A For Effort

How to Travel Anywhere with Kids: Interview with Megan Chung

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 02 Jun 2025 04:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we dive into the chaos and charm of international family travel with the savvy Megan Chung from @megtravelswithkids. Megan shares why traveling with kids is worth the effort, how it builds empathy, and why you shouldn’t wait until retirement to see the world—because who knows if your knees will hold up? Megan also spills her secrets on using credit card points like a travel ninja—think $1,200 hotel nights for free thanks to points! Whether you're dreaming of travel, already packing, or just here for the relatable parenting stories, this episode will inspire you to pack the kids, grab the snacks, and book that flight!

Follow Megan Chung on Instagram @MegTravelsWithKids for all her travel tips and tricks!

The families with ALL girls or ALL boys!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 10 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0600

We all know those families with 4+ girls or 9 sons. And we can't help but wonder, what is that like??? Well the parents have finally spoken and they are not wrong! They are reiterating things we already know and validating the vast amount of rocks boys must bring into the home.

Things we would never miss if they were to disappear tomorrow...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 03 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0700

In this short episode, we share some of the things that no one would miss if they were to fall off the face of the earth tomorrow. If we got something wrong and you feel you would miss one of the mentioned things. Then let us know so we can make a correction, because if you'd miss it, then we want it to stay!

No Shoes, No Screens, No Mercy: The House Rules Episode

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 24 Feb 2025 02:00:00 -0700

What are the unspoken (or very explicitly stated) rules that govern your home? In this episode, we dive into the house rules that shape daily life—from the universally accepted “no shoes inside” policy to more unique ones like keeping a “gunny sack” for misplaced items. We share listener-submitted rules, childhood house rules that have stuck (or been abandoned), and whether Megan should keep responding on the phone with “This is she.”

Tune in for a relatable conversation on boundaries, manners, and the tiny laws that keep homes running smoothly. Do you enforce screen-free weekdays? Require “one polite bite” at dinner? Let’s talk house rules!

Jury is in: everyone misses Training Table.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 10 Feb 2025 06:00:00 -0700

Is it just us or do we miss all things that remind us of our youth? Whether that be pushing our kids in the stroller, to birthday parties at McDonald's or simply studying for a test in the campus library, turns out we all miss things.

Messes kids make, and how to (mostly) make it look like it never actually happened.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 27 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we spill the tea on parenting’s greatest truth: kids are walking chaos machines. From pretzel salt explosions to the infamous kitchen strainer puke bucket (yes, it’s as bad as it sounds), we share tales of epic messes with listeners who’ve battled Vaseline carpets, bean bag guts, and toddlers armed with paint and raspberries. Their advice? Stock up on magic erasers, bleach, and baby wipes. Embrace the mess, and remember: if you haven't cleaned up at least 4.5 messes today, are you even parenting?

Strict Parenting. You think we're strict?? Oh, we'll show you strict.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 20 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0700

It's worth a wonder if we are more or less strict than our parents were, or maybe even about the same! In our humble opinions, we're just as strict just in different ways. And it kinda sounds like we're all in similar boats!

What was once banned, is now welcome! Or not...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 13 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0700

What started out as a simple cleaning up of games, turned into this very long episode of us dissecting all the things you were all banned from growing up. But apparently not only were you deprived, but the tables have turned and now you're depriving your kids of DIFFERENT THINGS! We all do it. It's just how we parents roll. But from bikinis to Cheetos to The Simpsons, we're here to listen and validate.

References we make in this episode that might be helpful to have here:
- Food rating app: Yuka
- Album your kids might like: Safety Kids by Janeen Brady

Podcast Origin Story

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 06 Jan 2025 04:00:00 -0700

We ring in the new year by spilling our origin story—two moms, eight kids, 40 chickens, and one fateful park playdate that led to podcasting glory. From recording under a freeway to a basement filled with kid chaos, we let you in on our journey of balancing parenting and podcasting. We dish on favorite episodes, awkward beginnings, and crowd-sourcing parenting wisdom on Instagram—all while PROVING that raising kids is messy, hilarious, and very much worth podcasting about. As Amanda says, proof is in the pudding.

First Rodeo vs. Last. What does your bag look like rn?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 23 Dec 2024 22:25:54 -0700

It all started with a hockey bench chuck full of every item you might need in case of an emergency. Because if you have to hunker down at the hockey game for 3 days, you need to be prepared!!! Unless this is your 1000th hockey game, and your kid is much older, in which case you bring a drink just for yourself and settle into your empty bench. And honestly, there's no shame if you bring the Mary Poppins bag because guess what?? We all did it!!!!

Geriatric Millennial Slang

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 04:00:00 -0700

Well, this episode is either going to make us look really cool or really dumb, or if we've done it right, BOTH!!! But if nothing else, maybe you've learned a new word or two. So the next time a Gen-Z-er talks about their "mog algebra teacher" you can act like you actually know what they're saying. Although we still really don't.

GIFTING PART 2: Gifts for kids

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 09 Dec 2024 06:00:00 -0700

And just as fun as the adults, if not slightly more though, gifting the kids in our lives! They are what makes it fun! So let's see what was mentioned in this episode!

Gifts for kids that were mentioned and submitted by the listeners:
- Chiefs gear
- Jungle Jumperoo - Cheaper option at Walmart
- Rush Hour
- Uno
- Grandpa Becks games
- Busy Board
- Magical Bitzee
- Nugget Couch
- trip to Legoland
- passes to local destinations
- passes to keep them active: rock climbing gym, skiing, rec center, etc.
- tickets to shows: Disney on Ice, concerts, etc.
- Electric scooter
- Kangaroo bouncing shoes
- Wood Engraving pen
- EzyRoller mini ride on toy
- Shock Potato

GIFTING PART 1: What to give the adults in your life.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 02 Dec 2024 06:00:00 -0700

We're trying to make it easy for you! Because going in blind to the holiday season is just the worst feeling. In this episode we mention the following potential gifts:
- Bidet (Amanda's favorite submission!)
- Running shoes
- Blanket
- Back scratcher
- Classes or experiences together
- Anything cordless, electric or smart
- Cuts Clothing
- A Guide to being a gentleman - or something along these lines with some nice cologne and a tie.
- Personal fire pit
- Any "meat accessory."
- Spa date
- Red light therapy mask
- Made by Mary jewelry.
- teeth whitening
- replacement of kitchen items that are old and tired
- GC to a bookstore
- Lastly and most importantly, ASK THEIR FRIENDS what they've been talking about recently.

Hopefully this gives you some ideas or direction! We're trying to set you up for success this holiday season and we have great confidence in you! Cheers!

Thanksgiving: Turkey Tales and Food Fails

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 25 Nov 2024 04:00:00 -0700

We all have memories (traumatic or not) of Thanksgivings past, and in this episode the listeners share theirs! From turkey travails to food fails and Amanda's passive aggressive wardrobe reminders, we're feeling exceptionally thankful for the start of this holiday season. Pass the pie around while you listen, but you can keep that cinnamon applesauce to yourself, please and thanks!

Snack Attack: Our fave kid snacks

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0700

You asked, and we delivered! We're talking snacks today and send you off to the store with a list of all our favorite items to get you through the day. Because we all know, any problem can be solved with a snack;)

Grocery lists:
- Apples
- Rockit apples (Walmart or Target)
- Steamed sweet potatoes (teal bag, Costco)
- PB pretzels (Kroger or other store brand)
- Barely dried strawberries (Costco)
* Any other dried fruit is a great snack, just check for added sugar.
- Seaweed aka Dandruff of the Sea (any store)
- Salsa (TJ's mild salsa is delicious) + cottage cheese + chips (Siete brand from Costco OR On the Border "lightly seasoned" from your local store. It's a black bag)
- All the veggies to make your own veggie tray
- Archer brand mini jerky sticks (Costco)
- Earths Best mini meatballs (Walmart or Target)

Amanda's quick protein pancakes:
BASE:
- eggs (use at least 2, I use 4)
- Heaping scoop of cottage cheese
- Kodiak Cakes buttermilk pancake mix (I use about half the bag)
- Water to make it the right consistency

ADD COLOR:
Pink: 1 raw beet, peeled + 1 scoop Just Ingredients Strawberries and Cream protein powder.
Orange: 1 raw sweet potato, peeled + 2 raw carrots + good dash of cinnamon
Green: handful spinach, 1 zucchini + banana + cinnamon

Blend your base and a color choice together in a powerful blender until completely smooth, pour onto skillet. Top with butter and syrup, watch kids devour.

HAPPY SNACKING!
xo

What's in a name? Or rather what's in a NICKNAME??

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 11 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0700

Cream Puff and Croissant here to talk all things nicknames. If you don't have any in your arsenal, we highly suggest it! Cleverly using a nickname or pet name for your kids can lighten any situation and is guaranteed to make them smile. Happy listening, Baby Cakes!

Be A Parent. It's Awesome.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 04 Nov 2024 23:00:00 -0700

If you want to experience complete joy, total excitement and a righteous amount of pride, then there is only one way to feel all of that. It comes by way of sticky little humans who have no concept of space or noise. And somehow, someway, they bring us the most fulfillment. Go figure.

Halloween: Prepare for the longest week of your life... only being slightly dramatic.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 28 Oct 2024 04:00:00 -0600

It’s that time of year again! Spooky season! Amanda loves any opportunity for Prank Sinatra to pay a visit, and Megan hates it all because she startles easier than a newborn baby. In this episode we talk candy trends of 2024, family costumes, treat strategies, and favorite Halloween handouts from childhood... like sloppy joes, of course. Hoping your kids bring home a certain orange-wrapped candy this year from their trick-or-treating excursions?? Remember, what you put into the world comes back to you (thanks,John).

Non-negotiables that parents AND kids need to survive.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0600

We all have it, and if you don't, well then you win. But that one, or maybe those two, small things that are non-negotiable that you absolutely need to survive another day in parenthood. For some it's a good drink, for others it's a good nights rest. And for kids, it's basically just taking care of their biological needs and a roll of tape. Simple things really.

Get A Job! Maybe.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 14 Oct 2024 04:00:00 -0600

Remember when parents used to say, "Get a job!" to their teens? Nowadays some parents aren't so sure about that command. In this episode we debate whether or not teens today should seek employment. We also get to reminisce with you about the jobs many of us held as teens, and share a few of our favorite memories from the good 'ole days. Plus, parents weigh in on their dream jobs (besides being a parent, of course)!

