In truth, ICE addiction that defined Peter's life just 8 years ago should have won the battle. It had its chance and had it not been for the love of a best mate, who privately paid for Peter's rehab in Thailand, Peter's life would have been a sad waste.

Instead, Peter faced his demons, climbed his way out of a bottomless pit and now gives hope to those who also need a reason to re-engineer their life.

Peter's 90-minute one-man show moves from a struggling home life to alcohol filled evenings at just 14 years of age, through addiction to a Thailand Rehabilitation Centre with Peter playing 17 different characters and voices. It is a masterful performance first receiving strong recognition in London and now attracting full audiences around Australia. Word is that a movie is also in the offering.

In this interview, Peter tells all. It is sometimes dark, occasionally hopeful but in the end, it is glorious.

As Peter says, "To see the light it is almost necessary to have lived in the depths of chaos".
You will find this episode riveting. More importantly, for those live in the East Coast of Australia seeing BREAKING THE CASTLE is compulsory, and if you do, don't forget to see Peter after the show and let him know you first heard him on A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE.

Breaking the Castleis now touring. It will be performed at Frankston Arts Centre (11-12 July 2025), Theatre Works St Kilda (15-19 July) and Sydney Opera House (23-26 July).

Quite simply, if you have been one of our 12,000 listeners, then you will know the scope of learning, awareness, and expansion of though and spirit that this journey offers. It has been remarkable. So much so, that I felt compelled to stop and capture it all in the form of a book, the objective of which is to give all of its readers a roadmap to becoming a more loving and joyful human being. It's a pathway given to us from guests, who you may have met on the front page of your National Newspaper, to those who found some prison time, to sports persons one of which ran around the entire planet, to people who suffered unspeakable traumas and others whose names are foreign to Google.  This guidebook will outline actions, strategies, routines ... an entire manual to living love constantly.

Have no concerns that the podcast is winding down ... not at all!! Temporarily, it might slow down the regularity, but that is all. The podcast coupled with the book is as dedicated to the mission as ever. Both are valuable contributions to our purpose. So too is this podcast. In fact, this Episode 101, may go down as one of our best in our second hundred episodes! 

Cast your mind back to Episode #8, when we first met Joel Staite, a young man who was given months to live thanks to an incurable kidney cancer. Remarkably, Joel through his belief, devotion to wellbeing practices and high-level awareness lives another 6 years. What would you learn about life if you lived everyday with the prospect of death tapping you on the shoulder? 
What Joel learnt and shared with us opened eyes and moved souls, so much so we replayed it in Episode # 98.

Then in Episode # 28, just 5 months after the loss of his Son, Joel's father, Keith gave us a remarkable and intimate insight into who Joel had become. Our take was that while values like gratitude, love and kindness might also be the way for many others, very few became those values to such a high degree as did Joel. In his last years, Joel was the living embodiment of all that can be beautiful as a human. The story of Joel shuffling down the aisle to marry his beloved, Kieran, just 4 days before his passing is beautiful told by Keith at the 23.25 mark of this Episode # 101. You will need a tissue. 

This episode is Keith's story approaching 3 years after Joel's death. It is the journey of a grieving Father, adopting his son's legacy and living so many experiences to honor him. It is the story of the cost of living someone else's life even if it be that of your son. It is the story of recovery, the story of returning home to the power of practices that shift your energies from darkness to life. You will be intrigued by Keith's commentary as to when he feels Joel's presence and how it impacts him. It's as if Joel has returned to remind dad that living gratitude, love and kindness the Keith Staite way is now his mission. This episode is raw. It is authentic and it is powerful. Chip and I are so proud to offer you this remarkable insight into the profound relationship between love and grief. Open up your hearts and absorb every minute of it. 

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Well, here we are 100 episodes and 2 plus years later and still the exploration and the thirst for wisdom is alive!

The scope of this journey turned out to be expansive and I began to see that in the very first episode with Emeritus Prof Ken Pakenham. Displaying my amateurish interviewing skills, I asked him … ‘So, what do you see as the Meaning of Life?’

His answer became a reference point over the next 99 episodes. Ken simply suggested, ‘That the meaning of life is found by first identifying and then clarifying one’s values. This becomes your core reference point for all of your behavior and authentic activity. Of course, Ken then rightfully pointed out that the next step is to KNOW your values … to know what they look like as behaviors and finally, the great challenge is to BE the behavioral manifestation of your values’. 

Little did I know that this 'piece of gold' given to us in the very first episode would become a core discussion over the next two years. 

Therefore, it is only appropriate that the guest for our century of interviews be the wisdom of Prof Ken Pakenham, and what an incredible episode it is. The additional insights into our possibilities is coming from a very aware soul. It is a soul that has experienced the traumas, the vagrancies and the tribulations of life. It is a soul who has found a way to manage his challenges and arrive at a place of self-respect and personal harmony.

Apart from this exhilarating discussion you can understand so much more of the journey of Prof Ken Pakenham in his outstanding memoir called “THE TRAUMA BANQUET”. It is a must read.

Finally, I thank you, the 12000 listeners from 52 countries who continue to FOLLOW and SUBSCRIBE to our weekly episodes. You are the ones that give A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE the reason to embrace the years to come. 
Blessings to you all. Bernie K ... +61 412 982 444

I do believe that there is a golden moment in this episode that is one of the top learnings ever offered on A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE. It was when Donna Leigh was working with Lifeline and her advisor helped her realize that 'These things happen TO people, not BECAUSE of them'. In that moment Donna was able to achieve separation from the pain and chaos of her traumatized life. Furthermore, she was then able to use the experiences beneficially to serve her life. I think you should read that last sentence again ! She was able to use the trauma of watching her mother's murder to understand and extract benefit for her life!! If you want evidence of this, see what she is doing now that brings meaning to her life and adds incredible value to 1000's around the globe ... www.donna-leighperfect.com ... There is the miracle.

Embrace the journey dear people!! Just embrace the journey and just remember do all that you do with loving intent.
Bernie K + 61 412 982 444 ... bernie@journeywithbernie.co

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This Journey has been one of the more profound experiences of my life, with every guest contributing something of value to the ever-expanding pathway towards love becoming a way of life. Of course, some episodes were potent and need to be heard again and again to capture the full learning they offered. Among these were Episodes 8 and 25, which combined to tell the remarkable story of Joel Staite. Joel was diagnosed with an incurable cancer and given 3 months. He lived another 6 years and when I say 'lived', I actually mean he lived every day as if it was his last. Joel's story opened our souls and taught us of what living every moment actually looks like. Only the wisdom of Joel Staite could say something like this ...
 

“This might sound crazy, but I actually think cancer has changed my life for the better – I feel like I have become a better person for having been through this … I so appreciate every moment, every single day so much more”.

His incredible story went to air on Jun 15, 2022. On October 8, four months later, Joel passed away. 

Last month, I received a message from Keith Staite, Joel's dad, whose Episode 28 gave us even more insight into Joel's journey and the depth of our capacity to love. The image Keith gave us of Joel's 'raw courage' leaving the wheelchair and shuffling down the aisle to marry his treasured love, Kieran, will forever be a feature segment on this podcast. Joel did this just days before his death. At the time his body had withered to not much more than skeletal.

The Mater Hospital once described Joel as ... 'An ordinary guy doing extraordinary things in the face of gut-wrenching adversity.' I think they are wrong …

Joel Staite became an extraordinary human being responding in way that few would to the 'grim reaper' tapping him on the shoulder every day for 6 years. Joel brushed death's hand away for all of that time and in the process discovered a meaning in life that few could comprehend. For this reason, giving you the lessons of Joel Staite in this 98th episode seems to be the only appropriate thing to do. Afterall, you are being taught by a man who crossed the bridge and became 'love'.
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What unfolded was the most unique culinary adventure I had ever experienced. As we sat at the high table overlooking the kitchen, we conversed with the multiple chefs who meticulously created 14 savory masterpieces, before our very eyes. The plates ranged from a delicious mouthful to entree sized 'Food Art', most of which were composed of 4 or 5 ingredients, with the combinations of taste, synergetic wine and restaurant ambience exceeding any meal experience I had ever encountered. 

Naturally enough, my intrigue was around who created this 'Food Gallery'. 
What was he or she demonstrating to us? 
What were they telling us? 
What was their message?

In this episode you will meet Tim Scott, who decided that his hyper focused life force is best expressed through creative art, but this art is not with palette and brush. This art is with natural ingredients blended together to consume the senses of his every guest. I cannot imagine anyone doing it better. 

By admission, Exhibition is his second baby. Together, with his dear friend Sarah Baldwin, they initially created 'Joy' ... www.joyrestaurant.com.au ... another reputable food journey that is firmly on my bucket list. It's a bit like this podcast, Tim's next chapter was always going to be next level. 

Built deep underground the Metro Arts Theatre of Brisbane, Exhibition is Tim's intimate 24 seat restaurant which continues the legacy of live theatrical displays, visual arts and performance that still spook this 130-year-old building. Based on Japanese style Omakase dining, the chef will decide your culinary fate. The chef will create. You trust and joyfully invest in the chef ... all 7 of them.

Expect to witness custom handmade cutlery, ceramics from local and international artists and their unique skills and knowledge blossom in front of you. Their goal is to share the story of all the creators, producers, artists and craftsmen that have contributed to tonight's Exhibition Food Theatre. Wowwwww !!

So, what does this experience have to do with becoming a more loving human being ... the stated objective of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE!
It has everything to do with the mission of this podcast. Listen to this episode and you will hear ...

This dining experience is one man's expression of who he is. He is asking you to not compromise on who you are!!
Tim is bold enough to put himself before the public and serve them with his gifts.
Do you have such courage to put your true self before the evaluators?
Tim plays a mentor role to the young chefs who join him, hoping that through his values and vision, they too might realize their unlimited capacities to be best version of self and express it even through what others call work. How do you and I spread our greatness !!
Finally, the eye-raising moment in this discussion, where Tim announces that he is both blessed and burdened with 2 medically diagnosed conditions, will only help you realize that blockages don't exist if you still seek to maximise what is.

This is a remarkable story with as many learnings and 'Ah Ah' moments as I had on Sept 3, 2024 while at dinner for my birthday. My extraordinary experience is still with me two months later and now dissected in this sensational Episode 97.

Would you like to share your birthday with Tim and his team at EXHIBITION sooner than later.
Here's where you book ... www.exhibitionrestaurant.com

And after this episode, here's where you can find the SUBSCRIBER or FOLLOW US button for A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE.
Please do so immediately and join our near 12000 listeners from 52 different countries.

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This entire episode explores so many human dimensions of Adrian's incredible work. 
These five discussions are riveting ...

1. How ego and individual advocacy may have to be modified to allow the collective expertise to arrive at sometimes lifesaving medicinal strategy. 
2. Why it is so important at times to 'ride the pain' with parents and families. At times the best medicine is just 'being there' with them.
3. How parental love can be an even greater medicine than any tablet or formula. Doctors like Adrian know this from experience now. 
4. How Western Medicine has slowly moved to embrace a more wholistic approach to resolve health matters. Consequently, the opinions and collective knowledge of all stakeholders including patient and families can inspire favorable medicinal pathways.
5. This of course, does not diminish professional responsibility. In fact, it is a demonstration of professional accountability to include rather than ignore under the banner of status and perceived right.

The fascinating conclusion is that Adrian points out how so many of the principles that need to thrive in an effective Intensive Care Unit also have to serve our lives. 

Of course, only a man whose foundation was so varied, so rich and so volatile would recognize these valuable comparisons with life. Being raised in West Germany when the country was divided was stimulating in itself. Choosing to do his tertiary studies in East Germany after integration, was a chapter that has colored the tapestry of this man's existence.

Are you ready for a unique ride inside the mind of a reputable medical professional?
Are you ready to learn from someone who plays in the space between life and death on a daily basis?
Are you ready to embrace a man whose work is an extension of values that have been moulded and shaped by both the joy and heartache of serving a child's life. Not all were happy stories.
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References in this podcast promoted "The Courage to be Disliked" ... the worldwide Japanese phenomena to be found on Google or Amazon.
Adrain also suggests you read Erich Fromm's "The Art of Loving" and Scott Peck's epic books "People of the Lie" and "The Road Less Travelled".
Bernie K also advocates that after this episode you will have an excellent reason to immediately 'Follow' A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE by pressing the appropriate button on this link ... A Journey with Bernie Podcast Series - Apple Podcasts

The drama of Michael's courageous 59-run last wicket partnership with Brett Lee against England is folklore. After incredible fight and fortitude, it stunningly ended just three runs short of what would have been a memorable victory. Viewers will never forget the sight of England's Andrew Flintoff generously consoling the stunned Kasprowicz amidst English celebration. But life too can be generous, for not long after their Birmingham nightmare, Michael and Brett Lee courageously led Australia to a nail-biting two-wicket victory against South Africa with a tension filled 19-run partnership.

However, as one of Australia's most reliable bowlers, Michael Kasprowicz is honored. You just knew you were going to get 150% effort every time he had the ball in hand! For that reason, Michael shone in the harshest conditions, excelling in the heat, humidity and hot Sub-continent environment. He rightfully became Australia's workhorse. It is a label that may appear at first to be unflattering, but it is a title that reflects the character and principles of the man. It his values that you will hear most loudly in this episode. Michael's views and perspectives on creating community, the power of transparency and vulnerability and how to create belief and confidence in your teams is first-class education, and his lessons are not just sport inspired. With an MBA from the University of Queensland Michael has an eye for international trade. He is an active member of the Australian India Business Council and the founder of the consultancy firm Venture India, which beautifully assimilates the principles of elite performance into the world of commerce and business.

You are about to hear from a sporting icon. More importantly, you are about to receive valuable lessons and awarenesses that just aren't available from 'the person next door'. Welcome to an hour with Michael Kasprowicz.

One of my clearly defined values is THIRST FOR WISDOM. Living that value means I choose books that can teach me. When I travel in my car, I listen to podcasts. I am always searching for a learning opportunity.  Growing, evolving, becoming more aware of better mindsets is a not only a joy for me. It fuels new possibilities.

When two such books are The Happiness Trap : Harris, Russ: Amazon.com.au: Books and THE TOP FIVE REGRETS OF THE DYING by Bronnie Ware, then you are going to receive new ways of seeing self, life and people. Do yourself a favour and order both on Amazon now and read them before Christmas, then your festive season will bring you greater joy for sure!!

For example, just imagine what you would learn from someone who for years worked in palliative care with patients who had gone home to die. Bronnie Ware loved them for the last 3 to 12 weeks of their lives. Special times were shared. People see new things ... they grow quickly when faced with their own mortality. This was hammered home to A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE in Episode # 8 with Joel Staite, who was told he had 3 months to live but found greater life to last 6 years. When faced with death, change in so many dimensions can be phenomenal. Such change often brings greater awareness and peace before departure.

So, I'll give you a taste of what is to come for you. Here is one of the 5 regrets of those reflecting on life as they approach their passing ... I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

How many dreams have gone because of one's lack of courage to stop compromising. Why wouldn't you favour your own fulfilment so that you have more to give self, life and others?

This is where The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris ... amazon.com.au/Happiness-Trap-Struggling-Start-Living/dp/1590305841 ... adds so much value, because it focuses on how to create a meaningful life by living your values not compromising them, which Bronnie noticed was at the core of people's regrets as they approached life's end.

THE HAPPINESS TRAP is devoted to effective strategies that can help us unhook from thoughts and feelings that do not serve us.

It addresses the difference between values and goals and admirably suggests we redefine success as living by our values.

You will find this episode loaded with actions and strategies for your contemplation, but perhaps the most obvious message is simply this ... VALUE LEARNING ... READ MORE ... THIRST FOR GROWTH ... SEEK NEW EXPERIENCES. It is a habit that will fuel your life.

Bernie K ... +61 412 982 444

Jeff Horn's journey from a timid, bullied teenager to an international lord of the boxing ring reads like the script of a feel-good Hollywood blockbuster. His unlikely transformation from a nervous, "nerdy little kid" into a World Boxing Welterweight Champion is legendary in Australian sport. On a winter's day in Brisbane in 2017 the man dubbed 'the baby-faced assassin' beat one of the greatest professional boxers of all time ... Manny Pacquiao ... who was the only boxer in history to have won 12 major world titles. However, on July 2, in what was hailed the 'Battle of Brisbane', Horn became his nemesis by winning a controversial point decision.  It wasn't controversial at all, because as you will hear in this outstanding episode, 7 judges have declared Jeff Horn as clear winner. I was there. Jeff Horn won. Jeff will explain why it suits a sometimes corrupt industry to call it 'controversial' when the unexpected disrupts plans for future bigger paydays.

The upset victory made “The Hornet” a household name in Australia and captured people’s imaginations. Here was a mild-mannered schoolteacher, a Clark Kent-type character, who had become superman in the ring.

At the time, Horn says, his new fame was hard to get used too. He couldn't go for a reflective walk in a rainforest without being recognised. "I just wanted to be a hermit and close myself in. I didn't like the constant barrage that I would get. Thank God, things have changed. I'm much more comfortable these days just being a dad. I'm just like everyone else. I don't feel like I'm different. I just had an extraordinary moment or two, but that is in the past now." 

