<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<?xml-stylesheet href="/stylesheet.xsl" type="text/xsl"?>
<rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0">
  <channel>
    <atom:link rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" href="https://feeds.transistor.fm/a-year-and-a-day-divorce-without-destruction" title="MP3 Audio"/>
    <atom:link rel="hub" href="https://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/"/>
    <podcast:podping usesPodping="true"/>
    <title>A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction</title>
    <generator>Transistor (https://transistor.fm)</generator>
    <itunes:new-feed-url>https://feeds.transistor.fm/a-year-and-a-day-divorce-without-destruction</itunes:new-feed-url>
    <description>Board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis and her guests provide information and tips for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or finances. From marriage therapists and financial planners to private investigators and parenting coordinators, learn how to navigate divorce without destruction.</description>
    <copyright>2023 Jaime Davis</copyright>
    <podcast:guid>30177fec-0cb8-590d-88f0-bceb954ad657</podcast:guid>
    <podcast:locked owner="jason@earfluence.com">no</podcast:locked>
    <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    <language>en</language>
    <pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 09:36:12 -0400</pubDate>
    <lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 09:37:13 -0400</lastBuildDate>
    <link>http://jaimedavis.libsyn.com/website</link>
    <image>
      <url>https://img.transistorcdn.com/TFz-ETctdqyBgsQqBxMOycaYLx7C_Mycn3T6Eu9WatI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iMTg4/ZGZhZDBjOTg3ZWYz/NDI3OGVkYzczMjE0/MTU1ZC5wbmc.jpg</url>
      <title>A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction</title>
      <link>http://jaimedavis.libsyn.com/website</link>
    </image>
    <itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture">
      <itunes:category text="Relationships"/>
    </itunes:category>
    <itunes:category text="Education">
      <itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/>
    </itunes:category>
    <itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type>
    <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
    <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/TFz-ETctdqyBgsQqBxMOycaYLx7C_Mycn3T6Eu9WatI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iMTg4/ZGZhZDBjOTg3ZWYz/NDI3OGVkYzczMjE0/MTU1ZC5wbmc.jpg"/>
    <itunes:summary>Board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis and her guests provide information and tips for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or finances. From marriage therapists and financial planners to private investigators and parenting coordinators, learn how to navigate divorce without destruction.</itunes:summary>
    <itunes:subtitle>Board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis and her guests provide information and tips for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or finances.</itunes:subtitle>
    <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
    <itunes:owner>
      <itunes:name>Jaime Davis</itunes:name>
    </itunes:owner>
    <itunes:complete>No</itunes:complete>
    <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
    <item>
      <title>Your Feelings Make Sense: The Emotional Roadmap Every Divorcing Woman Needs</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Your Feelings Make Sense: The Emotional Roadmap Every Divorcing Woman Needs</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">66c96b5a-b379-4f6a-a595-4bcd470550fa</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/06bea4dd</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce attorneys can tell you what to sign. Financial advisors can tell you what to keep. But who helps you understand what you're <em>feeling</em> — and why it's not going to feel this way forever?</p><p>In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Oona Metz, a nationally recognized psychotherapist with over 30 years of clinical experience and the author of <em>Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women</em>. For the last 15 years, Oona has led weekly divorce support groups that have become a lifeline for women navigating one of life's most difficult transitions. Her work fills a gap that the legal and financial world simply cannot: the internal, emotional experience of ending a marriage.</p><p><br>Oona introduces her <strong>Five Phases of Divorce Grief</strong> — Heartbreak, Rollercoaster, Mending, Letting Go, and Moving On — and explains why these stages are not a straight line. She and Jaime discuss why women initiate divorce 70% of the time (and what that actually tells us), the critical difference between legally ending a marriage and emotionally leaving one, and why <strong>dating too soon</strong> can quietly derail both your healing and your legal case. Oona also makes a powerful case for reframing the language around divorce entirely — moving away from words like "failed marriage" and "broken family" and toward something more accurate: a <strong>family restructuring</strong> and a life transition.</p><p><br><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Sunk Cost Fallacy in Marriage:</strong> Staying because you've already been there 20 years is not a strategy — and it's not the definition of success. A long, miserable marriage is not an achievement.</li><li><strong>Protecting Your Nervous System:</strong> When stress goes up, cognition goes down. Self-care during divorce is not a luxury — it's a prerequisite for making sound legal and financial decisions that will affect the rest of your life.</li><li><strong>The Elevator Speech:</strong> Have a short, truthful, privacy-protecting answer ready for people who ask about your divorce. Your feelings about your ex will change over time — what you say in the heat of the moment won't.</li><li><strong>Dating Post-Separation:</strong> A tender heart needs the same care as a broken arm. Jumping into a new relationship before doing the internal work means your needs won't get met — again. And from a legal standpoint, new relationships discovered mid-case can unravel settlements that took months to build.<p></p></li></ul><p><em>Find Oona's book, Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, and additional resources at OonaMetz.com.</em></p><p>If you found this episode helpful, follow <strong>A Year and a Day</strong> wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.</p><p>For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at <strong>divorceistough.com</strong>.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce attorneys can tell you what to sign. Financial advisors can tell you what to keep. But who helps you understand what you're <em>feeling</em> — and why it's not going to feel this way forever?</p><p>In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Oona Metz, a nationally recognized psychotherapist with over 30 years of clinical experience and the author of <em>Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women</em>. For the last 15 years, Oona has led weekly divorce support groups that have become a lifeline for women navigating one of life's most difficult transitions. Her work fills a gap that the legal and financial world simply cannot: the internal, emotional experience of ending a marriage.</p><p><br>Oona introduces her <strong>Five Phases of Divorce Grief</strong> — Heartbreak, Rollercoaster, Mending, Letting Go, and Moving On — and explains why these stages are not a straight line. She and Jaime discuss why women initiate divorce 70% of the time (and what that actually tells us), the critical difference between legally ending a marriage and emotionally leaving one, and why <strong>dating too soon</strong> can quietly derail both your healing and your legal case. Oona also makes a powerful case for reframing the language around divorce entirely — moving away from words like "failed marriage" and "broken family" and toward something more accurate: a <strong>family restructuring</strong> and a life transition.</p><p><br><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Sunk Cost Fallacy in Marriage:</strong> Staying because you've already been there 20 years is not a strategy — and it's not the definition of success. A long, miserable marriage is not an achievement.</li><li><strong>Protecting Your Nervous System:</strong> When stress goes up, cognition goes down. Self-care during divorce is not a luxury — it's a prerequisite for making sound legal and financial decisions that will affect the rest of your life.</li><li><strong>The Elevator Speech:</strong> Have a short, truthful, privacy-protecting answer ready for people who ask about your divorce. Your feelings about your ex will change over time — what you say in the heat of the moment won't.</li><li><strong>Dating Post-Separation:</strong> A tender heart needs the same care as a broken arm. Jumping into a new relationship before doing the internal work means your needs won't get met — again. And from a legal standpoint, new relationships discovered mid-case can unravel settlements that took months to build.<p></p></li></ul><p><em>Find Oona's book, Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, and additional resources at OonaMetz.com.</em></p><p>If you found this episode helpful, follow <strong>A Year and a Day</strong> wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.</p><p>For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at <strong>divorceistough.com</strong>.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/06bea4dd/12e24c19.mp3" length="35472705" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2215</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce attorneys can tell you what to sign. Financial advisors can tell you what to keep. But who helps you understand what you're <em>feeling</em> — and why it's not going to feel this way forever?</p><p>In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Oona Metz, a nationally recognized psychotherapist with over 30 years of clinical experience and the author of <em>Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women</em>. For the last 15 years, Oona has led weekly divorce support groups that have become a lifeline for women navigating one of life's most difficult transitions. Her work fills a gap that the legal and financial world simply cannot: the internal, emotional experience of ending a marriage.</p><p><br>Oona introduces her <strong>Five Phases of Divorce Grief</strong> — Heartbreak, Rollercoaster, Mending, Letting Go, and Moving On — and explains why these stages are not a straight line. She and Jaime discuss why women initiate divorce 70% of the time (and what that actually tells us), the critical difference between legally ending a marriage and emotionally leaving one, and why <strong>dating too soon</strong> can quietly derail both your healing and your legal case. Oona also makes a powerful case for reframing the language around divorce entirely — moving away from words like "failed marriage" and "broken family" and toward something more accurate: a <strong>family restructuring</strong> and a life transition.</p><p><br><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Sunk Cost Fallacy in Marriage:</strong> Staying because you've already been there 20 years is not a strategy — and it's not the definition of success. A long, miserable marriage is not an achievement.</li><li><strong>Protecting Your Nervous System:</strong> When stress goes up, cognition goes down. Self-care during divorce is not a luxury — it's a prerequisite for making sound legal and financial decisions that will affect the rest of your life.</li><li><strong>The Elevator Speech:</strong> Have a short, truthful, privacy-protecting answer ready for people who ask about your divorce. Your feelings about your ex will change over time — what you say in the heat of the moment won't.</li><li><strong>Dating Post-Separation:</strong> A tender heart needs the same care as a broken arm. Jumping into a new relationship before doing the internal work means your needs won't get met — again. And from a legal standpoint, new relationships discovered mid-case can unravel settlements that took months to build.<p></p></li></ul><p><em>Find Oona's book, Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, and additional resources at OonaMetz.com.</em></p><p>If you found this episode helpful, follow <strong>A Year and a Day</strong> wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.</p><p>For legal assistance in North Carolina, contact Gailor Hunt at <strong>divorceistough.com</strong>.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>The Business of Divorce - A Special Crossover with All Up In Your Business</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>The Business of Divorce - A Special Crossover with All Up In Your Business</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">592fb86a-92d3-4845-9f7e-db89e3c5a3e6</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/56083339</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we’re turning the mic around! Jaime Davis, host of <em>A Year and a Day</em>, joins Kayleigh Bain for a deep dive into the professional side of family law. With 25 years of experience and a board certification in family law, Jaime shares how she built a thriving practice and why she transitioned from dreaming of criminal law to mastering the complexities of "Divorce Without Destruction."</p><p>For business owners and professionals, divorce isn't just personal—it's a high-stakes asset management challenge. Jaime explains how to protect your business interests before and after marriage, the strategic importance of prenups (and "postnups"), and why your company’s valuation might be more vulnerable than you think. Whether you're a founder looking to shield your equity or an aspiring attorney curious about the "business" of law, this conversation provides the intentional, expert-led roadmap you need.</p><p><br><strong>Inside this crossover, we cover:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Protecting the Hustle:</strong> How business owners can use premarital agreements to ensure their growth remains separate property.</li><li><strong>Strategic Marketing:</strong> Why Jaime launched a podcast to educate individuals considering or going through a divorce and her referral network of realtors, therapists, and financial planners.</li><li><strong>The "Year and a Day" Logic:</strong> Understanding North Carolina’s mandatory separation period as a window for financial planning.<p></p></li></ul><p><strong>Need a consultation in North Carolina?</strong> Visit<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> divorceistough.com</a> to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.<br><strong>Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle?</strong> Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.</em></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we’re turning the mic around! Jaime Davis, host of <em>A Year and a Day</em>, joins Kayleigh Bain for a deep dive into the professional side of family law. With 25 years of experience and a board certification in family law, Jaime shares how she built a thriving practice and why she transitioned from dreaming of criminal law to mastering the complexities of "Divorce Without Destruction."</p><p>For business owners and professionals, divorce isn't just personal—it's a high-stakes asset management challenge. Jaime explains how to protect your business interests before and after marriage, the strategic importance of prenups (and "postnups"), and why your company’s valuation might be more vulnerable than you think. Whether you're a founder looking to shield your equity or an aspiring attorney curious about the "business" of law, this conversation provides the intentional, expert-led roadmap you need.</p><p><br><strong>Inside this crossover, we cover:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Protecting the Hustle:</strong> How business owners can use premarital agreements to ensure their growth remains separate property.</li><li><strong>Strategic Marketing:</strong> Why Jaime launched a podcast to educate individuals considering or going through a divorce and her referral network of realtors, therapists, and financial planners.</li><li><strong>The "Year and a Day" Logic:</strong> Understanding North Carolina’s mandatory separation period as a window for financial planning.<p></p></li></ul><p><strong>Need a consultation in North Carolina?</strong> Visit<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> divorceistough.com</a> to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.<br><strong>Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle?</strong> Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.</em></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/56083339/eac6e55b.mp3" length="31776672" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1984</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we’re turning the mic around! Jaime Davis, host of <em>A Year and a Day</em>, joins Kayleigh Bain for a deep dive into the professional side of family law. With 25 years of experience and a board certification in family law, Jaime shares how she built a thriving practice and why she transitioned from dreaming of criminal law to mastering the complexities of "Divorce Without Destruction."</p><p>For business owners and professionals, divorce isn't just personal—it's a high-stakes asset management challenge. Jaime explains how to protect your business interests before and after marriage, the strategic importance of prenups (and "postnups"), and why your company’s valuation might be more vulnerable than you think. Whether you're a founder looking to shield your equity or an aspiring attorney curious about the "business" of law, this conversation provides the intentional, expert-led roadmap you need.</p><p><br><strong>Inside this crossover, we cover:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Protecting the Hustle:</strong> How business owners can use premarital agreements to ensure their growth remains separate property.</li><li><strong>Strategic Marketing:</strong> Why Jaime launched a podcast to educate individuals considering or going through a divorce and her referral network of realtors, therapists, and financial planners.</li><li><strong>The "Year and a Day" Logic:</strong> Understanding North Carolina’s mandatory separation period as a window for financial planning.<p></p></li></ul><p><strong>Need a consultation in North Carolina?</strong> Visit<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> divorceistough.com</a> to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.<br><strong>Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle?</strong> Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.</em></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>MythBusters: North Carolina Divorce Edition</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>MythBusters: North Carolina Divorce Edition</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">ad873bc3-2caf-4aa7-810d-7fef2ee35952</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/85e87c7d</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>A Year and a Day</em>, host Jaime Davis takes on the role of "MythBuster." After years of seeing clients enter her office fueled by internet rumors and well-meaning but inaccurate advice, Jaime clears the air on the most common divorce misconceptions in North Carolina.</p><p>From the "staying together for the kids" trap to the reality of how property is actually divided, this episode replaces "water cooler wisdom" with hard facts. Jaime breaks down the state's unique <strong>Year and a Day</strong> rule, explains why moving into the spare bedroom isn't a legal separation, and reveals why "winning" the divorce based on a spouse's misconduct is largely a fantasy. Whether you're curious about whether the Courts favor mothers  or wondering if your pre-marital home is excluded from property division, this episode provides the clarity needed to make decisions based on facts, not fear.</p><p><strong>The Myths We're Busting:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Bedroom Separation Myth:</strong> Why you aren't "legally separated" until someone actually moves out.</li><li><strong>The Child’s Choice Myth:</strong> Does a 12-year-old really get to pick where they live? (Spoiler: No).</li><li><strong>The "Cheater Takes All" Myth:</strong> How marital misconduct actually affects alimony, post-separation support, and property division.</li><li><strong>The Equitable vs. Equal Myth:</strong> Understanding that "equitable" doesn't always mean a perfect 50-50 split.</li><li>Mothers are favored in custody decisions, your spouse needs to sign divorce papers, and MORE!</li></ul><p><strong>Need a consultation in North Carolina?</strong> Visit<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> divorceistough.com</a> to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.</p><p><strong>Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle?</strong> Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>A Year and a Day</em>, host Jaime Davis takes on the role of "MythBuster." After years of seeing clients enter her office fueled by internet rumors and well-meaning but inaccurate advice, Jaime clears the air on the most common divorce misconceptions in North Carolina.</p><p>From the "staying together for the kids" trap to the reality of how property is actually divided, this episode replaces "water cooler wisdom" with hard facts. Jaime breaks down the state's unique <strong>Year and a Day</strong> rule, explains why moving into the spare bedroom isn't a legal separation, and reveals why "winning" the divorce based on a spouse's misconduct is largely a fantasy. Whether you're curious about whether the Courts favor mothers  or wondering if your pre-marital home is excluded from property division, this episode provides the clarity needed to make decisions based on facts, not fear.</p><p><strong>The Myths We're Busting:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Bedroom Separation Myth:</strong> Why you aren't "legally separated" until someone actually moves out.</li><li><strong>The Child’s Choice Myth:</strong> Does a 12-year-old really get to pick where they live? (Spoiler: No).</li><li><strong>The "Cheater Takes All" Myth:</strong> How marital misconduct actually affects alimony, post-separation support, and property division.</li><li><strong>The Equitable vs. Equal Myth:</strong> Understanding that "equitable" doesn't always mean a perfect 50-50 split.</li><li>Mothers are favored in custody decisions, your spouse needs to sign divorce papers, and MORE!</li></ul><p><strong>Need a consultation in North Carolina?</strong> Visit<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> divorceistough.com</a> to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.</p><p><strong>Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle?</strong> Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/85e87c7d/2d0b1c54.mp3" length="12667934" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>790</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <em>A Year and a Day</em>, host Jaime Davis takes on the role of "MythBuster." After years of seeing clients enter her office fueled by internet rumors and well-meaning but inaccurate advice, Jaime clears the air on the most common divorce misconceptions in North Carolina.</p><p>From the "staying together for the kids" trap to the reality of how property is actually divided, this episode replaces "water cooler wisdom" with hard facts. Jaime breaks down the state's unique <strong>Year and a Day</strong> rule, explains why moving into the spare bedroom isn't a legal separation, and reveals why "winning" the divorce based on a spouse's misconduct is largely a fantasy. Whether you're curious about whether the Courts favor mothers  or wondering if your pre-marital home is excluded from property division, this episode provides the clarity needed to make decisions based on facts, not fear.</p><p><strong>The Myths We're Busting:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Bedroom Separation Myth:</strong> Why you aren't "legally separated" until someone actually moves out.</li><li><strong>The Child’s Choice Myth:</strong> Does a 12-year-old really get to pick where they live? (Spoiler: No).</li><li><strong>The "Cheater Takes All" Myth:</strong> How marital misconduct actually affects alimony, post-separation support, and property division.</li><li><strong>The Equitable vs. Equal Myth:</strong> Understanding that "equitable" doesn't always mean a perfect 50-50 split.</li><li>Mothers are favored in custody decisions, your spouse needs to sign divorce papers, and MORE!</li></ul><p><strong>Need a consultation in North Carolina?</strong> Visit<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> divorceistough.com</a> to connect with the team at Gailor Hunt.</p><p><strong>Have a myth you want Jaime to tackle?</strong> Email her at jdavis@divorceistough.com.</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Divorce and Mortgages: What You Need to Know</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Divorce and Mortgages: What You Need to Know</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">caf11984-428b-4f7f-8ca8-3d0b6ec970e7</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/41b3fd3b</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I’m joined by <strong>Diane Kinlaw</strong>, a senior loan officer with Revolution Mortgage, to discuss the critical mortgage challenges that arise during separation and divorce.</p><p>Diane explains why your credit score is your <strong>"financial resume"</strong> and why you shouldn't wait until your divorce is finalized to speak with a mortgage professional. We dive into the specific rules for using <strong>alimony and child support</strong> as qualifying income, why keeping the house isn’t always in your best financial interest,  and the logistical hurdles of equity buyouts through cash-out refinances.</p><p>Together, we discuss the "deal breakers" of debt-to-income ratios, how contingent liabilities on joint credit cards can sink a new loan application, and the reality of navigating today's interest rates versus "stored equity." Diane provides a proactive checklist for gathering financial documents and highlights the importance of working with a team—attorneys, financial advisors, and lenders—to ensure a clean transition to your next chapter.</p><p><strong>Need help from Diane?</strong> Reach out for a free consultation at<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw"> revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw</a>.</p><p><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I’m joined by <strong>Diane Kinlaw</strong>, a senior loan officer with Revolution Mortgage, to discuss the critical mortgage challenges that arise during separation and divorce.</p><p>Diane explains why your credit score is your <strong>"financial resume"</strong> and why you shouldn't wait until your divorce is finalized to speak with a mortgage professional. We dive into the specific rules for using <strong>alimony and child support</strong> as qualifying income, why keeping the house isn’t always in your best financial interest,  and the logistical hurdles of equity buyouts through cash-out refinances.</p><p>Together, we discuss the "deal breakers" of debt-to-income ratios, how contingent liabilities on joint credit cards can sink a new loan application, and the reality of navigating today's interest rates versus "stored equity." Diane provides a proactive checklist for gathering financial documents and highlights the importance of working with a team—attorneys, financial advisors, and lenders—to ensure a clean transition to your next chapter.</p><p><strong>Need help from Diane?</strong> Reach out for a free consultation at<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw"> revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw</a>.</p><p><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/41b3fd3b/883ae17f.mp3" length="25410676" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1586</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I’m joined by <strong>Diane Kinlaw</strong>, a senior loan officer with Revolution Mortgage, to discuss the critical mortgage challenges that arise during separation and divorce.</p><p>Diane explains why your credit score is your <strong>"financial resume"</strong> and why you shouldn't wait until your divorce is finalized to speak with a mortgage professional. We dive into the specific rules for using <strong>alimony and child support</strong> as qualifying income, why keeping the house isn’t always in your best financial interest,  and the logistical hurdles of equity buyouts through cash-out refinances.</p><p>Together, we discuss the "deal breakers" of debt-to-income ratios, how contingent liabilities on joint credit cards can sink a new loan application, and the reality of navigating today's interest rates versus "stored equity." Diane provides a proactive checklist for gathering financial documents and highlights the importance of working with a team—attorneys, financial advisors, and lenders—to ensure a clean transition to your next chapter.</p><p><strong>Need help from Diane?</strong> Reach out for a free consultation at<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw"> revolutionmortgage.com/dianekinlaw</a>.</p><p><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Sell or Stay: The Family Home &amp; Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Sell or Stay: The Family Home &amp; Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">8ed7f34b-f815-404d-9637-2c184ff541ad</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/88ae7cca</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Autumn Dubois</strong>, founder and principal agent of Dubois Property Group, to discuss the strategic management of one of your most significant financial assets during a divorce: the family home.</p><p><br>Autumn shares her expertise on navigating the intersection of real estate and divorce, explaining why she views her role as "Switzerland"—a neutral third party dedicated to protecting the sale regardless of the conflict between spouses. We explore the importance of a tight <strong>listing strategy</strong>, why having a hard date in a separation agreement is the "absolute best scenario" for preventing delays, and how to manage the logistical hurdles of repairs and staging when homeowners are living separately.</p><p><br>Together, we weigh the pros and cons of when one party wants to stay in the family home and discuss the financial "red flags" that might make selling a better move than a buyout, the complexities of <strong>loan assumptions</strong> in today's market, and transitioning into a "new chapter" purchase. Autumn also provides a checklist for coordinating with divorce attorneys to ensure closing disclosures and proceed directives align with legal requirements, helping you maximize your profit and move forward with clarity.</p><p><strong>Need help from Autumn?</strong> Learn more about her transition-specialized real estate services by visiting<a href="https://www.duboispropertygroup.com"> duboispropertygroup.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Autumn Dubois</strong>, founder and principal agent of Dubois Property Group, to discuss the strategic management of one of your most significant financial assets during a divorce: the family home.</p><p><br>Autumn shares her expertise on navigating the intersection of real estate and divorce, explaining why she views her role as "Switzerland"—a neutral third party dedicated to protecting the sale regardless of the conflict between spouses. We explore the importance of a tight <strong>listing strategy</strong>, why having a hard date in a separation agreement is the "absolute best scenario" for preventing delays, and how to manage the logistical hurdles of repairs and staging when homeowners are living separately.</p><p><br>Together, we weigh the pros and cons of when one party wants to stay in the family home and discuss the financial "red flags" that might make selling a better move than a buyout, the complexities of <strong>loan assumptions</strong> in today's market, and transitioning into a "new chapter" purchase. Autumn also provides a checklist for coordinating with divorce attorneys to ensure closing disclosures and proceed directives align with legal requirements, helping you maximize your profit and move forward with clarity.</p><p><strong>Need help from Autumn?</strong> Learn more about her transition-specialized real estate services by visiting<a href="https://www.duboispropertygroup.com"> duboispropertygroup.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/88ae7cca/ff8b4a73.mp3" length="25439505" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1588</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Autumn Dubois</strong>, founder and principal agent of Dubois Property Group, to discuss the strategic management of one of your most significant financial assets during a divorce: the family home.</p><p><br>Autumn shares her expertise on navigating the intersection of real estate and divorce, explaining why she views her role as "Switzerland"—a neutral third party dedicated to protecting the sale regardless of the conflict between spouses. We explore the importance of a tight <strong>listing strategy</strong>, why having a hard date in a separation agreement is the "absolute best scenario" for preventing delays, and how to manage the logistical hurdles of repairs and staging when homeowners are living separately.</p><p><br>Together, we weigh the pros and cons of when one party wants to stay in the family home and discuss the financial "red flags" that might make selling a better move than a buyout, the complexities of <strong>loan assumptions</strong> in today's market, and transitioning into a "new chapter" purchase. Autumn also provides a checklist for coordinating with divorce attorneys to ensure closing disclosures and proceed directives align with legal requirements, helping you maximize your profit and move forward with clarity.</p><p><strong>Need help from Autumn?</strong> Learn more about her transition-specialized real estate services by visiting<a href="https://www.duboispropertygroup.com"> duboispropertygroup.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Restoring Connection in the 'Quiet Divorced' Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Restoring Connection in the 'Quiet Divorced' Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f57aa813-0d6e-4202-992e-1c0c7903aca1</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/378ad82b</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I’m talking with <strong>Dr. Lee Baucom</strong>, a veteran relationship coach, therapist, and creator of the <em>Save the Marriage System</em>.</p><p>Lee shares his perspective as a "recovering marriage therapist," explaining why traditional marriage counseling often fails by focusing on communication—the "plumbing"—rather than the underlying <strong>connection</strong>. He breaks down how marriages often hit a "pause button" during busy seasons of life, leading to a slow cascade of disconnection that mirrors the symptoms people mistake for the "reasons" for divorce.</p><p><br>Together, we explore the concept of <strong>"The We"</strong>—viewing the marriage as a third entity or a team—and how this mindset shift can resolve conflicts over money, parenting, in-laws, and more. Lee reveals how one partner can unilaterally change the "dance" of a relationship to invite restoration, even when the other is emotionally withdrawn or "quietly quitting" the marriage. Whether you are looking to save your partnership or create a better  co-parenting relationship, Lee provides a roadmap for moving from high-conflict combat to connection.</p><p><br><strong>Need help from Lee?</strong> Discover his system and resources by visiting<a href="https://www.savethemarriage.com"> savethemarriage.com</a>.</p><p><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I’m talking with <strong>Dr. Lee Baucom</strong>, a veteran relationship coach, therapist, and creator of the <em>Save the Marriage System</em>.</p><p>Lee shares his perspective as a "recovering marriage therapist," explaining why traditional marriage counseling often fails by focusing on communication—the "plumbing"—rather than the underlying <strong>connection</strong>. He breaks down how marriages often hit a "pause button" during busy seasons of life, leading to a slow cascade of disconnection that mirrors the symptoms people mistake for the "reasons" for divorce.</p><p><br>Together, we explore the concept of <strong>"The We"</strong>—viewing the marriage as a third entity or a team—and how this mindset shift can resolve conflicts over money, parenting, in-laws, and more. Lee reveals how one partner can unilaterally change the "dance" of a relationship to invite restoration, even when the other is emotionally withdrawn or "quietly quitting" the marriage. Whether you are looking to save your partnership or create a better  co-parenting relationship, Lee provides a roadmap for moving from high-conflict combat to connection.</p><p><br><strong>Need help from Lee?</strong> Discover his system and resources by visiting<a href="https://www.savethemarriage.com"> savethemarriage.com</a>.</p><p><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/378ad82b/31d1834f.mp3" length="34322001" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2143</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this episode, I’m talking with <strong>Dr. Lee Baucom</strong>, a veteran relationship coach, therapist, and creator of the <em>Save the Marriage System</em>.</p><p>Lee shares his perspective as a "recovering marriage therapist," explaining why traditional marriage counseling often fails by focusing on communication—the "plumbing"—rather than the underlying <strong>connection</strong>. He breaks down how marriages often hit a "pause button" during busy seasons of life, leading to a slow cascade of disconnection that mirrors the symptoms people mistake for the "reasons" for divorce.</p><p><br>Together, we explore the concept of <strong>"The We"</strong>—viewing the marriage as a third entity or a team—and how this mindset shift can resolve conflicts over money, parenting, in-laws, and more. Lee reveals how one partner can unilaterally change the "dance" of a relationship to invite restoration, even when the other is emotionally withdrawn or "quietly quitting" the marriage. Whether you are looking to save your partnership or create a better  co-parenting relationship, Lee provides a roadmap for moving from high-conflict combat to connection.</p><p><br><strong>Need help from Lee?</strong> Discover his system and resources by visiting<a href="https://www.savethemarriage.com"> savethemarriage.com</a>.</p><p><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Should You Stay or Go? Navigating the Divorce Decision</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Should You Stay or Go? Navigating the Divorce Decision</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">3eac6887-83ff-4bea-a329-ba90dfa4078f</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/fe5769b4</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p><br>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this re-run episode, I’m talking with <strong>Kate Anthony</strong>, a certified high-conflict divorce coach and author of <em>The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage</em>.