Unforgettable (for better or worse...) School Days

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 07 Oct 2024 04:00:00 -0600

This episode has us feeling nostalgic as listeners tell us what they remember from their school days.Do kids use hall passes at school in Kazakstan? Does our elementary student ID number follow us for the rest of our life? Listen in as we ponder on these baffling questions, and hear The Mayor and The Queen share a few of their own school memories, I beg of you...

Babysitters: Who's in your club?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 30 Sep 2024 04:00:00 -0600

Who would want to leave their darling children for longer than 24 hours? Turns out, nearly 90% of the parents we surveyed would! However, the real dilemma for most parents is determining who to leave our little angels with... will it be Grandma and Grandpa? The college kid down the street? The teen from our church congregation? They all have their pros, with a few cons possibly sprinkled in. Narrow down your babysitter list as listeners share their worst babysitter experiences, and remember to give everyone a little bit more grace. After all, no one can love your kids as much as you do.

Yes, rage bait is a thing. But paying for playdates is not.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 23 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0600

They wanted to suck us in, and boy did they! Did you even know "rage bait" was a thing?? We did not until this episode and honestly, it worked. They got us, but they also got some good conversations going. So although it's unanimous that NO ONE will be paying for playdates anytime soon, it is good to just be aware of the kind people hosting our kids. Let's make sure our village knows how much we appreciate them. And watch out for that rage bait!

Proud and Embarrassing Parenting Moments. Balance in all things.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 16 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0600

Today we're talking about finding things to celebrate in our kids lives. Because kids do a lot of cool things and it's good to shout the good news sometimes. It might be easier to rail on them, but it's more important to build them up to others and to THEM! So we gush and are positive in the first half, then we get our friend Doorly on the phone and talk about her experience with older kids before we dive into the embarrassing moments. Which in our opinion are just as important! Because remember, balance in all things. We're keeping it real here.

Back-to-School: The people want structure, and structure you shall have.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 09 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0600

We're back and we're ready to rumble! And apparently you are, too!! After the longest, most delightful summer, where the kids ate us out of house and home, and talked way more than we knew they could, they are all back in school. Parents around the world breathe a long exhale as they lovingly send their kids off to school and turn on this episode. Because this episode is just us saying all the things you thought this summer, but never said out loud.

Team Pro-Pet or Team No-Pet?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 27 May 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Having a pet can be a lot of work, especially when there are already kids in the same home as the pet! Every kid begs their parents for a pet, and every parent has to either come up with a good excuse as to why they can't have one, or they cave. Team pro-pet and team no-pet both weigh in to help prepare parents everywhere for that special day when their child calls them at work and begs you to bring home a pet (while possibly reciting scripture, right Amanda?).

Are We OK with a 4-Day Week??

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 20 May 2024 04:00:00 -0600

Could we all thrive a little more in "May-cember" if we adopted the 4-day work/school week? We debate our own pros and cons, as well as the listeners' hot takes on whether or not the 4-day week is a good idea. Megan gives us the insider take from a teacher's perspective, and Amanda is a self-labeled "work ox" (is that a thing?) concerned about members of society becoming "lazy lemmings" (is that a thing too?). But who doesn't want an extra day added to the weekend?! Chores, appointments, and long weekend trips... oh, the things we parents could do with one extra day!

Treat yo mother right!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 13 May 2024 06:00:00 -0600

Mothers do it all and a little more. This episode is all about how to treat her right. Did you get her the birthstone jewelry she's been hinting about? Did you send her away solo for the weekend? Did you clean up dinner AFTER you made it? No... well that's okay. She'll forgive you after you make it right by sending her away next weekend. Show that woman you appreciate her and give her what she wants!

The Week We Appreciate Teachers

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 06 May 2024 04:00:00 -0600

Gift cards? Stickers? Fancy lunches everyday? We know what the teachers really want because, in this episode, we asked a real life teacher! With nearly 20 years in the classroom, high school teacher Christin LaMourie walks us through Teacher Appreciation Week. The good, the ideal, and the... appreciated efforts.

We want to celebrate the incredible work teachers do to educate, inspire, and prepare students to go on to be successful adults! So, be like Amanda, and go write a thank you note to a teacher. Or, better yet, have your kids write one!

Here's the Ideology Quiz link! Print it, take it, learn from it. Discuss it with your parents! Yeah, you read that right.

Parenting is Awesome

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 29 Apr 2024 04:00:00 -0600

You know that song from The Lego Movie "Everything is Awesome?" Well that's basically the theme song of this episode. Everything is awesome, everything is cool when you're part of a team, everything is awesome when you're living the dream.... and by the dream we mean the PARENTING DREAM!!!

Lost and Found: kid edition.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -0600

Amanda recently lost her 4 year old. Megan has lost a few of hers... but found them. Amanda ran away as a child. Megan also did, but she hid. In Kids-R-Us. And apparently we are not alone in these shenanigans. All of you have lost your kids as well, but luckily, we've all managed to find them again. This episode has many happy endings.

It's cool to read. And other great quotes from Aimee Smith.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 15 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -0600

With summer right upon us it's time to start thinking about how to keep these kids reading! We tried to make it easy for all of us by having the one and only Aimee Smith join us from "Keep A Book Out." Find her on Instagram @keepabookout. You will not regret this follow. This parent knows what she's doing and it was so fun to hear her book recommendations (which we linked below!)

We asked her if she "pre-read" all the books her teenagers read and she said "no! There is no time!" But she did enlighten us by saying she will check out COMMON SENSE MEDIA & AMAZON REVIEWS for info on book content.

Here are the books mentioned in this episode:

- Anything by Kate DeCamillo
- Anything by Dan Santat
- Anything by Mac Barnett
- Anything by Shawn Harris
- The First Cat in Space Ate Pizza
- Nathan Hale's Hazardous Tales series

Books for teens:
- Brandon Sanderson
- Hunger Games

Books for tweens:
- Kelly Yang
- The Remarkable Journey of Coyote Sunrise
- From the Desk of Zoey Washington
- Ella Enchanted
- A Wolf Called Wander
- Bob
- Cranky Chicken
- Wilderwood
- How to Survive Anything

Books for kids:
- Zoey and Sassafras
- Bibi
- Chester Van Chime who Forgot How to Rhyme
- A Dog Named Doug
- When Charlie Met Emma
- The Giggles are Coming & The Yawns are Coming
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All the things you pretend not to see your kids do.....

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 01 Apr 2024 06:00:00 -0600

Keeping it short and sweet as many of us start Spring Break! This week let's talk about all those things your kids do that just aren't worth talking about. From rewearing dirty clothes, to picking their nose, to backseat bickering. You cannot address it all and you don't want to! We don't blame you because we feel the same way.

Dedicated to all the people who have offered YOU an unwanted lecture.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 25 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0600

We have ALL been lectured or given unsolicited advice at some point or another. And if you've had the courage to say something back, good on you! But some of us (most of us even), don't dare to respond, so we just mutter a chill "oh, uh-huh, k thanks" and walk away only to have a long mental conversation later with all our good responses. You're not alone, we all do it. Today it's your turn to GIVE the lecture. From shoes on the carpets to driving, we're covering all of it, and honestly, it feels so good to be on the other side...

Wanna have fun at home? Kate Mulford says get a disco ball!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0600

We all want to have fun at home, but why is it so hard?? It takes time, it often results in a mess, and my kids will probably end up fighting. But our friend and fellow mom, Kate Mulford, says go for it! You gotta put some work into making memories. And it can be as much work as you want it to be. A dance party is minimal work, all you need is music and some booties to shake.

Sayonara, Diapers! Well, maybe.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 11 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0600

It honestly is almost like committing to a reality TV show. Naked & Afraid? Have you seen that one? It's based off the casual act of trying to potty train a kid. They're practically naked and you're afraid. But if you can commit and survive the week, then you win. What do you win? Well you won't have to buy diapers anymore. Maybe you'll treat yourself to a cold beverage of your choice. But the biggest prize of all is just knowing that you successfully potty trained a human.

Uh... that was a very expensive fix.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 04 Mar 2024 06:00:00 -0700

They mean no harm, but sometimes you wonder. That brand new TV? Destroyed. Burning down your parents house? Unintentional yes, but definitely next level. We share all your tales of the expensive fixes you've had in your lives and share a few of ours. Again, sorry, mom, for almost burning down the house that one time with the chicken....

Off Limits

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0700

If you have the privilege of having a child ever be in your home, then chances are high you learned REAL FAST what items you *should have* hidden. Seemingly harmless, boring items, that "surely no kid will find that interesting...." but alas, everything is interesting when you're under the age of 6. So whatever it is, no matter how boring, and especially if it's sticky or permanent or non-washable.... lock it up! Probably in a fireproof save with a passcode that is not "0000."

Kids Just Don't Understand

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 19 Feb 2024 04:00:00 -0700

From seasons to familial relations, there are some things that are just too big and too complex for these little growing brains! And we are here for it. It will take a lot of explaining and a lot of patience on your part, but we know you have it in you. And maybe after this episode you'll feel a little more inspired to answer those questions. Press on, dear listener!

Podcast Show Notes: Episode - "Kids Just Don't Understand"

Introduction:

Megan dreams of a spa day while Amanda mourns her chickens lost to a bobcat.

Segment 1: Kid Logic Gone Wild:

Amanda's son predicts her early demise, prompting a discussion on kids' quirky understandings.
Listener tales include kids' shock at daily routines, defiance against toothbrushing, and confusion about seasons and clothing choices.
Kids puzzle over family ties and teachers' off-duty lives, leaving adults amused and flustered.
Megan shares the surreal experience of students discovering her home address, turning her apartment into a fan shrine.

Conclusion:

The hosts revel in the hilarity of kids' misunderstandings, urging listeners to embrace the chaos.
They sign off with gratitude for the audience's support and a reminder to spread kindness.

It was the best of days, it was the worst of days.... a tale of the households.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 05 Feb 2024 06:00:00 -0700

We all have one, a rough day of the week. A stressful, jam-packed, high intensity day. And if you don't.... LUCKYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY. But then on the other hand, there is always that one day of the week you look forward to. The bright spot in your week. Most people say that's Friday, but then there is the minority who says it's Monday. And to those people, we see you, we're standing, and we're applauding.

Podcast Show Notes: Episode - "Weekday Woes: Surviving the Grind"

Introduction:

Amanda reveals her Tuesday blues, while Megan sympathizes with her own Thursday troubles.

Segment 1: A Day in the Life:

Amanda paints a vivid picture of her chaotic Tuesdays, filled with an orchestra of kids' activities and logistical nightmares.
Listeners share their own weekday horror stories, from Monday mayhem to Thursday overdrive.