What this episode will reveal is Jeff's incredible journey nearly didn't happen. There were dark days as a teenager where constant bullying had him sitting alone in his bedroom reflecting on how little value he could see in himself. In a frank admission, he even considered the ultimate escape from life. Maybe, it was the support of girlfriend Joanna, his wife to be, or maybe it was the day he stepped into a martial arts gym and met Geoff Rushton that brought light. Such pivotal moments are referred to in this absorbing chat, which includes the day Geoff Rushton painted the vision that became Jeff's pathway ...  'I can get you to the Olympics in 4 years and 4 years later, you will become World Champion'. Jeff accepted the journey.

With every incredible victory, there was always one thing that stood out about a post-fight Jeff Horn interview. In contrast to many egotistical pugilists of his industry, Jeff would frequently reference his love for Joanna and his growing family. It became synonymous with his branding. Jeff claims being a dad brings him unlimited happiness. Receiving his children's kisses and cuddles and reading bedtime stories is definitely his new knockout punch. The beauty of Jeff Horn is that his love for life and people now flows into schools where as an ambassador for Bullyproof Australia | Every Student, Every School, Everywhere!, Jeff coaches resilience and understanding. Of course, when Jeff teaches, students listen. Afterall, he is the living embodiment of a person who was a Victim and found a way to become Champion of the World and in a many people's eyes ... He still is!!

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In this second episode with Zoe, you will explore how inner and sometimes unconscious pains manifest themselves in so many different ways. Often, they lead to poor choices that just create more problems. You will hear Zoe advocate that this pathway is not healthy and is avoidable if you prioritise daily routines or what Zoe calls 'the maintenance work'. Let me not spoil her profound suggestions by mentioning them here. May I suggest that you join Zoe for this less than 50-minute ride which will lead you to a beautiful space of awareness that will go a long way to helping you feel authentic, solid, and stable, from which greater love for self, life and people will emanate.

There is a chance that after listening to this wonderful discussion, that you may want to contact Zoe directly which you can most certainly do by contacting her through ... ECR & EAP Counsellor Brisbane, Victoria Point, Thornlands (freedomchoiceacademy.com)

Of course, your feedback on what you thought of this episode is so valuable for me. 
Drop me a line on +61 412 982 444 or an email at ... bernie@journeywithbernie.co ... is always greatly appreciated. 

Next week ... Jeff Horn !

Please don't put Tim in the 'gifted' or 'the unusual' category ... you may even want to give him 'a weirdo' tag, but to do so would be ignorant of the potential that Tim advocates lives in YOU. We all have 'an Everest' within us. We all are capable of setting a BHAG ... A Big Hairy Audacious Goal!! And furthermore, the drive and motivation is there too depending on what you listen too !! if you listen to your intervening mind of the past, then are likely to be blocked. If you listen to Tim Franklin, then you will hear of action and strategies that will empower you to believe that YOU CAN! He is proof that you can. From a 120 kg major 'dumpling' with a diet fueled by terrible eating habits, alcohol, frequent parties and the rush and hustle of a fast corporate life as a lawyer, Tim went to become only the 8th human ever to circumnavigate the globe by foot.

The moment of change came when lawyer Tim came across a quote written by a parent that had lost their child. The quote read, “the hardest thing a parent has to do is bury their own child”. At this point, it dawned on him that his life choices were likely to give his parents that same fatal outcome. The next day, Tim laced up and ran an extremely painful 2.2km. It was the game changer!  With that decision to run a slow arduous 28 minutes Tim Franklin changed his life forever. Whoever he was, was now in the process of changing. It's safe to say that Tim has virtually rewired himself from his past.

The job as a lawyer has been left behind. The task of coaching and creating running communities is his gift and his mission is to 'get the world moving'. What a remarkable transformation!

Needless to say, if you listen to this episode, you will be inspired, encouraged, given hope, educated, see new possibilities and in part, you will be given signals and signs on how to become a better version of yourself. That's guaranteed in this Episode#91 with Tim Franklin ... the man who ran around the world ... Tim Runs the World | Tim Franklin

These books were mentioned during the podcast. Best you read them !!

You Are the Placebo: Making Your Mind Matter : Dispenza, Dr. Joe: Amazon.com.au: Books
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson

"You know Bernie, I've been through 4 marriages. I am certain that the first two marriages failed because I was too young to know what true love even looked like and because tight religious frameworks told me how life should be. That was misleading. The fourth marriage ended when he tried to kill me. He was charged for arson ... a fire that was also meant to reduce me to ashes as well. As a result of these experiences I have been tormented by deep traumas. I tell you this so that you know I have been through a bit. Life has spoken to me."

"When one creates the best-intentioned plans, the Gods start laughing. They hear you but for certain unexpected interventions will dint, possibly wreck your creative vision. For certain, you will stumble across encounters that you ignore, simply because they are not congruent with your Vision Board. This is unwise, because some of those foreign opportunities were sent to you to take you to even higher places. Your Vision Board is commendable. I just hope that you are still open to the vagrancies of life, because in 'the unexpected' there is profound opportunity to maximize your experience of life."

"I hope your plans always swim in the ocean of flexibility, otherwise you may drown in broken dreams".

It took Lara Arden one minute to deliver to me what I now call 'The Lara Principle'.
My response was simple, "You b____h, you just nailed me". We laughed.

You will laugh in this episode too because Lara is walking joy, but your face is more likely to be illuminated by enlightened thoughts and wisdoms born out of tragedy, recovery and redemption. Such is the power of Lara's story, the raw take was over 2 hours and it has taken Chip and I, 3 months to identify what we were prepared to release. What is left is a powerful episode that will move your soul.  If you are listening while driving or cooking expect you and your meal to arrive late!

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But please don't delay in giving us feedback about any episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE. We love it and we learn from it.
Why not contact Bernie direct on +61 412982444. I loved the call last week that I received from Kansas ... What a blast!
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Akon Deng is now 32, she has purchased and now owns her home in Brisbane, Australia. Her mother and brother live with her. Her second investment property will settle within weeks supported by the revenues raised by her two businesses in which Akon is a director. Together the businesses turn over 1.8 million dollars by bringing wholistic nursing care to those war veterans who have fought for country in the last 50 years. They love her.

Dear listeners, this is a rare story ... a story, you will not believe but as any listener to this podcast knows ... pain, chaos and hardship are 'the North Road' to a life of wisdom, awareness and self-love. This is why you will listen to this episode in awe of Akon Deng a humble Sudanese girl who found hope and made life happen. You will be astounded by Akon's story. It will teach you about life and true love.

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Be sure to let me know how you felt about this podcast by contacting me, Bernie K, directly on 0412982444 or by email ... bernie@journeywithbernie.co

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Sujit explains the science of AUTOPHAGY ... A process by which our 'good' cells during extended fasting periods break down and destroy old, damaged, or abnormal cells. The breakdown fragments are then either recycled for other important cell functions or released from the body as toxins. AUTOPHAGY may well be the strongest detox cleansing process available to humankind and some say it even impedes the development of cancerous cells.

But Sujit has other reasons for adopting his comfortable but strict routine. Coupled with regular 'mini' mind meditations each day, Sujit feels that his existence is less distracted than others. He is still a busy man ... a productive man as his working life at ... Premium Zcrm Digital Business Card App - Boost Networking (pixelgram.digital) ... would suggest, but his mind has clarity. It is uncluttered and moves through the day efficiently and with ease. His routines driven by mature mindfulness are born from his rich connection with Indian history, culture, and Hindu Philosophy. They appear to guarantee him a deep well of constant entrenched joy. Sujit has much to teach.

Through this podcast, Sujit will teach you about the importance of focusing on efforts rather than outcomes.
Through Sujit, you will come to understand that nothing in life is permanent. Therefore, stay adaptable, be flexible and maximise the opportunity that change inevitably brings. Move with change.
Finally, let Sujit explain that only through an existence of minimal attachments can one really find deeper capacities to love. Sujit will suggest that 'Even one's attachment to food can be a distraction from being your innate loving core'.

Wow, this episode is inspiring. It will stimulate a lot of questions with perhaps the leading question being 'Do you have the courage to answer them?'

Proceed if you want to see new possibilities.
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Diane was a former athlete with a National identity, but in her own words suffered from the need to overachieve.
Michelle was an ex-Police Officer who never quite found the right environment within 'The Force' to be her true self. When she refused to be vaccinated this single mother lost her job after 22 years. At the same time Dianne's husband lost his job as a pilot with an International airline. Finances went amiss. 

Both girls have had to make life changing decisions that required unlearning, letting go and courageous epiphany moments requiring dramatic change. The girls describe those moments in dramatic detail. It is riveting story telling that asks you as to whether you have answered your 'Moment of Truth' 

In this episode they will teach you how to lose your BUT – those things that hold you back from living the fullness of life.
They will teach you how to identify your WHY ... your purpose ... and to surrender to your instinctive possibilities. In the process, those limiting beliefs will be shed and you will see clearly the beautiful and powerful human that you have always been.

Diane and Michelle have charisma. They have loads of it. They have energy. You will hear it in their voices. Most of all they are master coaches who have answered their calling to teach, to advise and guide you towards your greater self. Yep, it is compulsory listening. 

Your feedback is also compulsory. We would love it ... bernie@journeywithbernie.co
Or why not text me directly ... +61 412982444

Then came last week's phone call and threatening news.

Justine was diagnosed with Breast Cancer and no guarantees. This is why Neville reached out to us. He felt lost. In his own words, he was crumbling under the pressure. He felt Fear ... Fear of loss ... Fear of the future. He felt hopeless, not knowing where to turn. We are so fortunate that he turned to A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE, for in doing so he has inspired this riveting podcast focusing on Men's Wellbeing.

We needed some expertise, and we were well aware of Tony Groom's passion and concern from Episode #3, for Men's Health issues. He has long been an advocate of numerous Wellbeing Retreats run by men for men and sees transparent mateship as crucial for men's mental and spiritual strength. His presence on this podcast was so valuable.

Join Neville Stone, Tony Groom and host Bernie K for an exploration of what men need to do to ensure their mental and spiritual health is strong ... that they can cope with the pressures and strains of life ... and why it is perfectly ok to let go of one's machoism and present as vulnerable and human.

You will find this podcast different. It is a live example of how two mates came together for their friend to help him in his time of need. It is a case study and a real time example of how men can support men. The real-life counsel and dialogue make this a riveting episode.

Women who care for their struggling men will gain so much from the wisdoms that are captured over the next 50 minutes.

Please remember, your thoughts and feedback are so valuable.
Please share with us by contacting Bernie direct ... +61 412982444
For more information about Men's Wellbeing Retreats in Australia, Tony Groom will welcome your interest ...
... +61 418 182 995
And do reference the book that Tony Groom was so keen to recommend ... "Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway" by Susan Jeffers ... Books – Susan Jeffers ... I have read it. It is a ripper.

In Paula's own words, society and people don't seek to understand 'naughtiness'. They just label the child and assume poor parenting. Coping with that stigma was only part of Paula's challenge. Teaching Jessie to adapt, to fit in, to develop and share emotional intelligence has been Paula's constant journey, which has transformed her as a human being.

Her levels of patience have skyrocketed.
Her capacity to tolerate and love has escalated.
Her openness and transparency with the boy she adores has deepened.

You will hear her claim that if one surrenders to the challenge then there is every possibility that your life will be enriched beyond your expectations. Mind you, it helps if you surround yourself with a valued environment of support. To that end, Paula praises the way St Patrick's College, Shorncliffe, here in Brisbane, has embraced the challenge of a sometimes difficult to manage, ADHD child. Together, they have worked to sedate Jessie with love, kindness and understanding and the rewards are obvious. They have even made Jessie's tendency to hyperfocus into his super strength, that can bring enormous value to those working in Jessie's areas of interest. 

The impact on Paula has been so profound that she now dedicates her life to teaching, coaching, and guiding those in similar situations to her own. Her business called BEYOND THE MAZE raises awareness in society and supports parents in their coping with children who have similar neurodevelopment disorders. 

This is an incredible story of a career driven, qualified, financial planner who became a devoted mother determined to help her son be the best person he can be. This is a story about the courage to change purpose. This is a story about love overflowing. It is now time for you to allow Paula Burgess to become your teacher.

Before finishing this podcast make sure you look up Paula's Business and Book ... Beyond the ADHD Label - Beyond the Maze ... and The Official Website of Dr Joe Dispenza

So, what is Zoe? What does she do? Is she an experienced Facilitator? Is she a qualified Guide or an expert teacher?
Her clients would say she is all of the above.

Put it this way, after listening to this episode, you will understand how Zoe Slater, can help you clean up your past, so that your entrenched limiting beliefs are replaced by innate faith and confidence. Zoe can help you clarify your future too, so that you live each day with purpose and focus. Zoe Slater can lead you to the awarenesses, actions and strategies that can transform your life from past entrenched stress to present day success. She is a master coach.
 
So, if you are a workplace leader or manager and struggling to connect with your people's hearts, then you must listen to this episode. Zoe will help you to sacrifice need for power and status and replace it with heart, loving assertion and authentic connection.
If you are struggling to develop momentum in your life ... If you are feeling stagnant, then this episode will offer you holistic strategies to rediscover energy and purpose.
If you feel that traumas of the past are holding you back, then Zoe will offer you a transformational pathway to discover greater self-love and happiness.
If your personal and professional lives are feeling meshed and cluttered, then this professional will teach you to clear the fog and see clearer pathways.

Yeah, I know, she sounds too good to be true! It is her ability to communicate in simplest terms what most people find complex that is Zoe's richest talent, but to do that, you really have to 'know your stuff'. Zoe not only knows what she coaches, she IS what she coaches. She lives what you will hear. She knows life intimately.

She has actually saved people from the brink of suicide and enabled them to find joy and happiness again.
She has worked with countless, unbalanced, out of control, confused individuals suffering in their own minds and guided them to clarity and peace.
She has learnt from all and operates not from Maslow, Freud or Carl Rogers. She operates from her own model inspired by real experiences with thousands of clients.

Enjoy the ride dear people. Make sure you are taking notes. This one is a ripper. 

Yes, Zoe would love to hear from you, Call her on +61 414 778 476 ... and so would I ... +61 412 982 444 (Bernie K)

This episode actually reminds us that we are all coaches to someone. Therefore, this episode with Lee Addison, asks you some serious in your face questions.
What are you doing to strengthen the relationship with those you guide and love?
How do you as COACH, enhance the wellbeing of those who are dearest to you?
What do you do to lift the esteem, worth and value of friends and family, so that they can perform better in the game of life?
And finally, what are you doing and saying to elevate the life of the one person over whom you have total control ... the person of self ... YOU!!

For all of the above, you must have a listen to this rugby league teaching guru, who has coached junior, senior, and National rugby league teams all over the world. Imagine, what Lee learnt when he coached an undefeated Poland to victory in the Emerging Nations World Trophy of 2018.
Absorb the lessons he learnt as an assistant coach at NRL clubs, Manly Sea Eagles and Penrith Panthers.
Value the learnings, he offers after taking Ipswich State High School, a school with a 'disreputable brand', to becoming the top Rugby League school in this nation. Through sport, Lee Addison changed that school's identity from which all students benefited, then and now.

Look in the mirror dear listener and remind yourself that you are COACH and therefore you must discover ways to add value to those you cherish. Lee Addison, has some outstanding suggestions for you. Suggestions that if you apply will have your players remembering you with gratitude and fondness for the rest of their days.

Do you want to contact Lee? ... https://rugbyleaguecoach.com.au/

And of course, if you want to have a chat with Bernie then call +61 412 982 444 or email him at ...
... bernie.kelly@outlook.com

More impressive than Jana Lipinska's vagabond lifestyle is the incredible paradigms and perceptions Jana has accumulated from her wide range of different experiences. In this regard, Jana is mature beyond her years. In fact, I would say that she has superior spiritually awareness and is uniquely gifted. Her abilities to take what most would find complex and talk with such clarity and understanding is truly remarkable. Whether you are seeking it or not, you are about to learn more than you anticipated. Jana's capacity to communicate clearly will penetrate.

You will be asking yourself ... "How did she become this self-aware being"?

Well imagine if you too left your native land with the equivalent of just 350AUD to live in another country. 
Now that takes faith and courage. For sure that is going to deliver new and valuable experiences and it did.
What would you do if you ran out of money after 3 months exploring Cambodia and Vietnam?
Jana decided to stay, work and live there for the next 5 years!
In fact, she became a model and an actress while living in Asia. She was very good at both.
And when misfortune came your way, would you choose to retreat and live alone in the jungles of Bali in order to emotionally heal?
And upon healing might you think that would be a good time to choose a stint at home!
Not for Jana, she chooses Australia, which she says now feels like HOME.

Dear listeners, you are in for a treat. You are meeting one of the rare ones. In this single hour, it is possible to see self, people and life with greater clarity. That is not Jana's hope. That is her gift.

Please contact Jana directly. She would so welcome your feedback as I do ...
Jana Lipinska ... janalipinskaxx@gmail.com ... +61 412 366 787
Bernie Kelly ... bernie.kelly@outlook.com ... +61 412 982 444

The first however, was Matthew Barber Episode 33 who was quite happy to announce that the pathway to liberation is his choice and his episode is exactly that ... enlightening ! ... https://open.spotify.com/episode/13AiqvICoaZiugTzfeYSX0?si=eea6899f162e4c1e

The second is Louise Bennet, the only person to appear on our podcast 3 times. Louise is 'the beautiful', who discovered her uncompromising pathway to a greater joyful life, through embracing a mastectomy while combating her breast cancer. Her story is beautifully told in Episodes 60, 63 and 64. You should not miss them ... https://open.spotify.com/episode/1PvhH16CXYc7VhGs4MX1Cm?si=9e72f811119c45df

Louise returns in this podcast as my co-host and joyfully announces that she is now in remission and is going to Nepal with us this November to trek the Himalayas. Yes, you read that correctly. Just months after being medically informed that her cancer was in decline, Louise continues to choose greater life. This time, by retreating to the most powerful forces of nature upon our planet. There is a profound message here about how greater life can be found in those who truly understand death.

