelmed. Use the Platinum Rule: Treat your spouse how they want to be treated.
      • Biblical Insight: Romans 12:18—“As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
    • Lack of Appreciation and Balance
      • Problem: Conversations focus only on critiques.
      • Fix: Adopt a 5:1 gratitude-to-critique ratio. Use tools like the Enneagram to foster empathy and celebrate your spouse’s strengths.
      • Biblical Insight: 1 Thessalonians 5:11—“Encourage one another and build each other up.”
  3. Practical Takeaways
    • Dedicate 10 minutes daily for distraction-free connection in “Gear 2.”
    • Share five specific affirmations with your spouse this week.
    • Tackle only one issue at a time during tough conversations.

Resources & Recommendations

Get Involved

If you found this episode helpful:

  • Share it with friends who might benefit!
  • Leave us a review—it helps others find the show.
  • Subscribe to ensure you never miss an episode.

Work With Us:

Connect With Us:

]]> Mon, 06 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1623 This week, James and Lisa dive into a topic that affects every marriage: communication roadblocks. Whether you're struggling with distractions, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions, today’s episode is packed with practical tools and biblical wisdom to help you break through barriers and build a deeper connection with your spouse.

Episode Highlights

  1. Why Communication is Foundational
    • Communication is the heartbeat of a healthy marriage, influencing every other area of your relationship.
    • Poor communication can lead to frustration, disconnection, and unresolved conflict—but with intentionality, you can transform it.
  2. 5 Common Communication Roadblocks & How to Overcome Them
    • Distracted Listening
      • Problem: One or both spouses aren't fully present.
      • Fix: Use the "Five Gears" framework to shift into the right gear for meaningful connection. Spend at least 10 minutes daily in “Gear 2” with no distractions.
      • Biblical Insight: James 1:19—“Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”
    • Assumptions & Misunderstandings
      • Problem: Believing you're a mind reader, leading to miscommunication.
      • Fix: Use the “Impact and Intent” tool and avoid J.A.D.E. (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain).
      • Pro Tip: Practice the CLEAR Model—Clarify, Listen, Empathize, Ask, Respond.
    • Emotional Escalation
      • Problem: Letting emotions like anger or contempt take over.
      • Fix: Manage the pause with E+R=O (Event + Response = Outcome). Respond with gentleness instead of reacting emotionally.
      • Biblical Insight: Proverbs 15:1—“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
    • Avoiding or Controlling Conflict
      • Problem: Stonewalling or dominating discussions.
      • Fix: Name your feelings and set time to revisit the conversation if overwhelmed. Use the Platinum Rule: Treat your spouse how they want to be treated.
      • Biblical Insight: Romans 12:18—“As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
    • Lack of Appreciation and Balance
      • Problem: Conversations focus only on critiques.
      • Fix: Adopt a 5:1 gratitude-to-critique ratio. Use tools like the Enneagram to foster empathy and celebrate your spouse’s strengths.
      • Biblical Insight: 1 Thessalonians 5:11—“Encourage one another and build each other up.”
  3. Practical Takeaways
    • Dedicate 10 minutes daily for distraction-free connection in “Gear 2.”
    • Share five specific affirmations with your spouse this week.
    • Tackle only one issue at a time during tough conversations.

Resources & Recommendations

Get Involved

If you found this episode helpful:

  • Share it with friends who might benefit!
  • Leave us a review—it helps others find the show.
  • Subscribe to ensure you never miss an episode.

Work With Us:

Connect With Us:

]]> marriage communication, relationship tips, healthy marriage, communication roadblocks, building connection, Christian marriage, marriage advice, relationship tools, marital growth, conflict resolution, better together, gratitude in marriage, marriage goals, Art of Spousing, faith and marriage No Setting the Stage for Your Best Year of Marriage Yet! 5 5 62 62 Setting the Stage for Your Best Year of Marriage Yet! full 605f3e31-7f07-48c7-b7e1-f02cff1482e1 https://share.transistor.fm/s/da37599e In this episode, James and Lisa reflect on the lessons learned from 2024 and share practical steps for designing a thriving marriage in 2025. From navigating challenges like caregiving and career transitions to building a vision for the future, this conversation will inspire and equip you to create a marriage filled with intention and growth.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  1. Reflect on the Past Year:
    • Why pausing to look back can uncover valuable lessons for growth.
    • Key questions to reflect on as a couple:
      • What did you do well as a team in 2024?
      • Where did you grow through challenges?
      • How did you see God’s hand at work in your marriage?
  2. Cast a Vision for 2025:
    • Shift from setting “to-do” goals to becoming the couple you want to be.
    • Explore questions like:
      • How do you want to show up for each other this year?
      • What values will you prioritize together?
    • Learn how choosing a shared “word of the year” can help you stay focused on your vision.
  3. Turn Vision into Action:
    • Small, intentional steps can build a strong foundation for growth.
    • Examples include:
      • Scheduling regular date nights.
      • Planning adventurous getaways.
      • Practicing patience or gratitude daily.
  4. Let Go of What’s Holding You Back:
    • Release habits, mindsets, or frustrations that don’t serve your marriage.
    • Practical steps for “praying through” bitterness and creating space for new growth.
  5. Create Habits of Connection & Accountability:
    • Simple ideas to stay connected:
      • Quarterly marriage check-ins.
      • Weekly highs-and-lows discussions.
      • Celebrating small wins together.

Key Resources Mentioned:

  • Weekly Practise Email: Get marriage tips and exercises delivered to your inbox every Monday. Text AOS to 66866 to sign up.
  • Marriage Reboot: Ready to invest deeply in your marriage? Learn about our transformative 2-day marriage coaching experience. Click here to schedule a call.

Action Steps for This Week:

  1. Take 10 minutes to reflect on 2024 using the guided questions shared in this episode.
  2. Set a vision for your marriage in 2025 and choose a shared word to guide you.
  3. Identify one habit to let go of and one intentional step to take toward your vision.
  4. Share your 2025 word or goals with us on Instagram @artofspousing or email hello@artofspousing.com.

Related Episodes:
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman


Connect with Us:  

- Instagram: @artofspousing  

- Website: www.artofspousing.com

Subscribe & Review:  

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.


Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

]]> In this episode, James and Lisa reflect on the lessons learned from 2024 and share practical steps for designing a thriving marriage in 2025. From navigating challenges like caregiving and career transitions to building a vision for the future, this conversation will inspire and equip you to create a marriage filled with intention and growth.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  1. Reflect on the Past Year:
    • Why pausing to look back can uncover valuable lessons for growth.
    • Key questions to reflect on as a couple:
      • What did you do well as a team in 2024?
      • Where did you grow through challenges?
      • How did you see God’s hand at work in your marriage?
  2. Cast a Vision for 2025:
    • Shift from setting “to-do” goals to becoming the couple you want to be.
    • Explore questions like:
      • How do you want to show up for each other this year?
      • What values will you prioritize together?
    • Learn how choosing a shared “word of the year” can help you stay focused on your vision.
  3. Turn Vision into Action:
    • Small, intentional steps can build a strong foundation for growth.
    • Examples include:
      • Scheduling regular date nights.
      • Planning adventurous getaways.
      • Practicing patience or gratitude daily.
  4. Let Go of What’s Holding You Back:
    • Release habits, mindsets, or frustrations that don’t serve your marriage.
    • Practical steps for “praying through” bitterness and creating space for new growth.
  5. Create Habits of Connection & Accountability:
    • Simple ideas to stay connected:
      • Quarterly marriage check-ins.
      • Weekly highs-and-lows discussions.
      • Celebrating small wins together.

Key Resources Mentioned:

  • Weekly Practise Email: Get marriage tips and exercises delivered to your inbox every Monday. Text AOS to 66866 to sign up.
  • Marriage Reboot: Ready to invest deeply in your marriage? Learn about our transformative 2-day marriage coaching experience. Click here to schedule a call.

Action Steps for This Week:

  1. Take 10 minutes to reflect on 2024 using the guided questions shared in this episode.
  2. Set a vision for your marriage in 2025 and choose a shared word to guide you.
  3. Identify one habit to let go of and one intentional step to take toward your vision.
  4. Share your 2025 word or goals with us on Instagram @artofspousing or email hello@artofspousing.com.

Related Episodes:
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman


Connect with Us:  

- Instagram: @artofspousing  

- Website: www.artofspousing.com

Subscribe & Review:  

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.


Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

]]> Mon, 09 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1362 In this episode, James and Lisa reflect on the lessons learned from 2024 and share practical steps for designing a thriving marriage in 2025. From navigating challenges like caregiving and career transitions to building a vision for the future, this conversation will inspire and equip you to create a marriage filled with intention and growth.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  1. Reflect on the Past Year:
    • Why pausing to look back can uncover valuable lessons for growth.
    • Key questions to reflect on as a couple:
      • What did you do well as a team in 2024?
      • Where did you grow through challenges?
      • How did you see God’s hand at work in your marriage?
  2. Cast a Vision for 2025:
    • Shift from setting “to-do” goals to becoming the couple you want to be.
    • Explore questions like:
      • How do you want to show up for each other this year?
      • What values will you prioritize together?
    • Learn how choosing a shared “word of the year” can help you stay focused on your vision.
  3. Turn Vision into Action:
    • Small, intentional steps can build a strong foundation for growth.
    • Examples include:
      • Scheduling regular date nights.
      • Planning adventurous getaways.
      • Practicing patience or gratitude daily.
  4. Let Go of What’s Holding You Back:
    • Release habits, mindsets, or frustrations that don’t serve your marriage.
    • Practical steps for “praying through” bitterness and creating space for new growth.
  5. Create Habits of Connection & Accountability:
    • Simple ideas to stay connected:
      • Quarterly marriage check-ins.
      • Weekly highs-and-lows discussions.
      • Celebrating small wins together.

Key Resources Mentioned:

  • Weekly Practise Email: Get marriage tips and exercises delivered to your inbox every Monday. Text AOS to 66866 to sign up.
  • Marriage Reboot: Ready to invest deeply in your marriage? Learn about our transformative 2-day marriage coaching experience. Click here to schedule a call.

Action Steps for This Week:

  1. Take 10 minutes to reflect on 2024 using the guided questions shared in this episode.
  2. Set a vision for your marriage in 2025 and choose a shared word to guide you.
  3. Identify one habit to let go of and one intentional step to take toward your vision.
  4. Share your 2025 word or goals with us on Instagram @artofspousing or email hello@artofspousing.com.

Related Episodes:
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman


Connect with Us:  

- Instagram: @artofspousing  

- Website: www.artofspousing.com

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect 5 5 61 61 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect full 5395672f-6fc0-4a26-b0cc-a7e557f5b3cd https://share.transistor.fm/s/a26a078b In this episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa give listeners a behind-the-scenes look at their creative process as they develop a new framework for marriage growth: The Flywheel of Momentum. They share five key priorities that, when practiced intentionally, create synergy and depth in a marriage. From foundational communication to fostering growth, this episode is packed with practical insights, engaging stories, and actionable tools to help your marriage thrive.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter
- The Five Gears
- The Communication Code by Jeremie Kubicek
- Stay tuned for updates on the Art of Spousing Marriage Retreat, coming Fall 2025!

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]]> In this episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa give listeners a behind-the-scenes look at their creative process as they develop a new framework for marriage growth: The Flywheel of Momentum. They share five key priorities that, when practiced intentionally, create synergy and depth in a marriage. From foundational communication to fostering growth, this episode is packed with practical insights, engaging stories, and actionable tools to help your marriage thrive.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter
- The Five Gears
- The Communication Code by Jeremie Kubicek
- Stay tuned for updates on the Art of Spousing Marriage Retreat, coming Fall 2025!

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- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

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Click here to view the episode transcript.

]]> Mon, 25 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2279 In this episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa give listeners a behind-the-scenes look at their creative process as they develop a new framework for marriage growth: The Flywheel of Momentum. They share five key priorities that, when practiced intentionally, create synergy and depth in a marriage. From foundational communication to fostering growth, this episode is packed with practical insights, engaging stories, and actionable tools to help your marriage thrive.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter
- The Five Gears
- The Communication Code by Jeremie Kubicek
- Stay tuned for updates on the Art of Spousing Marriage Retreat, coming Fall 2025!

Related Episodes:

Connect with Us:  

- Instagram: @artofspousing  

- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

- Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox!


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Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

Click here to view the episode transcript.

]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Intimacy Anorexia: Ray and Linda's Journey from Isolation to Deep Connection 5 5 60 60 Intimacy Anorexia: Ray and Linda's Journey from Isolation to Deep Connection full f5b31b54-7e61-484b-a642-5168aeaf69e5 https://share.transistor.fm/s/349aba7a In today’s powerful episode, James and Lisa welcome Ray and Linda, a couple who overcame deep challenges in their marriage, including a rare and often misunderstood condition called Intimacy Anorexia (IA). Ray and Linda share how this condition impacted their marriage for decades, creating emotional distance and loneliness, even while they appeared outwardly successful. Through honest storytelling, they reveal how discovering IA transformed their relationship and brought lasting healing. Ray and Linda also provide insights for couples who may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stuck, and they offer hope that healing is possible.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter
- Dr. Doug Weiss Resources

  • Intimacy Anorexia
  • Sin of Withholding
  • Married and Alone

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Connect with Ray and Linda Raya:
Linda@onepurposemarriage.com
Ray@onepurposemarriage.com

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]]> In today’s powerful episode, James and Lisa welcome Ray and Linda, a couple who overcame deep challenges in their marriage, including a rare and often misunderstood condition called Intimacy Anorexia (IA). Ray and Linda share how this condition impacted their marriage for decades, creating emotional distance and loneliness, even while they appeared outwardly successful. Through honest storytelling, they reveal how discovering IA transformed their relationship and brought lasting healing. Ray and Linda also provide insights for couples who may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stuck, and they offer hope that healing is possible.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter
- Dr. Doug Weiss Resources

  • Intimacy Anorexia
  • Sin of Withholding
  • Married and Alone

Related Episodes:

Connect with Ray and Linda Raya:
Linda@onepurposemarriage.com
Ray@onepurposemarriage.com

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- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

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]]> Mon, 11 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2303 In today’s powerful episode, James and Lisa welcome Ray and Linda, a couple who overcame deep challenges in their marriage, including a rare and often misunderstood condition called Intimacy Anorexia (IA). Ray and Linda share how this condition impacted their marriage for decades, creating emotional distance and loneliness, even while they appeared outwardly successful. Through honest storytelling, they reveal how discovering IA transformed their relationship and brought lasting healing. Ray and Linda also provide insights for couples who may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stuck, and they offer hope that healing is possible.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter
- Dr. Doug Weiss Resources

  • Intimacy Anorexia
  • Sin of Withholding
  • Married and Alone

Related Episodes:

Connect with Ray and Linda Raya:
Linda@onepurposemarriage.com
Ray@onepurposemarriage.com

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- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

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]]> Intimacy Anorexia, Marriage Healing, Overcoming Disconnection, Christian Marriage, Faith and Marriage, Emotional Intimacy, Rebuilding Trust, Marriage Challenges, Marriage Transformation, Intentional Marriage, Restoring Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, Marriage Podcast No Navigating the In-Between Seasons of Marriage! 5 5 59 59 Navigating the In-Between Seasons of Marriage! full 72588e88-e3f0-4862-bdac-a996bb3eadb2 https://share.transistor.fm/s/8b5a5098 In this episode, James and Lisa explore the concept of liminality—the “in-between” seasons of marriage where uncertainty reigns, and you’re not quite where you were, but not yet where you’re going. Whether you're in a major life transition, feeling stuck, or simply unsure of what's next, this episode offers practical advice to navigate these challenging yet transformative moments in your marriage with intention, patience, and grace. James and Lisa also share personal stories from their own liminal seasons and provide hope for couples in similar spaces, especially those facing seasons of deep pain and loss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter

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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa explore the concept of liminality—the “in-between” seasons of marriage where uncertainty reigns, and you’re not quite where you were, but not yet where you’re going. Whether you're in a major life transition, feeling stuck, or simply unsure of what's next, this episode offers practical advice to navigate these challenging yet transformative moments in your marriage with intention, patience, and grace. James and Lisa also share personal stories from their own liminal seasons and provide hope for couples in similar spaces, especially those facing seasons of deep pain and loss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter

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]]> Mon, 28 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1568 In this episode, James and Lisa explore the concept of liminality—the “in-between” seasons of marriage where uncertainty reigns, and you’re not quite where you were, but not yet where you’re going. Whether you're in a major life transition, feeling stuck, or simply unsure of what's next, this episode offers practical advice to navigate these challenging yet transformative moments in your marriage with intention, patience, and grace. James and Lisa also share personal stories from their own liminal seasons and provide hope for couples in similar spaces, especially those facing seasons of deep pain and loss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- The Collective
- The Weekly Practise Newsletter

Related Episodes:

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- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Empty Nesters Take Two: Navigating Transitions, Family, and Marriage 5 5 58 58 Empty Nesters Take Two: Navigating Transitions, Family, and Marriage full d7b0b443-a4dc-4647-aa14-8e799299f256 https://share.transistor.fm/s/904e53b9 In this episode, James and Lisa return after a few months break to kick off a new season! They take us on a journey through the whirlwind of life changes they’ve faced, from becoming "empty nesters" to James' major career shift and Lisa’s experience caring for her mother. Together, they unpack how they navigated this season of transitions, challenges, and blessings while fighting to maintain a strong connection in their marriage.


Key Takeaways: 

1. Major Life Transitions: James shares about stepping out of 30 years of vocational ministry to launch a new tech company. Lisa reflects on how they both approached this significant career shift, even as they anticipated becoming empty nesters.  

2. Embracing Unexpected Changes: Just as they were settling into their new season, Lisa’s mother moved in with them due to a diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia. The couple opens up about how this shift in their daily lives impacted their marriage and family dynamics.  

3. Fighting for Connection: Despite the disruptions, they discuss how they stayed intentional about prioritizing each other, reclaiming moments of connection, and ensuring their relationship remained a priority amidst caregiving responsibilities.  

4. The Importance of Community: They explore the vital role community played during this season, both in providing support and in the emotional challenges of feeling isolated.  

5. Lessons Learned: From God’s provision to the power of community and being intentional about nurturing their marriage, James and Lisa share the key lessons they’ve learned through these past months.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- The Collective


Next Episode Teaser: 

Join James and Lisa next time as they teach the concept of "liminality." If you’re wondering what that means and how it applies to marriage, don’t miss the upcoming episode where they unpack this intriguing idea!


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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa return after a few months break to kick off a new season! They take us on a journey through the whirlwind of life changes they’ve faced, from becoming "empty nesters" to James' major career shift and Lisa’s experience caring for her mother. Together, they unpack how they navigated this season of transitions, challenges, and blessings while fighting to maintain a strong connection in their marriage.


Key Takeaways: 

1. Major Life Transitions: James shares about stepping out of 30 years of vocational ministry to launch a new tech company. Lisa reflects on how they both approached this significant career shift, even as they anticipated becoming empty nesters.  