</p><p><br>Kate shares her insights from over a decade of coaching thousands of women through the agonizing choice of whether to stay in a marriage or pursue a divorce. We explore why women often stay in unhappy relationships for an average of <strong>four years</strong> before making a move, frequently choosing their children’s or spouse’s needs above their own. Kate challenges the cultural myth that "staying for the kids" is always the best path, noting that high-conflict or deeply unhappy households can create a toxic blueprint for a child’s future relationships.</p><p><br>Together, we discuss how to identify different forms of abuse—including emotional, financial, and spiritual—and the "frog in boiling water" syndrome that leaves many women desensitized to their own unhappiness. Kate provides a roadmap for <strong>self-actualization</strong>, explaining how to differentiate your inner guide from your inner critic and why personal development is the ultimate tool for a brighter future, whether that involves saving the marriage through qualified therapy or "saving the divorce" through healthy communication.</p><p><br><strong>Need help from Kate?</strong> Explore her resources and order her book by visiting<a href="https://kateanthony.com"> kateanthony.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p><br>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this re-run episode, I’m talking with <strong>Kate Anthony</strong>, a certified high-conflict divorce coach and author of <em>The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage</em>.</p><p><br>Kate shares her insights from over a decade of coaching thousands of women through the agonizing choice of whether to stay in a marriage or pursue a divorce. We explore why women often stay in unhappy relationships for an average of <strong>four years</strong> before making a move, frequently choosing their children’s or spouse’s needs above their own. Kate challenges the cultural myth that "staying for the kids" is always the best path, noting that high-conflict or deeply unhappy households can create a toxic blueprint for a child’s future relationships.</p><p><br>Together, we discuss how to identify different forms of abuse—including emotional, financial, and spiritual—and the "frog in boiling water" syndrome that leaves many women desensitized to their own unhappiness. Kate provides a roadmap for <strong>self-actualization</strong>, explaining how to differentiate your inner guide from your inner critic and why personal development is the ultimate tool for a brighter future, whether that involves saving the marriage through qualified therapy or "saving the divorce" through healthy communication.</p><p><br><strong>Need help from Kate?</strong> Explore her resources and order her book by visiting<a href="https://kateanthony.com"> kateanthony.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/fe5769b4/c357ce6a.mp3" length="89835262" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2245</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p><br>Welcome to A Year and a Day. I’m Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt. In this re-run episode, I’m talking with <strong>Kate Anthony</strong>, a certified high-conflict divorce coach and author of <em>The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage</em>.</p><p><br>Kate shares her insights from over a decade of coaching thousands of women through the agonizing choice of whether to stay in a marriage or pursue a divorce. We explore why women often stay in unhappy relationships for an average of <strong>four years</strong> before making a move, frequently choosing their children’s or spouse’s needs above their own. Kate challenges the cultural myth that "staying for the kids" is always the best path, noting that high-conflict or deeply unhappy households can create a toxic blueprint for a child’s future relationships.</p><p><br>Together, we discuss how to identify different forms of abuse—including emotional, financial, and spiritual—and the "frog in boiling water" syndrome that leaves many women desensitized to their own unhappiness. Kate provides a roadmap for <strong>self-actualization</strong>, explaining how to differentiate your inner guide from your inner critic and why personal development is the ultimate tool for a brighter future, whether that involves saving the marriage through qualified therapy or "saving the divorce" through healthy communication.</p><p><br><strong>Need help from Kate?</strong> Explore her resources and order her book by visiting<a href="https://kateanthony.com"> kateanthony.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina</strong>, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><strong>Like this show?</strong> Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.<br></em><br></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>What to Expect During Your Initial Divorce Consultation</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>What to Expect During Your Initial Divorce Consultation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">6a1aadef-b8ca-4315-8160-df1437ca7eba</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/f8f8a7c7</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p><br>Have you felt paralyzed by the thought of meeting a divorce lawyer, fearing that stepping into the office makes the end of your marriage a done deal? What if that first meeting isn’t about starting a fight, but about finally gaining the clarity and game plan you need to move forward?</p><p>This week on <em>A Year and a Day</em>, Jaime Davis sits down with her colleague <strong>Grace Massarelli</strong>, a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt who guides clients through the high-anxiety early stages of separation. Grace pulls back the curtain on the initial consultation, transforming it from a scary "point of no return" into an empowering information-gathering session.</p><p>They discuss the emotional intelligence required to navigate this transition and why the most important person in the room is actually you—the captain of your own goals.</p><p><br>Tune in for:</p><ul><li>Why the initial consultation is the <strong>first page of your next chapter</strong> and how it can set the tone for your entire case.</li><li>Normalizing the "emotional soup" of anxiety, guilt, and anger—and why <strong>authenticity is more important than a strong face</strong> in the lawyer's office.</li><li>The "Exposure Check": Why your attorney needs to know the <strong>worst true thing</strong> the other side can say about you.</li><li>The difference between <strong>legal options and non-legal alternatives</strong> (and why seeing a lawyer doesn't always mean a lawsuit).</li><li>Why North Carolina's specific "Year and a Day" separation requirement makes this process a <strong>marathon, not a sprint.</strong></li><li>How to determine if a lawyer is a <strong>good fit</strong> for your personality and whether their approach aligns with your desired level of conflict.</li><li>Practical tips on what to bring (contracts and prenups) and what to leave at home (thousands of text messages and five years of bank statements).</li><li>The <strong>"Choose Your Own Adventure"</strong> nature of legal fees and how to communicate your budget to stay in control of the costs.</li><li>Grace’s three takeaways for anyone terrified to take the first step: It’s okay to feel, information is power, and you <strong>will</strong> be okay.<p></p></li></ul><p><strong>About Grace Massarelli:</strong></p><p>Grace Massarelli is a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt in North Carolina. She works closely with clients at the outset of their cases, helping them navigate the complexities of equitable distribution, alimony, and child custody with a focus on intentional decision-making and realistic expectations.</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links:<br></strong><br></p><ul><li><strong><br>Gailor Hunt Law Firm:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://divorcestough.com"> https://divorcestough.com</a></li><li><strong>Follow Gailor Hunt on LinkedIn:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-%26-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/"> https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-&amp;-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/</a></li></ul><p><em>A Year and a Day</em> is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p><br>Have you felt paralyzed by the thought of meeting a divorce lawyer, fearing that stepping into the office makes the end of your marriage a done deal? What if that first meeting isn’t about starting a fight, but about finally gaining the clarity and game plan you need to move forward?</p><p>This week on <em>A Year and a Day</em>, Jaime Davis sits down with her colleague <strong>Grace Massarelli</strong>, a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt who guides clients through the high-anxiety early stages of separation. Grace pulls back the curtain on the initial consultation, transforming it from a scary "point of no return" into an empowering information-gathering session.</p><p>They discuss the emotional intelligence required to navigate this transition and why the most important person in the room is actually you—the captain of your own goals.</p><p><br>Tune in for:</p><ul><li>Why the initial consultation is the <strong>first page of your next chapter</strong> and how it can set the tone for your entire case.</li><li>Normalizing the "emotional soup" of anxiety, guilt, and anger—and why <strong>authenticity is more important than a strong face</strong> in the lawyer's office.</li><li>The "Exposure Check": Why your attorney needs to know the <strong>worst true thing</strong> the other side can say about you.</li><li>The difference between <strong>legal options and non-legal alternatives</strong> (and why seeing a lawyer doesn't always mean a lawsuit).</li><li>Why North Carolina's specific "Year and a Day" separation requirement makes this process a <strong>marathon, not a sprint.</strong></li><li>How to determine if a lawyer is a <strong>good fit</strong> for your personality and whether their approach aligns with your desired level of conflict.</li><li>Practical tips on what to bring (contracts and prenups) and what to leave at home (thousands of text messages and five years of bank statements).</li><li>The <strong>"Choose Your Own Adventure"</strong> nature of legal fees and how to communicate your budget to stay in control of the costs.</li><li>Grace’s three takeaways for anyone terrified to take the first step: It’s okay to feel, information is power, and you <strong>will</strong> be okay.<p></p></li></ul><p><strong>About Grace Massarelli:</strong></p><p>Grace Massarelli is a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt in North Carolina. She works closely with clients at the outset of their cases, helping them navigate the complexities of equitable distribution, alimony, and child custody with a focus on intentional decision-making and realistic expectations.</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links:<br></strong><br></p><ul><li><strong><br>Gailor Hunt Law Firm:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://divorcestough.com"> https://divorcestough.com</a></li><li><strong>Follow Gailor Hunt on LinkedIn:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-%26-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/"> https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-&amp;-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/</a></li></ul><p><em>A Year and a Day</em> is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 09:07:02 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/f8f8a7c7/a155abce.mp3" length="29500472" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1842</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p><br>Have you felt paralyzed by the thought of meeting a divorce lawyer, fearing that stepping into the office makes the end of your marriage a done deal? What if that first meeting isn’t about starting a fight, but about finally gaining the clarity and game plan you need to move forward?</p><p>This week on <em>A Year and a Day</em>, Jaime Davis sits down with her colleague <strong>Grace Massarelli</strong>, a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt who guides clients through the high-anxiety early stages of separation. Grace pulls back the curtain on the initial consultation, transforming it from a scary "point of no return" into an empowering information-gathering session.</p><p>They discuss the emotional intelligence required to navigate this transition and why the most important person in the room is actually you—the captain of your own goals.</p><p><br>Tune in for:</p><ul><li>Why the initial consultation is the <strong>first page of your next chapter</strong> and how it can set the tone for your entire case.</li><li>Normalizing the "emotional soup" of anxiety, guilt, and anger—and why <strong>authenticity is more important than a strong face</strong> in the lawyer's office.</li><li>The "Exposure Check": Why your attorney needs to know the <strong>worst true thing</strong> the other side can say about you.</li><li>The difference between <strong>legal options and non-legal alternatives</strong> (and why seeing a lawyer doesn't always mean a lawsuit).</li><li>Why North Carolina's specific "Year and a Day" separation requirement makes this process a <strong>marathon, not a sprint.</strong></li><li>How to determine if a lawyer is a <strong>good fit</strong> for your personality and whether their approach aligns with your desired level of conflict.</li><li>Practical tips on what to bring (contracts and prenups) and what to leave at home (thousands of text messages and five years of bank statements).</li><li>The <strong>"Choose Your Own Adventure"</strong> nature of legal fees and how to communicate your budget to stay in control of the costs.</li><li>Grace’s three takeaways for anyone terrified to take the first step: It’s okay to feel, information is power, and you <strong>will</strong> be okay.<p></p></li></ul><p><strong>About Grace Massarelli:</strong></p><p>Grace Massarelli is a family law attorney at Gailor Hunt in North Carolina. She works closely with clients at the outset of their cases, helping them navigate the complexities of equitable distribution, alimony, and child custody with a focus on intentional decision-making and realistic expectations.</p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links:<br></strong><br></p><ul><li><strong><br>Gailor Hunt Law Firm:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://divorcestough.com"> https://divorcestough.com</a></li><li><strong>Follow Gailor Hunt on LinkedIn:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-%26-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/"> https://www.linkedin.com/company/gailor-hunt-davis-taylor-&amp;-clark-r-p-l-l-c-/</a></li></ul><p><em>A Year and a Day</em> is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Your Post-Divorce Financial Survival Guide with Lori Atwood</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Your Post-Divorce Financial Survival Guide with Lori Atwood</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">c448677a-cf51-40de-882d-bee8a6de356f</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/aaf74d4f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>When facing separation, the <strong>fear and overwhelm of finances</strong> can feel like the last insurmountable obstacle to freedom. Many people, paralyzed by the unknown, stay in unhappy marriages for the money.</p><p>This week on <em>A Year and a Day</em>, Jaime Davis sits down with <strong>Lori Atwood</strong>, CFP®, founder of <strong>Fearless Finance</strong>, to demystify money management during and after divorce. Lori's firm provides objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning, driven by the mission that finances should never dictate a life-altering decision.</p><p><br>They discuss the emotional roots of financial fear, the practical steps to gain control, and the critical elements of building a secure, sustainable life post-divorce.</p><p><br><strong>Tune in for:</strong></p><ul><li>Why the question <strong>"Can I survive?"</strong> is often the last piece of the puzzle people need answered before deciding to leave a marriage.</li><li>Lori's top two immediate steps for the <strong>"non-moneyed spouse"</strong> upon separation: establishing individual credit and gathering data on all accounts.</li><li>Why the <strong>marital house is often "the elephant in the room"</strong> and why, from a financial standpoint, selling it is typically the cleaner and less stressful option.</li><li>The financial pitfalls of <strong>nesting</strong> and why this arrangement is generally detrimental to long-term financial stability.</li><li>Lori's simple <strong>spending tracker model</strong> that focuses only on two main areas—groceries and discretionary spending—to help people consistently spend less than they earn.</li><li>The advantage of the <strong>hourly, no-commission financial planning model</strong> for divorcing individuals who need objective advice without the pressure of being sold products.</li><li>The <strong>building blocks</strong> of a post-divorce financial roadmap, including cash reserves, emergency funds, and retirement savings.</li><li>Lori's single most important piece of advice: <strong>The most critical thing to your finances is your happiness.<br></strong><br></li></ul><p><strong>About Lori Atwood:</strong></p><p>Lori Atwood is the founder of Fearless Finance, a firm dedicated to providing objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning. Her goal is to demystify personal finance and help people achieve financial wellbeing, especially during major life transitions like divorce.</p><p><br><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Fearless Finance:</strong><a href="https://fearlessfinance.com"> https://fearlessfinance.com</a></li><li><strong>Gailor Hunt Law Firm:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://divorcestough.com"> https://divorcestough.com</a></li></ul><p><em>A Year and a Day</em> is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>When facing separation, the <strong>fear and overwhelm of finances</strong> can feel like the last insurmountable obstacle to freedom. Many people, paralyzed by the unknown, stay in unhappy marriages for the money.</p><p>This week on <em>A Year and a Day</em>, Jaime Davis sits down with <strong>Lori Atwood</strong>, CFP®, founder of <strong>Fearless Finance</strong>, to demystify money management during and after divorce. Lori's firm provides objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning, driven by the mission that finances should never dictate a life-altering decision.</p><p><br>They discuss the emotional roots of financial fear, the practical steps to gain control, and the critical elements of building a secure, sustainable life post-divorce.</p><p><br><strong>Tune in for:</strong></p><ul><li>Why the question <strong>"Can I survive?"</strong> is often the last piece of the puzzle people need answered before deciding to leave a marriage.</li><li>Lori's top two immediate steps for the <strong>"non-moneyed spouse"</strong> upon separation: establishing individual credit and gathering data on all accounts.</li><li>Why the <strong>marital house is often "the elephant in the room"</strong> and why, from a financial standpoint, selling it is typically the cleaner and less stressful option.</li><li>The financial pitfalls of <strong>nesting</strong> and why this arrangement is generally detrimental to long-term financial stability.</li><li>Lori's simple <strong>spending tracker model</strong> that focuses only on two main areas—groceries and discretionary spending—to help people consistently spend less than they earn.</li><li>The advantage of the <strong>hourly, no-commission financial planning model</strong> for divorcing individuals who need objective advice without the pressure of being sold products.</li><li>The <strong>building blocks</strong> of a post-divorce financial roadmap, including cash reserves, emergency funds, and retirement savings.</li><li>Lori's single most important piece of advice: <strong>The most critical thing to your finances is your happiness.<br></strong><br></li></ul><p><strong>About Lori Atwood:</strong></p><p>Lori Atwood is the founder of Fearless Finance, a firm dedicated to providing objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning. Her goal is to demystify personal finance and help people achieve financial wellbeing, especially during major life transitions like divorce.</p><p><br><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Fearless Finance:</strong><a href="https://fearlessfinance.com"> https://fearlessfinance.com</a></li><li><strong>Gailor Hunt Law Firm:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://divorcestough.com"> https://divorcestough.com</a></li></ul><p><em>A Year and a Day</em> is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/aaf74d4f/ab1c5634.mp3" length="42184152" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1751</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>When facing separation, the <strong>fear and overwhelm of finances</strong> can feel like the last insurmountable obstacle to freedom. Many people, paralyzed by the unknown, stay in unhappy marriages for the money.</p><p>This week on <em>A Year and a Day</em>, Jaime Davis sits down with <strong>Lori Atwood</strong>, CFP®, founder of <strong>Fearless Finance</strong>, to demystify money management during and after divorce. Lori's firm provides objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning, driven by the mission that finances should never dictate a life-altering decision.</p><p><br>They discuss the emotional roots of financial fear, the practical steps to gain control, and the critical elements of building a secure, sustainable life post-divorce.</p><p><br><strong>Tune in for:</strong></p><ul><li>Why the question <strong>"Can I survive?"</strong> is often the last piece of the puzzle people need answered before deciding to leave a marriage.</li><li>Lori's top two immediate steps for the <strong>"non-moneyed spouse"</strong> upon separation: establishing individual credit and gathering data on all accounts.</li><li>Why the <strong>marital house is often "the elephant in the room"</strong> and why, from a financial standpoint, selling it is typically the cleaner and less stressful option.</li><li>The financial pitfalls of <strong>nesting</strong> and why this arrangement is generally detrimental to long-term financial stability.</li><li>Lori's simple <strong>spending tracker model</strong> that focuses only on two main areas—groceries and discretionary spending—to help people consistently spend less than they earn.</li><li>The advantage of the <strong>hourly, no-commission financial planning model</strong> for divorcing individuals who need objective advice without the pressure of being sold products.</li><li>The <strong>building blocks</strong> of a post-divorce financial roadmap, including cash reserves, emergency funds, and retirement savings.</li><li>Lori's single most important piece of advice: <strong>The most critical thing to your finances is your happiness.<br></strong><br></li></ul><p><strong>About Lori Atwood:</strong></p><p>Lori Atwood is the founder of Fearless Finance, a firm dedicated to providing objective, hourly, and affordable financial planning. Her goal is to demystify personal finance and help people achieve financial wellbeing, especially during major life transitions like divorce.</p><p><br><strong>Resources &amp; Links:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Fearless Finance:</strong><a href="https://fearlessfinance.com"> https://fearlessfinance.com</a></li><li><strong>Gailor Hunt Law Firm:</strong><a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://divorcestough.com"> https://divorcestough.com</a></li></ul><p><em>A Year and a Day</em> is hosted by Jaime Davis, board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Co-Parenting During the Holidays After Divorce with Melissa Essick</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Co-Parenting During the Holidays After Divorce with Melissa Essick</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">150283c6-6380-4014-849d-4a51a7beb383</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/dca43b40</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this re-run episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis is joined by her law partner, <strong>Melissa Essick</strong>, to discuss how parents can successfully navigate the holidays after separation and divorce, focusing on reducing stress and building new family traditions.</p><p><br>Melissa stresses the importance of adjusting expectations: the holidays won't feel <strong>"normal"</strong> right away, but they will eventually find a <strong>"new normalcy"</strong> that can be positive for the children. They discuss why <strong>peace over presents</strong> is the guiding principle, and how a parent's calmness sets the tone for the entire season.</p><p><br>Melissa introduces her key strategy for surviving the holidays: <strong>Plan, Prepare, Pivot</strong>. She shares practical advice on when to start coordinating holiday schedules (at least two months out), how to handle logistical roadblocks, and the critical need for <strong>flexibility</strong>. The attorneys also review best practices for communication, including the use of tools like <strong>Our Family Wizard</strong> to maintain a calm, fact-based tone, and offer guidance on sensitive topics like introducing a new partner and setting boundaries with extended family. Ultimately, they emphasize putting the children first to ensure a stress-free and joyful holiday season.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this re-run episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis is joined by her law partner, <strong>Melissa Essick</strong>, to discuss how parents can successfully navigate the holidays after separation and divorce, focusing on reducing stress and building new family traditions.</p><p><br>Melissa stresses the importance of adjusting expectations: the holidays won't feel <strong>"normal"</strong> right away, but they will eventually find a <strong>"new normalcy"</strong> that can be positive for the children. They discuss why <strong>peace over presents</strong> is the guiding principle, and how a parent's calmness sets the tone for the entire season.</p><p><br>Melissa introduces her key strategy for surviving the holidays: <strong>Plan, Prepare, Pivot</strong>. She shares practical advice on when to start coordinating holiday schedules (at least two months out), how to handle logistical roadblocks, and the critical need for <strong>flexibility</strong>. The attorneys also review best practices for communication, including the use of tools like <strong>Our Family Wizard</strong> to maintain a calm, fact-based tone, and offer guidance on sensitive topics like introducing a new partner and setting boundaries with extended family. Ultimately, they emphasize putting the children first to ensure a stress-free and joyful holiday season.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2025 09:01:07 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/dca43b40/99a0e86d.mp3" length="27682310" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1728</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this re-run episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis is joined by her law partner, <strong>Melissa Essick</strong>, to discuss how parents can successfully navigate the holidays after separation and divorce, focusing on reducing stress and building new family traditions.</p><p><br>Melissa stresses the importance of adjusting expectations: the holidays won't feel <strong>"normal"</strong> right away, but they will eventually find a <strong>"new normalcy"</strong> that can be positive for the children. They discuss why <strong>peace over presents</strong> is the guiding principle, and how a parent's calmness sets the tone for the entire season.</p><p><br>Melissa introduces her key strategy for surviving the holidays: <strong>Plan, Prepare, Pivot</strong>. She shares practical advice on when to start coordinating holiday schedules (at least two months out), how to handle logistical roadblocks, and the critical need for <strong>flexibility</strong>. The attorneys also review best practices for communication, including the use of tools like <strong>Our Family Wizard</strong> to maintain a calm, fact-based tone, and offer guidance on sensitive topics like introducing a new partner and setting boundaries with extended family. Ultimately, they emphasize putting the children first to ensure a stress-free and joyful holiday season.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Finding Your Voice in Divorce Negotiation with Thad Hollis</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Finding Your Voice in Divorce Negotiation with Thad Hollis</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">65d9ea27-0665-44d7-ab94-096bb5cd63a9</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/57c2e19f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis talks with <strong>Thad Hollis</strong>, an expert in conflict resolution, divorce coaching, and mediation, and the founder of Better Outcomes.</p><p>Thad introduces his powerful philosophy: <strong>"Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional."</strong> He explains how someone in the middle of a painful divorce can begin to view conflict as a "gift"—an opportunity for positive change rather than a source of destruction. Thad shares his mediation and coaching techniques, emphasizing the need for clients to <strong>"find their voice"</strong> and shift their mindset from a win-lose battleground to constructive negotiation.</p><p>Jaime and Thad discuss common emotional roadblocks in divorce, such as the need <strong>"to be heard,"</strong> feelings of unfairness, and the prevalence of <strong>power imbalances</strong> in relationships. They conclude by focusing on the ultimate goal: being kind and <strong>future-focused</strong> to ensure the best possible outcome for the children and the co-parenting relationship.</p><p>Need help from Thad? Contact him by visiting betteroutcomes.au.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis talks with <strong>Thad Hollis</strong>, an expert in conflict resolution, divorce coaching, and mediation, and the founder of Better Outcomes.</p><p>Thad introduces his powerful philosophy: <strong>"Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional."</strong> He explains how someone in the middle of a painful divorce can begin to view conflict as a "gift"—an opportunity for positive change rather than a source of destruction. Thad shares his mediation and coaching techniques, emphasizing the need for clients to <strong>"find their voice"</strong> and shift their mindset from a win-lose battleground to constructive negotiation.</p><p>Jaime and Thad discuss common emotional roadblocks in divorce, such as the need <strong>"to be heard,"</strong> feelings of unfairness, and the prevalence of <strong>power imbalances</strong> in relationships. They conclude by focusing on the ultimate goal: being kind and <strong>future-focused</strong> to ensure the best possible outcome for the children and the co-parenting relationship.</p><p>Need help from Thad? Contact him by visiting betteroutcomes.au.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2025 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/57c2e19f/d8017821.mp3" length="41097769" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1707</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis talks with <strong>Thad Hollis</strong>, an expert in conflict resolution, divorce coaching, and mediation, and the founder of Better Outcomes.</p><p>Thad introduces his powerful philosophy: <strong>"Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional."</strong> He explains how someone in the middle of a painful divorce can begin to view conflict as a "gift"—an opportunity for positive change rather than a source of destruction. Thad shares his mediation and coaching techniques, emphasizing the need for clients to <strong>"find their voice"</strong> and shift their mindset from a win-lose battleground to constructive negotiation.</p><p>Jaime and Thad discuss common emotional roadblocks in divorce, such as the need <strong>"to be heard,"</strong> feelings of unfairness, and the prevalence of <strong>power imbalances</strong> in relationships. They conclude by focusing on the ultimate goal: being kind and <strong>future-focused</strong> to ensure the best possible outcome for the children and the co-parenting relationship.</p><p>Need help from Thad? Contact him by visiting betteroutcomes.au.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Bridging the Gap: Kids and Divorce Anxiety</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Bridging the Gap: Kids and Divorce Anxiety</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d2eed0a7-c6f0-4120-8202-106a15d0aef0</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/938ce325</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, focuses on helping children during family transitions by talking with <strong>Todd Sarner</strong>, founder of Transformative Parenting and a licensed psychotherapist.</p><p>Todd's work is built on <strong>Attachment First Science</strong>, which centers on the child's need for security in their primary relationships. He explains how his personal experience as a child of divorce inspired his mission to help parents move from daily chaos to lasting calm.</p><p>Jaime and Todd discuss why a child's behavior—such as <strong>resistance and defiance</strong>—should always be viewed as <strong>symptoms</strong> of underlying anxiety or insecurity, especially when navigating a breakup or divorce. Todd reveals why children of divorce often struggle with <strong>separation anxiety</strong> and feel unable to connect to both parents simultaneously.</p><p>They explore practical strategies for parents to unite, including the concept of <strong>"bridging"</strong> to help children feel connected to the absent parent. Todd also shares why he recommends a "parent timeout" over a child timeout when emotions run high, and emphasizes that <strong>parental self-care</strong> is the most critical factor in promoting a child's well-being.</p><p>Need help from Todd? Contact him by visiting TransformativeParenting.com.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, focuses on helping children during family transitions by talking with <strong>Todd Sarner</strong>, founder of Transformative Parenting and a licensed psychotherapist.</p><p>Todd's work is built on <strong>Attachment First Science</strong>, which centers on the child's need for security in their primary relationships. He explains how his personal experience as a child of divorce inspired his mission to help parents move from daily chaos to lasting calm.</p><p>Jaime and Todd discuss why a child's behavior—such as <strong>resistance and defiance</strong>—should always be viewed as <strong>symptoms</strong> of underlying anxiety or insecurity, especially when navigating a breakup or divorce. Todd reveals why children of divorce often struggle with <strong>separation anxiety</strong> and feel unable to connect to both parents simultaneously.</p><p>They explore practical strategies for parents to unite, including the concept of <strong>"bridging"</strong> to help children feel connected to the absent parent. Todd also shares why he recommends a "parent timeout" over a child timeout when emotions run high, and emphasizes that <strong>parental self-care</strong> is the most critical factor in promoting a child's well-being.</p><p>Need help from Todd? Contact him by visiting TransformativeParenting.com.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2025 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/938ce325/909b37f9.mp3" length="59741040" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2484</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, focuses on helping children during family transitions by talking with <strong>Todd Sarner</strong>, founder of Transformative Parenting and a licensed psychotherapist.</p><p>Todd's work is built on <strong>Attachment First Science</strong>, which centers on the child's need for security in their primary relationships. He explains how his personal experience as a child of divorce inspired his mission to help parents move from daily chaos to lasting calm.</p><p>Jaime and Todd discuss why a child's behavior—such as <strong>resistance and defiance</strong>—should always be viewed as <strong>symptoms</strong> of underlying anxiety or insecurity, especially when navigating a breakup or divorce. Todd reveals why children of divorce often struggle with <strong>separation anxiety</strong> and feel unable to connect to both parents simultaneously.</p><p>They explore practical strategies for parents to unite, including the concept of <strong>"bridging"</strong> to help children feel connected to the absent parent. Todd also shares why he recommends a "parent timeout" over a child timeout when emotions run high, and emphasizes that <strong>parental self-care</strong> is the most critical factor in promoting a child's well-being.</p><p>Need help from Todd? Contact him by visiting TransformativeParenting.com.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Stress-Free Seasons: Co-Parenting Holiday Schedules</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Stress-Free Seasons: Co-Parenting Holiday Schedules</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d03ba348-6d31-4325-af06-e65f23bdb3bc</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/472e257a</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year in a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, Board Certified Family Law Attorney at Gailor Hunt. On this show, I talk with lawyers, psychologists, and other experts with the goal of helping you navigate divorce without destruction.</p><p>In this episode, I'm joined by my law partner and fellow family law attorney, <strong>Melissa Essick</strong>, to discuss practical tips and suggestions for creating a holiday custody schedule that works best for your family during separation and divorce.</p><p>Melissa and I explore the holidays most often included in agreements—from Christmas and Thanksgiving to birthdays and spring break—and break down the three main scheduling approaches: <strong>rotating, fixed, and shared/split days</strong>. We offer expert insights into crucial factors to consider, such as maintaining family traditions, the impact of travel and distance, school calendars (traditional vs. year-round), and the age of your children. We also offer advice on sensitive topics like <strong>gift-giving and decorations</strong> and stress the importance of flexibility and cooperation to reduce stress. Finally, we discuss what happens when parents simply can’t agree, and why a customized agreement is almost always better than a judge's standard order.</p><p><br>Whether you're new to holiday custody schedules or looking to refine your current plan, our planning tips can help you forge a holiday visitation plan that prioritizes your children's well-being and ensures everyone can embrace the spirit of the season.</p><p><br></p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year in a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, Board Certified Family Law Attorney at Gailor Hunt. On this show, I talk with lawyers, psychologists, and other experts with the goal of helping you navigate divorce without destruction.