It is not surprising that Louise's remarkable journey has led her to beautiful companionship with today's guest ... BRENDAN RAMNATH. Like Louise he is in his early 30's, but this young man is courage personified. Many people hear their calling but only few are fearless enough to ardently follow it. As Brendan describes, he too is climbing a life ladder, but his rungs are steps along the way that only lead to greater inner joy and an enhanced capacity to love self, life and people. The rungs of his ladder, he calls virtues. His first is AWARENESS. It is high level AWARENESS that allows him to choose his experience in most given moments. He rarely falls victim to 'monkey mind' and its continuous bombardment of distracting messages. Living his virtues of HONESTY and AWARENESS simultaneously, means it is not possible for Brendan to be false, fake, ego in that moment. BRENDAN RAMNATH is walking AUTHENTICITY.

Of course, you will be challenged in this episode, but isn't that what A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE is all about?
Wait until he explains the value of living without time metrics by turning off the clock on your iPhone or getting rid of your watches. BRENDAN sleeps without alarms and rarely misses an appointment!

Heh, this Episode is a thought provoker. It will make you consider that, of which you may not have even been aware.
Embrace it. Listen and consider, and you will leave this episode a richer human being. You might even find the time to read two books, so strongly recommended by Louise and Brendan.

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, and Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Like this episode, both are game changers!

Do you want to speak to Brendan and/or Louise directly? 
Brendan ... +61 481 868 742
Louise Bennet ... +61 406 512 389
I want to speak to you for sure! I want your feedback!
Bernie Kelly ... + 61 412 982 444

What should you be learning from nature that can bring you greater peace, calm, and joy to your life?
How often should you be seeking Nature's gifts?
How does the space and chill time that nature offers impact one's life?
What don't we see in country that is known by our indigenous brothers and sisters?
What might our lives look like if we too lived by instinct as does the animal kingdom, rather than by laws, policies and perspectives of what is right and wrong bestowed upon us by governance, council and religious frameworks?

If answers to the above questions are not flowing for you, then you simply must listen to this episode with Brendon Nilsson. Apply Brendon's suggestions and I can promise you that life will take on a whole different feel and flow.

Thanks to Brandon, a new segment was introduced to the show. 'Book of the Episode' introduces you to two great reads Book of Man by Osho who was once described by an American reporter as the most dangerous man since Jesus Christ. Now that means he was making some interesting and challenging noises !!! Our guest Brandon was a bit of a fan!
The other book is an absolute classic ... Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom ... It's not often you will hear me advocate to you our listeners that any book is compulsory but imagine me looking you in the eyes right now and quietly mouthing this C word ... COMPULSORY!! Well, it's a COMPULSORY read if you like our guest just loves the journey of discovering more, exploring your possibilities and becoming that joyful lover of life.

Brendon is contactable on +61 407 511 820, and of course I, Bernie Kelly, welcome your call, your feedback, your interest in Nepal anytime. Please ring me on +61 412 982 444.

www.journeywithbernie.co

So here in Episode 79, Chip leaves us with a description of his own journey, identifying those lessons that have greatly influenced his life over the last few years. As usual, he describes the complex with simplicity in the most masterful of ways. If ever you wondered what the collective influence of all of these wise thoughts, ideas and actions offered by our guests could be, then this is the episode that will 'rid you of your bloopers, open up your lens and reveal a magical world of possibilities'.

And as a finale, if ever you wanted to hear what love actually sounds and feels like between two heterosexual great mates, who despite 25 years of difference, were blessed to find each other than the ending of this podcast will enlighten you.

So, to Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy, I on behalf of our near 10000 listeners simply say, "Go forth, you masterful Yoda of the Lens. Snap your camera. Call for 'Action' and brighten the globe with your smorgasbord of wisdom, truths and cinematic enlightenment" ... for this is what you have brought to us in different forms over the last two years. 

We salute you.

To give your own personal thanks to 'Chip', text him on ... +61 410 603 336
Do you have some feedback for Bernie about how to add even more value to the Podcast. 
You know how I would love to hear from you ... +61 412 982 444

Wind the clock on 20 plus years and Yvonne Haeaefke is living her second life. This time there is no suppression or cofusion. Yvonne is living her dream in alignment with values and her true self. Her home is Australia whereas a qualified Registered Nurse and Allied Health Professional, Yvonne has experienced a taste of her childhood. So many people battling mental health challenges such as addiction, anxiety, and depression reminded her of her formative years. These encounters spoke strongly and inspired her to recently open up her own private practice. Her mission is to empower people to overcome their self-sabotaging habits so they can live a peaceful, loving and fulfilled life. She seeks to help others break free from their conditioned past just like she had too. She assists them to break the cycle of feeling overwhelmed by life's forces and challenges, just as she had too all those years ago. It's as if the lessons of Yvonne Haeaefke in East Germany is now the therapy and process by which her troubled clients can find a pathway to a greater happiness, joy and love for self ... just like Yvonne found in her incredible journey, which you are now blessed to embrace in this extraordinary episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE ... and CHIP.  

YVONNE HAEAEFKE   📞. +61 411 891 402 ... Insightful Out
BERNIE KELLY 📞. +61 412 982 444 ... bernie.kelly@outlook.com

Is it possible to develop a solid love for self without an almost sacred respect for our body?

While not said precisely in those words, Sammy and this highly informative discussion certainly advocates the value in first learning to be in awe of our most incredible machine. Through her own painful uncertain journey and most powerful discoveries, Sammy Barnett is clear that the way you treat your body is one of the greater determinants of your wellbeing and happiness.

Sammy was 11, when she first experienced signs of Generalised Anxiety and Panic Disorder. Social Anxiety, Depression and plummeting self-value were her constant companions throughout school life and early adulthood. Her road to greater health led to the discovery of how food and lifestyle choices impact wellbeing, moods and relationships. Consequently, her passion for Nutritional Medicine was inspired and now drives her daily mission to revolutionize nutrition education, particular in our schools. This is why you are going to hear and understand gem after gem from this International expert. Here is a taste (if you'll excuse the pun) ...

• It's not just what you eat that is important, it's more about what you ABSORB.
• Did you know that the trillion plus bacteria in our microbiome, far outnumber the amount of cells in our body?
• When you consider that intermittent fasting and intuitive eating allow these trillion bacteria to ignite a cleansing detox of damaged and potentially pre-cancerous cells, then maybe it is the healthy balance of bacteria families in our gut that are actually core to our overall health and wellbeing.
• Therefore, beware of certain anti-biotics, which have the capacity to destroy gut bacteria. There maybe other ways.
• Value natural food sources rather than processed vitamin and probiotic pills to build a strong, fully functioning microbiome. Afterall, we too are a natural being.

The volume of advices that this episode offers are immense.

In fact, may I suggest that you have a note pad and pen and maybe the first message you should write down is simply this ... Respect for my body is your foundation for greatest self-love.
And for that profound message, you can thank Sammy Barnett.

Call Sammy to share your own wellbeing journey ... +61 421 665 889
Catch Sammy on Instagram too ... nutritionwithsammy 
Don't forget A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE ... and CHIP on Instagram either ... berniekelly103
And for feedback about this episode, contact Bernie K on +61 412 982 444 or bernie@journeywithbernie.co
Chip wants to say 'hello' too ... +61 410 603 336 ... info@journeywithbernie.co

PS Chip mentioned a terrific highly recommended app ... make sure you download it ... THE MINDFUL EATING COACH

Janeen advocates that you raise your children as if they were your grandchildren. She suggests parents dilute the heavy-handed guidance, the directing, the demanding, that conditions the child to only see life according to their parent’s shaping. She suggests we give the child more space to discover their true self by offering less influence, in the same way that most grandparents enjoy their grandchild, without taking full responsibility for them. (Consider that in light of the lessons from Hilary Langford and the Enneagram in episodes 71-73.)

And how about this for a thought! Janeen suggests we are part of our own ‘ancestral chain’ with traceable scientific evidence that seven preceding generations genetically live within us. Accepting this as truth, it also means that we therefore influence the 7 generations to come. Given that each generation spans 20 to 30 years, Jeneen presents the value of seeing our life with a sense of responsibility for the next two centuries.

Maybe our life isn’t as fleeting as we thought? Maybe, our decisions today do carry weight for generations to come? Is anybody thinking Climate Change?

Thank you, Janeen, for reminding us that our personal brand can only be seen as solid when we act consistently. We must minimise the surprises when it comes to our behaviour. The stronger your brand the more consistent you have to be!

Thank you, Janeen, for teaching us first to see ourselves as human and not as a product of our Australian, European or American cultural CONDITIONING.

This woman is a master coach making this episode so very profound. Gee, you will enjoy Janeen Vosper!

Also enjoy talking directly to Janeen on +61 413 940 117 or by emailing her: janeen@janeenvosper.com

Don’t forget to take up her reading recommendations too: The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, and Patient 71 by Julie Randall.

Chip's Take Home Pay

Global Variation in Subjective Well-Being Predicts Seven Forms of Altruism - Shawn A. Rhoads, Devon Gunter, Rebecca M. Ryan, Abigail A. Marsh, 2021 (sagepub.com)

Finally, we too love hearing from you
Bernie K: +61 412982444, bernie@journeywithbernie.co
Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy: +61 410 603 336, chip@journeywithbernie.co

1. You can make all the money in the world, but be the least successful person who ever lived.
2. If you can't keep your word to yourself it simply shows how little regard you have for yourself.
3. Failure is not some out-of-the-blue, colossal sudden event. It usually arises from not doing all of the little things over a long period of time. 
4. Love is so wild, it is so free, so infinite in itself, it cannot be defined.
5. Your discipline reflects the love you have for you.
6. When was the last time you stepped into the unknown?

Rarely has an episode discussed so many topics in such a hard-edged punchy way. In less than an hour, you will be teased and prodded as to why an Adventurous Lifestyle is somewhat mandatory if you seek to maximise your life. Coupled with Adventure comes the Fun of Playing, another concept that has gone missing in western lifestyles. Our guest, Andrew Cominos will even share with you the pros and cons of a different adventure: Polyamory, the practice of having multiple intimate relationships with the consent of all parties involved. Andrew tells it as it is, because he has been there! The discussion from the 28:52 mark of this episode is riveting. Bravely, Andrew goes into great depth as to how polyamory can work for some and why for most, it cannot. It is a discussion that will challenge many, be convenient for some and will intrigue most.

At age 35 Andrew Cominos has already had a tumultuous life, but he has used the lessons of it wisely. His journey has culminated in a rare business creation called Project Remarkable. It is rare because there is no doubt that everything Andrew does in this business is a full extension of his values. You get the feeling that the activities of his business are what he would do anyway, irrespective of the dollars it generates - a bit like this podcast. Like Andrew, we find it hard to call this work!

Consequently, you will meet a truly unique sales coach, who believes that business performance has little to do with special skills or techniques but everything to do with the synergy between personal fulfillment and your love for what you do, under the banner of work. So, to help people rediscover or find that fulfilment, this sales coach takes his clients into the world of the wild, into extraordinary adventures that allow them to play, feel joy, and reconnect with their true selves, enabling them to talk about a business that truly reflects that real self. Such business is rarely a strain. When it is congruent with the real you, it is a joy. Stress then is not part of the equation.

Perhaps the quote that Andrew delivers in this podcast about the 'purpose of life' best summarises what awaits you: enjoy and maximise the passage of time.

If you feel you are not doing this, then stick in the earpieces and dive into this episode.

Bernie K: +61 412 982 444
Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy: +61 410 603 336
www.journeywithbernie.co 

Well, nothing. And everything.

On the one hand, Em’s new personal business is now smashing it as a Marketing Strategist, Coach and Trainer. On the other hand, her journey since arriving in Oz raises many questions about the Australian style of management. You see, Em was a girl born of tribal ways where the building of community was a central focus. Values such as personal connection, seeing the good in all, servitude, listening, ‘tough love’, and valuing people’s opinions defined Em’s management style. She held regular meetings at her home, where her fridge and food were open to all. They were equals, not subordinates. She built productive teams quickly. Her people not only respected her; they adored her. But this didn’t sit well with the rest of the executive team, whose status-seeking, power-laden, righteous, protect-thyself ways clashed with Em’s style…and her results. 

This episode will question you: Do you build community? Is building community around you even important to you? Or do you prefer a sheltered way of living, where knowing your neighbour is perceived to dilute your own privacy? Does this reflect your fear of connecting with people? 

If this is you, then you must hear Emmagness talk of the Ubuntu concept: 'I am because you are'. 

It is a concept that honours and draws from the wisdom of the past, and hearing Em explain it will lift your awareness of the powerful potential for community in your own life.

It would appear to me that out of this episode one will come to realise that inner joy and love of life, people and self is impossible without the contribution to and building of strong supportive communities.

Emmagness Ruzvidzo: Marketing Strategist, Coach & Trainer, VAKA Consulting
T. +61 0468322800         
E. emmagness@vaka.com.au
Website. vaka.com.au 

Bernie K +61 412 982 444

Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy +61 410 603 336

The discussion that evolves about how two contrasting personalities and characters such as Bernie and Chip can work together is a lesson about maximising connection. It is a study of how to partner and an educational message to those who want to create greater teamwork.

On the surface, the episodes of the last three weeks may appear to be a little self-indulgent, but in reality they are a message about the power of vulnerability and transparency. A Journey With Bernie and Chip offers you two outstanding case studies to increase your understanding of self by enhancing your awareness of what really happens in this game of life.

For more information on the Enneagram contact Hilary Langford on +61 417 797 374
Bernie K: +61 412 982 444
Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy: +61 410 603 336

Of course, for you, the take home pay is obvious. In this episode, your're encouraged to use Bernie K as your own case study. Use this robust, revealing discussion to analyse and identify your own patterns of behaviour, which may influence your own perceptions and paradigms of the world you experience. 

Rarely has A Journey With Bernie and Chip been, so open, so authentic and so real as this one. We are so looking forward to your comments and feedback. Don’t hold back, dear listeners!

For more information on the Enneagram contact Hilary Langford on +61 417 797 374
Bernie K: +61 412 982 444
Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy: +61 410 603 336

Professionally, she has been a dynamo, where she has led 1000s of teambuilding workshops and leadership trainings for any number of local and global companies in so many countries. However, when it comes to identifying that one coaching instrument in which she is 'Queen', then you need to hear Hilary talk of the Enneagram. The Enneagram is a powerful self-awareness tool that allows any individual to recognise how the events and experiences of childhood helped to mould a pattern of responses that move with you throughout life. These 9 fundamental patterns, which effectively define how one sees and responds to the world, arise from the child's want for acceptance and approval from parents and one's immediate environment. The fascinating learning is that as they travel with us. They can work for us or against us for the rest of our life. Hilary Langford is an expert in facilitating the teachings and learnings that the Enneagram has taught for 18 centuries, when first conceived by a Christian mystic who lived in Alexandria, Egypt during the 4th century. So you can imagine, the value Hilary brings to this episode, as she shares with us how our layer of patterned responses can determine our own capacity to find joy and love for self and others. It makes this episode rich in 'take home pays'.

Hilary is a storyteller. She loves to quote those who are even wiser than her (and there aren't too many). Couple this with her high degree of transparency and comfort with vulnerability and you have a listening experience that is engaging and ever so rich in valuable learnings. For example, in the final third of this interview, you will hear Hilary speak of the second love of her life. It is there that you will learn of some beautiful ingredients that inspire true 'treasured love' between dedicated partners.

Then there was her discovery of space before busyness and why we are all born with a reservoir of love deep inside us. In Hilary's words, we were born as a gem ... a rare jewel ... a light of love. I sense these may well be the words and phrases you will use at the end of this episode to describe our beautiful guest.

This podcast makes reference to a wonderful book which should be on your must-read list: 'Sapiens' by Yuval Noah Harari (ynharari.com)

Please visit www.journeywithbernie.co to receive your FREE GIFT FOR YOU from our podcast guests.

Chip's Take Home Pay

The Enneagram Personality Test (truity.com)
Enneagram Type Descriptions - The Enneagram Institute

Hilary Langford welcomes your enquiry ... +61 417 797 374
So too does Bernie and Chip ... +61 412 982 444

Joe Maier - Wikipedia
Father Joe, Bangkok’s Priest to the Poor, Thrives Among Fellow Outcasts - The New York Times (nytimes.com)

You will read how Father Joe, together with the equally extraordinary Sister Maria and Sister Joan, have administered the ongoing refuge of The Mercy Centre, which has become a hub of grace, love and strength for all slum residents. Thirty-three schools inspired by Father Joe and his team now serve the needs of the slum children. These achievements are but a few.  His lifetime achievement award presented by Her Majesty the Queen of Thailand says it all. His story must be told.

There are stories in this episode that will strangle your emotions. There are stories in which I lost it. You too will struggle to remain composed. There are stories that will delight you. There are stories here that the whole world must know about, which is why James Lingwood is passionate about bringing a feature film of Father Joe's life into the hearts and lounge rooms of television viewers worldwide. 