2. Embracing Unexpected Changes: Just as they were settling into their new season, Lisa’s mother moved in with them due to a diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia. The couple opens up about how this shift in their daily lives impacted their marriage and family dynamics.  

3. Fighting for Connection: Despite the disruptions, they discuss how they stayed intentional about prioritizing each other, reclaiming moments of connection, and ensuring their relationship remained a priority amidst caregiving responsibilities.  

4. The Importance of Community: They explore the vital role community played during this season, both in providing support and in the emotional challenges of feeling isolated.  

5. Lessons Learned: From God’s provision to the power of community and being intentional about nurturing their marriage, James and Lisa share the key lessons they’ve learned through these past months.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- The Collective


Next Episode Teaser: 

Join James and Lisa next time as they teach the concept of "liminality." If you’re wondering what that means and how it applies to marriage, don’t miss the upcoming episode where they unpack this intriguing idea!


Connect with Us:  

- Instagram: @artofspousing  

- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

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Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!


]]> Mon, 14 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1543 In this episode, James and Lisa return after a few months break to kick off a new season! They take us on a journey through the whirlwind of life changes they’ve faced, from becoming "empty nesters" to James' major career shift and Lisa’s experience caring for her mother. Together, they unpack how they navigated this season of transitions, challenges, and blessings while fighting to maintain a strong connection in their marriage.


Key Takeaways: 

1. Major Life Transitions: James shares about stepping out of 30 years of vocational ministry to launch a new tech company. Lisa reflects on how they both approached this significant career shift, even as they anticipated becoming empty nesters.  

2. Embracing Unexpected Changes: Just as they were settling into their new season, Lisa’s mother moved in with them due to a diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia. The couple opens up about how this shift in their daily lives impacted their marriage and family dynamics.  

3. Fighting for Connection: Despite the disruptions, they discuss how they stayed intentional about prioritizing each other, reclaiming moments of connection, and ensuring their relationship remained a priority amidst caregiving responsibilities.  

4. The Importance of Community: They explore the vital role community played during this season, both in providing support and in the emotional challenges of feeling isolated.  

5. Lessons Learned: From God’s provision to the power of community and being intentional about nurturing their marriage, James and Lisa share the key lessons they’ve learned through these past months.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- The Collective


Next Episode Teaser: 

Join James and Lisa next time as they teach the concept of "liminality." If you’re wondering what that means and how it applies to marriage, don’t miss the upcoming episode where they unpack this intriguing idea!


Connect with Us:  

- Instagram: @artofspousing  

- Website: www.artofspousing.com 

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Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!


]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Christmas Traditions and Memories 4 4 56 56 Christmas Traditions and Memories full 780a0af8-37cd-4408-bb5c-218ff53a376c https://share.transistor.fm/s/2f3161d3 Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast!  As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special.

We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our  Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions.

You'll hear:

- Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box.
- Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition.
- Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning.
- Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began.
- Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations.
- Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration.
- Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering.
- Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas.


We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season.

From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes, and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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]]> Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast!  As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special.

We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our  Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions.

You'll hear:

- Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box.
- Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition.
- Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning.
- Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began.
- Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations.
- Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration.
- Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering.
- Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas.


We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season.

From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes, and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 25 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1166 Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast!  As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special.

We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our  Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions.

You'll hear:

- Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box.
- Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition.
- Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning.
- Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began.
- Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations.
- Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration.
- Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering.
- Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas.


We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season.

From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes, and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Navigating the Knots of Blended Family Life with Terry and Carol Moss 4 4 55 55 Navigating the Knots of Blended Family Life with Terry and Carol Moss full 1b314fe4-2f3f-49bf-9b95-5014dc2ef6d3 https://share.transistor.fm/s/2bda1cb0 In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace.

Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable.

Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
- In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The Garden

For more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit:
- URL: One Flesh Ministries
- IG: @onefleshministries
- FB: OneFleshMinistries


Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Other Resources:
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


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]]> In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace.

Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable.

Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
- In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The Garden

For more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit:
- URL: One Flesh Ministries
- IG: @onefleshministries
- FB: OneFleshMinistries


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]]> Mon, 18 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1949 In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace.

Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable.

Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
- SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
- In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The Garden

For more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit:
- URL: One Flesh Ministries
- IG: @onefleshministries
- FB: OneFleshMinistries


Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No A Little Q&A Session 4 4 54 54 A Little Q&A Session full f9e98ac1-cfc1-4134-b3f7-4632ae49c23f https://share.transistor.fm/s/a73e2189 In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions.

They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life.

Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship.

Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity.

The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members.

Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices.

The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace

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]]> In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions.

They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life.

Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship.

Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity.

The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members.

Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices.

The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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]]> Mon, 04 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1882 In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions.

They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life.

Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship.

Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity.

The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members.

Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices.

The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How the Act Agape App Can Deepen Your Connection with Dr. Scott Symington 4 4 53 53 How the Act Agape App Can Deepen Your Connection with Dr. Scott Symington full e2c5e06d-1df6-418c-821c-876b37902a35 https://share.transistor.fm/s/f4fab287 Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment.  Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


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Dr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymington

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]]> Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment.  Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


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Dr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymington

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]]> Mon, 20 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1699 Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment.  Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


Connect with Guests:
Website: actagape.com
Dr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymington

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Jeremy & Kourtney Roseberry - Courageous Faith: Finding Strength in the Face of Adversity 4 4 52 52 Jeremy & Kourtney Roseberry - Courageous Faith: Finding Strength in the Face of Adversity full 82ef2b48-4c89-4866-a626-84bfa63f4286 https://share.transistor.fm/s/a9f3c5d1 Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


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Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremy
Kourtney IG: @kourtney.roseberry

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]]> Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


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Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremy
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]]> Mon, 06 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2195 Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


Connect with Guests:
Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremy
Kourtney IG: @kourtney.roseberry

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Humility 4 4 51 51 Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Humility full 407e99d7-2e7b-4e6f-968d-64a2e2ff9e5b https://share.transistor.fm/s/7dc6c6c4 In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen!

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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]]> In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen!

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Mon, 16 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1596 In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen!

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Marriage on Mission: Prioritizing Love, Parenting, and Sacrifice 4 4 50 50 Marriage on Mission: Prioritizing Love, Parenting, and Sacrifice full 0148e6a7-6430-43ee-8940-c1dc338e509b https://share.transistor.fm/s/608d2ba8 In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage.

Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children.

They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

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Cole IG: @colejbr
Jasmine IG: @karissabr

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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage.

Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children.

They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

Connect with Guests:
Cole IG: @colejbr
Jasmine IG: @karissabr

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Mon, 02 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2281 In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage.

Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children.

They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship.

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)
Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

Connect with Guests:
Cole IG: @colejbr
Jasmine IG: @karissabr

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Trust Builders & Busters in a Marriage Relationship 4 4 49 49 Trust Builders & Busters in a Marriage Relationship full 80e15b84-7577-4d08-a3ff-d8c0871a9ee7 https://share.transistor.fm/s/b8a626dd In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships.  The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships.

Resources:
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Hope Ride For Freedom
Sponsor James for Hope Ride '24
Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery.

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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]]> In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships.  The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
Hope Ride For Freedom
Sponsor James for Hope Ride '24
Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery.

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

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]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1656 In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships.  The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
Hope Ride For Freedom
Sponsor James for Hope Ride '24
Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery.

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes mentioned:
From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham
Shifting Gears for Communication
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:

Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham 4 4 48 48 From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham full 40802edd-94f2-4d27-b74c-60dab833d80c https://share.transistor.fm/s/9dae1f06 In this compelling episode, we explore the powerful impact of the past on our present and future. We dive deep into a conversation about the destructive force of pornography on marriages and relationships, guided by their insightful guests Travis and Adelle Graham of The Noble Marriage.


Topics discussed include the journey of healing from infidelity, the importance of personal responsibility, the process of forgiveness, rebuilding trust, establishing boundaries, and the role of God in filling emotional voids. 


Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to navigate the complexities of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find healing in their own relationships. The episode also highlights practical tools and resources, including an online community and a forthcoming book, to support individuals on their journey to wholeness. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation that offers hope and healing to struggling couples.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Walking Through Betrayal Course (75% discount with code "artofspousing")


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

The Noble Marriage Resources:
Website: thenoblemarriage.com
IG: @thenoblemarriage
FB: thenoblemarriage
YT: thenoblemarriage

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> In this compelling episode, we explore the powerful impact of the past on our present and future. We dive deep into a conversation about the destructive force of pornography on marriages and relationships, guided by their insightful guests Travis and Adelle Graham of The Noble Marriage.


Topics discussed include the journey of healing from infidelity, the importance of personal responsibility, the process of forgiveness, rebuilding trust, establishing boundaries, and the role of God in filling emotional voids. 


Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to navigate the complexities of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find healing in their own relationships. The episode also highlights practical tools and resources, including an online community and a forthcoming book, to support individuals on their journey to wholeness. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation that offers hope and healing to struggling couples.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Walking Through Betrayal Course (75% discount with code "artofspousing")


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

The Noble Marriage Resources:
Website: thenoblemarriage.com
IG: @thenoblemarriage
FB: thenoblemarriage
YT: thenoblemarriage

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 04 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2078 In this compelling episode, we explore the powerful impact of the past on our present and future. We dive deep into a conversation about the destructive force of pornography on marriages and relationships, guided by their insightful guests Travis and Adelle Graham of The Noble Marriage.


Topics discussed include the journey of healing from infidelity, the importance of personal responsibility, the process of forgiveness, rebuilding trust, establishing boundaries, and the role of God in filling emotional voids. 


Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to navigate the complexities of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find healing in their own relationships. The episode also highlights practical tools and resources, including an online community and a forthcoming book, to support individuals on their journey to wholeness. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation that offers hope and healing to struggling couples.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Walking Through Betrayal Course (75% discount with code "artofspousing")


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

The Noble Marriage Resources:
Website: thenoblemarriage.com
IG: @thenoblemarriage
FB: thenoblemarriage
YT: thenoblemarriage

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No 10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse! 4 4 47 47 10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse! full 614f5574-a952-46f8-85e5-a26c9f4069b5 https://share.transistor.fm/s/6cbcc95c In this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast, hosts James and Lisa dive into the topic of misunderstandings in marriage and provide practical tips to strengthen communication and prevent tensions. They highlight that misunderstandings are normal and even healthy in a relationship, and emphasize the importance of addressing and discussing them. The hosts explore different types of misunderstandings, such as when the speaker is not aware or the listener does not understand. They discuss the responsibility of both spouses as speakers and listeners, and provide ten ways to avoid misunderstandings, including listening to understand, using I statements, speaking calmly and clearly, and avoiding blame, complain, or defend. They also touch on the significance of body language, shared calendars, and practicing patience. The episode concludes with the powerful advice of praying together to maintain unity. Don't miss the next episode featuring Travis and Adele Graham, who will share their story about overcoming infidelity and the impact of pornography in a marriage.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!


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]]> In this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast, hosts James and Lisa dive into the topic of misunderstandings in marriage and provide practical tips to strengthen communication and prevent tensions. They highlight that misunderstandings are normal and even healthy in a relationship, and emphasize the importance of addressing and discussing them. The hosts explore different types of misunderstandings, such as when the speaker is not aware or the listener does not understand. They discuss the responsibility of both spouses as speakers and listeners, and provide ten ways to avoid misunderstandings, including listening to understand, using I statements, speaking calmly and clearly, and avoiding blame, complain, or defend. They also touch on the significance of body language, shared calendars, and practicing patience. The episode concludes with the powerful advice of praying together to maintain unity. Don't miss the next episode featuring Travis and Adele Graham, who will share their story about overcoming infidelity and the impact of pornography in a marriage.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!


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]]> Mon, 21 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1320 In this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast, hosts James and Lisa dive into the topic of misunderstandings in marriage and provide practical tips to strengthen communication and prevent tensions. They highlight that misunderstandings are normal and even healthy in a relationship, and emphasize the importance of addressing and discussing them. The hosts explore different types of misunderstandings, such as when the speaker is not aware or the listener does not understand. They discuss the responsibility of both spouses as speakers and listeners, and provide ten ways to avoid misunderstandings, including listening to understand, using I statements, speaking calmly and clearly, and avoiding blame, complain, or defend. They also touch on the significance of body language, shared calendars, and practicing patience. The episode concludes with the powerful advice of praying together to maintain unity. Don't miss the next episode featuring Travis and Adele Graham, who will share their story about overcoming infidelity and the impact of pornography in a marriage.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates
Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Greg & Julie Gorman: Tools for Couplepreneurs 4 4 46 46 Greg & Julie Gorman: Tools for Couplepreneurs full 389758de-e21c-4ed7-8d01-52e1bf55ae4d https://share.transistor.fm/s/48aae2f8 In this episode of the podcast, James and Lisa talk with guests, Greg and Julie Gorman, founders of Married for a Purpose. The Gormans share their recent trip to Africa and the impact they had on couples there. They discuss the challenges and benefits of working together as a couple and the importance of setting boundaries. They also provide recommendations and advice on navigating tough decisions as a couple. The conversation highlights the need for unity, good communication, and finding common ground. They mention resources such as the Marriage Reboot, the Couplepreneur video curriculum, and the Peacemaker tool. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize one's marriage and seek growth together. Listeners are encouraged to check out the Gormans' resources and share the episode with others. In the next episode, James and Lisa will discuss communication and how to avoid misunderstandings in relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

COUPLEPRENEUR


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman
Greg and Julie Gorman

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> In this episode of the podcast, James and Lisa talk with guests, Greg and Julie Gorman, founders of Married for a Purpose. The Gormans share their recent trip to Africa and the impact they had on couples there. They discuss the challenges and benefits of working together as a couple and the importance of setting boundaries. They also provide recommendations and advice on navigating tough decisions as a couple. The conversation highlights the need for unity, good communication, and finding common ground. They mention resources such as the Marriage Reboot, the Couplepreneur video curriculum, and the Peacemaker tool. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize one's marriage and seek growth together. Listeners are encouraged to check out the Gormans' resources and share the episode with others. In the next episode, James and Lisa will discuss communication and how to avoid misunderstandings in relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

COUPLEPRENEUR


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman
Greg and Julie Gorman

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2068 In this episode of the podcast, James and Lisa talk with guests, Greg and Julie Gorman, founders of Married for a Purpose. The Gormans share their recent trip to Africa and the impact they had on couples there. They discuss the challenges and benefits of working together as a couple and the importance of setting boundaries. They also provide recommendations and advice on navigating tough decisions as a couple. The conversation highlights the need for unity, good communication, and finding common ground. They mention resources such as the Marriage Reboot, the Couplepreneur video curriculum, and the Peacemaker tool. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize one's marriage and seek growth together. Listeners are encouraged to check out the Gormans' resources and share the episode with others. In the next episode, James and Lisa will discuss communication and how to avoid misunderstandings in relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

COUPLEPRENEUR


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman
Greg and Julie Gorman

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Season Four Preview 4 4 45 45 Season Four Preview full 20ded086-c8f7-44be-892e-c9073d0c9e35 https://share.transistor.fm/s/b08154af Welcome to the preview episode of Season 4 of the "Art of Spousing" podcast. In this 19-minute teaser, your hosts James and Lisa give you a sneak peek into the season ahead.

James and Lisa highlight the various topics that will be covered and guests who will appear throughout Season 4, giving listeners a taste of what's to come. This season promises a range of perspectives and fresh insights on marriage, relationships, and the art of successful spousing.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!


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]]> Welcome to the preview episode of Season 4 of the "Art of Spousing" podcast. In this 19-minute teaser, your hosts James and Lisa give you a sneak peek into the season ahead.

James and Lisa highlight the various topics that will be covered and guests who will appear throughout Season 4, giving listeners a taste of what's to come. This season promises a range of perspectives and fresh insights on marriage, relationships, and the art of successful spousing.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
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Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!


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]]> Mon, 07 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1111 Welcome to the preview episode of Season 4 of the "Art of Spousing" podcast. In this 19-minute teaser, your hosts James and Lisa give you a sneak peek into the season ahead.

James and Lisa highlight the various topics that will be covered and guests who will appear throughout Season 4, giving listeners a taste of what's to come. This season promises a range of perspectives and fresh insights on marriage, relationships, and the art of successful spousing.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right.

Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing!


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace 3 3 44 44 Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace full 54b0f78c-5a2e-42ad-a27e-09706aefee22 https://share.transistor.fm/s/49f319d6 Welcome to the Art of Spousing Podcast! We're thrilled to have you here as we dive into today's topic: in-laws, or as we like to call them, "in-loves." This is a significant aspect of marriage that requires careful navigation and setting boundaries.

In this episode, we'll share practical strategies to strengthen your relationship with your in-laws and create a harmonious family dynamic. We believe that by implementing these strategies, you can foster a loving and supportive environment that allows your marriage to thrive.

First and foremost, setting boundaries is crucial. We'll guide you through the process of discussing and agreeing on boundaries with your spouse, including visits, holiday plans, and involvement in major decisions. By establishing clear expectations, you can maintain a healthy balance between your in-laws' influence and your own married life.

Navigating relationships with in-laws can sometimes be challenging, but patience and understanding are key. We'll share insights on practicing empathy and seeing things from their perspective. By approaching these relationships with love and respect, you can build a strong foundation for lasting connections.

We'll also discuss the importance of presenting a united front with your spouse when dealing with in-law issues. Together, you'll learn effective communication strategies for addressing concerns and finding common ground. We'll provide practical tips for maintaining a positive outlook and appreciating the unique contributions your in-laws bring to your life.

Throughout this episode, we'll emphasize the significance of seeking God's guidance in your relationship with your in-laws. We'll explore the power of prayer, wisdom, and forgiveness as essential components of building healthy and thriving connections.

Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast. If you find this content valuable, please share it with others who may benefit from it. Don't forget to rate and review our podcast to help us reach more listeners like you. Stay connected and continue nurturing your marriage to new heights. Until next time!

Resources:
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Support the Podcast:
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> Welcome to the Art of Spousing Podcast! We're thrilled to have you here as we dive into today's topic: in-laws, or as we like to call them, "in-loves." This is a significant aspect of marriage that requires careful navigation and setting boundaries.

In this episode, we'll share practical strategies to strengthen your relationship with your in-laws and create a harmonious family dynamic. We believe that by implementing these strategies, you can foster a loving and supportive environment that allows your marriage to thrive.

First and foremost, setting boundaries is crucial. We'll guide you through the process of discussing and agreeing on boundaries with your spouse, including visits, holiday plans, and involvement in major decisions. By establishing clear expectations, you can maintain a healthy balance between your in-laws' influence and your own married life.

Navigating relationships with in-laws can sometimes be challenging, but patience and understanding are key. We'll share insights on practicing empathy and seeing things from their perspective. By approaching these relationships with love and respect, you can build a strong foundation for lasting connections.

We'll also discuss the importance of presenting a united front with your spouse when dealing with in-law issues. Together, you'll learn effective communication strategies for addressing concerns and finding common ground. We'll provide practical tips for maintaining a positive outlook and appreciating the unique contributions your in-laws bring to your life.