</p><p>In this episode, I'm joined by my law partner and fellow family law attorney, <strong>Melissa Essick</strong>, to discuss practical tips and suggestions for creating a holiday custody schedule that works best for your family during separation and divorce.</p><p>Melissa and I explore the holidays most often included in agreements—from Christmas and Thanksgiving to birthdays and spring break—and break down the three main scheduling approaches: <strong>rotating, fixed, and shared/split days</strong>. We offer expert insights into crucial factors to consider, such as maintaining family traditions, the impact of travel and distance, school calendars (traditional vs. year-round), and the age of your children. We also offer advice on sensitive topics like <strong>gift-giving and decorations</strong> and stress the importance of flexibility and cooperation to reduce stress. Finally, we discuss what happens when parents simply can’t agree, and why a customized agreement is almost always better than a judge's standard order.</p><p><br>Whether you're new to holiday custody schedules or looking to refine your current plan, our planning tips can help you forge a holiday visitation plan that prioritizes your children's well-being and ensures everyone can embrace the spirit of the season.</p><p><br></p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/472e257a/313d2bb7.mp3" length="76094279" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1902</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year in a Day. I'm Jaime Davis, Board Certified Family Law Attorney at Gailor Hunt. On this show, I talk with lawyers, psychologists, and other experts with the goal of helping you navigate divorce without destruction.</p><p>In this episode, I'm joined by my law partner and fellow family law attorney, <strong>Melissa Essick</strong>, to discuss practical tips and suggestions for creating a holiday custody schedule that works best for your family during separation and divorce.</p><p>Melissa and I explore the holidays most often included in agreements—from Christmas and Thanksgiving to birthdays and spring break—and break down the three main scheduling approaches: <strong>rotating, fixed, and shared/split days</strong>. We offer expert insights into crucial factors to consider, such as maintaining family traditions, the impact of travel and distance, school calendars (traditional vs. year-round), and the age of your children. We also offer advice on sensitive topics like <strong>gift-giving and decorations</strong> and stress the importance of flexibility and cooperation to reduce stress. Finally, we discuss what happens when parents simply can’t agree, and why a customized agreement is almost always better than a judge's standard order.</p><p><br>Whether you're new to holiday custody schedules or looking to refine your current plan, our planning tips can help you forge a holiday visitation plan that prioritizes your children's well-being and ensures everyone can embrace the spirit of the season.</p><p><br></p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Unpacking Narcissism: Healing What Divorce Reveals</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Unpacking Narcissism: Healing What Divorce Reveals</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">4bd19b7f-d145-4002-9c84-91ae41953d94</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/dabe8609</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis sits down with relationship coach Johanna Lynn, founder of the Family Imprint Institute, to explore the deep, often invisible emotional patterns we inherit from our families—and how they fuel conflict, especially when divorcing a spouse with narcissistic tendencies.</p><p>Johanna explains the concept of the family blueprint and how our biography becomes our biology, leading us to fall in love with the familiar, even if it’s destructive. She discusses how narcissism develops, why it often appears on a spectrum, and how recurring conflicts in a marriage are really clues to deeper, unacknowledged hurts rooted in our past.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Johanna delve into the immense emotional toll of divorcing a narcissist, offering guidance on how the non-narcissistic partner can rebuild their sense of self and break the cycle of emotional abuse and blame. Johanna introduces the concept of integrative body psychotherapy as a tool to shift ingrained responses. Finally, they discuss the most important thing a parent can do to protect their children from inheriting harmful patterns and ensure a path toward a more peaceful separation.</p><p>Need help from Johanna? Contact her by visiting https://www.google.com/search?q=TheFamilyImprint.com.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.<br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis sits down with relationship coach Johanna Lynn, founder of the Family Imprint Institute, to explore the deep, often invisible emotional patterns we inherit from our families—and how they fuel conflict, especially when divorcing a spouse with narcissistic tendencies.</p><p>Johanna explains the concept of the family blueprint and how our biography becomes our biology, leading us to fall in love with the familiar, even if it’s destructive. She discusses how narcissism develops, why it often appears on a spectrum, and how recurring conflicts in a marriage are really clues to deeper, unacknowledged hurts rooted in our past.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Johanna delve into the immense emotional toll of divorcing a narcissist, offering guidance on how the non-narcissistic partner can rebuild their sense of self and break the cycle of emotional abuse and blame. Johanna introduces the concept of integrative body psychotherapy as a tool to shift ingrained responses. Finally, they discuss the most important thing a parent can do to protect their children from inheriting harmful patterns and ensure a path toward a more peaceful separation.</p><p>Need help from Johanna? Contact her by visiting https://www.google.com/search?q=TheFamilyImprint.com.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.<br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/dabe8609/a79031fc.mp3" length="43307135" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1800</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, board-certified family law attorney Jaime Davis sits down with relationship coach Johanna Lynn, founder of the Family Imprint Institute, to explore the deep, often invisible emotional patterns we inherit from our families—and how they fuel conflict, especially when divorcing a spouse with narcissistic tendencies.</p><p>Johanna explains the concept of the family blueprint and how our biography becomes our biology, leading us to fall in love with the familiar, even if it’s destructive. She discusses how narcissism develops, why it often appears on a spectrum, and how recurring conflicts in a marriage are really clues to deeper, unacknowledged hurts rooted in our past.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Johanna delve into the immense emotional toll of divorcing a narcissist, offering guidance on how the non-narcissistic partner can rebuild their sense of self and break the cycle of emotional abuse and blame. Johanna introduces the concept of integrative body psychotherapy as a tool to shift ingrained responses. Finally, they discuss the most important thing a parent can do to protect their children from inheriting harmful patterns and ensure a path toward a more peaceful separation.</p><p>Need help from Johanna? Contact her by visiting https://www.google.com/search?q=TheFamilyImprint.com.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com</a>.<br>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br><em>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</em></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Meet Jaime Davis: The Attorney Who Wrote the Book on Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Meet Jaime Davis: The Attorney Who Wrote the Book on Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">e2957f63-c0bf-417a-ab9a-3845ca3c8bad</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/c24e8349</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day, with host Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gaylor Hunt. In this episode, Jaime is in the hot seat as she's interviewed by special guest host Erica Rooney. Jaime shares her unique perspective on divorce, offering insights she's gained from over 24 years of experience.</p><p>Jaime discusses the most common misconceptions about divorce, including the idea that a cheating spouse means you "get everything." She also explains the one question she wishes more people would ask her and why consulting with an attorney early in the process is so crucial.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Erica delve into the importance of prenups, the surprising details of North Carolina's "alienation of affection" law, and the emotional challenges of divorce. Jaime also shares why you should never use social media during the process and how focusing on resolution—not revenge—is key to a healthier outcome. They discuss what’s behind the rising trend of "gray divorce" and how people are approaching separation differently today.</p><p>Jaime also talks about her book, "A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction," which is based on episodes from the podcast.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to divorce and separation according to laws in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day, with host Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gaylor Hunt. In this episode, Jaime is in the hot seat as she's interviewed by special guest host Erica Rooney. Jaime shares her unique perspective on divorce, offering insights she's gained from over 24 years of experience.</p><p>Jaime discusses the most common misconceptions about divorce, including the idea that a cheating spouse means you "get everything." She also explains the one question she wishes more people would ask her and why consulting with an attorney early in the process is so crucial.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Erica delve into the importance of prenups, the surprising details of North Carolina's "alienation of affection" law, and the emotional challenges of divorce. Jaime also shares why you should never use social media during the process and how focusing on resolution—not revenge—is key to a healthier outcome. They discuss what’s behind the rising trend of "gray divorce" and how people are approaching separation differently today.</p><p>Jaime also talks about her book, "A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction," which is based on episodes from the podcast.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to divorce and separation according to laws in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 03:45:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/c24e8349/2c210467.mp3" length="42592386" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1770</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day, with host Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gaylor Hunt. In this episode, Jaime is in the hot seat as she's interviewed by special guest host Erica Rooney. Jaime shares her unique perspective on divorce, offering insights she's gained from over 24 years of experience.</p><p>Jaime discusses the most common misconceptions about divorce, including the idea that a cheating spouse means you "get everything." She also explains the one question she wishes more people would ask her and why consulting with an attorney early in the process is so crucial.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Erica delve into the importance of prenups, the surprising details of North Carolina's "alienation of affection" law, and the emotional challenges of divorce. Jaime also shares why you should never use social media during the process and how focusing on resolution—not revenge—is key to a healthier outcome. They discuss what’s behind the rising trend of "gray divorce" and how people are approaching separation differently today.</p><p>Jaime also talks about her book, "A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction," which is based on episodes from the podcast.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to divorce and separation according to laws in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>From "My Relationship Fail" to Learning: Rebuilding After a Breakdown with Bryan Power</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>From "My Relationship Fail" to Learning: Rebuilding After a Breakdown with Bryan Power</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">9f061d7b-6401-4e3a-9bac-28aea7a8d8b8</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/b92e98f6</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, sits down with Bryan Power, creator of MyRelationshipFail.com, to discuss how a relationship crisis can be a powerful catalyst for personal and relational healing.</p><p>Bryan shares his personal story of a near-divorce experience that began with a restraining order, explaining how this "final nail in the coffin" moment became a turning point. Together, Jaime and Bryan explore Integrated Attachment Theory and its six core elements: core wounds, emotional control, needs, boundaries, communication, and behavior. Bryan explains the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and why understanding them is crucial for healing.</p><p><br>They also discuss why some communication breakdowns happen, how to shift your mindset from blame to personal growth, and why it's so important to be willing to do the work, even if your spouse isn't. Bryan explains how focusing on yourself can lead to a brand-new, healthier relationship, whether it's with your current spouse or a new partner.</p><p><br>Need help from Bryan? Take the quiz or contact him by visiting MyRelationshipFail.com.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com<br></a><br></p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, sits down with Bryan Power, creator of MyRelationshipFail.com, to discuss how a relationship crisis can be a powerful catalyst for personal and relational healing.</p><p>Bryan shares his personal story of a near-divorce experience that began with a restraining order, explaining how this "final nail in the coffin" moment became a turning point. Together, Jaime and Bryan explore Integrated Attachment Theory and its six core elements: core wounds, emotional control, needs, boundaries, communication, and behavior. Bryan explains the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and why understanding them is crucial for healing.</p><p><br>They also discuss why some communication breakdowns happen, how to shift your mindset from blame to personal growth, and why it's so important to be willing to do the work, even if your spouse isn't. Bryan explains how focusing on yourself can lead to a brand-new, healthier relationship, whether it's with your current spouse or a new partner.</p><p><br>Need help from Bryan? Take the quiz or contact him by visiting MyRelationshipFail.com.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com<br></a><br></p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2025 11:59:32 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/b92e98f6/0ca7579b.mp3" length="44468741" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1846</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Welcome to A Year and a Day. In this episode, Jaime Davis, a board-certified family law attorney at Gailor Hunt, sits down with Bryan Power, creator of MyRelationshipFail.com, to discuss how a relationship crisis can be a powerful catalyst for personal and relational healing.</p><p>Bryan shares his personal story of a near-divorce experience that began with a restraining order, explaining how this "final nail in the coffin" moment became a turning point. Together, Jaime and Bryan explore Integrated Attachment Theory and its six core elements: core wounds, emotional control, needs, boundaries, communication, and behavior. Bryan explains the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and why understanding them is crucial for healing.</p><p><br>They also discuss why some communication breakdowns happen, how to shift your mindset from blame to personal growth, and why it's so important to be willing to do the work, even if your spouse isn't. Bryan explains how focusing on yourself can lead to a brand-new, healthier relationship, whether it's with your current spouse or a new partner.</p><p><br>Need help from Bryan? Take the quiz or contact him by visiting MyRelationshipFail.com.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting<a href="https://www.divorceistough.com"> www.divorceistough.com<br></a><br></p><p>Like this show? Rate it here!</p><p><br>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Rebuilding After Divorce for Men: Mental Health, Masculinity, and Moving Forward with Marc Azoulay</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Rebuilding After Divorce for Men: Mental Health, Masculinity, and Moving Forward with Marc Azoulay</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">69fd315c-5114-4ddd-a01d-55167cc9dd3b</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/90d43a1c</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>When the dust settles after divorce, what comes next for men who are left feeling lost, ashamed, or angry? In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Marc Azoulay, a licensed psychotherapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online, to explore the often-overlooked emotional fallout of divorce for men. Marc shares the two most common archetypes he sees in his work—“the villain” and “the victim”—and explains how early childhood conditioning, societal expectations, and emotional isolation shape men’s post-divorce struggles.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Marc discuss why some men default to “nice guy” behavior, why communication breakdowns are so common, and how therapy, community, and honest self-reflection can lead to genuine healing. Marc also explains how he integrates psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and spirituality into his holistic approach to therapy—and why it’s never too late to rewrite your story.</p><p>Need help from Marc? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://menstherapy.online/">www.menstherapy.online</a>.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>When the dust settles after divorce, what comes next for men who are left feeling lost, ashamed, or angry? In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Marc Azoulay, a licensed psychotherapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online, to explore the often-overlooked emotional fallout of divorce for men. Marc shares the two most common archetypes he sees in his work—“the villain” and “the victim”—and explains how early childhood conditioning, societal expectations, and emotional isolation shape men’s post-divorce struggles.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Marc discuss why some men default to “nice guy” behavior, why communication breakdowns are so common, and how therapy, community, and honest self-reflection can lead to genuine healing. Marc also explains how he integrates psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and spirituality into his holistic approach to therapy—and why it’s never too late to rewrite your story.</p><p>Need help from Marc? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://menstherapy.online/">www.menstherapy.online</a>.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/90d43a1c/4b31b190.mp3" length="81761617" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2043</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>When the dust settles after divorce, what comes next for men who are left feeling lost, ashamed, or angry? In this episode, Jaime Davis sits down with Marc Azoulay, a licensed psychotherapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online, to explore the often-overlooked emotional fallout of divorce for men. Marc shares the two most common archetypes he sees in his work—“the villain” and “the victim”—and explains how early childhood conditioning, societal expectations, and emotional isolation shape men’s post-divorce struggles.</p><p>Together, Jaime and Marc discuss why some men default to “nice guy” behavior, why communication breakdowns are so common, and how therapy, community, and honest self-reflection can lead to genuine healing. Marc also explains how he integrates psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and spirituality into his holistic approach to therapy—and why it’s never too late to rewrite your story.</p><p>Need help from Marc? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://menstherapy.online/">www.menstherapy.online</a>.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Divorced, Not Done: Caroline Stanbury on Co-Parenting, Reinvention, and Owning Your Power</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Divorced, Not Done: Caroline Stanbury on Co-Parenting, Reinvention, and Owning Your Power</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">52889452-118c-4f47-91c2-969298daa654</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/88a36616</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>What does it look like to rebuild—and thrive—after a high-profile divorce? In this episode, host Jaime is joined by Caroline Stanbury, star of The Real Housewives of Dubai, entrepreneur, and mom of three. Caroline shares the raw truth behind her 18-year marriage, navigating divorce in the public eye, and what it’s really like co-parenting teenagers with her ex.</p><p>From the importance of financial independence to managing blended family dynamics, Caroline opens up about the lessons she’s learned about love, parenting, and personal growth. She also offers candid advice for anyone facing divorce later in life—and explains why your second chapter might just be your best.</p><p>Hear Jaime on Caroline's podcast, <a href="https://pod.link/1524317541/episode/01cc4bc7d70782c7bbbe8ae3d178a9a3">Uncut and Uncensored with Caroline Stanbury</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>What does it look like to rebuild—and thrive—after a high-profile divorce? In this episode, host Jaime is joined by Caroline Stanbury, star of The Real Housewives of Dubai, entrepreneur, and mom of three. Caroline shares the raw truth behind her 18-year marriage, navigating divorce in the public eye, and what it’s really like co-parenting teenagers with her ex.</p><p>From the importance of financial independence to managing blended family dynamics, Caroline opens up about the lessons she’s learned about love, parenting, and personal growth. She also offers candid advice for anyone facing divorce later in life—and explains why your second chapter might just be your best.</p><p>Hear Jaime on Caroline's podcast, <a href="https://pod.link/1524317541/episode/01cc4bc7d70782c7bbbe8ae3d178a9a3">Uncut and Uncensored with Caroline Stanbury</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/88a36616/60f67c3d.mp3" length="77405080" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1934</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>What does it look like to rebuild—and thrive—after a high-profile divorce? In this episode, host Jaime is joined by Caroline Stanbury, star of The Real Housewives of Dubai, entrepreneur, and mom of three. Caroline shares the raw truth behind her 18-year marriage, navigating divorce in the public eye, and what it’s really like co-parenting teenagers with her ex.</p><p>From the importance of financial independence to managing blended family dynamics, Caroline opens up about the lessons she’s learned about love, parenting, and personal growth. She also offers candid advice for anyone facing divorce later in life—and explains why your second chapter might just be your best.</p><p>Hear Jaime on Caroline's podcast, <a href="https://pod.link/1524317541/episode/01cc4bc7d70782c7bbbe8ae3d178a9a3">Uncut and Uncensored with Caroline Stanbury</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>When High Achievers Hit Their Breaking Point: Reclaiming Yourself in Marriage and Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>When High Achievers Hit Their Breaking Point: Reclaiming Yourself in Marriage and Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">8cdddef7-62d5-4a70-9450-f5765d414d0c</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/3e5650bd</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Veronica Cisneros to explore the unique challenges that high-achieving women often face in marriage—and what they can do about it. Veronica shares her own wake-up call moment at the bank, how she reclaimed her identity, and why success can sometimes create rifts in a relationship. Together, they unpack the emotional toll of running away from unhealed pain, how vulnerability can be a superpower, and what steps to take when you feel like you’ve lost yourself in your relationship.</p><p>Need help from Veronica? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://veronicacisneros.org/">www.veronicacisneros.org</a>.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Veronica Cisneros to explore the unique challenges that high-achieving women often face in marriage—and what they can do about it. Veronica shares her own wake-up call moment at the bank, how she reclaimed her identity, and why success can sometimes create rifts in a relationship. Together, they unpack the emotional toll of running away from unhealed pain, how vulnerability can be a superpower, and what steps to take when you feel like you’ve lost yourself in your relationship.</p><p>Need help from Veronica? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://veronicacisneros.org/">www.veronicacisneros.org</a>.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/3e5650bd/88e7e9e4.mp3" length="82296713" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2056</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Veronica Cisneros to explore the unique challenges that high-achieving women often face in marriage—and what they can do about it. Veronica shares her own wake-up call moment at the bank, how she reclaimed her identity, and why success can sometimes create rifts in a relationship. Together, they unpack the emotional toll of running away from unhealed pain, how vulnerability can be a superpower, and what steps to take when you feel like you’ve lost yourself in your relationship.</p><p>Need help from Veronica? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://veronicacisneros.org/">www.veronicacisneros.org</a>.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/3e5650bd/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Gray Divorce, Silver Linings: Financial Confidence After 50 with Haleh Moddasser</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Gray Divorce, Silver Linings: Financial Confidence After 50 with Haleh Moddasser</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">933cc45c-ee48-44d0-8057-6e5a203146a2</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/b725f851</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>What if the end of a long marriage could be the beginning of financial freedom? In this episode, Jaime sits down with Haleh Moddasser, Managing Partner and Senior Wealth Advisor at Stearns Financial Group, to explore the financial realities of Gray divorce—when couples split later in life. Haleh shares why women over 50 are initiating divorce more often, the costly mistakes they need to avoid, and how to negotiate from a position of strength. From understanding the true value of assets to rethinking alimony and navigating Social Security benefits, this episode is packed with essential advice for building financial independence after divorce. Whether you're facing a Gray divorce or supporting someone who is, Haleh offers both insight and inspiration for what’s next.</p><p>Need help from Haleh? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://stearnsfinancial.com/haleh-moddasser.html">www.stearnsfinancial.com</a>.</p><ul><li>Check out <a href="https://stearnsfinancial.com/women-in-motion.html">Stearns' Women in Motion</a></li><li>Get Haleh's book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gray-Divorce-Silver-Linings-Updated-ebook/dp/B0BGMFBWN7">"Gray Divorce, Silver Linings"</a></li></ul><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>What if the end of a long marriage could be the beginning of financial freedom? In this episode, Jaime sits down with Haleh Moddasser, Managing Partner and Senior Wealth Advisor at Stearns Financial Group, to explore the financial realities of Gray divorce—when couples split later in life. Haleh shares why women over 50 are initiating divorce more often, the costly mistakes they need to avoid, and how to negotiate from a position of strength. From understanding the true value of assets to rethinking alimony and navigating Social Security benefits, this episode is packed with essential advice for building financial independence after divorce. Whether you're facing a Gray divorce or supporting someone who is, Haleh offers both insight and inspiration for what’s next.</p><p>Need help from Haleh? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://stearnsfinancial.com/haleh-moddasser.html">www.stearnsfinancial.com</a>.</p><ul><li>Check out <a href="https://stearnsfinancial.com/women-in-motion.html">Stearns' Women in Motion</a></li><li>Get Haleh's book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gray-Divorce-Silver-Linings-Updated-ebook/dp/B0BGMFBWN7">"Gray Divorce, Silver Linings"</a></li></ul><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/b725f851/a2c908ce.mp3" length="91441866" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2285</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>What if the end of a long marriage could be the beginning of financial freedom? In this episode, Jaime sits down with Haleh Moddasser, Managing Partner and Senior Wealth Advisor at Stearns Financial Group, to explore the financial realities of Gray divorce—when couples split later in life. Haleh shares why women over 50 are initiating divorce more often, the costly mistakes they need to avoid, and how to negotiate from a position of strength. From understanding the true value of assets to rethinking alimony and navigating Social Security benefits, this episode is packed with essential advice for building financial independence after divorce. Whether you're facing a Gray divorce or supporting someone who is, Haleh offers both insight and inspiration for what’s next.</p><p>Need help from Haleh? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://stearnsfinancial.com/haleh-moddasser.html">www.stearnsfinancial.com</a>.</p><ul><li>Check out <a href="https://stearnsfinancial.com/women-in-motion.html">Stearns' Women in Motion</a></li><li>Get Haleh's book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gray-Divorce-Silver-Linings-Updated-ebook/dp/B0BGMFBWN7">"Gray Divorce, Silver Linings"</a></li></ul><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Finding Financial Confidence After Divorce with Jennifer Lee</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Finding Financial Confidence After Divorce with Jennifer Lee</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">b59d0943-95e8-4f38-a376-778c7db2dcb7</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/b15e95cb</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce can bring a whirlwind of emotions and financial uncertainty, but understanding your financial situation is key to making empowered decisions. In this episode, Jaime sits down with financial expert Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth and author of <em>Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy</em>. If you weren’t the one managing the finances in your marriage—or earned significantly less than your spouse—you may be considered the non-moneyed spouse, and navigating divorce can feel especially daunting. Jennifer lays out the key steps to take control of your finances, uncover hidden assets, and decide whether keeping the house is the right move.<br> <br>Need help from Jennifer? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://modern-wealth.com/">www.modern-wealth.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce can bring a whirlwind of emotions and financial uncertainty, but understanding your financial situation is key to making empowered decisions. In this episode, Jaime sits down with financial expert Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth and author of <em>Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy</em>. If you weren’t the one managing the finances in your marriage—or earned significantly less than your spouse—you may be considered the non-moneyed spouse, and navigating divorce can feel especially daunting. Jennifer lays out the key steps to take control of your finances, uncover hidden assets, and decide whether keeping the house is the right move.<br> <br>Need help from Jennifer? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://modern-wealth.com/">www.modern-wealth.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2025 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/b15e95cb/23555ebe.mp3" length="68447418" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1710</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce can bring a whirlwind of emotions and financial uncertainty, but understanding your financial situation is key to making empowered decisions. In this episode, Jaime sits down with financial expert Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth and author of <em>Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy</em>. If you weren’t the one managing the finances in your marriage—or earned significantly less than your spouse—you may be considered the non-moneyed spouse, and navigating divorce can feel especially daunting. Jennifer lays out the key steps to take control of your finances, uncover hidden assets, and decide whether keeping the house is the right move.<br> <br>Need help from Jennifer? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://modern-wealth.com/">www.modern-wealth.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>The 5-Step Framework for Divorce Without Destruction</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>The 5-Step Framework for Divorce Without Destruction</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">73a6ef1f-0cf4-4327-bf96-77de8c7ce144</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/00621289</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In the first episode of season nine, Jaime takes the guest seat as producer Cee Cee Huffman interviews her about her book, A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction. Jaime shares key strategies for approaching divorce with preparation and intention, covering how to initiate separation, build a strong support team, focus on what truly matters, prioritize children's well-being, and maintain emotional health. Whether you're contemplating divorce or already in the process, this episode offers expert guidance on navigating this major life decision with clarity and confidence. Tune in to learn how you can move beyond just surviving divorce.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In the first episode of season nine, Jaime takes the guest seat as producer Cee Cee Huffman interviews her about her book, A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction. Jaime shares key strategies for approaching divorce with preparation and intention, covering how to initiate separation, build a strong support team, focus on what truly matters, prioritize children's well-being, and maintain emotional health. Whether you're contemplating divorce or already in the process, this episode offers expert guidance on navigating this major life decision with clarity and confidence. Tune in to learn how you can move beyond just surviving divorce.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2025 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/00621289/94c18e02.mp3" length="56773502" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1418</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. In the first episode of season nine, Jaime takes the guest seat as producer Cee Cee Huffman interviews her about her book, A Year and a Day: Divorce Without Destruction. Jaime shares key strategies for approaching divorce with preparation and intention, covering how to initiate separation, build a strong support team, focus on what truly matters, prioritize children's well-being, and maintain emotional health. Whether you're contemplating divorce or already in the process, this episode offers expert guidance on navigating this major life decision with clarity and confidence. Tune in to learn how you can move beyond just surviving divorce.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Divorce Financial Planning: Essential Tax Tips You Need to Know, with Hubert Johnson</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Divorce Financial Planning: Essential Tax Tips You Need to Know, with Hubert Johnson</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">87ed281d-3f98-439d-bdaf-4dedd41570bc</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/f9a02abb</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks to seasoned tax attorney Hubert Johnson about the financial complexities of divorce. Hubert dives into the tax implications of divorce, from filing status changes to the proper handling of alimony, child support, and asset divisions. He emphasizes the importance of getting informed early to avoid costly mistakes and protect your financial future. Whether your concern is navigating tax debt, understanding retirement account splits, or dealing with business liabilities, Hubert shares his insights on making smart financial decisions during divorce.</p><p><br></p><p>Need help from Hubert? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://guardiantaxlaw.com/about/">www.guardiantaxlaw.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks to seasoned tax attorney Hubert Johnson about the financial complexities of divorce. Hubert dives into the tax implications of divorce, from filing status changes to the proper handling of alimony, child support, and asset divisions. He emphasizes the importance of getting informed early to avoid costly mistakes and protect your financial future. Whether your concern is navigating tax debt, understanding retirement account splits, or dealing with business liabilities, Hubert shares his insights on making smart financial decisions during divorce.</p><p><br></p><p>Need help from Hubert? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://guardiantaxlaw.com/about/">www.guardiantaxlaw.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2024 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/f9a02abb/99d173ad.mp3" length="46602448" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1940</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks to seasoned tax attorney Hubert Johnson about the financial complexities of divorce. Hubert dives into the tax implications of divorce, from filing status changes to the proper handling of alimony, child support, and asset divisions. He emphasizes the importance of getting informed early to avoid costly mistakes and protect your financial future. Whether your concern is navigating tax debt, understanding retirement account splits, or dealing with business liabilities, Hubert shares his insights on making smart financial decisions during divorce.