Please watch the short 15-minute documentary Through The Eyes Of Children. It will give you a feel for the power and value of James Lingwood's film to come.

If you don't need any more validation than this film and this episode to want to financially contribute, then it is as simple as visiting this tax-deductible website:

A Light in the Slaughterhouse | Documentary Australia

All proceeds will ensure that this story is told to millions worldwide and so it should. It is one of the best ever told on A Journey With Bernie & Chip.

You are about to experience Life through a Camera Lens ... the Lens of Producer and Director James Lingwood. I asked Google to share with me what it knew of James and in reply, it first sent me this comment ... "There is no doubt that James pushes the envelope a lot further than most people. Throughout the years, I have worked with a lot of people in the production business, and I have not found anyone more professional, focused or creative than James. I have worked with him on the road for over 100 days and I'm so looking forward to the next 100."
It was a testimonial quote from a Celebrity Presenter who James directed for months on end. 
Focused, Creative, Connectable, Driver, Making it Happen, Resilient, Spontaneous, Living in the Now ... You will hear the power of all of these qualities when they collectively fashion, mould and shape a life. This is what high profile actors like Jackie Chan and Geoffrey Rush so valued in James Lingwood.

It is also why James has received over sixty film and television awards for his outstanding cinematography and why he is now only one of 85 members of the prestigious International Quorum of Motion Picture Producers in the USA. IQ membership can only be offered on the recommendation of a peer and consists of 80 plus of the world's most awarded film and television producer-directors from 45 countries. Just based on this resume, your appetite for this episode should be ravenous, but if you have the time to watch this short masterful film piece by James Lingwood, then you might start salivating ... https://bit.ly/slaughterhouse-daf

Early in this episode, you will hear of a film called VOYAGE OF THE GREAT SOUTHERN ARK in which James captured landscapes that were 4 Billion years old. Needless to say, James will teach you about the value and benefit of seeing yourself as insignificant.

You will hear and understand how French Films of the 1980's sparked within James the power of spontaneity, creativity and innovation and provided a platform for James to explore the world one day at a time.

You will hear what deep compassion looks like, when James shares with you the story of Fr Joe, the Irish priest working in the slums of Bangkok. You may feel a tear.

This is a rich episode from a guest who in some ways actually lives the title of the book which features in this episode ... The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson ... yet on the other hand, its richness is in the power of James Lingwood to unselfishly share himself, his passion and his values through film inspired by his Lens view of Life.

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However, one would have thought that when an individual at the age of 42, is officially declared so 'visually impaired' that all she can see are blurred shadowy movements, that they would experience ‘loss’, a little bit of ‘why me’ and have that tinge of feeling sorry for oneself. I am sure that to some extent Narelle must have had her moments, but no one would know it from the energetic, fully alive approach, that is this woman’s everyday demeanor. This mother of three ‘kicks ass’ and as per her farming heritage, she accepts the challenge and nothing is going to stop her from experiencing the fullness of life. Consequently, she, with her family, her beautiful guide dog and her cane, leave for Europe very soon.

The messages of this episode are clear … 

It’s not what happens to you that determines the quality of your life, it is how you respond and move forward.

It doesn’t matter the circumstance, your integrity is uncompromisable.

If you want to help disabled or marginalised persons, don’t assume ‘they can’t … they can and most, want you to foster their independence.

If you want understand more about LOVE, than study Narelle’s Guide Dog! It is a relationship about ‘being there for each other’, built on total trust and celebrated joy. Three ingredients which Narelle suggests probably has a place in all human relationships as well! Welcome to the profound story of Narelle Gatti ... a blind lady who maximises what IS, not what she doesn't have. What an inspiration!

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Ben Hosking is an 11-year veteran with the Northern Territory Police. To hear his story of one of his first 'call outs' to address a domestic violence incident in Tennant Creek is both enlightening and hilarious given that he 'tased' himself not the perpetrator. It is the way he tells the story, that will so entertain you. However, let not his humorous description of this one encounter hide the fact that you are meeting an extraordinary talent and highly skilled human. Ben Hosking is an expert dealing with High-Risk Domestic Crime and Counter Terrorism. He is accomplished in Dignitary Protection having provided safe environments and passage for Manny Pacquaio during his 'Battle of Brisbane' boxing bout with Jeff Horn, and for HRH Prince Harry and Prince William during their visits to Australia.

He has frequently attracted extraordinary assignments offering close personal protection for Ultra High Net Worth individuals and their families. His story of protecting such a family as they played on the beach of a Pacific Island on one of their holiday ventures is delightful. As 'Chip' points out, Ben gives us insights into the lives of the 'rich and famous' and helps us realize that there is little value for ourselves or for them when we choose to idolise.

Such a different brilliant episode.

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It was Victor Frankl who said, "We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts, comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way."

Mary Scott could have been an ally to the great Austrian Psychiatrist for she too saw humankind's choice to respond to deeply deprived states. It wasn't Auschwitz, but it was Nauru, a Pacific Island and an offshore Australian Immigration Detention Facility. It was there that she saw people give up and take their own lives. They had lost purpose. She witnessed those whose behavior became depraved in the face of perceived hopelessness and it was there that she also saw greatness in those who refused to let their environment determine their identity. Mary Scott had an experience of Viktor Frankl in action.

Mary is a Godsend for so many women who find themselves in the second half of life seeking a fresh start. They have done their childbearing. They have contributed to society and now they seek a new existence, but where do they start?
Enter Mary Scott, a trained Psychotherapist and 'Confidence Coach' who teaches them to first manage that voice inside which questions their possibilities. Mary helps them to turn down the volume on the voice that says they are not good enough. In her own words, "What a joy it is to watch them come out of the shadows, to reclaim their power and to discover a greater self."

This born storyteller is about to delight, educate and turn on your light switch. 
You are about to discover that a few of your light bulbs haven't been turned on for quite a while.
Please enjoy the Mary Scott journey!

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At one stage of his fight career, Dane was so good that no one in his weight division would fight him. He had to put on 4 kgs of muscle without losing his trademark speed and footwork just to find worthy opponents. Changing the shape of his body was tough dedicated work. He trained every day. His discipline was legendary, and this is where Dane offered us so much.

"Being disciplined is the ultimate self-love."

Wait till you hear what Dane has to say at the 20-minute mark about the importance of routine, discipline, effort, energy life and self-love. It's not for me to elaborate on his message, it's up to you to absorb a wisdom so profound. In addition, the metaphor Dane offered comparing life to the continuous mental battle between throwing your own punches while running the risk of being hit hard by life was powerful. The way he explains why attacking life is so much more important than worrying how hard it will hit you is insightful. His reasoning is so insightful. It sort of reminded me of the old Rocky Balboa clip where 'The Rock' had this to say to his protecting, safe and conservative son ... Rocky's Inspirational Speech to His Son | ROCKY BALBOA (youtube.com)

It's almost ironic that we could learn so much about love for self and life through a pugilist, but it is Dane's constant dedication to the battle which allows him to understand life so much more than most. The take home pay in this episode will delight you.

P.S. So too is the announcement that our JOURNEY WITH BERNIE ... and CHIP website has been launched. Every episode is now available to you at a click of a button ... A Journey With Bernie & Chip – Strategies and actions to live a joyful, loving, meaningful life. It also means that our email address has changed too ... bernie@journeywithbernie.co
The mobile contact number still remains ... +61 412982444, and don't forget to contact Dane either ... +61 404469834. He so wants to hear from you.

P.S.S. Can you believe that Bernie left me out of the contact list. 'Sabotage' I say! How did you respond to Chip's TAKE HOME PAY? I so want your feedback ... chip@journeywithbernie.co ... +61 410603336

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Yet, her response to this arduous, chaotic and painful journey has led to her discovery of her higher true self. She is now a person driven by love as a purpose. In episode 60, you met an ANGEL OF JOY already on the pathway to becoming a liberated person ... and there of course lays the paradox. 

The learnings from that episode were profound, but little did we know that virtually her entire adult journey has been documented in the form of brilliant, graphic, extraordinary poetry and prose. Each poem extraordinarily captures the state, the fight, the light that Louise was experiencing in that moment. Each poem is a precious gift describing life in that moment. The learnings encapsulated in Louise's writings are powerful and potent.
 
This is a unique episode, in which a young woman shares her most private writings, so that you the listener may discover wisdoms without encountering the potential torment that has intruded Louise's life. Still, the miracle needs to be understood. Why is it that Louise doesn't it see as an unworthy intervention? Her cancer is welcome, as it sheds the trauma of her past leaving her to see the beauty and the love that truly defines her.

If you would like a copy of Louise's extraordinary anthology of poems heard on this podcast plus an understanding of what she was teaching us, then simply text Bernie on +61 412982444 or email him on ... bernie.kelly@outlook.com.
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Margarita Aunei-Stowers is the Founder and CEO of a remarkable charity called Giv3 Our Time. They feed the Homeless with food, love and hope. After you hear her story and the unrelenting purpose of her life, you will at the least, want to donate, so joyfully I give you access to their website via their donation page ... www.giv3ourtime.com/donate/ ... you must visit it.

Margarita certainly knows suffering. 
She felt suffering when she too lived without shelter in the deadly Vines St, Sunset Bvld and Argyle Ave of Hollywood. That was terrifying. 
She encountered a deep suffering, when with her fellow 'Homies', she too received the daily gift of 'isolation' from a world that arrogantly walked silently by. 
Does anybody really care? Who cares? 
This was a powerful mental and emotional suffering.
She suffered every time she had to ask permission to use a bathroom or to enter a grocery store for nothing but basics.
This was the suffering of being harshly judged for not having a shower.
She experienced the suffering of not knowing how to pick herself up and rise again, of not knowing where to turn ... this was the suffering of 'no hope', which was her existence for many years both in the avenues of Los Angeles and streets of Brisbane.

Somehow, someway, Margarita was able to find a pathway out. Maybe it was her faith relationship with God, founded at a very early age, that kept her searching. Maybe it was the thousands of muttered prayers murmured through the trembling lips of her beautiful and believing mother. Who knows from where Margarita's resolve came, but somehow, she eventually found a simple shelter here in the Brisbane bayside suburb of Wynnum. She is thankful.

Time and gratitude have now allowed her to convert the sufferings of her past into a deep spiritual richness. 

Her passion is unstoppable now, as she feeds the 'Homeless' of Southeast Queensland with heart, belief and some good old Aussie tucker, that invites the 'Homeless' to smile, to open up, to share, to solve, as they joyfully feed their undernourished bodies. So far, her data suggests, she and her devoted team have fed 20000 such marginalized citizens so far. For many of them, Margarita has become their Mother Teresa.

Her work appears to be endless with the arrival of new persons into Central Brisbane streets at an alarming rate. 
In her words, we all are suffering a crisis.

This is why, she will more than appreciate your donation. It helps. 
However, more than that she actually wants the currency of your personal energy and time. She wants you to call her and volunteer ... work with her ... even if just for an hour a week. She wants businesses large and small, to offer their goods and actively get involved as part of the solution. She seeks to educate the ignorant ... to help humble people like you and I to understand that all things are impermanent and that 'the people of the street' are really your brother or your sister in disguise. No-one is immune from the possibility of this desolate, isolating, homeless outcome.

Prepare yourself for one heck of a ride dear listeners, and as you approach the end of this podcast make sure your phone is handy, because you will want to call or text the mobile number of this 'Angel of the Street' ... 

Margarita Stowers ... +61 405 201 880

You may have heard the term 'tough love'. Think of parents who must say 'No' to their child when the pressure is on to give them what they want. The assertion is 'tough'. The reason behind a parent's strong stance is protection, security and love of their child.
What about the times when the same child sees close friends being bullied in the playground?
 
Do they love their comrade enough to take a stance against the oppressor?
 
The assertive stance reflects the loving connection between two friends.

How many times does an injustice call for a voice?

Does our want to inspire a loving spirit demand that we speak the uncommon truth?

The paradox! Love and Assertion. Love and Aggression. Love and Violence. All part of the same family.

This is the message of Tim Alexander, a strong Christian man, who teaches a potent self-defence system called Krav Maga. Developed for the Israel Defense Forces, it is derived from a combination of techniques used in Aikido, Judo, Karate, Boxing, and Wrestling. Tim is one of the world elite instructors. He is so accomplished that his coaching skill is called upon by Law Enforcement, Tactical Shooting, and the Military. As an Expert Level 4 instructor, he is the only person in the Southern Hemisphere with that rank. He is amongst the global best.

But it is as a man of peace that Tim explains how the confidence to protect oneself against angry or threatening foes means a greater capacity to meet all situations with a calm, assured and strong mind. It diminishes the need to flee. It reduces the need to fight, but if necessary, it also enhances one's capacity to assert, to aggress with strength, and consequently resolve and facilitate solution.

For the first time in 60 episodes of A Journey With Bernie...and Chip, Love and Aggression have found unity.

Be prepared to be intrigued.

The Book of Joy by Douglas Abrams with the Dalia llama was recommended in this podcast. It is a must read:

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Contact Tim for personal training programs. Women and children personal defence classes are offered by Tim.
Embrace them! They are certain to give a confidence that is likely to invade all dimensions of your life.

For those of you, who are looking for fight choreography in your latest film or maybe a superb public speaker at your next event then Tim should be on your list. Email me at a special address created just for this podcast: ajourneywithbernie@tim-alexander.com.au

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If there is one thing that A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE ... and CHIP has come to know in its first 50 plus episodes is that life seems to delight in inflicting a traumatic challenge upon all at some stage of their years on this Earth. In Brittany's case, life has possibly been unfair. It has overworked this young lady beyond reason. Her story will be deemed as shocking by some but listen intently and you will quickly move past the tears to periods of joy and celebration, as you hear of Brittany's courage, her fight and her ardent commitment to maximise her life regardless of past chaos. Prepare for an extraordinary story right up there with our very very best. You will probably cry with Brittany, but you will also feel her hope. You will enjoy her too. Brittany is full of life and has some strong advices for everyone, including our politicians and national leaders. It makes sense too! The Camino of Spain has been a contributor to Brittany's redemption and she thinks it should be a prepatory ground for true leadership. You will learn how this VIPASSANA experience is already reshaping her view of her life. She is now seeing that the potent pain of her life to date is just part of her journey ... nothing more ... nothing less. She is thankful for the notion of IMPERMANENCE so crucial to being able to release herself from suffering and being grateful for her many gifts. Be prepared to be inspired. Be prepared to shed a tear. Be prepared to be awakened for this next hour will certainly enrich your life.

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As we approach the end of 2023, Chip and I have nothing but thanks and gratitude to you, our listeners, for taking this Podcast to another realm. Thousands of listeners per week, SUBSCRIPTIONS and FOLLOWSHIP  increasing substantially, now YouTube visual … https://youtube.com/@AJourneyWithBernie?si=NduAt9X-g3D5rIlM … and 52 countries around the globe are embracing their Friday episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE. We are so appreciative to an incredible array of guests whose stories and wisdoms have just elevated our podcast to this global audience. 

Do tell … do you have a favorite? 

Please hop on YouTube or Spotify and tell us which episode most resonated with you and why? 

This year, you have given us an incredible foundation for 2024, where we will seek to multiply our impact to a truly world class podcast.

The impact of ‘Chip’ Huddy’s weekly LOADED QUESTIONS  and TAKE HOME PAY segments have made this Podcast so valuably different. It therefore won’t surprise you that in 2024 the branding will recognise Chip’s significant contributions to come. In 2024, you will be welcomed to A JOURNEY WITH Bernie … and CHIP!! 

Your feedback also tells us that we are offering you so much more than just a Podcast. In your words, we are offering a lifestyle … a way of life … and as such, we will invite you to join us in exploring possibilities beyond the podcast towards generating sustainable inner happiness, a greater capacity to love and consequently more meaning in our humble lives. The launch of the 2024 website will guide you toward events, activities, challenges, books, retreats etc., that can add substantial value to your life journey. In addition, those who want more will receive more by becoming a member of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE … and CHIP VIP Club. I think we will come up with a better name soon!!  

In this episode, Chip and I elaborate on what all of this will look like for you in 2024 … You are in for a treat this episode. Enjoy our excitement! 

PLUS in this discussion we share our highlights of the last three months which have featured some outstanding interviews with some remarkable people. Absorb these excerpt highlights in this episode for they certainly show the way towards a richer, confident and more precious life. 

As Chip said in the podcast, “You complete the circle for us. You bring greater energy and purpose to what we are doing. Your engagement makes it just so exciting.”

Thank you once again dear listeners. Have a blessed and peaceful Christmas, whether you are a Christian believer or not. Embrace your families and grab this festive opportunity to spread the love, which we give to you. 

One more episode in 2023, then 2024 launches a whole new era!  

PS Apologies to fight fans … Muhammed Ali knocked out Sonny Liston with the so called ‘Phantom Punch’, not Floyd Patterson. Bernie got a bit excited there !! 

This means that her fear of what life has in store is greatly diluted. She is ready to embrace whatever. It also means that she can live so easily in the moment, not needing for life to change, even when the moment challenges her.
Donna-Leigh has learnt how to maximise every day. What is truly remarkable is that she has come to see life this way in spite of life dealing her the toughest of cards.