Throughout this episode, we'll emphasize the significance of seeking God's guidance in your relationship with your in-laws. We'll explore the power of prayer, wisdom, and forgiveness as essential components of building healthy and thriving connections.

Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast. If you find this content valuable, please share it with others who may benefit from it. Don't forget to rate and review our podcast to help us reach more listeners like you. Stay connected and continue nurturing your marriage to new heights. Until next time!

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Support the Podcast:
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> Mon, 15 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1381 Welcome to the Art of Spousing Podcast! We're thrilled to have you here as we dive into today's topic: in-laws, or as we like to call them, "in-loves." This is a significant aspect of marriage that requires careful navigation and setting boundaries.

In this episode, we'll share practical strategies to strengthen your relationship with your in-laws and create a harmonious family dynamic. We believe that by implementing these strategies, you can foster a loving and supportive environment that allows your marriage to thrive.

First and foremost, setting boundaries is crucial. We'll guide you through the process of discussing and agreeing on boundaries with your spouse, including visits, holiday plans, and involvement in major decisions. By establishing clear expectations, you can maintain a healthy balance between your in-laws' influence and your own married life.

Navigating relationships with in-laws can sometimes be challenging, but patience and understanding are key. We'll share insights on practicing empathy and seeing things from their perspective. By approaching these relationships with love and respect, you can build a strong foundation for lasting connections.

We'll also discuss the importance of presenting a united front with your spouse when dealing with in-law issues. Together, you'll learn effective communication strategies for addressing concerns and finding common ground. We'll provide practical tips for maintaining a positive outlook and appreciating the unique contributions your in-laws bring to your life.

Throughout this episode, we'll emphasize the significance of seeking God's guidance in your relationship with your in-laws. We'll explore the power of prayer, wisdom, and forgiveness as essential components of building healthy and thriving connections.

Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast. If you find this content valuable, please share it with others who may benefit from it. Don't forget to rate and review our podcast to help us reach more listeners like you. Stay connected and continue nurturing your marriage to new heights. Until next time!

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> In-Laws, Relationships, Marriage, Boundaries, Family Dynamics, Navigating Challenges, Building Strong Bonds, Harmonious Relationships, Communication, Appreciation and Respect No The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting 3 3 43 43 The Journey to Independence: Navigating the Four Stages of Parenting full b49f11be-535b-4f31-8265-8cc99953efeb https://share.transistor.fm/s/1906b0c8 As a parent, we strive to raise our children to be independent individuals. That's why we were intrigued when we learned about the Journey to Independence: Four Stages of Parenting. In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, we discuss the different stages of parenting and how parents can navigate each stage successfully. The first stage is the caretaker stage, where parents protect and provide for their children. The second stage is the cop stage, where parents must teach and discipline their children, and the third stage is the coach stage, where parents guide and encourage their children. The final stage is the consultant stage, where parents provide friendship, counsel, and support. We emphasized the importance of not staying in one stage too long and moving to the next stage at the right time. We believe this episode will help parents raise their children to become independent individuals and reduce some of the tension that happens in marriage as a result of raising kids.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Discover the four crucial stages of parenting and their role in your child's development.
  • Master tips for nurturing independence in your children throughout each phase.
  • Embrace your parenting phase and effectively adapt to challenges, setting an example as a role model.

Resources:
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Support the Podcast:
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Navigating Three Types of Tension in Marriage
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> As a parent, we strive to raise our children to be independent individuals. That's why we were intrigued when we learned about the Journey to Independence: Four Stages of Parenting. In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, we discuss the different stages of parenting and how parents can navigate each stage successfully. The first stage is the caretaker stage, where parents protect and provide for their children. The second stage is the cop stage, where parents must teach and discipline their children, and the third stage is the coach stage, where parents guide and encourage their children. The final stage is the consultant stage, where parents provide friendship, counsel, and support. We emphasized the importance of not staying in one stage too long and moving to the next stage at the right time. We believe this episode will help parents raise their children to become independent individuals and reduce some of the tension that happens in marriage as a result of raising kids.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Discover the four crucial stages of parenting and their role in your child's development.
  • Master tips for nurturing independence in your children throughout each phase.
  • Embrace your parenting phase and effectively adapt to challenges, setting an example as a role model.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Navigating Three Types of Tension in Marriage
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 08 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1884 As a parent, we strive to raise our children to be independent individuals. That's why we were intrigued when we learned about the Journey to Independence: Four Stages of Parenting. In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, we discuss the different stages of parenting and how parents can navigate each stage successfully. The first stage is the caretaker stage, where parents protect and provide for their children. The second stage is the cop stage, where parents must teach and discipline their children, and the third stage is the coach stage, where parents guide and encourage their children. The final stage is the consultant stage, where parents provide friendship, counsel, and support. We emphasized the importance of not staying in one stage too long and moving to the next stage at the right time. We believe this episode will help parents raise their children to become independent individuals and reduce some of the tension that happens in marriage as a result of raising kids.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Discover the four crucial stages of parenting and their role in your child's development.
  • Master tips for nurturing independence in your children throughout each phase.
  • Embrace your parenting phase and effectively adapt to challenges, setting an example as a role model.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Navigating Three Types of Tension in Marriage
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Unlocking the Secret Sauce of Lasting Marriages with 3 Key Ingredients 3 3 42 42 Unlocking the Secret Sauce of Lasting Marriages with 3 Key Ingredients full 020ab41c-abf8-4ea9-bb3f-1fb804e0775e https://share.transistor.fm/s/5a32788a In this episode, James and Lisa talk about their experiences with commitment - from when they were in college to now - and share practical tools that listeners can use to transform their relationships from mundane to masterpiece level. They dive into the three types of commitment, first introduced by Penn. State University Sociology Professor Dr. Micheal Johnson; moral, structural, and personal, and explore how they relate to building a vibrant and long-lasting marriage. Through humorous anecdotes and relatable personal stories, the hosts provide insight into the ups and downs of relationships and offer hope for every couple out there. If you're looking for ways to strengthen your commitment, reignite the spark in your relationship, and have fun doing it, tune in to this podcast episode.


Topics Discussed:


- The importance of commitment in marriage

- The three specific dimensions or types of commitment: moral, structural, and personal

- How each dimension of commitment is necessary to build a successful and thriving marriage

- Practical tools and activities for strengthening commitment in relationships

- The hosts' Marriage Reboot Retreat and how it can help couples reconnect and recharge their relationship

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa talk about their experiences with commitment - from when they were in college to now - and share practical tools that listeners can use to transform their relationships from mundane to masterpiece level. They dive into the three types of commitment, first introduced by Penn. State University Sociology Professor Dr. Micheal Johnson; moral, structural, and personal, and explore how they relate to building a vibrant and long-lasting marriage. Through humorous anecdotes and relatable personal stories, the hosts provide insight into the ups and downs of relationships and offer hope for every couple out there. If you're looking for ways to strengthen your commitment, reignite the spark in your relationship, and have fun doing it, tune in to this podcast episode.


Topics Discussed:


- The importance of commitment in marriage

- The three specific dimensions or types of commitment: moral, structural, and personal

- How each dimension of commitment is necessary to build a successful and thriving marriage

- Practical tools and activities for strengthening commitment in relationships

- The hosts' Marriage Reboot Retreat and how it can help couples reconnect and recharge their relationship

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 01 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1067 In this episode, James and Lisa talk about their experiences with commitment - from when they were in college to now - and share practical tools that listeners can use to transform their relationships from mundane to masterpiece level. They dive into the three types of commitment, first introduced by Penn. State University Sociology Professor Dr. Micheal Johnson; moral, structural, and personal, and explore how they relate to building a vibrant and long-lasting marriage. Through humorous anecdotes and relatable personal stories, the hosts provide insight into the ups and downs of relationships and offer hope for every couple out there. If you're looking for ways to strengthen your commitment, reignite the spark in your relationship, and have fun doing it, tune in to this podcast episode.


Topics Discussed:


- The importance of commitment in marriage

- The three specific dimensions or types of commitment: moral, structural, and personal

- How each dimension of commitment is necessary to build a successful and thriving marriage

- Practical tools and activities for strengthening commitment in relationships

- The hosts' Marriage Reboot Retreat and how it can help couples reconnect and recharge their relationship

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Lost Art of Gratitude in Marriage: An Essential Tool for a Thriving Relationship 3 3 41 41 The Lost Art of Gratitude in Marriage: An Essential Tool for a Thriving Relationship full 2d8bc6dd-06e9-4e76-96c7-32b290edeacd https://share.transistor.fm/s/d863345a In today’s episode of the Artist Spousing podcast, we’re exploring the profound impact that practicing gratitude can have on marriage and, more specifically, on sexual intimacy. Studies have shown that gratitude is essential in any relationship, and toxic relationships are often void of gratitude. Through experiencing moments of thankfulness, couples can create a cycle of giving and receiving which deepens their emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. We’ll also share some practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage, from showing interest in your partner to expressing appreciation for even the smallest victories. Join us for today’s episode to learn about the benefits of practicing gratitude and how to strengthen your own gratitude muscles. 


Topics discussed: 


- The relationship between gratitude and sexual intimacy 

- The impact of gratitude on marriage and toxic relationships 

- The benefits of practicing gratitude in a committed relationship 

- Practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage 

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> In today’s episode of the Artist Spousing podcast, we’re exploring the profound impact that practicing gratitude can have on marriage and, more specifically, on sexual intimacy. Studies have shown that gratitude is essential in any relationship, and toxic relationships are often void of gratitude. Through experiencing moments of thankfulness, couples can create a cycle of giving and receiving which deepens their emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. We’ll also share some practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage, from showing interest in your partner to expressing appreciation for even the smallest victories. Join us for today’s episode to learn about the benefits of practicing gratitude and how to strengthen your own gratitude muscles. 


Topics discussed: 


- The relationship between gratitude and sexual intimacy 

- The impact of gratitude on marriage and toxic relationships 

- The benefits of practicing gratitude in a committed relationship 

- Practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage 

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> Mon, 24 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1145 In today’s episode of the Artist Spousing podcast, we’re exploring the profound impact that practicing gratitude can have on marriage and, more specifically, on sexual intimacy. Studies have shown that gratitude is essential in any relationship, and toxic relationships are often void of gratitude. Through experiencing moments of thankfulness, couples can create a cycle of giving and receiving which deepens their emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. We’ll also share some practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage, from showing interest in your partner to expressing appreciation for even the smallest victories. Join us for today’s episode to learn about the benefits of practicing gratitude and how to strengthen your own gratitude muscles. 


Topics discussed: 


- The relationship between gratitude and sexual intimacy 

- The impact of gratitude on marriage and toxic relationships 

- The benefits of practicing gratitude in a committed relationship 

- Practical ways to increase gratitude in a marriage 

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No More Than Your Number with Beth and Jeff McCord 3 3 40 40 More Than Your Number with Beth and Jeff McCord full 1a3aa45b-766a-488b-88e1-b67e84c00778 https://share.transistor.fm/s/375706a0 Are you tired of falling into the same old patterns in your marriage? Do you want to deepen your connection with your spouse? Look no further than this episode of Art of Spousing. Lisa and James speak with Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach and authors of two books focused on using the Enneagram to create stronger, gospel-centered marriages. In this episode, they delve into the Enneagram types of James and Lisa and discuss the tensions that can arise in relationships. They highlight the importance of communicating intentionally and asking good questions to truly know your partner. Plus, they offer insights on how to use the Enneagram to lead and manage the different parts of yourself and navigate conflict with greater empathy and understanding. Don't miss out on this valuable tool for improving your marriage.

"All parts of us need leadership and can show up in healthy or unhealthy ways. We can use all of these parts of ourselves to live out our sense of calling." - Jeff McCord

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Unlock the potential of Enneagram principles to enhance communication and empathy within your marriage.
  • Pinpoint recurring patterns that ignite conflict and initiate personal growth within your relationship.
  • Expertly navigate diverse Enneagram types to maintain harmony and balance in your partnership.
  • Apply an Enneagram Internal Profile (EIP) for proactive conflict resolution and long-lasting marital satisfaction.
  • Discover valuable resources for delving deeper into the power of Enneagram principles in relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Enneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord

Connect with Guest:
Websites: yourenneagramcoach.com
IG: @yourenneagramcoach
FB: YourEnneagramCoach

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Are you tired of falling into the same old patterns in your marriage? Do you want to deepen your connection with your spouse? Look no further than this episode of Art of Spousing. Lisa and James speak with Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach and authors of two books focused on using the Enneagram to create stronger, gospel-centered marriages. In this episode, they delve into the Enneagram types of James and Lisa and discuss the tensions that can arise in relationships. They highlight the importance of communicating intentionally and asking good questions to truly know your partner. Plus, they offer insights on how to use the Enneagram to lead and manage the different parts of yourself and navigate conflict with greater empathy and understanding. Don't miss out on this valuable tool for improving your marriage.

"All parts of us need leadership and can show up in healthy or unhealthy ways. We can use all of these parts of ourselves to live out our sense of calling." - Jeff McCord

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Unlock the potential of Enneagram principles to enhance communication and empathy within your marriage.
  • Pinpoint recurring patterns that ignite conflict and initiate personal growth within your relationship.
  • Expertly navigate diverse Enneagram types to maintain harmony and balance in your partnership.
  • Apply an Enneagram Internal Profile (EIP) for proactive conflict resolution and long-lasting marital satisfaction.
  • Discover valuable resources for delving deeper into the power of Enneagram principles in relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Enneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord

Connect with Guest:
Websites: yourenneagramcoach.com
IG: @yourenneagramcoach
FB: YourEnneagramCoach

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 17 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1914 Are you tired of falling into the same old patterns in your marriage? Do you want to deepen your connection with your spouse? Look no further than this episode of Art of Spousing. Lisa and James speak with Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach and authors of two books focused on using the Enneagram to create stronger, gospel-centered marriages. In this episode, they delve into the Enneagram types of James and Lisa and discuss the tensions that can arise in relationships. They highlight the importance of communicating intentionally and asking good questions to truly know your partner. Plus, they offer insights on how to use the Enneagram to lead and manage the different parts of yourself and navigate conflict with greater empathy and understanding. Don't miss out on this valuable tool for improving your marriage.

"All parts of us need leadership and can show up in healthy or unhealthy ways. We can use all of these parts of ourselves to live out our sense of calling." - Jeff McCord

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Unlock the potential of Enneagram principles to enhance communication and empathy within your marriage.
  • Pinpoint recurring patterns that ignite conflict and initiate personal growth within your relationship.
  • Expertly navigate diverse Enneagram types to maintain harmony and balance in your partnership.
  • Apply an Enneagram Internal Profile (EIP) for proactive conflict resolution and long-lasting marital satisfaction.
  • Discover valuable resources for delving deeper into the power of Enneagram principles in relationships.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Enneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord

Connect with Guest:
Websites: yourenneagramcoach.com
IG: @yourenneagramcoach
FB: YourEnneagramCoach

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Enneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord 3 3 39 39 Enneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord full 768d7080-c744-4d52-a564-ee44069636ad https://share.transistor.fm/s/9e3a1aab Despite their busy lives, Beth and Jeff McCord never could have imagined that the Enneagram would lead them on a journey of profound discovery and transformation - not just in their own marriage and parenting, but in the lives of their Christian community as well. What was this unexpected twist and how did it bring healing and wholeness to their relationship?

In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Discover the power of Enneagram as an instrument to transform marriages. 2. Uncover ways to fuse Enneagram insights with Christian perspectives for a holistic approach. 3. Harness your unique attributes for more effective couple communication. 4. Delve into the complexities of Enneagram-based marriage dynamics and how to better navigate them. 5. Root your marriage improvement journey in faith and self-awareness.

These personality tools actually name something of our glory, of our God-given glory, about how we can uniquely reflect something of who God is for us. - Jeff McCord


Our special guests are Jeff and Beth McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, an organization dedicated to helping individuals and couples understand the Enneagram and use it to transform their lives. They are also the authors of two books, "Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage" and "More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World." With a strong foundation in theology, Jeff and Beth have dedicated their lives to helping couples strengthen their marriages through a Gospel-centered approach to the Enneagram.


The resources mentioned in this episode are:

  • Visit becomingus.com to access the 45 unique Enneagram couple-type courses offered by Jeff and Beth McCord.
  • Schedule a call with James and Lisa Duvall to learn more about their Marriage Reboot retreat at artofspousing.com/marriagecoaching or direct message them on Instagram with the word Call.
  • Read Jeff and Beth McCord's books, Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage and More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World.
  • Follow Your Enneagram Coach on social media to stay updated on their content and resources.
  • Explore the Enneagram from a biblical perspective and use it to deepen your understanding of yourself, your spouse, and your relationship with Christ.
  • Share the Enneagram with friends, family, and the church community to help them better understand themselves and their relationships.
  • Reflect on your Enneagram type and consider how it may affect your marriage and other relationships and how you can use it to align with the Gospel.
  • Look into other resources, such as John Gottman's material on marriage, to gain further insights into maintaining a healthy, Christ-centered relationship.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Me Awareness We Awareness

Connect with Guest:
Websites: yourenneagramcoach.com
IG: @yourenneagramcoach
FB: YourEnneagramCoach

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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]]> Despite their busy lives, Beth and Jeff McCord never could have imagined that the Enneagram would lead them on a journey of profound discovery and transformation - not just in their own marriage and parenting, but in the lives of their Christian community as well. What was this unexpected twist and how did it bring healing and wholeness to their relationship?

In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Discover the power of Enneagram as an instrument to transform marriages. 2. Uncover ways to fuse Enneagram insights with Christian perspectives for a holistic approach. 3. Harness your unique attributes for more effective couple communication. 4. Delve into the complexities of Enneagram-based marriage dynamics and how to better navigate them. 5. Root your marriage improvement journey in faith and self-awareness.

These personality tools actually name something of our glory, of our God-given glory, about how we can uniquely reflect something of who God is for us. - Jeff McCord


Our special guests are Jeff and Beth McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, an organization dedicated to helping individuals and couples understand the Enneagram and use it to transform their lives. They are also the authors of two books, "Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage" and "More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World." With a strong foundation in theology, Jeff and Beth have dedicated their lives to helping couples strengthen their marriages through a Gospel-centered approach to the Enneagram.


The resources mentioned in this episode are:

  • Visit becomingus.com to access the 45 unique Enneagram couple-type courses offered by Jeff and Beth McCord.
  • Schedule a call with James and Lisa Duvall to learn more about their Marriage Reboot retreat at artofspousing.com/marriagecoaching or direct message them on Instagram with the word Call.
  • Read Jeff and Beth McCord's books, Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage and More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World.
  • Follow Your Enneagram Coach on social media to stay updated on their content and resources.
  • Explore the Enneagram from a biblical perspective and use it to deepen your understanding of yourself, your spouse, and your relationship with Christ.
  • Share the Enneagram with friends, family, and the church community to help them better understand themselves and their relationships.
  • Reflect on your Enneagram type and consider how it may affect your marriage and other relationships and how you can use it to align with the Gospel.
  • Look into other resources, such as John Gottman's material on marriage, to gain further insights into maintaining a healthy, Christ-centered relationship.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Me Awareness We Awareness

Connect with Guest:
Websites: yourenneagramcoach.com
IG: @yourenneagramcoach
FB: YourEnneagramCoach

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 10 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1422 Despite their busy lives, Beth and Jeff McCord never could have imagined that the Enneagram would lead them on a journey of profound discovery and transformation - not just in their own marriage and parenting, but in the lives of their Christian community as well. What was this unexpected twist and how did it bring healing and wholeness to their relationship?