</p><p><br></p><p>Need help from Hubert? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://guardiantaxlaw.com/about/">www.guardiantaxlaw.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/f9a02abb/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Reclaiming Power After Betrayal: Finding Healing, Freedom, and Self-Worth with Lora Cheadle</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Reclaiming Power After Betrayal: Finding Healing, Freedom, and Self-Worth with Lora Cheadle</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">6ec53db8-e539-4c3f-b736-55bc22235b9a</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/7949bf0f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker Lora Cheadle is joining Jaime to explore how to transform feelings of betrayal into empowerment. Lora shares her story of healing after discovering her husband’s long-term infidelity and reveals the practices and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild her life. They discuss the importance of grieving authentically, learning to reclaim self-trust, and finding joy and freedom on the other side. Lora introduces her signature “FLAUNT” method, a five-step process designed to guide anyone moving through betrayal or heartbreak toward rediscovering their inner strength and self-worth. </p><p>Need help from Lora? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://loracheadle.com/">www.loracheadle.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker Lora Cheadle is joining Jaime to explore how to transform feelings of betrayal into empowerment. Lora shares her story of healing after discovering her husband’s long-term infidelity and reveals the practices and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild her life. They discuss the importance of grieving authentically, learning to reclaim self-trust, and finding joy and freedom on the other side. Lora introduces her signature “FLAUNT” method, a five-step process designed to guide anyone moving through betrayal or heartbreak toward rediscovering their inner strength and self-worth. </p><p>Need help from Lora? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://loracheadle.com/">www.loracheadle.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2024 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/7949bf0f/66177821.mp3" length="83510247" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2087</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker Lora Cheadle is joining Jaime to explore how to transform feelings of betrayal into empowerment. Lora shares her story of healing after discovering her husband’s long-term infidelity and reveals the practices and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild her life. They discuss the importance of grieving authentically, learning to reclaim self-trust, and finding joy and freedom on the other side. Lora introduces her signature “FLAUNT” method, a five-step process designed to guide anyone moving through betrayal or heartbreak toward rediscovering their inner strength and self-worth. </p><p>Need help from Lora? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://loracheadle.com/">www.loracheadle.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/7949bf0f/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Overcoming Divorce Trauma with Dawn Wiggins</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Overcoming Divorce Trauma with Dawn Wiggins</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f42bd4c9-2a0b-476c-a473-0b1a5ea5a55f</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/b3a09f9f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Dawn Wiggins is a divorce recovery coach and therapist and, in this episode, she shares her personal journey of healing from trauma and divorce and the transformative techniques she uses to help others, including EMDR, EFT tapping, and homeopathy. Jaime and Dawn explore how childhood attachment issues and unresolved trauma can impact relationships, and how holistic healing methods can empower individuals to break free from destructive patterns. Dawn also addresses the loneliness of divorce and offers insight into moving forward with confidence and clarity.</p><p>Need help from Dawn? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://mycoachdawn.com/about-dawn-wiggins/">www.mycoachdawn.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Dawn Wiggins is a divorce recovery coach and therapist and, in this episode, she shares her personal journey of healing from trauma and divorce and the transformative techniques she uses to help others, including EMDR, EFT tapping, and homeopathy. Jaime and Dawn explore how childhood attachment issues and unresolved trauma can impact relationships, and how holistic healing methods can empower individuals to break free from destructive patterns. Dawn also addresses the loneliness of divorce and offers insight into moving forward with confidence and clarity.</p><p>Need help from Dawn? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://mycoachdawn.com/about-dawn-wiggins/">www.mycoachdawn.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Oct 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/b3a09f9f/e8ace0bb.mp3" length="96353915" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2408</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Dawn Wiggins is a divorce recovery coach and therapist and, in this episode, she shares her personal journey of healing from trauma and divorce and the transformative techniques she uses to help others, including EMDR, EFT tapping, and homeopathy. Jaime and Dawn explore how childhood attachment issues and unresolved trauma can impact relationships, and how holistic healing methods can empower individuals to break free from destructive patterns. Dawn also addresses the loneliness of divorce and offers insight into moving forward with confidence and clarity.</p><p>Need help from Dawn? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://mycoachdawn.com/about-dawn-wiggins/">www.mycoachdawn.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/b3a09f9f/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>The Financial Playbook for Divorce with Victoria Kirilloff</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>The Financial Playbook for Divorce with Victoria Kirilloff</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">7a7cf1e3-041e-40fe-aec6-e3aebe24cffa</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/9ffe0e04</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Victoria Kirilloff, a certified divorce financial analyst and mediator with a passion for empowering individuals during the divorce process. Drawing from her own challenging divorce experience, Victoria created the Divorce Impact Analysis Report, a comprehensive tool designed to provide financial clarity for those navigating this complex journey. Victoria discusses the intricacies of spousal support, tax implications, and a post-divorce cost-of-living analysis. With her unique upbringing and personal insights, she emphasizes the need for transparency and proactive planning to transform what is often a destructive experience into a constructive one.</p><p>Need help from Victoria? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://victoriakirilloff.com/">www.victoriakirilloff.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Victoria Kirilloff, a certified divorce financial analyst and mediator with a passion for empowering individuals during the divorce process. Drawing from her own challenging divorce experience, Victoria created the Divorce Impact Analysis Report, a comprehensive tool designed to provide financial clarity for those navigating this complex journey. Victoria discusses the intricacies of spousal support, tax implications, and a post-divorce cost-of-living analysis. With her unique upbringing and personal insights, she emphasizes the need for transparency and proactive planning to transform what is often a destructive experience into a constructive one.</p><p>Need help from Victoria? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://victoriakirilloff.com/">www.victoriakirilloff.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Oct 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/9ffe0e04/be459810.mp3" length="85157264" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2128</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Victoria Kirilloff, a certified divorce financial analyst and mediator with a passion for empowering individuals during the divorce process. Drawing from her own challenging divorce experience, Victoria created the Divorce Impact Analysis Report, a comprehensive tool designed to provide financial clarity for those navigating this complex journey. Victoria discusses the intricacies of spousal support, tax implications, and a post-divorce cost-of-living analysis. With her unique upbringing and personal insights, she emphasizes the need for transparency and proactive planning to transform what is often a destructive experience into a constructive one.</p><p>Need help from Victoria? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://victoriakirilloff.com/">www.victoriakirilloff.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/9ffe0e04/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>How financial preparedness empowers your divorce, with My Divorce Solution</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>How financial preparedness empowers your divorce, with My Divorce Solution</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">818ddb0e-1809-4f85-b2b6-4fd00ccbcf61</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/04bd639d</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's joined by Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, a divorce financial preparation service. They share how financial preparedness can make or break a divorce settlement, highlighting the importance of financial clarity and separating emotions from financial decisions. Learn how their innovative approach empowers individuals to make informed decisions and negotiate confidently for a smoother, more strategic divorce process.</p><p>Need help from Catherine and Karen? Contact them by visiting <a href="https://mydivorcesolution.com/">www.mydivorcesolution.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's joined by Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, a divorce financial preparation service. They share how financial preparedness can make or break a divorce settlement, highlighting the importance of financial clarity and separating emotions from financial decisions. Learn how their innovative approach empowers individuals to make informed decisions and negotiate confidently for a smoother, more strategic divorce process.</p><p>Need help from Catherine and Karen? Contact them by visiting <a href="https://mydivorcesolution.com/">www.mydivorcesolution.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Oct 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/04bd639d/7779095b.mp3" length="33171816" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2071</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's joined by Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, a divorce financial preparation service. They share how financial preparedness can make or break a divorce settlement, highlighting the importance of financial clarity and separating emotions from financial decisions. Learn how their innovative approach empowers individuals to make informed decisions and negotiate confidently for a smoother, more strategic divorce process.</p><p>Need help from Catherine and Karen? Contact them by visiting <a href="https://mydivorcesolution.com/">www.mydivorcesolution.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/04bd639d/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Navigating Custody and Relocation: What Parents Need to Know with Theresa Viera</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Navigating Custody and Relocation: What Parents Need to Know with Theresa Viera</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d9e9fee0-6122-42f6-99cb-bd734b45cb7d</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/d62ac1a0</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime and fellow family law attorney Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal, are tackling relocation in custody cases. As separated parents contemplate moving to a new city, state, or country, what happens to the children? Jaime and Theresa explore the factors judges consider, the impact of relocation on a child's well-being, and potential changes to custody schedules. Whether considering a move or trying to keep your child nearby, this episode offers insights into navigating the legal system and keeping your child's best interest at the forefront. </p><p>Need help from Theresa? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.modernlegalnc.com/">www.modernlegalnc.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime and fellow family law attorney Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal, are tackling relocation in custody cases. As separated parents contemplate moving to a new city, state, or country, what happens to the children? Jaime and Theresa explore the factors judges consider, the impact of relocation on a child's well-being, and potential changes to custody schedules. Whether considering a move or trying to keep your child nearby, this episode offers insights into navigating the legal system and keeping your child's best interest at the forefront. </p><p>Need help from Theresa? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.modernlegalnc.com/">www.modernlegalnc.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/d62ac1a0/cd72a334.mp3" length="81922879" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2047</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime and fellow family law attorney Theresa Viera, founder of Modern Legal, are tackling relocation in custody cases. As separated parents contemplate moving to a new city, state, or country, what happens to the children? Jaime and Theresa explore the factors judges consider, the impact of relocation on a child's well-being, and potential changes to custody schedules. Whether considering a move or trying to keep your child nearby, this episode offers insights into navigating the legal system and keeping your child's best interest at the forefront. </p><p>Need help from Theresa? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.modernlegalnc.com/">www.modernlegalnc.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><br><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/d62ac1a0/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Personal Transformation Through Divorce with Karen McMahon</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Personal Transformation Through Divorce with Karen McMahon</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f5bb6d75-109b-4e1c-9a43-1a37d3ce5d2b</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/e472fa74</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, to explore how divorce can compel a profound personal transformation. Karen, a seasoned divorce coach, shares her personal journey from a tumultuous divorce to finding serenity and purpose. Discover how embracing personal growth, setting boundaries, and emotional regulation can lead to a more fulfilling life post-divorce. Plus, Karen discusses the unique challenges faced by C-suite women, the importance of building healthy friendships, and the transformative power of taking responsibility for one's own healing. Whether you're navigating a high-conflict divorce or struggling to let go of things out of your control, this episode offers practical advice for turning a difficult chapter into an exciting new beginning.</p><p>Need help from Karen? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/">www.jbddivorcesupport.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, to explore how divorce can compel a profound personal transformation. Karen, a seasoned divorce coach, shares her personal journey from a tumultuous divorce to finding serenity and purpose. Discover how embracing personal growth, setting boundaries, and emotional regulation can lead to a more fulfilling life post-divorce. Plus, Karen discusses the unique challenges faced by C-suite women, the importance of building healthy friendships, and the transformative power of taking responsibility for one's own healing. Whether you're navigating a high-conflict divorce or struggling to let go of things out of your control, this episode offers practical advice for turning a difficult chapter into an exciting new beginning.</p><p>Need help from Karen? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/">www.jbddivorcesupport.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/e472fa74/c0aa7f85.mp3" length="102948113" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2573</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, to explore how divorce can compel a profound personal transformation. Karen, a seasoned divorce coach, shares her personal journey from a tumultuous divorce to finding serenity and purpose. Discover how embracing personal growth, setting boundaries, and emotional regulation can lead to a more fulfilling life post-divorce. Plus, Karen discusses the unique challenges faced by C-suite women, the importance of building healthy friendships, and the transformative power of taking responsibility for one's own healing. Whether you're navigating a high-conflict divorce or struggling to let go of things out of your control, this episode offers practical advice for turning a difficult chapter into an exciting new beginning.</p><p>Need help from Karen? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/">www.jbddivorcesupport.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/e472fa74/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Fair Play in Marriage &amp; Divorce: Creating Harmony and Accountability with Tami Hackbarth</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Fair Play in Marriage &amp; Divorce: Creating Harmony and Accountability with Tami Hackbarth</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d01c0432-d36d-4cd9-8dd5-e19fdb33988e</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f672ef5</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's talking with Tami Hackbarth, a certified life and work coach, author, and host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. Together, they explore the Fair Play system, a revolutionary approach to dividing household tasks that promotes equity and clear communication between partners. Tami explains how Fair Play can help both married couples and divorced co-parents by fostering cooperation, reducing conflict, and encouraging accountability. Tune in to learn how this system can help manage the invisible tasks involved in parenting and support a more seamless transition during the process of divorce.</p><p><br>Need help from Tami? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.tamihackbarth.com/">www.tamihackbarth.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's talking with Tami Hackbarth, a certified life and work coach, author, and host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. Together, they explore the Fair Play system, a revolutionary approach to dividing household tasks that promotes equity and clear communication between partners. Tami explains how Fair Play can help both married couples and divorced co-parents by fostering cooperation, reducing conflict, and encouraging accountability. Tune in to learn how this system can help manage the invisible tasks involved in parenting and support a more seamless transition during the process of divorce.</p><p><br>Need help from Tami? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.tamihackbarth.com/">www.tamihackbarth.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/6f672ef5/e430d7f4.mp3" length="108306378" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2707</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's talking with Tami Hackbarth, a certified life and work coach, author, and host of the 100% Guilt-Free Self-Care podcast. Together, they explore the Fair Play system, a revolutionary approach to dividing household tasks that promotes equity and clear communication between partners. Tami explains how Fair Play can help both married couples and divorced co-parents by fostering cooperation, reducing conflict, and encouraging accountability. Tune in to learn how this system can help manage the invisible tasks involved in parenting and support a more seamless transition during the process of divorce.</p><p><br>Need help from Tami? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.tamihackbarth.com/">www.tamihackbarth.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Do I need a private investigator for my divorce case?</title>
      <itunes:season>8</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>8</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Do I need a private investigator for my divorce case?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">bf218349-7c27-4761-8870-87c7e3d03567</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/2816c6f4</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Cat Flowers, the founder of Cat's Eye Private Investigations, discusses how and when private investigations can help in family law cases. With a background in law enforcement and a dedication to meticulous investigation, Flowers emphasizes the crucial importance of uncovering hidden facts that can significantly impact legal proceedings. As the landscape of private investigations in family law continues to evolve, Flowers remains a steadfast advocate for ethical conduct and comprehensive investigative reports that empower attorneys to navigate complex family law matters with precision and integrity.</p><p>Need help from Cat? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://catseyepi.net/">www.catseyepi.net</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Cat Flowers, the founder of Cat's Eye Private Investigations, discusses how and when private investigations can help in family law cases. With a background in law enforcement and a dedication to meticulous investigation, Flowers emphasizes the crucial importance of uncovering hidden facts that can significantly impact legal proceedings. As the landscape of private investigations in family law continues to evolve, Flowers remains a steadfast advocate for ethical conduct and comprehensive investigative reports that empower attorneys to navigate complex family law matters with precision and integrity.</p><p>Need help from Cat? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://catseyepi.net/">www.catseyepi.net</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/2816c6f4/5461f664.mp3" length="79100277" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1976</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Cat Flowers, the founder of Cat's Eye Private Investigations, discusses how and when private investigations can help in family law cases. With a background in law enforcement and a dedication to meticulous investigation, Flowers emphasizes the crucial importance of uncovering hidden facts that can significantly impact legal proceedings. As the landscape of private investigations in family law continues to evolve, Flowers remains a steadfast advocate for ethical conduct and comprehensive investigative reports that empower attorneys to navigate complex family law matters with precision and integrity.</p><p>Need help from Cat? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://catseyepi.net/">www.catseyepi.net</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/2816c6f4/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Tips for Appearing in Family Court with Judge Brian Ratledge</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Tips for Appearing in Family Court with Judge Brian Ratledge</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f3d93a7e-080c-4d69-aad5-5ad5d0cb2fe3</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/4f6717c0</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Join Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for family law cases. From addressing common litigant mistakes to offering tips for alleviating anxiety before court appearances, Judge Ratledge sheds light on the reality of family court proceedings, courtroom etiquette, and factors that judges consider when determining outcomes in family court cases.</p><p>This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Join Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for family law cases. From addressing common litigant mistakes to offering tips for alleviating anxiety before court appearances, Judge Ratledge sheds light on the reality of family court proceedings, courtroom etiquette, and factors that judges consider when determining outcomes in family court cases.</p><p>This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/4f6717c0/e5d398a8.mp3" length="115527291" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2888</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Join Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for family law cases. From addressing common litigant mistakes to offering tips for alleviating anxiety before court appearances, Judge Ratledge sheds light on the reality of family court proceedings, courtroom etiquette, and factors that judges consider when determining outcomes in family court cases.</p><p>This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/4f6717c0/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Navigating Dating After Divorce, with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Navigating Dating After Divorce, with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">b592cb28-b2b2-408f-9c7a-6ed544c76e11</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/df67fa89</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find out how to figure out whether you’re emotionally ready to date, effectively communicate past experiences and boundaries to new partners, and determine when it’s the right time to introduce a new dating partner to your child(ren).</p><p>Need help from Laurie? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://lauriegerber.com/">www.lauriegerber.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find out how to figure out whether you’re emotionally ready to date, effectively communicate past experiences and boundaries to new partners, and determine when it’s the right time to introduce a new dating partner to your child(ren).</p><p>Need help from Laurie? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://lauriegerber.com/">www.lauriegerber.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/df67fa89/cd08f977.mp3" length="82044440" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2051</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find out how to figure out whether you’re emotionally ready to date, effectively communicate past experiences and boundaries to new partners, and determine when it’s the right time to introduce a new dating partner to your child(ren).</p><p>Need help from Laurie? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://lauriegerber.com/">www.lauriegerber.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/df67fa89/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>How to have a good divorce, with Sarah Armstrong</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>How to have a good divorce, with Sarah Armstrong</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">aa2e2269-23fb-41e1-ac69-fb7f28820fcf</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/a5db176e</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logistics of co-parenting a child living under two households to pausing when emotions run high, she shares her strategies for minimizing disruptions to children's lives, living through the year of firsts, and building your support network. Tune in to learn how to approach the process with the goals of creating a supportive, stable environment for your children and being as happy, healthy, and positive on the other side of divorce.</p><p>Need help from Sarah? Check out her book <a href="https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com/">here</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logistics of co-parenting a child living under two households to pausing when emotions run high, she shares her strategies for minimizing disruptions to children's lives, living through the year of firsts, and building your support network. Tune in to learn how to approach the process with the goals of creating a supportive, stable environment for your children and being as happy, healthy, and positive on the other side of divorce.</p><p>Need help from Sarah? Check out her book <a href="https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com/">here</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/a5db176e/f4c8d2ec.mp3" length="113396433" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2834</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Jaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logistics of co-parenting a child living under two households to pausing when emotions run high, she shares her strategies for minimizing disruptions to children's lives, living through the year of firsts, and building your support network. Tune in to learn how to approach the process with the goals of creating a supportive, stable environment for your children and being as happy, healthy, and positive on the other side of divorce.</p><p>Need help from Sarah? Check out her book <a href="https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com/">here</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/a5db176e/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Demystifying Equitable Distribution</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Demystifying Equitable Distribution</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">310888ea-110e-40d9-bd4c-25e57edae797</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/841ccd4b</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide invaluable insights into what to anticipate during asset division. Gain a deeper understanding of asset valuation, including insights into passive growth, particularly relevant in today's volatile market conditions. Explore how separate estates and financial misconduct can influence distribution outcomes, covering scenarios involving inheritance, trusts, and marital waste. Tune in to equip yourself with the knowledge and insights necessary to safeguard your interests and achieve a fair resolution in your divorce.</p><p>This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide invaluable insights into what to anticipate during asset division. Gain a deeper understanding of asset valuation, including insights into passive growth, particularly relevant in today's volatile market conditions. Explore how separate estates and financial misconduct can influence distribution outcomes, covering scenarios involving inheritance, trusts, and marital waste. Tune in to equip yourself with the knowledge and insights necessary to safeguard your interests and achieve a fair resolution in your divorce.</p><p>This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 26 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/841ccd4b/732e4ec6.mp3" length="79918923" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1997</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide invaluable insights into what to anticipate during asset division. Gain a deeper understanding of asset valuation, including insights into passive growth, particularly relevant in today's volatile market conditions. Explore how separate estates and financial misconduct can influence distribution outcomes, covering scenarios involving inheritance, trusts, and marital waste. Tune in to equip yourself with the knowledge and insights necessary to safeguard your interests and achieve a fair resolution in your divorce.</p><p>This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/841ccd4b/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Navigating Substance Abuse, Addiction, and Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Navigating Substance Abuse, Addiction, and Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">5d238efe-f184-4e9b-bd84-a75ccb5b6570</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/ad0b1741</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide for those facing a divorce involving a spouse struggling with addiction. Dr. Cohen shares stories from her own divorce, cognitive behavioral techniques that can help cope with the emotional toll of divorce, and navigating the complexities of co-parenting when substance abuse is a factor. If you're dealing with a challenging divorce or supporting someone through it, this episode provides practical advice and empowering perspectives.</p><p> </p><p>If you or someone you know is struggling with similar issues, we encourage you to seek support from mental health professionals or relevant resources, such as <a href="https://al-anon.org/">Al-Anon</a>.</p><p>Need help from Elizabeth? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://drelizabethcohen.com/">www.drelizabethcohen.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide for those facing a divorce involving a spouse struggling with addiction. Dr. Cohen shares stories from her own divorce, cognitive behavioral techniques that can help cope with the emotional toll of divorce, and navigating the complexities of co-parenting when substance abuse is a factor. If you're dealing with a challenging divorce or supporting someone through it, this episode provides practical advice and empowering perspectives.</p><p> </p><p>If you or someone you know is struggling with similar issues, we encourage you to seek support from mental health professionals or relevant resources, such as <a href="https://al-anon.org/">Al-Anon</a>.</p><p>Need help from Elizabeth? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://drelizabethcohen.com/">www.drelizabethcohen.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/ad0b1741/cd09515b.mp3" length="97804613" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2444</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide for those facing a divorce involving a spouse struggling with addiction. Dr. Cohen shares stories from her own divorce, cognitive behavioral techniques that can help cope with the emotional toll of divorce, and navigating the complexities of co-parenting when substance abuse is a factor. If you're dealing with a challenging divorce or supporting someone through it, this episode provides practical advice and empowering perspectives.</p><p> </p><p>If you or someone you know is struggling with similar issues, we encourage you to seek support from mental health professionals or relevant resources, such as <a href="https://al-anon.org/">Al-Anon</a>.</p><p>Need help from Elizabeth? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://drelizabethcohen.com/">www.drelizabethcohen.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/ad0b1741/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>How to Know When to Leave Your Marriage, with Kate Anthony</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>How to Know When to Leave Your Marriage, with Kate Anthony</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">09b3bc93-29fd-472a-951d-f8d8659f8fe6</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/014038b2</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common dilemmas individuals face while making this life-altering decision. </p><p><br></p><p>Discover why women often agonize over this question and the importance of prioritizing personal happiness. Kate discusses what makes a healthy relationship and how deciding whether to divorce begins with self-work. Don't miss this episode that combines expert advice, personal experiences, and a roadmap for making one of life's most difficult decisions.</p><p><br>Need help from Kate? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://kateanthony.com/">www.kateanthony.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common dilemmas individuals face while making this life-altering decision. </p><p><br></p><p>Discover why women often agonize over this question and the importance of prioritizing personal happiness. Kate discusses what makes a healthy relationship and how deciding whether to divorce begins with self-work. Don't miss this episode that combines expert advice, personal experiences, and a roadmap for making one of life's most difficult decisions.</p><p><br>Need help from Kate? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://kateanthony.com/">www.kateanthony.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/014038b2/a0a48e2e.mp3" length="89839969" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2245</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common dilemmas individuals face while making this life-altering decision. </p><p><br></p><p>Discover why women often agonize over this question and the importance of prioritizing personal happiness. Kate discusses what makes a healthy relationship and how deciding whether to divorce begins with self-work. Don't miss this episode that combines expert advice, personal experiences, and a roadmap for making one of life's most difficult decisions.</p><p><br>Need help from Kate? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://kateanthony.com/">www.kateanthony.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/014038b2/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>How to Build a Strong Co-Parenting Alliance, with Co-Parenting Coach Al Huntoon</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>How to Build a Strong Co-Parenting Alliance, with Co-Parenting Coach Al Huntoon</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">8b4b43cf-424d-4539-a115-5c04e340f0cf</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/1e872ad2</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance of self-care. He empowers parents following separation and divorce with a skills-building approach to co-parenting with the child’s best interest at heart. Don't miss this engaging conversation that sheds light on common challenges of co-parenting and provides actionable tips for a more successful co-parenting journey.</p><p>Need help from Al? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.coparentingconnection.com/">www.coparentingconnection.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance of self-care. He empowers parents following separation and divorce with a skills-building approach to co-parenting with the child’s best interest at heart. Don't miss this engaging conversation that sheds light on common challenges of co-parenting and provides actionable tips for a more successful co-parenting journey.</p><p>Need help from Al? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.coparentingconnection.com/">www.coparentingconnection.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 16 Jan 2024 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/1e872ad2/f77bc589.mp3" length="73148139" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1827</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance of self-care. He empowers parents following separation and divorce with a skills-building approach to co-parenting with the child’s best interest at heart. Don't miss this engaging conversation that sheds light on common challenges of co-parenting and provides actionable tips for a more successful co-parenting journey.