Donna-Leigh was just seven years old when she witnessed her father drive a knife into the body of her mother. Minutes later, she watched her father being driven away in the back of a police car arrested for her mother's murder. She and her twin then became separated from her 3 siblings and over the next 5 years she endured torment and abuse in 13 different foster homes. She felt worthless, unloved, abandoned and alone. Circumstances gave her the opportunity to re-join her Father and her siblings in the same home where the murder took place 6 years earlier. It was mayhem, living with a schizophrenic, tortured, alcoholic soul. Donna-Leigh was at his bedside when her Father passed away from alcohol induced health issues. All of these experiences culminated in one momentous night where Donna-Leigh faced with mounting drug dependency, simply asked herself, 'Do I want to live'?  She rang Lifeline.

In her own beautiful words, what rescued Donna-Leigh was the realisation that her traumatic childhood experiences HAPPENED TO HER NOT BECAUSE OF HER. It was a simple recognition that the events of her life did not need to define her. In fact, the meaning of her past experiences could be reframed to create greater purpose and greater life. Donna-Leigh became a Lifeline Suicide Prevention Counsellor, where she actively played a role in transforming the lives of the abused, the lonely and the traumatized.

In reality, her life as a Counsellor, still exists today, but in a slightly different form. She is a world class keynote speaker. Her unique P.E.A.C.E tools and her Resilient Rockstar stage show are opening up the eyes of children and adults alike to recognise ways of handling bullying and resilience. Her children's books are a pleasure, a delight and profound life guidance for all who embrace them. Quite simply, Donna-Leigh's coaching should be a must in every school.

Home - Donna-Leigh Perfect

Please call her to enquire of her life enhancing programmes: +61 412 403 051.

Recent episodes have truly blessed us with incredible stories and learnings. This one is top shelf. It was impossible to edit and sharpen, simply because all that was shared must be heard to fully understand the power of Donna-Leigh's wisdom. Prepare yourself for a remarkable podcast journey and one of our very best.

To purchase her books go to: Rescue Dog - Adventures of Jessie and Rocky Rockstar (donna-leighperfect.com)
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You see, John ‘JC’ Coutis was born with a severe disability that rendered him a double amputee. He lives and moves without legs, yet has developed an unshakeable belief in his self-worth. His confidence is top shelf. Before he even 'let's it rip on you', he reminds you of your immense blessings and infinite possibilities just by meeting him. You can do so on A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE YouTube channel right now.

John learnt about our 'capacity for immense resilience' almost from the moment of his birth. He defied medical opinion by refusing to die. Then as a young boy, he welcomed his Father's advice to be grateful for what he has, not what he doesn't. Fueled by a childhood of love, belief, and discipline, John refused to crumble under his handicap and societal pressure by embracing and maximising life, and that is now his message to all. 'Start living life fully with or without your handicaps. We have all got them!'.

It's little wonder he has become one of the most sought-after inspirational speakers in the country. Hundreds of thousands per year are enthralled by his powerful messages delivered on stages all over the globe from his trusty skateboard. In this episode you hear him for free.

You are fortunate people, but ...

Expect to have a mirror put in front of your face. Take a good look. John would say that is your competitor.

Expect to squirm. That might be because John fearlessly speaks the uncommon truth. It can make people uncomfortable.

Expect to hear stories in which you will feel he is talking about you. He has an uncanny way of knowing what are your handicaps and making you realise them.

If you are parents, be prepared for some powerful truths. You may discover you are a Lawnmower Parent. I hope not, but if you are, John wants you to recognise and change immediately.

Expect to be offended. Embrace it.

This is the way of John Coutis and we are privileged that such a soul exists to hit us over the head and awaken us from our slumber so that we too can appreciate every moment of life irrespective of the fortunes of life. Welcome to one of our best.

John Coutis: Book him for your next function at www.johncoutis.com
Ph: +61 438 340 869
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Chip's Recommended Resources

The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark, by Carl Sagan

CARL SAGAN’S BULLSHIT DETECTION KIT - Dying Words

"Calling Bullshit in the Age of Big Data" Video Series

You get the magic of Episode 55, a wonderful exploration of inspiring possibilities facilitated by Bernie with Ralph and Sandra Gartner, Founders of Essentia Coaching and Consulting: www.essentiacoaching.com.au

It was always going to be that way when you consider that in Sandra and Ralph, you have a Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming, two Graduate Diplomas in Ontological Coaching and Professional Coaching Accreditation from the International Coach Federation. These guys are right up there! It’s no wonder their clients report results and outcomes that blow their minds. Yet for all of their advanced skill and masterful expertise, you the listener are also going to hear of tangible practices, that if applied, can also significantly transform your life into one of greater happiness and sustainable joy.

Be warned, you will be working hard on identifying and clarifying your values. You’ll be challenged to understand what your values look like in everyday behaviours, and you will be asked to ponder the question, “Who would you become, if you lived your values without compromise, on a MOMENTARY basis?” 

Wait until you hear Ralph’s answer !!

It’s clear to Ralph and Sandra that KNOWING and LIVING YOUR VALUES is the gateway to clarifying your PURPOSE and seeing clearly the VISION for your life.

Don’t be surprised if the VALUE of CURIOSITY … being curious and inquisitive about everything, doesn’t sneak into your values set after this podcast. They make a bloody good case for it!

For all of their guidance, I predict that the aspect of this podcast you will enjoy the most are their personal stories that left a bewildered Sandra virtually stranded at the altar and a young Ralph, who stumbled through the early years of his life floundering to find purpose and growth. As we have heard from so many guests, these episodes of pain and confusion have only served them to become who they are today and to shape the wonderful coaching service influencing so many today.

In the spirit of that service and generosity, Ralph and Sandra offer you our treasured listener a free personal coaching session! 

Once you hear their skill and value through this podcast, you will realise that taking up this offer might just be the most proactive, life-enhancing step you could take today. Don’t hold back contact them today …. Book your appointment now!

Book Sandra here - https://calendly.com/book_your_coaching_session/45min

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If, you would like to introduce yourself to them first. That’s easy, simply contact Ralph or Sandra on +61 400 668 300 or email info@essentiacoaching.com.au

Heh, don’t forget Chip and me either. We would love to hear your feedback on our podcast. It would be a joy to talk with you.

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Telling this story in this podcast is one of their 'faithful servants', the beautiful and the compassionate MARC NUSS. It's not often, I comfortably use words like 'beautiful and compassionate' to describe this strong and solid 'Springbok', but Marc is a rare man. The number of times his stories inspired my eyes to water were too many. You will know when I was choking with emotion when my responses softened to unusually quieter tones. The YouTube visual version of this podcast will be fascinating viewing for you.

Heh, be assured, you too will struggle to hold it back, when you hear stories of '# 43' ... the little girl picked from the line up by a burly European who saw her as nothing more than a product and the young lady whose face shrivelled with fear when she learnt he paid more for the celebratory beer than he did for the beauty of her diminutive body. These are stories that stir unsavoury emotion but awaken your spirit. In reality, Marc's soul was probably already moulded and shaped some years ago, when he watched a man leave the prison gates of Robbin Island to become the first post-apartheid President of a free South Africa. Nelson Mandela influenced Marc's want to make the world a better place. Now that's a pretty good mentor!

Through this 'dare not leave' discussion, you will feel both disgusted and buoyed. You will feel sadness and joy. You will feel delighted that such an organisation led by great people like Marc Nuss exists. You will be inspired by what they as rescuers have learnt about life and people. You will hear that life and purpose are relatives. Even until the day we pass, Marc believes we must be driven by purpose. Victor Frankl and 'Man's Search for Meaning' would agree. You will hear from Marc that our capacity to love has no limits and that by the end of our days, we will come to learn that it really is the only thing that matters.

A Journey With Bernie is very proud to bring you this episode. It certainly makes us feel that the podcast is now entering a new dimension.

We advocate to you that if you are moved by this 64-minute dialogue, that you immediately visit .... www.destinyrescue.org.au ... you will see the DONATE button. It's a no brainer. If you abhor the thought of children being exploited in any way let alone sexually, you simply must donate, which of course is a 'love in action' example that Marc Nuss calls for in this podcast.

Please call Marc 0429 701 729 to show your support and ascertain how you can contribute
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Secondly, the Sisters have chosen a life of love for one man ... Jesus. Unlike the sisters, Reena doesn't want to see everybody as her brother and her sister, because one of those brothers has to eventually become her husband. Wait till you hear that discussion in the opening of the show. Hilarious!!

Apart from those differences, Reena and the Sisters are both LOVE personified.

So, from where does her innate joy arise. You know, I am not sure Reena entirely knows, but as the podcast unfolds, you will hear her identify experiences that have entrenched within her this extraordinary abundance of life, love and joy.

In her early teens she lost her beloved father and welcomed the responsibility of working to earn necessary monies to support her mother and family. This moulded her service. In her late teens, she leaves her home in Western India to pursue studies as a Motor Mechanic here in Australia. Yes, that's right folks ... a motor mechanic. Have a look at the profile pic and imagine such 'a glamour' performing 'a grease and oil change'! But as soon as she bravely stepped off the plane into a Brisbane Christmas of 38 degrees, she knew she had found a new home. This shaped her courage to be bold. 

Over the next 5 years, she would ensure that Australia would come to know who is Reena Augustine. That's her message to all migrants. Tell Australia who are you! Don't hide in a suburb with your cultural countrypersons. Embrace all Australians. Reena has and they have embraced her with multiple business awards and recognitions. 

The little girl from Western India has created her own 'Not for Profit' called Red Carpet Functions. It bridges gaps. It facilitates connection and it gives migrants to our country the courage to embrace their new home. They love her for it.
Rarely, do you see one so fully alive every day. Take a look at her Instagram account reenaaugustine - joy abounds! So much so, that she even has doubters that it is real! This she finds hard to understand because for her 'being happy' should be normal for all.
Shouldn't it?

Maybe it was because her native India gave her so many tastes of death, that she is so aware of never taking life for granted. Her phrase 'wear your best clothes today' is a line that will forever define this Episode 53.

I have no doubt that your spirits are about to be raised by this discussion. Through Reena, you will develop a new love ALL PEOPLE, but particularly the elderly and their wisdoms. You may even see the value of a Christmas afternoon at a 'Home for the Aged'. Maybe you should join Reena this Christmas! For sure, you will understand what it means to adopt LOVE as a WAY OF LIFE for that is the way of REENA AUGUSTINE, the Motor Mechanic from India who will give you a joyful taste of 'Mother Teresa' love and exuberance. You are about to become very happy.

Reena Augustine and Red Carpet Functions: Ph: +61 401 229 866
Bernie K: +61 412 982 444 - bernie.kelly@outlook.com

However, it is the second love story that makes this episode extraordinary. Inspired by the foundation of love they have for each other, Neville and Justine have chosen to channel their love towards the wellbeing and emotional growth of 4 siblings, who have been scarred by earlier upbringings. Once Neville and Justine knew the story of these 4 children, the opportunity to foster care and raise them to better life was in their words a 'no brainer'. It might be a 'no brainer' for them, but the messages of this single act are profound.

Would you be prepared to let go of all previous well laid plans for your life in order to unwrap this unexpected package of raising 4 children who biologically are not your own?
 
Would you do so in the belief that life has another pathway for you that will bring you greater gifts?

Would you do so in your 50's or 60's?

The decision, the faith, the commitment is extraordinary. Absolutely amazing!

Like me, I hope you fall in love with the notion that it is impossible to hate, if you thirst to know people's real story. If you know their story and their background, then you understand their behavior rather than judge it. This is an essence of Neville's and Justine's lifestyle. It is a valuable lesson for all.

It is not surprising that their lives have been blessed by such wisdoms, as they both are avid learners, mainly through reading. 
They suggest that these books be 'top shelf' for you ...

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Families and How to Survive Them by John Cleese and Robin Skynner
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson
The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin ... Chad Foreman also recommended this one!
The Richest Man in Babylon by George Samuel Clason
The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran - one of my personal favorites!

During the episode a reference was made to the leadership qualities of Mike Brearley, the great English Cricket Captain. For the record, his stats were 39 Tests at a batting average of 22.88, not those estimated by Bernie during the podcast. Apologies to Michael. Mind you Michael, I did have your batting average a little higher so spread the podcast if you want A Journey With Bernie to spread a brighter light on your batsmanship!

One thing is certain, that if you listen intently to this episode and truly hear all of its wonderful messages, you will definitely be improving your batting average in this beautiful game called life. It will teach you how to play with different strokes and to attack the game with greater compassion and love.

P.S. And if by chance you are interested in the pathway of looking after such children of need on a weekend or on a more permanent basis, then Neville or I would welcome your call.

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You can look forward to understanding different disguises of the ego and how it erodes your happiness and peace. 

Robert’s ancient story of philosophical masters, who taught us that the final Gateway to the Gods can only come by knowing thyself was enthralling. But what does that mean? This discussion will reveal. 

Perhaps the most interesting revelation in this podcast is Robert’s coaching that even as a child our innate tendencies, preferences and abilities are seeable. What’s more they really are a signpost to what will fulfil our purpose later in life. Wait until you hear how Robert ties my teenage successes with what I do today. It was masterful detecting work!

The implication of course is for parents to see and accept these innate preferences within their child and support them so that their children can grow to do what they are meant to do. Surely, this is recipe for inner happiness. 

We shouldn’t be surprised by Robert’s offering because this dynamic entrepreneur has owned or founded companies in media, telecommunications, financial services, mining and education technology. He is the author of The People Key: Unlocking the Secrets to Getting Along with Anyone. The man is an innovator in the fields of leadership, culture and personal development. 

As founder and CEO of ‘Natural Ability’ Robert and his team simply empowers organisations to become so much more. His primary tool is teaching the power of true and deep self-awareness. You will get a taste of his wisdom in this podcast, that’s for sure. You might even appreciate it even more on YouTube where you can see this inspiring discussion unfold.

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The first is a service to you our listeners. Why not celebrate our 50th episode by announcing that A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE has gone VISUAL. You called for it. You got it and YOU WILL BE DELIGHTED. There is no doubt that when you can see the impressions on the faces of our guest and host, it just adds value to the communication experience. Simply search for A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE - EPISODE 50 on YouTube and you will see all the studio action. You deserve this and we are delighted to see you on your iPhone, your Samsung, your Laptop even your Smart TV. Enjoy! https://youtu.be/lM3fT-9zSOA?si=OJgzR9FJUXhvKVXR

The second story is one of evolving transformation. It is a story when Adam Bell bravely woke up one day and simply shouted 'ENOUGH'. He had had ENOUGH of waking up feeling neutral, feeling as if he was just EXISTING in this game of life. Mind you, this CEO of a growing and exceptional Gold Coast Podcast studio, will be the first to say that 20 years of smoking 'pot' may well have been the foundation for such a narrow perspective of life. He intimates that his smoking habit simply sucked the excitement and energy out of him and left him floating from day to day with no purpose. At times, it was a contributor to deep depressive states. His descriptions of that state in this episode are graphic and will certainly give you the listener a glimpse of this crippling world of mental health. He is brave to share it with us. 

But to dwell on early catalysts for a drowning life is not the story. This is about the comeback ... a mighty comeback. It is about a man's search for insight and finally, it is about the courage to leave it all behind and act with new vision. That is the journey that now has Adam Bell practicing 10-12 daily actions and processes that contribute to his redemption. Just imagine if your daily routine even included half of the following. Who might you become? That is the question this episode asks. 

1. Bed before 10pm ... Arise before 6 am 

2. Cold Shower

3. Morning Meditation for 20 minutes

4. Grounding with the Earth

5. Writes out 3 x affirmations for this day and keeps them in his pocket for the day.

6. Read Goals aloud twice per day.

7. No alcohol ... because that's what Adam's body deserves

8. Intense Exercise 6 days a week 

9. Listens to Mindset Podcast at every opportunity.

10. Daily Gratitude statement so that he dilutes his need for more !

You have to love a story which teaches hope, courage, insight and action. It's the comeback that will inspire you. For any of you who can relate to that feeling of just floating through life then this story is going to tease you with actionable possibilities. You will love it.

In this episode, you will hear Chad explain why he is merely a student of The Way. If this is so, then you are listening to a very aware student ... a very wise one ... a student who sees things so much more simply and clearly then most. Listen to Chad explain 'Why Society is Sick'. Better still, listen to his answers and how you can play a role in re-creating communities built upon Lao Tzu's three greatest treasures ... Peace, Harmony and Compassion. Chad's call for 'Enlightened Companies', whose purpose is the betterment and happiness of society, not the accumulation of profits and riches ... it is so thought provoking. To honour John Lennon, he IMAGINES a school and education system whose main purpose is to inspire students to create new visions for the society into which they will enter. Most of all, Chad Foreman in this episode will awaken you to your beautiful possibilities with simple actions that you could incorporate into your lifestyle in this very moment.

I was so impacted by this Chat with Chad that I have now taken upon myself to host a DAY with CHAD FOREMAN on Sunday Nov 12 here in Buderim, Southeast Qld. It's a full day from 0900 am to 1600 pm catering for 18 persons only, and you are welcome. However, it is first in - first serve. It's a day for us to celebrate the possibilities of life. The cost of $150 will not only supply you with MT and lunch but introduce you to 6 different meditative practices, which collectively will show you a path to your higher true self of Peace, Harmony, Love and Compassion.

Gee, we would love to have you on board. To register your interest please contact or text Bernie Kelly on 0412982444.

In the meantime, Chad suggests you read any of these three books. They are amongst his favorites.