Segment 2: Weekday Woes and Weekend Wins:

Listeners dish on their least favorite days, with Sundays and Mondays topping the list for many.
Megan and Amanda commiserate over the unique challenges of Tuesdays and Thursdays, offering solidarity to fellow sufferers.
A humorous look at optimal days for activities, from traveling on Tuesdays to scoring bargains on Thursdays.

Conclusion:

The hosts wrap up with a nod to the universal struggle of weekday woes and the sweet relief of weekends.
Practical tips for navigating the week with humor and resilience are shared, along with a reminder to spread positivity.

Monica from About Progress joins us to talk about all the things we thought we knew pre-kids!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 29 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0700

We are thrilled to have Monica Packer with us in this episode as we chat all the things we THOUGHT we knew before we had kids. It was only a matter of time though before it became apparent just how little we knew. And boy, did our kids make that apparent. It's because of us that we have as much humility as we have ;)

We're thrilled to have a special guest with us today, Monica from About Progress. She's not just a fellow parent but also a passionate advocate for progress, especially in the messy journey of parenting. Monica is known for her expertise in supporting women, helping them live with purpose, and connecting with their greater potential.

If you haven't already, make sure to check out Monica's podcast, About Progress, and follow her on Instagram @aboutprogress. Trust us; she's a wealth of knowledge that you don't want to miss.

Getting to Know Monica:
We're diving right in! Monica, tell our listeners more about yourself and your mission. We know we can't do it justice, so we'd love to hear from you directly.

Parenting Realities:
Now, onto the real talk about parenting. A For Effort podcast aims to prevent unintentional birth control, but if you're on the fence about having kids, stick around—listen with open hearts and eyes. These real and raw insights from parents might just teach you something valuable.

Listener Submissions:
We asked our listeners to share what they thought they knew going into parenting but soon realized they knew nothing. Let's dive into some of these eye-opening submissions:

Magical Recoveries: Kids complaining about stomach pain is a daily occurrence, but the magical recovery when they cuddle up with a parent is a true miracle.
Fashion Expectations: Expectations of cute Janie and Jack outfits turned into the reality of the trendy, effortlessly disheveled looks.
Dirty Dishes Dilemma: The struggle with dirty dishes multiplying faster than rabbits, and the challenge of stacking them like a game of Jenga.
Co-Sleeping Confessions: From being against co-sleeping to just wanting to sleep – a candid revelation.
Patience Tested: Parenthood as a crash course in patience, with a reminder to be gentle on oneself.
Unexpected Affection for Kids: A surprising turn from not liking kids to realizing they're actually great, the essence of the A For Effort podcast.
Parenting Multiple Personalities: Parenting multiple kids compared to solving a Rubik's Cube – an ever-evolving challenge.
Freedom and the Little Sidekick: A reflection on the total lack of freedom with a little one always by your side.
Breastfeeding Expectations: The assumption that breastfeeding would be natural versus the reality.
Yelling and Parenthood: The unexpected realization of yelling despite hating it when parents yelled.
Adult Growth: The revelation that adults do the most growing in the parenting journey.
Sleep Struggles: The challenge of getting kids to sleep and the underestimation of its difficulty.
Eating as a Living Thing: The misconception that kids instinctively eat to survive.
Textbook vs. Parenting: The vast difference between textbook child development and the unpredictable reality of parenting.
Poop-Centric Conversations: How much of the day and conversations revolve around another person's poop.
Influence Over Behavior: The realization that having influence over children's behavior is more challenging than expected.
Parenting Feast: The humorous realization that parenting is simply the practice of eating your words.

Closing:
And there you have it, folks! We hope you enjoyed these honest and relatable insights into the world of parenting. Before we wrap up, take a minute to rate, review, comment, and share your thoughts. We appreciate each one of you and look forward to connecting with you in the next episode. Be a friend to everyone! Bye!

These little "sanity savers" will actually save your sanity. Imagine that.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0700

Honestly, you already knew this, but we all occasionally need the reminder. It's the small things that really add up to big things. When you get that early morning workout in. When your kids get dressed for school without your prompting. When none of the crayons slip into the washer or dryer... all of it. It's just so refreshing to find sanity in those small things.

Introduction:
Lately, life has been all about the small things that keep us sane, those tiny victories that save us from running away to join the circus or Disney on Ice – wouldn't that be cool? Today, we're shining a spotlight on these unsung heroes, the minuscule victories that turn into big wins by the end of the day.

The Power of Small Wins:
In this episode, we explore the importance of the small things that make a huge difference in our daily lives, helping us keep it together – well, most of the time. Because let's face it, sometimes there's just no hope at all.

Listener Submissions:
We reached out to our amazing listeners and asked them about their small wins, and boy, did they deliver! Here are some of the gems they shared:

Exercising Before Kids Wake Up: The mythical "pre-dawn" victory of getting a workout in before the chaos ensues. The struggle to prepare stealthily is real, but the feeling of being wide awake when the kids wake up is unbeatable.
Neighborhood Synchronization: Living in a neighborhood with families of similar ages and trading services, creating a parenting alliance. It's not just a neighborhood; it's a support system that makes parenting a tad bit easier.
The Magic of Chocolate: One listener simply said, "Chocolate…" because sometimes, a little sweetness can turn the day around. Peanut butter enthusiasts can relate to this secret indulgence.
To-Do Lists with Deadlines: Writing to-do lists with deadlines based on priority, turning daily tasks into urgent missions. Crossing off tasks is not just a win; it's a testament to parental prowess.
Prepping for the Next Day: Getting things ready the night before, from outfits to lunches, creating a smoother morning routine.
Kids Turning Clothes Right Side Out: A listener's dream come true – kids turning their clothes right side out before tossing them into the hamper. Laundry enlightenment at its finest!
Costco Grocery Delivery and Time Affluence: Embracing modern conveniences like grocery delivery, monthly house cleaning, and telemedicine services as sanity savers. The holy trinity of parental survival!
Meal Planning: A shield against the 5 PM panic – meal planning as a way to stay organized, avoid grocery store impulse buys, and tackle the witching hour with a plan.
Gratitude Practices: A listener shared the power of gratitude practices in finding joy amidst the chaos of parenting. How does gratitude whisper in their ear during the never-ending laundry saga?
The Ultimate Life Hack: "My Wife": A humorous yet heartfelt acknowledgment that a wife is not just a life hack but the Swiss Army knife of marriage, seamlessly handling various aspects of family life.
Scheduled Chore Days: Some parents swear by scheduling specific days for certain chores. A parenting strategy that might be beyond the capabilities of others – do you schedule chores in your home?

Closing:
Thank you to our amazing listeners for sharing your small wins and parenting life hacks. Before we go, please take a moment to rate, review, comment, or share your thoughts. We appreciate each and every one of you. Be a friend to everyone! Bye!

Let us introduce the "Ford Vacay!!!" Except Ford doesn't know anything about it...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 15 Jan 2024 06:00:00 -0700

We know you love your Honda Odessy and your Toyota Sienna. But does it have a built in vacuum or even better, a built in ROOMBA??? We didn't think so. But thanks to Megan and her ingenuity you will soon be able to find such features in our dream car.... THE VACAY!!! No one knows about it yet, it's not even on the market, but you heard about it here first and because of that you get first dibs when it comes out... but it'll be awhile. We hope you're patient!

Glad I did, Wish I had, Looking forward to...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 08 Jan 2024 04:00:00 -0700

It's our annual visit back to the land of "Glad I did, Wish I had, Looking forward to..." In this episode the listeners share what they did in 2023 and what they wish they had done. Frankly it seems like it was an overall good year for you listeners and we hope that positive momentum carries you, crowd surfing style, into 2024. You have some great things to look forward to and we are cheering you on big time! Keep it going, guys, you're crushing it!

Title: Glad I did, Wish I had, Looking forward to...

Introduction:

Dive into the comedic chaos of listeners' reflections on 2023 and their wild aspirations for 2024.
Last year's episode got us chuckling over 2022 reflections and dreams for 2023.

Glad we did:

Megan's adventure out of her comfort zone sounds —a year full of growth, emotionally, mentally, and even physically!
Amanda's recount of 2023 might as well be titled "How I Survived a Year of Endless Chaos."

Listener Highlights:

From embracing Swiftie fever to celebrating baby arrivals and epic family vacations—cue the confetti and baby giggles!
We're cheering for the grandparent squad and the heroic finishers of school! Go, you!
Beyond thrilled for the person who discovered the joy of running again. You've got this!

Wish we would've:

The collective wish for less stress...
Let's commiserate over failed workout goals while balancing a plate of nachos on our laps. It's all about that healthy balance, right?
We dissect fitness stats while contemplating if lifting a TJ's bag counts as strength training. Asking for a friend.
Dive into nutrition facts, hidden ingredients, and a book recommendation. Outlive—because reading about aging is the new fountain of youth!

Looking forward to in 2024:

Get ready for less butt wiping and more toddler shenanigans—bring on the chaos!
And the countdown begins for missionary returns, retirements, and kid-free vacations. Can we get a hallelujah?

Closing Thoughts:

We wrap up with the perfect parenting motto: "Be like Bandit and Chili from Bluey." Yes, animated characters are our role models too!

Conclusion:

Thank you, listeners, for this hilarious rollercoaster of reflections! Here's to more laughter, surprises, and crazy adventures in the upcoming episodes.

Interview with our Favorite UK Expert (despite her arguing that she is not an expert...)

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Dec 2023 06:00:00 -0700

She walked in with her fresh cut fringe and tan trench coat, and had us all swooning at her accent as she talks the monarchy, fashion and parenting in the UK. Our good friend Caroline McNiven is in the hot seat for this episode and she's answering all our questions!

Segment 1: UK Fascination

Amanda's summer fling with the UK, wondering why English accents make everything cooler.
Megan's Spice Girls souvenir heartbreak

Segment 2: Caroline's Qualification as a UK Expert

Caroline's rise to UK expert status, confessing to her favorite game of confusing everyone with British lingo.

Segment 3: Monarchy and Fashion in the UK

Royal gossip: To keep or not to keep the monarchy? Caroline dishes on Meghan and Harry.
The British fashion scene - classy vibes and the occasional embarrassment.

Segment 4: Parenting Styles - USA vs. UK

Exploring parenting across the pond, from tea parties to little accents sneaking into bedtime stories.

Segment 5: "Love it or Leave it" - Uniquely American Things

A cheeky game rating American Football, the mystery of American cheese, peanut butter mania, and more!

Conclusion:

England, we still love you despite the obvious lack of Spice Girls merch

Note:

Episode maintains a playful and humorous tone, blending personal anecdotes with comedic takes on UK culture and American quirks.