</p><p>Need help from Al? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.coparentingconnection.com/">www.coparentingconnection.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: Strategies for Protecting Your Children and Your Sanity</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: Strategies for Protecting Your Children and Your Sanity</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f1a9e951-8ba4-4bad-bd15-e29fadc0e602</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/d801bab5</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Together, they explore common behaviors of narcissistic individuals that impact co-parenting dynamics and discuss effective communication strategies for non-narcissistic parents. Dr. Campbell also shares crucial advice on establishing healthy boundaries, protecting parental rights, and ensuring the best interests of the children. If you're facing the emotional drain of co-parenting with a narcissist, this episode offers practical coping mechanisms to safeguard your well-being and mental health. </p><p>Need help from Keith? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://wkeithcampbell.com/">www.wkeithcampbell.com</a>. </p><p><a href="https://wkeithcampbell.com/books/">Learn more about his books here</a>, including his latest book "The New Science of Narcissism."</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Together, they explore common behaviors of narcissistic individuals that impact co-parenting dynamics and discuss effective communication strategies for non-narcissistic parents. Dr. Campbell also shares crucial advice on establishing healthy boundaries, protecting parental rights, and ensuring the best interests of the children. If you're facing the emotional drain of co-parenting with a narcissist, this episode offers practical coping mechanisms to safeguard your well-being and mental health. </p><p>Need help from Keith? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://wkeithcampbell.com/">www.wkeithcampbell.com</a>. </p><p><a href="https://wkeithcampbell.com/books/">Learn more about his books here</a>, including his latest book "The New Science of Narcissism."</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2023 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/d801bab5/fd5c2949.mp3" length="74651908" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1865</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Together, they explore common behaviors of narcissistic individuals that impact co-parenting dynamics and discuss effective communication strategies for non-narcissistic parents. Dr. Campbell also shares crucial advice on establishing healthy boundaries, protecting parental rights, and ensuring the best interests of the children. If you're facing the emotional drain of co-parenting with a narcissist, this episode offers practical coping mechanisms to safeguard your well-being and mental health. </p><p>Need help from Keith? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://wkeithcampbell.com/">www.wkeithcampbell.com</a>. </p><p><a href="https://wkeithcampbell.com/books/">Learn more about his books here</a>, including his latest book "The New Science of Narcissism."</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Why Every Couple Should Have a Prenup</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Why Every Couple Should Have a Prenup</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">daf157e7-b9a9-443a-b01e-e0c0524721d6</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/2e723b18</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and renowned divorce financial analyst. Together, they delve into the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, shedding light on why every couple, not just the wealthy, should consider this crucial legal document.</p><p>Lisa breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, reveals the common misconceptions, and shares insights on when and how to approach this important financial discussion in your relationship. Learn how prenuptial agreements go beyond asset division and can serve as a tool for protecting the interests of both partners, especially in situations involving family legacies, businesses, and stay-at-home parents.</p><p>Need help from Lisa? Contact her by visiting<a href="https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/"> </a><a href="https://lisazeiderman.com/">www.lisazeiderman.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and renowned divorce financial analyst. Together, they delve into the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, shedding light on why every couple, not just the wealthy, should consider this crucial legal document.</p><p>Lisa breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, reveals the common misconceptions, and shares insights on when and how to approach this important financial discussion in your relationship. Learn how prenuptial agreements go beyond asset division and can serve as a tool for protecting the interests of both partners, especially in situations involving family legacies, businesses, and stay-at-home parents.</p><p>Need help from Lisa? Contact her by visiting<a href="https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/"> </a><a href="https://lisazeiderman.com/">www.lisazeiderman.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2023 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/2e723b18/781d1fbb.mp3" length="79528006" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1986</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and renowned divorce financial analyst. Together, they delve into the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, shedding light on why every couple, not just the wealthy, should consider this crucial legal document.</p><p>Lisa breaks down the myths surrounding prenups, reveals the common misconceptions, and shares insights on when and how to approach this important financial discussion in your relationship. Learn how prenuptial agreements go beyond asset division and can serve as a tool for protecting the interests of both partners, especially in situations involving family legacies, businesses, and stay-at-home parents.</p><p>Need help from Lisa? Contact her by visiting<a href="https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/"> </a><a href="https://lisazeiderman.com/">www.lisazeiderman.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/2e723b18/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Is there a relationship between menopause and divorce?</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Is there a relationship between menopause and divorce?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">17b915d6-8dd2-4493-9469-9db333a3c305</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/7d0aebce</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we delve into a profound conversation with Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation (NMF), as we explore the often-overlooked connection between menopause and divorce. Over and over again, in conversations, webinars, and group meetings with the NMF, women often reference feeling convinced that they were going to get a divorce during the journey to menopause.</p><p><br></p><p>Join us as we shed light on the complexities, challenges, and emotions that can intertwine these life events. Our culture’s lack of awareness and understanding of the physical and emotional symptoms of perimenopause can impact relationships and even influence major life decisions. Being informed and aware of symptoms can help discern whether issues are related to menopause or truly reflective of challenges in a relationship. Don't miss this essential conversation on a topic affecting all women. </p><p><br>Need help from Claire? Contact her by visiting<a href="https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/"> www.nationalmenopausefoundation.org</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we delve into a profound conversation with Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation (NMF), as we explore the often-overlooked connection between menopause and divorce. Over and over again, in conversations, webinars, and group meetings with the NMF, women often reference feeling convinced that they were going to get a divorce during the journey to menopause.</p><p><br></p><p>Join us as we shed light on the complexities, challenges, and emotions that can intertwine these life events. Our culture’s lack of awareness and understanding of the physical and emotional symptoms of perimenopause can impact relationships and even influence major life decisions. Being informed and aware of symptoms can help discern whether issues are related to menopause or truly reflective of challenges in a relationship. Don't miss this essential conversation on a topic affecting all women. </p><p><br>Need help from Claire? Contact her by visiting<a href="https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/"> www.nationalmenopausefoundation.org</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2023 04:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/7d0aebce/5b056bbd.mp3" length="91776389" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2294</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we delve into a profound conversation with Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation (NMF), as we explore the often-overlooked connection between menopause and divorce. Over and over again, in conversations, webinars, and group meetings with the NMF, women often reference feeling convinced that they were going to get a divorce during the journey to menopause.</p><p><br></p><p>Join us as we shed light on the complexities, challenges, and emotions that can intertwine these life events. Our culture’s lack of awareness and understanding of the physical and emotional symptoms of perimenopause can impact relationships and even influence major life decisions. Being informed and aware of symptoms can help discern whether issues are related to menopause or truly reflective of challenges in a relationship. Don't miss this essential conversation on a topic affecting all women. </p><p><br>Need help from Claire? Contact her by visiting<a href="https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/"> www.nationalmenopausefoundation.org</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a> </p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/7d0aebce/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Designing a Holiday Child Custody Schedule for Divorcing Couples </title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Designing a Holiday Child Custody Schedule for Divorcing Couples </itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">e16e0709-08d9-435c-a386-bca1f8692951</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/bc6fa3e6</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime and family law attorney Melissa Essick delve into the complexities of crafting a holiday schedule that takes into account the unique needs of your family. With the holiday season fast approaching, Jaime and Melissa provide expert insights and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges, emotions, and unique complexities that can arise during this festive time. Discover the different approaches to splitting the holidays, whether it's rotating, fixed, or shared schedules, and find out which one may suit your family best. Jaime and Melissa share their insights into considering your children's holiday wishes, maintaining traditions, and the critical role of flexibility in co-parenting. Make this holiday season a time of unity, connection, and lasting memories for your family by tuning in to this episode!</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime and family law attorney Melissa Essick delve into the complexities of crafting a holiday schedule that takes into account the unique needs of your family. With the holiday season fast approaching, Jaime and Melissa provide expert insights and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges, emotions, and unique complexities that can arise during this festive time. Discover the different approaches to splitting the holidays, whether it's rotating, fixed, or shared schedules, and find out which one may suit your family best. Jaime and Melissa share their insights into considering your children's holiday wishes, maintaining traditions, and the critical role of flexibility in co-parenting. Make this holiday season a time of unity, connection, and lasting memories for your family by tuning in to this episode!</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2023 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/bc6fa3e6/f066ed8c.mp3" length="76098966" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1902</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime and family law attorney Melissa Essick delve into the complexities of crafting a holiday schedule that takes into account the unique needs of your family. With the holiday season fast approaching, Jaime and Melissa provide expert insights and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges, emotions, and unique complexities that can arise during this festive time. Discover the different approaches to splitting the holidays, whether it's rotating, fixed, or shared schedules, and find out which one may suit your family best. Jaime and Melissa share their insights into considering your children's holiday wishes, maintaining traditions, and the critical role of flexibility in co-parenting. Make this holiday season a time of unity, connection, and lasting memories for your family by tuning in to this episode!</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Empowering Domestic Violence Survivors and Navigating Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>7</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>7</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Empowering Domestic Violence Survivors and Navigating Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">516722a7-c407-4580-8c92-ebd006ccafdd</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/a0749e6d</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>To honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jaime and fellow family law attorney Meredith Cross are delving into the sensitive yet critical issue of domestic violence within the context of divorce. Domestic violence can complicate divorce proceedings, exacerbating an already complex situation. Hear more about the legal aspects, challenges, and potential solutions when domestic violence intersects with divorce. Learn about warning signs, protective orders, child custody considerations, and how to support survivors. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, this episode offers valuable insights and resources to empower survivors.</p><p>If you or someone you know is in need of help or support, please don't hesitate to reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Your safety matters, and there are people ready to listen to and assist you.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>To honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jaime and fellow family law attorney Meredith Cross are delving into the sensitive yet critical issue of domestic violence within the context of divorce. Domestic violence can complicate divorce proceedings, exacerbating an already complex situation. Hear more about the legal aspects, challenges, and potential solutions when domestic violence intersects with divorce. Learn about warning signs, protective orders, child custody considerations, and how to support survivors. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, this episode offers valuable insights and resources to empower survivors.</p><p>If you or someone you know is in need of help or support, please don't hesitate to reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Your safety matters, and there are people ready to listen to and assist you.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Oct 2023 04:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/a0749e6d/7bfa2520.mp3" length="75547581" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1888</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>To honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Jaime and fellow family law attorney Meredith Cross are delving into the sensitive yet critical issue of domestic violence within the context of divorce. Domestic violence can complicate divorce proceedings, exacerbating an already complex situation. Hear more about the legal aspects, challenges, and potential solutions when domestic violence intersects with divorce. Learn about warning signs, protective orders, child custody considerations, and how to support survivors. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, this episode offers valuable insights and resources to empower survivors.</p><p>If you or someone you know is in need of help or support, please don't hesitate to reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Your safety matters, and there are people ready to listen to and assist you.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>The Hidden Financial Benefits of Divorce You Need to Know</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>The Hidden Financial Benefits of Divorce You Need to Know</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">679c663b-b1c9-4f4b-9f64-b2099d19e81a</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/0870b8c9</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Rick Salmeron, a Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Salmeron Financial. Rick specializes in guiding individuals through the often-overlooked financial advantages of divorce, and he's seen the hidden silver lining within this life event and the powerful opportunities it can bring. From taking control of your financial ship to exploring investment strategies and unexpected retirement benefits, Rick sheds light on how divorce can serve as a catalyst for building wealth and securing a brighter financial future.</p><p><br>Need help from Rick? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.salmeronfinancial.com/">www.salmeronfinancial.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Rick Salmeron, a Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Salmeron Financial. Rick specializes in guiding individuals through the often-overlooked financial advantages of divorce, and he's seen the hidden silver lining within this life event and the powerful opportunities it can bring. From taking control of your financial ship to exploring investment strategies and unexpected retirement benefits, Rick sheds light on how divorce can serve as a catalyst for building wealth and securing a brighter financial future.</p><p><br>Need help from Rick? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.salmeronfinancial.com/">www.salmeronfinancial.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/0870b8c9/6b971c0e.mp3" length="68488822" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1711</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Rick Salmeron, a Certified Financial Planner and Founder of Salmeron Financial. Rick specializes in guiding individuals through the often-overlooked financial advantages of divorce, and he's seen the hidden silver lining within this life event and the powerful opportunities it can bring. From taking control of your financial ship to exploring investment strategies and unexpected retirement benefits, Rick sheds light on how divorce can serve as a catalyst for building wealth and securing a brighter financial future.</p><p><br>Need help from Rick? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.salmeronfinancial.com/">www.salmeronfinancial.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Supporting Friends and Family Through Divorce with Family Law Attorney Lynn McNally</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Supporting Friends and Family Through Divorce with Family Law Attorney Lynn McNally</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">8d6fe135-8511-44be-b872-16c4307f9435</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/a2604d08</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with board-certified family law specialist Lynn McNally, a partner at the Smith Debnam Law Firm in Raleigh to discuss practical ways to support your loved ones navigating divorce. Lynn and Jaime discuss the vital role that support persons can play during the process of divorce, including considerations for legal consultations, attorney-client privilege, and the delicate balance of emotional assistance. For friends and family, find out how to offer meaningful help, encourage mental health resources, and provide the right kind of support without overstepping boundaries. Jaime and Lynn also call out what not to do as a support person and caution against social media blunders.</p><p>Need help from Lynn? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.smithdebnamlaw.com/lawyers/lynn-wilson-mcnally/">www.smithdebnamlaw.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with board-certified family law specialist Lynn McNally, a partner at the Smith Debnam Law Firm in Raleigh to discuss practical ways to support your loved ones navigating divorce. Lynn and Jaime discuss the vital role that support persons can play during the process of divorce, including considerations for legal consultations, attorney-client privilege, and the delicate balance of emotional assistance. For friends and family, find out how to offer meaningful help, encourage mental health resources, and provide the right kind of support without overstepping boundaries. Jaime and Lynn also call out what not to do as a support person and caution against social media blunders.</p><p>Need help from Lynn? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.smithdebnamlaw.com/lawyers/lynn-wilson-mcnally/">www.smithdebnamlaw.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/a2604d08/56698050.mp3" length="77996471" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1949</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime sits down with board-certified family law specialist Lynn McNally, a partner at the Smith Debnam Law Firm in Raleigh to discuss practical ways to support your loved ones navigating divorce. Lynn and Jaime discuss the vital role that support persons can play during the process of divorce, including considerations for legal consultations, attorney-client privilege, and the delicate balance of emotional assistance. For friends and family, find out how to offer meaningful help, encourage mental health resources, and provide the right kind of support without overstepping boundaries. Jaime and Lynn also call out what not to do as a support person and caution against social media blunders.</p><p>Need help from Lynn? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.smithdebnamlaw.com/lawyers/lynn-wilson-mcnally/">www.smithdebnamlaw.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p><p><br></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/a2604d08/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Open Marriage &amp; How it Can Impact Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Open Marriage &amp; How it Can Impact Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d7093996-f540-46db-b610-503ac0997d47</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/923104f8</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Join us as we tackle the intriguing and often taboo topic of open marriages and their potential effects on divorce cases. In this episode, Jaime is joined by fellow Gailor Hunt attorneys Melissa Essick and Grace Massarelli to discuss the legal implications that arise when couples have consensual non-monogamous relationships. Interestingly, they have recently seen an increase in divorce cases involving open marriages.</p><p><br></p><p>Discover what defines an open marriage, why couples consider an open marriage, the importance of communication and boundaries, and how it can influence custody, alimony, and equitable distribution claims. Jaime and her colleagues discuss the importance of a written contract, which can show intent, although it’s not legally binding in North Carolina. The legal implications on divorce are still a very much gray area in the state, but this episode will help to unravel this complex situation from a divorce standpoint.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Join us as we tackle the intriguing and often taboo topic of open marriages and their potential effects on divorce cases. In this episode, Jaime is joined by fellow Gailor Hunt attorneys Melissa Essick and Grace Massarelli to discuss the legal implications that arise when couples have consensual non-monogamous relationships. Interestingly, they have recently seen an increase in divorce cases involving open marriages.</p><p><br></p><p>Discover what defines an open marriage, why couples consider an open marriage, the importance of communication and boundaries, and how it can influence custody, alimony, and equitable distribution claims. Jaime and her colleagues discuss the importance of a written contract, which can show intent, although it’s not legally binding in North Carolina. The legal implications on divorce are still a very much gray area in the state, but this episode will help to unravel this complex situation from a divorce standpoint.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/923104f8/1d5fe7a0.mp3" length="79850886" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1995</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Join us as we tackle the intriguing and often taboo topic of open marriages and their potential effects on divorce cases. In this episode, Jaime is joined by fellow Gailor Hunt attorneys Melissa Essick and Grace Massarelli to discuss the legal implications that arise when couples have consensual non-monogamous relationships. Interestingly, they have recently seen an increase in divorce cases involving open marriages.</p><p><br></p><p>Discover what defines an open marriage, why couples consider an open marriage, the importance of communication and boundaries, and how it can influence custody, alimony, and equitable distribution claims. Jaime and her colleagues discuss the importance of a written contract, which can show intent, although it’s not legally binding in North Carolina. The legal implications on divorce are still a very much gray area in the state, but this episode will help to unravel this complex situation from a divorce standpoint.</p><p><br>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/923104f8/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Infidelity: Why People Cheat and Its Impact on Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Infidelity: Why People Cheat and Its Impact on Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">b42817ca-0cb5-4e45-8432-d7bd96a2ea0e</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/3a9fd92a</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime delves into the topic of infidelity and its implications in divorce cases with Michelle Chiaramonte, a clinical social worker and therapist specializing in marriage and couples counseling. They explore why people cheat, the changing dynamics of infidelity across genders, and how individuals can navigate the aftermath of an affair. Discover valuable insights into the emotional complexities of infidelity and how to move forward, whether together or apart. Michelle also shares thoughts on how to help prevent infidelity in your relationship. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of infidelity and its impact on divorce.</p><p>Need help from Michelle? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.luminacounseling.com/">www.luminacounseling.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime delves into the topic of infidelity and its implications in divorce cases with Michelle Chiaramonte, a clinical social worker and therapist specializing in marriage and couples counseling. They explore why people cheat, the changing dynamics of infidelity across genders, and how individuals can navigate the aftermath of an affair. Discover valuable insights into the emotional complexities of infidelity and how to move forward, whether together or apart. Michelle also shares thoughts on how to help prevent infidelity in your relationship. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of infidelity and its impact on divorce.</p><p>Need help from Michelle? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.luminacounseling.com/">www.luminacounseling.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/3a9fd92a/9338272c.mp3" length="58902382" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1472</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime delves into the topic of infidelity and its implications in divorce cases with Michelle Chiaramonte, a clinical social worker and therapist specializing in marriage and couples counseling. They explore why people cheat, the changing dynamics of infidelity across genders, and how individuals can navigate the aftermath of an affair. Discover valuable insights into the emotional complexities of infidelity and how to move forward, whether together or apart. Michelle also shares thoughts on how to help prevent infidelity in your relationship. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of infidelity and its impact on divorce.</p><p>Need help from Michelle? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://www.luminacounseling.com/">www.luminacounseling.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Navigating High Conflict Divorce: Expert Strategies with Bill Eddy</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Navigating High Conflict Divorce: Expert Strategies with Bill Eddy</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">bf4ad49b-206b-490f-8b1e-95a7336b6f12</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/8f7675a0</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Bill Eddy, therapist, lawyer, mediator, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. Discover the key differences between high-conflict divorces and typical divorces, common behaviors exhibited by high-conflict individuals, and effective strategies to protect yourself and your children during the divorce process. Gain valuable insights from Bill Eddy's expertise in dealing with high-conflict personalities and learn how to navigate divorce without destruction. Tune in now and take the first step toward a peaceful resolution.</p><p>Need help from Bill? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/">www.highconflictinstitute.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Bill Eddy, therapist, lawyer, mediator, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. Discover the key differences between high-conflict divorces and typical divorces, common behaviors exhibited by high-conflict individuals, and effective strategies to protect yourself and your children during the divorce process. Gain valuable insights from Bill Eddy's expertise in dealing with high-conflict personalities and learn how to navigate divorce without destruction. Tune in now and take the first step toward a peaceful resolution.</p><p>Need help from Bill? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/">www.highconflictinstitute.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/8f7675a0/ddb11205.mp3" length="61917192" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1547</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Bill Eddy, therapist, lawyer, mediator, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. Discover the key differences between high-conflict divorces and typical divorces, common behaviors exhibited by high-conflict individuals, and effective strategies to protect yourself and your children during the divorce process. Gain valuable insights from Bill Eddy's expertise in dealing with high-conflict personalities and learn how to navigate divorce without destruction. Tune in now and take the first step toward a peaceful resolution.</p><p>Need help from Bill? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/">www.highconflictinstitute.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/8f7675a0/transcript.txt" type="text/plain"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Unique Legal Issues Faced by LGBTQIA+ Couples During Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Unique Legal Issues Faced by LGBTQIA+ Couples During Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">dcdeb504-cb3e-4ca7-9602-836edb09a552</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/ef96ef91</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Jonathan Melton, Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, certified mediator for family financial cases and fellow attorney at Gailor Hunt, to discuss same-sex marriage and the challenges LGBTQIA+ couples may encounter during separation and divorce. Discover the legal implications that same-sex couples faced prior to marriage equality, including the absence of property rights, tax benefits, and legal remedies, and learn about the complexities of custody issues for same-sex couples and how marriage equality has helped mitigate some of these challenges. Jonathan provides valuable insights into the importance of premarital agreements, highlighting their role in simplifying asset division, spousal support, and alleviating future legal battles. Tune in as we explore the legal landscape surrounding same-sex relationships and empower individuals to navigate their journey with clarity and confidence.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Jonathan Melton, Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, certified mediator for family financial cases and fellow attorney at Gailor Hunt, to discuss same-sex marriage and the challenges LGBTQIA+ couples may encounter during separation and divorce. Discover the legal implications that same-sex couples faced prior to marriage equality, including the absence of property rights, tax benefits, and legal remedies, and learn about the complexities of custody issues for same-sex couples and how marriage equality has helped mitigate some of these challenges. Jonathan provides valuable insights into the importance of premarital agreements, highlighting their role in simplifying asset division, spousal support, and alleviating future legal battles. Tune in as we explore the legal landscape surrounding same-sex relationships and empower individuals to navigate their journey with clarity and confidence.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/ef96ef91/4808221a.mp3" length="66031989" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1650</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's joined by Jonathan Melton, Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, certified mediator for family financial cases and fellow attorney at Gailor Hunt, to discuss same-sex marriage and the challenges LGBTQIA+ couples may encounter during separation and divorce. Discover the legal implications that same-sex couples faced prior to marriage equality, including the absence of property rights, tax benefits, and legal remedies, and learn about the complexities of custody issues for same-sex couples and how marriage equality has helped mitigate some of these challenges. Jonathan provides valuable insights into the importance of premarital agreements, highlighting their role in simplifying asset division, spousal support, and alleviating future legal battles. Tune in as we explore the legal landscape surrounding same-sex relationships and empower individuals to navigate their journey with clarity and confidence.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Tools for Men Going Through Divorce: Rebuilding Prosperity and Well-Being</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Tools for Men Going Through Divorce: Rebuilding Prosperity and Well-Being</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">c50be80f-1ae7-4449-8bea-883697f12c94</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/e101df53</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks with Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach and Financial Planner, about his personal experience with divorce and how it inspired him to become a divorce coach. Steve shares his journey of navigating divorce as a single father and the challenges he faced in balancing his career and responsibilities. He introduces Stoic philosophy and its application in coaching men through divorce, emphasizing the importance of perception, actions, and focusing on what is within their control. Tune in to this enlightening conversation to gain valuable tools and strategies for men to achieve a positive outcome in divorce and rebuild their life.</p><p>Need help from Steve? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://youtreecoaching.com/">www.youtreecoaching.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks with Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach and Financial Planner, about his personal experience with divorce and how it inspired him to become a divorce coach. Steve shares his journey of navigating divorce as a single father and the challenges he faced in balancing his career and responsibilities. He introduces Stoic philosophy and its application in coaching men through divorce, emphasizing the importance of perception, actions, and focusing on what is within their control. Tune in to this enlightening conversation to gain valuable tools and strategies for men to achieve a positive outcome in divorce and rebuild their life.</p><p>Need help from Steve? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://youtreecoaching.com/">www.youtreecoaching.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/e101df53/000226b9.mp3" length="74363535" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1858</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks with Steve Schleupner, Certified Divorce Coach and Financial Planner, about his personal experience with divorce and how it inspired him to become a divorce coach. Steve shares his journey of navigating divorce as a single father and the challenges he faced in balancing his career and responsibilities. He introduces Stoic philosophy and its application in coaching men through divorce, emphasizing the importance of perception, actions, and focusing on what is within their control. Tune in to this enlightening conversation to gain valuable tools and strategies for men to achieve a positive outcome in divorce and rebuild their life.</p><p>Need help from Steve? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://youtreecoaching.com/">www.youtreecoaching.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/e101df53/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" rel="captions"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Empowering Women Through Divorce: Overcoming emotional challenges with Divorce Coach Beverly Price</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Empowering Women Through Divorce: Overcoming emotional challenges with Divorce Coach Beverly Price</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">0dae93cd-71d2-4659-833d-738dd4382b74</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/df7782fc</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks with divorce and empowerment coach Beverly Price about the emotional challenges that women often face during the divorce process. In her work as a coach, Beverly helps women feel empowered to have a better life. Whether contemplating divorce, going through the legal and financial process to divorce, or struggling with negative emotions post-divorce, a coach can help navigate this daunting journey and avoid making life-altering decisions based on emotions.