The Joy of Living: Unlocking the Secret and Science of Happiness by Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche
The Happiness Trap: How to Stop Struggling and Start Living by Russ Harris
The Lazy Man's Guide to Enlightenment by Thaddeus Golas

What a journey it has been with Chad Foreman over two episodes and what a contribution he has made to our journey of becoming that more loving, happier human being. Life is beautiful when you make Love your Purpose.

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Bella’s last 12 months is a formula for personal transformation that everyone should understand. It involves the beautiful mix of Discovering your Purpose and then liberating the Courage to live it. It involves Resilient Focus that wouldn't give any energy to potential Distractions, a newfound confidence to 'Say NO' and the joy of Finding your People. Put it all together and you have a woman who found her modified existence in a society that once threatened her life.

To understand the fullness of Bella’s incredible journey, first embrace Episode 18. Hear both episodes, one after the other, so you too can be in awe of her journey of love, happiness and meaning. Together, they show us a way to a beautiful and perhaps sustainable place in this game we call ‘Life’. 

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So, get ready to be teased and prodded by an exploration of ... What holds you back from fulfilling your purpose?

What fears emanating from your past experiences, stop you from doing what you are meant to do?

Have you built the right environment around you to allow you to bring the best possible you to each and every day?

How to ensure that your communications are being driven by authentic 'heart speak' not the illusions of 'monkey mind'.

Why the quality we need to use more is the powerful gift of perspective, which we all own.

We also discuss ... Why we need more women leading the workforce?

And why men must be unafraid to display and utilise their connecting feminine energies! This is not a 'soft call' guys! This is about becoming the more fulfilled man. Learn how in this episode. Seriously, these topics are just the beginning drawing from Chad Foreman's Episode 36 and compulsory readings such as The Book of Joy by Douglas Abrams with Desmund Tutu and the Dalai Llama, and another we have highly recommended previously ... The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. Yet another reference in this podcast alludes to the must see YouTube remake of 'We are the World' by Bernie's youth clients and the residents of Kibera, the big slum of Nairobi: We Are The World, MOH and Gi Originally by Michael Jackson, USA for Africa - YouTube. It's all part of this exceptional episode which is worth multiple listens, such is its educational value. This is punchy, powerful and potent.

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I remind you, that this is in an industry, where most security guards think they have to strut their power, remain distant from the customer and chuck you out at first sign of the slightest misbehave. The approach of Andrew de Angelis couldn't be more opposite. He connects with people. During your beautiful evening with friends at THE EMPORIUM ROOFTOP BAR overlooking the city lights and the Brisbane River, Andrew will even come around, pick up your empty dinner plates, share his latest joke or two that is certain to leave you laughing heartily not so much at the quality of his joke, but more at the broadness of his lively British accent. People just love him.

Yet, this happy persona was once a highly regarded British Soldier who served in Bosnia, Northern Ireland and the Iraq War. He knows how power can be so seriously misused. He has seen massive egos create unnecessary conflict. He also knows what it feels like to protect his brothers and sisters in arms. They were his family, until a gang attack in England many years ago took away 70% of his hearing and all of his sense of smell. His professional career in the British Army which he loved so much, was taken from him overnight inspiring bouts of depression, alcoholism and anger. The journey that followed has been a long one but has taken Andrew to a rare place in which he 'sees the good' and 'speaks the good' of everyone he greets at THE EMPORIUM ROOFTOP BAR, South Brisbane every weekend. This is a funny beautiful episode about a soldier overcoming adversity and just 'sucking it up' to become a happy man who walks with joy and spreads goodwill wherever he goes ... And so typical of Andrew is his want to thank the following special people in his life, who have helped him become 'the Happiest Bouncer in the World' ...

Ian Holliman ... a childhood colleague who gave Andrew work when just released from hospital.
Army mates Wilkie and Paula, and then there was Coxie, who was always there for Andrew when needed.
Salute to Trev, who lost a leg in Bosnia. Andrew loved being there for you pal!
'Tru Security' for their belief in a disabled man when he most needed your support.

The Episode makes reference to:

The Love Language® Quiz (5lovelanguages.com) - A Quiz and an outstanding Book by Gary Chapman

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He, with his wife Judy, are the Founders of The Mirror of Hope, an outstanding charitable organization that sponsors Kiberian children through quality Primary, Secondary and Tertiary education. At time of writing, nearly 130 children are active beneficiaries. In addition, the Mirror of Hope's SILC PROJECT supports women living in Kibera, most of whom as the primary or sole breadwinners are also HIV diagnosed. Through Thomas inspired projects, these women are equipped with micro finances and business skills to create a visionary exit for a new beginning.

When Thomas walks through the slum, the community rises. He has a Nelson Mandela status amongst his people, and they are his people for Thomas himself was once part of the community. He, however, was a fortunate one, whose innate talents were recognised by a wealthy visitor who sponsored Thomas out of the slum and into a new existence. For Thomas, this is a Pay-it Forward vocation. For the residents he is their way forward.

A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE has been blessed with Thomas and Judy's friendship for 12 years now, perhaps longer. Annually, Thomas welcomed 40 to 90 Australian school children to East Africa and gave them an education about the Kiberian world that only few of them realised existed. Some of the experiences had by our Aussie students is now legendary. The visit to the resident's homes was enough to ignite the quality of gratefulness permanently, while the teaming with their Kiberian peers to form a choir and then three days later lay down their own version of WE ARE THE WORLD has become a life memory. (Watch this!)

Rarely, has A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE been so privileged to welcome a man whose career and life has been so defined by love in action. It is not possible to put into words what you will learn from this episode, except to say that it comes from a source that very few people on this planet will ever know.

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As the last third (60-90, according to Jane Fonda) of her life approached, Janette Salmi chose to dedicate herself to housing and caring for her aged Uncle Jeff and Aunty Meg. She loved them too much to see them separated in a Sydney nursing home. Supported by her husband, she renovated the 'granny flat' and became the custodian of dignity, ensuring that Uncle and Aunty lived out their elder years rich in love, wisdom and celebration. Some saw that Janette's choice was simply putting her own life on hold. Janette's response was to smile and welcome the continuous treasure load of experiences that kept adding enormous value to the lives of all, who encountered this profound loving environment for her extended family.

Uncle Jeff and Aunty Meg have recently passed away with the grace and dignity they deserved. Both of them living beyond their medically predicted timeframes. Janette now finally, has the time to retire, take breath, slow down and enjoy quieter times, BUT ... this is not the Janette way! Why would anyone stop offering the wisdom of their years, when they reach that beautiful stage of life when they finally KNOW ... when finally, they can SEE. When finally, they have that feeling of ARRIVING ... that feeling of VALUE. These are the sentiments of Janette Salmi and this is why Janette in her early 70's has started an extraordinary business called DIGNIFIED MOVEMENT ... www.dignifiedmovement.com.au ... which is dedicated to inspiring new levels of Dignified Disability Care, Dignified Home Care for the Elderly, Dignified Enhancement of Senior Life. Janette, who feels at the peak of her powers is now taking advantage of the journey of her years to build her legacy. She is extraordinary.

My dear people, this story is inspiring. It is powerful. It changes the way we see the last term of life. It blows extra breath into how we see, interact, relate and respect our elder citizens and disabled brothers and sisters. At the heart of it all is one woman's desire to live fully fuelled by her enormous capacity to love deeply. This episode is gold and Janette Salmi is the glorious treasure.

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In this extraordinary exploration of educational possibilities, Australian Teacher of the Year Nominee, Mitch Mills, with the full support of his school's administration opposes the trend. His increasingly popular 'Changing Lanes' program fosters potent, solid friendships across the entire cohort that last well beyond their school years. He leads processes and experiences that create comfort around openness, vulnerability, authenticity and strong connectedness. Mitch helps his students to feel the power of 'REAL' and in so doing creates bonds that support each other for decades.

'Changing Lanes' challenges teachers too. Teachers are called to be appropriately vulnerable and REAL as are the students. They must model the behavior. Parents have to be in on the act as well. They too need skills of openness, authentic and loving speech, comfort in providing 'tough love' with teenagers who can innately be silent and closed. Mitch's programme inspires strong supportive communities and in doing so he is offering the student an experience far more meaningful than Calculus and the Periodic Table. He is not blind to the need for curriculum, but he wishes to offer education a new vision, which balances subject-driven learnings with skills and perspectives that bring students happiness and meaning for life. Mitch Mills is a much-needed revolution, coaching our children to find love for self, the beauty of people and the joy of life.

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Mayda Reyes comes from the 'Lineage of the Kings' from her beloved Mexico. She is a Tantra Healer. She explains that Tantra is a philosophy that precedes Hinduism and Buddhism. It is a human roadmap on how one can maximise their human experience and touch the source of creation. We can do both.

She explains how the Western World has only tapped into that part of Tantra that major religions deemed both 'sacred and taboo'. Consequently, she speaks about the depths of sexuality and intimacy like one would speak about eating or any other human function. Her freedom around sexual expression is liberating. You will hear it in this episode.

She has the same reason as many other women to be hurt and revengeful about the selfish actions of sex-driven men, but instead she compassionately seeks to understand them. She helps them to see their sacredness and to be their higher self. Through her, men can weep like waterfalls. Such is their feeling of liberation.

I am very proud to bring you this episode with Mayda Reyes. It is different...very different. It approaches the subject of love, happiness and meaning from yet another dimension of life. Please listen with an open mind. Make sure the word 'Tantra' does not block you or tarnish your perception of what this episode is about, for if it does, you will miss out on 'gold and treasure' as rich as the Aztec and Inca Cultures which have massaged the spirit of this beautiful woman.

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Immediately, questions arose ... What is the effect on one when it's just you, a boat, a sail and nothing but ocean?

Does it calm you? Is it meditative?

What is the effect on two people's relationship when couped in limited space for weeks on end?

Does it make you talk about 'stuff' that you'd normally avoid?

Does it inspire greater listening, empathy and understanding?

What do you see when it's just you, an ocean horizon and an exquisite sunset?

Do you feel 'God'?

What happens to your spirit when you remove yourself from the pace of society and its 'success' culture?

How did the powerful force of marine nature impact you?

Question after question arose, and while we may not have answered all of those questions in this one-hour adventure story, there are so many gems inspired by this incredible tale, that profound awareness is assured.

The learning on offer from Florian Grassl and Vicki Weichsler need not stop with this podcast, as their blog continues to offer ongoing blessings for all who follow their story.

Perhaps as a final thought, listeners should take note of the joy and opportunity that is all around you. Next time you are lining up for an evening beverage, just say 'hello' to the person beside you. You may finish up learning a truckload ... or a boatful! Enjoy the journey and forgive Bernie's singing at start and finish of the podcast with sincere apologies to Rod Stewart.

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In truth, so many of my deeper insights have come from the lessons gleaned from all 36 podcast guests so far. They have opened up my eyes to the power of love as a life purpose. Do not interpret this as a 'motherhood' or soft statement. For me, it is clear now: 'Love is all there is. The rest is window dressing'. Of course, it is so easy to say this. The real value does not come from such a vision. It comes from knowing the pathway on how to get there, and that's what this podcast is all about and it is also the value of this episode. You will hear a Bernie interpretation of what my life and 36 extraordinary guests have taught me about maximising this game of life. I so hope you enjoy it.

Of course, this episode you catch on Spotify twice! And may I suggest that you really do go to the M26FIT podcast hosted by Magnus, because its process is a ripper. Magnus fires 26 impromptu questions at his guests with the expectation of one minute answers! Well, I knew that wasn't going to happen when he interviewed me!

The result is a fast-paced podcast loaded with richness. Simply go to Spotify and type in "M26 FIT PODCAST". Make sure you press FOLLOW too, so that you consistently take advantage of all that Magnus and his wonderful guests have to offer.

For now, let me give you some very good reasons to tell your friends and family to FOLLOW A Journey With Bernie, as this episode blasts you with the goodness extracted over the last 12 months. 

Cheers good people

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In this episode we identify, WHAT ARE THE COMMON THEMES that help us to love more broadly and generate greater inner happiness, before we focus on the subject of UNLEARNING first introduced to A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE by the beautiful Bella Cameron in Episode 18.

Are we buying into a conditioning pathway that Morrie Schwarz (from Tuesdays With Morrie) suggested is merely Society's Culture. Yuval Noah Harari in his incredible book SAPIENS states that society's paradigm for success is really nothing more than a product of the evolutionary mind and is no formula for sustainable happiness. Many of our previous guests hint that we must UNLEARN. Listen to their comments. We must modify our commitment to the traditional societal way of living life. There is another way and it starts with recognising the need to UNLEARN.

This episode is potent. Enjoy!

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Chad's personal journey is a story of a young hungry competitive sportsperson, who played top class tennis driven to becoming one of the best. The torturous mind game of Tennis, demanded he search for mental strategies techniques that would focus the mind, control the emotions and consequently enhance his game. He found meditation so useful, that it attracted him to discover a new way of life. He became a Buddhist Monk instead. For 6 years, Chad lived in an isolated retreat hut in a Tibetan Buddhist community.

Today, Chad is the principal of The Way of Meditation, a beautiful service that helps people see their lives more clearly and move them towards a state of greater calm, peace and love. Chad does this superbly. Chad is aware. He is awakened. In this podcast, you will hear of so many concepts, most of which will have never occurred to you. He will say things which make perfect sense and you will wonder why, you had never seen this before. That is Chad's gift. Please enjoy this taste of rare awareness, unique insights and an ability to see things so clearly.

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Recommended Reading: Timothy Galway's The Inner Game of Tennis

All the success signs were there, except for the little voice inside that kept on suggesting there had to be more! As with most great transformations (and believe me dear readers this is a great transformation), a tumultuous chaotic event becomes the trigger for change and a new pathway. Quite simply, the events of her 27th birthday will now be celebrated as the day she began her liberation and her thirst for wisdom. 

Now in her early 30's, the girl from Austria lives a humble, slower, peaceful life blessed with an inner calm and a loving environment of which others would envy. Just listen to the 3 opening excerpts and you will realize that this young lady's being has been touched with profound learnings. She simply SEES more now and consequently she can BE more ... so so enjoyable is this 35th episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE.

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This is a remarkable story but be aware you are going to hear of 'ugliness'. You mind will conjure pictures of war atrocities that will make you squirm and cringe. Stick with it, because in the second half, you will be stunned by how JJ's life has blossomed to inspire a man with an extraordinary level of self-honesty, a comfort to communicate it and a love for life, people and family for which most could only wish.

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How much COURAGE would it take for any individual to turn their back on a 6-figure sum, the penthouse overlooking Bondi, a wide circle of friends and a girlfriend that turned heads everywhere she walked, in the pursuit of one's greater inner happiness. In Mathew's own words, the lifestyle he was living, courtesy of an expanding engineering career, simply wasn't making him happy. He had a simple answer: Let's try meditation. 

His first mantra-reciting meditative encounter revealed to him the possibilities of a whole new existence. He needed to discover more. It took him to Spain where he EXPLORED his first 10-day silent Vipassana retreat. He has now done many. As this episode goes to the Global Public for the first time, Mathew is sitting his first 20-day silent Vipassana retreat. He went to India on a three-month mission to EXPLORE his SPIRITUAL journey and thanks to Covid, finished up spending two and a half years predominantly in the mountainous regions of the North. Amidst his journeys, he embraces the gifts of plant-based psychedelics, which Mathew acknowledges certainly played a role in AWAKENING him to a wider level of consciousness. He also knows the dangers of that experiment and shares them openly in this podcast. I am not sure I have met a more CONTENT person. 

His bank account does not have many digits in it. His van looks broken and battered, and I am not quite sure what he would say if you asked him 'Where is home', yet CONTENTMENT, PEACE, HAPPINESS, CALM, LOVE, define Mathew's Spirit. This is his remarkable journey. Let me warn you now, this episode is different. It is not like any that have preceded it. Yet, I suspect there are few episodes that have the capacity for thought provoking reflection as this one. Embrace it ... don't judge it ... consider it ... don't dismiss it, for it is rare that you will hear from such an awakened spirit.

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My dear people, this podcast is loaded with gems. That's because, when you live a life highlighted by an alcoholic Father, a suicide letter at 15 years of age that thankfully didn't come off, and a heart attack while training for a 1600 klm bike ride, there are too many powerful life lessons on offer that cannot be ignored. Jeff McKeon heeded them so much, he left a 25 year career in sales and a six figure income to do what he was meant to do ... fulfil his purpose as a paid writer, author in progress, and life coach to the many. Listen to a story of battling on through adversity and the courage to turn it all around by truly doing only what is a true extension of self. The Jeff McKeon story could well be entitled 'How to find a Pathway to Happiness from the Quicksand'. Be prepared to be inspired!

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What happened next was extraordinary. Cyclone Yasi battered the Whitsundays and Keith's Hinchinbrook Project met  strong environmental distaste. Signs of dementia coupled with an ageing entrepreneurial ego started to tarnish his decision making. Amidst these changing fortunes, Keith passed away from a series of strokes leaving the family with little. Access to the extravagant lifestyle that had become norm for Bec was no more. Bec was declared bankrupt.

Little did she realise, that a different brand of Life, Love and Happiness was about to unfold. It was a chance call from schoolboy sweetheart and country music star, James Blundell that soon inspired a proposal of marriage. Blundell declared 'he’d always loved Rebecca Williams since he was 16'. She never knew that in fact it was she who had inspired an original James Blundell hit, ‘Down On The Farm', in which she is referred. Now Rebecca is that farm girl ... a house renovator ... the guardian of two Jack Russells and lover of sheep and cattle, which she treasures dearly. In her own words, Rebecca Williams couldn't be happier.