We recorded this episode at our local recording studio here in SLC. If you ever need to record something in a beautiful setting, among talented people, check out Worthful Media! They have the most creative space we've seen, and Christine and her crew are as good as they come. Tell them Megan and Amanda sent you! xx

All Parents Want for Christmas is...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Dec 2023 06:00:00 -0700

We asked and you responded: what do parents really want for Christmas?? What do you give the people who have it all?? Well apparently they simply need a thank you note, probably a little caffeine and a few more hours in the day. It's not much to ask for, is it? How hard can it be?

Podcast Episode Show Notes:

Introduction:

Sponsored by Mariah Carey's Christmas anthem, the official soundtrack of every parent's December.
Reflecting on what parents truly want for Christmas – hint: it's not just clean air and world peace.

Segment 1: Listener Responses - What Parents Want for Christmas

Survey exposes the holiday desires of parents: appreciation, more time, sleep, and an escape – aka vacation.
Majority wish: A vacation! 51% of listeners yearning for Santa to put them on a plane.

Segment 2: Specific Wishes from Listeners

More Energy:
- The eternal struggle between extra sleep and the prime hours of 7-9pm.
- No magic shortcuts for more energy – just a reliance on preworkout and morning exercise.
Kids Not Being Sick:
- Celebrating the preemptive sickness strategy: "Cough on us now, but not over Christmas!"
- Nervous anticipation of the impending puking doom when school ends.
Matching PJs:
- Unwrapping the Christmas PJs drama and Amanda's quirky Christmas Eve traditions.
- Kids' love for holiday PJs, even in July
Kids Throwing Away Their Own Garbage:
- Offering condolences to the brave soul dreaming of kids responsibly handling trash.
New Wardrobe and Time to Shop:
- Costco finds don't count in the quest for a new wardrobe.
- A loving nod to the joy of discovering hidden gems in the aisles of Costco.
More Time:
- The ongoing quest for more hours, contemplating whether it's about time or a need for a superhero mindset.
- The Mom Orchestra conductor juggling chaos with grace and a dash of chaos.

Segment 3: Parenting Affirmations

Proclaiming 2024 as the year of positive parenting affirmations – because why not?
Two affirmations: Being the funniest person your kids know, unintentionally, and a master negotiator turning tantrums into giggle-fests.

Conclusion:

Saluting the hilariously relatable wishes and parenting affirmations.
Wishing listeners a Christmas filled with unexpected laughter and parenting triumphs, even if they come in the form of accidental humor.

Note:

Episode maintains a whimsical and humorous tone, connecting with parents through shared comedic experiences and playful reflections on the chaos of Christmas wishes.

Why Having Kids is Wonderful!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 04:00:00 -0700

And this time we actually mean it! There is minimal sarcasm in this episode as we, your hosts, with the help of you, the listeners, sell everyone else on why having kids is so wonderful. If you’re on the fence, we hope this episode gets you off the fence and over to our side of the yard. We got more fun toys over here anyway…

Introduction:

Sponsored by Mariah Carey's unofficial holiday anthem and the real MVP of December.
Diving into the most wonderful time of the year: the holidays and parenting.

Segment 1: The Comedy of Parenting Origins

Origin story: the podcast's birth from a mission to counter the unintentional birth control narratives.
An encounter with a neighbor reinforcing the societal skepticism around parenting.

Segment 2: Parental Wonders According to Listeners

Watching Cartoons Sans Judgment:
- Escaping the adult judgment zone by diving into kids' movies.
- Because who doesn't want to know every word to every Descendants song?
Unexpected Collections:
- The unintentional joy of collecting rocks, buttons, and rubber bands.
- An unintentional "collector" title passed down from the in-laws – who knew?
Handy Diapers and Wipes:
- The eternal love affair with wipes, the superheroes of cleaning.
- DM for a damp wipe package from Santa – the unsung hero of cleanliness.
Perfect Excuses:
- Mastering the art of using kids as the ultimate excuses.
- Late nights? Sorry, gotta put the kids to bed! Sick kid? Instant pass on everything – no questions asked.

Segment 3: Creating Holiday Magic and Other Laughs

Becoming holiday magicians, adding it to the resume ASAP.
Selling points for having kids, including driving the minivan yacht and exploring uncharted territories in stores.

Segment 4: Unwritten Perks and Quirky Submissions

The unspoken perks of having kids – jumping lines, free ice cream, and discounts at the barber.
Listener submissions: avoiding jobs, not feeling the pressure to be rich, and the deep realization that kids help us become our best selves. Deep, right?

Segment 5: Serious Moments and Real Parenting Perks (But Still Funny)

Acknowledging serious perks with a humorous twist.
Kids' motivating energy levels – the driving force for staying fit (and playing at the playground).
A built-in audience for jokes, even when they don't land. Because someone's gotta laugh.
The hilarious world of misused words and phrases by kids – a language only parents understand.
Embracing the forgiveness of children – even for dinner disasters that aren't just burning food.

Conclusion:

Celebrating the absurdly wonderful aspects of parenting beyond the chaos.
Urging a shift in focus from the challenges to the countless ridiculous perks.
Wishing listeners a holiday season filled with unexpected laughs and parenting triumphs.

Note:

Episode maintains a humorous and playful tone, emphasizing the comedic side of parenting and encouraging listeners to share their own laugh-out-loud moments.

Family Mottos: Quirks and Quips We Live By!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 04 Dec 2023 06:00:00 -0700

If your family does not have a family motto yet, do no worry. In this episode we give you many ideas that you might wanna take for a spin with your own family. Megan decided to try "make good choices, but use your discretion!" after recording this and Amanda is going to stop saying "don't be dumb." Progress was made and new mottos are being formed! All thanks so our loyal listeners who have way better family mottos than we do;)

SHOW NOTES
Title: "Family Mottos: Quirks and Quips We Live By!"

Introduction:
Welcome to our world of family mottos—where wisdom meets whimsy! From the profound to the downright hilarious, these phrases are the unsung heroes shaping family antics and wisdom. Get ready to chuckle and reflect as we unravel the quirks and quips our listeners swear by.

Segment 1: The Power of Family Phrases

Ever wondered about the impact of family mottos? We dive into their mysterious influence on shaping character and household dynamics.
Discover the curious tales behind households with mottos and the lingering effects they have on family members.

Segment 2: Mottos Unveiled!

Brace yourselves as we unpack a lineup of family mottos submitted by our listeners—ranging from profound mantras to side-splitting reminders.
Laugh along as we share anecdotes and interpretations of these cherished phrases.

Segment 3: Parental Wisdom & Practical Hilarity

Parenting mottos bring a whole new level of wit! Join us for some laughs and insights into the gentle reminders parents constantly dish out.

Conclusion:
From serious life lessons to comedy gold, family mottos shape our lives in unexpected ways. Keep the tradition alive and share your favorite motto with us! Until our next episode, remember: "Make good choices but use your discretion!" Thanks for tuning in to our wild journey through the world of family quirks and wisdom!

Trader Joe's: 2023 Holiday Product Roundup

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 06:00:00 -0700

The Holidays are here and we're going to make the next month easy for you by sharing all of our favorite TJ's products! We've got things for the parents, the kids and the party that you'll inevitably end up hosting! But hopefully it's all made easier and even MORE FUN by heading into the store with our list in hand.

All the products we talk about are listed here:

Minty flavored cocoa truffles
Trio of Almonds
Candy Cane Almonds
Candy Cane Joe-Joe’s/chocolate covered JoeJoes
Autumnal pie truffle sampler
The Balsam candle
The Red Berry Forest candle
Candle dozen
Balsam hand soap and lotion duo
The Brazilian Body "kit"
The 12 days of Body Products
Gingerbread Ice Cream
Decked Out Christmas Cookies
Eggnog Yogurt (gotta try these)
Gingerbread house kit
Dollar Advent calendar
Mini chocolate peppermint ice cream cones
Meringue peppermint things
Cranberry and blueberry goat cheese log
Winter Wassail Punch
Feta and caramelized onion pastry bites
Mini quiche duo

Let us know if you try and of these products and what you think! Tag is on Instagram or give us a shout!

Introduction:

Kicking off the holiday hilarity with a festive episode that promises taste tests and laughs.
A special dive into Trader Joe's seasonal offerings that range from adult treats to kiddie delights.

Segment 1: Grown-Up Grub - Because Adults Need Treats Too

Minty flavored cocoa truffles: The secret weapon for surviving holiday chaos – one cocoa truffle at a time.
Trio of almonds and Candy Cane almonds
Candy Cane Joe-Joe’s/chocolate-covered Joe-Joes
Autumnal pie truffle sampler
Non-edible products:
- The Balsam candle and the Red Berry Forest candle
- Candle dozen
- Balsam hand soap and lotion duo, and The Brazilian body kit
- The 12 days of body products

Segment 2: Kids' Corner - Sweet Treats for Santa's Little Helper

Gingerbread Ice Cream, Decked Out Christmas Cookies, and Eggnog Yogurt: Kid-tested, elf-approved treats that might even get Santa to share.
Gingerbread house kit and Advent calendar: DIY projects that make parents question their architectural skills.
Mini chocolate peppermint ice cream cones and Meringue peppermint things: Because nothing says "merry" like a mouthful of mini delights.

Segment 3: Holiday Party Menu - Because Calories Don't Count During the Holidays

Truffle Dip
Cranberry and blueberry goat cheese log
Winter Wassail Punch
Feta and caramelized onion pastry bites and Mini quiche duo
Pepper jelly and weirdly named crackers

Conclusion:

A riotous exploration of Trader Joe's holiday offerings – the good, the nutty, and the unexpectedly named.
Urging listeners to embark on their own festive taste tests and share their reactions.
Wishing everyone a holiday season filled with laughter, tasty treats, and more laughs.

Note:

Episode maintains a humorous and playful tone, turning the taste test into a comedy show with quirky commentary on Trader Joe's festive offerings.

Brooke Romney: Why Do Our Kids Need to Learn Manners?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 04:00:00 -0700

You will not regret listening to this episode. We can promise you that. Brooke Romney is as classy as she is genuine, and as kind as she is sharp. She talks us through all the nuances of teaching kids manners in today's world. Why even take the time to teach them how to talk to adults? Do they need to really look people in the eyes? What's the point of all these lessons? We go through all of this together and enjoy every moment of it! Hope you will, too!

Purchase Brooke Romney's latest volume of manners here: 52 Modern Manners for Today's Kids

Looking for the teen versions? Find 52 Modern Manners for Today's Teens Vol. 1 and 52 Modern Manners for Today's Teens Vol. 2 using these links, or search for them on Amazon!