In this episode, you will be able to: 1. Discover the power of Enneagram as an instrument to transform marriages. 2. Uncover ways to fuse Enneagram insights with Christian perspectives for a holistic approach. 3. Harness your unique attributes for more effective couple communication. 4. Delve into the complexities of Enneagram-based marriage dynamics and how to better navigate them. 5. Root your marriage improvement journey in faith and self-awareness.

These personality tools actually name something of our glory, of our God-given glory, about how we can uniquely reflect something of who God is for us. - Jeff McCord


Our special guests are Jeff and Beth McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, an organization dedicated to helping individuals and couples understand the Enneagram and use it to transform their lives. They are also the authors of two books, "Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage" and "More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World." With a strong foundation in theology, Jeff and Beth have dedicated their lives to helping couples strengthen their marriages through a Gospel-centered approach to the Enneagram.


The resources mentioned in this episode are:

  • Visit becomingus.com to access the 45 unique Enneagram couple-type courses offered by Jeff and Beth McCord.
  • Schedule a call with James and Lisa Duvall to learn more about their Marriage Reboot retreat at artofspousing.com/marriagecoaching or direct message them on Instagram with the word Call.
  • Read Jeff and Beth McCord's books, Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage and More Than Your Number: A Christ-Centered Enneagram Approach to Becoming Aware of Your Internal World.
  • Follow Your Enneagram Coach on social media to stay updated on their content and resources.
  • Explore the Enneagram from a biblical perspective and use it to deepen your understanding of yourself, your spouse, and your relationship with Christ.
  • Share the Enneagram with friends, family, and the church community to help them better understand themselves and their relationships.
  • Reflect on your Enneagram type and consider how it may affect your marriage and other relationships and how you can use it to align with the Gospel.
  • Look into other resources, such as John Gottman's material on marriage, to gain further insights into maintaining a healthy, Christ-centered relationship.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Me Awareness We Awareness

Connect with Guest:
Websites: yourenneagramcoach.com
IG: @yourenneagramcoach
FB: YourEnneagramCoach

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Secrets of Sex and Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn 3 3 38 38 Secrets of Sex and Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn full 6957286f-20ce-4ead-982c-64649aac0fee https://share.transistor.fm/s/6779e429 In this episode James and Lisa have a conversation with Shaunti Feldhahn, co-author of the book "Secrets of Sex and Marriage." The episode tackles one of the most taboo topics in most relationships - Sex in marriage. Shaunti and her co-author, renowned sex therapist Michael Sytsma, spent three years and $120,000 on a research project involving interviewing over 5,300 people, leading to major surprises and aha moments. They identified the little things that make a big difference in making marriage sex work. The episode reveals how communication is crucial and how making people understand the differences in desire and addressing underlying issues can bring freedom and growth in a relationship. With the book designed to be read together, Shaunti believes that "Secrets of Sex and Marriage" can help couples understand each other better and feel validated.

"Communication is the elephant in the room - the topic we avoid because of its awkwardness. Despite having close friends, we rarely address it with them. It’s the only issue we never speak about, leading to the creation of myths and misunderstandings which guide our actions. If we don’t learn to communicate with our partners, these myths will keep us from true understanding." 


Topics discussed:

- How intimacy in marriage is the least talked-about topic

- Research on the little things that make a big difference in making marriage intimacy work

- Communication gaps and misunderstandings and how they impact intimacy

- Understanding the differences in desire

- Establishing signals or cues for willingness to engage in sexual activity

- The church as a safe place for difficult conversations, and the creation of a curriculum on intimacy in marriage 


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Websites: shaunti.com, secretsofsexandmarriage.com
IG: @shauntifeldhahn
FB: Shaunti Feldhahn

Shaunti's Books:

Shark Tank Episode Mention in Podcast

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]]> In this episode James and Lisa have a conversation with Shaunti Feldhahn, co-author of the book "Secrets of Sex and Marriage." The episode tackles one of the most taboo topics in most relationships - Sex in marriage. Shaunti and her co-author, renowned sex therapist Michael Sytsma, spent three years and $120,000 on a research project involving interviewing over 5,300 people, leading to major surprises and aha moments. They identified the little things that make a big difference in making marriage sex work. The episode reveals how communication is crucial and how making people understand the differences in desire and addressing underlying issues can bring freedom and growth in a relationship. With the book designed to be read together, Shaunti believes that "Secrets of Sex and Marriage" can help couples understand each other better and feel validated.

"Communication is the elephant in the room - the topic we avoid because of its awkwardness. Despite having close friends, we rarely address it with them. It’s the only issue we never speak about, leading to the creation of myths and misunderstandings which guide our actions. If we don’t learn to communicate with our partners, these myths will keep us from true understanding." 


Topics discussed:

- How intimacy in marriage is the least talked-about topic

- Research on the little things that make a big difference in making marriage intimacy work

- Communication gaps and misunderstandings and how they impact intimacy

- Understanding the differences in desire

- Establishing signals or cues for willingness to engage in sexual activity

- The church as a safe place for difficult conversations, and the creation of a curriculum on intimacy in marriage 


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Websites: shaunti.com, secretsofsexandmarriage.com
IG: @shauntifeldhahn
FB: Shaunti Feldhahn

Shaunti's Books:

Shark Tank Episode Mention in Podcast

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 03 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1978 In this episode James and Lisa have a conversation with Shaunti Feldhahn, co-author of the book "Secrets of Sex and Marriage." The episode tackles one of the most taboo topics in most relationships - Sex in marriage. Shaunti and her co-author, renowned sex therapist Michael Sytsma, spent three years and $120,000 on a research project involving interviewing over 5,300 people, leading to major surprises and aha moments. They identified the little things that make a big difference in making marriage sex work. The episode reveals how communication is crucial and how making people understand the differences in desire and addressing underlying issues can bring freedom and growth in a relationship. With the book designed to be read together, Shaunti believes that "Secrets of Sex and Marriage" can help couples understand each other better and feel validated.

"Communication is the elephant in the room - the topic we avoid because of its awkwardness. Despite having close friends, we rarely address it with them. It’s the only issue we never speak about, leading to the creation of myths and misunderstandings which guide our actions. If we don’t learn to communicate with our partners, these myths will keep us from true understanding." 


Topics discussed:

- How intimacy in marriage is the least talked-about topic

- Research on the little things that make a big difference in making marriage intimacy work

- Communication gaps and misunderstandings and how they impact intimacy

- Understanding the differences in desire

- Establishing signals or cues for willingness to engage in sexual activity

- The church as a safe place for difficult conversations, and the creation of a curriculum on intimacy in marriage 


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Websites: shaunti.com, secretsofsexandmarriage.com
IG: @shauntifeldhahn
FB: Shaunti Feldhahn

Shaunti's Books:

Shark Tank Episode Mention in Podcast

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Navigating Three Types of Tension in Marriage 3 3 37 37 Navigating Three Types of Tension in Marriage full 6a0cd1dd-3c0b-4dda-b26f-bd2076cc1d63 https://share.transistor.fm/s/275734ac Are you looking for ways to improve your marriage? If so, then this podcast episode is for you! James and Lisa discovered new truths about their relationship, even after 30 years of marriage. They share a personal experience that led to some realizations in their marriage, believing that their podcast can help you take your marriage from survival mode to thriving. In this episode, they discuss the three types of tension that can create conflict in marriage and offer practical tips on how to navigate them. They emphasize that acknowledging a season of tension can help keep things in perspective, and staying connected with your spouse is crucial in difficult seasons. They even discuss how the power of the Holy Spirit can help us avoid heartache and frustration by speaking correction. Tune in to learn how to address tension in your marriage and gain greater unity.

"Conflict is not the absence of unity. Conflict is the opportunity for greater unity."


Topics Discussed:


- Three types of tension

- Conflict management tools

- Marriage Reboot Retreat

- Situational, seasonal, and systemic tensions

- The power of the Holy Spirit in marriage

- Identifying the root causes of tension

- Check-ins on different dimensions of intimacy

- Conditional clause rules for conflict management


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Are you looking for ways to improve your marriage? If so, then this podcast episode is for you! James and Lisa discovered new truths about their relationship, even after 30 years of marriage. They share a personal experience that led to some realizations in their marriage, believing that their podcast can help you take your marriage from survival mode to thriving. In this episode, they discuss the three types of tension that can create conflict in marriage and offer practical tips on how to navigate them. They emphasize that acknowledging a season of tension can help keep things in perspective, and staying connected with your spouse is crucial in difficult seasons. They even discuss how the power of the Holy Spirit can help us avoid heartache and frustration by speaking correction. Tune in to learn how to address tension in your marriage and gain greater unity.

"Conflict is not the absence of unity. Conflict is the opportunity for greater unity."


Topics Discussed:


- Three types of tension

- Conflict management tools

- Marriage Reboot Retreat

- Situational, seasonal, and systemic tensions

- The power of the Holy Spirit in marriage

- Identifying the root causes of tension

- Check-ins on different dimensions of intimacy

- Conditional clause rules for conflict management


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 27 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1134 Are you looking for ways to improve your marriage? If so, then this podcast episode is for you! James and Lisa discovered new truths about their relationship, even after 30 years of marriage. They share a personal experience that led to some realizations in their marriage, believing that their podcast can help you take your marriage from survival mode to thriving. In this episode, they discuss the three types of tension that can create conflict in marriage and offer practical tips on how to navigate them. They emphasize that acknowledging a season of tension can help keep things in perspective, and staying connected with your spouse is crucial in difficult seasons. They even discuss how the power of the Holy Spirit can help us avoid heartache and frustration by speaking correction. Tune in to learn how to address tension in your marriage and gain greater unity.

"Conflict is not the absence of unity. Conflict is the opportunity for greater unity."


Topics Discussed:


- Three types of tension

- Conflict management tools

- Marriage Reboot Retreat

- Situational, seasonal, and systemic tensions

- The power of the Holy Spirit in marriage

- Identifying the root causes of tension

- Check-ins on different dimensions of intimacy

- Conditional clause rules for conflict management


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Four Choices to a Masterpiece Marriage with Don and Joy Bray 3 3 36 36 Four Choices to a Masterpiece Marriage with Don and Joy Bray full 8864bb9d-b64e-4b16-94f6-f3557796c804 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode-36/ On this week's episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, listeners will hear from Don and Joy Bray, a couple who have been married for 58 years and are considered a godly example of longevity and vibrancy in marriage. Don and Joy share their story with the podcast hosts, discussing the significant choices they have made to create their masterpiece marriage. Listeners will learn how the couple chose to grow and find a lifelong commitment in each other, as well as how they chose to fight fair, take responsibility for their emotions and actions, and learn to appreciate each other's differences. The couple emphasizes the importance of grace, choosing joy, and choosing wonder in daily life. The podcast also features recommendations for finding a mentor, praying together daily, and respecting one another.


Topics Discussed:

- Don and Joy's first date and chemistry

- Four significant choices for a masterpiece marriage: growth, commitment, appreciation, and grace

- Childhood scars and tendencies

- Communication in marriage

- Learning to appreciate each other's differences

- Choosing joy and wonder in life

- Gratitude and generosity

- Parenting and teaching love

- Conflict resolution

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practicing the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> On this week's episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, listeners will hear from Don and Joy Bray, a couple who have been married for 58 years and are considered a godly example of longevity and vibrancy in marriage. Don and Joy share their story with the podcast hosts, discussing the significant choices they have made to create their masterpiece marriage. Listeners will learn how the couple chose to grow and find a lifelong commitment in each other, as well as how they chose to fight fair, take responsibility for their emotions and actions, and learn to appreciate each other's differences. The couple emphasizes the importance of grace, choosing joy, and choosing wonder in daily life. The podcast also features recommendations for finding a mentor, praying together daily, and respecting one another.


Topics Discussed:

- Don and Joy's first date and chemistry

- Four significant choices for a masterpiece marriage: growth, commitment, appreciation, and grace

- Childhood scars and tendencies

- Communication in marriage

- Learning to appreciate each other's differences

- Choosing joy and wonder in life

- Gratitude and generosity

- Parenting and teaching love

- Conflict resolution

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practicing the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 20 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1709 On this week's episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, listeners will hear from Don and Joy Bray, a couple who have been married for 58 years and are considered a godly example of longevity and vibrancy in marriage. Don and Joy share their story with the podcast hosts, discussing the significant choices they have made to create their masterpiece marriage. Listeners will learn how the couple chose to grow and find a lifelong commitment in each other, as well as how they chose to fight fair, take responsibility for their emotions and actions, and learn to appreciate each other's differences. The couple emphasizes the importance of grace, choosing joy, and choosing wonder in daily life. The podcast also features recommendations for finding a mentor, praying together daily, and respecting one another.


Topics Discussed:

- Don and Joy's first date and chemistry

- Four significant choices for a masterpiece marriage: growth, commitment, appreciation, and grace

- Childhood scars and tendencies

- Communication in marriage

- Learning to appreciate each other's differences

- Choosing joy and wonder in life

- Gratitude and generosity

- Parenting and teaching love

- Conflict resolution

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Support the Podcast:
patreon.com/ArtofSpousing

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practicing the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Three Simple Practices to Increase Physical Touch in Your Marriage 3 3 35 35 Three Simple Practices to Increase Physical Touch in Your Marriage full f81931e8-999b-41e3-8ef5-6db86439cdba https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode-35 Are you struggling to connect physically with your partner in your marriage? Do you feel like you're unsure where to start or perhaps lack the confidence to initiate touch? In this episode, hosts Lisa and James discuss the importance of physical touch in a marriage and how it can improve intimacy, reduce stress and anxiety, and strengthen the bond between partners.


They share their personal experiences, including small practices they have implemented in their own marriage such as squeezing hands three times to say "I love you." They also offer practical advice on how to initiate physical touch and the importance of communication and understanding each other's boundaries and preferences.


If you struggle to connect with your partner physically, this episode offers practical tips and encouragement to help you start small and work towards a more intimate and fulfilling marriage.


"Get over yourself and grow yourself!"

Topics Discussed: Resistance to new things, physical touch, marital intimacy, communication, relationship boundaries and preferences, intentional touch, sexual intimacy.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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]]> Are you struggling to connect physically with your partner in your marriage? Do you feel like you're unsure where to start or perhaps lack the confidence to initiate touch? In this episode, hosts Lisa and James discuss the importance of physical touch in a marriage and how it can improve intimacy, reduce stress and anxiety, and strengthen the bond between partners.


They share their personal experiences, including small practices they have implemented in their own marriage such as squeezing hands three times to say "I love you." They also offer practical advice on how to initiate physical touch and the importance of communication and understanding each other's boundaries and preferences.


If you struggle to connect with your partner physically, this episode offers practical tips and encouragement to help you start small and work towards a more intimate and fulfilling marriage.


"Get over yourself and grow yourself!"

Topics Discussed: Resistance to new things, physical touch, marital intimacy, communication, relationship boundaries and preferences, intentional touch, sexual intimacy.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 13 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1216 Are you struggling to connect physically with your partner in your marriage? Do you feel like you're unsure where to start or perhaps lack the confidence to initiate touch? In this episode, hosts Lisa and James discuss the importance of physical touch in a marriage and how it can improve intimacy, reduce stress and anxiety, and strengthen the bond between partners.


They share their personal experiences, including small practices they have implemented in their own marriage such as squeezing hands three times to say "I love you." They also offer practical advice on how to initiate physical touch and the importance of communication and understanding each other's boundaries and preferences.


If you struggle to connect with your partner physically, this episode offers practical tips and encouragement to help you start small and work towards a more intimate and fulfilling marriage.


"Get over yourself and grow yourself!"

Topics Discussed: Resistance to new things, physical touch, marital intimacy, communication, relationship boundaries and preferences, intentional touch, sexual intimacy.

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Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Expedition Marriage with Chris and Jamie Bailey 3 3 34 34 Expedition Marriage with Chris and Jamie Bailey full b0e30410-5313-47af-8477-47e70a133c7c https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode-34/ Chris and Jamie Bailey use their journey of overcoming dysfunction to offer real hope and practical tools to other couples through their podcast, courses, and social media, showing that you're never "too far gone" for God to redeem your situation.

"It's not the problems that take you out in your marriage. It's what you do with them. It's how you choose to handle them. And dealing with chronic pain, I can allow that to depress me, defeat me, and just give me this negative mindset, which is not easy to give into, but that's not what I choose to do. The Lord says I can have joy despite my circumstances, and that's what I'm going to fight for."

Chris and Jamie Bailey are Christian counselors and marriage coaches passionate about helping couples live their best lives together. They are the founders of Expedition Marriage, where they encourage and equip marriages to reflect the love, grace, forgiveness, and vitality they were made to have.

Chris and Jamie Bailey's marriage began in dysfunction, but through Jesus and personal growth, they have been able to transform their relationship and help others. Through their ministry, they have been giving practical tools and messages of hope to couples all over, helping them to recognize that their marriage is a journey and that God is still good even when hard times come. God has redeemed their situation and given them a passion for helping others, and they are determined to spread the message of hope to all.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How did Chris and Jamie’s marriage start in dysfunction and evolve into a story of redemption?
2. What practical tools do Chris and Jamie offer to couples on their journey of marriage?
3. How can men overcome fear and insecurity to participate in their families and marriages?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: expeditionmarriage.org
IG: @expedition_marriage
FB: Expedition Marriage

Podcasts:
Expedition Marriage
Not Your Average Man

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]]> Chris and Jamie Bailey use their journey of overcoming dysfunction to offer real hope and practical tools to other couples through their podcast, courses, and social media, showing that you're never "too far gone" for God to redeem your situation.

"It's not the problems that take you out in your marriage. It's what you do with them. It's how you choose to handle them. And dealing with chronic pain, I can allow that to depress me, defeat me, and just give me this negative mindset, which is not easy to give into, but that's not what I choose to do. The Lord says I can have joy despite my circumstances, and that's what I'm going to fight for."

Chris and Jamie Bailey are Christian counselors and marriage coaches passionate about helping couples live their best lives together. They are the founders of Expedition Marriage, where they encourage and equip marriages to reflect the love, grace, forgiveness, and vitality they were made to have.

Chris and Jamie Bailey's marriage began in dysfunction, but through Jesus and personal growth, they have been able to transform their relationship and help others. Through their ministry, they have been giving practical tools and messages of hope to couples all over, helping them to recognize that their marriage is a journey and that God is still good even when hard times come. God has redeemed their situation and given them a passion for helping others, and they are determined to spread the message of hope to all.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How did Chris and Jamie’s marriage start in dysfunction and evolve into a story of redemption?
2. What practical tools do Chris and Jamie offer to couples on their journey of marriage?
3. How can men overcome fear and insecurity to participate in their families and marriages?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: expeditionmarriage.org
IG: @expedition_marriage
FB: Expedition Marriage

Podcasts:
Expedition Marriage
Not Your Average Man

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 06 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1732 Chris and Jamie Bailey use their journey of overcoming dysfunction to offer real hope and practical tools to other couples through their podcast, courses, and social media, showing that you're never "too far gone" for God to redeem your situation.