This is a remarkable story. In fact, it is an extraordinary one, if only for the fact that we meet a rare individual who has drunk merrily from both sides of the bar. She has lived the high life, the society definition of success and now she lives a humble existence which she describes as one that has brought her two treasured ingredients. To discover what they are, you must listen to a rare episode for which I make no excuses for just going over the hour. Simply, it is that good.

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Even in the week of this podcast, Magnus displayed what differentiates him from most. He attracted a National Television Station to do a documentary special on his latest mountain resort style development. The next day, he attended to his other business ... M26 which fosters healthy bodies and healthy minds. He is passionate about exercise and healthy eating.

He finds time to visit his aging mum, to kayak the Brisbane River and to play ice hockey with his mates. He fits in this podcast and right now he is on a jet plane back to Sweden with his beloved wife to visit relatives and family. You will get this feeling that his last 7 days reflects his normal pace. That's the way he lives it. That's the way he attacks the game of life.

Yet it hasn't been easy. It never is, but when he looks in the mirror, he sees the only thing that can hold him back. The mirror never wins. He just makes things happen. 

He has some great suggestions to creating this full of life existence. You will learn, about his three C's ... Commitment, Consistency and Connection. The last one he so advocates. To Magnus, connection with people is fundamental. One little gem from this episode is his belief that his NETWORK determines his NET WORTH. 

You will so enjoy this humble story of a little Swedish Boy who creates life in Australia ... extraordinary life. 

Listen and take notes. Magnus Olson makes it sound so easy.

When Shaun suffered a horrific facial injury that ruled him out of his 4th consecutive Grand Final in 2004, iconic coach and legend, Leigh Matthews said, “We love Shaun Hart. I know it's a funny word and I know we don't use it, but he is the most magnificent human being. He is so much the heart and soul of this team”.

For onlookers, Shaun's mix of devout Christianity and his rugged, focused, courageous running on the football field became a source of curiosity and intrigue. Even more so, when with millions of viewers worldwide Shaun accepted the 2001 Norm Smith Medal by first thanking “my Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.” (www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceZLkSolQFY)

It was a degree of openness and transparency that drew enormous respect.

This episode is fascinating for so many reasons, but one thing becomes undeniable. For those who BELIEVE in an ALL-LOVING GOD, their FAITH can enhance their capacity to love, rescue them in times of need and give one an empowering clear life purpose. This episode is a tutorial about the importance of being true to self. It is a lesson in the power of servant leadership, but most of all, it is a story about one man’s discovery of a pathway that guarantees for him a life of love, joy and meaning. That’s why asking Shaun Hart to be a guest on A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE was a no-brainer. Enjoy this episode for you are about to meet a beautiful human being and a rare soul.
Oh! …  and don’t forget to ‘google’ THE RESILIENCE PROJECT. It is the second time this popular program about mental health strategies has become a strong recommendation of our guest.

I introduced myself to Joel and told him of the loving objectives of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE. Somehow through that humble first connection, Joel agreed to become Episode 8. It became a MUST listen, because Joel's scenario was both unique to us and yet it was common. He reminded us that every day, we forget that we are dying as well as living. It is because we forget we are dying, we do not become aware of TRULY LIVING. He was far more aware, because death for him was imminent. His awareness led him to actions and strategies that created 5 more years of LIFE. How powerful!

However, the disease was always present within him and when it finally had a chance to act without medicine getting in the way, it did so quickly. Joel's body died 6 weeks ago.  I learnt of his passing while I was in Nepal with 15 friends and business associates ascending the Himalaya's highest trekkable peak, Mount Mera. The news rocked me, because I didn't want his message and legacy to be lost. Almost immediately, I made a private decision to play a role in keeping it alive. Episode 25 became a tribute podcast to what Joel taught us. His work boss, manager and friend, Damian Vescovi helped us to absorb and comprehend Joel's gift of acute awareness. There was risk in this podcast. The risk was that my ego, my want to educate and create value for you, the listener, would not be empathetic enough to respect the grieving state of Joel's family and loved ones. Would this tribute episode meet with their favour?

Would it represent and reflect Joel accurately?

I backed my own loving spirit and instinct.

Then came this text message from a man I had not met...

Hi Bernie, my name is Keith Staite (father of Joel). I finally found the courage to listen to your tribute podcast last night and just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the kind words you expressed about him. He truly is the real deal and I only hope many more people try to live his legacy of loving kindness. The world will be a better place if so. Thanks again, Keith Staite

I was floored.  Somehow the spirit of love, awareness, life and empathy ... the spirit of Joel ... was now flowing between 'supposed' strangers. In truth, Keith's text seeded me with the idea of podcasting him, but it just didn't feel right to ask ... until now. What you are about to hear is so unique, on so many different dimensions that I can scarcely believe the privilege. Think for a moment, how did this set of circumstances even arise?

Why did it arrive at a time where I was launching a podcast about the fabric of love?

The connectedness of it all blows my mind.

Consider what you are about to hear? ... You will hear the raw heartbeat of a man who only weeks ago lost his boy.

You and I are honored to hear from Keith Staite who shares grief, love and meaning through his experience of life and death so inexplicably intertwined at this time.

I don't know what to say any more, except you would be sadly missing an opportunity if you did not listen to this episode with Keith Staite. I also feel that not to share it with relevant others in your life, might be their opportunity lost.

Thank you Keith ... such courage is rare. 

Such vulnerability is extraordinary. 

Such depth and profound wisdom is the gift of Joel and now you. 

We are honoured.

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Of course, my interest was to discover whether Keith's data and profiling tools could perhaps also recognise the characteristics of an ecstatic person filled with the joy of life and love for people. The discussion that unfolded was at times riveting. Couple this exploration with Keith's profound personal journey and we have an episode that is full of riches. Wait until you hear about how these profiling tools have been used to shape political elections! Naturally enough, such discussions also inspired open dialogue around the need for greater ethical standards and values-driven behaviours, not just in legal and political arenas, but in all industry.

Our shared truth was distorted, when we referred to the Hollywood Classic 12 ANGRY MEN starring Henry Ford or Gregory Peck. Apologies to Henry Fonda for our glaring error, but Keith and I certainly got it right when recommending you read 'Think and Grow Rich' by Naploean Hill or Karma Book by Sadhguru: A Yogi’s Guide to Crafting Your Destiny. The latter is by far the most enlightening book I have read in 2022. Of course, you must have a listen to Keith's Podcast called Get in the Game Podcast from Jury Analyst on Stitcher. It is a wonderful insight into the Journey for Justice.

Why do most people never feel threatened by him?

Why is Ben Oborne so naturally likeable?

How come wherever he has ventured, staff like and respond to him?

What differentiates him from so many of his peers?

He promotes TRUST. He sells BELIEF. He fosters CONNECTION. He lives by the creed that "Teams succeed, but only leaders fail". Now that's ACCOUNTABILITY.

Of course, you won't be surprised that his primary ingredients are EMPATHY and CURIOSITY. His desire to explore and learn is simply at another level. Which is why you will come to understand Ben's fascination with all that is beautifully hospitable with the spirit that surrounds him ... the CULTURE of JAPAN.

If you have enjoyed the wide variety of different backgrounds that have defined the first 25 episodes of A Journey With Bernie, then you will love the backdrop of this episode about an outstanding corporate leader, whose life journey took him from Jindera to Japan. (I will let you look up Jindera. See if you can find it!)  It's the story of a young man who learnt life through games of hockey and as lead singer of a Rock Band, which fueled his love of people and thirst to understand. This episode will remind you that life is a playground of rich opportunities and experiences.

Grab the opportunity even more by reading Ben's recommendation Start With Why by Simon Sinek, and by chance if you want to sound like Ben, then look up words like 'nefarious and despot'. I had never heard of them until this episode! This hour is so easy to enjoy with an unassuming, humble, egoless explorer of life, whose attributes make him a mighty, effective Corporate Leader. 

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When anyone asks me what A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE is about, I simply reply 'Listen to EPISODE 8' ... https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JfiWEs8wTajRfQxwwYSxn?si=08bd0ea825db4958

It was always 'MY GO TO' Episode. It was the episode that announced a pathway showing ALL of us how to become a more loving human being, how to inspire greater inner happiness from within, and how to add greater meaning to our humble lives. Joel Staite discovered that pathway and he shared it with us by the way he lived. 

However, his greatest gift is to remind us that 'we need not wait for death to tap us on the shoulderto choose a richer, fuller life now'. If Joel was speaking to you in this moment, he would simply say, 'Recognise NOW that your life is always impermanent and that there is no guarantee you will wake up breathing tomorrow. Therefore, DON'T WAIT!! The fullness of life is available right now'.  In Episode 8 and in this tribute, Joel even explains how to travel that pathway. He speaks of mediation, veganism, learning and adventure components that collectively create an environment in which most will flourish.
 
I am so pleased that you have chosen to listen to this episode, because I believe that through it, you will hear a multitude of questions about your own existence. These are appropriate questions from a young man whose circumstances helped him to discover greater life ... and then he lived it and thankfully for us, he shared it. For that, we are so grateful.

A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE extends our love and blessings to Joel’s wife, Kieren, and his parents Cathy and Keith, and his brothers Kyle and Jaye and to all those who embraced the life and values of this wonderful human being. We were blessed.

It is an approach in which the patient assists the Doctors in their diagnosis. These Doctors prefer to trust the powerful instinct of their ill guests. They listen to them. Their approach is driven by respect and relationship building. It is an approach in which they see a member of their own family in every patient. It is an approach in which the treatment of the patient considers a wholistic approach. Even the financial worries of the patient might be addressed to alleviate stresses. In their mission as Doctors, it is clear that love for all people comes first.

Observers would say that it was this approach that enabled both Doctors to thrive as physicians in Covid ravaged Nepal. Their hospital was adding 30-50 mattress beds per day. Tents were erected just to create more beds. Oxygen bottles were shared just to keep the growing numbers alive, but through it all patients praised the loving commitment and dedication they experienced from these two wonderful practitioners of medicine.

This is an episode in which one's profession has become an extension of their life, or is it the other way round? 
Has one's career set the platform to become a true lover of life and humanity. 

Gee you will enjoy this episode. 

It makes you think what could be possible in the medical profession and indeed in all service industries.

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Same event ... same expectations ... different journeys!

So how does a resilient gent of 70 years see this massive spiritual adventure?

Does a 21-year-old see it differently?

What did they learn from each other?

What chat did they have with the spirit of the Himalayas invading them?

What was their experience of the Sherpa spirit ... of their beautiful Buddhism?

Here we have the different paradigms of youth and elder. Or were their perspectives different at all?

Different views ... different learnings ... what conclusions did they reach?

This is an intriguing episode, where three people own the microphone to share their learnings of their most powerful experiences on the road to Everest Base Camp. Gee, you will enjoy this one!

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Were our spirits aligned with so much communal joy that coming together was only a matter of being in each other's vicinity.
Well, that's the way it feels when I first met today's guest on that mighty trail to Everest Base Camp. Rob Duff for every one of those 132 kilometres was WALKING JOY. You couldn't help but notice him. He talks with passion and rare energy. There is something alive in Rob that just seems to make him permanently happy. People notice.

This episode will describe an extraordinary Love for God and Jesus, that makes one realise that belief and faith is mighty powerful and capable of filling one's heart and spirit with overflowing love. Rob Duff exemplifies this. Don't expect an episode in which someone is going to try to sell you Christianity. That's not Rob's style. In fact, Rob doesn't have to sell you anything because ROB as WALKING TALKING LOVE is THE MESSAGE. Love from Rob Duff follows his every step.  Just ask 23 orphaned children in Lesotho, that land blocked country within South Africa. Thanks to Rob's drive and dedication, they have LIFE, as he and his Irish colleagues build homes and find foster parents to look after 5 to 6 orphans per house. So far, they have built 4 homes and 23 children have been rescued. Their charity ONE DAY is making an extraordinary contribution.

If you want to hear Rob's passion for this extraordinary work, then you must tune into this video.

For those who have ears to hear, you will love this episode as it clearly demonstrates that a pathway to SUSTAINABLE LOVE can clearly be found in an all-encompassing loving relationship with one's GOD.

Be aware this episode might just swamp you with excess joy, enthusiasm and a high degree of authentic love. The amazing thing about it all, is that it is real!

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Light in the home. Children being able to study and do homework.

Laptops turned 'on' for the first time.

Water pumps were able to bring water from nearby sources to the village center.

Building tools could be powered to create additional housing.

Agricultural machinery operating efficiently to harvest crops.

The benefits were enormous. This video will explain. 

What is even more amazing is that Ravi GC at just 35 years of age has inspired this outcome in 84 different villages.
The question this podcast asks Ravi is 'Why'?

Afterall, he has an Electrical Engineering Degree. Ravi could build a mighty professional career in this Himalayan powered country. Demand for his skill and knowledge would be enormous. Why choose such a charitable community existence, the remuneration of which would be a third of his financial capability? 

Welcome to this incredible story of a young man, whose servitude and love for people is not comprisable. 
Be aware, this episode is likely to make you re-evaluate!

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The question I asked of Chris was 'why'? Why does Chris Andersen create such events?

His story of hiding his bi-polar from ALL but the few and climbing the corporate ladder is a story of confusion and uncertainty. Now, by his own admission 'he has never been in a better space'. He has learnt how to manage his bi-polar in social settings so that it actually works FOR him. His desire to grow and evolve has become a foundation for loving life and as for 'Beer with Mates', that too is an incredible learning ground. Already, this interview has impacted me greatly from taking my attention off-self in social settings to intentionally making the person with whom I am chatting, feel most valued. 

At one stage of his life Chris read a 'self-help' book per week. He was thirsty for information and power growth. Now that thirst for learning has a contrasting mission. He seeks to see the good and speak the good of all people. Now Chris's passion is simply his own happiness. He values his work as long as it is an extension of himself, not at odds with whom he is or desires to become. His is an intriguing journey already. Chris is just 37.

'Read these books' says Chris. They are game changers.

'Relentless' by Michael Jordan's coach Tim Grover.

'Social Intelligence' by Daniel Goleman and 'Mindsight' by Daniel Siegel are also must reads, but if by chance this episode stirs you to want to continue the conversation with Chris, then meet him at the SOAPBOX Pub in Gipps Street, Fortitude Valley on the first Friday of each month. You will be glad you did. I will most likely see you there too!

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When business colleagues betrayed his trust, John and his family were forced to relinquish their family home. Cast into doubt and uncertainty, John turned to the only thing that he knew was unshakeable ... his core values. Rather than dwell upon the pain of shame that he felt for letting down his loved ones, John chose to slowly rebuild his life without compromise for his innate call to love, create joy and add value through service to others. We are all so lucky that he did!

Thousands of those that society deem 'disadvantaged or struggling' change their lives through his 8 lesson terms offered in his incredible Inspiring Brighter Futures program.

Perhaps his greater achievement in this exceptional coaching experience is his ability to attract MENTORS ... one for every participant. At times there may be 300 participants with each of them having their own private mentor ... 300 participants ... 300 mentors. Doctors, Teachers, National Sports Heroes, Tradespeople, Mums and Dads they all want to contribute time and guidance. This is a testimony not just to the impact of the program, but to their appreciation of the values and character that define John Godwin.

This podcast is loaded with gems. John knows the pathway to creating inner happiness. He sees it clearly and he lives it daily. Like most of you who listen to this podcast, he sees it as his journey, smiling to himself when he occasionally catches himself straying from his joy of serving.  John Godwin has a lot to teach everyone.

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It was time to UNLEARN!

Inspired by sound therapeutic guidance, Bella started to let go of the things that society had taught her and in the process discover the creative ways of the beautiful child within her that once played so joyfully. While others now define their lives by the amount they can cram into a single day or by their status and accumulating success, Bella values space ... space in her day. She values time to crochet. She sees it as a form of meditation and an opportunity to keep 'thoughts of the past' at bay. She treks with nature. To her, life is now a game of climbing ladders! It is more about maximising the current moments.

I regard this as one of the best episodes yet. It is a story about 'how society can get in the way' if we let it. It is a lesson in how to convert pain and chaos into a greater capacity to love, if we want it. It is a story of courage to be true self and not let anyone define you. It is the story of 29 year old Bella Cameron, who crochets and in the process has discovered a wisdom beyond her years.

In this podcast, you will hear how the internet 'normalises' behaviour that might just challenge the values of your home and indeed the traditionally accepted values of society. You will hear discussion around the question of self-managing 'one's sexual preferences and desires'. Is this a missing part of our educational program? Self-management education may well be a key for those whose innate sexuality is at odds with social or community acceptance. It is a fascinating conversation, during which books such as The Way of the Superior Man Online Training | David Deida and Screen Resolution by Brett Lee - Internet Safe Education are referenced.

If you are a parent this is a must listen for you will learn of the authority you have to courageously love your child in a way that protects and enriches them. It is an intriguing hour for anyone who serves the education of children and for all else, you will find this podcast an absorbing insight into how your privacy on the net is illusionary. This is such a different in-your-face real world podcast. Most enjoyable and enlightening. 

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Yes, this exuberant, lover of life, joyous American brings something extra special to the ParkRun experience. He has a smile and a laugh for everyone, a flower for the girls, a celebration 'yelp' for the finishers and a camera to capture the highlights. Everyone knows 'Happy'. Some privately question 'how could anyone be so 'Happy'?

What's his secret?

In this podcast, you will learn that it is not complex.