Wondering what the best gifts for your family and friends are this holiday season? Grandpa Beck has you covered! Check out Grandpa Beck’s Games and use the code AFOREFFORT for 20% OFF YOUR PURCHASE!

(Kids) Take My Money

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 13 Nov 2023 06:00:00 -0700

They are so cute, they bring us so much joy. There is nothing quite like that feeling when you look at a child and think "wow, I made you..." Then they ask you for $100 bucks and you're reminded that it's because of them you can't have fancy things. YET! This episode we dissect all the things that kids require that cost money. How much are we really spending? Is it really necessary? Answers to those questions are fluid, but we're here to talk about it anyway!

Introduction:

Greetings, fellow financial acrobats and budgeting enthusiasts! Get ready for a thrilling rollercoaster ride through the tumultuous terrain of parenting expenses.
Cue the dramatic drumroll as we unveil the secrets behind the mysterious disappearance of your hard-earned cash when you became a parent.

Segment 1: Sponsored Spotlight - Gabb Gear for Worry-Free Adventures

Introducing Gabb Gear, the superhero sidekick for parents, keeping kids free-range and parents worry-free.
Shouting from the rooftops about the exclusive A For Effort discount code AFOREFFORT – because saving money is a superpower too.

Segment 2: The Case of the Vanishing Shoe Laces

Unraveling the unsolved mystery of Amanda's son's missing shoe laces, from playground construction projects to fishing escapades.
The whimsical world of kid accessories on the lam – where socks play hide-and-seek and gloves embark on solo adventures.

Segment 3: Parental Piggy Banks - What Do Parents Spend the Most On?

Megan spills the beans on her financial nemesis: pants. Beware of the elusive disappearing trousers!
Exploring the treasure trove of parental expenses, from craft supplies to winter gear, with laugh-out-loud anecdotes.
Unveiling the conspiracy theory that kids have a secret society devoted to sabotaging new pants.

Segment 4: Extravagances or Essentials - The Parental Spending Dilemma

Diving into the financial deep end with splurges on craft supplies, socks, and the perpetual quest for shoes.
Unmasking the unspoken pressure of birthday party gift trends and the art of balancing commitment and retaining sanity.
The high stakes of extracurricular activities – turning parents into financial acrobats, juggling commitments like a circus act.

Segment 5: Water Bottles and Beyond - The Hidden Costs of Parenthood

Commiserating over the bottomless pit of expenses called water bottles and the ill-fated saga of dollar store solutions.
A cautionary tale about specific sports water bottles – a recipe for confusion and potential financial chaos.
Debunking the myth that spending more equates to superior parenting and exploring states that proudly top the charts in kid-related expenditures.

Segment 6: Crunching the Numbers - The Average Cost of Raising a Child

Breaking out the calculators for a hilarious exploration of percentages and averages in the world of parental finance.
Reassuring parents that kids can be as expensive or as budget-friendly as you decide – with a side of laughter.

Conclusion:

Encouraging parents to embrace the financial chaos, make memories, and perhaps reconsider that impulse buy of the latest gadget.
Issuing a call to action for listeners to share their funniest and most frugal parenting moments for future episodes.
Signing off with a reminder that while kids may come with a price tag, the priceless moments far outweigh the cost.

Plague Parenting: Navigating When the Germs Get You Down

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 06 Nov 2023 06:00:00 -0700

There is no good time for a child to get sick. It's always a good time for a dad to get sick. And the world just ends when a mom gets sick. But despite all your prayers and Vitamin C, it still happens. So then what?? You just buck up and deal with it. This episode is all the stories of when parents did just that.

Show Notes:

Introduction:

Sick season is upon us, and we're here to discuss the melodramatic saga of dealing with kids' illnesses and, of course, the inevitable times when moms and dads fall victim to sickness.
Quick check-in on each other's current health statuses because, you know, we're walking on the wild side of the germ-infested parenting jungle.

Listener Responses:

Survey results on how frequently kids get sick: Weekly (0%, are these kids wearing biohazard suits?), Monthly (21%, a monthly subscription to sniffles?), Quarterly (62%, the average parent's subscription), Yearly (15%, immune system envy).
Hilarious and relatable stories from listeners, featuring projectile vomiting during road trips and dinner table horror scenes that could rival a low-budget zombie film.

Road Trip Woes:

Tips and tricks for managing motion sickness in kids during road trips, because nobody wants to clean that up.
The nighttime agility of moms responding to surprise vomit sessions, the ultimate ninja move.

Pregnancy-Related Sickness:

Majority of responses related to moms getting sick during pregnancy, where the glow of expecting is sometimes replaced with the green tint of nausea.
A pop quiz from Amanda: Does Megan ever get sick? Spoiler alert: pregnancy might be the closest she gets to it.

When Mom Gets Sick:

The chaotic scenarios when moms fall ill, featuring a listener's 12-day flu, diarrhea, and sleep regression marathon - because nothing says "fun" like a sleep-deprived, ailing mom.
The dream scenario of both parents falling sick simultaneously, creating a tag-team of germs.

Husbanditis Chronicles:

Stories of husbands falling prey to unexpected illnesses, including COVID quarantines during pregnancy and husbands struggling to adult at Disneyland.
Special appearances by husbands objecting to their portrayal in the "Husbanditis Chronicles" - because fairness in storytelling is essential.

Buffets and Turkey Days:

The love-hate relationship with buffets and their tendency to unleash silent killers (stomach upsets).
Husbands choosing inconvenient times like Mother's Day and Thanksgiving to get sick, sparking discussions on the competitive sport of acting sick for couch dominance.

Conclusion:

A humorous dive into the chaotic, germ-ridden world of sick seasons, where tissues and puke bowls become essential accessories, and husbands engage in the unintentional art of inconvenient illness. Welcome to the sitcom of parenting ailments!

The Spooky Spook Episode

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 30 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0600

It's Halloween, yet again, and it only seems right to dissect this holiday from a parent's stand point. When should you start the night? When do you end it? Do you really have to sort through all their candy? Do you even have to dress up? We don't know, all we do know is it's not safe to eat Hershey's anymore... :/

Baby Names: The Sequel

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 23 Oct 2023 04:00:00 -0600

Thank heaven for Megan and her always pleasant and kind commentary on life in general. She is the jelly to Amanda’s sticky, sticky feelings when it comes to baby names. It’s not that hard, people, just pick something tried and true. But apparently it’s not that easy and Megan is here to support your choice of naming your kid Averly Aftonly.

"Wow, you have your hands full..."

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 16 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0600

If you have more than zero kids, you have most certainly been told this by some stranger at some point. The jury is out on whether or not this is their way of connecting or being condescending, but we asked the question to the listeners and this is what they came back with. So you be the judge. But also, take it from us, NEVER say this to a parent. You'll thank us later.

Talented Children

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 09 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0600

Well the listeners have spoken yet again and this time we're talking TALENTS. What is your kid good at? What are they impressively bad at? If you don't hear something in this episode that you can relate to, then your kids really are a cut above the rest and you're too good for us! You're gonna need some REAL parenting experts.... which we are not.

Magistrate Moms: 90's Edition

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 02 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0600

Magistrate Mom's are back in the house! And this time we're judging all the 90's toys the listeners mentioned. From Stretch Armstrong to the Bop-it, we know you've heard of these things and we're dying to know if you owned them and want them to be resurrected! We didn't even mention the Skydancers or the Viewmaster, but fear not, those are on our radar!

Hobbies for A Mini-Mid/Quarter-Life Crisis

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 04:00:00 -0600

Hobby (n) : an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. We actually had to look it up to make sure we knew what it was. Does it feel like having a hobby was something of the past? Absolutely. But are we pro-hobby-ists..... ABSOLUTELY. It only took us 10 years, but we are finally finding activities that can be done regularly in our "leisure time for pleasure...." (insert eyebrow raise, smirk and potentially eye roll.) Apparently we aren't alone, because there are plenty of you out there who are doing some pretty jazzy things, and we want to talk about it.

TSA Got Me

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Sep 2023 04:00:00 -0600

Have any travel on the calendar for the next few months? You know us, we’re trying to set you up for success. So when going through security at the airport, leave the geodes at home, empty all your pockets of all their treasures and be aware that your PB M&M’s might raise some eyebrows…

Time famine? Or time affluence? Which do you have?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 06:00:00 -0600

Today we're talking about the age old topic, the thing we're always complaining about, the thing that no one has, but we all want more of..... TIME!!!!!! Where is it going and how do we get more of it?? Well, my friend, we your (un)certified mentors will coach you on how to become time affluent and be okay with it. If you don't even know what "time affluence" is, you better just listen because we only have 150 characte

The Summer Sweats

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 04 Sep 2023 06:00:00 -0600

We're back and much to Amanda's dismay, Megan is giving summer the ultimate farewell party but talking about all the things that give people the "summer sweats." You know what we're talking about. When it's so small, but makes you so sweaty. The constant mess. All the snacks. The constant supply of wet towels. JUST SIMPLY THE HEAT. All of it. We heard your submissions and we responded. Au revoir, summer. See you soon, I'll miss you. xoxo, Amanda (not Megan)

How to "Handle" Summer

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 29 May 2023 04:00:00 -0600

Handle, prepare, take on... whatever word you choose to use when talking about summer, we're here to talk you through it! In our last episode before summer break (be back September 1st, y'all!), we're talking about how our listeners and us as hosts plan to take on summer! There's mentions of pools, books, and potential camps. (yes, we're sending our kids to etiquette camp!!) So we're going to leave you right here until September, and we wish you all a "hot parent summer!" HAGS!!

Seasonal Parenting: Teenagers!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 22 May 2023 06:00:00 -0600

This is the final episode of our 4 part series on parenting through the seasons! And we end with the most fun season of all: the teenagers!!! After talking to our friends Whitney and Kristen, who are raising teenagers at this moment and are master experts, Megan and Amanda are both very excited for this season. From skiing to concerts, they leave us (and hopefully you) feeling encouraged that even while trying to feel your way through these years, there is still great fun and lots of connection to be made! And we're definitely looking forward to that!

Seasonal Parenting: Kids and Tweens

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 15 May 2023 06:00:00 -0600

Today we're talking to two moms who are in the throes of the kid and tween years! And we're talking everything from this season’s new-found independence, to new hobbies as a family, to how to help these kids know who they are. It's a conversation that covers a lot of ground, but hopefully it will leave you feeling encouraged about having kids and tweens yourself!