"It's not the problems that take you out in your marriage. It's what you do with them. It's how you choose to handle them. And dealing with chronic pain, I can allow that to depress me, defeat me, and just give me this negative mindset, which is not easy to give into, but that's not what I choose to do. The Lord says I can have joy despite my circumstances, and that's what I'm going to fight for."

Chris and Jamie Bailey are Christian counselors and marriage coaches passionate about helping couples live their best lives together. They are the founders of Expedition Marriage, where they encourage and equip marriages to reflect the love, grace, forgiveness, and vitality they were made to have.

Chris and Jamie Bailey's marriage began in dysfunction, but through Jesus and personal growth, they have been able to transform their relationship and help others. Through their ministry, they have been giving practical tools and messages of hope to couples all over, helping them to recognize that their marriage is a journey and that God is still good even when hard times come. God has redeemed their situation and given them a passion for helping others, and they are determined to spread the message of hope to all.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How did Chris and Jamie’s marriage start in dysfunction and evolve into a story of redemption?
2. What practical tools do Chris and Jamie offer to couples on their journey of marriage?
3. How can men overcome fear and insecurity to participate in their families and marriages?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: expeditionmarriage.org
IG: @expedition_marriage
FB: Expedition Marriage

Podcasts:
Expedition Marriage
Not Your Average Man

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 2) 3 3 33 33 How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 2) full 9d4e4bcc-7180-493a-92e8-efe318d49048 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode-33/ James and Lisa continue the conversation around how to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage by actively implementing four practices; giving and receiving forgiveness, validating each other's feelings, being willing to compromise, and seeking professional help.

"Even if you're responsible for only 2% of the issue, you're still 100% responsible for that 2%."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Four practices to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage.
2. How quickly asking for and giving forgiveness can foster emotional intimacy.
3. The power of validating your spouses feelings.
4. The benefits of practicing compromise in a relationship.
5. Why seeking professional counseling or coaching can make a significant impact in a marriage that feels stuck.

Resources:
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 1)
Practising the Art of Spousing
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

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]]> James and Lisa continue the conversation around how to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage by actively implementing four practices; giving and receiving forgiveness, validating each other's feelings, being willing to compromise, and seeking professional help.

"Even if you're responsible for only 2% of the issue, you're still 100% responsible for that 2%."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Four practices to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage.
2. How quickly asking for and giving forgiveness can foster emotional intimacy.
3. The power of validating your spouses feelings.
4. The benefits of practicing compromise in a relationship.
5. Why seeking professional counseling or coaching can make a significant impact in a marriage that feels stuck.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 1)
Practising the Art of Spousing
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

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Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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IG: @artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 27 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1186 James and Lisa continue the conversation around how to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage by actively implementing four practices; giving and receiving forgiveness, validating each other's feelings, being willing to compromise, and seeking professional help.

"Even if you're responsible for only 2% of the issue, you're still 100% responsible for that 2%."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Four practices to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage.
2. How quickly asking for and giving forgiveness can foster emotional intimacy.
3. The power of validating your spouses feelings.
4. The benefits of practicing compromise in a relationship.
5. Why seeking professional counseling or coaching can make a significant impact in a marriage that feels stuck.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 1)
Practising the Art of Spousing
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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IG: @artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 1) 3 3 32 32 How To Create An Emotionally Safe Environment In Your Marriage (Part 1) full 3f5636c7-e6b8-440d-b9ef-2790300c9d69 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode-32/ Lisa and James teach how to create an emotionally safe marriage and foster a lasting bond of love and trust!
To create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage, it is important to avoid criticism, contempt, and defensiveness.

"Don't let small offenses build up. If you can't get over something in 24 hours, then you need to have a conversation with your spouse about it so it doesn't build up and cause resentment or contempt."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage that will foster emotional intimacy.
2. What steps can be taken to avoid criticizing your spouse and having a critical spirit?
3. What are the non-negotiables for communication between spouses to avoid breeding contempt?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

Connect with us:
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]]> Lisa and James teach how to create an emotionally safe marriage and foster a lasting bond of love and trust!
To create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage, it is important to avoid criticism, contempt, and defensiveness.

"Don't let small offenses build up. If you can't get over something in 24 hours, then you need to have a conversation with your spouse about it so it doesn't build up and cause resentment or contempt."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage that will foster emotional intimacy.
2. What steps can be taken to avoid criticizing your spouse and having a critical spirit?
3. What are the non-negotiables for communication between spouses to avoid breeding contempt?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 20 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1195 Lisa and James teach how to create an emotionally safe marriage and foster a lasting bond of love and trust!
To create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage, it is important to avoid criticism, contempt, and defensiveness.

"Don't let small offenses build up. If you can't get over something in 24 hours, then you need to have a conversation with your spouse about it so it doesn't build up and cause resentment or contempt."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How to create an emotionally safe environment in your marriage that will foster emotional intimacy.
2. What steps can be taken to avoid criticizing your spouse and having a critical spirit?
3. What are the non-negotiables for communication between spouses to avoid breeding contempt?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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IG: @artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> married,marriedlife,spouse,marriagequote,marriagequotes,marriagegoals,youngandmarried,marriagematerial,marriageworks,husbandmaterial,couple,marriagetip,husband,marriagegodsway,relationshipgrowth,marriageadvice,artofspousing,podcast,relationships,romance,love,couples,theknot,marriage,relationshipadvice,healthyrelationships,relationshipgoals,marriedforapurpose No Marriage On Deck: Howard & Danielle Taylor's Marriage Journey 3 3 31 31 Marriage On Deck: Howard & Danielle Taylor's Marriage Journey full 7e57da5a-f6cc-4146-9aa0-7b6f09c83398 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode-31/ Experience the power of spiritual intimacy in marriage and learn to trust God's divine plan when He tells you to "go" with Danielle and Howard's story.

"God gave us a very specific template in how to nurture marriage and serve in the marriage space, because we found through Facebook Live, it was like a great litmus test to the fact that people were hungry and they needed some advice, and oftentimes they needed it silently. We would do videos. It was like, no comments and no engagement, because they don't want to put their own marriage on blast publicly, but they listen in silence and get fed in silence, which was beneficial."

Howard and Danielle Taylor met in college in 2001 and have been married since 2005. They have committed to breaking the legacy of divorce in their families and are passionate about helping other couples build healthy marriages through their ministry, Marriage on Deck.

Howard and Danielle connected by chance at a college Bible study. In that moment, they both knew they'd found something special in each other. Despite a difficult upbringing, Howard had always wanted to have a strong marriage, and found it in Danielle. To strengthen their relationship and faith, they fast together quarterly and at the end of each year. After a week of fasting, God told them to move their family to Duluth, Georgia, and their faith was rewarded when an email arrived that same night confirming the move. Through this experience, Howard and Danielle learned the power of fasting and how to build spiritual intimacy in their relationship.

In this episode, you will learn:
1. How to form a spiritually intimate relationship with your spouse
2. How to use fasting to draw closer to God
3. How to act on a call from God to move into a new season.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: Marriageondeck.com
IG: @marriage_on_deck
FB: marriageondeck

Books:
The Fundamentals of Marriage: 8 Essential Practices of Successful Couples

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Experience the power of spiritual intimacy in marriage and learn to trust God's divine plan when He tells you to "go" with Danielle and Howard's story.

"God gave us a very specific template in how to nurture marriage and serve in the marriage space, because we found through Facebook Live, it was like a great litmus test to the fact that people were hungry and they needed some advice, and oftentimes they needed it silently. We would do videos. It was like, no comments and no engagement, because they don't want to put their own marriage on blast publicly, but they listen in silence and get fed in silence, which was beneficial."

Howard and Danielle Taylor met in college in 2001 and have been married since 2005. They have committed to breaking the legacy of divorce in their families and are passionate about helping other couples build healthy marriages through their ministry, Marriage on Deck.

Howard and Danielle connected by chance at a college Bible study. In that moment, they both knew they'd found something special in each other. Despite a difficult upbringing, Howard had always wanted to have a strong marriage, and found it in Danielle. To strengthen their relationship and faith, they fast together quarterly and at the end of each year. After a week of fasting, God told them to move their family to Duluth, Georgia, and their faith was rewarded when an email arrived that same night confirming the move. Through this experience, Howard and Danielle learned the power of fasting and how to build spiritual intimacy in their relationship.

In this episode, you will learn:
1. How to form a spiritually intimate relationship with your spouse
2. How to use fasting to draw closer to God
3. How to act on a call from God to move into a new season.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: Marriageondeck.com
IG: @marriage_on_deck
FB: marriageondeck

Books:
The Fundamentals of Marriage: 8 Essential Practices of Successful Couples

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2148 Experience the power of spiritual intimacy in marriage and learn to trust God's divine plan when He tells you to "go" with Danielle and Howard's story.

"God gave us a very specific template in how to nurture marriage and serve in the marriage space, because we found through Facebook Live, it was like a great litmus test to the fact that people were hungry and they needed some advice, and oftentimes they needed it silently. We would do videos. It was like, no comments and no engagement, because they don't want to put their own marriage on blast publicly, but they listen in silence and get fed in silence, which was beneficial."

Howard and Danielle Taylor met in college in 2001 and have been married since 2005. They have committed to breaking the legacy of divorce in their families and are passionate about helping other couples build healthy marriages through their ministry, Marriage on Deck.

Howard and Danielle connected by chance at a college Bible study. In that moment, they both knew they'd found something special in each other. Despite a difficult upbringing, Howard had always wanted to have a strong marriage, and found it in Danielle. To strengthen their relationship and faith, they fast together quarterly and at the end of each year. After a week of fasting, God told them to move their family to Duluth, Georgia, and their faith was rewarded when an email arrived that same night confirming the move. Through this experience, Howard and Danielle learned the power of fasting and how to build spiritual intimacy in their relationship.

In this episode, you will learn:
1. How to form a spiritually intimate relationship with your spouse
2. How to use fasting to draw closer to God
3. How to act on a call from God to move into a new season.

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: Marriageondeck.com
IG: @marriage_on_deck
FB: marriageondeck

Books:
The Fundamentals of Marriage: 8 Essential Practices of Successful Couples

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How To Take the Love in Your Marriage Relationship to the Next Level 3 3 30 30 How To Take the Love in Your Marriage Relationship to the Next Level full d69ed9c1-3f1e-485c-8701-35591d4cafc4 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/marriage-30 We have learned that expressing extraordinary love to one another is not only important for a thriving marriage, but is also a way to demonstrate God's love to the world. Through the Bible passage of 1 Corinthians 13, we found three practices to level up our love: patience and kindness, forgiveness, and building endurance.  By doing these things, we can enjoy our marriage, rather than just enduring it.

"Love takes no pleasure in other people's sin, but delights in the truth. It's always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. That Valentine's Day is actually Valentine's Week.
2. What the Bible says about how we should love each other.
3. How we take our love to the next level and move from mundane to masterpiece.

And as a bonus...The Valentines gift that James gave to Lisa that earned James a pass on Valentines for the rest of their marriage...

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> We have learned that expressing extraordinary love to one another is not only important for a thriving marriage, but is also a way to demonstrate God's love to the world. Through the Bible passage of 1 Corinthians 13, we found three practices to level up our love: patience and kindness, forgiveness, and building endurance.  By doing these things, we can enjoy our marriage, rather than just enduring it.

"Love takes no pleasure in other people's sin, but delights in the truth. It's always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. That Valentine's Day is actually Valentine's Week.
2. What the Bible says about how we should love each other.
3. How we take our love to the next level and move from mundane to masterpiece.

And as a bonus...The Valentines gift that James gave to Lisa that earned James a pass on Valentines for the rest of their marriage...

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
Love: Defining the Three Essentials

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 06 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1589 We have learned that expressing extraordinary love to one another is not only important for a thriving marriage, but is also a way to demonstrate God's love to the world. Through the Bible passage of 1 Corinthians 13, we found three practices to level up our love: patience and kindness, forgiveness, and building endurance. By doing these things, we can enjoy our marriage, rather than just enduring it. We have learned that expressing extraordinary love to one another is not only important for a thriving marriage, but is also a way to demonstrate God's love to the world. Through the Bible passage of 1 Corinthians 13, we found three practices to level up married,marriedlife,spouse,marriagequote,marriagequotes,marriagegoals,youngandmarried,marriagematerial,marriageworks,husbandmaterial,couple,marriagetip,husband,marriagegodsway,relationshipgrowth,marriageadvice,artofspousing,podcast,relationships,romance,love,couples,theknot,marriage,relationshipadvice,healthyrelationships,relationshipgoals,marriedforapurpose No Us in Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage With Ted Lowe 3 3 29 29 Us in Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage With Ted Lowe full 1e8634d2-eaad-4df0-a621-1aadb9f52550 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/marriage-29 Ted Lowe reveals a startling truth about the secret to a great marriage--that it's not the opposite of a struggling marriage, but something different--he embarks on a journey to help couples shift their thinking and focus on the positive to experience true marital bliss.

"It's so great to have people in this space like you guys that are co champions, that we're both going after the same thing. We want to help couples and just every time I'm with you guys, I am encouraged just to keep going."

Ted is a speaker, blogger, and the director of Married People, the marriage division of Orange, a nonprofit organization devoted to influencing those who influence the next generation. Ted is also the author of a New Marriage book, Us in mind how changing your thoughts can change your marriage.

Ted Lowe had always been passionate about helping couples, but he noticed a pattern: some couples would take the advice he gave and change their marriage, while others would just hear it and do nothing. He was determined to find out why and discovered a powerful truth: the happiest couples were those who thought the best of their spouses. Ted then set out to write a book about it, and in the process discovered the power of intentional thoughts and positive illusions. After teaching this material to couples, he found that his simple exercise of asking people to think about what their Abba Father would say to them was liberating. He was so glad he'd taken the time to write the book and help couples find true joy in their marriages.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What do couples who are really doing well do differently?
2. How can we shift our thinking to better align with God's desires for us?
3. What are some techniques to help couples focus on what they love about their spouse rather than what they don't?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
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Guest Resources:
Website: tedlowe.com
IG: @tedlowe

Books:
Us In Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage
Your Best Us: Marriage Is Easier Than You
Married People: How Your Church Can Build Marriages that Last

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]]> Ted Lowe reveals a startling truth about the secret to a great marriage--that it's not the opposite of a struggling marriage, but something different--he embarks on a journey to help couples shift their thinking and focus on the positive to experience true marital bliss.

"It's so great to have people in this space like you guys that are co champions, that we're both going after the same thing. We want to help couples and just every time I'm with you guys, I am encouraged just to keep going."

Ted is a speaker, blogger, and the director of Married People, the marriage division of Orange, a nonprofit organization devoted to influencing those who influence the next generation. Ted is also the author of a New Marriage book, Us in mind how changing your thoughts can change your marriage.

Ted Lowe had always been passionate about helping couples, but he noticed a pattern: some couples would take the advice he gave and change their marriage, while others would just hear it and do nothing. He was determined to find out why and discovered a powerful truth: the happiest couples were those who thought the best of their spouses. Ted then set out to write a book about it, and in the process discovered the power of intentional thoughts and positive illusions. After teaching this material to couples, he found that his simple exercise of asking people to think about what their Abba Father would say to them was liberating. He was so glad he'd taken the time to write the book and help couples find true joy in their marriages.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What do couples who are really doing well do differently?
2. How can we shift our thinking to better align with God's desires for us?
3. What are some techniques to help couples focus on what they love about their spouse rather than what they don't?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: tedlowe.com
IG: @tedlowe

Books:
Us In Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage
Your Best Us: Marriage Is Easier Than You
Married People: How Your Church Can Build Marriages that Last

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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]]> Mon, 30 Jan 2023 05:04:19 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1960 Ted Lowe reveals a startling truth about the secret to a great marriage--that it's not the opposite of a struggling marriage, but something different--he embarks on a journey to help couples shift their thinking and focus on the positive to experience true marital bliss.

"It's so great to have people in this space like you guys that are co champions, that we're both going after the same thing. We want to help couples and just every time I'm with you guys, I am encouraged just to keep going."

Ted is a speaker, blogger, and the director of Married People, the marriage division of Orange, a nonprofit organization devoted to influencing those who influence the next generation. Ted is also the author of a New Marriage book, Us in mind how changing your thoughts can change your marriage.

Ted Lowe had always been passionate about helping couples, but he noticed a pattern: some couples would take the advice he gave and change their marriage, while others would just hear it and do nothing. He was determined to find out why and discovered a powerful truth: the happiest couples were those who thought the best of their spouses. Ted then set out to write a book about it, and in the process discovered the power of intentional thoughts and positive illusions. After teaching this material to couples, he found that his simple exercise of asking people to think about what their Abba Father would say to them was liberating. He was so glad he'd taken the time to write the book and help couples find true joy in their marriages.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What do couples who are really doing well do differently?
2. How can we shift our thinking to better align with God's desires for us?
3. What are some techniques to help couples focus on what they love about their spouse rather than what they don't?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Guest Resources:
Website: tedlowe.com
IG: @tedlowe

Books:
Us In Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage
Your Best Us: Marriage Is Easier Than You
Married People: How Your Church Can Build Marriages that Last

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> married,marriedlife,spouse,marriagequote,marriagequotes,marriagegoals,youngandmarried,marriagematerial,marriageworks,husbandmaterial,couple,marriagetip,husband,marriagegodsway,relationshipgrowth,marriageadvice,artofspousing,podcast,relationships,romance,love,couples,theknot,marriage,relationshipadvice,healthyrelationships,relationshipgoals,marriedforapurpose No Six Practises For Avoiding Complacency in Your Marriage 3 3 28 28 Six Practises For Avoiding Complacency in Your Marriage full e6cff492-d8f0-4230-aa0a-567331eea0ff https://artofspousing.com/podcast/avoiding-complacency When striving for a masterpiece marriage, couples must avoid complacency by proactively prioritizing time, practicing honest communication, investing in the relationship, keeping romance alive, and exercising spontaneity.

We share Six Practises For Avoiding Complacency in Your Marriage on the Artist Spousing Podcast. These practices can help prevent the feeling of growing apart and increase emotional intimacy and connectedness in a marriage, helping to reverse feelings of complacency.

"if you're concerned about complacency in your marriage, it's important to pay attention to it and address any issues that may be contributing to the problem."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What are the signs of complacency in marriage and how can they be addressed?
2. What strategies can be implemented to prioritize time, practice open and honest communication, and invest in the relationship?
3. How can romance be kept alive and spontaneity be exercised to prevent complacency in marriage?

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Winshape Marriage
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Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

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]]> When striving for a masterpiece marriage, couples must avoid complacency by proactively prioritizing time, practicing honest communication, investing in the relationship, keeping romance alive, and exercising spontaneity.