</p><p>Beverly helps her female clients process their emotions effectively, particularly when the divorce process strips away a person's identity as a spouse and mother. She encourages a shift in thinking from "Who am I?" to "I am an amazing woman," promoting positive self-talk, gratitude, and mindset shifting. She explains that negative thinking forms negative pathways in the brain, reinforces negative responses, and shares how to create positive pathways to foster positive thinking. Tune in to this episode to better understand the significance of emotional well-being during divorce and how a coach can help navigate the process and rebuild self-esteem.</p><p>Need help from Beverly? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://herempowereddivorce.com/">www.herempowereddivorce.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks with divorce and empowerment coach Beverly Price about the emotional challenges that women often face during the divorce process. In her work as a coach, Beverly helps women feel empowered to have a better life. Whether contemplating divorce, going through the legal and financial process to divorce, or struggling with negative emotions post-divorce, a coach can help navigate this daunting journey and avoid making life-altering decisions based on emotions.</p><p>Beverly helps her female clients process their emotions effectively, particularly when the divorce process strips away a person's identity as a spouse and mother. She encourages a shift in thinking from "Who am I?" to "I am an amazing woman," promoting positive self-talk, gratitude, and mindset shifting. She explains that negative thinking forms negative pathways in the brain, reinforces negative responses, and shares how to create positive pathways to foster positive thinking. Tune in to this episode to better understand the significance of emotional well-being during divorce and how a coach can help navigate the process and rebuild self-esteem.</p><p>Need help from Beverly? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://herempowereddivorce.com/">www.herempowereddivorce.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 30 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/df7782fc/6c1ce8e4.mp3" length="92547482" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2312</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime talks with divorce and empowerment coach Beverly Price about the emotional challenges that women often face during the divorce process. In her work as a coach, Beverly helps women feel empowered to have a better life. Whether contemplating divorce, going through the legal and financial process to divorce, or struggling with negative emotions post-divorce, a coach can help navigate this daunting journey and avoid making life-altering decisions based on emotions.</p><p>Beverly helps her female clients process their emotions effectively, particularly when the divorce process strips away a person's identity as a spouse and mother. She encourages a shift in thinking from "Who am I?" to "I am an amazing woman," promoting positive self-talk, gratitude, and mindset shifting. She explains that negative thinking forms negative pathways in the brain, reinforces negative responses, and shares how to create positive pathways to foster positive thinking. Tune in to this episode to better understand the significance of emotional well-being during divorce and how a coach can help navigate the process and rebuild self-esteem.</p><p>Need help from Beverly? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://herempowereddivorce.com/">www.herempowereddivorce.com</a>.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/df7782fc/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" rel="captions"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>What's the difference between physical and legal custody?</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>What's the difference between physical and legal custody?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">2ebfcc47-5225-4a93-a12f-5065b445d95b</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/4a7ed190</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Melissa Essick, a fellow family law attorney and mediator, about legal custody in divorce with children. The discussion includes the differences between sole legal custody and joint legal custody, what information parents are entitled to about their children and what decisions typically need joint agreement between parents, such as medical appointments, mental health decisions, competitive sports, and school choice. They also warn against playing games and not involving the other parent in decision-making. Tune in to find out how to navigate custody concerns and differences in opinion.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Melissa Essick, a fellow family law attorney and mediator, about legal custody in divorce with children. The discussion includes the differences between sole legal custody and joint legal custody, what information parents are entitled to about their children and what decisions typically need joint agreement between parents, such as medical appointments, mental health decisions, competitive sports, and school choice. They also warn against playing games and not involving the other parent in decision-making. Tune in to find out how to navigate custody concerns and differences in opinion.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/4a7ed190/ba76b5c2.mp3" length="82771008" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2068</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jaime's talking with Melissa Essick, a fellow family law attorney and mediator, about legal custody in divorce with children. The discussion includes the differences between sole legal custody and joint legal custody, what information parents are entitled to about their children and what decisions typically need joint agreement between parents, such as medical appointments, mental health decisions, competitive sports, and school choice. They also warn against playing games and not involving the other parent in decision-making. Tune in to find out how to navigate custody concerns and differences in opinion.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/4a7ed190/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" rel="captions"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Healthy co-parenting strategies for divorced parents</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Healthy co-parenting strategies for divorced parents</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">a309a3d6-ab79-4dfc-baaf-0249b235ea2e</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/f0a98ada</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Johanna Lynn, a relationship specialist and founder of The Family Imprint Institute, has over 20 years of expertise in resolving inherited family patterns and helps her clients dismantle unhealthy patterns, restore relationships, and create resilient boundaries. In this episode, they discuss common relationship issues couples face during and after divorce, including money matters, different views on parenting, infidelity, and the role of in-laws. They also delve into co-parenting and how to get both parents on the same page to ensure children don't feel the stress or tension from their separation. </p><p>Johanna explains that separating the pain of the separation from the co-parenting relationship is essential, and the foundation of healthy co-parenting is acknowledging that both parents love their children and want the best for them. She also suggests that looking at their relational family history and understanding each other's reactions can be helpful in trying to maintain a healthy relationship with their co-parent for the sake of their children.</p><p>Need help from Johanna? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://johannalynn.ca/">www.johannalynn.ca</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Johanna Lynn, a relationship specialist and founder of The Family Imprint Institute, has over 20 years of expertise in resolving inherited family patterns and helps her clients dismantle unhealthy patterns, restore relationships, and create resilient boundaries. In this episode, they discuss common relationship issues couples face during and after divorce, including money matters, different views on parenting, infidelity, and the role of in-laws. They also delve into co-parenting and how to get both parents on the same page to ensure children don't feel the stress or tension from their separation. </p><p>Johanna explains that separating the pain of the separation from the co-parenting relationship is essential, and the foundation of healthy co-parenting is acknowledging that both parents love their children and want the best for them. She also suggests that looking at their relational family history and understanding each other's reactions can be helpful in trying to maintain a healthy relationship with their co-parent for the sake of their children.</p><p>Need help from Johanna? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://johannalynn.ca/">www.johannalynn.ca</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 02 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/f0a98ada/8fef6ccc.mp3" length="62032352" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1550</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Johanna Lynn, a relationship specialist and founder of The Family Imprint Institute, has over 20 years of expertise in resolving inherited family patterns and helps her clients dismantle unhealthy patterns, restore relationships, and create resilient boundaries. In this episode, they discuss common relationship issues couples face during and after divorce, including money matters, different views on parenting, infidelity, and the role of in-laws. They also delve into co-parenting and how to get both parents on the same page to ensure children don't feel the stress or tension from their separation. </p><p>Johanna explains that separating the pain of the separation from the co-parenting relationship is essential, and the foundation of healthy co-parenting is acknowledging that both parents love their children and want the best for them. She also suggests that looking at their relational family history and understanding each other's reactions can be helpful in trying to maintain a healthy relationship with their co-parent for the sake of their children.</p><p>Need help from Johanna? Contact her by visiting <a href="https://johannalynn.ca/">www.johannalynn.ca</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/f0a98ada/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" rel="captions"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>How to get your financial information in order without a forensic accountant</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>How to get your financial information in order without a forensic accountant</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">8ac9cb16-6c6f-4b6b-a325-4820a871a4b5</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/e27cd41f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Marriage is about love, but divorce is about money. In this episode, Jaime talks with Gabrielle Clemens, a certified divorce financial analyst. Gabrielle talks about how she helps men and women navigate the divorce process by ensuring that their divorce agreement is sustainable and viable for their lifestyle, and she emphasizes the importance of approaching divorce with a business mindset and understanding the long-term impact of financial decisions. Learn how to start with your financial affidavit or statement, which quantifies your lifestyle and expenses, to get control of your cash flow to avoid financial destruction in your divorce.</p><p>Need help from Gabrielle? Contact her by visiting <a href="http://www.gabrielleclemens.com">www.gabrielleclemens.com</a>, or <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-About-Love-Divorce-Money/dp/B0BSRHYXBX">check out her book</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Marriage is about love, but divorce is about money. In this episode, Jaime talks with Gabrielle Clemens, a certified divorce financial analyst. Gabrielle talks about how she helps men and women navigate the divorce process by ensuring that their divorce agreement is sustainable and viable for their lifestyle, and she emphasizes the importance of approaching divorce with a business mindset and understanding the long-term impact of financial decisions. Learn how to start with your financial affidavit or statement, which quantifies your lifestyle and expenses, to get control of your cash flow to avoid financial destruction in your divorce.</p><p>Need help from Gabrielle? Contact her by visiting <a href="http://www.gabrielleclemens.com">www.gabrielleclemens.com</a>, or <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-About-Love-Divorce-Money/dp/B0BSRHYXBX">check out her book</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/e27cd41f/d14a98dc.mp3" length="57222406" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1430</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Marriage is about love, but divorce is about money. In this episode, Jaime talks with Gabrielle Clemens, a certified divorce financial analyst. Gabrielle talks about how she helps men and women navigate the divorce process by ensuring that their divorce agreement is sustainable and viable for their lifestyle, and she emphasizes the importance of approaching divorce with a business mindset and understanding the long-term impact of financial decisions. Learn how to start with your financial affidavit or statement, which quantifies your lifestyle and expenses, to get control of your cash flow to avoid financial destruction in your divorce.</p><p>Need help from Gabrielle? Contact her by visiting <a href="http://www.gabrielleclemens.com">www.gabrielleclemens.com</a>, or <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-About-Love-Divorce-Money/dp/B0BSRHYXBX">check out her book</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.</p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://ratethispodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/e27cd41f/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" rel="captions"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Do you need a forensic accountant for your divorce?</title>
      <itunes:season>6</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>6</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Do you need a forensic accountant for your divorce?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">c085ba9f-595d-47ae-8b03-5b55d011294f</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/9e9ac08a</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Do you think your spouse is hiding money from you during your divorce proceeding? You might need a forensic accountant like Robert Nordlander! Forensic accountants are experts in financial records and statements, and an attorney can hire them to testify about things like your former spouse's all-cash lifestyle, unusual spending, and unexplained purchases in court. In this episode, find out how to achieve the best possible financial outcome for yourself during your divorce.</p><p>Need help from Robert? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.nordlandercpa.com/">www.nordlandercpa.com</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state. </p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://RateThisPodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Do you think your spouse is hiding money from you during your divorce proceeding? You might need a forensic accountant like Robert Nordlander! Forensic accountants are experts in financial records and statements, and an attorney can hire them to testify about things like your former spouse's all-cash lifestyle, unusual spending, and unexplained purchases in court. In this episode, find out how to achieve the best possible financial outcome for yourself during your divorce.</p><p>Need help from Robert? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.nordlandercpa.com/">www.nordlandercpa.com</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state. </p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://RateThisPodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/9e9ac08a/a0ec6bc1.mp3" length="45107412" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1877</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>
        <![CDATA[<p>Do you think your spouse is hiding money from you during your divorce proceeding? You might need a forensic accountant like Robert Nordlander! Forensic accountants are experts in financial records and statements, and an attorney can hire them to testify about things like your former spouse's all-cash lifestyle, unusual spending, and unexplained purchases in court. In this episode, find out how to achieve the best possible financial outcome for yourself during your divorce.</p><p>Need help from Robert? Contact him by visiting <a href="https://www.nordlandercpa.com/">www.nordlandercpa.com</a>.</p><p>While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state. </p><p>If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting <a href="https://www.divorceistough.com/">www.divorceistough.com</a>.</p><p><a href="http://RateThisPodcast.com/divorcehelp">Like this show? Rate it here!</a></p>]]>
      </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
      <podcast:transcript url="https://share.transistor.fm/s/9e9ac08a/transcript.srt" type="application/x-subrip" rel="captions"/>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 5 Episode 4: Valuing the Family Business for Divorce During an Uncertain Economy</title>
      <itunes:season>5</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>5</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 5 Episode 4: Valuing the Family Business for Divorce During an Uncertain Economy</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">245d942e-0b95-47ec-a6e5-b8c24d3c920c</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/20be8e0b</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Determining how much the family business is worth during a divorce is a fairly common issue.  If separating spouses cannot agree on the value of their business, an expert is normally brought in to perform a formal business valuation.  In this episode, CPA and Certified Valuation Analyst <a href="https://cricpa.com/people/david-e-amiss/">David Amiss</a> shares his expertise about valuing a family business for divorce in an uncertain economy. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Determining how much the family business is worth during a divorce is a fairly common issue.  If separating spouses cannot agree on the value of their business, an expert is normally brought in to perform a formal business valuation.  In this episode, CPA and Certified Valuation Analyst <a href="https://cricpa.com/people/david-e-amiss/">David Amiss</a> shares his expertise about valuing a family business for divorce in an uncertain economy. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2022 12:58:00 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/20be8e0b/b37d6839.mp3" length="60952488" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/NSv6HjtoBJuj4CDEMPW4EYZek0aW6emRtUbLcG5rNS8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE3MDcv/MTY3NDc3NDUzMC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1866</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Determining how much the family business is worth during a divorce is a fairly common issue.  If separating spouses cannot agree on the value of their business, an expert is normally brought in to perform a formal business valuation.  In this episode, CPA and Certified Valuation Analyst David Amiss shares his expertise about valuing a family business for divorce in an uncertain economy. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Determining how much the family business is worth during a divorce is a fairly common issue.  If separating spouses cannot agree on the value of their business, an expert is normally brought in to perform a formal business valuation.  In this episode, CPA</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>business,separation,divorce,Valuation,Familybusiness,divorceattorney</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 5 Episode 3: Divorce and Children with Special Needs</title>
      <itunes:season>5</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>5</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 5 Episode 3: Divorce and Children with Special Needs</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f4a99a45-420d-4297-a12c-89b742e6c0e9</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/2725bf37</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Separation and divorce can be difficult enough, but when a couple has a child with special needs, separating can be even more complicated.  In this episode, attorney Linda Malone shares some of the things a couple should consider if they are planing to separate and they have a child with special needs.  Topics include, establishment of special needs trusts, government benefits, guardianship, and supplemental insurance among other things.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Separation and divorce can be difficult enough, but when a couple has a child with special needs, separating can be even more complicated.  In this episode, attorney Linda Malone shares some of the things a couple should consider if they are planing to separate and they have a child with special needs.  Topics include, establishment of special needs trusts, government benefits, guardianship, and supplemental insurance among other things.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2022 21:05:48 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/2725bf37/fbab1937.mp3" length="57186202" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/ACSR-tmGHjiYGfvEkKQrli7v6yKcA2-SPVxSG1uPBJU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE3MDYv/MTY3NDc3NDUyOC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1741</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Separation and divorce can be difficult enough, but when a couple has a child with special needs, separating can be even more complicated.  In this episode, attorney Linda Malone shares some of the things a couple should consider if they are planing to separate and they have a child with special needs.  Topics include, establishment of special needs trusts, government benefits, guardianship, and supplemental insurance among other things.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Separation and divorce can be difficult enough, but when a couple has a child with special needs, separating can be even more complicated.  In this episode, attorney Linda Malone shares some of the things a couple should consider if they are planing to se</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>separation,divorce,trust,custody,Guardianship,special needs</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 5 Episode 2: Divorcing a Narcissist</title>
      <itunes:season>5</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>5</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 5 Episode 2: Divorcing a Narcissist</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">3fa0eaef-1b36-41fd-8144-693d0964a6e7</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/8140185f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[An inflated sense of self-importance, a need for attention from others, and a lack of empathy are some of the hallmark behaviors of narcissism and sound like what not to look for in a spouse or dating partner.  In this episode, Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates shares her expertise about navigating the divorce process when a narcissist is involved. ]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[An inflated sense of self-importance, a need for attention from others, and a lack of empathy are some of the hallmark behaviors of narcissism and sound like what not to look for in a spouse or dating partner.  In this episode, Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates shares her expertise about navigating the divorce process when a narcissist is involved. ]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2022 19:45:57 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/8140185f/8dc25b3e.mp3" length="52801041" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/yH1MsonPxr2ZRxm8_ExZAjn_C6WsDv0OqVHMxWTdmw4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE3MDUv/MTY3NDc3NDU2My1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1608</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>An inflated sense of self-importance, a need for attention from others, and a lack of empathy are some of the hallmark behaviors of narcissism and sound like what not to look for in a spouse or dating partner.  In this episode, Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates shares her expertise about navigating the divorce process when a narcissist is involved. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>An inflated sense of self-importance, a need for attention from others, and a lack of empathy are some of the hallmark behaviors of narcissism and sound like what not to look for in a spouse or dating partner.  In this episode, Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 5 Episode 1: A Child's Perspective on Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>5</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>5</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 5 Episode 1: A Child's Perspective on Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">94d2aee1-f0c1-41a3-902b-76fb0c945664</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/900ba5db</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this epsiode, host Jaime Davis interviews author Kimberly Ewertz about her first book <em>Family Redefined: Childhood Reflections on the Impact of Divorce</em> which is a collection of testimonies by adult children of divorce.  In 1990, after twelve years of marriage, Kimberly filed for divorce propelling her and her then ten year old son into a journey of irrevocable change.  That journey was the impetus for <em>Family Redefined.</em></p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this epsiode, host Jaime Davis interviews author Kimberly Ewertz about her first book <em>Family Redefined: Childhood Reflections on the Impact of Divorce</em> which is a collection of testimonies by adult children of divorce.  In 1990, after twelve years of marriage, Kimberly filed for divorce propelling her and her then ten year old son into a journey of irrevocable change.  That journey was the impetus for <em>Family Redefined.</em></p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2022 19:39:53 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/900ba5db/de3ccc0c.mp3" length="50640259" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1570</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In this epsiode, host Jaime Davis interviews author Kimberly Ewertz about her first book Family Redefined: Childhood Reflections on the Impact of Divorce which is a collection of testimonies by adult children of divorce.  In 1990, after twelve years of marriage, Kimberly filed for divorce propelling her and her then ten year old son into a journey of irrevocable change.  That journey was the impetus for Family Redefined.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this epsiode, host Jaime Davis interviews author Kimberly Ewertz about her first book Family Redefined: Childhood Reflections on the Impact of Divorce which is a collection of testimonies by adult children of divorce.  In 1990, after twelve years of ma</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>family,parenting,author,separation,divorce,custody,familylaw</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 4 Episode 5: Reunification Therapy</title>
      <itunes:season>4</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>4</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 4 Episode 5: Reunification Therapy</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">ef38c68f-ec39-4da4-a456-7e06049285d7</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/20f67cc8</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Thriving during separation can be difficult when you have a child who refuses to spend time with either you or your co-parent.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process of reunification therapy with Dr. Tina Lepage, a forensic and clinical pyschologist and founder of Lepage Associates Psychological and Psychiatric Services.  <a href="https://lepageassociates.com/">https://lepageassociates.com/</a>. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Thriving during separation can be difficult when you have a child who refuses to spend time with either you or your co-parent.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process of reunification therapy with Dr. Tina Lepage, a forensic and clinical pyschologist and founder of Lepage Associates Psychological and Psychiatric Services.  <a href="https://lepageassociates.com/">https://lepageassociates.com/</a>. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2021 19:26:08 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/20f67cc8/ce923d8a.mp3" length="41381386" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1279</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Thriving during separation can be difficult when you have a child who refuses to spend time with either you or your co-parent.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process of reunification therapy with Dr. Tina Lepage, a forensic and clinical pyschologist and founder of Lepage Associates Psychological and Psychiatric Services.  https://lepageassociates.com/. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Thriving during separation can be difficult when you have a child who refuses to spend time with either you or your co-parent.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process of reunification therapy with Dr. Tina Lepage, a forensic and clinical </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>therapy,custody</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 4 Episode 4: Why You Should Consider Individual Therapy During Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>4</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>4</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 4 Episode 4: Why You Should Consider Individual Therapy During Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">58cf56b8-9e8e-465b-87a5-dc36aec14938</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/d0ec6a84</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>During separation and divorce, you can become your own worst enemy if you allow the stress of the situation to change who you are and how you present.  It can be difficult to make important legal decisions that may impact the rest of your life if you are not managing your stress. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the benefits of seeking individual therapy while going through the divorce process with Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates.  https://www.luminacounseling.com/</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>During separation and divorce, you can become your own worst enemy if you allow the stress of the situation to change who you are and how you present.  It can be difficult to make important legal decisions that may impact the rest of your life if you are not managing your stress. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the benefits of seeking individual therapy while going through the divorce process with Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates.  https://www.luminacounseling.com/</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2021 21:05:28 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/d0ec6a84/15627673.mp3" length="44687263" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/r1-rj9_e4mulbLzsyWCpt-bfpiEhy7Ydrt9Y5p7DmlM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE3MDIv/MTY3NDc3NDUxOS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1359</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>During separation and divorce, you can become your own worst enemy if you allow the stress of the situation to change who you are and how you present.  It can be difficult to make important legal decisions that may impact the rest of your life if you are not managing your stress. In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the benefits of seeking individual therapy while going through the divorce process with Michelle Chiaramonte, LCSW and owner of Lumina Counseling Associates.  https://www.luminacounseling.com/</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>During separation and divorce, you can become your own worst enemy if you allow the stress of the situation to change who you are and how you present.  It can be difficult to make important legal decisions that may impact the rest of your life if you are </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>therapy,separation,divorce,nc,counseling</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 4 Episode 3: Helping Your Children Thrive During Separation</title>
      <itunes:season>4</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>4</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 4 Episode 3: Helping Your Children Thrive During Separation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">6b119812-8697-452d-8151-b12cbd3aa034</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/f92dd3f2</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses how to help your children thrive during separation with child psychologist Dr. Lori Thomas.  Dr. Thomas provides guidance and insight into issues such as how and when to tell the children about the separation, what not to tell the children, and what to expect once the children know about the separation.  http://wynnsfamilypsychology.com/OurDoctors/tabid/366/Default.aspx. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses how to help your children thrive during separation with child psychologist Dr. Lori Thomas.  Dr. Thomas provides guidance and insight into issues such as how and when to tell the children about the separation, what not to tell the children, and what to expect once the children know about the separation.  http://wynnsfamilypsychology.com/OurDoctors/tabid/366/Default.aspx. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 13:44:08 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/f92dd3f2/5f92abc7.mp3" length="62298532" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/COqI0rVEFktEV_rS7sFsEYhHS9W_u-u_LIveB5tQak4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE3MDEv/MTY3NDc3NDUxOS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1897</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses how to help your children thrive during separation with child psychologist Dr. Lori Thomas.  Dr. Thomas provides guidance and insight into issues such as how and when to tell the children about the separation, what not to tell the children, and what to expect once the children know about the separation.  http://wynnsfamilypsychology.com/OurDoctors/tabid/366/Default.aspx. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses how to help your children thrive during separation with child psychologist Dr. Lori Thomas.  Dr. Thomas provides guidance and insight into issues such as how and when to tell the children about the separation, w</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>child,therapy,separation,divorce,nc,custody,counseling</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 4 Episode 2: Is it Time for Divorce or is it Just COVID?</title>
      <itunes:season>4</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>4</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 4 Episode 2: Is it Time for Divorce or is it Just COVID?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">48dc2f35-a858-46e5-a3fe-90544a099bc3</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/2d8d035a</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Most people think it’s conflict and argument that lead to divorce. In fact, it’s the decreasing affection and the lack of emotional responsiveness that lead to separation and divorce. In this episode host Jaime Davis discusses the impact of COVID on marriages with licensed marriage and family therapist Caroline Landen.  <a href="https://awakeningscenter.org/therapists/caroline-byrd-landen/">https://awakeningscenter.org/therapists/caroline-byrd-landen/</a>. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Most people think it’s conflict and argument that lead to divorce. In fact, it’s the decreasing affection and the lack of emotional responsiveness that lead to separation and divorce. In this episode host Jaime Davis discusses the impact of COVID on marriages with licensed marriage and family therapist Caroline Landen.  <a href="https://awakeningscenter.org/therapists/caroline-byrd-landen/">https://awakeningscenter.org/therapists/caroline-byrd-landen/</a>. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 13:22:02 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/2d8d035a/3ee43e31.mp3" length="65728660" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2034</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Most people think it’s conflict and argument that lead to divorce. In fact, it’s the decreasing affection and the lack of emotional responsiveness that lead to separation and divorce. In this episode host Jaime Davis discusses the impact of COVID on marriages with licensed marriage and family therapist Caroline Landen.  https://awakeningscenter.org/therapists/caroline-byrd-landen/. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Most people think it’s conflict and argument that lead to divorce. In fact, it’s the decreasing affection and the lack of emotional responsiveness that lead to separation and divorce. In this episode host Jaime Davis discusses the impact of COVID on marri</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>marriage,therapy,separation,divorce,nc,counseling,covid</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 4 Episode 1: When is Family Therapy a Good Idea for a Family going through Divorce?</title>