Are these fears rational or irrational? You be the judge!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 08 May 2023 06:00:00 -0600

This week we're talking about all the things that keep you up at night. Some of it makes sense, some of it doesn't, but regardless, we see you, dear listener. That fear of whales is LEGIT. Those things are vicious.

Dear Mom + Dad, I Ran Away. Be Back Soon.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 01 May 2023 04:00:00 -0600

We both agree that threatening to runaway as a child is like a right of passage. We all did it, and if you didn't... well then you had a very charmed life, my friend. But if you actually went through with it and "ran away," then you need to write the next Boxcar Children series, cause that takes GUTS!! Unless it was just to your backyard corner... then better luck next time. Jk. Jk. Jk. No one run away. We aren't encouraging anyone to run away. Unless you're a mom, in which case Target is a good destination. See you there.

Mom's of Multiples: the good, the hard, and all the logistics.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 24 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we had the privilege of talking to three moms who all are parenting multiples! Chelsey in Arizona is raising 2 boys, but welcomed twin girls 10 months ago. As the newest of the bunch, she shares with us how she figuring out the nuances of twins with her other 2 boys at home. Next up we interviewed Jani, also in Arizona, who has twin boys! Born on Christmas Eve and with a crazy first week of life, Jani has honed her skills as a mom of multiples with a 7 year old son then the 4 year old twins. Our final guest is Kate, in our home state, who has 12 year old triplet boys and 8 year old twin girls. She shares with us the logistics of how to make sure everyone is rested and fed, but also how to enjoy these seasons of parenting that really are quite short.

Zodiac Parenting

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 17 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This episode is brought to you by the stars. No, not Joe Jonas or TSwift. We’re talking about you, Sagittarius and Pisces and Virgo. How much does astrology impact our parenting? Does our zodiac sign determine our parenting decisions? Science says the answer is no, but then why are our signs so freakishly accurate?! Listen in to see if we can identify listeners’ astrological signs based on their everyday parenting decisions. We’re basically (highly unqualified) experts now.

Throwback to all those things your kids will never understand!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 06:00:00 -0600

This episode idea cam to us from a listener who is feeling a little nostalgic for the simple things of their childhood! Think prank calls, blockbuster, butterfly clips... this episode is full of all the things that will have you saying "oh yeah, those were the good old times."

Seasonal Parenting: Babies and Toddlers

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 06:00:00 -0600

*OUTTAKES AND LAUGHING FITS AT THE VERY END OF THIS EPISODE*

This is the first in a 4 part series that will be released each month about the unique seasons of parenting. This week we're talking babies and toddlers. We interview 4 parents, Chris (dad in Kansas), Caitlin (Mom in Ohio), Clark (dad in Arizona) and Kat (mom in Utah), about the highs and lows of this season they are all in. What's unique, is every single one had very different answers to the same questions, but also mentioned things that the other parents did. So clearly we all have similar thoughts, but also have very different takeaways! Which is the beauty of parenting. So join us in this episode of mini interviews that will leave you feeling very seen if this is your current season. And if this isn't your season, just enjoy the stories of piano climbers and emotional bombs. It's good. It's all good.

Magistrate Moms

Amanda & Megan — Tue, 28 Mar 2023 20:00:00 -0600

As parents, we sometimes find ourselves in situations that leave us thinking "dang, I wish I did this!!!" Well today we pulled out the gavel and we did our best to prepare you for those moments on the playground that catch you off guard, but are important to be prepared for. Do you intervene when a child is stuck in the slide and the parent isn't paying attention? Yes. Are you allowed to call a kid a brat to their face, when they're punching your kid? No. Should you call it a binky or a pacifier? Binky. All these little conundrums have been put into law (by Amanda) after this weeks episode!

Spring Break: Should you stay or should you go??

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 20 Mar 2023 04:00:00 -0600

Is it just us? Or is it really hard to commit to making plans when you have all the kids in all the activities?? And then do you want to spend the money? Money to make memories...? Okay when you put it that way!! This week we are leaving winter behind and entering the land of baby birds and baby flowers. As we breathe in the fresh air of spring and embrace all it has in store for us, we talk about all the fun things you listeners are doing and throw in some fun ideas of our own. We are basically bonafide travel agents after this episode. Happy travels!

Interview with Megan's running coach: Heather Jenson

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 09:00:00 -0600

This week we interview Megan's running coach: Heather Jenson. She is a force to be reckoned with when it comes to anything athletic and that's why we keep her around! She is a fantastic motivator, friend and coach. As someone who is familiar with lots of different types of physical activity, she gives us (and hopefully our listeners) some great advice on how to find longevity in what we do. You can find Heather on social @triandrungirl. Follow her on social media and cheer her on as she heads to Boston in a few weeks!

Holiday Hot Takes

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 06 Mar 2023 21:32:53 -0700

Does your Elf on the Shelf have a wife, a kid, two pets and an elaborate pranking schedule? Do you make matching Turkey Trot shirts for the family? Does the first Day of School Fairy bringing new books, backpacks, lunchboxes and positive affirmations? Or does simply reading those phrases cause you to break out in hives? Whether you love to go all out, or keep it very reigned in, this episode has all the holiday validation you might need!

**DISCLAIMER: don't listen to this episode with your Santa/Tooth Fairy/Leprechaun/Easter Bunny believers!**

The Dank, Dark Days of Winter: Venting Edition.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 27 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode, we do something we don't usually do. We rant, we vent, and we air all the annoying things we discovered this year. And by this year, we mean, yes in the last 2 months. January and February are hard!!!! And it seems only fair that we send them out the door with a good old fashioned, best friend (that means you, listener) vent sesh. It felt good. It felt right. So you can plan on a visit to this topic again next year.

Why, Yes, We've All Called Poison Control

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 20 Feb 2023 09:00:00 -0700

Calling Poison Control is almost like a right of passage as a parent. Does that make you a bad parent.....? We're going to say no, but also, don't leave those things out. If you've called the fire department to come get your kid out of an elevator... you get an extra special medal. Cause that's some real unique anxiety right there. Your kid? Alone in an elevator? Pushing all those buttons, possibly peeing in a corner??? Oh my gosh. Can you even?? What a good story.

How to do an UNPLANNED Disneyland roadtrip.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 13 Feb 2023 14:37:06 -0700

A few weeks ago Amanda told Eric (Megan's husband) that they were headed to Disneyland. Eric had the bug in his ear, who then told Megan, who has fomo, and therefore a group roadtrip was planned. So we left on a Wednesday came home on Sunday. This is not the first time we've done this quick 10 hour road trip, and honestly, it wasn't too bad... if bad at all... honestly, it was kinda great!

It's All Fun and Games! Interview with THE Grandpa Beck

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 06 Feb 2023 14:04:09 -0700

It makes sense that the creator of such fun games, is also fun himself. Grandpa Beck, the creator of Cover Your Assets, Gnoming Around and many more, answers all our questions this week! From his previous life as a pilot to the production factory in Poland, he was kind enough to entertain us for an hour, and as a result, we have an in depth interview with our favorite game creator!

Find his delightful games here: https://www.grandpabecksgames.com

Follow Grandpa Beck on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grandpabecksgames/ @grandpabecksgames

Game artist and illustrator, Apryl Stott, can be found here: https://www.aprylstottdesign.com

Parenting Expectations vs. Reality

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0700

This week we talk about the expectations we have as parents and whether those are reality! From modeling our own homes after Downton Abbey, to the endless amount of free time you'll have when your kids to go school (think daily mom naps), to the variety of chicken nuggets you feed your children. It's all covered in this episode and we guarantee you'll learn nothing. But you may feel validated. We do hope for that.

Ollo!!!! And other memorable moments from our favorite family movies.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 23 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0700

In this episode we talk about all the elements of a family movie night! The popcorn, the movies, the setting. Are you watching remakes or aren't you? Are you into the Beast or are you lying? Do you lick the truffle salt from the bowl or is that repulsive? We wanted to know and the listeners let us know!

Who Wouldn't Want Brownies for Breakfast? An Interview with Lynne Bowman!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 16 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0700

In this weeks episode, we have a conversation with our resident and self proclaimed "Glam Grandma!" Lynne Parmiter Bowman is a woman who gets things done! All while eating healthy and making memories at her kitchen table. Her cookbook Brownies for Breakfast (linked below) would be a great addition to any kitchen and we will for sure be making her deviled eggs next time we entertain!

Buy Brownies for Breakfast here!

I wonder how they... answers to all life's big questions.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 09 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0700

We all wonder how people do what they do. And with the invention of social media, our curiosity is at an all time high. In this episode you can expect no answers from these two. They still have no idea how people put their kids to bed or how they travel to that remote island, but they do, in the words of Megan, "speculate." There is a lot of "speculating" going on in this episode.

How to Start a Parenting Podcast (and Other AFE Secrets)

Amanda & Megan — Tue, 03 Jan 2023 09:00:00 -0700

1 year later and we're still here. We still have no idea how, but because of our listeners we're still here! So thank you! As we start the 2nd year of A For Effort, we look back on what we've learned. Who know's! Maybe this will spark something in you, in which case, we are your biggest cheerleaders!

Glad I Did, Wish I Had, Can't Wait To...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 26 Dec 2022 09:00:00 -0700

In our last episode of 2022, we're looking back at the year we and our listeners had. And although it may sound cliche, there were no complaints! With mentions of travel, graduations and babies, our listeners accomplished so much and have so much to look forward to! Everyone needs a cheerleader in their life, and thankfully for you, you've got two!

Confessions of a Christmas Gift Peeker!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 19 Dec 2022 09:00:00 -0700

Christmas is only 6 days away and we're talking "the naughty or nice list" which lead into the "Elf on the Shelf" which was a natural (hear the sarcasm) segway into people who peek when gifts are around. And thankfully, you're in good company because apparently both of us are perpetual peekers! Surprise, surprise.

Holiday Memories are Gold and These Stories Are Proof

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 12 Dec 2022 09:00:00 -0700

In this Christmas gift exchange, we give the listeners all the “Christmas Feels” and “Christmas Cringies,” in exchange for a good old fashioned review! Seems like a fair trade 🤷🏼‍♀️

Part 2: Worst Gifts + Gifts for Older Kids

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 05 Dec 2022 09:00:00 -0700

After this episode, we've thought about starting another side hustle to help all those husbands out there who think TIRES and SINK DRAINS are a good Christmas gift. Sorry to break it to ya, but it's not. Honestly, that's just the beginning though... this episode we talk easy gifts that seem to be a success, then we dive into the submissions, and we promise you won't be disappointed.