We share Six Practises For Avoiding Complacency in Your Marriage on the Artist Spousing Podcast. These practices can help prevent the feeling of growing apart and increase emotional intimacy and connectedness in a marriage, helping to reverse feelings of complacency.

"if you're concerned about complacency in your marriage, it's important to pay attention to it and address any issues that may be contributing to the problem."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What are the signs of complacency in marriage and how can they be addressed?
2. What strategies can be implemented to prioritize time, practice open and honest communication, and invest in the relationship?
3. How can romance be kept alive and spontaneity be exercised to prevent complacency in marriage?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates

Events, Retreats, Experiences
Winshape Marriage
Outback
Re|engage

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year
The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Mon, 23 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1308 When striving for a masterpiece marriage, couples must avoid complacency by proactively prioritizing time, practicing honest communication, investing in the relationship, keeping romance alive, and exercising spontaneity. When striving for a masterpiece marriage, couples must avoid complacency by proactively prioritizing time, practicing honest communication, investing in the relationship, keeping romance alive, and exercising spontaneity. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman 3 3 27 27 The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman full e7fb9c3a-2ff9-47dc-b75e-2694f2d8f553 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/the-marriage-reboot/ Greg and Julie Gorman, desperate to rekindle their struggling marriage and provide hope for other couples, embarked on a powerful journey to create their Marriage Reboot - a one-on-one, two-to-three day intensive to reset, unify, and reignite marriages.

"We become what we think about. If I'm thinking, okay, don't think about what a jerk Greg is. Don't think about how he's not doing this or that. What happens?  I become even more hyper aware of those issues or problems. So it's not just stop doing this. What it is is it's thinking about what do we really want as a couple."

Greg and Julie Gorman are marriage experts, authors, and coaches who specialize in helping couples reset and rebuild their marriages through their Marriage Reboot program.

Greg and Julie Gorman have been married for many years and have experienced the ups and downs of a marital relationship. After much healing and growth, they created the Marriage Reboot, a two to three-day intensive to help couples reset and build on common ground and unity. It provides a safe, non-judgmental environment for couples to be seen, heard and understood by each other, and to find hope and purpose in their marriage. The Marriage Reboot provides a forward-thinking process for couples to identify what they both want in their marriage, and build on a common vision and purpose. It is designed for both couples in crisis and those who are looking to take their marriage to the next level.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What is the Marriage Reboot and how was it created?
2. How does the Marriage Reboot differ from other marriage intensives or programs?
3. Who is the Marriage Reboot designed for, and how can it help couples strengthen their relationship?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Greg and Julie Gorman

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Greg and Julie Gorman, desperate to rekindle their struggling marriage and provide hope for other couples, embarked on a powerful journey to create their Marriage Reboot - a one-on-one, two-to-three day intensive to reset, unify, and reignite marriages.

"We become what we think about. If I'm thinking, okay, don't think about what a jerk Greg is. Don't think about how he's not doing this or that. What happens?  I become even more hyper aware of those issues or problems. So it's not just stop doing this. What it is is it's thinking about what do we really want as a couple."

Greg and Julie Gorman are marriage experts, authors, and coaches who specialize in helping couples reset and rebuild their marriages through their Marriage Reboot program.

Greg and Julie Gorman have been married for many years and have experienced the ups and downs of a marital relationship. After much healing and growth, they created the Marriage Reboot, a two to three-day intensive to help couples reset and build on common ground and unity. It provides a safe, non-judgmental environment for couples to be seen, heard and understood by each other, and to find hope and purpose in their marriage. The Marriage Reboot provides a forward-thinking process for couples to identify what they both want in their marriage, and build on a common vision and purpose. It is designed for both couples in crisis and those who are looking to take their marriage to the next level.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What is the Marriage Reboot and how was it created?
2. How does the Marriage Reboot differ from other marriage intensives or programs?
3. Who is the Marriage Reboot designed for, and how can it help couples strengthen their relationship?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Greg and Julie Gorman

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 16 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2044 Greg and Julie Gorman are marriage experts, authors, and coaches who specialize in helping couples reset and rebuild their marriages through their Marriage Reboot program. Greg and Julie Gorman are marriage experts, authors, and coaches who specialize in helping couples reset and rebuild their marriages through their Marriage Reboot program. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year 3 3 26 26 Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year full 854f75bb-085a-414b-950e-dddc9ee45a13 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/hope-rising-3-ways-to-invest-in-your-marriage-this-year/ A determined husband and wife can make this their best year of marriage yet, proactively investing in themselves and each other to find the hope they need to overcome the 92% of New Year's goals that fail.You will learn how to unlock the secrets of a successful marriage and discover why intentionally investing in your relationship is key.

This episode is all about Intentionally investing in your marriage. We have learned that investing in your marriage can be done in three ways: investing in yourself, investing in intentional time together and proactively investing resources to grow your relationship. Investing in yourself requires self awareness and self management, and setting goals that will make something of you to achieve them. Investing in intentional time together with your spouse requires making your relationship a priority, unplugging from the regular grind and serving together. Finally, proactively investing resources to intentionally grow your marriage relationship includes coaching, marriage intensives, marriage retreats, and marriage reboots. Investing in your marriage is a proactive way to ensure a successful relationship.

"Hope is the belief that your future can be brighter and better than your past and that you actually have a role to play in making it better."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What is the Science of Hope and how can you apply it to your marriage?
2. What are some practical ways to invest in yourself and your marriage?
3. How can you proactively invest resources to intentionally grow your marriage relationship?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> A determined husband and wife can make this their best year of marriage yet, proactively investing in themselves and each other to find the hope they need to overcome the 92% of New Year's goals that fail.You will learn how to unlock the secrets of a successful marriage and discover why intentionally investing in your relationship is key.

This episode is all about Intentionally investing in your marriage. We have learned that investing in your marriage can be done in three ways: investing in yourself, investing in intentional time together and proactively investing resources to grow your relationship. Investing in yourself requires self awareness and self management, and setting goals that will make something of you to achieve them. Investing in intentional time together with your spouse requires making your relationship a priority, unplugging from the regular grind and serving together. Finally, proactively investing resources to intentionally grow your marriage relationship includes coaching, marriage intensives, marriage retreats, and marriage reboots. Investing in your marriage is a proactive way to ensure a successful relationship.

"Hope is the belief that your future can be brighter and better than your past and that you actually have a role to play in making it better."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What is the Science of Hope and how can you apply it to your marriage?
2. What are some practical ways to invest in yourself and your marriage?
3. How can you proactively invest resources to intentionally grow your marriage relationship?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> Mon, 09 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1175 A determined husband and wife can make this their best year of marriage yet, proactively investing in themselves and each other to find the hope they need to overcome the 92% of New Year's goals that fail. You will learn how to unlock the secrets of a successful marriage and discover why intentionally investing in your relationship is key. A determined husband and wife can make this their best year of marriage yet, proactively investing in themselves and each other to find the hope they need to overcome the 92% of New Year's goals that fail. You will learn how to unlock the secrets of a marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No 3 Questions Answered about a Strong and Healthy Marriage 2 2 25 25 3 Questions Answered about a Strong and Healthy Marriage full 48fcbb4a-54a2-4ff9-8a3b-349f389cb070 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/3-questions-answered-about-a-strong-and-healthy-marriage/ "The best instructions come from the creator of a product."

We've been married for 30 years, and one of the things that has helped us stay strong is that we've been intentional about our intimacy. We've always put God first in our marriage, and we've been intentional about growing in our spiritual, emotional, and sexual intimacy. We wish we would have had more adventure in our first five years of marriage, and we wish we would have been more intentional about creating healthy habits.

In this episode you will learn:

1. The most important factors for us maintaining a strong, healthy marriage?
2. What we would do differently if you could go back and do our first five years of marriage over again?
3. Two general themes that, if addressed, would make the biggest difference in most marriages?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

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Practising the Art of Spousing
Intentional Intimacy

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]]> "The best instructions come from the creator of a product."

We've been married for 30 years, and one of the things that has helped us stay strong is that we've been intentional about our intimacy. We've always put God first in our marriage, and we've been intentional about growing in our spiritual, emotional, and sexual intimacy. We wish we would have had more adventure in our first five years of marriage, and we wish we would have been more intentional about creating healthy habits.

In this episode you will learn:

1. The most important factors for us maintaining a strong, healthy marriage?
2. What we would do differently if you could go back and do our first five years of marriage over again?
3. Two general themes that, if addressed, would make the biggest difference in most marriages?

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Intentional Intimacy

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Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 21 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1368 Why being emotionally available to your spouse is important for a happy and healthy relationship. In this episode you will learn: 1. The most important factors for us maintaining a strong, healthy marriage? 2. What we would do differently if you could go back and do our first five years of marriage over again? 3. Two general themes that, if addressed, would make the biggest difference in most marriages? Why being emotionally available to your spouse is important for a happy and healthy relationship. In this episode you will learn: 1. The most important factors for us maintaining a strong, healthy marriage? 2. What we would do differently if you could marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No With Christopher and Jasmine Catoe 2 2 24 24 With Christopher and Jasmine Catoe full c4b33b57-373f-430a-b221-2c762721865a https://share.transistor.fm/s/13b48182 This is Christopher and Jasmine Catoe's story...

I'm a worship leader at Christ Fellowship Church and my wife, Jasmine, is a content producer. We met in middle school and have been married for almost three years. Recently, we took an enneagram test and discovered that I am actually a five, not a one like we thought. This was a bit of a shock to me, but it made sense when I thought about my perfectionism and my love for data and planning. As a five, I tend to hoard information and resources, which can make collaboration difficult. However, I am working on delegating and trusting others with my ideas in order to build up the community around me.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. How the Catoe family views and uses the Enneagram
2. The difference between a one and a five on the Enneagram
3. The importance of collaboration in the creative process
4.  How core motivations affect our actions

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AMPLIFY YOUR MARRIAGE - Discovery Call

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With Brandon and Michelle Catoe
Conversations About Marriage and The Enneagram
Practising The Art of Spousing

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Jasmine IG: @jasminecatoe

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]]> This is Christopher and Jasmine Catoe's story...

I'm a worship leader at Christ Fellowship Church and my wife, Jasmine, is a content producer. We met in middle school and have been married for almost three years. Recently, we took an enneagram test and discovered that I am actually a five, not a one like we thought. This was a bit of a shock to me, but it made sense when I thought about my perfectionism and my love for data and planning. As a five, I tend to hoard information and resources, which can make collaboration difficult. However, I am working on delegating and trusting others with my ideas in order to build up the community around me.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. How the Catoe family views and uses the Enneagram
2. The difference between a one and a five on the Enneagram
3. The importance of collaboration in the creative process
4.  How core motivations affect our actions

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
AMPLIFY YOUR MARRIAGE - Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
With Brandon and Michelle Catoe
Conversations About Marriage and The Enneagram
Practising The Art of Spousing

Connect with Guests:
Christopher IG: @ccatoex
Jasmine IG: @jasminecatoe

Connect with Us:
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]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1484 Christopher and Jasmine Catoe are worship leaders at Christ Fellowship Church in South Florida. They met in middle school and have been married for almost three years. Christopher and Jasmine Catoe are worship leaders at Christ Fellowship Church in South Florida. They met in middle school and have been married for almost three years. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How to Use the Support Challenge Matrix to Liberate Your Spouse & Kids 2 2 23 23 How to Use the Support Challenge Matrix to Liberate Your Spouse & Kids full f6ade5eb-ac7d-4368-ad5d-4aadb42dec93 https://share.transistor.fm/s/fdec97cd In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The Support Challenge Matrix: a tool for empowering relationships
2. The four quadrants of the Support Challenge Matrix: Protector, Dominator, Abdicator, Liberator
3. The consequences of living in each quadrant of the Support Challenge Matrix

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Support Challenge Matrix and Circles of Influence

Discussion Questions:

  1. How do you experience me in our relationship? (Protector or Dominator)
  2. What does challenging me look like for you to feel empowered?
  3. What does support from me look like for you to feel empowered?

If you are a protector you can ask…Have there been ways that I have created mistrust because of my lack or misuse of challenge?


If you are a challenger you could ask…Have there been ways that I have made you feel fearful or manipulated because of my lack of or misuse of support?


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Me Awareness We Awareness

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]]> In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The Support Challenge Matrix: a tool for empowering relationships
2. The four quadrants of the Support Challenge Matrix: Protector, Dominator, Abdicator, Liberator
3. The consequences of living in each quadrant of the Support Challenge Matrix

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Support Challenge Matrix and Circles of Influence

Discussion Questions:

  1. How do you experience me in our relationship? (Protector or Dominator)
  2. What does challenging me look like for you to feel empowered?
  3. What does support from me look like for you to feel empowered?

If you are a protector you can ask…Have there been ways that I have created mistrust because of my lack or misuse of challenge?


If you are a challenger you could ask…Have there been ways that I have made you feel fearful or manipulated because of my lack of or misuse of support?


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing
Me Awareness We Awareness

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 07 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1726 Lisa and James teach the Support Challenge Matrix tool for empowering your spouse. The tool can be used in all relationships and spheres of influence Lisa and James teach the Support Challenge Matrix tool for empowering your spouse. The tool can be used in all relationships and spheres of influence marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No With Gabe and Kasey Mejia 2 2 22 22 With Gabe and Kasey Mejia full aad53dbe-3d48-4d77-b983-a87fea9d6eb0 https://share.transistor.fm/s/d239f907 Gabe and Casey Mahia are a young couple who have only been married for two years, but they have already learned a lot about themselves and each other. One of the things that Gabe has learned about Casey is that she is a self-proclaimed enneagram six. For those of you who are not familiar with the enneagram, it is a tool of empathy that reveals core motivations. Gabe is a video producer and he manages a team of content creators at Christ Fellowship Church. Casey is a social media content creator and she manages all the social media for Christ Fellowship Church.

"I think that just helped put some language around things that I had been feeling. And I was like, that really does sound like me."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How Gabe and Casey met
2. What it was like for them to get married during the Covid pandemic
3. The dynamics of Gabe's enneagram type 4 and Kasey's enneagram type 6 in their marriage.
4. The challenge and power of giving and receiving feedback

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
AMPLIFY YOUR MARRIAGE - Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with Guests:
Gaber IG: @_gabemejia
Kasey IG: @kaseymejia_

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]]> Gabe and Casey Mahia are a young couple who have only been married for two years, but they have already learned a lot about themselves and each other. One of the things that Gabe has learned about Casey is that she is a self-proclaimed enneagram six. For those of you who are not familiar with the enneagram, it is a tool of empathy that reveals core motivations. Gabe is a video producer and he manages a team of content creators at Christ Fellowship Church. Casey is a social media content creator and she manages all the social media for Christ Fellowship Church.

"I think that just helped put some language around things that I had been feeling. And I was like, that really does sound like me."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How Gabe and Casey met
2. What it was like for them to get married during the Covid pandemic
3. The dynamics of Gabe's enneagram type 4 and Kasey's enneagram type 6 in their marriage.
4. The challenge and power of giving and receiving feedback

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
AMPLIFY YOUR MARRIAGE - Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with Guests:
Gaber IG: @_gabemejia
Kasey IG: @kaseymejia_

Connect with Us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 31 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2175 Gabe and Casey Mahia are a young couple who have only been married for two years, but they have already learned a lot about themselves and each other. Gabe and Casey Mahia are a young couple who have only been married for two years, but they have already learned a lot about themselves and each other. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Power of a Pro-Marriage Collective 2 2 21 21 The Power of a Pro-Marriage Collective full 629017e7-ebf2-425d-934b-39185434d358 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/episode21/ For a marriage to be secure and strong, you need to build a pro marriage collective, a community with like minded, growth minded couples.

"The people you spend the most time with will change you in ways you cannot anticipate or ever fully understand."

Over the last 30 years, we have surrounded ourselves with couples who are pro-marriage. They are always championing us and our relationship and they model the behavior we want to emulate in our own marriage. We've learned so much from them and our marriage is stronger because of it.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The importance of having a strong marriage collective to help push you forward in your marriage
2. The benefits of being part of a marriage collective, including accountability, encouragement, and wise counsel
3. The dangers of isolating yourself from others when you're struggling in your marriage

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Married for a Purpose Membership

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> For a marriage to be secure and strong, you need to build a pro marriage collective, a community with like minded, growth minded couples.

"The people you spend the most time with will change you in ways you cannot anticipate or ever fully understand."

Over the last 30 years, we have surrounded ourselves with couples who are pro-marriage. They are always championing us and our relationship and they model the behavior we want to emulate in our own marriage. We've learned so much from them and our marriage is stronger because of it.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The importance of having a strong marriage collective to help push you forward in your marriage
2. The benefits of being part of a marriage collective, including accountability, encouragement, and wise counsel
3. The dangers of isolating yourself from others when you're struggling in your marriage

Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Married for a Purpose Membership

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 24 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1720 For a marriage to be secure and strong, you need to build a pro marriage collective, a community with like minded, growth minded couples. You will learn how to build a strong marriage collective. For a marriage to be secure and strong, you need to build a pro marriage collective, a community with like minded, growth minded couples. You will learn how to build a strong marriage collective. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No With Brandon and Michelle Catoe 2 2 20 20 With Brandon and Michelle Catoe full d2c59d18-3faa-4807-898a-147244259f5f https://artofspousing.com/podcast/brandon-and-michelle-catoe/ Brandon and Michelle Catoe are long-time friends of the hosts of the Art of Spousing podcast. They have been married for almost 27 years and have two adult children. Brandon is a three on the enneagram and Michelle is a six. They have both been involved in ministry for many years and currently serve on the senior leadership team at their church.

This is Brandon and Michelle Catoe's story...

Brandon and Michelle Catoe have been married for 27 years and have two kids. They met in kindergarten and started dating in high school. Brandon is a three on the enneagram and Michelle is a six. They have found that their different enneagram types have played out in their marriage in various ways, including how they communicate and handle conflict. Brandon and Michelle have also found that their enneagram types have affected their parenting style and how they relate to their kids.

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
AMPLIFY YOUR MARRIAGE - Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with Guests:
Brandon IG: @branfdoncatoe
Michelle IG: @catoemichelle

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]]> Brandon and Michelle Catoe are long-time friends of the hosts of the Art of Spousing podcast. They have been married for almost 27 years and have two adult children. Brandon is a three on the enneagram and Michelle is a six. They have both been involved in ministry for many years and currently serve on the senior leadership team at their church.

This is Brandon and Michelle Catoe's story...

Brandon and Michelle Catoe have been married for 27 years and have two kids. They met in kindergarten and started dating in high school. Brandon is a three on the enneagram and Michelle is a six. They have found that their different enneagram types have played out in their marriage in various ways, including how they communicate and handle conflict. Brandon and Michelle have also found that their enneagram types have affected their parenting style and how they relate to their kids.