      <itunes:season>4</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>4</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 4 Episode 1: When is Family Therapy a Good Idea for a Family going through Divorce?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">85113720-d8e5-44ea-b6eb-22f7ceb90b93</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/8f9e9eee</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>This season the podcast will highlight themes with the purpose of not only helping you survive your divorce but to also thrive while you are making your way through the process.  Most of the episodes this season will concentrate on self-care and therapy related subjects.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses when family therapy might be a good idea for a family experiencing divorce with licensed marriage and family therapist Erin Ballard.  <a href="https://raleighfamilysolutions.com/erin-ballard/">https://raleighfamilysolutions.com/erin-ballard/</a>. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>This season the podcast will highlight themes with the purpose of not only helping you survive your divorce but to also thrive while you are making your way through the process.  Most of the episodes this season will concentrate on self-care and therapy related subjects.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses when family therapy might be a good idea for a family experiencing divorce with licensed marriage and family therapist Erin Ballard.  <a href="https://raleighfamilysolutions.com/erin-ballard/">https://raleighfamilysolutions.com/erin-ballard/</a>. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 12:58:01 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/8f9e9eee/1132fa16.mp3" length="57938947" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/DZMoOfZF-EeRIdq5BejRoiDzrPkAtgl0bV3I7y0oww8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTkv/MTY3NDc3NDUxNC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1763</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>This season the podcast will highlight themes with the purpose of not only helping you survive your divorce but to also thrive while you are making your way through the process.  Most of the episodes this season will concentrate on self-care and therapy related subjects.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses when family therapy might be a good idea for a family experiencing divorce with licensed marriage and family therapist Erin Ballard.  https://raleighfamilysolutions.com/erin-ballard/. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>This season the podcast will highlight themes with the purpose of not only helping you survive your divorce but to also thrive while you are making your way through the process.  Most of the episodes this season will concentrate on self-care and therapy r</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 8: Buying and Selling a Home During Separation</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 8: Buying and Selling a Home During Separation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">7b153062-36a9-4519-9877-87579fc017d2</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/e0f6aeaf</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Buying and selling a home during separation can present a unique set of challenges.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process with listing agent Julie Bell, buyer's agent Christina Cataldo and mortgage loan officer Deon Bradford- the team at Julie Bell Real Estate Divorce Specialists.  For more information, you can visit their website at <a href="https://redivorcespecialists.com/">https://redivorcespecialists.com/</a>. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Buying and selling a home during separation can present a unique set of challenges.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process with listing agent Julie Bell, buyer's agent Christina Cataldo and mortgage loan officer Deon Bradford- the team at Julie Bell Real Estate Divorce Specialists.  For more information, you can visit their website at <a href="https://redivorcespecialists.com/">https://redivorcespecialists.com/</a>. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2021 21:45:53 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/e0f6aeaf/7d7e5073.mp3" length="134197690" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/bn9McLBqTMyB96sXBnH7z1YiqlZL6er0rcoivTkijOQ/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTgv/MTY3NDc3NDUxNi1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>4122</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Buying and selling a home during separation can present a unique set of challenges.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process with listing agent Julie Bell, buyer's agent Christina Cataldo and mortgage loan officer Deon Bradford- the team at Julie Bell Real Estate Divorce Specialists.  For more information, you can visit their website at https://redivorcespecialists.com/. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Buying and selling a home during separation can present a unique set of challenges.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the process with listing agent Julie Bell, buyer's agent Christina Cataldo and mortgage loan officer Deon Bradford- the team a</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>selling,home,mortgage,separation,divorce,nc,buying,realestate</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 7: Protecting your Electronic Devices and Data During Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 7: Protecting your Electronic Devices and Data During Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">f88a74c8-2161-4996-b74d-e87cdb31588e</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/d417b7f3</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>People often have questions about how to best protect their children and their assets during a divorce, but one area that they often overlook is protecting their data and making sure that their spouse can’t access their devices accidentally or otherwise.  In this episode host Jaime Davis explores this topic with Rusty Gilmore, a Security Consultant and Computer Forensic Expert with Protus3.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>People often have questions about how to best protect their children and their assets during a divorce, but one area that they often overlook is protecting their data and making sure that their spouse can’t access their devices accidentally or otherwise.  In this episode host Jaime Davis explores this topic with Rusty Gilmore, a Security Consultant and Computer Forensic Expert with Protus3.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2020 20:22:21 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/d417b7f3/8303c3bb.mp3" length="68080652" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/ZzN_ZiiyY3JvhKwz7PGTv2EDRAYcZUxZT4diOTN3neI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTcv/MTY3NDc3NDUxMC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2082</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>People often have questions about how to best protect their children and their assets during a divorce, but one area that they often overlook is protecting their data and making sure that their spouse can’t access their devices accidentally or otherwise.  In this episode host Jaime Davis explores this topic with Rusty Gilmore, a Security Consultant and Computer Forensic Expert with Protus3.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>People often have questions about how to best protect their children and their assets during a divorce, but one area that they often overlook is protecting their data and making sure that their spouse can’t access their devices accidentally or otherwise. </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>Data,Electronic,separation,divorce,evidence,nc</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 6: Evaluations in Child Custody Cases</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 6: Evaluations in Child Custody Cases</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">677c79be-fb16-4f20-bfbf-220fdf8f8679</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/a860a1b2</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>When you are involved in a child custody case, there are several types of evaluations you may encounter including custody evaluations, psychological evaluations, and substance abuse assessments.  In this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss what these evaluations entail and offer practical tips for parents who may be facing an evaluation in connection with their child custody case.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>When you are involved in a child custody case, there are several types of evaluations you may encounter including custody evaluations, psychological evaluations, and substance abuse assessments.  In this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss what these evaluations entail and offer practical tips for parents who may be facing an evaluation in connection with their child custody case.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2020 17:13:49 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/a860a1b2/f5cd9aa2.mp3" length="65473966" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/2iT1yEIeGCgyoqNSmnorPYcvOzaBIpySjD2EPxOSc7E/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTYv/MTY3NDc3NDUwOS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1999</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>When you are involved in a child custody case, there are several types of evaluations you may encounter including custody evaluations, psychological evaluations, and substance abuse assessments.  In this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss what these evaluations entail and offer practical tips for parents who may be facing an evaluation in connection with their child custody case.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>When you are involved in a child custody case, there are several types of evaluations you may encounter including custody evaluations, psychological evaluations, and substance abuse assessments.  In this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law atto</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>child,separation,divorce,nc,custody,evaluation</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 5: Tips for Working Effectively with Your Family Law Attorney</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 5: Tips for Working Effectively with Your Family Law Attorney</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d2736b5d-6d85-4d7a-8b0b-843d8d1b6b17</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/621239e5</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>For many people, divorce may be the first and sometimes only time they will work with a lawyer during their lifetime.  Not knowing how to work effectively with your lawyer can lead to unnecessary frustration and dissatisfaction.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips related to five different areas of working with a divorce attorney: the initial consultation, including how to prepare and what to expect; communicating with your lawyer; what to do when you are asked to collect documents and information for your attorney; managing your legal bill; and most importantly, maintaining your sanity during the process.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>For many people, divorce may be the first and sometimes only time they will work with a lawyer during their lifetime.  Not knowing how to work effectively with your lawyer can lead to unnecessary frustration and dissatisfaction.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips related to five different areas of working with a divorce attorney: the initial consultation, including how to prepare and what to expect; communicating with your lawyer; what to do when you are asked to collect documents and information for your attorney; managing your legal bill; and most importantly, maintaining your sanity during the process.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2020 20:52:22 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/621239e5/7697e35f.mp3" length="72879085" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/_oILoxEhTupdTVTBOYt5dC5lf5bVT8CVPU_dU1iTsi4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTUv/MTY3NDc3NDUwNi1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2232</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>For many people, divorce may be the first and sometimes only time they will work with a lawyer during their lifetime.  Not knowing how to work effectively with your lawyer can lead to unnecessary frustration and dissatisfaction.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips related to five different areas of working with a divorce attorney: the initial consultation, including how to prepare and what to expect; communicating with your lawyer; what to do when you are asked to collect documents and information for your attorney; managing your legal bill; and most importantly, maintaining your sanity during the process.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>For many people, divorce may be the first and sometimes only time they will work with a lawyer during their lifetime.  Not knowing how to work effectively with your lawyer can lead to unnecessary frustration and dissatisfaction.  In this episode, host Jai</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>family,law,attorney,separation,divorce,nc,custody</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 4: Separation and Divorce During COVID</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 4: Separation and Divorce During COVID</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">c7ce91dc-b98c-4bd9-8e18-d3e4e3efd182</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/d978f21c</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>If you are contemplating separation or divorce, you may be worried about how the COVID-19 pandemic will affect your ability to physically separate from your spouse, as well as your ability to negotiate and finalize agreements about child custody, child support, the division of your assets and alimony and what will happen if you find yourself needing the court's assistance. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally discuss how COVID might impact your divorce and whether now is a good time to separate or not.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>If you are contemplating separation or divorce, you may be worried about how the COVID-19 pandemic will affect your ability to physically separate from your spouse, as well as your ability to negotiate and finalize agreements about child custody, child support, the division of your assets and alimony and what will happen if you find yourself needing the court's assistance. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally discuss how COVID might impact your divorce and whether now is a good time to separate or not.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 15:16:12 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/d978f21c/f6fa3826.mp3" length="58443142" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/HF-Uv7gmMMvrHBPMp_hcJ7sGRt9IAn9CX3JeOtgmRSQ/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTQv/MTY3NDc3NDUwMC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1785</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>If you are contemplating separation or divorce, you may be worried about how the COVID-19 pandemic will affect your ability to physically separate from your spouse, as well as your ability to negotiate and finalize agreements about child custody, child support, the division of your assets and alimony and what will happen if you find yourself needing the court's assistance. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally discuss how COVID might impact your divorce and whether now is a good time to separate or not.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>If you are contemplating separation or divorce, you may be worried about how the COVID-19 pandemic will affect your ability to physically separate from your spouse, as well as your ability to negotiate and finalize agreements about child custody, child su</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>support,separation,divorce,nc,custody,covid</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 3: Navigating Child Custody and COVID-19</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 3: Navigating Child Custody and COVID-19</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">1e4f7cd9-0b77-404f-b0be-31ecbfafeb79</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f04a05d</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Being separated or divorced and dealing with child custody is hard enough on a good day.  Divorced parents often wish to avoid interacting with one another if possible, but the coronavirus pandemic is presenting new challenges and is requiring more communication. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips for navigating child custody and child support during the COVID-19 outbreak.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Being separated or divorced and dealing with child custody is hard enough on a good day.  Divorced parents often wish to avoid interacting with one another if possible, but the coronavirus pandemic is presenting new challenges and is requiring more communication. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips for navigating child custody and child support during the COVID-19 outbreak.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2020 09:50:01 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/6f04a05d/9933afa3.mp3" length="59002905" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/rtjcv7lLM0FYWukttEN57rUNDIxqBakrSNNpb47xfNg/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTMv/MTY3NDc3NDUwMC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1802</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Being separated or divorced and dealing with child custody is hard enough on a good day.  Divorced parents often wish to avoid interacting with one another if possible, but the coronavirus pandemic is presenting new challenges and is requiring more communication. In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora discuss tips for navigating child custody and child support during the COVID-19 outbreak.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Being separated or divorced and dealing with child custody is hard enough on a good day.  Divorced parents often wish to avoid interacting with one another if possible, but the coronavirus pandemic is presenting new challenges and is requiring more commun</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>support,separation,divorce,pandemic,nc,custody,coronavirus,COVID19</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 2: Introducing A Year and a Day the Book</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 2: Introducing A Year and a Day the Book</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">0dbd89bb-83cf-4003-94d6-c963599bcfa9</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/334733a6</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, host Jaime Davis and colleague Lynn McNally discuss Jaime's newly released book entitled <em>A Year and a Day</em> which is based largely on this podcast. In 2017, Jaime decided to create the podcast to provide tips and information for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or the family finances.  The book is geared toward divorce related professionals and individuals who are contemplating separation, have been told by their spouse that they want to separate, or who may be dealing with child custody issues.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, host Jaime Davis and colleague Lynn McNally discuss Jaime's newly released book entitled <em>A Year and a Day</em> which is based largely on this podcast. In 2017, Jaime decided to create the podcast to provide tips and information for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or the family finances.  The book is geared toward divorce related professionals and individuals who are contemplating separation, have been told by their spouse that they want to separate, or who may be dealing with child custody issues.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 08:36:21 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/334733a6/777fc344.mp3" length="53023820" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/ya9ZlDps6D_jFODGdXjLhKk5Y2PlRMbr3pWjagoMvkk/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTIv/MTY3NDc3NDUwNy1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1622</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In this episode, host Jaime Davis and colleague Lynn McNally discuss Jaime's newly released book entitled A Year and a Day which is based largely on this podcast. In 2017, Jaime decided to create the podcast to provide tips and information for getting through a separation and divorce without destroying family relationships or the family finances.  The book is geared toward divorce related professionals and individuals who are contemplating separation, have been told by their spouse that they want to separate, or who may be dealing with child custody issues.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this episode, host Jaime Davis and colleague Lynn McNally discuss Jaime's newly released book entitled A Year and a Day which is based largely on this podcast. In 2017, Jaime decided to create the podcast to provide tips and information for getting thr</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>support,separation,divorce,custody,alimony,northcarolina</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 3 Episode 1: Can I Represent Myself in my Divorce Case?</title>
      <itunes:season>3</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>3</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 3 Episode 1: Can I Represent Myself in my Divorce Case?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">27407aa6-2d85-4f55-b113-0c6fa34da0d9</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/cec714d4</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>People going through a separation often want to know whether they can represent themselves in connection with their divorce case. While the short answer to this question is yes, in this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally delve deeper into the issue and discuss times when it may be ok for you to represent yourself and other times when you should consider hiring a lawyer to help you.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>People going through a separation often want to know whether they can represent themselves in connection with their divorce case. While the short answer to this question is yes, in this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally delve deeper into the issue and discuss times when it may be ok for you to represent yourself and other times when you should consider hiring a lawyer to help you.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2020 20:21:30 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/cec714d4/5f26bd88.mp3" length="63289248" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1966</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>People going through a separation often want to know whether they can represent themselves in connection with their divorce case. While the short answer to this question is yes, in this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally delve deeper into the issue and discuss times when it may be ok for you to represent yourself and other times when you should consider hiring a lawyer to help you.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>People going through a separation often want to know whether they can represent themselves in connection with their divorce case. While the short answer to this question is yes, in this episode host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>pro,support,attorney,separation,divorce,nc,custody,se,alimony</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 2 Episode 6: The Divorce Process</title>
      <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>2</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 2 Episode 6: The Divorce Process</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">2e4a105c61e14191bda560f062791f92</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/dff2f0e0</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Various claims arise from the dissolution of a marriage. One of those claims is equitable distribution. Postseparation support and alimony are two additional claims that arise.  Child custody and child support may also be at issue.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Meredith Cross discuss two ways to resolve these claims and what to do if you have just been served with a lawsuit.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Various claims arise from the dissolution of a marriage. One of those claims is equitable distribution. Postseparation support and alimony are two additional claims that arise.  Child custody and child support may also be at issue.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Meredith Cross discuss two ways to resolve these claims and what to do if you have just been served with a lawsuit.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2019 13:23:51 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/dff2f0e0/a70a48db.mp3" length="63022477" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/1Cyt0lcLi9ZQh9a1StEaIy7S4KniKwxfcbbcJeg1N0s/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2OTAv/MTY3NDc3NDQ5NS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1932</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Various claims arise from the dissolution of a marriage. One of those claims is equitable distribution. Postseparation support and alimony are two additional claims that arise.  Child custody and child support may also be at issue.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Meredith Cross discuss two ways to resolve these claims and what to do if you have just been served with a lawsuit.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Various claims arise from the dissolution of a marriage. One of those claims is equitable distribution. Postseparation support and alimony are two additional claims that arise.  Child custody and child support may also be at issue.  In Episode 6, host Jai</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>support,separation,divorce,nc,alimony</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 2 Episode 5: Alimony and Cohabitation</title>
      <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>2</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 2 Episode 5: Alimony and Cohabitation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">2e9b707f59b2416b9e9709d6d161e56b</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/0fb5034a</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Alimony and cohabitation can be some of the more frustrating issues for family law clients.  There are many misconceptions about who is entitled to alimony, how it is calculated, and what constitutes cohabitation.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick discuss when a spouse might be entitled to receive alimony, whether there is a formula for calculating the amount and duration, and how cohabitation might impact a person's right to continue receiving spousal support.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Alimony and cohabitation can be some of the more frustrating issues for family law clients.  There are many misconceptions about who is entitled to alimony, how it is calculated, and what constitutes cohabitation.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick discuss when a spouse might be entitled to receive alimony, whether there is a formula for calculating the amount and duration, and how cohabitation might impact a person's right to continue receiving spousal support.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2019 13:36:58 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/0fb5034a/a45a9208.mp3" length="61130337" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/szhZZfRzn1e1h_TSbajJc3N8G57kN2v2XCjV_M0HmpM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODkv/MTY3NDc3NDQ4OC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1873</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Alimony and cohabitation can be some of the more frustrating issues for family law clients.  There are many misconceptions about who is entitled to alimony, how it is calculated, and what constitutes cohabitation.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick discuss when a spouse might be entitled to receive alimony, whether there is a formula for calculating the amount and duration, and how cohabitation might impact a person's right to continue receiving spousal support.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Alimony and cohabitation can be some of the more frustrating issues for family law clients.  There are many misconceptions about who is entitled to alimony, how it is calculated, and what constitutes cohabitation.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and he</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>support,separation,divorce,nc,Cohabitation,alimony</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 2 Episode 4: Criminal law issues that can arise following a separation</title>
      <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>2</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 2 Episode 4: Criminal law issues that can arise following a separation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">c0d1f6e5155d4470ba933b130c241945</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/072ed71a</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In most cases, when we talk about the issues arising from a couple’s separation, we discuss civil claims such as child custody, child support, alimony and property distribution. But there are some actions a spouse might take following a separation that can lead to criminal liability.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses two of those issues- domestic criminal trespass and revenge porn- with attorney Maria Hawkins of the Miller Law Group.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In most cases, when we talk about the issues arising from a couple’s separation, we discuss civil claims such as child custody, child support, alimony and property distribution. But there are some actions a spouse might take following a separation that can lead to criminal liability.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses two of those issues- domestic criminal trespass and revenge porn- with attorney Maria Hawkins of the Miller Law Group.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 28 Jun 2019 12:34:54 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/072ed71a/9dab63a1.mp3" length="47642316" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/Ot07wP_yq5ZM8ws7MyW3Wlaf48owZaFcQhHuQbXqMMM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODgv/MTY3NDc3NDQ5MS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1441</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In most cases, when we talk about the issues arising from a couple’s separation, we discuss civil claims such as child custody, child support, alimony and property distribution. But there are some actions a spouse might take following a separation that can lead to criminal liability.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses two of those issues- domestic criminal trespass and revenge porn- with attorney Maria Hawkins of the Miller Law Group.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In most cases, when we talk about the issues arising from a couple’s separation, we discuss civil claims such as child custody, child support, alimony and property distribution. But there are some actions a spouse might take following a separation that ca</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>attorney,separation,Criminal,divorce,nc,domestic,trespass</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 2 Episode 3: How will being separated affect my inheritance rights?</title>
      <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>2</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 2 Episode 3: How will being separated affect my inheritance rights?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">7e3dff029b0f4313beb25fc20278bba9</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/80a38657</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>If a person is married, can he completely disinherit the other spouse in his will?  If spouses separate, is there anything they should consider changing about their estate plans? In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses inheritance rights and how your marital status might affect those rights with attorney Brooke Dalrymple. In her estate planning work, Brooke counsels clients and prepares the documents necessary to ensure their wishes are honored with regard to their assets, their health care, and the handling of their financial affairs. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>If a person is married, can he completely disinherit the other spouse in his will?  If spouses separate, is there anything they should consider changing about their estate plans? In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses inheritance rights and how your marital status might affect those rights with attorney Brooke Dalrymple. In her estate planning work, Brooke counsels clients and prepares the documents necessary to ensure their wishes are honored with regard to their assets, their health care, and the handling of their financial affairs. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2019 19:40:33 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/80a38657/723ae18b.mp3" length="49459244" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/OpOW_85BoWaYawVL8KmSgYuLslETwVm9b2Hq3hOXYhg/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODcv/MTY3NDc3NDQ4MS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1508</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>If a person is married, can he completely disinherit the other spouse in his will?  If spouses separate, is there anything they should consider changing about their estate plans? In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses inheritance rights and how your marital status might affect those rights with attorney Brooke Dalrymple. In her estate planning work, Brooke counsels clients and prepares the documents necessary to ensure their wishes are honored with regard to their assets, their health care, and the handling of their financial affairs. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>If a person is married, can he completely disinherit the other spouse in his will?  If spouses separate, is there anything they should consider changing about their estate plans? In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses inheritance rights and how your </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>estate,separation,divorce,nc,inheritance</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 2 Episode 2: High Conflict Divorce Cases and How to Handle Them</title>
      <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>2</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 2 Episode 2: High Conflict Divorce Cases and How to Handle Them</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">aa8275e040f04151a9f0f7a894832ad7</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/0d6ab735</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>There seems to be a misconception that all couples going through a divorce are involved in high conflict cases.  In reality, however, the majority of separating couples are able to resolve their issues with little or no court intervention.  With that said, there are some cases that despite the lawyers using their best efforts will not settle.  The parties are unable to agree upon even the smallest of issues and court battles ensue.  These cases are often referred to as high conflict cases.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of high conflict cases with Donna Moore, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Healthy Divorce Recovery Specialist. </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>There seems to be a misconception that all couples going through a divorce are involved in high conflict cases.  In reality, however, the majority of separating couples are able to resolve their issues with little or no court intervention.  With that said, there are some cases that despite the lawyers using their best efforts will not settle.  The parties are unable to agree upon even the smallest of issues and court battles ensue.  These cases are often referred to as high conflict cases.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of high conflict cases with Donna Moore, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Healthy Divorce Recovery Specialist. </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2019 14:09:13 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/0d6ab735/b43005f1.mp3" length="67678462" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/uNZ3CoeKctXf4CBV26TippDJ9udkXhljgMUotC3CLfE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODYv/MTY3NDc3NDQ4MS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2076</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>There seems to be a misconception that all couples going through a divorce are involved in high conflict cases.  In reality, however, the majority of separating couples are able to resolve their issues with little or no court intervention.  With that said, there are some cases that despite the lawyers using their best efforts will not settle.  The parties are unable to agree upon even the smallest of issues and court battles ensue.  These cases are often referred to as high conflict cases.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of high conflict cases with Donna Moore, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Healthy Divorce Recovery Specialist. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>There seems to be a misconception that all couples going through a divorce are involved in high conflict cases.  In reality, however, the majority of separating couples are able to resolve their issues with little or no court intervention.  With that said</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>conflict,separation,divorce,nc,highconflict</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Season 2 Episode 1: What Happens to the Family Business in a Divorce?</title>