Part 1: Let's talk gifts for kids!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 09:00:00 -0700

We are not a fan of waiting until the last minute to do your holiday shopping. So we've tried to make it easy on you and we asked what ya'll are giving your kids for Christmas and we're back to report on what was said! But it wouldn't be a true AFE episode if we didn't share the blunders of gifting as well. So there might be mentions of slime and recorders, but we promise, we're not going to tell you to put either of those items in any stockings.... unless you're trying to deliver revenge. Then slime is a good option.

Are You a Tiger Dolphin Elephant Free Range Warm Demander Parent?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 21 Nov 2022 12:57:32 -0700

If none of those above mentioned "parenting styles" speak to you, fear not, there are probably 50 more animals with their own styles that we haven't even discussed yet! But in this episode, we put on our "wanna be expert" hats, and do a deep dive into an episode of The Happiness Lab that had us talking all week!

Why Thanksgiving Isn't Amanda's Least Fav Holiday

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 09:00:00 -0700

The season of perpetual gratitude is upon us and we're kicking it off right by talking about, nothing other than, America's favorite topic: FOOD. We took all the polls, we read all the comments, and we have a few ourselves. But if you take one thing from this episode, it's that less is more, and we love all pies.

54 Things we like about kids.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 09:00:00 -0700

Switch Witch disclaimer: If you have kids who listen, and participate in the S.W. program, you might want to skip to 7:06 or preview first as to preserve the magic. Otherwise, the season of gratitude is upon us! Although, we are firm believers in celebrating gratitude from November - October. But in this episode we're sharing the good news that KIDS ARE AMAZING. They're funny, they're witty, they're magic. And you've heard enough from others about how exhausting they are, so let's talk about what's on the other side of that!

Halloween

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 09:00:00 -0600

All things Halloween in this episode! From costumes that are acceptable, to candy that is not. We're covering all the things that make this holiday what it is... for better or for worse.

"I feel like I'm constantly saying..."

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 09:00:00 -0600

It starts right away. Those little phrases you feel like you have on repeat all day long. Get your shoes on. Get your backpack. Shut the door. Shut the door. Shut. The. Door. It's a miracle these phrases haven't made it into our dreams yet... cause heavens knows that's all we ever say.

Grandparents day!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 17 Oct 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Grandparents, the only babysitters you'll ever have with their own set of rules.

You're a 10, but...

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Look, you're a 10. You're awesome. You're one of a kind. You're as good as they come.

But your belt takes me down every time. And those counters look like the streets of a carnival. And I already know how you're "such a boss," so keep it to yourself. Love you, but no ones perfect. In this episode we laid it all out for you, and really, don't be offended, it's not personal. We just want a clean kitchen and quiet car. One can hope.

Finding Humor in the Hard: Interview with Lisa Valentine Clark

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Lisa Valentine Clark joins us this week as we talk through all the seasons of parenthood. What do you do when the kids heads to school with no shoes? When do you have “the talk” with your kids? We learned so much and also felt so validated after our talk with this seasoned mom! We hope you will, too!

Make sure to find Lisa’s podcast on any platform: The Lisa Show!

Humorous Tweets

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 13:45:11 -0600

This week we compiled all those Tweets that are relatable, almost too relatable…. Chances are high though you’ll leave feeling very seen. We got you! We’re doggy paddling through all this together!

Bonus: Interview with Chris Van Dusen

Amanda & Megan — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Like you, WE CANNOT BELIEVE IT!! But yes, it really is him. Chris Van Dusen sits down with us in this bonus episode to talk all things, parenting, Maine and Mercy Watson. PLUS, he also shares the origin story of The Circus Ship! How lucky are we?!

Some of the Best Kids Books Out There

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 09:00:00 -0600

These two moms are obsessed with books. We read a lot and our kids read even more! And if your kids don't read, fear not. Chances are they just haven't found a book yet that speaks to them. In this episode we share all our favorite books, for kids, for tweens, for teens and even for moms! We're taking the guess work out of picking entertaining books for your family. Rest assured, these recommendations will leave you wanting more.

And at 41:40 we have story time for kids! Megan reads: Little Mouse, Red Ripe Strawberry, and the Big Hungry Bear. Then Amanda reads: Escargot. Kids might enjoy listening to this part of the episode!

Megan's to-go picture books:
Creepy Series
Little Mouse, Red Ripe Strawberry, and the Big Hungry Bear.
Other Books by Don and Audrey Wood
See the Cat
The 7 Silly Eaters

Chapter Books:
The Chronicles of Narnia Collection
Tristan Strong Punches a Hole in the Sky
Diary of a Wimpy Kid Collection
Last Kids on Earth
Kids Guide to Raising Chickens
The Treasure Hunters
Shipwreckers: The Curse of the Cursed Temple of Curses or We Nearly Died. A Lot A Lot.

What Megan is reading:
Anxious People
Just Mercy

Amanda's to-go picture books:
Chester Van Chime Who Forgot How to Rhyme
Chris Van Dusen Collection
Escargot

Chapter books:
Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle
Roald Dahl Collection
Fablehaven Collection
Wings of Fire Series

What Amanda is reading:
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society
A Prayer for Owen Meany
Empire of Pain

Honorable mentions from listeners:
Will Ladybug Hug
Will Bear Share
The Story of the Little Mole Who Knew It was None of His Business
Indestructibles

Embarrassing Parenting Moments

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 09:00:00 -0600

It’s practically a right of passage into parenthood to get embarrassed by your cherubic children. We’ve all been there! Now, we’re here to laugh about (mostly because we’re far enough removed from it). This episode recounts listeners’ embarrassing parenting moments, and we share a few of our own gems, too.

Why, Yes, We Do Love Trader Joe's. And You Can, Too!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 29 Aug 2022 20:50:58 -0600

Talked about in this episode, but written down for reference here:

Amanda's pantry staples:

Bruschetta
Dill Pickle mini falafel
Lemon Curd
Mini Brie
Hasbrowns

Megan’s pantry staples:

Hot and Sweet Jalapenos
Oat non-dairy frozen dessert sandwiches.
Dark chocolate pb cups
Chocolate croissants and cream cheese croissants (these don’t have to raise overnight!)
Face wash with tea tree oil

Things the listeners love:

Sweet potato gnocchi
Butter waffle cookies
Acai bowls
All the Indian premade stuff
Pre-made rice
Frozen pizza dough

Amanda's favorite quick exclusive TJ's meal, is the Sundried Sunshine meal.

Sundried tomato chicken sausage
Bag of shaved brussel sprouts
Bag of cauliflower
Any other bagged veggies, sometimes I use spinach.
Jar of sundried tomatoes.
Parmesan

Sautee all the veggies in a pan with the oil from the tomatoes, until they’re nice, brown and crispy, basically until you salivate. Add the sausage until cooked. Then you add the tomatoes and parmesan. When that’s all yummo, you serve it with a baguette. The end.

Megan's favorite falafel meal:

Bag of frozen falafel (that dill pickle falafel is insanely good AND the perfect size)
Yogurt tzatziki sauce
Jalapeno cilantro hummus (optional but very worth it!)
Spinach, cucumbers, cherry tomatoes
Feta cheese
If I’m feeling “extra” I’ll pickle a red onion

Need it REALLY FAST? Easiest one ever, no prep at all:

Bag of dumplings or bao. Just depends on what I’m in the mood for.
Bag of fried rice.
Bag of edamame.

Microwave the edamame. Pan fry everything else. You’ve just used 3 dishes and made and entire dinner.

From Megan: This does NOT count as a recipe, but I always keep, at minimum, 4 bags of frozen orange chicken in the freezer. I have this meal timed out down to the minute, and I can have it on the table in 30 minutes. I preheat the oven while I get the rice out, rinse it, and get it in the pot. While I wait for the rice to start boiling, I line a baking sheet with foil, pour the chicken on it, and pop it into the oven (even if the oven isn’t done preheating - it’s fine, trust me). When the rice begins to boil, I put the lid on and start the timer for 15 minutes. Then I sit back and relax.

Happy eating, friends!

Boys V. Girls: are they really that different? YES!

Amanda & Megan — Wed, 24 Aug 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Whether you have all girls or all boys, or a mix of both, this episode is sure to speak to your parent heart. All those potty jokes? All the times your daughter wants to paint your nails? All of it... we will miss it one day. For now though, let's just talk about how these beautiful kids are so different and bring so much joy into our lives! They're intense in their own ways, and those differences make it all the more fun!

BTS: Back To School

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 22 Aug 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Ahhhhh, the sweet smell of brand new, colored wax; a crayon you may call it. A whiff of that can only mean one thing, school is in session. Off they go, and you are feeling all the feels. Let's talk about those feelings, friend.

Kid Injuries

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 08 Aug 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Honestly, just blame it on the frontal lobe. Its lack of development makes kids do things we scratch our heads at. But let's be real... even when it is fully "developed" we still do perplexing things. And that's where this episode comes from.

Mom Guilt: what's that?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 01 Aug 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Despite what any one will say, if you live with a kid, chances are 100% that at some point in time you've felt guilt for leaving them behind to have a moment "just to yourself." Well today we are saying "NO MORE!" We are your cheerleaders when it comes to going out on dates with your partner, working out WITHOUT the kids, having that girls night, watching a show while also simultaneously watching that pile of laundry sit there.... all of it, it'll be fine. You take that moment to yourself and we'll fold the laundry for you. We got you.

City vs. Suburbs vs. Rural Living

Amanda & Megan — Thu, 28 Jul 2022 09:00:00 -0600

So you're looking to move your family, eh?? No idea where to go?? Fear not, Brave Caregiver. We are about to lay out all the pros and cons of each locale. We may or may not have given way too much love and attention to the city.... but don't let that sway you. The golden fields of wheat of rural lands may also call you... and wherever you land, we'll send you a "house warming" gift.

Social Media's "Most Relatable (and hilarious) Content" for Parents

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Jul 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Thanks social media for reminding us every day that people are funny and we're all in this together! This week we asked you to send in your "most relatable content" from the past week, and you delivered! We're reading the tweets, memes and posts you sent us, and there was no shortage of laughter.

Raising Kids Rural: Cows, Tractors, Tornados... oh, my!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 11 Jul 2022 09:00:00 -0600

This week Amanda gets a break from the podcast life, while Megan brings on her dad and her brother's best friend. The guys share their unsupervised antics and a few life-lessons learned from growing up in a small town. Cows, hay, and tornadoes... oh, my!

Parenting through the Decades

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 09:00:00 -0600

This week Megan is off on a well deserved vacation and Amanda brings on her mom to co-host! Together they explore all the nuances of parenting in each decade, what was cool then, isn't cool now... or is it?? Peg leg pants?? They're back baby!! But bologna.... yeah, still not back.