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
AMPLIFY YOUR MARRIAGE - Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with Guests:
Brandon IG: @branfdoncatoe
Michelle IG: @catoemichelle

Connect with Us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 17 Oct 2022 05:06:58 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2004 Brandon and Michelle Catoe are long-time friends of the hosts of the Art of Spousing podcast. They have been married for almost 27 years and have two adult children. Brandon is a three on the enneagram and Michelle is a six. They have both been involved in ministry for many years and currently serve on the senior leadership team at their church. Brandon and Michelle Catoe are long-time friends of the hosts of the Art of Spousing podcast. They have been married for almost 27 years and have two adult children. Brandon is a three on the enneagram and Michelle is a six. They have both been involved i marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Tension is Real: Money Stress in Marriage 2 2 19 19 The Tension is Real: Money Stress in Marriage full c70e2328-3345-457a-9a8d-73979a51f709 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/the-tension-is-real-money-stress-in-marriage/ The Art of Spousing Podcast tackles the reasons for money causing tension in marriage and provides tools to combat the stressors.

"An ounce of disciplines weighs far less than a ton of regret" - Jim Rohn

Lisa and I have different money styles. I tend to be a saver, while she is more of a spender. This can cause tension in our relationship, especially when it comes to budgeting and making financial decisions. However, we've learned to work together and compromise on spending in order to avoid arguments and keep our finances in order. We also have a plan for paying off any debt we may have, which has helped us stay on track and avoid accumulating more debt.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How money styles can impact a marriage
2. The emotional and psychological implications of financial strain
3. How to overcome excessive debt
4. The one game changer for all your financial tensions


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
CURATE Date Night Event - October 14th, 2022 | Southwest Church, Indian Wells, CA
Debt Snowball Calculator
You Need a Budget

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

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]]> The Art of Spousing Podcast tackles the reasons for money causing tension in marriage and provides tools to combat the stressors.

"An ounce of disciplines weighs far less than a ton of regret" - Jim Rohn

Lisa and I have different money styles. I tend to be a saver, while she is more of a spender. This can cause tension in our relationship, especially when it comes to budgeting and making financial decisions. However, we've learned to work together and compromise on spending in order to avoid arguments and keep our finances in order. We also have a plan for paying off any debt we may have, which has helped us stay on track and avoid accumulating more debt.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How money styles can impact a marriage
2. The emotional and psychological implications of financial strain
3. How to overcome excessive debt
4. The one game changer for all your financial tensions


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
CURATE Date Night Event - October 14th, 2022 | Southwest Church, Indian Wells, CA
Debt Snowball Calculator
You Need a Budget

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


SUBSCRIBE ON:
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]]> Mon, 10 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1524 The Art of Spousing Podcast tackles the reasons for money causing tension in marriage and provides tools to combat the stressors.

"An ounce of disciplines weighs far less than a ton of regret" - Jim Rohn

Lisa and I have different money styles. I tend to be a saver, while she is more of a spender. This can cause tension in our relationship, especially when it comes to budgeting and making financial decisions. However, we've learned to work together and compromise on spending in order to avoid arguments and keep our finances in order. We also have a plan for paying off any debt we may have, which has helped us stay on track and avoid accumulating more debt.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How money styles can impact a marriage
2. The emotional and psychological implications of financial strain
3. How to overcome excessive debt
4. The one game changer for all your financial tensions


Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
CURATE Date Night Event - October 14th, 2022 | Southwest Church, Indian Wells, CA
Debt Snowball Calculator
You Need a Budget

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Grant and Stephanie Gardner: Forever With Purpose 2 2 18 18 Grant and Stephanie Gardner: Forever With Purpose full 32c07576-f70d-4921-bbe3-4a2cf0c4343b https://artofspousing.com/podcast/grant-and-stephanie-gardner-forever-with-purpose/ Grant and Stephanie Gardner are high school sweethearts who have been married for 38 years. They are the founders of Forever with Purpose, a ministry that empowers marriages to maximize their vision and purpose. They are also the hosts of the Pillow Talk with Grant and Stephanie podcast.

"I always say that, we were knocked up, but not out. we got our cart before the horse and got married at a very, very early age; 17 going into our senior year."

In this episode, you will learn:
1. The enneagram as a tool for empathy and self-awareness in marriage
2. How the Gardners' different personality types affect the way they process change in their relationship
3. How to know yourself to lead yourself

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
CURATE Date Night Event - October 14th, 2022 | Southwest Church, Indian Wells, CA

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with Guests:
Forever With Purpose IG: grant_steph_foreverwithpurpose
Forever With Purpose FB: Married With Purpose
Podcast: Pillow Talk with Grant and Stephanie

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]]> Grant and Stephanie Gardner are high school sweethearts who have been married for 38 years. They are the founders of Forever with Purpose, a ministry that empowers marriages to maximize their vision and purpose. They are also the hosts of the Pillow Talk with Grant and Stephanie podcast.

"I always say that, we were knocked up, but not out. we got our cart before the horse and got married at a very, very early age; 17 going into our senior year."

In this episode, you will learn:
1. The enneagram as a tool for empathy and self-awareness in marriage
2. How the Gardners' different personality types affect the way they process change in their relationship
3. How to know yourself to lead yourself

Resources:
SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter
Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot
CURATE Date Night Event - October 14th, 2022 | Southwest Church, Indian Wells, CA

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with Guests:
Forever With Purpose IG: grant_steph_foreverwithpurpose
Forever With Purpose FB: Married With Purpose
Podcast: Pillow Talk with Grant and Stephanie

Connect with Us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 03 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousint Art of Spousint 1624 Grant and Stephanie Gardner are high school sweethearts who have been married for 38 years. They are the founders of Forever with Purpose, a ministry that empowers marriages to maximize their vision and purpose. They are also the hosts of the Pillow Talk with Grant and Stephanie podcast. Grant and Stephanie Gardner are high school sweethearts who have been married for 38 years. They are the founders of Forever with Purpose, a ministry that empowers marriages to maximize their vision and purpose. They are also the hosts of the Pillow Talk marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground 2 2 17 17 How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground full fecf7ce4-e67f-4f45-a866-344f67b742d3 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/how-to-strengthen-your-marriage-by-building-on-common-ground/ By building on common ground, you can strengthen your marriage.

"Couples who know how to play and have fun together develop a bonding that can carry them through the most difficult times."

Lisa and I were talk about strengthening our marriage by building on common ground. We discussed how marriages built on common ground have the ability to stand up against challenges that happen in life.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Why does your marriage exist?
2. What is your shared vision for your marriage?
3. How to set priorities and boundaries to guard your purpose and vision.

Resources:
IGNITE One Day Marriage Enrichment Event
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> By building on common ground, you can strengthen your marriage.

"Couples who know how to play and have fun together develop a bonding that can carry them through the most difficult times."

Lisa and I were talk about strengthening our marriage by building on common ground. We discussed how marriages built on common ground have the ability to stand up against challenges that happen in life.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Why does your marriage exist?
2. What is your shared vision for your marriage?
3. How to set priorities and boundaries to guard your purpose and vision.

Resources:
IGNITE One Day Marriage Enrichment Event
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


SUBSCRIBE ON:
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]]> Mon, 26 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1453 By building on common ground, you can strengthen your marriage.

"Couples who know how to play and have fun together develop a bonding that can carry them through the most difficult times."

Lisa and I were talk about strengthening our marriage by building on common ground. We discussed how marriages built on common ground have the ability to stand up against challenges that happen in life.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Why does your marriage exist?
2. What is your shared vision for your marriage?
3. How to set priorities and boundaries to guard your purpose and vision.

Resources:
IGNITE One Day Marriage Enrichment Event
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No With Dave and Bethany Kush 2 2 16 16 With Dave and Bethany Kush full 3f80fa1d-3490-4876-9014-00a0739df77f https://artofspousing.com/podcast/art-of-spousing-with-dave-and-bethany-kush/ In this episode, James and Lisa talk with Dave and Bethany Kush, who share their lifelong journey of learning and growth as a couple, in light of the Enneagram.

"Oh, my gosh, now everybody knows. They see me with all my flaws. I felt like I'm standing in front of a crowd wearing just my underpants."

Dave and Bethany Kush are a couple who have been married for 33 years. They have known each other since college and have been friends for a long time. Dave has worked in the corporate world for 15 years, and Bethany has been a stay-at-home mom for most of their marriage. They have both been involved in ministry for the past 15 years.

In this episode we cover:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand yourself and your spouse better
2. How the enneagram can help you navigate conflict in a healthy way
3. How the enneagram can help you understand your motivations and fears

Resources:
IGNITE One Day Marriage Enrichment Event
Dave IG: @davekush
Bethany IG: @bethkush

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa talk with Dave and Bethany Kush, who share their lifelong journey of learning and growth as a couple, in light of the Enneagram.

"Oh, my gosh, now everybody knows. They see me with all my flaws. I felt like I'm standing in front of a crowd wearing just my underpants."

Dave and Bethany Kush are a couple who have been married for 33 years. They have known each other since college and have been friends for a long time. Dave has worked in the corporate world for 15 years, and Bethany has been a stay-at-home mom for most of their marriage. They have both been involved in ministry for the past 15 years.

In this episode we cover:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand yourself and your spouse better
2. How the enneagram can help you navigate conflict in a healthy way
3. How the enneagram can help you understand your motivations and fears

Resources:
IGNITE One Day Marriage Enrichment Event
Dave IG: @davekush
Bethany IG: @bethkush

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

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]]> Mon, 19 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 2041 In this episode, James and Lisa talk with Dave and Bethany Kush, who share their lifelong journey of learning and growth as a couple, in light of the Enneagram. In this episode, James and Lisa talk with Dave and Bethany Kush, who share their lifelong journey of learning and growth as a couple, in light of the Enneagram. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Love: Defining the Three Essentials 2 2 15 15 Love: Defining the Three Essentials full 8d0219bd-25e6-4d0a-a21f-788f91f4d4d1 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/defining-the-three-essentials-of-love/ When committed love, emotional intimacy, and passion collide, the result is a work of art called marriage.

"Love is more than a feeling and deeper than a crafty slogan or a line of a song."

Today we're talking about love. The word love is described in so many different ways. Some make sense. Some are just silly. Some talk about love. Some try to define love. Some of these you may have heard of well, and other others may be new to you. Love is blind. Love is in the air. All you need is love. Love is like war. Easy to begin and hard to end. Not sure about that one. Love means differences can be worked out. Love is reaching your dreams together. Our love is like dividing by zero. It can't be defined. That kind of feels more like a bad pickup line. Yeah, it does. While some of those could be true, it's really difficult to define love. What makes up love?

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How can love be defined? 2. What are the components of love? 3. What does love look like in a healthy marriage?

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> When committed love, emotional intimacy, and passion collide, the result is a work of art called marriage.

"Love is more than a feeling and deeper than a crafty slogan or a line of a song."

Today we're talking about love. The word love is described in so many different ways. Some make sense. Some are just silly. Some talk about love. Some try to define love. Some of these you may have heard of well, and other others may be new to you. Love is blind. Love is in the air. All you need is love. Love is like war. Easy to begin and hard to end. Not sure about that one. Love means differences can be worked out. Love is reaching your dreams together. Our love is like dividing by zero. It can't be defined. That kind of feels more like a bad pickup line. Yeah, it does. While some of those could be true, it's really difficult to define love. What makes up love?

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How can love be defined? 2. What are the components of love? 3. What does love look like in a healthy marriage?

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Intentional Intimacy
Practising the Art of Spousing

Connect with us:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
FB: artofspousing
IG: @artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 12 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 988 When committed love, emotional intimacy, and passion collide, the result is a work of art called marriage. When committed love, emotional intimacy, and passion collide, the result is a work of art called marriage. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No With Ben and Elisa Haake 2 2 14 14 With Ben and Elisa Haake full 90b37b3d-51e3-45af-bb7e-dbf2ddb30565 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/the-art-of-spousing-with-ben-and-elisa-haake/ "The Enneagram's effect on marriage." is not about: 1. The Enneagram is a perfect tool for predicting compatibility in marriage. 2. The Enneagram can help identify and correct relationship problems. 3. The Enneagram can help couples resolve conflicts and improve communication. Do you know your Enneagram type? It just might be the key to a happy marriage.

"I felt understood for the first time and found out that castling is okay because it's how I restore and how I even when we first got married, I had to look at her and say, I need you to hear that I love you dearly, but I need to be away

Ben and Elisa Haake are a married couple who have been together for 12 years. They have two children and live in Florida. Ben is a worship pastor at Christ Fellowship Church and Elisa is a vocal coach and worship leader. They are both super hosts with Airbnb.

This is Ben and Elisa Haake's story...

Ben and Elisa Haake have been married for twelve years and have two kids. They met when Ben asked Elisa out on a double date. Eight years into their marriage, they realized that they never fought. After taking the enneagram test, they learned the reason why. The enneagram has given them language to understand their marriage dynamic and has helped them to grow in self-awareness, spouse awareness, and couple awareness.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand your relationship dynamic 2. How to use the enneagram to grow in self-awareness, spouse-awareness, and couple-awareness 3. How the enneagram can help you understand your shadow side.

Resources:
Justin IG: @benhaake
Andrea IG: @elisahaake

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
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]]> "The Enneagram's effect on marriage." is not about: 1. The Enneagram is a perfect tool for predicting compatibility in marriage. 2. The Enneagram can help identify and correct relationship problems. 3. The Enneagram can help couples resolve conflicts and improve communication. Do you know your Enneagram type? It just might be the key to a happy marriage.

"I felt understood for the first time and found out that castling is okay because it's how I restore and how I even when we first got married, I had to look at her and say, I need you to hear that I love you dearly, but I need to be away

Ben and Elisa Haake are a married couple who have been together for 12 years. They have two children and live in Florida. Ben is a worship pastor at Christ Fellowship Church and Elisa is a vocal coach and worship leader. They are both super hosts with Airbnb.

This is Ben and Elisa Haake's story...

Ben and Elisa Haake have been married for twelve years and have two kids. They met when Ben asked Elisa out on a double date. Eight years into their marriage, they realized that they never fought. After taking the enneagram test, they learned the reason why. The enneagram has given them language to understand their marriage dynamic and has helped them to grow in self-awareness, spouse awareness, and couple awareness.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How the enneagram can help you understand your relationship dynamic 2. How to use the enneagram to grow in self-awareness, spouse-awareness, and couple-awareness 3. How the enneagram can help you understand your shadow side.

Resources:
Justin IG: @benhaake
Andrea IG: @elisahaake

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Conversations about Marriage and the Enneagram

Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 05 Sep 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1652 How an Enneagram Eight and Five Flourish in Marriage with Ben and Elisa Haake How an Enneagram Eight and Five Flourish in Marriage with Ben and Elisa Haake marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Moment You Realize You Need Help in Your Marriage 2 2 13 13 The Moment You Realize You Need Help in Your Marriage full bcbd0845-3afa-468c-9813-a4a809a6cd61 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/the-moment-you-realize-you-need-help-in-your-marriage/ Are you dealing with any of this?
1. You may feel like your partner isn't listening to you or understanding your feelings.
2. You may feel like you're always the one giving and never receiving.
3. Your partner may not be meeting your needs emotionally or physically.

"So one of my favorite leadership teachers, Jim Rohn, taught small errors in judgment over a period of time will result in accumulated disaster."

I used to love running. I would go out every day and explore new routes. But after a while, I started to notice some pain in my right hip. I thought it was just muscle soreness at first, but it didn't go away. I saw a general practice doctor and they said everything was fine, but after a few weeks I knew something was really wrong. I ended up going to an orthopedic specialist and they told me I had a serious fracture in my hip. I had to have surgery and it was a really long recovery process. I think this is a really good illustration of what can happen in a marriage relationship. Small fractures can grow and cause real damage if they're not addressed.

In this episode you will learn: 1. How small errors in judgment can accumulate into disaster in a marriage relationship? 2. How  ignoring ongoing pain in a marriage relationship can lead to larger problems? 3. What are some signs that there may be a stress fracture in a marriage relationship?

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call

For Discussion:
1. Is there something right now in your marriage that has the potential to create disconnection or a break in your relationship?
2. What action can each of you do to address the concern?
3. Is there an opportunity for you to invite help into the situation, and if so who would that be?


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 6: The Gap Between the Event and the Response
Episode 2: Shifting Gears for Communication

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Are you dealing with any of this?
1. You may feel like your partner isn't listening to you or understanding your feelings.
2. You may feel like you're always the one giving and never receiving.
3. Your partner may not be meeting your needs emotionally or physically.

"So one of my favorite leadership teachers, Jim Rohn, taught small errors in judgment over a period of time will result in accumulated disaster."

I used to love running. I would go out every day and explore new routes. But after a while, I started to notice some pain in my right hip. I thought it was just muscle soreness at first, but it didn't go away. I saw a general practice doctor and they said everything was fine, but after a few weeks I knew something was really wrong. I ended up going to an orthopedic specialist and they told me I had a serious fracture in my hip. I had to have surgery and it was a really long recovery process. I think this is a really good illustration of what can happen in a marriage relationship. Small fractures can grow and cause real damage if they're not addressed.

In this episode you will learn: 1. How small errors in judgment can accumulate into disaster in a marriage relationship? 2. How  ignoring ongoing pain in a marriage relationship can lead to larger problems? 3. What are some signs that there may be a stress fracture in a marriage relationship?

Resources:
Marriage Reboot Discovery Call

For Discussion:
1. Is there something right now in your marriage that has the potential to create disconnection or a break in your relationship?
2. What action can each of you do to address the concern?
3. Is there an opportunity for you to invite help into the situation, and if so who would that be?


Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 6: The Gap Between the Event and the Response
Episode 2: Shifting Gears for Communication

Connect with us:
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 29 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1286 In this episode you will learn: 1. How small errors in judgment can accumulate into disaster in a marriage relationship? 2. How ignoring ongoing pain in a marriage relationship can lead to larger problems? 3. What are some signs that there may be a stress fracture in a marriage relationship? In this episode you will learn: 1. How small errors in judgment can accumulate into disaster in a marriage relationship? 2. How ignoring ongoing pain in a marriage relationship can lead to larger problems? 3. What are some signs that there may be a stres marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Justin and Andrea Lathrop 2 2 12 12 Justin and Andrea Lathrop full 00c5bd4b-5e3b-438b-b774-3671b56637a3 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/art-of-spousing-with-lathrops/ If you're looking for a marriage that will last, look no further than Justin and Andrea Lathrop.

"The greatest gift Justin has been in my life was to kind of model for me and perfectly, of course, like unconditional love and that it wasn't based on my performance, which ties into my enneagram number, too."

Justin and Andrea Lathrop are a married couple of 22 years. They met in college and have since had four children. Justin is the vice president for strategic partnerships at Southeastern University and Andrea is an executive pastor at a large church. They are both committed to their marriage and to helping others grow in their own relationships.

This is Justin and Andrea Lathrop's story...

Justin and Andrea Lathrop have been married for 22 years and have known each other for 25. They met in college and have been through multiple breakups. They have four children. Justin is a nine wing one and Andrea is a three wing two. They both find value in counseling and assessments.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How Justin and Andrea Lathrop met and started dating 2. How the enneagram has helped them understand each other better 3. How they use the enneagram to improve their communication and relationship

Resources:
Justin IG: @justinlathrop
Andrea IG: @andrealathrop

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 8: Conversations About Marriage and the Enneagram
Episode 10: Greg and Julie Gorman

Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
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]]> If you're looking for a marriage that will last, look no further than Justin and Andrea Lathrop.