      <itunes:season>2</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>2</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Season 2 Episode 1: What Happens to the Family Business in a Divorce?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">81450d2da6e14ca69fcc36b7e7cad6d0</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/ab977c18</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Who gets the family business in a divorce?  Will I continue to co-own it with my spouse?  Will I have to buy out his or her interest?  How will my business be valued?  Will I need to hire an expert?  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Nicole Taylor discuss the answers to these questions and more concerning what happens to the family business in a divorce.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Who gets the family business in a divorce?  Will I continue to co-own it with my spouse?  Will I have to buy out his or her interest?  How will my business be valued?  Will I need to hire an expert?  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Nicole Taylor discuss the answers to these questions and more concerning what happens to the family business in a divorce.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2019 15:48:35 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/ab977c18/9ca88918.mp3" length="93097819" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/NYWEfblhjen7M_TOHDGQl48NGAVMA0XQ2nxUGM0YM6k/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODUv/MTY3NDc3NDUxOS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2843</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Who gets the family business in a divorce?  Will I continue to co-own it with my spouse?  Will I have to buy out his or her interest?  How will my business be valued?  Will I need to hire an expert?  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Nicole Taylor discuss the answers to these questions and more concerning what happens to the family business in a divorce.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Who gets the family business in a divorce?  Will I continue to co-own it with my spouse?  Will I have to buy out his or her interest?  How will my business be valued?  Will I need to hire an expert?  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner N</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>separation,divorce,Valuation,Familybusiness,propertydivision</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 16: Domestic Violence</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 16: Domestic Violence</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">5c242a4f4c4246c587d4f094a228bbaf</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/762b16e6</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Domestic violence is a problem that does not discriminate. Anyone can be a victim or a perpetrator of domestic violence. Domestic violence transcends all socioeconomic boundaries and education levels and can affect people of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the issue of domestic violence and how to obtain a domestic violence protective order in NC with her colleague Jonathan Melton.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Domestic violence is a problem that does not discriminate. Anyone can be a victim or a perpetrator of domestic violence. Domestic violence transcends all socioeconomic boundaries and education levels and can affect people of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the issue of domestic violence and how to obtain a domestic violence protective order in NC with her colleague Jonathan Melton.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2018 14:58:12 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/762b16e6/aafb35e1.mp3" length="58255522" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/4qAkQZyfiqupZpZoq1lGC6f6BRvzFPKvCT4bdYPJ78E/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODQv/MTY3NDc3NDQ3OS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1767</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Domestic violence is a problem that does not discriminate. Anyone can be a victim or a perpetrator of domestic violence. Domestic violence transcends all socioeconomic boundaries and education levels and can affect people of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis discusses the issue of domestic violence and how to obtain a domestic violence protective order in NC with her colleague Jonathan Melton.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Domestic violence is a problem that does not discriminate. Anyone can be a victim or a perpetrator of domestic violence. Domestic violence transcends all socioeconomic boundaries and education levels and can affect people of any race, age, sexual orientat</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>separation,divorce,nc,domestic,domesticviolence,divorceattorney,protectiveorder</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 15: How to Handle Your First Holidays Following Separation</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 15: How to Handle Your First Holidays Following Separation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d22f5b166d3b4b518d091e6bb3c95109</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/00035ac7</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>The first holiday season after a separation can evoke a variety of emotions for both you and your children. Steeped as they are in memories and traditions, the holidays are likely to stir up feelings of fear, stress, and potentially even sadness. In episode 15, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss tips for preparing and coping with the first holiday season as a separated/divorced family.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>The first holiday season after a separation can evoke a variety of emotions for both you and your children. Steeped as they are in memories and traditions, the holidays are likely to stir up feelings of fear, stress, and potentially even sadness. In episode 15, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss tips for preparing and coping with the first holiday season as a separated/divorced family.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2018 11:08:51 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/00035ac7/7e74f58b.mp3" length="49781386" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/B9bdLgaSRv_mHfqv0667d3oRRdbcUX2on2K4UmdCX34/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODMv/MTY3NDc3NDQ3OC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1508</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>The first holiday season after a separation can evoke a variety of emotions for both you and your children. Steeped as they are in memories and traditions, the holidays are likely to stir up feelings of fear, stress, and potentially even sadness. In episode 15, host Jaime Davis and fellow family law attorney Melissa Essick discuss tips for preparing and coping with the first holiday season as a separated/divorced family.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>The first holiday season after a separation can evoke a variety of emotions for both you and your children. Steeped as they are in memories and traditions, the holidays are likely to stir up feelings of fear, stress, and potentially even sadness. In episo</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>holidays,separation,divorce,nc,custody,holidaysurvival</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 14: Substance Abuse and Child Custody</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 14: Substance Abuse and Child Custody</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">e4783379f5384c55b996ed89345e2ea7</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/f34dbe44</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Custody cases in and of themselves are hard enough, but one issue that can further complicate an already highly emotional situation is substance abuse.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora offer tips and discuss actions you can take if you find yourself involved in a custody case where substance abuse is an issue.</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Custody cases in and of themselves are hard enough, but one issue that can further complicate an already highly emotional situation is substance abuse.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora offer tips and discuss actions you can take if you find yourself involved in a custody case where substance abuse is an issue.</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2018 12:44:37 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/f34dbe44/8c88e137.mp3" length="51855969" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/N-HV89aBjTzjgblh8S8L3A2gBmMPizlVPfvGXBw-UrI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODIv/MTY3NDc3NDQ3MC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1576</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Custody cases in and of themselves are hard enough, but one issue that can further complicate an already highly emotional situation is substance abuse.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora offer tips and discuss actions you can take if you find yourself involved in a custody case where substance abuse is an issue.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Custody cases in and of themselves are hard enough, but one issue that can further complicate an already highly emotional situation is substance abuse.  In this episode, host Jaime Davis and her law partner Carrie Tortora offer tips and discuss actions yo</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>Alcohol,drugs,abuse,separation,divorce,nc,custody</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 13: Taking Care of Yourself During a Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 13: Taking Care of Yourself During a Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">5b28bdeba0a1464bb6056bd27586ad82</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/c9fe8bec</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 13, host Jaime Davis discusses the importance of self-care during the divorce process with fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses such issues as: What is self-care?  Why is self-care important during a divorce?  What can you do to ensure you are taking care of yourself during a divorce?</p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 13, host Jaime Davis discusses the importance of self-care during the divorce process with fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses such issues as: What is self-care?  Why is self-care important during a divorce?  What can you do to ensure you are taking care of yourself during a divorce?</p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2018 08:04:12 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/c9fe8bec/1513effd.mp3" length="68892956" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/1yqgysZ-YMOdffbf56X2zKnKuVy5AXO6gIXSFvi68XM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2ODEv/MTY3NDc3NDQ5MC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2098</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In Episode 13, host Jaime Davis discusses the importance of self-care during the divorce process with fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses such issues as: What is self-care?  Why is self-care important during a divorce?  What can you do to ensure you are taking care of yourself during a divorce?</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In Episode 13, host Jaime Davis discusses the importance of self-care during the divorce process with fellow family law attorney Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses such issues as: What is self-care?  Why is self-care important during a divorce?  What c</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>separation,divorce,nc,selfcare,familylaw</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 12: Evidence in Child Custody Cases</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 12: Evidence in Child Custody Cases</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">3c55ee29dde44f4b8404ff7e33c4c888</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/30798b4f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Can your cell phone be imaged?  Can your spouse obtain a copy of your Facebook archive?  What about text messages and emails?  These questions and more are answered in Episode 12 when the tables are turned and host Jaime Davis is interviewed by her interns Grace Massarelli and Olivia Daniels about evidence in child custody cases.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Can your cell phone be imaged?  Can your spouse obtain a copy of your Facebook archive?  What about text messages and emails?  These questions and more are answered in Episode 12 when the tables are turned and host Jaime Davis is interviewed by her interns Grace Massarelli and Olivia Daniels about evidence in child custody cases.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2018 20:48:24 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/30798b4f/a975cd9f.mp3" length="54851414" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1707</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Can your cell phone be imaged?  Can your spouse obtain a copy of your Facebook archive?  What about text messages and emails?  These questions and more are answered in Episode 12 when the tables are turned and host Jaime Davis is interviewed by her interns Grace Massarelli and Olivia Daniels about evidence in child custody cases.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Can your cell phone be imaged?  Can your spouse obtain a copy of your Facebook archive?  What about text messages and emails?  These questions and more are answered in Episode 12 when the tables are turned and host Jaime Davis is interviewed by her intern</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>separation,divorce,evidence,nc,custody</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 11: The Do's and Don'ts of Surviving a Child Custody Case</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 11: The Do's and Don'ts of Surviving a Child Custody Case</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">6a8d6dc1710e43ddbfe60e245933a7bc</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/cde0d664</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Learning how to navigate the do's and don'ts of being involved in a child custody dispute can be unnerving. In Episode 11, host Jaime Davis discusses helpful tips for surviving child custody litigation with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Melissa J. Essick.  Jaime and Melissa address issues such as how to appropriately communicate with the other parent, what not to post on social media, and how to avoid alienating your child.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Learning how to navigate the do's and don'ts of being involved in a child custody dispute can be unnerving. In Episode 11, host Jaime Davis discusses helpful tips for surviving child custody litigation with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Melissa J. Essick.  Jaime and Melissa address issues such as how to appropriately communicate with the other parent, what not to post on social media, and how to avoid alienating your child.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2018 20:39:58 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/cde0d664/e4024d0b.mp3" length="56593954" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>1755</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Learning how to navigate the do's and don'ts of being involved in a child custody dispute can be unnerving. In Episode 11, host Jaime Davis discusses helpful tips for surviving child custody litigation with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Melissa J. Essick.  Jaime and Melissa address issues such as how to appropriately communicate with the other parent, what not to post on social media, and how to avoid alienating your child.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Learning how to navigate the do's and don'ts of being involved in a child custody dispute can be unnerving. In Episode 11, host Jaime Davis discusses helpful tips for surviving child custody litigation with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Mel</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>family,child,separation,divorce,nc,custody,Litigation</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 10: The Child's Advocate</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 10: The Child's Advocate</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">baf4620a047843b8b05694ab6282c17a</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/4ddf27cf</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Thanks to a very important project of Legal Aid of North Carolina, in some custody cases, an attorney can be appointed to represent the child to advocate for what the child wants to have happen.  In Episode 10, host Jaime Davis discusses The Child's Advocate with its program director attorney Suzanne Chester.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Thanks to a very important project of Legal Aid of North Carolina, in some custody cases, an attorney can be appointed to represent the child to advocate for what the child wants to have happen.  In Episode 10, host Jaime Davis discusses The Child's Advocate with its program director attorney Suzanne Chester.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2018 11:13:38 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/4ddf27cf/36061e7e.mp3" length="51910616" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/FdWUlasdqRG-ShqLsmKUeTNc_PrEHmWGAoGdYph8cXs/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2Nzgv/MTY3NDc3NDQ2Ni1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1607</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Thanks to a very important project of Legal Aid of North Carolina, in some custody cases, an attorney can be appointed to represent the child to advocate for what the child wants to have happen.  In Episode 10, host Jaime Davis discusses The Child's Advocate with its program director attorney Suzanne Chester.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Thanks to a very important project of Legal Aid of North Carolina, in some custody cases, an attorney can be appointed to represent the child to advocate for what the child wants to have happen.  In Episode 10, host Jaime Davis discusses The Child's Advoc</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>family,separation,divorce,nc,custody,advocate</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 9: Family Law Appeals</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 9: Family Law Appeals</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">9d13ede8fcfd433e84dc994229adbef0</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/a2424a01</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>When the trial is over and the Judge has entered the Order, your case is finished, right?  The answer is not necessarily.  In some cases if you disagree with the Judge's ruling, you may have another avenue available to you.  In Episode 9, host Jaime Davis discusses the appellate process in family law cases with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Jonathan Melton.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>When the trial is over and the Judge has entered the Order, your case is finished, right?  The answer is not necessarily.  In some cases if you disagree with the Judge's ruling, you may have another avenue available to you.  In Episode 9, host Jaime Davis discusses the appellate process in family law cases with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Jonathan Melton.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2018 20:02:30 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/a2424a01/8411411c.mp3" length="52590377" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/xeNgQELMlXPqYsk-PX0lrEqf9oWO2nKD5DHbhep6IcE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2Nzcv/MTY3NDc3NDQ3MC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1593</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>When the trial is over and the Judge has entered the Order, your case is finished, right?  The answer is not necessarily.  In some cases if you disagree with the Judge's ruling, you may have another avenue available to you.  In Episode 9, host Jaime Davis discusses the appellate process in family law cases with her colleague and fellow family law attorney Jonathan Melton.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>When the trial is over and the Judge has entered the Order, your case is finished, right?  The answer is not necessarily.  In some cases if you disagree with the Judge's ruling, you may have another avenue available to you.  In Episode 9, host Jaime Davis</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>family,property,support,divorce,custody,alimony,Appeal,equitable</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 8: Grandparent Visitation</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 8: Grandparent Visitation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d4460de418638ecaa4e1f459a0b8a75b</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/b42758a8</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>When parents separate, we often hear about a custody schedule being put in place that addresses when the children will spend time with each of their parents, but in some cases, grandparents may have rights too.  In Episode 8, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of grandparent visitation with her law partner Stephanie Gibbs, who often represents grandparents involved in custody disputes.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>When parents separate, we often hear about a custody schedule being put in place that addresses when the children will spend time with each of their parents, but in some cases, grandparents may have rights too.  In Episode 8, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of grandparent visitation with her law partner Stephanie Gibbs, who often represents grandparents involved in custody disputes.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2018 13:27:27 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/b42758a8/24fb3a7b.mp3" length="56440599" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/1Iny-K2taPXxOagc13fpPPJWxR33GpZwEutUCGnb9sc/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2NzYv/MTY3NDc3NDQ1OC1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1733</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>When parents separate, we often hear about a custody schedule being put in place that addresses when the children will spend time with each of their parents, but in some cases, grandparents may have rights too.  In Episode 8, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of grandparent visitation with her law partner Stephanie Gibbs, who often represents grandparents involved in custody disputes.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>When parents separate, we often hear about a custody schedule being put in place that addresses when the children will spend time with each of their parents, but in some cases, grandparents may have rights too.  In Episode 8, host Jaime Davis discusses th</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>child,divorce,nc,custody,visitation,Grandparent</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 7: The Intersection of Couples Therapy and the Divorce Process</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 7: The Intersection of Couples Therapy and the Divorce Process</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">e6d1d8adc3b7f257134d3554bf3cb549</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/d3426384</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Episode 7 features special guest Caroline Landen, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Couples and Sex therapy with the Awakenings Center for Intimacy and Sexuality.  In Episode 7, Caroline and host Jaime Davis discuss the benefits of marriage counseling both before and after a decision to end the marriage has been made.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Episode 7 features special guest Caroline Landen, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Couples and Sex therapy with the Awakenings Center for Intimacy and Sexuality.  In Episode 7, Caroline and host Jaime Davis discuss the benefits of marriage counseling both before and after a decision to end the marriage has been made.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2018 09:47:00 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/d3426384/c88065da.mp3" length="79919579" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/JttjMRlsBFn4vWYwpr-QXO96wLldUqvotRYbWBtdYXo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2NzUv/MTY3NDc3NDQ1Ni1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2458</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Episode 7 features special guest Caroline Landen, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Couples and Sex therapy with the Awakenings Center for Intimacy and Sexuality.  In Episode 7, Caroline and host Jaime Davis discuss the benefits of marriage counseling both before and after a decision to end the marriage has been made.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Episode 7 features special guest Caroline Landen, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Couples and Sex therapy with the Awakenings Center for Intimacy and Sexuality.  In Episode 7, Caroline and host Jaime Davis discuss the benefits of </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>marriage,family,law,separation,divorce,nc,adultery,counseling,awakenings,gailor</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 6: The Potential Price of Cheating</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 6: The Potential Price of Cheating</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">806cb3f90c0e652b474898c3e8cd8a52</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/1a247c34</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Cheating, or adultery as it is referred to in the legal context, is one of the more challenging problems that can arise in a marriage, and often it is one of the factors associated with the decision to separate or divorce.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis discusses the potential impact adultery can have on a  family law case, as well as potential claims a spouse may have against the third party for alienation of affection and criminal conversation.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Cheating, or adultery as it is referred to in the legal context, is one of the more challenging problems that can arise in a marriage, and often it is one of the factors associated with the decision to separate or divorce.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis discusses the potential impact adultery can have on a  family law case, as well as potential claims a spouse may have against the third party for alienation of affection and criminal conversation.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2018 08:55:03 -0400</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/1a247c34/453b160c.mp3" length="32710258" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/hRtJxLWW2R9V96lUSNKyhkD0idqTWPOuVzh5yEpfayU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2NzQv/MTY3NDc3NDQ1NS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>999</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Cheating, or adultery as it is referred to in the legal context, is one of the more challenging problems that can arise in a marriage, and often it is one of the factors associated with the decision to separate or divorce.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis discusses the potential impact adultery can have on a  family law case, as well as potential claims a spouse may have against the third party for alienation of affection and criminal conversation.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Cheating, or adultery as it is referred to in the legal context, is one of the more challenging problems that can arise in a marriage, and often it is one of the factors associated with the decision to separate or divorce.  In Episode 6, host Jaime Davis </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>of,conversation,separation,Criminal,divorce,nc,adultery,alimony,alienation,affection</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 5: Parenting Coordinators in Child Custody Cases</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 5: Parenting Coordinators in Child Custody Cases</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">b854b74a5c0929dab3e53ae34a025624</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/2667a8c7</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 5, host and Certified Parenting Coordinator Jaime Davis discusses the topic of Parenting Coordinators in child custody cases with fellow family law attorney and Parenting Coordinator Katie King.  If you are involved in a high conflict custody dispute and you and your co-parent have a difficult time making decisions that affect your children, a Parenting Coordinator may be the answer.  This episode will explain what a Parenting Coordinator is and how to get one, as well as offer tips for working with your Parenting Coordinator once one has been appointed.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 5, host and Certified Parenting Coordinator Jaime Davis discusses the topic of Parenting Coordinators in child custody cases with fellow family law attorney and Parenting Coordinator Katie King.  If you are involved in a high conflict custody dispute and you and your co-parent have a difficult time making decisions that affect your children, a Parenting Coordinator may be the answer.  This episode will explain what a Parenting Coordinator is and how to get one, as well as offer tips for working with your Parenting Coordinator once one has been appointed.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2018 10:25:15 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/2667a8c7/0e3c761b.mp3" length="87930862" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/-NCR1FYT8P7cw3CgrUwH4stYnmMMqqmc-iiNmyI7Scc/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2NzMv/MTY3NDc3NDQ1Mi1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2689</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In Episode 5, host and Certified Parenting Coordinator Jaime Davis discusses the topic of Parenting Coordinators in child custody cases with fellow family law attorney and Parenting Coordinator Katie King.  If you are involved in a high conflict custody dispute and you and your co-parent have a difficult time making decisions that affect your children, a Parenting Coordinator may be the answer.  This episode will explain what a Parenting Coordinator is and how to get one, as well as offer tips for working with your Parenting Coordinator once one has been appointed.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In Episode 5, host and Certified Parenting Coordinator Jaime Davis discusses the topic of Parenting Coordinators in child custody cases with fellow family law attorney and Parenting Coordinator Katie King.  If you are involved in a high conflict custody d</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>family,law,child,parenting,divorce,custody,coordinator</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 4: Gray Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 4: Gray Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">c8ecdbee3d55d79ecf2c825e1998336b</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/7344bafe</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>Episode 4 features special guest Haleh Moddasser, CPA.  Haleh is the Senior Vice President and Managing Partner of Stearns Financial Group's Triangle Office, and she has recently published a book entitled Gray Divorce: Silver Linings.  In Episode 4, Haleh and host Jaime Davis discuss the concept of Gray Divorce and the different impact divorce after age 50 can have on women versus men.  For more information about Haleh, go to <a href="http://www.stearnsfinancial.com/team_member/haleh-moddasser/">http://www.stearnsfinancial.com/team_member/haleh-moddasser/</a> </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>Episode 4 features special guest Haleh Moddasser, CPA.  Haleh is the Senior Vice President and Managing Partner of Stearns Financial Group's Triangle Office, and she has recently published a book entitled Gray Divorce: Silver Linings.  In Episode 4, Haleh and host Jaime Davis discuss the concept of Gray Divorce and the different impact divorce after age 50 can have on women versus men.  For more information about Haleh, go to <a href="http://www.stearnsfinancial.com/team_member/haleh-moddasser/">http://www.stearnsfinancial.com/team_member/haleh-moddasser/</a> </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Sat, 03 Feb 2018 13:02:58 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/7344bafe/88b74f57.mp3" length="66053171" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/VdJzx3-Xe_pwX3v4dHMJcCcxNy1EaMiQ3l1Us5mHI4o/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2NzIv/MTY3NDc3NDQxNS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>2033</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Episode 4 features special guest Haleh Moddasser, CPA.  Haleh is the Senior Vice President and Managing Partner of Stearns Financial Group's Triangle Office, and she has recently published a book entitled Gray Divorce: Silver Linings.  In Episode 4, Haleh and host Jaime Davis discuss the concept of Gray Divorce and the different impact divorce after age 50 can have on women versus men.  For more information about Haleh, go to http://www.stearnsfinancial.com/team_member/haleh-moddasser/ </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Episode 4 features special guest Haleh Moddasser, CPA.  Haleh is the Senior Vice President and Managing Partner of Stearns Financial Group's Triangle Office, and she has recently published a book entitled Gray Divorce: Silver Linings.  In Episode 4, Haleh</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 3: Common Myths Surrounding Separation &amp; Divorce</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 3: Common Myths Surrounding Separation &amp; Divorce</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">beac66827e67a4f56ea3fa4a2afa4f73</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/5f2bd269</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 3, host Jaime Davis explores common myths surrounding separation and divorce with her law partner Carrie Tortora.  Carrie and Jaime discuss such topics as whether "papers" are required to be legally separated; whether committing adultery means a spouse loses everything; and whether the children get to decide where they live.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 3, host Jaime Davis explores common myths surrounding separation and divorce with her law partner Carrie Tortora.  Carrie and Jaime discuss such topics as whether "papers" are required to be legally separated; whether committing adultery means a spouse loses everything; and whether the children get to decide where they live.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2018 20:43:18 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/5f2bd269/7add69e1.mp3" length="66023999" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2037</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In Episode 3, host Jaime Davis explores common myths surrounding separation and divorce with her law partner Carrie Tortora.  Carrie and Jaime discuss such topics as whether "papers" are required to be legally separated; whether committing adultery means a spouse loses everything; and whether the children get to decide where they live.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In Episode 3, host Jaime Davis explores common myths surrounding separation and divorce with her law partner Carrie Tortora.  Carrie and Jaime discuss such topics as whether "papers" are required to be legally separated; whether committing adultery means </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 2: Mediation</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 2: Mediation</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">d5d213f01889d9e07215080fd6587b59</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/50bbb23c</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 2, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of mediation with fellow family law attorney and mediator Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses questions such as: How does mediation work?  How much does it cost?  Why is mediation beneficial?  Are there any downsides to mediation?  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 2, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of mediation with fellow family law attorney and mediator Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses questions such as: How does mediation work?  How much does it cost?  Why is mediation beneficial?  Are there any downsides to mediation?  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Wed, 13 Dec 2017 10:18:33 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/50bbb23c/adfa6252.mp3" length="73584988" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>2280</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In Episode 2, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of mediation with fellow family law attorney and mediator Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses questions such as: How does mediation work?  How much does it cost?  Why is mediation beneficial?  Are there any downsides to mediation?  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In Episode 2, host Jaime Davis discusses the topic of mediation with fellow family law attorney and mediator Lynn McNally.  This episode addresses questions such as: How does mediation work?  How much does it cost?  Why is mediation beneficial?  Are there</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
    <item>
      <title>Episode 1: Co-parenting</title>
      <itunes:season>1</itunes:season>
      <podcast:season>1</podcast:season>
      <itunes:title>Episode 1: Co-parenting</itunes:title>
      <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
      <guid isPermaLink="false">b39b1a31c58d4427649d866c74e0834c</guid>
      <link>https://share.transistor.fm/s/2e17966f</link>
      <description>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 1, host Jaime Davis discusses issues related to co-parenting with Dr. Lori Thomas, a licensed psychologist with Wynns Family Psychology.  Dr. Thomas offers tips and suggestions for how parents can continue to successfully co-parent their children despite a separation or divorce.  </p>]]>
      </description>
      <content:encoded>
        <![CDATA[<p>In Episode 1, host Jaime Davis discusses issues related to co-parenting with Dr. Lori Thomas, a licensed psychologist with Wynns Family Psychology.  Dr. Thomas offers tips and suggestions for how parents can continue to successfully co-parent their children despite a separation or divorce.  </p>]]>
      </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Nov 2017 09:42:08 -0500</pubDate>
      <author>Jaime H. Davis</author>
      <enclosure url="https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/2e17966f/b055e719.mp3" length="65024765" type="audio/mpeg"/>
      <itunes:author>Jaime H. Davis</itunes:author>
      <itunes:image href="https://img.transistorcdn.com/UvIOfzANblc_Vza2aEbLgJ7C0tl3Fuz8i3MVTflzzbg/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lcGlz/b2RlLzExODE2Njkv/MTY3NDc3NDQ0MS1h/cnR3b3JrLmpwZw.jpg"/>
      <itunes:duration>1978</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>In Episode 1, host Jaime Davis discusses issues related to co-parenting with Dr. Lori Thomas, a licensed psychologist with Wynns Family Psychology.  Dr. Thomas offers tips and suggestions for how parents can continue to successfully co-parent their children despite a separation or divorce.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In Episode 1, host Jaime Davis discusses issues related to co-parenting with Dr. Lori Thomas, a licensed psychologist with Wynns Family Psychology.  Dr. Thomas offers tips and suggestions for how parents can continue to successfully co-parent their childr</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>alimony,child custody,child support,divorce,equitable distribution,family law</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:explicit>No</itunes:explicit>
      <podcast:person role="Host" href="https://www.divorceistough.com/" img="https://img.transistorcdn.com/5pNNLnPJpqfoHMOAtbIiAQANJb1d8IOyr9h6XnWIjQ0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:800/h:800/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80M2U2/MWVhM2EzYjQ2Mjlk/ZjMxNjYwYzQyNTE5/MjZjYi5qcGVn.jpg">Jaime Davis</podcast:person>
    </item>
  </channel>
</rss>