Learn that we can all drink from a well of 'enthusiasm' that lives inside us. It never dries up, yet according to 'Happy' some people forget it is there because they have allowed the joy to be knocked out of them by the inevitable challenges of life.

Simple acts of kindness are fuel for your own 'levels of happiness'.

Being bold and living on the edge helps too! It makes life exciting and fun.

Embrace this episode and let one man's journey and perspective of life remind you that 'Happiness, Joy and Love of Life is not only a choice. It is a lifestyle.

How do you create more self-love?

How do you let go of your fears and anxieties?

What are the secrets to being an effective coach of your team, your staff, your children?

Ian Suter, wanted to know of Bernie's daily routines that serve his loving state.

Start with reading Bernie's favorite book ... 'The Book of Joy' by Douglas Abrams ... it will teach you why 'Perspective' is perhaps your most underrated gift. Bernie even discusses one of the blessings of Covid.

Facilitated by Taylor Pearce, Bernie offers so many gems. This episode is full of strategies and actions that you can apply to your own existence right now and receive immediate reward.

Oh! ... and wait till you hear Taylor Pearce in Bernie's role. Is Taylor planning a mutiny!

Well, who would you become if these were your life experiences? During his first 16 years, he shared his toys, his meals, his time with the Foster Home that his parents provided for 130 different children. Now, that’s a different childhood! They became his pseudo brothers and sisters. He tells the stories of them and what they taught him. In late teenage and early adulthood, he worked as a Chauffer, a Level ‘A’ bodyguard, a bartender and bar manager in 23 drinking establishments across 3 different countries. He learnt how to connect with people. He developed valuable contacts that enabled him to work his way into ‘the rich and famous’. He had lunch with the CEO of Disney and crossed paths with Arnold Schwarzenegger on 3 separate occasions. He had conversations with the richest men in the world, Michael Lee-Chin, Warren Buffett, and Charlie Monger. He learnt about their ego and sometimes ‘their lack of it’ that enabled them to be successful and happy at the same time. Now that’s different! He saw patterns in the way people thought, responded and lived that enabled him to learn what is truly valuable.
 

Ian Suter is the product of an extraordinary childhood, vast range of different experiences and the lessons he has gleaned from his curiosity for ALL people. He has learnt from those who drunkenly wanted their 7th martini for the evening to those whose names are in weekly magazines.

I found the last 20 minutes of this podcast to offer exceptional insights.

Tell Ian what you think. Write to him at ian@sutersmithcleine.com.au.

Ian also explains why Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People should be a mandatory read for any child in upper secondary school. If only education would value these types of educational experiences! You will so enjoy this vibrant, fully alive and beautiful Canadian gentleman.

What is remarkable about Steve Gilbert is that his joy and enthusiasm for life invades everything he does. He speaks of his relationship with his wife Briony as if he was still ‘a teenage boy’ on his first date. Every Thursday is ‘daddy’s day off’ with his kids. He is at his happiest when all aspects of his life - family, health, work, staff – are being served in a single week. Such work-life balance is his foundation for constant joy.

Not only will you hear some wonderful ideas on how to generate self-love and happiness, you will feel it in his voice. Somehow, Steven Gilbert has found the rhythm that enables him to love life in an extraordinary way. Please laugh along with us.

Please contact Steven and let him know what you have learnt: steven.gilbert.dominos@gmail.com

However, this podcast, is not just an insight into Deb’s professional passion. It is a commentary about both the strength and delicacy of the human body. She comments on the miracle of the immune system and how it works. She explains how vaccines give your body ‘a mini battle’ before the real disease hits. She explains drug ‘addiction’ and more importantly why we should be addicted to sleep! Eight glasses of water per day makes sense. She not only advocates plenty of fruit and vegetables, but also explains the value of intermittent fasting. Collectively, her advices in this episode, help us to maximise the body so we can embrace more years of living! 

Deb welcomes your feedback about this podcast and would encourage you to email her at  email@drdeb.com.au

I personally rate this episode as a must-hear!

When I first met Merryn and her business partner Alison, they were managing just 3 properties. I have since learnt that two of them were their own!! Her competition were big agencies flushed with technologies that could analyse data and identify precisely the financial yield of that property at any time of the year. I chose Merryn’s Host Your Home Airbnb Property Managers Sunshine Coast because it was obvious that these two ladies were hungry and keen to serve, serve, serve. Wind the clock on two years later and Merryn Tuck has become an Air BnB global phenomena.

Recently, she was featured in a global launch of HOSPITABLE HOSTS … STR Owners, Airbnb Hosts, Vacation Rentals Owners - Hospitable Hosts … a book recognising the very best Air BnB hosts on our planet. So, what is her secret? Why has her business already attracted nearly 80 properties already? Why does she receive weekly requests to manage more precious homes and beach abodes? In this podcast, you will hear of a business leader who manages her staff with love, nurture and connection. She empowers her staff. They are not cleaners. They are presentation specialists. They do not see her as the boss, at times she can be one of the girls! Don’t misconstrue this message, she also knows what ‘tough love’ looks like. She has asked four staff to leave.

Merryn identifies the value she derived from 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey and the Japanese Philosophy of Ichigo Ichie presented in book format by Francesc Miralles and Hector Garcia. She buys the latter book for new staff as their welcome gift. This is the story of a woman, who is unafraid to be herself in all dimensions of her life. Her work is merely an extension of who she is and what she values. It works! Host Your Home is flourishing.

This episode is different. Delightfully different. It has 13 excerpts from the 9 guests who have defined A Journey With Bernie so far. Even though the topic is the same each week, it’s all about love, meaning and happiness, this summary episode will highlight how each of our guest taps into so many different ways to enhance our capacity to give and be more. Tony Groom through Nature. Slatts through innate joy. Skip through a Morning Routine. Joel Staite finding greater life and meaning through pain and chaos. John Buchanan through purpose and doing what is important. Every guest approaches the pathway to love and happiness through different angles thereby offering Bernie and you the listeners a multitude of thoughts and ideas on how to add greater meaning to our lives. Themes such as Meditation, Living in the Now, Letting Go of Past, Power of Nature and Love of People are themes beginning to emerge as valuable, but what do these focuses look like on a daily basis. This episode will paint that picture. This podcast also offers access to other valuable resources. 

You will hear of the 10-day Vipassana Silent Retreat (Vipassana Centre Queensland | Dhamma Rasmi) and a profound programme led by Liz Turnbull – Psychotherapy and Meditation. Podcasts by Rich Roll, Tim Ferris and Sam Harris are endorsed. They are easily found on Spotify or Apple. Books such as Inner Engineering by Sadhguru and The Courage To Be Disliked by Kishimi and Koga are strongly advocated.

You will definitely find this episode beautifully different with our show host, Bernie Kelly, bringing you the best of A Journey With Bernie so far. Through his observations and sharing, you will also enjoy the opportunity to understand the heart and sentiment of the founder of this podcast. For sure you will hear of his hopes and intentions. Expect for this episode to overload you with ideas and stimuli that might just enhance your possibilities and maximise your day to day. Enjoy this 10-episode Anniversary! Imagine what 100 episodes will look like!

Consequently, when cancer arrived in his middle years of life, he saw it as a tap on the shoulder from the ‘big fella upstairs’ that he needed to re-visit and re-evaluate his values and reflect on what truly brought meaning to his life. The landscape is changing now. He embraces his spirituality. Sees greater opportunity to demonstrate love in all dimensions of his life and claims that he has never been driven by more hope and vision than now. Peter is 62 and if there is one line in this whole episode that will hit a nerve is Peter’s strong request ‘to stop looking in the rear vision mirror’ for fear that the past tarnishes the now and distorts our hopes and vision for our desired futures.

Peter’s book of the moment has been inspired by Episode One guest Emeritus Professor Kenneth Pakenham. Ken’s book ‘The Trauma Banquet’ offered by MoshPit Publishing can easily be obtained online through the usual channels of Booktopia, Amazon, Angus and Robertson etc. It is truly a mind-blowing read.

Peter so welcomes your feedback and connection. Simply go to www.darcy.com.au where all contact details can be found. Peter is waiting to hear from you.

I refused to answer because all offer such different value, but I did say there is something very, very special about this episode. 

It starts with this unique circumstance. At age 31, Joel Staite, a competitive cyclist and Ironman discovers blood in his urine, ignited by a rare cancer called Collecting Duct Carcinoma. This erratic condition only affects 50-60 people globally per year. Talk about against the odds! It has a dire life expectancy. 

Joel’s pathway to combat this dreaded attack on his body started in 2016 with the removal of his kidney. In 2018, on his 33rd birthday, Joel had 6.5 litres of fluid drained from his abdomen indicating that his tumours were getting worse, not better. Quite simply, if a second immunotherapy drug didn't work, Joel had less than 12 months to live. So, what was Joel’s response?

Joel chose to let the prospect of death inspire a desire to truly live. He embraced the stimulation of visiting developing countries with multiple trips overseas. He threw himself into strengthening his body by training for and completing Olympic distance triathlons and long cycling challenges like Mater Smiling for Smiddy.

For many who know him, Joel has become a beacon for human potential. Fine tuning the right mind-set through meditation practices has been high on Joel’s agenda. He eats predominantly plant based foods. So far, he has gained three great years. In his own words, Joel summarises his evolving view, “Life is so precious. We never know what is going to happen, so just make the most of every single day. Maximise today. Maximise the current moment.” Not so long ago, Joel received great news.  “Whatever you are doing … just keep doing it, because your cancer is retreating.” 

Despite this favorable turn around, new tumours near his liver and spleen threaten. Joel’s answer is to keep fighting with a balance of both medical and spiritual solutions. Bravely, he willingly put his hand up to trial a new drug designed to stop feeding the cancer with protein. There have been side effects, but more importantly his tumours have reduced by 40%. His battle continues. This story of Joel Staite will teach you so much. Expect to learn how to draw strength for adversity. See why pain and chaos can sometimes be a blessing. Be inspired by how the prospect of death can actually be a catalyst for greater love and life.

Joel will embrace any support you are willing to offer which is why you can email him at joel_staite@hotmail.com or even better help Joel’s personal mission to raise funds for Cancer Research by donating to https://fundraise.mater.org.au/fundraisers/joelstaite

I figure the learnings from this podcast is worth $1000’s, which is why a $100 donation to support Joel is most certainly in order. What say you?

Now listen to this wonderful man. It’s worth hearing twice!

His early presence and way of engaging with youth still resonates today. Now at the age of 70, he simply drives a bus for the elderly who relish his morning joy as he transfers them to their medical appointments and shopping needs. What makes this podcast guest so unique is that he truly knows how the young see life, but he also knows intimately the inevitable life conclusions of the elderly as they approach the other end of life’s journey. That’s it. Slatts sees ‘the journey’ and in this episode he will share with you how to embrace from start to finish the joy of life. It’s easy to love this simple happy man. I sense you too will feel that connection throughout this outstanding podcast.

He actually learnt that the journey not the destination was the great teacher. He learnt that by investing in himself in such a profound way, greater love for self was always within him. He just needed to stop living in the past. Nathan Longman discovered pathways to becoming a more loving human being. It is hard for me to imagine that anyone listening to this podcast won’t find a gem … a piece of gold in this frank discussion with one very brave individual. Yes my dear people, this is a must-listen.

Under his coaching tenure, the Australian Cricket Team became the first side ever to win 16 consecutive Test matches. They won Test Matches that were perceivably unwinnable. They were the first side to score 400 runs in a one day game. They were the World One Day and Test Champions at the same time. They are the only team that can be mentioned in the same breath as Don Bradman’s ‘Invincibles’ of 1948. They created their own legacy while ‘Buck’ was the coach.

How did he do it?

He will be the first to acknowledge the skill of his great players, but in this podcast you will learn of the strategies and actions John implements to assist his players to see more, do more and be more. Certainly, after this episode you will be asking yourself ‘What is my Everest’? 

His insights are gold.

Of course, you can read about them in more detail in his terrific book ‘If Better is Possible’. To learn how business and groups can access the skills and teachings of the great coach do get in contact with ‘Buck’ at:

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For those of us who want to focus and activate our higher potential this hour with John Buchanan is a must-hear.

How come the natives of Tanzania and Kenya were the friendliest people they ever met, when they had so little? 

Why should they embrace ‘us’ with such joy and enthusiasm, when we don’t even talk to our neighbours?

Why didn’t the African mother not panic, when her 2 year old baby was nowhere to be found?

Why were the people of the slum more attached to each other than their iPhone and were happier for it?

Is it possible that the simple, uncomplicated and uncomplex lives of these beautiful African and Sherpa people inspired a greater ‘we’ connection with humanity then all the riches of the west?

How did the immense challenges of ascending Kilimanjaro and trekking that mighty trail to Everest Base Camp help both Jasmine and Taylor discover qualities within self they didn’t even know they possessed?

From these extraordinary encounters, Jasmine and Taylor returned to Australia questioning some of the very values which had previously shaped their lives.

For Jas, her fortitude and resilience was tested beyond the max, when on the first day of her Kilimanjaro climb she discovered that her new home had become a victim of the devastating 2011 Brisbane Floods. The unbearable anguish inspired some of her greatest learnings which continue to influence her life today. You will learn why the philosophy of ‘it is what it is’ might just be a guide post to greater happiness.

This episode is so much more than exotic travel stories. It really is a personal exploration of the benefits of seeking outside of comfort zone experiences which inevitably will draw out of you dormant qualities that are just waiting to add more value and meaning to your life.

Taylor welcomes your contact anytime to discuss his experiences and particularly your enquiry into future adventures with Global Immersion … taylor@gitravel.com.au  … 0419195953.

Jasmine as a highly qualified and reputable personal life coach would love to hear from you and assist … jasmine.l.cooper58@gmail.com 

Feel free to contact both. You might just want too after you hear this wonderful episode.  

It was his Father, Arthur Groom, who along with Romeo Lahey inspired the hinterland mountain lodge known as Binna Burra. Had it not been for these two gentlemen, we may not have a World Heritage Lamington National Park today. They founded it. Poor management nearly destroyed it. Tony rescued it by giving people a variety of ways to access and embrace the power of nature. Creative Art Experiences, Gardening Week, the Binna Burra Senses Trail for visually handicapped, Photography Week, and Running High events were inspired by his 1973 Churchill Fellowship that gave him a 4 months study of National Parks in North America. Bear in mind prior to that he also spent 13 months with just 26 people at the Weather Observatory in Wilkes Base Antarctica. May I just add, he has also run 5 marathons. Then man knows how to live life fully!

He went one step further and gave the world a phenomenal travel organisation called interNATIONAL PARKtours.  Formed in 1975, interNATIONAL PARKtours offers life changing experiences to National Parks of 67 countries. Visit their website and be enthralled. Go on a tour with them and be enhanced … Walking Holidays | International Park Tours | Guided Walking Vacations

Through all of his wonderful creations, there was one private hurdle that continued to suffocate his spirit. He was gay and the growing awareness that Tony was living a lie in his marriage relationship with his wonderful wife Connie impacted his spirit. Privately, Tony and Connie dealt with the dilemma. After Connie passed, Tony finally came out publicly on the occasion of his 75th birthday. He describes the occasion as FREEDOM. You should hear what he had to say about this moment in this podcast. It is penetrating. Listen to this episode and you will hear …

• How arrogant we as human beings have become about Nature.
• Why Nature is our true HOME.
• Know that you cannot live fully and live a lie with self
• True freedom is when you have the courage to be truly authentic.

Tony Groom is one of life’s treasures and after hearing of his story in this second episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE, you will know why.

Whether he is prepared to admit or not, Ian was the voice of breakfast radio here in Queensland for 30 years. Everyone knows ‘Skip’.

Yet his journey to becoming so joyous involves routine, habits and perspectives that are not common to all. In this podcast, he shares his daily strategies, actions and unique ways of seeing life that culminate in a daily celebration. That’s what makes this episode so unique. Today, laugh along with Ian Skippen and in the process learn how to find greater happiness in this beautiful game of life.

Well, you can imagine, what learnings are on offer in this our first episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE?

Through Ken, you will come to fully understand the constant challenge we all have to identify, know and truly live our values not daily, not hourly but in every living moment. This episode suggests that somewhere in that state one experiences a freedom – a fullness of life. It might even be a definition for sustainable joy.

Kenneth Pakenham, is an Emeritus Professor in the School of Psychology at The University of Queensland, Australia. His research and clinical practice spans 40 years. Through his 170 publications, 9,500 citations of his work, 3 research awards, 3 teaching awards, and more than 3 million dollars of competitive grant funding, Ken has become a global leader in assisting others to cope with adversity. His story is epitomised in his recently published must read memoir …

The Trauma Banquet: Eating Pain - Feasting on Life : Pakenham, Kenneth: Amazon.com.au: Books

It is a must read, just as this inaugural episode is a must listen. We simply could not have had a better first up guest.

During the podcast COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED by Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi was also referenced and highly recommended.

Produced by The Podcast Boss

It is unashamedly about love … predominantly love for self.

Fuelled by the thoughts, perceptions and actions of well chosen guests, who advocate the journey of life, you will learn of strategies and actions to help you appreciate the incredible being that is you.

You will learn how to generate greater happiness within self by seeing yourself, others and the world differently.

Your new paradigms will give your life greater meaning and purpose.

This has been Bernie’s Journey and through his expert facilitation and coaching, the lessons of others will be presented for your consideration.

Be warned some episodes may change your life permanently !