"The greatest gift Justin has been in my life was to kind of model for me and perfectly, of course, like unconditional love and that it wasn't based on my performance, which ties into my enneagram number, too."

Justin and Andrea Lathrop are a married couple of 22 years. They met in college and have since had four children. Justin is the vice president for strategic partnerships at Southeastern University and Andrea is an executive pastor at a large church. They are both committed to their marriage and to helping others grow in their own relationships.

This is Justin and Andrea Lathrop's story...

Justin and Andrea Lathrop have been married for 22 years and have known each other for 25. They met in college and have been through multiple breakups. They have four children. Justin is a nine wing one and Andrea is a three wing two. They both find value in counseling and assessments.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How Justin and Andrea Lathrop met and started dating 2. How the enneagram has helped them understand each other better 3. How they use the enneagram to improve their communication and relationship

Resources:
Justin IG: @justinlathrop
Andrea IG: @andrealathrop

Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 8: Conversations About Marriage and the Enneagram
Episode 10: Greg and Julie Gorman

Connect with us:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


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]]> Mon, 22 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1735 In this episode we talk with our good friends Justin (#enneagram9) and Andrea (#enneagram3) Lathrop and discuss things they have learned during their 22 years of marriage. In this episode we talk with our good friends Justin (#enneagram9) and Andrea (#enneagram3) Lathrop and discuss things they have learned during their 22 years of marriage. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Intentional Intimacy 2 2 11 11 Intentional Intimacy full 4babd5a1-ec7d-4997-b828-ce5f0572e209 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/intentional-intimacy/ Lisa and James share insights around the five types of intimacy, and how a husband and wife can practice the art of intentional intimacy in spousing.  Topics include; relational intimacy, spiritual intimacy, physical intimacy, emotional intimacy, and sexual intimacy.
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

]]> Lisa and James share insights around the five types of intimacy, and how a husband and wife can practice the art of intentional intimacy in spousing.  Topics include; relational intimacy, spiritual intimacy, physical intimacy, emotional intimacy, and sexual intimacy.
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Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
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Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

]]> Mon, 15 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1289 Lisa and James share insights around the five types of intimacy, and how a husband and wife can practice the art of intentional intimacy in spousing. Lisa and James share insights around the five types of intimacy, and how a husband and wife can practice the art of intentional intimacy in spousing. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Greg and Julie Gorman 2 2 10 10 Greg and Julie Gorman full 17ff0621-25ee-4a7b-8e09-ec57b8dbf309 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/art-of-spousing-with-greg-and-julie-gorman/ Lisa and James sit down with good friends Greg and Julie Gorman, the founders of Married for a Purpose, to talk about their 23 year marriage dynamic of an ennea 7 and ennea 2.
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Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

]]> Lisa and James sit down with good friends Greg and Julie Gorman, the founders of Married for a Purpose, to talk about their 23 year marriage dynamic of an ennea 7 and ennea 2.
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Art of Spousing Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Married For a Purpose Resources:
Website: marriedforapurpose.com
IG: @marriedforapurpose
FB: marriedforapurpose

Books:
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage
Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples
Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage
What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men
Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms

]]> Mon, 08 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1939 Lisa and James sit down with good friends Greg and Julie Gorman, the founders of Married for a Purpose, to talk about their 23 year marriage dynamic of an ennea 7 and ennea 2. Lisa and James sit down with good friends Greg and Julie Gorman, the founders of Married for a Purpose, to talk about their 23 year marriage dynamic of an ennea 7 and ennea 2. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Me Awareness and We Awareness 2 2 9 9 Me Awareness and We Awareness full 5c4922e6-c161-4101-84df-a1123e069c8f https://artofspousing.com/podcast/me-awareness-and-we-awareness/ James and Lisa teach on the importance of growing in self-awareness (ME) and awareness of each other (WE).  Topics discussed include; the difference between nature and nurture, Personality types, birth order, core motivations, love languages, and family of origin.

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
The Intimate Connection: Secrets to a Lifelong Romance
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth

Family of Origin Discussion Questions

]]> James and Lisa teach on the importance of growing in self-awareness (ME) and awareness of each other (WE).  Topics discussed include; the difference between nature and nurture, Personality types, birth order, core motivations, love languages, and family of origin.

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Spotify
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Art of Spousing Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
The Intimate Connection: Secrets to a Lifelong Romance
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth

Family of Origin Discussion Questions

]]> Mon, 01 Aug 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1447 James and Lisa teach on the importance of growing in self-awareness (ME) and awareness of each other (WE). James and Lisa teach on the importance of growing in self-awareness (ME) and awareness of each other (WE). marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Conversations About Marriage and The Enneagram 1 1 8 8 Conversations About Marriage and The Enneagram full 02ec8ced-48b2-488d-9f2f-5a2e524527ea https://artofspousing.com/podcast/conversations-about-marriage-and-the-enneagram/ James and Lisa share learnings around the power of The Enneagram, as a tool for building connection in a marriage relationship.  They unveil their personal Enneagram types and the dynamics of how their two types compliment and at times cause conflict in their relationship.

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Art of Spousing Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:

The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
The Path Between Us: An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships
The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual

Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage



]]> James and Lisa share learnings around the power of The Enneagram, as a tool for building connection in a marriage relationship.  They unveil their personal Enneagram types and the dynamics of how their two types compliment and at times cause conflict in their relationship.

___________________________________________________

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Spotify
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Art of Spousing Resources:
Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:

The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
The Path Between Us: An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships
The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual

Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage



]]> Mon, 18 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1826 James and Lisa share learnings around the power of The Enneagram, as a tool for building connection in a marriage relationship. They unveil their personal Enneagram types and the dynamics of how their two types compliment and at times cause conflict in their relationship. James and Lisa share learnings around the power of The Enneagram, as a tool for building connection in a marriage relationship. They unveil their personal Enneagram types and the dynamics of how their two types compliment and at times cause conflict in t marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Gap Between Here and There 1 1 7 7 The Gap Between Here and There full eb6c2db6-4d8e-4315-8344-a9c2c97d15d2 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/the-gap-between-here-and-there/ James and Lisa unpack the Gap and the Gain made famous by Dan Sullivan.  How you measure progress in your marriage relationship will determine the potential for happiness and contentment in you relationship.  

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Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
The Gap and The Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success
Snowball Debt Reduction Spreadsheet

]]> James and Lisa unpack the Gap and the Gain made famous by Dan Sullivan.  How you measure progress in your marriage relationship will determine the potential for happiness and contentment in you relationship.  

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Art of Spousing Resources:

Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
The Gap and The Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success
Snowball Debt Reduction Spreadsheet

]]> Mon, 04 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1191 James and Lisa unpack the Gap and the Gain made famous by Dan Sullivan. How you measure progress in your marriage relationship will determine the potential for happiness and contentment in you relationship. James and Lisa unpack the Gap and the Gain made famous by Dan Sullivan. How you measure progress in your marriage relationship will determine the potential for happiness and contentment in you relationship. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No The Gap Between the Event and the Response 1 1 6 6 The Gap Between the Event and the Response full 584a33de-157e-4147-baec-8178a4b10dd7 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/the-gap-between-the-event-and-the-response/ In this episode, James and Lisa unpack a simple concept that has the potential to shape the outcomes of situations where one or both spouses are triggered. 

Inspired by a quote attributed to psychologist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl... “Between the stimulus (event) and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” ... you will learn three things that you can fill the space with, in order to find growth and freedom in your art of spousing.

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]]> In this episode, James and Lisa unpack a simple concept that has the potential to shape the outcomes of situations where one or both spouses are triggered. 

Inspired by a quote attributed to psychologist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl... “Between the stimulus (event) and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” ... you will learn three things that you can fill the space with, in order to find growth and freedom in your art of spousing.

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]]> Mon, 20 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1301 In this episode, James and Lisa unpack a simple concept that has the potential to shape the outcomes of situations where one or both spouses are triggered. In this episode, James and Lisa unpack a simple concept that has the potential to shape the outcomes of situations where one or both spouses are triggered. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Growing in Love 1 1 5 5 Growing in Love full 292990ab-707a-461b-be23-f6d50994f011 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/growing-in-love/ People FALL IN LOVE every day.  The problem is too many people FALL OUT OF LOVE too easily.  Having a lasting, healthy marriage requires a different mindset.  It requires a commitment to love even in seasons when it is difficult.  ⁠
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In this episode we unpack the principle of sowing and reaping and 3 truths that will help you and your spouse GROW IN LOVE for the rest of your lives together.  

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Marriage Book Suggestions

]]> People FALL IN LOVE every day.  The problem is too many people FALL OUT OF LOVE too easily.  Having a lasting, healthy marriage requires a different mindset.  It requires a commitment to love even in seasons when it is difficult.  ⁠
⁠
In this episode we unpack the principle of sowing and reaping and 3 truths that will help you and your spouse GROW IN LOVE for the rest of your lives together.  

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Marriage Book Suggestions

]]> Mon, 06 Jun 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1549 People FALL IN LOVE every day. The problem is too many people FALL OUT OF LOVE too easily. Having a lasting, healthy marriage requires a different mindset. It requires a commitment to love even in seasons when it is difficult. ⁠ ⁠In this episode we unpack the principle of sowing and reaping and 3 truths that will help you and your spouse GROW IN LOVE for the rest of your lives together. People FALL IN LOVE every day. The problem is too many people FALL OUT OF LOVE too easily. Having a lasting, healthy marriage requires a different mindset. It requires a commitment to love even in seasons when it is difficult. ⁠ ⁠In this episode we u marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No Three Principles for Facing Crisis and/or Challenges In Your Marriage 1 1 4 4 Three Principles for Facing Crisis and/or Challenges In Your Marriage full ff30d0c0-1429-4971-b2bc-00ed94bcefc2 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/three-principles-for-facing-crisis-and-or-challenges-in-your-marriage/ Every marriage will face crisis and challenging times.  Having guiding principles in place before these times hit is important to be able to navigate through to the other side.  James and Lisa share three principles that will help married couples navigate crisis and challenge in their relationship. Some of the things you will hear include:

- Recap of the Big Three C's
- The difference between Crisis and Challenge
- How good things and positive events can cause challenge in a marriage
- The three principles of Productive Communication, Positive Community and Proactive Connectedness.  
- and more!

You will also hear about a new coaching opportunity through Art of Spousing.

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Mentioned Resources:
Feeling Wheel

]]> Every marriage will face crisis and challenging times.  Having guiding principles in place before these times hit is important to be able to navigate through to the other side.  James and Lisa share three principles that will help married couples navigate crisis and challenge in their relationship. Some of the things you will hear include:

- Recap of the Big Three C's
- The difference between Crisis and Challenge
- How good things and positive events can cause challenge in a marriage
- The three principles of Productive Communication, Positive Community and Proactive Connectedness.  
- and more!

You will also hear about a new coaching opportunity through Art of Spousing.

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Art of Spousing Resources:

Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
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Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
Feeling Wheel

]]> Mon, 16 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1390 Every marriage will face crisis and challenging times. Having guiding principles in place before these times hit is important to be able to navigate through to the other side. James and Lisa share three principles that will help married couples navigate crisis and challenge in their relationship. Every marriage will face crisis and challenging times. Having guiding principles in place before these times hit is important to be able to navigate through to the other side. James and Lisa share three principles that will help married couples navigate marriage, relationships, marriage help, love, james duvall, lisa duvall, marriage crisis, challenges No Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity 1 1 3 3 Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity full b5fa4cac-1b5b-4a9b-85f5-35de8a69915d https://artofspousing.com/podcast/conflict-the-opportunity-for-unity/ James and Lisa share tools that will help married couples navigate conflict in their relationship  Some of the things you will hear include:

- The night that James and Lisa were test subjects for an important research study
- Explanation of the "Know Yourself, Lead Yourself" tool
- How to give an apology
- How the words Impact and Intent can defuse conflict.
- How Snickers Bars are more than just a tasty candy bar.

You will also hear about a new coaching opportunity through Art of Spousing.

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
BOOK: The Peacemaker
BOOK: From This Day Forward: Five Commitments to Fail-Proof Your Marriage
BOOK: Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments Every Couple Needs to Make

]]> James and Lisa share tools that will help married couples navigate conflict in their relationship  Some of the things you will hear include:

- The night that James and Lisa were test subjects for an important research study
- Explanation of the "Know Yourself, Lead Yourself" tool
- How to give an apology
- How the words Impact and Intent can defuse conflict.
- How Snickers Bars are more than just a tasty candy bar.

You will also hear about a new coaching opportunity through Art of Spousing.

___________________________________________________

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Art of Spousing Resources:

Schedule a Discovery Call about coaching opportunities.
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Website: artofspousing.com
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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall

Mentioned Resources:
BOOK: The Peacemaker
BOOK: From This Day Forward: Five Commitments to Fail-Proof Your Marriage
BOOK: Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments Every Couple Needs to Make

]]> Mon, 02 May 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1598 James and Lisa share tools that will help married couples navigate conflict in their relationship James and Lisa share tools that will help married couples navigate conflict in their relationship marriage, relationships, marriage help, love, james duvall, lisa duvall No Just the Two of Us Trip 1 1 3 3 Just the Two of Us Trip bonus 699008b1-aa61-40f8-86e0-af802f6c5ddd https://artofspousing.com/podcast/just-the-two-of-us-trip/ In this bonus episode, James and Lisa share a clip of a podcast they recorded remotely from Cancun, Mexico. They unpack how they have prioritized their relationship by doing "Just the 2 of Us Trips" on an annual basis. Some of the things you will hear in this episode include:

  • How getting away with your spouse is like "fasting"
  • The benefits that James and Lisa find from doing just the 2 of us trips
  • Lisa's vacation exercise plan

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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Mentioned Resources:

Sample Doc of Agenda for Kids

Sample Medical Release 


LISA'S FAVORITE RESORT: ATELIER Playa Mujeres

]]> In this bonus episode, James and Lisa share a clip of a podcast they recorded remotely from Cancun, Mexico. They unpack how they have prioritized their relationship by doing "Just the 2 of Us Trips" on an annual basis. Some of the things you will hear in this episode include:

  • How getting away with your spouse is like "fasting"
  • The benefits that James and Lisa find from doing just the 2 of us trips
  • Lisa's vacation exercise plan

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James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Mentioned Resources:

Sample Doc of Agenda for Kids

Sample Medical Release 


LISA'S FAVORITE RESORT: ATELIER Playa Mujeres

]]> Mon, 25 Apr 2022 05:11:35 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 598 In this bonus episode, James and Lisa share a clip of a podcast they recorded remotely from Cancun, Mexico. They unpack how they have prioritized their relationship by doing "Just the 2 of Us Trips" on an annual basis. In this bonus episode, James and Lisa share a clip of a podcast they recorded remotely from Cancun, Mexico. They unpack how they have prioritized their relationship by doing "Just the 2 of Us Trips" on an annual basis. marriage, relationships, marriage help, love, james duvall, lisa duvall No Shifting Gears for Communication 1 1 2 2 Shifting Gears for Communication full a8ca17ce-b044-4409-b6f0-c18433d7ac86 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/shifting-gears-for-communication/ Lisa and James introduce the Five Gears Tool that can help couples in their daily communication.   Understanding what gear each spouse is in will help person shift up or down for better connection.
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Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Mentioned Resources:

WEBSITE: Married For A Purpose
PODCAST: Unrelenting Pursuit
PODCAST: Expedition Marriage
BOOK: Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage
BOOK: 5 Gears: How to Be Present and Productive When There Is Never Enough Time

]]> Lisa and James introduce the Five Gears Tool that can help couples in their daily communication.   Understanding what gear each spouse is in will help person shift up or down for better connection.
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Art of Spousing Resources:

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Mentioned Resources:

WEBSITE: Married For A Purpose
PODCAST: Unrelenting Pursuit
PODCAST: Expedition Marriage
BOOK: Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage
BOOK: 5 Gears: How to Be Present and Productive When There Is Never Enough Time

]]> Mon, 18 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1507 Lisa and James introduce the Five Gears Tool that can help couples in their daily communication.   Understanding what gear each spouse is in will help person shift up or down for better connection.
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Art of Spousing Resources:

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Mentioned Resources:

WEBSITE: Married For A Purpose
PODCAST: Unrelenting Pursuit
PODCAST: Expedition Marriage
BOOK: Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage
BOOK: 5 Gears: How to Be Present and Productive When There Is Never Enough Time

]]> marriage, relationships, marriage help, love, james duvall, lisa duvall No Practising the Art of Spousing 1 1 1 1 Practising the Art of Spousing full c9218c1a-7bea-4b56-9bf9-5f72b204611c https://artofspousing.com/podcast/practising-the-art-of-spousing/ Lisa and James Duvall introduce the origin of Art of Spousing. They share the difference between having a marriage practice and practising the skills that will build a strong and healthy marriage. This episode unpacks three practises that are vital for any marriage to be healthy and strong.
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Website: artofspousing.com
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Mentioned Resources:


Photographers:
Alexx Duvall
Stephanie Tarno


Books:
Fun Loving You: Enjoying Your Marriage in the Midst of the Grind - Ted Cunningham


]]> Lisa and James Duvall introduce the origin of Art of Spousing. They share the difference between having a marriage practice and practising the skills that will build a strong and healthy marriage. This episode unpacks three practises that are vital for any marriage to be healthy and strong.
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Art of Spousing Resources:

Website: artofspousing.com
IG: @artofspousing
FB Group: artofspousing
James IG: @thejamesduvall
Lisa IG: @lisaduvall


Mentioned Resources:


Photographers:
Alexx Duvall
Stephanie Tarno


Books:
Fun Loving You: Enjoying Your Marriage in the Midst of the Grind - Ted Cunningham


]]> Mon, 04 Apr 2022 00:00:00 -0400 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 1326 Lisa and James Duvall introduce the origin of Art of Spousing. They share the difference between having a marriage practice and practising the skills that will build a strong and healthy marriage. This episode unpacks three practises that are vital for any marriage to be healthy and strong. Lisa and James Duvall introduce the origin of Art of Spousing. They share the difference between having a marriage practice and practising the skills that will build a strong and healthy marriage. This episode unpacks three practises that are vital for an marriage, relationships, marriage help, love, james duvall, lisa duvall No Trailer 1 1 1 1 Trailer trailer 397ae9a5-1b35-4297-b2ce-5b1f5dda93b1 https://artofspousing.com/podcast/trailer/ Hosts James and Lisa Duvall introduce their brand new podcast and invite listener to join them on the first and third Mondays of every month stating April 2022.

]]> Hosts James and Lisa Duvall introduce their brand new podcast and invite listener to join them on the first and third Mondays of every month stating April 2022.

]]> Sat, 26 Feb 2022 11:38:23 -0500 Art of Spousing Art of Spousing 109 Hosts James and Lisa Duvall introduce themselves and the new podcast. Hosts James and Lisa Duvall introduce themselves and the new podcast. marriage, relationships, christianity, marriage help, intimacy No