Tips on how to "Collect Friends."

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 27 Jun 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Make a new friend as an adult?! Are you kidding?! Why not just ask me to try and wash my kids hair? Cause both are nearly impossible!!!!! But wait, is it really? Have you considered a simple smile and paying attention to their name? Give it a try. We dare you.

When Dad's in Charge

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 09:00:00 -0600

We know exactly how it went: you were gone for the weekend... oh, no? You were at a girls night... Oh, no? You just ran to the grocery store.... regardless, you were gone and dad was in charge!!! What's happens next? I wish we could say we're surprised, but alas, it's just par for the course. We're grateful dad is willing to be in charge, but we're also grateful for the comedic content those moments give us. Thanks, dad!

HAGS: Have A Great Summer and everything inbetween.

Amanda & Megan — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 09:00:00 -0600

HAGS: Have a great summer!! The ole saying in every 14-year-old’s yearbook from the early 2000's.... and we're bringing it back, baby! This week we're pumping you up for the next 10 weeks of summer and introduce you to a summer challenge with big rewards- literally, we're sending you a big prize. So get to it!

Play Dates: those few hours where kids get together and "play."

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Ahhhh the playdate. Do we love them? Do we hate them? Don't know, all we do know is that we do it for the kids. Sometimes us, but almost always just for them. This episode we talk ins and outs of those magical 2 hours and leave you with a few stories to think about as you go into your next playdate. Cheers, mama!

Big Families = Big Fun!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 30 May 2022 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we chat with two incredible moms who have a combined total of 15 incredible kids! We asked them all the questions, since in our minds, these moms have achieved super mom status. They dish on all the details about big family life, and share their motherly wisdom along the way. You'll want to take notes on this one!

Kids: wonderful, but occasionally inconvenient.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 23 May 2022 09:00:00 -0600

We have all those experiences that leave us rolling our eyes and shaking our heads, but the reality is, it's not that big of a deal. It's inconvenient, yes, but it's not the end of the world. This week we share all the minor inconveniences shared with us from our listeners, and we think you'll find a few things to relate to.

Adventures in Babysitting

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 16 May 2022 09:00:00 -0600

This episode we recount all the stories left in our care from you listeners from when they were the sitter! Things inevitably happen, and sometimes we have control and sometimes we don't. We share all those stories today and let's just say... they left us wanting to pay our sitters more. Enjoy your date night!

Mother's Day: an episode to all those moms who keep the world turning.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 09 May 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Moms are so impressive in so many ways! And this episode we share just a few- but enough to really make you love the moms in your life that much more. So we take 45 minutes to share all the things we admire and adore about our village mamas. Are you a Naptime Ninja? Or The Silencio Saint? Of course, you are, we're not even surprised, cause you're a MOM!

Birthday Parties: How do you really feel about them?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 02 May 2022 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode we explore the in's and out's of a birthday party? How much should you spend on that random kids gift? Should you drop them off or should you stay? How often should you be celebrating the birthday with an actual party? We don't have any actual answers to those questions... but we do have some thoughts on just the party season in general. Maybe you'll find yourself nodding your head a time or two... HBD!

She said "YES!"

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Spring is here! The flowers are blooming, the birds are chirping and we're talking love. Are we qualified to talk love? Absolutely not, but are we going to anyways, oh yes yes yes. Both Megan and Amanda celebrated their respective anniversaries this week and it felt like a good time to walk down memory lane and recount our personal courtships and proposals. We might even dive into some deeply introspective moments of our lives and leave with more questions than answers. In which case we might need your help!

Spring Break Shenanigans: Escalante

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 18 Apr 2022 09:00:00 -0600

We took our families on a crazy little trip to Southern Utah, and now we're sharing what was amazing, and what really was NOT. If you're looking for an adventure for the whole family, Escalante has it all. This week we share our spring break itinerary, and all the shenanigans that ensued. Buckle up, because it was a wild and bumpy ride!

Unpopular Parenting Opinions

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 04 Apr 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Well, now that you're a parent, it's your turn to drive the passenger van. How and where you drive that large vehicle is all on you. For better and for worse. And as the driver, you might do things differently! This week we explore the things you (and we) do, as the "driver," that others might see as... different? It may be unpopular, you may be in the minority, but that's okay. Because it works for you and your family. And if that's the case, then we're here to back you up!

"Cleaning" with Kids

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 28 Mar 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Some say that trying to clean with kids around is like brushing your teeth while chewing Oreos. We agree, but we also wonder if there are ways to make it more (?) enjoyable. So we asked, and were sharing what we learned! There is no mention of chore charts, but we do mention "money management" more than 4 times... there is also a reference to a snake stuck in a Roomba. So if you own one of these robot vacuums, this episode might be for you! Cheers!

Traveling with kids... it's all for the memories... right?

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 09:00:00 -0600

No matter how much you plan, all you can do is get all your ducks in a row, then hope and pray, and hope and pray, and pray some more, that so does everyone else. Because if one single duck leaves the row, heaven knows what can happen and how it will effect you. So go ahead, book your spring break trips, then hope and pray AGAIN, you wont be able to relate to any of these stories upon your return. Happy Travels!

Food references that will send you straight down memory lane.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 09:00:00 -0600

Spoiler alert! You sent in your foods that bring back all the good memories + some. Then we had some of our own which required a call to our one and only: mother. So join us on this fun food journey to remember all the good things from our childhood. Then at some point lets have one big picnic with all these delicious foods! Can't wait!

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PSA: Good News Will Make Your Day

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 07 Mar 2022 09:00:00 -0700

THIS WORLD. It seems like it's just one thing after another, and frankly, we just needed some old fashioned "GOOD NEWS!" to share. So we reached out to our listeners, and as expected, we found there are still things to get excited about! So we're sharing all the things (BIG, small, medium, inconspicuous) that are good news to you. And because it's good news to you, it's good news to us!!! So cheers to that!

Teacher Tales

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 07 Mar 2022 09:00:00 -0700

This episode is proudly dedicated to all the teachers out there and all the shenanigans they put up with every single day! We salute them and as a thank you, we're sharing all their hilarious stories! Think of all the many hats they have to wear, all the questions they have to answer, how many different personalities they have to cater to... we say it takes a village, but really there is one leader of that village and it's the teachers. And we have nothing else to say other than THANK YOU!

Questions you've always wanted answered, but never knew who to ask.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 21 Feb 2022 09:05:56 -0700

You think kids have lots of questions? We adults have just as many! Then kids enter school and we have so many more. Trying to figure out the various phases of raising kids can be exhausting. But fear not, friend, we're going take a whack at trying to address those questions... but don't quote us, remember, we're not the kind of experts you can quote.

Epic Tantrums

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 14 Feb 2022 09:00:00 -0700

It's normal. It's real. It's just part of life! And like a beautiful summer storm, they come and go whether you like them or not - yes, we're talking tantrums. They're big, their irrational and they're epic. So today we're going to share some of the best stories and Tweets we've come across, in hopes that you can relax next time your kid is laying on the floor of a Target. Because remember, Target is German for "tantrum." That's a fact. (don't google it though...")

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Parenting Hacks

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 07 Feb 2022 09:13:45 -0700

The moment one becomes a parent, our entire way of thinking changes. How can we streamline this? Is this even necessary?? Because of this new way of thinking, we have the unique ability to create life hacks that will truly bless mankind. Think pizza cutters and scissors. You use those just for pizza and paper? No, no, no… How about pizza cutters for pancakes and waffles and quesadilla? Scissors, also for pizza, as well as for pasta and veggies. Today we will leave you in a state of shock as our listeners’ submissions blow your mind over and over with genius parenting hacks.

Baby Names: the bad ones. Only the bad ones.

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 09:00:00 -0700

What's in a name?! We asked ourselves that many times recording this episode and now we're leaving it here with you, dear listener. We were sent a great list of very unique names and it was just wonderful to speculate with you about such names. If you live near the Rocky Mountains, you may have actually met a Beefa, and if you have, we're curious your thoughts. And maybe, just maybe, we will have mentioned a name you find interesting enough for your next little munchkin. Truly, we're just honored to be part of such a crucial part of the birth process. Cheers to that!

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Mama Trauma

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 24 Jan 2022 09:00:00 -0700

In this Mama Trauma episode we'll discuss all those events in parenting that in the moment were horrific and traumatic. But with some time, hopefully now we can look back on and laugh. For those of you who are queezy, there is the mention of poop and puke. Some references to a bidet, road trip and piano keys... will probably leave you squirming in your seat- we definitely were!

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Epic Sibling Battles

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 17 Jan 2022 09:00:00 -0700

Unless your home is in perfect harmony at every moment of the day, you’ll know exactly what we're talking about. The creativity (mixed with a little bit of spite) in your submissions did not disappoint.

Celebrity Parents - they're just like us!

Amanda & Megan — Mon, 10 Jan 2022 09:00:00 -0700

This episode has two parts! In the first, we cover popular celebrity couples and vote on who we love the most! It's not a popularity contest, but it kinda is;) In the second part, we asked the listeners who they best relate to OR aspire to be on the silver screen. The submissions are in! And not to spill the beans, but Bluey and his family make a big appearance....

(Un)solicited Advice

Amanda & Megan — Fri, 31 Dec 2021 14:59:36 -0700

If you live on this planet at any time, in any place and occasionally leave that place, you are the perfect candidate for some free advice. Sorry, we know you didn't ask for it, but you're definitely getting some. And when it leaves you speechless, but you also just need to tell someone about it, we are your ladies. We have received the unsolicited advice, we have digested it for you, and we have reacted. And BONUS, we even give you clear guidelines on things that you should NEVER give advice on. You're welcome;)

Is that normal?? Things your family does that makes you wonder...

Amanda & Megan — Fri, 31 Dec 2021 14:59:22 -0700

This two part episode will put to bed all those random parenting questions you've asked yourself but have never asked anyone else, maybe not even Google. Like, have you wondered if other parents don't use wipes when changing a *wet* diaper? Or have you wondered whether you should call poison control after your kid ate the entire jar of gummy vitamins, AND you were just too embarrassed to even Google it? Well, we Googled it for you AND we asked 100 other parents, and we hope the results will bring you feelings of comfort and validation. Sweet, sweet validation....

White lie or blatant honesty?

Amanda & Megan — Fri, 31 Dec 2021 14:52:17 -0700

In this episode we come together as a community of caregivers and validate each other in the daily little white lies we tell to get through the day. Or if your one of those people who tells the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth... the we are here to applaud you (Megan is clapping especially loud)! So let's find out what you are lying about...

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