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Hosted by Leah Ova and featuring Aaron Calafato (7 Minute Stories), each episode tackles the everyday decisions and tensions that come with balancing career growth, family life, and partnership.

From childcare crises and career tradeoffs to money, logistics, and emotional labor, this show explores the reality behind modern adulthood and why those conversations matter more than ever.</description>
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